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True
/r/seduction05/10/22 05:19 PM
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Not giving a fuck or not approval seeking doesn’t mean not having empathy for someone. Its the exact opposite. It just means you aren’t responsible for someone else is happiness and you’re not gonna bend yourself backwards to make someone happy or to be liked. As nice guys, we tend to go to extremes from either nice guy to asshole. When it really isn’t that. Its being right in the middle, balanced. It took me a few tries too until I realize its about being confident and comfortable with yourself…
/r/seduction05/10/22 09:42 AM
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OP, if you’re really attractive you wouldnt be having problems, instead youd be attracting < lol. So its time to start working.
/r/seduction05/10/22 06:13 AM
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Real shit god bless the truth
/r/seduction05/10/22 06:12 AM
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Because you arent attractive enough. You sound needy as fuck and like you lack 0 self confidence
/r/seduction05/10/22 06:11 AM
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Are you confident though? Cause if you were you wouldnt be here complaining about this. It’s easy to approach a girl and talk to them without appearing nervous. Its harder to not give a fuck, not approval seek and do what you want to do and whats best for you. Its about the inner stuff not the outer shit. Who cares if you can make a girl laugh, we all can. Do you know where you wanna go in life? Are you focused? Do you people please around girls or not be your true authentic self? Are you really…
/r/seduction05/10/22 06:05 AM
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Just take it as men not knowing what they want. Maybe they like you who knows
/r/seduction05/10/22 05:52 AM
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No girls just gonna call u hot unless she really wants to fuck u lol. Remember theyre humans. Theyre shy too. I have 2 girls that seperately each said i had 1. A pretty voice and the other one said I had a nice voice. They were both on me like it was nothing. Take it as a big opener dude. Thats a super green light
/r/seduction05/10/22 12:52 AM
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Yup
/r/seduction05/10/22 12:51 AM
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Definitely an underlying problem or he wouldnt make this post. Because if I knew girls were in my way id instantly stop thinking about them and delete tinder.
/r/seduction04/10/22 08:47 PM
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Are u dumb? So stop thinking about women wtf lol? This is the silliest question or reddit post ive ever seen in my life. So then stop giving a fuck. Like i dont get it lol dude what? Go jerk off if your so horny
/r/seduction04/10/22 02:16 AM
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Hes a dumbass dawg dont listen to this
/r/seduction02/10/22 04:07 PM
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Im not interested lets go our seperate ways
/r/seduction30/09/22 06:35 PM
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Im agreeing with you dumbass lmao.
/r/seduction30/09/22 05:11 PM
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Okay? Thats exactly what the fuck the post is about lol. How can you not have self esteem and feel good about yourself and be attractive. Looks aint everything. Till you show your authentic self and break your neediness you aren’t going anywhere
/r/seduction30/09/22 05:10 PM
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They are important but it wont get you women. Lock it down then focus how you feel about yourself internally. Your esteem needs to shine to be attractive
/r/seduction30/09/22 03:06 PM
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Thats y u get no girls
/r/seduction30/09/22 03:05 PM
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Most of that comes down to how you feel about yourself as well. If you feel good about yourself referring to you having high self esteem about yourself you’ll naturally do those things and take care of yourself. You’re just explaining nice guy to no nice guy. Its all about how you feel inside
/r/seduction30/09/22 03:05 PM
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Poor dog getting used.
/r/seduction28/09/22 08:09 PM
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Maybe stop placing so much of an emphasis on what people think about you and write down the worse thing that can happen and see that it isnt me. Other than that get help,
/r/seduction26/09/22 06:35 AM
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Thats facts. But at the end of the day the men that are mad are mad because they cant do what your doing lol. So again its fuck them. Why the fuck would u even wanna spend time around people who are jealous of you lol. They’d get cut off so quick if it were me
/r/seduction26/09/22 06:32 AM
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I mean not really your reaction to it is fine. You just need to cut those friends off and find newer people lol are they really your friends if they disrespect you and/or not congratulate you on your wins? Sounds like bitches to me lol. Its just awareness, just be around people who love and appreciate u for u dawg
/r/seduction26/09/22 06:31 AM
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Time to start cutting off old friends and finding new ones. U dont need em, fuck dat negative energy
/r/seduction26/09/22 06:29 AM
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https://youtu.be/S3uFCRCocXo
/r/seduction21/09/22 07:52 PM
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https://youtu.be/UnhWiq3E7eI
/r/seduction21/09/22 07:50 PM
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I be myself. I’m authentic. If you have toxic shame or had difficulties in childhood thats going to block you out and fuck things up for you. Which is why I already told you. You’ve already had two good responses. Get a therapist and work on that nice guy stuff lingering on. You have childhood dysfunction. You don’t need another book. What you need to do is get more comfortable with yourself and like you. I’m not responding to this anymore so don’t @ me. No offense
/r/seduction21/09/22 07:32 PM
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I mean yea? Its normal
/r/seduction20/09/22 03:54 AM
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Lol you sound dumb bro. Because of social conditioning and parental issues, some men are nicer and more feminine then they should be. Your argument is stupid and counterintuitive, theres no complexity involved lmfao. It isn’t just “the way” it is. Men aren’t born nice guys. No idea what you’re trying to say lol its like you just read that off google
/r/seduction18/09/22 01:12 PM
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Its not a fucking shit test its her being a normal human being and actually forgot. Yall gotta stop with this bullshit and just have civilized communication lmfao this is why yall dont get laid. All this back and forth “we took turns talking her turn then mine i send small she sent long” is bullshit and felt like i was reading a maze. Like just stop. You’re overthinking and confusing your own self.
/r/seduction17/09/22 08:05 PM
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How would it be unnatural?
/r/seduction16/09/22 10:55 PM
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I mean y would you get a good response. Theres no interest in what you said. If you told me that id just say ah okay maybe ask you a bit more cause im a good person and id like to let you express yourself and thats it. Just sounds like you’re tryna hide something or be cool. Let people know the real you relax and be yourself. Could be shame 🤷🏽‍♂️ I was scared as fuck of girls before too. Had a lot of shit in my teenage and adolescent years that fucked up my confidence, use to be a star with wome…
/r/seduction16/09/22 09:57 PM
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Victim
/r/seduction16/09/22 05:38 PM
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Introversion has nothing to do with going full interview mode though. You can be introverted yet still confident in yourself. Maybe you’re pedestalizing women or you’re just shy or nervous around them or caring what they may think about you.
/r/seduction16/09/22 04:55 PM
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Keep crying and victimizing.
/r/seduction16/09/22 04:53 PM
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To those who can’t attract women. Again, it’s not hard to attract a girl, it’s how you go about it. Paying thousands of dollars on dating coaches is a scam. The problem is you yourself. Ain’t nothing going to change until you fix that
/r/seduction16/09/22 04:48 PM
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If I were you I’d just start slowly opening up and allow yourself to be you. Talk about whats on your mind one step at a time and see how it goes
/r/seduction16/09/22 04:47 PM
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I go with the flow. I don’t try to make a convo platonic or not and that sounds like your problem. We can talk about our plans but we can also talk about other things. Its about connecting and getting to know each other with added humour and expressing yourself like how you’d do with one of your friends. You don’t try to make the convo anything, just talk and have fun
/r/seduction16/09/22 04:46 PM
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Lol I’ve already helped you and gave you the perfect answer to your problem awhile ago. Someone did the same thing for you a year ago on one of your posts. You’re choosing to not take good information and better your life. Your fault 🤷🏽‍♂️
/r/seduction16/09/22 04:44 PM
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Because it shows you’re a weirdo. And women aren’t necessarily hard to attract its how you go about it. If you can’t even attract the slightest female it shows you’re doing a lot of major stuff wrong.
/r/seduction16/09/22 04:43 PM
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So then there’s just no connection. Treat them normally and talk. Once shes interested, tension can take place and flow
/r/seduction16/09/22 04:40 PM
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Good luck
/r/seduction16/09/22 04:39 PM
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This is true but not everyone has that masculine presence. So he needs to know how to create that for himself. We’re all not the same and born lucky
/r/seduction16/09/22 03:13 PM
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You can’t create sexual tension because you’re too nice. Its created when a girl sees you as a man and respects that. Without a masculine and feminine polar opposite, there will be no sexual tension created. A guy needs his beauty as much as a girl needs her rock. A girl will only become sexually attracted when you have that male/man presence. Work on your masculinity and stop being so friendly. Read no more mr nice guy by robert glover or the way of a superior man.
/r/seduction16/09/22 03:07 PM
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Shame. You can’t connect with someone or a woman perhaps if you have shame or is feeling shame about yourself. Its that toxic shame that makes you wanna hide, not show yourself, and express yourself. It’s that what hides your personality and everything that’s cool about you. What seperates one guy from another is their self esteem. Thats what women are attracted to. Connecting to women is the connection itself. Talking and interacting with the other, not hiding yourself and if you suffer from sh…
/r/seduction16/09/22 03:05 PM
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Relax, wtf are you talking about. Leave her alone lol
/r/seduction15/09/22 05:51 PM
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Perfect answer you’re actually spot on. Appreciate this
/r/seduction15/09/22 05:51 PM
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Bro shes a girl im sure u can believe it. Shes speaking for women
/r/seduction15/09/22 05:50 PM
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You sound so weird lol yikes
/r/seduction13/09/22 03:56 PM
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Makes sense why id always have girls coming onto me.
/r/seduction12/09/22 02:57 PM
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You’re already being by needy by waiting and not doing what you’d like to do. Stop it.
/r/seduction12/09/22 02:56 PM
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Listen to Robert Glover for teaching I think he has a pretty solid base and talks about relationships. Everything you listed was a real red flag. I feel like if I saw at least one of those id feel very iffy and unstable about our relationship because its that serious. Anyways you learned your lesson(s) my dude so you’re better equipped for your next relationship. Make sure these girls meet your standards next time before picking a girl you wanna get >serious< with or theres probably no point and…
/r/seduction12/09/22 09:55 AM
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Ya!
/r/seduction11/09/22 10:08 PM
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Nah u aint fuck up the interaction dude thats normal. Its okay to be awkward like that cause u literally didnt know. Its not like you can never talk to them again lol, you literally can. To me it looks like they actually do like you so ur straight. Maybe next time you see them again start up a convo. We’re our worst critics though. Try accepting and loving the way you look no matter what cause you’re the only person u got. Good luck bro
/r/seduction11/09/22 10:07 PM
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It’s their confidence. It works. Girls arent evil creatures thatll just reject you every time. Theyre humans who like to have fun and will enjoy their time with you if they like you. Looks give you an advantage but have confidence and look presentable.
/r/seduction11/09/22 09:21 PM
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Facts
/r/seduction10/09/22 07:14 PM
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Dude your looks don’t matter that much just look presentable. Take care of yourself you’re born the way you are you cant change that
/r/seduction10/09/22 07:12 PM
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Its not your personality, you are unique like everyone and worthy enough and deserve to be loved. You just aren’t showing your personality. Maybe you have some shame about yourself thats not allowing yourself to be yourself and you’re most likely not coming off attractive to women. Start respecting yourself and work on your self esteem. Get off porn. You can’t get respect if you don’t respect yourself. To me this just sounds like self esteem issues and neediness
/r/seduction10/09/22 07:11 PM
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Haha
/r/seduction10/09/22 12:08 PM
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My guy theres no strategy. You be honest and say no or yes, wtf are you lying for lol what is that gonna do. Most women are pretty honest so when they ask you some shit like this they aren’t trying to play games or run your head. Be authentic and give an honest answer, there is no shame. Have honest intentions. And dude. Why are you flirting with other girls if you’re in a relationship, I just read that part afterwards. You obviously aren’t happy. Get out of it or do something about it but you’r…
/r/seduction10/09/22 12:08 PM
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Lol i think its cute. Regardless he got it done dude. No one is perfect. Shit doesn’t matter. Small steps till you can fucking walk
/r/seduction10/09/22 11:55 AM
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Underrated comment
/r/seduction10/09/22 11:54 AM
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Fucking three some amiright
/r/seduction10/09/22 11:54 AM
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My boy
/r/seduction10/09/22 11:53 AM
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Dont know about the being unattractive part. If you’re just walking up to a girl you dont know and putting your arm around her shoulder thats weird, attractive or not - physically and internally. Even if you’re sexy inside out and you do that, she may tolerate it but that could still be weird to her. Conversely, if you are unattractive lets say you arent the best looking and you’re talking to a girl everythings going well and she seems key word >interested<. Theres nothing wrong with getting a l…
/r/seduction10/09/22 02:10 AM
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I 100% agree. Again though I feel as some people interpret what we say on here wrong and think in extreme terms which just leads to bad scenarios
/r/seduction10/09/22 02:07 AM
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Balls
/r/seduction09/09/22 10:40 PM
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Lol that nice guy shit “is it okay if i put my hand over you” even though she’s at your house sitting on your couch, knowing she linked up with you knowing something could go possibly go down
/r/seduction09/09/22 09:58 PM
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^
/r/seduction09/09/22 09:56 PM
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If its “downright creepy” at times then you’ve obviously havent seen the dark side of women or been with enough women in general lol. Obviously consent is key dude. No ones telling you to rape a girl. It’s about how you perceive the information and you’re clearly projecting your own insecurities
/r/seduction09/09/22 09:56 PM
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Bro. What hes saying is that you not giving a fuck is sexy to women because you truly don’t care. It shows strength and that you’re not a little wimp that goes and cry after a no. So of course thats gonna trigger sexual arousal wtf. Its all how you see it and the context being used. Its almost like you’re projecting your own insecurities lmao.
/r/seduction09/09/22 09:54 PM
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exactly what i said. I think OP is a bit worried about the weirdos that may try this but thats out of our control. And again. A woman gets to decide what she wants to do with you no matter how sexually attracted she is to you
/r/seduction09/09/22 09:52 PM
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Brother. It’s good advice in the right context. Its how you use it. Even if you do manage to get a girl aroused off “physical assertiveness”, the only person who can make her have sex is her unless she’s raped. So unless you’re assuming a girl’s going to get raped or some weird shit is going to happen, it’s fine. This is good advice and awareness and actually makes sense. You can’t just be so timid and scared and not comfortable in your own skin thinking a girls going to sleep with you. It goes …
/r/seduction09/09/22 09:50 PM
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Send a picture of what lol
/r/seduction09/09/22 06:20 PM
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Sounds like you’re a pushover lol. A girl won’t ask/say these things if she respects you
/r/seduction09/09/22 02:56 PM
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I meant more of “worthless” then loser, if you dont believe that all the better. If you have low self esteem because you can’t “attract” women you need to be a man and handle that. Stop beating yourself up or whatever the fuck you’re doing. And again. There could be a reason why you’re extremely shy, what do you often feel around people? It could be toxic shame that’s causing you to be shy around people or fears from childhood. In my perspective, low self esteem can often be deeply rooted in chi…
/r/seduction09/09/22 01:35 AM
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She probably called you that because you were acting weird? No girl just says that. You must’ve done some dumb shit. Dont know what invincible to women means. Feel like you need to look at your self esteem because theres a reason why you’re shy awkward or quiet and being called this. Real question is, do you believe this yourself?
/r/seduction09/09/22 01:22 AM
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Describe urself to me how are u usually around ppl
/r/seduction08/09/22 05:12 AM
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So then its a problem with you. You arent attractive enough
/r/seduction07/09/22 10:29 PM
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Depends dude. Are you being authentic and yourself or putting on an act? Do you go out regularly or even at all? Could be self esteem issues as well
/r/seduction06/09/22 10:01 AM
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Get wild with them
/r/seduction06/09/22 07:49 AM
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You guys get so mad when you see another person win lol jesus christ I’d hate to be you with a mindset like that.
/r/seduction05/09/22 11:15 PM
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Always gotta be some haters lol oh well
/r/seduction05/09/22 11:14 PM
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Damnnn son 🔥
/r/seduction05/09/22 11:14 PM
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Well then thats a problem lol
/r/seduction04/09/22 08:00 PM
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Underrated 🐐 post
/r/seduction04/09/22 07:28 PM
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Nope dont settle dude.
/r/seduction04/09/22 03:54 AM
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Doesnt matter ? There is no rule to this but itd be better if you give her space and let her do it
/r/seduction03/09/22 05:56 PM
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Well obviously theres a thing called balance.
/r/seduction02/09/22 09:25 AM
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This is like really basic common stuff lol do people not have conversation levels like this at a basic level..? If you dont, girls are the last thing you need to be worried about. Get with PEOPLE more
/r/seduction02/09/22 09:15 AM
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Hmm. Maybe nervousness? That “thinking” though about thinking you can’t get hot girls. Are you watching porn? I find that I get more nervous and think I can’t get any girls despite my success when I fall into porn. To me though it sounds like subconsciously you think you aren’t good enough. You can try fixing that and just know you are good enough and look at the evidence you have resulting that. Gl Another solution I have for you is stop pedestalizing hot girls and thinking so much. Relax, allo…
/r/seduction02/09/22 09:11 AM
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Because its inside stuff and makes you look like thats all you do
/r/seduction02/09/22 09:08 AM
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Im glad we’re all on the same page 😌
/r/seduction30/08/22 02:26 PM
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Just gonna tell you this right now and this is the honest truth. You’re probably going to stay a loser until you fix your confidence. Theres a reason youve been a virgin 29 years of your life and im surprised you never took responsibility to fix the issue or talked to someone about it. Getting the best job in the world isnt going to stop making you a loser. You may gain some confidence because of it but tying your confidence or self worth to your job or materialistic items is a path you don’t wa…
/r/seduction30/08/22 02:23 PM
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Dont end up on those youtube channels brotha
/r/seduction30/08/22 02:19 PM
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Horndog
/r/seduction30/08/22 02:19 PM
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😂😂😂
/r/seduction29/08/22 09:46 PM
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Don’t wanna seem racist or anything because I am black myself but I find that a lot of black girls think they’re the shit and hold themselves on this pedestal when they’re really not that lol. Its insane
/r/seduction29/08/22 05:06 PM
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Yeah I 100% agree. This is common in some women though lol, but yeah shit is ridiculous, they look ridiculous spewing out shit like this
/r/seduction29/08/22 05:05 PM
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Lol doesnt look like that to me but i dont mind seeing a pic
/r/seduction29/08/22 04:28 PM
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Yessuh
/r/seduction29/08/22 04:22 PM
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Thats tuff lol probably just baiting you or using u to get horny or some shit. Def seeing someone else though and has u on the side though
/r/seduction29/08/22 04:21 PM
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Wym I’d be surprised lol I’m a good looking man myself and never been ghosted after sending a picture of me. If I do then I know I’m simply not their type and its fuck them. It has nothing to do with intimidation lol.
/r/seduction29/08/22 04:14 PM
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Guys my dick is big and I look like finn wolfhard but every time I send a picture of me these girls ghost me, help!
/r/seduction29/08/22 03:24 PM
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Like holy fucking shit lol 😭.
/r/seduction29/08/22 03:23 PM
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Lol doubt they “ghost” you because they’re “intimidated”. No one cares that much, thats just your ego, trust me. It’s either you’re not attractive to them or yeah. They just don’t like you which is fine. But no one’s going to ghost someone they like lol just doesn’t make sense.
/r/seduction29/08/22 03:09 PM
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Seriously just follow this. The girl is human too no ones perfect just talk trust me. All that spitting game shit is bullshit
/r/seduction29/08/22 08:45 AM
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Bro anythingggggg
/r/seduction29/08/22 08:44 AM
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I hope so. You see a lot of retarded shit on here. Not all of it are exaggerations lol some people are just dumb
/r/seduction24/08/22 02:26 AM
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You’re a weirdo.
/r/seduction24/08/22 01:51 AM
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Facts baby
/r/seduction24/08/22 01:50 AM
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Because most people on reddit are people that don’t have confidence themselves and just live on this app and hate on the next person because they can’t get progress themselves due to personal problems. I’d say thats about 99% of reddit people which is why they’re always spewing out dumb shit lol
/r/seduction24/08/22 01:50 AM
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Fr i dont understand some comments here lol
/r/seduction24/08/22 01:49 AM
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?
/r/seduction24/08/22 01:49 AM
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No
/r/seduction24/08/22 01:48 AM
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Bro what im saying is confronting your dumb argument lol. Like you’re wrong my nigga just admit it. Goddam
/r/seduction22/08/22 05:27 PM
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Tru
/r/seduction22/08/22 12:45 AM
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You didnt say that.
/r/seduction22/08/22 12:45 AM
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Because just because you have an attractive face doesnt mean you’ll never have issues with women. Thats like the most dumbest thing ever. People have difficulties with each other because of psychology issues so how is having a pretty face going to solve that? I get what you mean but that aint it. Looking good will naturally attract women. That does not mean the girl is going to sleep with you or you won’t have issues with them. Looks get you in the door and the door only.
/r/seduction21/08/22 10:07 PM
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Hes just dumb. Sounds like some wannabe alpha male
/r/seduction21/08/22 09:21 PM
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Nigga get ur head together and come up with a plan
/r/seduction21/08/22 09:20 PM
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False as fuck.
/r/seduction21/08/22 09:19 PM
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Lol you clearly dont know what just be yourself means. Stop taking it out of context. Girls like authenticity so be yourself. That doesn’t mean live like shit. I hate when people do this lol its common fucking sense
/r/seduction21/08/22 09:18 PM
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Bro ur fucking fine. Get out there and stop worrying and get out the thinking that ur body means everything
/r/seduction21/08/22 09:15 PM
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Get outta here my nigga lmfaooo 😭
/r/seduction21/08/22 07:47 AM
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No way ur still typing to me
/r/seduction21/08/22 07:47 AM
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I dont even feel like its being nonchalent sure its a mix of it but its more so not approval seeking and being needy. When you’re trying to impress her, you’re dying for her approval and she can sense that. So try to reverse that. If i were u id ask why im doing that and coming up with a plan. Some tips for this problem is approving of yourself by taking care of yourself, feeling your emotions and more.
/r/seduction20/08/22 07:30 PM
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Just read no more mr nice guy and if you relate continue with the book. Thats probably the main problem lol a lack of confidence
/r/seduction20/08/22 04:24 AM
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You can make a girl feel emotions by just being yourself and not worrying about making her happy. You can act masculine by being comfortable with yourself and not giving a fuck. Self acceptance and self love is a good practice here. Stop being scared of women and say what you want. You dont need to be perfect, even if you fuck up she’ll still have some interest in you unless this is some stranger off the street. But start with taking risks and not being afraid of speaking your mind. If you like …
/r/seduction20/08/22 04:23 AM
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Genuinely? To me it’s authenticity and confidence. If a girl knows you’re just truly being you and not tryna bullshit her and you have confidence, she can trust you more and become attracted since you’re your own person. What helped me was getting rid of my own neediness and approval seeking (that nice guy stuff) and just genuinely talking to women without relying on a certain outcome. Like i don’t care. And i know trust and connection has to be laid out before we fuck so I keep it simple and do…
/r/seduction20/08/22 04:17 AM
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Lol no cap I feel bad for you keep at it with those beliefs you’re doing just fine buddy. Loser lmfao
/r/seduction19/08/22 09:36 PM
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A man who knows where hes going in life is his own leader. Thats being a leader
/r/seduction19/08/22 08:27 PM
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Lol damn so now you’re taking “you need therapy” personal yea you got a lot of shit to work on bud good luck with the women.
/r/seduction19/08/22 05:41 PM
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Bro it sounds like you’re trying too hard lol. Just relax and go with the flow. If she feels uncomfortable with you complimenting her how is hugging her going to work
/r/seduction19/08/22 05:39 PM
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Not interested. U might be coming off as weird or flirting at inappropriate times. For the compliments it depends how much or when you’re complimenting her. Could be a sign of low self esteem on her part or you’re really just doing too much.
/r/seduction19/08/22 05:38 PM
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Brother you need therapy.
/r/seduction19/08/22 05:15 PM
1

