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Red Pill Theorytiverma/r/TheRedPill27/04/21 01:56 PM
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Building Powertiverma/r/TheRedPill04/05/21 02:55 PM
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Red Pill Theorytiverma/r/TheRedPill11/05/21 02:32 PM
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15

That's up for everyone to decide for themselves. In my view, lower is always better.
/r/TheRedPill11/02/22 02:51 AM
1

It’s her job to be there. I never ask for women’s numbers while they’re working - just personal preference.
/r/seduction04/02/22 01:29 PM
2

Don't meet women on social media. Meet women in the real world. Practice cold approach. Must more effective and better use of time.
/r/seduction04/01/22 09:35 PM
103

This is the way if you want an LTR
/r/askTRP04/06/21 03:09 PM
3

It is very obvious you didn't read the post.
/r/TheRedPill11/05/21 02:34 PM
1

"You can sleep in my bed as long as you don't touch me" Once you hear anything like this it's a hard stop. Too easy for her to wake up in the morning with regrets and then you're in the slammer getting your asshole stretched by Tyrone.
/r/askTRP08/05/21 04:59 PM
6

Honestly just accept youre going to be terrible and move on with it. Grats bud
/r/askTRP07/05/21 01:45 PM
2

Have sex with women, not your hand
/r/askTRP06/05/21 08:02 PM
1

Confirm day of
/r/askTRP06/05/21 08:02 PM
1

How to develop abundance mindset? Get abundance. lol.
/r/askTRP05/05/21 01:58 PM
2

Go back to sidebar and read and read and read. You're expecting women to be something they could never be.
/r/askTRP05/05/21 01:58 PM
2

We will never know the reasons for the divorce. Kim Kardashian is newly single, maybe Bill doesn't wanna miss his shot. But perhaps Melinda is leaving him. Read up on the lightswitch effect which explains how this could happen.
/r/askTRP05/05/21 01:57 PM
16

Is probably been 20 years since I’ve done this. It would be challenging. I’ll try it soon and report back.
/r/TheRedPill04/05/21 03:38 PM
6

Thanks, but my wife won't let me get Telegram.
/r/TheRedPill04/05/21 12:52 PM
2

Yes. And womens’. Everyone’s.
/r/askTRP01/05/21 05:10 PM
3

It just takes time. I'm in my mid 20s and my facial hair coverage increased dramatically from the 2 years between 21 and 23. Everyone is different. I wouldn't recommend using chemicals to encourage more hair growth or density. I'm not a scientist but this stuff just seems sketch.
/r/askTRP29/04/21 02:07 PM
8

Stay clean shaven until you can grow something that improves your looks
/r/askTRP29/04/21 01:40 PM
2

I'd just say "Good luck!" and then move on. Others on this sub would advise saying "k" or just not replying but those seem reactionary to me. I feel like this ends the conversation, letting her know you're not going to keep chatting to someone who isn't down to meet up while also not coming across as butthurt
/r/askTRP29/04/21 01:37 PM
3

just take the upvote man
/r/askTRP28/04/21 11:00 PM
24

Non-native English speakers can still have valuable contributions to this sub
/r/TheRedPill28/04/21 07:46 PM
1

Who are you angry at? Women? It's not their fault. You were lied to and now you see the truth. You're grieving. This is by definition the red pill (as compared to blue pill). But, it could be worse. Would you prefer to go back to fantasy land? You can in some capacity if you want. I'd prefer to come to terms with my reality and optimize my life around it. You might not make the game but you determine the rules and you can certainly win.
/r/askTRP28/04/21 01:37 PM
0

The question you should be asking yourself is why did you end up LTRing this girl? Gotta vet better. Read up on the side bar - it'll change your world
/r/askTRP28/04/21 01:31 PM
1

Regardless of if it's a shit test your actions shouldn't change. Just hit her up next time youre free in like 1-2 months and see if she's down.
/r/askTRP28/04/21 01:12 PM
1

Do cardio or whatever you can since gyms are closed Focus on your career or some business/income stream Focus on meeting people through your social circles
/r/askTRP27/04/21 06:35 PM
7

Search for it within the subreddit. There is a lot of good content out there. Attempting to summarize wouldn't do it justice.
/r/TheRedPill27/04/21 06:03 PM
5

Agreed with this and it all stems from guys' anger phase. Once you see, and more importantly accept, women for what they are, life becomes a lot more fun.
/r/TheRedPill26/04/21 01:59 PM
6

Just enjoy your turn
/r/askTRP26/04/21 01:22 PM
17

Raise your own sense of self worth and eventually you'll stop caring what others think. An analogy: Let's say the question is "how do I stop worrying when I lose 20 bucks?" Well if you only have 100 bucks, then losing 20 sucks. If you have 10 million, you wont give a fuck if you lose 20 bucks.
/r/askTRP26/04/21 01:14 PM
1

1) lose the ego about your own SMV. Work to improve it, but don't rank/compare yourself. 2) view women as 1s and 0s. 1s are those you want to fuck and 0s are those you don't 3) if a 1 rejects you, then just start working on another 1
/r/askTRP25/04/21 10:43 PM
1

Low n count and train her.
/r/askTRP25/04/21 10:34 PM
1

Dates are awkward and interview-like. Grab a drink somewhere fun and escalate.
/r/askTRP25/04/21 10:33 PM
2

seconding this
/r/askTRP25/04/21 10:32 PM
1

No, but most do.
/r/askTRP25/04/21 10:31 PM
1

This is pretty comical. Why would it matter if a woman is interested or hopeful if you're not approaching them?
/r/askTRP25/04/21 10:31 PM
5

I wouldn't worry about showing yourself in a good light. Focus on having a good time and others will be attracted to that aspect of you above all else. Think about the people you enjoy spending time with. Is it because you see them in a good light? Unlikely. You enjoy spending time with them cause you have a good ass time together.
/r/askTRP25/04/21 10:30 PM
3

No need to tell her. If she asks? That's another story
/r/askTRP23/04/21 03:23 PM
2

