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Inner Game MetaphysicPhilosophy/r/seduction07/01/22 05:19 AM
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Escalation & CalibrationMetaphysicPhilosophy/r/seduction18/09/21 03:56 AM
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Field ReportMetaphysicPhilosophy/r/seduction28/08/22 07:10 AM
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Inner Game MetaphysicPhilosophy/r/seduction29/08/22 03:59 PM
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MetaphysicPhilosophy/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/22 03:46 AM
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LifestyleMetaphysicPhilosophy/r/seduction18/04/22 06:14 AM
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You have already failed the market with this statement
/r/seduction18/04/23 01:18 AM
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Well the shoe itself is like thick high tops. But I put in inserts that add an inch boost
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/23 10:43 PM
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That’s true
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/23 05:39 PM
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Literally anywhere. I know a guy who met his wife in a subway
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/23 05:09 PM
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I disagree. All a woman has to do is stay in shape, dress cute, and maybe wear some eyeliner. If she needs more than that on a consistent basis then something’s not right. There might standards placed on her by society and corporations, but most men could care less. I guess when it comes to the whole female competition thing though I can see how it would get brutal.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/23 09:59 AM
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I think it depends on the guy. Personally I am not attracted to women who look fake (i.e. wear a lot of makeup, have noticeable plastic surgery or spray tans). A girl who doesn’t need all that stuff shows me that she is confident and takes good care enough of herself to not need it.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/23 09:50 AM
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Bruh
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/23 09:43 AM
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Lol, if you poop with the door open then that’s definitely true love. I don’t think I’ll ever be able to do that
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/23 09:42 AM
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Lol it’s not low self-esteem. Most dudes will have sex with anything with a pulse, it’s just in our nature. Women are hardwired to be selective. Men are not. We just spread our seed when we can.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/23 09:40 AM
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Yeah, I would say a good strategy is level up your looks and game as much as possible. Level up your lifestyle so it’s attractive. Then put yourself out there and start dating. You will probably get rejected quite a bit initially but at a certain point it becomes easier cause there is a bit of a learning curve. Life is short man. Don’t just wait for opportunities to fall into your lap. And if you really have to, go overseas.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/23 09:34 AM
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But that’s the thing. I mean how much do you want it? Some guys want it more than others and are willing to put in the effort. Another aspect of it is just being in the right place at the right time, which boils down to luck. Quite a few average dudes just get lucky because maybe one of their friends who is a girl in college or at work ends up being single and they get a shot
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/23 09:26 AM
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If he dresses well, has good grooming, and carries himself confidently then it can be very positive attention. I don’t think dudes realize how many points they can add to their attractiveness. Whenever I go out, I wear shoes that turn me from about 5’9 and a half to 6’1 and it works wonders.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/23 08:57 AM
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I mean I think that’s common sense, but what I will say is that he literally had a girl come home with him and nothing happened. Which he told me was due to her choosing not to do anything. She also left him for her ex-bf. And he’s not actually autistic, he is just very inexperienced and socially awkward. Which I think proves that looks aren’t 100% everything. I agree that looks can be a dealbreaker above everything else, but I disagree that there are not other factors involved. Like I said with…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/23 08:53 AM
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In other words, social proof
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/23 08:45 AM
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That’s reassuring. I am very confident
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/23 08:45 AM
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Depends. In a bar or club he might not actually because the average looking dude if more confident will probably approach more girls and thus stand out and receive more attention. However, the 8/10 guy will undeniably do better on online dating because that is exclusively looks based. That is unless the average looking guy takes amazing pictures and edits the shit out of them. Either way, average looking dude can outcompete, he just has to put in more effort.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/23 08:36 AM
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Idk who invented the word rizz but it sounds retarded
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/23 08:23 AM
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Sorry but you are wrong. You must not talk to women
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/23 08:21 AM
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Wheelchair rizz must be crazy
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/23 08:21 AM
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I would disagree with the confident cringe thing though. The majority of women respond the same to game. Unless you sound like a retard, game works on most women, but obviously looks are most essential because if a dude is dog ugly then no game can make up for that.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/23 08:19 AM
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Height yes, money no. The problem is how short we talking here? Anything below 5’6 and you’re going to have a really hard time. Money isn’t a big deal for hookups, but for relationships it can be a deal breaker if you are struggling financially. Most women I met don’t care as much about money as long as you check the boxes in other areas and are a good guy. The women who do care a lot about money are usually gold diggers and shallow anyways.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/23 08:16 AM
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My friend is like 6’2-6’3 and good looking and he’s still a virgin, while I am not. We are the same age (21). However he is kind of autistic, and only recently has he started having interactions with women. Recently a girl asked for his number just because of the way he looked, but if it wasn’t for him telling me that he liked her, I probably could have seduced her easily because I was low key flirting with her and she liked it. I am not bad looking, I am probably like a 7, but he could pass as …
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/23 08:07 AM
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I’ve actually had scenarios where I’ve stolen girls from better looking dudes just from having peak game. Confidence and wittiness adds in a lot of bonus attraction points. The problem I have with black pill dudes is they don’t understand that women don’t think like men. Men just see tits and ass and are turned on. Women factor in a lot more then just looks, and if you have good game then it’s a huge advantage.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/23 08:03 AM
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That’s true, but most dudes aren’t ugly enough for every woman in the world to be unattracted to him. I guarantee every average dude could find a good looking girlfriend if he put in the effort. For unattractive dudes it might be a lot harder, unless they compensate with money or something.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/23 07:58 AM
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Lol it’s not good for women at all: Unwanted pregnancies, toxic boyfriends, objectified and used by dudes they thought they had a chance with. And for your thing about dating apps, you are looking at a very small subsection of the population. Most women want relationships, and they might go through a phase of casual sex, but often it doesn’t last. In general, women don’t crave sex unless a man they are attracted to initiates it.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/23 07:54 AM
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Probably because they are just less attracted to short guys and thus don’t treat them as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/23 07:49 AM
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Have fun reading
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/23 05:54 PM
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Okay, well whether you want to label it as science or not, it is reality. There is actual science I could show you too that would back up what I’m saying
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/23 05:45 PM
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It’s backed up by statistics so it’s science
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/23 05:03 PM
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You think the elites give a shit about “carrying on society”. The only thing they care about is carrying on themselves and making more money
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/23 12:17 AM
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That would prevent misery at least. Though the problem is that sexless men is actually not much of a net detriment in the modern day, so no one cares about them. If anything, they help out capitalism and consumerism because they buy more pornography and virtual sex. They also are more likely to stay on social media.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/23 10:51 PM
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Dude are you insane. What about the 80% of men who want relationships. It’s a choice! Most men have no options whatsoever, except the bottom of the barrel.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/23 09:25 PM
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I’m not talking about “hoeflation”. I’m talking about how 80% of women go after 20% of men. Sexual freedom allows for more polygamy. When enforced monogamy existed, this wasn’t the case. It isn’t rocket science
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/23 09:20 PM
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I don’t think you understand science
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/23 08:31 PM
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Hah “Single”. For women it’s a choice
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/23 08:30 PM
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Yes, because women give off pheromones during ovulation that signal fertility to men. Has nothing to do with this study. In terms of anti-social traits being advantageous, I would disagree. If that was the case then most people would be born psychopaths. It might be beneficial to have one or two psychopaths in a tribe because you will do better in war with other tribes, but for the individual himself it puts him in danger of being killed and losing trust among the tribe. The traits the study men…
/r/BlackPillScience29/12/22 03:43 AM
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source
/r/BlackPillScience29/12/22 03:41 AM
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Can you use English next time?
/r/BlackPillScience28/12/22 11:33 PM
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Very interesting!
/r/BlackPillScience28/12/22 11:30 PM
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I would disagree that dominant people have the luxury of being confrontational and rather that being confrontational, machiavellian, narcissistic, and arrogant allows for a male to reach a position of social dominance much easier. But this doesn’t change the fact that it would be an evolutionarily advantageous trait. Testosterone is associated with dark triad traits, intra-male competition, as well as with masculine facial features. So I would say that male attractiveness is more based on geneti…
/r/BlackPillScience28/12/22 11:11 PM
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The shocking part is not they look for more attractive males during oestrus, but that they are more attracted to male characteristics that would otherwise be deemed unacceptable, cruel, and even sexist
/r/BlackPillScience28/12/22 11:01 PM
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Sexually that is not the case. Just look at who watches the most porn. The statistics is overwhelmingly men. Also, males get aroused much easier to the sight of a woman than a female does to males. Obviously women will objectively care about looks just as much as men, especially in developed countries, but studies that test women rating men have nothing to do with actual arousal.
/r/MensRights27/12/22 09:10 AM
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The problem with being too indirect is that you are playing your cards safer, but for the girls who could have been attracted to you the connection was not strong enough for them to follow through, so you will get more flakes doing this. It's more about calibration. Girls who respond well right away, you should be more direct, but for girls who are more standoffish, you have to take things slower and build attraction. Regardless though, the interaction should be man to woman as you said, and you…
/r/seduction23/09/22 06:48 PM
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Attention is different than getting your dick sucked. Any guy can get attention if he looks good. Not every guy has the skills to turn that attention into dates.
/r/seduction08/09/22 09:18 PM
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Dude, majority of a date is just conversation. My suggestion is start acting like you already know her. She wants to feel like you know her and that she can trust you. You are probably so focused on escalation that you aren’t even focusing on connecting to her as a person. Women also want to feel like they aren’t being just used as well. If you are kissing girls then you are probably doing something wrong after the kiss as well. If a girl has hesitation with going back home with you then just sa…
/r/seduction08/09/22 03:32 AM
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You are probably just boring and not creating a deep enough connection. Kissing doesn’t mean as much as you think. The only thing that will get a girl hooked to you is sex. Try to build more rapport and earn her trust. Women don’t just want to sleep with anyone, they want to be able to trust you. Also, consider the fact that you are being too logical or in your head. Women want their emotions to be stimulated.
/r/seduction08/09/22 01:07 AM
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If anything, it’s to your advantage. Women love older guys
/r/seduction08/09/22 01:02 AM
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Nowadays it’s acceptable on the first date if you play your cards right
/r/seduction08/09/22 12:49 AM
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It doesn’t matter if girls are you looking at you. Stop focusing on this. Being attractive isn’t enough to get a gf or laid, I know from experience. You have to focus on building your confidence and game. Start approaching girls and becoming charismatic.
/r/seduction08/09/22 12:48 AM
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Looks are somewhat important, but game is most important. That should be your main focus if you want to get girls. Stop blaming shit outside of your control. There are guys shorter than you who have gf’s. You might have to put in more work than the average guy or lower your standards a bit, but trust me, it’s not hopeless unless you start to believe it is. Whatever you do, don’t get sucked into toxic black pill or incel ideologies. Just keep working on yourself and improving your confidence.