Doesnt matter dude. You cut the call thosebsubtle signs show.
/r/seduction19/08/22 05:15 PM
1

Thats childish asf my guy. You need to go over why you even got mad in the first place, you’re never going to have success with women if you have that type of anger over rejection. You shouldnt have forced her either. A no is a no. Thats her right and her boundaries. But a mistake is a mistake. You’re just acting childish. Of course theres hope but relax. Go over why you got angry and learn that thats not how men act. If someone rejects you that’s their problem, you dont have to initiate control…
/r/seduction19/08/22 05:15 PM
1

Just sounds like regular shit anyone with the slight interest would do lol. You need to get out your head and make a move.
/r/seduction19/08/22 02:22 PM
5

Weirdo
/r/seduction19/08/22 09:17 AM
-4

Foreign girls are way easier
/r/seduction19/08/22 09:17 AM
1

Sounds like a u problem bud
/r/seduction19/08/22 09:16 AM
1

Thats good. Was she hot though?
/r/seduction19/08/22 09:16 AM
1

To go from hey to sex you need to slowly build it up. Have it in mind because obviously you wanna drill her but dont be so thirsty or desperate about it. If you like her, engage. Its that simple. Dont need to do anything corny lol shes human like you
/r/seduction18/08/22 06:55 AM
1

Bro you just slide in and say whats up you wanna hang? You’re delivering to her house and you should know if she has a husband or not lol. So its easy to fucking slide in. If she rejects you its okay
/r/seduction18/08/22 06:54 AM
1

I think u would benefit from no more mr nice guy
/r/seduction16/08/22 03:27 AM
5

Why even ask. Its either she likes you or not. You dont need to find that out unless you’re scared of getting raped when you’re in the bed with her sick
/r/seduction16/08/22 12:42 AM
2

So you feel shame because you got rejected. Thats a problem. You are a good guy still, you aren’t “bad” because 7 strangers who dont even know you rejectee you. Keep it pushing. I know thats easier said than done so I think you need to check in with therapy and talk about that shame which most likely results in childhood, other then that youre good to go. I feel like the healthier attitude about this would not let it affect u too much and see ways how you can improve. Good luck buddy, see u at t…
/r/seduction16/08/22 12:00 AM
4

Very.
/r/seduction15/08/22 06:44 PM
2

Your dick is big
/r/seduction15/08/22 06:42 PM
3

Just sounds like ur playing into her own game lol almost like your desperate or thirsty for it. Thats never going to work. Have your own frame and stop being so easy
/r/seduction15/08/22 06:20 PM
3

Just gotta run some xrays and see if shes a transgender and youre good to go am i right?
/r/seduction15/08/22 06:18 PM
22

Yup. Sounds about ga-right.
/r/seduction15/08/22 06:17 PM
60

Yup. Build confidence or just be confident. Either getting use to being around girls or get their numbers for lays. Lose your ego if you have one
/r/seduction15/08/22 06:17 PM
2

Mine goes straight up and points at the heaven and stars and cupid when its valentines. Good luck buddy
/r/seduction15/08/22 05:58 PM
2

Ayo?
/r/seduction15/08/22 05:57 PM
1

Ye
/r/seduction15/08/22 04:57 PM
1

Obv a joke
/r/seduction15/08/22 02:32 PM
1

Women dont really care whether or not you play music in bands have humour or produce music if you arent confident in yourself first. Those masucline attributes are subpar and matter the most. If you have that then everything else added is just additional good traits
/r/seduction15/08/22 02:02 PM
1

“Thin” has nothing to do with a “beta male”. Yea you may look weak so you better eat up but better back up what you say if you’re gonna toot your own horn
/r/seduction15/08/22 02:01 PM
0

Beta women
/r/seduction15/08/22 01:59 PM
1

I mean when you hung out was it even sexual? Shes not going to just dry give you head like that unless shes really into you in that moment. Girls change everyday they’re not just horny 24/7 or horny today because last night she was. Set the tone
/r/seduction15/08/22 09:55 AM
1

Fr lol
/r/seduction15/08/22 07:10 AM
1

That line is cringe as shit. Maybe youre getting that because the girl likes you but you’re too serious.
/r/seduction15/08/22 07:10 AM
1

?
/r/seduction15/08/22 07:09 AM
9

Its not because many women are after them its because they know they’re the shit
/r/seduction14/08/22 12:12 PM
1

?
/r/seduction14/08/22 05:33 AM
1

Just as ur tipping leave a lil note with ur number inside it inside the cash
/r/seduction14/08/22 05:32 AM
4

We all get nervous and anxious at times though
/r/seduction14/08/22 03:44 AM
7

I wanna add though from my own experience the more self confidence you have or the better you feel about yourself the more willing you are to try new things and act despite of fear
/r/seduction14/08/22 03:43 AM
7

Dope take I like that last part although you can do things to make you feel confident i guess you can never really control when that feeling comes up im guessing
/r/seduction14/08/22 03:43 AM
0

I think Robert Glover talks about this in his no more mr nice guy book that nice guys avoid sex because it brings a lot of shame like sex is a bad thing or something. If you relate you can check out his book and podcasts. Not saying you’re a nice guy because i dont know u but what you’re saying sounds similar.
/r/seduction13/08/22 09:56 AM
3

Nah man. Those little comments u make about urself are actually deadly and will stop you in your tracks. I bet you feel like shit every time that thought comes up. Try to relax. A girl doesn’t see you like that, rarely. Try to do behaviour experiments and prove yourself wrong like ya hey that went well she didnt see me as “creepy or weird”.
/r/seduction13/08/22 09:55 AM
1

Sounds like you’ve been approaching the wrong women then and doing stuff wrong
/r/seduction11/08/22 09:17 PM
3

Thats not toxic thats called being yourself and being authentic. Girls like and want authenticity. When you said toxic, I thought you meant acting a complete ass for no reason compared to being genuine so I was like huh? Makes sense now. You are allowed to be yourself. Think you should drop that label.
/r/seduction11/08/22 08:10 AM
1

Doesnt matter how you look, that shit isnt going to get you a girl or get her wet. Its your persona. Looks get you in the door. That is all. Other than that they dont do shit. So stop justifying yourself based on your looks like that shit really matters
/r/seduction09/08/22 06:25 PM
1

I mean obv hes gonna be upset for making an excuse you arent being real
/r/seduction09/08/22 06:24 PM
1

Work on your game brotha and stop blaming your friend. You shouldnt be comparing yourself to anyone thats your own self esteem talking. Fix it, stop making excuses and being jealous and learn from it. Would you rather pick up stuff and get advice from your friend and go out alone for a year and try learning everything by yourself just because you’re “comparing” yourself to him?
/r/seduction09/08/22 06:23 PM
3

You sound so retarded lol thats not what he was trying to say. Get out of your own head. He’s saying stop playing it cool and nice just because someone else won’t like it or may disapprove of you. Do what you think is right. OP said people which means men and women is who he does this to. Stop projecting your own insecurities.
/r/seduction08/08/22 05:31 AM
2

Real talk dude. Its this nice guy shit
/r/seduction08/08/22 05:29 AM
1

If u keep thinking like this you wont have women in your life nor stable relationships.
/r/seduction08/08/22 05:29 AM
3

What lol
/r/seduction08/08/22 04:10 AM
1

By not being needy. Be a leader not a follower and do your own things. Its not about having big muscles and looking manly but your internal compass. If you’re confident enough, you won’t try to get them to like you and do things on your term. That communicates a strong man. Personally, I feel as I possess all these things, it just needs coaxing out of me. Higher the esteem mine is the 10x easier this comes because I don’t care and I know people like me for me.
/r/seduction07/08/22 05:39 PM
1

So do it you fucking retard no ones stopping you yet no one was talking to you. If you want to increase your sex appeal stop fucking masturbating and watching porn. It aint rocket science kid.
/r/seduction07/08/22 05:34 PM
8

😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
/r/seduction06/08/22 02:40 PM
0

Why, are girls like some princesses who are untouchable and cant be spoken to?
/r/seduction06/08/22 05:13 AM
2

Facts id just leave it alone lol. But if you really want the lay and you’re feening for it just go for it.
/r/seduction06/08/22 05:12 AM
2

Go with your gut. If you really dont care and wanna try and get a lay do it.
/r/seduction06/08/22 05:11 AM
2

Theyre people like us
/r/seduction05/08/22 11:59 PM
2

Needy. Start working on yourself. Self care and feel your emotions stop masturbating are my biggest tips. Work on your self esteem as well and social confidence if you can
/r/seduction05/08/22 07:25 PM
8

Exactly. Its called not being needy but its easier said than done. Personal works required
/r/seduction05/08/22 05:21 PM
2

Having your own frame boys. Why do you think men come on here fix a little bit of their seduction cold approach and get laid while you’re called a weirdo. Because they have a little bit of self esteem/sense of self and character and they’re able to carry themselves well. That’s what it comes down to. So stop bsing and learn about yourself and start liking you. Thank you. - Jay.
/r/seduction05/08/22 05:20 PM
1

Just say to have fun or watch a movie or some shit. Doesnt have to be so serious. If she declines she declines but if you sound confident and homecoming its okay
/r/seduction03/08/22 12:56 AM
2

Me too
/r/seduction30/07/22 02:56 PM
5

I mean its literally just to get her number lol. Dont gotta play it safe all the time thats probably your problem
/r/seduction29/07/22 12:30 AM
2

Not funny dude
/r/seduction28/07/22 05:54 PM
1

No one said every time every day. There is times i want to chill or im busy. There are times i will pickup. Its called balance and authenticity. Women dont really give a fuck as long as they find you attractive meaning you arent needy so just stop. So im going to say this again. All this stay mysterious stuff and shit youre doing does not work. Thats suppose to come naturally and that comes by working on yourself, raising your esteem and becoming a better man. How do I know? Because I was in you…
/r/seduction28/07/22 12:17 PM
1

Ur retarded. Shut the fuck up
/r/seduction28/07/22 02:25 AM
1

Never is. You start off talking. Not “friends”
/r/seduction27/07/22 11:12 PM
1

?
/r/seduction27/07/22 04:16 PM
1

Such a weird post. Just be yourself and stop trying to understand them
/r/seduction27/07/22 03:17 PM
1

You sound like a dumbass dawg lol. Please just find yourself, know yourself and stop taking these advices like they work. You’re being sold a reality. If ur truly busy that will show. Stop fucking faking it
/r/seduction27/07/22 02:49 PM
1

U didnt do nothing wrong bro lol. Dont know whats wrong with these people
/r/seduction27/07/22 02:48 PM
1

Hes not pressing you hes actually telling you the truth. Take his fucking advice lol before you waste more of your life and time on this bullshit
/r/seduction27/07/22 02:47 PM
1

Son lol. Fuck every comment in here good or bad. The first thing you need to do is drop that “let me make myself seem as a busy individual” bullshit you get from other redditors and dating advice. It does not work. And you’re making yourself look like a fool. It also fucks up the attraction because you’re doing inauthentic ordinary stuff which can just make the girl seem unwated. You get it now? I feel like you have an undelying problem. Which is why you’re overcompensating for these actions. I …
/r/seduction27/07/22 02:45 PM
1

Literally just commented this haha. Wow
/r/seduction26/07/22 10:24 PM
1

I feel like these guides are for people who have like little to no social experience in there life whatsoever so they need to learn the gist of things. If you’re a regular person, you dont need this bullshit. In fact it’ll actually mess you up.
/r/seduction26/07/22 10:24 PM
3

Reddit be weird sometimed
/r/seduction25/07/22 07:54 AM
3

Facts. Why do i have to be attracted to u to treat u like a normal person. Thats where all this reddit and self help shit fucks u up
/r/seduction25/07/22 07:54 AM
-9

Sounds like a u problem
/r/seduction25/07/22 07:53 AM
1

Normal
/r/seduction25/07/22 07:53 AM
6

You’re a clown kid. Now you look stupid. Have a good one pussy
/r/seduction25/07/22 05:47 AM
2

This guys a dumbass
/r/seduction25/07/22 05:46 AM
1

U sound like a girl saying lets have sex but if anything happens it aint my fault
/r/seduction25/07/22 05:46 AM
2

Exactly what the fuck is wrong with this guy lmaoo. I think girls give head to the wrong guys
/r/seduction25/07/22 05:46 AM
2

No shit u retard
/r/seduction25/07/22 05:43 AM
3

Because ur a weirdo lol. She told you that you’re demanding and u didnt care. She likes you enough to at least say lets get even but you were an asshole about it. No shit shes going to reject you. You’re thirsty for sex and you dont respect her. The fuck you thought was gonna happen sir? Shit aint rocket science, have some respect
/r/seduction25/07/22 05:42 AM
2

I feel like if i call a girl cute shes more likely my type and i want her
/r/seduction24/07/22 12:15 PM
1

Run
/r/seduction24/07/22 01:11 AM
1

Fuckidy fuck
/r/seduction24/07/22 12:37 AM
3

Cute is sexy in a way but not overly. Id fuck a girl whos cute
/r/seduction23/07/22 02:06 PM
1

They like to indirectly hint thinks so there body language and tonality is a green light.
/r/seduction23/07/22 07:32 AM
1

Also pay attention to how girls say things and there body language. If you’re a noobie you wanna watch these things or just keep em in mind like her tonality. Watch movies as well and see how girls flirt with guys and how they handle it. Usually I feel like if you’re comfortable with yourself, everything goes fine
/r/seduction23/07/22 07:31 AM
1

Makes sense lol
/r/seduction22/07/22 06:36 PM
1

2-4 days is a very long time lol. Might lose interest by then
/r/seduction22/07/22 06:36 PM
1

2-4 days is a very long time lol. Might lose interest by then
/r/seduction22/07/22 06:35 PM
1

Drugs to do something externally like this aint a good idea imo. I think you should take this up with a therapist on why you feel the way you do when pursuing such events. If that doesnt work go ahead. Or you can even ask yourself why
/r/seduction22/07/22 03:13 PM
1

I think this guys just slow and wants a direct answer lmfao
/r/seduction22/07/22 02:54 PM
1

Brother please listen to the advice at hand lol
/r/seduction22/07/22 02:53 PM
1

No sir. Get vulnerable embrace your fears and anxiety and/or address it to someone. Theyr ejust fears and emotions
/r/seduction22/07/22 02:53 PM
1

Okay those are defensive mechanisms you should check out and can cause like no intimacy or future opportunities. Up to u. Just go over what happened in the past like a glimpse
/r/seduction22/07/22 02:53 PM
1

Flirting + she likes you just base off the topic of this post. Embrace your nervousness you’re a good guy
/r/seduction22/07/22 02:52 PM
1

I think you’re just very worried about how you come off to others instead of what you think of yourself. Men should be coming abundantly to you or I hope so. So why worry. If anything you can ask.
/r/seduction22/07/22 05:51 AM
0

😂 wow.
/r/seduction22/07/22 05:47 AM
1

Youre thinking too hard
/r/seduction22/07/22 05:47 AM
2

Whatever feels right to u. You just said he likes it when you moan so talking dirty should be a goer. Just try to get out your head
/r/seduction22/07/22 05:46 AM
2

Its hard sometimes bro but doing it is always better than regrett trust meeee a million times. More you develop self confidence in yourself though by trusting yourself or even just building self esteem easier all this gets
/r/seduction21/07/22 11:19 PM
2

Probably just thought you were a loser no offense because you didnt make a move. Next time if you’re feeling it just go walk up. Could be daunting but you know now
/r/seduction21/07/22 03:58 PM
1

I just wouldnt
/r/seduction20/07/22 11:47 PM
2

Oh ya ur an L lol
/r/seduction20/07/22 11:47 PM
1

Who here is complaining about low self esteem? Be a man and go handle that shit. Get help, seek therapy or find a book that talks about low self esteem. Only one stopping yourself is you, only u know what you need.
/r/seduction20/07/22 11:46 PM
2

You probably get friendzoned all the time because your self confidence. You also said you’ve been with bad women. Maybe you should start valuing yourself and see how good you are and then everything will come into place. It aint all about your physique and shit. A girl is attracted to how you feel about yourself as a whole. Other words your self esteem
/r/seduction20/07/22 03:28 AM
2

Facttsss lol. Again if you dont wanna do something dont do it. If not go ahead. Its whats “simpy” to u not other people
/r/seduction20/07/22 02:07 AM
8

Facts
/r/seduction20/07/22 02:07 AM
1

If you dont wanna do it dont do it. If u say yes to something u dont wanna do then its simpy
/r/seduction20/07/22 02:06 AM
2

Big facts lol. Girls dont even care about your bodies like that i mean its cool but if you arent confident then good luck. Id say internal shit comes first then the external stuff
/r/seduction19/07/22 02:19 PM
1

That is just bullshit lol because you can be decent looking and still have a good frame that people would like to come into. Ive seen it before
/r/seduction19/07/22 02:18 PM
1

Just try to drop your weight and see why girls arent approving of you. Just because you approach girls doesnt mean youre gonna get em and i see that you know that now, maybe you appear too needy or just dont seem like a good fit, regardless u know cause im not u so play around with it and see what you can improve on internally. Maybe u just dont give off a good vibe that lets girls know you’re good enough or some shit i dont know. But trying to become perfect and putting off years is stupid and …
/r/seduction19/07/22 02:17 PM
1

U probably cummed your pants
/r/seduction18/07/22 03:03 AM
1

Ur nervous and not comfortable with yourself
/r/seduction15/07/22 09:02 PM
1

Sounds like if they arent doing that then you theres no sexual desire and you havent really been doing anything to be the catch. Someone said you want it too bad and that might be true. If i were you id just forget about it and let it come. Start doing other shit and stop caring. Then she’ll come around
/r/seduction14/07/22 12:24 AM
1

Yea especially to simps. Some try to pull it and abuse it outta no where if you act/look weak
/r/seduction12/07/22 04:04 PM
1

I dont even understand this post. Just stop trying so hard
/r/seduction12/07/22 04:04 PM
2

Son it can simply be your energy.
/r/seduction11/07/22 01:35 AM
1

The only alrernative to your argument is if she isnt my partner why give a fuck in the first place. Just find different people. But thats different from this situation at hand so its almost like you’re jumping to a conclusion lol. In this case, hes feeling annoyed about why someone is treating him such a disrespectful way. There is nothing wrong with asking why and standing up for what you feel
/r/seduction10/07/22 08:54 PM
2

I dont know. Its about your energy and how u say things not what you say brotha.
/r/seduction10/07/22 08:51 PM
0

Why does she have to be considered a “partner” to be mutually respected lmfao. This is a basic lack of respect due to one not standing up for himself. Its common human shit, not ego.
/r/seduction10/07/22 08:50 PM
5

Your dimenear . Most likely how you come across to these girls. Try to be outcome independent and less nice if you are. Nice guys finish last
/r/seduction10/07/22 08:24 PM
0