Okay well oneitis is going to cloud your judgment and cause you to do stupid things
/r/askTRP22/04/21 04:39 PM
6

Spend time with other plates until oneitis goes away
/r/askTRP22/04/21 02:49 PM
0

Sidebar
/r/askTRP21/04/21 09:00 PM
1

How?
/r/askTRP21/04/21 06:19 PM
5

How do you stay jacked? Gotta go to the gym every day.
/r/askTRP21/04/21 05:29 PM
3

She's being emotional about this but many women and men would both act this way in the situation so don't hold that against her. Don't pester her about it. Let her reach out to you to tell you she took it. Even if she doesn't take it the odds are relatively low that she gets pregnant so you don't need to worry that much at this point.
/r/askTRP21/04/21 01:10 PM
27

This isn't about handling a crying woman, at this point your priority should be to make sure she takes the pill and eventually has her period in a few weeks. Put your emotions to the side and steer the ship to the right outcome for you both. Condoms break. It's a part of sex and you need to accept that risk before having sex. Ideally you'd have sex with girls who are on the pill and you can wear condoms which is even safer.
/r/askTRP21/04/21 12:45 PM
1

I would guess median is much higher for women than for men
/r/askTRP20/04/21 07:00 PM
3

They're a lot of fun to hangout with
/r/askTRP20/04/21 06:58 PM
5

You realize that men and women must have the same average n-counts right? (let's not count gays/lesbians for now) Simple thought exercise. Jesus the education system is failing people these days.
/r/askTRP20/04/21 06:57 PM
7

Building your social circle is just meeting people For me, it's about keeping relationships going with people and having them introduce me to new people. Obviously it goes both ways so I introduce them to new people etc and the social circle grows. You stick around the people you like and don't put as much energy into people you don't like being around. it's very simple. If you're fun to be around you'll have no shortage of friends/girls
/r/askTRP20/04/21 06:56 PM
0

You're confusing fault with responsibility It's not your fault that COVID ruined your college plans It's still your responsibility to make your life great by your standards
/r/askTRP20/04/21 02:38 PM
1

My college experience has also been shit due to covid I stopped reading after this. you need to take responsibility for your own life and making it a life that you love living.
/r/askTRP20/04/21 11:47 AM
2

Hire a photographer
/r/askTRP19/04/21 10:21 PM
7

Yeah if some guy is giving you shit your number 1 priority should be to spend as little time as possible talking to him. Who gives a shit what he thinks.
/r/askTRP19/04/21 10:20 PM
1

Life skill: google it But anyways a soft next is ghosting for a weekish and then resuming as normal
/r/askTRP19/04/21 12:56 PM
7

It’s very unlikely this woman was worthing LTRing. Possible, but very unlikely. If you keep working at it, your SMV will increase and you’ll have plates. If it was easy, everyone would do it
/r/askTRP19/04/21 03:15 AM
17

"No"
/r/askTRP19/04/21 03:04 AM
2

Only have 1 plate atm Then she is, by definition, not a plate. Read more.
/r/askTRP19/04/21 02:59 AM
14

You didn't "let her go". She left. This is what happens when you're not willing to commit to an LTR. Plates always eventually break. Up your game and you'll be back in no time. If you've gotten chicks before you can do it again. And stop thinking about a 1-10 scale. It's not useful.
/r/askTRP19/04/21 02:58 AM
1

Stick to texting for logistics only Once you know them better you can start to game over text
/r/askTRP19/04/21 02:32 AM
23

General rule of thumb: If she's interested, you'll know If she's not interested, you'll feel confused ​ I'd soft next
/r/askTRP19/04/21 02:28 AM
3

Some girls will be attracted to guys with lots of social media followers. Some girls will be attracted to guys who don't spend their time on social media.
/r/askTRP19/04/21 12:07 AM
12

Go for it now. Don't overthink.
/r/askTRP19/04/21 12:01 AM
12

Cardio is never a waste of time
/r/askTRP19/04/21 12:00 AM
3

Depends on the eyeglass frames honestly. If you get good glasses it can certainly enhance the look. Grandma glasses can decrease your SMV.
/r/askTRP15/04/21 07:38 PM
-3

No
/r/askTRP15/04/21 12:08 PM
3

If you feel like she's pissed and will remain pissed for the rest of the date, just end it and leave. Edit: same goes for this for any reason. Maybe she had a shit day or is tired or something. Regardless, if the date isn't going anywhere just cut it and leave.
/r/askTRP14/04/21 09:13 PM
2

I agree with this 100% OPs advice is great for skinny/twig guys But for guys who are already a medium build or even fat, they’ll look a lot better just by leaning out
/r/TheRedPill14/04/21 05:31 PM
18

I personally have no problem with people choosing to be pornstars or whatnot. I'm all for free choice. I don't watch porn because I don't want it ruining my mind (and it's just cuck behavior in general)
/r/askTRP14/04/21 01:51 PM
4

I'd lay low until you know more. I'm not usually a fan of LTRing women in the first place, and especially if there is potential drama or legal issues on the horizon.
/r/askTRP14/04/21 12:55 PM
2

You guys are misinterpreting my original comment
/r/askTRP13/04/21 09:24 PM
24

I think this falls into the "good problem to have" category. It's better to be the short guy who's jacked than the guy whos' just short.
/r/askTRP13/04/21 07:28 PM
1

Just enjoy being with her while it's your turn and when it ends move on to the next one
/r/askTRP13/04/21 07:26 PM
2

There will always be exceptions to the rule
/r/TheRedPill13/04/21 05:40 PM
16

Build connections, create a system: Expand your social circle. This is the single best tip for anyone struggling with abundance. Make new friends and encourage them to bring new friends into the circle. I'm not saying expand your tribe, but expand the people that you are acquaintances with and you'll quickly have no problem with abundance.
/r/TheRedPill13/04/21 02:42 PM
1

I agree that how you say it matters more, but you're being naïve if you think the words coming out of your mouth don't matter
/r/askTRP13/04/21 02:39 PM
5

