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stanthemilkman88/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen18/02/22 04:24 PM
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Mate dating girl who was going to be the next Australian bachelorette. He successfully but not rich, not short not tall, not supper attractive physically, in good shape, sharp, both like premier leagues and never showed overt interest in "old mate" as he refers to her as.
/r/seduction21/07/22 05:30 AM
-5

Be less boring
/r/seduction20/07/22 11:42 PM
6

Bitch shield up at 11
/r/seduction20/07/22 11:25 AM
4

Nobody cares dude. Nobody. So either take action and change, focus on other aspects of your life and don't care or complain on the internet and continue to suffer. You're going to die one day so choose wisely.
/r/seduction20/07/22 11:21 AM
2

Well that like what we have. I'm buy a place and ex said you don't have to paid this month if you tight cause of the deposit. So like that. Cause retarded and didn't live together before finding out we couldn't. So dumb. Lesson learned. But not getting married again.
/r/seduction20/07/22 02:03 AM
1

Is it what you want? I mean frame it as a holiday for yourself. Smile more. It's just a game
/r/seduction20/07/22 12:08 AM
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I'm 33 yr old senior engineer. That's situation I'm in. We were married but didn't work out. Divorces best option. No lawyers no divorce rape all negotiated between the 2 of us. But ya have to pay to support your child. We get along better now we not together, see daughter when ever I want, take her to my place couple times a week/fortnight. It great. Getting married was dumb but didn't get destroyed from it, so yeh life going pretty great. You want a child but don't want to pay for it?? I don't…
/r/seduction20/07/22 12:03 AM
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No. That not the reason
/r/seduction19/07/22 11:59 PM
0

You suck
/r/seduction19/07/22 11:55 AM
6

Too be fair women are pretty terrible at dating advice.
/r/seduction19/07/22 11:54 AM
4

My reply to that is okay. You're doing them forever then.
/r/seduction19/07/22 09:59 AM
1

Are you though?
/r/seduction19/07/22 04:47 AM
0

Depends What do you want?
/r/seduction19/07/22 12:52 AM
1

Me too. But stopped them and started working out regularly and recognized I'm not my feeling. Fuck my feelings, they getting in the way of what I wanted in life. So pushed through them and built life I wanted. That's why they say if you haven't done a 100 approaches you haven't approached. Approach anxiety is normal. Not "social anxiety'
/r/seduction18/07/22 09:57 PM
-1

Nobody owes you a hello
/r/seduction18/07/22 09:52 PM
6

Yeh and be the "fun guy"
/r/seduction18/07/22 09:22 PM
0

They have those things cause they don't practice social skills cause on devices all the time. So obviously they seem socially uncalibrated. No practice with other monkeys Then they use it as an excused not to do anything about it.
/r/seduction18/07/22 09:18 PM
3

Yes
/r/seduction18/07/22 01:42 PM
322

I think a real life conversation with anyone would help some of these dudes.
/r/seduction18/07/22 12:22 PM
3

Check out rian stone. He has actual good takes. Youtube rian stone side bar. Are you in shape or a fat fuck? If fat fuck then that your first thing you work on.
/r/seduction18/07/22 12:04 PM
-1

Read when I say no I feel guilty Follow 2 3rds rule. Be busy. Displine.
/r/seduction18/07/22 02:38 AM
1

2 3rd rule for you. Send message for every 2 she send. Stop you from getting so emotionally invested into random on the internet.
/r/seduction17/07/22 02:16 PM
2

You can be social and introverted. Don't mate introverted an identity. When I go out or to a party I take a few minutes time out, out side to recharge. It can be done stop making excuses. Your identity is what you do.
/r/seduction17/07/22 02:04 PM
2

Of course it matters.
/r/seduction17/07/22 09:59 AM
5

Don't be fat too
/r/seduction17/07/22 09:57 AM
4

Action, pain, reflection, action, pain, reflection, action, pain reflection, action, pain, reflection, action, success, reflection, action, pain, reflection, action pain, reflection, action, success, reflection, action, pain reflection, action success, reflection, action, success reflection, action pain, reflection then confindence.
/r/seduction17/07/22 09:02 AM
3

Your phone is not the reason you're not getting laid
/r/seduction17/07/22 07:07 AM
1

You get confindence by actions and getting a positive response from the world
/r/seduction17/07/22 05:30 AM
2

This
/r/seduction17/07/22 04:56 AM
5

You're 30 and can't drive? Dude, come on. I mean I unless you live in New York or London or something. But still it's independence. I just got back from a 26 hour drive to a remote beach because I had 20 days off. Get a car and get a skill that pays.
/r/seduction16/07/22 12:42 PM
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Leaving her on read was the best move. Wait a bit then just ask her out. With a time and place.
/r/seduction16/07/22 12:18 PM
1

Or shooting down dudes is a way to flex on their mates.
/r/seduction16/07/22 12:16 PM
1

Eye contact a 1 2 3 4 look away. Eye contact a 1 2 3 4.
/r/seduction16/07/22 12:16 PM
4

Then died in poverty.
/r/seduction16/07/22 11:44 AM
1

Are you talking about real world examples you have encounter in real life?
/r/seduction16/07/22 10:58 AM
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I don't think most man can be happy unless they have the ability to get laid.
/r/seduction16/07/22 10:55 AM
4

Well apps have height filters......so you'll need to approach in real life.
/r/seduction16/07/22 10:27 AM
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By doing.
/r/seduction16/07/22 09:47 AM
1

Sounds like nice guys
/r/seduction16/07/22 09:07 AM
4

Just say nah.
/r/seduction16/07/22 09:02 AM
1

Yes
/r/seduction15/07/22 11:12 PM
4

There's a hole in my heart as deep as a well....
/r/seduction15/07/22 11:08 PM
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Go and integrate yourself in a circle who does. That'd what I did when I hit my 30s and everyone either had kids or stopped doing anything interesting. It'll happen to you!
/r/seduction15/07/22 10:59 AM
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For some reason I read this to the tune of "Fast car".
/r/seduction15/07/22 10:47 AM
1

So just once?
/r/seduction15/07/22 10:45 AM
1

How can you do kino without going out on dates?
/r/seduction15/07/22 10:14 AM
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Girls like to have sex with hot dudes. They just don't like anyone they know that they like having sex with hot dude.
/r/seduction15/07/22 09:19 AM
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Subtext is didn't like you enough for second date. Move on and try again
/r/seduction15/07/22 08:09 AM
1

stop getting so obsessed with a random you have not even met. You need more options and stuff going on in your life that you don't even pay attention to when she texts back. But you're an orbiter. She texts back when she is bored. That's all
/r/seduction15/07/22 08:03 AM
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Just do it. He may call he may not. You can't control that, you can control what you do though. Other option is to do nothing. Then that's same as not calling.
/r/seduction15/07/22 07:54 AM
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No it's not. You can approach in real life. I do it's mostly positive or polite at least.
/r/seduction14/07/22 11:11 PM
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Ok if you are good looking then so just go out and approach. Get shot down and eventually you will find positive response. You don't have to drink to go to bars just get some tonic.
/r/seduction14/07/22 10:55 PM
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What? You guys can risk your jobs but we have seminar after seminar about sexual harassment and women encouraged to apply for every job opening. It's a racket. So the risk is there. Might not happen but there is a probability it might.
/r/seduction14/07/22 06:01 AM
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I like my high paying corporate job too much to add additional risk to it.
/r/seduction14/07/22 02:48 AM
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Do not be a whiny child. These are skills that can be learnt. You can learn these skills. You just need to be a pussy and force yourself to get into uncomfortable situations. Giving up without trying failing and trying again is pathetic. Do you not want to be pathetic? Listen you are going to die one day, do you want the rest of your life to be like it is currently or do you want to take what you have left and live correctly. It will take pain and work. Over a year or 2 depending on how much you…
/r/seduction13/07/22 03:25 PM
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I'm an introvert and just decided to fuck my feeling emotions as they were getting in the way of what I wanted. So just push through the discomfort and pain and now life is better
/r/seduction13/07/22 01:11 PM
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You haven't talked to many girls have you?
/r/seduction13/07/22 01:09 PM
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They're call girls between 18 to 28.
/r/seduction13/07/22 01:08 PM
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What?
/r/seduction13/07/22 12:44 PM
2

Have other options. Grow up. Get other shit going on in your life. If this pisses you off then you're in for a world of hurt. Relax. Smile more, it's all just a game.
/r/seduction13/07/22 12:34 PM
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Yep you can't control other people.
/r/seduction13/07/22 12:31 PM
1

No. It is cavewoman brain not wanting to get hit with a club.
/r/seduction13/07/22 10:44 AM
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Go to the gym. Hold eye contact Have boundaries Have a core. What do you Do? Have opinions. Don't agree with everyone Fuck Be happy and giver of good feelings. Doing the above helps with that.
/r/seduction13/07/22 10:03 AM
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Why not both?
/r/seduction13/07/22 09:02 AM
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Are you not fat? Are you social? Can you be witty and keep eye contact?
/r/seduction13/07/22 08:46 AM
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Nah. If she wanted to you would have. Shoot maybe in a month or 2. Don't except anything. If you see her again don't bring it up. Be a bit amused.
/r/seduction13/07/22 07:54 AM
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A joke
/r/seduction13/07/22 06:00 AM
-1

Yeh, I'm in Australia lots of Asian girl like this. Like my ex. As a 6 2 Caucasian uberman what advice do you actually need lol.
/r/seduction12/07/22 10:52 AM
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Or approach in real life. But yeah give me $500 and give you all the secret knowledge
/r/seduction12/07/22 10:48 AM
4

Get the worst blow out possible game. Who can get shot down the most.
/r/seduction12/07/22 10:45 AM
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Lol, is this serious??
/r/seduction12/07/22 10:19 AM
2

Are you fat?
/r/seduction11/07/22 10:11 PM
2

"It just happened". Just so happens "it just happened" can be manufactured.
/r/seduction11/07/22 04:05 PM
2

Don't be a fat fuck
/r/seduction11/07/22 03:56 PM
2

But why is this under seduction subreddit??
/r/seduction11/07/22 10:34 AM
1

Cheers. It's simple not easy.
/r/seduction11/07/22 10:31 AM
1

Just type troy Francis into youtube.
/r/seduction11/07/22 04:57 AM
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Relationship? it was yesterday and she driving back across country tomorrow. Still interaction we positive experience. There's your problem. You are so focused on an outcome it's messing with your head. You need to do this with out caring about the outcome assume the best but expect nothing. Guys at top of their game might have success rate of 10%.
/r/seduction11/07/22 04:56 AM
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So this is a strictly business relationship then, gotcha.
/r/seduction11/07/22 04:21 AM
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What kind of way?
/r/seduction11/07/22 04:13 AM
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I want to know you.. nah that's a bit skinny suity. Ask her opinion of the place. Thanks, meeting some people. Never actually been to the place. Any good? Probs say yeah it's alright. Great. Ask for number. Try to engage and put time constraint on interaction. I was atcoffee Asian girl sitting by self at table on phone. Said smile this seat taken. No. Mind if I join you. Then usual banter. Where from. Melbourne. Self disclosure: oh I love Melbourne great town blah blah So what doing over here. O…
/r/seduction11/07/22 03:43 AM
1

Why would you need her for an event asap? Are you her agent or something?
/r/seduction11/07/22 03:26 AM
2

Wrong mindset dude. I did some approaches yesterday with no eye contact. Went well. Caught with one today. If they're not interested they nor interested. "I've had a lot of worries in my life, most of which never happened." - Mark Twain. Stop worrying about things you can't control. Assume it will go well.
/r/seduction11/07/22 03:09 AM
1

I meant that of cause your going to make mistakes. You not good at anything worth doing straight away. Hell look at m8chael Jordan when he left NBA to play baseball then came back to basketball. Look at the big drop in his stats. Cause he wasn't practising. Wait. What is your profession?
/r/seduction11/07/22 01:28 AM
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Also they were not told they were personally oppressing women their entire life and they should feel guilty for their gender. Fucked a lot of guys up I imagine these days.
/r/seduction11/07/22 12:53 AM
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I don't yesterday met girl at coffee shop department store, video game store and on the street.
/r/seduction11/07/22 12:52 AM
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When I say no I feel guilty by manwell(?) SMITH written in the 70s. I gots it on audible. Rian youtube channel. Just type it into youtube and you'll find the info I'm talking about. But that is irrelevant unless you take action. What action do you take? I don't know, you need to ask yourself what do you want? Write it down what do you want, cause you are going to die and I'd rather improve my lot than complain and be miserable like so many of my generation. Dicks. You can do it if you want it en…
/r/seduction11/07/22 12:34 AM
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It was rolled out to girls first due to they're higher risk of further complications from it and it takes time to produce enough. Now anyone can get it. Not cheap, but hell what would you rather have few hundred extra dollars or no genital warts??
/r/seduction11/07/22 12:29 AM
1

