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| 1 | 26 y/o virgin, moving to the capital city for the first time for a new role, what would you do if you were me?i have no idea bro and this sub doesn’t let me freaking post i can’t get any feedback it’s driving me a little nuts … I don’t know if it’s that i’m a catfish or not , but they seem to react well on the dates and give me good vibes. I think a part of it on the first few dates was I gave away too much personal info. health issues, beliefs, philosophical talks etc. all things I think that should be reserved for dates later on once things get more serious. Other than that I don’t have a place to pul… | /r/seduction | 13/10/22 06:03 PM |
| 1 | Do failed attempts still count as progress?idk been on 8 dates and gotten rejected on all of them. yeah i’m getting better but quite frankly it just feels like there’s something fundamentally wrong with me and i’m just repeating the same bs over and over. taking a break for a while. whatever | /r/seduction | 13/10/22 03:40 PM |
| 1 | How do I get into the game in a very advanced age?be good looking | /r/seduction | 13/10/22 03:39 PM |
| 1 | 26 y/o virgin, moving to the capital city for the first time for a new role, what would you do if you were me?i wouldn’t know i’ve gotten rejected in my past 8 dates | /r/seduction | 13/10/22 03:38 PM |
| 1 | Seems like dating apps might not be the best hookup strategymaybe cuz all the girls are getting play from tinder from the same few dudes. doesn’t mean anything. but yeah you’ll have more chances online , albeit very little to none if you’re average | /r/seduction | 13/10/22 03:38 PM |
| 1 | Telling women they're hot on dating apps or irl?yeah they’re already insanely stuck up | /r/seduction | 13/10/22 03:37 PM |
| 1 | What are the biggest pillars in building attraction?be good looking and have money | /r/seduction | 13/10/22 03:36 PM |
| 1 | I’m to passive with girls and i feel that’s hurting my date gaming.meh i’m not passive anymore and still constantly get rejected. but i don’t have regret anymore and that’s nice | /r/seduction | 13/10/22 03:36 PM |
| 1 | Is it true that dating become easier in your 30s?no you probably will just have more money. i’ve been on a bunch of dates and i realize girls are so picky now if you don’t have your own place and disposable cash you can forget it unless you get lucky | /r/seduction | 13/10/22 03:33 PM |
| 1 | Do I have to go on a bunch of dates just to get laid?yeah bro annoying went on like 7 in two months and only scored once | /r/seduction | 04/10/22 08:08 PM |
| 1 | Hookup app Tinder vs Facebook dating?um yeah we went on a date and i boned her in my car within the hour | /r/seduction | 04/10/22 08:07 PM |
| 1 | Hookup app Tinder vs Facebook dating?i have it was pretty funny lol | /r/seduction | 03/10/22 09:47 AM |
| 7 | How to not get friendzoned by a girl?I actually just did this to a girl by holding her hand and she said it wasn’t a bad thing but she was surprised. then she blushed super hard lol. i agree and i’m glad i shot my shot | /r/seduction | 03/10/22 02:49 AM |
| 1 | Am I doing something wrong?idk bro been on 7 dates and a girl i was taking to for weeks and still can’t land a score. fucking sucks | /r/seduction | 02/10/22 03:05 AM |
| 1 | trying this sub at a recommendation, really need help 29mlifts are shoes with extra inches of height. i usually run them at 2.5 inches. beyond 3 could be noticeable , but up to 2.8 it’s not noticeable. i’m 5’4 and currently talking to a girl 3 inches taller. in fact all my gfs have been taller than me. helps you get your foot in the door | /r/seduction | 28/09/22 02:33 PM |
| 2 | trying this sub at a recommendation, really need help 29msorry you had a bad experience with this but quite frankly most people here are either straight retarted and just good looking or decent looking with great game and those guys tend not to post too much afte r a while. You’ll probably just get dudes telling you it’s your confidence or something idiotic like that. it could be. you said you have anxiety. work on that. besides that girls are hard to get. either cold approach indirectly and get good at it or find some hobby or social gathering settin… | /r/seduction | 27/09/22 06:26 PM |
| 1 | trying this sub at a recommendation, really need help 29mgo indirect | /r/seduction | 27/09/22 06:25 PM |
| 1 | Not texting for a whole day after a datewow are you me? happened to me and she wouldn’t try to reschedule or set things up and eventually ghosted me. sorry dude idk why same here i’ve been on 7 dates and 5 girls ghosted me, even if they were well below my looks level. weird. idk i made some mistakes but i’m surprised it was enough for them to ghost me the other two didn’t but i wasn’t really interested in keeping that going | /r/seduction | 25/09/22 06:52 PM |
| 2 | Had a great first date, now I think I'm being ghostedlmaoooo this happened to me my first time bro. you’ll get used to it , it’s a numbers game. girls have a lot of options and during the date it’s almost awkward to not go along nicely with it. don’t take it too personally and keep moving | /r/seduction | 22/09/22 06:38 AM |
| 1 | What is considered an "attractive" score on PhotoFeeler ?i mean to give you a good example of OLD ive been on 7 dates in the past 2 months and 5 of them really didn’t pan through. the others i wasn’t that into. online dating can be very hit or miss because girls don’t like that story of “we met online” and they will factor that into the equation | /r/seduction | 22/09/22 06:32 AM |
| 7 | How/when do I approach girls at a college campus?with all due respect in a college campus setting you are in a very social environment and this may not be the most prudent. I would just switch the approach to an indirect approach, ask about the schools, clases general questions etc. be situational in a food line “hey do they have x today? oh these prices did they go up? so high huh?” even if you know the answers pretend you’re clueless. from there you can either warm approach them in the future “hey i remember you thank for the help” or introd… | /r/seduction | 20/09/22 05:11 AM |
| 2 | What is considered an "attractive" score on PhotoFeeler ?idk how accurate that website will really be. You can just tell by how girls treat you in real life. If you get a lot of good strong indicators from girls regularly you are likely attractive . just be very aware of how new girls you meet (that are single) treat you then again a girl can treat you like shit and still sleep with you so take that with a grain of salt it depends | /r/seduction | 19/09/22 12:41 PM |
| 2 | Depressed because lack of sexI actually do have sex bro that’s why I’m bringing up what i’m bringing up. like the other guy said working on himself won’t necessarily fix the loneliness. you can do eve thing right and still not have a mate and be lonely. no reason for him to beat himself up more. he can accept his situation and continue to do his best to succeed. he shouldn’t be belittled because he hasn’t had success and others have. it likely has nothing to do with his personal self worth, dating is largely involved in loo… | /r/seduction | 19/09/22 12:35 PM |
| 9 | Unpopular opinion: most men are totally okay with waiting to have sex. We just feel immense amount of pressure to make moves on dates because we don't want to be friendzoned.absolutely same it SUCKS. why can’t i just go on a few chill dates and we like each other start dating and have sex. naw it has to be a whole ordeal where i have to ask her a million times to head back to my place or try to escalate and it just makes things a stupid game… hence the name i guess … | /r/seduction | 19/09/22 12:30 PM |
| 4 | Depressed because lack of sexdon’t listen to these retards bro. someone who’s having regular sex can’t talk about what it’s like to not have it . at the end of the day it’s an emotional connection between two people and that’s something that humans have evolved with. it’s normal to be sad about not having companionship. doesn’t make you less of a person or mean you’re internally fucked up at all. you can be perfectly fine and still not have a partner want you, especially as a man, it’s just the nature of biology, finding a … | /r/seduction | 19/09/22 06:45 AM |
| 1 | Depressed because lack of sexlmfao what kind of psych are you going to bro 😂 | /r/seduction | 19/09/22 06:43 AM |
| 56 | Women, why you do that?cuz there’s probably a bunch of other simps doing the same . i don’t use social media with girls unless the girl is adamant about it | /r/seduction | 15/09/22 03:35 PM |
| 7 | Seduction methods doesn't work hereyep noticed that lately. as i’ve gotten more dates the girls are quite picky , and mistakes are noted and held against me . basically have to be perfect . but i’m getting close to that goal | /r/seduction | 10/09/22 01:21 PM |
| 1 | How do I get over the fact that I won't have sex until I'm a adult in my 20s and missed out on sex and dating as a teenager?most of us did , i’d say minority of guys had sex in HS / as teens. you’ll get over it. if you take life that seriously you’ll never be happy. you will learn to appreciate things as you grow | /r/seduction | 10/09/22 01:18 PM |
| 2 | Toxic advice in the book "models"i could totally see where someone could take this the wrong way. I think what he’s saying is just sometimes you need to try to go for a kiss for example a few times even if she rejects the first advance on it feels right. girls will say no because they’re not ready. but you need to understand when they’re saying not yet and when they’re saying no. this is the problem , some people won’t understand that boundary and could act socially un calibrated getting themselves in trouble or putting the gir… | /r/seduction | 10/09/22 01:14 PM |
| 3 | Kissing on the first date, rejected/ghosted for the second datehey man we’re getting dates we are doing better than 90% of men , at this point it’s only a matter of time but we just gotta keep grinding | /r/seduction | 08/09/22 12:23 PM |
| 6 | Kissing on the first date, rejected/ghosted for the second datesame i keep getting ghosted but ive kissed all 7 girls in all 7 dates i’ve been on. it hurts man fucking sucks | /r/seduction | 08/09/22 12:19 AM |
| 2 | I fucked upsame happened to me man but i really did try and she just wanted to go slow . after second date she just started replying super slow and dodging my invites. i don’t think too much on it… she’s a cute girl and has plenty of options and i just wasn’t good enough it is what it is doesnt mean i’m not good enough but in her head i guess I wasn’t | /r/seduction | 08/09/22 12:17 AM |
| 9 | How do I get rid of this bottled up frustration from being unable to attract women as a 26year old male? I’m always alone and have no one to talk to and it makes me so mad because I can’t figure it out.I think most men nowadays feel the way you do. dating is really hard for men. don’t feel like you’re the exception | /r/seduction | 06/09/22 08:12 AM |
| 1 | When she starts acting distantthis is kind of the scenario i’m in… she literally answers like every two days and keeps dodging my questions . i’m just gonna stop replying it is what it is | /r/seduction | 05/09/22 08:05 PM |
| 1 | I have been wearing height inserts for 5 months and I am afraid I will get exposed.that’s a bit much wear 2.5s but seriously no one notices or cares if you don’t mention it | /r/seduction | 05/09/22 03:56 AM |
| 1 | Why am I so sad/depresssed after so many first dates?brooo same man i’ve been on like 7 dates in a month and a half and i haven’t had any luck. got ghosted by one girl i really liked. and i have one girl i got a date 2 with but she honestly only replies once a day and i don’t even think she really likes me… i’m getting better every date but i’m also getting so burned out … it hurts to get rejected. most of these girls i actually wouldn’t have dated but i would’ve probably spent some time with them. at least we’re getting dates and that’s better th… | /r/seduction | 04/09/22 06:45 PM |
| 1 | How the hell do people do thiseven if you do get dates it’s still freaking hard been on like 7 now in two months and i still haven’t had any luck… close calls but idk i’m getting burned out | /r/seduction | 04/09/22 06:43 PM |
| 1 | Girls will openly look at other attractive guys when talking to a guy to make them jealousthat’s not a reason to be a creep … | /r/seduction | 04/09/22 06:41 PM |
| 0 | Girls will openly look at other attractive guys when talking to a guy to make them jealoussure we can agree to disagree though i wouldn’t do it for social reasons | /r/seduction | 04/09/22 05:35 AM |
| 3 | Girls will openly look at other attractive guys when talking to a guy to make them jealousare you sure she won’t just find it a bit creepy? i don’t really do that , but i do just look around in general to the room so i’m not staring at her constantly | /r/seduction | 03/09/22 08:55 PM |
| 8 | Girls will openly look at other attractive guys when talking to a guy to make them jealousnever really noticed this lol at least certainly never on a date among friends sure but they can do what they want lol | /r/seduction | 03/09/22 08:54 PM |
| 1 | I’m in a predicamentlost my virginity at 20. keep your head up that’s normal | /r/seduction | 03/09/22 07:28 PM |
| 4 | How do you meet women and where have you had the most success?online mostly then through friends then through work then cold approach to be fair though if I had more drive I could probably do much better in cold approach than the other two but it does kind of require good logistics (a place to pull to) cuz you might wind up approaching really high quality girls | /r/seduction | 03/09/22 07:27 PM |
| 2 | third date planningyeah bro i’m about to go on a third date soon! finally! hopefully she’ll be my gf soon :) definitely going to just invite her to chill at my crib nothing fancy this time hopefully things will flow & stuff | /r/seduction | 03/09/22 05:47 PM |
| 0 | If having hobbies makes you attractive to women, why isn’t attractive if a guy is into video games and Reddit as opposed to more traditional hobbies?because i can write amazing music for a girl or for people and spark emotion and feeling and future potential while you jack off and play video games | /r/seduction | 02/09/22 02:05 PM |
| 1 | Community college cold approach tipseyy this is good advice i would’ve said roughly the same just tth to be as indirect as possible cuz if it’s a small community school you’ll see her again and worse case you can just be like hey you helped me other time how are you how are classes going (it is now a warm approach! don’t burn out your sets looking to close quick in a small college setting like that | /r/seduction | 02/09/22 03:25 AM |
| 0 | You’re on a date and having a good time but you can feel things getting a bit too platonic - what’s the best way to sexualise things?personally when i feel that “feeling” it means it’s been too long in one spot and i need to escalate, my first escalation is moving her to another bar for another drink , this is like a “second date change of scenery feeling”. i’m there till i feel it again thennext i walk her around and try to hold her hand , then when i feel it again i go for a kiss and so on that “feeling” for me is always an indicator of a need to escalate | /r/seduction | 31/08/22 02:27 AM |
| 1 | When you know she's into you but can't maintain eye contactread over my profile comments , be indirect with a question , see how she responds , if interested cold read her and introduce yourself , oh thanks didn’t mean to bother you were you in the middle of something , well i appreciate it i’m X , are from around here you definitely give me (this area) vibes. … etc etc after this you can be like what are you up to right now come keep me company i’m waiting for a friend blah blah insta date , go for a hand hold while you walk next to her after building … | /r/seduction | 31/08/22 12:48 AM |
| 25 | FWB with an older woman?facetime her before | /r/seduction | 30/08/22 02:09 PM |
| 1 | I’m tryna get asian girls but I’m failingnah chinese lol | /r/seduction | 29/08/22 07:09 PM |
| 1 | I’m tryna get asian girls but I’m failingi’ve had one asian girl lol it was fun | /r/seduction | 29/08/22 04:47 AM |
| 1 | Got a little wild with a date at my favorite bar. Afraid of going back with new dateslmfao don’t sweat it bro i’m sure they’re used to it. i feel the same way about my bartender cuz i’ve taken 7 dates there in a month lmfao i feel like she thinks i’m a savage but it really isn’t a bit deal you’re a dude and having a great time so many guys wish they could even score a date | /r/seduction | 28/08/22 08:13 PM |
| 0 | How many dates before you invite a girl back to your placei always mention we can go back to my crib but i genuinely say it from the perspective of like if we’re sitting here doing nothing we can go back and chill. if she says no i don’t mention it anymore but generally i might mention it at the end of dates just casually and joke about her not taking advantage of me lol. i don’t think they ever find it a bit deal to mention like what’s next so long as you don’t make it obviously or creepy that you’re expecting sex and stuff | /r/seduction | 28/08/22 08:11 PM |
| 5 | What do you say when a girls asks you about your previous relationships/experience and your a virgin?depends how old you are. i didn’t lie when i was 20 and i dated another virgin. but if you’re older you might just wanna lie a little to not freak them out | /r/seduction | 28/08/22 03:52 PM |
| 1 | What do I say when women ask me, “how many girls have you slept with”?id say like 8 but i’m at 10 so i’m usually just honest since it’s not high | /r/seduction | 28/08/22 07:49 AM |
| 1 | Girl decides to start being receptive and texting again, trying to meet up for a hobby but then she doesn’t respond for a dayto be honest man the more you force that the worse it is. i just assume attraction during the date if she seems happy and is having a good time and just go for the kiss. then if they’re into (two of my past 7 dates have been) they’ll be all over you lmao. but you can squint your eyes a bit and smile and smirk and stuff give her eye contact and then break it so it’s not awkward, most importantly hold her hand for a bit while your walking to make sure she’s into you before going for the kiss it sh… | /r/seduction | 27/08/22 11:03 PM |
| 1 | Should I just start cold approaching in college?don’t be a creep and make it obvious. just ask questions around campus you already know the answer to, see if it segways into convo. if not when you see them again it’ll be a warm approach “hey you helped me other time right thanks , how you been” basically just be indirect and don’t stay in the same area and don’t be too obvious and you’ll be fine | /r/seduction | 27/08/22 03:45 PM |
| 1 | I hope I can get my wish somedayfind a gay dude who likes to get railed 😂 | /r/seduction | 27/08/22 03:44 PM |
| 16 | It's not that 'nice guys' finish last, it's men who only act nice as a result of them being too weak to stand up for themselves or their beliefs that will lack success.like i’ve said before it’s just correlation. you see a cool good looking nice guy with a girl and you don’t think about it. you see a god looking asshole with a girl and think “wow see nice guys finish last”. they don’t. both get girls , but you’re focused on the assholes cuz it stands out | /r/seduction | 27/08/22 03:42 PM |
| 1 | Girl decides to start being receptive and texting again, trying to meet up for a hobby but then she doesn’t respond for a dayso you never even tried to kiss her? imo that’s a huge issue , i have this girl that literally barely replies and every time i think it’s over and she ghosted me yet she does eventually reply and went out with me on a date and seems interested in a second , go figure | /r/seduction | 27/08/22 03:41 PM |
| 3 | I don’t think relationships are for medo whatever you want? you’re 23, that’s normal | /r/seduction | 27/08/22 03:40 PM |
| 1 | Seeking validation?sounds like you just have high standards but aren’t at the mate value of your own standards. honestly man i fell in love with my ex and she wasn’t even that hot. but i really learned to love her for who she was and what she looked like a learned to love her imperfections. she was a lot like me and we got a long really well. unfortunately she was crazy. just don’t decide on a girl right when you meet her if you get along with her it’ll take a few dates and some time before you really bond like th… | /r/seduction | 26/08/22 07:28 PM |
| 1 | Cannot find any girls on OLD that I am attracted tohate tattoos and lip fillers fucking gross | /r/seduction | 25/08/22 01:00 PM |
| 1 | How to not fall into black pill thinking when...i mean i’m short i’m just good looking. i can get girls around my height and looks level. maybe you’re aiming too high? i’ve still been on like 7 dates and every girl either flaked or we went too far hooking up during the date or i wasn’t into them. i’m exhausted and i need like a month break before trying again… just to show you ever when you are doing good you can still fail cuz girls are just by their nature high value and have lots of options it is what it is | /r/seduction | 25/08/22 12:59 PM |
| 1 | Do you guys ask for Instagram when you meet a girl on OLD?not really unless she asks me | /r/seduction | 23/08/22 04:20 PM |
| 1 | Getting girls works best when you don't give a sh*treally? cuz i do think about what i’m gonna say , i’m methodical , i give a shit , and i still succeed , you’re just coping. up your game | /r/seduction | 23/08/22 04:19 PM |
