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Mr-Blonde123/r/askTRP25/04/21 01:03 AM
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Mr-Blonde123/r/askTRP01/03/20 12:01 PM
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At various times in each of our lives where we’ve been at rock bottom there is only one way to go and that is upwards and onwards. People will treat you however you allow them to, until you give a fuck about yourself no one else will either. Its bitter to swallow but whatever situation drove you towards the search for answers allow that anger,disappointment and anger to drive you to be better. My life hasn’t become what I had hoped due to poor decisions I’ve made, but, the areas I have focused o…
/r/TheRedPill23/12/21 08:55 PM
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For those who claim they’re hard gainers and struggle to consume the required calories track your nutrition and food intake. ​ Swap chicken breast for thighs Add peanut butter to your shakes or eat from the tub. The only ingredients should be peanuts and salt. Nothing more. ​ Remember folks lifting is for you, not for girls. They are an additional benefit. Lifting installs discipline which spills over to other areas of your life. Women will notice but it’s the men that respect it the most. A hea…
/r/TheRedPill16/12/21 04:34 PM
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Uk based, no issues sourcing. We also have free access to sharp boxes and all ancillaries needed free of charge. Clomid is an option but I only used that between cycles I now am permanently on, personally no issues, some acne on back and shoulders as to be expected. Only you can make the decision if it’s right for you, I dont regret it. Even 250 mg weekly would put you at over double the levels doctors prescribe. Whilst I can’t advise either way you could do say a 12 week cycle and see how you f…
/r/askTRP22/06/21 09:55 PM
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No I wouldn’t, if your using it purely as ped at least wait until 25. Your bones are still not fully grown to a small degree and your test levels at your age should be fine To make some good gains as a base before you use. If it’s from a mental point of view that you believe you may have a genuine low test condition then get your bloods checked at the docs. Lifting heavy and eating well will serve you better long term, build a base then you’ll have a good foundation to work with
/r/askTRP21/06/21 12:18 AM
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Self administered trt 3 years. Late 30’s…Improved drive, assertiveness, focus and generally all round positive thoughts. Emotional reactivity isn’t something I can relate to, although if adding any other compounds that can change depending on the situation. Prison environments are different and highly charged. Lots of people self administer and lead normal and successful lives, High test levels dont make people aggressive, it’s usually a trait they had in their personality and they’re unable to …
/r/askTRP21/06/21 12:03 AM
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Withdraw, apply dread without overtly communicating. Just go about your way as normal, continue focusing on yourself and either you re ignite her attraction or you don’t and she’s checked out.
/r/askTRP13/06/21 03:46 PM
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Nothing can replace that first line, that sweet trickle running down the back of your throat lightning your mind up like a Christmas tree. You make a deal with the devil and it always wins, chasing that first high. It takes everything and more until you look at yourself in the mirror and don’t recognise the figure staring back at you. That aside, the best fix I’ve found is smashing some deadlifts, heavy as you can go. The sort that makes your body shake and makes you see stars as you go all out.…
/r/askTRP13/06/21 03:41 PM
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You’re young, attaching loosing your virginity with this girl makes your mind want to attach. As you get older and have more experiences it will be nothing more than a memory in the rear view mirror. Experience new women and after time you will see similar patterns repeating, with more experience you can gauge how things will play out and bend things to your own desired outcome.
/r/askTRP09/06/21 11:53 AM
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Ignore, fuck dealing with that cunty attitude. Carry on and proceed as nkrmal
/r/askTRP09/06/21 11:47 AM
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Recognition of this becoming a problem is an important first step. Addiction is a bitch but it’s just masking over the core issue which is loneliness in your situation. Go to AA, get a support group that can relate to the issues you are facing. You feel like shit,turn to drink to escape and the cycle repeats. Quitting an addiction or addictive destructive behaviour can only be done if mentally your head is in it. There is light thought brother and you can turn this around, I was an addict, not a…
/r/askTRP09/06/21 08:05 AM
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“ mistakes were made”. Leave it at that, no need to start Deer’ing. Acknowledge and draw a line in the sand, do not repeat said mistake and do not let her hold you by the balls for this either. Continue leading.
/r/askTRP01/06/21 08:23 PM
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As long as you don’t push back it’s all good
/r/askTRP31/05/21 05:51 PM
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Whilst we all can agree lifting is important, there will be a variety of differing opinions and views, The best answer would be the best program is the one you can consistently stick to. ​ Personally I’ll stick to compound lifts 4 days a week, heavy weight low reps with some rep ranges of 8-10 at a lighter weight as well as either chin ups, pull ups or Tricep dips depending on any weak points I want to address. Get your diet dialled in, eat well and train consistently. The rest will take care of…
/r/askTRP30/05/21 10:24 PM
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Look my man, we’ve all walked the path you are walking to some degree at some point in our lives. You are not a special case. Change will only come when you make it happen, life will pass you by without giving one single fuck. Realise you are the only person who can pull yourself out of the hole you find yourself in, you have more power and control than you realise. Some of us have been suicidal, depressed, broke, rich, had siblings taken away from us and had it all and lost it. We keep picking …
/r/askTRP30/05/21 10:13 PM
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Often people begin lifting with the sole goal of attracting women and that’s ok. When you stick at it and experience the positives you realise we advocate it for you and yourself, it’s a part of you that you earn and work hard to achieve. This bleeds into other areas of your life,mentality,work ethic to name but a few.
/r/askTRP30/05/21 09:56 PM
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Be civil but treat it like a business transaction. There’s a job that needs completed and it needs to get done. Be the mature,well rounded adult in this. Avoid any relationship talk or entering into any discussion. Remember this is what you want for the reasons you’ve stated here. As a side note being civil and polite without getting emotional or seeking/ giving closure will fire her hamster up. Don’t be surprised if she hits you up after but most importantly remember your reasons for this and s…
/r/askTRP27/05/21 05:09 PM
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You’ve made your mind up and it’s ended. With that established there is no further need to enter into a discussion with her about the relationship. Giving closure will just prolong the situation and her hamster will spin you no end of shit, eventually she will place all blame onto you and categorise you as the beta and man beneath her. It will become all your fault Respect to you for standing your ground and being decisive, continue pursuing your mission, remember abundance and respect your own …
/r/askTRP27/05/21 04:47 PM
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You are based on the value of your looks. The world is shallow but it is what it is. When your mind catches up and you believe what the world is telling you the path is yours to cultivate as you so wish.
/r/askTRP25/05/21 02:43 PM
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Get the practise in any way you can. Think of a fatty or an ugly like a moped, fun to ride until your mates see you with it. Practise,learn and keep on learning, the game never ends