Oh so every other hobbies, sport or skill you master straight away then??? Don't worry they're big girls, they'll be fine. But you need to put yourself first. Mental point of origin and all that. Really read when I say no I feel guilty it is a gem.
/r/seduction11/07/22 12:27 AM
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Well first, I dropped a bunch of weight through mostly intermittent fasting and gym. Getting myself back above that attractiveness threshold. Which 30kg later I did. Fuck I was fat. Never again. Then got my logistics sorted. Where do people I want to find hang out. Bar district. So got apartment near there. Then went scouting for a few bars. Not big ones smaller ones that had regular groups of people meet up. When I found a group of regulars. Started chatting to them, building repore. Then start…
/r/seduction11/07/22 12:24 AM
1

Tasty
/r/seduction11/07/22 12:13 AM
2

Well that's good.
/r/seduction11/07/22 12:13 AM
3

Not weird. Thats a good one to read, do the exercises. Also through in when I say no I feel guilty. A great supplement to that is the sidebar series on rian stone's youtube channel. Breaks it all down, helped me alot. But remember: YOU HAVE TO APPROACH
/r/seduction10/07/22 10:43 PM
2

I did read the ape that understood the universe recently. Good read.
/r/seduction10/07/22 10:37 PM
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Nope. It's deep in our caveman brain to have approach anxiety. So we would not get kicked out of the tribe for hitting on the chiefs 4th wife and then get eaten by sabre-toothed tigers. Ape that understood the universe is a great read. But since we live in cities of millions and with such abundance that instinct is obsolete. Take work to get through that. Most people can't/won't. So do this. Don't be fat Have a skill that pays. Be socially active. Especially when you hit your 30s as most of your…
/r/seduction10/07/22 10:05 PM
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Treat everything as amusing intriguing or ambivalent. Amused mastery or agree and amplify. Wow nice shirt, I thought you were gay. I know right, I have to fight off gay dudes with a stick. Something like that.
/r/seduction10/07/22 10:00 PM
2

Well you're doing more than majority. Keep at it
/r/seduction10/07/22 09:55 PM
3

Good. Give us a field report.
/r/seduction10/07/22 09:51 PM
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No times times not changed too much. How many cold approaches have you done? You gone through the side by. Sorting out your unattractive behaviours?
/r/seduction10/07/22 09:49 PM
5

That's do it. Eye contact and open body language is a must. You should read when I say no I feel guilty or audio book. Then do it. Because I'm guess you don't have assertive skills either. Just do it. Or you know, don't and live the rest of your extremely finite life like this.
/r/seduction10/07/22 09:31 PM
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Hpv warts. A joke on if a symptom of covid was similar to hpv.
/r/seduction10/07/22 09:12 PM
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If covid gave you genital warts I'm sure there would not be as much resistance to it.lol
/r/seduction10/07/22 09:09 PM
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Yeh tons. Actually you gotta get out of here soon, next one will be here any minute.
/r/seduction10/07/22 09:07 PM
18

Yeh common, suck it up chap. Get someone else to go, but go. You can't control other people.
/r/seduction10/07/22 09:06 PM
73

Well at least there is a hpv vaccine now. Not one for herpes though
/r/seduction10/07/22 09:04 PM
3

Yeh you would. With your body language and cadence of speech. They good at spotting it.
/r/seduction10/07/22 09:03 PM
3

I'm 34. Separated. Most mates lost spark to do anything or kids as is common at that age. So I moved from the burbs to the city and over a year integrated into a new social group of mostly 20 somethings. Going to house parties again and getting laid. It's great. You should give it a try. It took a lot of work and pushing through caveman brain anxiety but worth it. Happiness is a choice. Not a single choice, a series of choices made hundreds of times. Takes work and getting out of comfort zone an…
/r/seduction10/07/22 08:59 PM
2

Cold approach works. Did it today. It's fun. Once you get over the approach anxiety. Which is just your stupid caveman brain not wanting to get kicked out of the tribe for hitting on the chiefs 3rd wife and then getting eaten by sabre-toothed tigers.
/r/seduction10/07/22 08:55 PM
3

Well that and the 9:1 male:female ratio on the apps
/r/seduction10/07/22 08:53 PM
5

A lot of this is caused by covert contracts in their heads.
/r/seduction10/07/22 08:50 PM
3

Go posit this question to assholeconsulting. He'll tell you
/r/seduction10/07/22 08:47 PM
2

Why is it wrong to be attracted to older women?
/r/seduction10/07/22 05:52 PM
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Just direct. Don't get invested in the response. Odds are it'll be a no. But it doesn't matter. Stop focusing on one girl. It is a poor stratergy. Have you ever cold approached?
/r/seduction10/07/22 05:51 PM
1

Redhotpie. Though that might be Australian exclusive.
/r/seduction10/07/22 05:48 PM
1

Can't control other people. Focus on making your life not suck. Meet new people. Get a skill that pays. Don't fuck up by having kids you can't afford, debt or worthless education. This doesn't matter in the long run.
/r/seduction10/07/22 05:47 PM
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It's chemicals in your brain. Maybe if this is a pattern you should analyse why this keeps happening. Maybe too much too soon. Maybe you get far too emotionally invested far too quickly. Relax, smile more it's just a game.
/r/seduction10/07/22 05:42 PM
1

Ask for a selfish with an okay sign with her left hand.
/r/seduction10/07/22 05:39 PM
2

What?
/r/seduction10/07/22 05:36 PM
1

You can't control other people's actions. You can control yours. Are you like 15 or something? Just relax. It's fine. What are you grateful for? Ask that question to your self every morning. Trust it makes brain better.
/r/seduction10/07/22 05:32 PM
1

Um. Aren't the very long conversations proper conversations? You're all over the place. Go for a run, clear your mind.
/r/seduction10/07/22 05:17 PM
1

I had free night. It was raining, nobody knew was out. Was looking after daughter when there was a big night out. Drove to regular bar in city. It was empty. Went to the casino play blackjack for 3hrs won $400. Had a couple of drinks. Chatted to people at table. Chatted with Thai woman got number. Went home. Pretty good solo night.
/r/seduction10/07/22 05:15 PM
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Look for free information in the conversation. Self disclosure about what you think about topics. Look at body language. Kino if body language is open. Lead the date.
/r/seduction10/07/22 05:10 PM
2

When I say no I feel guilty.
/r/seduction10/07/22 05:07 PM
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Fogging. Yeh, I can see that not replying is passing you off. Negative inquiry. I don't understand what about me being too busy to respond straight away is wrong? Or joke with it. Or set boundary of saying I'm busy so with not always respond straight away.
/r/seduction10/07/22 04:59 PM
1

But are you not together at each other's sides? After getting rejected. ... But you miss him.. What?
/r/seduction10/07/22 04:50 PM
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You don't care. You have much more important shit to do right? You have other prospects right? It doesn't matter.
/r/seduction10/07/22 01:28 PM
1

Need more information than being "effeminate".
/r/seduction10/07/22 12:32 PM
1

Yeh and she wants to flex on her friends about the man she locked down. Women have preferences for guys who are "better" than them. Also https://ifstudies.org/blog/better-educated-women-still-prefer-higher-earning-husbands Men and women are not the same.
/r/seduction10/07/22 07:36 AM
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Treat it as a joke. Amusing, intriguing and ambivalent. Hey if you can get her, I'll throw in the truck for free.
/r/seduction10/07/22 04:35 AM
1

Lol.
/r/seduction10/07/22 04:32 AM
2

Well if you know what you want and that is what you want more power to you
/r/seduction10/07/22 04:31 AM
5

I don't understand. How is this "toxic shit"?
/r/seduction10/07/22 04:31 AM
1

It was a shit test.
/r/seduction09/07/22 10:26 AM
1

Try reading when I say no I feel guilty. That could help.
/r/seduction09/07/22 10:25 AM
1

Don't be fat and don't have debt is above average these days.
/r/seduction09/07/22 10:24 AM
1

English first language not? Do you have logistics? Have you eliminated unattractive behaviours? Doing kino escalation? What's her body language like during the date? 3 dates at the beach? Take me to the arcade
/r/seduction09/07/22 08:44 AM
2

This is dumb.
/r/seduction13/06/22 04:12 PM
1

Long distance relationships are not a thing. This clearly is not a thing.
/r/seduction13/06/22 03:55 PM
2

Don't mess it up by getting a fancy car and a huge house while you are broke with your massive loans.
/r/seduction13/06/22 03:52 PM
1

I bet your personal life is really really sub average, if your distracting yourself with bullshit like this.
/r/seduction12/06/22 03:55 PM
3

Why are you not approaching?
/r/seduction12/06/22 10:20 AM
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Rule -1 don't be fat. Rule -0.5 don't be skinning fat.
/r/seduction12/06/22 10:17 AM
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Or maybe didn't do anything. Got bored, busy, another guy, dead who knows. You can't control the response, you need to be talking to more prospects. Always us the 2/3rds rules. For every 3 you receive send 2. Stops you getting to invested.
/r/seduction10/06/22 11:30 AM
2

Wow wow, I'm not that easy.
/r/seduction10/06/22 05:16 AM
1

Again ignore her words. Look at her actions.
/r/seduction08/06/22 01:08 AM
0

No. I just want people to not be fat. It hurts my soul.
/r/seduction08/06/22 01:05 AM
1

That's nice.
/r/seduction07/06/22 02:48 PM
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You can't control other people dude. You can only control yourself. Even that can be difficult
/r/seduction07/06/22 02:47 PM
1

You don't be fat too.
/r/seduction07/06/22 01:53 PM
2

Better stop being fat first.
/r/seduction07/06/22 10:39 AM
1

This is dumb
/r/seduction07/06/22 10:36 AM
1

Get this disney fantasy out of your head kid.
/r/seduction07/06/22 09:49 AM
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Unless you can put yourself in the top. Yeah. It is the nature of the market place. guys have far more demand for young women than visa versa. Because of our x8-12 testosterone levels. Make us wanna fuck alot. Plus skewing relative value of men and women. An average 5 guy is perceived as a 3 an average 5 girl is perceived as an 7. Due to the amount of male attention they can get online. But it can be gamed. I'm having fun.
/r/seduction07/06/22 09:44 AM
2

Your picture need to be spectacular to be above the rest. It a 10 to 1 male female ratio on tinder.
/r/seduction07/06/22 09:09 AM
1

Pretty hard to. You could try but might damage current relationship. So you can try but that is one of the risks.
/r/seduction07/06/22 09:04 AM
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Conflict avoidance. The boyfriend line is used (not saying in this case she doesn't have one cause how could I know that) as a no because in caveman time a no could be a club to the head. Either way it was a no. But this interaction has made her uncomfortable and anxious. Things she now probs associates with you. So she avoids them ie by avoiding you. Take the loss dude move on. She doesn't have feelings for you dude. Don't listen to words, look at actions. This is your ego talking.
/r/seduction07/06/22 08:56 AM
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They're idiots. They don't know what they're doing. They are jerry springer. There are better sources out there. The basics like being muscular and frame and putting your self at the the center of every decision you make. But this holding women accountable nonsense is worthless. I mean how do you think calling out a woman for not having sex with you in other women in all situations get you closer to your goal?
/r/seduction07/06/22 08:32 AM
3

Why do you care so much though?
/r/seduction07/06/22 06:45 AM
1

Be attractive don't be unattractive
/r/seduction07/06/22 06:44 AM
3

You get confindence by doing. Positive feed back from the world, you have to stop caring about the outcome and just go. Think what is the worst possible thing that can happen. You can handle it.
/r/seduction07/06/22 05:47 AM
1

Hmm, well generally girls are the passive participants and guy are the ones that get past their filters. Try being super direct and smiley. You do kino on them.
/r/seduction07/06/22 05:44 AM
1

Air bnb? Book for a week.
/r/seduction07/06/22 02:36 AM
-1

Did you get fat?
/r/seduction07/06/22 02:35 AM
1

Brush your teeth
/r/seduction07/06/22 02:34 AM
1

Part of it but this is such a basic bitch analysis.
/r/seduction07/06/22 02:21 AM
1

Well why would they be interested in you if you don't have much going on?
/r/seduction07/06/22 02:20 AM
1

Rian stone mids watch series.
/r/seduction07/06/22 02:15 AM
1

Smile more?
/r/seduction07/06/22 01:59 AM
1

Test. Move to touch her arm, if she pulls back to much to fast. If not good.
/r/seduction07/06/22 01:59 AM
1

Where else is there?
/r/seduction04/06/22 04:37 AM
2

Doesn't everyone?
/r/seduction03/06/22 01:27 PM
2

Yeh that would be weird. Or maybe it wouldn't. Wouldn't the phone be locked?
/r/seduction03/06/22 01:25 PM
1