Why view it as black or white? No two situation are the same and you should learn to adapt to the specific situation
/r/askTRP13/04/21 02:24 PM
4

Because you don't have your own life. If you lose her then you think your life will be severely negatively affected.
/r/askTRP13/04/21 02:22 PM
-4

It's not true What you say matters
/r/askTRP13/04/21 02:21 PM
-2

Not catholics
/r/askTRP13/04/21 01:39 AM
5

Why do you know what she looks like if you stopped seeing her? Sounds like youre spending some time stalking her instagram
/r/askTRP12/04/21 10:30 PM
1

Why are you bringing it up? Don't talk about it...
/r/askTRP12/04/21 10:25 PM
26

I'm laughing so hard. Thanks OP.
/r/askTRP12/04/21 10:22 PM
1

Everyone has different tastes and preferences, but certain things are generally accepted to be preferable. You're asking this as a cope.
/r/askTRP12/04/21 05:25 PM
1

I wouldn't say this is a red flag, but I think your point about forming the image of a perfect man could fit here. Nonetheless, everyone is going to form the image of "a perfect partner" in one way or another.
/r/askTRP12/04/21 01:22 PM
1

i) for a plate, who cares ii) if you're down so bad in life that you need her for your financial stability or something (keep a roof over your head lol)
/r/askTRP12/04/21 01:21 PM
6

Interesting. I'm not Asian so this is new perspective. Out of curiosity what does Asian culture teach girls/women regarding dating?
/r/TheRedPill11/04/21 08:40 PM
49

I don’t think it’s useful to view motivation through an elitist lens like this. Pussy motivates some guys to better themselves and it isn’t necessarily a bad thing.
/r/TheRedPill11/04/21 07:24 PM
1

Sounds like you handled it well
/r/askTRP11/04/21 05:09 PM
1

unless she declines for a good reason like infection or irritation), You say this so casually... what?
/r/askTRP09/04/21 11:15 PM
2

Ignore Put phone down and keep grinding Delete all males from your snapchat that aren't in your tribe
/r/askTRP09/04/21 10:49 PM
57

Nice writeup. Every sentence is punchy and adds value. Loyalty is not some quality women possess or lack. Loyalty is simply the result of her waking up each day and you being the highest value male in her life. The bank vs restaurant analogy is new one for me. Thanks.
/r/TheRedPill09/04/21 08:55 PM
9

In general, do guys like girls who are fit with nice legs? My question is, is building muscle and getting bigger advantageous when it comes to pursuing chicks? Are you fucking stupid? Obviously the answer is yes.
/r/askTRP09/04/21 08:45 PM
6

Two ways to think about this: 1) She was concerned she had an STD and is relieved she doesn't 2) She is marketing to potential future lays she doesnt have an STD Either way it's bad news for the relationship
/r/askTRP09/04/21 07:34 PM
3

I remember your post from last week. Read the comments there. Nothing has changed about women in the last week.
/r/askTRP09/04/21 07:26 PM
2

Is it one or the other for you?
/r/askTRP09/04/21 07:11 PM
1

I've never understood shaking hands
/r/askTRP09/04/21 07:08 PM
2

Whatever you want
/r/askTRP08/04/21 09:56 PM
1

"I have to use my phone all day for work, come over if you want to chat"
/r/askTRP08/04/21 09:51 PM
4

Just tell her to come over
/r/askTRP08/04/21 09:46 PM
-1

Why are you wasting your time thinking about this shit
/r/askTRP08/04/21 08:04 PM
13

Grow your social circle and meet them in person. In my experience most "8-10s" don't use OLD. I don't either.
/r/askTRP08/04/21 05:27 PM
2

I'd frame this as: I'm losing my attraction to you Saying "you need to lose weight" sounds selfish and can be spun back on you (not that you need to care) But you can't help who you are or aren't attracted to. You have your needs and desires and need to be someone/people that fulfill those needs
/r/askTRP08/04/21 05:23 PM
3

In many ways TRP is a form of therapy.
/r/askTRP08/04/21 04:50 PM
8

Sorry your family is fat man but not everyone's family is like that lol
/r/askTRP08/04/21 02:37 AM
3

Well sounds like she's going to be leaving you if you don't break up with her so completely out of your control at this point
/r/askTRP08/04/21 01:36 AM
75

you say she's a plate but have you been with her yet? if so, why is she asking to bring a friend over? just be like why are you bringing a friend?
/r/askTRP08/04/21 01:35 AM
2

Get a notebook. Any time you fuck up, write it down and why it was a fuckup. After a while you'll fuck up less.
/r/askTRP07/04/21 08:32 PM
1

The manager of your gym is not going to metoo you to the whole gym. there is very little downside from going for this
/r/askTRP07/04/21 08:28 PM
3

sigh
/r/askTRP07/04/21 08:26 PM
1

I’m 19 years old and my parents don’t let me go out to the gym. If you're 19 why do your parents still dictate what you can or can't do?
/r/askTRP07/04/21 08:25 PM
4

Don't respond. Maybe she'll come back with an okay let's do it and if not don't waste your time
/r/askTRP06/04/21 11:56 PM
31

Who fucking knows. Mistake number one is trying to interpret what women do. She probably doesn't even know what she's trying to do.
/r/askTRP06/04/21 11:54 PM
14

Will a girl still get the tingles if you look like sid the sloth from ice age? Nope
/r/askTRP06/04/21 11:54 PM
7

I’m replying to someone asking about the best places to work for finance. Lose the teenage angst
/r/askTRP06/04/21 08:16 PM
1

“haha haha that dog in this picture is gonna get more love than you ever will” "And I've already gotten more love in my life than you'll get in the rest of yours" ​ Honestly doesn't really matter what your response is but keep your frame. Odds are this girl is testing you and is probably down to smash if you consistently play your hand correctly. ​ Besides the point, but if your hairline is fucked just shave your head man. Trying to hold onto a balding head of hair is not a good look...
/r/askTRP06/04/21 06:49 PM
0

