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Interesting read but the ones you did get were attracted to you, otherwise you wouldn’t have gotten them. So, even though you’re heavily putting yourself down, some women still found you attractive and this is the case with virtually every interaction a guy will have with a woman. It’s either positive or negative.
/r/seduction30/09/22 09:19 PM
33

Detach yourself from feeling anything serious.
/r/seduction29/09/22 11:06 PM
1

Ok…
/r/seduction29/09/22 09:04 PM
1

I like bush but everywhere else should be shaved.
/r/seduction29/09/22 02:12 PM
1

Yeah, she’s heard that rap before. You have to treat her with respect and earn your way if you want to possibly be her first. It’s too much work imo
/r/seduction28/09/22 08:23 PM
5

She’s not that into you and there’s probably some competition you don’t know about.
/r/seduction28/09/22 06:51 PM
1

You can’t do your best at all 3 so you focus on school and then you pick your favorite hobby. Hooking up, or sports.
/r/seduction28/09/22 03:53 PM
3

It’s been 2 months and she’s not there. Move on
/r/seduction27/09/22 10:15 PM
1

Accurate and to the point.
/r/seduction27/09/22 09:51 PM
37

Usually, attractive people gravitate towards one another but there’s always exceptions. Attractiveness is sometimes subjective and status and wealth can increase someone’s attractiveness.
/r/seduction27/09/22 06:29 PM
1

Yeah, we’ve established you’re full of shit. Now move along you silly troll. And don’t forget to “level up” on your way out.
/r/seduction27/09/22 05:48 PM
1

Lol! Yeah,ok. Why don’t you post a photo of your gf so we can all evaluate what you’re pulling down. Look, I’m not discouraging anyone from taking their shot but when you focus solely on 9’s and 10’s you’re eliminating a huge dating pool of great women that are often overlooked. I speak from a world of experience you know nothing about. I’ve dated 9’s 10’s and even 11’s and they all had something in common. They were princesses that knew their own value and once you got past their looks, they di…
/r/seduction27/09/22 05:29 PM
1

How much patience do you have? If you sense she’s shy take the initiative and ask her out. Otherwise, you’re wasting your time trying to read her signs.
/r/seduction27/09/22 01:31 PM
0

Don’t exclusively seek out 10/10’s. Learn to lower your expectations. The hotter the woman the more leverage she has and the worse she’ll treat you
/r/seduction27/09/22 01:25 PM
5

Education and career goals. You need to be highly motivated and work hard. The path is long and arduous and you might not reap the rewards for years. I know exactly what it takes and that’s why I couldn’t do it.
/r/seduction27/09/22 04:09 AM
1

You answered your own question in the last paragraph. Keep studying, keep working hard and the juice will squeeze itself.
/r/seduction27/09/22 04:00 AM
11

Remember, It takes two to play games. Don’t play. You meet a woman like that, you move on.
/r/seduction27/09/22 03:02 AM
20

How do you deal with a woman that’s cold and closed off..? You don’t deal with them. You move on
/r/seduction27/09/22 02:21 AM
1

Most of this is very legit but always remember attraction supersedes almost everything. I.e. If she ain’t into, it ain’t happening.
/r/seduction26/09/22 05:19 PM
1

The worst thing you could do is give her your time. Your time should be valuable. Don’t let someone like that waste it. Have some self respect.
/r/seduction26/09/22 06:08 AM
5

Dude, why are you wasting your time with this? She’s an attention whore that seems to enjoy dissing you.
/r/seduction25/09/22 09:00 PM
8

Absolutely. She’s shit testing you
/r/seduction25/09/22 04:03 PM
1

For the purposes of a ONS nobody needs to know what your politics is. If you’re looking for a LTR then this topic will come under the heading of respect. For example, If someone doesn’t respect your political beliefs that’s like not respecting your religious beliefs, or your moral beliefs. As long as he/she doesn’t try to convert you this shouldn’t be a dealbreaker. If you have vastly different opinions the relationship is probably not going to work out, unless you respectfully keep those opinio…
/r/seduction25/09/22 03:04 PM
5

Why didn’t you escalate?
/r/seduction25/09/22 03:52 AM
0

The best opener is: “ When our we going to hookup?”
/r/seduction24/09/22 09:46 PM
0

Next time lower your expectations. Pick a girl that you think is below your league and ask her out.
/r/seduction24/09/22 09:38 PM
16

They shouldn’t but men have become so desperate it’s almost pathetic. Some of the posts I read in the sub have me smh sometimes. Maybe as women have become more independent the supply and demand has changed.
/r/seduction23/09/22 05:11 AM
20

A lot has changed since the medieval era. Most women are college educated and entirely independent. Women don’t settle anymore.
/r/seduction23/09/22 03:47 AM
18

It’s whatever you value in a woman. Looks, personality, education, career, etc. Example: I can’t date a woman that’s tatted and pierced, it’s a complete turnoff for me. Other guys might find that look hot. High value might also include what she does for a living, especially if you’re looking for a potential wife.
/r/seduction23/09/22 03:26 AM
1

Don’t hold your breath waiting for that call.
/r/seduction23/09/22 02:13 AM
6

A man’s attractiveness is determined by the person he’s attracted to. There’s is no secret formula.
/r/seduction23/09/22 02:10 AM
47

……And men settle for mediocre because they want, pussy.
/r/seduction23/09/22 02:01 AM
32

Women have the pussy so they have an unfair advantage. Theres little chance of switching the power dynamic when pussy is leverage.
/r/seduction23/09/22 01:43 AM
5

There’s only so much you can do. Put yourself out there and take your shot. What you’ll often find in life is the person you’re attracted to isn’t attracted to you, and that’s life.
/r/seduction22/09/22 10:08 PM
250

Men and women are very similar. They want the most attractive, high value person they can get. The difference is, men are much quicker to settle.
/r/seduction22/09/22 09:08 PM
2

There’s so many variables. I’m not telling any guy to not take a shot, I’m just advising of what you should be aware of when cold approaching. The odds are usually not in a guys favor but learn to read the room. If she gives you eye contact or smiles, go for it. If she gives you bitch face, I would pass.
/r/seduction22/09/22 07:49 PM
4

Make certain she sees you coming and attempt to establish eye contact with her and smile. If her body language is scared, dismissive or she turns and goes another direction, leave her alone.
/r/seduction22/09/22 03:26 AM
4

Lol…ok. Fairly certain I added something else that you conveniently overlooked while you were busy cutting and pasting quotes.
/r/seduction22/09/22 03:08 AM
10

Can’t help you. After I lay pipe, I look for a new trench.
/r/seduction22/09/22 02:52 AM
8

Ok. She’s definitely one to pass on
/r/seduction22/09/22 02:04 AM
2

There’s no reason to feel guilt. She’s probably down for the same thing you are.
/r/seduction22/09/22 01:53 AM
3

That’s not why cold approach doesn’t work. Women are usually creeped out by some strange guy popping out of nowhere and trying to hit on them. If you want to attempt to meet a woman out in public, put yourself in her shoes first. Her number one priority is her own safety. Don’t startle her by coming out of nowhere and going into some phony rap. Make certain she sees you coming and attempt to establish eye contact with her and smile. If her body language is scared, dismissive or she turns and goe…
/r/seduction22/09/22 01:36 AM
1

She was obviously attractive enough to go on a date with, so why decline the puss? I would say bad move.
/r/seduction21/09/22 11:59 PM
8

Start dating someone else and let her see you.
/r/seduction21/09/22 09:09 AM
5

Wrong sub.
/r/seduction20/09/22 06:31 PM
0

In all fairness the woke, toxic feminists these guys have to date would make me want to off myself.
/r/seduction20/09/22 03:32 AM
7

Complete agree. After she’s rejected you, do not give her your attention or validation.
/r/seduction19/09/22 05:55 PM
1

Have you tried to even say hello to her..?
/r/seduction19/09/22 05:51 PM
1

I think you’re proving my point. Try getting a better attitude and a nicer personality.
/r/seduction19/09/22 05:22 AM
1

If you’re a bartender and you’re not getting laid, you might be the problem.
/r/seduction19/09/22 05:18 AM
1

Sure but don’t expect to get laid
/r/seduction18/09/22 11:40 PM
1

Treat her like a star and she’ll treat you like a fan. Beware of false idols.
/r/seduction18/09/22 08:51 PM
2

Look, there’s a lot of toxic people out there of both genders that you’ll encounter in your “seduction journey”. You can dismiss my comment, I don’t care. Nothing will give you more experience then life itself. Good luck
/r/seduction18/09/22 05:13 PM
26

By not giving af. Just as some men are rude to women, there’s plenty of women that are rude to men. Don’t let it bother you. They’re not worth it.
/r/seduction18/09/22 03:52 PM
5

It’s easy. You just haven’t met enough toxic women in your life to understand. Don’t worry, you will. What doesn’t kill you makes you stronger.
/r/seduction18/09/22 02:29 PM
17

Life experience. It’s almost as if you have to go through war to find peace.
/r/seduction18/09/22 02:27 PM
1

Nope and nope
/r/seduction18/09/22 07:02 AM
1

Yes. A time machine
/r/seduction18/09/22 06:24 AM
6

I would say you definitely get it. We’re all visual creatures and we’re attracted to what we like. Everything is based on that initial attraction and if the person you’re attracted to isn’t attracted to you then it’s all a loss. Women that claim looks aren’t important are full of shit. They’re no different then men.
/r/seduction18/09/22 06:16 AM
1

There’s plenty of guys out there that would like to be your bf. You’re not meeting the right guys
/r/seduction18/09/22 02:32 AM
2

Yes pay
/r/seduction18/09/22 12:48 AM
15

This is funny
/r/seduction17/09/22 11:00 PM
3

I think every guy is guilty of this move.
/r/seduction17/09/22 08:03 PM
91

To not give af and completely detach from the outcome.
/r/seduction17/09/22 07:58 PM
1

Well if that’s the case, why are you asking my advice?
/r/seduction17/09/22 06:57 PM
1

Ok. If this is true then all you have do right now is stop looking and acting desperate. Women can smell desperation and it’s a turn off. Involve yourself in your own interests and hobbies and focus on your happiness. Women are attracted to guys that have their own life
/r/seduction17/09/22 06:08 PM
1

It depends. Are you actively looking to meet someone, or are you looking for someone out of your league? Do you have something to offer a woman that might be interested in you? Like a high paying career that can afford trips, nice dates and maybe a family someday ? Here’s a hot tip rarely discussed. Most men are average but we want women that are physically above average. If you’re average, you don’t get the woman you want, you’ll get the woman that wants you and that will probably be something …
/r/seduction17/09/22 05:46 PM
1

I don’t understand?
/r/seduction17/09/22 05:32 PM
2

That’s just them lying to you. What they’re actually saying is they’re NOT attracted to you and they’re trying to spin it in a way that doesn’t sound like they’re rejecting you based on looks. Every guy will get rejected countless times before he meets someone that’s interested in him. That’s just life as a guy. You’re going to face adversity from women and how you react to it and move on will determine how successful you’ll be going forwards.
/r/seduction17/09/22 05:15 PM
-6

Sounds like you blew the best thing that ever happened to you.
/r/seduction17/09/22 03:38 PM
2

If she’ll lie when you don’t even know her what do you think it’ll be like six months or a year down the road?
/r/seduction17/09/22 06:33 AM
1

Yes. Leave. There’s red flags everywhere
/r/seduction17/09/22 06:29 AM
1

Yes
/r/seduction17/09/22 06:29 AM
1

It doesn’t hurt
/r/seduction17/09/22 04:34 AM
2

Make like a ball and bounce. She seems like a hustler
/r/seduction16/09/22 11:37 PM
7

This is definitely one of the more cringe and desperate posts I’ve read lately.
/r/seduction16/09/22 11:34 PM
1

A seismic shift has happened in less then 5 years. As women have become less tolerable to be around, men have also become more desperate. Nobody, regardless of gender, should tolerate being treated poorly just for sex and companionship.
/r/seduction16/09/22 07:41 PM
1

Not sure how you came to that conclusion but you do you.
/r/seduction16/09/22 04:45 PM
1

Based …. on experience
/r/seduction16/09/22 04:43 PM
2

A lot of women are not as nice as they use to be. Blame social media and toxic feminism for that. In the meantime continue your education and work hard.
/r/seduction16/09/22 02:19 PM
8

You can’t make someone attracted to you that isn’t.
/r/seduction16/09/22 04:16 AM
1

Say, hey you’re hot! We should hookup sometime.
/r/seduction15/09/22 11:54 PM
28

They’re capable of losing interest much faster because they have far more options in the dating pool and they’re constantly pursued. Men are generally not pursued. Unless you look like a young Brad Pitt or George Clooney and have status and or wealth, women are not pursuing men. Women have something men want and that gives them a tremendous advantage.
/r/seduction15/09/22 11:25 PM
103

Women are attracted to men they find attractive. They’re not that different then men. Attraction is what sparks initial interest. Once attraction is established then personality, shared interests and other factors come into play.
/r/seduction15/09/22 07:31 PM
8

She’s trolling you. Take a hint and move on
/r/seduction15/09/22 01:17 AM
3

How’s the sex?
/r/seduction15/09/22 12:38 AM
3

Doesn’t sound horrible as long as it includes countless bj’s.
/r/seduction14/09/22 07:48 PM
1

What is love bombing ?
/r/seduction14/09/22 07:40 PM
11

Women like a guy that can spell and has money
/r/seduction14/09/22 04:47 AM
7

You don’t. You keep working on yourself
/r/seduction14/09/22 04:41 AM
50

Great rant! Now let me share some reality with you. You can ask a woman out, but you cant make her say yes.
/r/seduction14/09/22 04:40 AM
1

Don’t overthink it. Let the date play out and see what happens.
/r/seduction14/09/22 04:36 AM
0

There’s an old tag line called the 7 year itch. This was a typical breaking point when marriages would end in divorce. If she’s not in the mood anymore find someone who is.
/r/seduction13/09/22 11:31 PM
4

Try smiling and flirting with guys you’re attracted to. Say hello. Be approachable.
/r/seduction13/09/22 03:58 AM
2

Try smiling and saying hello to everyone, especially guys you’re attracted to.
/r/seduction13/09/22 03:41 AM
5

By not caring. Detach from the outcome.
/r/seduction13/09/22 03:34 AM
2

You’re setting yourself up to be a future woman’s emotional tampon. Stop putting them on a pedestal, unless you plan on looking up their skirt. -joking
/r/seduction13/09/22 01:59 AM
3

Fake it till you make it.
/r/seduction12/09/22 08:03 PM
3

How are you wasting your life? You’ll find out soon enough. There’s two kinds of married men. Those that want to kill themselves and those that already have. joking
/r/seduction12/09/22 07:47 PM
10

Usually a cultural,or some religious belief. The poor guy doesn’t realize the most and sometimes only sex he’ll ever get is outside of marriage.
/r/seduction12/09/22 07:43 PM
50

You’re wasting your time and you’re wasting the best sexual years of your life.
/r/seduction12/09/22 05:25 PM
1

This sounds déjà vu to me. I experienced something very similar with a bartender but It’s time for a reality check. She’s nice because she has to be nice. For one, it’s in her job description and #2 if she thinks you like her, you are more likely to tip more and you are more likely to seek her out whenever you return to that bar and sit in her section but make no mistake, she’s not into you. A sexy bartender or server knows how to stroke a guy’s ego.
/r/seduction12/09/22 08:03 AM
33

Well, They’re interested. You’re just not picking up the cues
/r/seduction11/09/22 04:06 AM
141

What tragedy happened in your life that created such low self-esteem and this persecution complex?
/r/seduction11/09/22 03:47 AM
1

You heard “stories”.
/r/seduction11/09/22 03:13 AM
38

You’ve been getting some really bad information. Be a nice guy but don’t be a simp. Women respect a guy that has his own opinions. They don’t respect a guy who kisses their ass and they can see right through that.
/r/seduction11/09/22 03:02 AM
1

Umm … no. Return this girl to the streets
/r/seduction11/09/22 02:55 AM
1

I wouldn’t do it that way but that’s just me. If I had a great date and there was attraction and chemistry I would try to make plans with her at the end of the first date. Take the initiative and tell her you had a great time and then ask her if she wants to get together again and do something on —— (date/time)
/r/seduction11/09/22 02:30 AM
1

Yeah, don’t tolerate a woman that disrespects you or your time.
/r/seduction11/09/22 02:23 AM
4

Thanks! I really appreciate your response and think that was a good answer. I really should have thought of that. Instead I got lost in my own head and focussed on what I perceived was an inconsiderate slight. Too much time has passed at this point and the interactions I’ve had with her have sorta cooled. I suffer from NGS ( nice guy syndrome) and it’s held me back in life.
/r/seduction10/09/22 10:30 PM
8

Some of this is useful and some of it reads like an angry rant.
/r/seduction10/09/22 08:16 PM
5

I have a question: Why would a woman voluntarily give a guy her phone number and then not respond to a call or text..? Just for clarification, this wasn’t total a stranger or cold approach, etc. This was someone I knew on an acquaintance level that gave me her number.
/r/seduction10/09/22 07:55 PM
2

She doesn’t like you and she enjoys seeing you humiliated.
/r/seduction10/09/22 05:23 AM
62

You’re not doing anything wrong. Actually, you want them talking about themselves. It makes it easier to escalate.
/r/seduction10/09/22 05:16 AM
2

Usually yes.
/r/seduction10/09/22 12:24 AM
6

Excellent post. I’ve been all too guilty of doing this myself. Don’t waste your time pining over a woman that could care less about you.
/r/seduction10/09/22 12:17 AM
3

Everyone deserves two chances, some women will get cold feet at the last minute, especially if you’re a complete stranger. You can’t blame them,they have to consider their own safety.
/r/seduction09/09/22 08:28 PM
8

Everyone is entitled to cancel once. Two cancellations or more, take a hint.
/r/seduction09/09/22 05:40 PM
40

Try not being so serious
/r/seduction09/09/22 03:35 AM
38

They’re interested in getting to know you.
/r/seduction09/09/22 12:13 AM
4

At the end of the first
/r/seduction08/09/22 02:30 PM
1

Hey let’s hookup ! ( works every time )
/r/seduction07/09/22 05:49 PM
1

Maybe you should work on that
/r/seduction06/09/22 05:45 PM
7

Here’s a hot tip: if you don’t enjoy your own company, why do think some woman would?
/r/seduction06/09/22 04:23 PM
6

Once to establish a meet and once to confirm
/r/seduction06/09/22 04:02 PM
2

That’s enough to approach and take a shot.
/r/seduction06/09/22 10:16 AM
5

You don’t deal with them. You avoid them
/r/seduction06/09/22 10:15 AM
2

Look for eye contact at least twice. If she smiles at you even better.
/r/seduction06/09/22 10:11 AM
6

Call her asap before she moves on to the next guy.
/r/seduction06/09/22 06:10 AM
17

You could always develop some hobbies and start enjoying your life.
/r/seduction06/09/22 06:07 AM
1