Its not ego its just how youre putting it lmfao
/r/seduction10/07/22 08:22 PM
1

Confrontation doesnt mean getting mad. You can simply say why dont you answer my texts when im talking to u, etc. you’re already putting her on a pedestal by not saying anything cause if it was your homie you def wouldve said something. Nothings wrong with talking about how you feel, it shows confidence and assertiveness. Especially if its for something important, thats definitely something to confront someone about. I suggest you to 1. Start speaking up for how you feel and lean into that. Itd …
/r/seduction10/07/22 08:19 PM
1

You dont need to entertain them though. If she likes you enough and finds you attractive enough, on that date she’ll go out if shes still interested. Trying to “entertain” her mid way could only fuck up the attraction
/r/seduction10/07/22 08:11 PM
1

Just feel like this is too needy lol. You shouldnt need or try to win over a womans approval like this unless you believe u arent good enough
/r/seduction10/07/22 08:10 PM
1

No. Just message her when you’re about to go out on that day and if shes interested go if not keep it pushing find diff women
/r/seduction10/07/22 08:09 PM
3

Yeah probably bro. I really feel like its how you say things rather than what you say. Everyone reacts different based off tonality and how you feel about yourself
/r/seduction09/07/22 07:43 AM
3

I think if you come out more confident she’ll be more receptive. If you did and you didnt make it seem creepy and she said “thats weird” then its a her problem especially since shes “shy”
/r/seduction09/07/22 07:40 AM
7

Probably how you said it.
/r/seduction09/07/22 07:40 AM
1

Probably just your confidence and no shame bro. Thats usually what it is
/r/seduction07/07/22 05:11 PM
1

Both are on the same wheel. Sounds like a you problem more than them
/r/seduction07/07/22 05:09 PM
1

Well your idealogy’s arent good. Maybe you just arent women’s type brotha
/r/seduction07/07/22 01:17 AM
1

Why have you never been with girls. Answer that and move on. If countless women has told you that no one will be attracted to you be actually honest with yourself and watch your behaviour around people. I suggest you follow Robert Glover. Perfect place to actually start attracting women authentically along with mark manson. Good luck
/r/seduction07/07/22 01:16 AM
1

Was going to comment this. Work on your sexual appeal. I dont give a shit how many times u approach, approaching girls doesnt mean youre going to get them just because someone else is. If you appear needy or odd the girl isnt going to fuck with u end of story. Same principles apply.
/r/seduction06/07/22 10:04 PM
1

None. Impressing them doesnt work learn this while youre young. Instead be the catch. Lead your own life and be proud of yourself and be the man you wanna be. Then theyll come
/r/seduction06/07/22 02:07 PM
1

Why are u playing with her feelings just find a new girl
/r/seduction05/07/22 07:42 PM
2

But to have a “frustrating trauma”, you would’ve been going through something beforehand cause whos really going to go through a “frustrating trauma” because they cant get women. It could’ve been childhood experiences or mental illness
/r/seduction05/07/22 01:47 PM
2

Yea bro. Its tough though if you grew up in a dysfunctional home especially im pretty sure thats what causes the asshole/super nice guy shit. Because its the shame of you not being allowed to be who you are and sometimes it creates a lot of emotions in us where we feel we dont even wanna be seen as we are. Thats where the asshole shit comes into place because people feel they need to be bigger than they are, but theyre still pussies
/r/seduction04/07/22 07:28 PM
2

😂
/r/seduction04/07/22 07:26 PM
2

My bad bro, nah. I think reddit just confuses nice guy nice guy with actual being good person but nah that aint it. A nice guy is just someones whos needy, we apply that label to them because they’re literal nice people who are passive and don’t really do anything. Its just like alpha and beta, they’re just labels we use. Im pretty sure everyone knows about these labels, some people misuse them on reddit but yea
/r/seduction04/07/22 05:59 PM
1

Son. Stop taking shit out of context with your 0-100 all or nothing thinking. Nice guy means a guy who is scared of conflict, uses manipulation and isn’t comfortable with who he is. A nice guy and a good guy are two different things. A bad boy isnt an asshole. A bad boy is a guy whos integrated with himself and isnt scared to rock the boat. You aint always right, so stop acting like it.
/r/seduction04/07/22 05:52 PM
62

Its common sense. Fuck social media its bullshit. You guys are asleep
/r/seduction04/07/22 04:14 PM
49

Real nigga
/r/seduction04/07/22 04:13 PM
1

I dont agree with a lot of women dont date players either. Women dont like nice guys. The “players” are so called the bad boys or you can say actual men
/r/seduction04/07/22 04:03 PM
1

If you say so lol. I dont mean bad bad stress. I mean that its fun that someone can finally create some emotions within me. Dont take it so literal. I believe girls are always going to love being put on a emotional rollarcoaster because it shows a guy isnt boring.
/r/seduction04/07/22 04:01 PM
2

Cause theyre lying. They probably dont like getting their heart broken and the stress but they love the emotional turmoil. Shit they probably love the stress. Because everyones so nice sometimes including me but it is what it is
/r/seduction04/07/22 01:03 PM
3

Confront her about what. Move on and do your thing focus on your career. Find girls outside of your roomates to hang with lol. Listen. You gotta realize something important here. Its going to take a while but you are > valuable <. So why let someones bad opinion of you overtake you. Fuck them. You’re special to many people and yourself so do your own thing and fuck the people hating. In turn thatd probably bring their dumbass back too
/r/seduction01/07/22 08:20 PM
1

Because they are attractive to girls. Figure out the spell
/r/seduction29/06/22 11:50 PM
1

😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
/r/seduction28/06/22 07:41 PM
9

Lets go boy
/r/seduction26/06/22 06:58 PM
3

Shes into u brothaaa. She did it later
/r/seduction26/06/22 06:57 PM
1

Good profile you clown
/r/seduction26/06/22 03:28 PM
1

Its not like hes going to move on and these problems are just not going to repeat themselves lol. Hell if he’ll even get into a new relationship.
/r/seduction26/06/22 11:22 AM
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Okay but bro thats a whole different situation than this. The relationship means something to this guy. It’d be helpful here to actually just give her space and take some time to fix whatever his problem is. In this case, he isn’t getting sex because hes being clingy, buying her gifts and is basically playing a role where if he doesnt do something he’ll be “abandoned”. 2 different situations. It’s either work on yourself and save your relationship that you so hold dear or find a new girl and rep…
/r/seduction26/06/22 11:21 AM
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No one even said that you retarded fuck 😂 get your head straight dawg.
/r/seduction26/06/22 11:02 AM
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Nah man. I think you’re thinking like this > If I dont work for approval, someone will leave me or my significant other will leave me. Try to see if that connects with anything in childhood. Then reverse it. Do behavioural experiments little by little and see if anything bad happens. Your problem is not unusual, its just these things are deep in childhood. She loves you bro. I mean you got her after all. That shows you’re good enough and lovable. You had sex with her. You dont need to do anythin…
/r/seduction26/06/22 10:52 AM
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You gotta realize its his fault not hers. Problem is that he needs to become a better man
/r/seduction26/06/22 10:50 AM
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Op please dont listen to this shit. This guy has no clue what hes talking about, really one dimensional all or nothing thinking
/r/seduction26/06/22 10:49 AM
2

Well. This is a cognitive distortion, you’re mind reading basically saying you can read her mind based off her actions when you could be totally wrong. Just ask her how she feels. A step you could take bro is to remember that you are good enough for her. You do not need to overly value her, test this out a bit and see what happens. Try to prove yourself wrong that she wont leave if you stop pedestalizing her. Read my comment about the abandonment thing too and see if you relate. Do the practice,…
/r/seduction26/06/22 10:44 AM
1

Defintatly! Shed be happy if you improved on yourself and become a better man I think thats her wish. Would make her happy
/r/seduction26/06/22 10:38 AM
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Nah dont do any of that, just chill. Work on your clinginess and becoming a better man. Just ask why you do these things and try to get help on it. Why do you buy her presents every week. Is it because you’re afraid you might lose her? Why do you become clingy? Is it the same reason? These are called abandonment issues/wounds that happen in childhood. It could be a number of reasons of clinginess like do you get clingy so she can validate you and make you feel good? You can take these problems u…
/r/seduction26/06/22 10:32 AM
1

U said u dont care about the commitment hes addressing to different types of women, so why comment
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/22 08:57 AM
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So then why the fuck are u commenting
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/22 08:14 AM
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Nah he got u
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/22 07:53 AM
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Aint nobody being racist, im black you clown. Black people are known for having more dysfunction in there families, you see that shit everywhere. If you cant attract your love of your life thats you problem lol maybe dress better
/r/seduction26/06/22 05:11 AM
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Shes definitely not because looks aren’t everything and looks dont = self esteem. Also why the fuck would someone make this thread just to bullshit. If she really had the validation she wouldnt need it or be here
/r/seduction26/06/22 05:09 AM
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Thats not true. I just think some black girls are just too hostile or whatever and have low self esteem. Therefore they push out any good that tries to come in and in turn attract what they are. Thats literally how I see it due to all the broken families we’ve been in.
/r/seduction26/06/22 05:08 AM
1

Yeah
/r/seduction26/06/22 03:36 AM
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And everything is hard at first. I was scared shitless when I first started talking to people. Kept doing it, everythings more manageable now and Im a bit more comfortable. Start liking yourself too
/r/seduction26/06/22 02:37 AM
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I mean, try it out for once and see how it goes and keep going if you like it
/r/seduction26/06/22 02:14 AM
2

Why do you need social proof to be “good enough”.
/r/seduction26/06/22 01:52 AM
1

Unless she shows high interest dont gaf
/r/seduction25/06/22 11:19 AM
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I mean honestly they do this if they dont like you so boost attraction its gonna happen regardless though. Try to improve your persona and approaches
/r/seduction25/06/22 09:47 AM
2

You ignore them
/r/seduction25/06/22 09:36 AM
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If you’ve been fucking girls you don’t like, i mean yeah. Who would feel good after fucking a girl they have 0 interest in?
/r/seduction25/06/22 08:44 AM
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Tip. Be outcome independent stop worrying and literally just be you. Watch how people join in on conversation and be attracted or delighted by you
/r/seduction25/06/22 12:48 AM
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Just be you. Women are attractive to men who like themselves. When you’re u and you can vibe on your own you can attract anyone. Even girls. Even hot girls. A hot girl isnt special, shes just sexy
/r/seduction25/06/22 12:41 AM
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Yea this is facts. Gotta get colder off this. College experience just to fuck people, u can level up
/r/seduction24/06/22 10:14 PM
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I dont think getting intoxicated is the way. I think you should speak about this with a friend you trust. Your feelings are acceptable and you have every fucking right to feel the way you do, i feel for you. Its kind of bullshit but nevermind her, just keep doing you. Your opinion about yourself is the highest, fuck her. Shes going to be nervous or awkward when shes there as well, not just you
/r/seduction24/06/22 10:11 PM
1

So breakup
/r/seduction24/06/22 03:40 AM
1

Lol
/r/seduction24/06/22 01:28 AM
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Right, its just an idea they perpetuate
/r/seduction24/06/22 01:26 AM
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Ahh, yea I meant like relating to the context of this thread. All good though
/r/seduction24/06/22 01:25 AM
1

I mean yea its like youre trying to takeover the other persons life lol
/r/seduction24/06/22 01:08 AM
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I feel you. Doesnt sound like a good idea either
/r/seduction24/06/22 12:54 AM
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Yea. Op really needs to develop some self respect and boundaries for herself. Why are you even trying to seduce someone who has a girlfriend lol thats so fucking weird. Just move on, find someone else. Just says toxicity to me
/r/seduction24/06/22 12:13 AM
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Yea. I think Op is chasing too hard by the sound of that. I find it weird as well. I mean. You’ve known this guy for how long, he has a partner and you’re still sitting around on top of that trying to push to still be with him after he has a partner. I think op needs to move on with her life and let him be him.
/r/seduction23/06/22 11:44 PM
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I mean, why arent you having a proper conversation? Are you not initiating or is he not reciprocating? Theres signs in both of these
/r/seduction23/06/22 10:47 PM
3

So then every man has a significant other too? Or are women too special or in the hate book
/r/seduction23/06/22 09:49 PM
1

?
/r/seduction23/06/22 09:48 PM
1

Lol ok 👍🏼 whatever floats your boat
/r/seduction23/06/22 07:56 PM
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I mean who says that lol? Not every girl does that shit anyways.
/r/seduction23/06/22 11:47 AM
1

Thats what u think
/r/seduction23/06/22 11:46 AM
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Welcome bro
/r/seduction23/06/22 11:44 AM
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I mean. Its not that bad bro, lol. First of all. Good thing you realized how wrong you were and the badness of what you’ve been doing. Thats how change starts so props to you. But secondly, you’re being way to hard on yourself. Relax. As silly as I hate fucking saying this because I say this too myself every fucking time cause im a fucking victim lol. We are not perfect. You are not perfect. Who gives a fuck. You’re 19, you live and you learn. Now you know not to tie your worth to sex or externa…
/r/seduction23/06/22 11:40 AM
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Up to you bro. Pretty much laid it out for you but you’re here asking if you should reject this person or not
/r/seduction23/06/22 11:00 AM
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Anytime
/r/seduction23/06/22 10:43 AM
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Yup, these are subtle cues my man. No ones just gonna disrespect you to your face but they’ll behave in a way that they think is acceptable to you. So you need to start standing up for yourself or distancing from people that dont treat you as enough
/r/seduction23/06/22 10:12 AM
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No problem man. I feel like checking friends is definitely a way to stop them from treating you a way you don’t like if you ever wanna be around them still. But definitely #1 tip i could give you is start putting yourself first and respecting you. You’ll take peoples shit less and want more for yourself
/r/seduction23/06/22 10:10 AM
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Lol. Gotta be crazy to just do that dumb shit outta no where. I dont think everythings a test my guy. Were you approval seeking or being needy? Were you just not interesting? Were you dragging the conversation on to make her feel better or for whatever reason? Could be anything. Sometimes theres just nothing to say or even type out because you’ve responded in your head and dont got nothing to prove to the other person. Just leave it alone. Regardless of the shit test or not, she ignored you dude…
/r/seduction23/06/22 10:02 AM
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I feel like people mirror off what you give them as well. Cause I mean dude, if you’re going to be scared to reject someone and they’re treating you like shit, theyre going to keep doing it because youre staying around for it, just showing off what you accept.
/r/seduction23/06/22 09:58 AM
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Yeah. Even off the part where you said the person was fake. I would distance myself because i dont want to be around that. It’s trusting your intuition, nothings wrong with rejecting people you don’t feel meet your needs or wanting better for yourself. Seems like this person didnt value you as a friend that much either seeing her lack of respect for you. Just move on. Honestly rejection hurts. Its hard to move on or away especially if its someone you’ve been friends with a long time. If anything…
/r/seduction23/06/22 09:47 AM
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Yeah, you did. Shows this person isnt enough for you and doesnt fit your standards
/r/seduction23/06/22 07:51 AM
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Hell yeah dude wtf. Why are you asking us this though? You have all the reasons in the world to reject this person, if you feel someone isn’t good enough for you thats okay you can reject them. You dont gotta like everyone. You got standards too forget if someone isnt on the same level as you
/r/seduction23/06/22 07:50 AM
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Just be a man and say no. Her emotions are not your responsibility, no ones is. What’s going to happen if you say a straight up no? Go down deeper and further and ask yourself this. The thoughts that may come up are mostly untrue and/or illogical. If someone wants to disapprove of you thats their problem, but you’re the man you do what you want. Easier said than done but thats pretty much the baseline of what you should go for especially in dating. Who cares what people think
/r/seduction23/06/22 07:37 AM
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I feel like i was in that same boat not too long ago. Im 20. Right now idgaf. Honestly i cant be available 24/7 for a girlfriend since I prefer to work on myself so ill just take whatever comes on the way. Im more important and so is my career. I feel like just focus on you, have fun and see what happens, i definitely feel you though
/r/seduction23/06/22 03:28 AM
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For looking to be in a long term relationship yes i agree
/r/seduction23/06/22 01:58 AM
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Never
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/22 01:57 AM
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Idk. Sounds like her problem. Maybe she doesnt actually wanna go on the date but doesnt want to hurt your feelings. Dont think you did anything wrong other then not being attractive to her or else she wouldnt ghost you, right? Just move on. Shes a waste of time. If she comes back dont be all happy, just deal with her, fuck and move on. Date other women
/r/seduction22/06/22 07:53 PM
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Yup. Its stupid. Everyones so soft now. Racism this racism that, shut the fuck up and use your brain and see that this guy is trying to explain something. Im pretty sure he said he wasnt trying to take shots either
/r/seduction22/06/22 07:41 PM
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Its almost like a society thing. Its like you can’t talk about this shit or you’re automatically “racist”. I remember one time coming out of middle school around freshman of high school and not giving a fuck about society like every other kid we just spoke our own opinion about races in a non threatening speech like here until we were called “racist”.
/r/seduction22/06/22 03:50 AM
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Nah i get what ops saying hes just being honest, fuck that. Has nothing to do with racism i see no hate speech lol what
/r/seduction21/06/22 11:36 PM
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Different self esteems, different cultures
/r/seduction21/06/22 11:36 PM
1

Y dont yall ever be assertive and escalate it to the bedroom? Why is it always making out
/r/seduction21/06/22 12:37 PM
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I meant in the context of who cares if you’re short and full of yourself, that shouldnt matter
/r/seduction21/06/22 05:09 AM
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Real shit lol like what
/r/seduction21/06/22 04:36 AM
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Its weird asf. Who cares if youre short. Ur still human
/r/seduction21/06/22 04:36 AM
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Why cant you be full of yourself being short who gives a fuck
/r/seduction21/06/22 04:36 AM
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Thats a core belief
/r/seduction21/06/22 02:34 AM
1

😂 nice
/r/seduction20/06/22 04:53 AM
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Facts
/r/seduction20/06/22 01:42 AM
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Pretty sure I literally said that in my comment.
/r/seduction19/06/22 09:06 PM
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Look at the emphasis the first guy put on looks. Im saying that it isnt as important as you think. Obviously you can’t look like a bum, and it does get you in the door. So work on it but stop putting so much emphasis on it like it’ll get you pussy
/r/seduction19/06/22 09:05 PM
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Dude, your looks dont matter that much, stop listening to this guy. Your looks get you in the door. Hitting the gym will help because it’ll add definition to your face and make you more attractive but its not needed. Whats important is how you feel about and your self esteem. A girl isn’t going to fuck you if you dont even deep down think you’re good enough. Along with financially being comfortable but that doesn’t stop you from dating. Your persona trumps your looks.
/r/seduction19/06/22 12:21 PM
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Like bro girls arent some special creatures if ur cool theyre gonna like u and that goes for anyone else. Just really value yourself and dont approval seek thats all i gotta say
/r/seduction19/06/22 11:22 AM
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Seriously lol. Dawg. I havent seriously been in the gym for awhile, im lean as fuck. I still manage to have a lot of girls flirt with me and be attracted because I simply have a idgaf dimenar or however u spell that word and I guess I have an okay face. Its about your confidence
/r/seduction19/06/22 11:21 AM
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Its manipulation. And you definitely can she just has to like you, really feel you and trust you. Takes an authentic person for that
/r/seduction19/06/22 10:49 AM
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Well brother you know what that means. Gotta get some new therapists! I am sure a good psychotherapist is highly effective. Someone who could actually go deep into childhood and provide help. One that specializes in self esteem. I have a book up posted on my page that helps self esteem and could help you if you’re into reading. Ill let you in on something though. You are what you attract. So if you believe that you actually aren’t a desirable person for other people well guess what thats going t…
/r/seduction19/06/22 10:40 AM
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I just feel like you’re facing some deep childhood trauma and need to talk to someone about it, or else you’ll never progress. Itll be the same shit even when you get women. You’re also making girls a main priority of your life. Its like a weird must have or im fucked. Thats a problem dude. Get some help
/r/seduction19/06/22 08:36 AM
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What are you even talking about? Of course you can date at 35, hell you can even do it at 40. A counsellor would be good to talk to here buddy. You are not fucked. You are in your head.
/r/seduction19/06/22 08:35 AM
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You probably get fear and anxiety because of your bad belief system. Otherwise why else would you be afraid of people? You mentioned trauma. Again, that is most likely childhood shit. Regardless you need to see a psychotherapist my dude. There is nothing wrong with thT
/r/seduction19/06/22 08:32 AM
2

Its nice. Cute
/r/seduction19/06/22 08:28 AM
0

Be outcome independant its exactly what he said
/r/seduction19/06/22 03:54 AM
2

Ya. Thats with anyone too
/r/seduction19/06/22 03:29 AM
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Yeah exactly. I think hes making a big deal out of it, which im most likely right
/r/seduction19/06/22 01:42 AM
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Yeah. I feel like he’s devaluing himself here. Think about it. The girl noticed him but “didn’t acknowledge his existent”. I mean to even make a note like that shows you care too much. Second of all you’re pedastalizing her. Who gives a fuck? You’re suppose to be the most valuable in your world. I wouldn’t give a fuck if someone didn’t “acknowledge” my existence, its screw them and move on.
/r/seduction19/06/22 01:41 AM
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Hmm. It sounds like some childhood shame here. Because those two words you’ve used has nothing to do with this situation. Its okay to be yourself. I think you need to stop caring what people think and do you. Good or bad. Because I’ve been like this but what really helps me is to not care about others approval and just value yourself. I feel like here you’re a bit too worried about her approval. You have your own right to be who you are and if someone has a problem well thats their problem. Im s…
/r/seduction19/06/22 01:38 AM
3