If goal is to FIRE then US then move to Australia
/r/askTRP06/04/21 06:46 PM
2

US. Maybe Singapore
/r/askTRP06/04/21 06:45 PM
22

Mans got more gaslit than the sun
/r/seduction06/04/21 12:53 PM
0

if she's just a plate why are you worried
/r/askTRP06/04/21 12:19 PM
2

"i feel dirty" "why" then go from there. give a little reassurance but dont break frame
/r/askTRP06/04/21 12:18 PM
0

She views him as the alpha, you're probably out of luck here bud
/r/askTRP05/04/21 11:26 PM
1

Yeah in most cases by the time youre in a confrontation your frame will already be fucked. Stand tall and don't get pulled into pettiness.
/r/askTRP05/04/21 11:26 PM
2

Yeah i see what you're saying
/r/TheRedPill05/04/21 08:24 PM
23

She may like someone, but her universe of guys she'd fuck (if they make a move) is much larger.
/r/TheRedPill05/04/21 07:14 PM
14

Despite what you've heard from feminist teachers in schools, despite the bullshit you may have imbibed from the media, women are passive and won't make the first move. As a man, it's your job to make it, and it will almost certainly remain your job as long as men and women exist. So many young men would benefit greatly from learning & accepting this. ​ There's an extreme deficit of "trying" in our society, and an extreme excess of people saying why something won't work or whatever. The doers sti…
/r/TheRedPill05/04/21 07:12 PM
2

do not get offended at hypergamy. Everyone is hypergamous. Would you prefer to be with ugly chicks? of course not. OP, sounds like your head is actually in a GREAT spot. You're objective with where you stand and are working to improve yourself. Good shit. Keep your foot on the gas and you'll be riding high with the best life has to offer in no time.
/r/askTRP05/04/21 02:22 PM
1

Could be a shit test
/r/askTRP04/04/21 06:16 PM
18

The same way that most women aren't worth LTRing, most men aren't worth being friends with. Just the reality of today's day and age. If you hang with shmucks, youre going to be a shmuck. Your point on last and most important is so key here. Don't hang out with people just for the sake of it. Be around people that add value to your life or fly solo and add value to yourself.
/r/TheRedPill04/04/21 03:07 PM
4

Be ready to walk away
/r/seduction03/04/21 09:25 PM
3

After typing this out, I now notice how pointless it was to even type this out because this bitch has more red flags than a Chinese military parade. This is how we learn and grow. Don't be upset at yourself. Take your lessons learned and keep moving forward - you'll only be better off in the future for learning from this.
/r/askTRP03/04/21 05:36 PM
2

Stop thinking. Turn your brain off. Just relax and be yourself. Sounds like you got tired of fucking her and now there is nothing left tho
/r/askTRP02/04/21 08:59 PM
5

They're not older. Treat it like you've been there before. You're 19 and get 23/24 yo girls all the time
/r/askTRP02/04/21 08:53 PM
5

amen
/r/askTRP02/04/21 08:45 PM
15

I've definitely been with worse lol
/r/askTRP02/04/21 08:28 PM
8

LOL
/r/askTRP02/04/21 08:20 PM
11

I can tell by your voice in the post that you don't understand how women work.
/r/askTRP01/04/21 08:51 PM
7

You're making the mistake of interpreting her "yes" as "I want to go out with you". Instead you should interpret her "yes" as "I will tolerate going out with you so I don't hurt your feelings"
/r/askTRP01/04/21 08:40 PM
2

Yup. So I asked her out this week and of course she's said yes. OP in for a rude awakening
/r/askTRP01/04/21 08:30 PM
52

damn you cracked the code!
/r/askTRP01/04/21 08:22 PM
0

I'm not a scientist but I don't think HGH works like that...
/r/askTRP01/04/21 07:29 PM
9

Solid post. I was thinking about this the other week but not in this level of depth. A lot of the battle is just being fuckable. It's not about making her want to fuck YOU. Everyone woman will want to fuck periodically, the same way you or I do. At that point it's just about securing the kill.
/r/TheRedPill01/04/21 06:35 PM
6

Lift, have a beer, aggressive sex, whatever man just onload your emotions on something and blow off steam
/r/askTRP01/04/21 03:49 PM
11

I can't help but laugh reading this.
/r/askTRP31/03/21 07:08 PM
0

Rule 5 violation
/r/askTRP31/03/21 06:21 PM
2

If you want her as more than a friend then table it, spend some time away, get your SMV up and then you can try again. Clearly she wasn't into you the first time so if you don't change anything then why would she be into you now?
/r/askTRP31/03/21 02:12 PM
3

Whatever you want man
/r/askTRP31/03/21 02:11 PM
2

If you're big enough nobody is going to fuck with you
/r/askTRP31/03/21 02:09 PM
5

posts like this should be a permaban imo
/r/askTRP31/03/21 02:08 PM
0

The answer is simple. If you want her in your life, keep in her your life.
/r/askTRP31/03/21 02:08 PM
1

Before you decide how to respond, you need to decide if it's even worth having this woman in your life. You have a finite amount of resources to contribute to your hobbies, goals, etc. Do you want to be spending time and energy playing these games? I wouldn't. If you think you're going to "pass the test" and then these games will end, you're sorely mistaken.
/r/askTRP31/03/21 01:28 PM
1

It's not necessarily comparable because a 1RM is not comparable to sex but 2 plates maybe for squat and bench and you'll be in the top 10%
/r/askTRP30/03/21 07:42 PM
8

I disagree. Honestly nothing wrong with wanting to be able carry around women I see what you're saying but you're taking it too far to the point that it's just ridiculous
/r/askTRP30/03/21 07:41 PM
1

I can honestly say I've never encountered this. if someone is asking dumb questions, say you're busy or ask them to email you
/r/askTRP30/03/21 07:38 PM
22

I usually just ask to meet and get an answer right then
/r/askTRP30/03/21 07:36 PM
2

Sexual compatibility is critical for a healthy long term relationship. If you can't find a solution that works for you you have to move on.
/r/askTRP30/03/21 07:36 PM
5