She tells you she’s horny
/r/seduction06/09/22 05:33 AM
4

Text him now to let him know
/r/seduction06/09/22 01:22 AM
31

Trying to hard comes off as desperate.
/r/seduction05/09/22 08:14 PM
1

Ride the wave and see where it goes. It’s still early
/r/seduction05/09/22 07:49 PM
1

Women always have more options then men and they’re always being pursued. If she’s acting distant it usually means there’s another guy in the mix.
/r/seduction05/09/22 06:38 PM
3

The whole script. It’s so high school. You must’ve asked her 50 times what are you doing? I don’t know what are you doing? ESCALATE
/r/seduction05/09/22 03:10 PM
1

Like this: Me: Let’s get together?
/r/seduction05/09/22 02:56 PM
5

First off, what was that? My head hurts from reading it and after all that juvenile banter, you never escalated to asking her out? Wtf
/r/seduction05/09/22 02:32 PM
5

When you meet someone you should have absolutely no expectations, other than is this person worth my time. Too many guys are overly sensitive and worried about whether someone is going to like them, that they don’t spend a second flipping the script. You should be thinking, is this person worth my time? Do I like her? Is she good enough for me to even ask out on a date or a second date? Once you master that, you’ll have more success. You suffer from low self-esteem because you’re worried about w…
/r/seduction05/09/22 02:26 PM
2

By not investing in the outcome
/r/seduction05/09/22 02:11 PM
6

Idgaf is a good attitude to have. Detach from the outcome.
/r/seduction05/09/22 03:11 AM
-4

Viagra
/r/seduction05/09/22 12:26 AM
1

Nothing better then a pussy smorgasbord.
/r/seduction05/09/22 12:01 AM
1

Most women are attracted to attractive men. If you’re attractive and successful you’ll meet women. The rest of your thesis is false.
/r/seduction04/09/22 10:08 PM
3

Establish eye contact first. Sneaking up on a woman is almost guaranteed to creep her out.
/r/seduction04/09/22 10:03 PM
2

I’m not sure why you would care. Any woman that would see your profile is on there herself looking to meet a guy. I think you really need to get out of your own head. Stop worrying what other people think, because most of the time they don’t think about you as much as you think about yourself.
/r/seduction04/09/22 06:44 AM
19

You might be surprised to learn, people really don’t care.
/r/seduction04/09/22 06:34 AM
1

No I couldn’t and I already explained the reasons why. OLD allows you to develop your personality and some game. There’s no investment in the outcome because why would I care if some woman I never met, or went out with once on a coffee date blocked me the next day…? I don’t care. Now cold approaching is different. You need to have balls to do it and you have to be able to risk rejection and some women won’t even be nice when they reject you.
/r/seduction04/09/22 06:13 AM
1

Answer: no I couldn’t. I was shy,had no game and zero confidence. I wouldn’t recommend something that didn’t work for me personally
/r/seduction04/09/22 05:49 AM
3

Don’t take a break because of her. If you have to take a break to save a buck then that’s different. FYI - you shouldn’t be spending anything more then a cup of coffee when first meeting them anyway. Remember, they’re qualifying you and you should be qualifying them too. Half of the women you’ll meet are not worth the cost of a date. If you’re taking them out to dinner and drinks hoping to impress them, you’re in the wrong mindset and you’re wasting money. Your time is every bit as valuable as h…
/r/seduction04/09/22 05:46 AM
0

Not true. I got laid a ton using OLD. You have to change your attitude if you want a better result.
/r/seduction04/09/22 05:09 AM
5

Happens to every guy who puts himself out there. The worst thing you can do is to let it bother you. Don’t take it personal. There’s at least as many women that are assholes as there are men.
/r/seduction04/09/22 05:07 AM
-3

Try online dating until you gain confidence.
/r/seduction04/09/22 05:01 AM
0

Don’t approach at the gym. Not cool.
/r/seduction04/09/22 04:35 AM
1

It doesn’t matter who has who’s number. What matters is if you get an answer to that call or text.
/r/seduction04/09/22 04:31 AM
5

No. If she’s trash people will think less of you for being with her.
/r/seduction04/09/22 02:20 AM
1

Don’t make eye contact, don’t smile ,in fact look angry and walk fast and with a purpose.
/r/seduction04/09/22 01:23 AM
3

Might be a good idea if you two started communicating like adults and stop playing games before one of you moves on. Just sayin.
/r/seduction03/09/22 09:49 PM
1

Red flags are a drop in enthusiasm or sudden/ gradual loss of interest. If I’m into a woman, I want to see her!
/r/seduction03/09/22 09:11 PM
2

He’s stringing you along and he’s not really interested. If someone doesn’t respond to calls, texts or make and follow through on plans those are obvious clues.
/r/seduction03/09/22 07:23 PM
5

Yes. It’s a flirtatious sign, assuming it’s directed at you and not someone standing behind you.
/r/seduction03/09/22 03:57 PM
0

I’ve been authentic all my life and it’s gotten me far but not with women.
/r/seduction26/08/22 10:40 PM
0

Sketchy at best. You can be authentic all your life and if she’s not interested, you ain’t gettin any.
/r/seduction26/08/22 06:58 PM
10

“Do women hate men that approach?” They hate it when guys they are not attracted to approach.
/r/seduction26/08/22 12:51 PM
3

Don’t do benchmarks. Just hangout and get to know them.
/r/seduction26/08/22 12:46 PM
28

Lol. You made it known to her that she wasted your time and then you went back days later and offered to give her another chance? First off, most women will initially flake and they’ll do it for a variety of reasons including being scared. Always wise to give them a another chance. Not wise to lose your cool. It makes you seem inflexible and intolerant. When you see her at the gym just ignore her. You can’t fix this and it’s best to leave her alone.
/r/seduction26/08/22 12:44 PM
2

No I don’t agree with you. Try again
/r/seduction26/08/22 12:22 PM
1

Read my post again. There’s more truth in it then you’ll ever find in Todd’s money hustle.
/r/seduction26/08/22 12:20 PM
1

Are you into guys or women?
/r/seduction26/08/22 12:18 PM
1

Seen it and it doesn’t change reality.
/r/seduction26/08/22 12:15 PM
-1

Yea ok 😴
/r/seduction26/08/22 12:14 PM
3

Totally false
/r/seduction26/08/22 12:13 PM
56

It happens naturally if she likes you. You can’t turn a woman on unless she’s into you. If she’s not attracted to you, you can’t move the needle. Women are generally dishonest about attraction. They’ll often say, I just want a “nice guy” or I just want a guy who can make me laugh,etc but in reality we’re all driven by physical attraction.
/r/seduction26/08/22 07:52 AM
7

If a woman is smiling at you, laughing and enjoying your company she’s flirting with you. Positive eye contact and body language are also clues of possible interest.
/r/seduction26/08/22 07:22 AM
2

Probably not. Sorry
/r/seduction26/08/22 01:15 AM
-4

I think you missed the sarcasm.
/r/seduction26/08/22 12:55 AM
2

Not when they say that.
/r/seduction26/08/22 12:54 AM
1

Hey, I’m not complaining. I think they’re amazing to look at. Cameltoes rule!
/r/seduction26/08/22 12:53 AM
2

It’s just a new go- to- line to tell you they’re not fucking you.
/r/seduction26/08/22 12:15 AM
2

Just call them a loser and make them feel inferior.
/r/seduction25/08/22 11:49 PM
2

I appreciate your very long and detailed answer. However, if you’re claiming that women wear cameltoe pants for comfort and flexibility and NOT attention, I have a bridge for sale you might be interested in.
/r/seduction25/08/22 11:45 PM
-2

Question: If you’re wearing cameltoe pants in the gym, why is it inappropriate for me to compliment you on how nice they look and highlight your features?
/r/seduction25/08/22 11:08 PM
7

Some chicks are turned on by disabled dudes. It’s called the Florence Nightingale kink. Own it and use it to your advantage. Don’t be ashamed or embarrassed by your disability.
/r/seduction25/08/22 07:31 PM
1

Almost doesn’t count
/r/seduction25/08/22 07:21 PM
2

If you have to ask, you’re probably not reading her clues.
/r/seduction25/08/22 01:20 AM
1

Because people lie
/r/seduction24/08/22 02:33 PM
8

The quality is low and most are single mothers. Use it to get laid.
/r/seduction24/08/22 01:14 PM
1

I think you missed the joke but that’s ok. Good luck 👍
/r/seduction24/08/22 12:12 AM
1

Have you seen what’s out there? Have you dated lately? Being alone and watching porn isn’t the worst option. Just sayin
/r/seduction24/08/22 12:02 AM
1

I’ve had enough experience at this stage of my life to know when to walk away. I have no interest in trying to convince a woman why she should give me a chance. It’s pathetic. When women say, I just want a nice guy, or I just want a guy that can me laugh. Bullshit! They want a guy they’re attracted to just like men are driven by attraction.
/r/seduction23/08/22 11:53 PM
3

More like two: 1)interested 2) not interested
/r/seduction23/08/22 11:12 PM
2

Been saying this for years. Idgaf what women think and no guy should either.
/r/seduction23/08/22 06:33 AM
2

If a woman is attracted to you, yes you can be bold and assertive. That’s expected.
/r/seduction22/08/22 06:18 PM
3

Because most of them are chameleons.
/r/seduction22/08/22 05:54 PM
2

Texting is a sign of avoidance. Be a grown up and use the phone properly.
/r/seduction22/08/22 12:34 AM
1

It’s a numbers game and the more you approach the more likely it is that you’ll get a number. Here’s The problem, just because she gives you her phone number doesn’t mean that number is legit, or that she’s going to respond back. Personally, I would rather be rejected upfront then have someone give me a number and not respond because for whatever reason in my own mind that just feels more demoralizing.
/r/seduction21/08/22 07:02 PM
3

You’re putting too much work into it and you’re really overthinking it. Don’t treat it like a second job. Just be yourself and develop an idgaf attitude.
/r/seduction21/08/22 05:40 AM
2

Read the room and play the percentages. Learn to read a woman’s body language and eye contact. If a woman is looking away from you or refusing to make eye contact this is a sign that she’s not interested in you, or not interested in being approached. If a woman sees you and turns the other way or turns her body in a way that is closed off. This is a sign she is not interested in being approached. If you’re in a room with women be it at a club, restaurant, party or wherever, they’ve already notic…
/r/seduction21/08/22 05:09 AM
3

Weddings
/r/seduction20/08/22 11:50 PM
7

Texting is a form of avoidance. Use it sparingly and try to make time to call each other.
/r/seduction20/08/22 10:09 PM
1

Neither. People that are slow to respond to messages or not considering you any kind of a priority. I would add there’s also an element of rude and inconsiderate behavior attached to this as well. If you are pursuing someone, dating someone or are in a relationship with someone I think you should respond to that person in a timely manner and that should be within two hours, unless you’re at work or in a business meeting, etc.
/r/seduction20/08/22 06:07 PM
36

I love this sub but not for the typical reasons. Some of these questions are comedy gold.
/r/seduction20/08/22 05:55 PM
0

It never gets easier but keep trying.
/r/seduction20/08/22 05:20 PM
2

Here an idea. Why don’t you just relax, hang out and enjoy the scenery without any expectation of the outcome. You might be surprised
/r/seduction20/08/22 07:22 AM
55

There’s a variety of factors in play. Generally, women are very selective about who they hook up with. They have the most options and if they’re not attracted to you, you’re not getting inside of them. It doesn’t matter how great your personality is, how charming you are or how you make them laugh. Although all of those are great qualities they do not get you a free pussy pass. Something else that’s rarely talked about is how many women are completely indifferent towards sex. They can go months …
/r/seduction20/08/22 01:08 AM
2

Be careful of taking the advice of some random poster. If you assume being more sexually assertive with women is good dating advice, give it a try. Don’t be surprised if you get slapped, spit on or have someone call security or the authorities on you. Whenever you approach a woman and express an interest in her, she instinctively knows what you want. Women are not stupid. You don’t need to tell her specifically that you’re interested In getting between her legs. It’s unnecessary.
/r/seduction19/08/22 09:09 PM
0

A bit of reading comprehension can’t hurt? There’s nothing I didn’t say in the beginning of this exchange that doesn’t hold true now.
/r/seduction19/08/22 05:25 AM
0

That’s not the point you made in the beginning. You said that women can easily find sex but they can’t find meaningful relationships. I said that was false and it’s still false.
/r/seduction19/08/22 04:43 AM
0

You cited two articles about women unable to find partners of the same educational level ( or higher) and the same income level ( or higher) as their own. That’s a huge caveat to your argument. Do you realize that ? It’s not that women can’t find relationships, it’s that they don’t want to marry down. Well boo-fucking-hoo! Men having been marrying down since marriage was invented and they never discriminated based on their partner’s education or financial status.
/r/seduction19/08/22 04:37 AM
0

Ahh no
/r/seduction19/08/22 04:22 AM
0

Oh ok. Explain why?
/r/seduction19/08/22 04:08 AM
0

No. They don’t have issues finding either.
/r/seduction19/08/22 04:03 AM
1

Dating = sex. It doesn’t matter if it happens on the first date or the 50th date. There’s an objective in dating.
/r/seduction19/08/22 03:42 AM
2

Ok, that’s great. Let me just reiterate one point I made above. You can have a nice interaction with a woman, maybe even get a number but if she doesn’t respond to that call or text, she’s not interested. The only time you’re EVER going to move the needle with a woman you’re interested in is if she likes you too. There is no flip side to this coin. If she’s not attracted to you, it doesn’t matter how well you flirt or how much mojo you got, It ain’t happening.
/r/seduction19/08/22 03:38 AM
1

Not that I’m aware of. This sub is to share stories, commiserate, and yes, sometimes someone will share an idea or a success story but it had nothing do with an opening line or some voodoo magic spell he cast. He just met a girl who happened to like him and they started dating.
/r/seduction19/08/22 03:32 AM
1

Women have more options then men. They have the pussy so they have the power. You can get upset about “equality” and how men marry down and women don’t have to, etc. etc and guess what ? Doesn’t matter. They have the pussy and pussy is leverage. Everything in life is based on supply and demand. Penis owners are not in demand by women. However, vagina owners are always in overwhelming demand by penis owners. Best advice is to get on with your life and develop hobbies and interests and stop obsess…
/r/seduction19/08/22 03:20 AM
3

Tell him it’s just your own natural juices. 😂
/r/seduction18/08/22 06:56 PM
1

OLD is where you’ll have most success
/r/seduction18/08/22 03:10 PM
12

My advice is to read the room. If a woman avoids eye contact, or looks through you like you don’t exist and her body language is closed off I would not approach. I play the percentages and the odds are that she’s not interested. I’m not telling any guy not to take your shot. If you’re attracted to a woman that you see and you want to go for it, take your shot. Personally, I would rather approach a woman that has given me eye contact, a smile or both. I don’t need to feel the sting of rejection w…
/r/seduction18/08/22 01:25 AM
8

Nope. My recent experience was with someone that came on strong, went flaky but still friendly to eventually nothing.
/r/seduction17/08/22 07:28 PM
2

Can’t give you anything but the truth.
/r/seduction17/08/22 07:21 PM
2

Do whatever feels right for you. I think it’s situational.
/r/seduction17/08/22 06:52 PM
3

Thoughts ? Yeah, you blew it by acting like a creepy stalker.
/r/seduction17/08/22 06:49 PM
-3

Oh ok. Now I’m pompous? Bye Felicia
/r/seduction17/08/22 06:45 PM
-4

Lol… you don’t know the experience I have. Keep living in an alternate reality and keep us posted. 👍
/r/seduction17/08/22 05:53 PM
11

It’s all very black and white but these dating hustlers make a lot of money off writing books and producing videos to try and convince you that you can attract any woman you want. Total bullshit!
/r/seduction17/08/22 05:28 PM
20

There is no mystery method, either she likes you or she doesn’t.
/r/seduction17/08/22 04:21 PM
1

Honesty is not the best policy when trying to pull women on dating apps.
/r/seduction17/08/22 03:54 PM
3

If you can pull that off that’s definitely one way to go about it. It never worked for me. I think one of life’s cruel pranks as a man is that we rarely get the woman we want. We get the woman that wants us and a lot of times we’re not interested or attracted to that person so it’s all kinds of fucked up.
/r/seduction17/08/22 05:02 AM
1

I suffer from the same disease. Oneitis is very hard to cure because if you develop feelings and attraction for one person, that’s the person you want and thinking about other women is impossible because you’re only interested in the one that of course, isn’t interested in you.
/r/seduction17/08/22 04:29 AM
1

Never tell a woman you like her and never show to much interest in her in the beginning. Unfortunately, you have to play games because if you come on to strong you’ll scare her off. Use the push/ pull method in the early stages of dating.
/r/seduction17/08/22 03:48 AM
3

Everyone deserves a second chance but if she flakes again ,then you know what you’re dealing with.
/r/seduction17/08/22 03:12 AM
1

Leave it. She’s not down to clown.
/r/seduction16/08/22 09:20 PM
1

I could tell you a story that I shared a few times but yeah, the mind games they play are just bizarre.
/r/seduction16/08/22 04:34 PM
1

Need to find the right guy and for you a friendship would be the best place to start
/r/seduction16/08/22 02:27 PM
1

Meet for a drink and if you like her extend it to dinner.
/r/seduction16/08/22 02:21 AM
23

Because women have unlimited options online and irl. They have the pussy and you don’t.
/r/seduction16/08/22 02:15 AM
7

You can’t. Either she likes you and is interested or she’s not.
/r/seduction16/08/22 02:14 AM
6

NEVER pursue a woman that doesn’t reply back to a call or a text. It doesn’t matter if she voluntarily gave you her number, if she doesn’t reply she’s not interested.
/r/seduction15/08/22 08:49 PM
1

Get use to it. They play guys all the time
/r/seduction15/08/22 08:39 PM
2

The headline of this post is the best part. If you get a woman’s number and you call her or text her and she doesn’t reply, move on. Don’t pursue it any further because regardless of the circumstances, if she was truly interested in you she would respond back.
/r/seduction15/08/22 06:42 PM
6

This
/r/seduction15/08/22 06:31 PM
6

As a guy I just don’t get turned on by it. I can’t want to get a woman naked.
/r/seduction15/08/22 06:31 PM
7

Only if you want to get laid someday.
/r/seduction15/08/22 06:20 PM
1

You exit. If she says she has a bf you’ve been rejected. Not important if she actually has one or not
/r/seduction15/08/22 12:52 PM
0

Feminists
/r/seduction15/08/22 12:45 PM
2

Only if you want her to block you.
/r/seduction15/08/22 05:21 AM
1

Leisure world
/r/seduction15/08/22 12:07 AM
1

The headline doesn’t match the story.
/r/seduction14/08/22 11:25 PM
65

Just unzip the beast, pull him out and give him a mouth hug.
/r/seduction14/08/22 11:20 PM
2

Let me fix this.They just want validation.
/r/seduction14/08/22 07:57 PM
6

I would respond by saying; you must’ve been on some really bad dates with some really bad guys.
/r/seduction14/08/22 06:33 PM
1