| 1 | How to keep interest when you can’t meet her for two weeks?i’ve been on multiple dates now two weeks away from OLD marching , I try to run it like this: once I ask for the date, I maybe text a few times a day for 1-2 days, then say goodnight , then text her again 1-2 days later for another day or two then say goodnight rinse and repeat until the date bonus if i can get her on the phone sometime if she texts me within that post goodbye phase before i re text her it means she’s really into me and i can ease up on my texting and just comment on my day with… | /r/seduction | 23/08/22 03:48 PM |
| 5 | I had my heart broken and I want revenge. I'm asking for help on how to do thatyeah bro this is toxic that girl is obviously into her ex still move on | /r/seduction | 23/08/22 03:46 PM |
| 1 | Day game or cold approaching is advanced shit. Stop killing your self and go game at a dive bar.seriously lol she’s the only one at the dive bar you blow out the set and then go home and jerk off? sounds like bad advice | /r/seduction | 23/08/22 12:38 PM |
| 1 | How to stop caring what she’s doing?hooked up with some girl and she told me at the end of the date she’s leaving the city -.- so annoying | /r/seduction | 23/08/22 12:36 PM |
| 1 | Advice for Single Guys Who Are Strugglingidk man i just had a great date and i wouldn’t have been able to this before without working on my talents (music) game and pictures. like it was a lot of fun and back in the day i wasn’t able to lead and work the way i do now on a date | /r/seduction | 23/08/22 02:50 AM |
| 4 | Advice for Single Guys Who Are Strugglinglooks , confidence , game , luck , status (fame/friends/etc) , money , logistics etc. yes they all matter but, you can break half of them down and just categorize it into game, status and looks if a girl is into you but one the fence your game will determine if you get her if she’s not attracted to you there’s not much you can do , but you can try , which is were luck comes in | /r/seduction | 22/08/22 08:54 PM |
| 2 | 1- 10 how can the voice increase your value?a lot but it’s mostly keeping your tonality low and chill. a phone call will do a lot more than voice messages. some girls aren’t into that so you’d have to feel it out. i use voice messages if the girls ends me one first or if she replies to one i send with another voice | /r/seduction | 22/08/22 08:51 PM |
| 20 | Advice for Single Guys Who Are Strugglingdude ignore the trolls of course it’s useless. it’s a mix of both looks and game. but if your looks are lacking and the girl isn’t into you no amount of confidence will make her want you. same as no amount of confidence a girl shows me will make me want her if i don’t find her attractive. nothing wrong with that, just keep gaming more girls. it’s just biology though. the guy does have a point though. what your saying isn’t confidence that’s just being a dumbass. confidence is escalating , going … | /r/seduction | 22/08/22 08:48 PM |
| 1 | Dating is always summarised to looks, no matter whatwelp idk why so many people here deny looks theory but yeah it only makes sense. looks matter and are often the most important part to get your in the door , but usually the rest will be up to your game. It is a mix of both, but if you’re too ugly you won’t get your foot in the door with most girls. People cope cuz they don’t want to believe it i guess, but people also cope by saying it’s only about looks cuz they don’t want to put in the work or accept their game can help. It is a reality that … | /r/seduction | 22/08/22 11:21 AM |
| 1 | Are there any skinny guys here that have no trouble getting women?yes… you’re 5’11… i’m 5’4… work on your game | /r/seduction | 21/08/22 07:47 PM |
| 2 | I get approached in the club and get told I’m very good looking by women but then don’t secure the baglmaooo the bag | /r/seduction | 20/08/22 11:01 PM |
| 1 | If you are attractive, how much effort should put in?just be cool, rather than show her too much interest just interact nonchalantly and when you see the signs she’s into you (eyes wide, pupils displayed, body language, laughing a lot) rather than talk more just go for the hand hold and kiss. be alpha homie | /r/seduction | 20/08/22 10:58 PM |
| 1 | Is it necessary or helpful to turn the conversation sexual when you’re escalating or not?personally i don’t like to actually talk about it. it’s all in the tension and talking about it kills it. the most ill say is something as a joke like oh yeah we can always go back to my crib and bang and then be like haha jk but i’m really not i don’t use that more than once tho cuz what really attracts girls is when you don’t say but feel the tension and act on it (hold their hand, go for a kiss etc) | /r/seduction | 20/08/22 04:02 PM |
| 2 | Breakfast dates are underrated - OLD Day game tipsoh it absolutely does. i’m 27 now. having waaaay more success than i used to. definitely younger girls are harder to deal with and much less straightforward. i’m actually talking to a 20 year old rn lmao. i don’t think she would’ve gone for a such a forward approach. but i agree older girls have a higher chance of skipping the bs. girls of all ages definitely seem to take me more seriously now than i’m older | /r/seduction | 20/08/22 03:27 PM |
| 1 | If women don’t have sex with random people, need an emotional connection…how are these dating coaches sleeping with 100’s of women ?sorry man i’m not gonna share that here lol , nothing wrong with this sub but people unfortunately have a negative outlook on men sharing dating advice | /r/seduction | 20/08/22 03:22 PM |
| 2 | Breakfast dates are underrated - OLD Day game tipshey man we can agree to disagree. just don’t say it’s confidence cuz i’m confident and been with plenty of girls. but i have a harder time than my pretty boy friends and have to run different game from them. their lines don’t work for me. i’m just not ignorant of the fact that i’m not the best looking guy. nothing wrong with that. I also just have a really high success rate right now getting my matches out on dates so i’ll stick to that. taking high risk pot shots doesn’t make sense to me cuz i … | /r/seduction | 20/08/22 03:20 PM |
| 3 | If women don’t have sex with random people, need an emotional connection…how are these dating coaches sleeping with 100’s of women ?yep on the other hand I do have to build that emotional connection cuz i’m not a pretty boy lmao i use my skills like my music making , charm, social value etc to get me on that level . unlike him though i’ve become so much more well versed because I’ve struggled more. my music is amazing and I can seriously say i only did it for girls and now i ha ve an amazing gift that might seriously get me famous one day | /r/seduction | 20/08/22 03:02 PM |
| 2 | Breakfast dates are underrated - OLD Day game tipsdude come on it’s about looks. i’m not good looking enough to be doing that. there’s different strategies for different looks levels. my strategy works well, and it will work well for men i’m lower stats. i’m proud of it and i’ve tried your direct approach before and it hasn’t worked. different strategies for different people this works for me and ill stick to it. just sharing some value my pics are maxed out. any better and i’d be catfishing and i hate doing that. i know it’s maxed out cuz i ge… | /r/seduction | 20/08/22 02:58 PM |
| 1 | If women don’t have sex with random people, need an emotional connection…how are these dating coaches sleeping with 100’s of women ?yeah but like he doesn’t really do anything. sometimes he just grabs the girls ass and is like let’s go upstairs 😂 that doesn’t work for me I escalate too but it’s very covert. Feel out their signals, get close to them as we talk, let the back of our hands graze, if she keeps it there I told her hand, then I go for the kiss, then I hold her hand and lead her to where I want etc etc | /r/seduction | 20/08/22 02:53 PM |
| 2 | Breakfast dates are underrated - OLD Day game tipsthis is interesting , but that forward approach doesn’t work very well for me my structure for OLD is Cold read > Topic 1 (Ethinicity) > Topic 2 (School/Work) > Close for Number > Topic 3 (Pets - send oic of animal i saw that day) > Topic 4 (what are you up to) > Close for Date (drinks at a nearby bar with a nice view) > Text for 1 more day, say goodnight if the date is far > Try to get a phone call if possible > Reinitiate to give her space between > Go on date > Try to close > Otherwise 2nd da… | /r/seduction | 20/08/22 02:49 PM |
| 6 | If women don’t have sex with random people, need an emotional connection…how are these dating coaches sleeping with 100’s of women ?yeah he’s one my best best friends super cool dude, but his game is just “don’t fuck it up” game. I have more game than him. He’s a tall pretty boy lol but he is a cool as dude as well even if he doesn’t consciously use “conventional game” and just chills out most of the time he doesn’t do anything to mess up the interaction and that’s more than half the battle imo. He also leads and escalates which is the other half. I just have a more conscious methodical way of doing all that. | /r/seduction | 20/08/22 02:42 PM |
| 1 | Has anyone here gotten plastic surgery and noticed any difference?Don’t listen to everyone else. Yeah being ugly will hurt your chances. Plastic surgery can fix serious flaws. But there is a high chance it can break your “facial harmony”. This is SO important. Unless you have a major defect you should focus on growing a beard, maybe growing your hair, getting some lifts etc. Even if you get good surgery, if you don’t have any real flaws like a severely recessed jawline that is recommended by your doctors to fix, or deformities, you will 90% of the time fuck up… | /r/seduction | 20/08/22 02:36 PM |
| 1 | I give upjust keep going bro you’re so freaking young I got my first gf at 20. was a virgin before that. gave up at like 24 afterwards, then got back into it like at 26, got another gf and now i’ve been doing pretty well talking to a few girls, making music , getting flakes and ghosts but that’s part of the process. Just know it’s natural to feel down and when you try again you can often times succeed. But sometimes you just need a chill pill. At least for me, as i’ve aged, it’s become easier, because ol… | /r/seduction | 20/08/22 02:28 PM |
| 4 | If women don’t have sex with random people, need an emotional connection…how are these dating coaches sleeping with 100’s of women ?I have just regular friends that are really good looking and have banged 50 girls by 21 just off like meeting people. I would say i’m surprised to hear laycouts in the 100s+ , not cuz it can’t be done but because personally it would make me sad. I like giving my heart to one person, and I feel I haven’t been really emotionally attached to too many girls so I feel I can still pair bond really well and I like that | /r/seduction | 20/08/22 02:26 PM |
| 2 | why do women string guys along until they find someone better and then tell guys not to do the same?meh to be fair i do the same thing lmao | /r/seduction | 20/08/22 06:47 AM |
| 1 | I give uphey man i gave up at one point too. then got tired of giving up. grew out a beard with midox. started making music. started finally getting matches. getting better at talking to girls. leading for dates… still getting flaked on a lot but i’m doing much better than before… just know i thjnk everyone has a phase of giving up and then wanting to try again. it is natural. by the time this phase repeats once or twice you should’ve either had success or become old enough that the dating pool gets much… | /r/seduction | 20/08/22 06:33 AM |
| 63 | If women love sex , why do they make it hard to get ?it is a mix of them liking you already AND you seducing them what i would say is if a women isn’t into you or doesn’t like your looks there isn’t really anything you can do to persuade them they already made their choice game is more so about persuading women who are on the fence , they’re into you but not enough to just flat out go for it it’s like when you barely know someone and eventually they become your really good friend , but you had to spend a little more time with them before that frie… | /r/seduction | 20/08/22 03:08 AM |
| 5 | r/ seduction, does grabbing a girls tits get you out of the friend zone?jesus dude wtf lmao definitely entered the creep rapist zone that’s not escalating that’s being socially inept | /r/seduction | 19/08/22 11:19 PM |
| 7 | As a girl, how do I hit on a girl?“hey do you know what’s due for next class Oh thanks this professor is a pain/great right Where did you go to school? (Personal questions chat) Wanna grab a bite with me after class , waiting for a friend but they told me they’re gonna take forever Go from there… look for signals… escalate… we should hang out again , have you ever kissed a girl etc etc , come over my crib let’s chill , if she gives you signs go for a kiss etc. Mind you, there’s a reason there’s a whole sub for his. Seducing wome… | /r/seduction | 19/08/22 06:56 AM |
| 5 | None of this advice works for me. I have tried exercise, new clothes, dating apps, cold approaching, none of it works.hey man people are gonna rag on you “focus on yourself first , blah blah blah”. naw man gonna give it to you straight rn, yeah there’s a chance you’re just too ugly. sorry man, girls have high standards now a days. now I have a feeling if you had a chance with a girl much uglier than you, you’d probably say no. so first ask yourself: are you looking for a girl, or a girl you like . if it’s girl you LIKE, well you’re shooting up so don’t expect it to be easy. chances are you’re not that ugly and … | /r/seduction | 19/08/22 06:49 AM |
| 3 | How do I talk to a girl at a concert? Do I make it quick?“hey do you know when the band plays “ do you know if anyone else is playing oh thanks yeah they’re so good huh are you from this area you look like it but you give me like an X vibe oh where are you from at this point she knows you’re hitting on her and if she stays she’s into you | /r/seduction | 18/08/22 11:18 PM |
| 1 | Started Seeing Girl I Really Like. When Do We Talk About Relationship?this makes me a bit jealous :’) happy for you. just take it easy man. don’t be too serious bringing up a serious talk. you can say something funny like if she gets jealous be like oooh are you jealous? you want me all to yourself? I think i’d be ok with that But usually I ask girls out at the 4 week / month mark if we’re like basically already dating most girls will bring up dating etc within that time frame and you know you’re good. don’t let it go too long to the point though they think you’re… | /r/seduction | 18/08/22 10:58 PM |
| 1 | Got attached then got refused.it’s actually not about not confessing feelings, it’s about just taking action going for the kiss etc without telling her. it’s hot and masculine, girls want to experience it not hear about it. of course as long as she’s giving you signals don’t use this as an excuse to harass a girl that’s not into you lol | /r/seduction | 18/08/22 10:54 PM |
| 7 | it really isn't difficult.yeah unfortunately my problem is my standards are pretty high… it’s not like 8-9 standards just a girl that cute and skinny , but i guess nowadays cute skinny girls are heavily wanted so it’s a pain in the ass (i still manage to get cute gfs just takes a lot of rejections and ghosts getting there lol) nonetheless i’d recon most dudes on here aren’t really having trouble getting laid , they’re just having trouble finding a girl that matches their standards | /r/seduction | 18/08/22 05:06 AM |
| 38 | it really isn't difficult.just remember man you’re getting matches and girls agreeing to dates. I’ve had uglier friends than me use the same exact lines and i’ve tried to run their profiles and the girls just don’t answer the way they answer me. your experience will drastically vary based on your looks level. I appreciate the feedback thanks for sharing i just don’t like it when people say “it’s not that hard” because that’s subjective based on your looks profile / money / logistics / etc | /r/seduction | 18/08/22 04:56 AM |
| 1 | Need advice -- what I did wrong? and if she is interested?jesus dawg just say a drink not a movie that’s weird and you barely talk that’s like a gf date | /r/seduction | 17/08/22 11:08 PM |
| 2 | For the people who learned mystery method he mentions female attraction mechanism, what is it that activates itbeing hot , being able to hold a conversation , being funny but not all the time , being able to lead when the moment arrives | /r/seduction | 17/08/22 11:07 PM |
| 1 | Tinder Rant from ex-PUA. OG PUAget reked | /r/seduction | 17/08/22 08:21 PM |
| 1 | Tinder Rant from ex-PUA. OG PUAI think everyone here already knows Tinder blows , you just figured this out now ?? | /r/seduction | 17/08/22 12:53 PM |
| 3 | How to handle girl flaking on date?you can follow up but after that you’re done bro stop and one line doesn’t help but it won’t necessarily break and interaction if they’re into you she’s probably just not that into you | /r/seduction | 16/08/22 09:26 PM |
| 2 | why is online game stacked against men?i don’t understand i’ve been with plenty of girls , ive had dates lays and a gf from online , but I acknowledge that I am a good looking guy and I have talents and relative wealth. I’m not going to tell someone who’s not getting matches at all that it’s something they’re doing wrong , maybe they’re not that attractive , or don’t have a social life or don’t have talents , thing wrong with that but girls just have high standards so i’m not gonna lie to them | /r/seduction | 16/08/22 04:21 PM |
| 1 | I really just want a LTR and family with a high value woman, what can I do over the next few years to make myself into a high value man?I make music , but I have a gift so I’m good at it. I can’t really teach someone to make music , it’s more of an inborn thing. So i’d tell you to just choose something you really love and get good at it and it’ll be something that makes you stand out | /r/seduction | 16/08/22 02:27 PM |
| 2 | why is online game stacked against men?I do get them out on dates. Done be naive. Like I said it’s not that they won’t date a guy from online but they won’t date a guy that isn’t a catch hence they will only date a rea hot guy from online if they’re gonna have that backstory , in person with a better backstory they are more lenient | /r/seduction | 16/08/22 02:18 PM |
| 0 | Owen Cook (Tyler RSD) infieldjust don’t listen to his advice he games infield with different techniques than he teaches watch what he does not what he says in his lecture portion | /r/seduction | 16/08/22 12:52 AM |
| 1 | Milfs on dating sites keep treating me like a baby.naw man i usually ask questions go into small comments on them like 2-3 then ask for number then 2-3 then ask for date then after that text them periodically for bursts and say goodnight or try to get them on the phone before the date just be cool and normal, but if you don’t push forward the interaction it’ll stale out so you have to ask for number dates etc or phone calls or rescheduling to build rapport and give the interaction a sense of purpose | /r/seduction | 16/08/22 12:22 AM |
| 12 | why is online game stacked against men?I think because women have it pretty easy and they also find it embarrassing to meet someone online so if they’re gonna have that backstory the guy needs to be top tier since dating is easier for them they try to focus on in person guys , since then it can have their good backstory, and it’s often difficult for most random men to become a part of that unless they cold approach. | /r/seduction | 16/08/22 12:18 AM |
| 3 | Getting girls is easylmfao if it was easy everyone would get laid brother | /r/seduction | 15/08/22 02:01 PM |
| 1 | Do you text a girl everyday until the date?Ill type up my take. I usually text and ask them out on day one or like a few texts in. Then once set up I try to call them that same day if the date is a bit far to build some rapper and then say goodnight and imitate again a few days later. If the date is soon or they’re not down for a phone call i’ll just say i’m tired say goodnight and text her again two or 3 days later like hey how’s your week going text another day and then repeat | /r/seduction | 15/08/22 01:41 PM |
| 6 | Played by three different girls in one night for my table at a clublmfao yeah OP this is called being a dumbass girls will take advantage of any sucker good looking or not they get plenty of good looking dudes hitting on them on any given night | /r/seduction | 14/08/22 08:56 PM |
| 1 | “A direct approach demonstrates great confidence”yes bro it’s so fucking cringe it’s really sad that that became a predominant belief when it’s so clearly terrible advice. only works for very good looking men like Tusk who just spams in the hopes someone gives him a chance cuz it’s easier to just do that then actually calibrate or be indirect and transition smoothly etc | /r/seduction | 14/08/22 08:48 PM |
| 3 | do women in general see PUA or anything related to PUA as a red flag?i’m gonna disagree with that and mention that it depends how you go about it. I don’t lie on my approaches. I’m just putting myself in a position for a woman to decide if they like me or not. Also i’m looking for a gf so i don’t just do it for lays. But most people aren’t good enough so they come out in a harassing way or they lie about berthing in an attempt to force the woman to like them instead of just letting her decide without pressure Also plenty of people who do actually do it just for s… | /r/seduction | 14/08/22 08:43 PM |
| 1 | Height is a killer for college5’7-5’9 is “bad” compared to 6’0 + but it’s still coping to thjnk that’s what stopping you that height is fine a small percentage of the population is close to 6’0 | /r/seduction | 14/08/22 07:22 PM |