Ur dumb as hell bro.
/r/seduction19/06/22 12:36 AM
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You dont need none of that shit. You dont know what you’re talking about. If you’re really getting bitches like that share your results here.
/r/seduction19/06/22 12:25 AM
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Thats what i mean. Not being needy. Sounds like a personal problem though Ive had it where I dont want to expose myself or be too vulnerable and straight avoidance. Only leads to her thinking you don’t like her and was more of a insecurity thing to me.
/r/seduction18/06/22 11:43 PM
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For you to be a man. Which means being masculine, confident, handling shit and not needing her.
/r/seduction18/06/22 09:11 PM
3

Yea, this sub is weird this year
/r/seduction18/06/22 03:09 AM
1

😂😂
/r/seduction18/06/22 03:08 AM
1

Wtf lol.
/r/seduction18/06/22 02:41 AM
1

Seriously i really dont get it its kinda weird..
/r/seduction18/06/22 01:00 AM
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Idek how these guys get girls
/r/seduction17/06/22 10:54 PM
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My guy you escalate the situation by tuning into your actual instinct, waking the fuck up and hitting her up instead of second guessing urself running to reddit
/r/seduction17/06/22 10:54 PM
1

Exactly. Was gonna comment the same thing
/r/seduction17/06/22 03:43 PM
2

If u think about it that way. To me it sounds like shes testing you. You can either not care and play along/not give a shit and give a normal response or take it personally
/r/seduction17/06/22 06:12 AM
2

If shes very responsive its a tease. Just play along
/r/seduction17/06/22 05:53 AM
3

Tell me what you would do if there was no pressure
/r/seduction17/06/22 05:37 AM
10

Facts
/r/seduction17/06/22 05:14 AM
0

Well yea obv but ur problem here is people going ghost so figure out why if u care. Its about balance
/r/seduction17/06/22 04:47 AM
2

In real life
/r/seduction17/06/22 04:47 AM
0

Doing that will only make you seem boring but ur call
/r/seduction17/06/22 04:46 AM
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Well youre obviously doing something wrong if thats the case. We dont know what happened but try to spark up convo more and be interesting. Dont be needy either and stay confident
/r/seduction17/06/22 02:42 AM
1

Good advice
/r/seduction17/06/22 02:41 AM
2

Probably just wasnt feeling it, maybe not enough stimulation at that point shes just going on a date with some “random” guy
/r/seduction17/06/22 02:41 AM
1

Only thing i could say is make sure you aren’t needy
/r/seduction17/06/22 02:40 AM
1

Hard because she “rejoined” the team. Up to you. I probably wouldnt since youve only been working for a couple of weeks and this girls a oldie. Other than that id just say fuck it and go for it. Wouldnt matter if she rejected u anyways if u think shes hot
/r/seduction17/06/22 02:39 AM
3

Yea jus get the head and bounce
/r/seduction16/06/22 10:15 PM
2

Thats your opinion lol. You cant fake it forever and women know that. Also depends on what type of girls you’re around.
/r/seduction16/06/22 05:29 PM
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“Sends nudes. Im scared shes a hoe, i dont wanna get PLAYED”. Boy. How do u come into the dating scene thinking like this
/r/seduction16/06/22 08:51 AM
0

.
/r/seduction16/06/22 08:30 AM
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Nah this aint it. If a girl says shit like this she thinks shes above you. Only way for that to happen is if you give off pushover vibes. This shit is mad disrespectful lol what?
/r/seduction16/06/22 05:59 AM
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Sounds like youre a pushover
/r/seduction16/06/22 05:58 AM
1

What
/r/seduction16/06/22 05:57 AM
2

To fill his hole. Guy needs to find happiness within himself not externally
/r/seduction16/06/22 05:57 AM
1

Nope.
/r/seduction16/06/22 05:57 AM
1

You feel lonely because youre naturally empty inside and now youre looking for women to fill the hole. You need to find happiness within yourself. Seek help
/r/seduction16/06/22 05:56 AM
3

Irl.
/r/seduction16/06/22 05:55 AM
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Did you just call his comment bs when hes speaking purely facts lol? The fuck does your comment have to do with anything? My guy was spot on. It is the confidence and non neediness thats separate “thugs” from nice guys
/r/seduction16/06/22 05:55 AM
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Because they’re “bad”. They feel safe around them. What motherfucker is gonna try a thug LOL. Just be secure in yourself you dont need to become bad. Women just love and want security
/r/seduction16/06/22 05:54 AM
1

This is the biggest bullshit manipulation shit ive ever heard in my life. Stop trying to get people to like you. Its insecure
/r/seduction16/06/22 05:52 AM
2

You dont need to get rejected 100 times to become a “better man”, what is this bullshit? The fuck are you doing this for? If you want to become a better man, raise your self esteem and start developing a better opinion about yourself. If you’re trying to not be hurt after being rejected or some shit, stop taking it personal and figure out where those hurt feelings come from. I dont get this, but therapy is a good place to start. Its like going out to talk to 100 people for confidence. If you’re …
/r/seduction16/06/22 05:51 AM
2

General
/r/seduction16/06/22 05:48 AM
0

Yeah i mean it happens. I was like that honestly, tbh now i just dont give a fuck. Like you arent gonna sit here and tell me you’re going to fuck 100 bitches based off your physical appearance with no inner confidence when I know damn well that isnt going to happen.
/r/seduction16/06/22 04:57 AM
4

My guy. ARGUING in general is a waste of time unless its productive. If you know what you know to believe is true why the fuck are you arguing about it. Just be confident in yourself and stop having to prove shit
/r/seduction16/06/22 04:54 AM
1

Just ask her to hang out OP, seriously. Probably the best move u can make from my perspective
/r/seduction16/06/22 12:27 AM
1

^
/r/seduction16/06/22 12:26 AM
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She’ll give it up and you can tell when a girl is onto you or pretty sexually attracted to you. She’ll do things that she doesnt do with other guys. Pay attention to her body language and maybe her tonality
/r/seduction16/06/22 12:03 AM
1

Lol society has taught everyone to have amazing conversation skills like everyone else has that. Just a bullshit lie. Be you, connect, express. Your conversation skills dont have to be top fucking notch, do whatever feels right to you. Thats just another way of trying to “impress” someone. It doesnt work if it doesnt feel true to you.
/r/seduction15/06/22 05:58 PM
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^ this is why u focus on urself
/r/seduction15/06/22 05:56 PM
4

If your self esteem goes down after being rejected.. thats your problem. And youre kinda a fool for trying still. Just focus on you and everything will flow naturally. No need to chase women my guy. Hit the bar every once and awhile for fun, chasing girls is for lames
/r/seduction15/06/22 05:53 PM
1

This is why i focus on myself and let it come naturally. Always better that way. Not chasing women forcing myself to do all this bullshit. If you see a girl you like, holla at her. If not its back to working on you, dont let that go over your heads
/r/seduction15/06/22 05:51 PM
0

Yea basically. Different beliefs, you have a certain one in placed. Maybe its because you’re expecting them to like you and in turn you dont get what you want leading to feeling rejected
/r/seduction15/06/22 08:21 AM
3

I feel you bro
/r/seduction15/06/22 04:52 AM
2

Yea. I grew up with a lot of male friends and it kinda made up who I am.
/r/seduction15/06/22 02:25 AM
4

Yup spot on brother. Definitely easier said than done but definitely worth the effort.
/r/seduction15/06/22 12:44 AM
2

No problem brotha. Core beliefs are a real thing and should definitely be handled. The book is called “Healing your emotional self” by Beverely Engel. I have it posted on my page i guess I just hid the content and forgot or some shit lol but yeah. You’ll start learning to accept yourself the way you are, deal with your emotions in a healthy way which in turn raises your self esteem. Its basically shit that you would receive and do with yourself as if you grew up in a non dysfunctional family and…
/r/seduction15/06/22 12:41 AM
2

Yeah. I definitely feel you. That last part though is definitely limiting beliefs 100%. They make you act in a certain way, its probably weird for you cause you know better and you’re aware of it but you still cant act accordingly. So on the first part, basically. Dad left = something may be wrong with me or im the blame for my dads actions is what im getting at. It definitely hurts and its hard to get over. I can imagine theres a lot of tough feelings. I have a lot of the same shit, im sure mos…
/r/seduction14/06/22 11:21 PM
1

Yo. Try to figure out where that weird shit came from. Because im having a convo with you and you seem like a sick guy.
/r/seduction14/06/22 10:59 PM
9

😂😂😂 warzone omg
/r/seduction14/06/22 10:48 PM
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Working out, spending more time with men. Watching more masculine movies could help too, just manly shit lol even though that sounds so corny.
/r/seduction14/06/22 10:48 PM
1

What im saying is lol, is that your body is not going to get a bitch to fuck you unless its some type of hooker, which is why I said girls dont care about our bodies as much to an extent of what we think they do. Being physically attractive is cool, im all for it. The better you look the more girls you’ll attract, the more they’ll try to flirt with you. But that’s not the end all b all. Ultimately its how you feel about yourself. You can look like fucking the rock, but if you’re so passive and n…
/r/seduction14/06/22 10:09 PM
2

Do it bro! I want to say though, a lot of the shit said in the book thats useful is not only in the breaking free but the actual context itself Example In the beginning, he exposes our toxic shame and bad belief system. Yes the breaking free exercises are brilliant, but you actually need to go and heal that toxic shame. That requires a therapist or using therapy techniques, like another book I have mentioned on my page is good for that. Changing your belief system actually takes conscious work a…
/r/seduction14/06/22 09:54 PM
2

Hey man. If you don’t smoke cause that shit, dont smoke. You dont need to fit in with someone to be liked. The only thing you guys are going to have is things in common but thats not enough to fuck lol. I hate smoking. I can’t think and I feel so low vibration. Thats my value, and thats yours as well. Own that shit dude. You’re cool enough, you don’t gotta try fitting in lol, im sure that means nothing to girls anyways.
/r/seduction14/06/22 09:18 PM
2

I dont think body plays a big part brotha. Just gives you the looks. Still need to be confident and know yourself and express that energy. Girls don’t care as much to an extent we think they do about our bodies. Just look well shaped and groomed
/r/seduction14/06/22 09:14 PM
2

A lot of the things she’s mentioning comes with an internal self confidence. Its about being comfortable in your own skin. Then everything will flow out naturally, so what she’s saying is good. If you want to get more into this, reading a book called No More Mr Nice Guy by robert glover is good. Its about uncovering all the childhood messages so you can become more you and express you. Then everything flows out.
/r/seduction14/06/22 09:12 PM
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Hey man. Therapy is a good start. Actually, therapy is what you need here. First of all, there is nothing wrong with wanting a better sex life or bettering your sex life. I doubt anyone here thinks you’re a “horny loser”, you just need some guidance. Second of all don’t compare yourself to others, thats another good place to start because we all have our own story and comparing actually does more harm than good. I know exactly how you feel. The bullying shit definitely played apart in your confi…
/r/seduction14/06/22 09:07 PM
1

Yup only way bro. Youll feel better about yourself when you do take responsibility though. You sure you actually did everything in the book though? It talks about your belief systems and more. Generally when you take care of those things along with accepting yourself and building a bigger opinion about yourself, you shouldn’t be needy. You said you still masturbate and watch porn correct me if im wrong? That causes low self esteem. Low self esteem = neediness. Because you feel poorly about yours…
/r/seduction14/06/22 07:29 PM
1

Better watch your mouth you faggot lol. You’re definitely shitty with women. Dont @ me again lol pussy
/r/seduction13/06/22 08:45 PM
0

You play it cool cause you’re a bitch lol, whats going to happen? Those scenarios are just scenarios. The fuck has anything to do with attention on the second one? She probably brought it up because she didnt know if you saw it or not. Regular human shit. You dont have to get “excited”, its about making a connection.
/r/seduction13/06/22 08:44 PM
2

Playfulness = attraction
/r/seduction13/06/22 06:28 PM
3

Lol, you know nothing about girls bro. That playfulness is attraction. Wtf are you playing it cool for, you scared or something?
/r/seduction13/06/22 06:28 PM
4

Bro if a girl takes selfies on your phone she obviously likes you.
/r/seduction13/06/22 06:01 PM
1

Bro wdym she likes you. Never had someone like you before? Go make a move
/r/seduction13/06/22 06:01 PM
1

Its not about lines and what you say. Its about developing character and being yourself. The more intune you are with yourself, the less you’re gonna care about all this shit and trust yourself more. Thats what its about. Girls want a strong man not someone who can spit game, so id recommend you start working on yourself and respect yourself. Girls can feel it, everyone can. Its about being confident in you / self esteem
/r/seduction13/06/22 08:46 AM
1

You dont even have to use the line brotha just know what you want. Start building self esteem and attend to your needs
/r/seduction13/06/22 08:45 AM
1

Do it!
/r/seduction13/06/22 08:44 AM
2

What you shoulda done is after she said hey is say what’re you doing tonight or whatever with what you want done. Read no more mr nice guy by robert glover, best decision you’ll make from here.
/r/seduction13/06/22 07:32 AM
2

Yeah
/r/seduction13/06/22 07:30 AM
3

Dont do this
/r/seduction13/06/22 07:30 AM
1

Probably the cute text. Be a man and be assertive with what u want
/r/seduction13/06/22 07:29 AM
2

I feel like girls fuck on the first date if they like you. Cause why not whos tellin
/r/seduction13/06/22 07:16 AM
2

Whatt lol
/r/seduction13/06/22 07:16 AM
1

If you dont think its simp shit its not simp shit brotha. Dont care about others opinions its what you think and why you do it. I can go eat a bitchs pussy right now because I feel like it, doesnt mean im simping.
/r/seduction13/06/22 04:23 AM
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That guy who talked about the beliefs if the best answer you’ve gotten here. For neediness here’s my best advice. Read No more mr nice guy by robert glover. Raise your self esteem. Accept yourself for you and do not be harsh with yourself. Start looking for your needs and respecting yourself. Do a day or so doing those things and see how you feel. Talk to people. If you like the confidence keep going if not stop
/r/seduction13/06/22 04:17 AM
0

Tell her the last time i came in your mouth
/r/seduction13/06/22 02:11 AM
3

U should. Start doing it and get use to it
/r/seduction12/06/22 09:22 PM
2

Nah just be yourself thats the antidote and opposite to that. U just gotta stop caring
/r/seduction12/06/22 07:13 PM
1

😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
/r/seduction12/06/22 06:49 PM
2

😂😂😂😂😂 dude wants the answer like its gonna solve all his problems
/r/seduction12/06/22 06:48 PM
1

Just stop being nice and then you’ll find your answer
/r/seduction12/06/22 06:48 PM
0

Weird ass kid
/r/seduction12/06/22 02:05 AM
0

?
/r/seduction12/06/22 02:03 AM
1

You dont have to say the most astronomical shit to get a girl. Just have conversation
/r/seduction12/06/22 01:09 AM
0

It is something you learn. You can be 6’5, very athletic and a fucking lame lol, girls dont want a lame. Start being confident in you and stop making excuses. Anyone can do it.
/r/seduction12/06/22 01:08 AM
12

Do it! Dont regret not doing something
/r/seduction11/06/22 11:55 PM
1

That was the shittiest joke ive ever heard in my life
/r/seduction11/06/22 09:35 PM
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You sound like a bitch.
/r/seduction11/06/22 03:26 AM
1

Why the fuck would you be jealous. Be grateful and ask how he gets so many women and do the work yourself.
/r/seduction11/06/22 03:25 AM
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Who gives a fuck if he doesnt approach woman like that in public be your fucking self kid. Of course he goes quiet the fuck do u want him to do validate and be there for u? Its like ur whining trying to get him to do your problems for you. Stop comparing and focus on what you need to do. Why aren’t you getting girls son. Dont be a pussy
/r/seduction11/06/22 03:23 AM
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Lotta jealous weirdos in this chat. Nothing wrong with what she said, we should take it as advice
/r/seduction11/06/22 12:25 AM
0

You cant win.
/r/seduction10/06/22 06:34 PM
1

Her. You. Anything
/r/seduction10/06/22 05:14 PM
1

You said the plot lol. You literally said that you’ve been talking to this girl year long and never made a move, yet you wonder why women aren’t sexually interested into you. I dont watch todd v nor do I pay attention to pickup. Stop being a pussy and take some risks
/r/seduction10/06/22 03:43 AM
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Lol. That whole theory you just said shows you have no ground game and you arent grounded in yourself. Youre basically just waiting passively for the woman to make her move and swing when shes ready. Just like I said in the first comment. Youre afraid to take risks my dude. Once you put the ball back in your court and do what you wanna do its over. Thats why theres guys that are resistible like you and guys that are irresistible
/r/seduction10/06/22 03:23 AM
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Doesnt matter how good you are at flirting lol. Its why you flirt. Anyone could flirt. She can tell when you’re just trying to get her to like you and giving off friend vibes. That shit means nothing
/r/seduction10/06/22 03:21 AM
-1

Thats cap lol. Yes theres a million reasons WHY you could get sent off, does not mean OP did everything right. Youre still implying that oh I did everything right so she shouldnt ghost me but yet I get ghosted. Doesnt make sense at all lmfao.
/r/seduction10/06/22 03:20 AM
1

No cap lol.
/r/seduction10/06/22 03:18 AM
2

Only thing you can do is make yourself more attractive
/r/seduction10/06/22 03:18 AM
2

Your approach is better than all these other guys because youre there not needing something. These guys need these girls to hit them back, if they dont they in turn get salty.
/r/seduction10/06/22 03:17 AM
1

Real talk
/r/seduction10/06/22 03:16 AM
0

Because maybe she got it done or had someone else do it lol wtf? Dude. Youre being nice. She doesnt give a shit about you. Youre just another nice guy, sorry to sound harsh also not, but you need to face this dumb truth. You are SCARED to cross “boundaries” because you for some reason think all this girls job is to be nice. Youre basically scared to take risks but then youre wondering why youre not getting any pussy lol or why girls are on you like youre giving off the sexiest vibes. Youre a nic…
/r/seduction10/06/22 03:15 AM
0

How do you know youre doing things right. If she ghosts you, you obviously werent doing things right. Just your perception.
/r/seduction10/06/22 03:12 AM
2

I mean lol. If a girl just RANDOMLY stops talking and everything is going “smooth”, something must’ve went wrong. Right? I get what youre saying but think about it lol. Most likely just too overly invested into her and giving off friend vibes, thats all there is to it. Itd be different if you were not constantly texting and giving a idgaf vibe doing those things. All these little flirting things and shit doesnt matter unless you internally feel like the shit. She can sense it, doesnt matter how …
/r/seduction10/06/22 03:11 AM
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Maybe did, maybe too overly invested. We cant see the chat messages. Doesnt really matter how good you are at that stuff if you give off friend zone vibes lol. Even i could feel it. She probably did as well.
/r/seduction10/06/22 03:09 AM
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I feel you. Anytime i do that I feel like im trying to qualify myself for someone lol and it sucks. Just usually stop there and throw up whatever the fuck i like
/r/seduction09/06/22 11:45 PM
1

The ones that put you outside. Find your own game
/r/seduction09/06/22 03:15 PM
14

For body language and tonality, try to approve of yourself more and start looking after your needs if you arent already to feel and appear more confident. When we approval seek, we tend to shift our tonality and feel less confident in ourselves. You handled it nicely at the end, kinda pushed a bit after she said no though. Usually you wanna stop caring and just move on
/r/seduction09/06/22 01:44 AM
1

Love bro. Give the love you’re looking for to yourself.
/r/seduction09/06/22 01:42 AM
1

Give that to yourself.
/r/seduction09/06/22 01:29 AM
1

What does neediness mean to u
/r/seduction09/06/22 01:00 AM
1

Dope
/r/seduction08/06/22 10:05 PM
1

Mind to explain how youve been trying to reduce it?
/r/seduction08/06/22 09:15 PM
1

Read my comment
/r/seduction08/06/22 09:00 PM
1

I love wveryones pushing self esteem, 2022 is saved. Now we jus needa keep spreading the word
/r/seduction08/06/22 08:59 PM
2

Just commented this
/r/seduction08/06/22 08:59 PM
2

I mean. If hes good at escalating but “hes not smooth”, you tell me. That whole sentence didnt make sense. His chill vibes probably attract women because he doesnt spend time impressing them. Thats the only idea i can fish, other than that we’re all normal human beings hes nothing out of the ordinary. Obviously hes doing things differently than u. Everyone is different my guy. Doesnt matter what your personality is tbh, youre either approval seeking and trying to impress her or not. Thats all th…
/r/seduction08/06/22 08:56 PM
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“All the hoes who wont give me the time of the day”, sounds like you need to start giving yourself the time of the day dude.
/r/seduction03/06/22 09:14 PM
1

Then youre doing something wrong? Sounds like youre too needy especially if you give a fuck lol. Start valuing yourself then youll stop giving a fuck. Being nice doesnt work, aint nobody nice, youd do the same the more you stop giving a fuck
/r/seduction03/06/22 09:12 PM
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The hell is wrong with ignoring texts? Get over yourself dude, you have a problem. If someone doesnt want to talk to you Someone doesnt want to talk to you Stop bitching and move on
/r/seduction03/06/22 09:11 PM
1