I have no problem with any of this advice. If you see a woman you’re attracted to it’s up to you to make your move because she’s not coming to you. Now, as someone that’s been shy and mostly an introvert my entire life this a hill too big to climb for me personally. I have done it and I’ve been rejected countless times and then I stopped. Rejection hurts and if you lack the ability to shake it off it can weigh on your self esteem. I would rather do OLD then IRL approach’s. Just my preference.
/r/seduction14/08/22 03:50 PM
2

By not validating them
/r/seduction14/08/22 03:26 AM
1

I would say, junior says hi!
/r/seduction14/08/22 03:12 AM
1

Talk about anything sexual
/r/seduction14/08/22 12:53 AM
3

Because guys are not interested in friendships with women they have feelings for.
/r/seduction14/08/22 12:45 AM
1

You take it out when the clothes are coming off.
/r/seduction13/08/22 10:30 PM
32

She’s telling you at best you might be a FWB if you don’t get needy
/r/seduction13/08/22 05:29 PM
10

I wrote about my experience with this on a couple other threads. There’s a place that I frequent and I became very friendly with one of the servers/bartender and over a period of months when she would see me we would usually talk and I got the vibe that she was interested. I was definitely into her but very respectful because of what she does for a living and where she works. I was always aware that part of her job description is to be nice. I also never wanted to make her feel uncomfortable so …
/r/seduction13/08/22 02:45 PM
3

Wise point.
/r/seduction13/08/22 02:35 PM
1

Not sure exactly sure what your point is but they’re easier to get with. ONS are a lot more common but you’re dealing with someone that’s using you for your youth like you’re using her for easy access to sex. You’re not going to have much in common and it really isn’t going to last.
/r/seduction13/08/22 02:31 PM
1

Why don’t you insert it in from the cowgirl position?
/r/seduction13/08/22 01:34 AM
2

Nope. Not doing anything wrong they’re just gamers
/r/seduction13/08/22 01:29 AM
2

She’s a gamer. Don’t waste your time or energy on her
/r/seduction12/08/22 09:45 PM
2

If a woman smiles at you she’s being friendly. There’s no harm in approaching someone that’s friendly.
/r/seduction12/08/22 08:45 PM
2

Some of this comment has merit. I agree that you can’t make a woman interested in you if she’s not. Walk away with some dignity and self respect. I had a woman that insisted I have her number but when I reached out the next day she never responded. Did I continue to try and contact her ? No. One and done is my motto because if she was seriously interested in me I would’ve heard from her. Btw- I still see her around. The rest of this comment is a just defeatism.
/r/seduction12/08/22 08:35 PM
8

Some creepy guy posted this. 🙄
/r/seduction12/08/22 04:34 AM
0

Don’t be afraid to be a horndog. You’re 19 and a guy, there’s nothing more important then pussy. Put out your intentions and don’t worry about it.
/r/seduction12/08/22 04:03 AM
0

Any conversation that starts with sex will definitely get a guys attention.
/r/seduction12/08/22 03:57 AM
1

It’s their normal response to your approach. I would read it as positive sign. You’re clearly not ugly or their response would be more dismissive. The smiling or smirking is just them being nervous about your approach.
/r/seduction12/08/22 03:13 AM
1

Just hookup and then unhook when it’s over. You’re only interested in what’s between her legs, not what’s between her ears. Keep the conversations to the minimum.
/r/seduction11/08/22 10:11 PM
4

It means she’s looking out for her own safety and well-being.
/r/seduction11/08/22 10:04 PM
1

Add more risqué language and sexual innuendo into the conversation.
/r/seduction11/08/22 07:19 PM
1

A woman once told me in college that nice guys are boring and really bad fucks.
/r/seduction11/08/22 06:42 PM
1

I don’t see the problem. Go meet her
/r/seduction11/08/22 06:39 PM
1

Enjoy every second of it! There’s nothing better then a tight 20 something year old
/r/seduction11/08/22 03:14 AM
3

Don’t feed the trolls
/r/seduction11/08/22 01:55 AM
1

Casual sex = fun
/r/seduction11/08/22 01:47 AM
4

Hi! I see you’re walking on the street. Are you a street walker ?
/r/seduction10/08/22 10:16 PM
9

One of the reasons so many relationships fail is because we’re so interested in attracting that other person into our life that we’re afraid to be our own authentic version of ourselves. So, you pretend to like the same things the other person likes because you want them to like you. FF down the road and you can’t pretend anymore. I hate (fill in the blank) but wait, you told me liked that? Add another 10-15 items to that list of unlikeables and you see where this goes ? No place good. Be yourse…
/r/seduction10/08/22 05:37 PM
9

If you want to know how to trick a guy into falling in love, be the best sex he’s ever had and be his best friend. That includes sharing his hobbies and interests and that’s why I used the word “ trick” because you might not be interested in his hobbies. Good luck
/r/seduction10/08/22 03:48 PM
12

I’m a guy who’s never been in love. I’ve been in lust many times but love transcends lust and it’s always eluded me. I can’t answer your question other then to tell you my “love” for a woman’s vagina never matched that of her personality.
/r/seduction10/08/22 03:36 PM
1

Without knowing a single thing about you except what you put in this comment, I’m inclined to think it might be your personality.
/r/seduction10/08/22 04:34 AM
1

It’s referred to as a cologne for men in America but I recommend Drakkar Noir.
/r/seduction09/08/22 07:32 AM
35

Put her on ice and let her come to you. Don’t get attached because she’s only into you for hookups.
/r/seduction09/08/22 05:38 AM
1

What’s your gender ?
/r/seduction09/08/22 05:33 AM
0

And I gave it.
/r/seduction08/08/22 08:39 PM
0

It’s called commitment and it’s not for everyone. If you’re struggling with it now you probably shouldn’t be in a relationship. It’s not going to get easier.
/r/seduction08/08/22 08:33 PM
2

Everything is situational
/r/seduction08/08/22 08:15 PM
1

It depends on what you want. Marriage is a contract and before you enter into it you both need to discuss what you expect out of it.
/r/seduction08/08/22 03:50 PM
15

Yes I did, but it I realize now that none of that takes the place of falling in love and being in love with the woman of your dreams and having a family. I mean NOTHING!
/r/seduction07/08/22 11:12 PM
41

I’m not going to cheer you up. I’m going to hopefully motivate you to get off your ass and make your move. If you’re worried now, wait until you’re 50. I’ve never been in love, never been married and never had kids. My life is full of regret and sadness. Don’t become me.
/r/seduction07/08/22 08:37 PM
2

Women are attracted to looks, money and status.
/r/seduction07/08/22 08:34 PM
6

This is very inspirational to read, especially to a young, naive guy inexperienced with women. Unfortunately I’m not him. I’ve been around the track enough times to know this is simply not true.
/r/seduction07/08/22 08:27 PM
-3

No. Looks and money is
/r/seduction07/08/22 07:56 PM
1

Some men want more than sex. The woman you’re approaching doesn’t know that.
/r/seduction07/08/22 02:14 PM
2

Yeah, and inviting former coworkers over for a bbq is only going to reinforce that idea in her head.
/r/seduction06/08/22 05:52 PM
1

Why don’t you just call her and ask her out? She might think you wanted to be friends
/r/seduction06/08/22 05:08 PM
2

Yes, obviously but in the beginning of getting to know each other if you can get her to talk about herself, hobbies whatever she’s passionate about she’s going to feel like you’re a good listener. Women like men that listen.
/r/seduction06/08/22 03:52 PM
-3

Yes he should ask her because he doesn’t know if she’s dumped him. His English isn’t so good and he’s from a different country.
/r/seduction06/08/22 01:11 PM
0

I think she’s lost interest in you but I would ask her.
/r/seduction06/08/22 05:12 AM
3

What was the context of her comment? Was it said in a way that implied she was no longer interested in you??? Or, was she half joking ? Or was she explaining to you that she doesn’t like this relationship because you talk to much?
/r/seduction06/08/22 03:58 AM
10

Can you quickly fix the grammar so I understand your response?
/r/seduction06/08/22 03:49 AM
83

Let me give you a hot tip. Women really don’t want here you talk too much. They want you to listen to them while they talk.
/r/seduction06/08/22 03:40 AM
14

This!
/r/seduction06/08/22 03:39 AM
1

You need looks and money to compete for the attention of American women. If you want a relationship that will lead to marriage, look to the Midwest, or southeast,or better still look outside the U.S.
/r/seduction05/08/22 08:52 PM
3

You’re not doing anything wrong. Women are not stupid. They instinctively know when you approach them that you’re actually looking for sex. It’s biologically programmed from the caveman era that men pursue and women protect themselves.
/r/seduction05/08/22 03:35 AM
3

If you’re attracted to someone specific it can be very difficult to hit the reset and stop focusing on that specific person. This advice is better suited for random hookups.
/r/seduction04/08/22 10:41 PM
1

You keep things cool and friendly and most importantly fun. If she’s into you, you’ll know.
/r/seduction04/08/22 10:37 PM
1

First off, in your circumstances I would definitely drop her a note with your number and say something about how you really find her attractive but you don’t want to bother her at work. Here’s my number and hopefully we can chat. I would say you have a solid chance of hearing from her based on what you described. My situation was kind of a mind f*ck. There’s a female server/ bartender and I could sense there was a vibe between us. She always made time to talk to me regardless of how busy she was…
/r/seduction04/08/22 01:30 AM
3

She hasn’t given you anything to work with. Essentially it’s like a cold approach where you’re just hitting on her and the outcome isn’t necessarily going to be in your favor. I would really try to strike up a conversation first. Compliment something about her, something completely innocuous. See what her reaction is and then proceed. It’s very hard to hit on women in the service industry because their job is to be nice to the customer. You have to be respectful of her work environment and how y…
/r/seduction03/08/22 10:41 PM
11

I think every guy has at one point or another put a woman on a pedestal. How do you not do that ? You date women below your standards and you gain confidence and introspection.
/r/seduction03/08/22 08:00 PM
2

Have your interactions with her been friendly or strictly business? Has she given you any indication that she might be interested in you? Eye contact, smiling, flirting, etc ?
/r/seduction03/08/22 07:57 PM
2

If you can’t close after being naked and lying in bed together, then you’re doing something wrong.
/r/seduction03/08/22 06:08 PM
1

Ok, at the risk of being downvoted into oblivion I’m going to answer this question sincerely and honestly. I can’t personally commit to a woman until I know if we’re sexually compatible. I have no problem going on dates and getting to know her but a true commitment will never happen until after we’ve had sex.
/r/seduction02/08/22 10:25 PM
1

You’re overthinking this.
/r/seduction02/08/22 10:10 PM
1

That makes for a great hookup
/r/seduction02/08/22 02:38 PM
1

Totally situational and depends on the women you’re interested in, what her personality is like and how open she is to certain language and advances
/r/seduction01/08/22 08:02 PM
2

You say: I bet he’s a luck guy and you move on
/r/seduction01/08/22 07:59 PM
5

School, college classes, dance classes and church socials.
/r/seduction01/08/22 07:45 PM
1

They’ll usually start an argument for one of two reasons. 1) They want attention 2) They’re bored in the relationship and want out, or they’re seeing someone else
/r/seduction31/07/22 08:43 PM
2

You could always ask? Start with: I wanted to ask you a question but before I do are you at least 18?
/r/seduction31/07/22 08:14 PM
21

You have to apply with the Italian embassy for a ONS passport.
/r/seduction31/07/22 08:03 PM
1

She changed her mind. Move on
/r/seduction31/07/22 04:04 PM
1

A $100 dollar bill doesn’t even fill the gas tank in this economy.
/r/seduction31/07/22 04:00 PM
2

Why do you need to know? Assuming you’re dating 18 and older that’s not really necessary
/r/seduction31/07/22 03:54 PM
20

Not in my experience. Out of sight, out of mind is generally how women move on.
/r/seduction31/07/22 03:52 PM
3

This sounds completely fake but I’ll give you the benefit of the doubt and say these “men” you’re encountering are either momma’s boys, or they’re gay.
/r/seduction31/07/22 01:54 AM
1

She’s giving you the green light to approach.
/r/seduction31/07/22 01:48 AM
0

She’s faking it
/r/seduction31/07/22 01:39 AM
1

Are you a mean bf? Are you a dick to her ? Do you verbally or physically abuse her??? If you answered no to those questions then there’s someone else.
/r/seduction31/07/22 12:59 AM
1

First off: There’s someone else in the picture and that’s the real reason why she’s distancing herself. The question is: if the new guy doesn’t work out, do you want to take her back?
/r/seduction31/07/22 12:45 AM
4

Tell him you want to lick his ice cream cone
/r/seduction31/07/22 12:42 AM
2

Jerk it before you go out so you’re calm. Be cool and don’t get stupid drunk
/r/seduction31/07/22 12:37 AM
7

I have a good one for you guys. If you learn how to fuck really good, a woman will take you out on dates and pay. Source: experience
/r/seduction31/07/22 12:35 AM
6

Maybe you shouldn’t just cold approach without establishing eye contact and some positive body language. Cold approaching just to do it is likely going to end in complete failure.
/r/seduction31/07/22 12:32 AM
3

Many women marry for money and not for love.
/r/seduction31/07/22 12:30 AM
1

None. It’s all amazing and there’s few things more fun then ONS
/r/seduction30/07/22 10:35 PM
1

Because a guy has sex on his brain 24/7. We’re burdened with having testosterone coursing through our body and it makes us horny. Making out is just a prelude for what we really want and that’s to hopefully turn you on and make you want to get naked.
/r/seduction30/07/22 01:51 AM
1

Absolutely not.
/r/seduction29/07/22 05:53 AM
1

Why would you want to get mixed up with someone that’s into playing games?
/r/seduction27/07/22 06:23 PM
1

Maybe but not untrue.
/r/seduction27/07/22 02:48 PM
1

As long as you’re being yourself and not a fake nice impersonator then it’s fine.
/r/seduction27/07/22 06:31 AM
2

Usually it’s just dates
/r/seduction27/07/22 12:45 AM
6

They can get away with anything. They have the pussy. It’s just another example of God’s cruel sense of humor.
/r/seduction26/07/22 10:48 PM
22

It happened a few months ago and she works at a business I go to, so I see her regularly. We’re still friendly, I never brought up her ignored text but yea, it’s completely inexplicable. I would prefer a woman just straight up tell me she’s not interested then play me like that.
/r/seduction26/07/22 09:37 PM
9

Bring two bones when you come over, one for the dog and one for the girl.
/r/seduction26/07/22 08:38 PM
55

Well, yea this is common sense. I had a woman I was flirting with grab my phone and put her number in it. I said ok you’re on! I texted her the next day and…. crickets. Women routinely use men for validation without ever any real intention of wanting to meet up. That’s just a sad reality and there’s nothing you can do about it.
/r/seduction26/07/22 07:54 PM
1

This only works if the woman you’re with is more attractive then you.
/r/seduction26/07/22 06:37 PM
1

Yes. She was evaluating your worthiness
/r/seduction26/07/22 02:40 AM
6

Women don’t know what they want. They live in the moment until they hit the wall and then most guys are no longer interested in them.
/r/seduction25/07/22 08:30 PM
1

Ask your wife for permission first, then do her.
/r/seduction24/07/22 09:10 PM
-2

You treat anyone like you would want to be treated. Btw- That unattractive woman might have attractive looking friends.
/r/seduction24/07/22 09:03 PM
0

These posts are so funny. Countless guys trying to analyze women and trying to figure out what makes them tick. There’s no secret formula. Either she’s attracted to you and she likes you, or she doesn’t. If she’s not into you, move on.
/r/seduction24/07/22 07:14 PM
1

It means she wanted to see if you might turn her on. She wanted to hang out
/r/seduction24/07/22 07:04 PM
1

As a guy, I don’t believe in being an asshole to a woman just to get laid and I don’t want her to be one either. I’ll gladly eat her asshole, but I don’t want her to be one.
/r/seduction24/07/22 02:05 AM
3

Say: Oh no I’m not. I’m bad!
/r/seduction23/07/22 09:51 PM
2

There’s a million reasons she might be staring. She also might be oblivious to the fact she’s staring at you. You might remind her of someone, etc. Say hi, I noticed you checking me out.
/r/seduction23/07/22 08:11 PM
1

Tell her!!!! Stop playing games
/r/seduction23/07/22 08:08 PM
2

Acknowledge how hot Sally looks in her dress. Tell her ! That’s a conversation starter
/r/seduction23/07/22 07:34 PM
3

She’s acknowledging you acknowledging her. She’s most likely not interested because she’s not smiling back. Typically this is someone I might say hi to you, just confirm what I suspect.
/r/seduction23/07/22 07:32 PM
1

You don’t have real problems
/r/seduction23/07/22 07:27 PM
3

At Fucks ‘R Us. This was the adult version of Toys R Us before they went out of business.
/r/seduction23/07/22 04:58 PM
1

Really depends on her personality. If she’s a pretentious, conceded bitch then I wouldn’t want her as a friend, obviously. However, if I genuinely like her and I’m attracted to her, I might try to remain friends with her. The friendzone is like being on the 20 yard line. You’re closer to the end zone then someone she’s never met. Just remember, you might NEVER move the ball further and there might NEVER be a TD. It also might be a little too much seeing her with a bf so if you can’t handle that …
/r/seduction23/07/22 04:18 PM
7

Men do not reject women on the level that women reject men. Not even close.
/r/seduction23/07/22 04:50 AM
8

Yea, that only goes so far.
/r/seduction22/07/22 10:07 PM
2

Hopefully you escalate over text and hookup with her on her next visit. Good luck 👍
/r/seduction22/07/22 07:29 PM
23

Over 90% of a man’s failures in dating is due to the woman he’s pursuing and her rejection of him. Assuming you’re a nice person and pursue a woman for a date and/ or relationship, there’s only so much you can do. If she’s not interested you’ve been rejected. Game over! To the original question. Why do men struggle in dating? Because women make success in dating very difficult.
/r/seduction22/07/22 07:26 PM
30

It’s because women have all the leverage and all the power and they can reject you on a dime.
/r/seduction22/07/22 07:13 PM
1

It helps, but sometimes a rich girl like to slum it with the working class.
/r/seduction22/07/22 03:11 AM
4

She wanted validation and she got it.
/r/seduction22/07/22 03:08 AM
2

I don’t think the answer is so black and white. Personally, I can’t even form a serious connection unless I like the sex. Everything is casual until I know there’s something special and unique about that pussy. Then I want to get to know the owner of it better.
/r/seduction21/07/22 10:10 PM
3

Just be honest.
/r/seduction21/07/22 03:44 PM
0

Exactly what you did
/r/seduction21/07/22 01:38 PM
2

Be genuine, not fake. Understand and know the difference.
/r/seduction21/07/22 05:34 AM
3

Oh, ok douchebag.
/r/seduction21/07/22 04:56 AM
0

No, it’s a legitimate way to get rejected by women.
/r/seduction21/07/22 04:54 AM
0

Stereotype much ? Or, is this just you projecting.
/r/seduction21/07/22 03:32 AM
-1

Cold approaching. You have less odds then buying a lotto scratcher. Flirt with a woman first and try to read her interest before randomly approaching.
/r/seduction21/07/22 03:20 AM
6

Not sure why you want to do that, but as long as you’re having fun.
/r/seduction21/07/22 03:14 AM
0