| 1 | Looks Max Guide 2022interesting is that over the counter ? i’ll check it out but so far i’m happy with the rate of the growth | /r/seduction | 14/08/22 07:22 PM |
| 2 | Height is a killer for collegeit’s not easy but regardless of where you live if you’re taller or same height as the girl you do have a shot | /r/seduction | 14/08/22 07:21 PM |
| 1 | Looks Max Guide 2022not sure but i don’t think i would care cuz i really need this to outline my face. used foam for years and it barely did anything. have been using liquid the past 3 months and it’s finally working so i’d say go for the liquid | /r/seduction | 14/08/22 01:41 PM |
| 1 | What is it like dating a manipulative girl, and is it a deal breaker?it blows don’t date crazy bitches i learned that the hard way it never gets better | /r/seduction | 14/08/22 06:35 AM |
| 1 | Girl on Tinder invited me over within 24 hours of matchinglol i wooulve some girls are just down at that moment it’s like strike when iron is hot thing but it was a little sketchy | /r/seduction | 14/08/22 06:34 AM |
| 2 | Height is a killer for collegei’ve never had a girl be able to tell when i’ve removed lifts 2.5 inches and below | /r/seduction | 14/08/22 06:33 AM |
| 14 | Height is a killer for collegestop making up exudes past 5’7 you’re taller than 79% of women and all it takes is being taller. as a 5’4 man i can confirm i’ve been with plenty of girls so long as they’ve been my height or below | /r/seduction | 14/08/22 06:32 AM |
| 81 | Newly single-how do I flirt and attract mendownload dating apps and just exist | /r/seduction | 13/08/22 08:11 PM |
| 1 | The cold approach vs Online dating: A statistical summarydude wtf is wrong with you. I’m just saying I met this girl at 13 we kissed back then, never dated in HS, she moved away to college, then she moved back from college, we fell for each other and we just recently broke up. I was just trying to say that knowing her for that long was really special and it bonded us a lot even if we didn’t have that much in common or weren’t that compatible | /r/seduction | 13/08/22 08:09 PM |
| 1 | The cold approach vs Online dating: A statistical summaryim 27 homey | /r/seduction | 13/08/22 07:50 PM |
| 43 | Fucked a girl. she says don't make it weird.just be cool bro. don’t reject her either she’s just telling you be cool don’t make this obvious in front of everyone and don’t be needy af and weird | /r/seduction | 13/08/22 05:41 PM |
| 32 | Looks Max Guide 2022Wow i thought this was gonna be cope but this is a great guide. That last point i’d add to it if you don’t have a beard but have a weak jaw use midoxinil. I’m growing out a nice beard now and it covers my shitty chin and honestly I think i’ve jumped up 2 whole points it’s probably what’s made the biggest difference on my looks | /r/seduction | 13/08/22 02:56 PM |
| 3 | All the advice on “game” is confusing me about my new relationshipdude come on that’s seduction stuff she’s your gf ive never “gamed” my gfs i was always nice and we had great experiences. ignore this sub once you’re in a relationship. but don’t be super needy and cringe and shit. be sweet to your girl man and enjoy it get off this crap you made it and you’re in another phase now you don’t have to be like OMG WAAAAA but just be low wow baby you look beautiful etc you can if you want to thought. the idea is just don’t like constantly be needy and annoying cuz i… | /r/seduction | 13/08/22 01:41 PM |
| 1 | Do women who smile at you want you to approach them?exactly nobody is thinking that but no one is dumb enough to do it so i guess that’s what i meant | /r/seduction | 13/08/22 12:00 AM |
| 5 | Do women who smile at you want you to approach them?sure i’m sure she’s going about her day. but girls do think this though. or at least know not to start staring at someone you’re not attracted to. i mean if you keep staring at some guy there’s a chance he’ll come and say hi. why would you do that if you don’t find the guy attractive. could even be dangerous. girls are smarter than to not take something like that into account | /r/seduction | 12/08/22 10:55 PM |
| 15 | Do women who smile at you want you to approach them?wtf are you talking about. it’s called checking someone out. it happens all the time. if you’re checking someone out and they are too you’ll keep catching each other’s eye. like i said not in passing but in like a waiting room or something it’s just common sense | /r/seduction | 12/08/22 10:37 PM |
| 1 | When should I text again after getting ghosted?i mean i get it she obviously liked me but just not enough to date me she skipped the explanation and i’m smart enough to get it lol i always tell girls the truth but it does take a bit of guts when to cut them off and be honest | /r/seduction | 12/08/22 10:36 PM |
| 1 | When should I text again after getting ghosted?oh surprised this posted. i texted her again and she ghosted me. glad i did , didn’t say anything just said hi. but double ghost is enough for me i don’t really mind tbh i came to terms with it a few days later | /r/seduction | 12/08/22 09:25 PM |
| 0 | If you need advice give up.come on man don’t be an idiot the reason i fuck girls is cuz i’m relatively good looking , ive maxed out what’s i’ve maxed out and me telling someone who’s ugly to work on themselves is kind of stupid in that sense. yeah i’ll get a girl i just had a gf but it’s a pain in the fucking ass | /r/seduction | 12/08/22 09:19 PM |
| 1 | If you need advice give up.as much as game can help sadly i resonate with this. feels like in the end it’s mostly about looks and it barely matters what i do. if a girl wants me she wants me if not she doesn’t she doesn’t. she’ll act accordingly and that’s about it .. while i’ve had success i don’t consider it much at all in terms of bringing me any kind of happiness. i think life already told me where i belong and some days i just feel i should finish accepting it if more money and fame is what it takes then whatever gir… | /r/seduction | 12/08/22 07:49 PM |
| 13 | Do women who smile at you want you to approach them?umm i guess it depends , not really , but if you’re in a waiting area or something and you keep catching a girls eye more than once then she probably finds you attractive otherwise they wouldn’t really try to look at you as to not make you think they want you | /r/seduction | 12/08/22 05:05 PM |
| 1 | Should i settle for LTR's?why would it ruin your self esteem i get it though , i’m a way. but regardless you’re gonna hurt them though if you leave whether you date them or not which is besides the point cuz you’re right better not to date a girl you wouldn’t actually care to date cuz i mean it doesn’t make a lot of sense | /r/seduction | 12/08/22 05:03 PM |
| 1 | Evil seduction strategy [100% success rate guaranteed]well to be fair I have a very specific way of going about it i don’t really want to share cuz i made the whole script myself , so i think it depends how smoothly you’re going about it , but indeed you will get a lot of rejections , it just stings a million times less which is good for your mental health | /r/seduction | 12/08/22 05:02 PM |
| 8 | Going to a rave next weekCocaine | /r/seduction | 12/08/22 05:01 PM |
| 1 | Should i settle for LTR's?tbh man just keep dating girls a few months at a time. it’s practically the same as not asking them out. I don’t think it’s bad to give the girl some respect by asking her out unless you really don’t like her | /r/seduction | 12/08/22 02:34 PM |
| 0 | Aproaching guys during collegemaybe that’s just your dumb ass lmao i wouldn’t pass up that opportunity but i see what you’re saying it’s good advice | /r/seduction | 12/08/22 02:32 PM |
| 1 | Evil seduction strategy [100% success rate guaranteed]you know man a bunch of people are gonna talk shit here to you but this is actually a really smart way to go about it. you’re leveraging the fact you’re not as good looking as others with good logistics and emotional (low) status in the girl. i think if you tried regular approaching again indirectly you might find more success | /r/seduction | 12/08/22 02:19 PM |
| 1 | Evil seduction strategy [100% success rate guaranteed]lmfao dude this is fucked up but it’s actually really smart 😂 | /r/seduction | 12/08/22 01:53 PM |
| 1 | Is everyone here handsome?kek i’m 5’4 but there’s hope buddy ive been with like 10 girls. there are different levels. the less attractive you are the more indirect you need to be and the more wealth / status you need to accumulate to better your situation. get some lifts, try and get a good financial standing and go run some indirect daygame | /r/seduction | 12/08/22 01:51 PM |
| 1 | Need a black girlfriendman up and go approach | /r/seduction | 12/08/22 01:49 PM |
| 3 | you're not a nice guy.can people stop with this nice guy shit its a huge fucking cope girls don’t care about nice or not nice they care about game and looks and there’s just a lot of good looking dudes with good game that are assholes and so when you see a girl be into them you assume that this is a thing and it’s just correlation | /r/seduction | 12/08/22 12:00 AM |
| 2 | The cold approach vs Online dating: A statistical summarya super powerful example: i met my ex when we were 13. we have such a powerful story bro. and honestly i feel like i barely liked her and she would piss me off all the time lmao but our backstory alone was enough to make me fall in love with her. in the end we weren’t good for each other a backstory isn’t a concrete reason to love someone but it can be huge | /r/seduction | 11/08/22 10:15 PM |
| 2 | Wants to see meumm i always try to go with a buddy if it’s a big new group or i’m not 100 percent sure i can keep things smooth with the group (again usually if it’s a bunch of new people) so if you guys have nothing to talk about you don’t look like an idiot can “fall back” on your body , just make sure he doesn’t take all your attention and helps you pull or comes on his own car if that’s what the night leads to i will always go alone if i know the girls well enough as once i know them i can carry myself wit… | /r/seduction | 11/08/22 07:59 PM |
| 8 | The cold approach vs Online dating: A statistical summaryfeel you man. it’s so interesting because even when i do get girls online even tho i clearly don’t care and a girl is a girl regardless , i still feel a bit of shame about having met her online. i mean if i meet my future SO online who gives a fuck, but that little feeling of like weird like oh like really we met here , i’m not surprised if girls feel that and that’s why they flake so much online or are so picky, cuz if they’re gonna have that backstory the guy better way above them , that’s my … | /r/seduction | 11/08/22 07:57 PM |
| 4 | Strangest cold approach of my life todayshould’ve boned her in your car | /r/seduction | 11/08/22 07:52 PM |
| 5 | Age factor for men on bumblelmao providers. SAD. I’m gonna have a very hard time “providing” for any girl that didn’t want me before i had money or fame | /r/seduction | 11/08/22 12:19 PM |
| 1 | How do I stop getting attached to people I meet on dating appswell, this happens to me with girls that are highly attractive. if you’re going for guys that are “a catch” or “really hot” this will keep happening , until you eventually get lucky. if you want a hot guy then put up with it until you land it. otherwise as you bring your standards down the flaking will come down as well. It’s kind of a risk reward thing , if you want the reward of a super attractive/tall/successful guy you’ll have to have to take the risk of them not liking you or leading you on… | /r/seduction | 11/08/22 12:18 PM |
| 0 | Why do girls do this?that’s an extreme though. i don’t just magically lose feelings for a girl cuz she’s needy. only if i wasn’t that into her. and if that’s your reason you have problems… that’s not love , that’s just being a stick up dumbass, again why want a woman like that | /r/seduction | 11/08/22 12:14 PM |
| 4 | This could just be a coincidence but in my experience whenever I'm toxic a girl wants to be with me but when I'm genuinely nice and not toxic to girls they usually dump me. Why?maybe cuz you’re not that into them so you’re toxic. not that into them cuz they’re not that hot. but the hot ones you’re nice to. and they reject you cuz their hot and are hard to get . now if they already like you a lot and you’re like pulling away they might be like oh i want him now etc but that should be used sparingly | /r/seduction | 11/08/22 03:37 AM |
| 2 | Why do girls do this?i mean bro i’ve had girls that i had great times with and banged a lot but when i realize they really loved me i had to break it off cuz i couldn’t see myself dating them cuz they weren’t hot enough or my type. sorry dude maybe that’s what happened i know it’s brutal but she could have a great time with you and still not want to officially put you on insta and stuff | /r/seduction | 11/08/22 03:36 AM |
| 13 | Why do girls do this?that’s so dumb why would you want a girl like that | /r/seduction | 11/08/22 03:35 AM |
| 2 | Online dating is deadi would treat carefully. be indirect and maybe ask them if they know something about the store , from there maybe make an observation oh i’ve seen you here before you come here often right? do you work from your laptop or something? , well didn’t mean to bother just waiting for a friend , unless you wanna keep me company? then maybe just laugh and sit with her, progress it forward and either make a date or go for the safe route and reapproach warmly another time you’re both there , hey i rmemebe… | /r/seduction | 11/08/22 03:33 AM |
| 3 | Why this "don't tryhard" advice is stupid.that’s not at all what i said. game is really important and it’s essential to pulling above your looks level. what i’m dating is there’s a bunch of terrible advice out there that’s gets spewed on here over and over if you have experience with the content you’ll notice coaches like rsd coaches teach you the wrong things so you won’t succeed but then do the opposite in their field reports (for example RSD tyler’s hot seat at home) he says “guys structure is useless just be high energy bla blah” th… | /r/seduction | 10/08/22 03:18 PM |
| 1 | I really just want a LTR and family with a high value woman, what can I do over the next few years to make myself into a high value man?If you’re below average in looks, you’ll be shooting up, which means you need to either get lucky or max out. Max out money, looks, skills, social life, etc. It’s sad now a days men need all of this just to pull a quality girl , and women don’t have to do shit , but that’s life so just man up to it | /r/seduction | 10/08/22 01:54 PM |
| 5 | How much does height really matter?don’t be an idiot. 5’9 is more than fine. below 5’7 is the problem because you will be shorter than a majority of women… sadly i’m in that range, but i’ve still managed to have success | /r/seduction | 10/08/22 01:50 PM |
| 11 | Why this "don't tryhard" advice is stupid.this sub often regurgitates the ignorant shit a lot of fake púa companies like rsd teach. if you watch their infields they literally teach one thing (useless) and in the video do something completely different (indirect openers , structure , semi canned lines , not being an idiot , slow escalation etc) they just spew that crap of don’t try or hold frame or whatever dumb ass shit to keep you from realizing looks matter and sometimes the reason you fail at some approaches is out of your control an… | /r/seduction | 10/08/22 01:37 PM |
| 2 | Need help keeping women.i’ve seen it , it’s a good program. i think the gist is that you need a strong social life , a good job , and good social skills to have your best chance at keeping a girl. he often mentions building a social circle by having dinner parties and kind of being the man at the center of it all. it gives you a strong alpha presence and just in general it’s fun to live a social life and girls want that i’ve noticed once a girl really knows me they tend not to leave so easy because i have a lot of frie… | /r/seduction | 10/08/22 05:28 AM |
| 1 | Anyone else get almost no results despites being attractive?i know bro i’m just saying he’s not attractive enough to not be getting rejected | /r/seduction | 09/08/22 07:45 PM |
| -1 | Anyone else get almost no results despites being attractive?never said he couldn’t get a hot girl , ive had hot ass gfs, but i’m not thaaat attractive so yeah i have to go through a few girls before landing one | /r/seduction | 09/08/22 03:26 PM |
| 14 | Anyone else get almost no results despites being attractive?sorry man but i think you’re coping you’re probably not as attractive as you think or you’re making huge mistakes in your game. likely you think you’re hotter than you are.. sorry | /r/seduction | 09/08/22 12:27 PM |
| 2 | A few things I've learned online dating as a man. I really wish I could have told myself this a year ago:yeah but in that situation you should start escalating and trying to make something of it. it’s a little diffeeent cuz OLD you haven’t met in person yet and while i doubt i’m a catfish because she still stayed and enjoyed the date but I certainly don’t look as perfect as my pictures so i’m sure there’s a sense of pondering after the date for her whether she can do better since the backstory is super lame anyways of us meeting online it has to be a big catch for really hot girls to be like ok he’… | /r/seduction | 09/08/22 07:05 AM |
| 1 | Texts to revive dead chatsto add to this i would try to get the on snapchat cuz that way it’s not really awkward it chats die out and stuff | /r/seduction | 08/08/22 11:46 PM |
| 0 | how do i ask someone out without sounding too forward?lmao why don’t you use the app for 10 minutes get swarmed with matches and then realize it’s insanely easy for girls and no one is actually gonna think you’re desperate | /r/seduction | 08/08/22 11:45 PM |
| 1 | Keeping Interest Between Dates?idk id text her sparingly and say good night and then try to call her on the days you do talk to her so it’s like a mini date before you see her again. also try to close next time | /r/seduction | 08/08/22 11:11 PM |
| 2 | Whats the proper way to pull back from texting, so as to not "overtext" all day and keep her interested? Shall I say I'm busy right now and will reach out later in the evening?honestly man this girl i was talking to i would say goodnight sometimes and then start up 2 or 3 days later but she would always reply until she ghosted me after our first date which just tells me if a girl is actually into she’ll reply so long as you don’t say anything stupid | /r/seduction | 08/08/22 10:41 PM |
| 4 | A few things I've learned online dating as a man. I really wish I could have told myself this a year ago:to be fair bro i think she liked me but just not enough to date me. brutal but simple and i think true cuz that’s how it is with me and other girls. there’s just some girls i have a lot of fun with but they’re not attractive enough for me to officially date. I’ll still be with them but girls i think generally don’t like to be with guys they wouldn’t date so they just move on to the next | /r/seduction | 08/08/22 02:36 PM |
| 2 | Is confidence the key to attracting others?not necessarily… yo can do everything right and still get ghosted… mix or confidence looks status and money. if you’re not killing it with everything there’s no guarantee a girl will keep wanting you, but i’ve had it happen where they do | /r/seduction | 07/08/22 11:17 PM |
| 32 | A few things I've learned online dating as a man. I really wish I could have told myself this a year ago:true man but it sucks cuz i clicked so well with a girl this weekend and she ghosted me. never been so shocked like that before. the others girls that ghosted me i could see coming but this one really hurt. makes me realize that even if you click you might still not be enough, but that’s just part of the dating game… at least i’m getting dates which is not something i used to be able to do.. | /r/seduction | 07/08/22 11:12 PM |
| 3 | Honestly, is night game worth it if my logistics suck ?yup that trusty back seat has seen it’s fair share (when i was younger to be fair) | /r/seduction | 06/08/22 01:04 AM |
| 1 | Am I imagining things?get that dick dawg | /r/seduction | 06/08/22 01:02 AM |
| 1 | Is high income less useful for younger men(23)?ask question > cold read > topic 1 > logistics (what are you up to) -> ask for insta date —> if no, 1 more topic > mention potential future plans > number close with assumption it will occur | /r/seduction | 05/08/22 08:57 PM |
| 1 | Is high income less useful for younger men(23)?yes this is definitely true as you get older it weighs a lot more because some women want the most stable life they can get. on the other hand i don’t make much and i’ve had gfs, although i’m on the path to making much more soon. you’re not a bad looking guy but you’re not very good looking either. you could try for indirect daygame or put your job description on an OLD profile. I know it’s “showing off” but there’s no way for them to know if you don’t. You don’t have to mention your net worth j… | /r/seduction | 05/08/22 06:15 PM |
| 1 | Too self conscious about my average height, its killing my gamethen you’re good man you’re in a great position go out there and do some indirect daygame get some lifts anyways like 2 inches and lie on your bio and say you’re 6’0! I do that with my bio and i have great dates and the girls never ask afterwards | /r/seduction | 05/08/22 04:16 PM |
| 1 | Am I imagining things?maybe but it would’ve been worse had she not mentioned it i guess cuz then she’s definitely trying to get it lol | /r/seduction | 04/08/22 10:17 PM |