/r/seduction08/09/22 12:45 AM
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Well first of all, approaching alone is a bad strategy. You should be using social circle and online dating as well (with professional/edited pictures). But besides that, you are likely not having success because of poor mindset. One guy I know who is really skilled in pick up, it took him 450 approaches before he got laid. Unless you are a 5’3 monster, there is really no excuse except that you are not putting in enough work. Also, perhaps you are doing something wrong? Poor eye contact, coming …
/r/seduction06/09/22 04:08 PM
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Are you approaching more than one woman a day? You gotta go harder. Also, make sure you are learning from each approach and not just making the same mistakes
/r/seduction06/09/22 12:13 PM
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You are probably overthinking it. If you are insecure around women then they won’t like you. By work, I mean actually facing your fear of rejection and overcoming insecurities. Also, putting yourself out there
/r/seduction06/09/22 04:16 AM
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Yeah, but try to be yourself as well. After a while, you will realize that you don’t need canned openers. What to say will come naturally to you
/r/seduction05/09/22 02:49 PM
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1) Understand that you are not alone in this feeling. It’s natural for a guy in his mid 20’s to feel this way if he hasn’t dated for a long time (or at all) 2) Understand that it’s not because of things outside your control. It’s because you are not putting in the time and energy to have success in dating. You could easily get weekly dates if you put in the work. 3) Understand that the past doesn’t determine the future. Your past has nothing to do with what will happen tomorrow. If you decide to…
/r/seduction05/09/22 02:19 PM
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Wow man, that’s really good for your first cold approach! Good work. Keep it up
/r/seduction05/09/22 02:11 PM
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Any social issues can be overcome with enough experience. The key is to focus on what is in your control
/r/seduction03/09/22 12:08 AM
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You gotta push yourself out your comfort zone. I personally know a guy who could practically be a model, but he is extremely socially awkward and thus never had a girlfriend. Don’t end up like him. Put yourself out there. Have courage, learn, and grow
/r/seduction03/09/22 12:07 AM
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You are likely doing something wrong
/r/seduction03/09/22 12:05 AM
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Yeah you are right. Learning from your rejections is really important because girls will often reject you for being insecure or weird
/r/seduction03/09/22 12:05 AM
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I’ve seen guys that look like him who have girlfriends my dude. You probably have just too high standards. You have to literally look like Shrek to be completely unattractive to women, but even then there is probably someone out there who will want you
/r/seduction02/09/22 11:15 PM
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Unless you are a monster or under 5’5, it is not 90% looks. Most guys just don’t put in enough work and are socially awkward. It’s easy to play the victim and blame shit outside your control when you aren’t doing enough to change your situation
/r/seduction02/09/22 11:12 PM
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Most guys don’t even meet women through bars. They meet them through social circles or mutual interests. But bars and clubs can be a supplement obviously.
/r/seduction02/09/22 11:09 PM
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Even if we told the whole world, most guys would still be too pussy to listen XD
/r/seduction02/09/22 02:15 AM
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If you go into it with expectations then it will fuck up the interaction anyways. Plus, not every girl will like you, so you have to put your ego aside. Once a girl is interested in you then you can worry about closing the deal.
/r/seduction02/09/22 02:13 AM
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Girls change like the seasons dude. She probably was interested, but that doesn’t mean she still is
/r/seduction02/09/22 02:10 AM
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Are you putting yourself out there? Women aren’t going to just walk up to you cause you look desperate. All the other guys you are talking about actually socialize and interact with women on a daily basis. Unless you are doing that, nothing is going to happen.
/r/seduction02/09/22 02:06 AM
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Well, the good thing is that most guys are intimidated by them. So they aren’t used to being approached by confident men, it’s a turn on
/r/seduction02/09/22 01:58 AM
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I think it does level you up. Noobies are better off learning to accept rejection and even embrace it rather than fear it. When I first started pick up, I would let every rejection defeat me because I didn’t understand that it was a numbers game. You are going to get rejected. It’s inevitable, even if you are a model. If guys don’t understand that it’s part of process then they will give up right before achieving success. In terms of leveling up, each rejection desensitizes you to rejection and …
/r/seduction02/09/22 12:59 AM
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Yeah this is true, but attractive girls are more likely to be full of themselves. Anything else is an exception to the rule
/r/seduction02/09/22 12:56 AM
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Yeah, I’ve heard this from the majority of guys. I think it’s natural thing for guys in their youth
/r/seduction01/09/22 09:51 PM
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What studies? Men definitely cheat more
/r/seduction01/09/22 09:49 PM
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Lmfao. Stereotypical. Women want commitment. Men want pussy
/r/seduction01/09/22 09:47 PM
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There are more 8-10s than you think that will be interested in you if you have balls and charisma. I was able to pull a 10 with minimal effort just because I was ballsy as fuck. Now, I am like a high 7 or an 8 on a good day, but my confidence makes me a 9.
/r/seduction01/09/22 09:46 PM
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I like the confidence with number 9. That is the way every man should be thinking
/r/seduction01/09/22 09:43 PM
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You can do this one of two ways: The unethical way would be to pretend you want a relationship with her. Get her to bond with you and then take advantage of her and leave. The ethical way would be to simply be honest and her you just want to fuck with no strings attached. Your chances of succeeding with this one is lower, but if you don’t want to be an asshole then you should do this. There are multiple other girls who would just be interested in just hooking up anyways.
/r/seduction01/09/22 09:39 PM
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It is most places, but some places or cultures are either affected to a lesser degree or not at all. Feminism hasn’t affected places like parts of Latin America and North Eastern Europe to the same extent. It definitely hasn’t affected the Muslim world. Also, certain cultures in the US like the Amish or fundamentalist Christians for example won’t be affected by it. The problem is that Western feminists unfortunately believe in cultural imperialism and have no respect for religion or culture. So …
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/22 04:29 PM
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Idk, but it doesn’t look good. I personally think the population will decrease significantly because the relationship between men and women is being destroyed and we value casual sex over having sex for pregnancy. Most men will become increasingly pathetic, lonely, and nihilistic and a smaller and smaller subsection of men will have harems of many women (think Dan Bilzerian). Polygamy will become normalized and monogamy demonized. This is mainly the Western world though. In some other countries …
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/22 04:14 PM
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Get rich or get reconstructive surgery? That actually sounds like very superficial and toxic advice. Not every woman is just going to want you for having money and being good looking, and the ones who do will probably be a nightmare to be with.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/22 03:59 PM
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It’s not for everyone man. Personally, I’ve never had a good experience on them. Especially on dating apps like Tinder, it is extremely superficial and somewhat toxic. Hinge is slightly better. I met my ex on Hinge, but there is a reason why she is my ex lol. I think dating apps are also taking away from in-person interaction. It’s making us more socially awkward, and it gives women countless validation that does a number to their psychology. I would rather just approach women in person. Why? Be…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/22 03:54 PM
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In official terms, yes it is a red flag, but if you gain some experience with women then it won’t even matter. Women don’t care about how many women you been with as long as you act like you’ve been with a lot. In other words, you need the confidence and charisma of a man who has. A confident and charismatic man who isn’t just a fuck boy is probably even more attractive to most older women cause they care more about security.
/r/seduction29/08/22 04:55 PM
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How about you stop giving your time to women who don’t respect it. Move on my man
/r/seduction29/08/22 04:47 PM
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“I have adhd and anxiety and I’m probably the most indecisive person you’ll ever meet so yeah it doesn’t come naturally, plus I overthink everything ( I feel like a lot of people under think everything but that’s another story) it’s not a very sexy combination but despite that i can be charming.” Whatever you label yourself as will become true. So I suggest you start telling yourself that you are socially confident and calm person. Rather than holding on to self-limiting beliefs. “On top of that…
/r/seduction29/08/22 04:39 PM
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Don’t overthink it. These are two sides of the same coin. Leading as a man should come naturally and be intuitive. It shouldn’t be a matter of “Oh shit, now I gotta make sure I decide where we eat” or “I wonder if I should take her back to my place now?” Maybe if you aren’t used to leading with a masculine frame at first then it will feel a little awkward, but it should become natural overtime, especially if the girl is feminine. This might sound weird, but try to feel the energy radiating from …
/r/seduction29/08/22 04:13 PM
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Nah, I’m cute
/r/seduction29/08/22 04:03 PM
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Nah, you just ugly
/r/seduction29/08/22 04:00 PM
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I don’t understand. What do you mean she did nothing? What do you expect her to do? You are the one who has to initiate sex. Just saying shit isn’t enough. Literally just pull off her clothes and start going at it. Be more aggressive
/r/seduction28/08/22 05:06 PM
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I wouldn’t worry about it unless you get caught. Who cares what the bartender thinks, she can’t do anything. Just don’t do anything that risks you getting kicked out the bar. But also perhaps try other bars as well
/r/seduction28/08/22 04:51 PM
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Only autistic people say this
/r/seduction28/08/22 04:44 PM
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Dude, I can tell from what you are saying that you are already overthinking it. No girl is going to run to security unless you physically assault her. The worst that will happen is that she’ll say I have a boyfriend or just try to get away. Anyways, if you are in a rush then just tell her you are. Say, “Hey, I am in a rush, but I just wanted to let you know that you are absolutely gorgeous.” Then just ask her what her name is and what she is doing later tonight. If she is busy later tonight then…
/r/seduction28/08/22 04:40 PM
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Alright yeah, give me his name if you find it. I did manage to flirt with the one girl tn. I told her she had pretty eyes, but the connection wasn’t there and the conversation went dry maybe because I was being too logical
/r/seduction28/08/22 08:02 AM
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It also gave the average guy a chance to showcase things other than just his looks and status. Confidence, charisma, and personality mattered a lot more
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/22 05:07 PM
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Well he’s trying to help people get off
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/22 01:03 AM
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I’d say online dating is a huge factor. If we completely got rid of online dating and superficial social media, I would like to see how things stabilize more. Men were naturally more social in the past as a result of this. Video games and pornography don’t help either
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/22 12:23 AM
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Wrong. Most men have access to hookups, it’s just not easy for the average guy unless you are a celebrity, model, rich, or in a high position of power. Men can easily pay for sex or go to bars. Thing is that most men don’t want to go through the effort and see that as “desperate”, unless they have some insane sex drive. It’s just not worth the effort, especially when there isn’t even an emotional connection. Most guys would probably like to have sex with a different women everyday, but even for …
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/22 04:01 PM
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Another thing is that women like passionate and exciting sex. It’s also much harder for women to orgasm (they need more time for arousal and a lot of foreplay). It’s not really an enjoyable experience when guys just blow their load and then leave. Most woman want a guy who will take the time to warm them up, kiss them, etc. If you don’t believe me, just look at what type of porn is watched mostly by women.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/22 03:31 PM
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I disagree with this entirely. Obviously you haven’t had a lot of casual sex. Casual sex in the long-term is empty and not fulfilling. With a loving partner, sex can be amazing. Of course each guy has their own preference, but most of the guys I’ve been with have told me that casual sex gets old after awhile, especially because of the lack of emotional connection. Most guys want intimacy and they just don’t know it. Sure, sex can get boring in a relationship, but that just means you are not in t…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/22 03:26 PM
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That’s what it means to be a man, suck it up
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/22 05:21 AM
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Depends on what you consider emotional
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/22 03:50 AM
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It’s just biology. Men value sex. Women value emotional investment. This is because women bear children (they need support) and men need a woman to bear children with (they need sex). It’s in our genes.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/22 03:48 AM
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I’m referring to a post that was on this subreddit
/r/seduction27/06/22 12:19 AM
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I recommend upgrading your profile pictures or trying your luck offline
/r/seduction27/06/22 12:02 AM
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I would say anything really. “What’s your name?” “How are you guys doing tonight?”. It doesn’t matter what you say initially. Key thing is confidence
/r/seduction26/06/22 06:57 AM
11