Smoking area is the best. You have good conversation.
/r/seduction03/06/22 01:21 PM
1

You could just let it be seen. Desired by other women is a good thing. You're dating not married.
/r/seduction03/06/22 01:19 PM
1

Pay for it. Go to the gym. Don't be socially retarded.
/r/seduction03/06/22 01:14 PM
1

Look for free information during the conversation.
/r/seduction01/06/22 04:39 PM
9

You guys don't fuck do you?
/r/seduction01/06/22 04:25 PM
3

Is this getting to energy vampire levels?
/r/seduction01/06/22 04:25 PM
2

Yeah me too, they are just so fucking hot right? Agree and amplify.
/r/seduction27/05/22 01:27 AM
2

In groups they flex to their friends over shooting down guys. Could have been that but who knows. What exactly mean insist? You can't control other people dude.
/r/seduction27/05/22 01:26 AM
2

Well yeah. What's the other option? Be vague?
/r/seduction25/05/22 03:10 PM
5

It doesn't mean anything if it's not physical. Leave her a read for a few days them ask her out. If she flakes again then we'll medium is the message is it not? Besides you're busy doing stuff. You don't have time to giving out attention. You have options.
/r/seduction25/05/22 02:58 PM
14

Ask her out and prove or disprove the hypothosis.
/r/seduction25/05/22 02:29 PM
1

Taking action. You don't magically get confindence, you get confindence from past experience. So you going to have to approach and not care
/r/seduction25/05/22 09:21 AM
1

What? You have no contact here.
/r/seduction25/05/22 09:19 AM
2

Medium is the message. You're throwing all this attention at her causing attention inflation making it worth less. You pull back, don't call. If she doesn't then there is the message. You can't make other people do anything.
/r/seduction25/05/22 09:15 AM
1

Have other shit going on in your life so you're too busy to have time to. Have other or any options
/r/seduction25/05/22 09:14 AM
2

Do you lift regularly? I through that shit away years ago.
/r/seduction25/05/22 09:13 AM
1

Are you fun and in shape though?
/r/seduction25/05/22 09:02 AM
1

Don't be fat. Take amazing pictures Be attractive.
/r/seduction25/05/22 08:55 AM
2

Be attractive. Don't be unattractive.
/r/seduction24/05/22 03:43 PM
1

You too invested. Stopped thinking about it, you have far more important shit to be doing than worry about than this. Or you should have, if you don't find them.
/r/seduction24/05/22 01:46 PM
1

Laughter. Smile more, it's all a game. Will it matter in a week or month? Not likely?
/r/seduction24/05/22 01:43 PM
2

You have this all backwards. You don't some how get confidence then approach women. You get confindence by actions you have already taken. So to guy confidence you have to approach and not care about the outcome. Then you eventually get positive feel back as you get better. Then you gain more confindence You are going to get old and die. Rejection is better than regret.
/r/seduction24/05/22 01:22 PM
7

How do you survive and get income? This story doesn't add up.
/r/seduction23/05/22 08:39 AM
1

Dude you still like that?
/r/seduction20/05/22 04:35 PM
1

Be fun. Don't be fat. Smile more it's all a game.
/r/seduction20/05/22 04:34 PM
4

Well the girl running it said she didn't think I was there for that because didn't have sad man meat body language. Also heard girls through the air vents express their disappointment at the selection. So of girls were fun. Wasn't bad exp. Just treat it as a game.
/r/seduction20/05/22 04:33 PM
30

Yeah. Went to speed dating event once and ended up dating the girl running the event. You can make your own opportunities. Smile more. It's all just a game.
/r/seduction20/05/22 03:05 AM
1

What you mean? Expect from you?
/r/seduction20/05/22 03:02 AM
1

Plus will cause some anxiety. That's good.
/r/seduction20/05/22 03:00 AM
-9

Is it? What practical actions are you going to take to improve your outcomes?? It doesn't say anything. If being yourself mean bring a socially retarded, fat boring guy with poor hygiene then you don't want to be yourself now do you?
/r/seduction19/05/22 01:29 PM
1

Don't be fat. Lift, 3-4 times a weak minimum. Learn a frame work, practice socials skills, read no more Mr nice guy, when I say no I feel guilty, book of pool, crush convert contracts, watch sidebar supplements rian stone, don't be a pussy. You have to approach. Confidence comes with positive past experience. It comes AFTER action and work not before. Be attractive. Don't be unattractive.
/r/seduction19/05/22 01:24 PM
1

Glad you put in the effort to read up on it. Read only 1st step. Need to practically improve.
/r/seduction18/05/22 04:20 AM
3

Also preselection and indicate you are not a murderer. Lol
/r/seduction18/05/22 04:12 AM
2

Social skills are well a skill. Takes practice. I think these days, social anxiety is simply lack of practice.
/r/seduction15/05/22 08:11 AM
1

Read no more Mr nice guy. Rian stone sidebar series is a good sublimation to it. Also when I say no I feel guilty. They will destroy your life if you keep using them.
/r/seduction15/05/22 08:09 AM
1

Being aloof. It is attractive. A factor I'm it at least.
/r/seduction15/05/22 08:06 AM
0

What do you like? Why aren't you social? You dont have practice?
/r/seduction13/05/22 07:37 AM
1

The medium is the message. If she was into you she would find time.
/r/seduction11/05/22 10:25 AM
1

You are fucked up in the head. You see a girl on a bus who is standing and there is a seat next to you and you think she should sit there because you decided. Look up what a covert contract is because eim sure your life is full of them
/r/seduction11/05/22 10:24 AM
35

Stop treating her like a friend.
/r/seduction11/05/22 10:20 AM
2

Just bring the one which has the biggest box you have.
/r/seduction09/05/22 11:24 AM
2

Not more all.
/r/seduction01/05/22 10:14 AM
-11

Exactly. Went on a date with a 19 year when 33. Put stat's into Igotstandards bro and wad in the 1%. Can do what I God damn we'll please thanks.
/r/seduction16/04/22 09:36 AM
17

Cope. Who cares?
/r/seduction16/04/22 09:35 AM
1

It's helps but if you don't have anything else to back it up it is like putting lips stick on a pig
/r/seduction16/04/22 06:41 AM
1

Well that is the important thing
/r/seduction16/04/22 06:34 AM
1

I hope you studied something that pays dude.
/r/seduction15/04/22 07:23 AM
2

Attraction comfort seduction. Those are the phases
/r/seduction13/04/22 02:11 PM
2

Tanner Guzy is good to on male style.
/r/seduction13/04/22 02:05 PM
2

Exactly, it is the way it is. So play to win or complain. Or choose something else on The Menu
/r/seduction13/04/22 08:32 AM
2

Don't care got laid.
/r/seduction13/04/22 03:10 AM
1

It's helps. But having a world that she wants to be apart of ie becoming the most interesting man in the world is main way. So keep I'm shape Do interesting hobbies Have a varied social circle Pick a profession that pays. Don't cripple yourself with a useless degree like so many of my generation and yours have. Have fun. Be the fun guy.
/r/seduction13/04/22 03:07 AM
1

Don't care got laid. Stop getting in your head about it. If you want so info stirely Cooper channel has some good tips and tricks. Just keep on going, it pretty normal with a new girl and you're a teen. You're killing it.
/r/seduction12/04/22 02:08 PM
11

You know what would help. If you were dating multiple women. If she saw you with another woman I'm sure that'll have an effect. But yeah, don't contact here unless she initiates. Use 2/3s rule. Text 2 for everything 3 texts you send. Just a trick to stop getting you emotionally invested. Or appear desperate with no other options, which is unattractive. Frame it differently. She is drifting away but that's OK because I'm a switched on guy that can find someone else if I want to.
/r/seduction12/04/22 02:05 PM
15

Awesome to hear mate. Keep it up. So few people can put in the effort to change. You've changed your mental models.
/r/seduction12/04/22 01:34 PM
1

You should go to the gym
/r/seduction12/04/22 04:31 AM
2

For pointing out you don't know what a question is. You dumb ass.
/r/seduction12/04/22 04:21 AM
2

Didn't ask a question. Dumb ass.
/r/seduction12/04/22 04:12 AM
1

Life is fucking amazing. Go eat more fat ass.
/r/seduction12/04/22 04:05 AM
-1

Sounds like what an incel would say. Bet you're fat as fuck too.🤣
/r/seduction12/04/22 04:01 AM
-2

You don't fuck
/r/seduction12/04/22 03:51 AM
6

You don't have mind power Nd assume you're not a rapist. You can't control other people's actions.
/r/seduction12/04/22 03:50 AM
1

Watch any yet? He address specifically this. Also do you know there is a genital warts vaccine? I took the shit out of that!
/r/seduction11/04/22 10:30 AM
3

Watch stirling coopers channel. Pretty much fits the bill. Put I get it, it's fine.
/r/seduction10/04/22 07:03 PM
1

Well do you want to? Things don't just happen for guys. You have to work you're self up to be desirable. Gym. Social skills. Game. Rian stone has some great stuff on these. You being passive and letting life happen to you is the worst situation
/r/seduction10/04/22 01:36 AM
1

There is something wrong with everyone. No.
/r/seduction09/04/22 10:58 PM
1

What is?
/r/seduction09/04/22 10:56 PM
1

Fine, give em that
/r/seduction09/04/22 10:56 PM
2

Depends on the age. If you haven't fucked by the time you're 30 (some say 25) there is something wrong
/r/seduction09/04/22 02:09 PM
1

Met a few trans people. They not done that, they been pretty okay. Just the activist grifters who try and make a living out of it that ruin it for the people they try and represent.
/r/seduction09/04/22 01:03 PM
1

Between 6 and 10 msg you send.
/r/seduction09/04/22 07:58 AM
1

Logistics. Get that sorted. Moved near the city it is great. Also keep your place clean
/r/seduction09/04/22 07:57 AM
1

Well when trying to attract a peahen.
/r/seduction09/04/22 06:42 AM
2

Group usually not ideal. They like to flex to their friends by shooting down guys
/r/seduction09/04/22 06:22 AM
3

Dude nobody does.
/r/seduction09/04/22 06:15 AM
8

This confirms the low confidence assessment. You emotional reacted and focused on the tone of the message not the information he was giving. He was trying to teach you about subtext. You ain't shit and that's okay.
/r/seduction09/04/22 06:07 AM
1

Sounds like what a nice guy would do.
/r/seduction09/04/22 06:03 AM
16

Like a peacock.
/r/seduction09/04/22 06:00 AM
1

Why don't you have shit to do ?
/r/seduction07/04/22 10:53 AM
1

Are you fat?
/r/seduction07/04/22 10:52 AM
7

Emotional tampon.
/r/seduction07/04/22 10:51 AM
1

Nice field report man. Cheers.
/r/seduction07/04/22 09:25 AM
10

Jesus, things are worse than I thought. Keep it up buddy.
/r/seduction03/04/22 04:23 PM
1

Yeah Nice guy. Sneaky fucker game. Not ideal.
/r/seduction03/04/22 04:05 PM
1

What arr you talking about? You mean be a Nice guy?
/r/seduction03/04/22 11:16 AM
40

People don't like other moving out of the box they categorised them to. It take additional mental effort. Definitely do not do option 2. This will sound cringe but 'the king does not need to tell everyone they're the king. It should be self evident." It is not attractive. Also you should not care. Everything you encounter should be Amusing, Intriguing or Aloof. You just need to try to be aloof to it. Or joke about your change. Keep it up.
/r/seduction02/04/22 12:02 PM
11

Have have such contempt for majority of my generation.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen02/04/22 08:46 AM
1

Guy sounds like an arsehole. But he is attractive and not acting unattractive when with these women. What is he doing that gets him this success then emulate it.
/r/seduction02/04/22 08:30 AM
1

Intermittent fasting. Lost 60lb a few years ago without even exercising consistently. Now I eat one meal a day most days. I dont put restrictions on that one meal. Simple as hell.
/r/seduction02/04/22 08:27 AM
5

Intermittent fasting was the breakthrough for me. Eat once a day. No limit on what I eat. It is so damn simple.
/r/seduction02/04/22 08:25 AM
2

Because you're fat as fuck. Obese. Why should they? Lose the damn weight.
/r/seduction02/04/22 08:24 AM
1

Back to my place to feed tropical fish.
/r/seduction01/04/22 02:36 PM
2

Good, and I'm glad you took criticism well. Reddit sugar coats everything. Or people lie to you about it so they think they're a good person whilst the guy continues to fail at life. I've lost 60lb a few year ago and kept it off through intermittent fasting. I wasn't even exercising consistently then or had a nutritional plan. Everything is better. Get fasting app, it helps with something actively tracking you. Start with the lowest 14 or 16. Then go one meal a day. Hunger is a suggestion not an…
/r/seduction01/04/22 07:06 AM
1

