Hello,

In the past there was a girl who approached me and we got to talking and everything was okay, a few days later when I decided okay I want this girl and start to put effort; apparently I did a big mistake while doing it (which I don’t know what it is).. The problem is that she has been gossiping about this mistake about me ever since, and every girl that I’ve been friendly with when she knew the gossip suddenly start to ignore or try to avoid me or ghost me, By chance I even met her sister and we were okay but when she knew about the gossip she start ignoring me, I acted nice and cool, and there was a fire in the building so I warned her and she saw I was nice and we back on good-terms, but on surface level relationship.

My problem isn’t people talking about me or people hating me, that’s I can take with ease, my problem is I want to know what the gossip is, or what the mistake is, because I don’t want to do it again!! but I can’t figure out what it is, and every-time I ask people start to ignore instead of answering.. I don’t want them to be friends with me, all I want is know the mistake so I could avoid it in the future!! What should I do to let them tell me what’s the mistake instead of just avoiding to answer