Just because they have the app on their phone doesn’t mean they use it
/r/seduction26/06/22 06:55 AM
4

Idk man, I’ve seen some pretty ugly dudes hitting on girls at bars. The good thing about bars is that the women are little bit tipsy and also they respond well to confident guys
/r/seduction26/06/22 05:52 AM
1

Those are the main places. Like I said, I recommend you try. Don’t be in your head too much. I understand you said you are not attractive, but that isn’t a good enough reason not to put yourself out there
/r/seduction26/06/22 05:43 AM
5

Night clubs, bars, festivals, literally multiple places you could go. You never know until you try
/r/seduction26/06/22 05:25 AM
17

Lol. Just take the two ones you got and make them weigh a shit ton
/r/seduction26/06/22 03:57 AM
7

That’s true, but I do know a guy who actually met his wife through a girl he approached on the subway. Like I said, you don’t have to go out of your way to do it. You just need to make consistent approaches through out your day to day life
/r/seduction26/06/22 02:50 AM
2

That’s what I do
/r/seduction26/06/22 02:31 AM
13

Well I just saw a post on here early that said the contrary. A lot of guys are tired of hookups and want a quality relationship
/r/seduction26/06/22 01:55 AM
1

Yeah, I mean personally I would prefer a woman who would judge on me on how much I prioritize physical health versus something like hair loss which is something you can’t change for the most part
/r/seduction23/06/22 03:13 PM
1

You’re a DJ?! Dude use that to your advantage. Start getting into good parties. Girls will see you as being an authority and having skill, so that will really help you out
/r/seduction23/06/22 12:24 PM
3

I am balding a bit on my hairline, but I don’t use minoxidil or finasteride. I just use micro needling and natural oils. Minox and fin have too many side effects Also you forgot the most important one. Go to the damn gym. Don’t be fat. Even better, have some muscle
/r/seduction23/06/22 01:48 AM
1

Yeah, I actually met my ex-gf on Hinge, but she was rare. She also hated me telling people we met on there. But in terms of meeting my best partners. I met a lot of quality women through social circle and parties, but it honestly depends. See the cool thing about cold approach is that you’re likely to see a beautiful woman everyday, and this gives you a lot more options. But social circle ensures options. There is no guarantee you will meet quality woman through cold approach and also the chance…
/r/seduction23/06/22 12:30 AM
1

That’s crazy because every guy I’ve heard that went through some sort of casual sex stage said the same thing: it making them feel empty and all. That’s why I personally am more of a relationship type guy, but I do think that you can never pull the quality women unless you have experience under your belt.
/r/seduction22/06/22 04:22 PM
1

“Catch this grape”? Lol wtf
/r/seduction22/06/22 04:08 PM
5

But are you as rich as him?
/r/seduction22/06/22 06:05 AM
12

Never in your life? I find that hard to believe
/r/seduction22/06/22 04:31 AM
1

It’s likely something you did in the initial interaction. The key is to make the girl FEEL something. Women want their emotions to be sparked. If you can’t give her a fun time and she thinks you are boring then she’ll just forget about you. Try to be funny and bold.
/r/seduction22/06/22 03:43 AM
3

In person for me. I’ve had success on dating apps, but the quality of women you get is low. When I cold approach women or talk to some from social circle, I am able to pull 9s and 10s. I could never do this through dating apps. Some of the highest quality women don’t even use dating apps, at least not seriously. You really have to have your game together though and you have to be confident. If you just want a quick hookup with an okay girl then sure use Tinder. But if you want a high quality wom…
/r/seduction22/06/22 03:39 AM
0

Do you use Tinder for dates or do you meet girls in person?
/r/seduction22/06/22 03:25 AM
6

Just get a partner. Learn how to handle it. Take it slow. Obviously what you are craving is intimacy and emotional connection. You won’t be able to get that with just hook ups or porn.
/r/seduction22/06/22 03:20 AM
1

Bro, did you even read the post? lmao
/r/seduction22/06/22 03:19 AM
9

Join a fraternity
/r/seduction22/06/22 03:18 AM
1

Maybe they are shy or intimidated. Regardless it doesn’t matter. Stop overthinking so much. Instead of always trying to analyze what girls are thinking, just use that time to talk to them.
/r/seduction22/06/22 03:17 AM
2

One thing I will say is that they don’t age well
/r/seduction22/06/22 01:58 AM
3

I meant what society paints them as. But physically I find them most attractive
/r/seduction22/06/22 01:35 AM
0

They treat all men the same cause they’re the cream of the crop
/r/seduction22/06/22 01:07 AM
5

How much experiences have you had with white women? You shouldn’t be generalizing a whole race. While it’s true that some white women are entitled, those aren’t the ones you want to date anyways. White women are no different than any other race of women. Most women are the same. Just be confident and smooth. I have had plenty of success with them (I’m a biracial guy btw).
/r/seduction22/06/22 01:06 AM
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It’s cause they are entitled
/r/seduction22/06/22 01:02 AM
3

It shouldn’t be that hard. It becomes easier if you just level up your life and have women come to you. Not everything is a chase. Yes, men have to initiate and lead, but that is just part of being a man. In fact, I enjoy being dominant. The problem is when you are trying to hard. Then you are doing something wrong. Your focus is in the wrong area. Focus on your purpose instead.
/r/seduction15/06/22 07:15 PM
2

Hot girls get hit on the most actually. I was at a party and literally 5 guys approached the same hot girl despite there being multiple other girls there.
/r/seduction15/06/22 02:27 AM
2

I think for a guy with very good game, hot girls are easier, but for a different reason: Strong sexual attraction allows for better flirting and connection. If a guy is talking to a girl who is not attractive then he won’t feel the tension and sexual attraction much. For a hot girl on the other hand, if he is confident then he can let his sexual attraction flow through him which makes the connection that much better. I personally have had this experience. My best connections have been with girls…
/r/seduction15/06/22 02:15 AM
2

Exactly. You could die tomorrow. You should live everyday like it’s your last. Stop waiting until “tomorrow”.
/r/seduction04/06/22 02:09 AM
0

Literally saying anything is better than nothing. My suggestion is warm yourself up by talking to guys and other girls, then once you have the momentum going, talk to the girl you want. Also just do it in general. The more you start talking to people on a daily basis, the easier it will become to approach girls. Understand that you will never win by thinking. You need to get out of your head. And you can only do that by taking action.
/r/seduction01/06/22 04:40 PM
1

No
/r/seduction01/06/22 04:34 PM
1

Do research online about how to take the best Tinder pictures and get a professional to take some of you. But in the meantime, just put up some basic pictures. It doesn't hurt. If you really want to get laid though, make sure to sexualize the hell out of your Tinder profile. Shirtless pics and sexualized bio is a must
/r/seduction29/05/22 09:58 PM
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Bro, what's the point in waiting? As long as you are confident, you won't have a problem getting some women. If you haven't updated your shit for like 3 years then that's a red flag to women. Get your ass out there.
/r/seduction29/05/22 09:55 PM
6