1) Giving out a number isn’t being nice, it’s being fake, phony and it’s leading someone on. 2) The date could’ve gone fine and she could still ghost. 3) Women statistically end relationships and file for divorce more then men. -,women do not know what they want.
/r/seduction21/07/22 01:43 AM
2

A boring guy is a guy that talks about himself. Women like to talk about themselves and they like a guy that will listen.
/r/seduction20/07/22 10:51 PM
6

Women like to talk to guys that have looks and status. They don’t like guys that are ugly with no swag.
/r/seduction19/07/22 10:13 PM
-2

— Do you like doggie style?
/r/seduction19/07/22 08:10 PM
2

Something happened on the last date, or after and she’s changed her mind. I would leave her alone.
/r/seduction19/07/22 05:17 PM
1

…. You’re going to blow it anyway
/r/seduction19/07/22 03:34 AM
1

She gave you the green light. Don’t blow it
/r/seduction19/07/22 03:14 AM
1

Ask her what she’s doing next ….(pick a day) ? Tell her you want to take her to (pick a place)
/r/seduction19/07/22 03:10 AM
1

Why not see where it goes?
/r/seduction19/07/22 03:07 AM
3

It all feels good, 20’s - 30’s and beyond.
/r/seduction19/07/22 02:59 AM
6

She likes you. What are you waiting for…?
/r/seduction15/07/22 09:45 PM
-5

That’s why LTR’s rarely work out.
/r/seduction13/07/22 07:17 PM
1

Completely depends on how well the first day is going. If she’s having fun and you’re having fun I don’t see why you can’t ask her if she wants to get together again
/r/seduction13/07/22 07:11 PM
3

If you’re cool navigating life alone then I think you should continue that journey. Relationships are a lot of work and compromise and I don’t sense you would be successful in one based on what you wrote.
/r/seduction13/07/22 02:34 PM
2

You don’t have to fake attraction, and you don’t have to fuck any guy you don’t want to fuck. Just be aware, you know how certain guys can give off “creep vibes”? Well, women can give off shallow gold digger vibes and when we sense that a woman has that characteristic, we ghost like it’s Halloween. One day your looks are going to run out and if you haven’t found that good looking rich guy to take care of you, you’re fucked! Women that pull that kind of stuff find out what karma is after they hit…
/r/seduction13/07/22 06:00 AM
2

No. I think you should try being a nice person to every guy you meet. Yes, even the ugly guys you’re not attracted to. You don’t have to fuck any of them, just work on improving your personality. You might actually surprise yourself, because when you’re not busy being a self absorbed, vapid and conceited narcissist you can actually meet people for who they are, instead of what they look like or what they can do for you.
/r/seduction13/07/22 05:44 AM
1

Too much work. I would rather just Jack it.
/r/seduction13/07/22 05:35 AM
7

I can give you an answer but you’re not going to like it. It would require you looking at yourself more objectively. You clearly have an over- inflated opinion of yourself and you’re rejecting guys because you deem them unworthy. One day, you’re going to hit the wall and guys are going to be rejecting you for the same superficial reasons you reject then.
/r/seduction12/07/22 11:44 PM
1

What’s happening to this thread ?🙄
/r/seduction12/07/22 10:14 PM
1

Yes. Most women are not actively pursuing men for sex. Most attractive and desirable women already have bf or husbands. There’s also a percentage of women that are not desirable. Too fat, physically unattractive, poor hygiene, etc. All of these factors play into supply and demand.
/r/seduction12/07/22 08:00 PM
2

It’s economics at its very core. Everything is based on supply and demand. She has the pussy and the pussy will always be in high demand.
/r/seduction12/07/22 03:05 PM
1

You talk to them by negotiating their rate.
/r/seduction12/07/22 03:13 AM
11

He sounds exhausted and depressed. I think you need to talk to him and get a better idea of what he’s going through.
/r/seduction11/07/22 08:32 PM
7

She’ll be receptive to your flirtation, conversation, etc.
/r/seduction11/07/22 06:55 PM
1

That you’re popular and desirable
/r/seduction11/07/22 05:53 AM
1

Sounds like she fell for you.
/r/seduction10/07/22 03:41 PM
2

There’s some huge communication issues here.
/r/seduction10/07/22 03:40 PM
0

Two weeks? I doubt it happens but no don’t text her.
/r/seduction10/07/22 08:58 AM
1

I would respond simply with; ok.
/r/seduction10/07/22 01:56 AM
3

Keep it light and fun. Be your best version of whoever you are and develop a connection and trust.
/r/seduction10/07/22 12:32 AM
3

Don’t reply to her and wait and see what happens. Never pursue a woman that has low interest, or no interest at all.
/r/seduction09/07/22 10:21 PM
1

Not usually because a woman that’s gotten her validation fix is ready to move on. There are exceptions, but if she’s not interested she’s not going to want to lead you on.
/r/seduction09/07/22 05:04 PM
1

Nothing will help you like age and experience. With it comes an idgaf attitude and when you don’t care, women start to gravitate towards you. It’s all counterintuitive.
/r/seduction09/07/22 04:58 PM
3

I’ll bottom line it: if she’s interested she’ll reply to a call or text. She’ll agree to a date after she feels like she can trust you. Anything less is about seeking attention and or validation.
/r/seduction09/07/22 04:45 PM
1

This ^
/r/seduction09/07/22 03:57 PM
1

Tell her to take a hike. By herself.
/r/seduction09/07/22 02:38 AM
4

Great advice!!!! Stop pursuing women that are not interested in you. Ask yourself, why would you want to be with someone that doesn’t want to be with you???
/r/seduction08/07/22 10:32 PM
3

Sounds like something I suffered with most of my life. Thanks for the link
/r/seduction08/07/22 09:28 PM
2

This post is all over the place. My experience is that women generally will avoid eye contact so they don’t get approached. I think this is mostly out of safety concerns but I also don’t think women are actively checking guys out. In groups they probably do feel safer and maybe let their guard down a little more.
/r/seduction08/07/22 09:24 PM
7

I wouldn’t do it unless she flirts first. Need to respect a woman’s space and time and if she’s in the gym she’s not there to meet guys.
/r/seduction08/07/22 07:57 PM
0

Tell her you want to fool around. She’ll get the idea
/r/seduction08/07/22 07:01 PM
1

Ummm.. you can’t. She’s a free thinking person and will decide who and what she wants.
/r/seduction08/07/22 05:24 PM
1

Ask: how much does this job pay?
/r/seduction08/07/22 05:30 AM
1

You can’t it’s to hard and complicated when you have feelings.
/r/seduction08/07/22 02:56 AM
4

You waited too long. 4 days? Wtf
/r/seduction08/07/22 02:43 AM
6

Don’t play these types of games. Nothing good will come out of this. Just be a nice guy and be your most authentic version of that.
/r/seduction08/07/22 01:31 AM
1

Sounds like there’s a lack of communication on both ends.
/r/seduction08/07/22 12:29 AM
1

Cincinnati!
/r/seduction08/07/22 12:00 AM
2

Cool trick
/r/seduction07/07/22 10:36 PM
1

Good rule. Take your shot and if the outcome isn’t favorable move on.
/r/seduction07/07/22 05:05 PM
2

Those excuses you laid out for cheating are weak. It is what it is, isn’t excusable. If you’re attracting those kind of women into your orbit then you need to raise your standards.
/r/seduction07/07/22 02:34 AM
0

You tell her you want her as your gf.
/r/seduction07/07/22 01:46 AM
0

It means live your life for yourself and enjoy your career and your hobbies and the right person will appear. If you’re a genuinely a happy person and content in your life, you’ll have magnetic energy.
/r/seduction06/07/22 08:43 PM
1

That’s the way to do it. No investment in the outcome and just socialize. You’ll get so use to rejection you’ll actually be surprised if one says yes.
/r/seduction06/07/22 04:17 PM
0

Stop chasing. When you chase you lose. Be friendly and interact with women without any expectations.
/r/seduction06/07/22 03:27 PM
2

Where’s your evidence that these are “incels” ?
/r/seduction05/07/22 02:08 PM
26

Women ghost more then ever. They use men for validation and then they ghost.
/r/seduction05/07/22 06:29 AM
1

You look ok, let’s hookup!
/r/seduction05/07/22 06:24 AM
-1

Yes you are but I would still do you.
/r/seduction04/07/22 05:37 PM
1

Ask him ,if the two of you were alone on a deserted island would he want you as his gf. Great icebreaker.
/r/seduction04/07/22 05:58 AM
1

Yes. Get away from the man hating, spoiled American feminists.
/r/seduction04/07/22 03:17 AM
1

Got a laid a ton doing OLD. You’re not be direct enough with these women.
/r/seduction04/07/22 03:12 AM
14

I didn’t miss a thing. The nice guys are a turnoff and finish last thing has been played out. I got laid a ton being a nice guy, just don’t be a simp.
/r/seduction03/07/22 09:08 PM
9

Doesn’t matter, you’re a connection that they want to keep. A bartender and a doorman have status in that setting.
/r/seduction03/07/22 09:02 PM
24

This isn’t a post about nice guys being a turn off. This is about women being manipulative and trading on their looks to get what they want. They’re not interested in you as a guy at the club, but you as a doorman that can get them into the club, is a guy that has something to offer and that’s access to the club.
/r/seduction03/07/22 08:55 PM
2

It’s situational and depends on the woman I’m trying to pull. I try to read her personality but sometimes I’ll own the “player” accusation and play it up until it’s ridiculous. Depends on if she has a sense of humor or not. Other times I’ll deny and tell her I’m the guy you could take home to meet your parents.
/r/seduction03/07/22 08:40 PM
0

Shit test
/r/seduction03/07/22 08:26 PM
1

Why do people post content just to delete it? I actually wanted to read this OP.
/r/seduction03/07/22 08:17 PM
1

Yes. He wants you
/r/seduction03/07/22 07:40 PM
5

It’s a mindset. Change your mindset and you change the game. The OP speaks from experience and I can only agree because my experience has lead to the same conclusion. If you “chase” you’re doing so because something is running away from you. You’re chasing and it’s running, so stop chasing. And don’t be afraid of the friend-zone because the friend-zone is closer to the end zone then not being in the game at all. If you approach women looking for sex you’re likely to end up disappointed, frustrat…
/r/seduction03/07/22 06:34 PM
203

Last sentence, paragraph 4: “The less you care, the more it will happen.” Pay attention kids. Best advice you’ll ever read.
/r/seduction03/07/22 04:22 AM
1

I wouldn’t be surprised if those are bots. IRL OLD usually takes a lot of work and effort unless you have amazing photos and an impressive bio.
/r/seduction02/07/22 10:17 PM
5

Getting a woman interested is the biggest hurdle, you’re getting them interested and then turning them off. You need to be a lot less available in every sense.
/r/seduction02/07/22 10:14 PM
1

You’re sabotaging your own success.
/r/seduction02/07/22 10:13 PM
3

This is desperate behavior. Stop it!
/r/seduction02/07/22 10:12 PM
1

Do you indirectly ask them for directions?
/r/seduction02/07/22 10:11 PM
1

Reddit isn’t real life. Don’t take it serious.
/r/seduction02/07/22 10:10 PM
3

Did it a ton OLD but never pulled it off on a same day CA
/r/seduction02/07/22 10:09 PM
3

If a woman is interested she’ll make eye contact more then twice. She’ll smile and she’ll subtly make sure you notice her. There’s signs. You just have to look for them.
/r/seduction02/07/22 10:03 PM
3

Let it go. If it’s a pattern you might want to reconsider how much you like her, because being consistently late is rude and inconsiderate.
/r/seduction02/07/22 02:33 PM
1

Don’t even let it bother you.
/r/seduction02/07/22 02:27 PM
23

Get her talking
/r/seduction02/07/22 05:11 AM
5

Might need a weekend getaway or a vacation somewhere.
/r/seduction02/07/22 02:57 AM
8

I get it but I just think women are unnecessarily insecure. Men just don’t think that way.
/r/seduction01/07/22 09:18 PM
5

Why would you think that he wouldn’t be interested in you because of that? I don’t understand the connection?
/r/seduction01/07/22 08:53 PM
1

I think a friendship would be difficult. You have feelings that he doesn’t have, so you should remove yourself from the situation. Now, there’s a chance that he might miss you and decide to try and form a relationship, but that’s actually kind of a long shot
/r/seduction01/07/22 07:42 PM
5

I wouldn’t confront, but maybe you could ask what happened. Better to move on though.
/r/seduction01/07/22 07:39 PM
2

You did the best you could. Move on without regrets.
/r/seduction01/07/22 05:33 PM
9

It doesn’t matter if it’s a few days, or a week. Her interest is the only thing that matters, and if she’s not interested she’ll look for excuses to postpone.
/r/seduction01/07/22 05:27 PM
1

She doesn’t let you kiss her on the cheek after months ? Move on. Her gay male friend gets more action.
/r/seduction01/07/22 03:48 PM
2

It doesn’t mean either. She’s trying to see if you’re a fuckboy.
/r/seduction01/07/22 03:41 PM
1

She had a chance to think about it and she decided no. Happens a lot.
/r/seduction01/07/22 02:33 PM
1

Now you know why she’s a single mom.
/r/seduction01/07/22 05:58 AM
-8

I learned how important ONS are, and that women have nothing to offer me beyond sex. That’s all I want, that’s all I care about. I want to get in, get off and get out. Women today are self absorbed, narcissistic, disloyal and uncaring. They only care about themselves and no guy is ever good enough.
/r/seduction01/07/22 05:33 AM
-7

Technically it is a loss because if you don’t get to fuck the woman you’re interested in, you’ve lost.
/r/seduction01/07/22 05:00 AM
2

I know this sounds counterintuitive and a lot of guys will disagree, but I don’t mind working my way into the friend zone. Depending on the situation it can be beneficial, not all the time, but depending on the circumstances being in the friend zone is like being on the 30 yard line. You’re closer to the end zone. It really depends on the type of woman you’re trying to hookup with, sometimes you need to establish a connection first.
/r/seduction30/06/22 11:19 PM
1

It’s a little complicated. Women have always had an overwhelmingly unfair advantage in the dating market because they have the pussy and they know you want it. Add on how social media has influenced and inflated their already huge egos and you have simps everywhere trying to do everything they can to get “inside”.
/r/seduction30/06/22 11:11 PM
1

First date
/r/seduction30/06/22 11:00 PM
2

It means hello? Like wtf ? Why are you over analyzing an emoji?
/r/seduction30/06/22 12:43 AM
2

Sorry, but this is horrible advice. If you’re pipes are backed up you’re not likely to be relaxed. You’ll be edgy, maybe even creepy in your approach because you’re too horny.
/r/seduction29/06/22 10:18 PM
2

She’s advising you, you’re low priority and she’s probably communicating with other guys. Your choice if you want to wait in line.
/r/seduction29/06/22 09:35 PM
1

Never focus on one hole.
/r/seduction29/06/22 01:08 AM
0

She’s not into you and is to much of a princess to tell you.
/r/seduction29/06/22 01:01 AM
2

Probably the ones that exclude men.
/r/seduction29/06/22 12:56 AM
1

We out of good questions today.
/r/seduction28/06/22 11:04 PM
8

I can absolutely relate to this. I wish there was an easier way to get laid then having to hold a conversation with a woman. You struggle to build attraction and connection with someone you’ll likely not have anything in common with. It’s a, “fake it until you make it” concept that can be tedious and time consuming. It’s worse when you invest the time and energy and get ghosted before you can get in her pants.
/r/seduction28/06/22 10:58 PM
2

Don’t give af. Acting like you do will show you’re needy and low value.
/r/seduction28/06/22 09:32 PM
7

It’s called developing an Idgaf attitude.
/r/seduction28/06/22 06:01 PM
0

Well said.
/r/seduction28/06/22 08:47 AM
-1

Some of these posts are just….. I dunno. Just be yourself. It shouldn’t be a social science experiment and it shouldn’t be so much work.
/r/seduction28/06/22 05:21 AM
2

Leave it. She’s dealing with her own issues and she’s not available. Move on
/r/seduction28/06/22 05:15 AM
5

I’m not suggesting they won’t have problems down the road, but there’s nothing wrong with them enjoying the moment. She might be more mature then her age, and he might be a little immature.
/r/seduction28/06/22 02:01 AM
5

It’s a non issue and most 26 year olds are not well into their careers.
/r/seduction28/06/22 01:50 AM
131

Never experienced this. I think you’re overthinking.
/r/seduction28/06/22 01:12 AM
3

Why stop? Why not go through the alphabet ?
/r/seduction28/06/22 01:11 AM
1

She gave it a few days to process her own feelings and she’s decided she’s not giving you any more of the cookie. Move on.
/r/seduction28/06/22 01:10 AM
2

Why do you feel uncomfortable? A 7 year age gap between people of legal age is a non issue.
/r/seduction28/06/22 01:02 AM
2

When I did OLD I followed this play, but IRL is a little different and I usually give it 2-3 dates
/r/seduction28/06/22 12:48 AM
1

Some guys will get laid after a date and some guys won’t.
/r/seduction28/06/22 12:39 AM
1

Exactly
/r/seduction28/06/22 12:37 AM
-1

It has no impact. Zero! There’s 12 different types of contraceptives available, be responsible and use one.
/r/seduction28/06/22 12:34 AM
3

Yeah, ok. What else you got?
/r/seduction28/06/22 12:24 AM
1

You can usually check in anytime after 3pm
/r/seduction27/06/22 08:06 PM
1

Act like you don’t give af as you ask her out. Like her answer doesn’t matter.
/r/seduction27/06/22 06:54 AM
109

She gave you the opening, all you have to do is be cool and be nice.
/r/seduction27/06/22 06:45 AM
4

1) There has to be an attraction on her part for this to work. 2) You have to get into a conversation with her to get this to work. 3) If #1 and #2 are not there, you can’t get into a conversation where she opens up.
/r/seduction27/06/22 05:57 AM
2

She tells you something personal about herself, or a crisis she’s dealing with regarding her family or at school, work,etc. You show empathy and say, I understand. Women like to be listened to and they like to feel a guy understands whatever they’re going through.
/r/seduction27/06/22 05:51 AM
7

The key to success with women is to get them talking while you listen. Women love to be validated for their looks, but when you validate their feelings they get horny.
/r/seduction27/06/22 01:22 AM
2

Nope! Have fun
/r/seduction27/06/22 01:19 AM
2

Why not escalate? Why dismiss a woman who’s interested in you and why dismiss the potential for sex? So what if she’s ugly? Use your imagination. Unless she’s obese and absolutely hideous, 4-5 and 6’s need love too.
/r/seduction26/06/22 08:26 PM
1

Absolutely. That’s a trade off I would make
/r/seduction26/06/22 08:22 PM
2

You cut all contact and move on. She’s not into you.
/r/seduction26/06/22 06:12 PM
2

It’s the fight or flight response acting out.
/r/seduction26/06/22 05:44 PM
4

There’s a small percentage of really good women like her that have been directly affected by toxic feminism. She’s part of the collateral damage, unfortunately.
/r/seduction26/06/22 03:52 PM
1