Your BMI is 38. You're class 2 obese dude ie fat as fuck.Oh people think you are only class 1 obese? That's better. If you want your life to be better: Lose the damn weight. Or don't, be a permavirgin and enjoy eating, without any guilt or shame. My God, nobody else pointing out this is the main issue here?
/r/seduction31/03/22 08:52 PM
4

You're your own judge. People will do that
/r/seduction31/03/22 08:42 PM
1

This didn't come out of no where. I'm guess you had zero boundaries and things have just been getting progressively worse right? Do you live together? Do you have any kids together. If not fucking cut her loose. Then don't get into another relationship until you fix shit. If you do then you ha e to think more strategically. Dm me if you want.
/r/seduction31/03/22 02:24 PM
1

It was a shit test dude. Cock funny. Amusing
/r/seduction30/03/22 10:19 AM
2

You're a natural kid. Just don't fuck up by getting someone pregas or getting a useless degree or stupidly expensive car.
/r/seduction29/03/22 03:24 PM
2

Kayfabe. You know we not going have sleep with each other tonight right? Then fucks later? She said it because she is thinking about it. It is just the game. Learn what kayfabe is. Also take words to seriously, look at actions.
/r/seduction29/03/22 07:43 AM
1

Don't know that. Just there is attraction there at some level
/r/seduction28/03/22 10:22 PM
2

Exactly. But it a waste of time to discuss fucking with guys who don't fuck
/r/seduction28/03/22 10:20 PM
22

Yeh. Don't take them too seriously.
/r/seduction28/03/22 02:32 PM
172

Shit test. Seeing how you would react. Testing you. Should have said oh yeah was I any good in your imagination or something like that.
/r/seduction28/03/22 02:02 PM
1

I've tried nothing and I'm all out of ideas! 😄
/r/seduction28/03/22 03:52 AM
1

Are you serious? Yes it fricken matters.
/r/seduction28/03/22 12:21 AM
1

Just to get this straight. You're asking for advise on how to ask your mates for advise on picking up women. If they're mates why can't you speak candidly with one of them? Guess you're very young. Check out rian stone his content is great.
/r/seduction27/03/22 05:14 AM
1

Sounds like you got a bunch of covert contracts going on in your head
/r/seduction27/03/22 04:55 AM
7

Sweet, youee not a fat fuck, got that out of the way. Well your in shape. you're socially isolated, not healthy. I'll tell you what I did My story 18month ago relationship of 6 years ended, most of my friends don't really do much no more. So I decided I wanted to cultivate a new group of friends. So went out to find a bar. I then started talking to regulars, a diverse group of people. Mostly younger in 20s and early 30s( I'm 33) So chatted to them and over a year. I started going out with them, …
/r/seduction27/03/22 02:20 AM
2

Are you in shape? Are you doing anything to be more social? Have you taken any action in improving your situation at all?
/r/seduction27/03/22 01:55 AM
1

What have you done to improve yourself? You in great shape? You know how to dress? You're socially calibrated and know how to converse? You know any game?
/r/seduction27/03/22 01:53 AM
17

I think v taper is just if not more important. Nothing worse than a pear.
/r/seduction27/03/22 01:14 AM
1

Well maybe there is a connection to that and never getting laid. Go to the gym and start a weight lifting program. Strong lift 5 by 5. Or you know don't and continue with your subpar experience.
/r/seduction27/03/22 01:13 AM
1

Are you in shape?
/r/seduction27/03/22 01:08 AM
1

I'm confused. Why do they think you going out you will never get girls? Are you suppose to get them by staying in bed all day?
/r/seduction26/03/22 05:48 AM
3

Accused by who? What wrong with that?
/r/seduction26/03/22 03:57 AM
17

Changes with age.
/r/seduction26/03/22 03:56 AM
1

Poem something.
/r/seduction26/03/22 03:19 AM
1

Jesus. What arseholes. I would just pick up and leave. Scumbags
/r/seduction26/03/22 03:19 AM
1

And then what happen?
/r/seduction26/03/22 03:17 AM
1

They got their bitch shields up.
/r/seduction26/03/22 01:08 AM
1

Fuck your feelings man. This is all in your head. You get confidenceeby doing and positive responses by the world. I mean, you are in great shape. How is your sleep and finances? Don't watch the news if you do, they want you scared. Is your diet on point? Are you socializing much? Have you tried writing? Journaling your thoughts and fears down brings them into the light and shows they are not so bad. Rianstone has good info out there that may help you I can't tell you what to do and can't give m…
/r/seduction25/03/22 05:35 AM
1

Really? Why did you go to university and not trade school? Welders make more than majority of graduates.
/r/seduction25/03/22 01:13 AM
1

Be tall be Jacked. What learning disability?
/r/seduction24/03/22 01:04 PM
1

Don't take ssris. I chucked them in the bin years ago. They fuck you up. Your feelings are bad and you should feel bad for having them. You are not your feelings, you can acknowledge them and still force your self to do what they prevent you to do. Or you can stay enslaved to them
/r/seduction24/03/22 05:30 AM
-1

Because yourself could be unattractive and shit.
/r/seduction24/03/22 03:26 AM
2

Unplug, get in your car and drive to another place for a few days without anyone else. Just quiet. And peace.
/r/seduction24/03/22 03:24 AM
1

Yeah. Not night clubs. Bur bars. It's how I built a new social circle.
/r/seduction24/03/22 03:15 AM
1

I feel too anxious go up to that group of people. I feel sad and don't want to go on that date. I feel tired and don't want to go to the gym. Understand? This place was smaller and had alot of regulars. You'll need to observe and discover that yourself.
/r/seduction23/03/22 04:48 PM
1

No no. Attractive 6 2 go to the gym all that. I know a fair few gymcels though. Just can't talk at all. But yeah, if you want girls going to the gym and getting jacked will be dingle great step towards that goal. You still need social skills.
/r/seduction23/03/22 04:40 PM
1

Come on how good looking are we talking here? To have this siren like effect on people. I just gotta know...
/r/seduction23/03/22 01:11 PM
1

That he is not very original.
/r/seduction23/03/22 01:04 PM
0

Your feelings are bad and you should feel bad for having them. You are r not your feelings. Expose is the best therapy
/r/seduction23/03/22 01:02 PM
1

Had to force myself. But I find the saying, "You're feeling are bad and you should feel bad for having them". Just decide what you want and take action. It take time and consistent effort and if you can be in shape, it's easier. I work fifo tuseday morning fly back tusday evening then back next Tuseday. I went a couple times a week. Forced being social I find it draining but also like being around people, can be hell sometimes. Then got invited to private Facebook chat then started getting invit…
/r/seduction23/03/22 12:33 PM
1

Moved closer to city then started to go to a bar regularly. Which had regulars. There then over a year I integrates into the community. It takes time and a lot of effort to this
/r/seduction23/03/22 09:49 AM
1

So ignant
/r/seduction23/03/22 05:58 AM
2

Yeah. 100% I'm 33 and most friends now stay at home not doing much. So I went out and over a year cultivate a new friendship group with a bunch of 20 somethings. Been great.
/r/seduction23/03/22 05:24 AM
1

All just kayfabe. I wanted to come to your house because I wanted to work around the park. At 8pm. We didn't walk around the park for very long.
/r/seduction21/03/22 05:01 PM
1

Go do stuff. Put yourself in uncomfortable social situations.
/r/seduction15/03/22 10:11 AM
1

Pretty much yeah. Not impossible. But harder.
/r/seduction15/03/22 09:20 AM
1

Don't care. Got laid. Good job dude.
/r/seduction15/03/22 08:57 AM
5

Do you know the word "No"? You should give it a try next time she make a servanty call.
/r/seduction14/03/22 01:47 PM
1

Back forward up down start. That is the secret code.
/r/seduction11/03/22 03:41 PM
1

Your feelings are bad and you should feel bad for having them. Come on dude, how is this helping you?
/r/seduction11/03/22 03:33 PM
2

Be fun confident and social calibrated.
/r/seduction11/03/22 03:28 PM
1

Read up on kino escalation.
/r/seduction11/03/22 02:49 PM
1

This damn subreddit has gone to hell.
/r/seduction11/03/22 02:48 PM
1

Do what you think is best for you. You're your own judge. You don't have to care. So much emotion on here.
/r/seduction11/03/22 02:42 PM
3

You get confidence from real world positive feed back. You don't get confidence from hiding away and avoiding it. Rejection is better than regret, you're going to die so get started. Book of pook would be a good reference.
/r/seduction11/03/22 02:41 PM
1

Mmmmmok.
/r/seduction02/03/22 04:56 AM
1

Yeh but he is not going to do that. Most don't.
/r/seduction01/03/22 05:58 AM
0

Are you fat though?
/r/seduction28/02/22 12:23 PM
-1

It's easy being lazy.
/r/seduction28/02/22 12:22 PM
1

Why did you get married so young?
/r/seduction28/02/22 09:26 AM
1

That's private.
/r/seduction27/02/22 11:57 AM
1

Yeah. Go to the gym and then force your self to talk to people. Just ask the time.at the start. You only get confidence from actions you have taken in your past not from pills. Basically you got to take action. Stop being a pussy buddy. Just stop. Rejection is always better than regret.
/r/seduction26/02/22 12:26 PM
1

Your signals suck girls.
/r/seduction26/02/22 10:42 AM
1

No. Why?
/r/seduction26/02/22 05:00 AM
4

So you never practiced social skills now you're socially uncalibrated. I guess you need to practice
/r/seduction25/02/22 12:53 PM
8

Magic words magic spells.
/r/seduction25/02/22 11:27 AM
8

I'd he is not an easily manipulated chump then I guess not
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen25/02/22 10:57 AM
1

Rent a hotel?
/r/seduction25/02/22 07:40 AM
3

Trex
/r/seduction25/02/22 07:33 AM
1

Well the you're not approaching and getting shotdown
/r/seduction24/02/22 10:29 PM
-2

Just tell her you I won't date someone who doesn't have sex. Pretty simple.
/r/seduction24/02/22 11:19 AM
1

I meant it is a basic concept. Sexual selection.
/r/seduction23/02/22 02:32 PM
1

It is not easy.
/r/seduction23/02/22 02:25 PM
0

Perception of what is best
/r/seduction23/02/22 02:25 PM
1

Fair enough
/r/seduction23/02/22 02:24 PM
0

The you not getting laid?? Maybe you try a different approach.
/r/seduction23/02/22 01:29 PM
-1

You need to be a more attractive and less unattractive person Attractive Gym. Muscles. Them wardrobe and groom. Easy Not unattractive Nice guy behaviour, simply, obsequious, risk adverse, overly invested, childish, angry, poor social skills
/r/seduction23/02/22 01:28 PM
-1

Who are you right now?
/r/seduction23/02/22 01:22 PM
-1

But you can push yourself in the more desirable category. If you work at it. A lot.
/r/seduction23/02/22 01:22 PM
-5

Maybe yourself sucks and is unattractive. Then being yourself is the last thing you want to do.
/r/seduction23/02/22 01:20 PM
-2

Survival if the fittest. Best guys get most of the girls. It is pretty basic.
/r/seduction23/02/22 01:19 PM
5

Sounds like he needs to work on his assertiveness. Tell him to read when I say no I feel guilty.
/r/seduction23/02/22 01:17 PM
1

Mmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmm? That afraid Of work? So strange.
/r/seduction23/02/22 01:02 PM
1

Why did he break down? Something over a package?
/r/seduction23/02/22 12:58 PM
1

What? I'm confused. Why ???
/r/seduction23/02/22 12:49 PM
1

Magic words don't exist
/r/seduction23/02/22 10:54 AM
1

You don't have any close friend but fairly popular with social circles. Are you one of those guys that push other people boundaries with jokes etc. Then when you have your boundaries pushed you can't take it and go nuts?
/r/seduction23/02/22 10:53 AM
1

I hope you didn't study anything worthless. You'll end up like the millenials and their fluffy bunny studies degrees
/r/seduction23/02/22 08:00 AM
1

There are no magic words.
/r/seduction23/02/22 07:18 AM
3

Usually means they're attracted to you. Otherwise they would do it. It is all subconscious.
/r/seduction23/02/22 07:07 AM
1

Ummmmmm yes. If you can't be bother to Google this then yes
/r/seduction23/02/22 06:52 AM
0

You look as good as whoever you're banging. Otherwise it is redundant.
/r/seduction23/02/22 06:48 AM
3

It's all on YouTube for free anyway
/r/seduction23/02/22 05:07 AM
5

Are you serious? This is either a cruel lie or hopelessly naive. Either way you're an idiot. Why does that matter. Jesus.
/r/seduction23/02/22 05:03 AM
1

