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Same man, same lol. Yeah it is funny how it works that way. It's crazy that the lack of confidence can make something so easy, seem like this immeasurable, unscalable mountain that is between you and your goal, but then how just a simple perspective shift in the way you view yourself can transform your whole entire life in ways you never thought possible.
/r/seduction02/09/23 02:26 AM
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For real, the more you develop yourself as a person, the more you realize how much bullshit pick up game really is. You're basically lying, being disingenuous, and someone that you're not. As you said, there is some things that can be helpful, but overall, pick up game is for the people that don't truly have confidence in themselves. The cure to that lack of confidence would be putting work into becoming interesting, knowledgeable, physically attractive, and having many life experiences... Pick …
/r/seduction02/09/23 02:11 AM
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Lol THIS. Literally all you have to do is be confident in yourself, lol dudes are in here trying to make it sound like voodoo or something. Confidence in oneself comes from many things, setting and achieving life goals/milestones, working hard on your physique to the point where you feel attractive, gaining lots of knowledge and taking pride in the fact that you know you are smart, etc etc etc. You don't have to go and practice game, learning how to be good with women is only one avenue of gaini…
/r/seduction02/09/23 01:58 AM
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I mean I just use it to have conversations like I would in person. I'll ask them how their day is going, talk to them about how their work day was, or talk to them about stuff I want to or am doing, asked all of them today if they were going to buy some powerball tickets since it's over a billion dollars now for instance. Each little thing you say can lead to a little conversation that just furthers along the relationship. I use it for flirting a lot too, an example is earlier today one of the g…
/r/seduction07/11/22 02:21 AM
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Nah, he's really not lol.
/r/seduction02/11/22 12:22 AM
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I completely disagree with this advice. A big part of relationship building now days relies on the conversations that happen between dates. I would say don't over text, and usually wait for a reply before you start sending a bunch more texts, but to say only use texting for logistics is going to make many women lose interest for someone who actually talks to them and continues to spark their interest daily. Women like to know that they are on your mind, it draws them in and lets them know you're…
/r/seduction02/11/22 12:20 AM
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Perfect advice here. She felt overwhelmed and like things were moving way too fast for her liking. Always match the energy. If they're not in it 50%, back off until they come into you more.
/r/seduction02/11/22 12:03 AM
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First off... You're going to come across as a creepy old fuck approaching girls that look that young, so be prepared for some pretty bad rejections if you continue down that path... Second, if something as little as this bugs you to the point of not wanting to approach again, you need to work on your self confidence a bit and learn to drop the ego. Rejections happen, not everyone is going to like you, it's just a part of life, and the quicker you learn/realize it's not a big deal at all, the bet…
/r/seduction01/11/22 05:26 PM
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Dude just be honest. Go up to her and be like "Hey I've seen you over here more than a few times, we've locked eyes and I felt like there was some kind of connection, would you like to go grab a coffee or some lunch with me sometime?" Easy peasy. You're way overthinking it bud.
/r/seduction01/11/22 04:31 AM
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Possibly if I was a scientist studying STIs :-p.
/r/seduction30/10/22 12:03 AM
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Sorry buddy but you're probably only going to get 1-2 women for $1000. I don't know of any 50¢ prostitutes 😂.
/r/seduction29/10/22 09:50 PM
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You just start living for you, it's pretty much a flip of a switch man. Who gives a shit? We're all tiny little specs floating around in a tiny little spec in a universe that is incomprehensively large. Nothing we do matters in the grand scheme of things, nothing we do will change a thing in the universe. Life is fleeting, you might as well just do what you want to do before you face the great void. Leave this life with no regrets.
/r/seduction24/10/22 06:27 AM
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Haha glad to be of service bro! Get that shit!!
/r/seduction22/10/22 03:28 PM
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Well, I mean it's definitely both. I mean, you for sure don't need steroids to achieve a sexy body, but I wanted to achieve a certain look and I'm thinking of doing a bodybuilding competition in the next couple years, so I made the choice to use them, there are definitely risks you take with your health getting into it, so I would advise anyone thinking of it to DO TONS OF RESEARCH before you start, know about all the risks associated with them, dosages for beginners, pct protocols, learn about …
/r/seduction21/10/22 10:13 PM
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Pretty much, I shave all my hair off because I took a fall off a 2nd story balcony onto concrete head first and it ripped up my scalp pretty bad, all the scaring makes my hair look silly when it grows in.
/r/seduction21/10/22 07:21 PM
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Depends, how much experience do you have in the gym? If you are a total beginner, for the first year I would recommend just focusing on strong lifts/compound lifts to build up a good base. Go 3-4 times a week, have an a day and a b day. On a days do upper body, b days to lower body, alternate and go a day, b day, rest day, HIT cardio day, repeat. On A days, pick 3-4 of these and start with 3 sets of 8-10 of each; bench press, lat pulldowns (definitely would recommend mixing single arm lat pulldo…
/r/seduction21/10/22 06:17 PM
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Before my cycles, I was around 600ng/dl. Well, it's hard to say if the testosterone did much mentally. Getting in shape and putting on muscles/the mental benefits of working out, definitely did the majority of the mentality changing, even before I hopped on peds. What I did notice when I got on the first cycle of test originally, was I felt a lot calmer, like I had more mental clarity, it's kind of hard to explain, like it kind of chilled me out a little bit. The sarm I used before the testoster…
/r/seduction21/10/22 05:14 PM
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Nah. I was for a long time, but my last about year and a half, I've ran a couple sarm cycles, and then a couple cycles of testosterone. Currently on my 2nd cycle of test, and mixed a little primobolan in this time for the anti estrogen properties (420 mg test/350mg primo). I've been really grinding hard on my bodybuilding for about the past 5 years. It's crazy how many chicks I'm attracting now. Like I could show you a screenshot of my bumble, I have a few older cougar types hitting me up and th…
/r/seduction21/10/22 04:26 PM
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Nah. All types, and from younger to cougar. They all love the muscles, lol.
/r/seduction21/10/22 03:57 PM
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Amen to that
/r/seduction20/10/22 06:50 AM
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That's not funny at all... this was the first date and you went to grab her ass during a goodbye hug when she wasn't very receptive to you to begin with? Lol dude... What? You're being way overbearing. Holding hands does not = okay for ass grab later. You made her feel super uneasy. Then reacting to her "friend hug" showing what she said bugged you enough that you'd say something hurtful back rather than something playful and light, that was a fail too, you basically just shouted at her that you…
/r/seduction17/10/22 12:06 AM
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Just continue talking like normal man, why use all these "seduction rules" and shit people constantly spew out in here? If you like her, talk to her. Don't be like super overbearing or anything like sending a ton of messages before she even responds (as that tends to overwhelm them and makes you look needy), but why would you stop communicating with her? Part of relationship building is when you aren't together, sending her messages lets her know you are thinking about her, and that you enjoy th…
/r/seduction16/10/22 10:40 PM
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Lol I thought the same thing when I first read it. Was like damn, a date in half a year...? What's the story behind that?
/r/seduction16/10/22 02:40 PM
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Dude, if you aren't a masculine guy, don't try and fake it or you're going to chase your date away. I know it's cliche, but the most important thing is to just be yourself, that's where you are most comfortable and relaxed, that is where you're going to be the most attractive. She obviously has an interest enough in you to go with you on a date, so that's good enough, just build on that.