It’s called confidence and not giving af
/r/seduction26/06/22 03:48 PM
1

Say, that sounds interesting and then move on.
/r/seduction26/06/22 03:42 PM
1

Complete troll post.
/r/seduction26/06/22 03:40 PM
3

If she loses interest, lose her. It’s not worth the time or the hassle.
/r/seduction26/06/22 02:42 PM
3

I’m similar. I’m a one- drink -limit guy, if I drink at all. Idgaf what anyone thinks I’m responsible.
/r/seduction26/06/22 02:29 PM
1

Stop caring and you’ll start winning.
/r/seduction26/06/22 02:24 PM
6

She likes you
/r/seduction26/06/22 02:23 PM
1

Good time to put her on ice. Stop being so available and take a break. She’s not appreciating you.
/r/seduction26/06/22 02:18 PM
2

You’re not escalating.
/r/seduction26/06/22 02:09 PM
0

It might not get you the attention you want
/r/seduction26/06/22 07:22 AM
2

You would be wasting your time and she would probably find this creepy.
/r/seduction26/06/22 07:14 AM
1

Why so sad?
/r/seduction26/06/22 06:51 AM
1

Fairly accurate
/r/seduction26/06/22 06:05 AM
1

Live your life.
/r/seduction26/06/22 05:31 AM
0

Your reading comprehension skills are almost as bad as your ageism. You clearly never read a single post on this thread. Piss off!
/r/seduction26/06/22 03:18 AM
1

Why don’t you calm down Lassie and take a Xanax. OP is insinuating that a 50 year old male is too old be a father. He’s wrong. That’s not too old to be a father and in most cases a 50 year old is better equipped then a male half his age to handle the responsibility. A healthy 50 year old can absolutely handle RAISING THEM!! Now kindly gfy
/r/seduction26/06/22 12:27 AM
2

Sorry but I can’t relate to this. I had so much fun doing OLD and numerous ONS. Best times ever !
/r/seduction26/06/22 12:12 AM
2

Correct 💯
/r/seduction26/06/22 12:07 AM
3

Confidence is usually correlated to a woman’s attractiveness. The more beautiful she is, the more she knows it because people tell her. At best she’ll be confident and at worst conceited. If you want to attract that type of woman you’ll generally need money, power and status.
/r/seduction25/06/22 11:56 PM
6

Buy a motel room. Did that multiple times when I was in your situation
/r/seduction25/06/22 11:10 PM
1

Of course.
/r/seduction25/06/22 08:32 PM
1

Just be honest. Tell her you found her attractive.
/r/seduction25/06/22 08:31 PM
2

They’re qualifying you. Using the “looking for something serious” line is a way to keep the ONS away.
/r/seduction25/06/22 08:26 PM
6

It’s cringe to hit on a woman that’s paid to be nice to people.
/r/seduction25/06/22 08:24 PM
2

Ok, based on the little info you provided and the 1-3 word answers, my opinion is the same. You’re out of line.
/r/seduction25/06/22 08:09 PM
1

It’s definitely an incentive, but the reason she comes back is because she likes you and feels a connection.
/r/seduction25/06/22 08:06 PM
1

Are you in an exclusive relationship with her? Is she fucking these guys behind your back? Do you have ANY reason to not trust her?
/r/seduction25/06/22 08:02 PM
1

Why would that bother you? You don’t own her. If you two are exclusive you still don’t own her. If you marry her, you still don’t own her. I don’t have a problem with a gf talking to other men. If I did, I would be the one with the problem.
/r/seduction25/06/22 07:56 PM
6

Being 50 doesn’t preclude a man from having kids due to health reasons. Finding a woman interested in a man that’s 50 who’s young enough to have kids is the problem.
/r/seduction25/06/22 07:53 PM
4

Before I even get into this discussion, are you a male or female ?
/r/seduction25/06/22 07:38 PM
14

I don’t understand this rant, or how it relates to this sub but I will tell you you’re absolutely wrong.
/r/seduction25/06/22 07:10 PM
93

I have no problem going out alone. None. I’ll often go out to dinner alone and to nice restaurants. I’m not self conscious about it in the least. Idgaf! We’re all alone in this life, even if we’re in relationships.
/r/seduction25/06/22 07:02 PM
2

Yea. Troll harder and fail better next time. This is really bad.
/r/seduction25/06/22 05:13 PM
1

Honestly, there wasn’t a single one that I looked through that was memorable. Keep in mind, the authors of such books are in it to make money off the most vulnerable and naïve among us. The bullet points are: Be confident in who are. Don’t allow yourself to show insecurity, remember these people you’re trying to fit in with are probably insecure assholes themselves. Be a good listener
/r/seduction25/06/22 03:43 PM
2

Why would you feel compelled to tell people your politics on a seduction sub ? And the question is so generic. How do I meet hot women I’m attracted to? C’mon.
/r/seduction25/06/22 03:32 PM
4

There’s hundreds, but save your money because the general theme is all the same. Just be confident in yourself.
/r/seduction25/06/22 02:48 PM
3

Stop giving af
/r/seduction25/06/22 02:43 PM
1

Just do it. The age gap is insignificant
/r/seduction25/06/22 02:43 PM
2

Yes it’s possible. First you’ll have to start looking past her outer beauty and start getting to know a woman’s inner beauty (personality)
/r/seduction25/06/22 02:21 PM
1

She’s taken. Not cool
/r/seduction25/06/22 02:12 PM
1

No
/r/seduction25/06/22 06:44 AM
6

I don’t know how you think this was a bad date? Sounds like it went pretty good. Ask her out again
/r/seduction25/06/22 06:39 AM
2

She didn’t care enough about you to tell you goodbye. Let that sink in.
/r/seduction25/06/22 06:36 AM
1

You could argue that I’m overly cynical and I could argue that you can’t relate because your own personal situation isn’t like this. However, if you have a number of married male friends or acquaintances that you could ask if they’re happy and or satisfied with the frequency and quality of sex they’re having with their wife, you might be surprised to learn the truth.
/r/seduction25/06/22 06:24 AM
4

I can’t relate to this at all. I love casual sex and get bored in relationships.
/r/seduction25/06/22 06:16 AM
1

Tell him he turns you on every time he touches you.
/r/seduction25/06/22 06:05 AM
1

Have you ever heard the term “bait and switch”? A lot women change after you move in with them, or worse marry them. No, not all but a lot of them do. A lot of men marry a woman and the sex is amazing, and it’s whenever and bj’s all the time and then all of sudden it starts to decline. It goes from 5 times a week to twice a week to twice a month and you get a different excuse as to why this is happening. You get the picture and it’s not the first time you’ve heard this story.
/r/seduction25/06/22 06:02 AM
2

I think this is a troll post
/r/seduction25/06/22 05:25 AM
1

Your last sentence is the most important one.
/r/seduction25/06/22 05:02 AM
0

No
/r/seduction25/06/22 04:50 AM
2

You’re a hard working student and she’s a stoner? Raise your standards. You have nothing in common with her and she doesn’t have anything in common with you.
/r/seduction25/06/22 01:10 AM
6

Welcome to growing up. This is an experience every single guy will have. You’ll survive it, and yes it sucks.
/r/seduction25/06/22 01:02 AM
1

“Ideally.” However, many men and albeit a small percentage of women have fallen victim to the bait and switch.
/r/seduction25/06/22 12:39 AM
1

First, I never indicated I didn’t have a successful LTR. I indicated a preference based on what I value in a relationship. I can appreciate that you’re happy and satisfied in your LTR but what you’re describing is a lot of work invested in the hope that the other person in the relationship will meet your needs. In a lot of cases that doesn’t happen.
/r/seduction25/06/22 12:33 AM
1

It takes two to make things work but only one to make things fail.
/r/seduction25/06/22 12:20 AM
-4

It might creep her out.
/r/seduction24/06/22 08:44 PM
1

Good call!
/r/seduction24/06/22 08:39 PM
1

As a guy, I’ve been in LTR’s and I’ve dated and I can tell you both have their advantages and disadvantages. I think I prefer dating and ONS to the monotony of a relationship that slowly becomes sexless. Before I get bombarded with hate replies from women, let me just say that generally they’re the first to lose sexual interest and the first to fall into the, “let’s just get it over with” attitude. Familiarity breeds contempt and boredom and it takes A LOT of effort to keep things going. I miss …
/r/seduction24/06/22 08:35 PM
1

It happens
/r/seduction24/06/22 08:24 PM
1

Read my reply again. I think you missed the “was” part.
/r/seduction24/06/22 08:15 PM
1

You had a window to make something happen and you didn’t. That’s not entirely your fault, I don’t think I could get hard if a woman I spent hours talking to told me she was once sexually assaulted. However, she was clearly into you and you didn’t escalate when you had the chance so I’m not sure you can salvage this. Welcome to FriendZone - population 1
/r/seduction24/06/22 08:12 PM
2

You can’t fix her ,and whatever happened isn’t on your end. She’s not feeling it for whatever reason. Something changed.
/r/seduction24/06/22 08:03 PM
-1

If this is a coffee date keep it short. No longer than 30 min. and tell her you have an appointment. Use this as an opportunity to actually see if you like her. Listen to her and try to get to know her interests and then quietly assess to yourself if you want to go on a date with her. If so, set a dinner date or something up in the evening. Do not get handsy on a coffee date.
/r/seduction24/06/22 07:54 PM
1

First off, you made the right decision by cutting her off. She broke up with you but wanted to stay friends ? Fuck that! You can’t be friends with someone you’re in love with and have feelings for after they broke up with you, doesn’t work. Secondly, if the idea of seeing her makes you so uncomfortable that you don’t think you could enjoy yourself, consider not going. However, if you can deal with it then go and have fun and be cordial to her, if you see her but I wouldn’t get sucked into her, “…
/r/seduction24/06/22 07:16 PM
-1

You’re welcome.
/r/seduction24/06/22 05:10 PM
1

💯
/r/seduction24/06/22 05:08 PM
3

What you’re looking for is irrelevant. You have to answer this question in a way that interests her. Did you bother to read her profile? No. Tailor your answers to match what she’s looking for, but do it in a way that’s subtle. Let’s be honest, you’re looking for sex. No shame because 99.9% of the guys doing OLD are looking for the same. Women are not stupid, they know what men want from them but they don’t want to hear about that topic while they’re getting to know you. Next time, read a woman’…
/r/seduction24/06/22 03:56 PM
2

True, but this relates directly to how she’s treating him. If you act like a doormat, people will walk on you. In relationships there’s often times a power struggle. In unhealthy relationships that power struggle devolves into manipulation. She’s emotionally manipulating him with her behavior. He didn’t mention but I’m guessing she also uses sex as a weapon to withhold against him if she doesn’t get her way. You’re absolutely correct though, and thank you.
/r/seduction24/06/22 03:43 PM
1

Enjoy it while it lasts. Unless she’s incredibly loyal and values monogamy ,you’re going to have a very difficult time maintaining a relationship with her. She’ll be approached and hit on continuously by men that have more money, power and status then you. Very important that you NOT become possessive or jealous and that you let her know you trust her. In reality, this is counterintuitive to what you’ll actually be feeling inside. Good luck.
/r/seduction24/06/22 03:31 PM
7

You couldn’t have answered that any worse.
/r/seduction24/06/22 03:13 PM
1

Text her again to ask when she’s available for a phone call. During that phone call ask her questions and try to get to know a little bit about her, and then make plans for a date.
/r/seduction24/06/22 02:53 PM
-4

No we’re not
/r/seduction24/06/22 05:10 AM
2

Develop an idgaf attitude and you’ll feel liberated. You’ll also attract women because when you’re not chasing, suddenly you become the elusive, mysterious guy that interests them.
/r/seduction24/06/22 04:31 AM
2

Don’t listen to traditional advise, whatever that is. If you’re interested in her if she’s interested in you and there’s chemistry, see each other as often as you both want.
/r/seduction24/06/22 04:15 AM
2

Ahahaha…ok. 👍
/r/seduction24/06/22 03:43 AM
3

I think texting should be used sparingly. It has it’s place in a busy society but texting is a form of avoidance. If you’re interested in a woman, call her. As for the numerous YouTube videos on how to pick up, hard pass.
/r/seduction24/06/22 03:38 AM
74

Escalate the physical touch.
/r/seduction24/06/22 01:59 AM
9

I agree, no man or woman should tolerate being mistreated. However, women today are more inclined to leave a relationship when they feel they’re being mistreated. Women initiate the majority of divorces. This behavior classifies as abuse and most women would not tolerate it, but some men will because they’ve convinced themselves this is the only vagina they can get. They have low standards and poor self esteem.
/r/seduction24/06/22 01:50 AM
237

Imo ,you’re involved with an immature child and you should really ask yourself why you have such low standards. No man should put up with that.
/r/seduction24/06/22 01:08 AM
1

It’s really unfortunate that men are the ones that constantly have to face rejection and continually put themselves out there, but women don’t have to “risk” (your word) putting themselves out there and face getting rejected. Having a vagina certainly has its advantages.
/r/seduction24/06/22 12:46 AM
1

Ask her if she would like to try your popsicle.
/r/seduction24/06/22 12:35 AM
1

Why don’t you ask him?
/r/seduction24/06/22 12:33 AM
1

This is fake news.
/r/seduction23/06/22 10:37 PM
1

What qualifies as, “looking better than everyone”?
/r/seduction23/06/22 10:30 PM
1

This is a very long story just to tell us all that a woman has been stringing you along. I’m glad I’m not her boyfriend.
/r/seduction23/06/22 10:16 PM
1

Something is definitely off and I can’t determine if it’s related to his attraction to you, or the horrible level of communication between the two of you. There’s not enough info. Feel free to d.m me if you want. Good luck!
/r/seduction23/06/22 08:06 PM
-1

Why don’t you ask him out..?
/r/seduction23/06/22 07:59 PM
2

You became a simp and she’s taking advantage. Move on. She’s not interested
/r/seduction23/06/22 07:58 PM
-1

That wasn’t a shit test.
/r/seduction23/06/22 07:57 PM
1

No, they’re just both losers.
/r/seduction23/06/22 05:31 PM
1

It doesn’t work with me. If someone starts ignoring me, I start ignoring them and if this continues over a week for no reason, I delete their number. It’s not a shit test, it’s just rude and inconsiderate.
/r/seduction23/06/22 02:41 PM
2

You don’t know what to do? Shut it down before you sell yourself out and make decisions you’ll later regret.
/r/seduction23/06/22 02:38 PM
6

Start with, I need a favor.
/r/seduction23/06/22 08:43 AM
2

First you stroke his ego, then you stroke his cock.
/r/seduction23/06/22 06:07 AM
1

Answer: By not giving af
/r/seduction23/06/22 04:15 AM
4

Do not buy a certain car just to impress women. Just don’t do it.
/r/seduction23/06/22 04:14 AM
1

I’m a guy chiming in but curious so let me ask, if a woman you were attracted to did find you “boring” for not drinking, smoking or doing drugs, would that be a reason for you to start…?
/r/seduction23/06/22 04:10 AM
1

Her interest seems pretty low. I wouldn’t put any more energy into this. Move on.
/r/seduction23/06/22 04:00 AM
2

You can dm me if you have any other questions you don’t want to post. Good luck!
/r/seduction23/06/22 03:37 AM
1

Awesome post!!! So many guys are too invested in this idea of meeting women and dating women and they feel like they’re complete failures if they can’t get a gf. If you want a girlfriend, here’s the formula: 1) Stop giving af 2) Live your own best life. 3) Rinse and repeat
/r/seduction23/06/22 03:34 AM
2

I think it’s totally normal and as long as you’re enjoying his attention and he’s not pushing you beyond what you’re comfortable with, enjoy. He will escalate to feeling you up under your clothes, he will try to get his hand in your panties and he will try to get you naked and have sex with you. Understand that this is his goal, so you can decide if this is something you’re comfortable with, and make sure you tell him if you’re not.
/r/seduction23/06/22 03:27 AM
5

You’re too young to commit to one person.
/r/seduction22/06/22 10:34 PM
3

I think you’re way too judgmental and this attitude going forward is not going to serve you well. You can expect to be very lonely if you have these expectations in a partner.
/r/seduction22/06/22 10:28 PM
3

It’s your personality. Something is wrong in how you’re coming across to these women. O/25 is an unbelievable record. Do you have any female in your life that could give you some feedback?
/r/seduction22/06/22 08:47 PM
1

I think women get approached constantly, right? I mean you have the vagina, we want in, so it’s supply and demand and demand will always be high.
/r/seduction22/06/22 08:34 PM
1

If you play games with a player, you’ll lose.
/r/seduction22/06/22 08:29 PM
1

You just did learn from it.
/r/seduction22/06/22 08:07 PM
1

Ok, so if art is something you’re passionate about and she doesn’t share your appreciation for art and has no interest in it, or it’s boring to her then you might want to reconsider your interest in her.
/r/seduction22/06/22 08:02 PM
1

Do you like art? Would you go to an art gallery by yourself if you didn’t have a date? If you answered yes to both of these questions, then you did something that you typically enjoy and she didn’t. If you answered no, you have no idea what you’re doing. If you want to try it again, just come clean and tell her you fucked up. Tell her you would like to take her out again and find out what she likes before you plan anything.
/r/seduction22/06/22 07:19 PM
3

Relax and don’t think about it.
/r/seduction22/06/22 06:43 PM
1

Women avoid men they’re not attracted to. Unfortunately, this is a sad reality.
/r/seduction22/06/22 06:35 PM
1

This!!! 💯👍
/r/seduction22/06/22 06:31 PM
2

Interesting theory and I don’t know. I stopped wearing condoms. I can’t feel anything and they’re a dealbreaker for me personally, so if that means no piv then I understand.
/r/seduction22/06/22 06:27 PM
2

I don’t know which gender has it the worst, but it’s tough being a guy and always looking to get laid. On the flip side, it has to be annoying being a woman and constantly being objectified and pursued for sex.
/r/seduction22/06/22 06:13 PM
2

I understand exactly what you’re saying but guys really have no idea how to approach and start a conversation with a woman they’re attracted to. He said, I really like your hair but what he actually was thinking was, you’re so hot I would love to fuck you. Guys are visual and constantly horny so all they want is to connect with a woman. They don’t know how to properly compliment someone they’re interested in, but you should know what they’re actually asking you is, can we hookup?
/r/seduction22/06/22 03:33 PM
3

Good luck but remember, you’re not a priority to her. The precedent has already been set
/r/seduction22/06/22 02:57 PM
1

I must’ve missed the part where are you have a kid together. That’s a game changer and you should do everything you can to try to fix this for the kid sake. I would suggest relationship counseling because this isn’t just about you anymore and it’s not about her either.
/r/seduction22/06/22 02:54 PM
3

Welcome to dating. The challenge of meeting a woman you like and are attracted to ,and getting her to like you is only the beginning. If you get to a stage where she trusts you she’s going to talk, a lot. In fact, she’s never going to stop talking and that’s how you’ll know she feels comfortable with you.
/r/seduction22/06/22 02:51 PM
4

Every guy is looking for a line to use. Any opener that can start a conversation, so if you have unusual hair color, or there’s something different about you that stands out, that’s probably the opening they’re going to use.
/r/seduction22/06/22 02:46 PM
1

