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Lighthero34/r/ExRedPill09/03/23 01:54 PM
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Escalation & CalibrationLighthero34/r/seduction06/06/22 01:36 PM
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ConversationLighthero34/r/seduction15/08/22 08:58 PM
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Hey brother I made this comment over a year ago. Things have changed. No, women aren't "wired" that way. I met so many more people even now than I did a year ago and I can tell you that everyone is wired differently. There are selfish people but women are not inherently selfish. I was having trouble at the time of writing this because I put dating before everything in my life as if it would give me meaning. It never would have, and im finding meaning elsewhere. I suggest that you take a long loo…
/r/ExRedPill05/07/24 07:07 AM
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That's just false
/r/ExRedPill12/02/24 01:45 AM
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Demonstrably false lmao black women are far and away the least amount of likes on dating apps and notoriously struggle in the dating market.
/r/AllPillDebate21/04/23 04:48 PM
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How would that make problems
/r/ExRedPill17/03/23 06:56 PM
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I don't at all, my romantic gestures are just never reciprocated. I love coming up with creative ways to flirt and impress my lady, I just rarely get a chance to. It hurts my heart honestly.
/r/ExRedPill17/03/23 06:36 PM
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Is it? You're asking the wrong guy. I can't attract women for the life of me and i wish I knew why.
/r/ExRedPill17/03/23 06:11 PM
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I commented elsewhere, but the idea is that being feminine is unattractive to women.
/r/ExRedPill17/03/23 05:53 PM
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Because the idea is that feminine qualities are unattractive to women. It's true sometimes, untrue others , as always entirely dependent on the girl. You know since women aren't homogeneous (shocker) It makes sense that men would worry about being attractive to women since that makes up a large part of our mental health, so using this to push whatever narrative you want works if you can word it right.
/r/ExRedPill17/03/23 05:52 PM
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I build actual friendships with them by simply treating them as any other human. That comes first. That runs a bit contrary to any advice I've ever received, including from men with successful marriages and relationships. I've always been told to make it clear why you're there and make it flirty straight away "Treat her like a friend and that's all you'll ever be" type of thing. I get that men wanting something from you straight away is off-putting but that approach has never garnered me any suc…
/r/ExRedPill16/03/23 04:19 AM
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You're looking for ways to make her feel safe. I'm talking about first impressions and understanding how im coming across. You're assuming malice. I also don't appreciate the underhandedness in implying that I don't understand consent. I'm neuro-divergent dude. I'm trying to learn social dynamics so I can do this type of thing better. It's also obvious that what makes me feel safe as a man isn't necessarily what makes a woman feel safe. Your comment was very confusing and I don't think I underst…
/r/ExRedPill16/03/23 02:42 AM
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I was hoping for harder examples so I could put them into play in my dating life. I know I'm not a predator, but I only have so long in any given bar interaction to let a girl know that. I'm hoping there's a way to do it that doesn't feel forced.
/r/ExRedPill16/03/23 02:05 AM
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What are some ways a man can make you feel safe
/r/ExRedPill16/03/23 01:58 AM
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insecurity, possessiveness, and aggression in their desire to create dominance. I like a man who feels bigger than me. What are some ways to come across as bigger without being aggressive or possessive
/r/ExRedPill16/03/23 01:05 AM
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I don't think anyone's been putting me down in the ccomments.
/r/ExRedPill10/03/23 04:10 PM
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EMDR? What does that mean?
/r/ExRedPill10/03/23 01:56 PM
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Okay. Instead though, I will take the time to not he overweight anymore and learn how to be better dressed, which will take effort but net me the women I truly am interested. I'd rather not go after women I don't really desire because that isn't fair to them. They deserve someone who views them as their ideal woman not someone they have to reach a little lower for. The way you put it, it makez it sound like I would be settling. I doubt you meant it that way, but that is the truth. I'd rather put…
/r/ExRedPill10/03/23 01:49 PM
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If you've got a good physique it changes your face and moves you up attractiveness even if it doesn't.
/r/ExRedPill10/03/23 05:42 AM
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So incredibly false
/r/ExRedPill10/03/23 05:39 AM
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intellectual health Idk if this is what you're referring to but I'm about to have a Bachelors Degree and I'm going to grad school next semester, I've always really enjoyed the idea of being in school and learning mental and emotional health My emotional health has always been tied to my sense of inadequacy because of my lack of success with women. I notice that some of my most unhealthy habits all come back to me failing to get girls that I want. So I guess my method is figuring out how to flirt…
/r/ExRedPill09/03/23 10:49 PM
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What do you do with the ongoing hole of self-esteem that even one or five positive dates still might not fill? My main insecurity lies in not being able to consistently get dates. It's a need of mine not being fulfilled. Once I figure out how to get people to actually show up for me that need is now filled. I don't think I would feel there's anything wrong with them because the only reason I believe there's anything wrong with me is because I struggle with something that seems so easy for others…
/r/ExRedPill09/03/23 09:46 PM
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someone who's quite unpleasant to spend time with, and someone who's going to put people off meeting up. Does that make sense? I get this response when I ask for advice all the time. I really don't see how that's possible considering the only reason any of these attitudes come to light is because we're having this very specific conversation on this very specific topic. In fact I'd argue the opposite is true, more often than not people are SHOCKED when they find out I struggle with women, and I g…
/r/ExRedPill09/03/23 09:43 PM
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I wish you and I could hang out, or like at the very least I wish I could find someone that would actually try this hard with me as you do. As for examples of those things I don't really have any off the top of my head right now.
/r/ExRedPill09/03/23 09:23 PM
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But the fact that you're seeing people flaking as being a matter of disrespect and that you need more power This entire thread you've kept mentioning that. I don't really want power, I want to understand and control the way people view me (within a reasonable context). I don't want to have power over anyone really, I just want to be able to make sure I am not giving anyone the wrong impression of myself by acting in ways that aren't reflective of who I am. Secondly, I doubt that it's unlucky. I …
/r/ExRedPill09/03/23 08:55 PM
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Most women I talk to act like this though. Surely it's me and not all the women right? That just seems ridiculous
/r/ExRedPill09/03/23 08:25 PM
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I'm kind of confused here. You said you've come to the conclusion that you're not attractive. Is this conclusion solely based on your weight? Or do you also believe that you'll remain unattractive even after getting abs? What I mean is that right now, I am unattractive. Getting a better physique will make me more attractive, which will (hopefully) cause more people to want to hang around me despite my awkwardness. I have a friend who has actual Asperger's syndrome but people don't even notice be…
/r/ExRedPill09/03/23 07:14 PM
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For example, whenever I meet a new girl, there's a 75% chance that she's going to cancel on me day of when we're supposed to meet without actually explaining herself. I've been ghosted a lot and that's another thing that frustrates me. It's disrespectful and rude, and I know that if I presented myself in a way that was different, people wouldn't feel so comfortable walking all over me. I am not trying to say that I am entitled to anyone's time, presence, or body. What I am entitled to is some ba…
/r/ExRedPill09/03/23 06:59 PM
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What I'm saying is that behaving in a way thats healthy socially requires you to care about what other people think. I was giving examples in an effort to make my point clearer. I didn't say you were advocating for anything, just using that as an example to show that it doesn't matter what you think about yourself as much as it matters what others think about you.
/r/ExRedPill09/03/23 06:44 PM
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I'm sick of my time always being disrespected with meeting new people. If I read this and find a way to be taken more seriously then I really don't give a shit what pill it came from. I'd take the damn brown pill if it meant I'd actually be treated as though my time matters and I'm worth pursuing and loving.
/r/ExRedPill09/03/23 03:52 PM
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I socialize plenty already. This isn't about me getting the confidence to socialize this is about me getting taken seriously and controlling my image and how others view me.
/r/ExRedPill09/03/23 03:19 PM
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I genuinely like myself and rarely get self hateful. I honestly have been feeling a lot better about myself but other people don't seem to think I'm all that attractive and so I clearly need to do something to change. Honestly though, I'm really coming to the conclusion that I'm just not physically attractive enough. I've been losing lots of weight recently and I'll have abs soon. I think a lot more people will be willing to overlook any awkwardness if I'm attractive, and then they'll stick arou…
/r/ExRedPill09/03/23 03:18 PM
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Sorry but one of the points was to be fun and goofy. You sound like you're a chore to be around, put bluntly.
/r/ExRedPill09/03/23 02:47 PM
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The person who I am needs to be changed though. The world has made that quite clear.
/r/ExRedPill09/03/23 02:41 PM
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I just looked through your post history and you're incredibly insecure. I noticed you talk about your bad looks often but didn't see a single post about going to the gym. I did see that you tried therapy and it didn't work, meaning you either gave up or didn't put in the work.. Maybe you oughta actually work on yourself before claiming that you have worked on yourself.
/r/ExRedPill09/03/23 01:50 PM
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You exist as a concept because other people observe you. I really can't stand thus whole "live without caring what other people think" trope because what other people think about you quite literally defines who you are in society If most people that you meet think you're an asshole, you're an asshole. Plain and simple. Some of the biggest pricks on the planet earth continue to be shitbags because they refuse to consider anyone else's opinion. Its the reason narcissists hurt so many people. Carin…
/r/ExRedPill09/03/23 01:41 PM
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don't listen to fish how to catch fish!!! So... You're trying to catch something that doesn't want to be caught? You're treating women as prey that you need to trick into biting? You're a hunter and they're prey? You're a predator this a predatory statement
/r/ExRedPill09/03/23 01:36 PM
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Not sure why you're getting downvoted. A lot of men have this exact same experience and are still incredibly lonely. The stuff she listed is nice but unfortunately doesn't work most often.
/r/ExRedPill09/03/23 01:30 PM
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after some specialized treatment What kind of treatment I'd really like pursue something like this for myself, a neuro-divergent and extremely frustrated man.
/r/ExRedPill09/03/23 01:26 PM
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You're actually in a far better spot than you realize. There's a TON of women who blatantly and obviously hate all men and NEVER acknowledge it as a problem. I think the best place for you to start is to try and define this: if you were to create a perfect man, who would he be? Who would he NOT be? What would he do? What would he NOT do? I mean, go absolutely crazy with the fantasy here, he could be anything and everything, stuff that isn't even possible if you want. Your next step, of course, i…
/r/ExRedPill09/03/23 01:10 PM
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Yes: the idea that being more physically attractive to more people, and the idea that you should take more care of yourself in general. That is true.
/r/ExRedPill04/03/23 07:55 PM
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I will always say this: a fat dude is going to have a harder time than a skinny dude. I don't buy into all the red pill nonsense, and even they act like being fat makes it impossible to attract women when you still CAN. All I'm saying is that being fat will make it harder, no matter how confident you are. If you wanna attract more women, you gotta be more attractive, which usually means losing weight.
/r/ExRedPill04/03/23 07:51 PM
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The more confident you are, the more woman you attract. This also isn't entirely true.
/r/ExRedPill04/03/23 07:42 PM
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More insults, nothing substantial, total weakness. You're pathetic.
/r/ExRedPill22/02/23 08:48 PM
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Here's the way I see it. You ask any woman what she wants in a man, usually she'll say "someone who's kind, respectful, responsible, etc". Every woman is different but these are words you'll hear a lot, and the point is this: they want you to be a good person in order to be attractive. When you're rejected often, it's easy to think "hmm, then I must not be perceived as a good person. But, I really am not a bad person". That causes a disillusionment and that's where frustration comes in. Some of …
/r/ExRedPill22/02/23 08:47 PM
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Hamza has been a hack for some time now. You're not alone.
/r/ExRedPill22/02/23 08:33 PM
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Dude you can actually shut the hell up. The fact that your first response was to insult his masculinity should tell anyone all they need to know about you. News flash, there's no such thing as a "real man" because masculinity can look different in so many ways. The dudes frustrated and you start shitting on him immediately. The next thing you'll do is check my post history and try and tear me down too. This whole "you need to grind more bro 💯 😤 get on your beast mode" culture can seriously fuck …
/r/ExRedPill22/02/23 08:31 PM
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I didn't downvote your post, actually. You're getting into PC topics and a huge can of worms now, but "edgy humor" is definitely best left in middle school, unless it's self depreciating or obviously punching up. Expressing frustration isn't the issue, it's this whole "you're not attractive if you avoid conflict" which is just untrue.
/r/ExRedPill20/02/23 04:16 PM
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I don't understand the problem with that though or why that's unattractive... God forbid they consider other people's feelings when then talk?
/r/ExRedPill20/02/23 03:48 PM
