When she starts acting distant

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letsgetrandy · 2022-09-05T17:25:09+00:00

Generally, when people act distant it's not because of you, but because there's something else occupying their thoughts. Maybe she's concerned about work, or late on bills, or worried about a family member in the hospital.

Be careful not to make it about yourself, because you will come off as needy and push her further away. Instead, let her know that you can sense a slight distance in her demeanor and ask if something is going on that she would like to talk about. Become part of her team, rather than disgruntled onlooker.

anonyfella · 2022-09-05T17:23:36+00:00

See how she reacts to another date/meet-up, it could just be that she’s busy.

Bandit_Beamish · 2022-09-05T18:32:00+00:00

You didn't explain how she's acting distant. You said you've been texting and she seems excited to go out again so what has changed?

SnooHesitations4922 · 2022-09-05T17:35:40+00:00

Women act distant when their interest has shifted and/or they lined up who they think is a better option. I have never seen anything to prove otherwise. Only thing you can do about it is to move on yo a better looking girl and make sure she knows about it. It's most effective if u move on to one of her friends, she will pull a 180 real quick.

Ambitious-Ice2357 · 2022-09-05T18:38:29+00:00

Women always have more options then men and they’re always being pursued. If she’s acting distant it usually means there’s another guy in the mix.

spacemangoes · 2022-09-05T17:41:33+00:00

Probably you don't have chemistry. Anyways, invite her over for the next date and make a move. Take your time and open her up before making a move. If she's not cool with coming over, move on

Title	When she starts acting distant
Author	the_monstrrrr
Upvotes	3
Comments	15
Date	September 5, 2022 5:18 PM UTC (3 years ago)
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