First of all you don’t owe anybody an explanation as to why your relationship breaks up. Secondly: You’re not in love with this woman and you’re clearly annoyed with her, so you shouldn’t waste her time or yours staying in this relationship.
/r/seduction22/06/22 02:43 PM
7

You spent way too much time waiting around for this woman. If she was truly interested she would’ve made it a point to see you.
/r/seduction22/06/22 02:37 PM
1

Momentum is related to how your own day is going and what kind of mood and state of mind your in.
/r/seduction22/06/22 02:30 PM
2

You must have really nice hair. Lol
/r/seduction22/06/22 02:22 PM
3

Why would you put up with that? Respect is a two-way street and you’re in a one-way cul-de-sac. She’s a conceited loser. Move on.
/r/seduction22/06/22 07:13 AM
1

Hey girl! You want some sugar?
/r/seduction22/06/22 07:05 AM
209

That’s the least of the problems you presented in this paragraph.
/r/seduction22/06/22 06:40 AM
3

I’ve gotten a very similar reaction most of my life. I don’t consider myself ugly guy at all. I’m in shape, tall but women will either look at me and look away, or pretend not to see me at all. The reaction has prevented me from approaching.
/r/seduction22/06/22 06:37 AM
1

Why?
/r/seduction22/06/22 06:17 AM
6

If I choose to approach it’s because I’m interested. I don’t choose to approach to feed another person’s ego.
/r/seduction22/06/22 01:16 AM
1

Adultery is not a beautiful experience. It’s a shameful act and hopefully you’ll be a husband one day and you’ll be cheated on.
/r/seduction22/06/22 01:14 AM
3

Wait, I’m supposed to approach so she doesn’t get offended? You mean, I could actually hurt her feelings by not approaching her? That’s a whole new load. Thanks for the laughs.
/r/seduction21/06/22 11:07 PM
4

This is a really good read. I have to say in my own personal experience I blew it with some very hot women because I wasn’t about to be “patient”. One of them in particular stands out because I picked her up for a date and she couldn’t have dressed more slutty. Short skirt, low top, etc. Everything about her attitude and her wardrobe that night screamed sex, but after a nice dinner out, I couldn’t even make out with her. She shut me down completely. I didn’t realize I was being shit tested until…
/r/seduction21/06/22 10:48 PM
6

Probably true. Why would she lie? What would be her motive?
/r/seduction21/06/22 10:22 PM
2

You’re not exclusive with her. You don’t owe her anything and she doesn’t owe you anything. Right now she doesn’t have time for you, so you’re free to do whatever you want.
/r/seduction21/06/22 09:52 PM
1

You want to match her energy and enthusiasm but if she for whatever reason doesn’t have time for you, don’t make time for her. I’m not suggesting doing this out of spite but give her the space she needs to do whatever she needs and then go see other people or pursue other interests. Then check back with her later. Don’t be a clinger. Women hate it!
/r/seduction21/06/22 09:45 PM
1

Women ghost men not out fear but out of a lack of respect.
/r/seduction21/06/22 09:34 PM
1

That’s absolutely false. If there’s a connection and you hookup you shouldn’t think any less of her, or her of you.
/r/seduction21/06/22 09:32 PM
1

When she clearly isn’t interested and is going through the motions
/r/seduction21/06/22 09:29 PM
1

If she’s put you on ice for a week, I would go dark for at least 3-4 days.
/r/seduction21/06/22 09:26 PM
3

Go with #1
/r/seduction21/06/22 09:25 PM
1

For whatever reason facts bother people.
/r/seduction21/06/22 07:23 PM
1

Anyone can start a conversation. She’s giving you the signs, now take the lead
/r/seduction21/06/22 07:22 PM
1

Virtually all the women that use online dating have some form of baggage and they’re not supermodels.
/r/seduction21/06/22 07:22 PM
8

You sound hyper focused on meeting a woman, when the goal should be meeting people. When you let go of expectations you allow things to happen.
/r/seduction18/06/22 06:24 PM
3

So, you tell a date, after I take you out for a happy meal, I expect a happy ending..?
/r/seduction18/06/22 04:35 PM
-1

No it’s not , and real life isn’t Pornhub. Men have a much higher sex drive, and want sex much more frequently then women. That’s not even a generalization. Are there exceptions? Yes, but a quick Google search will back me up with stats and data. You could also visit the various number of sexless marriage subs on this site and you’ll notice 80-90% of the complaints are from men.
/r/seduction18/06/22 03:16 PM
3

Uh huh. Put this theory to the road test the next date you have ,and please get back to us with results.
/r/seduction18/06/22 02:57 PM
3

Lol!!! Some of these questions are hilarious. Why not tell a woman you expect sex after the date, and you expect a handy after you pick her up? Contrary to some beliefs, women do not like sex as much as men. They’re not driven by testosterone and they have to be put in the mood. They hate being expected of anything sexual.
/r/seduction18/06/22 02:48 PM
1

Make a move NOW! Start a conversation with her that starts with, can I get your number ? I would really like to ask you out. She broke the touch barrier which is a VERY good sign of interest combined with the flirting.
/r/seduction18/06/22 02:27 PM
1

Hard pass and you’re working way to hard at this.
/r/seduction18/06/22 12:42 PM
1

Eye contact and a smile. Putting herself in your general vicinity, flirting or any touching.
/r/seduction18/06/22 12:39 PM
7

You put the ball on her court, now walk away. There’s nothing more you can do at this point except move on and forget about her. She might reach out at some point ,but I wouldn’t get my hopes up and I certainly wouldn’t wait around hoping for a text or a call. She’s trying to keep you on the hook and that’s a game I wouldn’t play.
/r/seduction18/06/22 12:35 PM
12

What…?
/r/seduction18/06/22 12:13 PM
1

Oh… ok 🙄
/r/seduction18/06/22 06:03 AM
0

By realizing you’re probably approaching a conceited, narcissist that’s probably not a nice person once you start talking to her. Generally, the more beautiful a woman is on the outside, the uglier she is on the inside. If you stay mindful of this, you won’t put her on a pedestal.
/r/seduction18/06/22 05:58 AM
0

How many signs do you need??? She’s touched you and acted flirty and you’re still debating whether or not to act?
/r/seduction18/06/22 05:45 AM
0

By not putting them on a pedestal. If she’s hot, she knows it because she gets a lot of attention and that means all that attention probably went to her head. The hotter she is, the more self- absorbed and conceited she likely is.
/r/seduction18/06/22 05:41 AM
1

Why do you assume splitting the bill means they’re not interested? Have you ever followed up with any of these first dates?
/r/seduction18/06/22 04:39 AM
40

Do not pursue women like this. They’re a stone, cold boner killer.
/r/seduction18/06/22 04:38 AM
2

Not all people win the lottery.
/r/seduction17/06/22 11:57 PM
2

This ain’t happening unless she gives you a shot, and that’s the problem with a lot of these posts. Getting from point A to point B or phone number to commitment to meetup.
/r/seduction17/06/22 11:56 PM
2

By the way she dresses. If she’s confident enough to show skin and dress a little slutty she’ll empty your nut bag.
/r/seduction17/06/22 11:47 PM
1

Be prepared. She probably gets hit on a lot from stoners
/r/seduction17/06/22 11:43 PM
2

No need to comment. What I said is generally true.
/r/seduction17/06/22 09:26 PM
2

Thanks. I don’t know if it’s gold, but it’s a sad social commentary on the times. God clearly had a sense of humor when he put his greatest creation, the vagina on a woman. They use to be unreasonable to deal with, but now they’re impossible. With tic-tok and insta they’ve become so vapid and pretentious that all they seem to want is insta-attention. I read the countless posts from so many guys on this sub wondering what they’re doing wrong, or what they could do better and most of the time the …
/r/seduction17/06/22 09:23 PM
4

Dealing with women is the worst. They’re selfish, self-absorbed, narcissistic and bipolar. Most of them secretly hate and despise men but desperately want approval and validation from men. They’re not really interested in getting to know a guy or dating, sex or relationships. It’s gotten tremendously worse in the last 5 years with the social media b.s.
/r/seduction17/06/22 08:01 PM
1

Is she a Priceline negotiator ?
/r/seduction17/06/22 07:20 PM
1

Have you ever met her?
/r/seduction17/06/22 07:17 PM
2

Unfollow her and get on with your life. She’s an example of one of the worst types of women you could get involved with.
/r/seduction17/06/22 07:14 PM
1

Let them talk and you do the listening.
/r/seduction17/06/22 07:09 PM
1

The expense is secondary to the toll it can take on your head.
/r/seduction17/06/22 03:26 PM
2

As I said, I never mastered it because I always let rejection get me down, but in order to be successful you develop an IDGAF attitude and emotionally detach from the outcome. Forge ahead to the next woman and keep going. Play the numbers game.
/r/seduction17/06/22 02:56 PM
1

This happened to me recently and it still bothers me. Men have to approach, ask for the number and constantly put themselves out there in the face of rejection, and then when a woman gives you her number, many times she’s to inconsiderate and self absorbed to reply back. It’s like dealing with a different type of rejection. Best advice I can offer is to not give af. Develop an idgaf attitude and move on. I will say from my own experience that this has set me back and made me somewhat bitter.
/r/seduction17/06/22 02:40 PM
2

It’s a mindset. An attitude that nothing can get you down and it takes practice. I’ve never mastered it.
/r/seduction17/06/22 02:30 PM
2

Rub his crotch when you’re sitting next to him. He’ll get the idea.
/r/seduction17/06/22 02:16 PM
2

No and I wouldn’t advise it.
/r/seduction17/06/22 05:55 AM
1

End it and check out the minute she acts cold, distant and uninterested. If she’s not talking, and she has no interest in anything you have to say, take the loss an bail.
/r/seduction17/06/22 05:45 AM
1

Compliment something she’s wearing. Make it completely innocuous. I love the color of that —- (whatever she’s wearing) and be genuine and friendly. Hopefully she’ll be receptive and you can start a conversation.
/r/seduction17/06/22 05:36 AM
1

The first question would be, how much do you like your job? If you ask her out and she rejects you, your interactions with her could become very awkward. If you date her and then you break up, you’re working relationship could become very awkward.
/r/seduction17/06/22 04:13 AM
1

Unless you’re a masochist, I don’t see how you could find any happiness in pursuing this person.
/r/seduction17/06/22 04:10 AM
4

It doesn’t work with all women.
/r/seduction17/06/22 12:00 AM
1

Approach it like ripping off a band-aid. Just ask her out and cut to the crash. Living with regret of any kind is a heavy burden. Shoot your shot and then at least you know and can move on with her, or without her.
/r/seduction16/06/22 08:40 PM
1

Text her your interest in her. Put it in your own words and then wait and see what she says. If she’s not into you, move on. It’s impossible to be friends with a woman you’re attracted to. It just doesn’t work.
/r/seduction16/06/22 08:24 PM
1

Trust your instincts, they’re usually right. If you sense her interest is low, it probably is.
/r/seduction16/06/22 07:52 PM
2

Trust your instincts, they’re usually right. If you sense her interest is low, it probably is.
/r/seduction16/06/22 07:52 PM
1

What is your interest in this girl? If you are interested in her, have you told her?
/r/seduction16/06/22 07:47 PM
1

No
/r/seduction16/06/22 06:58 PM
0

You’re confusing respect with attraction. Women today don’t respect a man unless he has money, power and status and even then it’s fleeting.
/r/seduction16/06/22 06:52 PM
1

Yes, there is a better strategy. Don’t give them your time or attention.
/r/seduction16/06/22 05:56 PM
3

They’re trying to tell you that they’re into the hippie lifestyle and that they eat healthy.
/r/seduction16/06/22 05:55 PM
39

First understand that texting is a sign of avoidance. It has its place in a busy society, but people that rely on it too much are really avoiding an actual conversation. If you really care about this woman, make time to call her. From my own experience, I believe over-texting cost me someone that I was really into.
/r/seduction16/06/22 05:49 PM
0

Fantastic post!!! So many men on this sub have become slaves to the pussy. If you let it run your life, it will ruin your life. Imagine being addicted to cigarette’s, alcohol or drugs? Pussy is very much like a drug. Men get addicted to it because NOTHING feels better to a man then being inside one. The problem is so many man have become desperate and pathetic in they’re pursuit for pussy,that it’s taken over their life. Live your best life for you. Chase goals not holes and when you’re happy an…
/r/seduction16/06/22 03:44 PM
1

She’s a party girl. Beware because that might not be the lifestyle that’s compatible with yours.
/r/seduction16/06/22 02:50 PM
6

Pussy is like a drug and just like any other addiction it can rule your life. Don’t let it.
/r/seduction16/06/22 02:48 PM
3

Make your move. Make out with her
/r/seduction16/06/22 02:31 PM
35

Women that are attracted to losers (bad boys) have their own issues. They are not mentally and emotionally stable. Some of these women grew up in abusive households, some falsely believe that they can change these guys into a “good guy”. Unfortunately, these women are just as damaged as the men they’re drawn to.
/r/seduction16/06/22 06:10 AM
0

I got laid a ton on Match
/r/seduction16/06/22 04:17 AM
1

Sorry, but this isn’t generally true. A beautiful woman knows she’s beautiful and she uses that beauty to bludgeon anyone below her that she deems unworthy. Beautiful women are generally conceited and bitchy and not particularly nice to be around.
/r/seduction16/06/22 03:10 AM
2

I would send her a text after dropping her off and just tell her I had a great time and that I hope we can do it again.
/r/seduction16/06/22 03:00 AM
2

This 💯
/r/seduction16/06/22 02:59 AM
1

I think you should be happy and content with what you have. You’ve romanticized what a relationship is actually like, in reality I think you would be really disappointed. Enjoy the sex you’re getting and live it up!
/r/seduction16/06/22 02:43 AM
4

You won’t unless you ask her out.
/r/seduction16/06/22 12:54 AM
2

Why would you want to be in a loveless, sexless relationship ? Might be worth asking yourself.
/r/seduction16/06/22 12:47 AM
1

“I’m an unwell incel? “ Ohhh..ok. “Boys they’re easy to obtain, but I don’t want one.” Actually, I have plenty but I certainly would never marry any of them. Women today can pay they’re own way and forge their own path, they don’t need men. They’ve embraced this new, toxic feminist era and all it has to offer. Great. Men really don’t need relationships or marriage either, and sex is easy to get. I think both genders are going to be fine.
/r/seduction16/06/22 12:39 AM
0

Ummm..I’m not at odds with the people on this thread. It’s opinion based, and if you want to be friends with a woman, then nobody’s stopping you. Be a beta karrot.
/r/seduction16/06/22 12:26 AM
7

Too bad. I was hoping for a better comeback considering how strong you started out. Don’t forget to feed the cats. Lol
/r/seduction15/06/22 10:47 PM
0

Hate to break it to you but all men want sex. It’s the reason why we approach, the reason why we ask you for your number, a date, etc. We’re hoping this interaction will eventually lead to sex. Most men will never admit this because they don’t want to appear sexist or misogynistic but that’s the truth. After we’ve nutted and have post nut clarity, we can then start to assess you on a different level. Like, are you a nice person? Do you have a nice personality? Are you someone that’s trustworthy …
/r/seduction15/06/22 10:43 PM
4

Your last paragraph is the only one worth noting because you’re absolutely correct, women don’t need men anymore. They have complete financial independence and are graduating college at high rates then men. They have established total independence and they now treat men like shit. No man is good enough for the new modern world woman that you described. I’m simply encouraging men to not bother and to stop chasing women. Your last paragraph sums up all of the reasons why men should not care about …
/r/seduction15/06/22 10:35 PM
1

Nope
/r/seduction15/06/22 10:20 PM
-2

You don’t chase holes. Online dating is a great way to get laid. I had tremendous success with it. In the real world, If you see a woman you’re attracted to make eye contact and smile. If she smiles back, or gives you positive vibes go talk to her.
/r/seduction15/06/22 08:33 PM
0

She’s shit testing you to make sure you’re not just after her puss. Play along and see where it goes, if you like her for more then her puss.
/r/seduction15/06/22 08:13 PM
3

Leave it. Any further contact makes you seem thirsty.
/r/seduction15/06/22 08:10 PM
-6

Right. Experience shapes opinion
/r/seduction15/06/22 08:04 PM
5

And a cheater
/r/seduction15/06/22 06:53 PM
2

Why not date ugly motherfucking women…?
/r/seduction15/06/22 06:50 PM
5

Ask yourself: Do you like her more then your job?
/r/seduction15/06/22 06:48 PM
1

Thanks for this hot tip.
/r/seduction15/06/22 06:24 PM
2

Move on. She’s not interested and you’re jeopardizing your job.
/r/seduction15/06/22 06:20 PM
0

Yes. I realized through experience that the hotter the woman , the worse she treats men. When you realize that almost every “hot girl”is likely a conceited, self- absorbed narcissist, it’s easy to not put them on a pedestal. They’re already high enough.
/r/seduction15/06/22 06:03 PM
26

There’s plenty of women out there, but nice ones are a lot harder to find regardless of looks.
/r/seduction15/06/22 05:39 PM
3

She’s blowing you off. Move on
/r/seduction15/06/22 02:54 PM
212

Yes!!! Men are spending too much time chasing a hole. Women are not worth the time, energy and investment men are making just to get sex. Chase your dreams, goals and live your best life for you. Don’t chase holes. Eventually you’ll meet a nice one but admittedly, it’s a lot harder to meet a nice woman in the age of social media then it use to be.
/r/seduction15/06/22 02:42 PM
1

😴😴😴😴
/r/seduction15/06/22 05:57 AM
2

1) inconsiderate 2) unappreciative 3) moody 4) disinterested 5) selfish
/r/seduction15/06/22 05:50 AM
6

Welcome to the losers lounge. We’ve all been there.
/r/seduction15/06/22 05:46 AM
1

It’s no different than trying to find a girlfriend.
/r/seduction15/06/22 05:45 AM
58

Because she’s got the pussy, which means she has all the options. It’s like a vacancy just opened and there’s a whole line of guys waiting to fill it.
/r/seduction15/06/22 05:43 AM
4

What results? That’s not necessarily enough to get a number, a date or eventually inside her.
/r/seduction15/06/22 04:31 AM
1

I have no idea what this is about. I’m only interested in women for their pussy.
/r/seduction15/06/22 04:15 AM
9

As long as it takes to get inside her.
/r/seduction14/06/22 11:53 PM
3

How bad do you want to get inside her? If you do, then you need to persue.
/r/seduction14/06/22 11:17 PM
1

If you’re physically attracted to her then DO NOT hang out with her as “ friends”.
/r/seduction14/06/22 11:15 PM
1

The hotter the girl, the more of a bitch she is.
/r/seduction14/06/22 09:37 PM
1

Both
/r/seduction14/06/22 04:30 PM
0

Nope. Honestly, I don’t think you’re answering the question honestly and I don’t think you want to answer it honestly.
/r/seduction14/06/22 04:17 PM
2

Most guy’s will still fuck an average looking woman.
/r/seduction14/06/22 03:03 AM
0