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You're talking RP shit rn dude...
/r/ExRedPill20/02/23 03:48 PM
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often don't drink, can't tell any edgy jokes, are afraid of offending anyone, can't show sexual intent, etc. I don't understand what you're on about here. I didn't realize telling edgy jokes made you not a "nice guy"
/r/ExRedPill20/02/23 03:10 PM
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Both of these types are highly unattractive How is being agreeable highly unattractive
/r/ExRedPill20/02/23 03:08 PM
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You continue to talk about men like you understand them when you don't. Men should not just be okay with never getting laid. It's miserable. Its lonely. No matter how many ways you slice it and pretend that sex is just an orderve of life rather than a need of most, it's not gonna be true. I also never conflated neuro-divergents and incels, I only said that your comment about being socially aware shows me that you don't understand neuro-divergent people. I've always held the position since this s…
/r/ExRedPill17/02/23 06:41 PM
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I really dislike the position you’re taking. Framing most involuntarily celibate men as either neurodivergent or socially inept is a gross over generalization That's not what I said, I said a not small amount of them. I'm not a fan of playing the semantics game but the argument you're perceiving is simply not what I'm saying, I'm simply calling attention to a sympathetic minority of involuntary celibacy. I'm also of the opinion that the language should be used differently particularly that "invo…
/r/ExRedPill16/02/23 11:31 PM
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If you're talking pure numbers, yes your right But body shape is what the nitty gritty of it comes down to, and usually the unattractive body shape is due to being overweight
/r/ExRedPill16/02/23 11:04 PM
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There was a PEW poll that just came out which showed that 60% of men b/w 18-30 are single in contrast to 30% in that same age category. I think there's a real shit show, because people are gonna use that study to "prove" their point and I can already tell you two sides that are gonna drive me mad. The first, of course, being the manosphere dipshits. They are gonna look at this study and say "you see, women are exactly half of the population which means that some of these women are sharing men. T…
/r/ExRedPill16/02/23 06:29 PM
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I'm not advocating or defending inceldom, but sex is a need for most. Not a "need" in quotations like it's ambiguous to its validity: it's been studied that sexlessness often leads to mental health issues, and a lot of the response tends to be "well, it's your own fault!" when a not small portion of these men suffer from preexisting social disorders that make it literally not their fault. Let me also acknowledge this: it's a really tough spot because of the reality of the situation; women have t…
/r/ExRedPill16/02/23 04:29 PM
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having a few extra pounds doesn't make someone ugly No but having more than a few does, and that's almost always a result of your own choices. The amount of incels that would no longer be incels if they lost weight is a lot. The amount of femcels that would no longer be femcels if they lost weight is almost all of them.
/r/ExRedPill16/02/23 04:16 PM
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Ask her out? I'm assuming you're a girl or I would hope you were if you think she's gay. If you're a dude, still ask. If she's gay, don't pursue. You will definitely not be the one to "turn her", that's not how this works. If you're a girl, again, just ask her. You don't need to know if she's single before hand, if she has a partner she will say so. Trust me women get a lot more leniency when it comes to this stuff because you aren't perceived as dangerous. Good luck
/r/seduction03/10/22 09:46 PM
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No. But the lack of a definite line doesn't make the line any less existant
/r/seduction16/08/22 11:28 PM
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I don't deny 18 year Olds have sex. What I am claiming is that the age difference is a clear advantage that a man would have in that situation and leveraging that for sex in most situations is gross.
/r/seduction16/08/22 09:19 PM
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Lmao. If you're 40 and she's 18, for example, you 22 when she was just born. You're literally using your experience, power, etc to take advantage of her. It's a really tricky area because when you're so young you're easily manipulated. Maybe they aren't "innocent little flowers" but they're definitely not grown.
/r/seduction16/08/22 09:13 PM
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I don't think I will ever learn to accept fetishing girls that are barely of legal age. I only asked this because I am so near to them in age. A 40 year old hitting on an 18 year old is gross no matter how you slice it.
/r/seduction16/08/22 09:00 PM
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Damn this sounds creepy
/r/seduction16/08/22 08:54 PM
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I just don't wanna feel like I'm taking advantage or anything like that
/r/seduction15/08/22 10:29 PM
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because they’re not used to being picked up That's the type of thing that makes me feel predatory.
/r/seduction15/08/22 09:12 PM
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Yeah nobody said all women are the same but there's definitely still general patterns.
/r/seduction30/06/22 11:08 AM
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Lmao
/r/seduction30/06/22 11:07 AM
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she values their friendship, and she thinks sex would jeopardize that. She doesn't want to have sex with someone right now. She doesn't like casual sex and doesn't think OP would be interested in a relationship. she feels unattractive. No matter what, if any of these things were true, she would still sleep with OP if she found him attractive enough. Women break rules for men they find attractive.
/r/seduction30/06/22 02:48 AM
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I have empathy for socially inept guys, but I don't want to date them anymore. And they are easy to make fun of because their behavior and ineptitude is hilarious. Stating you have empathy before immediately talking in a way that lacks any and all empathy.
/r/seduction30/06/22 02:42 AM
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Men are held accountable for it. Rather, I guess i should say, men feel consequences for being socially inept whether or not they are "held accountable" for it in any official capacity or not. Women never have to have near ad much social aptitude to be successful dating or social wise. I'm saying we need to normalize the sympathy you were so quick to give women to men as well. Socially inept men are villainized so quickly and so harshly in today's society and the most harsh part is that a good p…
/r/seduction29/06/22 08:47 PM
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The dude literally identified his problems through reading a book. Therapy will help with his needy behavior. Mindset will help with his needy behavior. You're delusional
/r/seduction29/06/22 08:31 PM
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"How do I get out of my current situation without changing anything" You don't.
/r/seduction29/06/22 06:08 PM
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Way to completely take all accountability away.
/r/seduction29/06/22 06:02 PM
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Take your time to recover. I will say as someone who's "successful" in game (albeit still improving) that he is 100% the bad guy here. Another thing I would recommend is to hit the gym, and tell yourself over and over until you feel like you're going crazy that your height doesn't matter. It's not delusion, it's the truth.
/r/seduction29/06/22 04:05 PM
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Why are you interested in getting in between a marriage? Have some damn class dude.
/r/seduction29/06/22 11:41 AM
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So why are you here.
/r/seduction28/06/22 10:16 PM
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Okay. Very low self esteem is your issue.
/r/seduction28/06/22 10:16 PM
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No No. Yes No Obviously I can't know for sure unless I see a photo
/r/seduction28/06/22 09:27 PM
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Not when your goals are the equivalent of walking on the moon. A few get to, but not the majority of people.
/r/seduction28/06/22 09:18 PM
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Oh you're trying to date these girls! That solution in simple: stop.
/r/seduction28/06/22 09:07 PM
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If you've already hooked up with them then why are you irked? You gotta just go to the next one
/r/seduction28/06/22 08:59 PM
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So it sounds like you're just needy. If you're even getting pressed over your guy friends leaving you on read you really gotta fill your day out with other thing so you aren't so focused on getting attention from other people. Thinking about the root of this problem is helpful too, as your mental health is likely not good.
/r/seduction28/06/22 08:58 PM
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Los Angeles models and girls with 500k followers Then you know it's not "every girl" but you're still making generalizations. Secondly, none of their following matters if you demonstrate high enough value. Getting irked when a girl doesn't text you back is pretty low value.
/r/seduction28/06/22 08:51 PM
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Not every girl. If you don't like it don't reply to them. I would also ask how long they usually take to reply, as you might be just too needy.
/r/seduction28/06/22 08:38 PM
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Ok. Stay single.
/r/seduction28/06/22 01:21 AM
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Ugly car > nice car that doesn't run or start. Also, plenty of used cars still get bought because not everyone can buy a new car. Every ugly car can get suped up to perform as well. Loom at all the old subies.
/r/seduction28/06/22 12:44 AM
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You continue to post this shit on every post, trying to bait out a response. I'll tell you right now, if you get no women, its because you're doing so little with your life that you actually have the time to sit here and post this same gotcha comment every day.
/r/seduction27/06/22 10:43 PM
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What does 304 mean
/r/seduction27/06/22 01:39 PM
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Dude they're 60 not decrepit lmao
/r/seduction25/06/22 10:16 PM
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So "I'll let you know" then ghost If you wanna risk it and really go manipulative/dick, you can nail a day down and then ghost her day of. Would not recommend that option though as it's pretty mean
/r/seduction25/06/22 09:18 PM
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Number absolutely
/r/seduction25/06/22 09:05 PM
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Okay which books would you recommend
/r/seduction25/06/22 07:41 PM
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Awful advice
/r/seduction25/06/22 07:35 PM
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Ok what's that process
/r/seduction25/06/22 07:24 PM
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You state you can't have a connection with any of these women, based off a single action that we discussed. You're unsympathetic to the fact that they were raised that way and this is the way society treats them. You're unwilling to meet in the middle.
/r/seduction25/06/22 07:24 PM
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Right, but I always thought confident and uncaring combined with good style and looks meant you actually got girls. That's probably why, come to think of it, people think the same thing about you and I. I wonder if approaching more women would be the solution.
/r/seduction25/06/22 06:06 PM
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So you're just wildly unsympathetic then?
/r/seduction25/06/22 05:42 PM
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You already answered most of it yourself. I think a lot of girls will say they want something serious because they think that's what they're supposed to say. I think women are conditioned to think doing things casually is bad and that makes them this, that, or the other. So, while your f-boy friends may not have had this logic in mind when they said to ignore when a lady says that, it's probably not a bad initially. In short, most ladies are in the same boat as you (at least to my understanding)…
/r/seduction25/06/22 05:26 PM
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No but even my friends, male and female, say things like this. They say I'm an attractive guy, that I look like I'm good with women, that type of thing. I don't know how I can give this vibe off without actually doing it.
/r/seduction25/06/22 05:11 PM
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Ok but the issue that I have is that I hear this often but I actually don't have that much success. It's actually a little disheartening to see that people would think it would be so easy for me when it isn't, it makes me feel like there's some simple stupid mistake that I could fix and I just can't seem to find it. I've asked my FWB what their initial impressions of me were and "awkward" came up a lot. I don't really think I'm that awkward but they couldn't describe what I did that was awkward,…
/r/seduction25/06/22 05:04 PM
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Don't mention it at all, pretend the age isn't even there. If she brings it up, make up a playful reason to "technically" add 5 years to your age, or something to that effect. The age thing is always a shit test, as with all shit tests you should agree + amplify to make a joke out of the whole thing. Pedophiles kindly stay the hell away from this advice, btw. This isn't meant to help 40+ year old hit on 19 year olds
/r/seduction25/06/22 04:18 PM
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Move on
/r/seduction25/06/22 02:10 AM
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Have sex with her
/r/seduction24/06/22 08:57 PM
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Dude you really don't have to be that tall or that fit to pull.
/r/seduction24/06/22 08:47 PM
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You're too blackpilled rn
/r/seduction24/06/22 08:38 PM
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reason being her wanting to 'grow-up' and have the 'college experience'. That meant she wanted to have casual sex and she didn't want to cheat on you. Shitty reason. How the fuck can I not care about her and at the same time not make things awkward for others to notice. She's the bad guy. Simple as that. She wanted to go get fucked by other dudes and broke up with so she could. You didn't do anything wrong so just show up with that mindset, because it's true
/r/seduction24/06/22 08:33 PM
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Actually, Karens are usually pretty racist. If anything, I'm the opposite of a Karen in that sense. Also, the idea that people shouldn't be *racist* and *sexist* definitely isn't something mutually exclusive to being conservative. So, yeah, you can be conservative and still not be hateful. Sorry to break that news to you.
/r/seduction24/06/22 04:13 PM
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Nothing about anything you just said justifies racism or misogyny in anyway. I still fail to see the point your making.
/r/seduction24/06/22 04:02 PM
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The "sexist" traits that are described in that article all revolve around putting women on a pedestal. So, yeah, nothing in that article supports the same things you just said "doesn't hurt". You basically just linked that article based on the title alone.
/r/seduction24/06/22 03:36 PM
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Did... did you even read that article?
/r/seduction24/06/22 12:57 PM
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Oh wait you aren't even OP. I no longer care to have this conversation
/r/seduction24/06/22 11:02 AM
2