/r/seduction16/10/22 02:36 PM
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T posing
/r/seduction16/10/22 02:35 PM
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Only some men. Some men, like me, don't give a shit and just look for compatability.
/r/seduction15/10/22 07:19 AM
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First of all, you got to get yourself off the damn video games and start doing things, you're wasting your time in a fake world doing fake things. I get it, games are fun, I play them too, but you can't let them get in the way of your life. You need to figure out what kinds of things you are passionate about then get some formal training in that field to try and monetize your passions. Hey if you are passionate about video games, why not take some classes on how to be a video game creator, or a …
/r/seduction14/10/22 04:17 PM
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You have to get in the mindset like rejection doesn't even matter, there are millions of single girls out there, why would this one girl's opinion even make a difference in the slightest? You have to realize that not everybody is going to be into you, and that that's okay. Yes, handle rejection gracefully, let it roll off your back like water off a duck, don't let it change the way you're acting, don't let it ruin your evening. IT'S OKAY! It doesn't take a heart of steel, just a perspective chan…
/r/seduction13/10/22 05:33 PM
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So here's some examples of how I verbally and physically flirted last date I went on (took her to the zoo): I held extended eye contact and several times during that eye contact I did the little flirty 2 quick eyebrow raise thing (lol I don't know how else to explain this) or winked at her before ending the eye contact. I teased my date about being short, she said she was afraid of heights, I said oh that's just because you're used to being so close to the ground, she said shut up and playfully …
/r/seduction13/10/22 05:13 PM
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Surprisingly enough, a lot of them are pretty attractive. Especially I find if it's like a situation where they're a couple looking for a 3rd or a bull.
/r/seduction11/10/22 03:06 PM
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I can vouch that there are definitely real women looking for fun in the reddit r4r's, have personally met a number of them. Usually they are very specific in what they want, and a lot of times it's just for a one-night stand and that's it.
/r/seduction11/10/22 04:04 AM
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Yeah those odds suck, imo the r4r groups are much better for strictly sexual encounters. There you'll find women posting about finding specifically that, usually very specifically what kind of kink they're in search of, or you post and say what you're looking for and they can message you. Tinder imo is better for finding relationships these days rather than just hookups.
/r/seduction11/10/22 12:28 AM
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True, you definitely have to make yourself stand out from all the average. My claim to fame in both is I have a body a lot of women find attractive, I am about a 7ish face-wise, but many chicks really dig the muscles (there are a lot that don't like buff dudes and prefer dad bods, but for the ones that do, it absolutely drives them wild and they want their hands all over your pecs, butt, abs and arms). Creating that initial attraction so they swipe right or message you is the main thing. The oth…
/r/seduction11/10/22 12:13 AM
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I see what you mean. You feel like you'd make a good partner. Okay, well, gotta become interesting and fun for them, heavy emphasis on both. First gotta have varied interests about a wide range of things so you're interesting in conversation, can definitely cultivate this by reading about different subjects, picking up hobbies, traveling, etc. Women love when guys are passionate about things too, so find your passions!! Also, being playful with them is SO SO SO SO IMPORTANT!!!! Playfulness paves…
/r/seduction10/10/22 11:54 PM
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Reddit r4r groups for your city are decent too surprisingly enough.
/r/seduction10/10/22 11:35 PM
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Yes, this. Psychologically this is the best approach for them seeing you as being worth their time too, shows you take charge.
/r/seduction10/10/22 10:00 PM
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Dude she is 100% into you, or she wouldn't have cracked the joke about being your girlfriend. Chicks don't say that kind of stuff around dudes they don't like in order to not give them the wrong idea.
/r/seduction09/10/22 05:06 PM
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Word of advice dude, stop comparing your sex life to porn right now! Don't ever do it again. You are only setting yourself up for disappointment or disaster. Porn isn't real, the stuff they do in porn most of the time is for the viewer's pleasure not for the people involved. Enjoy yourself, make your own experiences, don't try to make it like porn, experiment, have fun and learn about sex through your own experiences.
/r/seduction09/10/22 04:27 PM
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Also, sexual energy has a lot to do with being playful with them. If you can't be playful, you come across as boring.
/r/seduction06/10/22 06:32 PM
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First of all, chicks don't really go for the "quiet guy" in my experience, they go for the guy who is charismatic, and makes them have a good time. It sounds to me like you need to work on your personality dude. Also don't delude yourself into thinking you're the total package when you're not, you're setting yourself up for disappointment and resentment that way. You need to realize that you will ALWAYS be a work in progress, and also leave it up to the women to decide whether or not you're the …
/r/seduction06/10/22 06:25 PM
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Pro tip, the bald, shaved head look goes best with a muscular frame. Ever since I packed on significant muscle, I get compliments on how good I look with a shaved head, might be something to look into. Either way, fuck it, if a chick doesn't dig you because you don't have hair, she's pretty shallow and most likely not a good partner. I don't think that's the case here though, she's probably just playfully teasing you.
/r/seduction24/09/22 05:40 PM
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One of the things you said is huge. DON'T OVERCOMPLICATE THIS! It's easy to get stuck in your head and think about all the reasons you will fail and think yourself out of going for it... 99% of the time even if your attempt doesn't get the results you wanted, you'll be in no worse situation after than when you started, in fact chances are you'll be in a better place, you'll have more experience to bring on to the next attempt. Life is too short to worry about outcomes that haven't even happened …
/r/seduction23/09/22 04:53 PM
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Yep, going through it currently. I'm in a much better place than I was years ago, and will continue improving as time goes on.
/r/seduction21/09/22 05:40 PM
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It takes constant, never ending physical, mental and emotional improvement. It's something that has no "end result," so you don't just stop one day and say you've made it, you always look for new ways to improve upon what you've built already. You have to be willing to sacrifice things that aren't bringing value to your life for things that do. Eventually, like you said, you start to develop a strong sense of self, you become confident in your actions because you know what's right for you and wh…
/r/seduction21/09/22 04:13 PM
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Well I met my current girlfriend through tinder, we knew each other from the same friend circles, had talked briefly before. Tinder though, was what facilitated us dating because we hadn't seen one another in ages. Our chemistry is amazing, I absolutely adore her, she's everything I want in a woman and more I didn't even know I found attractive. So... If it weren't for OLD, I doubt we would have connected like we did. I cannot explain with words how happy I am I decided to turn my tinder profile…
/r/seduction17/09/22 02:11 AM
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The ability to make a woman trust them, which involves genuinely listening to and caring about what they have to say, being strong and confident so they can be their feminine selves around you and showing your vulnerable side to them.
/r/seduction16/09/22 01:10 AM
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Lol... You really need to get off the internet and live some... Again, I fucking feel sorry for you, your miserable existence is skewing your beliefs in ways that aren't even based in truth anymore... Get up off your ass, start improving yourself, get out into the world, make friends, your outlook on life will improve.
/r/seduction13/09/22 11:59 PM
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Rofl I feel sorry for you.
/r/seduction13/09/22 11:55 PM
3

