How do I seduce him?

Unidentified-Being · 2022-06-23T19:46:09+00:00

I wouldn’t seduce someone if they are in a committed relationship, it’s putting your needs above everyone else and it’s selfish, you can and should get over him.

If it’s a FWB or open relationship he’s in, just talk to him, smile, wear something sexy, find excuses to touch him, good eye contact, if you’re alone maybe rest your leg on his etc. He’ll be all over you

snowdude11 · 2022-06-23T19:44:18+00:00

I’m in the process of changing jobs so we won’t be coworkers anymore

I would suggest not pursing someone who is already in a relationship and instead, drop him from your life once you move jobs. Not having to see the guy daily at work will make moving on much easier.

If he would cheat with you, he would cheat on you. And considering your infatuation for the guy, he will almost certainly break your heart at some point in the future.

AndrewLiteral · 2022-06-23T20:00:58+00:00

I agree with what the other dude said, if for some reason he cheats on his girl with you, you are not a special case, he WILL cheat on you too lol

Want my advice ? Don't be a scumbag, just leave it alone, its incredibly selfish and shows you have no interest in him, only for yourself. Just remember, he is literally just a guy.

P.S He aint into you lol

bandsupjay · 2022-06-23T22:47:58+00:00

I mean, why arent you having a proper conversation? Are you not initiating or is he not reciprocating? Theres signs in both of these

poly_nerdy_panda · 2022-06-23T19:56:08+00:00

move on unless u want him to cheat... but he will also cheat on you just saying

Lighthero34 · 2022-06-23T23:04:06+00:00

Don't. Getting in between a relationship makes you a shit person.

ksmith11011 · 2022-06-23T21:42:55+00:00

Usually when see something sexy on a girl I kinda like but may not have been focused on it can put me into overdrive and all my attention will go on her

ImAGhostOooooooo · 2022-06-23T23:15:49+00:00

Don't. He clearly isn't that interested. Some people briefly flirt because it's fun, not because they have intentions of persuing anything. You haven't had full conversations with him so it doesn't sound like talking to you is important to him. People will reciprocate if they're truly interested.

I've had plenty of "work husbands" that I've harmlessly flirted with, but we don't plan to do anything more because we have lives we care about outside of work. Some people just click at work and they see flirting with you as easy and a fun distraction. I've added most of my work husbands on social media and we all comment on each other's posts, but that's all it is, light distracting fun.

ImAGhostOooooooo · 2022-06-23T23:18:54+00:00

Or you risk him not having the same feelings. To me it sounds like you like him more and he only sees you as a work friend. It doesn't sound like he's reciprocating any of your feelings. I'd be concerned that you might freak him out a little bit. Maybe he sees your light flirting and friendliness as just a little bit of harmless fun. He might not have seen it as a big hint like you're seeing it.

unfinity2 · 2022-06-24T02:41:58+00:00

Wear some sexy outfit or lingerie, take a nice pic, and PM him asking if he likes the outfit. And FYI I disagree somewhat with the other users. Unless they’re married, your mating prospects are fair game.

jackzander · 2022-06-23T21:15:06+00:00

Don't be a twat.

Go find someone who has room for you.

Jay_k447 · 2022-06-23T20:02:25+00:00

Well great connections are hard to find and it might not be moral but u should try to get intimate with him. U can maybe go with him for a coffee by excuse or maybe u can just come out and say it. Start flirting on texts nd irl. Make an excuse to spend more time with him nd if there is a spark between u too nd ur in moment kiss him.

Archyblackcat · 2022-06-23T20:52:06+00:00

There’s nothing you can do to seduce him.. if he doesn’t already like you you won’t randomly change his mind unless he’s the type that would fuck anyone that would give it up easy to him.. or if he hasn’t fucked in a while and is desperate

mojojojo2069 · 2022-06-23T22:05:58+00:00

Lmao don't watch the video where a girl beat up another girl for talking to her "baby daddy".

hotrodcool · 2022-06-24T00:27:43+00:00

Obviously you just want to take him to take you to pound town for uncommitted fun. In that case, it's incumbent upon you to make the first naughty move to let him know it's ok without the fear of being publicly shamed, or worse...a workplace sexual harassment perpetrator. If you make the first bold move, then it's a green light.

Tell him he's handsome, and gently put your hand on him in soft but intentonal way. If he immediately pulls back then he's not ready for what you are, if he allows it... then it's an item for for you to take initiative.

Don't do this in front of others though, other coworkers might report it as an incident to mgmt / hr which will most likely harm his employment status. Other girls tend to get catty & or jealous. It isn't fair or right, but it's the current world we live in today.

tlthang · 2022-06-23T19:46:36+00:00

Ask him to help you something. And then once you change job, ask him out to thank him for helping you and you like to keep in touch more than just co-worker

OnlyIfHeWatches · 2022-06-23T19:37:46+00:00

Bend over in front of him while wearing a short little skirt or dress... that'll get is attention.

PersimmonAccurate100 · 2022-06-23T22:24:51+00:00

would you still be attracted to him if he didn't have much of a social media presence or update his social media?

Mindless_Canary5130 · 2022-06-23T22:37:10+00:00

You don’t need to seduce him, you can give him signals eye contact, touching him and smiling. If he’s man enough to understand a women he’ll know what are you looking for, give hints like this is the type of man I want in my life.

Ambitious-Ice2357 · 2022-06-23T19:59:50+00:00

Why don’t you ask him out..?

monkey36937 · 2022-06-23T22:46:16+00:00

Go for a drink then one thing lead to another, that simple.

Neo-Rio · 2022-06-24T03:09:49+00:00

What most of the guys here are failing to understand is that women are ALWAYS attracted to men who are ALREADY TAKEN.

(Social proof, pre-selection, etc)

So for her to leave this guy alone is probably not really going to work, and from her point of view, being able to find better and hotter men isn't going to work either because women's sex drive tends to focus on THE ONE and not on random hookups like a man's does.

This is why I don't envy women at all, because while they can easily get sex - getting THE ONE to want to stay in a committed relationship with her involves relentless competition with other women.

Sorry I have no advice, save that getting sex from the desired man is the easy part.What comes next is the hard part, because men will only REALLY seriously commit when there are children involved, and they desire to have them.

Having said that though - understanding your own primative sex drives may illuminate a way forward for you. Good luck.

cronasminate · 2022-06-23T23:38:46+00:00

This is way more common than you think, especially at work. But if you can't figure out how on your own, you will not be able to handle the mental games you'll need to play once you are actually cheating with him. You'll end up fucking your life up and his.

celestial-kitty2 · 2022-06-24T02:33:20+00:00

The key to building self esteem is doing esteem-able things. Becoming an obstacle within in an existing relationship is not really anything you’ll ever be proud of yourself for long term.

Just-Breakfast5870 · 2022-06-24T04:17:42+00:00

You have six posts asking about this and your comments make it clear you are obsessing over a guy that’s just not into you. He is keeping a polite, professional relationship with you and you are trying to interpret every little interaction as some sort of flirtation. Based on your comment on another post it sounds like he knows you are into him and any move on your part will be immediately shot down or ignored. Get over him. It’s not going to happen.

2022-06-24T08:30:08+00:00

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Title	How do I seduce him?
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Date	June 23, 2022 7:33 PM UTC (4 years ago)
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