Stop using these cringe incel terms
/r/seduction29/05/22 09:53 PM
2

Are you being sweet and honest or just needy? The truth is that women like nice guys, they just don't want you to be needy and a people pleaser. They want to know that you have self-respect and your own purpose and standards. If you have self-respect you won't put up with bs anyways. Most women aren't monsters, they just want a catch.
/r/seduction29/05/22 09:51 PM
1

I don't like the style of cold approaching that is pushed by PUA community (blocking out time to approach multiple girls on the street). But I do think a guy should be outwardly social and talking to most of the girls he encounters during the day. That means when he's at work/school, in the elevator, when in line (anywhere), when going out with his buds, etc. I got a lot of dates simply by just being friendly and talking to girls I see through out my day. It's even better if you see them on a co…
/r/seduction29/05/22 09:42 PM
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Yeah, personally I like to date, but I will say that to get a high quality woman you have to have some experience under your belt. She will expect you to be confident, agreeable, charismatic, and good in bed. None of those traits will be found in a novice
/r/seduction29/05/22 09:31 PM
1

Key thing: don’t think about it too much. You’re already overthinking it which will make it harder
/r/seduction28/05/22 07:34 AM
1

Well first step is stop watching PUA videos because it will just cause you to live in your head (I actually had a dating coach that told me to do this). Stop putting so much expectations on yourself. And also try to be in the moment. Don’t think about the outcome so much. You are asking me “Should I go for the number anyways”. You are still thinking too much about the outcome. Just think like this: you go up to her and see what happens. No expectations. If it goes good and she seems to respond w…
/r/seduction28/05/22 07:25 AM
1

Approach her immediately. You know what to do man! Just follow your gut. Understand that the more you wait, the more nervous and awkward you’ll become and the more you’ll get in your head
/r/seduction28/05/22 06:34 AM
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Well your problem likely is expectations. Whenever I talk to a girl, I never expect anything out of the interaction. I just talk to her to have fun and be friendly, and I’m genuine about it. Of course, if she’s hot then there is a more sexual connection. But again, don’t put any expectations on the interaction, otherwise it’s too much pressure. Just have fun. If it goes well then shoot for the number or an insta date. Key thing is to be bold, but without expectations.
/r/seduction28/05/22 06:33 AM
1

Lmfao. She probably just assumed there was thirsty dudes on here
/r/seduction28/05/22 06:01 AM
2

You should read “The Trial” by Avery G. Hayden, it’s on Amazon. Basically the goal is to start small. Start by just conversing with the cashier or making small talk with people in line. Over time you will build the confidence to approach directly. But I think you are putting too much pressure on yourself right now. You are trying swim across the ocean when you haven’t even learned to swim in a pool. You are not ready to do approaches like that. You need to warm yourself up and also get your mind…
/r/seduction28/05/22 05:58 AM
1

Well it’s a good learning experience. That’s not going to be the only time a girl makes eye contact with you. Next time it happens, take action!
/r/seduction28/05/22 05:38 AM
2

Bro wtf. You should have approached her the first time you made eye contact
/r/seduction28/05/22 05:27 AM
2

You just gotta be more bold. The boldest man wins. One thing that will help is to remember that there is always competition lurking. That will keep you on your toes. Don’t stall!
/r/seduction28/05/22 05:23 AM
2

Bro what?? You made it clear you didn’t want anything serious and you haven’t smashed already? You should have kissed her on the first date. In fact, you guys should have banged already. You don’t go on multiple dates with girls you want to fuck. I literally had sex on the first date with my ex-gf. One thing you gotta remember with chicks. Be BOLD. Don’t hesitate… AT ALL
/r/seduction28/05/22 05:15 AM
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I don’t think there is a problem with it, unless she’s sucking them off behind your back. My ex had guy friends, but half of them were gay. The other half were people she was close to from high school. Unless you smell anything fishy then it’s not a big deal. In fact, part of a healthy relationship is trusting your gf to talk to and be around other dudes, while she trusts you to be around other chicks.
/r/seduction28/05/22 05:09 AM
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I second this. Also if a girl isn’t respecting you then let her know it’s not okay, otherwise she’ll keep doing it. But for certain girls, it’s better just to move on. It’s a numbers game. No one has time for BS. Just find a girl who’s DTF if that’s what you want
/r/seduction28/05/22 05:00 AM
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Lmao
/r/seduction28/05/22 04:54 AM
1

It’s easy man. Feel free to DM and I can help you. Really mindset is the main thing
/r/seduction27/05/22 04:46 PM
2

Trade the t-shirt for a tank and crop some cross earrings. Now you are the ultimate fuck boy
/r/seduction20/05/22 02:46 PM
1

The dark is just referring to a guy with dark features: dark hair and tan skin. It doesn’t necessarily mean a black guy
/r/seduction20/05/22 02:44 PM
1

And does this include women who are also around 30 or younger women as well?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/22 10:48 PM
2

Huge tip: don’t go out with any guys you know to be awkward or anti-social. Go with guys you know to be confident and extraverted. And if you don’t know anyone like that then it’s honestly better to go alone.
/r/seduction17/05/22 06:24 PM
0

If you DM I can help you, but these things just become intuitive over time
/r/seduction14/05/22 06:58 PM
0

Okay, so then find a girl who is interested. Once you break the ice through introducing yourself, you deepen it through subconscious communication. Everything that deepens the connection with a woman isn’t logical: that means it’s not what you say, but what you do. Eye contact, vocal tonality, body language, and lastly touch. Then at the end, you ask her to come back to your place or to go out with you somewhere (to eat, to smoke, etc.) The key is to get her alone with you. Once you get to this …
/r/seduction14/05/22 06:39 PM
0

Dude come on. Use your brain. You just gotta be quick on your feet
/r/seduction14/05/22 06:28 PM
1

Bro you literally just have to deepen the connection. Bring her to an isolated spot with just you and her and break the touch barrier. Build tension with eye contact and then go for the kill
/r/seduction14/05/22 05:47 PM
1

Amen!
/r/seduction14/05/22 05:17 PM
1

Well you have to create a connection first obviously
/r/seduction14/05/22 06:17 AM
3

Yeah, I mean if she’s being a bitch then you have the privilege to leave. I would never stand for someone acting like that
/r/seduction14/05/22 06:15 AM
8

I would have left. Maybe she thought you were boring
/r/seduction14/05/22 05:00 AM
2

I agree. Good kisser is one thing. Also a guy that can make you laugh or is good in bed goes a long way
/r/seduction14/05/22 02:45 AM
1

Cringe
/r/seduction14/05/22 01:34 AM
1

No it’s not. Cold approach works, but only in certain situations. Like talking to a girl in class, in line, at the library, etc. If you are going out of your way to approach women during the day then it’s weird and unnecessary. Just talk to women throughout your day and see which ones are interested. An even better thing to do would be to meet women at clubs and bars if you want to approach women who are looking for guys.
/r/seduction14/05/22 01:33 AM
2

I looked at your Instagram. You’re not bad looking. I’ve seen guys with much worse acne. You just gotta be confident. Insecurity is the biggest repellent to women. If you are confident then that is the first thing a woman will notice.
/r/seduction14/05/22 01:29 AM
2

Tbh, what you actually say is the least important thing, aside from logistics. The most important things are subconscious: vocal tonality, eye contact, and body language. I would focus on trying to be more flirty and playful in conversation and also focusing on the before stated subconscious factors. The key is to build tension in your interaction. Make her feel the sexual tension between you and her. Eye contact: look deeply into her eyes. Face to face (build the tension as you deepen connectio…
/r/seduction06/05/22 04:48 AM
4

Your fear of crossing boundaries is what will screw you over. Women like bold men. Don’t be afraid to break the touch barrier and go for the kiss on the first date. I personally have noticed a lot more success with this. There is no such thing as “the talking stage”. That is just bs. The truth is that you are competing with other men and the boldest wins. Your main problem seems to be you care too much about what the woman thinks. Women can notice this a mile away. You are waiting for the woman …
/r/seduction05/05/22 06:37 PM
5

It’s just a word dude. No need to be prejudice about it
/r/seduction02/05/22 04:57 AM
1

Sometimes it works that way too. Girls are pretty repelled by neediness, so that’s probably a factor.
/r/seduction02/05/22 01:51 AM
2

It's just persistence. Sometimes a girl might be interested in another guy at the moment, but once he doesn't work out, you'll be next in line! Nonetheless, don't put all your eggs in one basket. If she's not interested in you then talk to other girls. It's a big mistake guys make to waste their time on just one girl. I recommend just keeping conversation open with her so she's still an option.
/r/seduction01/05/22 09:01 PM
8

Go to the club or bar. Tons of baddies you'll meet there. As long as you're confident, you won't have issues
/r/seduction01/05/22 08:57 PM
1

Dress hot. Act hot. Play hard to get
/r/seduction01/05/22 07:18 PM
1

Your only problem is that you didn’t kiss her. Next time, lean forward and kiss her when you guys are getting close. Your fear of rejection will cause you to actually get rejected unless you get rid of it
/r/seduction01/05/22 06:13 PM
0

I know a guy who does it and is pretty happy. I just feel guilty doing shit with other girls when I have a gf. I’ve done stuff, but it’s not for the lighthearted.
/r/seduction01/05/22 08:03 AM
2

Well what about having a relationship? You can have sex and not be single
/r/seduction01/05/22 01:17 AM
5

Just a question man. Do you really enjoy this lifestyle? I mean it sounds pretty bleak to me. Wouldn't you like to be able to have an emotional connection with some of these women instead of just fucking them and ditching? It just seems kind of depressing. I mean getting laid helps your ego and it feels good, but that's about it.
/r/seduction30/04/22 07:58 PM
3