Lol! Please. Women love to cock tease. Those pants were designed to illicit boners. You could be just as comfortable in sweatpants. It’s all about making a guy horny by showcasing a woman’s best assets, her ass and labia.
/r/seduction14/06/22 03:01 AM
1

If you’re 22 make the move I suggested and see what happens. While making out, try and slide your hand inside her panties. Hopefully she’ll get so turned on you can take them off and then go down on her. Remember, if she says stop you stop.
/r/seduction14/06/22 12:52 AM
1

Not sure how old you and her are, but you might be too young to be going in this direction and she might just see you as a friend.
/r/seduction14/06/22 12:12 AM
1

Stay away from her. Everything about it sounds like trouble.
/r/seduction13/06/22 10:15 PM
1

Don’t let this consume you. Enjoy your life, live in the moment and remember when it comes to women, time is on your side. #TheWallStopsThemAll
/r/seduction13/06/22 07:56 PM
2

Wtf? Lmao!!!😂🤣
/r/seduction13/06/22 07:52 PM
1

They don’t know you and they might feel scared and intimidated.
/r/seduction13/06/22 07:30 PM
1

You slowly move your hand between her legs and lightly rub. Hopefully she doesn’t move your hand, or ask you to stop in which case you can continue and eventually you’ll feel her wetness. At that point nature usually takes over. Remember, if at any point she tells you to stop, you stop!
/r/seduction13/06/22 07:23 PM
3

First thing you have to realize is that your ego has been bruised and you’re letting it affect your self-esteem. Once you recognize this and let go of that feeling, you can look at the situation more objectively. When one person dumps another and doesn’t give closure it’s because they don’t care, or they’re too cowardly. Either way it doesn’t change the outcome and that is that the relationship is over. So, it doesn’t matter if they don’t care, or they’re too cowardly to tell you the truth, what…
/r/seduction13/06/22 07:15 PM
1

Then why would you wear something that clearly shows the definition of your pussy lips??
/r/seduction13/06/22 07:02 PM
14

She wanted you and she got you. More proof that virtually any woman can get any guy she wants if she takes the initiative. Congrats
/r/seduction13/06/22 03:46 PM
1

Good post!
/r/seduction13/06/22 05:21 AM
1

You seem nice. Thanks for making my point.
/r/seduction13/06/22 04:38 AM
1

I’m not complaining. Their lower lips are their best feature.
/r/seduction13/06/22 04:17 AM
3

It happens when you put them on.
/r/seduction13/06/22 04:15 AM
3

All valid points and the wall stops them all.
/r/seduction13/06/22 02:29 AM
-1

Yeah it is. That’s why you’re laughing.
/r/seduction13/06/22 02:26 AM
1

It certainly fed their ego.
/r/seduction13/06/22 02:25 AM
1

I think women today know specifically what men want from them, and it’s not a date.
/r/seduction13/06/22 02:25 AM
2

Why lie?
/r/seduction13/06/22 01:51 AM
1

You made the right call based on the fact that your touches were not reciprocated. NEVER force if.
/r/seduction13/06/22 01:46 AM
1

None and I believe this trend will continue.
/r/seduction13/06/22 01:44 AM
3

That might be partially true and a point I’m willing to concede, but it doesn’t change my overall opinion. I’m not sure if it’s social media or other factors but imo women are not as nice as they use to be.
/r/seduction13/06/22 01:41 AM
1

It’s my reality and considering how the original comment was upvoted ,others must have a similar reality.
/r/seduction13/06/22 01:36 AM
2

The more attractive the woman is, the worse she seems to treat men. Add to that most of them are brought up entitled and told they’re daddy’s little princess. Many have become spoiled, self-absorbed narcissists in this era.
/r/seduction13/06/22 01:12 AM
10

I think you have it backwards. You would have to experience real interactions in the real world to actually come to a conclusion.
/r/seduction12/06/22 11:01 PM
21

Women that wear skin tight Lulumon style pants, are wearing them for attention. They absolutely know they’re showing their cameltoe and pussy print.
/r/seduction12/06/22 08:22 PM
1

If you have a question sure
/r/seduction12/06/22 08:18 PM
-1

I quit dating awhile ago and I stopped giving af. Live your own life and make it the best you can. When you come to the self realization that you don’t need a woman to be happy, it’s truly liberating. They don’t have anything to offer except sex.
/r/seduction12/06/22 08:15 PM
1

It worked because you were in France.
/r/seduction12/06/22 08:00 PM
23

Not at all. Just answering the question
/r/seduction12/06/22 07:57 PM
44

I believe women today are absolutely horrible. You have a better chance finding a needle in a haystack then a woman that’s a decent human being. They’re flaky, pretentious, conceded, vapid and dishonest. They’re disloyal social climbers and a majority of them are bipolar. If they didn’t have a vagina, no man would ever speak to them.
/r/seduction12/06/22 07:52 PM
2

She’s showing her disinterest by barely answering.
/r/seduction12/06/22 07:39 PM
-1

If you’re not get laid after putting yourself out there and dealing with the rejection, not sure it’s worth it but everyone has to make that decision.
/r/seduction12/06/22 04:03 PM
2

Spam doesn’t just come in a can
/r/seduction12/06/22 02:36 PM
1

You putting the cart before the horse. You don’t even know if she gave you a real number and you don’t even know if she’s gonna reply back, so first things first. Assuming she actually replies back remind her who you are and then start from there
/r/seduction12/06/22 07:00 AM
1

Why do you want to be her emotional tampon? She’s been getting banged stupid by some other guy she supposedly hates but is still with. Why do you want that?
/r/seduction12/06/22 06:55 AM
1

I think she likes you. Don’t tell anyone
/r/seduction12/06/22 06:53 AM
1

I want to hookup! Give me your number
/r/seduction12/06/22 05:01 AM
1

This is mostly first date conversation.
/r/seduction12/06/22 12:15 AM
1

Well, you don’t know if she really has a bf or that was her way of blowing you off. Only thing certain is it was a rejection. Rejection sucks! Women are too cowardly to ever ask a guy out that they might be interested in because they would NEVER want to experience that.
/r/seduction11/06/22 11:48 PM
-4

Depends on how you look at it. Rejection is rejection.
/r/seduction11/06/22 10:21 PM
1

You can only close if she lets you.
/r/seduction11/06/22 07:22 PM
3

Yes, but I quickly realized you can’t go back.
/r/seduction11/06/22 06:31 PM
0

Who knows? You might’ve unknowingly did something, or said something that turned her off. I’m starting to believe that all women are bipolar.
/r/seduction11/06/22 06:29 PM
1

I don’t understand. You said she initially was “flirty, touchy and receptive”. If you didn’t act on those cues she might’ve thought you weren’t interested in her.
/r/seduction11/06/22 06:12 PM
0

Escalate quickly. You might have waited too long and she might’ve wanted to fuck.
/r/seduction11/06/22 06:00 PM
1

No
/r/seduction11/06/22 05:15 AM
0

So, you want to scare a woman into being attracted to you ?
/r/seduction11/06/22 05:11 AM
16

Good luck
/r/seduction11/06/22 12:54 AM
23

Gotta pay for it
/r/seduction11/06/22 12:51 AM
2

Women in their 20’s and 30’s are generally not attracted to men over 40.
/r/seduction10/06/22 11:30 PM
1

Tell him you have an itch that you would like him to scratch.
/r/seduction10/06/22 10:41 PM
3

Choose grammar
/r/seduction10/06/22 10:38 PM
1

I’m just looking to hookup and get off. I’m not looking for a gf right now.
/r/seduction10/06/22 09:26 PM
1

Sounds like you waited too long and she got bored. Some women like assertiveness and they actually want to fuck.
/r/seduction10/06/22 09:24 PM
1

Just jerk it and forget about them.
/r/seduction10/06/22 03:58 AM
0

Yeah, thanks for the advice. Now let me pass you some. Stop listening to YouTube hustlers like Todd V or that buffoon Bobby Rio. I think you jumped to a conclusion without ever knowing the plot. Also, it’s never cool to hit on women that are servers are bartenders. Their job is to be nice and a large portion of their income is derived from tips. Harassing them at work is not cool.
/r/seduction10/06/22 03:26 AM
3

Not sure where you’re going with this but, they’re crazy, fickle and live in the moment. One moment they might be into and then the moment passes. You’re an innocent bystander in a woman’s hit-and-run and you don’t even realize it until you’re looking at the tire marks across your chest.
/r/seduction10/06/22 03:19 AM
8

What’s the alternative? Get angry? Ask her why she insisted I have her number just so she could ignore me when I call ? There’s no way you can figure out the reasoning behind it, because it defies logic. A lot of women are crazy and they seek validation and attention with absolutely no intention of acting after receiving that validation and attention. They’re attention whores at they’re very core. Don’t feed their ego. Don’t play their games. When a woman pulls that shit, delete her number and n…
/r/seduction10/06/22 03:10 AM
4

I had one that really mind fucked me. She was a bartender that I flirted with off/ on for a year. I would never ask her out because her job is to be nice to customers and I know she gets hit on constantly, so although I flirted, I never crossed boundaries that I thought would potentially make her uncomfortable. One day she asked me if I would put new wiper blades on her car. I said, sure and she acts ecstatic because that’s not what it was really about to begin with. She grabs my phone and puts …
/r/seduction10/06/22 02:48 AM
3

If a woman isn’t interested in you and doesn’t find you attractive, you can have all game in the world, you’re still going to lose.
/r/seduction09/06/22 06:46 PM
1

And I agree with your point.
/r/seduction09/06/22 06:38 PM
2

True confidence is not caring how women judge you. Who gives af? Be yourself, be a nice person and live your life.
/r/seduction09/06/22 06:33 PM
-1

Again, this is just another manipulative hustle that might work in some cases but generally not. If a woman is attracted to you she’ll give you signs, just pay attention. Look for frequent eye contact followed by a smile. If you get either of those two, or both that’s your cue to approach.
/r/seduction09/06/22 03:46 PM
4

Yes. Don’t be friends with a woman you want sexually after she rejected you.
/r/seduction09/06/22 03:37 PM
37

You’ll never figure it out and don’t waste your time trying. I had a very similar experience that I’ve shared on this sub before. All you can do is tell yourself; it’s not me and move on
/r/seduction09/06/22 03:34 PM
1

It means she likes you as a text friend.
/r/seduction09/06/22 03:27 PM
1

Because you’ve put them on a pedestal
/r/seduction09/06/22 03:14 PM
-55

Right! Why do you women love to talk so much? One of the great mysteries of the universe.
/r/seduction08/06/22 10:37 PM
259

Some of them talk so much that you have to kiss them just to get some silence.
/r/seduction08/06/22 07:14 PM
31

Or, you could just stop giving af. I did and I’ve never been happier. Chasing pussy is like chasing any other addiction, whether it’s alcohol or drugs. Once you beat an addiction, it’s liberating. I still get laid but I don’t chase it like I use to.
/r/seduction08/06/22 03:38 PM
1

Until she’s free and clear, don’t get involved with her.
/r/seduction08/06/22 02:33 PM
2

I would never advise giving up, but when you’ve been on a series of dates that haven’t lead to sex, might be time for break.
/r/seduction08/06/22 02:31 PM
1

Eye contact and smiling
/r/seduction08/06/22 02:19 PM
1

Unfortunately it’s true. Being young has a lot of advantages, especially when it comes to attractiveness.
/r/seduction08/06/22 05:47 AM
1

Just another example of why you don’t get into relationships with women, you’ll only be disappointed. One night stands exist for a reason.
/r/seduction08/06/22 05:45 AM
1

Seems like you’re doing fine. Congratulations
/r/seduction08/06/22 05:32 AM
2

It’s ok to approach a guy you’re interested in. You’ll have a lot less chance of being rejected then a guy has approaching a woman that he’s interested in.
/r/seduction08/06/22 12:34 AM
1

I don’t know what you look like and there’s little info provided beyond “cute”. Guy are visual and women usually fall into two categories, women we want to fuck and women we don’t. Not sure if you’re interested in guys that are out of your league, but there’s someone out there for everyone.
/r/seduction07/06/22 11:59 PM
7

It’s called the push/ pull method and sometimes it works and most of the time it doesn’t. It all depends on her level of interest.
/r/seduction07/06/22 11:54 PM
1

She’s interested in you, so you should ask her if she still has a bf. If she says yes then respond ,oh that’s too bad. At that point I think you should stop flirting with her.
/r/seduction07/06/22 06:56 PM
1

Sure, as long as she’s not busy.
/r/seduction07/06/22 03:23 PM
1

No. She never indicated to you when she would be available. She said maybe after finals. That’s when you follow up with; maybe you can get in touch with me when you’re free? And then move on. A woman that’s interested in you will make time and a woman that’s not won’t.
/r/seduction07/06/22 03:15 PM
1

Why not just do it? If she’s uncomfortable she’ll let you know.
/r/seduction07/06/22 04:19 AM
1

Not true.
/r/seduction07/06/22 03:50 AM
1

Option 2- Ask her about her book. Tell her you’ve always been attracted to women that read. She’ll be offended, you tell her you’re joking and let the conversation flow and see where it goes.
/r/seduction07/06/22 03:16 AM
1

First off, there’s someone out there for everyone. I will tell you in college a woman I was pursuing rejected me and said at the time I was too skinny and that she didn’t date skinny guys. Somehow that rejection didn’t hurt my feelings. I’ve been thin and I’ve been fat at different times of my life but I’ve never been too thin or too rich.
/r/seduction07/06/22 03:01 AM
1

You shower then with gifts like Metamucil, Polident and Depends.
/r/seduction06/06/22 10:14 PM
5

Yeah , it’s called your 20’s.
/r/seduction06/06/22 10:12 PM
6

It might shock you to learn how many women are attracted to what is commonly called a “dad body”. Men 30-40 pounds overweight that do quite well in the dating market. I’m fit and I’m trim now and I have been for the last 5 years, but at one point I was 70 pounds overweight and I got laid, and I had more one night stands during that period then at any other time in my life including now. The point is, everything you do in life should be for your own health and happiness and NOT for women. When yo…
/r/seduction06/06/22 07:51 PM
1

You have nothing to offer, so I’m not sure why you think you’re entitled to 9’s and 10’s. I want a Ferrari, but I can’t get one because I don’t have the means. You can desire supermodels but your chance of getting with one is about as slim as winning the lottery. Everyone settles for less than what they expect or wanted., even wealthy people.
/r/seduction06/06/22 07:42 PM
1

No based the header as the rest of the post was deleted.
/r/seduction06/06/22 04:12 PM
1

Trust your intuition. If you feel good about it, make a move.
/r/seduction06/06/22 03:08 PM
1

Look for eye contact. Any form of touching, has she ever grazed the side of your hand, or touched your shoulder, or any part of you for example? Does she smile when she sees you? Does she smile and say hi when she sees you ?
/r/seduction06/06/22 03:01 PM
13

Because she lives in a fantasy world and she’s turned on by men with power and status.
/r/seduction06/06/22 02:56 PM
1

Simple. If a woman is interested in you, she will return your call, or text. She will make an effort to communicate with you and she will make an effort to see you. If you don’t hear from her it’s because she’s not interested in you. Delete her number and do not contact her again. Any further contact on your part makes you seem weak at the very least, and at the very worst she might interpret further contact as harassment. Men have to know when to move on. There’s a million and one signs a woman…
/r/seduction06/06/22 02:51 PM
2

What is happening at the one-year mark? There seems to be a pivot point when all of these relationships dissolve ,so have you asked yourself what happens after one year ? Are there arguments about the future of the relationship? I would need more information to be of any help to you. You can dm me
/r/seduction06/06/22 02:39 PM
-7

At the very least, they should know when NOT to do it. If you can’t tell when a woman isn’t interested then you probably can’t tell when she is.
/r/seduction06/06/22 02:21 PM
4

If the date is going well, why wouldn’t you take her out to eat? I’m amazed at how cheap and petty this is.
/r/seduction06/06/22 05:37 AM
-28

Most guys know how to flirt and express interest. Most guys can read the situation and decide whether or not to ask for a phone number, or even escalate with a woman they just met. It all comes down to her. If she doesn’t reciprocate, if she doesn’t call you back or text you or express any interest then you’re not getting anywhere
/r/seduction06/06/22 05:30 AM
72

You’ve have very little control over how a woman sees you. You can create all the sexual tension you want, but if she doesn’t see you as a potential sexual partner then you’re automatically friend -zoned by default. This is reality and no matter how you try to alter reality, it’s still the same outcome. You will only get as far with a woman as she lets you. Period end of story.
/r/seduction06/06/22 05:20 AM
4

Obsession is unhealthy and you need to get a grip. She’s not into you, move on.
/r/seduction06/06/22 05:15 AM
1

It’s not you, it’s them.
/r/seduction06/06/22 01:09 AM
0

The less you care the more success you’ll have. It may seem counterintuitive but it works.
/r/seduction05/06/22 08:30 PM
1

All good points, but you have to take of yourself physically, emotionally and FINANCIALLY to gain the attention of younger women. And, you’ll still have to deal with all of their immature, disloyal and narcissistic behavior a lot of women exhibit today. The best piece of advice I can give is look outside the U.S for women to date and marry. Eastern European women and women from South America and the South Pacific still have traditional values, still like and value men and it’s been a good experi…
/r/seduction05/06/22 04:35 PM
1

I absolutely agree with your comments on women today, with regards to men they’ve essentially been shut out. Men can’t date or form relationships with women that are constantly looking for something better.
/r/seduction05/06/22 04:15 PM
2

Keep the door open and just tell her to touch base when she’s feeling better. She might actually be sick but trust your instincts. If you honestly feel like she’s playing you, she might be.
/r/seduction05/06/22 02:13 PM
1

Absolutely correct.
/r/seduction05/06/22 07:34 AM
2

Good advice
/r/seduction05/06/22 07:03 AM
0

College is the easiest place to meet women, so it’s unfortunate that you’re having a difficult time. As far as relationships go, don’t bother. Hit it and quit it when the opportunity arrives ,and you’ll have opportunities. I don’t envy you though, the women of today are more selfish, self absorbed and inconsiderate then when I went through college. I call them social media sluts.
/r/seduction05/06/22 07:01 AM
-7

A better question is, why would you want to meet them? You sound like you’re on your way to a great future, so don’t screw it up. Get your degree, focus on your career and after you’ve saved some money start looking for women outside of the U.S.
/r/seduction05/06/22 06:50 AM
2

Absolutely brilliant post!!! I wish every guy would read this and I would just add something to it, stop worrying about whether a woman is going to like you for who you are, or for who you’re not. Focus on whether or not you like her. Look beyond the visual. Yes, physical attraction is very important but what if this woman is a complete asshole? Trust me, there’s plenty of them out there that are assholes and you don’t wanna be bothered with an asshole even for a one night stand. I know because …
/r/seduction04/06/22 06:36 PM
4

I think women have far surpassed men in narcissism.
/r/seduction04/06/22 02:54 PM
1

That said, I doubt that the gender gap is widening. Depending on your timeframe, men and women socialize together much more these days than, say 50 years ago, where they were segregated in school, work and much of their social life. Umm no. I respectfully disagree.
/r/seduction04/06/22 02:50 PM
-4

“So because she’s homeless that automatically means she’s going to like me? -I guess not (lol)
/r/seduction04/06/22 02:43 PM
1