/r/askTRP23/05/21 05:31 PM
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Develop and cultivate a positive self image, positive feedback loops when you see yourself improving and getting better than the man you was yesterday will create a frame nobody can take away. ​ Be a man who values himself and others will hold you to the same regard. Be better not bitter. The life you want is in your control if you take it
/r/askTRP23/05/21 03:29 PM
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Listen up my man. ​ You don’t deal with it, you ignore it and happily get on with your day, smashing any obstacle and challenge that comes along. You simply get better. Have fun and enjoy pursing excellence in your chosen interest. Watch her attraction re ignite.
/r/askTRP23/05/21 03:14 PM
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Do what you need to do as a man for your own self respect. she will no doubt come back at a later date, she was using tinder to seek validation and attention. Either you took your eye off the ball in which case you can grow from this or you dont do anything and she will continue pushing boundaries. Theres a lesson to be taken, you will find this situation will occur again with another woman at some stage. Be thankful for the circumstances that hurt you, these are the times you grow as a man
/r/askTRP23/05/21 11:14 AM
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Never commit and when faced with a woman’s threats to leave double down and let her leave. No drama, shouting or explaining. Often she will pull herself back into line when you remain solid in your composure. Had this situation occur very recently, other woman’s belongings in my apartment. She became emotional and disrespectful to me in my own home. Made all the threats so I politely asked her to leave until she can speak to me with respect in my own home. ​ 10mins later with much crying a compl…
/r/TheRedPill23/05/21 10:46 AM
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Women will mould themselves into whatever they need to be when they are with a man they value, this also goes for their views,opinions and beliefs. Appreciate them for their nature and sexual strategy, watch their behaviours, their DNA is hardwired just as ours.
/r/askTRP22/05/21 08:56 PM
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Your mindset should be I want to be better than the man I was yesterday. Find your mission and invest into it. Postive feedback builds confidence that you project through your mindset and actions. ​ Before anyone will value you, you must first value yourself. Your mindset will naturally follow.
/r/askTRP22/05/21 08:41 PM
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Look at the muscles recruited in the deadlift opposed to the press, there’s a reason you can always deadlift a bigger weight Shoulder presses predominately work your shoulders hence it’s usually the smallest lift and the most difficult to progress on. Your body will gain more mass in a heavier lift that recruits more muscle. You can split hairs about the king is either squats or deadlift. I squat every session and deadlift just once, the deadlift works the body harder and works it as a whole. Yo…
/r/TheRedPill25/04/21 12:06 AM
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I use a belt after I put my back out from poor form. There are those that use and those that don’t, I’d suggest get one and try see how it feels. I was out for a few months when I first started and now a belt gives me that confidence to push a little harder but still get full muscle activation
/r/TheRedPill25/04/21 12:01 AM
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Look at the muscles recruited in the deadlift opposed to the squat, there’s a reason you can always deadlift a bigger weight Shoulder presses predominately work your shoulders hence it’s usually the smallest lift and the most difficult to progress on. Your body will gain more mass in a heavier lift that recruits more muscle. You can split hairs about the king is either squats or deadlift. I squat every session and deadlift just once, the deadlift works the body harder and works it as a whole. Yo…
/r/TheRedPill24/04/21 11:56 PM
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Bent over rows/ pendlay rows. Same horse different jockey. Gotta agree though and deadlift is a great mass builder. I’m currently on a cut and like you caught a glimpse of my back. Not defined but thickening and widening nicely, add chin ups and that’s all that’s needed. It’s amazing the reactions from people you’ve not seen a while who comment on your change when you barely notice it yourself. Lifting is a must and I regret not starting it earlier, bought the bench and did fuck all with it, was…
/r/TheRedPill24/04/21 11:44 PM
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Word of advice, keep your ego in check. People do not want to hear the truth about life and upon first swallowing the pill it feels as though you’ve a secret cheat code to life. You haven’t, you’ve only just began. Be dominant to get what you want but also be humble. Think as you like but behave like others, keep reading and applying the tools that allow you to achieve the life that you want. It’s a long tough road ahead.
/r/TheRedPill18/04/21 01:20 PM
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Wife cheating on her husband with me. ​ ” Im a great actor, deserve a Hollywood Oscar” It is what it is, game on
/r/askTRP18/04/21 01:16 PM
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As an older guy frame is where it begins. Frame comes from you internally, what you feel within is reflected outwardly by behaviours. When I was younger I used to buy designer labels, to show money. It did nothing to help me. It was an attention grab, peacocking for want of a better word. Grooming,being clean and well presented and smelling good is basic hygiene. You can look good in a cheap plain white t shirt and jeans if you keep in shape and it’s well fitting. You are not missing anything, y…
/r/askTRP18/04/21 10:24 AM
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A woman should be feeling your masculinity before she even gets any smell of money. Money is a terrible example unless you want to be seen as a provider Get reading
/r/askTRP18/04/21 06:38 AM
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Women don’t naturally have an inclination to do much more than watch reality tv and piss around on their phones. There are of course exceptions. when women see you pursue what makes you happy and focus on you’re goals they want to ride along with that. Women want a man with a sparkle in his eye....but they don’t want to be that sparkle
/r/askTRP17/04/21 09:02 PM
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Check out the top posts on red pill. u/woujo post on frame was a game changer for me
/r/askTRP17/04/21 08:53 PM
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If you are aiming to be a high quality man with the sole aim of women you need to re assess your priorities. Be a high quality man for yourself firstly, it spills out into other areas of your life. Sometimes you will fail,sometimes you will experience success. You create the vision for the life you want and the women will appear.
/r/askTRP17/04/21 08:48 PM
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What is this garbage? Material things mean nothing, it’s not a collection of items you need. Its your character, mindset and behaviours. How you conduct yourself. All of which reflect your understanding of how the world works. ​ You need to get reading the sidebar and further your education
/r/askTRP17/04/21 08:42 PM
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Grew up poor, had the piss ripped out of me in school for my shitty clothes. It hurt. Got a job when was old enough and made my own money. Say 16 yrs old + didn’t affect me and before I was red pill aware did ok with women. Your time will come, the tables will turn in your favour if you put in the hard work
/r/askTRP11/04/21 02:08 PM
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When you focus on yourself, progressing in life and whatever the purpose is for you the women naturally come. When you get past x number you stop counting because it really doesn’t matter. For me they become a distraction at times, ironically the less you want them the more they want you. I’m not beating them off with a shitty stick but I’m not out looking really either. They see you have a passion other than them and that is such a turn on. When you get older you will see this, women aren’t the…
/r/askTRP11/04/21 02:01 PM