Nah
/r/askTRP30/03/21 03:41 PM
14

I have no idea what “social credit” is but i don’t want it 😂
/r/askTRP30/03/21 03:36 PM
45

Thanks for organizing this and will be helpful for new members.
/r/TheRedPill30/03/21 02:52 PM
94

social media is cancer. it ruins female's brains the same way porn ruins men's brains if your SMV has truly increased, why are you worried about all this shit?
/r/askTRP30/03/21 02:18 PM
1

I would like to know why is it harmful? "some people would rather get complimented on their body than their style"
/r/seduction30/03/21 02:09 PM
0

Pretty generic advice and this may work in different situations. But not all people are the same... some people would rather get complimented on their body than their style. Generic overarching advice like this can be harmful
/r/seduction30/03/21 12:54 PM
5

Ignore them or move out
/r/askTRP30/03/21 12:15 PM
2

Build up your own self worth so that you don't care how others react to you. Once you have abundance it won't matter if you rub people the wrong way. Be yourself
/r/askTRP30/03/21 12:14 PM
2

Yup. OP is just some entertainment
/r/askTRP30/03/21 12:12 PM
6

Setting everything else aside - If you don't want a future with her, why would you LTR her?
/r/askTRP30/03/21 12:11 PM
1

Stop jerking yourself off
/r/askTRP30/03/21 02:14 AM
19

Yup. Might as well delete words like "Always" or "Never" from your vocabulary.
/r/askTRP30/03/21 02:14 AM
7

I mean you got way too involved too so you definitely could've played it better. Sometimes friends will take advantage of you at the first opportunity, but that doesn't seem like this is what that is. Everyone in this situation did shady shit IMO
/r/askTRP30/03/21 02:10 AM
1

What are you going to school for?
/r/askTRP29/03/21 11:10 PM
4

What is your question?
/r/askTRP29/03/21 11:10 PM
1

Start small just talk about products at the grocery store or some shit idk After a while you'll realize it's just talking and not that scary
/r/askTRP29/03/21 09:59 PM
5

This is the right answer
/r/askTRP29/03/21 03:58 PM
1

Sounds like you have a good head on your shoulders and a much better perspective than I did at your age. Good luck
/r/askTRP29/03/21 03:52 PM
6

This post is all over the place. Can you please include a TLDR with your key points and ask?
/r/askTRP29/03/21 03:05 PM
1

Well academic success is very important in teen years, I'm not saying that it isn't. I'm saying that I've seen tons of people with great grades in high school/college fall flat in life because they rely on their academic achievements to carry them through life. It simply won't happen. Grades are a means to an end but you need other skills to find financial success.
/r/askTRP29/03/21 02:29 PM
2

It's possible but i think only a remote possibility. nonetheless it sounds like the juice isn't worth the squeeze
/r/askTRP29/03/21 02:27 PM
2

Then why not
/r/askTRP29/03/21 02:11 PM
2

don't worry about it just play it cool and see where it leads. if she ignores you or isn't interested then take your lessons learned and keep it pushing she's your roommate? how important is she as a roommate? can you get another roommate? I wouldn't bang my roommate under the situations you've described but just weigh the pros and cons and make a decision Overall don't overthink these things
/r/askTRP29/03/21 01:34 PM
4

How are your social skills? are you street smart? those things will take you farther than good grades. Based on your post i think the concern is that you're overly reliant on academic success to propel you through life where as once you're mid 20s it is completely irrelevant In general, financial success, health, how attractive you are, social skills are the key main areas you can improve but that's for you to decide what's important to you
/r/askTRP29/03/21 01:32 PM
5

just tell her goodnight and then tomorrow tell her goodmorning and keep it pushing
/r/askTRP29/03/21 03:21 AM
2

Yeah man you're right. You're face is ugly so you should just give up on your life. /s You have little control over your "face". Focus on what you can control and make a life for yourself that you love. Get out of here with this blackpill bullshit.
/r/askTRP29/03/21 03:19 AM
1

wym
/r/askTRP29/03/21 03:18 AM
7

How could she ruin your life? If you're not a high-profile celebrity I don't think you can get "cancelled" Be yourself and if she's not into your humor just move to the next one
/r/askTRP29/03/21 03:18 AM
5

Just ignore it - if you feed into it you're only encouraging this type of behavior Ignore it and tomorrow she's realize how ridiculous she was acting (maybe)
/r/askTRP29/03/21 03:16 AM
11

Getting jacked helps. Bald head will never beat great hair IMO but it's all about your overall image If youre bald then make sure you have nice facial hair
/r/askTRP29/03/21 03:07 AM
17

Yup exactly Doesn't hurt to figure out what she likes and make her enjoy it more too If she's dead starfish you're probably doing something wrong...
/r/askTRP29/03/21 03:06 AM
1

kk
/r/askTRP29/03/21 01:00 AM
2

suit yourself
/r/askTRP29/03/21 01:00 AM
3

They're similar because they are widely accepted as healthy or normal and then later we scientifically understand better and it is no longer viewed as healthy or normal
/r/askTRP28/03/21 11:15 PM
5

No
/r/askTRP28/03/21 11:04 PM
12

Based on the post i'd be shocked if people saw you as an alpha in highschool - so don't worry cause you don't have a reputation to uphold
/r/askTRP28/03/21 09:04 PM
2

Masturbation is like smoking once was. Everyone thought it was fine or even good for you. Later on the harmful effects became well documented and known. There's going to be an entire generation of limp-dick betas running around because of internet porn.
/r/askTRP28/03/21 07:58 PM
5

Yeah i mean it's fucked but honestly what you did wasn't that bad. the second message was pretty cringey but overall you shot your shot and got your answer. you spent 15 seconds on this interaction and on to the next one its nbd.
/r/askTRP26/03/21 03:30 AM
3

you have to change your pic we look too similar
/r/askTRP26/03/21 02:31 AM
1

I swear some of you guys are too fragile No it's not breaking frame to (as they say in Pulp Fiction) stick your tongue in her Holiest of Holies
/r/askTRP26/03/21 02:31 AM
3