I didn't say practice. I said start accepting more women into your life then that one girl won't seem so valuable because you already have so many.
/r/seduction24/06/22 01:51 AM
10

Think this way with shit tests "Agree + amplify". That means say she's right and then take it to the extreme. Makes a joke put of the whole thing
/r/seduction24/06/22 12:25 AM
5

Don't. Getting in between a relationship makes you a shit person.
/r/seduction23/06/22 11:04 PM
12

Sleep with the ones who "aren't your type" personality wise. Having many girls boosts your abundance mindset and makes you obsessed less.
/r/seduction23/06/22 07:26 PM
5

But I feel like I’m getting mixed signals from her. No you aren't. You're just interpreting it that way because you want her her want you. I would ignore her. Leave, keep in contact tho. Get bigger, more athletic, better shape, w/e. Come back with a six pack and better style and she'll fuck you. Why? Because we live in a shallow world whether anyone wants to admit it or not.
/r/seduction23/06/22 06:47 PM
1

Go there and see her
/r/seduction23/06/22 06:34 PM
4

You're a woman just tell him you like him it's that simple holy fuck
/r/seduction22/06/22 01:03 AM
2

For you. Most success I've had is from keeping the conversation exciting and sexual
/r/seduction21/06/22 05:57 PM
1

Making a conversation sexual and making it about sex are two different things.
/r/seduction21/06/22 05:35 PM
1

You have to give the "avilable" vibe.
/r/seduction21/06/22 04:28 PM
0

Lol afaik, women just like collecting men like objects for daily validation. Incel take
/r/seduction21/06/22 04:15 PM
1

Yep.
/r/seduction21/06/22 03:40 PM
10

The simplest way is to have sex with them. That makes them out of the friendzone immediately. If you're talking about dudes who want to be more than friends and you don't, then that's their responsibility not yours. If they don't want to be just friends but continue to act like they do with hopes of eventually sleeping with you, then that's on them. It's a shitty thing to do.
/r/seduction21/06/22 03:40 PM
1

You haven't made anything except a fool of yourself. Keep seething dude. If you keep having trouble with women, its not every single one who has the issue; it's you.
/r/seduction21/06/22 03:38 PM
1

It's literally in your user name dude. And this so called "female hypocrisy" is actually a creation of your imagination based on anecdotal evidence born from the idea that you're somehow not the problem
/r/seduction21/06/22 03:22 PM
1

Maybe for you. Incels have no place in this board. The truth is that you have to make changes to yourself to attract women if you aren't attracting them already. If you think you already have everything perfect, then you need to check your ego because news flash: nobodies perfect.
/r/seduction21/06/22 02:59 PM
1

Nope.
/r/seduction21/06/22 02:49 PM
1

Usually they aren't lying. It's all a feeling. DM me if you want to talk more. I'm not going to try and sell you anything
/r/seduction21/06/22 02:40 PM
1

If you think a woman is thinking about marriage on the first date from TINDER you've lost the plot
/r/seduction21/06/22 02:34 PM
1

Well don't be disappointed if it's not just that easy. It takes time and effort to change your mindset. The goal is eventually to have women as a compliment or nice addition to your life rather than the focus of it.
/r/seduction21/06/22 01:59 PM
-1

Nobody thinks like that on dating apps.
/r/seduction21/06/22 01:57 PM
5

It sounds like this guy isn't your type. That's fine, but it doesn't make him "foul". I also don't know where you got the idea that he made every conversation about sex.
/r/seduction21/06/22 01:56 PM
3

When you start getting too serious. If you don't keep the chat light and non comittal then it can get scary for a lot of women. My prediction would be that commitment is scary for a lot of girls because it puts them in a vulnerable position, makes them feel less free, or a menagerie of other things. For others still, it can take away the "mystique" of your character, and make you less exciting. Other girls simply get turned off if once the "chase" is over. Not all girls are the same, many have d…
/r/seduction21/06/22 01:51 PM
2

The solution isn't finding out whether they read it, it's adapting the mindset of not caring when or if they read it. Becoming concerned with when they read your message indicates neediness, which kills attraction.
/r/seduction21/06/22 01:13 PM
1

This is the best troll post I've ever read
/r/seduction21/06/22 01:00 PM
1

Nope stop the dumb doomer shit.
/r/seduction21/06/22 02:50 AM
1

Buy flashy things
/r/seduction21/06/22 01:59 AM
1

You really think living an interesting life won't help you have more fun conversations?
/r/seduction19/06/22 07:49 PM
1

It'll be easier for you to talk to girls. That's the point. And yeah having more interesting hobbies does that as well, but chasing your career and living what you want to do is what makes you unique. Plus you have to have money to have hobbies. If you look good, you're stable, and you do interesting things obviously girls are going to want to talk to you.
/r/seduction19/06/22 05:34 PM
1

Taking a break from chasing girls can honestly help. I know it sucks but it makes rejection less prevelant because you aren't even trying to get girls. Once you take a break, go to the gym, start chasing your career, and really focus on talking to people with just the goal of socializing instead of always trying to get something out of it. At the end of it, you'll be someone who's content with themselves, who's confident, and who's well calibrated socially that you can talk to anyone and everyon…
/r/seduction19/06/22 05:29 PM
2

Yep. In the mirror, in my own head. Getting healthy mindsets is important to being a successful and healthy adult so whatever it takes to keep my frame of mind non destructive.
/r/seduction19/06/22 05:21 PM
1

Lots of self talk, meditation, that type of thing. Any time you interact with a girl, you just consider that they're just people. Think to yourself that she's just a normal person. Secondly, improving yourself over time can help with this as you'll feel less like the girl is so important. Feeling like you have other things to do, other things that bring you joy, helps not place all your attention on this one lady
/r/seduction19/06/22 05:08 PM
1

I know for a fact that losing weight does nothing for your looks. The most blatantly false thing I've heard. You have to be trolling.
/r/seduction19/06/22 03:27 PM
1

It's not needy to ask once. You gotta use more physical touch if you don't already, but you gotta at least ask or else it's never gonna happen
/r/seduction19/06/22 03:26 PM
2

If you wanna go through the trouble, DM me and we can go over what will help you.
/r/seduction19/06/22 01:07 PM
9

