Does ignoring work?

bandsupjay · 2022-03-02T10:44:08+00:00

If she’s super into you, if not it just looks like rejection.

CompetitionFair7686 · 2022-03-02T11:48:05+00:00

Not particularly. The interest a girl feels depends 99% on the emotional connection and the sexual attraction you both share.

These games are counterproductive, the guys who play them keep playing them, while the girl is already going out with other dudes.

SRS5852 · 2022-03-02T10:48:04+00:00

I think it depends on the person and how far you've gone with them.

In my very limited experience gaining some interest then pulling back seems to make the interest more intense.

This is an excellent article

https://www.theschooloflife.com/thebookoflife/should-we-play-it-cool-when-we-like-someone/

Lonely-Comment9349 · 2022-03-02T15:07:44+00:00

My advice is to prioritise yourself, do stuff, go to the gym... Fill up your life. Don't ignore her consciously, get busy doing stuff for yourself and she'll appreciate that.

My experience is that attraction should take time and I can see how trying to hurry or being too avaiable may come off as desperate and unattractive.

Give yourselves time so you can look forward to that text.

Hope it helps, / I

thriwawaygtft4df · 2022-03-02T13:41:46+00:00

Only if shes into you, if not, shes gonna move onto the next guy

pokemonpokemonmario · 2022-03-02T11:47:35+00:00

It's only cool if you actually are busy doing something more important. If you're sat there playing league scratching you ass and pretending to ignore her then it's just gonna come off as if you're a looser

JenantD80 · 2022-03-02T12:38:39+00:00

Depends. Some girls will put extra effort into getting your attention if you ignore them. Mostly insecure ones.

BUT if she know you're playing some stupid game by purposely ignoring her, she'll ghost you like you deserve.

More secure women might see you taking so long to respond as low effort or lack of interest and send you on your way.

Tread carefully.

Title	Does ignoring work?
Author	Lonely-Comment9349
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Date	March 2, 2022 10:23 AM UTC (4 years ago)
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