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You posed a more interesting question at the start of your post: “Why mainstream dating advice is so awful” I think it’s a fascinating failure of the male ego. Most men have no fucking clue what women want. Including most of our fathers and other guidance figures. However, they’re too scared to say this out loud or even admit it to themselves, because it’s emasculating and embarrassing. So of course they’re not gonna ask a man that gets pussy how to do it, that would be admitting the fact that t…
/r/TheRedPill28/12/22 03:41 AM
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I often think about this. Is leaving this place a part of making it? Lol
/r/TheRedPill28/12/22 01:13 AM
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Mentioned by an OG, what an honor
/r/TheRedPill28/12/22 01:07 AM
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I got into a really good LTR pretty early on, we’ve been together for 5 years. I absolutely feel the need for keeping my game sharp with other women, especially after being with her for so long. No woman wants a loser that’s not desired, even the “wife material” ones.
/r/TheRedPill26/12/22 10:42 AM
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Many women don’t approach even if they want to fuck the living shit out of a man because it’s scary, men are dangerous, she’s shy etc.
/r/TheRedPill26/12/22 10:38 AM
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You kinda sound like a fed with all these manischere one liners lol. “Reject modernity!” “I would like to hear how the feminist agenda influenced you”
/r/TheRedPill25/12/22 11:23 AM
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you responded twice lol. If you want a higher success rate, I'd recommend Tinder and "social circle game" which is where a vast majority of my lays come from. I also wholeheartedly agree with you that getting IOIs from a girl means that the approach will most likely be successful. And I also agree that self-work and increasing your value is the best thing to increase your chances with girls. However there's a deep lesson in defeating your fears that you gain by cold approaching women, right? And…
/r/TheRedPill23/12/22 02:38 PM
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I literally don't get what you're trying to push here. You can cold approach and work on upgrading yourself every day. You're not at the gym or working on a business or living an awesome life 24/7. Sometimes you go out and chat up strangers as a form of getting away from it all.
/r/TheRedPill23/12/22 01:27 PM
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Why are you so invested in this holy shit lmao You made that other post as a wall of text, argued with literally everyone in the comments, and now you're making a poll about the exact same thing.
/r/TheRedPill23/12/22 01:24 PM
1

So when I see a gorgeous girl that’s not giving signals I’m supposed to just keep on going on with my day? Absolutely not lol.
/r/TheRedPill23/12/22 10:09 AM
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Damn, GLO went off the deep end. But then again which manosphere personality didn’t.
/r/TheRedPill22/12/22 03:45 PM
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Ay bro don’t give the newbies any funny ideas
/r/TheRedPill20/12/22 09:24 PM
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I'm really perplexed every time anything regarding this topic gets posted on here. It just sounds like people on here are still balls deep in bluepill conditioning and the only thing that changed is the fact that they can actually get pussy now. It's like you're still waiting for your unicorn and just killing time by fucking whores. I've met plenty of women here (eastern europe) AND in the US (Indiana) that I'd describe as "good enough to have kids with" after knowing them for a couple of years.…
/r/TheRedPill19/12/22 01:54 PM
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This. I’m friends with kids of rich parents. Most are miserable, they don’t know what they have.
/r/TheRedPill18/12/22 04:10 PM
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Sounds like a personal preference rather than a woman thing
/r/TheRedPill10/12/22 07:55 PM
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Yeah. If you want an infield example, Austen Summers has a lot of good videos of him gaming.
/r/TheRedPill09/12/22 07:58 AM
4

Cold approach is great for learning game and an absolute must. However people on here (esp newbies) may benefit from the fact that the largest amount of lays comes from other sources (OLD, Social Circle Game, Night Game)
/r/TheRedPill09/12/22 07:56 AM
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If I was going to do cool shit anyway why not pull out my phone and snap a picture?
/r/TheRedPill07/12/22 12:23 PM
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Exactly. Might be a bit vain, but having an Instagram kind of inspired me to actually do some more exciting shit. Which I actually enjoyed doing, I just snap a few pictures of it. So I think it’s a good investment
/r/TheRedPill07/12/22 11:23 AM
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If you actually live an awesome life you can show off it’s really helpful, especially with OLD
/r/TheRedPill07/12/22 07:14 AM
2

Trad girls don't really exist, there's just women who haven't fulfilled their full whore potential yet. They might still fulfill it, they might not.
/r/TheRedPill03/12/22 09:02 PM
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Sounds like all you’re gonna achieve is she’s gonna realise you’re not gonna play ball with her and divorce in order to get together with a more reliable beta provider. I might be wrong tho, never been married.
/r/TheRedPill28/11/22 09:23 PM
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I'm not on here to win the culture war, I'm on here to fuck bitches and live a fulfilling life.
/r/TheRedPill28/11/22 03:35 PM
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Do you find chunky women attractive? ay bro speak for yourself. Good post though. Getting in greek god type of shape is massively impactful. I have a friend who's literally autistic and he's getting laid just off his looks. Can't hold a conversation for shit.
/r/TheRedPill28/11/22 11:13 AM
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I was in a similar situation, long-term relationships tend to do stuff like that to you. I started working out again, focusing on myself like a lot of people on here suggested, but it wasn't until I actually warmed up to approaching other women (not necessarily to cheat, but to have an option to cheat) is when something about my behavior changed so much that we started having sex again.
/r/TheRedPill25/11/22 04:25 PM
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What if my Asian gf has a 3 inch dick
/r/TheRedPill22/11/22 12:06 PM
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Asian females- feminine af and wifey material. you ever dated an asian girl lol?
/r/TheRedPill22/11/22 08:03 AM
6

I also remember a survey that was popular years ago where everyone preferred their own race first
/r/TheRedPill22/11/22 06:40 AM
1

Sooner or later you’ll find out you that will never get what you want as a beta. In many different aspects of life.
/r/TheRedPill21/11/22 05:36 PM
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Just do it bitch. And the next day do it again. And then do it again. All those fears will disappear as a result of work being put in, only the bravest get to breed.
/r/TheRedPill20/11/22 10:12 PM
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Ever since I got into the later stages of self improvement I started seeing the world the way women see it. Most men really don’t do anything extraordinary. They’re just “some guy” that has a mediocre existence, afraid to talk to women IRL so he just has a Tinder where he sends the most mediocre boring messages to women.. when 4 PM hits and they’re out of work, they go home to play video games or maybe if they’re feeling brave, they go out where they stand with their 5 other dude friends at the …
/r/TheRedPill19/11/22 07:47 AM
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In my experience, if you just fuck a woman and then get up and leave without any “aftercare”, she feels used. This doesn’t really fit into your theory of sex being comforting for them. It has no reason to be comforting from a natures point of view, she might be pregnant now and thus more vulnerable. If anything, right after sex she seeks out comfort.
/r/TheRedPill17/11/22 09:47 PM
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How are you on this sub every hour of the day
/r/TheRedPill17/11/22 09:41 PM
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This. Guy calls himself a 7 but if every picture was just a selfie and him holding a fish, there’s nothing interesting about him. Bros profile was probably shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/22 04:45 PM
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Why didn't you fuck her when you had the chance? Did she reject your advances? Sounds like either you had your chance and didn't act on it or she couldn't decide whether to fuck you or not.
/r/TheRedPill16/11/22 10:37 AM
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I don’t give a shit, get off your ass and stop being a loser.
/r/TheRedPill15/11/22 09:02 PM
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you need to start stacking some Ws. you gotta go and do some shit you're afraid of. like talking to a girl, getting a better job.. do something you've been putting off cause you're scared of it. it doesn't matter if you succeed or not, you just need to do it and fill your head with serotonin to convince your subconscious you're not a piece of shit.
/r/TheRedPill15/11/22 05:58 PM
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it literally can not. what are they gonna do? make fun of you? just talk bolder than them.
/r/TheRedPill15/11/22 03:40 PM
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You cracked the code. The most successful I've ever been was ironically when I was super busy with life, my mission, gym etc.
/r/TheRedPill15/11/22 01:52 PM
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I empathise with you, as I have been depressed in the past, but that’s no way to live, is it? At some point the video games won’t be fun and the weed won’t do anything, you’ll just be miserable day in and day out. If there’s really nothing you want make an arbitrary goal. Making music, starting a business.. no video game would be fun without quests right? These are just quests for your life.
/r/TheRedPill15/11/22 07:11 AM
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That’s very individual. Find something you want and build a plan to get it.
/r/TheRedPill14/11/22 10:32 PM
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I’m convinced a significant portion of people on here are autistic. This is not even ironic. I have a friend with Asperger’s and the way some of these rambling posts on here are structured and the train of thought behind them reminds me of the way he thinks/talks.
/r/TheRedPill12/11/22 03:35 PM
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I’m no veteran but sure, go ahead and DM
/r/TheRedPill08/11/22 10:27 PM
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Sounds like a chica that went the traditional conservative route after ste got old. Many fun girls who were hoeing around in their 20s go down this route. If you don’t believe me ask yourself this - if she had these “redpilled” ideals all her life, why isnt she married and with a bunch of kids already?
/r/TheRedPill08/11/22 09:22 PM
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If it was rejected it most likely wasn’t providing much value or it wasn’t up to standard. What did you post about?
/r/TheRedPill08/11/22 08:39 PM
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Girls with a time machine: I’m your granddaughter teehe Men with a time machine: NO, MODS! DON’T NUKE ASKTRP! NOBODY’S GONNA USE THE WEBSITE, THE MAIN SUB WILL JUST GET FLOODED WITH PERSONAL QUESTIONS!
/r/TheRedPill04/11/22 04:30 PM
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I am literally unable of constructive criticism
/r/TheRedPill04/11/22 02:09 PM
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I have compassion and empathy for OP. That's why I don't want him to waste his time on philosophical mental masturbation when the key to stop feeling like shit is actually action. Nobody ever thought his way out of depression, loneliness and other stuff. Discipline, working out, having a mission, going out and approaching women. I'm gonna shit on OP because I love him, not because I hate him.
/r/TheRedPill04/11/22 02:00 PM
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He'll have to decide for himself
/r/TheRedPill03/11/22 08:57 PM
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sadly he does not offer feet pics
/r/TheRedPill02/11/22 06:57 PM
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Seeing the comments under this post, it does seem I'm an outlier in the way my personality works. Eye opening for me as well. However I do hope this post could help someone with a similar personality I have who maybe is at higher risk like I am.
/r/TheRedPill02/11/22 05:40 PM
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you missed the part of the post where i did
/r/TheRedPill02/11/22 04:44 PM
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do you ever have sex on the bed as well or just on the table
/r/TheRedPill02/11/22 07:15 AM
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I think I need to delete that app, because it’s causing me to be in downward spiral of not eating right, staying up late (by texting other women), and causing doubt in my relationship. Also this sounds like me when I had a camgirl addiction lol I used to handle everything well then out of the blue, like one day a month, I suddenly went on this spree of sexting girls online, blowing money on girls that I couldn't afford to blow, not actually wanting to cum, just making it last a long time because…
/r/TheRedPill02/11/22 06:47 AM
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I think it's something every man experiences.. we're not exactly built for monogamy. I personally don't see anything wrong with wanting to cheat on your LTR, it's a bit like the male version of AWALT, a little secret that the other sex doesn't know or doesn't want to believe. Going on bumble and exchanging some nudes is like the tamest version to release this urge. Way better than going out and actually cheating. Have you considered that maybe you find your LTR boring? Or not sexually satisfying…
/r/TheRedPill02/11/22 06:42 AM
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Here's a pro tip. You don't usually quit porn, procrastination or other vices in order to be productive. It's the other way around. When you become so busy and so mission driven in your life, not watching porn will be easy because you'll forget to even want to watch porn. You need to be on a mission from the minute you wake up, to the minute you go to sleep. Always doing something to further one of your goals.
/r/TheRedPill01/11/22 05:25 PM
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Do you think it's possible to train your game while married? I'm in a LTR that I got into pretty early into my game days and I'm 5 years in and still happy. I wanna work on my game though.
/r/TheRedPill31/10/22 06:07 AM
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absolutely. Expanding your mind is nice, but it can turn into mental masturbation quickly.
/r/TheRedPill27/10/22 01:25 PM
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"I don't approach..", "I have no idea what I'd say..", "I think.." Sounds like you need to get out there and get emberased a few times to figure out what stuff really works and what doesn't.
/r/TheRedPill27/10/22 12:25 PM
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You should be focused on your mission first and foremost, do these things only to fill up the time when you can't work towards your goals anymore cause it's healthier than playing video games.
/r/TheRedPill27/10/22 12:20 PM
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They were all your average friendly conversations. One example that went very well was a really cute alt girl that frequented the same cafe I did, she shaved her whole head recently and it was summer. As I was passing by I said "wow that's gotta feel really good in this weather." She was like "yess totally, it's so good.." Then I kinda bounced off of that and we talked about the fact that she studied to be an actor, how the film industry is outside of hollywood blah blah If you're talking to som…
/r/TheRedPill27/10/22 07:39 AM
2