I'm sorry, but it's no wonder you guys have no luck with those attitudes. Debbie downers over here.
/r/seduction08/09/22 10:20 PM
5

Improve your social circle and work on being a leader in that social circle. Chicks dig the leaders in social groups. To do this you need to work on becoming charismatic as well. Basically man, just work on every facet of your life, take a long hard look at yourself, take inventory of all the things that you are lacking in, and then research on how to go about improving those things. This is a process that takes a lifetime to keep improving on, but the better you get at each thing, the more attr…
/r/seduction06/09/22 03:59 PM
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Try and kindle a relationship with the girl you're interested in... Hookups may be fun but they still leave you feeling empty inside at the end of the day. Having someone who you know will be there for you, who tells you good morning, good night, have a great day, who you can talk about anything with, fills the heart and soul. I went through a hookup phase when I was younger, and that got old pretty quick. I found I much preferred being picky and trying to foster a relationship with a girl who c…
/r/seduction06/09/22 03:58 PM
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Need to work on yourself more it sounds like. Physique, financial status, social status & skills, and style. Work on yourself to be the best version of you that you can, then worry about the women. Always remember, your self improvement comes before any women in your life too, once you find a girl, don't just stop, and think you don't have to keep it up any longer. You have to put more importance on your self betterment than you do on the women in your life.
/r/seduction06/09/22 07:53 AM
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Lol bro... you are going about this way fucking backwards. You work on yourself to become a better version of you, not so you attract women... Lol!! Becoming attractive to women is a by product of never stopping improving ones self, not the goal.. You really need to rethink your priorities or you're going to have a tough life.
/r/seduction06/09/22 07:37 AM
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Bingo!!! Lol so many guys just do this stuff until they get a girl, then stop... Then wonder why the girl left them... Rofl. You can't stop doing the things that made you attractive in the first place. You work on you for you, and your self-improvement comes BEFORE the women in your life. Don't ever push your goals to the side for a woman unless you're trying to lose her attraction.
/r/seduction06/09/22 07:34 AM
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Lol.. you want advice on what to do? Dont lie about shit like that, of course you will be found out.
/r/seduction05/09/22 03:33 AM
1

Relationship 100%. The amount of passion with someone you learn about over time, ends up being far greater than with sex with strangers you barely know. Plus in a relationship done right, both parties get strengthened and are bettered.
/r/seduction05/09/22 03:07 AM
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Hahaha that's hilarious, I just clicked on that pick and said to myself, man he looks like a fuckin' bum.
/r/seduction24/08/22 05:25 PM
1

Yeah maybe hotel bars would be alright, or bars in tourist trap places too, for most bars just around town though, it's usually as you said, a sausage fest and the few chicks that are there aren't generally great ones to pick up (maybe for a 1 night, no strings attached meeting, but definitely not for any kind of relationship).
/r/seduction24/08/22 07:28 AM
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Quality of people in bars is overall much lower than most other places... no thanks.
/r/seduction23/08/22 03:37 PM
4

Lol who says you have to drink hella to where you get a dui? Could drive, have 1 or 2 drinks then chill and drink water for a couple hours.
/r/seduction30/07/22 07:04 AM
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Just work on pushing yourself through it, I know it's difficult, but you can do it. Practice makes perfect, even if your first few interactions are just you letting out a squeak, it's better than nothing, it's building up your nerves to approach more women. It's basically a numbers game and you have to be prepared to fail, fail, fail and fail again until you get it right. Eventually you become more accustomed to doing it, and are more comfortable doing it, there will always be approach anxiety b…
/r/seduction19/07/22 03:08 AM
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In addition to what people said here older people 50+ are a more social generation, they grew up before the internet existed and when people had to actually talk to one another to communicate. Also, I feel like people ease up as they get older and are more confident in their own skin, which makes them more open to just chatting with strangers out and about and what not. You give way less fucks the older you get.
/r/seduction19/07/22 02:59 AM
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Lol that's not a test. That's a "I don't like your responses to my tests, don't contact me anymore"
/r/seduction30/06/22 06:09 PM
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It's hard to convey much personality through a dating app and text, pictures are the first thing that comes up on the screen. I'm talking about meeting people in real life/cold approach. Dating apps women can afford to be picky, they're bombarded with horny, lonely men all day... They get 100 likes for every 1 like any guy gets... But if they have a dude come up to them in real life, who knocks them off their feet with charm, who makes them laugh and who looks like he's well put together, even i…
/r/seduction30/06/22 05:51 PM
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Lol, talk about misleading advice. Gimme a break dude, there's way more to it than just being a hot dude. For women looks help, but it definitely isn't the end all be all. There are so many other factors that play into it. Womens' looks are much more important to guys than guys' looks are women. Yes average guys can absolutely pick up hot women, if you have charisma, you're confident, funny, know how to keep a conversation going, and can read her body language, you're already above 80% of guys, …
/r/seduction30/06/22 08:51 AM
1

If you don't mind the Loch Ness monster, oh just about tree fiddy.
/r/seduction30/06/22 08:42 AM
1

The gym is one of those places you can't really just hit on chicks. If anything you'd have to approach with a just friends mindset, build rapport over multiple visits in brief conversation and only ask for like a coffee date or something much later... And that's if she's even receptive, a lot won't be.
/r/seduction28/06/22 10:18 AM
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As opposed to walked all over by the right one?
/r/seduction26/06/22 08:09 PM
3