| 1 | Advice for starting out with zero experience 26 Mgo indirect when you open. practice at home building a script and talking to wall for at least 30 minutes, have a good list of topics to ask and link into when you’re ready get out there and try to just go with the flow but if you get stuck refer to your script. it’s like studying for a test really can’t expect to do well in anything in life without preparing first | /r/seduction | 04/08/22 10:15 PM |
| 2 | Setting the tone for messages on dating apps when you have a fuccboi picture?dude honestly i just have normal convos ask normal questions and escalate from there. nothing too flashy. gotten several dates lately. some dudes like to be super flashy and stuff which can work with certain girls but that’s not really me so unless the opportunity a joke or something arises i don’t say anything too crazy | /r/seduction | 04/08/22 10:13 PM |
| 1 | I often hear the advice "Don't try too hard" and "Stop looking for a relationship and one will come to you". How is this not BS?it’s complete bullshit. i got my first gf and she was super hot and i was dying to get a gf. just shit coaches say to keep you hooked buying their products. beware of bad advice , focus on improving your looks and your game strategy | /r/seduction | 04/08/22 09:34 PM |
| 1 | mixed feelings dating single mom'sI dated a single mom she was really amazing and is one of my best friends but her kids will imprint on you and it’s a big responsibility. We went our separate ways but I would give it a shot cuz you never know but for me I tried and I know like it’s really hard for me and i’d rather be with someone without kids for the time being as i’m still pretty young | /r/seduction | 04/08/22 02:23 AM |
| 1 | How do I go from here?honestly he’s probably just nervous if he told you all that. why don’t you just walk him to his ca or something kinda isolated and try to make a move on him 😂 jeez dude needs to up his game like idk what id do with a girl is walk with her while leaving maybe be like oh walk me to my car i’ll drop you off and just like give her signs and i’d personally just try to hold her hand and go for a kiss but it’s up to you if you wanna go that far | /r/seduction | 03/08/22 03:30 AM |
| 0 | Using the word "simp" to put men down is honestly a major sign of douchebagonly a true simp would say this | /r/seduction | 03/08/22 03:28 AM |
| -1 | How much has your dating life improved since finding this subreddit?there is good advice here but you need to know how to sort it out from the bad. for every post i write on to give good advice there are tons that i don’t cuz well i have a life and so do the guys that are better than me at game and success | /r/seduction | 02/08/22 09:39 PM |
| 1 | This is why I think cold approaching is just waste of time.i’ll dm you | /r/seduction | 02/08/22 06:12 PM |
| 1 | Sometimes the only IOI is that she didn't walk awaythat’s facts ngl you gotta allow them to go basically through the whole night even bring it up like oh you can go if you want etc and if they stay you know you’re good | /r/seduction | 02/08/22 05:58 PM |
| 4 | How do you guys commit?sounds like you’re shooting well above your mate value / looks level. the higher you shoot the higher the chances this happens. could happen as well with someone on your level. but guys that tend to do well at a young age are prone to playing the field. but when I was 19 I had a great long term gf. I think we matched each other’s looks well. it will be a mix or luck and how high you shoot , but you’re a girl so you’ll have plenty of chances to find someone. if you’re getting emotionally hurt jus… | /r/seduction | 02/08/22 05:52 PM |
| 2 | This is why I think cold approaching is just waste of time.except i’ve pulled from cold approach lmao and i’m 5’4 what’s your excuse | /r/seduction | 02/08/22 05:51 PM |
| 2 | | Natural Game is arbitrary! |- You must have a system in order to excel in gametotally agree , it’s all about having a structure down packed and then just trying to be natural and deviating from it. but if you get stuck you go back on your structure | /r/seduction | 01/08/22 07:54 PM |
| 1 | Girls saying "I love you", is it just more common now?maybe after all the lockdowns and isolation girls are in a really soft state rn lol I certainly can appreciate human company on another level now. anyways my ex was super cold and man that shit fucking sucked in the end she screwed me cuz she was sick in the head. i prefer a warm girl who tells me she loves me too soon any day over that crazy fucking cold ass bitch | /r/seduction | 01/08/22 05:03 PM |
| 2 | Girls saying "I love you", is it just more common now?well to be fair i don’t have a hard time saying it back if i like the girl. but from my experience i usually say it first so idk. as much as people say girls sleep around a lot i kinda think they don’t which is why dating is hard , so maybe she really did choose you out of several people and built up feelings quickly. just depends on the girl you got a little luck (or unlucky i guess) so have had it happen twice in a row | /r/seduction | 01/08/22 04:25 PM |
| 1 | I Never Get the Women I Truly Desire (Help)really? that’s shitty news. well i guess i won’t stop then lmao are you sure you allowed your hairs to become terminal? I personally haven’t lost the gains I made from midoxinil and i stopped for a year and a half | /r/seduction | 01/08/22 12:45 PM |
| 1 | A little bit confused, this girl decided to go outside with me after we met at a bari had old pictures of my ex and we had been broken up for a long time you don’t know just off that | /r/seduction | 01/08/22 08:49 AM |
| 7 | I Never Get the Women I Truly Desire (Help)lmao it’s an obviously important part of the conversation? how am i gonna ignore that the dude is top tier, which will cause a drastic difference in how women react to him. nothing wrong with that, but it makes sense why if you are at that level you will actually have lower mate value women not believe you vs higher mate value women who see him on their level and wind up being more hooked than the girls below that level. it was the other idiot that started complaining about god knows what you sh… | /r/seduction | 01/08/22 08:47 AM |
| 1 | I Never Get the Women I Truly Desire (Help)yeah for head hair not for beards. lol my beard never went away been using midox for years. it’s almost like it was made for that more so than scalp hair lol. i look A MILLION times better with a beard it’s so crazy and i can tell it makes a massive difference with how girls treat me | /r/seduction | 01/08/22 08:45 AM |
| 1 | A little bit confused, this girl decided to go outside with me after we met at a barare you asking why people cheat? idk many reasons as to are you being paranoid? yeah honestly you are cuz people stay friends or amicable with exes that doesn’t mean they’re with them or still love them | /r/seduction | 01/08/22 05:23 AM |
| -2 | Do you guys tell girls that you are older than you actually are to get with them ?to be fair lately at 27 i’m doing great online. girls are a lot more responsive. when i was younger it worked too but girls were really flaky | /r/seduction | 01/08/22 04:32 AM |
| 1 | Is there any way to have a one night stand in Italy? as a non-Italianimpossible | /r/seduction | 31/07/22 10:34 PM |
| 1 | Asking for feedback from ex datesi wouldn’t unless i knew them well, but that’s up to you i guess they might just be nice and lie to you | /r/seduction | 31/07/22 09:44 PM |
| 1 | Here is what I don't understand about shy girls I meet through OLD.dude it’s not that much effort… i just know in my head there’s roughly 10-15 topics i can even have conversation on, ive done a lot in my life so i make sure to have some stories in mind and then things flow from there. eventually once i run through all the topics there is nothing to talk about but at that point i should be escalating and at least kissing her already. if you can’t have a convo with a wall for like 25 minutes you won’t be ready for a real cold approach or date you’ll just be impr… | /r/seduction | 31/07/22 09:17 PM |
| 20 | I Never Get the Women I Truly Desire (Help)yeah but dude look at your profile you’re like a god 😂 i’m not surprise girls below your mate value don’t believe you | /r/seduction | 31/07/22 08:59 PM |
| 16 | I Never Get the Women I Truly Desire (Help)not really. i think it’s just because the girls you really want are probably better looking than you which means you need tight game, luck and if you have it talent or money to boot. those dime pieces aren’t gonna easily settle from someone less good looking than them as for advice for OP: maybe take a good look at your facial structure. would a beard help you? is your chin weak? use midox and grow it out are you short? get some lifts do you have good social media validation? work on it don’t ju… | /r/seduction | 31/07/22 08:59 PM |
| 1 | Here is what I don't understand about shy girls I meet through OLD.umm i mean dude you gotta have a few stories i’m your pocket and few hours worth of ideas. you gotta run through every topic you can and try to keep things upbeat and move her around and stuff. if they smoke weed that’s always a huge plus | /r/seduction | 31/07/22 08:57 PM |
| 1 | What to do if she doesn't want to meet yet, but I am losing her interest more everyday? (Tinder)some girls are just there for company. i’ve kinda been guilty to do that to girls before i’m like oh she’s kinda hot i’ll talk to her but then i’m like ehh idk etc etc. maybe it’s one of those things or she’s just not actually serious about meeting anyone from it | /r/seduction | 31/07/22 08:56 PM |
| 2 | Starting to see a resurgence of “incel” posts/comments and I’d like to address them once and for alllmao sure but they still me with the 5’4 genes damn !! | /r/seduction | 31/07/22 03:50 PM |
| 1 | Does anyone have any recommendations/reviews for dating coaches in Japan? That speak English of course.find a good KPop artist, profit | /r/seduction | 31/07/22 02:57 PM |
| 2 | Starting to see a resurgence of “incel” posts/comments and I’d like to address them once and for allthank you. said it before me. no point in bashing them when seriously looks are huge. i’m not gonna sit here and pretend my success with women isn’t in large part due to my looks. YES it’s in part my game, yes at 5’4 i shouldn’t get girls but i still do (meaning yes at times you can indeed overcome certain shortfall in your looks), nonetheless i am a very racially good looking guy and telling others it’s my magical confidence is ignorant when girls clearly swipe on me in part due to my looks onl… | /r/seduction | 31/07/22 02:52 PM |
| 1 | 😅 Most of the Outcome is Already Decided (So Relax)very impressive. always appreciate someone experienced who shares their knowledge | /r/seduction | 31/07/22 04:10 AM |
| 1 | Can someone explain if I was cold approached?yeah bro indirect game, my favorite style, if you’re stupid enough to be asking that imagine what a girl thinks. they know you’re hitting on them but there’s plausible deniability | /r/seduction | 31/07/22 01:24 AM |
| 1 | Cant choose between two girlsgo for the second bro seems like you’re gonna have a chill time what’s the point of being with a girl who won’t even have sex with you lmao sorry but that’s kinda weird to me | /r/seduction | 31/07/22 01:23 AM |
| 1 | 😅 Most of the Outcome is Already Decided (So Relax)It depends you can do a lot to build attraction but yeah if your mate value is higher than hers and she’s instantly hooked you’re probably gonna be fine unless you really fuck up | /r/seduction | 31/07/22 01:22 AM |
| 1 | Why do girls usually like starting an argument out of nothing ? So I’ve read girls want drama . What is drama exactly ? And how do we give them healthy drama ?depends on the girl, most girls i’ve been with are chill and my first two exes were awesome. my third i was in love with but she was batshit crazy. tons of drama. just depends on the girl | /r/seduction | 30/07/22 11:10 PM |
| 2 | Help me heal guys!!well I would just move around and really be sure a girl is gone before you keep approaching | /r/seduction | 30/07/22 11:09 PM |
| 1 | medication to help talk to girls?take some cocaine to the club. open sete. do some lines with them. profit | /r/seduction | 30/07/22 03:01 PM |
| 2 | What is the appeal of bad boysi think it’s just coping girls don’t care if you’re a bad boy or not they care if you’re cool and reach their looks threshold | /r/seduction | 30/07/22 03:55 AM |
| 1 | script for not having photos on instadude please don’t. just say you don’t use social media | /r/seduction | 29/07/22 10:35 PM |
| 1 | Matched with a tourist and we clicked. What should I do to move forward if she lives across the country?lmfao | /r/seduction | 29/07/22 04:50 PM |
| 0 | Matched with a tourist and we clicked. What should I do to move forward if she lives across the country?dude you should’ve already banged lmao do your thing but it might not go anywhere since you didn’t make a move | /r/seduction | 29/07/22 04:26 PM |
| 1 | What are your top 3 best pieces of advice to give for Daygame?open indirect , cold read her , 1-2 topics max ethnicty job , find out her logistics , mention a place nearby she might like , set up date , close for number , rinse and repeat. Try to actually pretend your shopping even bring a fake shopping bag don’t be that weirdo just day gaming with a water bottle | /r/seduction | 29/07/22 02:47 PM |
| 0 | Is this a rejection and should I move on with my life?lmao you don goofed bruh | /r/seduction | 29/07/22 02:46 PM |
| 3 | Unpopular opinion: I hate the "chase"look man to be fair… it’s not so much a chase as it is that girls have high standards. sometimes the whole chase sadly was over from the start cuz they’re just messing with you. I do this too when I match with girls i don’t find that attractive but still talk to them for fun. the “chase” is really just following through on escalation and seeing if she lets you. if you did everything right and she stops replying then she probably wouldn’t have been down anyways. Went on a great date two days ago … | /r/seduction | 29/07/22 01:28 PM |
| 2 | How should I cope with not seeing the signs after a hangout?in my experience it’s kinda hard to have a platonic relationship with a girl unless you’ve banged then before, i know it sounds crazy but if you decide to be their friend after that a lot of them will cuz they see you as high value since they already slept with you most of my platonic friends that are girls are too busy in their own lives to really chill with me for shits and giggles | /r/seduction | 28/07/22 05:58 PM |
| 2 | Best places to meet girls while still living at home?i mean you make out with them a little once during your date, eventually lead them to your car, i make out with them on the back door and if they’re really into it i just open the backdoor and push them in lmao this will only work with certain girls that are really into you and like sloppy making out with you type shit. i get some dates like this and some dates where they only give me a little kiss. | /r/seduction | 28/07/22 05:57 PM |
| 2 | Best places to meet girls while still living at home?look through my profile comments i talk plenty about it | /r/seduction | 28/07/22 03:09 PM |
| 3 | Best places to meet girls while still living at home?your backseat lol with younger girls i’ve done that plenty, otherwise you can run the beach at night (works like a charm actually if she’s bout that) or a hotel. but honestly once you bang the girl like she’ll eventually know you live with your parents and she’ll be cool with coming over if she likes you | /r/seduction | 28/07/22 03:07 PM |
| 1 | How should I cope with not seeing the signs after a hangout?my nigga i went on 3 dates in the past 3 days. first date i smoked weed got drinks with the girl and walked around. why the fuck would i NOT kiss her at that point in the bear minimum? she was giving me clear signals of interest (facing me, smiling, enjoying herself). now we met online so it was clearly a date but if you did all that and you guys are smoking weed and vibing just go for it | /r/seduction | 28/07/22 01:13 PM |
| 2 | How to pickup at a small collegeread through my profile i’ve commented in detail many times | /r/seduction | 28/07/22 08:13 AM |
| 5 | Best places to meet girls while still living at home?indirect daygame | /r/seduction | 28/07/22 04:17 AM |
| 1 | How to pickup at a small collegehonestly man best thing you can do is get involved and if you do approach be very indirect | /r/seduction | 28/07/22 04:16 AM |
| 6 | Best places to meet girls while still living at home?pay one your boys to let you pipe at their crib if all else fails | /r/seduction | 28/07/22 04:11 AM |
| 1 | How often do girls agree to a date solely to be entertained freevery highly doubt any girl will go on a date with a dude they don’t find attractive. it’s an awkward situation unless you’re buying them a table at a club it wouldn’t be worth a few free drinks | /r/seduction | 27/07/22 10:45 PM |
| 0 | Strategies for picking up girls at a music festival?be indirect ask about the artist coming up that are playing have molly and weed on you profit | /r/seduction | 27/07/22 03:23 AM |
| 2 | I had depression always being the other guylmao imagine being used by girls for sex 😂 plenty of dudes that don’t even get laid. i get you tho bro lol strange problem to have but i’m glad you got a girl | /r/seduction | 26/07/22 09:33 PM |
| 2 | Why can’t I bring myself to respond to attractive girls on dating apps? 23Mi have like a structure from start to finish not necessarily a script but it allows me to just pump in what i need to and hope it works lmao and it often does. usually like 4 texts in chat (2 topics) , number close , 3-4 texts over text (1-2 topics) , ask for date , then kinda ping or try to talk to her on the phone, and keep in touch with her over snapchat until your date | /r/seduction | 26/07/22 06:45 PM |
| 2 | 35M here looking for a long-term woman friend to chat with.lmfaooo | /r/seduction | 26/07/22 06:42 PM |
| 1 | Do muscles make that much of a difference?no they’re a cope lifts will help you 10x more | /r/seduction | 25/07/22 11:59 PM |
| 0 | Std scarelmfaoooo broooo you definitely might have something 😂 but you won’t know until a few weeks from now , get tested then and you should be within time frame to start coming out positive for stuff, hope it doesn’t tho good luck | /r/seduction | 25/07/22 11:57 PM |
| 1 | Super hot girl stopped responding after being very receptivei know bro OLD is just too rigged | /r/seduction | 25/07/22 05:22 PM |
| 1 | Super hot girl stopped responding after being very receptivethis was the first night maybe 8 texts in 4 over app, 4 over text and i was gonna close in the next 2 | /r/seduction | 25/07/22 04:18 PM |
| 4 | Should I pursue women or focus on myselfthere is no hoe phase for guys unless you’re chad bro jus hop from gf to gf if you can | /r/seduction | 25/07/22 03:40 PM |
| 3 | My breakdown Tinder v Bumble v Hinge in a major US city (Miami) ...totally bro went from 0 success on tinder to having dates lined up on hinge big difference mainly cuz you’re only allowed 8 likes a day and there’s less people so just less clutter for girls i think | /r/seduction | 25/07/22 03:16 AM |
| 1 | Why do women want to be treated like sub-par humans?actually i’m ngl my last girl i was super super nice to her but i vented to her about her ex that was my old best friend and she couldn’t take it and just left. ngl some girls are so damaged they won’t take your shit but quite frankly i was just holding myself to my values and i let her know honestly how i felt about for example sporadic ugly tattoos, or just being negative all the time. if i had to do it all over again i’d do it the same way, cuz i hold myself with value but yeah she honestly t… | /r/seduction | 25/07/22 12:10 AM |
| 3 | Game plan for LoveIsland ?be chad | /r/seduction | 24/07/22 09:12 PM |
| 3 | Talking to girls on the phone is super underratedyeah i keep commenting on posts saying this but people are too damn dumb smh | /r/seduction | 24/07/22 09:09 PM |
| 1 | honestly speaking, how is anyone supposed to be confident in this day and age?confidence is a sham, memorize a good indirect script work on it well, approach try to do your own things and if you get stuck refer t your script. memorize perfect it then deviate from it. confidence will come from knowing you’ve practiced and know what to say in a pinch | /r/seduction | 24/07/22 04:34 AM |
| 1 | Went to try to go pick up at the mall yesterdaywhy don’t you approach girls that dont work there indirectly, you don’t want people recognizing you and if she works there she will | /r/seduction | 24/07/22 04:32 AM |
| 1 | Is being 6 ft/6 ft 1 now considered short? Or am I just buying into all this trash I see on the internet?i’m 5’4 😂 | /r/seduction | 24/07/22 04:31 AM |
| 2 | Is being 6 ft/6 ft 1 now considered short? Or am I just buying into all this trash I see on the internet?yeah dude there’s always height increasing surgery | /r/seduction | 24/07/22 04:31 AM |
| 1 | Girl agreed to date, but logistics are bad the next two weeks. How much/what should I be texting her?i’m 27 and i’ve called girls plenty. some don’t want to talk and that’s fine but usually if they are down i always close | /r/seduction | 23/07/22 04:41 PM |
| 2 | Simply asking for sex, or asking someone if they would like to have sex, is a HUGE turnoff, but seems to be basic advice herei don’t think anyone here is suggesting some dumb ass shit like that lmao | /r/seduction | 22/07/22 06:29 PM |
| 1 | Hooking up with strippers?sure there’s that too | /r/seduction | 22/07/22 04:47 PM |
| 2 | Hooking up with strippers?i mean they’d probably be down cuz they’d saw your watch and realized you probably have bread and are a decent looking guy. i’m sure a stripper would gladly quit her job to be taken care of by someone she’s attracted to lol like some i’m sure don’t care but i wouldn’t be surprised if some of them are actually down | /r/seduction | 22/07/22 04:36 PM |