This should be stickied somewhere
/r/TheRedPill27/10/22 06:23 AM
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Read Models by Mark Manson
/r/seduction27/10/22 05:23 AM
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Damn, that's a really good life story. What I find interesting is how late in life you started (don't get this the wrong way lol not calling you old) especially in a culture where if you don't have your life figured out by 20 you feel like a failure. Thanks for sharing, I believe this is yours, king 🫴👑
/r/TheRedPill26/10/22 07:53 PM
2

I always try to make friends with the staff, especially since baristas are always cute. Regulars too, but I just try to talk to everyone that has something interesting going on. Like a piece of clothing that I like or they're working on something interesting.
/r/TheRedPill26/10/22 06:11 PM
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You need to find a metric you can measure daily that accurately represents you moving closer towards the desired outcome. If you're struggling to make a connection, try measuring how many people you have a really good conversation with about something great. In your case this wouldn't be only with strangers, but you could talk to your already established acquaintances and friends to see if there's something you both have in common. The other day I found out that a girl from my gym that I talk to…
/r/TheRedPill26/10/22 06:06 PM
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A club of any kind where there's a shared interest among the members should make socialisation easier. However I've met plenty of people in cafes.
/r/TheRedPill26/10/22 05:37 PM
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Perhaps diminish is a strong word, but isolation does take you out of the flow a little
/r/seduction26/10/22 04:27 PM
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Sigma is something losers invented to justify staying in their comfort zone and play video games all day
/r/TheRedPill26/10/22 04:08 PM
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This was the most retarded thing I've read all morning, congratulations.
/r/seduction26/10/22 09:38 AM
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I think it kind of comes from the whole Madonna - whore complex a lot of nice guys have.
/r/seduction25/10/22 10:09 PM
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While this is true it's extremely important that nobody on here falls into the "oh I'll start approaching women when I get buff enough". No. Start approaching today, WHILE you're upgrading your looks. Even if you're an ugly skinnyfat bastard.
/r/seduction23/10/22 07:47 PM
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what's he in for
/r/seduction23/10/22 06:09 PM
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No specific answer here, maybe give her some space and time and then come back saying "let's hang". Make sure you don't do any unattractive shit like that thing at your job. Also be careful not to get killed when her man gets out of jail, I've heard that story over and over.
/r/seduction23/10/22 05:30 PM
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Get good with girls in general lol.. there's no one thing
/r/TheRedPill22/10/22 07:28 AM
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if you don't have that issue just go out alone
/r/seduction20/10/22 12:15 PM
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only if you make it look creepy
/r/seduction20/10/22 11:59 AM
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why is everyone on here so obsessed with wingmen.. just go out alone?
/r/seduction20/10/22 08:16 AM
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You’re telling me that everyone wants to be an asshole I'm saying everyone wants to fuck a lot of hot women but nobody wants to be an asshole even though it obviously works and I'm saying the reason is because they're scared of the repercussions. It's nature's way of telling you how you should evolve as a person. a meek guy working in software development is going to give [...] a more stable and comfortable life Why? Because of his 100k/yr salary? Would you enjoy hanging out with someone who bor…
/r/seduction20/10/22 08:13 AM
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Ask yourself a question and be honest with yourself - if being an asshole works, why do so many nice/decent guys on here just don't act like assholes to become more successful with women. Perhaps an answer that will first come to mind is something along the lines of "oh well I have standards for myself." But I believe this is just an excuse the brain makes up as an afterthought, not the real subconscious reason. the real subconscious reason is that it actually takes some courage and balls to be …
/r/seduction20/10/22 07:36 AM
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I'm trynna find a girl that doesn't suck any less over time (this is a joke about oral sex)
/r/TheRedPill19/10/22 09:45 PM
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Not true! If you do it for long enough and it becomes a habit, it becomes slightly easier
/r/TheRedPill19/10/22 05:14 AM
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same thing rings true for pickup
/r/TheRedPill16/10/22 09:15 AM
5

Models by Mark Manson comes to mind
/r/TheRedPill14/10/22 05:36 AM
1

I've heard that the job market in the us is shit.
/r/TheRedPill13/10/22 05:14 AM
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Shut up about Tate already. There's no discussion to be had on him, people come in with their mind already made up whether he's a grifter or the next Jesus and just come on this sub to vomit out arguments supporting their own belief.
/r/TheRedPill12/10/22 05:10 PM
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You're on a good path i think
/r/TheRedPill10/10/22 06:12 PM
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Nothing wrong with that, I'd still live at home today (I'm 25) if my parents weren't straight up evil people and I wasn't in an LTR. But please be aware money won't solve all your problems. If you can't pull girls while broke, when you get rich you'll only be able to attract them using your money. And you don't want that. You wanna attract them using your chaistma, your demeanor, your attitude towards live, and yes even your looks, all stuff you can't just buy with money, you have to work for it…
/r/TheRedPill10/10/22 04:56 PM
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live a dope life and fuck some girls
/r/TheRedPill10/10/22 03:57 PM
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what does that have to do with my comment
/r/TheRedPill10/10/22 03:56 PM
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Young men on here, whatever your opinion on the matter, please don't use the whole "women are homemakers" thing as an excuse to not clean how to cook, clean and wipe your own ass.
/r/TheRedPill10/10/22 03:55 PM
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The thing with porn and masturbation addiction is that it works the other way round - you don't quit porn to be more productive. You start being more productive to quit porn. Fill your days with stuff to do. Ideally something productive like working out, working on school stuff, side hustle to make some money.. if there's nothing to do, go hang out with your friends. If you don't have friends to hang out with, go meet new people, sign up for a martial arts class, just limit the amount of time yo…
/r/TheRedPill09/10/22 10:24 AM
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I wish I had a fireplace :( Not because of sex with women, I love the sound of it, it's so relaxing.
/r/TheRedPill09/10/22 06:32 AM
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Go out to a bar and talk to a stranger. Preferably a girl. Don't try to pull, don't try to get a number just have a friendly chat with a stranger. I know the type of loneliness you're talking about, this should help.
/r/TheRedPill08/10/22 07:26 PM
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Ayy it's like I'm reading a post about myself! Don't worry, it's normal these days to be raised to be an extreme beta. The shit I did in middle school and high school makes me want to vomit when I think back on it. - I paid for girls' groceries when we hung out - I had a long distance relationship with a chick from overseas that I never met once - I had a hot girl interested in me but I fucked up by just being my beta self - I would text with girls online endlessly because I was too afraid to ac…
/r/TheRedPill08/10/22 05:50 PM
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Same, was sexless for a while in a 4-year relationship. Re-read some of my favorite redpill books while on a trip, when I came back, I started gaming her. Sex came right back. It's never the women, you do it to yourself lol
/r/TheRedPill07/10/22 11:25 AM
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looks like nobody on here is ready to swallow the peg-pill yet
/r/TheRedPill04/10/22 02:17 PM
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honey, wake up, GLO posted
/r/TheRedPill03/10/22 02:47 PM
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I'd actually argue it's a lot like making a living off of music. Video games, music, porn, YouTube videos.. everything that's consumed on a "want" basis and not a "need" basis is very similar in the hurdles you need to overcome even though the product is significantly different. /u/I_Am_Steven good analogy
/r/TheRedPill02/10/22 04:17 PM
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Ay bro I'm sorry you had to go to Vietnam or whatever but things aren't exactly peachy now either.
/r/TheRedPill02/10/22 03:29 PM
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Okay but in your original comment you made it seem like any girl can just go online and get a consistent stream of money from men from day one.
/r/TheRedPill02/10/22 02:19 PM
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Much like any other business, the vast majority don't earn a liveable wage and as you get closer to the top 1% of OnlyFans girls, that's where the real money starts to show.
/r/TheRedPill02/10/22 01:54 PM
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Good post, however it's super obvious it was written in the post-war economic boom of the 50s That's why it's so easy to make a living today. It takes no particular talent to make a living and support a family today. Not that easy these days Edit: Have to add this here - don't live as a victim and always try your best whatever the environment. I'm just pointing out that it's funny how it aged.
/r/TheRedPill02/10/22 07:46 AM
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Nobody on here owes you any proof lol You're on a sub filled with incredible free material. All you gotta do to have anything you've ever wanted in life is to follow it. And then you'll have your proof.
/r/TheRedPill30/09/22 04:31 PM
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Go continually fallate some women in real life, holy shit, why are we even having this discussion.
/r/TheRedPill28/09/22 02:59 AM
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They're not necessarily attracted to evil traits.. nice guys are manipulative and scheming because they're evil. But they're pussies, so women don't wanna have anything to do with them. It's just that if you've got a lot of confidence, you make use of it (most likely, because we're all humans) by getting things for yourself and using it for your personal gain. The average pushover male looks at this and thinks: "What the fuck? He can't just go and get the things he wants! He has to pussyfoot aro…
/r/TheRedPill28/09/22 02:57 AM
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that's just called being married
/r/seduction27/09/22 03:46 PM
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Yeah fair enough, haven't dated a whole lot of bi girls to know. Thanks!
/r/seduction27/09/22 03:45 PM
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I guess I should be looking for a good actress then hah
/r/seduction27/09/22 10:28 AM
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Based
/r/seduction27/09/22 10:12 AM
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I did get some pussy when I was a tall lanky nerdy kid most of high school. Because I was so socially unaware that I just talked to chicks. I figured I gotta ask them out if I wanna date them and it worked. I couldn't believe it myself.
/r/seduction27/09/22 05:55 AM
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touches your tummy
/r/seduction27/09/22 04:50 AM
1