Almost every guy I know that's lived the hook up lifestyle says it gets old after a while and it's not really fulfilling. Then again, it might be a personal preference thing. Personally, I have a pretty high sex drive, but I like the emotional connection of an intimate relationship. As long as there is some good sex, I'm attracted to the girl, and, most importantly, she isn't psychotic then I prefer to be with one girl. But there is something invigorating and fun about picking up chicks that I t…
/r/seduction30/04/22 07:54 PM
1

I’ve had better luck on Hinge
/r/seduction20/04/22 11:09 PM
2

Does she know you’re married?
/r/seduction20/04/22 11:08 PM
2

Your sexual desire will likely come back when you are around women. I just think it’s because you haven’t been with a woman for a while. Also, stay away from porn.
/r/seduction20/04/22 01:53 AM
1

So I should have side hoes?
/r/seduction19/04/22 05:08 PM
2

Personally, I'm not into anime that much, besides reading Berserk manga here and there. I would assume the girls in those clubs are probably less attractive than the sorority type
/r/seduction18/04/22 07:25 PM
2

Just by socializing with more girls and forcing myself out my comfort zone
/r/seduction18/04/22 05:34 PM
3

Just because you have other good habits doesn’t mean you will be good with women. These things are mutually exclusive. The reason you are still a virgin is your own doing
/r/seduction18/04/22 05:34 PM
1

Yeah, I’ve heard about that. I definitely witnessed it in real life too
/r/seduction18/04/22 07:23 AM
22

Stfu. You sound like a jealous baby. You are never going to get girls with this mindset
/r/seduction18/04/22 07:18 AM
2

Are you in college? They have like anime clubs and shit. You can also find girls online into that stuff
/r/seduction18/04/22 07:11 AM
1

Wym by preselection?
/r/seduction18/04/22 07:03 AM
2

Not everything on this subreddit is “PUA”. Some guys just genuinely want a gf. If that’s what you want then you can still learn things from this community. Guys have different problems and goals, but the one thing we share is to better understand how to attract women. There is nothing “wrong” with you for not having the dating life you want, in fact, it’s a good thing you even realized it’s a problem because a lot of guys just accept it. Don’t shame yourself for not having a “normal life”. There…
/r/seduction18/04/22 07:01 AM
1

Experience
/r/seduction18/04/22 06:25 AM
1

You do what works. You either take the rejection and find women who like you or you stay single. It’s really that simple. Become the man women want. And find the women that want you. Race is a much much smaller factor than your mindset.
/r/seduction18/04/22 06:23 AM
0

You do what works. It’s not sociopathic to be smart
/r/seduction18/04/22 06:19 AM
7

Just a question. How often do you go out alone? And do you notice that affects your success ratio or not? Sometimes I wonder if it’s weird to women that you’re out alone. I’m curious because I’m about to turn 21 soon and I don’t have many friends into pick up
/r/seduction18/04/22 05:56 AM
3

Okay, well choking is a little specific, but I just mean that women like to be dominated in bed. Obviously if a girl likes be punched and shit that is a huge red flag. I also noticed that girls into BDSM had trauma on average. All I’m saying is that I’ve never met a girl that wanted to take charge. Well I take that back, I did, but she was a lesbian who was “experimenting”, so idk if that even counts. Sometimes my girlfriend takes charge (on top), but it’s only after a while. I have to be the on…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/22 10:46 PM
1

Lmfao, “punch me daddy”
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/22 08:37 AM
8

I disagree. Evolutionary psychology proves otherwise. Women like to be dominated period. My gf tells me she likes to be choked during sex, yet she is probably one of the most mentally stable women I have met. I never do it, but I do wrestle with her and go a little rough to keep the dynamic. Choking isn’t really my thing, but women like to feel submissive. Hence 50 Shades of Grey being one of the best selling novels. Women want to be with a guy they know can protect them and lead them. Sure sex …
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/22 08:34 AM
1

20 yr old here. If you are not having success with women already then that is your fault, not the fault of your age. Even if it was your age, that would just mean that you should go after high school girls, but that’s not the case. There are many things you can do to get women at your age. You shouldn’t have to wait until you’re 30 lol. You are at the prime time of your life: Don’t waste it
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/22 08:28 AM
1

Having a single mother just makes you blue-pilled unfortunately
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/22 08:22 AM
1

I also think guys have to accept this. I understand the perspective of a guy who gets resentful over “not getting my equal” or “why do women have it easier in dating?”. But the problem is that the guys who are actually successful in dating just accept the cards they were handed and do the best they can. Personally, I think guys shouldn’t have such high expectations because women don’t owe you shit. They are autonomous beings who can do what they please. If a girl isn’t interested then just move …
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/22 08:12 AM
4

True, but having some women after you is better than none. Women are still going to be more attracted to the guy who has multiple women as options versus the guy who has none.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/22 07:55 AM
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No, it’s more about perceived competence. If a man has multiple options then women will perceive that man to be more competent, regardless of what she knows about him. A woman isn’t attracted to a man without options because she unconsciously assumes there is a reason for why no women are interested in him.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/22 07:52 AM
2

Well, you know what they say. You don’t enter a shoe store without already having some on your feet.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/22 07:46 AM
5

I agree, and this should be stated more. The problem of incels/black-pillers is really more of a mental health problem than anything. People forget that men have a biological urge to mate with women and it’s not something they can change. Therefore, if a man is frustrated with their dating life, we shouldn’t see them as some villain for getting resentful, in some ways their anger is justified. A lot of incel violence, like with the Eliott Rodger’s incident for example, could have been avoided if…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/22 07:44 AM
3

Well try to keep the communication honest and open. If he is not giving you enough attention then simply ask why or ask him if he can be less distant and more intimate. But sometimes our insecurities get the best of us. You shouldn’t be comparing yourself, be confident!
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/22 08:31 PM
1

Yeah, I’ve definitely met girls who are quality in US, but they are a needle in a haystack. In other countries you’ll have a much easier time. Also no crazy feminism ideals either, so they are better for marriage
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/22 02:05 PM
1

Yes, but currently it’s like night and day in other countries. I’m telling you man. If you go to Columbia, Ukraine, or Japan, it’s an entirely different ball game.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/22 08:28 AM
2

Men are definitely more likely to cheat, likely due to evolutionary biological reasons (women invest more time into offspring than men). However, I don’t think that a man looking at other women or not makes them more or less likely to cheat. My grandparents are a good example. I see my grandfather checking out girls in the mall all the time, but he’s been married to my grandmother for like 50 years and I doubt he watches porn or anything because he’s devout Catholic. So like I said, it’s a norma…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/22 08:23 AM
1

“This is why I believe TRP is doomed to fail and Black Pill is inevitable.” Not when you factor in culture and environment. If you live in the US then black pill holds a lot more validity than in other countries where there is still an obvious disparity between men and women. Environment also plays a factor. For example, in universities, fraternity guys are the ones who sleep with the majority of women, looks aside. This is simply due to social status and power. Another example of environmental …
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/22 04:26 PM
3

It’s not the work, it’s the threat of death. Even in other mammal species, the males compete for the females. These males put their lives on the line to gain access to a female for reproduction. Sure, women have more parental investment. But because of this, men got fucked over in evolution and have to compete for the female. Some males may never get to reproduce. Some males might die. Most males have to fight to gain a position in which they can reproduce. Females are the default biologically. …
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/22 04:08 PM
3

What does men starting wars have to do with anything? Do you think those men who got drafted into the war had a decision to back out? It was a few men who decided the fate of the many. And these men who got drafted literally only got drafted because they were men. So while women were worried about cleaning the house and making supper, men were worried about whether they would live or die the next day.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/22 10:34 AM
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Men have been warriors, hunters, and manual laborers through out history. There is a reason why the average lifespan for woman was in the past and still is longer for women. The chance of dying from childbirth in the US for a woman is far less than 1%, and this rate is similar in other developed countries. Additionally, the suicide rate for males is 3-4x higher than females in the west. Men also are the main ones to get killed by gang violence or thrown into jail (males make up 93% of prison inm…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/22 10:22 AM
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I think this is less black and white than you think though. Yes, for the majority of women it is simply a matter of filtering, but for the minority of men it is the same. 10% of men get a large majority of the women, whether it’s due to looks, status, power, etc. These men have the ability to filter women, just like most women have the ability to filter men. In other words, a small portion of men are allowed to be picky, while a large portion of women are. Perhaps men in this 10% can relate to w…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/22 10:01 AM
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I’m not sure why you think attraction to beauty only pertains to men. I know multiple women with boyfriends who constantly talk about who the hottest celebrities are and what not. I also have had girlfriends that I see check out other guys. Attraction is a normal biological process, it doesn’t matter what sex you are or whether you are in a relationship or not.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/22 09:53 AM
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Stop playing the victim. Yeah, women aren’t going to care. So what? Stop trying to win their sympathy. If you have any emotional maturity then you would have moved past that. Guys who spend all their time resenting women for not sharing their struggles are the ones who end up becoming incels. And it’s not because they actually have no options, it’s simply because all they see is the negative.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/22 09:37 AM
6

Also stay on your purpose. Women love that shit. If you are ambitious and headed towards something then you are already more attractive than the average guy.
/r/seduction02/02/22 02:05 AM
5

Your mom is kind of a nut
/r/MensRights24/01/22 06:29 AM
0

Political propaganda vs. Evolutionary psychology Who will win?
/r/MensRights24/01/22 06:27 AM
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I’m 21 and in University and have came to the same conclusion. Unless you are delusional, for the average man, Tinder is a no go. You should spend time cultivating social circle game and cold approach. I approached a girl the other day from my class and I took her on an instant coffee date. Now I’m not sure if it will go any farther with her, but regardless, it’s an example that you can get dates without apps. Ditch the apps and put yourself out there: join clubs, talk to girls in your class, go…
/r/MensRights24/01/22 06:17 AM
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Facts
/r/seduction21/01/22 10:05 PM
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Sorry, I just saw this now. Yeah, I completely agree. I also think a lot of guys don’t understand that every woman, whether she rejects you or not, is an isolated instance. Just because one woman rejects you, doesn’t mean another will. Men get this idea that each rejection is a sign that they are unattractive (either physically or in their personality). The truth is that two girls generally have no relation to each other and could be rejecting you for completely different reasons. We have to loo…
/r/seduction21/01/22 07:05 PM
1