Exactly... we’re all just on the journey
/r/TheRedPill25/03/21 08:45 PM
3

to be fair, nobody "wants to be a rebound'. you fucked up by hinting/implying that she was a rebound just keep it pushing and don't talk about past relationships with women
/r/askTRP25/03/21 03:00 PM
16

What a great analogy. So tired of seeing posts by people saying "I'm redpilled"
/r/TheRedPill25/03/21 02:04 PM
2

yeah man you're good i wouldn't sweat it too much. you walk away with lessons learned and on to the next one
/r/askTRP25/03/21 01:57 PM
3

You save face by not saying anything. Up ur SMV and keep it pushing. Look back at the 5 months and smile and think about the people you'll meet in the future.
/r/askTRP24/03/21 11:59 PM
1

It's not happy nor sad. It is what it is.
/r/askTRP22/03/21 06:05 PM
3

Blackpilled is kinda similar to redpill but blackpill ideology is "I was not born a chad therefore i will be an incel for the rest of my life" Redpill ideology would be "The genetics I was born with are irrelevant. What is relevant is doing the best I can with the hand I was dealt"
/r/askTRP22/03/21 05:39 PM
1

Ultimately up to you. I don't lie but i'm not here to tell you what your moral code should be. If you're fun and interesting and high SMV she'll stick around
/r/askTRP22/03/21 03:10 PM
6

I don't.
/r/askTRP21/03/21 10:21 PM
5

You're not going to get to know someone if you treat it like an interview. Your sample size of 3 isn't really representative of every women but yeah i mean these days a lot of people don't do much. If she doesn't interest you then move on, it's no big deal. Ultimately it depends on what your goals are. For what I use tinder for, there is no reason to go on dates. I go on dates with women I meet in person and have pre-existing chemistry with.
/r/seduction21/03/21 10:14 PM
1

It's absolutely fine to get involved with a divorced woman
/r/askTRP21/03/21 09:52 PM
3

You're playing yourself. Get off socials.
/r/askTRP21/03/21 09:47 PM
3

Yeah i mean it is what it is. if you're looking for a reason to resent someone, you'll be able to find one.
/r/askTRP21/03/21 04:33 AM
11

Yeah exactly... if you need dating apps to get girls you're definitely not "red pilled". Not to mention calling yourself red pilled is incredibly tacky. Easiest formula for me is having a huge social circle with lots of women always around and naturally you'll hit it off with some. Never really liked apps.. prefer in person connection
/r/askTRP20/03/21 04:53 PM
1

I will guaranfuckingtee you it is intentional. She is testing u and u are failing... make plans to see her in person and cut out the texting
/r/askTRP19/03/21 04:11 AM
1

sounds good. let us know what u decide
/r/askTRP19/03/21 04:01 AM
1

What do you mean by escalation???
/r/askTRP19/03/21 03:57 AM
1

Grow your social circle so it's just couples. If you have a big social circle of single women and you make it easy for women to be attracted to you then you'll have no problem
/r/askTRP19/03/21 03:55 AM
2

No context needed. If she's asks questions then yeah be like "I started a new job and i'm settled in now and i wanna see you"
/r/askTRP19/03/21 03:54 AM
1

These other comments are kinda weird imo. Just ask her to do something. "hey let's grab a drink this thursday"
/r/askTRP19/03/21 03:53 AM
6

Honestly once you stall or pause your social media you'll probably never go back.. you'll realize it's not needed and doesn't really add value to your life. Upping your SMV and improving yourself and the things you care about will make you so much more fulfilled
/r/askTRP19/03/21 03:36 AM
2

One of the best sayings.
/r/askTRP19/03/21 03:35 AM
2

Nah. I have a solid gig so my time is best spent focusing on my main job.
/r/askTRP19/03/21 02:04 AM
2

good luck - let us know how it goes
/r/askTRP18/03/21 06:50 PM
4

If your question is "am i obligated to tell women I have a kid?" the answer is "no". Do whatever produces the best results for you. I wouldn't recommend lying if youre asked but then again its your life and do what you want. Sounds like you're thinking about things clearly and ultimately the fact you have a kid doesn't impact your relationship with the women you've described. if it's not relevant to them then no need to bring it up
/r/askTRP18/03/21 05:34 PM
-1

I don't really care what a plate does with SJWs when i'm not around. If it's good when we're together then why would i?
/r/askTRP18/03/21 02:33 PM
0

Yeah i mean if you want to
/r/askTRP18/03/21 12:59 PM
1

You know exactly what to do... you perfectly listed all the shit you're doing wrong so do the opposite of everything you listed here and you'll be good buddy
/r/askTRP18/03/21 12:45 PM
-3

Just stay relaxed
/r/askTRP18/03/21 12:41 PM
6

Ignore it and don't give it any attention. Drop the guys
/r/askTRP18/03/21 12:38 PM
2

Mods should take this down as violation of rule zero but i'll respond before they do: The world has plenty of men that put women on a pedestal and get walked all over. This is just not the place for it. sorry bud. The chipotle i had for lunch wasn't prescribed by a doctor but i fuck with it heavily. It's not hurting you so why do you care? Guys are not naive to the risks... if they want to take them then as an adult they should be able to make that decision for themselves
/r/askTRP18/03/21 12:24 AM
1

What do they have to lose?
/r/askTRP17/03/21 12:59 AM
17

Honestly I didn't even read the post but don't hurt yourself. Just remember all these negative thoughts and feelings youre experiencing are the result of society trying to force you into a corner. Glad you discovered TRP and now can begin digging your way out
/r/askTRP16/03/21 07:27 PM
3

Don't you feel great after lifting? I love the pump and of course the gains don't hurt either. Also great for my mental. If none of those reasons appeal to you then idk mayne
/r/askTRP16/03/21 05:44 PM
2

It's not all about looks at all. I recommend reading the sidebar - specifically about Frame
/r/askTRP16/03/21 01:34 PM
0