Maybe it would be better to stop torturing yourself and stopping? Sorry to say......
/r/seduction23/02/22 05:02 AM
1

I hope you are not going to college to go to parties and get a useless degree that will fincially cripple you for life.
/r/seduction22/02/22 08:14 AM
39

Don't be fat.
/r/seduction22/02/22 04:40 AM
2

Is this troll post?
/r/seduction22/02/22 04:40 AM
2

Yeah as they should. So what does that tell you? Don't be fat. One of the few things in your direct control
/r/seduction22/02/22 04:38 AM
-3

Or they say they're autistic. Or maybe they just played video games all the time and didn't get socialized. Didn't develop social skills and too scare or lazy to do that.
/r/seduction22/02/22 04:37 AM
2

That's why to make new ones
/r/seduction21/02/22 06:36 AM
1

What? Why?
/r/seduction21/02/22 06:36 AM
2

Debt
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen21/02/22 06:25 AM
2

Fucking parasite.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen21/02/22 06:25 AM
2

Youre a fat guy who lives either his parents? Yes.
/r/seduction21/02/22 06:12 AM
0

This isn't helping. Other than the approaching comments.
/r/seduction20/02/22 03:08 AM
2

Nice. No blood.
/r/seduction19/02/22 09:41 PM
2

Read chapter 3 of when I say no I feel guilty. Read the whole thing and put it into practice.
/r/seduction19/02/22 09:34 PM
1

That's cool. Surgeon?
/r/seduction19/02/22 09:29 PM
1

I sense much fear in you.
/r/seduction19/02/22 09:22 PM
2

Jesus, go to the gym or run and get that out of your nervous system. What ever happens you can handle it. Stop catastrophezing How many male friends do you have? Do you do much team physical activity. Guys give guys shit all the time, it is normal. Not bullying.
/r/seduction19/02/22 07:34 PM
4

Dude you are class 2 obese. You have a BMI of over 35. That's insane. Healthy normal range would be 180ish. Cold approach let alone cold approaching girls in their early 20s will never work for you being in that horrible physical condition. Props to your cousin. Your feelings are bad and you should feel bad for having them. Don't let feelings get in the way of what you need to do Find me a female fetish marker for fat dude. Ill wait. You need to start intmittent fasting and get a gym work out Pr…
/r/seduction19/02/22 07:26 PM
1

I'm 6 2. It's great.
/r/seduction19/02/22 07:17 PM
1

I don't say anything. They certainly don't. If they want to take it further and you don't then time to part ways. What has happened so far?
/r/seduction19/02/22 06:19 PM
1

You're attention is worthless now. No wonder she is acting like this.
/r/seduction19/02/22 06:14 PM
0

You put them on the bottom of your shoes
/r/seduction19/02/22 05:58 PM
2

I hate the gym. I do it to look good naked. As well as treating it as a medical treatment.
/r/seduction19/02/22 03:17 PM
1

Fine. Even with the 2 different kids from 3 different fathers
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen19/02/22 02:25 AM
0

What are you studying?
/r/seduction18/02/22 06:41 PM
3

Yeah I don't know your state. GL
/r/seduction18/02/22 06:33 PM
7

Well keep at it. Try intermittent fasting also.
/r/seduction18/02/22 06:30 PM
3

Do you work out?
/r/seduction18/02/22 06:25 PM
1

Fuck you bot. Typing on a phone here.
/r/seduction18/02/22 05:34 PM
0

Waste time and play games makes you sound like a 33 year old chick. You're fricken 28 dude. Relax.
/r/seduction18/02/22 05:33 PM
1

They're part of a psyop your going to get gawn op. Flee while you can!
/r/seduction18/02/22 05:29 PM
1

It isn't about the nail!!
/r/seduction18/02/22 05:28 PM
3

Well....yeah... not ideal. at least he is getting out there and trying to unautism himself. I'll at least give him that.
/r/seduction18/02/22 05:22 PM
3

Never!
/r/seduction18/02/22 05:06 PM
2

Yeahhh, lol. Well hopefully he'll learn something from it.
/r/seduction18/02/22 05:06 PM
-2

It's fun. Work is boring.
/r/seduction18/02/22 05:04 PM
2

Why? I'm sensing you're getting some norman rockwell idealism nostalgia for some thing you never saw bull, right? . It was still shitty. I like it better now.
/r/seduction18/02/22 05:00 PM
19

Don't forget saying. "I'm sorry" for no reason. The hell are you apologizing and debasing yourself for?
/r/seduction18/02/22 04:56 PM
-1

It's a point that has been raises hundreds of times. We know. Move on
/r/seduction18/02/22 04:53 PM
1

What this guy said. What you going to do about? Nothing. How does it help you? It doesn't? What's the point of this ? Nothing. Who cares? Nobodies.
/r/seduction18/02/22 04:52 PM
1

Word of mouth?? Lol. You would got up and ask, there was no other way.
/r/seduction18/02/22 04:50 PM
1

How?
/r/seduction18/02/22 11:27 AM
2

No such thing. It's a joke. Anyone who takes it seriously does not fuck
/r/seduction18/02/22 11:26 AM
2

When you reach the level of super sigma then you know.
/r/seduction18/02/22 11:25 AM
1

You didn't mention going to the gym and getting into great shape. Did you do yhat?
/r/seduction18/02/22 10:27 AM
1

Only 4?
/r/seduction17/02/22 02:42 PM
0

Well get surgery.
/r/seduction16/02/22 03:50 PM
11

Really listing celebrities? Come on
/r/seduction16/02/22 03:50 PM
11

Are you fat though? Thousands of times by 22? Most? Only do 9 and 10 bro?
/r/seduction16/02/22 03:48 PM
22

Comfort building. You don't try to shove your tongue down her throat within 30minites of knowing her. Good work
/r/seduction16/02/22 01:39 PM
2

Dude, the first thing that came to mind when I read this was pathetic. Does she like me does she like me!?! This is one of the main reasons nice guys are treated with such contempt. Your thinking like a chick. It doesn't matter, take your shot if it does not work out then fine, you should have the confidence and social skills to find another out there that does feel sexually attracted to you. Come on.
/r/seduction16/02/22 01:17 PM
1

Well if that is what you want. You're your own judge. Be cheaper at least.
/r/seduction16/02/22 07:42 AM
1

She wants your soul or kidney
/r/seduction15/02/22 11:20 PM
2

Wow I'm not that easy
/r/seduction15/02/22 11:18 PM
1

Im just not ready to have a relationship/fuck........with you
/r/seduction15/02/22 11:16 PM
1

Lol what do you think is going to happen? You're pretty much another random guy on the internet. It's not like there was ever any emotional connection between you.
/r/seduction15/02/22 11:12 PM
2

Why?
/r/seduction11/02/22 09:25 AM
2

Go and get another girl. Then she'll want the ball someone else is playing with. Don't tell her, that's retarded.
/r/seduction11/02/22 09:20 AM
1

Not do that?
/r/seduction11/02/22 09:17 AM
2

No More Mr nice guy.
/r/seduction11/02/22 09:15 AM
1

Are you a teenager? This looks like it was written by a teenager. Who has not been in a relationship before.
/r/seduction11/02/22 09:08 AM
2

What if yourself is an unattractive chode? Then you most definitely don't want to be yourself do you?
/r/seduction11/02/22 06:25 AM
1

Caring so much about what other think of what work you do is a turn off.
/r/seduction10/02/22 09:44 PM
2

Me neither I'm in Australia. I know little about social structures of India. I'm sure it changes alot considering where you are and who you are. But sink your teeth into those guy. Rian stone has help me out especially. Start with the sidebar series. No More Mr nice guy and when I say no I feel guilty.
/r/seduction10/02/22 12:12 PM
2

Awesome. You are smart. Maybe read curse of the high IQ. It might help you. Aaron clarey and rian stone youtube channels might help too. Mystery method, day bang Olde PuA books. On intersection dynamics and picking up. Mystery is on kindle could do with a read. Gendernomics and fuccfile too. I wish I had that knowledge at your age. Listen, when you go out in public nobody cares about you, you're not that important. So relax. I would read and watch the above. I would also call up your mates to ca…
/r/seduction10/02/22 12:09 PM
2

Well dude, you have a severe disadvantage in the dating game with being that short. You have to maximize other aspects of your life. You need to be in shape. Do you have a plan for work/study? You better not being going 100k in debt for a worthless degree kid. I swear you better being doing something useful that pays. Like accounting or computer science or engineering. Medicine if you are elite. If you cripple yourself with a worthless degree you'll end up like most millenials. Which country you…
/r/seduction10/02/22 11:56 AM
0

Man I really should be having other thing going on in my life other than waiting for a random on the internet to get back to me.
/r/seduction10/02/22 11:20 AM
1

It was at a house party. I'm 33 and most friend now don't really do anything anymore or have kids. So I went out and over 12 months created a new social circle of 20 somethings. I went to a bar made friends with staff and locals. It takes a while. Then something something I get invited to 20 something houseparties again. I made all the decision consciously, by the way it did not just magically happen, I treated socializing like going to the gym (also lost a bunch of weight as well). Then went to…
/r/seduction10/02/22 10:44 AM
1

Therapist was your first go to? Anyway need way more information. Height weight, picture, hoe you act. How you approach.
/r/seduction10/02/22 07:35 AM
2

You're a guy and you're 5'2??
/r/seduction10/02/22 07:29 AM
1

Well that was easy.
/r/seduction10/02/22 07:06 AM
3

Wo wo wo. Who or what is "your boy"? Talk normal like.
/r/seduction10/02/22 07:01 AM
1

Yep. Have fun with that.
/r/seduction10/02/22 06:15 AM
1

The hell you talking about? This is fair. It is a skill anyone can learn through practice and repetition. And not being a coward, which you are. More fair than height.
/r/seduction10/02/22 06:14 AM
1

Yeah. I was out the back resting my eyes. Had legs up on another chair. Other people then came out seperate girl asked to sit down. I mumbled just sit over my legs. Tired. She did for a bit and my legs were warm. Display of higher value. Then she left then the other girl came up and said hi can would it be alright if I gave you a compliment. I said sure but I got a really stiff neck, in exchange for giving me a massage. She did a good drunken job. Then just bantering and giving shit. Then one th…
/r/seduction10/02/22 05:38 AM
12

Don't treat these girls and their emotions too seriously
/r/seduction10/02/22 04:31 AM
2

Yes.
/r/seduction10/02/22 01:40 AM
2

Sometimes. Happen for me on new years. Was great.
/r/seduction10/02/22 01:32 AM
2

I lost 60lb and am tall. Walking through a park in the city and hearing girls looking at me and commenting "like his cute" was sureal at first.
/r/seduction09/02/22 12:02 PM
1

Do want to tell her? Why?
/r/seduction09/02/22 10:07 AM
1

Or you can do what you want and not listen to guys giving out "Real Man" medals. You're your own judge.
/r/seduction09/02/22 10:03 AM
3

You showed her you had no other options. Go get options.
/r/seduction09/02/22 09:55 AM
1

Get a vasectomy. Then this will not be a problem. Better than enslaving yourself to this predator for 18 years.
/r/seduction09/02/22 09:52 AM
2

Too much comfort. Now that is all she wants. Comfort and attention. Is that what you want? Be way less available, your time should be more valuable. But I suppose the point is mute that you are leaving anyway. Don't have covert contract in your head. Like if I leave she should be sad I am going. Terrible mental model to live by. Good luck on your move.
/r/seduction08/02/22 11:03 AM
2

You have zero frame. All about her. Why? What do you want? Do you not have any other options?
/r/seduction08/02/22 10:30 AM
3

Hey pal. You're your own judge. Move to Shelbyville. Wasn't this the whole point of this expedition?
/r/seduction08/02/22 07:49 AM
1

It is alot if you want to smash.
/r/seduction08/02/22 07:46 AM
5

Mine too. Lost 60 lbs from OMAD. Wasn't even exercising much. Life is a lot better. I noticed men and women are much more favorable to you.
/r/seduction08/02/22 07:44 AM
4

Move to Pakistan.
/r/seduction08/02/22 07:29 AM
1

I don't disagree mostly. But if men and women had equal sex drives it would follow that there would be as much consumption of prostitution, porn and strip joint services as men. Would it not?
/r/seduction08/02/22 07:21 AM
8

Done it. No issues.
/r/seduction08/02/22 07:19 AM
1

Come on dude. It what world with 2 rejections be that she is interested? Clear as day.
/r/seduction08/02/22 07:15 AM
24

"Real man" = what is beneficial to the party giving out the "real man" badge.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen07/02/22 10:31 PM
2

When you go out on a date, cold approach girl, even interacting with others. You right down what happened what you did, how they reacted. It is a good way to learn and show progress.
/r/seduction07/02/22 04:23 AM
2