Again. Another horrendous take by a woman hating dick head. A girl not being interested in you doesn't make her not a real woman. A woman's job isn't to take care of a man. Her trying to guage if you're worth her time isn't her not appreciating you as a man, just because you're a man doesn't mean she should submit and trust you right away. Imagine criticizing women for actually attempting to choose quality men.
/r/seduction19/06/22 01:06 PM
6

Do you ever ask them to leave with you or ever try to kiss them?
/r/seduction19/06/22 12:38 PM
1

You're skinny, that's a plus instead of being fat. And yeah, you've had cute women express interest in the past, and yes you're not just out of it for not having everything I listed. But, if you have everything I listed, having women interested will never be any work at all. Now don't get me wrong I don't think it'll just suddenly be a cakewalk for every woman, but you'll never feel like you don't have options which can help you keep that attitude of not giving a fuck.
/r/seduction19/06/22 12:36 PM
1

How..? By accepting that they aren't perfect and that they are just people exactly like you and me ?
/r/seduction19/06/22 12:31 PM
0

Then you need to work out and become extremely attractive
/r/seduction19/06/22 05:29 AM
0

By not being desperate and not viewing women as perfection?
/r/seduction19/06/22 03:36 AM
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-clueless Also wdym share my results
/r/seduction19/06/22 12:28 AM
0

DM me and show me your profile. I am not here to make fun of you only to help.
/r/seduction18/06/22 10:18 PM
0

If you truly have all of that then something like OLD should be a cakewalk
/r/seduction18/06/22 10:14 PM
-1

If you're not lean you don't look good enough to he competitive. You need a good chest, you need visible abs, you need a good back.
/r/seduction18/06/22 10:03 PM
2

Check his post history, he made an entire subreddit to post his psychotic incel ramblings
/r/seduction18/06/22 09:55 PM
1

That's the thing though they can help it.
/r/seduction18/06/22 09:54 PM
26

Dude this is exactly why I say physical attractiveness is extremely important. No matter what method you use if your extremely attractive you'll have an easier time no matter what.
/r/seduction18/06/22 08:28 PM
1

You have to enter the frame that SHES making mistakes, not you. You like her and all that's fine, but you did everything right and I mean that. So at this point she's missing out on you. And I know that's a hard frame because attractive women can get dudes all day but those dudes are not YOU. You're the prize here.
/r/seduction18/06/22 04:46 PM
0

How do you even seduce these type of women though
/r/seduction18/06/22 04:42 PM
2

Keep in mind, if they say no that doesn't necessarily mean you were right. It could have been just because you took too long to show interest again
/r/seduction18/06/22 04:27 PM
3

Have you asked ANY of them on second dates? At this point you have nothing to lose, I IMPLORE you to start asking women out on second dates. Ask the ones out you've written off as not interested, and don't take them not paying as a sign they aren't interested anymore. Maybe some of them aren't interested, but trying to read minds like this is silly.
/r/seduction18/06/22 04:23 PM
1

Do what you went there to do. Take some of her photos then start talking to other women. Start socializing. This takes her off a pedestal and if she really was interested or attracted to you she'll start trying to get your attention again even though you've already done what you came there to do. Otherwise, you avoided being a simp.
/r/seduction18/06/22 12:11 PM
1

Dude just saysomething Say hi my name is ___ what's yours
/r/seduction18/06/22 04:07 AM
-1

Nope.
/r/seduction17/06/22 09:27 PM
-1

No need to generalize
/r/seduction17/06/22 09:09 PM
18

They are just pussy on legs and you as a man are worth far more than any of them. Complete psycho
/r/seduction17/06/22 05:57 PM
1

And how do you do any of those things?
/r/seduction17/06/22 04:49 PM
6

Yep being physically attractive makes it literally night and day
/r/seduction16/06/22 08:59 PM
5

Well i experienced it in real life so it’s more of a fact for me because I’ve seen it happen multiple times Dude you're crazy. Imagine admitting you only base facts off what you've personally experienced
/r/seduction16/06/22 08:34 PM
0

Found the guy who's never heard of sarcasm
/r/seduction16/06/22 04:29 PM
1

Just stop talking to her it's pretty simple. You don't even see her every day either so even if it's painful you gotta do it anyway.
/r/seduction16/06/22 04:24 PM
10

It's as simple as your looks. Are your friends hotter than you? Do your friends dress more proactive than you? Do your friends seem or act available or approachable? These are all potential reasons. Sorry but if you're fat and tour friends aren't, for example, they're obviously gonna get approached and you aren't. On the other hand, though, women doing the approaching is often awesome for guys. It's an instant sign of interest and men love women who get to the point. Obviously you're not gonna b…
/r/seduction16/06/22 02:42 PM
6

Next. If she said maybe in the future that means she's not interested. Find a new girl.
/r/seduction16/06/22 02:23 PM
9

Yeah dude go without any female attention. Have an issue with loneliness and NEVER try to change it, just keep living your life! ESPECIALLY if the reason you don't attract women is because you're a shitty person, have a bad attitude towards women, etc., don't don't worry about it man. Just keep living the same shitty situation you're in now, and delude yourself into thinking it's not you who's the problem That must be great for your mental health.
/r/seduction16/06/22 01:08 PM
1

How many times are you going to post this
/r/seduction16/06/22 11:42 AM
1

Unless you have an aesthetic body you can't claim with any degree of certainty that your looks aren't helping you. You need a chest and abs. You need the shoulders. Until you have that you haven't worked hard enough.
/r/seduction16/06/22 02:07 AM
1

if you feel like you're up against a brick wall, especially if you're unpracticed. What if almost every girl I meet feels like a brick wall
/r/seduction15/06/22 10:09 PM
1

This doesn't teach me anything. "Keep doing what you're doing" isn't what I wanted. I was hoping for more actionable advice.
/r/seduction15/06/22 07:22 PM
6

This seems like the answer really. Being hot seems like the most logical goal to work toward.
/r/seduction15/06/22 04:15 PM
3

Ask them about themselves. Have them say the interesting stuff. Drunk girls love to talk. If you feel it tapering end the conversation and move on.
/r/seduction15/06/22 03:38 PM
1

I don't like texting because I don't know how to be "exciting" over text. Completely clueless on what to say, how to say it, how to escalate, how to appear interesting enough that she'll feel compelled to meet. I have no clue how to do any of it.
/r/seduction15/06/22 03:35 PM
3

And you have it all figured out? What do you do to be attractive?
/r/seduction15/06/22 03:31 PM
-2

that you’re just not that desirable because you have a poor personality. And how do you improve your personality? By pursuing those things your listed and gaining life experiences.
/r/seduction15/06/22 03:30 PM
11

You need to be a decent person who respects others and treats them well - that’s it. False. You need to be hot to get pussy.
/r/seduction15/06/22 03:18 PM
1

I know height isn't a factor as people make it out to be. I've just had trouble attracting every single woman I've ever been interested in, so I'm asking for help. Basically I want to copy whatever you did step by step
/r/seduction15/06/22 01:43 AM
2

How have you never had an issue. I literally need someone to take me step by step through this shit or I swear I'll never get it.
/r/seduction15/06/22 01:25 AM
1

Edgy, exciting.
/r/seduction15/06/22 12:16 AM
3

Get some tats and piercings, wear some edgy clothes, and you'll be pussy central and a skinny ass rail. It's really simple.
/r/seduction14/06/22 11:25 PM
-34

Yeah and then be alone with no bitches forever
/r/seduction14/06/22 11:21 PM
4

Wrong. Thin is better than fat by a wide majority. You can train for six months and be above average. Being fat takes years
/r/seduction14/06/22 11:11 PM
0

your body is not going to get a bitch to fuck you Yes it is. Dudes with zero self confidence still get hella laid just because they're hot. Secondly, being low self esteem with good looks is a little easier to fix. Thirdly, your inner confidence will only get you so far if you can't even get your foot in the door.
/r/seduction14/06/22 10:31 PM
2

I dont think body plays a big part brotha Yes it does. Physical attractiveness is your number 1 asset as a beginner in game and relationships. Still need to be confident Guess what being physically fit boosts? Girls don’t care as much to an extent we think they do about our bodies People with aesthetically pleasing bodies will always have a larger pool of options than those who don't. Just look well shaped and groomed Yeah guess what being physically fit boosts?
/r/seduction14/06/22 09:54 PM
1

Just saw your pic. Try growing facial hair and attempting a more "masculine" face. Gym will do you good too. Gotta be shredded or it'll seem hard. I'm right there with you.
/r/seduction14/06/22 08:55 PM
1

Are you capable of growing facial hair?
/r/seduction14/06/22 08:54 PM
1

something’s holding me back every f time. So stop If you just do it once you'll prove to yourself you're capable of doing it. You can even make it smaller. Start by just waving to people you pass. Then graduate to saying "how ya doing" or something like that. Non comittal. From there, communicating with strangers will feel like a logical next step. Good luck.
/r/seduction14/06/22 07:36 PM
1

She followed you back to see what you wanted or if you were just an Instagram follower. This happens all the time.
/r/seduction14/06/22 07:34 PM
1

The girl in this situation? I wouldn't.
/r/seduction14/06/22 06:24 PM
0

It’s also hard to make the first move So start practicing but it so often happens that I can’t keep a conversation going Stop caring if the subject you bring up isn't relevant. Just talk about whatever. Ask where the person is from, what they do, if they like the sun or like the cold more. That type of stuff.
/r/seduction14/06/22 06:23 PM
1

It's not that it's difficult It's that it's weird. I approach girls in places they expect to be approached and also use online dating. As opposed to ambushing her outside of her job late at night. Read the room dude
/r/seduction14/06/22 04:35 PM
13

Get therapy. Progress also takes years. Trust the process. Make sure you're working out, bettering your attitude, and taking more risks. Say hi to people and make idle conversations with no goal in mind. Do this for everyone not just women. To go from being socially awkward to trying immediately to seduce a woman is like going from learning how to dribble a ball to immediately trying to play: its better if you get more practice first.
/r/seduction14/06/22 04:30 PM
1

Yeah dude purposely waiting for the end of her shift to talk to her isn't a "gesture" it's creepy
/r/seduction14/06/22 04:26 PM
1

Why you think she would appreciate someone waiting for her after work is beyond me.
/r/seduction14/06/22 03:35 PM
1

