Hey I’ll post my struggles in dating game:

I don’t mind a girl deleting me, but ghosting is actually worse, because sometimes even if she leaves me on read, I can’t tell if she’s playing hard to get/ or she was interested and lost interest, like I had one girl who was super interested in me one day, the second day she was absolutely cold and left me on read in one of the text, didn’t send her anything afterward, but I don’t know how to go about it! I’d want to delete her and I don’t mind it, but if she was interested and got pissed off that I’m not interested in her and deleted her she will lose interest as well (this has happened before with another girl, she added me and said I was busy “even though it was 24h past” why would you delete me! I said I thought you ghosted me and got to talking normally and then asked if I can call her and showed interest and she said she’s busy so I stopped texting and was waiting for her, only to block me three days later)

I also can’t ask a girl what’s wrong cuz this seems needy ,

I can’t keep playing games with her and act as nothing happened and not pursue her then she would lose interest cuz I’m literally a ghost and uninterested in her..

Oh and one another thing with attraction, sometimes I play it safe and not ask her out immediately and she get bored and lose interest, and sometimes I ask a girl out and shows some interest in a three days period, and I come off a little too strong and get rejected or they pull away.

Girls are so complicated! And I’m always struggling with them!