So what? All you have to say is we aren't together anymore, none of their business why if you don't feel like talking about it.
/r/seduction24/06/22 05:58 PM
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For real, wtf is that? Yeah make yourself look like a huge fucking asshole so it justifies her in her decision to break it off and she walks off like "phew I really dodged a bullet with that one." Rofl...
/r/seduction24/06/22 05:55 PM
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The thing is, dating advice can't really be super specific to be valid. Every situation is different, every girl is different. While some more generic advice will work, the same specific things you talked about or did that worked for one date, probably won't even be applicable on the next. Being successful at dating is being able to feel the situation out, being able to read her body language to see what topics or tactics work and what don't, and being able to think on your toes and change thing…
/r/seduction21/06/22 09:35 PM
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It's kind of a culture thing, typically black and hispanic women are more in tune with their sexual sides, less prudish. You also get similar treatment from white women in most of the Scandinavian countries and places like italy and spain too, they're much more openly sexual than white women in the US.
/r/seduction21/06/22 08:45 PM
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You bored her, and she didn't feel a spark because of it.
/r/seduction21/06/22 10:03 AM
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You need to go read "No More Mr. Nice Guy" by Robert Glover, and "The Alpha Male Bible" by Sean Wayne, like RIGHT FUCKING NOW DUDE! Go order them on Amazon, or get a scribd account, they're both on there as audiobooks. You're going to have a rough time in the dating world with the mindset you have now dude. It's time to change your life. Start with no more mr. nice guy, then read the other. They'll both help you immensely.
/r/seduction19/06/22 02:40 AM
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First things first, you're going to have to stop with that negative self attitude like right now. If you think of yourself as a loser, you are going to come across to people as a wimpy loser.
/r/seduction17/06/22 10:09 PM
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Lol... Dude... Who gives a shit. If you enjoyed yourself, feel flattered she likes you enough to be vulnerable with you.
/r/seduction16/06/22 09:12 AM
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Focus more on yourself, your needs, your goals, bringing your self worth to a higher level will give you a better perspective.
/r/seduction15/06/22 05:59 PM
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Working hard to gain women's approval is the telltale sign of a nice guy... Focus on self approval.
/r/seduction15/06/22 05:36 PM
2

Start building up all your muscles, working out increases your testosterone, which in turn is going to give you a more masculine attitude. Start hanging around masculine dudes more, if you are still young and in school, join the football team or the wrestling team. If you are out of high school already, maybe join an adult male sports League like for baseball or flag football, go out with the boys after your games or whatever. The only way you are really going to develop more masculine traits is…
/r/seduction15/06/22 01:35 AM
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Women don't generally make the first move like ever, maybe in Australia that's the norm, I don't know. Around here though, all my relationships I've been in were because I approached a woman I'm interested in and we clicked. I even had several of them tell me later, when they saw me, they were hoping I would come over and make a move and were glad I did.
/r/seduction13/06/22 05:56 AM
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So... Guys are expected to make the first move, be the ones to show interest, and be confident and make their intent clear... But... It's sexual harassment, so actually they're not supposed to? Lol... It's not like the guy said to come up and ask them to fuck, or tell them they have a hot ass or some stupid shit. Flirting is (should be at least) subtle, it's basically just conversation with the intent on feeling out if the person is right for you or not and trying to convey that you're intereste…
/r/seduction13/06/22 05:32 AM
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Sexual harassment for talking?
/r/seduction13/06/22 05:23 AM
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Cops will be called on you for approaching a woman and flirting? Little bit extreme, no?
/r/seduction13/06/22 05:21 AM
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From all that I've read here, it sounds like she maybe is having second thoughts about the long distance thing and likes you and is trying to make it obvious without feeling like she's cheating. I think she's probably testing the waters and would probably respond favorably to you showing a little interest. I mean I could be totally wrong, but there's a lot of signs she's into you happening there. If she really wanted to stay faithful to her bf, and "knows he's the one," I feel like she wouldn't …
/r/seduction12/06/22 06:43 PM
1

Haha definitely true too
/r/seduction11/06/22 04:23 AM
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I certainly wouldn't have. I'd have beat those cakes all night and thought about consequences later if it was a 9/10 milf... That's like the ultimate... Guarenteed he will always be thinking about what she would have been like in the sack for the rest of his life. I couldn't let myself pass up on a rare opportunity like that.
/r/seduction10/06/22 10:26 PM
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Maybe start going to the gym and eat in a slight caloric defecit to tone up, having a nice body will 100% help your chances. Could be you come across as too needy or come on too strong? That's a big turn off for a lot of guys. Also as a woman, you will still have to play the same push pull game that we men do. To really attract someone, you have to pretty much make it seem like they had to put in work to get you, you have to get them to invest themselves in you. If you just make it super easy, a…
/r/seduction09/06/22 06:44 AM
1

Lifting 4 - 5 days + 1 HIT cardio day per week and 30 min of light cardio on your rest day if you want to actually have some muscle. If you aren't doing this already dudes, just fucking do it, drop the excuses and work for a body you're proud of looking at in the mirror. You'll have all kinds of added mental benefits too. There's no reason you can't be investing time into your physique.
/r/seduction07/06/22 01:29 AM
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Oh well, live and learn, lol life is painful sometimes. Don't let it discourage you. Maybe next time try to engage the whole group of people (including the dudes) in friendly conversation, try and make everyone laugh and have a good time. If you just go up and single one person out in a group of friends as a stranger, yeah, they're going to try and exclude you. You have to basically woo everyone and get their approval before you can move into single target mode. Approach with the attitude that y…
/r/seduction05/06/22 07:34 PM
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Way too low dude, good luck finding anyone at that price. Spend their day chatting with these girls for you, spending hours building rapport only to be paid 30-50 for the time they just spent wooing said woman for you once a date is set up? Should be more like $300-$500 per date.
/r/seduction04/06/22 10:08 PM
2

Confidence with approach comes from 2 things, building up your social skills over and over with random people so you're fluid in conversation, and from when you push yourself through the discomfort of approach anxiety and have successful pleasant interactions with women who you find attractive. The more you do these things, the more confident in approaching you will get. Yeah shit sucks at first, oh well, it only sucks for a couple minutes and then you continue going about daily life. You have t…
/r/seduction02/06/22 06:03 PM
8

Also, inviting her along opens you up to a new social circle, even if she's taken, becoming friends with her could open you up to her girlfriends as potential relationships, and if she likes you, she might be willing to facilitate you meeting one of her single friends, never know. I would have said "no way, that doesn't change anything, you seem cool, it would be fun to have you along."
/r/seduction31/05/22 04:39 AM
16

Well technically the only prerequisite to be a milf is to have a kid, a 19 y/o could be a milf. Maybe the term they're thinking of is cougar.
/r/seduction29/05/22 07:15 PM
1

Lol, then quit bitching. You're never going to pull hot chicks then, better just get used to it. What a whiney fucking dude.
/r/seduction28/05/22 06:07 PM
1

It's not going to matter if you don't fix your attitude.
/r/seduction28/05/22 06:06 PM
1

And yet you aren't getting any hot girls by your own admission, tell me again how that's working out for you.
/r/seduction28/05/22 05:58 PM
1

Lol and just be a simp? Buying them shit when they haven't earned it is just like telling them "I know my looks and personality isn't good enough for you, so instead I will try to buy your affection.". That has the opposite effect you want it to have.
/r/seduction28/05/22 05:55 PM
1

You'll never get any hot chicks with that entitled attitude.
/r/seduction28/05/22 05:50 PM
1

So let me get this straight, you're average, and just feel entitled that you should be getting hot chicks? You're doing the exact same thing you're bitching about women doing to you, quit being hypocritical.
/r/seduction28/05/22 05:48 PM
1