Dude you stalked her online lmao no wonder she ghosted you.
/r/seduction14/06/22 03:02 PM
1

Dude are you actually asking him to find out when she gets off just so he can catch her outside of work? That's pretty stalkerish dude.
/r/seduction14/06/22 02:58 PM
1

With what attitude?? Im actually decently "successful" with women but that doesn't make it any less frustrating that men who struggle with women and act accordingly are actively ostracized. Don't get me wrong, incel ideology and falling into resentment and hatred isn't excusable, but I fail to see how a symptom so commonly caused by childhood trauma is somehow seen as a poor reflection on the man himself. Like sorry some people weren't treated right as kids and the way they cope with it isnt... …
/r/seduction14/06/22 12:42 PM
1

Because sexual needs are biologically programed into human beings?
/r/seduction14/06/22 12:52 AM
-4

Yeah God forbid a starving person behave like they're hungry. Fuck me man
/r/seduction13/06/22 09:39 PM
10

They're both also made up characters lmao
/r/seduction13/06/22 03:51 PM
2

Stop being below average? Work out, better style, pursue passions.
/r/seduction13/06/22 03:09 PM
18

Dude what do you mean what could've went wrong. She has a bf already, and a jealous one at that.
/r/seduction13/06/22 01:45 AM
4

Being in your 30s is still young for men. Also, you can learn that skill for sure. It's mostly about finding things you already enjoy and spreading that to other aspects.
/r/seduction13/06/22 01:44 AM
10

By being not obese and fun to be around
/r/seduction13/06/22 12:51 AM
3

I’m a “I like you, you like me, let’s skip the dumb games and hook up” type of guy Girls aren't ever going to go for that because it makes them "look bad". It obviously doesn't actually, but a lot of them have had the anti slut socialization pounded in their head from the moment their born
/r/seduction12/06/22 09:44 PM
0

That's because it is the easiest. The rest of the possible solutions involve altering your brain to be adaptable to the ever changing social structure. You'll be constantly needing to alter yourself to be more personable. If you get a good physique and become more sexually attractive, people will want to be on your good side inherently.
/r/seduction12/06/22 09:41 PM
2

You aren't sure if you want them right away, they need to prove themselves as someone worth your time.
/r/seduction12/06/22 08:24 PM
0

Yeah it's hard. If you don't wanna do it because it's hard, that's on you.
/r/seduction12/06/22 08:23 PM
7

Easiest solution is to get an aesthetic physique. After that, make sure you're keeping the frame that they need to prove something to you.
/r/seduction12/06/22 06:32 PM
1

Well if you want women receptive to cold approach, you should do night game. I would also consider online dating where you show off your money. In addition, I would work on your physique.
/r/seduction12/06/22 05:23 PM
2

Then you should be going to clubs and night venues
/r/seduction12/06/22 04:45 PM
-1

It doesn't feel in any way the same. T. Someone who's been using the wrong size condom their whole lifem
/r/seduction12/06/22 04:33 PM
-14

If you get the proper size condom it feels virtually no different at all
/r/seduction12/06/22 03:03 PM
1

I don't give a fuck how much they value me because I'm not interested in a relationship. I got laid that's all I care about
/r/seduction10/06/22 09:31 PM
2

Pecs and abs > height. Plenty of girls don't give a shit about height
/r/seduction10/06/22 04:50 PM
1

*some women prefer tall men.
/r/seduction10/06/22 04:30 PM
4

No your opinion isn't a fact. That's the issue. You also think that just because you weren't someone's first option that makes you getting laid any less you getting laid.
/r/seduction10/06/22 04:29 PM
1

Yes actually I can and will. What a person's body count is is really none of your business.
/r/seduction10/06/22 01:42 PM
1

Okay then post. No face necessary
/r/seduction10/06/22 12:47 PM
0

I guarantee you aren't at your ceiling. Post a photo of your physique to your reddit I'm 100% it's not your peak.
/r/seduction10/06/22 12:29 PM
2

But hookup culture is kind of gross. And that's your opinion. Women are allowed to do whatever they want with their own bodies and to insinuate that those who have many sexusl partners are doing something "gross" is misogynistic of you.
/r/seduction10/06/22 12:27 PM
2

Untill you go on adate she's just pixels on a screen
/r/seduction09/06/22 11:58 PM
1

Then start caring.
/r/seduction09/06/22 05:01 PM
2

I'll put it like this, a way I've seen on this sub many times. You might be the best lemon on the tree, but she just likes mangoes. Move on. Another, more actionable advice: take action sooner. If you're there to fuck, don't worry about being her friend for all this time and the asking. Take action within the week, from the point you realize you like her. If she says no, tell her you don't wanna be friends because you don't; you just wanna hang around and hope she likes you.
/r/seduction09/06/22 11:02 AM
1

Then what's the reason
/r/seduction08/06/22 11:22 AM
1

Height doesn't matter nor does skin color.
/r/seduction08/06/22 11:17 AM
3

Never read a more false statement my whole life.
/r/seduction08/06/22 11:08 AM
14

No we do not like to chase you whoever told you that is wrong please make it as easy as possible for us to understand your feelings. Also yes in your age range a lot of people don't wanna settle down.
/r/seduction08/06/22 01:52 AM
1

Sexual drive doesn't determine work ethic. By your definition all asexual people would be considered lazy
/r/seduction08/06/22 01:49 AM
1

Yeah you're part of a very small minority who thinks that way. Women don't wanna have sex with you if they think you're going to judge them for doing so.
/r/seduction07/06/22 08:30 PM
1

So the issues not actually the way society is set up. It's the fact that you're hateful towards women who do whatever they want with their own bodies. If you wanna get laid a lot, why shouldn't a girl be allowed to get laid a lot?
/r/seduction07/06/22 08:10 PM
1

Everything you said puts a guy in the top tier, is attainable within 2 months with some exercise. Literally no the fuck it's not you have zero clue what you're talking about. Building a body that I described as top tier takes literal years. I implore you to DM with your tinder account so I can see just what you're doing to get 50% of matches to fuck you.
/r/seduction07/06/22 07:51 PM
1

You can change things about yourself to make women more likely to pursue you.
/r/seduction07/06/22 07:46 PM
1

DM me. I would like to speak to you without the risk of you being made fun of unjustly
/r/seduction07/06/22 07:46 PM
0

You just called any girl that wants to sleep around a trashy whore. You're kind of a dipshit.
/r/seduction07/06/22 06:17 PM
1

I can guarantee your looks are more above average than you think. If a girl is going to fuck with no inhibitions, then she's going to pick her best available choice. This isn't anything surprising it's common sense. The average dude had no abs, chest, or anything like that. Average dude is a little chubby, probably around 200 lbs. Average dude is over weight. If you have any muscle definition at all, you're already above average. If you have low body fat, your above average. If you have visible …
/r/seduction07/06/22 06:16 PM
1

You're basically claiming that some people are genetically predetermined to failure. This just isn't true.
/r/seduction07/06/22 06:09 PM
3

There's actually a lot of videos by a lot of female content creators that are totally worth looking into. A search on YouTube, as embarrassing as it may be, is extremely helpful
/r/seduction07/06/22 06:09 PM
1

That's awesome. It doesn't make you the norm by any means. Also, what do you do in order to get these type of results.
/r/seduction07/06/22 05:21 PM
1

Laziness isn't genetically predetermined. That's a very lazy point of view.
/r/seduction07/06/22 05:19 PM
1

At what, sex?
/r/seduction07/06/22 05:18 PM
2

Maybe your sex was bad maybe it wasn't, who knows. You got laid, aren't going to again any time soon with her. Move on and tell her "I don't have sex with just friends" or something along those lines and get a new girl.
/r/seduction07/06/22 04:25 PM
1

Unless you're horribly disfigured your face isn't as ugly as you think nor does it matter as much as you think. Playing with Fire gets laid off tinder all the time and he's objectively not "Chad faced". Not to mention, until you really lose a lot of weight you're not gonna know what your face truly looks like. Your face changes.
/r/seduction07/06/22 03:59 PM
0

It IS up to him ya dingus
/r/seduction07/06/22 03:37 PM
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Only 1% of girls off tinder will actually meet you. This is true even for above average or top tier men. The difference is the amount of likes you get. Mathematically you need to get at least 100 matches to get a chance of meeting one. This is obviously exaggeration and those numbers aren't based on anything. Tinder is for people with high sex appeal. Women in general have high sex appeal naturally, but if you don't have an aesthetic body yet you won't get matches. The solution is to get ripped …
/r/seduction07/06/22 03:08 PM
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Most girls do not want to be single and sleep around Dude that's just wrong
/r/seduction07/06/22 02:48 PM
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Try approaching outside of the explicit intent to hook up. Talk to some girls that you aren't attracted to, talk to some guys. Of the recent people I've talked to as my quest for being more social, one turned out to be a dude from Africa who got caught in the rain with no umbrella. I had one. Seemed like simple math to me.
/r/seduction07/06/22 12:59 PM
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Dude no they literally aren't. Why would they be taken when they can be single and have the ability to sleep with whoever they want.
/r/seduction07/06/22 12:52 PM
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Would you like to attract a woman
/r/seduction07/06/22 12:42 PM
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A lot of this seems to be predetermined by genetic factors. Lmao laziness isn't a genetic factor. Your general tidiness, style, and grooming aren't genetic factors. The level of boring you are isn't a genetic factor, your lifestyle isn't a genetic factor. Plenty of things that affect your attractiveness are more than changeable with a decent effort. I have ADHD, inaction is literally a consequence of the way i was constructed, and I STILL was able to lose 50 pounds over the course of the last ye…
/r/seduction07/06/22 12:30 PM
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If I were you I'd move on and make it obvious via social media i.e. a photo on social media of you out on a date. If she sees it and reaches out, she'll know she needs to make a move or lose you.
/r/seduction06/06/22 08:59 PM
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Dude she's showing interest to you but showing disinterest to her friends. Either she's trying to save face to her friends or she's dead ass playing you for attention and validation
/r/seduction06/06/22 08:47 PM
8

Mf just said grool 💀
/r/seduction06/06/22 08:42 PM
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Can't seem to find your post, I'm interested so would you mind giving a slow fella like me a hand
/r/seduction06/06/22 08:12 PM
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If you have a six pack OLD is literally that easy. I'd like to help you if possible. Please DM me if you're interested. I can help with your photos and such
/r/seduction06/06/22 04:33 PM
2