Yes, positive changes were immediate and then over time things just got better and better
/r/seduction27/09/22 04:33 AM
1

I want a book on expanding my dong, you got anything for that?
/r/seduction26/09/22 05:30 PM
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True. I recommend the book Models by Mark Manson. It goes into more detail about this and actually explains the why and how
/r/seduction26/09/22 04:33 PM
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First of all - attractive people get rejected all the time. It's not humanly possible to be everyone's type. And sometimes they like you and it's just not the right time. You don't know what they're going through. Second of all - social progressive overload. Start by talking to 1 stranger a day. Doesn't matter about what, but it has to be a full on conversation, not just a "good morning" or "I'll pay using my credit card". Do one a day consistently (this is key). So every day you talk to someone…
/r/seduction26/09/22 08:19 AM
1

Wow I wear Doc Martens AND listen to grunge.
/r/seduction26/09/22 05:55 AM
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I used to be self conscious about glasses so much that I would wear contacts every time I knew I was going to be interacting with attractive women that day. Especially since at the start of my pickup journey, a girl told me "she'd go out with me if I wore contacts". I did get contacts and managed to fuck her. Most likely not because of contacts but because of other things she liked about me. But later on, I started getting IOIs even when I was wearing my glasses. I was like "what the hell, this …
/r/seduction26/09/22 05:45 AM
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Mystery and Strauss studied naturals as well, they just decided to copy their behavior instead of trying to develop it for themselves. A lot of comments underneath this post talk about how actions is much better than any book and I absolutely agree. And in fact, Models talks about this and urges the reader to take action. It also talks about buffers, about how you should ask women out instead of reading pickup books..
/r/seduction25/09/22 09:16 AM
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Ye
/r/seduction25/09/22 07:20 AM
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I mean the comment you're replying to is a joke first of all. Second of all, it works wonders for pickup, you just have to get "it" right. The author himself was pretty good at pickup.
/r/seduction23/09/22 11:30 AM
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I too was having a lot of sex before Models. With female girls. Hot ones, 10s mostly, some 9s once in a while.
/r/seduction23/09/22 10:28 AM
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Everyone on here should read Models by Mark Manson
/r/seduction23/09/22 07:05 AM
16

Okay that's your choice and I'm not here to criticize personal choices. HOWEVER - you do see why this post looks like a product of a bedroom philosopher who enjoys mental masturbation as a buffer so he feels like he doesn't have to approach chicks. How do you know you've had enough experience to draw any correct conclusions or create elaborate models and theories like the one in your post? You wouldn't take fitness advice from a guy who can't even bench his own bodyweight and looks like a twig. …
/r/TheRedPill22/09/22 10:34 AM
20

How is this gonna help me bang more chicks
/r/TheRedPill22/09/22 10:02 AM
6

I think the question is in order tbh.
/r/TheRedPill22/09/22 09:53 AM
4

I love degeneracy, allows me to fuck more women.
/r/TheRedPill22/09/22 06:05 AM
62

80% of both is better than 100+0 This is true for many things in life.
/r/TheRedPill21/09/22 02:46 PM
2

Take her out of NYC, she'll be grateful
/r/seduction21/09/22 08:10 AM
1

I really don't think it's because women are more picky. I think it's that men are more asocial because they interact in real life less (videogames, porn, social media) and became awkward blobs of sadness. If women were more picky why do they still fuck skinny tattooed drug dealers with nothing going for them in life?
/r/seduction21/09/22 08:04 AM
6

He's got better game than you, don't take it personally. Get better at pickup so you don't have to get into situations like this.
/r/seduction21/09/22 07:59 AM
1

She could've been checking you out and was just too shy to interact, or you caught her off guard or whatever. You mentioned you usually approach girls at the gym in a friendly manner.. which kinda implies you approached this girl in a different manner. Maybe you were trying too hard to be pickup-y instead of just trying to have a conversation with a woman Or she really did not like you and was just staring at you for whatever reason. Could be anything, at the end of the day, it doesn't really ma…
/r/seduction21/09/22 07:55 AM
6

Kittens are cute though so this situation was an overall positive
/r/TheRedPill20/09/22 06:01 AM
25

Really good post. From the title I thought this was another incel post that's gonna be bitching about women but I was proven wrong. Very good observations, actionable advice as well.
/r/TheRedPill19/09/22 03:40 PM
13

Okay, first of all - Additionally in such a femcentric prosperous society, HB9’s will become much more common ..what? By what logic? And second of all: Maybe an unpopular opinion, but the better I got with getting women to bed, the more this idea of a "holy crusade" of masculinity we're on against the big evil feminist imperative seems like cringe, peddled mostly by people who want men in the anger phase to buy a course on how to be alpha. The common man doesn't want to be saved, they all want t…
/r/TheRedPill19/09/22 02:20 PM
5

Maybe you need to learn to find enjoyment in stuff other than purely intellectual conversation
/r/seduction19/09/22 06:39 AM
3

Boring conversation is a turn off. Figure out what would be fun to talk about with that particular woman
/r/seduction19/09/22 05:43 AM
1

Yeah I didn't exactly mean so awkward that it's embarrassing
/r/seduction18/09/22 01:24 PM
2

lmao okay be the victim then
/r/seduction18/09/22 08:31 AM
1

This guy is gonna make it.
/r/seduction18/09/22 07:57 AM
2

I've got a friend who's autistic so he's got zero game. Nada. However because he's autistic and has no problem with repetitive boring stuff like workouts and diets, he managed to build up a really good body. 8% body fat, absolutely shredded.. he gets looks from women everytime we're outside. I've heard from girls that they absolutely DO wanna fuck him. However - he still hasn't had sex. He just can't talk to women at all. He freezes up, he's awkward.. He built that body up thinking women would f…
/r/seduction18/09/22 07:55 AM
7

It's a shit test so all the shit test rules apply. Agree & Amplify or ignore or basically reaffirm frame DON'T try to validate yourself to her at that point
/r/seduction17/09/22 10:25 PM
11

Guys don't really give a fuck about whether a girl is shy or not in my experience. Maybe if you see a guy you like staring at you try smiling at him. Or better yet, start a friendly conversation. You don't need to necessarily ask him out, just give him a little push. Then hopefully he picks it up and delivers on your expectations of trying to date you.
/r/seduction17/09/22 10:21 PM
1

Nice fantasy, you gotta game a women
/r/seduction17/09/22 04:47 PM
4

Idk man, direct approach has never been my cup of tea. I usually first make friends with the girl whenever I meet one out, if you're attractive enough and don't fuck it up you can go from "friends" with a girl (not friendzoned) to fuckbuddy really fast. Ofc you're showing intentions when you first meet her as well, only in a more subtle way to keep her guessing. Granted, it does take weeks or months but I find it's more my style to bang chicks and build up a rotation. But to each their own.
/r/seduction17/09/22 10:18 AM
2

at a certain point it'd be easier to just talk to a woman and wing it based on what you already know than studying pickup so much
/r/seduction17/09/22 09:18 AM
6

This needs to be put in a post and stickied. A lot of guys on here go for direct day game as their first attempt at talking to women for whatever fuckin reason
/r/seduction17/09/22 09:08 AM
2

This guy is gonna make it
/r/seduction17/09/22 09:06 AM
1

Only metric that matters
/r/seduction17/09/22 09:04 AM
6

Do you wear anything underneath?
/r/seduction17/09/22 09:02 AM
2

Bro became the game guru. Bro reading the seduction scrolls. The women Wikipedia.
/r/seduction17/09/22 09:02 AM
1

That edit you added in the end is very improtant
/r/seduction17/09/22 08:57 AM
23

No, don't do any deep thought. Get out there and talk to women, adjust your plan based on what you experience
/r/seduction17/09/22 08:53 AM
1

There's a difference between being friendzoned vs being friends with a girl that would potentially fuck you
/r/seduction17/09/22 08:53 AM
6

we outsourcing game to AI now
/r/seduction17/09/22 08:52 AM
44

I don't know you personally but here's a list of things that might be problem: - have you even tried to get to know a girl? - maybe you care too much what people think and come off as needy/desperate? - maybe you say the wrong things when talking to girl (lack of game)? - maybe you're going out with the explicit purpose of getting numbers/lays instead of just enjoying the moment - maybe you're not focused on a mission that doesn't involve girls first and foremost
/r/seduction17/09/22 08:50 AM
8

Wonderful joke Steven. Say hi to Angela and the kids from me.
/r/TheRedPill16/09/22 03:36 PM
10