I lol'd at that. Dude probably weighs a buck fifty and thinks he's peaked.
/r/seduction28/05/22 05:44 PM
1

I lol'd at that. Dude probably weighs a buck fifty and thinks he's peaked.
/r/seduction28/05/22 05:44 PM
1

Steroids don't magically just make you bigger. You still have to know how to eat to put on muscle, still have to be putting in the work at the gym, and getting really good sleep every night. Using steroids with no history of working out first is a very bad idea. You'd be taking a ton of unnecessary risk taxing your body, and get almost nothing out of it.
/r/seduction28/05/22 05:38 PM
2

With this shitty attitude, you're lucky you're getting any girls at all. Fuck man, it's no wonder chicks don't want to be around you, has NOTHING to do with your looks, you sound like a fucking douche.
/r/seduction28/05/22 05:27 PM
11

They were literally just doing pre-sex acts, then when he does the same thing (ignores), she jumps his bones. She is definitely trying to drop the hint she wants him to be sexually assertive. She's hot and ready, she knows he's hot and ready, why else would she roll over and play sleep like that? It really seems to me that she just wants him to take her. I mean at very least roll her back over and kiss her passionately first, him playing the more feminine ignoring game too doesn't seem to be wha…
/r/seduction26/05/22 05:52 PM
26

Pretty sure she wants you to grab her, yank her over to you and jump HER bones, regardless of her laying there unresponsive playing "asleep." Try that next time and see how she reacts, would be willing to bet it will be very favorably.
/r/seduction26/05/22 05:14 PM
3

Hit the gym, put on some mass to make yourself appear formidable, I guarantee this won't happen to you. Big muscles are intimidating even if the dude doesn't know if you can fight or not. If you look like you could snap their arms in two, they won't make the effort to mess with your girl. The only people I could see this happening to are small skinny dudes who look like they could be bullied.
/r/seduction18/05/22 05:03 AM
3

Oh well man, don't over analyze either, if you're always neurotic about making that one mistake, you may be reluctant to take chances that could better your situation in fear of rejection. Just keep on truckin, learn from each interaction and take the culmination of what you've learned on to the next one and the next one, eventually you'll end up doing all the right things though trial and error and hit a home run. Don't keep texting after they've left you reaching out on read though. Let them g…
/r/seduction17/05/22 03:20 AM
1

That's exactly it man, you absolutely know what I'm talking about. It's tough place to be, and a lot of kind hearted, but naive guys will get themselves into situations where they're compromising themselves for a woman's affection, and it leads to turmoil. Glad you got away from that situation.
/r/seduction17/05/22 01:33 AM
1

Is what it is, that's what it took to open my eyes about how important healthy boundaries are in relationships, I had no idea before. If my words help even one person who is having trouble setting boundaries or not sticking up for themselves when people cross them, it's worth writing them down. I wouldn't wish any of that stuff on anyone, it just eats away at your self worth so much, makes you feel so insignificant and small when you have trouble standing up to being constantly pushed or bullied…
/r/seduction16/05/22 11:08 PM
3

Well it's different for every person, but people cheating on you for instance, verbally abusing you, disrespecting you, no communication to work out issues like adults, how far you're willing to go and what you're willing to do sexually. My example is: I was pretty mentally unhealthy years ago, had gotten into a relationship with a girl I didn't know at the time was a very heavy alcoholic, she did a very good job at hiding it and had been an alcoholic so long that even when she was very drunk sh…
/r/seduction16/05/22 09:35 PM
1

Too uptight about them? I mean your boundaries are something that you deem unacceptable for people to cross no matter what, there really isn't being "too uptight" unless you're just setting boundaries that don't need to be set in the first place. You know what you're comfortable with and what you're uncomfortable with, the point of my post was just don't compromise your values for someone else, no matter what kind of excuses or reasons you get for that behavior. People will walk all over you if …
/r/seduction16/05/22 06:01 PM
295

ALWAYS have firm boundaries and don't ever allow anyone to cross them without consequence. Once you falter even once and allow someone to trample your boundaries without standing up for yourself.. you've lost their (and your self) respect from then on.
/r/seduction16/05/22 12:47 AM
1

Lol I wouldn't touch that one man... If she wants to watch she can set it up herself, it is her sister after all... Sounds like dangerous waters to try and take it into your own hands.
/r/seduction13/05/22 10:41 PM
4

The truth op didn't want to hear.
/r/seduction11/05/22 07:39 PM
1

Pow! Right in the kisser
/r/seduction11/05/22 07:34 PM
1

Lol yeah, trying to read that was painful.
/r/seduction09/05/22 09:49 AM
1

Wtf dude, you're 19 and you're acting like your life is over already... LOL. You have PLENTY of time to change your circumstances. Focus on becoming the best you, on building who you are, on becoming a good listener and conversationalist, develop many interests, put yourself in situations where you'll be around women your age. The field of dreams saying comes to mind "if you build it, they will come" lol. If you build yourself up in all aspects of your life, and practice just conversing with wom…
/r/seduction06/05/22 06:38 AM
22

It does lose you points if you buy stuff early on. You're conveying you think you need to buy them things to be liked. It shows you don't have enough confidence in your assets, and I'm under the firm belief that women pick up on that shit whether they realize it consciously or not. They're usually very perceptive can usually tell immediately if you have glaring confidence issues like that.
/r/seduction29/04/22 08:47 AM
1

Dude don't pay for her dinner and buy her shit when you're in your early dating stage, when you're done eating just tell the waitress/waiter you want to split the bill. If the chick gets upset over something like that she's not worth your time, don't go on a second date. Paying for everything before she has given you a reason to do so is just simping out. Offering to pay for everything early is lowering your value as a male, you're subconsciously telling her you think you need to buy her stuff f…
/r/seduction29/04/22 08:38 AM
3

Yeah, true that. Definitely agree with starting out with just compound and strong lifts to build a good foundation. Just wanted to make sure he knew that later on, if he's going for aesthetics, isolation lifts are pretty important to fill out in the areas that the compound lifts either don't target, or only target only lightly.
/r/seduction27/04/22 11:39 PM
3

This guy is right if you're just starting out, but after you get strong, if you want a better aesthetic look, you need to be doing isolation exercises too, especially for muscles you don't hit with a lot of the compound lifts like your medial, and posterior delts, calves, upper traps, etc. He's telling you to take a powerlifter approach, which doesn't produce the best aesthetic look if you only train that way (look up power lifter physiques vs bodybuilder physiques and you'll see what I mean). Y…
/r/seduction27/04/22 09:42 PM
7

Sounds sus.
/r/seduction27/04/22 07:23 AM
11

So can we. If the girl digs your profile, you can start with hi and still get a response. If you have a crap profile and a bunch of selfies, you better damn well come up with something witty to set you apart.
/r/seduction27/04/22 03:33 AM
1