Yeah, no shit. Dating apps aren't much better anyways. Better just to build your battle and attract what comes to you
/r/seduction18/01/22 08:40 PM
1

Why would you want to hide it? Girls love it when they know you're turned on. If anything, rub it against her when you make out
/r/seduction18/01/22 04:00 PM
2

Try kratom
/r/seduction17/01/22 04:51 AM
1

I stopped using Tinder. You will have better luck meeting attractive women in real life
/r/seduction17/01/22 04:50 AM
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I don’t agree. I’ve gotten plenty of girls numbers at the gym. You just have to be smooth about it
/r/seduction17/01/22 04:48 AM
2

Go out and start meeting people. Talk to people everywhere you go. Make it a goal to approach 5 new girls every week. You are bound to make friends with one of them and get a new social circle. Also talk to people at your job or go to social events in the area
/r/seduction17/01/22 04:47 AM
1

Key thing: be very slow and tease her. Always start with the neck https://youtu.be/mCEPFtEGXL8
/r/seduction17/01/22 03:55 AM
4

Dude if you do modeling then just use your modeling photos
/r/seduction16/01/22 11:15 PM
1

Dude if you do modeling then just use your modeling photos
/r/seduction16/01/22 11:15 PM
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Yeah, it looks very unnatural. Like you are squinting your eyes too. Try to smile naturally in a photo that’s not a selfie. It should look the same as the face you have if you are laughing. Get your friend or even a family member to take a photo of you. It seems like your facial expression is forced
/r/seduction16/01/22 08:18 PM
0

No, unless you want to only bang girls under a 4
/r/seduction16/01/22 07:42 PM
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Dude, your jawline is chiseled and you got nice hair and face. Your problem is that you are taking shitty selfies and you’re insecure. Get yourself some professional photos. Pay for someone to take professional photos for you and dress nice. Photos like this will make you look like a creep. Also smile, your facial expression is weird. Lastly, don’t rely on online dating solely. Start approaching and going to night clubs. You can easily get laid if you build some confidence
/r/seduction16/01/22 07:31 PM
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No, it just proves that being good looking isn’t everything
/r/seduction16/01/22 07:27 PM
4

Shittiest advice ever
/r/seduction16/01/22 07:27 PM
1

Don't be afraid to be sexual man. Women love that shit. Some girls will want to smash on the night you text them
/r/seduction15/01/22 01:46 AM
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Dude, this is my personal opinion. Girls have their own lives and shit to do. Just because a girl can't meet at one date doesn't mean she's not into you. Guys cancel dates too. Rarely means we're not interested. The difference is that the female wants you to pursue her. You have to lead. You have to be the one to initiate another date time. If you stop talking to girls just because they wanted a different time then you will have a hard time dating. You have to know the difference between reality…
/r/seduction15/01/22 01:34 AM
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Thanks dude
/r/seduction13/01/22 03:59 AM
2

Ayee bro. This post was like divine synchronicity. I literally just signed up for BJJ classes
/r/seduction13/01/22 03:35 AM
2

Dude, you should be able to cry in front of your gf. If she is like “I only like guys that repress their emotions” then she ain’t the one. It says something about her, not you. However, if you are an emotional basketcase then that’s a different story. Your partner shouldn’t have to be your therapist, but they should have empathy.
/r/seduction12/01/22 05:40 PM
1

Well another way that guarantees meeting quality single women is to create a high value social media account that wheels them in. If you have a solid amount of followers and good pictures then you can literally just DM girls on Instagram and get dates. This beats dating apps because there is much lower competition.
/r/seduction10/01/22 10:36 PM
1

Bro, I'm a psych major and that shit is golden. So many baddies
/r/seduction10/01/22 10:32 PM
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Or maybe you just don't want to believe it's real because it would shatter all your bullshit excuses
/r/seduction09/01/22 05:58 PM
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Hell yeah bro. This proves that confidence is everything. I hope you don't mind if I tell your story to my insecure friends lol
/r/seduction09/01/22 06:18 AM
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You got some things you gotta work on my man. From the sound of things, you probably tried online dating once. Online dating is trial and error. You likely were doing something wrong if you had no success. Don’t just do something once and then give up. That is what we call a “quitter mindset”. In terms of cold approach, just do it. I personally would much rather be rejected a couple times and meet one good girl than be alone for the rest of my life. The clock is ticking man. We won’t be here for…
/r/seduction08/01/22 08:54 AM
2

You can change in two ways. One way is healthy and the other isn’t. A lot of guys do stupid shit because they aren’t confident in themselves. They use canned lines, dress like clowns, get plastic surgery, etc. Other guys go out and conquer their fears, get better at socialization, and start working out. My point is that change is only good if it’s coming from a place of self-acceptance.
/r/seduction08/01/22 03:20 AM
1

I usually just mimic how long the girl is taking, but generally I am too busy to text every couple minutes anyways
/r/seduction08/01/22 01:57 AM
1

Be yourself as in be confident in who you are as a man. The real you is buried beneath all the bs you tell yourself
/r/seduction08/01/22 01:55 AM
2

In other words, beta genetics lol
/r/seduction08/01/22 12:24 AM
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I know a fat dude with acne that pulls hella chicks. Looks definetely help, but you should be able to pull girls with your game alone. As long as you aren't trying to up your looks to cope with bad game then I see no problem with it.
/r/seduction07/01/22 07:40 AM
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If you actually are improving your looks then I think it's a good thing. I only have a problem with the guys who continuously mope around because they think they're "unattractive".
/r/seduction07/01/22 07:35 AM
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Sex is great man, but the truth is that it won’t make you happy. All you need to do is ask the guys who consistently got laid in the past. I’ve heard from a lot of these guys the same thing: sex won’t make you happy, even with baddies. It’s just temporary pleasure. It’s definitely great to have fun experiences, but really you should focus on finding things you are passionate about and finding a woman you can really bond with on a deeper level.
/r/seduction07/01/22 04:47 AM
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Real shit
/r/seduction31/12/21 01:41 AM
1

I struggle somewhat, but I am aware of the things I can change and that is what I focus on. I'd much rather be happy and hopeful than down in the dumps and sorry for myself. I've lived like that before and it is no fun.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/21 07:39 PM
1

In all seriousness if you work heavily on your traps, delts, and shoulders, it creates the illusion of being taller.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/21 07:33 PM
0

You're only a loser if you believe you are. You can be a winner if you change your mindset and lifestyle. It is never too late to become the king that women will love.
/r/seduction28/12/21 07:12 PM
1

1) Stop comparing yourself to your damn brother 2) Stop complaining 3) Find a solution
/r/seduction23/12/21 08:47 AM
1

Just be confident and don’t look insecure. That will show her you are a real man. If she really likes you then she will tell him off. Unless he’s super aggressive and annoying, I wouldn’t do anything.
/r/seduction21/12/21 05:07 PM
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I find it funny how US prostitution in the past was banned by religious conservative and now it would be banned by humanist liberals. Despite the idea of “sexual freedom”
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/21 05:00 AM
1

What we consider to be “better” can be viewed through various perspectives. Does better mean stronger? More powerful? More kind? More nurturing? More moral? More driven? Depending on what you mean by better, women can be better in a lot of ways. I think most people see better as equating to power, but barely any philosophy or religion has ever taken this view through out history. Also, in terms of a heterosexual monogamous relationship, the majority women like to be the submissive one sexually. …
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/21 04:54 AM
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“All women are RPed” All women aren’t anything. There is huge variation among women, even if the majority act a specific way. Also women most of the time are rarely ever conscious of why they go after the men they do. So they are not RPed. RPed means you are consciously aware of female nature and dating dynamics. “BP men are rapists” I think anyone with some sort of pill ideology is actually more likely to be a rapist since they put sex on a pedestal. But BP men tend to be clueless a lot of the …
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/21 04:39 AM
1

How about keeping families together with supportive and stable fathers, so the boy actually has a role model and understands healthy relationships? Or is that too hard?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/21 04:30 AM
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No. There is plenty of guys taller than me that would though.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/21 04:25 AM
1

Lmao, never thought of this. It’s a good marketing idea
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/21 04:24 AM
1

“Men are socialized to not be women.” Men are not women, so what does that matter? Women are not socialized to be men either. Liberal gender studies always seems to make no sense to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/21 04:21 AM
1

Well a couple things to consider: 1) It’s a lot harder to make a woman orgasm than a man. For a woman to truly enjoy herself, the man needs to know what he is doing. If he is just focused on getting himself off and does no foreplay or anything for the woman then she won’t orgasm. 2) There is a lot of expectation on the man to have perfect performance and to know what he is doing, so this causes the man to try act “confident” in bed when really he has no idea what he is doing. The man also genera…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/21 04:17 AM
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VR girlfriends
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/21 03:47 AM
1