Important to note - you absolutely should be a person that's high in conscientiousness (the one personality trait that predicts success more accurately than any other, including IQ). Meaning whatever task you set to yourself, big or small, you're able to do, without ruining the process by procrastination or being on your phone or whatever. However what this post talks about is - don't do too much for your bosses who make a dollar for every dime you make. Save that energy for your own side-hustle…
/r/TheRedPill16/09/22 10:19 AM
11

When you start gaming women a bulk of the girls you fuck are gonna be huge hoes lol
/r/TheRedPill15/09/22 06:20 AM
7

If you've got high SMV your female friends will wanna fuck you, speaking from experience. There's a difference between being friends with a girl and being friendzoned. Think about how you got your first girlfriend in school.
/r/TheRedPill15/09/22 06:07 AM
1

OP literally posted about something he learned the other day. He's slept with 0 women so far, he got a couple of Instagrams that went nowhere and he's peddling old school PUA scripts that have long fallen out of favor. And from that he's determined if he'll approach 7 sets a day, he'll bang 11 girls a year and that's somehow awesome. Those are my problems with the post, it IS just another bullshit theory post.
/r/TheRedPill14/09/22 09:31 PM
8

When you've never gotten attention from women, just being able to walk up to them and get a fake number so you fuck off and leave em alone feels great, but you need to hold yourself to a higher standard. Lays are the only thing that counts.
/r/TheRedPill14/09/22 09:24 PM
2

I second this - live through everything you preach about, never post on here to stroke your ego
/r/TheRedPill14/09/22 09:23 PM
2

Never read Models but I might now, I just thought it was another old school PUA book
/r/TheRedPill14/09/22 06:26 PM
9

I'm not a fan of Mystery and his technical approach to game. I personally have seen more success by befriending girls first and then escalating to a sexual relationship rather than going this formal "hey, let's exchange numbers" obvious route. Cause then they know you're there to just bang them and they put their filter up. Going the social circle route seems to be the most natural way of going about things.
/r/TheRedPill14/09/22 04:12 PM
17

I've got friends who aren't particularly attractive and go on Tinder and get that many lays from rainbow colored hoes who put out for everyone who isn't a complete bitch.
/r/TheRedPill14/09/22 03:04 PM
37

Not trying to shit on you, it's great that you've begun going on this journey, so just understand my comment as a different view on your situation: Even If i have a success ratio of 0.4 % in 2597 sets.. that translates to 11/10 in a year. (Not bad for a newbie) Those are some horrible odds.. And that's provided you do 7 approaches a day per year without fail. No getting sick, no depression from the constant rejection, no feeling to tired to go out. I can't imagine grinding my ass off like that e…
/r/TheRedPill14/09/22 03:02 PM
17

It's gonna teach them a lesson about looking up to people who have a course to sell
/r/TheRedPill13/09/22 10:01 PM
9

Mom said if she sees one more Tate post she's shutting off the whole sub for a week
/r/TheRedPill13/09/22 10:00 PM
1

I'm a bit let down. When I read the title I thought it's going to be about how some chicks will absolutely hate you before falling really hard in love with you, which I think is a more entertaining topic than whatever OP was trying to say.
/r/TheRedPill11/09/22 07:14 AM
4

If anything men were unaware of the game because they thought just because they married a girl, they secured sex/compassion/a supportive partner forever, much like you seem to think it worked. But just because she's married to you, doesn't mean she's not gonna turn into a huge burden as soon as she starts getting bored of you.
/r/TheRedPill10/09/22 01:30 PM
3

It's called conscientiousness. It's the ability of doing what you know you should, instead of what feels good. The good thing is that it's a trainable skill and when you start getting good at it, you get good at every other faucet of life.
/r/TheRedPill10/09/22 08:54 AM
6

I had a friend who was going through something similar, turns out he was just depressed, that's why the libido wasn't there
/r/TheRedPill10/09/22 08:52 AM
66

Good shit. Too many men love to wallow in self pity because they think if they whine enough it's gonna unlock an easier path to what they want. Guess what, that only works if you're a woman. Go to sleep early tonight, tomorrow is Saturday, that means we're grinding even harder.
/r/TheRedPill09/09/22 08:25 PM
2

You think just cause she says yes she won't go back on that?
/r/TheRedPill08/09/22 07:24 AM
9

I'm not afraid of today's climate. If they accuse me of sexual harassment I'll just die in a shootout with police you feel me?
/r/TheRedPill07/09/22 10:26 PM
15

When I was younger and a kisless virgin, I applied this same logic when I was about to kiss a girl. The timing was right, the tension was there and then I'd ask "Can I kiss you?" They'd always turn away and say no. I was talking about this struggle to another female friend of mine at school and she laughed it off like I was messing around "You asked 'can I kiss you?' what a funny guy you are" I got my first kiss when I pushed through without asking and just went it for it. Funnily enough, as I w…
/r/TheRedPill07/09/22 10:06 PM
1

Even if you think women have no use for you cause they can't love you, remember that women are a commodity of power if not anything else. If you know how to attract women, you're respected. You can get favors from both women and men. Much like a good body or intelligence it's not something that can be bought with money and VERY valuable.
/r/TheRedPill07/09/22 05:16 PM
1

I think you just figured something out
/r/TheRedPill07/09/22 02:13 PM
2

Bro was thinking a chess club (too much Andrew Tate)
/r/TheRedPill07/09/22 09:28 AM
6

I was in a relationship once where I wasn't having sex because we were at the 3 year mark and I had no idea what I was doing. And this chick, all while she was rejecting my every sexual advance, told me how much she loved me all the time and she said she didn't want me to ever die so we could live together forever.
/r/TheRedPill07/09/22 05:40 AM
4

You're right. What's interesting is that almost all men are born with these assumptions and they don't want to let go.
/r/TheRedPill07/09/22 05:36 AM
195

After my grandpa died, my grandma didn't cry, she just said "he was alright, he took care of the family". She didn't love in the slightest, he was the average beta provider society is full of today, only difference is she had to stick with him for 50 years because she'd die if she didn't. And mind you he was a tough guy, he worked in a steel plant. Pre-1960s, marriage was a way to survive the world and the only practical way to raise children. It didn't make her love you, it wouldn't have provid…
/r/TheRedPill06/09/22 05:48 PM
26

Women hated weak men even when men made all the money. If anything, with women coming into the workplace, we just got a clearer picture of what's actually going on with hypergamy. Men are fucking stupid and think that just because in the 1900s your wife didn't leave you (because she'd starve to death if she did) doesn't mean she respected you for anything more than an ATM and that she didn't cheat on you while you were in the factory for 18 hours a day.
/r/TheRedPill06/09/22 03:04 PM
85

I mean, you're not back on square one. You've got all this information you've accumulated over the last 3 years. Usually it takes a few tries to fully digest the redpill. I thought I had swallowed it at some point just to get into a LTR and forget about it which cost me my relationship
/r/TheRedPill06/09/22 06:12 AM
3

They just work like that lol.
/r/TheRedPill05/09/22 06:21 AM
26

Use it tomorrow. No excuses. Gotta get that grind on.
/r/TheRedPill04/09/22 04:59 PM
111

Good post. When I was in high school, I was a lanky nerd with glasses, I dressed like absolute shit and spent my days behind a computer screen. However I had so little social awareness that I really didn't give a fuck and I'd just talk to girls around school. I was pretty funny and didn't give much of a shit so I actually managed to get a few of them into bed effortlessly (I couldn't believe it myself) Then when I first found this subreddit I became so self conscious about my behavior (I realize…
/r/TheRedPill03/09/22 10:21 PM
3

Sounds like the girl was the problem lol
/r/TheRedPill02/09/22 02:46 PM
2

Maybe his game was just better? He gave her better tingles than you did. Guys who have killer game usually work shit jobs cause they have their sexual needs met. Why work your ass off when you can get pussy just by pulling on the right strings of her emotions.
/r/TheRedPill02/09/22 09:46 AM
5

I'm trynna be like the millionaire guy
/r/TheRedPill02/09/22 09:24 AM
11

Absolutely true. I guess you gotta split your time in the long run between "building purpose" and "enjoying the fruits". Can't do both at once.
/r/TheRedPill31/08/22 06:25 PM
4

It's not like that everywhere. I've been to the US and I live and also traveled through Europe. Social programs and the fact that you're not expected to move out at 18 sharp really does impact the dating scene. Feels like women in Europe are more genuine about what they want, and they mostly want fun. I personally know a happy couple where the girl is 25 and lives at her parents place, he also lives at his parents, he doesn't even have a car and they're genuinely happy together. And she's not so…
/r/seduction31/08/22 10:32 AM
15

Yeah but that's not really a realistic fantasy. No one looks like that just cause of "good genetics". It seems both sexes are born with unrealistic fantasies about the other sex. Men think women will love them for who they are when all of them are opportunistic manipulators. Women think there's men that effortlessly navigate through life when they're all either lazy or they have to bust their fucking ass off daily.
/r/TheRedPill28/08/22 11:18 PM
2

well you having a catholic background shouldn't be a problem by itself I think
/r/seduction28/08/22 10:32 AM
12

If you do that, you're doing yourself a disservice by conditioning your brain into a nice guy way of thinking. "If I become what they expect of me, I'll get sex". However yes, you might not get laid, but you'll be true to yourself and that's a respectable trait. Also OP fuck you if you're a homophobic piece of shit! Hope this helps.
/r/seduction28/08/22 09:33 AM
2

You can but you can't post stories and it's overall pretty limited
/r/TheRedPill27/08/22 04:42 PM
24

I usually print the week's top posts out and read them at a cafe like a newspaper
/r/TheRedPill27/08/22 02:00 PM
20

Isn't it better to just develop the self discipline to not check your phone all the time? I used to be addicted and thought about downgrading to a shitty old phone, but I managed to get my screen time from 6 hours a day to 1 hour a day consistently. Things like Instagram are nice to have in order to bang chicks, as long as you're only producing content for people to drool over and not using it to consume. But I still think it would be pretty cool to have one of those feature flip phones
/r/TheRedPill27/08/22 01:38 PM
1

Really good advice
/r/seduction26/08/22 03:34 PM
1

The difference is those deadbeats are okay with being deadbeats that's where their confidence comes from.
/r/seduction26/08/22 06:25 AM
1

Feels like there's a significant portion of autistic people on this sub.
/r/seduction25/08/22 08:03 PM
2

You shouldn't ever do anything just to get girls.. that includes working out, socializing and everything
/r/seduction24/08/22 08:21 PM
76