Nah he went through my past posts and said some shit about what I looked like, so I got petty and looked at his profile, and he was posting some shit over in a different subreddit talking about how he can't physically finish his workouts and then asking some noob questions about shoulder exercises, he's acting like he's some seduction expert or something but dude doesn't even have the drive push through his workouts, so I doubt he'd have the drive to make himself some pickup god like he acts lik…
/r/seduction23/04/22 09:02 PM
1

Keep struggling in the gym little guy, at least I know I have the physique you could only dream about. :-)
/r/seduction23/04/22 07:18 PM
1

The whole 2 inches?
/r/seduction23/04/22 06:16 PM
1

Lol little boy acts like an expert at seduction, but goes out in a t-shirt and jeans to try and hit on women, then says if you're getting called creepy and manipulative, you're on the right path... Hahahaha. Jesus fucking Christ dude, you're pathetic. You often get the "compliment:" "you look comfortable" too don't you? Thanks for the laugh.
/r/seduction23/04/22 06:05 PM
7

This your only insult? Coming from a guy who can't even get the physique he wants because he's too much of a pussy.
/r/seduction23/04/22 05:54 PM
-1

Rofl, okay fatboy
/r/seduction23/04/22 05:41 PM
2

Why do it myself when I can have your mom do it for me?
/r/seduction23/04/22 05:34 PM
2

Ummm... Being called creepy and manipulative are definitely not signs you're on the right path bud... You're doing something very wrong if that's what you're being called... Asshole and annoying can be used in a playful connotation... But the other two, full stop, time to head back to the drawing board, and maybe to therapy..
/r/seduction23/04/22 05:32 PM
3

You're probably way to eager to get to the make out part. They're probably coming back to actually low key chill with you a bit. Get comfortable, offer to make them some food/get them a drink, put on some music or a funny movie in the background. Let them take their shoes off and get comfy and don't rush shit. She's already putting herself in riskier position by coming to your place, don't just go for full on making out when they come inside. Take things slow, little bit of escalation, then back…
/r/seduction21/04/22 06:30 AM
1

You don't want to be that guy causing troubles in other people's marriages.
/r/seduction19/04/22 06:16 PM
2

Depends on your mindset. If you're looking at things like successful people do, "I fail until I succeed," then your confidence isn't affected by rejection, because you know you're one failure closer to the outcome you want. These people don't internalize failure and try to learn from each one to improve the outcome of the next attempt. If you look at things like someone who's insecure about themselves, or who isn't very successful in their lives, "I hate failing, when am I ever going to succeed,…
/r/seduction14/04/22 05:50 PM
15

Condoms suck man, I have never cum using one, I have to take it off and have her finish me or finish myself... Maybe try to get some thinner ones or something, even those don't really work for me though. Honestly, sex really isn't even worth it for me pleasure wise when I'm using a condom. I enjoy making the woman feel good and all but I don't feel shit down there. Since you are both your first, you probably don't need to do this, but the safe thing to do would be each get STD tests together fir…
/r/seduction14/04/22 12:25 AM
3

Which is pretty fucked up for those guys who are just showing their emotion to women and wanting to be accepted.
/r/seduction13/04/22 06:18 PM
18

Do you pick crusties out of your ass? You look like you pick crusties out of your ass.
/r/seduction13/04/22 06:54 AM
2

That's what's up, get that shit lol.
/r/seduction13/04/22 03:50 AM
10

Man, if you're having a good time, who cares? That's all that really matters. Sure, flirt with chicks and stuff when you interact with them, and be honest in your intentions with your current girl, but who cares? If you find someone else, so be it, but why stop something you're enjoying?
/r/seduction13/04/22 02:37 AM
2

Your friends are probably just jealous you're having sex deep down dude, otherwise they wouldn't give a shit who you fuck.
/r/seduction13/04/22 02:34 AM
1

Hey man, start working on yourself. Introduce healthy habits into your life like daily exercise, meditation, start a 5-10min journal in the mornings. Maybe join a coed sports program or join a martial arts dojo, something to get you used to interacting with people of both sexes and to take your mindset away from "if I don't get laid I'm going to end it." You gotta start learning to love yourself broski, and that takes some daily work. It's going to be much easier for you to find a woman who take…
/r/seduction13/04/22 01:46 AM
1

She was honestly probably flattered deep down like "yep, I still got it," even if she didn't want to get with you. Women love when people still find them pretty as they age... But leaving a note... C'mon man, what kind of woman do you think would want a guy that doesn't even have the balls to talk to her, flirt with her, and get to know her in person? I'm being dead serious here, you're not doing yourself any favors by leaving a note like a 6th grader with his first crush, that isn't attractive …
/r/seduction11/04/22 01:50 AM
1

Absolutely! Guys love not having to do all the work all the time, do you know how tiring that gets? Always having to be the one to initiate stuff, always being the one to make moves, or make the plans. I mean it's cool and all, but I personally love it when a woman is direct and not afraid to take initiative, it makes me feel like I'm desired when she's willing to step out of the "norm" for me. Just don't do it all the time, let him initiate sometimes too if you guys become a thing.
/r/seduction11/04/22 01:42 AM
1

Just text him, "I was just thinking about this smiling, I really had a great time with you, I think I'd really like hang out with you again soon."
/r/seduction11/04/22 01:37 AM
27

Yep!! Doggos pull the ladies like nobody's business. Have had lots of chit chats with women just out walking the pups, they even approach you! "Omg cute puppies!" Easy in to starting up conversations. Even making nice comments about their dog is an easy way to start talking. It's crazy how favorably it changes the dynamic of a cold approach.
/r/seduction07/04/22 03:08 AM
2

If you're basing self love on the acceptance of other people, you're doing it wrong. Self love is unconditional, regardless of what other people say or do, rejection rolls off the back of someone who truly loves themselves. Learning to love yourself has more to do with accepting who you are, constantly improving yourself by setting and achieving goals, being aware of and willing to accept/work on(if applicable) your flaws and being proud of your positive traits, and learning to be comfortable in…
/r/seduction05/04/22 09:34 AM
2

There are a ton of girls that make it a point not to fuck on the first date. Just go, stay relaxed, have fun, connect with her and enjoy yourself. If you make a good impression, she'll want to see you again. There's a reason she said yes, and she's probably just trying to get a feel for who you are before she gets intimate. The reason PUA's say that is because they use shady tactics and basically fake being a high value male. They use the heat of the moment to woo the woman into bed and for the …
/r/seduction05/04/22 07:49 AM
6

Lol... Dude come on. Wtf? Just go on a date with her and get to know her. So what if she doesn't want to bang right away? Rofl. You better just go with the flow or you're going to fuck this up.
/r/seduction05/04/22 07:23 AM
2

Found the typical "JuSt BrEaK uP" post. True reddit form here...
/r/seduction04/04/22 07:28 AM
3