Okay, but telling others guys that “looks is the most important factor” isn’t going to help them. You can’t change your looks (except to a small degree with exercise, style, and hygiene). It’s better to tell people to focus on what they can change (i.e. game, status, confidence, body, etc.) This is a subreddit about improving ourselves with women, not focusing on the shit we can’t change. I didn’t call you out just because it’s an unhealthy mindset for you to have, but also because you could rei…
/r/seduction08/12/21 03:47 AM
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You contradicted yourself on the last stanza. And not every guy is on here for hookups, some want an actual relationship. In addition, a lot of people think they want sex when they really just want intimacy. While you keep focusing on why your jawline isn’t a 90 degree angle and you’re not 6’10, other guys are succeeding while being ugly. It’s just a mindset thing.
/r/seduction07/12/21 08:13 PM
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They aren’t the most important factor. Maybe for hookups, yes. But if you are talking about LTRs, there is a lot more that goes into play for compatibility. Most relationships that are based on physical attraction alone fail. Also, women in general are attracted to confidence and charisma. You can be a 10/10 guy in the looks department, but if you are an insecure, nerdy guy then nothing will happen for you. I know from experience.
/r/seduction07/12/21 06:26 PM
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Some are discreet. Some are blatantly obvious. It just depends on the personality of the girl and how good looking you are.
/r/seduction07/12/21 05:47 AM
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You’re only fucked if you care about it
/r/seduction07/12/21 05:41 AM
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With this mindset, nothing good will happen for you
/r/seduction07/12/21 05:40 AM
1

Sorry *apartment building
/r/seduction04/12/21 10:53 AM
1

We live in the same apartment
/r/seduction04/12/21 10:35 AM
1

This is advice I wish I would had taken earlier… Join a fraternity. Fraternity guys get the most girls on campus regardless of age. The fact that you are still young is a good thing because you can join and move up the ranks. The more social status you have, the more girls that will come after you.
/r/seduction04/12/21 03:44 AM
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Whoever gave you this advice is not a good friend
/r/seduction04/12/21 03:41 AM
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Start saying a mantra “I am a fucking God”. Also start proving that you can leave your comfort zone through small things. Even as simple as asking a girl what time it is. You can eventually start a conversation from that. I do visualization in combination with meditation. It helps if you clear your mind first. Also instead of thinking whether the visual is you or not, ponder on where it arises from because where the desire and visual arises from is your higher self. Through actively connecting t…
/r/seduction04/12/21 03:33 AM
4

You met them at bars?
/r/seduction04/12/21 03:30 AM
1

You can literally meet girls in grocery store dude. Opportunities are everywhere
/r/seduction04/12/21 03:26 AM
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Don’t spend so much time on dating apps bro. It’s a waste of time. You’ll do a lot better with clubs, bars, cold approach, and social circle.
/r/seduction04/12/21 03:23 AM
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What? Lmao
/r/seduction04/12/21 03:20 AM
1

What do you mean? How do you think all the other girls attract men's attention? You are a woman, so just use your appearance (I'm assuming you must be attractive). Give them the eye. You will probably even stand out because you are taller. I'm not saying that you can't talk to them. Approaching them is fine, but you shouldn't be flirty and dominant like a man would (even though it would be better if you let the man start the conversation). All you need to do is show him that you are interested. …
/r/seduction19/10/21 04:27 AM
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Obviously not, but my point is that they do get some sort of validation from it. Whether that is beneficial to men or not is irrelevant. I only say this because in our current society we don't shame women any more for being "sluts" due to feminism and an openness for sexuality. Because of this, I believe women derive much of their validation through flaunting their body. Especially if a girl is dressed provocatively: I couldn't think of a woman doing this for any other reason then to attract mal…
/r/seduction19/10/21 04:15 AM
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I have the same problem but for ass. Honestly, in this day and age, women probably get some sort of validation from it. Just don’t be rapey
/r/seduction17/10/21 10:05 AM
1

Sure
/r/seduction13/10/21 10:06 PM
2

I go off and on dating apps. A lot of girls ghost me, so I like in person better
/r/seduction13/10/21 02:35 AM
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Anytime I see a woman post on this subreddit, I know it’s about to be some bs
/r/seduction12/10/21 03:46 PM
1

You are contradicting yourself. You don't like submissive men, yet you want to be the one who chases men? Either stop chasing men or start liking submissive guys because otherwise nothing is going to change. I recommend just being normal and not chasing guys. This is weird for a woman to do. It's normal for a woman to like dominant guys, but abnormal to be the one who chases. You should be the catch, not the other way around. Just because you are six foot doesn't mean men won't go after you, esp…
/r/seduction06/10/21 12:00 AM
2

Well to be fair, I used to not have that much sex either, but I still realized how to turn a woman on. The first girl I got intimate with, I naturally warmed her up before we did anything. I kind of just figured out what to do along the way because I noticed she enjoyed it when I kissed her neck and collar bone. This was before I actually started watching YT videos on foreplay and researching about how women get aroused. I think the urge to do so just came from me wanting to please the woman mor…
/r/seduction05/10/21 05:23 PM
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I'm actually surprised that this isn't obvious for most guys
/r/seduction04/10/21 10:40 PM
2

Basically approaching a random girl who is a stranger to you, and eventually getting her number, going on a date with her, or more. You will see a lot of guys on this subreddit talking about it if you read some of the posts. If you start practicing while you are young, you will be ahead of a lot of other guys.
/r/seduction04/10/21 10:36 PM
2

A couple tips: 1) Start small and work your way up: Start doing small things that break your comfort zone. It can be as simple as saying high to the cashier or greeting people you walk by. Even sitting in crowded places. Eventually you can start cold approaching. 2) Realize what serves you: Realize that having insecurities is a big detriment. Being insecure is an instant turn off to girls, even more so than looks. If someone judges you on something, then why would you want to give them your time…
/r/seduction04/10/21 09:07 PM
1

If anything, you are an insult to the average or below average guys that get good results just from having good game
/r/seduction04/10/21 04:40 PM
1

You sound like a pussy
/r/seduction04/10/21 02:22 AM
1

This just seems like complaining to me. You can't really change your looks. You can upgrade your style, change your haircut, have better hygiene, etc, but you are stuck with your face, height, skin color, etc. Therefore, you should stop focusing on your looks and comparing yourself to every other guy. I used to literally have girls eye fuck me and come up to me and tell me I was sexy when I was younger because I was really good looking. The funny thing is that nothing ever happened with any of t…
/r/seduction04/10/21 01:12 AM
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I bang ugly chicks sometimes. Pussy is pussy with the lights off
/r/seduction29/09/21 01:42 AM
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I think it’s good that you teased her a bit, but telling her to wait until the second date is a bit extreme. She might just go to some other guy who will fuck her on the first date and lose interest in you. Then again, I didn’t talk to the chick, so maybe she is really into you.
/r/seduction26/09/21 05:09 PM
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Dude, you’re a man. You are attracted to hot women, it’s in your nature. It doesn’t matter what you look like. It’s the same reason why fat, ugly chicks go after 6’5 guys with the face of Brad Pitt. Regardless, I think you are being too picky. Even good looking guys sometimes end up with an average chick if she has a really good personality and habits. You have to ask yourself the question of whether you want to be happy or keep attempting to go after girls who will reject you. I’m not saying th…
/r/seduction24/09/21 04:56 PM
2

I usually go straight for the hook up, but it honestly depends on the girl. Some girls are more down then others. For other girls, you want to go on a date first to make them comfortable. Sometimes I tell girls to come over and we won’t do anything extra, but it’s a complete lie lol.
/r/seduction24/09/21 12:32 AM
2

What app have you had most success on for hookups? I've been primarily using Tinder and I have had a couple lays through it, but I'm curious if another app would work better.
/r/seduction24/09/21 12:12 AM
2

Make your profile extremely sexual and dominant. Your bio and profile pics. You want to come off as a sexual beast. I posted about how to make a successful bio on r/tinder if you want to check it out. You also have to be smooth and sexually playful with the messages. I would like to see what your profile looks like and what you're sending girls
/r/seduction24/09/21 12:08 AM
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Yes, but attraction is not stagnant. You can up your attraction in a variety of ways, hence the point of this subreddit. I think it's more so the mindset of this quote that is important because most guys come off as too needy and desperate. They try to "win" the girl over, not realizing that this will only make her more turned off. Your intent should be to attract the woman, not to chase her. In other words, form yourself into a man that is both emotionally, sexually, and physically attractive, …
/r/seduction22/09/21 10:28 AM
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I second what comtruise said. In more detail though, nonverbal communication includes the following: eye contact, body language, tonality, facial expression, and emotion. You want to come off as sexual and dominant as possible. What you talk about doesn't matter. Eye contact: Eye contact is literally key. It will create sexual tension and get the girl interested in you. It's always easy for me to look girls in the eye because in the back of my head, I know that it's turning them on and making me…
/r/seduction22/09/21 02:13 AM
4

Cold approach is far from thirsty or desperate. It just means you’re confident
/r/seduction21/09/21 03:18 AM
1

I didn't have sex involuntarily for a couple years and I'm 5'10 and decent looking. It really boils down to how confident you are and whether you let people notice that you are insecure about something. For example, I'm heavily balding and I'm only 20 years old. When I used to be really insecure about it, girls would notice and get turned off. However, after I stopped giving a shit, girls noticed my confidence and were into me. I also have a big scar on my chin that girl's used to notice my inse…
/r/seduction21/09/21 12:25 AM
1

Don’t take it personally. There is no objective explanation. She must have just been confused in what she wanted. I say it is just best to move on. Don’t waste your energy on women that can’t make up their mind.
/r/seduction20/09/21 12:16 AM
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Stop watching other people do it and do it yourself. It is easy, but it will be hard your first couple of approaches (it actually continues to be difficult but you learn how to much better manage the anxiety). Once I decided to really start approaching, I cut out all PUA vids so I wasn’t living through others. That’s a necessary step. You think the guys in the videos who approach became good from watching PUA videos? No, they became good from taking action. The only reason they have the knowledg…
/r/seduction19/09/21 05:50 AM
2

Well shit. If I was staring into her eyes and touching her and she is smiling at me, I would definitely would go for it. Or at least grab her hand and pull her in first
/r/seduction19/09/21 05:37 AM
1

I like the self-improvement and growth I gain from seduction/game. You won’t be able to attract your ideal woman until you break through all your insecurities and mental bullshit that would prevent you from getting her. High caliber girls will only go after guys with good game.
/r/seduction19/09/21 03:56 AM
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You totally should have went for the kiss at that moment
/r/seduction19/09/21 03:39 AM
1