What was the text
/r/seduction06/02/22 04:23 PM
6

Put on your big girl pants and ask him out?
/r/seduction06/02/22 04:22 PM
1

Good point
/r/seduction06/02/22 03:52 PM
1

If you're looking for a YouTube channel rian stone Is good at intersexual dynamics. Help me out a tonnes, his patreon community is good. Write down field reports. You don't even have to show anyone, but the act of doing it gives you clarity. Read about kino escalation. The olde mystery method book is still mostly valid. You should be able to tell the parts that are not.
/r/seduction06/02/22 10:49 AM
1

In what context?
/r/seduction06/02/22 10:46 AM
2

Dude you can't even talk to girls and have not dated much. Don't even think about getting married. You got internal shit you need to deal with.
/r/seduction06/02/22 10:42 AM
1

Move.
/r/seduction06/02/22 10:19 AM
3

You're your own judge.
/r/seduction06/02/22 10:13 AM
1

I tell you I won't live in a town that robs a man of his right to marry his cousins!!
/r/seduction05/02/22 05:41 AM
1

Yes and marry our cousins. Why would we want to marry out cousins Because they're so attractive. Wasn't this the whole point of the expedition?
/r/seduction05/02/22 05:36 AM
2

Disappearance? Ran game on the other week and it work while out. It works you just need to fail and fail to succeed. Now a larger and larger proportion of people are socially stunted as we interact through screen more and more.
/r/seduction04/02/22 11:33 AM
1

Or when I say no I feel guilty. That was most helpful in my life.
/r/seduction04/02/22 11:30 AM
1

Do. Never- mind.
/r/seduction04/02/22 03:52 AM
1

Be attractive: if you not in great shape/jacket enough (Brad pit in fight club ish) then get like that. Get your eating and sleep down. Then when you get to target body shape. Buy nice set of clothes that are tailored to fit. Throw your old clothes out. You don't have to break the bank. Tailoring >brand name. Show off nice v taper. Grooming hygiene blah blah blah. That the easy part. Don't be unattractive: Be socially calibrated. Have your social skills sharp. Everything is either amusing, intri…
/r/seduction04/02/22 03:47 AM
6

How many women you ask out in the past year?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen03/02/22 04:58 PM
1

Well make that a task. I met these guys from being a regular at this shitty little bar. Then kept going. Then met them there. Then the regulars had a Facebook group chat got into that. Then start going other places. Then back to their places Then house parties and meeting all the people tangential related to the group. Took about a year to build up. I also aimed from the beginning to build it up. A task. You can do it too. Takes time.
/r/seduction03/02/22 04:53 PM
1

Is he your boss?
/r/seduction03/02/22 07:24 AM
1

How is this a field report? This sounds like it was written by a fat guy.
/r/seduction03/02/22 07:22 AM
1

Most people don't go to the bar and pick up girls easy. It takes a lot of work. Man I hate the gym
/r/seduction03/02/22 07:21 AM
1

Through a new social circle of 20 somethings I developed. At party at apartment in new years. I tell you guys the best thing you can do if your already attractive is develop a social circle. I'm 33. She was 25 or something. Nice girl works hard. Places was a mess though.
/r/seduction03/02/22 07:04 AM
7

Or you can do what you want You're your own judge.
/r/seduction03/02/22 06:57 AM
1

Hooked up with a blasian for the first time half Japanese half Ghanaian it was great!
/r/seduction03/02/22 06:54 AM
1

Check out rian Stone. He only guy I engage with in this space anymore.
/r/seduction03/02/22 06:50 AM
3

So she will have sex with you for money ie paying her bills, ie whore. Northing wrong with, but it is the definition
/r/seduction03/02/22 03:12 AM
1

You want to be a good work horse. Good work horse.
/r/seduction03/02/22 03:12 AM
1

I missed the "not". Also. No you're not getting married. Don't even think over it until you are in your mid 30s. Even then don't, it is a bad deal What you are going to do is: You are going to work hard to acquire a skill or a trade or a degree that will increase what you get get paid per unit of time. Time is your most valuable asset and luckily for you, you've got lots of it. You are going to keep in physical shape for your own physical and mental health but also be more attractive. Not only t…
/r/seduction02/02/22 06:16 AM
5

Very niche.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen02/02/22 06:02 AM
4

Cause they have nothing else going on. Funny how all these new things that people are deriving their value from don't take any effort in achieve. I'm X now. Look at how special and valuable I am. I'm also oppressed. Where are the free gimmie that's.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen02/02/22 06:01 AM
40

Dumb word. I hate it.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen01/02/22 03:52 PM
3

Srop emotionally investing so much. You're just fucking.
/r/seduction01/02/22 03:51 PM
4

How would that be helpful to you?
/r/seduction01/02/22 03:48 PM
1

I sure hope so. But he deleted the post. "Hiding the badness" right there. Got a long way to go.
/r/seduction01/02/22 03:46 PM
1

By doing pretty much. Put your self in uncomfortable situations, social situation and just work harden yourself. That is the only way
/r/seduction01/02/22 03:44 PM
1

Dude you're a kid. You don't know anything. If you did you would not ask this question.
/r/seduction01/02/22 03:39 PM
2

If you in doubt move on. You're twenty you don't know what you want or like. Experience it
/r/seduction01/02/22 03:37 PM
1

What did you study?
/r/seduction01/02/22 03:33 PM
2

You need to develop a social circle and sharpen your social skills, don't even bother with girls yet. You need to build your life up. If you're out of shape go to the gym.
/r/seduction01/02/22 03:33 PM
55

Dafuck is a pansexual? Is another thing that was made up a few years ago?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen01/02/22 03:27 PM
2

Yeh. Or thinking I have done my 10 nice things, sex now? Such a terrible mental model
/r/seduction01/02/22 03:22 PM
0

She said no move on. Or follow her around like a puppy.
/r/seduction01/02/22 03:21 PM
2

Hurray up? To late for that. Move on.
/r/seduction01/02/22 03:15 PM
2

No. Do they?
/r/seduction30/01/22 10:29 AM
1

Do 2/3s rule. For msg or 2 she sends you send 1. This will prevent you from becoming emotionally invested in someone who is not in you. Easy
/r/seduction28/01/22 11:27 AM
1

Then move on. Stop contacting her. Pay attention to actions not words. Her actions say she doesn't really think much of you. So move on.
/r/seduction28/01/22 11:25 AM
2

Oh yeah abasing yourself and apologizing for nothing will get you the ladies. Keep it up I'm sure it'll work out. Also allow yourself to be manipulated by crying. Sounds like a winning g strategy
/r/seduction27/01/22 10:03 AM
1

Eh I've never done something like this but I'm not against it. Your solved the problem. Not sure why dudes are shaming you so much, acting like women actually. Thought it was creative. Though would not advise barebacking a stranger. Alway be in control of the birth. Just get a vasectomy. A few seconds of pleasure is not worth enslaving yourself to a stranger and your mistake.
/r/seduction27/01/22 09:45 AM
2

You pick up things over time if you pay attention 👌. Yeah just high school bullshit dude. Girls have all the power at that stage, so unless you are not physically top tier nothing much will come of it. Also you emotionally invested too much and have no other options. Which are not good things. If you want to get a grouping in things like this try old stuff like mystery. It has some good points in there.
/r/seduction26/01/22 04:39 PM
1

Nice job
/r/seduction26/01/22 10:49 AM
2

Are you Canadian or UK? Using metric and imperial like a mad man. How many rods tall are you? Well you only a bit over weight. Try fasting and if you don't lift then you should start. It'll make your life better.
/r/seduction26/01/22 10:36 AM
3

Start talking to other girls when she is around. How tall are you though? Best thing you can do is get into shape. Better than anything atm. Also choosing a field of study that pays so life is easy in the future. You don't want to turn out like the millenials.
/r/seduction26/01/22 03:48 AM
4

Where is the neck?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen26/01/22 03:43 AM
2

Back in tribal days if you fucked up with cave Stacey she would tell cave Tina and all the other cave women and they would be then end of your genetic legacy. Or hit on cave Steve's cave women and he might bash you over the head with his cave club. Doesn't apply now when we live in cities of millions. But our cave brain has not caught up to our non cave environment.
/r/seduction25/01/22 05:13 PM
1

Well you need to practice eye contact.
/r/seduction25/01/22 04:12 PM
1

Santa isn't real!!!!
/r/seduction25/01/22 04:07 PM
4

Or come on. I'm not that easy.
/r/seduction25/01/22 02:36 PM
8

"You know we're not having sex tonight right?" She says. What is the subcommunication there class? Cause you do end up have sex. It was great.
/r/seduction25/01/22 01:33 PM
2

If you only read one book Dr Robert Glover no more Mr nice guy would be a God send to you. Also manual Smith when I say no I feel guilty. They both on audible. Give them a read dude. There is a YouTube guy rian stone that goes a good break down of each chapter aswell. I'd add tactical guide to women just to protect yourself when you're older.
/r/seduction24/01/22 01:42 PM
2

Says who? For what? People should be courteous to each other, society works better that way. But respect is earned. You're going to get wrecked. This is a thing Nice Guys (TM) say. You don't want to be like them. You don't have much experience with women do you? Teens still? That fine, not a dig but I would educate myself if I were you for your own good. There is a lot of good non red meat content out there.
/r/seduction24/01/22 01:37 PM
3

They are not though...... I'm not sure what point you're trying to make. Or how this world view will help you in anyway.
/r/seduction24/01/22 01:11 PM
2

Is this a troll post?
/r/seduction24/01/22 12:52 PM
1

Did that include 8 hours of sleep a night?
/r/seduction24/01/22 08:32 AM
1

Depends. How valuable is your job? I'm not anything will happen but does increase risk. I've a alot at my job so I'm not willing to take on that risk by fucking around with coworkers
/r/seduction24/01/22 08:16 AM
4

If you don't do at least 5 different positions it doesn't count.
/r/seduction24/01/22 08:14 AM
1

So you want to stay where you are and this is your life to decades to come?
/r/seduction22/01/22 02:07 PM
1

Oh well. You can't control other people. Don't sweat it. If it keeps happening then something is off with the marketing or product.
/r/seduction22/01/22 01:47 PM
2

What a side gig.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen22/01/22 01:02 PM
1

I never compliment on how they look. I mean everyone does.
/r/seduction22/01/22 01:00 PM
1

I never compliment on how they look. I mean everyone does.
/r/seduction22/01/22 12:59 PM
1

I never compliment on how they look. I mean everyone does.
/r/seduction22/01/22 12:59 PM
2

Yep. Therapy not going to do much. If anything, unless it gives him practical steps to achieve those goals. All that stuff is up on the internet now.
/r/seduction22/01/22 02:40 AM
2

Oh well. The why doesn't really matter. It is the what actions you are going to take to rectify the situation is. People waste months years on why without improving. It ultimately is not very important. Is it?
/r/seduction22/01/22 02:38 AM
2

Backpacker by yourself is the best. In the before time.
/r/seduction22/01/22 02:30 AM
1

Lol no. But hey you're your own judge. Do what you want. See what happens.
/r/seduction22/01/22 02:18 AM
1

You can get undercover sex signals on audible. It goes through them. If you make eye contact she glances down and away. Universal in all human cultural. The geisha look. It is a good indicator.
/r/seduction22/01/22 02:17 AM
2

Not often. But sometime Last time was on NYEs I was resting my eyes out back. She came up and asked if she could give me a compliment. I said sure but my neck hurt real bad could you pay me back by giving me a neck massage. Then she did. Told me a pretty I was then she drunk drove us back to her place. I love it when things just fall into your lap. So rare. Anyway caught up with her a couple times since. Fun fun.
/r/seduction22/01/22 02:16 AM
4

It's a cope.
/r/seduction22/01/22 02:13 AM
1

No, I can understand the point you ate trying to get across 90% of the time. I'm not from America. I'm from Australia. The can thing a lot of older guys do here is go to south east Asia. Young Wife for economic elevation and Australian passport. Though the guys I know who do this send money to the family as well. Not for me. But from the examples I've seen it works okay
/r/seduction22/01/22 01:09 AM
1

Nice guy. Oh no. Also is English your second language?
/r/seduction21/01/22 09:35 PM
2

Work two jobs. Or get a skill that pays. Yes it is expensive. Things that have value are invariably expensive.
/r/seduction21/01/22 09:30 PM
1

In what context?
/r/seduction21/01/22 05:32 PM
3

Cosmetic surgery.
/r/seduction21/01/22 05:29 PM
1

You are your own judge. We haven't changed that much for hunter gathers. We just have smart phones and tomatoes
/r/seduction21/01/22 11:57 AM
-2