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Panic attacks, depression drug use. You know the issue there. Nobody gonna bash you if you want to ltr, you know the risks and the likely outcome. You’ve read and absorbed the info here and I can see you have a good grasp of things so go ahead. Brain and emotions are not in sync and you know my man that’s ok. Eventually both will align. Sometimes you gotta keep getting burnt before it ingrains itself. I read a great comment that the brain is a terrible master but a better servant and it really d…
/r/askTRP04/04/21 03:52 PM
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I’d suggest reading top all time posts. There’s something for everyone, read the comments too. Generic advice is to lift. If you’re not doing it why not? Prescription is to get lifting and to get reading top posts. Don’t post again until you’ve read the goldmine of information. Take and leave what fits you and what doesn’t. A toolbox at your disposal. You are not special, neither am I. Accept that and follow my advice, some posts will click and light your brain up like a Christmas tree.
/r/askTRP04/04/21 12:25 PM
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You can drop “ red pill” truths although not recommended. Women don’t want a fake alpha impregnating them. Ignore what they say watch their actions.
/r/askTRP04/04/21 12:09 PM
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The only plate that should be your concern is the one you put on a bar. You pick it up and put it down. Alpha is a mindset. Focus on you first and what you want. The best relationship you will build is the one with yourself
/r/askTRP04/04/21 12:06 PM
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Get out of your head. There are no masters here, we’ve all walked the same path. It’s long, difficult and hard. There is no end. The master has failed more times than the beginner has tried.
/r/askTRP04/04/21 12:03 PM
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Deep in blue pill land here my friend. We’ve all done stupid shit but you got to get out of your head. I’m not gonna blast you as this place is take a penny spend a penny, take something and give something back, help a bro when he’s down. Find a therapist if needed or as has been suggested use head space, anything to stop yourself continuing with these self destructive behaviours. Eliminate all thoughts of ever getting this woman back, she’s gone. So you’re now asking what can I do? Start small,…
/r/askTRP03/04/21 07:03 PM
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Normal to have doubts with some guilt sprinkled on top. We see reality for what it is, sure a good connection and the white picket fence fantasy sounds perfect. But it doesn’t work long term. Blue pill conditioning is very difficult to shake out fully, if women didn’t respond positively to being treated poorly then there wouldn’t be a need for the red pill. It gets easier, all we are doing is adjusting our behaviours to evoke the most positive reaction and desirable behaviours.
/r/askTRP03/04/21 06:34 PM
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The only way you will see things is by experience. You are mentally masturbating any way possible to excuse yourself from letting your ego get hurt and that feeling of being rejected. Instead of testing you want proof and everything spoon fed. There is no helping people with that mindset, exposure and observation of the real world is all that’s required. There are no quick fixes, no shortcuts and no right or wrong answers. You do you.
/r/askTRP02/04/21 12:53 PM
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Girl won’t allow escalation. With you. She’s fucked before but enjoys the attention she is getting without giving back. Pick your balls up and take the loss. Nothing good will come from this
/r/askTRP02/04/21 09:52 AM
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A woman will never love and appreciate you in the way you want her too. Best advice is to withdraw attention. You already know the answer.
/r/askTRP02/04/21 09:49 AM
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A thought. Do you feel you are coming off too strong? Are you too needy? Do you have expectations on how the outcome should be? Consider these questions, if you have any expectation on the outcome women will pick up on this. Are you honest in your intentions and communications? Edit: Your ego being shattered is because you are trying to think like a man; logically Women think with emotion, there is no logical thought process only feels.
/r/askTRP02/04/21 09:47 AM
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^ this right here
/r/askTRP01/04/21 10:02 PM
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You’re not her top priority. Look it up. All the answer you seek it will contain. No link given, no silver spoons here. You’re welcome
/r/askTRP01/04/21 09:45 PM
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Didn’t read. Next. Oneitis. Move on. Job done. Scarcity mindset. Your welcome
/r/askTRP01/04/21 09:38 PM
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Hgh at your age. Stupid. Will fuck your bone fusion up and create all abnormalities. It’s also been shown that if it’s growth( muscular)that you want, there are better and cheaper ways to achieve that goal. It’s also expensive and a pain in the arse to prep. Dont cycle anything until at least 25, you are not a professional bodybuilder. What’s your 1 rep maxes?
/r/askTRP01/04/21 09:36 PM
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Cut weed out. No good comes from it. Instant gratification that rewards you for doing fuck all. You want to feel good and the pride from achieving. Deadlift heavy and feel your body tremble afterwards. Shower then go out and feel like the baddest motherfucker walking with a swagger in your step. You earnt that.
/r/askTRP01/04/21 09:30 PM
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Gentleman, having the prize mentality is all well and good. It’s something used for you to have the abundance mindset, for example if one doesn’t work out there is always another. Women will not flock to you, you need to lead and direct the interaction. Find a woman you like, approach. You have the choice of direct game or indirect game. But never forget you need to make it happen, you are the man. Having “ the prize” attitude is all well and good but you have to get comfortable being uncomforta…
/r/askTRP01/04/21 09:26 PM
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You already know what to do. Advice isn’t what you want, you are seeking someone to give you confirmation of what you are going to do anyway.
/r/askTRP01/04/21 12:52 PM
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Tying your self worth to another is counter productive. Compare yourself to who you were yesterday. Everything in this post stinks of negativity and defeatism. Relying on women to validate yourself is not going to help you so you need to be asking why that is. The shitty results are a result of your shitty attitude and this manifests it’s self in your half arsed work ethic, half arsed attempts at gym and half arsed attempts at getting any progress. Priorities should be career, you, ( anything el…
/r/askTRP01/04/21 10:26 AM
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Girl flake for any reason, period, just not feeling it or anything. Look it happens but that’s part of the game,you move on and find another. A girl flaking should be expected, always be building up new opportunities so when one flakes you’ve another in the pipeline.
/r/askTRP31/03/21 07:53 PM
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1700 calories sounds too low. Calculate your tdee then take 500 off that. You want to track your food, everything that goes in your mouth you track. I use my fitness pal. You want high protein to preserve muscle and do heavy compound lifts. Start small and work up slowly, don’t go full Rambo or you will burn out quickly. Any more info needed come back and ask
/r/askTRP31/03/21 07:50 PM
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The only plate you should be concerned with is the one you pick up and put down
/r/askTRP31/03/21 07:46 PM
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Yes Rohypnol and a cloth. Seriously read the sidebar, the first impression you make before talking is your appearance. You can build the body of a Greek god but with no social skills you won’t get far
/r/askTRP31/03/21 07:37 PM
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“Thought the colour would match my eyelashes”...... or any other stupid shit. Agree and amplify. Remember it’s meant to be fun. Having a frame battle over headphones. Fucking stupid and gets you nowhere. If you are annoyed you clearly failed. Agree and amplify....show her your your a fun relaxed guy.
