1. I’ve started developing oneitis for a girl, it’s annoying as I barely know her, we hooked up once and haven’t seen each other since (she’s “busy” with uni work) and I made the mistake of fantasising the relationship. Made some BP errors over text and I’m sure I’ve blown my chances. I know the easiest way is to get with other girls however a) it’s extremely tough to meet girls in a pandemic rn and b) My degree is very time consuming so I don’t want to spend a lot of time gaming women. Would putting all my effort into gym/uni help get over her or just increase my fantasising?

  2. I’m living with a girl I can easily fuck, we’ve slept in the same bed multiple times however we haven’t done anything as I don’t want to shit where I eat. She’s good looking, I’d say an HB8 however it could get very messy as she has feelings for me but I have none towards her. Is it worth getting the lay/easy plate (could help with oneitis) or do I stay strong and not shit where I eat? I think this would be drama as it would make bringing girls home a lot harder (some people in our place are already joking about us as a couple) but I also need to cure oneitis/I wouldn’t mind the fuck