Sad that its this way
/r/seduction03/06/22 08:37 PM
1

You really know something.
/r/seduction03/06/22 08:36 PM
1

Yessir. Its funny because i actually always had the feeling that id need to be successful and be living an absolute good life before i can even HAVE self esteem, before i could even prioritize it. More and more i see that belief is stupid and its really just about how you feel about yourself. Its good that people like you are woke to this bullshit, they really got us sold on a hook but with time more men will realize that it just starts with you. All this bad boy shit you read on the internet ju…
/r/seduction03/06/22 08:02 PM
0

Yup. $1000 lol can you imagine. Just to say some bullshit lol. Aint nothing works better than being secure in yourself, anyone could do that.
/r/seduction03/06/22 07:59 PM
1

Destroys your self esteem because you probably believe youre worthless inside. Start looking at your childhood and build your self esteem. Thats if you want a better life. Up to u
/r/seduction03/06/22 06:41 PM
4

Everywhere? Walk up to one because you feel like it. Talk to one in here because you feel like it. Socialize with people because youre good enough
/r/seduction03/06/22 06:38 PM
0

Lmfao
/r/seduction03/06/22 06:37 PM
3

Some dating advices bullshit coaches give lol. I was in this kids shoes, shits ridiculous and does not work. Be your fucking self and stop caring, the real world does not work like this.
/r/seduction03/06/22 06:37 PM
1

One day youll learn g
/r/seduction03/06/22 06:36 PM
9

And thats the problem with us men lol because we already think we’re not good enough we just fuck it up anyways trying to do more. Crazy how that works
/r/seduction03/06/22 06:35 PM
2

❤️ You know its right when a girl says it.
/r/seduction03/06/22 06:35 PM
10

Yeah. You see these dating coaches its the same thing. Like they know the recipe they just want to keep you on a leash and keep releasing more content about this and that when literally all the shit is internal. All of us are different but the girl feels the same thing. A strong man. Thats internal shit. Thats your own self esteem and self confidence. I wish more men talked about it these days then theyre always complaining why everyones so weak. Its cause this shit right here
/r/seduction03/06/22 06:34 PM
4

Has everything to do with that. Could be some toxic shame. Get help, itll be the best thing you do. Dont wait too long
/r/seduction03/06/22 06:32 PM
1

Ohh
/r/seduction06/05/22 03:35 AM
7

Im bouta steal his name 😂😂😭😭😭😭😭
/r/seduction06/05/22 01:45 AM
1

Idk if that last line is good my boy. You just met her. Youre already getting attached and needy. Hang out with her next time and play it cool. Fuck the friend shit. Do that in your mind and relax and just watch her come to you. You build sexual tension by being yourself and not being needy, and by being you i mean having your own frame and doing whatever the fuck you want.
/r/seduction06/05/22 12:17 AM
1

Idk if that last line is good my boy. You just met her. Youre already getting attached and needy. Hang out with her next time and play it cool. Fuck the friend shit. Do that in your mind and relax and just watch her come to you. You build sexual tension by being yourself and not being needy, and by being you i mean having your own frame and doing whatever the fuck you want.
/r/seduction06/05/22 12:17 AM
1

Idk if that last line is good my boy. You just met her. Youre already getting attached and needy. Hang out with her next time and play it cool. Fuck the friend shit. Do that in your mind and relax and just watch her come to you. You build sexual tension by being yourself and not being needy, and by being you i mean having your own frame and doing whatever the fuck you want.
/r/seduction06/05/22 12:17 AM
1

Idk if that last line is good my boy. You just met her. Youre already getting attached and needy. Hang out with her next time and play it cool. Fuck the friend shit. Do that in your mind and relax and just watch her come to you. You build sexual tension by being yourself and not being needy, and by being you i mean having your own frame and doing whatever the fuck you want.
/r/seduction06/05/22 12:17 AM
1

Sonn just do what u wanna do xD
/r/seduction06/05/22 12:09 AM
1

By being yourself? I know you know how my dude. Just go out there and try it and watch your own unique sauce flourish. I know that sounds corny but if you’re asking someone how to flirt you must be very dull and I know you arent very dull. Go out and do it and then fix any mistakes you make. Enjoy the process
/r/seduction06/05/22 12:08 AM
-2

Men in syria arent as attractive. Think about it lol, you’re coming from the usa. Any foreign girl would want a man from there
/r/seduction06/05/22 12:07 AM
3

Hes just nervous
/r/seduction05/05/22 09:22 PM
4

Strategies.. if i were you id just say fuck it and go in. Make sure youre not scared of the other guy. Other than that I think this is a whole bunch of bs that doesnt matter. Just go in and talk to her and set something up. If a girl is into me how you’re mentioning, I wouldn’t care if she had a boyfriend, because clearly she doesnt. Am i right?
/r/seduction05/05/22 08:09 PM
1

To fuck
/r/seduction05/05/22 07:53 PM
2

^
/r/seduction05/05/22 07:51 PM
3

Ur last comment was funny as shit lol
/r/seduction05/05/22 07:51 PM
2

I remember getting out of my comfort zone for the first time socially lol. Legit couldnt do it was scared as shit. Just dropped it stopped giving a fuck and a few months later i just do it on a regular basis now. People are just people. I feel like its a self perception thing especially if you come from thinking people are better than you lol like no.
/r/seduction05/05/22 07:50 PM
4

You know stuff bro. Currently in the process of this. On paper it sounds scary as shit but once you practice self esteem and practice doing the shit you mentioned its really all not that scary. Just some anxiety but you deal with it and then its a constant effect of stepping outside your comfort zone. Its like your set for life once you’re able to trust your abilities and developed courage
/r/seduction05/05/22 07:48 PM
3

Wym lol just talk to her dude. What are we cats? Animals? Women?
/r/seduction05/05/22 07:43 PM
2

Approach
/r/seduction05/05/22 07:43 PM
55

Youre a grown man bro fuck what ur parents say
/r/seduction05/05/22 07:40 PM
61

Nah real shit dude ur acting like a bitch rn lmaoo fuck her dawg. Wtf. How you even posting this
/r/seduction05/05/22 07:39 PM
2

Things under wraps wdym? Y the fuck would she tell lol and if she does fuck her and whoever that doesnt like u😂 its been a year my dude. FUCK her. She wont tell lol.
/r/seduction05/05/22 07:39 PM
4

Def dont wanna look like an old fuck lol but it depends how weird your approach is
/r/seduction05/05/22 12:33 AM
0

Do ur thing. Its more so are u creepy with your approach or not. Age doesn’t really matter. You could be 20 looking 22, doesnt matter.
/r/seduction05/05/22 12:32 AM
1

Dont think it matters. Just be the part and have interesting posts/highlights. Live your life, post it if you want. Dont think any of this matters as much man, women arent super special
/r/seduction05/05/22 12:28 AM
1

Read models by mark manson. Start doing self care and watch how non needy u appear. Thats attraction. Btw. If you have a lot of time and you really wanna get into dating that book mentioned is a good one. You can slowly learn it and work on your game, try meeting new people and just going out in public and talking to people as well on your free time. Social skills is a +
/r/seduction04/05/22 11:21 PM
2

Seduction more like nsfw
/r/seduction04/05/22 11:07 PM
1

She wants u to choke her
/r/seduction04/05/22 11:07 PM
1

Its a belief brother. Question it and question your thinking. Then find evidence on why it doesnt work and being who you are and staying firm your beliefs and values is better.
/r/seduction04/05/22 02:20 PM
2

How do u even know how many guys shes talking to son? If you wanna stand out, be yourself and dont give a fuck.
/r/seduction03/05/22 10:51 PM
2

Saw the post with a guy and his wife of 6 months didn’t clean the dishes or sink area (including him) and it looked like a pigsty?
/r/seduction30/04/22 04:26 AM
1

Teasing should really just come naturally in a conversation. That way its in its most authentic form and people can tell youre joking
/r/seduction28/04/22 01:35 AM
2

I mean no one said it was necessary. Its just something you can do thatll boost her attraction for you. He most likely has healthy self esteem and presents himself in an attractive way. Just be a man, be yourself bro.
/r/seduction28/04/22 01:34 AM
3

Clown
/r/seduction27/04/22 09:47 AM
1

Every time im focused on girls i get nothing lol. Then its just back to focusing on me then they start coming in and I can actually do something
/r/seduction26/04/22 11:33 PM
1

Nope. Isnt weird at all. You’re different and have standards for yourself. Nothings wrong with that, could also make you more attractive
/r/seduction26/04/22 11:32 PM
1

I feel like once you start taking control of your life then your focus shifts and you’re less worried about girls and getting pussy. But i mean thats how it works, then you just start attracting
/r/seduction26/04/22 11:26 PM
1

Nonsense guru stuff lol what ur talking about is that
/r/seduction26/04/22 10:35 AM
4

Just say lemme know when youre up here
/r/seduction26/04/22 02:01 AM
2

Lol. Im talking about his needyness problem. If you notice all you want is some pussy and its causing you to be a thirst, control yourself and actually do something about it. Start putting yourself out there and get vulnerable
/r/seduction25/04/22 10:32 PM
5

Just ask yourself why you’re needy. One way to stop being needy is to practice self care and investing in yourself more. Start working out, increase your self esteem. You’re young. Maybe you just want some pussy? Whatever’s bothering you figure it out and just fix it on your own. Not to be rude
/r/seduction25/04/22 09:42 PM
1

True
/r/seduction25/04/22 08:56 PM
2

Shut the fuck up weirdo
/r/seduction25/04/22 08:56 PM
1

Gotta figure out whats causing u to be addicted. Is it sex, if so why. Do that yourself
/r/seduction25/04/22 12:32 PM
2

0
/r/seduction25/04/22 12:09 PM
6

I mean, do you have money? Do you dress very nice? Could be that and the wealth is enticing them and they want newer or better options. Theres also a thing of giving off boyfriend vibes but youre saying here all these girls are giving you looks, you arent actually spending real time talking to them so theres a difference. Just off the title though id think you would be giving off boyfriend vibes rather than vibes of a player
/r/seduction25/04/22 12:07 PM
1

Lmao. Especially since they have mutual friends
/r/seduction25/04/22 12:00 PM
2

😂😂😂😂😂😂😂. Id keep being clear and just dip if she doesnt comprehends. Or you can stay to just be a fuck buddy but even that will bring problems. And backing out from dating a girl is pretty normal, just shows you have standards and know how to use your time g.
/r/seduction25/04/22 11:59 AM
1

& fyi, the way to win a “frame battle” is to not give a fuck and be yourself because you know that you matter and their opinion of you is just an opinion. Another reason why all this pickup shit is played out
/r/seduction25/04/22 11:56 AM
1

Okay bro, keep doing your thing.
/r/seduction25/04/22 11:54 AM
6

Some of it. Some people on here are good and actually provide real shit, others dont
/r/seduction25/04/22 11:02 AM
1

Yeah i mean its just people taking stuff to serious/trying too hard. Casual shit lol think we all do it but this is kinda extreme
/r/seduction25/04/22 11:01 AM
1

Lol. Im really just pointing you out on your mistake of trying too hard and not getting no where. It doesn’t work. Just be normal and focus on what matters. Actually talk to the girl and improve on your attraction, the shit you’re talking about does not mean shit and it probably makes you come off strange to the girl, just saying. Trying to help u
/r/seduction25/04/22 11:01 AM
1

Things that dont really fucking matter lol.
/r/seduction25/04/22 05:54 AM
8

???? My nigga just stop taking it so seriously and be yourself. It really just doesnt matter.
/r/seduction25/04/22 05:54 AM
0

You mean logistics? That’s for the hard gainers that are serious about it. Not everyone’s serious about it. Logistics are helpful for knowing that just not everyone’s going to like you and that it is hard for men to get dates so step your shit up.
/r/seduction25/04/22 05:06 AM
4

I mean you definitely must’ve read like 2-3 fucked up shit and made a post about it
/r/seduction25/04/22 05:05 AM
4

Salute to u for reaching out for help tho get a next girl and show us
/r/seduction22/04/22 03:53 AM
4

😭
/r/seduction22/04/22 03:52 AM
3

Only read the first paragraph but i second this. Exactly what i said just be yourself, women like that.
/r/seduction22/04/22 03:52 AM
2

Don’t reciprocate her energy just have your own energy. Hers isnt always accurate and u just gotta be the man and have ur own vibe u feel me? Thats usually how you get em
/r/seduction22/04/22 03:51 AM
3

Too overly invested
/r/seduction22/04/22 03:50 AM
2

I dont even think so, might be true. Feel bad for the girl lol, guys a weirdo
/r/seduction22/04/22 12:25 AM
2

“I was too aggressive initially and now they already lost their composure”. You’re weird my guy
/r/seduction21/04/22 11:57 PM
3

Leave whoever ur bothering the fuck alone
/r/seduction21/04/22 11:56 PM
4

Was just about to comment that
/r/seduction21/04/22 11:56 PM
2

Yea its just what i do. I dont really follow the pick up lines shit and all that I think its better to just be natural and learn shit as you go. Like you’re either going to be needy and not confident in yourself or not and women pickup on that. Thats all i feel like you need and of course knowing how to speak to someone.
/r/seduction21/04/22 07:33 PM
1

Just do you and give off the impression you’re high value and let them come to you. U either got it or you dont. Take shots on the ones who give u signals or anyone that you’re interested in
/r/seduction21/04/22 07:07 PM
1

Probably just cant say no lol.
/r/seduction21/04/22 06:46 PM
1

So just be honest about your intentions and break up. Youre the man. You’re clearly not settled down and thats fine bro you’re 28. But if you’re not ready to settle down you gotta be honest about that and let her know so she doesnt waste her time. Whether shes cool with it or not who gives a fuck
/r/seduction21/04/22 06:45 PM
1

Good info
/r/seduction21/04/22 10:34 AM
8

Who cares
/r/seduction21/04/22 10:33 AM
1

Nice info
/r/seduction21/04/22 10:33 AM
3

Real talk.
/r/seduction21/04/22 10:32 AM
1

Too needy. Slow down
/r/seduction21/04/22 10:32 AM
1

Maybe because youre going to hard and coming off as needy. Play it chill brotha and be laid back. Do what ur doing but kinda let them come to u
/r/seduction21/04/22 10:10 AM
9

Dont need that shit.
/r/seduction20/04/22 05:39 AM
2

Just have fun
/r/seduction20/04/22 05:11 AM
1

So true bro. Just tried this and I am good as I am, I don’t gotta do extra stuff. Its weird and unhealthy and just throws the set off
/r/seduction20/04/22 12:02 AM
2

Finding another girlfriend for this solution would make it worse because then it becomes like a drug and you go from 1 to another. Just embrace the feeling dude lol. It shows that you’re probably missing out and you may be depressed or feeling lonely. Seek help and pay attention to your feelings
/r/seduction19/04/22 08:50 AM
2

I mean thats regular human shit bro. Just get out there and handle your anxiety, you know? If anything is bothering you mentally that requires professional help, seek it and do it. Thats what real men do and a lot of us had to do it at one point
/r/seduction19/04/22 08:49 AM
1

You gotta remember people on reddit arent human and dont live life
/r/seduction19/04/22 08:05 AM
1

😂
/r/seduction19/04/22 06:10 AM
3

Yea 100% bro, I understand what you’re saying thats pretty much normal shit and how you should live your life
/r/seduction19/04/22 04:06 AM
8

Thats good shit bro
/r/seduction19/04/22 03:40 AM
0

Honestly idk but if u were attractive she wouldnt be doing that. Think about it. Probably tried leading u on
/r/seduction19/04/22 03:40 AM
1

Im not short. Im telling you it doesnt matter because you people use it as a crutch to not be able to get girls.
/r/seduction18/04/22 05:27 AM
2

Lmfao ur funny as shit damn i love my fucking canadians😂 ik ur a toronto nigga too
/r/seduction17/04/22 09:31 AM
-1

No idea.
/r/seduction17/04/22 08:24 AM
0

Yea but you dont gotta go into details explaining every small thing because some guy on the internet wants to know. Who gives a fuck. Regardless its his choice
/r/seduction17/04/22 08:24 AM
4

Bro as long as youre like 5’9ish youre good. Regardless its about how u present yourself and how well you’re able to connect with the girl
/r/seduction17/04/22 08:23 AM
15

You dont gotta prove yourself to this guy fam
/r/seduction17/04/22 12:15 AM
4

Height doesnt mean shit
/r/seduction17/04/22 12:15 AM
-2

Hey jinx
/r/seduction17/04/22 12:15 AM
2

Shes gettin dicked down while ur on the side hoping she’ll be the one for u. Get a new girl and try not to be her “friend” first.
/r/seduction16/04/22 10:26 PM
2

Nothings wrong with that.
/r/seduction16/04/22 05:39 PM
2

Nothing wrong with saying girls from women lol. Literally nothing wrong with that. Maybe he just doesn’t have as much as a mature or serious mindset or he just hangs around people who dont give a fuck. I don’t think he has unrealistic expectations or a huge ego either lol, sounds a bit like a stretch. Your opinion though
/r/seduction07/03/22 01:07 AM
2

Hey brother. Are you scared of love or have a fear of failure or something? I had something similar to this when I was younger, probably like 16 and I wouldnt let anyone get close to me. Sometimes id cry if I found out someone really cared for me. Deep shit, I know, but you gotta ask yourself why and find the answer for yourself. It can probably be deep rooted in childhood, something probably must’ve happened to make you lead to a belief thats causing this behaviour. Because its beliefs > though…
/r/seduction07/03/22 01:04 AM
3

Ye. Could come from childhood too and that isnt helpful. Just move on, see if you could do anything better and take it from there. Dont place all the fault on u or youll start changing for no reason
/r/seduction06/03/22 08:53 PM
1

Never take it personally. Its about them not you. Unless youre doing dumb shit
/r/seduction06/03/22 08:52 PM
1

Lol
/r/seduction06/03/22 05:32 PM
7

Nah seriously
/r/seduction06/03/22 05:31 PM
1

Alphas
/r/seduction06/03/22 03:45 AM
1

Yea dawg. Just thought you were saying just overcome your fear in general. Some niggas are just scared and doesnt work like that
/r/seduction06/03/22 12:42 AM
1

Yeah has to because most of the guys just waste time lol. Another part is that, its like your sparking interest in such a short period of time its like who is this dude
/r/seduction04/03/22 05:29 AM
1

Facts this is good advice. Follow it
/r/seduction04/03/22 03:49 AM
1

I feel like when you said the “by texting” statement you got a little too thirsty but it seems like she likes it and doesnt mine so book a date. Dont know also if youre being sarcastic with the bowling part or not. Just reschedule an actual date or a day at your house if she cant do that. You got her second statement right though. First time I read this, i thought you didn’t read her second statement as a flirty intake but you did well, i guess you were just pushing for sex. Gotta fuck her tho b…
/r/seduction04/03/22 03:48 AM
1

Yo bro. If u just hug this reddit shit and post your shit while doing it, you can improve quick and get results in. The homies got you when you need emotional support dont worry about it
/r/seduction04/03/22 03:35 AM
2

I feel like push and pull is so good because you only have a limited time of talking to the girl, so you need to stir up some shit. Other than that, its okay. Its a good thing to have naturally by just not giving a fuck and not caring if she disapproves of you or not.
/r/seduction04/03/22 03:34 AM
1

Lol. Its reason you cant make real intimacy with nobody. You’re fake and inauthentic. Why do you have to lie to get somebody to like you? I’m sure you’re a good person that people would like if you have been yourself and shown the real you. So now you’re relying on tricks. Not trying to put you down but that’s the reason. No one likes someone whos inauthentic lol. Just be you my guy. Come out your shell. Stop being nice and being scared of disapproval. Its easier said than done but with time, pr…
/r/seduction04/03/22 01:20 AM
11

Thats where ur wrong bro, filfee is right. You cant care what society thinks lol who gives a fuck and their norms, be yourself and be different. Thats sexy, attractive, unique and no one can take that from you. Id do something twice as more if i knew society hated it
/r/seduction03/03/22 09:41 AM
1

Preference thing
/r/seduction03/03/22 09:19 AM
1

The fact that you even tried shows that you have confidence, cause you dont give a fuck about failure. Am i right?
/r/seduction03/03/22 04:12 AM
1

I mean. First of all, you dont feel their feelings or know whats going through their heads. They can be nervous as shit but just manage it a bit better. Second of all, they’ve put hours of practice. The more you do something the easier it less difficult it becomes. When you’re first developing social skills its scary as shit i remember my days. But the more you do it the less scary you see it and you see that people are normal just like you and give you OKAY responses. Mindset matters though so …
/r/seduction03/03/22 04:12 AM
0

Kinda. Wont get enough attention, just go to night clubs. Enjoy yourself man its better. Who wants to go to a boring gym lol
/r/seduction03/03/22 04:10 AM
1

I feel like if it works if youve known the girl long term or for a couple weeks & shes into you. Definately won’t work on a girl you just met cause like you said the emotional connect isnt strong. Thats why sometimes I do it, the girl just deleted me because it’s like hey, he rejected me, fuck him don’t need him anyways. They don’t even know the bond is there yet.
/r/seduction02/03/22 10:42 PM
1

Thats probably how you do it
/r/seduction02/03/22 10:41 PM
3

Yea. Tried it before, usually just get deleted or ignored.
/r/seduction02/03/22 11:13 AM
4

If she’s super into you, if not it just looks like rejection.
/r/seduction02/03/22 10:44 AM
18