/r/askTRP31/03/21 07:32 PM
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If she’s rescheduled she’s interested. If you can do Thursday don’t be a dick and meet Thursday. Don’t get to wrapped up in keeping frame and demanding set days, if it works for you then it’s all good. As for her friends, you could just be social and enjoy it. Think of it as opportunity to meet new people, she’s already attracted and if you get along with her friends I’d say you’ve got it the bag. You then have the approval of her friends too which for a woman goes a long way. Be aware of her as…
/r/askTRP31/03/21 07:27 PM
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No benefit in remaining friends, you’ll fuck yourself up. Think objectively, do you want your ex telling you as a friend about the new guys she’s fucking? Best to move along, cry and grieve in private and focus on you
/r/askTRP31/03/21 07:15 PM
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Easiest and quickest way to improve your attractiveness is to lift. May get shit on but building strength is a good start and a solid foundation to work off. As for programs, google and pick one then stick at it. I started years ago with stronglifts,then progressed on from there. Advice will always be to lift heavy, your body will release hormones and improve your mental well-being all round. A clean healthy diet is also needed, if you’re skinny you need to bulk and if you’re fat you need to cut…
/r/askTRP31/03/21 07:12 PM
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Completely normal. Your brain is withdrawing and trying to make sense of what has happened. Your drive will return it takes time. Feel the pain and accept it as difficult as it is, it too will pass. I remember many many years ago I felt lost, the person I loved could move on like I meant shit to them. Fast forward and it’s a complete 180. It’s ok to be upset and hurt, every one who’s here travelled the same path and came out the other side. Get good healthy food in you, lift heavy and get enough…
/r/askTRP29/03/21 05:29 PM
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Congratulate yourself in handling it like a man. Cry, get upset that’s ok. Keep in private. You done well,be proud of yourself
/r/askTRP29/03/21 12:34 PM
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1.... focus on your uni work 2.... An easy lay that could easily create drama and affect your goal of number 1 Your goal shouldn’t be women. Focus on yourself first, the women will follow
/r/askTRP29/03/21 10:37 AM
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Why do you even care? I mean really, shouldn’t you be doing something more productive. Your laughing at the very sluts who create content because people like you keep viewing it.
/r/askTRP29/03/21 10:31 AM
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^ This is the way.
/r/askTRP29/03/21 10:24 AM
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What is it that you want. If you want a relationship, feel you’ve vetted correctly and she meets your requirements then go for it. Remember she was and is only attracted to you right now because she doesn’t have the commitment. You are a challenge. Are you willing to overlook her red flags? Familiarity breeds contempt, I assume you’ve read and understand how relationships are hard mode.
/r/askTRP29/03/21 10:22 AM
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There isn’t, buy yourself a box of tissues and be content getting to know your right hand a lot better. OR drop the pity party, work with what you’ve got and get reading. Be a defeatist looser or don’t be. Your choice
/r/askTRP29/03/21 10:15 AM
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A girl can and will say anything to you to test your reaction. Maybe it was just a shitty comment. You’re attitude should be “ who the fuck cares”. You’re asking us what crossing the line means, if it’s crossed the line for you then she’s crossed a boundary. Ask yourself why has this one comment affected you as it has? Why has this comment hurt the ego. If she’s crossed YOUR boundaries withdraw,demonstrate with your actions not words. If she feels you pulling away she will either modify her beha…
/r/askTRP29/03/21 10:12 AM
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Meth heads have abs, focus on your body as a whole. Compound exercises,squat,bench deadlift,rows,chins and dips. If at 10.5 % body fat your abs aren’t showing either your calculations are wrong or you need to develop muscle mass. You need to work out your tdee and either eat in surplus to gain weight or deficit to loose weight. You can go keto,paleo or any other fad diet. It’s as simple as calories in vs calories out. Fuck you could even loose weight eating twinkies if your burning more than tha…
/r/askTRP28/03/21 08:09 PM
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Late 30’s. There’s some stupid shit asked here. Half the problems could be solved by looking at the top posts. Goldmine of knowledge
/r/askTRP28/03/21 06:13 PM
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Life isn’t linear there will be peaks and troughs. We all fall off the wagon and that’s normal, look at all the blue pill shit we are surrounded with on a daily basis. You recognise it but no one can slap the reality into you. You already know what you need to do. Hell if you want it confirmed any clearer hook up with a woman and watch it all play out scene by scene. Get back on the horse, go monk mode if needed for a week or two and get back lifting and giving yourself some self love. The best …
/r/askTRP28/03/21 05:58 PM
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Be attractive. Don’t be unattractive. Your looks dictate the interaction. You look good it’s easy mode. Women still need comfort and some form of rapport before dropping their panties. Yes you can exchange a couple of messages and go straight for the number. She has a perception of you in her mind based on your picture, if your personality and frame are not congruent she will pick up on this. Don’t be needy,be entitled and feel like you’re entitled. Women date up, be her best option.
/r/askTRP28/03/21 03:42 PM
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Firstly if you’re under 25 don’t do ped’s. Fact Secondly do you’re own research, this isn’t the place for sources. Thirdly as has been pointed out, the fact you see tren as something before test shows you’ve done fuck all reading. Tren is insanely powerful. I tell you this from experience. If you want to ask questions go educate yourself then come back when you’ve a better knowledge and grasp.
/r/askTRP28/03/21 03:33 PM
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Annoying isn’t it. Like a female beta. Almost repulsive that you get treated like a piece of meat. Play you’re cards right you could end up having a threesome. When a woman pushes for commitment and you decline, often she will settle just on fun if you hold high enough value in her eyes
/r/askTRP28/03/21 11:07 AM
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Still stands. She may regret it, she may want to see you suffer reinforcing her belief she made the right decision. She dumped you but now can’t put you into the box as I describe. By not allowing her to affect you she may be questioning herself. Best revenge is to keep on your grind, let your actions speak
/r/askTRP28/03/21 10:47 AM
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Work on what you have got rather than what you haven’t. I was thinning and a good friend told me to shave it. Fucking mortified at first, sure women will have a preference but get lean, get a chiselled face and own it. It’s only a problem if you make it that way. Most women prefer a man confident and bald than a full head of hair on a man who’s uncertain of himself.
/r/askTRP28/03/21 10:41 AM
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Ego. You dumped her, she needs to feel above you. Girls are and in particularly attractive ones very self conscious and fragile. Think about it, hot girls are used to men simping, validating, stroking their ego. Show a woman you don’t need her and have options and she wants to re affirm in her mind that she is the best you can get
/r/askTRP28/03/21 10:36 AM
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She wants attention. Usually if they’ve been dumped they come back just to bait you, if you bite and she rejects you then in her mind you’ve been categorised and put into the little box in her mind that allows her closure
/r/askTRP28/03/21 09:39 AM
2