| 5 | Girl agreed to date, but logistics are bad the next two weeks. How much/what should I be texting her?why don’t you actually try calling her on the phone and you’ll find it’s like a mini date. i build soo much rapport with girls over the phone | /r/seduction | 22/07/22 04:34 PM |
| 27 | Why do you guys think most men struggle with girls or dating in general?It’s animal kingdom really, men compete for the women, it’s just how it is. women get to pick so they’re picky. it is a mix of not knowing what to do combined with high beauty standards. | /r/seduction | 22/07/22 04:33 PM |
| 2 | I’m stuck, what should I do?idk but my first ex told me that and then i asked her out and she was super happy about it | /r/seduction | 21/07/22 10:14 PM |
| 5 | Fuck me baby ?? Cringeidk i’m just very lovy dovy. me and my exes have said really wonderful like loving stuff to each other when we’re in bed together. sex for me is more about the emotional connection that sex itself. but maybe i’m one of the odd ones out | /r/seduction | 21/07/22 10:11 PM |
| 1 | How conventionally attractive are you?i’m alright. with my beard and long hair i’m like a 6.5-7 maybe? definitely not 8-10 because i’m not getting matches like that online. and i’m not killing it with girls or anything especially without putting effort in. i’m also very very short at 5’4. but i’ve had very beautiful girlfriends before so i must be pretty decent. i get good reactions from women as well. I’ve also been alone for very long periods of time. I’d say it makes sense most of the people here that stay a while would be decent… | /r/seduction | 21/07/22 10:07 PM |
| 10 | Do not ditch OLD. It’s better than Cold approach.i mean i met a really sweet girl and we’re taking this week, but most of the time i don’t get lucky like this, and have long periods of not meeting anyone. cold approach can a be huge advantage when OLD isn’t working and generally you can pick up girls far above your mate value because your intial story is interesting. of course assuming you’re approaching indirectly, approaching directly is cringe and you’ll get rejected by most girls and the intial story isn’t very good it’s just like “he thou… | /r/seduction | 21/07/22 09:38 PM |
| 0 | Fuck me baby ?? Cringepersonally i don’t really like dirty talk tbh lol | /r/seduction | 21/07/22 09:35 PM |
| 1 | Do people really have amazing sex lives and adventurous stories from college? I feel like I'm missing out a lot!maybe if you’re in a really good social frat. i was in a co ed one and i had a lot of fun, parties hookups and relationships , no threesomes or crazy orgies for me lmfao i don’t think that’s normal. but yeah try to get involved | /r/seduction | 21/07/22 09:33 PM |
| 1 | Do some guys really ask the girl if they can kiss her on a first date? And i also heard this girl who is a dating coach tell guys that one way they can be a good kisser is to ask her consent before you go for a kiss! How do you guys feel about that?yah tbh it’s super obvious for me now when a girl wants me to kiss them | /r/seduction | 21/07/22 09:31 PM |
| 2 | Do some guys really ask the girl if they can kiss her on a first date? And i also heard this girl who is a dating coach tell guys that one way they can be a good kisser is to ask her consent before you go for a kiss! How do you guys feel about that?LMFAO has to be the worse advice i’ve ever heard | /r/seduction | 21/07/22 09:31 PM |
| 1 | I need some DM/Conversation advice.i would say man get her on the phone set up a date halfway through you guys or drive over and try to at least kiss her at some point in the night otherwise she’ll lose interest no pressure though im talking to this girl i met online and we set up a date like two weeks later and we’re still chatting and she obviously really likes me just make sure you try to move things forward | /r/seduction | 21/07/22 07:25 PM |
| 1 | To the low value meni’ve been with 10 girls, but i could be with many more if i got with girls i wasn’t attracted to lol. but yes i am attractive facially. i get you man trust me i understand and i acknowledge there’s a point where there’s nothing you can do but it has to be really bad otherwise you can generally just shoot for girls well below your mate value, i’ve just found most guys even if they’re ugly don’t want to indirectly cold approach girls that are well below their mate value | /r/seduction | 20/07/22 07:31 PM |
| 0 | How to deal with a bad haircut?get wrecked that’s why i have long hair a lot of girls dig it | /r/seduction | 20/07/22 07:26 PM |
| 1 | Someone please help me decipher this girl's behavior.yeah man best thing you can do is play it cool pretend like nothing happened and if you two are alone don’t say anything just chat with her and if the vibe is there you can try to hold her hand and eventually kiss her just don’t be awkward or forceful, build some rappor again and if in private she’s giving you signals maybe try to give it a go | /r/seduction | 20/07/22 07:25 PM |
| 1 | To the low value menlmao ok pathetic but it works. just giving some solutions here. the world isn’t fair at the end of the day. some people get the short end of the stick but there are ways out of it. anyways people told me to kill myself cuz i was 5’4 and i’ve fucked plenty of girls in the west so it’s not as simple as “you’re short it’s over” etc for most people that aren’t in the true bottom | /r/seduction | 20/07/22 07:15 PM |
| 2 | How do I stop being a seductress?that’s right | /r/seduction | 20/07/22 07:13 PM |
| 1 | How do I stop being a seductress?you should double down and start asking them to send you money | /r/seduction | 20/07/22 06:55 PM |
| 2 | Someone please help me decipher this girl's behavior.yeah dude you gotta do that in private with her otherwise it adds all this social pressure and makes it awkward | /r/seduction | 20/07/22 06:53 PM |
| 3 | Need a little adviceif she says she doesn’t fuck on the first date then you’re good and you’ll probably get laid she could be avoiding but honestly it looks more like she’s on the fence with her emotions about going on the date cuz she just broke up. that’s not bad just play it cool and try to make it happen | /r/seduction | 20/07/22 06:50 PM |
| 3 | Does anyone have RSD Tyler deleted videos?lol tyler sucks at game though | /r/seduction | 20/07/22 06:23 PM |
| 1 | To the low value menactually yes plastic surgery would be one way to grind hard, earning money, moving to a country that’s pooere , i’m top of that approaching more girls indirectly (if you’re not good loooking you shouldn’t be going direct), and not trying to shoot for girls above your mate value if everything if failing. if you’re only approaching girls above your mate value you’re risking rejection, which is fine if you don’t care. but if you do you can go for girls well below your mate value and you should even… | /r/seduction | 20/07/22 06:21 PM |
| 58 | Going on a date with a woman more than twice my age. I think she’s beautiful and I’m very excited!is it your boys mom? | /r/seduction | 20/07/22 06:14 PM |
| 1 | Why do girls stare after busting in their mouths?lmfao that’s when i hand her a toothbrush | /r/seduction | 20/07/22 03:57 PM |
| 1 | Fucked my friend's momi believe you | /r/seduction | 20/07/22 03:56 PM |
| 1 | Girl lost interest.. not the first timedude i mean you shouldn’t be explicitly saying those things if she’s not your gf. should’ve been cool about it. also tend to try to kiss the girl in the middle of the date at the end it’s always kind of awkward | /r/seduction | 20/07/22 03:50 PM |
| 2 | To the low value menyeah totally i get you | /r/seduction | 20/07/22 03:45 PM |
| 2 | QUESTION: If I want to get good at game, should I aim to start out not trying to get laid and just approach?honestly once i started approaching i was surprised by how good girls reacted to me. my biggest issue was actually prematurely ejecting | /r/seduction | 20/07/22 03:20 PM |
| 5 | To the low value mendude come on everyone knows looks matter. i’m not gonna sit here and judge someone who’s really ugly and struggling. there’s ways out but they shouldn’t be belittled for being frustrated. me sitting here and judging them when i myself am good looking and have had plenty of success with women is ridiculous. i’m smart enough to recognize that without my good looks i would have a much harder time so i don’t blame someone for being upset about being in that situation that doesn’t mean they can’t hav… | /r/seduction | 20/07/22 03:18 PM |
| 1 | How do I get with my friends momclassic 😂😂😂 | /r/seduction | 20/07/22 03:14 PM |
| 2 | After first approach in ages I was told to kill myself. Should I continue with seduction?well the girl is sick in the head man, but a lot of girls are just rotten now a days with their egos. You are very short and fat dude so automatically girls will find you unattractive for the most part. You have to lose the weight but some lifts and try to groom yourself as best as possible. If your chin and jaw are weak grow a beard using midoxinil, if your forehead is big comb your hair forward, if the back of your head is bit grow your hair out. work to maximize your looks before approaching … | /r/seduction | 20/07/22 03:10 PM |
| 2 | How do I start approaching?just don’t be obvious, wait till a good set passes by and figure out a good method of approach, rather than yad stopping and creeping out every girl in the mall | /r/seduction | 20/07/22 05:32 AM |
| 4 | Got 2 numbers and turned one into date today!nice dude and you opened the right way situational keep it up | /r/seduction | 19/07/22 04:45 PM |
| 1 | Girl says she can only meet end of the monthYeah I will but i’m fairly sure this is a scam, it’s just a very intricate scam cuz she’s been texting me all day and stuff | /r/seduction | 19/07/22 04:23 AM |
| 2 | Girl says she can only meet end of the monthohhh shit that makes a lot sense. i wouldn’t be surprised tbh. she’s probably real because she sends me pretty specific pictures but is probably just scamming people herself lmfao i can get girls this caliber but not like this. usually in person first, through friends, social value etc. not on an app. thanks for the heads up. | /r/seduction | 19/07/22 04:19 AM |
| 1 | Girl says she can only meet end of the monthI told her the 29th and she said yeah, so it’s kinda solid. naw when a girl flakes on me like that it’s usually a dead lead | /r/seduction | 19/07/22 03:22 AM |
| 3 | how is an average man disadvantaged in dating?I think it depends. If you meet in person you can probably pull a girl 1-2 points above you. more than that id say it would just be luck more realistically, you will be able to pull without too much trouble girls 1-2 points below online people tend to, and i say tend cuz it’s not always the case, but tend to want to date people at their looks level or higher | /r/seduction | 19/07/22 02:30 AM |
| 2 | Girl says she can only meet end of the monthsure yeah, she’s a busy girl. I guess its just cuz I feel like she’s way out of my league but i’ll give it a shot anyways | /r/seduction | 19/07/22 02:28 AM |
| 1 | I feel like either she likes me or she doesn't on the first date. Like it's pretty much out of my hands. Am I right or wrong?no cuz you can escalate from hand holding to kissing to pulling in the middle of convo which will jncrease her attraction and give her the opportunity to go home with you even if she’s not totally sold | /r/seduction | 19/07/22 01:48 AM |
| 2 | Girl says she can only meet end of the monthbro i don’t understand this shit i’m tripping out but i’ll take your advice 😂 she’s super hot though and wealthy, so i’m just gonna push through no expectations and if it happens great if not i’ll move on doesn’t matter either way. i’ll probably be more balsy because of it which could actually help me | /r/seduction | 19/07/22 01:47 AM |
| 3 | Girl says she can only meet end of the monthi mean i have nothing to lose i’m banging another girl too, but this girl is like so weird. she’s sending me pics of making fucking bread off crypto and seems really interested, but like she knows i’m nothing special lol just your typical white dude, i mean i make edm which is cool and she’s asian and i know they love white guys, but it’s still weird | /r/seduction | 19/07/22 01:43 AM |
| 2 | what is the experience like for an attractive woman in online dating?uh yeah that’s obvious | /r/seduction | 19/07/22 01:28 AM |
| 4 | Question about eye contactno dude lmfao if it feels creepy it’s cuz it is creepy, look into their eyes but then cut your gaze away every few seconds and then come back to them so it’s not super awk | /r/seduction | 18/07/22 11:24 PM |
| 1 | Does living at home in the suburbs kill my dating life?not really just come up with an excuse. the problem with not having a place and stuff is with the real high quality girls where you gotta go all out. for the most part of the girl is below my mate value they’ve gone so far as to pay for eve thing and invite me over. | /r/seduction | 18/07/22 10:37 PM |
| 7 | Why looks don't matter but appearance doescope looks so matter but you can punch above your weight or at your weight by cold approaching | /r/seduction | 18/07/22 08:45 PM |
| 8 | Does living at home in the suburbs kill my dating life?umm this was from 21-27 which is my age now the older you are the hardest is it to be living at home though lol i’m moving out in a few months | /r/seduction | 18/07/22 07:30 PM |
| 20 | Does living at home in the suburbs kill my dating life?i’ve fucked 10 girls and always lived at home. just gotta pull to their crib or if they’re young run it in the car lmao | /r/seduction | 18/07/22 05:52 PM |
| 1 | what are reasons you should date multiple women at once?cuz it’s funny | /r/seduction | 18/07/22 05:51 PM |
| 1 | Pull back gone too faryou can do it a little but if you keep doing after you have sex she’s gonna think you don’t care and just go for someone else . once your in a relationship in my experience those things don’t really matter the girl actually wants you to care | /r/seduction | 18/07/22 05:48 PM |
| 1 | Pull back gone too faryou can do it a little but if you keep doing after you have sex she’s gonna think you don’t care and just go for someone else . once your in a relationship in my experience those things don’t really matter the girl actually wants you to care | /r/seduction | 18/07/22 05:48 PM |
| 1 | Is it worthwhile trying to date without having a social life first?idk bro clubs meetups orgs guys are a dime a dozen to find lol | /r/seduction | 18/07/22 02:48 AM |
| 0 | I still live at home, does that turn girls off?be alpha | /r/seduction | 18/07/22 02:01 AM |
| 1 | How far are you willing to drive to meetup with matches?if my girl isnt 5 hours away i’m not down cuz i love the blue balls on the way up | /r/seduction | 18/07/22 01:59 AM |
| 1 | How far are you willing to drive to meetup with matches?lmfao wat | /r/seduction | 18/07/22 01:58 AM |
| 1 | Percentage of girls who would go to your house on the first date directlylmfao delete her 😂 | /r/seduction | 18/07/22 01:57 AM |
| 1 | How to optimize my dating app profiles?Work on the bulge | /r/seduction | 18/07/22 01:55 AM |
| 1 | why do men lose interest when their feelings are reciprocated?umm you know a lot of times guys aren’t expecting you to say yes and when you do they reconsider but like most girls i’ve actually liked online if they tell me no to meeting up i kinda just quit. if they say yes and i like them i’ll say yes idk it has nothing to do with playing hard to get for me it just has to do with whether i’m actually attracted to the girl or just spamming messages | /r/seduction | 18/07/22 01:42 AM |
| 29 | Girl the whole night was saying how she wasn’t going to have sex with melmfao same | /r/seduction | 18/07/22 01:40 AM |
| 1 | is being short a huge turnoff?i mean my friends have told me they didn’t notice until i mentioned it months later. and i’ve worn them and banged girls and then stayed with them and they never knew. so this is just my experience and like i said it depends how big they are | /r/seduction | 18/07/22 12:38 AM |
| 2 | What Are The Odds This Date Is Going To S*ck?she seems like shes allowing you to push forward the interaction, that’s not bad, maybe she’s kinda proude? that’s not bad either, just be cool tn and don’t ask her or tell her you wanna kiss her or talk about it, just go for it if she looks at you in that way where you know they’d let you kiss them, try to hold her hand first etc be cool don’t object be like yeah gotcha and then try again lol it’ll be a bit funny actually | /r/seduction | 17/07/22 08:35 PM |
| 1 | Is it worthwhile trying to date without having a social life first?you should try even if it’s just a bunch of guys. my social life is probably one of the biggest reasons why the women that do decide to be with me tend to fall for me really hard | /r/seduction | 17/07/22 02:26 PM |
| 1 | How to get laid in high school?i would’ve loved this advice in HS haha | /r/seduction | 17/07/22 01:41 PM |
| 34 | How to get laid in high school?relax bro don’t be cold approaching ANYONE or using ANY cringe game in HS people will notice and make fun of you. I repeat DO NOT use any conventional game. that’s for real steeet cold approach where you can fuck up and no one cared and even then you should be going indirect for high success rates anyways use indirect game, just if you have a girl in class or in the hallways that you known is in your grade or class ask about class (always different questions and not so often it’s obvious, should… | /r/seduction | 17/07/22 01:32 PM |
| 2 | is being short a huge turnoff?thanks for the award you the man 😎 | /r/seduction | 17/07/22 01:25 PM |
| 1 | Met your matchi met mine but she told me she was insane and then eventually proved to me she was insane cuz i didn’t believe her lol. anyways i loved that about her, and i do think she was my match. just wish she could’ve contained her craziness and not left me the way she did. even tho i kinda deserved it | /r/seduction | 17/07/22 05:46 AM |
| 3 | is being short a huge turnoff?if you don’t go beyond 2.8 inches no it’s not noticeable, i take them on and off around girls literally in front of them and they don’t notice. but it helps because with them on i’m taller than 80% of girls at 5’7 and that’s all that really matters | /r/seduction | 17/07/22 05:39 AM |
| 1 | Am I giving off gay vibesonly a gay person would say all this | /r/seduction | 17/07/22 12:25 AM |
| 3 | "I'm not ready for a relationship"lmao whenever i say that to girls it’s just an excuse | /r/seduction | 16/07/22 05:51 PM |
| 1 | [24M] A dating conundrum I cannot understandok bro the only advice i can give you is, either flirt more with them or build more rappor before asking them out, or build up your social media etc, OR you can just try to take them on an insta date, without actually asking them on a date. hey wanna keep me company and grab a coffee i’m waiting for my cousin (lie) then you build rappor, flirt (an sample is just non verbal like mirroring movements or smiling a lot at each other or a verbal example can be like why are you looking at me like that … | /r/seduction | 16/07/22 05:11 PM |
| 1 | [24M] A dating conundrum I cannot understandso by asking out you mean asking out on a date? | /r/seduction | 16/07/22 05:04 PM |
| 0 | [24M] A dating conundrum I cannot understanddid you kiss them and escalate before asking them out? you should first hold their hand then kiss them then either try to close or at that point ask them out, you shouldn’t be planetonic with a girl at the moment of asking them out | /r/seduction | 16/07/22 04:48 PM |
| 0 | How to pick up girls at the club?I feel like logistics is the biggest thing. Like having a crib nearby so you can try to pull girls | /r/seduction | 16/07/22 04:05 PM |
| 1 | [24M] A dating conundrum I cannot understandLook man the only way you’ll know if you’re good looking is how women react to you. If they’re giddy and super nice and like giving you signs then you’re good looking. If they’re not they’re either taken or you’re not good looking. You’ll know objectively by how strangers (women) treat you | /r/seduction | 16/07/22 04:04 PM |
| 16 | [FIELD REPORT] I pulled a girl while we were waiting for the elevator to the parking garagenice bro this is a legendary field report | /r/seduction | 16/07/22 03:52 PM |
| 2 | Depressed about my Body Count!same. most people don’t get pussy at a young age. but honestly after i turned 21 i went from a single body count to 10 in like 5 years, relax and take it easy i would’ve rather fucked 3-5 quality girls than 25 low quality ones so it’s not about the quantity althought you do get bragging rights i guess | /r/seduction | 16/07/22 03:47 PM |
| 1 | How to know when to make the next move with a girl you meet at a bar?escalate bro hold her hand kiss her move her around the bar while you’re talking and then try to pull her home while you ask her for logistics, if you’re doing all this you’ll already consume at least 30 min - 1 hr conversation in which you can transition to your crib or set up a time for a date and number close | /r/seduction | 16/07/22 03:47 PM |
| 4 | is being short a huge turnoff?i’m using these lines 😂😂😂 | /r/seduction | 16/07/22 03:44 PM |
| 10 | is being short a huge turnoff?yep. i’m 5’4 and i’ve had 3 really hot gfs. i 2 of them in person. i’ve been with 10 girls. yes i am white and good looking facially, but my jawline is pretty weak, so i grew out a beard using midoxinil and girls treat me wayyyy better now. i also wear 2.5 inch lifts to get me to 5’7. night and day difference. get some nice lifts and try to either grow a beard or if you have a big forehead comb your hair forward or if you have a bit skull like me grow out your hair etc. these little things will … | /r/seduction | 16/07/22 03:43 PM |