As long as you are the part, you dont gotta show nothing lol. No need to prove yourself or anything, theyll know
/r/seduction02/03/22 07:00 AM
52

Facts bro
/r/seduction02/03/22 07:00 AM
2

Dawg dating apps suck. I think the real deal is just meeting these girls in the real world like clubs. Just wasting your time on those apps, maybe 1/10 if you get lucky or have a booming profile
/r/seduction02/03/22 06:57 AM
1

“Beautiful ass” sounds like you care too much and you’re getting jealous. Shes not even yours, get over it. If you care so much make a move. Rejection is a feeling and its suppose to make you stronger. Observe how it feels, embrace it, move on and reaffirm your value. Maybe you can attract her by showing her you don’t care and doing your own thing. That’s typically what you should do. But since you care so much go ahead and make a move buddy.
/r/seduction02/03/22 06:55 AM
2

Bro if its a 2.5 hour trip u could literally talk about anything and make out with her in the fucking car. Stop overthinking and go get it bro this should be exciting. Remember, she is not the prize. She is human. Shes not going to know what to say either. You got this, stop pedestalizing her and act like shes just another guy friend
/r/seduction02/03/22 03:04 AM
1

Correct. Main reason I put down seduction and reddit and just focused on myself. Change some beliefs around, raise self esteem, boom.
/r/seduction01/03/22 07:19 AM
4

Im sure this is a mental health problem, more than anything you just mentioned including his girl problem.
/r/seduction01/03/22 07:18 AM
1

Just in case you dont message me, read a book called Healing your Emotional Self by Beverely Engel. You can help yourself man, and I’m sure what you’re going through, a lot of it is posted in that book. Give it a read, I’m sure you can help yourself and change everything within a couple months and live a new profound life.
/r/seduction01/03/22 07:17 AM
7

Youre overthinking this man. Read my comment
/r/seduction01/03/22 06:51 AM
13

Idk bro just stop caring and talk to her normally. Once you actually do it the answers will come up. Don’t gotta fake it to be with someone, thats just inauthentic, but im sure all the seduction and the playfulness you’ll be doing will come up while you’re with her at the right times. Believe in yourself. Thats confidence
/r/seduction01/03/22 06:50 AM
1

?
/r/seduction01/03/22 06:26 AM
1

Got the core principles down, good shit
/r/seduction01/03/22 06:09 AM
0

hey man. a lot of stuff you're going through, I went through too as a kid. Felt like I never belonged, people always hated me or I assumed so but it was really just them projecting their problems onto me, having a parent not liking me growing up. I remember nights where I felt like not living either. Nights I'd go to bed crying. Things happen but it's what make us who we are. Thankfully I found hope and I got out and got better. It's not over for you and never will be. You can still grow out thi…
/r/seduction01/03/22 03:09 AM
2

I don’t get what you’re saying about the second statement, but the first one is facts.
/r/seduction01/03/22 02:39 AM
2

Not at all. If people need a guide, they need a guide but its how you use it. Anyways, I agree on some parts, that’s pretty much what I meant, but its the right vulnerability. But you do need to mix that in with not giving a shit about whether the girl likes you or not or not needing her you can say. I don’t know how you define needy but most likely if you’re more needy than she is or needy at all, you’re most likely not going to get her, and that’s just from my experience and what I’ve read. Ev…
/r/seduction01/03/22 02:37 AM
1

Also when a girls needy doesn’t mean she gets whatever she wants. That shit can be flat out annoying to someone. Only if you’re desperate she’ll get whatever she wants.
/r/seduction01/03/22 12:54 AM
2

Theres nothing wrong with you when you’re needy, no one ever said that. Being needy is a turn off and it’s most likely not going to get you the girl. Thats the problem.
/r/seduction01/03/22 12:53 AM
1

And its like this for me too lol. The moment i stopped caring and dropped game the second i started getting all the ladies. I tried getting back into it, learning all these pua stuff and it just flopped and didnt feel right. Rather use my own knowledge and get what i can here and there and learn what i need to do rather than be desperate
/r/seduction01/03/22 12:11 AM
5

Thats the backwards law. It works like that. When you stop giving a fuck and relax, everything comes to you. When you stop being a desperate fuck chasing girls and have them come to you, they come. I know i sound like mark manson here, but fuck. Thats how life works. Less stressful too
/r/seduction01/03/22 12:10 AM
1

Haha
/r/seduction28/02/22 11:22 PM
3

Takes maturity to understand this
/r/seduction28/02/22 11:04 PM
1

Not everyones the same.
/r/seduction28/02/22 11:04 PM
1

Lol
/r/seduction28/02/22 11:04 PM
1

Good mindsets
/r/seduction28/02/22 11:03 PM
1

Hey man. Nothings wrong with being afraid. Just because you’re a man doesnt mean youre fucking bulletproof. It takes courage to admit this and take steps like this, you’re already on the path to greatness. Just feel it out, experiment it and take conscious careful steps. Figure out what you’re so afraid of and begin to break it and work on that process. You’re already doing great.
/r/seduction28/02/22 11:03 PM
1

Yea bro. Feel you
/r/seduction28/02/22 11:01 PM
1

Lol. My advice would be to stop giving a shit about that and just be normal bro. You fucked it up but caring too much and that probably made it seem like you were some jerk that wasnt interesting. Everythings cool when its done in moderation and you achieve that by just being normal and being authentic. Its cool to not care about a girl but at least form a bond or you just come off as not interested in her
/r/seduction28/02/22 10:31 PM
1

So dont do it?
/r/seduction28/02/22 10:30 PM
5

I use to be like that too but play it out a bit. Just because a girl gives you a dry response at the start doesnt mean shes not into you or its over. If you really notice shes being awkward or just blantley pushing you away < or however you spell that word, walk away. Because you’re valuable and you know your worth
/r/seduction28/02/22 10:27 PM
1

Depends. Did u fuck? And how many times. Dont take it personal and dont be needy. Find other girls and keep this one on the side who cares what she does. Someone said text less and call more. Thats a good idea whenever u get the chance to. Just do facetimes and link up whenever
/r/seduction28/02/22 10:25 PM
19

I mean like, why are you even trying if you notice she isn’t attracted you from the beginning. Its like begging to be rejected or just being weird lol. Just move on
/r/seduction28/02/22 10:21 PM
4

Well yea. Choose women that choose you lol. Wyd, being needy?
/r/seduction28/02/22 10:21 PM
2

Damn funny thing is hes serious
/r/seduction11/02/22 12:22 PM
1

Jeez
/r/seduction11/02/22 12:21 PM
1

Wanna know the real answer?
/r/seduction04/02/22 02:07 AM
1

Be scure in urself
/r/seduction03/02/22 02:31 AM
-13

Jesus what are u living in 2005?
/r/seduction03/02/22 12:41 AM
1

Thats exactly what im saying bro.
/r/seduction17/01/22 09:27 PM
1

Yea youre pussy lol
/r/seduction17/01/22 05:33 PM
2

I even labelled it girly stuff for your dumbass lol. Little insecure boy
/r/seduction17/01/22 05:30 PM
1

Are you retarded? Do the girly stuff such as self acceptance to gain confidence you fucking retard lol. I just know for a fact you get no ass
/r/seduction17/01/22 05:30 PM
0

I can tell you’re pussy
/r/seduction17/01/22 05:25 PM
3

? Youre insecure as fuck lmfao. Who the fuck says beta still? LOL. Niggas like you kill me
/r/seduction17/01/22 05:24 PM
3

Brother. This is a insecurity issue. Put your self help down and look inside and ask whats causing you to feel insecure. Whatever you’re not accepting, you must accept. Then, if you grew up in a bad childhood and carry around negative beliefs, then you can remove them and try to raise self esteem. This is real confidence. Self help is bullshit. Its for people trying to navigate to problem to problem instead of looking inside and finding the real problem. You’re never gonna get somewhere with sel…
/r/seduction17/01/22 05:07 PM
2

Thats dope bro
/r/seduction15/01/22 06:17 PM
5

lmfao. we all fell in the trap before
/r/seduction11/01/22 03:49 PM
1

They dont though. And if they do its because of money. And even then, its just that. Money. No sexual attraction just money
/r/seduction15/12/21 02:50 AM
5

Revenge, gossip, all that shit
/r/seduction10/12/21 08:32 AM
2

What i find funny is how u just came in the seduction subreddit with that name, slaying every post with that sword outta no where. Props to u bro
/r/seduction10/12/21 02:44 AM
2

Thank u brother, will look at it soon
/r/seduction09/12/21 08:37 PM
1

True, that last part probably hits hard for a lotta women
/r/seduction09/12/21 08:27 PM
1

I see. I’ve experienced this and lost from it, learned from it of course but I’m seeing it everywhere in men so Im curious about why they act the way they do. Makes sense though, they dont like to see there man as a “hoe”.
/r/seduction09/12/21 08:24 PM
2

Makes sense
/r/seduction09/12/21 08:22 PM
1

Doesnt matter, the question is why they act like that
/r/seduction09/12/21 08:18 PM
1

I know brother. The question is why women act the way they do when you tell her those things.
/r/seduction09/12/21 08:16 PM
1

Nope, just worried about why women act this way
/r/seduction09/12/21 08:11 PM
1

Makes sense, I knew about the not talking about body counts, just wanted to know the science behind it
/r/seduction09/12/21 08:09 PM
1

try to be more present in the moment and develop yourself more. you need to be more grounded and develop a masculine frame. start working out, learn about who you are and start loving yourself. focus on confidence more than needyness
/r/seduction07/12/21 09:02 PM
1

facts brother
/r/seduction07/12/21 08:59 PM
13

thats the problem. you're trying to keep them engaged instead of being the leading factor and making yourself the prize. What I mean by this is that you are the leader bro. You get to choose which girls you want and which girls you want to sleep with, not the other way around. Start not giving a shit and be free in conversation. Don't "try" to keep them engaged, I can already tell you that leads to boring conversations and no emotions are stimulated. You need to just stop caring and be yourself,…
/r/seduction07/12/21 01:40 AM
3

super cute is disingenuous too but it could work.
/r/seduction07/12/21 01:32 AM
2

It sounds like deep down you didn’t really wanna see her everyday. Stay true to your own values and don’t try to fit others schedule. Stick with your own program. People can either get with it or get lost, but you gotta do what’s best for you. Most times people won’t go but rather respect you. Since you put your values down for someone else she must’ve lost respect for you and in the process u just didn’t have a good time cause you just didn’t wanna be there.
/r/seduction03/12/21 08:45 PM
2

Good advice
/r/seduction02/12/21 07:27 PM
1

Facts
/r/seduction02/12/21 07:25 PM
1

That was good but u should’ve asked to take her back home and beat the doonies down
/r/seduction02/12/21 07:24 PM
0

Yo bro you don’t have to do this. Most of the time you have everything u need just go out there and talk to people
/r/seduction02/12/21 07:22 PM
4

Bro lool
/r/seduction02/12/21 07:17 PM
1

Accept talk to her fuck her in the car
/r/seduction02/12/21 07:17 PM
3

Lol it’s a good thing, and props to u bro shows you aren’t approval seeking. Girls hate it because it’s a form of rejection, but at the same time they like it because it shows you’re hard to get and you’re not like the other guys. Do what u gotta do, don’t overthink it though. Ur good
/r/seduction02/12/21 06:57 AM
6

No problem then keep it pushing. Whatever sounds confident to you
/r/seduction02/12/21 06:53 AM
2

yea was thinking that too. or a shit test but that wouldn't make sense. just go slower next time
/r/seduction02/12/21 02:46 AM
2

😂😂😂😂😂😂
/r/seduction29/11/21 01:17 AM
-19

nah, you can make it work. there's always obvious signs whether or not you can get the bitch or not.
/r/seduction29/11/21 12:23 AM
-21

Low interest isn’t always bad
/r/seduction28/11/21 10:54 PM
125

I know the ass is fat but chill bro. Leave her alone don’t waste time on people like that. U ruin ur self image doing things like that
/r/seduction28/11/21 10:53 PM
1

For sure but even then, u still need those things. Charisma isn’t a big thing but you gotta know how to make the other person like u
/r/seduction28/11/21 07:28 PM
1

Looks are important but they aren’t AS important as attraction (talking, making her laugh, confidence, etc), I feel like that’s the mistake everyone’s making. You still need to look good or the girls not gonna look at u lol. It’s just not as important as the other things, but it’s a based foundation u need to have. And it’s not to be exaggerated, just look good lol have good hygiene. Regardless women love men who look good and have body, it’s contradictory, even though that’s not gonna get you t…
/r/seduction28/11/21 06:38 PM
1

I don’t agree with this
/r/seduction28/11/21 06:35 PM
1

Finances don’t help with attraction, but get your finances straight. It’s all about how you make a girl feel. You said you have the personality covered, so learn how to talk to people and women if you don’t already and improve your social skills. Try to learn how to be charismatic and make people feel special by listening to them and putting the convo on them. Learn some seduction for your dates and your good but don’t go too overboard bro. Too many people just stick there heads in the dirt and …
/r/seduction28/11/21 06:32 PM
1

its artificial too
/r/seduction28/11/21 07:18 AM
1

i feel like you should just be natural g. fuck the seduction, make sure your a man and you know how to talk. seduction isnt gonna last long
/r/seduction28/11/21 07:18 AM
30

How I do it is I just stay masculine and make the girl laugh. Puts her more in her feminine and makes her feel more comfortable to u
/r/seduction28/11/21 07:13 AM
32

Talk about things you like. You’re the only one who’s you in this universe, you shouldn’t be approval seeking or trying to get people to like you. I use to be like this too tbh, always typing in paragraphs to stay in the convo, always just stringing along and getting no where feeling exhausted. Grew out of it fortunately as time went, but it mostly just comes from low self worth or esteem and approval seeking. You’re staying in that convo because you want the other person to like you and you don…
/r/seduction28/11/21 07:08 AM
1

Damn did you really scroll down my comment section
/r/seduction26/11/21 06:01 AM
1

Lol all 18 y/o’s are like this bro they’re youngins. If I were you, I wouldn’t put much interest into her. Find other girls and let this one be but when you guys do link up you gotta fuck her. But usually when girls do this they’re not that interested and just string you along because they don’t wanna say no.
/r/seduction25/11/21 03:30 PM
2

It sounds like you like it 😂 you’re the girl that can sense things, if you feel like that find or ask for another physiotherapist but yeah it does seems like he wants something.
/r/seduction25/11/21 03:25 PM
3

Depends how hard you were engaging on her, women will do last minute resistance if they feel they’re not safe. Usually what I do is be playful about it or joke, that eases them up and let’s them know they’re safe. At the end they’re really just deciding if they should really have sex with this guy or not. It’s not you but when you’re with these girls make sure you’re not taking her or yourself serious. When they see you’re a easygoing guy, everything becomes easier because remember these women a…
/r/seduction25/11/21 03:17 PM
2

This is facts. Really gotta observe how women and people in general treat you @OP
/r/seduction25/11/21 03:12 PM
1

What I like to do or know how a girls serious is how compliant or submissive she is. Sometimes you just know if a girls down with the program or not based on how she responds to you. If she’s friendly it’s usually a go. You could also always invite her on a date and whether she shows up or not is your signal. If you’re worried about money, fame and allat, don’t show her that. Save your cards for later on, let it be a surprise to her she’ll like you way more. And plus women don’t like men who sho…
/r/seduction25/11/21 03:11 PM
17

Kick her out, who the fuck are u dating bro? 🤣
/r/seduction25/11/21 03:09 PM
93

Nope, be a man and look her in the eyes that’s the only way you’ll make her like u. Ur a man on a mission bro you can’t be shy, she won’t hurt u. If it’s still hard look at her nose or forehead
/r/seduction25/11/21 03:07 PM
8

It only happens to girls u truly like bro. Nothings wrong with it, it’s completely normal, I get it too when it’s girls I truly like. Just gotta detach though and work on yourself. They’ll come around. Gotta live in abundance
/r/seduction25/11/21 03:04 PM
4

Don’t feel bad, it’s normal. You just gotta detach bro and that’s the hardest part but you have to. Think of having sex as you giving your gift. U done it now you just gotta detach. There’ll always be better days, there’ll always be days when u guys can hit it back. Just be humble, do your thing and detach.
/r/seduction25/11/21 03:01 PM
2

I mean its fucking reddit lol
/r/seduction09/11/21 10:40 PM
1

Bro your looks dont matter that much
/r/seduction09/11/21 10:40 PM
85

Duh. U been talking to her for a year and shes been playing hard to get. Obviously shes going to lose interest. She probably pulled back because you’re texting so much and you’re showing her that youre needy.
/r/seduction09/11/21 03:22 AM
1

Get u a male 30 😂. Or a good looking 25 n up, they know what they’re doing
/r/seduction29/09/21 10:41 AM
3

Eye contact and indirectly say sexual things. Flirt too. 22 f going for 50 males is funny as hell though, always seeing that shit. Get your body done too
/r/seduction28/09/21 11:37 PM
1

Do you
/r/seduction28/09/21 01:51 PM
1

Low self esteem to its finest
/r/seduction28/09/21 11:37 AM
1

Bring her to the crib bro🤣
/r/seduction28/09/21 10:57 AM
3

Facts
/r/seduction28/09/21 10:56 AM
1

Personality bro. Boost it up and express yourself to the fullest, also make sure ur confidence and self esteem is in check. Have game and thats all you need, u can work with that with a average face
/r/seduction28/09/21 10:56 AM
1

Most women want it till they’re tired of it. All the shit you said is correct but you still need to spark emotion regardless. Being detached from the outcome is one of a perfect example because it gives her time to think about you and miss you, while also giving her uncertainty if you like her or not because you’re not like these other guys that are hitting her up constantly. That also gives her room to chase. Also shows that you may have options and she could be quick to lose you if she doesn’t…
/r/seduction28/09/21 10:49 AM
2

So what do you wanna do appear tall outta no where my nigga? Even if your tall u still need that shit. U cant just be tall and not be a bad boy lol that shits gonna get you no where.
/r/seduction28/09/21 10:43 AM
1

Jesus christ lol
/r/seduction28/09/21 01:01 AM
1

You can be 5’7 and be a tough ass mf. Women dont like short men because they arent reasonable to “protect” them, but if you can walk like you dont give a shit, be confident and look people dead in their eyes thats all you need. Go to the gym and work out, and deal with your cards dealt to u.
/r/seduction27/09/21 12:57 PM
1

I dont find it personality based. Women love emotional turmoil, they’d all get off to someone whos mysterious and doesnt show them much attention yet has a good time with her. You’re stimulating her emotions when you do that and thats what gets her hooked.
/r/seduction27/09/21 09:47 AM
1

No it doesnt bro lol. Girls like when you spark uninterest in them, it gives them something to play for and if you know women, they love a challenge. Regardless if you give a girl uncertainty, she’ll feel not good enough and that sparks emotions which get her attracted to you. All these guys on her and you, only u, is showing that you barely like her yet giving her the time of her life with her. Thats how you spark attraction
/r/seduction27/09/21 01:08 AM
1

Gotta change that mindset of yours
/r/seduction26/09/21 10:48 PM
1

Lol
/r/seduction26/09/21 10:48 PM
5

Maybe its you and not tinder dawg
/r/seduction26/09/21 10:48 PM
2

Gotta look at things in this guys perspective. Simplify things, everything’s not has hard as you make it seem to be
/r/seduction26/09/21 07:52 PM
2

That works only if she’s super attractive to u and you’re mysterious. If you’re giving her a good time every time you’re with her and fucking the shit out of her, and detached to the outcome, shes going to be all over you. The heart beats come from her not knowing when you’ll text her. So you need to be mysterious and give a lot of uncertainty. When spending time with her is over, you go about your business, work on yourself or do other things, you aren’t attached to the outcome with her. But ag…
/r/seduction26/09/21 07:25 PM
1

Lmfaoo
/r/seduction26/09/21 07:19 PM
1

Jesus christ youre sad
/r/seduction26/09/21 07:03 PM
1

You just said i dont get any play, im fucking around with u. This convos over dawg lol, i know you’re not touching no pussy.
/r/seduction26/09/21 06:57 PM
1

?
/r/seduction26/09/21 06:56 PM
1

Gotta show u my videos then
/r/seduction26/09/21 06:32 PM
1

At least u aint lying
/r/seduction26/09/21 06:29 PM
1

Ill say whatever I want, fuck does that have to do with anything lol. Pretty sure we both know you arent getting any hoes
/r/seduction26/09/21 06:22 PM
0

That’s the biggest cap ive ever heard in my life. Do you know how women work?
/r/seduction23/09/21 08:33 AM
-3

Those are all girls
/r/seduction22/09/21 02:50 PM
6

Facts, thats why i dont do these relationships. Girls over 22-25 are thotties lol
/r/seduction22/09/21 10:52 AM
4

Good way of looking at it, but i look at it of more of a respect thing. if something is bothering you, you should be open about it and communicate it. Not this behind the back bullshit. At that point I dont even want the relationship anymore, thats disrespectful.
/r/seduction22/09/21 10:09 AM
28

Fuck u mean 6 years, bro regardless if a girl did that you should be gone.
/r/seduction22/09/21 09:56 AM
4

Damn, gotta throw her away wdym what you should you do lol? Get a new girl and be honest bro, stop playing with your respect. And a girl that meets your parents means nothing, you should be the one meeting her parents
/r/seduction22/09/21 09:09 AM
1