We talk a lot on here about alpha/ beta. Chase money etc etc. Firstly your health is more important than any career, sure money is required but if you have somewhere to live and food to eat that’s the very basics nailed down. If you’re feeling depressed ask yourself why. I get it, I’ve been there. Depression in my view is your mind and body telling you there’s something wrong, you’ve ignored all previous signals and now you’re feeling it. If you don’t already I’d say lift. Not for girls, for you…
/r/askTRP28/03/21 09:03 AM
0

Stopped reading that wall of drivel. 31 ffs. Get a fucking grip. You’re young but have victim mentality. You’re all that’s wrong with yourself. The mentality reeks of helplessness. Realise you are responsible for your own direction. There’s a library full of material and you’ve read none to little of it. Life won’t silver spoon you anything
/r/askTRP28/03/21 07:57 AM
2

Women don’t think they feel. You change their mood not their mind. You’ve possibly come across as too needy and keen. Maybe you didn’t build enough comfort,getting a number is really easy but without creating comfort and double messaging she sees you as thirsty. Maybe you did everything right but I’d chalk this one off, re run everything over in your mind and try something different with the next girl. What works for me won’t work with you, and vice versa. Keep practicing, you can’t win them all…
/r/askTRP27/03/21 11:26 PM
7

Choking man. Wish I could offer something useful. Hopefully someone can offer something of use here. Continue being a role model, respect to you
/r/askTRP27/03/21 11:02 PM
5