Only if that's something she wants to do... Many women don't want to take on that masculine role, and don't like taking on the masculine role in a relationship.
/r/seduction04/04/22 07:21 AM
4

Or he's worried not asking for consent each time might come back to bite him in the ass. Maybe he thinks he's just covering his bases.
/r/seduction04/04/22 07:20 AM
3

Lol dude nearly all of the people that call themselves PUA, use the same recycled shit over and over, are frauds, and women know when someone is trying to run "PUA game" on them because of the shitty canned crap they have you use, and the different negging techniques and what not to knock them down a few levels. Honestly you should probably look into how to be a better conversationalist and create a more interesting life for yourself. When you have the gift of gab, and are confident in the way y…
/r/seduction04/04/22 02:53 AM
1

Lol and shirts feel super weird without your body hair, I shaved my chest and back a few times and I hated it, now I just trim it short.
/r/seduction03/04/22 09:20 PM
1

Lol. You're neurotic about this one thing dude. Let it go.
/r/seduction03/04/22 08:26 PM
1

You don't deal with the keto flu again with just 1 day of carbs, otherwise there's no way I could have done it. The day after your carb day you feel kind of puffy in your joints and shit, but it clears up by the following day. What I did too was a 16 hr fast on the Monday following my carb Sunday, it helped me transition back into keto a lot faster and smoother.
/r/seduction02/04/22 09:08 AM
0

Depends on what kind of food he prefers, keto was it for me, was easy because the fats and meats were what I liked, wasn't hard to give up the carbs at all, and even when I felt like I wanted something carb like, there are keto options for that. You're just assuming he is going to have a hard time not eating carbs. Many people don't. Knocking keto for this guy before you even know what his food preferences are is a pretty shallow minded approach. People also have a hard time restricting calories…
/r/seduction02/04/22 08:43 AM
1

On strict keto it's a little harder sure (still do gain muscle though, just a little slower), but if you do a cyclic keto diet where you have a carb load day to refill your muscles' glycogen stores for the week, it's no different than a traditional carb heavy diet for muscle gain. With that diet you do cycle in and out of ketogenesis, but for about half the week, you're still burning fats easier.
/r/seduction02/04/22 08:08 AM
4

1500 calorie diet for a 6 foot 285 lb guy? No. Too much of a defecit. A simple calculation of his BMR based on height age and weight says at rest he's burning around 2300 calories a day, with working out he should be burning probably close to 2800-3000 calories in a day. 2200-2500 calories is closer to what he should be aiming for, for a cut, otherwise he will end up way too hungry and be losing muscle mass with the fat.
/r/seduction02/04/22 07:48 AM
1

There are lots of good videos on YouTube to get you started if you're interested. Check out athleanx, he has all kinds of work outs, tells you how to use proper form, rates the different exercises on which are the best for bulking certain muscles, there's a wealth of info if you just peruse his vids. Other than that, you need to figure out your basal metabolic rate, to know how many calories you're burning each day at rest, there are calculators in a Google search that are accurate enough. Keepi…
/r/seduction02/04/22 07:41 AM
-2

Keto is fine, nothing wrong with it. It helps you lose fat faster than just a calorie reduction diet.
/r/seduction02/04/22 07:33 AM
3

Shave that head, trim that teddy bear beard into a 5oclock shadow or shorter, treat your body better, get your diet on point, hit the weights and dress better. Right now it looks like you don't care about your appearance, which many women find off-putting. Gotta love yourself (and look like you love yourself) before people will love you bro. Just gotta do some self work, it'll be worth it. I'm into the whole fitness thing pretty seriously, if you need some help on how to get started getting into…
/r/seduction02/04/22 07:32 AM
15

Your mom thought so too.
/r/seduction01/04/22 08:46 PM
2

Haha so in reality the numbers are probably smaller than reported.
/r/seduction01/04/22 07:52 PM
2

Is that a common question you ask all the people you meet? Hey nice to meet you, by the way, you ever take one of those penis size surveys? Haha jk :-p.
/r/seduction01/04/22 07:06 PM
17

Russia has an average of 5.2 inches, ranked #65 in the world for penis length Ireland has an average of 5 inches. People really need to get their stereotypes right. Canada on the other hand, has an average of 6.18inches and nobody goes around saying God damn, this guy must be part Canadian, rofl. Ecuador is ranked #1, with an average length of 6.93 inches. So next time we talk about big dicks we should all be like "damn, dude has an authentic Ecuadorian cigar there."
/r/seduction01/04/22 05:20 PM
1

You probably dress and act like a goody goody and are quiet and shy. Like giving off church guy vibes or something.
/r/seduction30/03/22 07:17 AM
7

Just gotta net all of them too. Step one of seduction, get a big van.
/r/seduction28/03/22 04:30 AM
2

"Do you want to play a game" in your best jigsaw impression. She'll definitely be curious of you, probably scared that you're a weirdo too, but you'll definitely be occupying her thoughts for he rest of the week.
/r/seduction27/03/22 05:31 PM
1

Babe? Nah, dear maybe depends on the context. "Be a dear and grab me a soda when you're over there please."
/r/seduction25/03/22 05:26 PM
1

Fuck that, I wouldn't fuck one of those idiot maga karens with someone else's dick.
/r/seduction25/03/22 03:47 AM
2

Well said. People - like to latch on to the idea of the perfect partner, but aren't self aware enough to know what they really find attractive.
/r/seduction25/03/22 03:44 AM
1

Lol that's not what I'm saying in the slightest. She's going to have to work at shit too and I'm talking about them doing more stuff as a couple like they used to when they were originally dating, you can't just keep going on doing the same things day in, day out, and not have shit get boring. Both parties are going to I have to work to keep the romance alive. Nothing in his post implies that he has some shitty life he needs to work on, you're just making assumptions on what's happening now. He'…
/r/seduction24/03/22 06:49 PM
1

I would say start being more spontaneous again like you were when you first started dating, go out and do things like date nights, kiss in public, random acts of affection, bring her home flowers, after a hard day of work have a bath run for her and offer a massage without the expectation of sex afterwards, get a tent and go camping together to get away from everything and fuck like rabbits in the woods etc. You guys are falling out of the honeymoon period and are just getting comfortable. You h…
/r/seduction24/03/22 06:22 PM
2

You're in your head too much, try to put your focus on the person you're talking with instead and just be in the moment. Honestly, I think daily meditation could help you, it certainly helps me stop overanalyzing things. It also helps you to be able to live in the moment more, to focus on the now, not the what ifs. I mean I get where you're coming from, I'm prone to being the same way, except for me I feel like small talk is just a waste of time and it annoys me a lot of times.. but learning to …
/r/seduction19/03/22 08:52 PM
1