Are you doing online dating?
/r/seduction06/06/22 04:25 PM
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A lot of girls I "get to the point with" say they won't meet up because they don't know me.
/r/seduction06/06/22 03:51 PM
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The method I see preached a lot is simply posting on social media to show your social proof. Seems odd to me but apparently something like that shows value, shows your fun and exciting, that type of thing. I don't think any lines in particular are what you want, if you found them at a bar for instance next time you go you can invite her out
/r/seduction06/06/22 12:19 PM
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Unless you've got your abs and chest in full aesthetic mode then your looks aren't doing you any favors yet. You have to HOT not "fairly attractive"
/r/seduction06/06/22 11:29 AM
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Yeah but properly escalating is what he's asking how to do
/r/seduction05/06/22 01:04 AM
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That doesn't set up dates or even text people you total claud
/r/seduction05/06/22 12:35 AM
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Women are not mind readers. They will likely not know the difference.
/r/seduction05/06/22 12:33 AM
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then kicked to the curb before she can really thrive. Idk what you meant by this, but there's plenty of homeless people that take advantage of people by using sex and then asking for money, housing, other stuff. This guy clearly just wants to have a casual relationship with her, which is why I suggested making his intentions clear.
/r/seduction04/06/22 10:51 PM
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I love teasing girls telling them that they shouldn't expect anything like sex or a relationship, that, at most, they are going to endure it and stay as my friends. Dude most men that follow this advice are just gonna end up friendzoning themselves, especially if you're after girls that are considered "hot".
/r/seduction04/06/22 10:33 PM
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If you invite her to do something with you outside of work, it's a lot more acceptable to touch her. You MIGHT wanna do that but that would also require money being spent on your part. If you take her out, dance with her, touch her and such then you're making it clear you like her. Invite her to this hotel afterwards, assuming she's not drunk. You can also touch her when you're making points and putting emphasis on certain parts of your speech, hold her hand, that type of thing. I like saying so…
/r/seduction04/06/22 06:37 PM
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Show more physical affection if you haven't already, and make it clear you don't wanna hang with her if it's not private. That's assuming you want to have sex with her and not getting sex will make you disinterested.
/r/seduction04/06/22 06:29 PM
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Spot on. Admittedly not the point of this post but this is true. Everything else they said was pretty good.
/r/seduction04/06/22 05:30 PM
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I'd say you have a clear power dynamic over her if she's homeless, which can cause some issues. It's possible she's just lonely and wants a friend, it's possible she's keeping you around and is going to ask you for something later, it's possible she's hiding some type of disease from you, and it's possible that she's a multitude of any other thing. I'd make it clear what you want want her, if she says no then thats just that.
/r/seduction04/06/22 04:25 PM
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How do you swap to this? Let this situation be a "casual" or "flirting" stage. A situation where some in this sub might call "gaming" Say someone expresses an emotional point that I disagree with. Should I pretend to agree with them? Surely not, as that seems silly and likely unnecessary. From then on, I would assume i should express my disagreement in a way that doesn't make them feel invalidated, but I think that makes it very easy to become "agreeable" which I've been told kills attraction. I…
/r/seduction02/06/22 09:28 PM
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You have to talk as though you're the prize. Make fun of them playfully, ask for their number, tease them some more, ask for a date. DM me and I will literally help you get a date. I am not a coach I do not want your money.
/r/seduction02/06/22 06:45 PM
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That could be in your head. It's okay to talk to women like they were any other person
/r/seduction02/06/22 06:28 PM
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Username checks out. Neediness is seen as a lot more excusable in women however, as excessive signs of interest make guys more likely to pursue you.
/r/seduction02/06/22 04:54 PM
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If you got to the gym but don't try, then you aren't gonna get results. Same with style, if things haven't improved yet you haven't actually improved your style. The thing is "not caring" doesn't mean "don't try". It just means that you can't come across as needy. You can show interest without caring too much. If you are already doing these things but no results, you need to do them more. Also try talking about them with the people you are flirting with, don't be afraid to brag.
/r/seduction02/06/22 04:12 PM
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Mike Melman is a dumbass. The dude thinks that any man who settles down into a relationship is a beta, and that there's no way to improve game at all. If you're being a creep, and basically outright catcalling women, then you can certainly improve that approach style but not doing that anymore
/r/seduction02/06/22 03:22 PM
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Then that's on her to look dumb.
/r/seduction02/06/22 03:32 AM
3

Why do you not like being shown off?
/r/seduction02/06/22 03:05 AM
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You still have time to go out when you aren't at work, so as long as you use that time idk why it wouldn't work
/r/seduction02/06/22 01:24 AM
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Bro this is an awful idea
/r/seduction02/06/22 12:55 AM
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Yeah but the idea is that you have enough other girls that this one not giving you interesting conversation means you just move on to the next one. I understand that it's hard to act like you have options if you don't, and I don't know if you really have options or not, but that's kinda what it boils down to.
/r/seduction01/06/22 06:38 PM
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No dude, but she does want you to actually take her problems seriously? Like I can def see her venting about something, you not paying attention, and then mentioning something that she has clearly already voiced her opinion on, and now she knows that you weren't even listening.
/r/seduction01/06/22 04:35 PM
5

I was going to say something similar, this reads as though it was posted in the incel or braincel subreddits.
/r/seduction01/06/22 04:26 PM
2

Why not, idk, actually pay attention?? Doesn't mean you have to fix her problems, but why not actually listen to your girlfriend?
/r/seduction01/06/22 04:14 PM
1

In that case, your post was a pretty nice piece of satire.
/r/seduction01/06/22 03:55 PM
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Nah dude 💀
/r/seduction01/06/22 03:43 PM
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None. They all get responses simply because the writers say they do. Nothing about basing your persona off of a Hollywood movie makes any sense.
/r/seduction31/05/22 07:04 PM
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This post focuses a lot on women, which I will presume is because you're a straight man (nothing wrong with that of course) and focused on getting girls which means you don't really pay attention to men. The truth is, though, that men do thus as well. In fact, this can happen regardless of gender identity for people in my generation, Gen Z. I always get messages when I ask for dates that usually come to "can I get to know you a little better first?". I used to not understand because that's what …
/r/seduction31/05/22 07:02 PM
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Assuming she likes you makes you seem confident, and confident is attractive. Truth be told, my friend, I have no idea what the culture is at the school you go to. In most places, however, the stuff that you wrote out as examples are not necessary and may actually come across as goofy. Further, the longer messages where you use very flowery language makes things seem very serious when it obviously isn't yet. "Must have missed you the other day, why don't you and I catch up at [public place]?" is…
/r/seduction31/05/22 06:12 PM
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Go to the gym my guy.
/r/seduction31/05/22 04:48 PM
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If you're actually good looking irl then online dating is absolutely not a problem. I would really like to see your profile because if you have a good physique and good pics you get hella matches even in one day.
/r/seduction31/05/22 01:13 PM
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OP, having read your posts about your history, honest to God good job. I respect your willingness to change, your healthy and boundary respecting approach, and your ability to take rejection in stride. Based on my limited info, you're a good man.
/r/seduction31/05/22 12:15 PM
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First, let's think about reasons that you're different. What type of things excite you OP?
/r/seduction31/05/22 12:10 PM
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Yeah but most women aren't going to let him. That's the problem. "Faking" parts of your personality to actually keep a girls attention is pretty common place, although I would describe it more as exaggerating existing parts of yourself.
/r/seduction31/05/22 12:09 PM
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This is just wrong. Everyone here has a veil of anonymity in addition to witnessing what you are self proclaiming as embarrassing. None of us are making fun of you despite the fact that doing so would cost all of us nothing. It's because you're not alone as a lonely man and there's nothing to be made fun of. That being said, you have to shake this mentality that everyone is against you because the lack of confidence will get you every time. Secondly, I'd recommend working out if you don't alread…
/r/seduction30/05/22 11:01 PM
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Was it a bold move in your eyes?
/r/seduction30/05/22 12:25 PM
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It isn't the only factor but being hot is the biggest factor. If she isn't physically attracted to you then its a no before you even open your mouth.
/r/seduction30/05/22 11:05 AM
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Ok what about the way you dress and the way you groom yourself? It could also be that you aren't taking enough risks from what I read around this sub. Being an average looking dude is also not good enough when it comes to cold approach. You have to be hot.
/r/seduction30/05/22 10:47 AM
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Depends on what I'm looking for.
/r/seduction30/05/22 10:42 AM
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Younger women are generally not as financially or emotionally independent so they frequently require more from men. Lmao so a man is based only on what he can financially or emotionally give you? They don't "require" more from men they just want more.
/r/seduction30/05/22 12:58 AM
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Number 1 and number 4 confuse me. Don't be needy buy still make it all about her?
/r/seduction29/05/22 11:55 PM
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It's different if you respond and actively try to have a conversation it's another if you respond after 2 days and don't push the conversation forward at all. Most dudes want to get an in person date as quickly as possible because they know it's easier to create attraction in person. You not responding for days makes them lose interest fast for that reason.
/r/seduction29/05/22 11:48 PM
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No it's just the truth. If you want him you'll give him attention it's something everyone does.
/r/seduction29/05/22 11:35 PM
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I guarantee you don't make people wait that long if they're attractive fuck off
/r/seduction29/05/22 11:29 PM
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I'm the same as you. It's about finding the interesting parts of yourself and exaggerating them. If you're logical and cold and don't like that about yourself, it's very possible to to change that. You also don't need to have been to a place before in order to take someone there.
/r/seduction29/05/22 07:28 PM
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Look it up my guy. Calorie deficit plus regular exercise. Research both of those things and integrate them into your lifestyle
/r/seduction29/05/22 05:54 PM
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We don't make rules based on the exception. You aren't socially calibrated at even the most basic level.
/r/seduction28/05/22 09:53 PM
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Except he's not getting the results he wants do there is something for him to improve on. He wants to be a guy with a fulfilling sex life and he's not getting there so he needs to change something. I'm unsure what it is because I'm not privy to it either, but if you keep getting rejected the common denominator is you. To say there's nothing wrong with you is correct, but to say that doing something different is required to get the results you want is also correct. Simply accepting "oh I guess I'…
/r/seduction28/05/22 09:52 PM
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Except you are an idiot. You continue to pursue a girl who says she's not interested. You're a creep and an idiot. Regardless of if she wants that, she's still outwardly setting a boundary that you need to respect.
/r/seduction28/05/22 09:49 PM
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There are men that rarely if ever get flaked on. There are men that have zero trouble with their sex lives. This man is not one of them. This man wants to be one of them, so he wants to know what to do to be like one of those guys. This response was basically the opposite of what he needed to hear, as you're essentially telling him "just give up on improving!"
/r/seduction28/05/22 09:47 PM
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Yes, because that's what you're supposed to do idiot. Regardless of whether or not they actually have one, the "I have a boyfriend" thing is not an invitation to try and convince them.
/r/seduction28/05/22 09:43 PM
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I've peaked physically. I guarantee you haven't. Post a photo to your reddit of your physique, I'm willing to bet you aren't at your peak
/r/seduction28/05/22 01:00 PM
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Yeah I did too but apparently girls are scared of getting kidnapped and hurt and stuff which makes sense. That being said they're never going to be certain, so it confuses me.
/r/seduction28/05/22 01:42 AM
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Yeah but why match with me in that case. Like when we match I'll get their number or snap and then ask for a date as quickly as possible. There's nothing really there to constitute a rejection.
/r/seduction28/05/22 01:40 AM
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Ngl every time I attempt to set up dates I always get "I'd like to get to know you more first" so I really don't know how to stop this from happening and get them to agree to a date instead
/r/seduction27/05/22 07:23 PM
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She will feel it no matter what my guy.
/r/seduction27/05/22 03:22 PM
1