Try photofeeler
/r/seduction21/01/22 11:53 AM
9

Are you fat? You got a good hair cut? Form fitting sharp clothes? (Only works in you answer no to 1.) Do you have good teeth? Glasses. From what I've seen most people look for attractive with out them? Well groomed facial hair? Have you had women ever approach you? Are you short? Can you have a good conversation? In a group do people want to talk to you? Do you have good hygiene? Do you have a V taper? Shoulder width 1.6ish x waist width How do you rate?
/r/seduction21/01/22 11:53 AM
1

Arr you rich or going for political office? You should be fine.
/r/seduction21/01/22 03:02 AM
1

Dude no. I'm in my 30s and all friends start being home bodies or kids etc. They go away essentially. I started to go to a local bar. And over the next 6-12 months built a new social circle with the regulars and bar staff. Now I have a new social circle of 20 somethings. Going to house parties again getting laid through social circle. It is great. You do that. Best thing you can do.
/r/seduction19/01/22 03:35 PM
9

She turned him down. 3 times. Then guy moved on to another. Though I think you're speaking in generalities
/r/seduction19/01/22 03:32 PM
292

So wanted to have fun and wanted you to wait around like a nice little safe orbiter. Fuck that. Nice job!
/r/seduction19/01/22 03:29 PM
10

Cause they like their orbiter. Also display of higher value which sets off her hamster thinking that maybe you are worth while now that other women are interested.
/r/seduction19/01/22 03:28 PM
1

Autism or lack of social skills? It is not a straight jacket. I'm not prosocial but force myself too. This mindset you have is going to lead to nothing but pain.
/r/seduction19/01/22 04:44 AM
1

How is that going to help you?
/r/seduction19/01/22 04:43 AM
1

So height and looks matter.
/r/seduction19/01/22 04:42 AM
1

Mind control
/r/seduction19/01/22 04:35 AM
0

So is not being obese.
/r/seduction19/01/22 03:05 AM
0

Bmi of 30 dude. That is obese. Pretty much don't bother until you are in shape.
/r/seduction19/01/22 03:04 AM
1

No such thing as a soul mate kid. You're 20 it is time to grow up
/r/seduction18/01/22 03:57 PM
1

Yes it is. Just talk to any one everyone Ask the time from a stranger on a street. Make a comment to someone. If you get into a conversation ask them about themselves that is people favorite subjects. If you don't do anything to improve your self what you experience now will be the same things you will experience for decades!
/r/seduction18/01/22 03:42 PM
1

Invite her to your place. Kino, if no dice move on. 6 dates and nothing? 3 is reasonable.
/r/seduction18/01/22 12:47 PM
4

How many girls guys have you asked out? We need pictures of you too.
/r/seduction18/01/22 09:26 AM
-6

Terrible.
/r/seduction17/01/22 08:33 AM
2

Np. Check out rian stone YouTube channel. Sidebar has excellent advice. Better than any comment I could write. Helped me out a ton.
/r/seduction16/01/22 04:09 PM
5

It is tiresome. So so tiresome.
/r/seduction16/01/22 04:08 PM
-1

I don't understand the question? Are you trying to get secret tips not to get rejected. You'll get rejected. No stopping that. This question is redundant.
/r/seduction16/01/22 03:58 PM
2

Stop worrying some much, stop emotionally investing so much.
/r/seduction16/01/22 03:47 PM
1

I could touch any part I wanted. (Except for the fun parts). What?
/r/seduction16/01/22 03:46 PM
1

Stirling cooper has some good stuff on this topic.
/r/seduction16/01/22 03:43 PM
1

I thought this was widely known?
/r/seduction16/01/22 03:42 PM
5

I have diabetes after seeing this now. Going to have to lose emy foot.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen16/01/22 11:39 AM
8

Jesus. Class 3 obese. Disabled kid. All the other problems but those first 2 are enough. Hell the 1st one is.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen16/01/22 11:38 AM
1

Deleted already?
/r/seduction16/01/22 11:12 AM
3

Would you say a booty call is the male version of the friend zone?
/r/seduction16/01/22 11:03 AM
12

The let's be friends line is a rejection. Have somw self respect and say I don't want to to be friends.
/r/seduction16/01/22 11:03 AM
1

Help me out a ton. I'm part of his patreon also. https://youtu.be/g8Pip9F5Yg0 This is a good intro to him. Give it a go. Happiness is a choice. A series of choices you make over time. Good luck.
/r/seduction16/01/22 08:12 AM
2

Rian stone has a lot of good content .check his YouTube channel out.best content on being attractive. Don't be unattractive out there. Help me out alot. Start with the sidebar series
/r/seduction16/01/22 08:07 AM
1

Arr you in shape first of all
/r/seduction16/01/22 08:05 AM
2

Attention. Just ignore her for a month or so and try again if you are still interested.
/r/seduction16/01/22 05:07 AM
0

Fair enough. Good luck.
/r/seduction16/01/22 05:06 AM
1

Try cigar lounges
/r/seduction16/01/22 05:04 AM
2

But why go so old? Did you know your dad?
/r/seduction16/01/22 02:15 AM
1

Guys are keys girls are locks.
/r/seduction16/01/22 02:14 AM
1

You're short, young and feather weight. You can't do anything about the first one, the second will just happen but you can improve the third. Put effort in gaining and maintaining a good social circle and get an indemand skill that pays. And gym.
/r/seduction14/01/22 06:38 PM
2

You're living in a delusional world. You live with your parents. You ain't shit. I'm starting to think this is a troll post.
/r/seduction14/01/22 06:25 PM
1

Jesus. You wasting time with this and you still live with your parents? Living in a fantasy world about blogging your way to success? Get a skill that pays and become a independent man who does not live with his parents.
/r/seduction14/01/22 06:23 PM
1

You only work 5 days a week?!?
/r/seduction14/01/22 06:00 PM
1

You only work 5 days a week?!?
/r/seduction14/01/22 06:00 PM
1

Seconded.
/r/seduction14/01/22 07:14 AM
1

Why are you giving her gifts? Do you have a covert contract in your head saying "because I gave her these things she will need to like me and go out with me?" Then spaz out when that does not happen? Come on dude stop. Move on. Where I work unwelcome gifts are against company policy.
/r/seduction14/01/22 07:13 AM
5

Nothing it seems.
/r/seduction13/01/22 03:31 PM
6

?
/r/seduction13/01/22 09:30 AM
4

The let's be friends line is the rejection dude. Why would she text you more?
/r/seduction13/01/22 09:29 AM
3

So much more information is needed.
/r/seduction13/01/22 09:08 AM
6

People hate reality. They don't use it as a learning to to better leverage the reality. Just bitch and whine about it and what they think it should be. Then never change and keep failing.
/r/seduction12/01/22 12:48 AM
3

Don't emotionally invest so much. Also this is reality so go to the gym to get more success.
/r/seduction12/01/22 12:46 AM
2

What you mean including today? You got to get out of here in an hour, got another one coming over. Playfully. Jokes, deflection, fogging. Not hard to deal with, don't say actually numbers. Have fun with it.
/r/seduction12/01/22 12:44 AM
0

For some reason I have more success with people from other ethnicities. I've always found them more interesting, since I was a kid.
/r/seduction12/01/22 12:40 AM
1

What do you want?
/r/seduction11/01/22 01:56 PM
1

I don't care. I like trying to fuck in real life.
/r/seduction10/01/22 12:58 PM
2

Make shit up? Take risks and say dicey jokes. You blow out with some others not so much
/r/seduction10/01/22 12:33 PM
0

She really needed that nicotine hit. What you mean goose chase? What exactly happened?
/r/seduction10/01/22 01:28 AM
1

Also near ever one has problems with social skills. Lazy parents putting their children in front of screen. So much "socializing" behind the screen. Made everyone a bit retarded. You have to go out and force yourself to talk to people.
/r/seduction09/01/22 11:56 PM
1

Why don't you focus on moving out of your parents house instead of wasting time?
/r/seduction09/01/22 11:43 PM
15

Lamest lame to ever lame.
/r/seduction09/01/22 10:10 PM
3

Check out rian stone. He is great.
/r/seduction09/01/22 09:28 PM
4

Well I guess your life is going to suck then. That is a long time of having a life that sucks. Decades.
/r/seduction09/01/22 09:24 PM
1

How many have you slept with handsome?
/r/seduction09/01/22 11:54 AM
11

Lol
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen09/01/22 09:27 AM
2

Lol. So innocent.
/r/seduction09/01/22 09:23 AM
6

Attraction. If you're attractive and not unattractive things change. It is amazing the difference.
/r/seduction09/01/22 09:21 AM
5

Stop playing fucking computer games and go out and learn. I bet you play a lot of computer games huh?
/r/seduction09/01/22 08:20 AM
3

How about you just accept the world for as it is? How about you teach yourself so social skills? They are skills after all. Get uncomfortable. Or you know continue wasting time and live the rest of your life like this. Same same to me.
/r/seduction09/01/22 08:18 AM
1

Ask divorced guys. I did.
/r/seduction09/01/22 02:05 AM
3

Meh last part was a joke. Can't do anything about height lol. No they don't. It is just the ratio on the apps is like 9:1 male:female. So you have to put in effort to rise above the chaff. That pretty much it. I just treat it passively. It works, but conversion ratio is pretty bad. IRL is better. But it is another arrow in your quiver.
/r/seduction08/01/22 12:56 PM
1

I don't know dude. Don't invest so much. Next time you meet get some keno escalation going and see if she reciprocates.
/r/seduction08/01/22 12:50 PM
0

I'm 6 2 33 year old senior engineer from Australia.... I'm not getting married. It is a bad deal. But you're doing the right things. You might have to ask them out with women being equal and all now.
/r/seduction08/01/22 12:46 PM
6

If you're not in shape don't bother If your not attractive don't bother If you don't put in effort to take excellent photos don't bother. That pretty much it. If you do those you'll be successful. Oh and be tall.
/r/seduction08/01/22 12:42 PM
2

From omicron perciy 8
/r/seduction08/01/22 11:54 AM
1

Depends how they look away. Do they look up and away? Bad Do they look horizontally across? In different? Do they look down and away? The geisha look? Then 5here is attraction there. Try reading undercover sex signals
/r/seduction08/01/22 11:17 AM
1

Silly. You get confident by taking action and getting positive feed back from the world. Being anxious and scared and not doing anything but reading stuff doesn't make you confident. Action reaction, not overly investing in each situation. Outcome independence. Go up to a girl and get to no quickly.
/r/seduction08/01/22 11:15 AM
3

Z78
/r/seduction08/01/22 11:06 AM
0

With a smile say " Hello I'm 'insert name', I'm legally obligated to tell you I'm HIV positive. how you going?"
/r/seduction08/01/22 10:59 AM
1

The whole let's be friends thing is to make her not feel bad for dunning your ass. I think the best thing to do is just cut contact. Stop torturing yourself. Go find someone else.
/r/seduction08/01/22 07:51 AM
1

Are you in shape? Are you pro social? Do you have stuff going on? Can you support yourself?
/r/seduction08/01/22 04:59 AM
1

My point is get a social circle. You can't spend all your time alone. Otherwise you'll enter your high risk suicide years and may kill yourself.
/r/seduction07/01/22 01:22 PM
1

Build a social circle. I'm 33. Most my friends now just stay at home. I over the course of a year moved to an apartment down town in my city. Started going to a regular bar, getting to know the staff and regulars. Meeting them there, then other places then their places and my place. Now I'm going to their house parties and shit 24 year Olds do. It's great most of the time I'm the oldest on in the group. Also helps me with sleeping with 20 something girls. It great. That was 12 months of delibera…
/r/seduction07/01/22 01:21 PM
6

Well yeah and wives are stabbing you in the back because they have to feel good and help the childwens. And other randoms while robbing their own family of take home pay.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen07/01/22 01:16 PM
41

Dude if she have 3 kids she's not working. That is where your taxes come onto the scene.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen07/01/22 10:47 AM
37

Cold as ice. Nice. Actual parents.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen07/01/22 10:17 AM
22

Delayed twin. All the meth
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen07/01/22 10:14 AM
58

Wow. Her life is over. She just doesn't know it yet.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen07/01/22 10:13 AM
1

Well you're logistics are down. I don't know man. 😕
/r/seduction07/01/22 07:57 AM
8

She resents him and her children.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen06/01/22 09:56 PM
6

IE there are no studies.
/r/seduction06/01/22 09:49 PM
7

Link those studies.
/r/seduction06/01/22 09:26 PM
4

Need more information. How do you act? What do you talk? What you do for dates? Are you too safe in your conversations? When I meet up I usually get to take it further. I just treat it as a bit of a joke. It fun. Tip if go out for drink or some food I never sit across the table in an interview, sit next to girl it more familiar. Kino easier. I've move furniture around to do it sometimes.
/r/seduction06/01/22 01:43 PM
5