Why is it you hate it? Just curious? Because it's stressful? Well as with anything, the more you do it, the more it becomes second nature and you get used to it. Pushing your comfort boundaries is how you grow, everything new is stressful in the beginning. If you want to be better at it, the only way is to push yourself to keep doing it. Try to just relax, and realize whatever happens, doesn't matter. You have to fail until you succeed, that's just life in general man. A perspective change usual…
/r/seduction19/03/22 08:03 PM
50

Not at all, just like you, there's a lot of people who prefer good old passionate vanilla sex over everything else (I'm one of them). I hate that term btw, it makes it sound so plain, but good passionate sex is anything but.
/r/seduction19/03/22 06:31 PM
16

Yeah and then ended a friendship because he made a shitty decision.
/r/seduction19/03/22 09:08 AM
24

So you aren't friends with this girl anymore because she needed to piss before you two were going to fuck in the ONLY bathroom in the place? Lol.
/r/seduction19/03/22 09:06 AM
4

Lol that ego... Gtfo man, you're definitely not a catch.
/r/seduction18/03/22 09:14 PM
1

Give her some space for awhile. See if she messages you.
/r/seduction18/03/22 09:46 AM
2

You went to break things off, she blocked you, then you scrambled to get her back when she got upset. Guaranteed she lost interest with you then and there. You're going back on the boundaries you had just set, it makes you look weak. If anything, you wait for her to try and get you back after you make the move to end things. That way she feels like she earned the right to be with you again... If she doesn't, well just gotta let her go. Chasing is NEVER good, especially after you're the one who p…
/r/seduction18/03/22 09:17 AM
1

You played yourself dude.
/r/seduction18/03/22 09:03 AM
1

Might have low testosterone too. Maybe get a hormone blood panel.
/r/seduction18/03/22 06:43 AM
2

I wouldn't try to start up a conversation when she's lifting or in the middle of running or anything, interrupting could go badly, but if she's resting between sets or what not, try to find something you can tie into a conversation that seems innocent. One opener that worked for me was: "Where did you get that (article of fitness apparel), I have a friend who's just starting out on her fitness journey and I'm sure she'd think it was really rad." This opened her up to more conversations in passin…
/r/seduction16/03/22 09:00 AM
18

Let me break that pussy in two bitch.
/r/seduction13/03/22 04:18 AM
1

Just be a good friend to her, just let her know you only want to be a friend, these are not the type of women to fuck until they do some self work. You just being a friend will give you practice interacting with women in social settings, and being someone she can rely on and doesn't have to worry about cheating on or abandoning her will help her too.
/r/seduction11/03/22 04:06 AM
71

"the fuck are you looking at?" Lol.
/r/seduction08/03/22 08:08 PM
3

Here's the other thing that no one mentioned. So say she really is cool with dating you, are you okay with dating a chick that fucks other dudes for a living? If you're expecting she changes professions for you, don't, you'll be setting yourself up for disappointment.
/r/seduction08/03/22 07:49 PM
2

Haha seems like it would be more peaceful that way if you were just okay with it all the way around. For me it depends on the girl, if it's someone I know won't be permanent, I don't care. If it's someone I really like though, like the take to meet your parents, could see a future with her kind of girl, I want her all to myself lol.
/r/seduction05/03/22 03:39 AM
3

Maybe he doesn't like the fact that the relationship is left open like that. I'm kind of the same way if I'm really into someone. I like knowing that there's more of a commitment to one another because fwb usually means it's open enough that either party could have multiple partners and I don't like the thought that the chick I like is getting some from other dudes while they're with me. But yes, this is the way, leaving uncertainty in the air, and going out and just enjoying one another's compa…
/r/seduction04/03/22 08:47 PM
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If he goes and posts a fake ass pic of him getting kissed by some women, after she just posted a pic of her out with a dude, she's going to know that it was him posting it to lash out because he was hurt, and will ultimately result in her losing even more respect for him, it's basically screaming, "you hurt me, so I'm going to try to hurt you back!." It's not going to change anything and it's just going to pull his attention further into this girl who hurt him, because the only reason he's talki…
/r/seduction03/03/22 08:50 PM
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For the sole purpose of making your ex jealous? That's something that chicks do dude. Men don't do that kind of shit, maybe boys or men who haven't grown out of being a boy, but not men. The only photos of women you should be posting are ones founded out of a genuine experience where you two shared something nice. He's wasting too much headspace on this chick, it's preventing him from moving on.
/r/seduction03/03/22 08:41 PM
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This is terrible advice. Encouraging him to play the who can make who jealous game is just going to keep him in that pathetic mindset. This is something only an immature person would do. You can't waste energy and time on petty shit like this, it will just bring you down to their level and ruin the progress you're trying to make to be a man women are attracted to.
/r/seduction03/03/22 08:30 PM
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Dude, you have to be above this shit. Gotta let shit like this just roll off your back like water off a duck's feathers. What you gotta do is show her that her childish, shitty little games don't even phase you. You gotta be a fucking rock man, be unwaivering. You don't have time for games and anyone who plays them, time to refocus your energy and attention elsewhere. Going out of your way to make someone jealous is a very feminine thing to do and if it's obvious, will just make you look like a …
/r/seduction03/03/22 08:27 PM
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Neither do I, I actually have respect for myself. :-p. Being a sugar daddy is the equivalent of telling the chick "look I know I'm a low value male, but I have money to pay you so you stick around in my life, you good with that?" Which in turn attracts a very superficial type of woman. It's a terrible dynamic if you expect anything beyond sex, let alone exclusivity.
/r/seduction19/02/22 01:55 AM
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Dude is her sugar daddy, he's a mega simp already. Par for the course.
/r/seduction19/02/22 01:43 AM
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Lol women don't respect their sugar daddies ever, they ALWAYS fuck around on them. How could you respect someone as an equal that has to give you money in order for you to stay with them. Lol she's playing his ass hard and he's too big of a simp to see that. The whole relationship there is really pathetic. Also, who the fuck has ever heard of exclusive fwb? Lol... Normally people go with boyfriend/girlfriend when exclusivity is involved.
/r/seduction19/02/22 01:38 AM
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Your her fucking sugar daddy dude. She's never going to be exclusive with you because there's no way she'll ever truly respect you... After all, you basically bribe her to keep having sex with you. If you want to be exclusive with someone, and maintain their respect, you have to become a higher value male... She sees you as a meal ticket bro, a fucking job... Not pleasure... Pleasure is the dudes she's fucking on the side. Normally sugar daddies are fine with their sugar babies fucking other dud…
/r/seduction19/02/22 01:32 AM
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This, so this! Focus on becoming a better you and people will be drawn to you. You need to create value in yourself in order to be attractive. Game is only half of the equation, can have all the game in the world but if deep down you feel like you're a worthless piece of shit, women can see right through the facade.
/r/seduction08/12/21 10:21 PM
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Nobody is born that way, has everything to do with their upbringing and what they strive to do. Born with good looks maybe, but personality and confidence are learned traits. You're completely writing yourself and what you can learn to be like off if you just chalk it up to "being born to be good with women."
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