Okay if that's truly the answer then it makes me a lot more optimistic. I think I'm slightly above average right now but once I lose more body fat I'll be in a better spot I think. Here's hoping everything sorts clicks into place.
/r/seduction26/05/22 07:18 PM
1

How do you get this low flake rate?
/r/seduction26/05/22 06:55 PM
1

Ok then I need to hire someone to tell me what I'm doing wrong. I'm slightly above average attractiveness, dress decently, have good hygiene (brush my teeth, shower, skin care routine) and make sure my hair is brushed, wear deodorant and cologne. I'm confident in most cases. I'm flirty. I raise tension. Despite all these things, I don't pull very well at all. Perhaps I think im doing one or more of these things but I'm not. Perhaps there's something deeper.
/r/seduction26/05/22 04:06 PM
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its the confidence that is really attracting girls not just the looks I subscribe to the statement that looks gets your foot in the door, but personality is what makes things happen. You cannot make things happen without getting your foot in the door. Not being physically attractive gets you immediately disqualified, be it male or female.
/r/seduction26/05/22 03:49 PM
2

I've never been approached when im out alone, how do you make yourself more approachable?
/r/seduction26/05/22 03:03 PM
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This is untrue
/r/seduction26/05/22 03:01 PM
1

But how will those isolated incidents actually affect the big picture? I mean, it's not like all these girls know each other and tell each other "oh he rejected me, he must have high standards!"
/r/seduction25/05/22 08:08 PM
1

I have no clue what you're talking about right now, my question was in no way directed at you
/r/seduction25/05/22 07:22 PM
1

Is there a trick to living up to that fantasy or is it largely out of your control at that point.
/r/seduction25/05/22 07:05 PM
2

Master the art of oversimplifying your area of study. You're a smart guy; at the very least, based on those details, I perceive you as one. As such, you should market yourself to appeal to girls who are attracted to intelligence. But, to expand your horizons, it would make sense to me that you make your area of study digestible, but in a way that sounds exciting. Science is an unknown area for a lot of people. So, let's say you're going for something like sociology for example and wrote a paper/…
/r/seduction25/05/22 05:11 PM
1

Well in this situation, you shouldn't.
/r/seduction24/05/22 11:18 PM
1

Start with just catching their eye and smiling. Literally just spend the whole time your out doing that. Then, when you're ready for more, start just saying "hello" or "good afternoon" while smiling; and keep walking. Just a passing comment. From there opening your mouth will be easy, and then you just have make something up.
/r/seduction24/05/22 09:08 PM
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My idea would be to do something more masculine presenting in these photos Also flaunt the fact that you're a surgeon more in a fun way
/r/seduction24/05/22 02:01 AM
1

Dude you aren't a late bloomer what are you on about. You know men remain sexually active even in their 30s right? You've been an adult for all of 4 years there's no late blooming happening you can relax a little bit my guy.
/r/seduction23/05/22 11:56 PM
1

How old are you
/r/seduction23/05/22 11:51 PM
1

Well you kinda need to talk for a few minutes before you ask her out. A day or two is usually safe, just don't text endlessly. That's my inexperienced uneducated advice.
/r/seduction23/05/22 11:43 PM
1

if it ends right now I feel like that would be a win for me Fucking kek dude. It's not a competition there's no winning.
/r/seduction23/05/22 11:36 PM
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What he's saying is its not your face it's your body. He's saying your fat, if you lose weight you'll get dudes wanting to fuck you. I personally don't know what you look like, but I can say from personal experience that once I lost 50 pounds I started getting more success, and I continue to lose weight and get attention. That's just my experience though.
/r/seduction23/05/22 11:12 PM
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No it's not. A lithium battery is different than a social battery. A social battery isn't a legitimate, degrading battery. Human beings adapt to different situations. You absolutely can make yourself more receptive to socializing by simply doing it more until you feel mentally fatigued. You can work it out just like a muscle. Idk where you got this idea that you can't but it's actually YOU who is wrong.
/r/seduction23/05/22 02:18 PM
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Yeah but this point makes zero sense. "I'm an introvert, how do I do something that's extroverts do?" "Well, you'll have to push yourself to be more extroverted!" "But I don't like that because I'm an introvert!" Like yeah, dude, no shit. No shit you don't like loud noise or drama, no shit you prefer quieter settings. That's the root and cause of your problem. The more you use your social battery the more capacity it has
/r/seduction23/05/22 01:43 PM
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That isn't actionable. A dude who's lonely with no girlfriend, who wants one, is being told by your advice to just keep being lonely and do nothing. It doesn't work because you're acting as though everyone is just fine the way they are, and never needs to change anything.
/r/seduction23/05/22 12:13 PM
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Dude you already listed your problems out. Your poorly groomed, overweight, bad photos. Lose weight is like the biggest one. Yes you need to lose weight. You will have more success or at least better responses once you lose weight.
/r/seduction22/05/22 01:36 PM
1

At the end of the day, you're still the one trying to generalize all women based on nothing but your own personal account. I get laid once a week at LEAST, btw
/r/seduction21/05/22 06:15 PM
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The fact that you're a subscriber to the "alpha beta" line of thinking told me a logical response doesn't register with you, so you telling me I don't need a drawn out response was kind of redundant. you saying the idea of “female nature” doesn’t exist can’t be proven either yet you reference it as an absolute — there is inherent bias flaws in your own logic You don't like circular logic yet you follow this fallacitical circular logic? How's this for a short response: you're a dumbass
/r/seduction21/05/22 05:34 PM
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"They" don't operate like toddlers. That particular lady definitely did.
/r/seduction21/05/22 04:57 PM
2

For my face I do -cleanser -alcohol free toner (alcohol dries your face out and makes you look older) -moisturizer In that order.. Worked wonders for me, and super simple.
/r/seduction21/05/22 01:08 PM
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If she's acting this way while in a relationship, you definitely shouldn't see her as relationship material
/r/seduction21/05/22 12:57 PM
2

I would say your best bet would be to try and build sexual tension for the duration of the date, and by the end asking to go to her place will just seem like a logical conclusion
/r/seduction21/05/22 12:54 PM
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Yeah man, because your circle of friends are definitely reflective of the whole. Definitely not logically flawed to generalize all women based on your conversations with your friends. Even then, it doesn't even begin to describe what's flawed about your reasoning. This idea that women can just tell when someone is masculine is ridiculous because they aren't mind readers. What your friends consider "pussified" might be what others consider a positive trait, such as "respectful" or "calm". What yo…
/r/seduction21/05/22 12:40 PM
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I've been in this situation before. The way that I always feel about it is: they like me, but I want to have sex and they don't. That's awesome, and it's a shame our boundaries don't meet. The reason I am breaking it off: I'm not getting what I want and the last thing I'd want is for you to do something you don't actually want to do just because you think you have to in order to keep me around. You're a very fine pick of a lemon. I'm currently in the market for mangoes.
/r/seduction21/05/22 12:39 AM
1

No thanks, the last thing I need is some meat head repeatedly slamming virtues of blind obedience into my head and punishing my entire crew when I don't do what he says. The military has proven its beauracracy is inefficient over and over again in modern times. The idea that I need to be transformed into a killing machine to be considered "masculine" is ridiculous. There's plenty of men who take care of their families, hold integrity, and protect their families who aren't soldiers. Even then, th…
/r/seduction20/05/22 09:17 PM
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One example that I'm making up off the top of my head so I'm unsure if it works, just making it up. If you know she wants to fuck, invite her over and then don't fuck her. Hang out with her, create a ton of tension, but then don't do it. Then next time do it. This could give her the impression of "having to work for it" That being said, I don't think that having sex when she wants to makes her value you less and have second thoughts.
/r/seduction20/05/22 07:46 PM
6

He's not talking about that, he's mentioning things like purpose and masculinity. Women can't "smell" masculinity. This shit is cringe.
/r/seduction20/05/22 05:45 PM
8

Agreed. "Pseudoscientific claim followed by the argument that anyone who disagrees is just bitter and insecure" Cringe ass post
/r/seduction20/05/22 01:46 PM
2

More like: think about the fact that they're in a relationship and you should respect the fact that they're in a relationship.
/r/seduction20/05/22 03:37 AM
2

I miss the old days where you could pick up q girl using a line about homosexual sexual intercourse
/r/seduction20/05/22 02:27 AM
3

Yeah, getting sex off tinder isn't "easy" for everyone. Just because you or I have success there doesn't mean it's the whole case.
/r/seduction18/05/22 08:57 PM
1

Yes you literally called him immature and self centered and tried to pretend his downplay the fact that he was upset. He has every right to be upset. Yes I'm angry, because people like you won't let men have feelings. I am thinking rationally. The woman who changes her mind off a whim with zero explaination is not thinking rationally and neither are you. If you changed your mind, then there was probably a reason. Not explaining your reason is in fact leading them on. Stop acting like she just ge…
/r/seduction18/05/22 07:27 PM
1