This subreddit really is a trip
/r/TheRedPill24/08/22 08:31 AM
7

Bro just straight up plugged his mixtape. I'd suggest try a bunch of shit. Nobody is just one thing first and foremost. Okay, you're a musician. But you might find out you enjoy other shit as well. I thought I was gonna end up as a videogame developer and now I run a company that makes B2B software (the money is def better).
/r/TheRedPill23/08/22 10:06 AM
-3

Because I don't have the time to argue about this shit so half assed opinions will have to suffice. If you like him good on you.
/r/TheRedPill23/08/22 09:34 AM
43

Bro made a whole post because people here shat on daddy Tate. Since when was The Red Pill about feel-good "feminists owned" one-liners that Andrew Tate provides? I don't know a whole lot about him, I don't watch his content but from what I've seen about him (you can't really escape his clips these days) he just looks like a guy who will say and do attention grabbing shit in order to sell his course, much like Mystery did 15 years ago. What value does his content exactly provide? He sits on podca…
/r/TheRedPill23/08/22 08:32 AM
3

I did make a lot of friends girls included. I started while already in a relationship and didn't want to cheat so I never had the chance to try it out to get a love interest to be fully transparent with you. However people on here and people I personally know who've "made it" did the same thing.
/r/seduction23/08/22 07:15 AM
2

3rd shifts suck yeah Gun hobbies are actually an advantage I think. A gun range is a really interesting date idea. Both exciting and memorable, much better than a restaurant or a coffee lol. You can go out to bars just for some lemonade and to talk to people or read a book, idk, make it work. Maybe if you've got cafes around, you can go there too. Just go where people go to socialize. And if you're somewhere where people don't usually socialize (restaurant, grocery store) still talk to everyone,…
/r/seduction23/08/22 06:58 AM
1

It really is all in your head my boy. I was insecure even when I had some success with women because I still felt like a loser. Also I think it's pretty funny you sign your reddit comments. - R
/r/seduction23/08/22 06:33 AM
2

Yeah maybe OP should try just chit chatting with strangers at first. The stakes aren't as high and the exchange will be probably more pleasant to both sides of the interaction. If you only talk to girls in order to get their number you won't have as much success.
/r/seduction23/08/22 06:30 AM
4

Start working from cafes instead of your home, pay for a table in a coworking space (good way to meet interesting people in your field) Talk to people *everywhere* you go both male and female, at the gym you go to, go out to a bar at times, try to talk to strangers and have a little chat with them. This is what I did
/r/seduction23/08/22 06:27 AM
1

What everyone on here is talking about is a specific type of confidence you learn by experience in socializing
/r/seduction23/08/22 06:23 AM
15

This is because I work from home and my hobbies involve men only such as gym and sport. This is a bullshit excuse. If you wanted to, you'd find a way to get yourself out there, find some hobbies, go out to bars (even if alone) on Friday.. online dating is the biggest pile of shit, I know some people can get it to work, but almost all success I've had was in real life for me. Going out will also help you with depression.
/r/seduction23/08/22 06:16 AM
3

Motherfucker acts like an over the top caricature in order to sell his course, just like Mystery did 15 years ago. His content provides nothing of substance instead of feel-good "feminists get owned" and "look how manly I am" one liners that don't actually help you with anything but of course many people on here gobble that shit up. But what would I know, I'm gay for drinking still water.
/r/TheRedPill23/08/22 06:08 AM
4

He knows his target audience
/r/TheRedPill23/08/22 06:05 AM
-2

The average man won't get results by walking up to a woman at a bar and explaining how "females" shouldn't have rights. You don't talk about fight club. He's setting up these kids to be bitter against women instead of being Casanovas.
/r/TheRedPill23/08/22 06:04 AM
11

my boy has 30% body fat damn
/r/TheRedPill23/08/22 05:49 AM
2

Actually good take.
/r/seduction22/08/22 01:04 PM
3

Once I changed all of this and started socializing like a normal guy, women were almost too easy. Same. People on here really need to hear this part.
/r/seduction22/08/22 11:14 AM
1

I wouldn't say celebrities have a healthy social circle. Didn't Mystery once say that celebrities are easy to pick up cause they're so lonely?
/r/TheRedPill22/08/22 07:42 AM
4

Hey dude, my friend went through something so similar that I had to check your account to see if you're not him lol Block him and don't talk to him. If he shows up at your workplace or whatever, just firmly but calmly tell him "hey dude I don't wanna talk to you anymore". Don't get scared of him cause that's all he really has on you.
/r/TheRedPill22/08/22 07:39 AM
1

Future is the king of beta bucks
/r/TheRedPill21/08/22 08:20 PM
6

May Allah destroy these thots
/r/TheRedPill21/08/22 08:15 PM
0

As if that would somehow prevent hypergamy from her looking at upgrading her man
/r/TheRedPill21/08/22 05:57 PM
2

Shit way to meet women but fun as hell nevertheless
/r/seduction21/08/22 01:37 PM
27

Homie if you went out to a bar and chatted to another woman, you don't even have to try to fuck her, just have a friendly talk with a stranger, you'd feel so much better and you'd realize that this "emotional connection" is everywhere around you .
/r/TheRedPill20/08/22 09:55 AM
23

Long distance is a no go at all from me, sorry to say dude. I've been there, believe me, it's not worth it.
/r/TheRedPill20/08/22 08:32 AM
37

Story as old as time. Jealous women will either fuck you more to get your attention back, or they'll leave, but if you're not getting enough sex in the relationship I think that's a risk worth taking. Worst case scenario, you find a different hoe that will actually want to fuck you. However you can only pull this off when you're not completely socially retarded which is a part of what the whole redpill thing teaches
/r/TheRedPill20/08/22 07:37 AM
52

Yeah but you can use this to your advantage. You can emotionally cheat. This is why women get jealous of their man's dog or similar shit. Spend time with other people/women, even if it's just as friends (as long as you give it some ambiguity) and if you've got a woman that's emotionally invested in you, she's gonna feel dread from that as well.
/r/TheRedPill20/08/22 06:58 AM
6

Do what you were doing before only with slightly more attention and comfort providing towards her. Remember, nobody's every gone to couples therapy saying that there isn't enough beta stuff in the relationship. 90% of the time it's "Oh everything is fine EXCEPT there's no sex"
/r/TheRedPill19/08/22 08:11 PM
7

If a woman is in that kind of position then it's mostly as random as a coin flip if she will leave or not. In my experience
/r/TheRedPill19/08/22 07:08 PM
14

Nobody has given up on anything. I've been in an LTR for 4 years with a woman who's definitely LTR material. Someone you'd maybe call an "exception" to LTR beliefs. But I'm still aware she'd leave me for someone better if the situation was right or if I stopped gaming her this long into the relationship. Speaking from experience. So no, I'm very appreciative of the few "normal" women out there, but I'm not gonna believe in fairytales.
/r/TheRedPill19/08/22 06:59 PM
4

My boy quantum shit spewing out straight facts
/r/TheRedPill09/08/22 07:31 PM
1

..the core of who you are (personal beliefs, attitude towards life) are not affected by external factors. Here's an interesting thought - if this is the definition of stoicism, many of us were (funnily enough) stoics in our beta days already. Or at least I did. The only difference is - the core that wasn't able to be shaken by external factors was a negative one instead of a positive one. I personally had a horrible self image. I thought of myself as someone who's weak and who's unable to get gi…
/r/TheRedPill09/08/22 10:31 AM
3

First things first - def quit drugs
/r/TheRedPill09/08/22 10:24 AM
32

Get a gym membership. Free shower very day.
/r/TheRedPill07/08/22 10:35 AM
3

Jokes on him I LEFT high school in 2016. That's right I'm a big boy
/r/TheRedPill07/08/22 08:20 AM
24

Ay maybe this is an unpopular opinion on here, but if you take joy in some sort of revenge against sluts, where they "get what they deserve", you've got some shit inside you that hasn't been sorted out. If you're angry at women for acting a certain way, it means you expect them to act a certain way. If you expect them to act a certain way, especially if that way is very different from what they act like in real life, you haven't fully understood/accepted female behavior. Or you're still hoping t…
/r/TheRedPill06/08/22 11:02 PM
1

If you wanna stay single go for it, but don't hide from talking to women
/r/TheRedPill06/08/22 10:54 PM
0

NF talks about grinding and being the best you can be. What's wrong with his work? Not trynna start shit, genuinely curious.
/r/TheRedPill06/08/22 10:53 PM
3

Purist tradcons go on here and think they own the fucking place.
/r/TheRedPill06/08/22 10:51 PM
20

2016 is the year it started going downhill
/r/TheRedPill06/08/22 10:50 PM
6

This shit literally does not matter, you guys are overthinking useless shit
/r/TheRedPill06/08/22 10:48 PM
2

OP is so insecure that he thinks rap music is the reason he doesn't have his unicorn princess that will only fuck him and I'm the Billy Beta in this situation?
/r/TheRedPill06/08/22 10:46 PM
4

Rap is pretty redpill tbh. This post reads like it was written by an insecure mormon boy.
/r/TheRedPill06/08/22 10:41 PM
5

You can grind and approach women
/r/TheRedPill04/08/22 08:54 PM
-3

Finally some good fucking redpill content
/r/TheRedPill02/08/22 07:45 PM
2

Dunno if you've ever fucked a prostitute, but I did hire them a considerable amount of times. The sex is really just physical. They're not obsessed with you, they're there to just do their job. Some of them don't look you in the eyes during the whole thing, some do and put on a sexy act where they're all "oh yes fuck me harder" but it does feel really fake. I'd have to say fucking a hooker is better than jerking off but it's not exactly cheaper than pickup for the quality you're getting.
/r/TheRedPill01/08/22 05:07 AM
3

Everything above what the average man does is cutthroat. Take entrepreneurship for example
/r/TheRedPill01/08/22 04:59 AM
1

Agreed. If you can't get any, you'll be angry at women doesn't even matter if you're redpilled or not.
/r/TheRedPill01/08/22 04:58 AM
38

Refresher posts like this have always been popular
/r/TheRedPill30/07/22 10:50 AM
31

Don't forget to enjoy life once in a while
/r/TheRedPill29/07/22 07:34 PM
21

Yeah but correct me if I'm wrong: If he's got female friends, you're like "oh okay he's probably not an axe murderer". And if he doesn't have any female friends or you've never seen women around him you're like "huh.. wonder why that is".
/r/seduction26/07/22 11:25 AM
20