| 2 | Too self conscious about my average height, its killing my gamebruh Jmulv is ugly af and at 6’4 he’s banged like a billion girls dude probably has aids you got this get your game clutched up! use indirect game btw look it up direct game doesn’t work for me | /r/seduction | 16/07/22 03:39 PM |
| 8 | Is it supposed to be this difficult?lmfao welcome friend buckle up dating in 2022 for men is cancer | /r/seduction | 16/07/22 02:24 AM |
| 3 | I still live at home, does that turn girls off?honestly i’ve fucked lots of girls at my crib and just had a gf. that being said it does hurt but only on the first bang. take them to a hotel or rent a place with a bunch of friends to cut cost. either way this is not a bad time to not be living out cuz prices are sky high and lots of girls are living with their parents. it’s very understandable right now to be saving money also my friend has never lived alone and fucked like 35-40 girls. try to go for younger girls older ones i think asume you… | /r/seduction | 16/07/22 02:22 AM |
| 8 | Why do I only get hit up by monstrously fat chicks on dating sites? I'm a good looking, athletic dude.same most of the hot girls i dated were all from in person contact | /r/seduction | 15/07/22 08:37 PM |
| 1 | Guide to becoming a "Natural"lmao that’s called learning game. being natural is another wya to say good looking and doesn’t have to do much to get a girl | /r/seduction | 15/07/22 01:34 PM |
| 3 | approaching girls at night?try to find a more populated well lit area to game on your way home, find the spot with most volume and use it to your advantage | /r/seduction | 15/07/22 01:30 PM |
| 1 | Texting Game - 2 months into a relationshipnah chill some girls don’t text much i’m like that sometimes too | /r/seduction | 15/07/22 01:23 PM |
| 2 | I've never been on a date with someone I loved or had a crush on. Can anyone relate?I have three times, once i fell in love, but sadly i couldn’t handle her having dated my old best friend and had to break things off. nonetheless i feel your pain, only one of those turned out long term and it was my first gf. the issue is most girls that will be into you online are well beneath your mate value, and usually we wind up really liking girls at or above our mate value OR if you share a lot of history like my recent ex… wish she hadn’t been so crazy :/ | /r/seduction | 15/07/22 01:22 PM |
| 1 | Too self conscious about my average height, its killing my gameyeah!!! i noticed that myself recently too (after i grew out my new beard wohoo) in fact i was talking to some girl the other day and she started mirroring my movements and everything, i used to be so clueless about that stuff lol i wonder if it’s cuz most girls would treat me that way so i thought it was normal, and only now realize they don’t treat ugly dudes or dudes they don’t like that way they just look at them cold most of the time or are slightly nice but not giving signals | /r/seduction | 15/07/22 01:11 PM |
| 1 | Too self conscious about my average height, its killing my gameyeah it is your game lol i’ve never been approach tbh but i’ve had hot gfs | /r/seduction | 14/07/22 10:38 PM |
| 1 | How can I get laid on short noticedaygame cold approach | /r/seduction | 14/07/22 09:16 PM |
| 1 | Don't Know Where to Start Cold Approachingstart asking questions talking to shop owners getting yourself warmed up, find a wing, have a light drink if you need it, then once you do your first you’ll realize it’s no big deal. try not to be too direct if you’re afraid of rejection, ease your way into it. | /r/seduction | 14/07/22 04:59 PM |
| 1 | Too self conscious about my average height, its killing my gameit’s ok buddy i’m 5’4 🙃 | /r/seduction | 14/07/22 04:57 PM |
| 1 | Coping with rejectionyeahhhh bro wtf i always just go for drinks alone and switch to another bar after 20-40 minutes and then walk around and close at the car makes it feel like multiple dates in one | /r/seduction | 14/07/22 03:20 PM |
| 5 | Too self conscious about my average height, its killing my gameYou just have to be 5’9 if you’re 5’7 you can wear lifts above 5’9 if you aren’t getting play you’re either unnatractive facially or your game is wack | /r/seduction | 14/07/22 02:56 PM |
| 2 | Coping with rejectionare you being too pushy? you should mentioned we can go back to my crib i make really good (insert food here), and if she says no just immediately change topics into cooking it shouldn’t be a red flag though tbh but i guess you can try not doing that next time idk | /r/seduction | 14/07/22 02:54 PM |
| 1 | Coping with rejectioni mean i tend to keep girls easy cuz i have a great social life and i’m generally a really cool interesting guy (lots of hobbies). also, are you closing the girls? you have to actually try and bring them over or bang them in the car in my experience work on becoming more interesting and fun and having a social circle and girls will probably want to stick around to experience it | /r/seduction | 14/07/22 12:34 PM |
| 3 | Coping with rejectionI mean at least you’re getting matches and dates. I used to get matches and now my tinder is dead. OLD went to shit. Be grateful you’re good looking enough to score a date you even like | /r/seduction | 14/07/22 11:56 AM |
| 2 | Tattoosi would actually think it hurts because while some girls may like it you’ll have a bunch of girls auto reject you for them. also most tats look bad imo (bad designs), and once it’s inked it’s inked. i’d be careful and get something really nice if you’re actually gonna do it which probably means a nice sleeve | /r/seduction | 14/07/22 03:14 AM |
| 1 | LOOKS DON'T Really Matter (Social skills above all)cope | /r/seduction | 13/07/22 08:15 PM |
| 2 | Patience is a Virtuedo you usually send messages or just like pictures without a message? not sure how to go about it tbh | /r/seduction | 13/07/22 01:20 PM |
| 5 | Contradicting behaviourwell a lot of girls are like that, they’re just super in their phones and stuff. i’m not a fan of it, i’ve been with both types of girls. i’d definitely rather the type that just doesn’t have much social media or isn’t constantly on it | /r/seduction | 13/07/22 01:19 PM |
| 1 | Any inspiring stories for short guys who compete with tall guys and still get the girl?tinder and school | /r/seduction | 12/07/22 10:32 PM |
| 2 | How to Cold Approach At The Gym?it’s not bad you’ll just be taking a risk basically that’s up to you | /r/seduction | 12/07/22 09:19 PM |
| 9 | How to Cold Approach At The Gym?why don’t you open a conversationb with them and then don’t close it, the next time you see them just wave at them maybe, theme eventually it’ll be a warm approach “hey i remember you how you been” from there you can time every few sessions using a machine shes one after her to strike conversation and eventually close and it should be super smooth don’t be cringy and try to do everything at once or else she’ll remember you next time cuz gyms are relatively “small” | /r/seduction | 12/07/22 05:00 PM |
| 0 | Any inspiring stories for short guys who compete with tall guys and still get the girl?i’m 5’4 and i’ve fucked 10 girls. some of them super hot. i’ve been called a liar “that’s impossible” “you’re a troll” lmao no i’m not a troll, I am good looking and white though | /r/seduction | 12/07/22 02:10 PM |
| 1 | Is there a really good Tinder\dating apps mentor?yeah it’s called your genes | /r/seduction | 12/07/22 02:09 PM |
| 2 | Who are the top 10 Dating Coaches who actually walk the walk in 2022?Proceeds to Yad stomp and spit direct cringe game all over london 😂 | /r/seduction | 12/07/22 02:08 PM |
| 6 | Went on a date with a coworker, and it went alright. She throws out mixed signals, and I talked to a few coworkers to get their opinion. What are the odds they told her?lmfao | /r/seduction | 12/07/22 02:07 PM |
| 5 | What's the best lesson you've learned on your seduction journey?yeah shoe lifts, it’s super cool because as long as you don’t break 3 inches people won’t notice, i’ve literally gone on dates pulled and banged the girl and just walk around without shoes after and they have no clue | /r/seduction | 12/07/22 11:58 AM |
| 22 | I'm asian (23F) I need an advice, I really into caucasian/white guyslmaooooo the stereotype is true brutalllll don’t worry i’m white and i love asians lol just hit on some white dudes | /r/seduction | 12/07/22 11:57 AM |
| 9 | What are some funny lines I can use when joking about my shory height?buy some lifts instead. coming from a midget | /r/seduction | 12/07/22 04:09 AM |
| 8 | Fastest way to get laid in 2022 according to you guys (My post deleted itself so here's the compilation)you forgot the ultimate sarging solo daygame | /r/seduction | 12/07/22 12:33 AM |
| 1 | time manegment spinning plateslmao what | /r/seduction | 11/07/22 08:20 PM |
| 31 | What's the best lesson you've learned on your seduction journey?Looks matter a lot and so does height, yet i’ve been with 10 girls at 5’4. It means that while it does matter it doesn’t count you out, and tinder isn’t real life. Real life cold approach and warm approach will net you girls well above your level. It may seem impossible but once you really start approaching properly and sensing the signs in women you will have success. I grew a beard and got some lifts so I now stand at 5’7 when i’m out. night and day difference with how women treat me (my jawli… | /r/seduction | 11/07/22 08:19 PM |
| 2 | The more ambivalent I am towards women, the better I do.yah you’re shooting up i think and maybe you’re gunning out of your league doesn’t mean you shouldn’t keep trying are you social? a good social life goes a long way in a woman wanting to stay with you | /r/seduction | 11/07/22 04:30 PM |
| 6 | If attraction is non negotiable, what's the fastest way to find out if there is mutual attraction?you should know girls get giddy and stuff around me when they’re attracted and i can always tell | /r/seduction | 11/07/22 04:28 PM |
| 3 | Was he not flirting with me? Did I ruin my chances with thus guy? what happened?lmao yeah dude these guys are telling you he totally got roped by his gf and had to cut the flirting to not get in trouble. he’s probably thinking about it. give him time if he really likes you he’ll eventually break it off with his gf | /r/seduction | 11/07/22 03:48 PM |
| 4 | How to get a girl who's insecure about herself and her looks?you don’t want a girl like that. my ex was like that. she just didn’t believe i loved her and wound up leaving town. she was crazy. don’t do it bro | /r/seduction | 11/07/22 02:46 PM |
| 10 | Was he not flirting with me? Did I ruin my chances with thus guy? what happened?i mean maybe his gf noticed something was up, it’s kinda hard to hide that stuff and texts and whatnot from your gf i’m ngl | /r/seduction | 11/07/22 02:45 PM |
| 9 | The best daygame place ever?populated areas? you gotta live in a big city for the best results | /r/seduction | 11/07/22 02:16 PM |
| 18 | Was he not flirting with me? Did I ruin my chances with thus guy? what happened?lmao girls love what they can’t have huh 😂 he’s definitely into you but probably feels bad about cheating on his girl or leaving her | /r/seduction | 11/07/22 02:15 PM |
| 1 | Do day game really help to get a relationship that last for like a year or more ? Or it is just for hookup ?yeah but only if you go indirect. go direct and you’ll get blown out a million times over. yeah it’s harder but just be smart try to see if the girl is interested and when you go to close her she’ll know what’s up. no girl is gonna stay there talking bullshit with you unless she’s somewhat interested. good luck | /r/seduction | 11/07/22 01:31 PM |
| 1 | Sedditors from nine years ago or successful sedditors disappear after a few years? Why is this?yeah keep in mind bro people eventually settle down. I am starting some intense daygame runs but in the end i do believe in marriage and i want to find someone special and settle down. game is just a part of the journey | /r/seduction | 11/07/22 01:29 PM |
| 3 | Better quality girls from cold approach then onlineYES BRO i’m person my gfs have been HOT man HOT online i don’t even get matches anymore lmfao it’s a troll cuz i’m legit 7/10 facially minimum | /r/seduction | 11/07/22 01:26 PM |
| 1 | My theory of why OLD is dead afyeah that’s true nonetheless i’ve been lucky enough to build a strong core of best friends, however it took me meeting 500+ people to meet them and it was only at the very end of my time in college so i got very lucky. Almost everyone else definitely i see less frequently and i’m sure that will continue as they age | /r/seduction | 10/07/22 02:46 PM |
| 3 | Price of being a chadyou have aids now | /r/seduction | 10/07/22 01:55 PM |
| 1 | Do I need to say something witty to start a conversation on dating apps?lmao what no way dude i might comment on their profile but asking them out right away will get you blow out most of the time | /r/seduction | 09/07/22 08:24 PM |
| 2 | Thanks to this subreddit I got to Suck My Crush's Boobs within first 5 minutes.love it man just remember to keep it cool and escalate smoothly don’t fall for any cringy tactics or shitty advice example: don’t run todd valentine cringe lmfao you are doing well and being so young be sure not to “devolve” your game with bad advice from shittt you tubers and coaches | /r/seduction | 09/07/22 07:43 PM |
| 1 | How not to sound needy or pervert?i don’t say too much sexual stuff in convos tbh i don’t feel it’s necessary if you’re properly escalating and by that i don’t mean making out in public necessarily, i mean slowly escalating into holding their hand or isolating them giving them a kiss sometimes instead of a sexual innuendo i just tell them something like “oh so you’re gonna flirt with me and not walk me to my car” or something like that insinuating that there’s a sexual/emltional connection between us | /r/seduction | 09/07/22 06:11 PM |
| 1 | Getting ghosted after getting the number.i probably wouldn’t call them on the spot cuz it seems as if you’re needy and trying hard, which could lead them to think you’re gonna annoy them | /r/seduction | 09/07/22 06:09 PM |
| 1 | is no contact a good seduction method when dating?yeah it depends a little bit yes but too much and they’ll just move on | /r/seduction | 09/07/22 06:01 PM |
| 2 | How much does sex happen between summer camp counsellors?don’t temp me with a good time ;) | /r/seduction | 09/07/22 06:00 PM |
| 1 | My theory of why OLD is dead afyeah most guys aren’t there for just sex but when there’s so many options you really can’t know. i’ve had sex and dipped on my fair share so i understand why they might be hesitant to keep going since a lot of guys will lead them on and they just won’t know until the guy dips | /r/seduction | 09/07/22 05:59 PM |
| 5 | Seeking dating advice from 35+ menwhoa was not expecting you to be married haha | /r/seduction | 09/07/22 03:47 PM |
| 3 | My theory of why OLD is dead afyeah dude to be fair the most consistent place to meet people is work, and jobs that expose you to a lot of people. thankfully im going into a field that has that, but for now i’ll try to find other avenues also personally i do have an awesome social life, but i don’t necessarily meet new girls from it. what it does do though is any girl that gets to know me a little and comes out with me falls madly in love with me because they see how popular i am how many friends i have and how much fun we ha… | /r/seduction | 09/07/22 03:45 PM |
| 1 | My theory of why OLD is dead afyeah actually i’m going back to school right now and it’s been AMAZING. holy crap so many girls and so many are super into me. it’s so different when you’re in a warm environment, i’m glad i’m getting into a field with lots of women not really to play the field but so i actually have a chance of meeting someone special. nonetheless i’m gonna keep cold approaching as a supplement because while cold approaching is harder, once mastered, it is an extremely powerful tool you’re totally right about g… | /r/seduction | 09/07/22 02:52 PM |
| 1 | My theory of why OLD is dead afit is superficial, but looks are also superficial. girls want the full package. obviously not all of them, cuz there are girls on the apps. the only reason i would say it sucks for them is what my ex from tinder told me herself, most of the guys there she’s willing to date are above the looks threshold and she is unsure whether they will actually commit or not so she doesn’t really use tinder anymore. There’s a lot of girls that don’t and I assume it must be because of this. Just getting burned … | /r/seduction | 09/07/22 02:49 PM |
| -1 | This shit is tiringwe’ll i’ve worked hard and impressed hot girls, and had sex with them. so yes. if it was only ugly girls then probably not no now how often i get those girls is the problem, very infrequent | /r/seduction | 09/07/22 02:14 PM |
| 2 | How to not feel depressed after an unsuccessful night out?same. i hate that depressed feeling after a night out that doesn’t go well. i’d rather just spend the night with my friends and game during the day | /r/seduction | 09/07/22 02:06 PM |
| 4 | Good night, but last woman was terribledon’t forget to escalate. try to memorize and practice 5-8 topics and between every 2 topics insert some escalation “let’s take a shot” / hold her hand / kiss her / “after party” / try to pull to your car / come walk me out / etc don’t just get lost in a convo to nowhere | /r/seduction | 09/07/22 02:04 PM |
| 2 | Was it location or was his profile really that good ?to be fair bro it’s not about the quality of your pictures, it’s about the quality of your face lmao and your height. a girl doesn’t give a shit if you took the picture with a potato so long as you’re hot | /r/seduction | 09/07/22 02:03 PM |
| 3 | How much does sex happen between summer camp counsellors?to be honest bro sex is happening anywhere work/school is occurring, if you’re not one of the ones that’s on you, but depending on the number of people the higher the number the more sex is happening is just a matter of stats | /r/seduction | 09/07/22 02:00 PM |
| 10 | This shit is tiringit’s the curse of being a male species, competition is so intense right now. seriously the fact that my OLD profile is dead is so crazy to me cuz i really used to do so well. we don’t have a choice in the matter tho, just gotta keep grinding | /r/seduction | 09/07/22 01:57 PM |
| 1 | What's wrong with this sub recently? We are here for seduction strategies and self-improvement, aren't we? Instead, most guys here seems to hide behind a screen (OLD, Insta, ...) and talk sh*t about traditional approaching.I don’t understand that he problem though. Dating is NOT linear, it will vary based on your looks. That’s how it works in the animal kingdom. Fitness. If you’re ignorant to it you’re ignorant to it but it’s still there. I CAN approach, and I have had success with women but I am good looking (albeit not very tall). This means I am in a position to cold approach, mostly daygame. Some people are on another level and they sometimes just realize that their looks will make things really hard and bent … | /r/seduction | 08/07/22 10:51 AM |
| 2 | Best strategy to pick up at a rave?why don’t you ask them who’s playing next maybe introduce yourself then if they’re into you keep spitting and usually they’re off the molly so you can just escalate | /r/seduction | 07/07/22 04:15 AM |
| 3 | Stats on 40 Cold Approachesit’s not about gimmicks though. it’s about just genuinely feeling out your vibe and whether you’re cool or not, not fucking todds cringe daygame i can’t even watch a full infield from that dude and i followed him for years till i realized he’s a cringefest | /r/seduction | 07/07/22 03:28 AM |
| 2 | "The game is the game" If she cheats on you its because he is better than you - how do you seduce someone so that they dont(very slim possibility) cheat on you?i’ve never had a girl cheat on me cuz i’m not a guy worth cheating on and i don’t date hoes? you should know by a girls character and whether you’re really a guy that’s cool and worth dating. | /r/seduction | 07/07/22 03:27 AM |
| 3 | Stats on 40 Cold Approachesthis dude is woke, you know what you’re talking about my fellow hunter. i thjnk it takes a very high level of game and a lot of failure with direct approaches to realize this isn’t the way, and find a more scientific approach like what we have. takes a lot more brainpower to formulate cuz it’s sneaky, but in the end imo much more effective | /r/seduction | 07/07/22 03:25 AM |
| 1 | Would you take her back if she comes around?this is interesting. i really do hope my 30s bring success with women. my 20s have been very limited albeit i still hit a 10 count. nonetheless i could see my 30s, with much more wealth power and status, (not to mention women becoming more realistic in their standads), to hopefully be much better | /r/seduction | 06/07/22 05:55 PM |
| 8 | What exactly do you mean by 'be on your purpose and they'll come'?lmfao dude of course that’s a darse. what they’re trying to say is if you make money and have a job you’re happy with when you meet a women she’ll be more attracted to you. but you need to expose yourself to meeting women in the first place for that to happen | /r/seduction | 06/07/22 11:45 AM |
| 114 | Stats on 40 Cold Approachesbeing direct is for really good looking people. why don’t you try other opening lines, something more relevant or situational. if the girl is into you she’ll keep the convo if not she’ll just leave. she’s not stupid | /r/seduction | 06/07/22 03:52 AM |