Yeah believe it or not leading a man on and disappearing with no fucking explanation and then calling HIM the bad guy for wanting to know what the hell happened is pretty fucked up and hurts a man's feelings. That's why he's here. How about you stop being such a bitch.
/r/seduction18/05/22 07:14 PM
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You do not, in fact, own anyone an explanation. Yes, you do. Sorry but this is the hard truth. Nobody can force you to explain yourself but pulling this stuff with no explanation 100% makes you a bitch. Thanks for coming to my Ted talk. Stop emotionally tormenting men.
/r/seduction18/05/22 07:09 PM
1

She did say she wanted something from him she said that she hoped OP was okay with being FWB. Also OP: literally asks what do because his perspective is limited and doesn't know what to do in this situation You: OP is self-centered because he refuses to acknowledge that his perspective is limited. For her to show interest and then change her mind seemingly randomly, that is quite confusing. Does she owe him sex or anything like that? No. Does she owe him an explanation? Socially, yes. OP deserve…
/r/seduction18/05/22 06:41 PM
2

No it's not. That is literally what happened. I don't understand how you can possibly act like this girl acted logically. She said she wanted to fuck, the guy responded in kind, and now she doesn't want to fuck anymore. He has said it other parts of the thread that she even said she only wanted to be fwb. He agreed. She was in the same frame of mind he was. Suddenly, she doesn't want to anymore. For you to somehow get that he's self centered and immature out of that interaction is mind boggling.…
/r/seduction18/05/22 06:15 PM
3

Please shut the fuck up oh my good God. She said she wanted to fuck OP. OP goes "okay let's fuck" but not even explicitly, just texted her. You're saying that means he did something wrong? The girl wanted thing, he said okay i want that thing too, she goes "damn he only wants that thing he should want more" if you believe this course of action is correct, YOU are self centered and immature. How DARE he want to have sex with a girl and not also want all these other things with her? He even said t…
/r/seduction18/05/22 05:42 PM
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Well I can see where you're coming from. The idea, though, is that women find ambitious men attractive. Is that true? I have no clue, and even if it is true it's not applicable to all women. But given this belief, it makes sense men would, then, want to be as productive and busy as possible. It's also fulfilling for many people to always be working to achieve a goal, but that's not everyone's purpose. Rather, I think that a better way of phrasing this would be "understand/grasp your purpose" rat…
/r/seduction18/05/22 04:11 PM
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Overly simplified, but still an overall good suggestion in my opinion. Even if you were being sarcastic.
/r/seduction18/05/22 01:16 PM
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I know you didn't ask me, but the confidence thing is definitely "fake it till you make it" in the club scene. Going with friends can help, it seems. When you approach a girl, think about what attracts you to her besides her being hot. That gives you a good assumption to make about her and spark conversation. "You look like you ____" Of course it's not that simple but it's an opener. Having a couple drinks can help with courage as well. As far as building attraction and making the conversation s…
/r/seduction18/05/22 12:47 PM
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Why is the goal to actually be busy?
/r/seduction18/05/22 11:29 AM
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So can you explain how women think, that way I can do better with attracting them?
/r/seduction17/05/22 07:52 PM
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The what was frustrated?
/r/seduction17/05/22 07:49 PM
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No, the commenter here just seemed interested in you so I was making a comment to highlight her interest, lmao. Thanks for letting me borrow the Lamborghini this week btw
/r/seduction16/05/22 05:00 PM
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No they don't you fuck. They're genuinely coming for advice, admitting a lack in their knowledge, and you just act like an asshole for it.
/r/seduction16/05/22 04:54 PM
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No need to be a dick dude lmao it makes you look dumb
/r/seduction16/05/22 04:31 PM
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Upvoting to be OPs wingman
/r/seduction16/05/22 02:31 PM
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Most women, when I ask their music taste, they say "it's complicated, its hard to describe" So later on, when I wanna go back, I say something like "I really wanna hear your music taste, I have a Bluetooth speaker do you want to show me?" Or "I have a collection of records, do you want to listen to some with me?" I guess the idea is to have a reason for them to come back with you, like listening to music, or if neither of you have eaten you can offer to cook something easy for you both. Soemtime…
/r/seduction16/05/22 02:24 PM
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You're institutionalized dude. I would say, from my perspective, it's going to be hard to build a relationship while institutionalized. If I were to recommend, I'd say go for that hookup opportunity for the confidence and work on taking yourself out of prison before building something meaningful. That it's more likely you'll get the type of thing you're looking for and this virgin thing won't be hanging over your head. I get that you don't want it without a relationship intent but, hey, I'm sure…
/r/seduction16/05/22 01:58 PM
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He was suggesting using that as a response to these rude women, replacing "bob" with your own name.
/r/seduction14/05/22 07:43 PM
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Because he's trying to learn shut the fuck up
/r/seduction14/05/22 07:33 PM
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Then what advice should he take instead? I don't necessarily disagree but just shutting down someone's opinion without offering your own doesn't really help.
/r/seduction13/05/22 11:46 AM
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If there's nobody else that wants to be with her what does that tell you about her? Further, if that was the only reason you went for her you're doing yourself a disservice. If you aren't attracted to her, don't like her, etc, then there's no reason to go for her in that way.
/r/seduction12/05/22 09:29 PM
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If you're taller than they are and physically more muscular/bigger than them, it would stand to reason they'd feel pretty feminine. You're too worried about things you can't control at this point, height isn't something you can magically change and bitterness is only going to repel people, men and women.
/r/seduction12/05/22 05:25 PM
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exactly Bro... You're taller that 5'1 5'2. When he said "they like dudes who are taller" that's you my guy. you are "tall" to them.
/r/seduction12/05/22 05:04 PM
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Don't worry about this guy, he's a total loser based on my previous interactions with him.
/r/seduction11/05/22 02:45 PM
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Yeah man men who have families and take care of them are just lazy betas. What a total psycho
/r/seduction11/05/22 12:28 PM
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On the inverse, Mr. Mehlman claims that all dudes in monogamous relationships are "domesticated betas". Imagine thinking that a married man who takes care of his family is a beta.
/r/seduction11/05/22 12:09 PM
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weak dudes WILL constantly test you if you're with a hot girl. Lmao, you aren't any less weak or any more strong than anyone else. Let's calm down there Highlander
/r/seduction11/05/22 10:59 AM
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Then you're alienated from the generation of people that this dude is talking about. Dating wise and sex wise you live in a different world than us.
/r/seduction10/05/22 04:35 PM
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Consider seeing a doctor. You may have some undiagnosed social anxiety that medicine can really help with, especially if you're getting to the point where you are almost throwing up. You said you don't have trouble socially, so perhaps this is an overstatement. Just a suggestion.
/r/seduction09/05/22 06:03 PM
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"Touch a woman who isn't interested in you and tell her you wanna eat her out, that'll get you out of the friendszone!" Psycho shit
/r/seduction06/05/22 03:50 AM
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This man is a psychopath
/r/seduction05/05/22 11:41 PM
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Yeah you're an equally stuck up fuckface.
/r/seduction05/05/22 11:05 PM
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Where is it written than you need to be an unbearable asshole to someone asking for words of encouragement? Seriously, I don't know why some people's first response to people feeling sad is "get up off your ass and fix it!" But if it is, please go fuck yourself, you bitter, self-righteous prick.
/r/seduction05/05/22 09:53 PM
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Hobbies are not for getting women.
/r/seduction05/05/22 03:09 AM
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I never said I didn't respect that someone might simply not like you that way, I said that it's often used as a way of embarrassing the man in question. If you get curved and ANYONE sees it, someone is going to make fun of you. Secondly, it's a threat to masculinity because attracting women is considered part of your masculine frame. I know many a woman who will see a guy who had low "success" with the ladies and think "that's a red flag" And yeah, no. It's possible to be attracted to more than …
/r/seduction04/05/22 09:00 PM
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No, rejection actually is more than that. It comes as a threat to a lot of people's masculinity and self esteem. Further, rejecting a dude can also be passed around in an inner circle which is used to further humiliate you. Once you make a pass at a girl, it's never "oh I don't feel that way but you'd be great for my friend!" It's always "the entire friend group is off limits now."
/r/seduction04/05/22 08:19 PM
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It also makes her women “friends” jealous of her, giving her ego a boost(dopamine release). Are you implying women can't have real friends?
/r/seduction04/05/22 08:17 PM
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They do not do these things.
/r/seduction04/05/22 08:11 PM
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accidentally touch her If you've written it down and planned it's not much of an accident is it.
/r/seduction03/05/22 09:58 PM
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Lmao dude you can't read clearly if you don't understand that my entire comment was saying your words were irrelevant to this situation. This dude "cold approaches" You "first date" Sounds like you need to read, moron.
/r/seduction03/05/22 03:28 PM
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We're talking about cold approaches. Touching someone on a cold approach outside of shaking their hand is usually out of the question. Shits gross dude.
/r/seduction03/05/22 01:30 PM
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How do I build attraction.
/r/seduction03/05/22 02:03 AM
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What if this never happens to you
/r/seduction02/05/22 10:26 PM
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Ok what's examples? Are you just gonna empty brag about yourself or are you going to actually turn this into a teaching moment
/r/seduction02/05/22 10:25 PM
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You want to be in tune with where they’re at right after you approach so there’s no disjointedness between your context for the situation and theirs. What on earth does that mean. Genuinely, as a total newbie, that statement may as well be a foreign language. Granted I am neuro-divergent so maybe that's a factor, but being "in tune with where their at" doesn't make any sense, I don't understand what it means.
/r/seduction02/05/22 10:24 PM
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Yeah dude that's fucked up, sorry. Anyone who walks up to a girl and says "I am so important that you, a stranger, need to hang up your phone call" is an actual sociopath.
/r/seduction02/05/22 10:04 PM
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This is something I struggle with. How do I flirt in a way that's obviously flirting? ​ The responses I've gotten from women have been "no sexual spark, I wasn't relevant to her, I'm not exciting". How do I do any of that stuff? How do I talk about things that are interesting to women? I don't really get it at all. I am also neurodivergent if that's worth mentioning.
/r/seduction30/04/22 03:41 AM
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