Might be true, but then again, guys compare their body counts, feel insecure about not getting pussy when their friends are getting laid.. we're jealous and competitive too lol
/r/seduction26/07/22 10:55 AM
94

In my experience the girls don't even need to be attractive. You just need to be liked by girls and preselection is there.
/r/seduction26/07/22 10:55 AM
1

but you just know Teller has a 10 inch horse cock
/r/seduction22/07/22 04:27 PM
1

it's a joke, don't worry
/r/seduction22/07/22 04:26 PM
3

You must've never met Penn & Teller
/r/seduction22/07/22 02:07 PM
0

thanks for the book recommendation
/r/seduction21/07/22 12:06 PM
1

yea
/r/seduction21/07/22 11:53 AM
8

Thank you for your input. On point 2 - we've had plenty of conversations on the topic, it always leads nowhere cause she either somehow shuts down the topic cause it makes her uncomfortable or we just don't get to a conclusion. Don't know where I said I didn't talk to her about the lack of sex. I know I might sound like an asshole but believe me, I've sacrificed a lot for this relationship, I'm just figuring out how to finally be happy in life.
/r/seduction21/07/22 11:24 AM
0

Good shit, thank you
/r/seduction21/07/22 11:16 AM
2

Bahaha yeah
/r/seduction21/07/22 10:53 AM
1

Not sure what you're suggesting there with "genuine experience"
/r/seduction21/07/22 10:02 AM
1

Thanks
/r/seduction21/07/22 09:37 AM
2

Thank you for your input
/r/seduction21/07/22 09:37 AM
3

This whiteboy summer gonna be lit
/r/seduction21/07/22 09:26 AM
-6

Not any girl I want, but I can get a significant number of them. And that's enough I think. I've always been the guy to rather get three 7s than one 10.
/r/seduction21/07/22 09:13 AM
22

Isn't every human problem some sort of dopamine problem
/r/seduction21/07/22 09:11 AM
13

then Gus Fring enters the picture and is like "Mr. White I need you to approach 100 girls by the end of the month for our underground pick-up course operation"
/r/seduction21/07/22 08:23 AM
2

Thanks a lot, appreciate the advice
/r/seduction21/07/22 08:18 AM
16

Yo Mr White? What are you doing on r/seduction bitch?
/r/seduction21/07/22 08:11 AM
3

No worries I've got thick skin, go ahead and be as honest as you want haha. Nowadays she just seems like she's got a lower sex drive, doesn't wanna talk about sex, always brushes it off.. no idea about her masturbation habits, we haven't talked about that for a long time. She's definitely not a lesbian, when she was younger she had an experimental encounter with another women but every time described it as bland and quote "i just like cock better" At the start of our relationship she was a diffe…
/r/seduction21/07/22 08:06 AM
10

Well she never outright mentioned that she doesn't find me attractive, it's just an observation from my point of view. She tells me how hot I look cause I've been working out and all that and yet she just never wants to fuck, you feel me? Thank you for your advice
/r/seduction21/07/22 07:46 AM
13

It might be too late for that haha :/ Thank you for your advice
/r/seduction21/07/22 07:43 AM
28

I think I've held up my end really well for a while. We've had a really long honeymoon phase, 2 years in we were still having sex on the regular and shit was pretty much perfect. However when COVID hit, life beat me down and I wasn't able to keep up with what women expect from a man. I absolutely agree that this was my fault, I could've handled some things differently, there was a way. And right now I'm in the best shape I've ever been both physically and mentally, but I'm already in a box label…
/r/seduction21/07/22 07:20 AM
-24

I can afford my own place, I can even move back home for a little while It's nice to have a free place to stay though that's for sure
/r/seduction21/07/22 07:17 AM
3

Have you had any success?
/r/seduction21/07/22 05:53 AM
91

This was mentioned in the book No More Mr Nice Guy. These men are so used to acting in a people pleasing way and not being themselves, that when it doesn't work, they can go from being overly nice to angry and bitter in a split second
/r/seduction21/07/22 05:42 AM
3

Cold approaches tend to have a higher rejection rate than warm approaches, so I'm happy you don't take rejection hard cause you'll need to get rejected a few times to actually calibrate your social skills and get good at it
/r/seduction21/07/22 05:40 AM
2

Cheers.
/r/seduction20/07/22 12:04 PM
6

There isn't a single woman out there that doesn't lie. If you wanna get some, you better learn the ropes, including the uncomfortable truths.
/r/seduction20/07/22 12:02 PM
4

Why'd you wing with someone you barely knew, I'd rather go solo than that. If you knew what they were up to why didn't YOU start flirting with other women. Also don't buy them drinks to gain their attention. Makes it look like you're trying to buy their attention and makes YOU feel like they owe you something for that drink and then you go on Reddit and make angry posts
/r/seduction20/07/22 11:51 AM
12

Bro on his lying about sexual fantasies on the internet phase.
/r/seduction20/07/22 11:48 AM
1

bro out here using external buffers (not drinking, not having someone to do daygame with) to excuse his lack of acting on what he knows he should be doing
/r/seduction20/07/22 10:00 AM
1

only correct answer
/r/seduction20/07/22 09:59 AM
0

Ay man, don't take it personally. The women don't actually mean it, don't let your self worth get ruined cause some chick wanted to feel tough. Carry on with it and most importantly base your notion of self worth on yourself.
/r/seduction20/07/22 09:31 AM
0

Like you would with any other woman? I don't get what's exactly stopping you fam
/r/seduction20/07/22 08:12 AM
-1

OP don't listen to them, you're based. Is she showing any indicators of interest? If not it might be risky. I'd try to escalate our interactions by introducing kino, that means physical touching. If she responds well to that, just do the classic escalation techniques you can find anywhere on the internet.
/r/seduction20/07/22 07:56 AM
1

Ask her out, long overdue
/r/seduction20/07/22 07:53 AM
5

If I may suggest something - try to have daily socialization goals where you talk to a certain number of strangers (or someone you know but haven't talked to in a long time, like ex coworkers you meet at a restaurant etc this also counts) per day. I have a spreadsheet where I log my interactions. Your daily goal starting out should be 1. Just have a short convo about something you don't usually talk to outside. It has to be irl (no online bullshit) and it has to be more complex than just a simpl…
/r/seduction20/07/22 07:50 AM
1

Paris Hilton really is dope
/r/seduction20/07/22 07:32 AM
2

Sounds like you might have undiagnosed ADHD
/r/TheRedPill20/07/22 06:05 AM
23

Threesome time
/r/seduction19/07/22 07:10 PM
16

Prague is pretty dope. I think hookers are legal there so that's one way. The other way is going to one of the many bars and clubs and trying night game. Prague has really good nightlife
/r/seduction19/07/22 12:54 PM
1

Is your favorite sub FDS? I just gotta know
/r/seduction19/07/22 12:41 PM
1

It doesn't matter which one of the two is the case, you'd do the same thing in either case. However - you can't overdo it with the "ignoring her" part though, or else she might lose interest. So what I would do is definitely don't reach out to her unless she responds back. In the meantime try to have fun, talk to some other girls. Try to build a little bit of dread in her - if you've got her added on Snapchat, post a story with you and a different girl. If you can't get another girl to take a pi…
/r/seduction19/07/22 12:39 PM
2

Ay man don't listen to that person, I've seen them post bullshit advice all over this sub, disregard what they're saying for your own good, always claiming they're a "hot woman".
/r/seduction19/07/22 12:32 PM
1

You again?
/r/seduction19/07/22 12:31 PM
1

I'm just saying she doesn't have to have a life lol
/r/seduction19/07/22 12:28 PM
8

Everyone's got their phone in their hand all the time these days homie. If there's a delay, it's not because she's too busy to answer
/r/seduction19/07/22 11:16 AM
-13

Yeah could be a test. This does happen where the girl is super interested and suddenly goes cold. Talk to some other girls in the meantime, do some cool shit. If she texts back, make her wait for a while before answering
/r/seduction19/07/22 11:15 AM
3

Bro woke up a menace
/r/seduction19/07/22 10:01 AM
8

Complain about how he didn't wash the dishes properly and that they're still dirty
/r/seduction19/07/22 09:43 AM
1

It would certainly help. My dad was a pussy and thus so was I.
/r/seduction19/07/22 06:26 AM
6

I have a friend who's got AS, same thing happens to him. He's pretty successful in getting women to bed cause he memorized the personality or mask he should put on like a script, mystery method style. He does have problems with oneitis and neediness though cause he seems to want someone to truly like him for who he is which is not possible. Also I suggest you hit the gym and try to fall in love with the process. People with Asperger's who work out and are serious about it tend to get perfect 10/…
/r/seduction18/07/22 07:29 PM
-4

I'm pretty based if i do say so myself
/r/seduction18/07/22 07:22 PM
-8

Ayy same I lucked out with a LTR and now I'm making up for not socializing for 4 years by picking up chicks behind her back and then not fucking them cause I don't wanna cheat lol
/r/seduction18/07/22 06:20 PM
7

Ay man there's plenty of material on the internet on that, Google is your friend when your dad wasn't around to teach this to you (not in a derogatory manner, I'm in the same boat ahah)
/r/seduction18/07/22 06:18 PM
1

Your past PUA self had it wrong then - you could argue that it falls into the "show intent" part of the interaction
/r/TheRedPill18/07/22 11:50 AM
67

Those Bitcoin holdings are less stable than your relationship
/r/TheRedPill18/07/22 08:43 AM
2

Mystery after losing custody of his children: 😎 this is the way of the venusian artist
/r/seduction18/07/22 08:36 AM
1

Very common shit test. However I've never figured out a slick way to respond other than ignoring it. Does anyone have any suggestions?
/r/seduction18/07/22 08:34 AM
1

A woman did not write this
/r/seduction18/07/22 08:25 AM
15

OP is the impostor (he needs to vent)
/r/TheRedPill18/07/22 07:57 AM
2

Good post, dunno why everyone is complaining. The whole point of shit tests is to filter for this exact IDGAF behavior in a man
/r/TheRedPill17/07/22 09:36 PM
3

Also if you get the "let's just be friends" rejection, it doesn't mean you're actually a good friend lol, she's just soft rejecting you. Because saying "no way" overtly might make some men angry and lash out, so she defuses the situation. Which leads to the fact that many young men (mistakingly) think they're good friends to women and (mistakingly again) that they're lacking the appearance to bag a hot girl
/r/seduction17/07/22 09:21 PM
5