| 2 | After First Date questionidk i guess just ask like hey is it cool if i shoot a call later something along those lines maybe, if she’s sketchy about it don’t worry but some girls are down and it’s like an extra date almost and if they keep calling you you’ll build a really strong connection | /r/seduction | 05/07/22 10:26 PM |
| 2 | After First Date questionit happens bro sometimes if i don’t kiss or close the girls my odds of a second date start being pretty low. other times i try to set up a phone call after the date so we can just all shit a little and setting up the next date is more natural | /r/seduction | 05/07/22 09:02 PM |
| 1 | Adviceyeah this is so true i wish i had a dog go to dog parks or walk it around and hit on girls. easy indirect open heaven | /r/seduction | 05/07/22 08:51 PM |
| 1 | How do you get over regret?why regret a relationship? there’s no guarantee you would’ve gotten play unless you’re very attractive, it’s better to have had a relationship than to have been alone | /r/seduction | 04/07/22 11:46 PM |
| 1 | What lines do you use for cold approach that have actually worked?open with indirect observations, like the guy that mentioned oh do you like how ironed my shirt lmao the point is it was indirect so it wasn’t cringy and then he just assumed attraction and kept talking to her | /r/seduction | 04/07/22 11:45 PM |
| 3 | I want to start having more casual sex and hookups with guys or gals. How should I get started?are you a girl? lmao download tinder that’s about all you need | /r/seduction | 04/07/22 11:43 PM |
| 8 | Why do women say one thing but do the opposite?my thing rn is i don’t have a crib to pull to but if we’re making out hard in my car and she doesn’t have a place i’ve boned lots of girls in the car which is pretty crazy come to think of it. sometimes you just have to escalate and they’ll go with it. definitely not about what they say but what they feel at the moment | /r/seduction | 04/07/22 07:24 PM |
| 3 | The worst dating advice I’ve ever received was to focus on having fun and not getting womenyeah it’s terrible advice. you gotta go out with a plan and strategy and execute. no one passes school tests by having fun and showing up lit to the exam | /r/seduction | 04/07/22 07:23 PM |
| 2 | Anyone else feel like they're missing the bus to a fun sex life in their 20's?i’m a struggling starved by choice, but i’ve been with 10 girls in my 20s. would’ve rather been with 2-3 consistently, rather than 10 random ones but i do take pride in the fact that if i’ve been with 10 girls i know i can get girls and i feel proud of that. nonetheless i gy most from online dating and the best ones from in person so try to be as involved in school as you can and try to maximize your looks with a beard, lifts and proper haircut if your forehead is big etc | /r/seduction | 04/07/22 07:20 PM |
| 2 | Say sorry or don't?no because as a man my values align with apologizing over what i did. but that’s just me cuz i don’t want a girl that plays stupid games. my exes weren’t restarted like she was | /r/seduction | 04/07/22 01:42 PM |
| 7 | [FR] Talked to girl in grocery store but was too afraid to show intenti would keep going on about one or two topics and if she’s still there she likes you so just tell her that you maybe did need to know but you asked her cuz you wanted to talk to her / are into her props on the indirect open. this is the way. | /r/seduction | 04/07/22 07:19 AM |
| 2 | Cold approached a Police Womanjust cold approach cops? lmfao offer her to smoke a blizzy build comfort hold frame | /r/seduction | 04/07/22 07:18 AM |
| 1 | What do you think of the numbers rating system for attractiveness?just cuz you got to know him through “warm aporoaching” basically and grew to love his traits most women will only judge based on the initial impression and women are very picky at those “cold” scenarios so men’s self esteem drops significantly, for example tinder he’s internalizing this and giving himself the lowest realistic rating from the eyes of a women in a “cold” scenario only one of my exes was from tinder, the other two came from life experiences and they saw me the way you see him, hen… | /r/seduction | 04/07/22 07:16 AM |
| 1 | The Classic "Bang a Bunch of Girls to Move Past a Breakup" Advice is such garbagedepends how much you liked your ex. i only miss mine cuz i’m lonely really. we got along really well and i miss that too but she wasn’t right for me. having another quality girl would take the pain away from me in my scenario, but time has seriously made a huge difference regardless | /r/seduction | 04/07/22 07:13 AM |
| 3 | Say sorry or don't?don’t be a zombie women are people you don’t have to apologize for approaching or stupid shit but if you fuck up something in a relationship be a human and apologize. apologizing backfired on my ex but idc she’s a stupid bitch for not seeing or appreciating the genuine apology i gave her | /r/seduction | 04/07/22 07:11 AM |
| 1 | I'm doing something wrong...exactly 😂 i’m growing out my beard now with midox and hopefully that will kick me up the point i need in looks | /r/seduction | 04/07/22 07:09 AM |
| 1 | Asking to meet up in OLDyeah coffee is weird bro ngl just say drinks | /r/seduction | 04/07/22 12:24 AM |
| 1 | Never take a girls advice on literally anythingare you saying my 7 inch cock is too big? | /r/seduction | 03/07/22 10:50 PM |
| 1 | I'm doing something wrong...right it’s all relative but we’re still in the same position. i know i can do better so i strive to at least be with a girl that matched my exes | /r/seduction | 03/07/22 10:49 PM |
| 2 | I'm doing something wrong...honestly man i’m in this boat and so many other people are. it’s depressing because you feel like “oh i’m never gonna get a girl etc” but the truth is we DO get girls and lots of them. i have so many options really, the problem is i just want a girl i’m really attracted to and i really like, and girls like that aren’t easy to obtain | /r/seduction | 03/07/22 09:22 PM |
| 1 | What can a 5’6 who’s a brown fat virgin do? Is there anything he can do to get better?take it easy man. you can literally go to another country and get a lot of girls. work on yourself earn money and find those opportunities. women get easier as you get older. plenty to enjoy in life besides women | /r/seduction | 03/07/22 06:34 PM |
| 1 | I'm married now, but I used to have a closing date of about 50%. Here's How.what kind of places would you go to regularly? | /r/seduction | 03/07/22 06:31 PM |
| 1 | What can a 5’6 who’s a brown fat virgin do? Is there anything he can do to get better?dude you’re gonna get all kind of ridiculous answers here. but i’m gonna be real with you. i’m 5’4, and i’ve been with 10 girls. some people say it’s impossible but it’s true. then again my front facial profile is very attractive, my side profile is pretty bad. i’ve been growing out a beard to make up for it. you’ll need to see the flaws in your face and if there are soft changes you can make (ex. big forehead wear a headband or comb your hair down etc) your ethinicity will make a different depe… | /r/seduction | 03/07/22 06:22 PM |
| 1 | Stop being Lazy and Approach more girlswell you’re not wrong. for example i’ve taken several months to focus on growing my beard before approaching again because my chin/jaw is very flawed but would look great with a beard. then i can try again. i also make more money and have strong interesting hobbies. it is about looks but you can max them out in a few ways: chin jaw with beard (use midox) big forehead with combing hair down and short or headband bad skull with long hair height with lifts etc etc. if all that fails then surgery if… | /r/seduction | 02/07/22 08:11 PM |
| 2 | Stop being Lazy and Approach more girlsi mean maybe that’s you but i like to actually have a structure and plan when i go out. i take my time at home to pretend i’m talking to a wall for at least 30 minutes and get a decent loose script down so when i go in i’m not just retarded. maybe it’s cuz i’m older and i’ve spammed approached enough and i’m tired of that style | /r/seduction | 02/07/22 08:08 PM |
| 4 | Where to meet easy girls?i don’t think there is such thing unless you go overseas, poorer countries etc, or countries where you are exotic. | /r/seduction | 02/07/22 03:14 PM |
| 1 | How to deal with extreme, almost overwhelming Approach Anxiety?jesus what’s up with all these 6’3 dudes complaining lmao at that point it’s just a numbers game unless you’re ugly. I’m short and moderately good looking so I go indirect. Everyone will tell you not to but it works for me. Never have approach anxiety. Only thing is you lose a lot of sets that don’t wanna interact after the initial question but that’s normal people are busy. You won’t indícate premise (aka i think your cute etc) but it’s implied unless they’re stupid because you’re both sticking… | /r/seduction | 02/07/22 01:50 PM |
| 1 | Is anyone else finding it a lot harder to actually get dates through dating apps these days?it is getting more common, but it doesn’t mean that girls prefer a tinder meet story over a real life meeting story. | /r/seduction | 02/07/22 01:46 PM |
| 2 | Should i wait?low key i know the answer is run but seeing as this guy is not really in a position to lose here i would do the same and just wait. he can just game other girls while he waits. if you just break it off with the girl you won’t actually get anything in return except maybe a little piece of mind? | /r/seduction | 02/07/22 01:45 PM |
| 1 | Why do girls do this?why cold approach at work? why not just warm approach, ask some questions about the building introduce yourself etc | /r/seduction | 01/07/22 05:20 PM |
| 1 | First relationship I was so innocent. Where has that innocence gone?hey man my first gf was like that too, it was special. doesn’t mean she was the one for me though. i certainly hope to find something similar but it will always be different because we’re not kids anymore doesn’t mean it’s not better just different | /r/seduction | 01/07/22 05:19 PM |
| 1 | Is anyone else finding it a lot harder to actually get dates through dating apps these days?believe it or not i heard from a girl i recently dated something as simple as: “i hate the idea of meeting on tinder” she doesn’t use it and we didn’t meet on tinder we already knew each other i think girls standards are getting SO high that they not only want to meet a good guy but also want a good backstory maybe i’m wrong though | /r/seduction | 01/07/22 01:13 PM |
| 1 | Are dating apps even worth the headache?i got a date the other day but then again i’ve really optimize my profile a lot and before i wasn’t getting many matches so just keep working on your job, hobbies etc the higher value the are and the more casually oh can convey them in your profile the more matches you’ll get generally speaking (i am decently good looking though so keep that in mind) | /r/seduction | 01/07/22 01:11 PM |
| 2 | Sarging in ATLcasually throwing out savage ass stats | /r/seduction | 01/07/22 01:08 PM |
| 2 | Do girls ever tell guys to stop contacting them as a test?bro sounds like my ex run away she was crazy and the moment things got rocky she left the city sporadically it was heartbreaking | /r/seduction | 30/06/22 01:13 PM |
| 1 | Useless/Depressing wingmanlmao seriously you’re a piece of shit dude no wonder women don’t like you | /r/seduction | 29/06/22 08:20 PM |
| 1 | Useless/Depressing wingmanyou’re a joke saying something like that to someone who’s been through so much. you deserve your pussy ass depression and lack of success i got through it all because of my mental resilience and yeah i manned up to my problems and i’ve had success with women friendships you made it through my depression. | /r/seduction | 29/06/22 06:19 PM |
| 1 | Useless/Depressing wingmanbro i’ve survived cancer had transplants lost them got intubated with covid you name it but that’s doesn’t mean I come up with excuses life is hard and yes you can be depressed but you don’t have to let that consume your interactions if you don’t want it to or use that as an excuse for failing or deciding to do nothing | /r/seduction | 28/06/22 10:08 PM |
| 0 | Useless/Depressing wingmanyeah stop making excuses | /r/seduction | 28/06/22 09:05 PM |
| 0 | Useless/Depressing wingmanman up | /r/seduction | 28/06/22 02:17 PM |
| 1 | 32/M where would be a good place to go to practice pick up? I’ve been in a relationship for two years and I forgot about everything.biggest thing dude is if you’re getting a lot of eye contact and stares from girls just go up to them that’s an easy kill otherwise you can go indirect if you’re too nervous. they’ll know you’re hitting on them so it’s the same in a sense | /r/seduction | 27/06/22 06:16 AM |
| 1 | Eye contact with a girl at the beach,but not making a move, any tipps?if you’re staring at each other it’s easy, just be like are you just gonna stare at me or are we gonna talk, some shit like that just say hey cuz they obviously like you girls will avoid eye contact with guys they don’t want cuz they don’t want to be approached | /r/seduction | 27/06/22 01:32 AM |
| 1 | Useless/Depressing wingmanindirect daygame if you’re nervous you don’t need a wingman | /r/seduction | 27/06/22 01:28 AM |
| 1 | Best way to reconnect with someone who you haven’t spoken with in a year?idk bro but i think some form of social media is better than just text if you barely speak and don’t have much rapport | /r/seduction | 27/06/22 01:19 AM |
| 1 | Tinder shadowban?dude no there is no shadow an tinder just works very slowly now. i get matches just at a slower rate than before. improve your profile. the more you restart it the more the girls in your area keep seeing it and keep swiping left. | /r/seduction | 26/06/22 02:34 PM |
| 1 | Best way to reconnect with someone who you haven’t spoken with in a year?snapchat can be really great for building up value and then like replying to their story or sending them something and seeing if it goes from there cuz getting no response on snap is normal and actually expected | /r/seduction | 26/06/22 11:52 AM |
| 1 | Hooking up with a ton of girls in College Senior Yearyou should try to get as involved as you can on campus and with school clubs or orgs | /r/seduction | 25/06/22 08:02 PM |
| 1 | Do girls like men who beat them?lmao no bro plenty of girls have fallen in love with me and i’ve been nothing but good to them | /r/seduction | 25/06/22 07:59 PM |
| 1 | Social circle is important, not only for meeting women, but for keeping them. Attractive women usually have large friend groups and, IMO, expect partners with the same. And this is a good thing!ah it’s ok bro sometimes girls just aren’t into it. sometimes you need to be a little more subtle you know | /r/seduction | 25/06/22 02:37 PM |
| 2 | Men, why would you fall in love with someone you initially planned an only sex relationship ?it was only one. idk. we just got along really well. shared lots of memories. she had loved me for so long, like since she was a kid, i think i felt that and wound up sharing it with her. things didn’t work out but, it was pretty amazing | /r/seduction | 25/06/22 04:16 AM |
| -1 | Will the overturn of Roe v Wade make casual dating and sex more complicated?yeah this is usually something controller by the states so not much will probably change in the near future | /r/seduction | 25/06/22 02:45 AM |
| 2 | Men, why would you fall in love with someone you initially planned an only sex relationship ?I mean I’ve dated girls where i loved them because they were my long time friend and i eventually grew to fall in love with her. idk why I just did even though I wasn’t necessarily expecting it | /r/seduction | 25/06/22 02:44 AM |
| 1 | How do I get attractive female friends?i thought this same thing before i even scrolled to the comments 😂😂 | /r/seduction | 25/06/22 12:02 AM |
| 1 | Am I doing this shit wrongeven on tinder you have to escalate the interactions talk on the phone and try to meet them online otherwise you’re the one they will consider being weird just talking to them with no progress | /r/seduction | 24/06/22 09:00 PM |
| 1 | Social circle is important, not only for meeting women, but for keeping them. Attractive women usually have large friend groups and, IMO, expect partners with the same. And this is a good thing!lmfao at making out with her on three dates and not boning 😂 what you’re saying IS true, having friends and a good lifestyle can be important in really making a girl fall for you but not in this situation | /r/seduction | 24/06/22 08:53 PM |
| 1 | How do I ask a girl to FaceTime?hold frame | /r/seduction | 24/06/22 08:51 PM |
| 4 | Got attached then got refused.Yo it happens bro. but don’t push it now just work on yourself. you don’t have to confess feelings, if you’re with her and the back of your hands graze for example and the girl is close to you and not moving away just hold her hand. the only time a girl will hold your hand is if they like you. that’s all you need tbh | /r/seduction | 24/06/22 08:46 PM |
| 3 | Got attached then got refused.lmfaoo | /r/seduction | 24/06/22 08:45 PM |
| 2 | how to handle gf tantrumswell i knew her for 13 years so i don’t regret it. i loved her and it was worth trying. unfortunately things didn’t work out | /r/seduction | 24/06/22 02:54 PM |
| 2 | Solo approachingcocaine | /r/seduction | 24/06/22 01:40 AM |
| 1 | any puas in nyc? wanna day gameny must be wild for game | /r/seduction | 24/06/22 01:40 AM |
| -1 | how to handle gf tantrumslmao idk my ex was crazy | /r/seduction | 24/06/22 01:40 AM |
| 4 | Is setting up a date in 2 weeks too long?yeah way too long. but calling them on the phone periodically can help. maybe she’ll even grow into your personality over the phone | /r/seduction | 23/06/22 12:39 PM |
| 1 | 😎 My Standard Cold Approach Format (that I've used for 8000+ approaches)I mean I appreciate the advice all well written but are you actually going on dates with these girls/closing/getting relationships from them? or are 99% of them flaking | /r/seduction | 23/06/22 12:35 PM |
| 12 | dating another "race/ethnic group"I mean it may be controversial but white guys usually have an easier time with any other ethnicity. darker girls tend to like white guys a lot. TEND TO, certainly not the norm, som ethnic girls want to date guys their own race out of preference or to fit in with their families | /r/seduction | 23/06/22 12:32 PM |
| 0 | Stop trying so hard and you'll get laidthat’s right all the guys in jail basically gave up and they get laid on the regular in there | /r/seduction | 23/06/22 12:20 PM |
| 1 | If you feel like it's time to put the rubber to the road (no pun intended) because you rarely get matches on the apps, dos it make sense to just start cold approaching if you don't have time to update your pictures?good to know people are succeeding from cold approach | /r/seduction | 23/06/22 12:18 PM |
| 2 | Going on a date with a girllmao just don’t be me bro. don’t reject her and regret it later. id give it a shot | /r/seduction | 23/06/22 12:14 PM |
| 0 | Feeling disgusted with myself!why don’t you focus on clubs, school events, classroom whatsapp chats etc and see if you find something more organic there. even if you don’t go to the school pretend you do. you’re 18 and super young meeting people like should feel very natural at your age | /r/seduction | 23/06/22 12:14 PM |
| 1 | Questions about dancing with girls at bars/clubsTo be fair you gotta have a bit of money to nigjtgame. For example I would’ve talked some more and then offered to take some shots, then maybe offered them to smoke a joint in my car, then if you have a crib invite them over. Without those steps you can number close but having more money and resources (enough to buy a drink, have a car, have a hotel or crib to pull to) will elevate your chances. I like Jmulv‘s stuff for nightgame. Yeah he’s tall but he’s ugly like a rat so his game is pretty gre… | /r/seduction | 23/06/22 12:10 PM |
| 1 | Are you better at meeting women in person (pick up) or dating apps? Why?not a problem i’m a DJ and I even produce. when i go to parties I kill it. I just need to find more of them lol. Any tips? Maybe I should go on instagram and offer my services for free to guys that seem to be partying/promoting | /r/seduction | 23/06/22 12:05 PM |
| 2 | Have you had success in game with high quality women?i match with hot girls but they never reply. i’ll get maybe a match a day? but i used to do much better, recently it’s just trickles with no reply | /r/seduction | 23/06/22 12:21 AM |
| 2 | I’m more split than I’ve ever been beforeyou don’t have to cheat on your girl to meet new people and grow your social circle so if and when you break up you have options to go for | /r/seduction | 22/06/22 10:35 PM |
| 2 | Have you had success in game with high quality women?I mean i’ve been with girls way hotter than me but that doesn’t mean looks don’t matter lol they definitely do, in the sense that they make things easier or remove a lot of rejections that would otherwise occur | /r/seduction | 22/06/22 10:30 PM |
| 2 | Have you had success in game with high quality women?I like this. thanks for the info. It seems accurate, I wouldn’t mind punching at my weight or a scale down. I just find online the girls are just several scales down and it’s too much. I do well in social circles and can pull girls much higher than me in warm approaches at events and such | /r/seduction | 22/06/22 10:28 PM |
| 2 | I can't approach girls, I'm so frustratedwhy don’t you try opening indirectly. sure they’ll know you’re hitting on them but it’ll make the starting point easier. ask for directions, pretend to be new to the area, start small talk about the city, cold read her, maybe ask her to chill and go from there i don’t get much anxiety when i go indirect | /r/seduction | 22/06/22 08:58 PM |