Just depends on the context, theres no go to. Whatever she says ill try to mix it and make it seem like shes seducing me or ill indirectly say something and seduce her if it fits in with the topic. Indirectly saying something could mean saying something like “we have a broken pipe on the loose” meaning shes wet. Its leaving a interpretation A and a interpretation B
/r/seduction22/09/21 06:33 AM
0

The nudes my boy
/r/seduction21/09/21 07:18 PM
13

Eye contact, humour, outcome independent. Be playful and indirectly say sexual things, thats advance shit though
/r/seduction21/09/21 07:17 PM
2

Ur just not use to the compliments
/r/seduction21/09/21 04:03 PM
1

Shit if I say you made me cross my legs to a girl, I know her ass is smiling
/r/seduction21/09/21 03:59 PM
0

Had to cross my legs when i saw u, definitely using that
/r/seduction21/09/21 03:58 PM
12

Lmfaooo
/r/seduction21/09/21 05:34 AM
1

Nigga anyone can use a gun. A 5’4 guy can’t physically protect her in the streets or in a public area.
/r/seduction21/09/21 02:18 AM
1

?
/r/seduction21/09/21 02:18 AM
1

Its a survival thing. A 5’4 guy cant protect her
/r/seduction20/09/21 11:21 PM
3

👏🏾
/r/seduction20/09/21 01:28 AM
1

Yee. Try being aware of what you’re doing and go from there, fix the mistakes ur doing
/r/seduction20/09/21 01:15 AM
9

Everyone has their own way of spitting game too bro, you might not like it over text which is cool but you at least gotta be lighthearted and easygoing like you dont care.
/r/seduction20/09/21 12:56 AM
2

Everyones different, could seem cringe at first but once you do it enough times it doesnt even matter.
/r/seduction20/09/21 12:52 AM
6

I know, im talking about girls in the future
/r/seduction20/09/21 12:43 AM
15

Hell yea girls like that dawg. Its funny because a lotta shit you guys say you cringe on is what girls like. I don’t cringe though so I dont see it like that. Girls love that shit, you gotta remember girls are like playful immature creatures. That shit works. A lot. If you can give a girl a good time and be playful, you win. Why? Because you’re giving this girl so much emotional turmoil that no guy ever gives so your like a hit of a drug. Then when u go ghost on her and give her uncertainty, u g…
/r/seduction20/09/21 12:05 AM
2

Yea fr. And true dawg, after all they are a baby momma, so it does make sense. Casual shit is fine, you can run that all day lol. Just dont give her vibes that you’ll be her boyfriend and provide for her
/r/seduction19/09/21 11:36 PM
1

If we’re talking ugly i dont mean gruesome my nigga, i mean just not a pretty boy looking mf. A guy that looks rough WITH a personality can bang chicks. I never compared a ugly guy with a girl with no personality, I said that about men that look good and are shy and beta. I think you’re ideology is fucked up dawg, where on earth are there more alphas than betas. It makes no sense. Man really said being beta is rare
/r/seduction19/09/21 11:34 PM
1

Lol. U must live in cali or hollywood making that statement, not everyone is alpha not even close my guy.
/r/seduction19/09/21 11:32 PM
7

Aint nun wrong with that, just dont have a relationship with a single mother. Why are u dating a girl that has a kid, that you’d soon have to take care of. Shouldnt be taking care of any girls kids but yours. Gotta learn your worth and know that you’re a valuable man, theres plenty of girls out here u dont wanna be stuck looking over a next mans seed bro.
/r/seduction19/09/21 03:08 PM
1

Who knows. She did say for getting drinks “sometime”, so maybe shes tryna keep you as an option till its time. But im not her usable tampon, neither are u so id get rid of that bitch in a heartbeat. Just play it smooth, leave her on read back and see if she chases a little when she hits you back. Or you can tease her about it, really up to you bro. Don’t let her come back open arms though after leaving you on read, thats disrespectful. Isn’t shit to play games with a girl if you have options tho…
/r/seduction19/09/21 02:04 PM
1

You trying too hard? Check ur actions and be aware of what you’re doing
/r/seduction19/09/21 01:54 PM
1

Facts
/r/seduction19/09/21 12:40 PM
3

Lol that doesnt answer what im saying though. We’re talking about the general concept. Just because you look good doesn’t mean you’re going to get the girl. You can look good and be shy and beta. It’s the same with pretty girls, some of them look good and have no personality. I have a girl on me that looks good and barely has a personality.
/r/seduction19/09/21 08:21 AM
6

Nah thats only first impression. If you’re attractive in the face but unattractive personality wise u wont come up as an option for women. It’s simply you can be attractive physically and unattractive personality wise. The personality means more than the physical.
/r/seduction19/09/21 06:45 AM
1

Nah dont give up just yet, no reason for that. Just ask her and see what happens, and if she still doesnt wanna have sex or come to your place, stop wasting your time with her.
/r/seduction17/09/21 06:44 PM
1

By talking to people
/r/seduction17/09/21 02:18 PM
1

Word
/r/seduction17/09/21 03:24 AM
1

Be yourself and own that shit. Walk like you’re the man and have options. Have an abundance mindset and stop caring about every little interaction with women. Be there to have a good time and never let anyone walk over you. It’s like a version of being yourself unapologetically and not letting people treat you like shit. You already got the money and shit, so this is like the inside stuff.
/r/seduction17/09/21 02:38 AM
2

Try renting a place brodie, save up some money
/r/seduction17/09/21 02:34 AM
1

Cant really escalate at a art gallery, thats just a fun thing. Have a good time and bring her back to the crib if you can then escalate. If anything just keep eye contact, break touch barrier if you can and indirectly flirt. Meaning lead her on if she says something and turn it into something sexual like shes trying to seduce you, or you yourself say indirect things sexually that relate to the context.
/r/seduction17/09/21 02:34 AM
1

Lol
/r/seduction13/09/21 05:00 AM
1

Nobody said to not be impressive, you’re just not going out your way to impress her and seek her attention and validation. Thats what gets the girls interested about you. Then they ask themselves why isnt he seeking my attention, who is that guy, etc
/r/seduction10/09/21 08:53 AM
5

Thats a whole different thing my girl
/r/seduction10/09/21 08:52 AM
9

When a girl says she has a boyfriend it most likely means shes rejecting you. Girls cant just say no because they’re weaker than men and it puts them at risk. I feel like its because you said you like her, once a girl knows that, she can play hard to get all she wants. And girls like a challenge, you telling her you like her so easy like that, makes you easy. So theres no point of her trying, you’re just there. Leave her alone bro, she wants you to chase her.
/r/seduction07/09/21 07:44 PM
9

Looks dont matter been a bs quote
/r/seduction07/09/21 04:15 PM
1

If you want to, but you’re going to miss women by not cold approaching. Might as well just go in raw dawg
/r/seduction05/09/21 05:59 PM
1

Thats exactly what it means to reject someone.
/r/seduction05/09/21 04:07 PM
7

My nigga said masculine swagger, i know you watch AMS 🤣
/r/seduction05/09/21 01:34 PM
2

Everything in this comment section is good bro, its not really what you say but how you say it. You could say anything, just dont be boring. Say whatever comes to gut feeling
/r/seduction05/09/21 01:34 PM
1

Lol cause you left her on read bro, her emotions are probably in a bunch or feels like you rejected her. Just leave it alone and find other women
/r/seduction05/09/21 01:19 PM
1

A nice guy is never attractive to women. You mean being bad and being normal/neutral. Bringing flowers to a girl is gonna do nothing but make you look weird, you’re doing it to get her validation back so she can like you. Real men or bad boys dont do that. Make her chase your validation with you alone just being there. Just be yourself, if you’re a nice guy struggling with women; improve yourself and get out that nice guy act. You can compliment her, bring x amount of gifts, express your feeling…
/r/seduction05/09/21 01:13 PM
0

She wants uu. Get her # and tell her this is only gonna be between me and you gang
/r/seduction05/09/21 01:09 PM
1

Good argument u got here
/r/seduction05/09/21 02:12 AM
1

I hear u
/r/seduction03/09/21 07:15 PM
2

It’s better to hang around male friends. You don’t wanna be picking up female tendencies, and those females wont grow you like how a male does. If u wanna be good at girls, approach and talk with multiple girls, u dont need to be friends with them.
/r/seduction03/09/21 05:53 PM
2

This is what being yourself means. I dont get why so many people on reddit confuse it with something else. It’s not a hard concept, stop overthinking it. This is what being yourself means. Stay true to your personality.
/r/seduction03/09/21 05:46 PM
1

This is why I always say, before doing something always have a clear picture of what it is what you want. The real definition. A bad boy doesnt mean you’re mean to everyone, the fuck? You’ll only get girls with low self esteem like that, thats a whole different thing than a bad boy. Be you and stop giving a fuck what people do or say, thats what it means to be a bad boy. Have stone cold confidence and trust in yourself.
/r/seduction03/09/21 01:06 PM
4

A bad boy doesnt mean a asshole. U had the wrong picture and fucked it up. Women will always love bad boys, thatll never change bro. Its your fuck up not anybody else is, this shit can work for other people. Being a nice guy is going to be no different either lol. I think you need to be yourself and leave reddit alone or anywhere else that you’re getting this information from g. You’re never going to get women like this. Be yourself and don’t put people on a pedestal, thats all it is.
/r/seduction03/09/21 01:01 PM
1

Up to u bro, i dont have the same feelings as u do in this situation. Id just leave it alone and find other girls, cant have someone wasting my time like this. When u get over it just remember you’re valuable and you cant have girls run games on you. She doesnt seem like shes interested, just wants the attention.
/r/seduction02/09/21 04:03 PM
0

Theyre more aggressive. Gotta be that assertive guy to deal with them. White girls are more passive but it just depends on the girl
/r/seduction02/09/21 10:22 AM
2

Same way how you talk to a guy or a friend. Women arent special creatures bro lol. Have a regular conversation, focus on the topic and flirt here and there. Add escalation and keep eye contact, and break the touch barrier whenever u can. Be playful and dont take the interaction serious or shes gonna grow bored
/r/seduction02/09/21 10:18 AM
1

It is the right move, chase your goals bro. It’s only been 3 months and you guys have only kissed, let alone shes still saying she can “get to know you”. She loves the attention you give her and is just feeding you scraps, leading you on. Forget about her. It’s crazy how she left you on seen because that goes to show women will drain you out your attention and stop caring about you. Let her be and let her come to you. Do things on YOUR term. Meaning if you want to have sex with her and not waste…
/r/seduction02/09/21 10:14 AM
1

Love in college this might be a first
/r/seduction02/09/21 09:09 AM
1

Regardless flirting sexually here and there is important, u need to let her know that you’re into her sexually and have her think about sex, so she knows you arent playing games and u can avoid the friendzone.
/r/seduction01/09/21 05:44 PM
1

Well yea obviously, im talking about when you’re both in the mood thats real sexting.
/r/seduction01/09/21 05:41 PM
2

Nothings wrong with sexting lol. If shes into you and gives u the nudes or dirty talks good for you, thats a step closer. Women love sex, and the shit is fun and exciting for them
/r/seduction01/09/21 05:19 PM
1

Start sexting irl
/r/seduction01/09/21 05:17 PM
1

Rejection. Rejected u from the jump, only gave you her number cause women cant say no due to survival reasons
/r/seduction01/09/21 05:14 PM
12

No, dont remove her. Keep her followed so she can view your life when you post and have her second guess herself. Then you keep her on the chase. Just dont view her stories and give her the free attention.
/r/seduction01/09/21 05:11 PM
6

Dont say “let me know another time”, there most likely wont be another time and you’re worth more than that. Simply tell her no worries and move on, dont expect anything from her just leave her in the ditch and date other women
/r/seduction01/09/21 05:09 PM
0

Op, dont agree with this, it isnt over. You cant compare a friend to a girl you just met, and girls are wired different.
/r/seduction30/08/21 05:51 AM
0

Nah. Stop caring so much bro. Shes just jealous, give her time and space and let her come back to you they always do. You shouldnt be caring this much though fam, let people do what they wanna do, you cant control people. The fact that you’re attractive to other girls though sparks attraction in her though, so just wait it out. Shes not gone.
/r/seduction30/08/21 05:49 AM
1

😂
/r/seduction30/08/21 05:33 AM
1

She didnt find you sexually attractive enough.
/r/seduction30/08/21 05:31 AM
2

Either trying to give u a disease or she just likes u
/r/seduction30/08/21 05:16 AM
1

Facts
/r/seduction30/08/21 05:14 AM
2

Real shit, I just made a comment about this. Its all body language, you gotta have fun with the girl. Then set an intention at the back of your mind so you slowly escalate.
/r/seduction30/08/21 01:20 AM
2

Well. Its a club or party. And you’re trying to have a conversation. You just end up ruining the vibe. You care too much, you need to match their energy, have an intention as what you wanna do with the girl and party with them with conversation here and there. People are there to have fun not have a date conversation bro, loosen up and stop taking it so serious. Have fun with them and have an intention at the back of your mind such as you wanna take her home tonight and slowly escalate.
/r/seduction30/08/21 01:19 AM
1

I gotta stop using the word beta after this
/r/seduction29/08/21 10:08 AM
3

Gotta tell her to send a full pic and stop the bs lol. Be more assertive bro, you’re the man. If she sends a half face say full face. Be playful and tease her about it if u can Remember this is on YOUR time. Can’t be playing games with these girls brotha
/r/seduction29/08/21 07:55 AM
2

Lol you gotta be confident and assertive and tell her what it is. Tell her show me a full pic of you, im tryna see how cute you are before we go out
/r/seduction29/08/21 07:54 AM
-6

Dont be mad nobodys taking u out
/r/seduction28/08/21 02:47 AM
1

You sound retarded my guy.
/r/seduction28/08/21 02:46 AM
1

Theminorities
/r/seduction27/08/21 01:20 PM
1

Facts brother
/r/seduction27/08/21 01:18 PM
3

Naw LOL. They’ll like validation from the guy that won’t get sex from her more than it. Women dont like giving there body out to everyone, if you’re unattractive shes gonna drain the validation outta u
/r/seduction27/08/21 01:02 PM
1

Thats a jealous guy right there
/r/seduction27/08/21 01:00 PM
1

Putting yourself out there means making yourself vulnerable and actually talking to people my nigga. Approach people, socialize, talk. Accept rejection. You’ll learn more and improve your social skills then when u talk to a bitch its easy. Looks arent everything, she’ll give u that look and once you open your mouth its bye bye.
/r/seduction27/08/21 12:58 PM
1

Not all about looks, you need game too buddy.
/r/seduction27/08/21 12:54 PM
1

😂
/r/seduction27/08/21 12:54 PM
1

Good post bro
/r/seduction27/08/21 12:53 PM
2

By her interest level being up and you having game? Wtf? 😂
/r/seduction27/08/21 09:55 AM
1

Right on brother, all this shit just stays at the back of my mind
/r/seduction27/08/21 09:53 AM
2

Whats your fear? You gotta look and dig deeper than just “making a move scares me” bro. Is it fear of rejection? Gotta ask yourself this and really think then fix that root problem. This works for anything. Is it that you might think she might you’re weird? So then you’re caring too much what other people think. Gotta figure it out then be smooth
/r/seduction27/08/21 12:21 AM
9

Bro you’re weird, delete this post. Stop being weird.
/r/seduction23/08/21 07:22 PM
1

Fuck is wrong with u
/r/seduction23/08/21 07:21 PM
1

U dont text her anything. Shes playing the game of seeing how confident you are or trying to get u to submit. Sit back enjoy life and date other women
/r/seduction23/08/21 10:33 AM
1

Yup
/r/seduction22/08/21 01:27 PM
-3

Nigga who gives a fuck, you dont live up to anyone expectations. Thats you being yourself, if they cant accept that then fuck them. Ima say though, what you said wasnt right but its not the end of the world. Learn from it and move on
/r/seduction21/08/21 11:58 PM
3

Doesnt matter what i am.
/r/seduction21/08/21 03:58 PM
1

Keep eye contact for sexual attention. Talk in a calm cool collected voice. Flirting just has to come natural, learn what it is and practice it. Always smile when u flirt and be playful. If you tease be playful too
/r/seduction21/08/21 12:44 PM
1

Financial situation, body and confidence/self esteem. Get some game too and naw dont forget about keep doing what ur doing. Start dating when you’re confident in yourself
/r/seduction21/08/21 12:42 PM
1

Bro approach any girl you want
/r/seduction21/08/21 12:40 PM
1

Live and u learn dont do it again. Next time be more aware of the signs and reciprocate energy back with whoever ur talking to. Dont let people waste your time
/r/seduction21/08/21 12:39 PM
1

Facts. If you see a good looking girl hit her up when shes walking but dont take too long and start overthinking your approach
/r/seduction21/08/21 12:28 PM
-2

Bodmon dont suck punany, man suck them breasts and make her horny
/r/seduction21/08/21 12:24 PM
4

First mistake is you’re “indirectly” asking her out. Be a man and be direct about what you wanna do with her bro. The second mistake is that theres no sexual tension other than the eye contact. You gotta seduce and flirt with her in a sexually indirect way. Then you need to escalate that shit when you know she’s into you and get her number and set the date. Its all about escalation. If you’re just having a 40 min convo, you aren’t doing nothing but talking. You gotta get to the next destination …
/r/seduction21/08/21 12:19 PM
2

You cant. Level up in life and date more girls and use that social proof against her. So if ur doing shit in life just post it so she can see it, and once she sees that you’re attractive to other girls or have a life outside of her she might change her mind
/r/seduction21/08/21 04:44 AM
3

A lotta people have egos, so thats how they react. Its fucked. I hear u though bro
/r/seduction20/08/21 11:30 PM
1

Lol fuck not sanq😂😂😂😭
/r/seduction20/08/21 08:56 AM
5

Dont directly knock on her door unless u have something planned or something to say that you know would spark up a good convo and make her laugh but next time you see her out, holla at her.
/r/seduction20/08/21 04:39 AM
7

Same way you seduce any other girl. When you see her start a convo and go from there
/r/seduction20/08/21 04:22 AM
2

Facts. Sometimes its cool but most girls dont even have the confidence to walk up to someone
/r/seduction20/08/21 01:23 AM
5

Call her out on her face but be playful. She said that because she isn’t attracted to you and the line was probably wack to her. Don’t panic but next time pay attention to your surroundings. Focus outward and if a girl does make a face say “Why you looking at me like that” or “Don’t look at me like that” depending on the context but be playful. Works every time for me, I don’t let girls give me weird faces loll. If she doesn’t respond kindly, call her out on her attitude but do it in a way thats…
/r/seduction20/08/21 01:21 AM
1

Well then they need to change. Any bad habit in life needs to change. But you still be yourself because thats what makes you. You could say the same about somebody thats passive and doesnt stand up for themselves. That passiveness makes them, them but you could always turn a bad habit into a good habit. The context here is stop trying to be someone you’re not and faking your personality. Thats what people mean to authentically be yourself, it isnt about your lifestyle thats a whole different top…
/r/seduction19/08/21 08:42 PM
1

Bro thats a hobby. When I say be your authentic self, I mean be YOU when you socially interact with people. Dont think about what the next person is going to say in that situation, say the shit that you would primarily say and be yourself. Being your authentic self means not changing whats unique about you to fit someones expectations and impress them. Fuck the negative shit, that doesnt matter in this context. Stop trying to be someone you’re not and be you.
/r/seduction19/08/21 08:38 PM
1

Dawg everybody is “good enough”, we just dont realize it. Everyone is unique in their own way, laugh at shit that u find funny and do shit that you wanna do. Every time someone brings up “be yourself”, you guys always think about the worse negative aspect of it. Be yourself, and stop trying to be someone you’re not, thats how u get the girl.
/r/seduction19/08/21 08:27 PM
1

Right
/r/seduction19/08/21 08:25 PM
4

Exactly this, I dont understand why people keep bringing up shit like you need to be insecure. Be your authentic self, stop trying to be somebody you’re not.
/r/seduction19/08/21 06:31 AM
1

Get her number and book a date with her and go from there bro. Break the touch barrier when you’re with her, have strong eye contact most of the time and flirt back till ur where u wanna be
/r/seduction19/08/21 05:45 AM
-3

Holy fuck this is sad, niggas hating on the guy because he lost his virginity
/r/seduction18/08/21 09:42 PM
0

Why are you hating
/r/seduction18/08/21 09:41 PM
3

On god
/r/seduction13/08/21 04:03 AM
23

How are you approaching them? Make sure you’re being playful about it and able to make her laugh, and look well dressed. That first impression is everything, a girl can reject you or not text you back just cause that first impression. Dont take approaching so seriously my nigga, just have fun with it and girls will be more open to it. You’ll look less like a creep and more fun to be with. I still feel like you’re taking interactions too serious just the way how you’re talking. Ease up and be out…
/r/seduction13/08/21 04:03 AM
1

Gotta stop using that heart first
/r/seduction12/08/21 08:46 PM
1

Naw frrr
/r/seduction12/08/21 06:01 PM
1

Lol
/r/seduction11/08/21 02:23 PM
-2

^
/r/seduction11/08/21 04:27 AM
3

Then she doesnt want you bro. Leave it and find other women
/r/seduction10/08/21 03:51 PM
3

Everything she said is facts dawg. That shit only applies if you know the bitch is lying
/r/seduction10/08/21 04:29 AM
3

Ur sex is trash or you get attached too quickly and validate them.
/r/seduction08/08/21 12:56 PM
4