Get another doctor's opinion
/r/askTRP16/03/21 12:47 PM
5

Develop some emotional intelligence. There is no one-size fits all formula for life. Gotta read the situation and act accordingly. "well some guys on reddit told me this would work" isn't going to get you very far
/r/askTRP15/03/21 07:53 PM
5

Once she's made up her mind there is no changing it... Accept it or move on tbh.
/r/askTRP15/03/21 01:13 PM
2

better to give her special status of being blocked than the special status of making a reddit post about her IMHO
/r/askTRP15/03/21 01:13 PM
3

agreed. saw an ex of mine go down this path. first it was the lips, then the tits followed soon after. who knows what else she's had done at this point.
/r/askTRP15/03/21 01:11 PM
2

You haven't given us any context to help you. Is she asking you your opinion on it or is she telling you she's doing it? You can try reaffirming her that you like her lips right now but like I said I think once her mind is made up then it's over
/r/askTRP15/03/21 12:53 PM
1

Don't answer it
/r/askTRP15/03/21 12:48 PM
10

Once she's made up her mind there is no changing it... Accept it or move on tbh.
/r/askTRP15/03/21 12:48 PM
1

I live in a massive city so I can't really relate but still there must be girls in your town. Can you connect your friend group with another friend group of girls? What do people in your town do for fun? Go play kickball or something and meet people.
/r/askTRP15/03/21 12:42 PM
3

Very well said and congrats. To add, block her on social media (or ideally just delete your socials) and that will help. Write down 3-4 goals that are important to you. The type of person you wish you were ya know. And then everyday track your progress against those goals. You'll be shocked where you'll be in a year.
/r/askTRP15/03/21 12:36 PM
6

Easiest is just through your friend group/social circle - always be expanding your social circle and meeting new people. Easily to do this organically once you get to a critical mass and you meet friends of friends.
/r/askTRP15/03/21 12:29 PM
15

Just because you aren't texting her it doesn't mean you're ghosting her. No need to always be saying something...
/r/askTRP15/03/21 12:26 PM
7

I think it's a variation of 1) where she just wants the validation that you would come over if she wanted you to. Might've been a fitness test but not necessarily.
/r/askTRP15/03/21 02:50 AM
1

I wrote a reply but realized you said it better so take my upvote
/r/askTRP12/03/21 11:29 PM
2

Because it is weird. Most people are addicted to social media and can't fathom someone not using it. Just because it's weird doesn't make it wrong. I just straight up tell people I think it's addictive and because I have an addictive personality I don't use it - I like spending my time on other things. At this point I don't think most women label me as weird but it's all about your frame
/r/askTRP12/03/21 11:28 PM
3

If this is your thought process, she's not your plate. if anything you're her plate lmao. No need to reply to her - go get an extra workout in or something.
/r/askTRP12/03/21 05:54 PM
73

The point of an LTR is that it could be permanent - its not just your turn in that case. The "it's your turn" mentality is good for plates, not for LTR. if you see a future with this girl then go for the LTR. If not keep her as a plate til it breaks. Also if you got a ppt presentation i should learn a thing or two from you.. most of my women just call me a scumbag over text
/r/askTRP12/03/21 05:51 PM
1

Traps and forearms
/r/askTRP12/03/21 05:46 PM
1

Nothing to add in the comments. Take my upvote - great post
/r/TheRedPill12/03/21 01:54 PM
3

If he brings value to your life in other ways then why would you boot him out? If he's not draining your energy then what is the problem?
/r/askTRP11/03/21 03:50 AM
3

Just because Women are hypergamous it doesn't mean it's the only thing they care about. There are other factors they care about which can cause them to be loyal to you even if youre a beta soyboy
/r/askTRP11/03/21 03:42 AM
1

One thing a lot of guys are surprised to hear about me is that I don't workout that hard. I honestly don't feel like I do. The reason I have a great physique is because I workout 5 days a week with no breaks or time off. I've done this for years. Consistency is key to achieving long-term goals. Everyone nowadays wants a short-term fix and they want that quick gratification. OP has some great points. I think the "donuts today or a six pack for the summer" analogy is very useful and I will steal t…
/r/TheRedPill10/03/21 02:30 PM
6

I agree it's a bit of a headscratcher that you're just realizing this 2 years in... I've never told a woman to change her body... especially when she's had the same body for 2 years. If she had gotten fat or something that is a different story
/r/askTRP09/03/21 04:39 PM
1

I hear you. I'd definitely agree a clean break is helpful at first. I don't use any social media so I wasn't as worried about that but it seems like you have a good mental about this so I wouldn't worry too much about it. You'll get through just fine.
/r/askTRP09/03/21 04:34 PM
2

It's shitty and I was in a similar situation a few years back (I moved to the east coast and girl stayed on west coast). It sucked at first but now we see each other a few times a year and smash and have a lot of fun together when we see each other. Ultimately if she's a good girl and adds value to your life then keep a relationship with her. Who knows what the future holds and your paths might cross again. Breakups suck man no other way to say it tbh
/r/askTRP09/03/21 04:05 PM
2

I think generalizations are a dumb mans way of thinking about the world. There is no problem in understanding differences between men and women but you need to understand there are always exceptions and everybody is different. Adapt to new situations and people.
/r/askTRP09/03/21 03:58 PM
1

I don't think the issue is that you did too much for her. The issue is that she doesn't see value in you past you acting as her therapist through her legal battle. Now that the legal battle is done she has no reason to interact with you. She doesn't see you as high value. You have to retreat and try to reframe and maybe she'll come back.
/r/askTRP09/03/21 01:23 PM
5

Go for it if you want but I usually soft next after any sort of freakout/blocking etc cause I don't like drama in my life. This sounds like an interesting/exciting situation for you so maybe just see how it plays out? Keep us updated since lots of interest in the comments
/r/askTRP08/03/21 09:48 PM
6

Good reminders heading into a new week. Not taking any action is an action in itself. Once you get abundance all of these things will come naturally.
/r/TheRedPill08/03/21 02:48 PM
3