Especially if you’re uncircumcised. Beat it raw, and let the friction build up between your foreskin and tip. Then let it sit for 3 days without washing. Eventually you’ll have more dick cheese than you know what to do with combined with the smell of curdled fish
/r/seduction18/09/21 07:13 PM
2

I mean if a girl if heavily making out with you and lets you bring her to your room I think it’s pretty self explanatory. Don’t overthink it. Just realize it’s your duty to lead as a man. Once you learn calibration, everything just flows at that point.
/r/seduction18/09/21 04:59 PM
2

Don’t worry man, you are not alone. I’ve made the same mistakes, but it’s in the past. Important thing is that you learn from them.
/r/seduction18/09/21 04:53 PM
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I agree. I never said that you should force her to do anything she doesn’t want to do. This is why I mentioned calibration. I just think that most guys over think this and don’t advance or lead when they should. I personally have messed up a lot of instances with women because we were making out and getting sexual, but I didn’t have the balls to go forward (because I didn’t think it was right for some reason). Consent is important, but a girl will let you know if she doesn’t want to go further w…
/r/seduction18/09/21 04:48 PM
1

You are getting nervous because you are not letting your sexual energy flow through. Be confident in your attraction to them. If anything, they should be easier to approach. Don’t go in with any expectations. Just approach and allow your sexual attraction to flow through you. She will notice and get turned on.
/r/seduction18/09/21 04:35 PM
1

Well it really depends on what your interests are and what type of guy you are looking for. There are sites like meetup in which you can meet people through going to different local events and joining local groups. You can try meeting guys online through social media groups (not dating apps). You also can try the bar. I know not every guy at the bar is top of the notch, but there tends to be a greater variety than you think. Most single guys go to the bar to hang with friends and meet women. Als…
/r/seduction18/09/21 04:28 AM
5

You just aren't putting enough effort in. A lot of milfs are dtf, especially with a young lad. Don't be afraid to be sexual. I would just keep it casual conversation with a sexual undertone. Go for the number if you can't get an instant date (or instant fuck). After you finalize the date, start getting more flirty and sexual. Eventually you'll bag her.
/r/seduction18/09/21 04:17 AM
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If you are interested in meeting guys who are more serious (and not just looking for sex) then I recommend using a more serious dating site that you have to pay for. You also can meet guys through special interest groups or even in the gym. If you are looking for a specific type of guy then just go to places where guys like that congregate. As a woman, you shouldn't have to do that much. Just get yourself out there. Try everything, and do what works.
/r/seduction18/09/21 04:11 AM
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Yeah, I think a lot of guys fail to understand that you can make a woman feel things that she won't be able to feel through text. You can create a bond in person that will make any other guy laying around in her phone easy competition. Let's also be honest with the fact that the guys who don't approach in person lack the confidence and game necessary to do so. While the guy who does tends to have good game and confidence. The difference is significant. Especially when you realize that after you …
/r/seduction18/09/21 02:34 AM
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It might be easier to just get vaccinated. Or if not, you can look into self-employment. You have access to a phone/pc luckily.
/r/seduction15/09/21 05:52 PM
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I personally would worry more about fixing your financial situation first than trying to get dates. Your own well being is more important than securing sex or a date. Additionally, having more money will help you attract more women as well.
/r/seduction15/09/21 05:13 PM
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Women care about looks, but not enough to the extent where you have to consistently worry about it or compare yourself. You can be an average guy and still pull pussy as long as you have good game, dress well, workout, and have good hygiene. There are plenty of attractive guys who either lack interest in women, already have a girlfriend, or have horrible social skills and lack confidence. For these reasons and more, who a girl fucks depends on a lot more than just looks my friend.
/r/seduction13/09/21 05:32 AM
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Man is a complete unit, even at 41. You have my respect.
/r/seduction13/09/21 05:18 AM
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Some girls are really picky with what they attracted to, and that is fine. They have the freedom to be that way because many men can be the same, especially when it comes to long term relationships (and not just being horny asf). Don't take it personally because I'm sure there are girls out that will be attracted to you, and for some, you might even be their perfect 10. Everyone has different preferences and some people are more pickier than others. At least she was nice about it and she actuall…
/r/seduction13/09/21 05:07 AM
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It's nice to hear a feminist who supports men. I am genuinely grateful for women like you who see the problems on both sides and don't just act selfishly (only supporting your own gender and keeping a blind eye towards the societal problems men face). If more women can be like you then perhaps men and women can finally come to alignment and we can have a sort of utopia between the sexes. I personally have nothing against basic feminism, but I have a problem with toxic aspects of it. I actually d…
/r/MensRights13/09/21 04:44 AM
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Yeah, that’s what I thought lol. See how you were overthinking it so much? This goes for texting as well. You ask “what should I say next?” You are overthinking it. Just go with your intuition. Keep it sexual and playful. I’m sure you know the right thing to say, just go with your gut (or balls), not your head. And if you say the wrong thing, it’s fine. It’s a learning process. Main thing is that you don’t overcomplicate it in your head.
/r/seduction11/09/21 07:57 AM
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I didn’t even see that part. If she sent you soft core p then she obviously wants you dude. You just gotta be smooth about it and keep it sexual
/r/seduction11/09/21 04:08 AM
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Dude, come on, 2 hours? What if she just went to sleep? If a girl responds or not it doesn't matter. Some girls will take 3 days to respond. It doesn't necessarily mean they are not interested. You have to be clever, not emotional. Don't get mad and then delete her number or block her. Wait to see if she responds. You shouldn't just be focused on this one singular girl anyways. You should have options. Don't worry, I used to be like this too, but it is beta mentality. You can't be waiting for a …
/r/seduction11/09/21 02:53 AM
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Yes, I agree. I was really attractive when I was younger. I literally had girls throwing themselves at me. And I was so awkward, socially anxious, and unconfident that I didn't have success with any of them, and I was pissed at myself for not being able to talk to girls. I remember in my social studies class in middle school, a girl gave me a note telling me she thought I was cute and she liked me. I just read it, didn't say anything, and held it in my hand until I could barely read it anymore f…
/r/seduction11/09/21 01:10 AM
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I honestly don't have a preference for height, but I realize that when I date tall girls there ends up being problems down the road, mainly from the girl losing interest in me for taller guys. For this reason, I feel more comfortable dating shorter girls. I also am very dominant, so I like girls smaller than me. I am about average height btw.
/r/seduction11/09/21 12:54 AM
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Another thing is that if you are a buff short guy, you have an advantage. Yes, face is obviously most important, but body is important too. I'm about 5'9-5'10, and I get admired just as much as guys over 6 ft. Why? Because I'm fucking jacked. A lot of tall guys are super lanky and have no muscle. Girls want a guy who can dominate and protect them. That is the only reason they want a tall guy in the first place. So if you can put on a lot of muscle (not fat) then you can easily compete with talle…
/r/seduction11/09/21 12:46 AM
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I've recently started doing this (like for 2-3 weeks inconsistently), but I haven't got laid yet, and girls rarely respond if I get there number/contact. There are a lot of cute girls I see everyday because I live on a big college campus. Any tips? Side note: I never say "I just thought you are cute" or "You're hot". I usually just have casual conversation. Is this wrong and do I need to show more interest?
/r/seduction10/09/21 03:06 PM
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This is an innate biological response women have. You can observe in primates how the alpha males are usually the social elites. They are able to maintain social bonds between males and females, and thus are the dominant leader. Therefore, these males have the most sexual access to females and are the most prized male by the females. Social status is everything, but "social dominance" might be a better word. Being a leader in something. Think of 50 Shades of Grey were Mr. Grey is a rich entrepre…
/r/seduction09/09/21 03:01 AM
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Move on, but also learn from your mistakes. Maybe you came off as too needy
/r/seduction06/09/21 08:35 AM
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Well she was an alcoholic and had a lot of baggage I didn't feel like dealing with. I would have felt bad trying to just have sex with her. I also couldn't relate with her much because she was 28 working as a waitress and I'm only 20 and still in college. I would rather date girls my own age because there are many available, and I did.
/r/seduction02/09/21 05:55 AM
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Your problem is that you have too many expectations and are not giving yourself any credit. You have made it a long way. If you have conquered your approach anxiety then you already have improved a lot. It is a growing process, the results are not what matters. What matters is how much you have grown and learned. But you also have to realize that you can't just go brute force into PUA without ever looking at your mistakes and revising your methods. That is like going to the gym and doing a super…
/r/seduction02/09/21 02:14 AM
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Girls are human too. There is nothing "special" or "unique" you need to do with females. Just talk to them like you would with any other guy you meet. If there is mutual attraction then things could develop into something deeper. But two things: 1) Don't go into it with any expectations 2) Don't overthink it Talking to girls is a natural thing and there is not much thinking that goes into it, except maybe before the approach and when setting up a date. Your goal should be to stop thinking about …
/r/seduction02/09/21 01:43 AM
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Dude wtf? Just go up and talk to her like a normal person
/r/seduction02/09/21 01:06 AM
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A lot of these guys are saying that you can't approach at the gym because it's "creepy" or "annoying", but I disagree. I have approached girls in the gym plenty of times and had success, and I've noticed that sometimes it is even better because you got a pump and the girl witnesses you working on something that you are good at or passionate about. Let alone the fact that you are talking to a girl who already has a mutual interest - working out. This works especially well for smaller gyms. Obviou…
/r/seduction02/09/21 12:49 AM
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Don't feel alone man. I also am a very in shape, muscular guy and I prefer curvy women as well. I like women with meat on their bones I guess you could say. There is nothing wrong with that. If some guys can only be into skinny girls then other guys can be into other body types. Don't worry about what society thinks or what people think of you, just keep being you. And also about your last question: it's all about communication. You have to let the girl know you find her attractive through your …
/r/seduction01/09/21 09:31 PM
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