Sometimes you just don't know why you're feeling the way you are. This happens to men too. For example you're depressed but can't pinpoint why exactly. It's the same thing. I think the difference is that men's system for selecting or rejecting women is so simple it's easy to pinpoint why you don't like a woman. Women's system is so much more complex so the only thing she's sure of is that she just doesn't vibe with him that way.
/r/seduction17/07/22 09:18 PM
3

They just don't feel the attraction and so they don't wanna pursue it. But because they feel the need to give a reason (or rather, the guy or the outside world in general always asks for a reason) they try to rationalize it. That comes second though, first is feelings, thoughts come after as an excuse. Which is exactly why you see girls reject one guy saying they don't date guys that are XYZ and then go and date a guy that's XYZ. Why my girlfriend broke up with her ex because he wouldn't wear a …
/r/seduction17/07/22 06:41 PM
4

OP is literally this meme
/r/seduction17/07/22 01:41 PM
9

This is true. Get some sexy hobbies. Not for the sake of women but because you'll be happier because of it.Sitting in front of a computer and playing games is not a sexy hobby.
/r/seduction16/07/22 11:09 PM
2

And get the girl's Skype to show her magic tricks later
/r/seduction16/07/22 05:53 AM
2

I've seen some ugly ass guys with some hot chicks, women don't care about appearance as much. Yes it helps but personality and demeanor all that is much more important.
/r/seduction16/07/22 05:52 AM
3

I think you're overthinking it a little. The spotlight effect says we see our flaws way more vividly than other people do. But if you think it's a problem, don't do too much. Maybe all you need to do is to give him a smile, hold eye contact and look excited when talking to the guy you like, no need to do hair flips like in the movies. And maybe flirt back with your words. He tells you about a cool place he knows about, you say "oh maybe we can go there sometime?"
/r/seduction16/07/22 05:48 AM
1

Don't remember reading that anywhere in the sidebar to be fair with you.
/r/TheRedPill16/07/22 05:40 AM
1

This sadly does tend to happen in relationships. Sex frequency slowly decreases after a while as the girl realizes she can keep you around without having to put out as much. And if you say that's not okay with her, you threaten the stability of the whole relationship. You can't force her to have sex with you, it's her choice. Still haven't figured out if there is another way other than jumping from partner to partner.
/r/seduction15/07/22 09:09 PM
4

It happens less and less though, which is why men today have more trouble getting with girls. They take shit too seriously cause they had the privilege of living in a cushy bubble where they never got g-checked lol
/r/seduction15/07/22 11:32 AM
32

Maybe I'm just retarded but I absolutely don't get what you were trying to say.
/r/TheRedPill15/07/22 10:52 AM
14

bro's probably a silver fox stealing all the girls from the rest of us
/r/seduction15/07/22 07:29 AM
1

Don't overthink it too much. If someone has a weirded out reaction at you being at the bar alone picking up chicks or that you're too old to be there, you just didn't play it off well enough. It's only weird if you make it weird so you gotta do it, maybe be weird at first to slowly learn how to not be weird. Don't know much about game in the US specifically, never been there. However Americans are more talky talky than us here in Europe so I'd think it would be a little easier to approach a girl…
/r/seduction15/07/22 07:22 AM
3

Actually good advice, especially if you're prone to depressions. Having friends is a good depression repelent and most women prefer relationships to start from friendships. The most stable and longest relationships I've had weren't from cold approaches, they were from the whole friends -> relationship thing
/r/seduction14/07/22 01:28 PM
1

Good advice, best of luck to your business.
/r/seduction14/07/22 12:41 PM
1

Most girls I know that have had a girl-on-girl experience don't consider themselves bi. Many of them were just experimenting and probably wouldn't go for it again.
/r/seduction14/07/22 12:37 PM
1

OP took a W, she's into you
/r/seduction14/07/22 12:35 PM
13

I don't believe it. An actually good post on seddit. I thought it wasn't possible.
/r/seduction14/07/22 07:37 AM
2

It really does not. I waited and waited until I realized I was waiting out of fear of eternal damnation instead of any other reason
/r/seduction14/07/22 07:31 AM
73

So only fuck the married ones
/r/seduction14/07/22 07:29 AM
1

Bro's username is borderline autistic
/r/seduction13/07/22 08:56 PM
12

My girlfriend got approached a week ago while at work (at a store). She described how it made her feel uncomfortable and she was scared. But tbh that guy's game wasn't exactly on point, so that's why. Made me realize why girls prefer when you're approaching them with an aura of uncertainty. If you go straight with the "hey, nice shoes, you wanna go for a coffee? I know a good place" they start panicking - "if I reject him is he gonna get aggressive? This is too much of a responsibility, he's ask…
/r/seduction13/07/22 08:56 PM
1

Getting a hooker is a good start I think. There's countries where prostitution is legal, namely Netherlands and Germany if you don't want risking getting a charge.
/r/seduction13/07/22 08:52 PM
1

No they just don't feel the attraction. It's all about feeling. On this reddit you'll find out the things that make women feel attracted and those that don't. They don't rationally go "hmm today I'll make 45 new rules on who I'm gonna date and stick to them". If she says she only likes blonde guys and you're brown haired and follow all the tips and tricks of seduction, she's gonna fuck you no matter her personal preference.
/r/seduction13/07/22 05:43 PM
1

Women don't make those rules up lol, they're attracted to what was determined by evolution to be the most desired trait. Obsessing over things is a childish trait. Kids and women obsess over videogames, tv shows, celebrities and later on girls. It's cute, but once you get into it, you realize just how much more free your mind is, how easier it is to get laid and how much more productive you're able to be in your life when you get into that mindset where women are just "eh".
/r/seduction13/07/22 10:55 AM
22

When I was 16 I had a puppy and it would have a similar effect on women I knew, we'd go walk him to the forest. However they liked the dog more than me
/r/TheRedPill12/07/22 06:16 PM
1

>Just go in with no expectations and the mindset that whatever happens, happens You answered the question yourself
/r/seduction12/07/22 05:15 PM
4

Clubs, bars.. practice nightgame
/r/seduction12/07/22 05:13 PM
8

Def go out to some parties if you can get away with. That's what people go to Madrid for lol.
/r/seduction12/07/22 05:08 PM
1

They do, that's why women are so attracted to guys who don't obsess about women. Who don't react when she responds to other guys' DM when things go wrong. Who doesn't get scared when she threatens to break up.
/r/seduction12/07/22 05:03 PM
1

Finding friends online is not a good approach in my experience. I was miserable for a long time cause I didn't want to meet people irl, only through online communities
/r/seduction11/07/22 10:56 PM
3

If no woman ever raised their children with love and it's unable to have a woman truly "love" you, that implies that love is a product of the male mind that has no ground in reality.
/r/TheRedPill10/07/22 02:12 PM
3

I like to think they're just unable to keep the child unhappy in the short term. Not setting up the child to be exploited would require it to be uncomfortable for a long period of time.
/r/TheRedPill10/07/22 01:52 PM
14

I think it goes deeper than just watching romcoms. It's something most men are "born" with cause the first woman they meet is their mother and she loves them unconditionally (even if they're bad mothers, there still seems to be some sort of unconditional obsession with their child). This makes the men believe they can have this from some other woman. Best cure for oneitis in my opinion is seeing the good sweet girl that's in a committed relationship get fucked in the ass by some guy for one nigh…
/r/TheRedPill10/07/22 01:18 PM
26

This is an issue I sometimes see with guys who can naturally attract women. I had friends who would go home with a hot chick from the club or a bar every night and then they'd complain about how they can't find a girlfriend and that they don't have "love luck". I don't think there's any universal advice to get rid of oneitis, I'd recommend reading No More Mr Nice Guy and realizing women are all the same
/r/TheRedPill10/07/22 12:53 PM
6

A common pitfall people encounter is the feeling of "If my surroundings were different I'd be able to do the things I want to do" Case in point - A friend was born and living in a slightly under 100k pop city and was like "wow this sucks, there's nothing to do, surely if I lived in a bigger city I'd be able to socialize more and meet women and yada yada" So he moved to Prague. 1.3 mil people and lots of stuff to do. And what did he do? No socializing, no asking girls out, just swiping on tinder …
/r/TheRedPill07/07/22 09:52 PM
3

You're absolutely right on that one 👍 talking to people should be a challenge for you as well if you wanna get good at it.
/r/TheRedPill07/07/22 07:41 AM
5

I highly suggest having a socialization quota where you need to talk to x amount of strangers (both men and women) per day. And not just a simple "good morning" but a proper conversation about something (it can be short however). Stuff that counts (of course adjust your opener to the situation where you're meeting the stranger): I like your jacket, where did you get it Hey, I'm going out for lunch, do you know any good places around here to eat? If it's like a barista at a cafe you're at, you ca…
/r/seduction07/07/22 05:46 AM
2

You might be onto something with the influence thing. But always be on the lookout for what girls do, who they actually fuck as opposed to who they say is sexy.
/r/TheRedPill07/07/22 05:29 AM
2

At least you can get that CISCO money. No but for real, notice how all your hobbies have to do with thinking and being deep inside your head instead of doing something in the physical world. Maybe changing it up a little and exploring that physical side of the world would be a nice change for you personally as well.
/r/TheRedPill07/07/22 05:22 AM
-5

this post looks like when I used to increase line spacing in my essays back in high school to hit the page limit
/r/TheRedPill06/07/22 07:23 PM
42

Okay but I'm willing to bet they meet with people on the regular. It's like a muscle. If you don't socialize, you start sucking at it. An infinite loop.
/r/TheRedPill06/07/22 10:50 AM
209

Also socialize, go out, party and talk to everyone around. Not just girls you wanna fuck in this moment. That's equal to an anti-depressant, because staying isolated is the easiest way to some high quality depression, take it from me.
/r/TheRedPill06/07/22 10:20 AM
23

I'm kinda gonna glide over your original point in order to elevate a secondary, completely different piece of advice that arises from your story (that you might've not intended for): There's a pareto principle of hobbies in regards to how attractive they are. There's hobbies and things to spend time on that are *sexy* and then there's the rest that are not. When you've got an autistic obsession with trains, it doesn't matter than you know everything about the history of trains in the US from 182…
/r/TheRedPill06/07/22 08:27 AM
3