Stop reading and start doing. Or this will be the rest of your life.
/r/seduction06/01/22 06:15 AM
7

Pressure through the pants. Go for the mound. Go for it! I did this with a girl who was addimant she was not sleeping with me. Being a bit sexual aggression firm groin action she got up and I thought she was going to leave. Then she drop her pants and we fucked. It was crazy
/r/seduction05/01/22 10:42 AM
3

Don't supplicate. Don't think "if I say what they want me to say they'll love me forever and I'll have a problem free life." Read no more Mr nice guy. Don't be so open and safe. Don't be fat. Keep eye contact. 1 , 2 3 look away 2 3 look back 1 2 3.
/r/seduction05/01/22 10:35 AM
4

It's a trap!
/r/seduction05/01/22 10:29 AM
2

Don't be fat
/r/seduction05/01/22 04:34 AM
1

Low grade narcissism is a good thing for guys.
/r/seduction05/01/22 04:27 AM
-3

I guess you're screwed then.
/r/seduction05/01/22 04:19 AM
1

Stop emotionally investing so much
/r/seduction04/01/22 01:26 PM
1

It won't work.but you have nothing to lose.
/r/seduction04/01/22 01:21 PM
8

No. You don't need to say anything. Treat yourself as the main character in your story. Dont worry about what anyone else thinks.
/r/seduction04/01/22 01:15 PM
2

I moved into a new apartment. Started to become a regular at a small bar, that had regulars. Got friendly with them. Start going other places with them going back to their places. Becoming friends. Then since they all 10 to 4 years younger than me started to get into social circle game. It is the reason I got laid last new years. This takes 6-12 months to set up. I'm 33M.
/r/seduction04/01/22 12:45 PM
29

Get a vasectomy. DONT tell anyone how much money you make!!
/r/seduction04/01/22 12:41 PM
28

How are your social skills? Do you have many friends? Can you make more?
/r/seduction04/01/22 12:40 PM
1

In the face
/r/seduction03/01/22 06:21 AM
1

Yeah don't get vulnerable and share your feelings. This is horrible advise. Anxiety is a Good thing itbbreed sexual tension. Don't just straight up tell her you like her, kills it. I never comment on her looks, everyone does that. It's So common. No such thing as toxic masculinity. There is just masculinity and feminity, they both have their dark side. 100% agree about average looking women having more options than majority of good looking dudes. Level of abundance that we'll never know. Dispara…
/r/seduction03/01/22 06:20 AM
1

If you believe that and embody that then you're right, it is not going to happen. You need to break into the sexually desirable categories. Go to the gym, become pro social, have an interesting life and try. Hope is not a strategy. There is no soul mate.
/r/seduction03/01/22 06:01 AM
1

Ouch brutal. Well it is clear what you have to do. Be tall.
/r/seduction02/01/22 05:38 AM
3

The was poorly worded. Rejection is better than regret.
/r/seduction02/01/22 05:23 AM
0

No
/r/seduction01/01/22 10:54 AM
3

Yeah if parents are nonassertive and use manipulation at an early age it will make you non assertive as an adult. Child does not want to clean room Non assertive manipulation: Good boys clean their rooms. You want to be a good boy don't you? Assertive: I can see why you don't what to clean your room. But I am your parent and I'm telling you need to clean your room See the difference? How many people relate.
/r/seduction01/01/22 10:23 AM
2

Well what are the actual struggles and difficulties you are running into?
/r/seduction01/01/22 10:20 AM
2

Well different horses for different courses I suppose.
/r/seduction01/01/22 10:18 AM
1

That is what close male friends are for.
/r/seduction01/01/22 10:16 AM
4

Seriously? Months? Why?
/r/seduction01/01/22 09:54 AM
3

You're 17, you're still a child. I mean your mentioned your parents/family/mum twice in this post alone. Probs still live at home which is normal. Grow into yourself. When you can move out and live independently for a while.
/r/seduction31/12/21 05:24 AM
1

Do you know that?
/r/seduction24/12/21 03:21 PM
1

Found My no first date movie people
/r/seduction24/12/21 09:06 AM
1

I would recommend not watching a movie on the first date.
/r/seduction24/12/21 09:05 AM
1

Are you actually fucking? You sound like you're not.
/r/seduction23/12/21 02:37 AM
1

Me too
/r/MarriedRedPill21/12/21 01:49 PM
1

I think you're lying.
/r/seduction19/12/21 01:37 PM
1

This is not your problem. Move on.
/r/seduction19/12/21 01:28 PM
1

Why do you can so much what some random broad on tinder said? That is the issue
/r/seduction19/12/21 11:59 AM
2

You have no charm/game from the looks of it. Do you have an active social life? Do you do anything other than work and home?
/r/seduction19/12/21 11:56 AM
1

What's the absolute worst thing that can happen?
/r/seduction18/12/21 04:58 PM
1

You're a nice guy. READ No More Mr Nice Guy to realized how fked up you probably are. I mean I'm pretty fked but still ha e plenty of mates.
/r/seduction14/12/21 12:35 PM
1

Plus it is such a low investment signal that she'll instinctively distrust it. Especially coming out from no where.
/r/seduction13/12/21 01:03 PM
1

Don't declare anything. That is awful advice.
/r/seduction13/12/21 01:01 PM
2

It is a way for a girl to say don't put your dick near me without the risk of getting clubbed. Also to feel good and blame you if you reject that offer. Just manipulation.
/r/seduction13/12/21 12:55 PM
2

Also this guy is good. https://youtu.be/2koIWmjrGmA
/r/seduction11/12/21 02:31 PM
1

Start with audio book When I say know I feel guilty. Work through that slowly and practice.
/r/seduction11/12/21 02:27 PM
3

Gross
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen11/12/21 02:16 PM
5

Exposure therapy.
/r/seduction11/12/21 02:14 PM
3

Smoking area.
/r/seduction08/12/21 06:44 AM
2

This is a troll right?
/r/seduction05/12/21 06:36 PM
1

Nice shoes. Want to fuck?
/r/seduction05/12/21 02:41 PM
2

Wow so young and doing this. Great hustle. Though I would invest time going to the gym and researching a degree that pays or a trade.
/r/seduction05/12/21 02:38 PM
1

Well.... are you in shape? Do you present yourself well? Do you have social skills? Are you tall lol? Nothing you can do about that though.
/r/seduction05/12/21 02:25 PM
1

Learn by doing. That is how.
/r/seduction05/12/21 01:26 AM
5

Lol women are the worst slut shamers of other women.
/r/seduction27/11/21 09:12 PM
1

Sounds awful. Go to the doctor and get your testosterone checked.
/r/seduction26/11/21 12:58 PM
0

Tell him He is going to die one day. He only gets one shot. Rejection is better than regret. Action is always better than inaction. You can fail when you take action. You fail when you take inaction too. But more slowly more insidiously. Then that is when the regret kicks in. Have him watch this. https://youtu.be/3eWyUAi3Be4 It is a great channel.
/r/seduction26/11/21 09:46 AM
0

You can't control how other people react.
/r/seduction26/11/21 09:15 AM
2

You're feelings are bad and you should feel bad for having them. Just do what you got to do man. You are not your feelings.
/r/seduction25/11/21 12:33 PM
2

?
/r/seduction25/11/21 09:57 AM
2

I didn't like them. Made me, flat robotic. Decreased my energy. Increaseed my focus, but can't socialize on them.
/r/seduction25/11/21 09:56 AM
1

Excellent. Good job.
/r/seduction25/11/21 04:12 AM
2

Well there is alot of your answer then. Diet and go to the gym. Then see what happens.
/r/seduction24/11/21 11:16 PM
0

Lol. Sneaky fucker game.
/r/seduction24/11/21 08:24 AM
9

Are you in shape? D Be honest.
/r/seduction24/11/21 07:36 AM
2

What do you mean you don't know how it works?
/r/seduction23/11/21 11:50 PM
1

Pictures. If OP is attractive as he says pictures are bad. Post your profile.
/r/seduction21/11/21 05:56 AM
14

Maybe put your photos up on photofeeler or something. People are bad at choosing photos of themselves. Old is 99% pictures for matching. So if you're not matching then your pictures are not up to standard. The amount of times I see a toilet in someone profile is just silly. Got a friend with a camera? Or find photographer online.
/r/seduction21/11/21 05:55 AM
0

Isn't it?
/r/seduction20/11/21 12:18 PM
1

You can't read people's minds. Cool guy funny guy.... watch a YouTube video in her room. just relax. Are you casually dating atm?
/r/seduction18/11/21 10:00 AM
2

I don't get it. Why are you expecting something? I'm sensing covert contracts here.
/r/seduction18/11/21 07:04 AM
7

Talk to strangers in general.
/r/seduction17/11/21 06:32 AM
0

Just what they say most of the time. Espcially when not drinking. Why do you care so much is the question.
/r/seduction14/11/21 11:44 AM
7

Maybe give no more Mr nice guy by Dr Robert Glover a read. And when I say no I feel guilty. Could be useful to you
/r/seduction12/11/21 11:08 AM
1

Just give yourself the opportunity to fail. Get shot down. What is the worst thing that can happen?
/r/seduction12/11/21 10:33 AM
5

I would not get involved with anyone at work.
/r/seduction12/11/21 05:06 AM
2

So 6 2 is the new height floor lol
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen09/11/21 05:40 AM
3

No no no know.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen09/11/21 05:39 AM
1

Shared too much? Don't know need more information. Was there any non sexual touching going on during the date?
/r/seduction09/11/21 05:35 AM
1

All good.
/r/seduction08/11/21 03:37 PM
1

Been about a year since seperation, first 6months was just wallowing in angry and self pity. Well angry at all these lies I was told my entire youth. Be nice, be passive, looks and muscles don't matter blah blah blah. Bullshit. I mean girls are lied to as well but in a different way but that is out of scope for this comment. Well, I took care of the easy stuff. Got my work out and diet on point. Got my dress sense mostly on point. First thing I noticed was all the much more positive attention I …
/r/seduction08/11/21 06:58 AM
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I know it is hard but you really need to stop investing too much in someone you barely know. Try to come from an outcome independence mindset. You're putting way too much pressure on your self and this girl. It is just a date. Nothing of consequence in the decades of life ahead of you
/r/seduction07/11/21 06:40 PM
2

We don't live in that world. Sounds like you're getting in your own way.
/r/seduction07/11/21 08:14 AM
6

I didn't know about any of this until I got divorced at 32. So no
/r/seduction07/11/21 07:55 AM
1

Well that is good. Them photos, grooming style probs problem. Go post some photos on photofeeler to get them rated.
/r/seduction03/11/21 11:45 AM
1

Lol. Maybe I'll just through that out there.
/r/seduction02/11/21 04:11 PM
2

Attention is the coin of the realm in girl world.
/r/seduction02/11/21 04:08 PM
1

Start by just asking 5 people for the time. The just build up from there. Get no more mister nice guy or soul mate sequence. They discuss this problem in depth and have exercises to improve. Rian stone is also a great resource in his side bar series.
/r/seduction02/11/21 03:58 PM
4

Are you a fat neet with no hobbies though?
/r/seduction02/11/21 03:51 PM
5

It is not a bug it is a feature.
/r/seduction02/11/21 03:35 AM
2

Dude guys never brings up dating exclusively conversation. That the girls job.
/r/seduction02/11/21 03:35 AM
2

Yeah. They not dudes. And thank God for that.
/r/seduction02/11/21 03:10 AM
2

It is called subtext dude. That is just how that talk.
/r/seduction02/11/21 03:09 AM
1

Yeah. You say it with laugh. Like it is all amusing and funny with hint of teasing.
/r/seduction02/11/21 03:06 AM
1

Girls want to have sex with hot dudes. They also at the same time don't want people to know that they want to have sex with hot dudes. This is basically it. It testing your confidence and that you won't blab about it to everyone.
/r/seduction02/11/21 03:03 AM
43

Dude, you've been playing it wrong the entire time. When I get a text or somewith not sleeping line it' s usually I sign I'm going to sleep with them. Subtext. She said it because she was considering it. Laugh it off. It is a test and wanting to let you know she is not a sl*t. This all unconscious. So as other said laugh it off. Wow I'm not that easy etc. Play from there Remember watch actions not words
/r/seduction01/11/21 10:43 AM
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I usually say "Wow I'm not that easy"
/r/seduction01/11/21 10:40 AM
1

So much shame going one hahaha.
/r/seduction01/11/21 08:10 AM
2

Well you said it yourself it is outside your control what she likes. To be most honest most girls care about that. You just need to improve elsewhere. You can't control your height.
/r/seduction01/11/21 08:09 AM
1

Bar is so low. One date in the next 16 years..... aim higher. Maybe 3 dates.
/r/seduction31/10/21 07:25 AM
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