How come it didn't work?

Any-Advertising-1410 · 2022-05-28T04:48:12+00:00

Your game was not tight enough. She wasnt ready yet. You likely came across as thirsty.

whale_sports · 2022-05-28T05:09:03+00:00

Haha so you bribed her to come over? Like you actually said you'd pay half of it....thirsty behavior.

MetaphysicPhilosophy · 2022-05-28T04:54:52+00:00

Lmao

reddguy6 · 2022-05-28T05:22:37+00:00

You win some you lose some..no biggie. You miss 100% of the shots you don’t take right?

BigRyanG · 2022-05-28T06:00:23+00:00

These things happen. That’s also a bold move because going and drinking at a strangers house is a pretty dangerous proposition for a woman.

incognito3107 · 2022-05-28T08:24:28+00:00

Yeah, that was a very cheap move to buy her something if she comes to see you. And you should not probably have your very first interaction at your place drinking alcohol, many girls may be scared or turned off by this indirect sex date. Also, she sounds like a bitch, dealing with such types even for amazing sex is questionable.

PomChaCha · 2022-05-28T06:55:24+00:00

Girl here

1) You’re messaging on Snapchat 🚩 2) You guys do not know each other that well, and you asked her to go over to your place. 3) You told her to go over and said she can buy whatever she wants, but you only want to pay HALF of it. That’s low effort. If you really want her to come, you should’ve asked her what she likes and buy the drink YOURSELF.

Own-Masterpiece5102 · 2022-05-28T04:51:02+00:00

She thought you were trying to bribe her to have sex with cheap alcohol.

CompetitionFair7686 · 2022-05-28T11:38:57+00:00

You seriously don’t know how bad everything you just wrote is?

Come to my place for drinks

“Oh yeah, sure let me go to this stranger’s house to get me drunk, so he can use me for sex or even rape me while i’m unconscious from all the alcohol. Sign me up!”

“Buy whatever alcohol you want on the way”

Really dude? You are the one inviting her over you are supposed to have already good drinks at your place.

Not that you should invite a stranger for alcohol without getting to know her first somewhere more safe like i said. But if you invite her to your place, you are the one who has to have the logistics figured out.

“I’ll pay half of it”

Really dude? Do I need to explain this? I get it that you don’t want a gold digger but then again you only seem to want sex and nothing more, so since you are treating her like a cheap slut you may as well pay for it yourself, not offer to divide the bill.

She gets sex requests for free all the time why would she need to pay or invest money in you when you offer her nothing but a drunk hookup?

Basically everything you said is a turn off for most women who respect themselves a little.

Any-Advertising-1410 · 2022-05-28T04:51:24+00:00

Yes. You need to punish bad behavior and reward the behavior you want. You should always be working multiples at this stage so you don't put to much effort texting one girl.

appbummer · 2022-05-28T10:10:12+00:00

lmao, good on her for being blunt about cheap stuff XD

Ambitious-Ice2357 · 2022-05-28T13:29:41+00:00

Because everything about that approach was creepy.

Title	How come it didn't work?
Author	[deleted]
Upvotes	0
Comments	24
Date	May 28, 2022 4:46 AM UTC (4 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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