Not really an issue if you want to block them. Should just give up social media altogether imo but thats besides the point. Whatever you do, don't put resources into trying to hurt them - use those resources on yourself.
/r/askTRP08/03/21 12:11 AM
4

Put the phone down and enjoy your life. Stop overthinking this and digging yourself a deeper hole. This isn't a big deal just forget about it and have a good date tuesday
/r/askTRP05/03/21 06:20 PM
2

Good reminder. thanks OP.
/r/seduction05/03/21 04:39 PM
2

Contrary to popular belief, there is no One Size Fits All formula for the worlds best personality. I have learned a lot from How To Win Friends and Influence People and lot of those lessons are about being nice and resourceful to others. Just like any other medium, take things from TRP that work for you and leave the things that don't. The trick is just to constantly be evolving and improving yourself. Good luck OP and certainly don't look down on yourself for being nice.
/r/askTRP05/03/21 02:24 PM
5

Check Rule Zero
/r/askTRP04/03/21 09:37 PM
83

Honestly, respect to that girl cause she doesn't give a single fuck. She's probably read more of the sidebar than most people here
/r/TheRedPill04/03/21 08:48 PM
36

Most of these posts come from guys that aren't capable of thinking about issues beyond the surface level. Let's say that things are in fact worse. So what? What does it change? Do you want a fucking tissue? Regardless of what came before, what the current situation is, and what is to come, it's your responsibility to make the most of your life and comparing current period to others doesn't do a damn thing to benefit you. Stop farming for other soys to justify your sadness and take control of you…
/r/TheRedPill04/03/21 08:47 PM
3

weak lmao
/r/askTRP04/03/21 02:46 PM
6

Can we have a post stickied or something that says "if you have to ask, then she's not into you"? One of the best pieces of advice I ever received was: "If someone likes you, you will know. If they don't, you'll feel confused"
/r/askTRP04/03/21 01:18 PM
4

Yeah a lot of people are too quick to next. Nothing wrong with keeping people around but just in a reduced capacity. I wouldn't worry too much OP
/r/askTRP03/03/21 04:56 PM
-4

A bit of a different view here, but if he's happy why do you care?
/r/askTRP03/03/21 04:06 PM
3

It's really true... it isn't easy but honestly getting new fresh perspectives in your life is also really helpful
/r/TheRedPill03/03/21 04:03 PM
29

Yep this is something a lot of guys don't realize. You can't hang out with shmucks and expect to be a chad... your social circle is very influential in ways most people don't even recognize.
/r/TheRedPill03/03/21 02:27 PM
2

They can bounce back if they work for it
/r/askTRP03/03/21 03:48 AM
1

What the fuck man that is some dark shit. Maybe tell her parents to help her cause this is pretty concerning
/r/askTRP02/03/21 02:00 PM
34

A lot of girls will have her response. I would've just said "ok cool i'm down to be friends" and leave it at that. Just because you're "just friends" now doesn't mean you can't smash once in a while. This could've been a shit test and you failed. Either way, i wouldn't worry too much about it you're good
/r/askTRP02/03/21 01:55 PM
2

well said
/r/askTRP02/03/21 04:23 AM
9

Who cares
/r/askTRP01/03/21 03:30 AM
3

Mods should clean this up shorltly. Low effort post. Not even a question attached.
/r/askTRP24/02/21 12:22 AM
1

The real key to dealing with fear is to not be afraid. To not be afraid you need to have confidence. Taking just the intro to your post, you can start working on yourself and at the very least start working on your mental since you clearly don't favorably view yourself. Start working out a bit. Start getting skills to get a good job or start your own company. Get a driver's license. Once you start climbing the ladder of life then we can reevaluate your social skills and girl situation. but often…
/r/askTRP23/02/21 08:35 PM
2

I feel like there is a lot of emotional baggage for many women that comes along with sex work. It may not be apparent right now, but down the road they may regret their decision or wish they could undo it. I don't really want to deal with that and I'd rather be with someone more financially stable (doesn't need to do onlyfans) as an LTR.
/r/askTRP23/02/21 08:23 PM
2

Plate
/r/askTRP23/02/21 07:45 PM
1

Sure. Why not. It's just dating...
/r/askTRP23/02/21 07:39 PM
1

Youre good. Don't sweat it. You don't need to bring it up with her and just go on like normal. If she brings it up, then your response is "everyone gets anxiety from time to time, i'm no different". Don't worry
/r/askTRP18/02/21 08:32 PM
-2

What's your question?
/r/askTRP18/02/21 01:59 PM
9

Getting your finances in order is the number one way to improve your life. When your finances are in order, it is much easier to optimize your health, hobbies, women, etc. Young men have no guidance when it comes to finances and are only taught that consumption is the way to the top - it's not. The same way that women love a man that doesn't need them, employers love a worker that can walk away at any time (excise confidence in the workplace, freedom to express contrarian views, etc). Looking to…
/r/TheRedPill18/02/21 01:55 PM
9

I don't understand the beginning of this post, but the rest is pretty good. With the changing landscape of the US, the gap between the haves and the have-nots is growing ever wider. If you're not on top then soon you'll be at the very bottom. I personally hate this, but it's the fact of the matter and refusing to accept it as so will not make it go away. Make sure you get yours.
/r/TheRedPill16/02/21 03:17 PM
5

What a low effort post. Fucking trash.
/r/TheRedPill11/02/21 10:46 PM
6

ngl i stopped reading after that lmao
/r/TheRedPill11/02/21 04:51 PM
9

I agree with this. Fretting over all these small things are just going to hurt you in the long run. The key message is to shoot your shot or you'll never even find out if she wants you.
/r/TheRedPill28/01/21 02:12 AM
4

The way I think about things like this is: it's fine to make fun or shit on people that are above the totem pole from you. Women can attack men and get away with it because men are higher than women on the social totem pole. Same goes for poor people shitting on rich people; people of color bagging on white people. We see this all the time.
/r/TheRedPill12/01/21 07:18 PM
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