You’re in stage one of digesting that bitter nasty red pill. You want pussy and it’s hard to admit a lot of the things you’ve been taught are wrong, disgusting and all of us didn’t know shit. Your anger will pass but it was necessary for growth. The danger now is you trying to hold on to your blue pill mentality and mindset and you’re ego. Before rejecting the red pill dig deeper and let the truth slowly sink in.
/r/askTRP27/03/21 10:57 PM
2

As a young lad I was into older women. Enjoyed having them do shit for me and the sex was awesome. You need to be mature for your age, discretion is a must. I was fucking 28 year olds at 17 and it was always the same as I got older. Quite simply it was AF/BB. They were bored and simply wanted fun. You need to spark emotion in them,make them feel something to take their minds away from their shitty realities. There are no magical lines, shitty chat up lines won’t cut it, you find a common interes…
/r/askTRP27/03/21 10:07 PM
2

Just to add to the above comment. In future once YOU have decided what YOU want, say you’re chilling with a girl and your watching a film and see shitty behaviour, add in “I could never be with someone that does xyz” . Sets a boundary without being direct, see if her behaviour changes to said boundary. You can modify behaviours in this way in a very subtle way without communicating overtly that she must do this or the consequences will be xyz. Never issue ultimatums, state your boundaries in a v…
/r/askTRP27/03/21 09:53 PM
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You’ve pulled back the curtain and seen the ugliness behind it. Not pretty is it. From your post you’ve clearly read some material. Now you’ve seen the view behind the curtain don’t allow yourself to become that boyfriend who becomes suicidal when it happens to you. And it will no matter what you do. Ugly as fuck isn’t it. Welcome to the truth
/r/askTRP27/03/21 09:46 PM
10

Stop wanking and getting stoned. Problem solved.
/r/askTRP27/03/21 09:32 PM
3

You’re piece of pussy is acting like a cunt because you’ve fucked up somewhere. Ask yourself does she treat a stranger this way? No. She reserves that special treatment for you. Look up the “stranger test”. Get reading
/r/askTRP27/03/21 09:15 PM
2

Mistake 1 moving in. Kills attraction. Too available You need to read the 12 steps of dread. Look it up on it’s linked on sidebar. I won’t look it as you can find it for yourself. I’d suggest read and search for that then understand what you’re doing wrong.
/r/askTRP27/03/21 09:11 PM
2

Shave Shit Shower And for us old fuck a splash of old spice
/r/askTRP27/03/21 09:04 PM
1

Experience is the king. You can read all the reddit posts and books in the world without learning a single thing. I thought i knew the game. I thought i was RP. I was just an idiot. I let one girl turn my world upside down before I realized what was happening. Because I didn’t have experience. I could recite every rule in this place, but frame must be built. It takes time. You have to fuck up and learn from your mistakes. Now go and earn it.
/r/askTRP26/03/21 08:45 PM
1

You’re 18 and discovered this sub. Already you’re ahead of many others your age. There’s a goldmine of information here and plenty of reading to do, as you read you may experience a wide range of emotions, it isn’t pretty but it’s honest and based on the experiences of those here now and those before us. The most basic thing you can do is start lifting and taking care of diet, this is advocated not for women but for you. The benefits and mental clarity are the biggest bang for buck you can get w…
/r/askTRP26/03/21 09:12 AM
1

Anytime you’re meeting a woman think from the mindset of you’re meeting new interesting people. No expectations, no pressure on her and simply have fun. Over investing turns women off, remember you are the one screening them. Men generally will over invest early, this is normal. It’s ok to like a woman but give her time to warm up to you. Women take longer to invest in a man. I remember reading it like this, men are like a switch. On or off. Women are like a volume knob...she needs to be turned …
/r/askTRP25/03/21 07:00 PM
3

Wrap it up, it’s protection from sti’s and the next 18 years of your life
/r/askTRP25/03/21 12:32 PM
2

Put the fork down Re evaluate why you lost your discipline Track your calories Get back on the horse
/r/askTRP25/03/21 09:26 AM
2