| 1 | What's your end goal right now with learning game?lol I had a gf in HS doesn’t mean that’s gonna be your wife, you’d be on the same boat anyways | /r/seduction | 22/06/22 08:56 PM |
| 1 | Are you better at meeting women in person (pick up) or dating apps? Why?i noticed a lot of girls just hate having the backstory of having met on tinder also where have you met your best partners cold approaching or through friends? i’ve found when i cold approach the quality of girls i wound up attracting was low | /r/seduction | 22/06/22 06:49 PM |
| 2 | Asking for her Snap is a rookie mistakenah it depends it’s better than texting imo cuz it doesn’t leave a footprint in case i say some dumb shit | /r/seduction | 22/06/22 06:33 PM |
| 3 | 10 things I've learned after being with over 100 women as a shy dudeIs there any one place that you’ve met the most women at? I do this too, i feel working events can work really well on the side | /r/seduction | 22/06/22 06:32 PM |
| 1 | would you date someone that’s slept with your brother?lmao too bad this works cuz girls keep coming to cop = more interactions/smoke em out etc only downside is jail time whoops | /r/seduction | 22/06/22 02:49 PM |
| 2 | I'm 25. I just moved into a new apartment. I don't have a large circle of friends anymore and never had a girlfriend. If I invite people over, what should I suggest we do?as you get older dinner parties are a thing | /r/seduction | 22/06/22 09:11 AM |
| 9 | would you date someone that’s slept with your brother?well that’s up to you. my ex was with my old best friend and i thought i could handle it but eventually it would creep in my mind everyday that they had been together and i couldn’t mentally handle it. and that’s with them not even having sex. but the sheer thought she went down in him for years would haunt me. needless to say it didn’t work out but again that’s gonna be up to you really | /r/seduction | 22/06/22 09:09 AM |
| 3 | Is the average person here 15 years old?yes | /r/seduction | 22/06/22 02:45 AM |
| 5 | After a Loyal 8yr Relationship, I've Slept with ~40 women via OLD apps - AMAmaybe he forgot to put 6’3 on his bio | /r/seduction | 22/06/22 02:44 AM |
| 29 | Can you actually say whatever you want to women?no that’s terrible advice, practice talking to a wall and make a script dont follow it directly but at least have some idea of structure don’t be a zombie or you’ll be spam approaching and failing like an idiot like i used to | /r/seduction | 21/06/22 07:53 PM |
| 1 | How do you get a girl back that liked you but you cheated onI mean she wasn’t your girlfriend so it’s not cheating let her cool off a little lol girls like a guy with options | /r/seduction | 21/06/22 12:10 PM |
| 2 | When a girl asks “do you drink/do you smoke weed?” how do you respond appropriately?i say hell yeah and smoke a fat one with them. i always bone girls I smoke with | /r/seduction | 21/06/22 12:01 PM |
| 3 | got laid off of meetup.com lolThis is my plan to supplement daygame good to know there are events that work | /r/seduction | 21/06/22 11:50 AM |
| 1 | What is the point of tinder?not really tend to get matches regularly, still doesn’t mean they’ll reply | /r/seduction | 21/06/22 11:40 AM |
| 2 | Is this a good opener for day gameyeah but it’s used a lot | /r/seduction | 21/06/22 11:39 AM |
| 1 | What is the point of tinder?since i restarted it I’ve had no luck. used to get a lot back in the day tho | /r/seduction | 21/06/22 06:16 AM |
| 1 | What is the point of tinder?jeez even i get hot matches, they don’t reply tho lmao | /r/seduction | 21/06/22 06:10 AM |
| 1 | What was it like moving out at 18 and having the college experience?ok then don’t do anything lol | /r/seduction | 21/06/22 05:43 AM |
| 1 | The fact that you are not getting matches on Dating Apps may not be cause you have a bad profilei’m ngl i kinda feel like they don’t. i thought this was true and changed up my profile and i’m getting a match a day. but yes it’s way worse than it used to be omg it blows now even with boosts they used to be way better | /r/seduction | 21/06/22 04:49 AM |
| 1 | Mindset going on a datelmao you might get blasted for this tho and girls will just swipe left even if they wanted to just hookup but idk just my thoughts | /r/seduction | 21/06/22 04:48 AM |
| 1 | Are fashion shows a good place to meet women?never tried it but keep us posted | /r/seduction | 21/06/22 04:47 AM |
| 4 | How do I approach girls at Atlantic Cityman up | /r/seduction | 21/06/22 04:43 AM |
| 1 | What are something I can do to lower the chance of being ghosted after you get her numbers?no dude the times ive succeeded at day game i ask the girl what she sup to and go do it with her. i’ll say like oh i’m just waiting for a friend so i got a little time to kill. when ive succeeded ive actually hung out with them. one time it was a girl from the street of the bar area so it was kinda daygame and we went to denny’s and smoked and eventually smashed lol | /r/seduction | 21/06/22 04:42 AM |
| 1 | What was it like moving out at 18 and having the college experience?sure but i still had a blast and i turned down a lot of low and mid tier socials cuz i didn’t vibe with the guys. i’ve met hundreds of people. but like if you don’t care then don’t do it lol | /r/seduction | 21/06/22 04:40 AM |
| 1 | Looking for book recommendationsmaybe a lot of people won’t share my sentiment but John Elite is amazing. really great coach for what I consider the average looking man who can’t spam approach directly and get laid. like me. i only succeed when I use indirect approaches. dude is asian so he knows how hard he has it and is open about. check out his youtube tons of free value content there straight from his product | /r/seduction | 21/06/22 02:37 AM |
| 3 | What are something I can do to lower the chance of being ghosted after you get her numbers?longer stronger interaction, insta date, maybe just flat out call their cell phone or go for a phone call during text. numbers don’t mean much if your interaction wasn’t strong | /r/seduction | 21/06/22 02:36 AM |
| 1 | What was it like moving out at 18 and having the college experience?dude i still chill with the 18 to 22 crowd lmao, although from this year i’m i won’t be meeting new ones. cuz my best friends are going alumn. met them all through my coed fraternity. i’m an alumni and i still get invited to all the parties. I STILL get pussy at the parties lmao. get involve bro don’t give up i’ve seen people join at 25+ without a problem. you probably won’t get into any socials but you’ll still have a great time seriously once you hit 30 that’s when you can consider yourself to… | /r/seduction | 21/06/22 02:32 AM |
| 1 | Is clingy, obsessed, needy behaviour always a crazy chick… has it ever worked out decently?really unstable. brought up her tattoos and asked her to cool it with them cuz she does them sporadically and shitty ugly af. literally tattoos some niggas face on herself. I was disgusted. before this tho she flipped and told me i was being too controlling blah blah. vented about some others things. she “broke down”. left town changed jobs and blocked me everywhere. she was clinically insane dude | /r/seduction | 21/06/22 02:30 AM |
| 1 | Should I hide my "toxic" opinionsoh boy idk but i was too honest with my ex and she couldn’t handle it lmao be easy on em with the truth pills | /r/seduction | 21/06/22 01:26 AM |
| 1 | What was it like moving out at 18 and having the college experience?you can lie about your age and move close to a school dude you’re still young meet people go to college events fuck it, once you’re 29 you can give up but i partied plenty with college people at 26 ngl | /r/seduction | 21/06/22 01:25 AM |
| 1 | Is clingy, obsessed, needy behaviour always a crazy chick… has it ever worked out decently?nah but crazy is crazy like my ex. then again she told me she was crazy. should’ve listened to her lol | /r/seduction | 21/06/22 01:22 AM |
| 2 | We like each other, but we are very different. What should I do?have some fun bro. you won’t get to party forever. give it a shot. take it from me i regret having been so picky these past 8 years. could’ve had some really amazing relationships plus most girls are homebody’s most of the time. once you’re actually dating her you’ll probably notice you guys mostly chill at the crib and eat out | /r/seduction | 21/06/22 01:21 AM |
| 7 | What does it feel like to be attractive?If you’re attractive you probably ARE getting good signs from girls and not realizing it. If you were ugly you’d probably notice a significant different. Instead of considering a girls indifference as non attractive maybe you should consider that they fact they are not repulsed at first is probably because you are good looking. Not saying ugly guys can’t do well, but you’d probably notice more resistance | /r/seduction | 21/06/22 01:19 AM |
| 1 | What does it feel like to be attractive?It helps a lot. I’m good looking, and girls react well to me when they’re into it. I do very well with warm approaches. Asians and Black girls react very positively to me because I am white ngl. However I am short, so when it comes to the cold approach I am not as quickly accepted. Lifts help a lot. Still cold approach is easiest at 5’9+ (with or without lifts) I only reach 5’7 with lifts Good game is important. If I was awkward I would get no poon. Looks and Game come hand in hand | /r/seduction | 21/06/22 01:16 AM |
| 1 | How to have a social life in college if I don’t drink?there’s so many fraternities, they won’t care if they like you, and the lower tier fraternities won’t care. you’ll still get more pussy from being in a low tier frat than being in none. With girls you can just pretend to be drinking | /r/seduction | 21/06/22 12:43 AM |
| 1 | Best day game opening lines and secondary lines! I feel the follow up question is what I struggle with mostif they seem happy to speak to me I go direct, if not i go indirect ask questions and then go from there. some people won’t like my style tho. up to you | /r/seduction | 20/06/22 10:32 PM |
| 1 | So I am a very good looking dude, everybody around me knows that, but I find it extremely hard to date. What could be the problem here?then stop bitching and moaning and man up. the only reason your failing is because of your own faults. work on yourself and be smart enough to recognize when you’re making mistakes | /r/seduction | 20/06/22 10:12 PM |
| 1 | How many approaches it takes you to get a number\equivalentif you’re spam approaching and getting rejected hundreds of times i think you’re doing it wrong. look for eye contact and interest when approaching. you will likely get a number 1/10 times if you’re not very good. that was probably my ratio back when i used to go out. then again i sucked and would chicken out usually | /r/seduction | 20/06/22 10:02 PM |
| 1 | So I am a very good looking dude, everybody around me knows that, but I find it extremely hard to date. What could be the problem here?I think your problem is extreme autism then 😂 | /r/seduction | 20/06/22 09:59 PM |
| 1 | How to get over approach anxietyfine do what you want. never worked for me. indirect works better but that’s my style. I spam approached 100s of times directly and it never worked. but again everyone has their preference | /r/seduction | 20/06/22 09:58 PM |
| 2 | How to get over approach anxietyI ask about a place, for example have you seen or know where this place is or where they have chinese spices etc, then I cold read them, then at that point they should know i’m hitting on them so we vibe and i close or try to pull that’s the general gist of it | /r/seduction | 20/06/22 09:53 PM |
| 1 | Eye contactEye contact is so important. I feel like when I started if I would’ve focused more on eye contact than spam approaching i would’ve approached girls that were actually interested | /r/seduction | 20/06/22 09:52 PM |
| 1 | How to ask out a girl for fwb relationship?you don’t bro you hook up with them and you don’t have to talk about just keep booking up lol | /r/seduction | 20/06/22 09:51 PM |
| 1 | Help me unsell the bag.I would just agree with her and go for the kiss lmao i’ve had girls find it funny sometimes they’re just saying that to not seem slutty or they wanna test you | /r/seduction | 20/06/22 09:51 PM |
| 1 | First daygame laycool I am planning to start day gaming again after many years. not looking forward to it lol cuz i have a lot doubt and I failed a lot, but i’m going in with a different approach this time | /r/seduction | 20/06/22 09:50 PM |
| 2 | How to get over approach anxietyit won’t go away but i switched to indirect approaching and it’s so much better | /r/seduction | 20/06/22 09:44 PM |
| 11 | Just a Tinder Experiment that Blew my Mind!i don’t wanna be mean i had great experiences with all of them but they’re like 6 ish most of them, they’re cute girls, one of them was really hot though and i dated her. | /r/seduction | 20/06/22 09:17 PM |
| 2 | Best Age for Tinder?i feel this ngl, althought being 27 gives me access to older girls. but then again not that many older girls on tinder most older girls i’d think are taken or just over tinder | /r/seduction | 20/06/22 08:43 PM |
| 1 | So I am a very good looking dude, everybody around me knows that, but I find it extremely hard to date. What could be the problem here?are you short? what’s your height | /r/seduction | 20/06/22 08:42 PM |
| 3 | Just a Tinder Experiment that Blew my Mind!same here used to get a lot of poon off tinder ngl. is platinum still working for you | /r/seduction | 20/06/22 08:04 PM |
| 12 | Just a Tinder Experiment that Blew my Mind!while this is true I, as a 5’5 midget average looking have still banged 6-7 girls off tinder and still to this day bang some of them. it will just take time to get lucky, i won’t promise you’ll find a gf material girl on there but you’ll get lays if you give it time and beef up your profile. be sure to call girls on the phone or you won’t get anywhere. close for the number within 6 texts. cold read her to open, ask about ethnicity, job, hobbies at max and close | /r/seduction | 20/06/22 08:01 PM |
| 1 | What's some harsh truths /r/seduction needs to hear?That’s LMS is super important, and game is a part of the equation but not all of it. improving my looks, growing a beard with midox, using lifts, taking up a hobby, and working a good job have made interactions with women soo much easier yet i wouldn’t have success if it wasn’t for either what i’ve taught myself or learned through game | /r/seduction | 20/06/22 07:57 PM |
| 1 | DATING APPS ARE A BUSINESS AT THE END OF THE DAYto be fair, tinder has gotten much much worse, but as of now I do get matches every one or two days. then again i think my profile deserves a lot more than that cuz I used to get a ton of likes but whatever. | /r/seduction | 20/06/22 07:50 PM |
| 1 | (25m) Just downloaded tinder and I feel on top of the world. Not for the right reasonsmaybe cuz they removed ELO? and are actually doing it based on activity? if so you’d get shown to less women in general | /r/seduction | 20/06/22 07:45 PM |
| 1 | Once you’ve had your first major breakup, it all seems so much easierlmao i wasn’t cheating on her bro, I just have a girl I can hit up whenever hadn’t spoken to her in like a year. when I say in the bag I mean I keep amicable friendships with girls i’ve been with before in case I want to contact them again in the future | /r/seduction | 20/06/22 07:43 PM |
| 1 | Once you’ve had your first major breakup, it all seems so much easierI broke up w my girl recently, and I already have a fwb in the bag perks of keeping them under the hood in case you need em later | /r/seduction | 20/06/22 07:33 PM |
| 1 | Once you’ve had your first major breakup, it all seems so much easierhold old are you now | /r/seduction | 20/06/22 07:32 PM |
| 1 | (25m) Just downloaded tinder and I feel on top of the world. Not for the right reasonsyeah bro I mean, I am getting like a match a day which is crazy to me it’s actually (it’s not but they got us deprived out here) a lot, and I am good looking so i’m not surprised, but I used to just get maad matches like if I had all those now my game is so much better id be piping it up, but yeah like they definitely cut everyone down so they’ll boost and shit | /r/seduction | 20/06/22 07:31 PM |
| 1 | I'm trying to do a challenge, but don't have any efficient means of doing it.sure bro do your thing. | /r/seduction | 20/06/22 05:44 PM |
| 2 | I'm trying to do a challenge, but don't have any efficient means of doing it.instead of doing what I did and plowing through 100s of girls just to get rejected, why don’t you approach smart. Go indirect, transition with a cold read, go for the number or pull. Just don’t do what I did and spam approach directly. It was a waste of time and hurt my confidence a lot | /r/seduction | 20/06/22 05:30 PM |
| 2 | My friends now have girlfriends, and I'm supposed to be happy for them. but I'm not. Am I an idiot for feeling that way?how did you meet your wife | /r/seduction | 20/06/22 05:26 PM |
| 1 | Where to practice?oh shit idk bro how about you make a script, not a line by line just topics of conversations stories interesting stuff. talk to the wall for 20-35 minutes. if you can do that you’ll do a million times better once you approach. try to have that same conversation over and over until you have it relatively memorized and you’ll always have something on hand to contribute if the girl isn’t giving you much | /r/seduction | 20/06/22 02:43 AM |
| 1 | Best Age for Tinder?blows my mind you guys actually get gfs and lays from cold approach. i’ve only succeeded once, but to be fair i didn’t have much going for me back then | /r/seduction | 20/06/22 02:42 AM |
| 1 | Where to practice?bro if i was your id focus on getting involved in clubs or fraternities at school to get the most poon and cold approach on the side, you don’t wanna get flagged as the creep on campus, although you can definitely see success in it if you do well. Id say the best places for night game for me were chill outdoorish bars, nothing too clubby or crazy a place were people will spark up a joint and you can offer to smoke a girl out during the day idk i never had much success daygaming besides maybe out… | /r/seduction | 20/06/22 02:39 AM |
| 1 | Would love advice on activities, clubs, social places to meet girlsthis is a great idea although rock climbing is expensive lol so you met girls hiking? definitely lots of free time to talk on the hike lol | /r/seduction | 20/06/22 02:35 AM |
| 1 | Best Age for Tinder?Yeah I agree I’m probably mostly coping, but reality is they must cut it off at least at 29, Id bet most girls 18-21 have their cutoff at 25-27 | /r/seduction | 20/06/22 02:34 AM |
| 2 | Anyone Pushed Back Into Dating After a Long LTR?ah where I am you can just walk in. yes i’m thinking pickup co ed sports might be the best and fastest, as you don’t get too caught up with one static group | /r/seduction | 20/06/22 12:33 AM |
| 1 | (25m) Just downloaded tinder and I feel on top of the world. Not for the right reasonswtf do you think happened? | /r/seduction | 20/06/22 12:32 AM |
| 1 | Anyone Pushed Back Into Dating After a Long LTR?I mean you can just audit the classes and sit it to large classes, you don’t have to waste your money | /r/seduction | 19/06/22 10:07 PM |
| 2 | Bast app for datingreally? I feel like it’s for older people and low quality girls? | /r/seduction | 19/06/22 06:43 PM |
| 1 | Cold approaching on the NYC subway. How aiming big can speed up your learning process.this is so key !! just in general, eye contact is really how the best interactions begins. if you’re both looking at each other all the time i could almost laughs and just go say what’s up cuz it’s so natural. it’s happened plenty for me | /r/seduction | 19/06/22 06:40 PM |
| 1 | Never had a hookup in college. Need advice before senior yeardude cmn i’d die to be 5’9. I’m 5’5 and i’ve still managed to pull hot girls. not a lot. but it’s possible. that’s a huge excuse | /r/seduction | 19/06/22 06:11 PM |
| 1 | (25m) Just downloaded tinder and I feel on top of the world. Not for the right reasonsI mean I could still get lucky but it’s gotten pretty ridiculous | /r/seduction | 19/06/22 06:08 PM |
| 1 | What is the #1 reason why dating is at an all-time low in your opinion?Makes sense actually. I’ve been single so long because I have high standards for myself. But lately I’ve just realized I need to settle at least for a little while, otherwise i’m gonna stay single. This isn’t healthy tho and eventually i’m sure i’d go back to being single. Hence why I think many people just choose to be single hoping they find someone better. Girls for the top tier dudes that really don’t give them the light of day, and guys for any decent girl that’s chasing the top tier guys a… | /r/seduction | 19/06/22 05:57 PM |
| 1 | (25m) Just downloaded tinder and I feel on top of the world. Not for the right reasonsI used to do really well on tinder but lately it seems like the app is just so bad i get no matches | /r/seduction | 19/06/22 05:55 PM |
| 2 | Anyone Pushed Back Into Dating After a Long LTR?sometimes i feel like if you’re not meeting people through work or school or clubs or activities it’s just not gonna go anywhere. i feel like it’s about being exposed to people as often as possible. social circles don’t seem realistic cuz it’s the same people and can be kinda hard to grow. my last try is gonna be with this whole meetups clubs auditing classes social jobs kinda thing cuz otherwise it seems like a lot of time wasted | /r/seduction | 19/06/22 05:48 PM |
| 6 | I (25F) don’t know how to find guys/ get dateswhat kind of groups do you recommend one joins? | /r/seduction | 19/06/22 05:44 PM |
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