Thank you for that public service announcement. It has nothing to do with the OP who was romancing a homeless woman.
/r/seduction04/06/22 02:39 PM
3

A homeless woman!? And you still couldn’t hookup??? If this post is serious then I’ve never heard of anything like this, but I suspect you’re trolling. Points for originality.
/r/seduction04/06/22 02:28 PM
1

I’ve been through various scenarios like this and the only advice I can give you is move on. Hope you take it and don’t look back and don’t respond back. You’re just another guy standing in line hoping and waiting to get inside her. Don’t be a chump.
/r/seduction04/06/22 02:25 PM
11

Wow! I heard of desperate, thirsty guys but this is a whole new level of desperation. A homeless woman?
/r/seduction04/06/22 02:19 PM
1

We’re just sharing opinions and experiences here and to each his own. The last couple times I tried to engage in a conversation with someone I was interested in, I soon got the vibe that I was taking up their time. I honestly don’t give af anymore. They’re too self absorbed to waste time on, and as I’ve gotten older I realize that I don’t have anything in common with most of them. I think going forward you’re going to see birthrates plummet because the gender divide is widening. I believe less r…
/r/seduction04/06/22 01:54 PM
3

You’re playing it to cool and they think you’re not into them.
/r/seduction04/06/22 12:56 PM
1

She’s not worth the time. Move on
/r/seduction04/06/22 12:37 PM
1

Who said I don’t treat them nice? You did. As to the rest of your comment ,I don’t want anything from them and who cares ?
/r/seduction04/06/22 12:20 PM
1

I wouldn’t put too much stock in that study.
/r/seduction04/06/22 07:34 AM
1

Men generally think with their penis and will date a woman that’s unemployed as long as she’s hot. Women almost never date below them socially or economically.
/r/seduction04/06/22 07:31 AM
4

It’s definitely contributed to the decline of relationships. Imo it’s contributed to the decline of civilization.
/r/seduction04/06/22 07:13 AM
9

The social and personality changes in many women have been dramatic. I generally don’t like, or respect them anymore. They’ve become empty, vapid, shallow, uncaring, unsupportive and insensitive. Obviously, I’m not talking about all women, there’s still some good ones out there, but I don’t have the time, energy, or perseverance for that hunt.
/r/seduction04/06/22 07:07 AM
5

I think there’s always been a percentage of women that secretly hated and resented men. The difference today is that percentage has grown a lot larger. Women are graduating college at higher rates than men. They’re starting high paying careers, they’re more independent than ever and now you see so many more women that use to resent men, now just ignoring and looking down on them. Women use to be interested in relationships that would lead to marriage and family, because women were traditionally …
/r/seduction04/06/22 06:48 AM
21

Honestly, I don’t know but that’s certainly plausible. Social media has created a whole new breed of pretentious, self-absorbed, narcissistic women. But that doesn’t tell the whole story, or really explain what’s happening. There’s been a seismic shift in the gender divide and I’ve seen it firsthand in the last 2 to 3 years. Men and women are going their own way.
/r/seduction04/06/22 06:27 AM
11

If she’ll cheat on him with you, she’ll cheat on you with someone else. Tell her to look you up after she breaks up.
/r/seduction04/06/22 05:54 AM
-2

Why would you think your color has anything to do with your success or failure? White privilege is a myth.
/r/seduction04/06/22 05:43 AM
2

The guy is a tool and anyone that would pay him $4500 is pathetic.
/r/seduction04/06/22 05:31 AM
24

I’ve noticed women in general just becoming more distant and aloof. They’re far more selective and independent and they’re standards seem impossibly high for the average Joe. Honestly, I just don’t give af anymore.
/r/seduction04/06/22 05:06 AM
2

The narrative is false. Women play games more then men and they’re better at it. They have an unfair advantage in the dating market and the deck is stacked against men. The ratio of quality women is about 1 in 20 and as you said, the guy does all the heavy lifting in a relationship. Women today are more independent, more selective and far more narcissistic and self absorbed then I can remember. I’m over it. At this stage of my life that juice ain’t worth the squeeze. Hookups are always available…
/r/seduction04/06/22 05:01 AM
5

Umm, first of all I’m sharing my own experience with the OP. You don’t know what I texted the woman in question and you don’t know the nature of the rapport we developed over time. This wasn’t some random woman I hit up on the street, asked for her number and then got butt hurt when I didn’t get a reply. She gave me her number, I didn’t ask for it. We had gone through the formalities and she decided to make the move and give me her number. I contacted her, she didn’t reply. I never contacted her…
/r/seduction04/06/22 12:19 AM
1

He’s impressed with you and seems to have put you on a pedestal in his own mind. I have some thoughts about it and you can dm me if you want
/r/seduction03/06/22 10:04 PM
10

I had this happen to me a few months ago and I’m still puzzled by it today. A woman that I had been flirting with for over a year grabbed my phone and put her number in it. I waited a day and sent her a text and she never replied back. This is someone that I see on average about once a week and works in a business that I frequent. So what happened? Why did she do that? What were all of these months of teasing and flirting really about? Nothing. I guess validation for her, but I really believe th…
/r/seduction03/06/22 09:22 PM
2

Since you sit behind her, tell her that’s not a ruler poking her in the back, you’re just happy to see her.
/r/seduction03/06/22 09:16 PM
1

Isn’t it 🙄
/r/seduction03/06/22 09:13 PM
1

I’m reading this comment that you posted. You say that they feel nervous around you. There must be a reason related to how you’re approaching them.
/r/seduction03/06/22 03:47 PM
1

If you’re cold approaching a woman. Rule #1: Don’t be creepy. Rule #2: See rule 1
/r/seduction03/06/22 03:39 PM
1

They’re worth it to the dating coach.
/r/seduction03/06/22 01:57 PM
1

Do not contact her again. Wait to hear from her and if you never do there’s your answer. If she doesn’t appreciate your time now, she’s not going to appreciate your time later
/r/seduction03/06/22 03:34 AM
1

Question: How old are you? And how old are the girls you’re dating?
/r/seduction03/06/22 02:54 AM
2

If a woman is interested in you, and you respected her boundaries when she said no, or moved your hand away, then you didn’t do anything wrong. She’s likely not interested in you as a potential boyfriend
/r/seduction03/06/22 02:49 AM
1

You should be touching them in a way that expresses a sexual interest. Touching the forearm, a light rub over the top of her back, a hand on the knee. Gradual escalation that’s meant to convey you’re interested in her being your girlfriend, not a buddy.
/r/seduction03/06/22 02:46 AM
1

Highly unlikely, unless you’re dating someone really immature.
/r/seduction03/06/22 02:12 AM
1

It’s a gradual process that you escalate until she says no and then you stop. She might never tell you to stop and you might have your hand down her panties.
/r/seduction03/06/22 01:59 AM
1

Stop caring and they’ll start coming. And when they start coming, you’ll start cumming.
/r/seduction03/06/22 01:50 AM
2

Then the progression to starting a relationship should be easy, assuming it’s something you’re both interested in.
/r/seduction02/06/22 07:12 PM
2

Tell her what your expectations are and then see if the two of you agree on anything.
/r/seduction02/06/22 06:51 PM
1

Just ask her to hookup. Keep the conversation to her questions
/r/seduction02/06/22 06:36 PM
2

Why don’t you focus on hooking up with the 9’s and 10’s online ?
/r/seduction02/06/22 05:41 PM
0

You’re doing something wrong. Unless you look like the elephant man, you should have no problem getting women.
/r/seduction02/06/22 04:43 PM
-2

As soon as you graduate and get hired as an engineer, you’ll no longer be invisible. Women can smell money better than cologne.
/r/seduction02/06/22 04:37 PM
2

Say: I’m just looking to hookup and nothing else right now.
/r/seduction02/06/22 02:32 PM
1

You could try tempting her with rice pudding and a new walker ?
/r/seduction02/06/22 02:31 PM
6

Absolutely!! The more I care about myself and what makes me happy, the more I realize there’s nothing a woman has to offer me except sex. So, that sex better better be so good I see God.
/r/seduction02/06/22 11:06 AM
3

He won’t care, he’ll be to focused on what’s between your legs.
/r/seduction02/06/22 05:53 AM
1

You did 😭
/r/seduction02/06/22 01:58 AM
7

Good name for a band.
/r/seduction01/06/22 10:48 PM
35

They’ll fuck your best friend just to see if you’ll forgive them.
/r/seduction01/06/22 08:26 PM
2

Happens all the time. Happened to me after months of flirting and talking to a woman and she gave me her number. I didn’t even ask for it. Yea, they’re an interesting gender. Don’t play their games, delete the number and move on.
/r/seduction01/06/22 05:34 PM
8

Tell her you’re a better listener when she’s naked.
/r/seduction01/06/22 03:41 PM
1

People like what they can’t have.
/r/seduction31/05/22 09:34 PM
2

Stay informed on current events and have an opinion.
/r/seduction31/05/22 02:24 PM
3

I had this epiphany after several dates and a number of relationships that I would rather jerk off then deal with most women and their drama and bullshit.
/r/seduction31/05/22 03:23 AM
8

Focus on yourself and career goals. If you have money and you’re successful you can be ugly af and still get women.
/r/seduction31/05/22 02:49 AM
1

By not being boring.
/r/seduction31/05/22 02:46 AM
1

I probably wouldn’t kick you out of bed based on your looks.
/r/seduction31/05/22 02:39 AM
1

Right ? I wonder if uses that tone with the ladies. Lol
/r/seduction30/05/22 10:11 PM
3

Wtf did I just read ?
/r/seduction30/05/22 09:46 PM
6

Calm down man. I’m joking.
/r/seduction30/05/22 09:10 PM
1

Lol ! This was funny to read. I don’t think you’ll have much success approaching women like dating you is a reward, or sex with you is a reward but good luck.
/r/seduction30/05/22 06:26 PM
5

Good luck with this strategy. I hope she doesn’t file a police report on you.
/r/seduction30/05/22 06:12 PM
5

I can’t do 1-5 but what else do you have ?
/r/seduction30/05/22 06:00 PM
1

Sarcasm mode on.
/r/seduction30/05/22 03:11 PM
-6

Lol! What you don’t know about women and relationships, is a lot.
/r/seduction30/05/22 04:27 AM
2

How ironic, huh?
/r/seduction30/05/22 01:42 AM
0

I don’t know that men have a “toxic” view of women. There are men that have been treated poorly by women and after a few negative experiences you start to either become bitter and introverted, or you grow alligator skin and treat them like they’re all cum dumpsters. I think a healthy attitude is to not let rejection change your personality.
/r/seduction30/05/22 01:33 AM
-8

Women generally don’t approach men
/r/seduction30/05/22 01:08 AM
2

Assume everyone’s an asshole until they prove otherwise. When it comes to women, choose wisely and treat kindly, assuming you’re fortunate enough to meet one that’s worthy.
/r/seduction30/05/22 01:04 AM
1

I wish the rest of this post was as good as the header but yeah, if she doesn’t return a text or a call she’s not interested and she’s inconsiderate.
/r/seduction30/05/22 12:00 AM
14

Don’t over compliment and don’t kiss her ass. Be nice but not fake nice and make her work a little for your attention. You’ll thank me later
/r/seduction29/05/22 04:28 PM
-4

Totally agree. Don’t be a beta
/r/seduction29/05/22 04:03 PM
1

Can somebody explain this? WTF
/r/seduction29/05/22 07:11 AM
2

Sounds like a great idea. I think it could also help kids suffering from depression because lack of social skills in adolescence is a leading cause of depression.
/r/seduction29/05/22 07:06 AM
5

No, that’s not cool. Don’t be rude or inconsiderate, it’s bad karma and that’s not the way you would want a woman to treat you. Just tell her straight up that although you had a good time, you don’t think you’re a good match.
/r/seduction29/05/22 06:59 AM
1

I don’t know. Join a gang and move to the ghetto.
/r/seduction29/05/22 06:27 AM
1

Don’t be a cheap screw. If you like her, consider it an investment.
/r/seduction28/05/22 09:17 PM
1

Try to work it into a 3-way
/r/seduction28/05/22 07:35 PM
15

A woman that I had flirted with for months voluntarily gave me her number and I texted her and - no reply. Only thing I can tell you is women play games, and I think they do it more often and are sometimes better at it than men. Don’t interpret this as a rejection because it’s actually a character flaw of hers. Anyone that gives out their number and then doesn’t reply to a call or text is inconsiderate. Ask yourself, why would you want someone rude and inconsiderate in your life..?
/r/seduction28/05/22 03:08 PM
0

Because everything about that approach was creepy.
/r/seduction28/05/22 01:29 PM
3

Ask her if she’s down to clown and then move the circus to her place.
/r/seduction28/05/22 02:55 AM
2

Invite her over
/r/seduction28/05/22 02:03 AM
2

Ok, dm me
/r/seduction28/05/22 02:00 AM
4

Are you an attractive woman?
/r/seduction28/05/22 01:48 AM
0

Familiarity breeds contempt and this is why most marriages/ relationships fail. In fact, most marriages fail due to illness, both people get sick of each other.
/r/seduction28/05/22 01:37 AM
1

Doesn’t sound like she was into you
/r/seduction28/05/22 01:31 AM
-1

Nope. There is only one person for each of us
/r/seduction28/05/22 01:28 AM
1

I would sincerely apologize to her and ask her if it would be possible to meet in person.
/r/seduction28/05/22 01:21 AM
1

When in doubt, ask her if she needs a hole filled.
/r/seduction28/05/22 01:16 AM
6

I don’t know who wrote this, a male or a female but this is just b.s.
/r/seduction28/05/22 01:12 AM
1

Seems fixable
/r/seduction28/05/22 01:07 AM
1

This doesn’t sound like something that horrible, or irreparable. I mean, assuming you didn’t cheat?
/r/seduction28/05/22 12:52 AM
1

I don’t understand this. Can someone translate this from English to sane..?
/r/seduction28/05/22 12:32 AM
1

Why did you hurt this person in the first place?
/r/seduction28/05/22 12:29 AM
1

By asking
/r/seduction28/05/22 12:15 AM
1

Unfortunately, that’s the way it is.
/r/seduction28/05/22 12:11 AM
0

I’ve actually never tried that play but it might work in terms of making you seem more desirable. Keep me posted.
/r/seduction28/05/22 12:01 AM
1

How do you know unless you’re willing to communicate?
/r/seduction27/05/22 10:14 PM
2

I think it’s situational. If one person in a relationship is taking the other for granted and that person has an affair, or cheats and gets caught ,can you fix what’s broken in the relationship?
/r/seduction27/05/22 10:11 PM
2

I think in a lot of LTR situations both men and women cheat. The sex becomes boring or sexless and cheating happens
/r/seduction27/05/22 10:04 PM
1

Red flags everywhere. She seems like a high maintenance pain in the ass.
/r/seduction27/05/22 08:39 PM
1

Well done
/r/seduction27/05/22 08:37 PM
2

Go to college and everything will happen
/r/seduction27/05/22 07:54 PM
0

She wants to look hot to guys. There’s nothing hotter then clam
/r/seduction27/05/22 07:41 PM
-1

Low cut skirt, no panties and act approachable
/r/seduction27/05/22 07:19 PM
22

I think the idea is lame and if you’re getting so much pussy that women leave their stuff behind, you really should be grateful.
/r/seduction27/05/22 07:17 PM
1

Approach with confidence but don’t invest in the outcome
/r/seduction27/05/22 03:24 PM
8

OK, then she’s just not interested. Nothing you can really do if she’s not engaging in the conversation
/r/seduction27/05/22 02:51 PM
2

I would go meet her at a restaurant. I would buy her lunch/ dinner. It sounds like she’s had a shitty week and you have an opportunity to make it better. Again, how much do you like her? If you like this girl, these questions answer themselves
/r/seduction27/05/22 02:49 PM
5

I think you asked her too many questions. A simple, how was your day? Would have have sufficed
/r/seduction27/05/22 02:47 PM
1

If she has car trouble and you want to see her, make the trip. You’re still not a simp
/r/seduction27/05/22 02:43 PM
2

You took your shot, move on
/r/seduction27/05/22 02:40 PM
1

She’s either clueless or not interested and in either case you made the right decision
/r/seduction27/05/22 02:36 PM
3

Confidence
/r/seduction27/05/22 02:30 PM
1

Another case of women having too many countless options. Nothing you can do except move on
/r/seduction27/05/22 02:30 PM
10

The newness wore off
/r/seduction27/05/22 05:25 AM
2

How bad do you want to see her..?
/r/seduction27/05/22 04:58 AM
1

Let’s say you’re a beer drinker and you only drink Corona. One day you find out all the stores are out of Corona due to the supply chain crisis. I guarantee you’ll find another beer to drink in the meantime. Pussy is the same thing.
/r/seduction27/05/22 03:46 AM
4

It’s only appropriate if they find you attractive, otherwise you’re bothering them.
/r/seduction27/05/22 03:41 AM
2

Say, as long as it’s with tongue.
/r/seduction27/05/22 02:13 AM
1

Tell her you beat off while staring outside her window.
/r/seduction27/05/22 02:12 AM
1

Tell her she gives you blueballs.
/r/seduction27/05/22 02:11 AM
2

We always want what we can’t have. Move on
/r/seduction27/05/22 02:09 AM
2

No. It’s virtually impossible because the issue if sex always gets in the way.
/r/seduction27/05/22 02:02 AM
3

One of the safest and cleanest places you could live.
/r/seduction27/05/22 01:12 AM
1

Tell her you’ll take out when she’s out of rehab
/r/seduction27/05/22 01:09 AM
-7

Absolutely. Fuck as many as you can because ugly and average girls need love to
/r/seduction27/05/22 01:08 AM
2

Move on to someone that doesn’t play games.
/r/seduction27/05/22 12:42 AM
2

Exactly the opposite. I had a woman that was very interested, gave me her phone number and then after I pursued she decided she wasn’t interested. It doesn’t matter if they go from hot to cold, or cold to lukewarm. If they’re not being serious and they’re not being considerate. Move on
/r/seduction26/05/22 10:52 PM
5

Sounds like she’s trying to keep you around as a placeholder. Up to you if you’re ok with being a woman’s emotional tampon. I don’t know what you’re getting out of this, but she has you on standby. She’s not making you a priority in her life. You’re not even in her top 10 of priorities. Not cool.
/r/seduction26/05/22 08:33 PM
6

Reply back with: Ok, let me know when you’re free and maybe we can get together. And don’t ever contact her again. Leave the ball on her court and go pick up another game. Maybe she’ll get in touch but move on with the expectation that she won’t.
/r/seduction26/05/22 08:14 PM
0

If you’ve got money, they’ll give you their time.
/r/seduction26/05/22 06:58 PM
2

Call them out for being racist.
/r/seduction26/05/22 06:55 PM
18

I’ve NEVER made fun of a hookup and I’ve had a few. Any guy that would do that is lame and immature. I have way to much appreciation for women and their pussy to make fun of it. What would be the point ?
/r/seduction26/05/22 06:48 PM
1

Most of this is common sense but still good information
/r/seduction26/05/22 06:31 PM
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