Ay man, don't put them on a pedestal if you don't want them to look down at you. Alt girls, basic girls, they're all just girls you feel me
/r/seduction05/07/22 08:09 PM
2

I enjoy it cause it helps me forget the meaninglessness of life
/r/seduction05/07/22 07:40 PM
6

okay but a lot of women seem to be into similar stuff by default - haven't slept with any that didn't enjoy being tied up for example. You feeling me. However that video you posted is very interesting
/r/seduction05/07/22 06:44 PM
10

I think it's simply because women are very sexually attracted to men who seem better than them.
/r/seduction05/07/22 05:58 PM
3

Idk man, in my experience, once you start providing for a woman, she very quickly becomes accustomed to it. It's no longer special and it's just something you do. Barely makes any difference cause women are used to being provided for all their life. And in these modern times she'll never lack providers.
/r/TheRedPill04/07/22 02:25 PM
4

ay man don't dwell on it too much, they're all pretty much the same anyway
/r/TheRedPill03/07/22 06:57 PM
24

Both men & women seem to employ a strategy that would work on them. So men do things that they'd like to see a woman do - be available, lovey dovey and obsessed, overtly sexual etc. And women do things that would work on them - one of these being unavailability and push/pull which is what I think is happening here. The less good looking women are not getting as much attention so they have to act. And they act in this retarded weird picky way cause they think it makes them more attractive - maybe…
/r/TheRedPill03/07/22 06:46 PM
7

You're right that's why I'm on here to learn how to get men (alpha and not gay)
/r/TheRedPill03/07/22 09:16 AM
1

Cause I linked his video, it put it there itself. Now let me get your Skype so i can show you magic tricks later on.
/r/seduction02/07/22 11:42 PM
2

OLD what's that
/r/seduction02/07/22 06:15 PM
4

Beats jerking off to porn doesn't it?
/r/seduction01/07/22 06:31 PM
3

Less texting her, less hanging out, act like you've got better things to do right now. Better yet find some better things to do.
/r/seduction01/07/22 05:57 PM
1

You've gotta asses that yourself man, i don't have nearly enough information. But what I do know is that you're not getting what you want. So pull away for a while. Talk to some other girls. If you don't have any other girls to talk to at least pretend you're too busy to hang out / answer texts on time etc. Many times when you pull away like this they'll come back. And if she doesn't, not exactly a loss, it's a "girlfriend" that doesn't want to kiss you. You're not losing anything of value there…
/r/seduction01/07/22 05:05 PM
2

That was a shit test from what I'm seeing homie
/r/seduction01/07/22 04:27 PM
1

My experience differs, I got a kiss exactly 0 times when I asked. When I didn't ask and just went with the moment, I got a kiss back and the girls never complained about me not asking. You do you tho.
/r/seduction01/07/22 04:22 PM
2

Yeah I thought that too back in high school. Asking for a kiss is unattractive af. Consent is implied by the situation, her body language, the way you're looking at each other etc. If you miscalculated and she doesn't want to kiss you, she'll pull away, then you know whoops it wasn't the right moment, no harm done.
/r/seduction01/07/22 04:19 PM
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Asking for a kiss is unattractive af. Consent is implied by the situation, her body language etc. If you miscalculated and she doesn't want to kiss you, she'll pull away, then you know whoops it wasn't the right moment, no harm done.
/r/seduction01/07/22 04:19 PM
2

Asking for a kiss is a no go. A kiss shouldn't be asked for, you should go for it when the time is right
/r/seduction01/07/22 12:37 PM
3

I was in a similar situation. Try reading "no more Mr nice guy", you'll find yourself in some concepts described in the book
/r/seduction01/07/22 12:35 PM
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Girls are often afraid to reject a guy to his face (with good reason) and that's why they sometimes give a fake number or flake after giving theirs. Just consider this as a "no thank you, I'm not interested" from the girl in a weird, kind of asocial way.
/r/seduction01/07/22 12:33 PM
4

Jocko? Is that you?
/r/seduction01/07/22 12:29 PM
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Ay man, that's some dangerous advice. You should never had that "oh I'll socialize when I'm more jacked / rich / whatever" mindset. You need to start ASAP even if you're not ready yet, or else you might go insane from the crushing loneliness
/r/seduction01/07/22 12:29 PM
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You get laid
/r/seduction01/07/22 12:27 PM
5

This absolutely works, I've been doing it myself. Sort of social progressive overload, much like when you're working out.
/r/seduction29/06/22 06:12 AM
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Yeah it kinda shows that the original pioneers of pick-up were huge nerds just by the way they name things - AFC, HB9, Cat String theory bla bla at the ten minute mark do x at the fifteen minute mark do y. But then again if they weren't nerds they wouldn't need all that haha so it all checks out.
/r/seduction29/06/22 06:01 AM
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Maybe if the delivery is off, I don't see why anyone would get slapped for that :)
/r/TheRedPill28/06/22 05:48 PM
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you do what the door tells you to do
/r/TheRedPill28/06/22 05:47 PM
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Push: Expressing disinterest in a girl. Pull: Expressing interest in a girl. When you push pull, you show some interest in a girl and then disinterest to kinda show that you're not predictable. You say one thing that might show disinterest and at the same time do something that shows interest. Some examples that come to mind is stuff like hugging her and then slightly jokingly pushing her away saying "that's enough", or saying "If I was into brunettes, I would be all over you".
/r/TheRedPill28/06/22 05:41 PM
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I second this. I feel like the fact that most manosphere writers are 40+ is kinda showing in OP's post. I've only ever courted young girls, none of them ever argued over me splitting the bill, none of them ever wanted flowers or shit like that. In fact if us meeting was called anything more "serious" than just hanging out (like calling it a "date") would make them anxious cause it's too much of a commitment to go on a date and they'd be hesitant to go (even though said meetups often lead to sex)…
/r/TheRedPill26/06/22 10:47 AM
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One more thing - practice makes perfect. Set daily goals to talk to complete strangers. Start with 1 a day and keep it consistent. The quality of the conversation doesn't matter at first. You're gonna be increasing that as you manage to get out there and talk to one person. The goal is to have a short conversation, maybe about what they're wearing, the event you're at etc. If your social skills are 0 this and theory reading will give you brutal "noob gains" in socialization. Don't forget to incr…
/r/TheRedPill24/06/22 02:15 PM
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Make sure you don't quit completely when you miss a couple days. Because you are going to miss a couple days. I've done the same challenge. Don't let it discourage you, keep pushing forward every day.
/r/seduction22/06/22 04:53 AM
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my brother in Christ, you shat where you eat
/r/seduction21/06/22 11:18 AM
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A girl dm'd me on instagram a few weeks ago, obviously showing herself off as a slut, sending me pictures of the rope she's got at home and everything. The type of girl that enjoys the male attention she gets from being all slutty. So I kept the conversation going, told her how I'm gonna tie her up and cut her up (she's into cutting), arranged a meet (to practice online game and escalation) a bit and then flaked and blocked. I refuse to get myself into a situation like that because then it's so …
/r/seduction21/06/22 08:35 AM
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That's really dope my man. It's great that you keep logs by the way, you're not gonna regret that. A lot of useful info on here but sometimes you're only able to internalize it or **really** understand what it all means by experiencing it yourself.
/r/seduction21/06/22 06:41 AM
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Ayooooo up top ✋
/r/seduction21/06/22 06:24 AM
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very rare and it's never happened to me personally with a girl that didn't have BPD lol
/r/seduction21/06/22 06:19 AM
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Wish they didn't shut down askTRP, that would've been a better place for posts like this. Is there any chance we can get the sub unlocked? Nobody is going to use that shitty ass website they're trying to push.
/r/TheRedPill20/06/22 08:16 PM
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One thing I'd like to add is that never fall for the "I'll start approaching women or talking to people when I'm rich/buff/educated/whatever enough". You need to start working on your social skills and calibrating them right fucking now. And by that I mean literally now, get up and go outside when you get a chance and compliment someone's makeup or clothes or ask for the time and go up from there. I'm not a person who has a lot of regret in my life, I believe that everything happens for a reason…
/r/TheRedPill20/06/22 10:31 AM
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Yo hit me up with your mom's number.
/r/TheRedPill16/06/22 09:32 AM
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You're not really gonna get ass any other way, if you could, you'd already have it
/r/TheRedPill15/06/22 08:38 AM
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Mfs on here will try to create new philosophical frameworks and figure out how to unify the world's religions rather than go to the gym or start talking to women.
/r/TheRedPill10/06/22 09:20 PM
3

just swipe on dating apps the main problem with dating apps is that men think it's so much easier than actually going out and getting to know some women. Well, it's actually the harder way. Every guy is running online game, your competition is through the fucking roof and most girls on there don't take it seriously, they're not super desperate for some dick like we are when we're on tinder. They're mostly looking for attention. Might be just my experience but online game has always proven to be …
/r/TheRedPill10/06/22 07:32 AM
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yeah or raise your test levels naturally by sleeping properly, eating properly and doing a lot of squats.. increasing it artificially when you can have a good level by having a healthy lifestyle seems like overkill
/r/TheRedPill10/06/22 06:20 AM
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You make a good point at the end there. Where are all the zoomer 20 - 30 year old pick-up writers? Everyone in the mesosphere space seems to be 40+ years old..
/r/TheRedPill09/06/22 08:34 AM
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Had a similar experience where she tried helicoptering me, also a single child. It didn't do me any favors, I had to learn how to cook, clean and take care of myself on my own. My solution was just to move out ASAP and slowly decrease contact. Don't accept her help unless you're gonna die if you don't.
/r/TheRedPill31/05/22 09:49 PM
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I think OP was aiming this at beginners who set up buffers in their mind that they're gonna start approaching when they're jacked enough, rich enough or basically perfect. This happens on here often.
/r/TheRedPill30/05/22 07:25 AM
3

My boy wants to be GayLubeOil but he's not
/r/TheRedPill29/05/22 03:46 PM
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Well written. I personally like looking at life through these gay-sounding, spiritual, "larger than life" viewpoints as well and I do love women a lot. I enjoy going out to the cafe and talking to a beautiful woman.
/r/TheRedPill22/05/22 01:18 PM
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Wondering "what comes after getting laid" is a problem you WANT to have, a lot of people on here still have a whole journey ahead of them, no need to wonder what's gonna come after just yet :)
/r/TheRedPill10/05/22 07:52 AM
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