If you think shes a hoe and you’re trying to get a relationship then find another girl. Just keep this bitch in the rotation and fuck her here and there, dont even gotta be worrying about this stuff bro, as long as shes not doing it to you.
/r/seduction31/07/21 12:54 PM
2

Naw, let her do her bro you shouldnt be worrying about that. But girls love attention, thats apart of female nature. If you dont like her talking about it to you then tell her to switch up the topic. You need to be confident in yourself that no guy is going to take your spot and you’re her best option. Dont worry about her friends just focus on you
/r/seduction31/07/21 12:52 PM
1

Big facts being friends with girls is a waste of time. Rather have a sexual interest and be cool with her than chit chat about nothing and waste time. Can’t have her taking me as an emotional tampon or someone she can talk to about her boyfriend problemss. I rather be cool with a girl and still be able to fuck her than do nothing.
/r/seduction30/07/21 08:38 PM
1

Thing is if you start getting fit for women and u dont get the attention u think u should be getting it fucks up ur self esteem and your self image for yourself because you’re chasing validation. Just do the shit for yourself first and think about the women on the side
/r/seduction26/07/21 10:28 PM
4

Hes dying on the spot whether the bitch is drop dead gorgeous or not 😂
/r/seduction26/07/21 08:55 AM
1

Loool
/r/seduction26/07/21 08:54 AM
3

Be positive learn how to talk to many people and be yourself
/r/seduction25/07/21 07:45 AM
1

Yeah but that doesnt answer the question bro, theres still more shit tests. A bitch will tease you purposely to see if you get defensive or not. She’ll ask for favours or make you do things that she knows u dont like to see if you’ll comply or not. She’ll act uninterested and go quiet to see if u got the confidence. Last minute she can resist and pull back before u fuck her. Its mad shit
/r/seduction23/07/21 04:45 PM
3

Being honest is cool but naw theres more than this to shit tests
/r/seduction21/07/21 12:15 AM
1

It happens, its the main reason why girls tell you they have a boyfriend instead of just saying no.
/r/seduction20/07/21 01:47 AM
1

Loll
/r/seduction19/07/21 03:58 PM
1

Leave it at that bro, we both have different understandings bout the op, i comprehended it differently. I agree with what you’re saying thats what I normally do but it sounded like he was being too dry and desperate for the date
/r/seduction19/07/21 03:39 PM
1

No, Im agreeing with you. You dont get to know a person on phone but you make her comfortable enough for her to be willing to meet up with you
/r/seduction19/07/21 03:26 PM
1

I know that you dont kill the mystery on the phone and go for a full blown conversation, that shit is obvious bro. What I comprehend from the OP is that hes just sending a few texts and asking for a date. I don’t know how charismatic or flirtatious he is. Leave it at that
/r/seduction19/07/21 03:20 PM
1

Did i not just say that?
/r/seduction19/07/21 03:18 PM
1

You dont just send 5 texts and ask for a date. You obviously need to feel them out, everybody has different levels of charisma
/r/seduction19/07/21 03:10 PM
1

I know the game bro. Me and you have both different contexts, im going strictly off what the op is saying which is why hes failing. What I read is that hes sending a few texts then asking for a date which is why I said its needy and coming off as desperate.
/r/seduction19/07/21 03:09 PM
2

Im not saying to look for a chat buddy, i know the game brother. Your situation and his situation are both different. You can be more charismatic than him, and you’re on the phone with them. Hes just blatantly messaging a few texts then asking them for a date. It doesnt work like that hence why he keeps failing. Its different when you’re actually on a phone call with them and making the girl laugh, she feels more comfortable with u. Nobody is gonna link up with someone they barely know or barely…
/r/seduction19/07/21 03:04 PM
1

It is needy. You dont even know the girl for a whole day and you’re already asking for a date it shows that you’re desperate. Hes approaching these girls online, of course u need to use the phone to get to know them. No girls gonna randomly meet up with a guy she barely knows
/r/seduction19/07/21 03:00 PM
1

Hours is even worse. How can u be talking to a girl for even less than a day and asking them for a date. Thats too needy, you need to have options and realize theres a million of girls. Gotta develop some game brotha
/r/seduction19/07/21 03:25 AM
1

Probably asking for a date too soon lol, obviously theyre gonna say no. Gotta talk more and let them be comfortable with u then ask. Remember u arent meeting these girls in person, this is online u cant just talk to someone for a lil and ask for a meet up
/r/seduction19/07/21 03:20 AM
2

Using u for attention
/r/seduction16/07/21 08:05 AM
15

Women want a man that can lead and that is decisive. A woman is suppose to be a player 2 to a mans life, he’s suppose to lead himself and the woman in the right direction. Hes the pillar. Take lead applies to everything in life, sex, where to go, what to do, etc.
/r/seduction12/07/21 10:55 PM
1

Yessir
/r/seduction10/07/21 02:25 AM
4

Its very bad
/r/seduction10/07/21 01:18 AM
3

Yup thats what holding in your seed does. Thats natural confidence along with having self love for yourself, etc
/r/seduction10/07/21 01:16 AM
3

Thats the power of retention. Keep it up brotha
/r/seduction10/07/21 01:15 AM
1

or ur just mad cause niggas said she wasnt fucking with u
/r/seduction24/06/21 04:17 PM
1

If you say so dawg, u cant handle a simple truth about women
/r/seduction24/06/21 04:16 PM
-3

You cant compare a guy to a girl g. If a girl tells you shes busy shes either not interested or busy. Its been a month. He wasnt a priority but since she has no options shes giving him a chance. That simple bro
/r/seduction23/06/21 09:57 PM
-16

She didnt seem busy, she was holding u as an option until she was done with another guy. Then once she was done with that guy she fell back to you. If a girl fucks with you she will make it a priority to see you, aint nobody busy for a whole month straight lol
/r/seduction23/06/21 08:22 PM
2

You have to be a chase. Only way to do that is to not validate and give her your attention all day while being on your purpose, and fucking the shit outta her while having a good time when you’re with her
/r/seduction23/06/21 09:30 AM
1

Exactlyy
/r/seduction23/06/21 09:27 AM
1

Yea thats bad brodie. Your non sexual attention is valuable id only sit on call for 10-15 mins max. Next time just escalate things to seeing her irl, that girl had high interest in u
/r/seduction22/06/21 09:03 PM
1

Scarcity mindset. U get attached too quickly and you’re scared to lose one girl out of 1 billion for no reason. Keep approaching women and stop clinging onto one so deeply theres a billion of girls my nigga. She went cold on you because you killed all the mystery and gave her all the attention she needed on texts. You didnt escalate it to anything. So potentially she was sexually interested into you but u fucked it up so you’re in the friendzone now. Always escalate and never text all day on sna…
/r/seduction22/06/21 08:53 PM
3

Thats just how females are g. Expect it and remember it
/r/seduction22/06/21 07:28 PM
1

Make sure you arent spending any money on her or being nice to her g.
/r/seduction11/06/21 05:13 AM
2

Give up, learn from ur mistakes and just find a new girl bro. If a girl says your nice that isnt a good compliment though u should try changing that so you’re in the middle of not being nice and not being a asshole
/r/seduction10/06/21 08:51 PM
1

Read out loud
/r/seduction08/06/21 02:19 PM
2

Facts
/r/seduction07/06/21 03:54 PM
1

Have to know females too, to even analyze where u went wrong and have the answers for your mistakes.
/r/seduction04/06/21 01:25 AM
2

I mean more times you can just feel when you fucked up by the response and feeling u get. I agree that every girl has their preferences but best believe if the shit you’re doing is causing u to be ghosted by multiple girls ur doing something wrong. Even when u get ghosted by one girl u can always look back. If u dont understand post your shit here and have someone answer it
/r/seduction04/06/21 01:23 AM
2

When you see her, focus your attention outwards brother. Theres no need to overthink because u dont know what shes gonna say, the same dialogue ur planning in your head is the same dialogue thats not gonna be used in the interaction. Focus your attention on the topic shes talking about and be curious and ask questions about it. Lead the conversation. Focus on her as well such as what shes wearing. If you’re anxious accept the emotion and be okay with it, dont fight it. If you’re really serious d…
/r/seduction04/06/21 12:42 AM
8

Bro its crazy cause when you talk to someone you can just see how nervous, anxious or how calm they are. Everyones so wrapped around their head, more times theyre not even thinking about you. I feel like everyone has to realize that. Just focus on the person you’re talking to and what theyre saying and ur gucci
/r/seduction04/06/21 12:38 AM
2

Its way too much non sexual attention g, why are you beating around the bush trying to play video games with a girl you’re trying to fuck? What loofyd’s saying is correct, you need to value your non sexual attention better. When you’re with a girl, you’re there in the present moment and you’re connecting with her, flirting, keeping sexual tension, etc. Not this g. Read my other comment i posted, you need to change your intent when talking to girls. At the end of the day you’re trying to fuck but…
/r/seduction31/05/21 12:33 PM
1

Probably your persona and the vibe ur giving off. Sounds like your a nice guy to me, you also need to change your intent when u talk to these girls. At the end of the day we’re all trying to fuck, so when you approach a girl, dont approach her in a sense that you want to be friends with her but in a sense you want to bring her back. Be playful, stop taking interactions so serious. Laugh, smile, connect with her g and learn how to sexually escalate to what u wanna do. Forget the nice guy shit, an…
/r/seduction31/05/21 12:25 PM
1

Facts, I was trying to get into the habit of doing this myself. Just gotta stop caring and fight the urge to see whether or not she replied till it becomes natural
/r/seduction31/05/21 12:20 PM
1

Drop it, do whatever you feel fam. U dont gotta go out of your way to try and increase a girls interest, do whatever you feel that pleases u
/r/seduction31/05/21 12:18 PM
1

This shit gotta stop dawg. Its not hard to get a girl n fuck her, just like its not hard to talk to your homies and have fun together. Ur just ruining your self esteem and confidence, later on in life everythings gonna bite you in the ass and ur gonna hit rock bottom g. Notice it before its too late
/r/seduction31/05/21 12:12 PM
2

Its not “what do i say”, get that out of your head brother. Every conversation is different whatever the fuck u talk about isnt gonna be the same with every girl. I use to think like this too. U dont wanna tease a girl too much, id say 3 times throughout the whole conversation all spread out. Just focus on what shes saying and go with the flow, you can tease a girl about almost anything. Then just back up what your saying with a pull
/r/seduction31/05/21 12:09 PM
1

Focus on the conversation and the speaker, and ask questions and be curious about what they’re saying. Then focus on connecting with them and stop caring what other people think of you. All an opinion is, is a thought, u cant let that dictate your life and how you wanna act. Be you and strictly ground yourself in your values, that way you dont give a fuck what other people thing. As long as your boundaries arent crossed and you’re aware of and following your values, nothing else matters g
/r/seduction31/05/21 12:04 PM
1

She was horny lol shoulda got onto that
/r/seduction31/05/21 12:00 PM
2

Stop paying for sex and take the time to learn and know about yourself better. Stop looking at paying for sex as a good thing, break that habit. Its fucking u up cause its lowering your self esteem and then you create these images of self doubt. U gotta find yourself and do all that groundwork dawg. Getting sex from a girl isnt hard, its just talking to her like a normal human being and having conversation, sexually escalate to where you want it to go and go from there. No need to pay for sex an…
/r/seduction31/05/21 11:55 AM
2

What works is not giving a fuck
/r/seduction23/05/21 10:00 AM
1

Nope
/r/seduction23/05/21 10:00 AM
-8

So look up how to flirt?
/r/seduction20/05/21 09:01 AM
1

U arent a priority and if shes just messaging you without wanting to link up in person shes using you for attention. Pull back and make it clear next time she messages you to talk in person, you dont have time for these back and forth texting games. Unless ur fine with being her texting buddy make your intentions clear my nigga
/r/seduction20/05/21 09:00 AM
6

Why the fuck do i always come back on here just to be reading some funny ass shit
/r/seduction20/05/21 08:58 AM
5

Then shes just not interested lol. Theres no science behind that become more attractive, develop better game and stop coming off as someone that wants to be her friend
/r/seduction13/05/21 07:22 AM
4

Not everything has to be boyfriend girlfriend bro, she wants to have fun go fuck her
/r/seduction13/05/21 07:19 AM
1

Lol
/r/seduction12/05/21 03:32 PM
2

Let her be and wait for her to initiate contact back.
/r/seduction07/05/21 10:25 PM
1

A girl will never love a man like a man loves a woman. And they’re actively always looking for a better upgrade so your girl will cheat on you if you guys arent solid. Stop getting emotionally attached and learn from your mistakes. All love is, is a feeling and that feeling can change.
/r/seduction07/05/21 10:51 AM
2

Women don’t know what they want and when they say they want something they really mean the opposite of that. She’ll tell u she wants a nice guy to pay all her bills, etc, but when she gets that nice guy she gets bored and gets with the bad boy
/r/seduction06/05/21 07:17 PM
9

Maybe stop taking interactions so serious
/r/seduction06/05/21 03:16 PM
2

Just had to learn and apply shit. Its that simple. It took me a year to get here, I’m still learning but im way more successful with women. Youtube video after youtube video, applying the shit I know, getting in shape. Its not overnight
/r/seduction05/05/21 10:31 PM
3

Because theres no sexual tension in that. U need to flirt and let them see u sexually as quick as possible. If you’re close to these girls u also need these conversations to lead to linking up in person. Your just like every other guy doesnt matter how hard u make them laugh fam, anybody can do that. U also have to show unavailability. Dont sit on texts with them all day and dont reply to their texts 10 seconds after she sends it. Let her wonder what you’re doing and be busy with your life, she’…
/r/seduction05/05/21 05:39 PM
2

Its not about being the saviour, it’s to differentiate the two when describing certain topics so people get a better understanding of what and what not to do.
/r/seduction05/05/21 04:42 PM
1

For sure bro
/r/seduction05/05/21 03:03 AM
2

How is any of this wrong. Lol why you hating on the mans post, everything he said is facts
/r/seduction05/05/21 02:56 AM
0

Good post. Most people have this but never realize it cause they doubt themselves too much
/r/seduction05/05/21 02:56 AM
1

Nah you should be good bro dont overthink. Just escalate how u would normally if you think shes on that bullshit u can do whatever makes u feel comfortable. But yea shes a hoe dawg just dont get attached only be there for the fun remember that.
/r/seduction05/05/21 02:45 AM
0

Rs
/r/seduction04/05/21 03:07 PM
2

Ya but this situation is different. She left you on read u shouldnt double text her g just leave it alone. If her interest is high enough she’ll get back to u. If not u just avoided so much wasted time
/r/seduction04/05/21 03:06 PM
3

Nah u can ask whenever you want. If she left u on read wait for her to initiate contact back, start a conversation and ask. If not just leave it
/r/seduction04/05/21 01:58 PM
1

Express yourself and connect with the person ur talking to more. Focus on what theyre saying and think of them as your friend, that way u can speak your mind better
/r/seduction04/05/21 01:21 PM
1

While ur doing all this friendly back and forth child shit her mind is on the alpha that makes her feel good. You havent even seen this girl yet dawg. There is no “being respectful I don’t want to escalate too quickly” thats nice guy beta male shit. Stop being a bitch and actually do something with her. All youre doing is giving her free attention and in hopes of getting pussy which you wont get because she doesnt respect you
/r/seduction04/05/21 12:58 PM
3

Weak men
/r/seduction04/05/21 09:53 AM
11

U have to get her emotionally attached too. Dick her down good but that isnt enough if u really wanna keep her chasing
/r/seduction04/05/21 09:52 AM
1

Shes a hoe and she isnt a virgin dawg, she just told you shes been around other guys. I wouldnt take her to the mall either theres no need for that u just met her. Just have fun if the other person she’s bringing is a girl run a three some or something. Dont get attached to her either or fall in love/develop feelings. Do your thing have fun and just keep her in your rotation of women that you see every so often
/r/seduction04/05/21 09:46 AM
2

Should never be chasing in the first place, u pursue them not chase thats probably why they show disinterest. Dont be too available let them miss u
/r/seduction04/05/21 05:31 AM
2

Aight fasho enjoy your day and walk off. U gotta play it cool and make it seem like she just lost a good opportunity to have fun with her life
/r/seduction03/05/21 08:22 PM
3

Being yourself
/r/seduction03/05/21 07:12 PM
1

Those things make u feel better in the inside g. Up to you if u wanna change your life though. Stop jerking off and watching porn too.
/r/seduction03/05/21 02:51 PM
2

Your energy. Gotta be the same confident and fun guy u are on texts in person
/r/seduction03/05/21 12:56 PM
3

We’re regular human beings the shit like this is normal just take it easy women dont like men that overthink anyways
/r/seduction03/05/21 09:53 AM
7

Its called overthinking
/r/seduction03/05/21 08:02 AM
2

Re read your post and fix all the things that make u feel insecure
/r/seduction02/05/21 03:21 PM
1

Lool💯
/r/seduction02/05/21 02:03 PM
-1

^ She can be talking to someone but best believe her options are open. If she was really attractive to you she wouldnt pull that card
/r/seduction02/05/21 04:11 AM
21

Lol she dont got no boyfriend dawg. Capping
/r/seduction02/05/21 02:27 AM
21

Why do you want a group to help u meet women your group should be helping u get money and advance forward in life. Stop making women seem so important dawg, you can meet a girl literally anywhere.
/r/seduction02/05/21 02:25 AM
3

Being tall, fit, masculine, a leader and making money
/r/seduction01/05/21 08:13 PM
2

Right
/r/seduction01/05/21 01:52 AM
7

Gotta realize there is more to everything in life. Women money whatever. Then u gotta have a mindset where u dont give a fuck if someone leaves because theres more to come. Theres like a billion girls out there dawg just have fun and take whatever comes with it if not leave it
/r/seduction30/04/21 05:54 PM
1

Bro stop putting this weird ass shit on my feed and everyones else is feed. Take this shit somewhere else
/r/seduction30/04/21 04:55 PM
2

Its not even about her subconscious women generally dont like nice guys and they’re aware of it. They’re boring and dont give them the emotions they need to be attached to a man
/r/seduction30/04/21 03:59 PM
1

Facts if ur gonna talk to a girl at work at least do that shit when ur about to quit. Gets weird too if shit doesnt go right
/r/seduction30/04/21 11:45 AM
1

Nah dont pickup girls at work thats bad
/r/seduction30/04/21 11:43 AM
1

You sexually escalate to make both of you guys aware that you’re into each other sexually and go from there
/r/seduction30/04/21 09:49 AM
1

For attention or to see what youre about
/r/seduction30/04/21 09:46 AM
2

So learn how to not be afraid of rejection, live in abundance and u now passed that obstacle
/r/seduction30/04/21 09:44 AM
39

When you have self love and work on yourself no girl is out of your league
/r/seduction29/04/21 07:59 AM
5

Thats probably why. Stop trying to impress them and talk to them normally. Less you care more she chases, stay in a masculine frame and they should be more open and interested in you. Everybody tries hard be different
/r/seduction28/04/21 03:48 AM
1

None of that stuff is ever required lol. When I say game im referring to flirting, sexually escalating, knowing how and when to do certain things, etc. These are stuff that keep you out of the friendzone and stay sexually attractive to her. You’re always yourself, its just like talking to your homie with seduction when communicating with girls. Its about the actions you take and how you do things
/r/seduction28/04/21 01:56 AM
1

Lost cause
/r/seduction28/04/21 12:14 AM
0

See them but not every so often. When you’re with them always have fun and escalate. U need to mix unavailability and mystery inbetween seeing them but dont wait long periods or they’ll lose interest, so setup something now or find a new girl. Cant wait couple of weeks and expect them to still be interested dawg
/r/seduction27/04/21 04:38 PM
5

U can be attractive, if you dont have game or dont know how to talk you arent getting in them guts.
/r/seduction26/04/21 11:48 AM
3

Facts
/r/seduction26/04/21 01:38 AM
1

Female psychology for the practical man
/r/seduction24/04/21 10:13 AM
2

Thats the pretty girls thinking they dont needa personality
/r/seduction24/04/21 10:10 AM
1

Do u even know what game is?
/r/seduction24/04/21 05:31 AM
1

Watch miamithekid
/r/seduction23/04/21 11:16 PM
1

😂😂😂
/r/seduction22/04/21 07:43 AM
0

It is though. Unavailability and mystery is attractive. Doing too much of anything is a turn off g
/r/seduction22/04/21 05:50 AM
1

All overly texting does is kill any mystery which is attractive to girls and shows you’re too available which means you probably dont have options or shit going for yourself. Stop letting this shit go over your head for everybody commenting, once you know this u can do what u want accordingly
/r/seduction22/04/21 05:49 AM
-5

Take this weird ass shit somewhere else
/r/seduction21/04/21 03:16 AM
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Emotions. Women are emotional its more about how she feels in that moment then her actions dictate that, you just have to play along. If she disappears on u dont hit her up till she does. If she acts disinterested play along, could be a shit test too to see how confident you are. Whatever you done with a woman a week before doesnt matter when you link up with her again. Its all about how she feels in that present moment. They’re driven by emotions
/r/seduction19/04/21 03:08 AM
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The more u realize they’re just like us the more success ull have with them
/r/seduction18/04/21 05:36 PM
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Theyre just like us
/r/seduction18/04/21 05:35 PM
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Wake up my guy
/r/seduction18/04/21 12:20 AM
You can kill a man, but you can't kill an idea.

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