^ This guy gets it
/r/askTRP24/03/21 08:45 PM
1

You can build a genuine relationship with a woman, a relationship is mutually beneficial to you both. You as a man provide her with value, she is not your life she is an accessory. Always have in the back of your mind she can and will leave you at any time. If you want a relationship hold back and protect the last 10% of yourself for nobody but you. That’s yours and yours only. She will demand that last remainder but that’s your point of origin and reference to pick yourself up when your turn en…
/r/askTRP24/03/21 06:59 PM
10

Shave it Get fit Own it
/r/askTRP24/03/21 06:48 PM
8

“ All the best “ Nothing else needed. Don’t allow it create a reaction from you, she may come back, she may not. You’ve had your time now it’s someone else’s turn. Like a fairground ride your time has ended. Meet new girls and experience new things, over time you will see patterns and behaviours repeat themselves as you get more experience.
/r/askTRP23/03/21 10:27 PM
2

Don’t apologise, carry on as normal. She gives you shit you deflect because it doesn’t matter, she can’t break your frame. In this instance you shouldn’t care what she says, this was a simple shit test. There may also be comfort tests which you need to be able to understand so you can respond appropriately. Sidebar breaks this down and explains this in further detail
/r/askTRP23/03/21 10:18 PM
2

You deflected and smashed a shit test. Quite simply you said what you thought and didn’t give a flying fuck. Now enjoy the rewards, be prepared for further tests and always be prepared to walk if the juice ain’t worth the squeeze
/r/askTRP23/03/21 10:14 PM
1

A good leader should know each of his staff individually and know what motivates them. Everybody responds and learns in very different ways. You can be the best leader but also fail depending upon the structure of your company/ organisation. Your job is to make your boss look good and in return your boss should provide you with the tools and resources needed to effectively complete whatever task/ assignment you are meant to accomplish. Leadership is a very individual thing, my advice is to be fi…
/r/askTRP23/03/21 10:04 PM
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All lives only matter where the narrative fits. It’s bullshit. Without going too off topic from this thread, we see it impermeating into all areas of our lives and workplaces. The other big push now is promotion of ethnic minorities and women into the boardroom. As white men we are gradually becoming the minority, “opportunities for all” they say. I agree opportunities for all, but that should be based on competency alone not on skin colour or sex...... selecting people based upon their skin ton…
/r/askTRP23/03/21 10:27 AM
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Uk here, interesting watching this shit show unfold in the media. Limp wristed men actively encouraging this, iirc there was an opinion that men should be on a 6pm curfew for the safety of women. As has been said always take precautions and protect your reputation at all costs. What is sad is that this view is being forced upon all men and women whether they agree with it or not, disagree openly and you become an outcast and “ part of the problem”. Fuck them. Think as you like but behave like ot…
/r/askTRP23/03/21 09:45 AM
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I’ve also struggled with mental health in the past so wanted to add something in here from experience. A lot of my problems were my own making, I wasn’t a beta and was successful with women but my mental health always struggled. I’ve been a long time lurker and if there is one thing that has helped steer my health both physically and more importantly the correct way as well as medication it’s lifting and lifting heavy. The by products are stronger clarity and mental focus, you’re motivated to ge…
/r/askTRP22/02/21 02:29 PM
1

It’s a subjective question which there are many different views and opinions on. For me a man is self reliant, in control of himself and not afraid to own his mistakes and learn from them.
/r/askTRP21/03/20 06:06 PM
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Triggered? Or still in your anger phase. Sounds like the words of a petulant child stomping their feet. The answer shouldn’t be he’s 18 and works in a fucking supermarket. Ask yourself why you would want to potentially put yourself in a position where hr get involved when there’s other women and less of a risk. The kid can do what he likes, makes no difference to me either way. Doesn’t matter if he’s 18 or 80. He asked for someone who had been in the situation so I gave him my experience...I was…
/r/askTRP20/03/20 11:25 AM
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Being a full blown asshole is not attractive. The women that are drawn to it are generally low self esteem. Some comfort is needed also, by focusing on yourself,lifting, creating the life you want is what is attractive. Your not being an asshole by faking it, your simply a busy man with shit to do. The opposite of looking for validation from pussy like most men. You value yourself,your time and have a mission. That’s what women are attracted to.
/r/askTRP20/03/20 11:01 AM
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Don’t dip your pen in company ink...trust me I’ve done it and it never ends well. Not just once but twice and always ends with same outcome
/r/askTRP20/03/20 10:56 AM
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Why are you fucking a girl without wearing any protection. You are as responsible for this shit storm just as much as she is, never leave a woman to be in control of birth control....basic shit. Red pill is amoral, but you’ve fucked up so sorting this mess out instead of burying your head in the sand and ghosting, should be a priority rather than being more concerned if you should continue to smash. Most guys are on here after being fucked over due to having poor or no positive male models in th…
/r/askTRP19/03/20 11:29 PM
7

It it floats, flies or fucks it’s cheaper to rent
/r/askTRP19/03/20 11:12 PM
2

Reading this I think you lack confidence. Perhaps that comes across in your interactions with women. Find and pursue something you want to do, I’m an older guy and women aren’t a top priority for me. I have a regular one I fuck and the less effort I put in the more she chases. When I was younger I had decent success and a decent number count but I didn’t chase it, I’ve always found things come along when you really don’t give a fuck either way. Good news is you can improve by lifting, I know it’…
/r/askTRP19/03/20 11:11 PM
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⬆️ This guy just handed you a dose of cold hard truth. We’ve all made mistakes on our own individual personal journey, you reflect on them,strive to improve and learn not to repeat again. Your masculinity is something you work for, when people see you are someone worth respecting, they treat you accordingly. When you accept your mistakes and have the frame of owning your shit you close that gap. You own your shit by letting your actions speak louder than your words, you pick yourself up when you…
/r/askTRP19/03/20 10:55 PM
2

I’ve been in this situation. Uk though so your laws ma be different. Both names on lease and bills, she stopped paying her half, I took the loss for 5 months and paid everything until lease was up rather than fuck up my credit. Bitch even put deposit I paid in her name. It’s shit but the lesson here is next time get the lease in your name only, don’t co habitate unless you plan to marry. One of Rollos Iron rules I believe. Life lesson my man
/r/askTRP19/03/20 07:48 AM
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Girls will cheat but don’t want to feel responsible for cheating. Girls don’t accept responsibility for their actions. It just has to happen but it can’t be her fault, you just need to create a situation where your alone and your dick accidentally slips Inside her.
/r/askTRP17/03/20 07:44 AM
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I’d bulk before cutting if you’ve little muscle mass. Muscle is harder to build than it is to loose fat.
/r/askTRP17/03/20 07:34 AM
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Agree with this. Compound movements 3xweek. More bang for your buck. You can add in accessories like pull ups, chin ups, Tricep dips after each day. Linear progression and caloric surplus.
/r/askTRP17/03/20 07:32 AM
1

Question is what are you doing to attract the women you want? It’s a question we all have to ask ourselves and more importantly what are we doing to achieve what we desire. What are you offering for the women you want? Not being harsh but looks like jack shit from here, either settle for what you got and be ordinary or pick a path and take action. Create the life you want for you, NOT with the expectation of being with a woman. You get your shit in order first then the women will follow
/r/askTRP16/03/20 10:04 PM
2

No doctor here either but if it’s clinical depression it’s a result of a chemical Imbalance in the brain and you’d be best suited to see a doctor than ask here. If it’s just stress and pressures of life, and only you can answer this truthfully ,then you own that shit and get the fuck on with it. This is part of being a man and blazing your own trail. You fight back and if it knocks you down, then you dust yourself off and get the fuck back up again. Through each hardship you experience and defea…
/r/askTRP16/03/20 09:52 PM
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You value yourself and look around and see how shit the competition is that they don’t matter. The men that do matter, and you will come across them stand out and you will be drawn to them. I lead a large team and the men constantly need validating and ask for permission to make the most basic decisions. It’s pathetic. You lead and you focus on your mission whatever that may be.
/r/askTRP16/03/20 09:46 PM
1

My portfolio has taken a battering. I’ve been fighting the itchy trigger finger to pull the plug but there’s been wars before and shit picked up in its own time. Everything in life works in cycles and patterns. As has been stated we older guys were sold the promised land of flying cars and time travel,instead we are having to teach peop,e to wash their hands and sing happy birthday twice to ensure adequate time to kill germs. Worlds gone backwards not forwards.
/r/askTRP16/03/20 06:20 PM
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You don’t need to do anything . Him acting this way shows just how insecure he is in the relationshit. If he was happy he would give a shit really let’s be honest. Sounds like he’s an insecure beta...you Know how this is going to play out. Smile, be polite and let nature unfold
/r/askTRP15/03/20 12:18 PM
1

I’ve been reading here for years before recently started posting and still learning. Reading the material can be very overwhelming and the blue pill inside me was screaming at me that this is all wrong. Allow the information to absorb slowly, it’s not a cult, just an exchange of information and experiences many men have had. When the shock wears off and the fog begins to clear you start to see it slowly begins to make sense. Watch the interactions of people day to day, be honest with yourself ab…
/r/askTRP14/03/20 08:35 PM
2

Follow your heart and dreams, chase your unicorn. Get your heart ripped out and stomped all over....only then will you be ready to embrace and fully swallow the red pill.
/r/askTRP14/03/20 08:27 PM
1

Your improvement makes them reflect and realise they don’t have the balls to go ahead and work hard to change their own circumstances. Crabs in a bucket mentality, take it as a compliment your doing something right. Shit stains like that will try to drag you down to their level, rise above it and keep on doing you
/r/askTRP14/03/20 08:24 PM
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Agree with too much asshole there. I’ve been guilty of the same my man, need to dial it back a little. There’s confidence and there’s being a dick. Take it as a learning curve, turn the volume down a touch. Quick question myself, if this situation occurs is it best to take the loss rather than try to salvage the situation?
/r/askTRP14/03/20 08:21 PM
1

Agree with this above. Put yourself first at all times and do what you want to do. Red pill is for men to improve themselves, the rest naturally follows when you don’t give a fuck and just do you. Women are a by product of your improvement, everything slowly begins to fall into place,career, life etc etc.
/r/askTRP14/03/20 08:14 PM
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Do you feel it’s a waste of time because you was expecting sex after? I’ve been there myself but when I just enjoy an interaction with zero expectation or when I’m not looking for anything it seems to just happen on its own
/r/askTRP11/03/20 09:42 PM
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1.Don’t bring up anything about your balls 2. Wrap it up before you slap it up 3. Prepare to be disappointed 4. Don’t fall in love and act needy if you do the deed 5. Just let your instincts take over, there is no script to follow 6. Enjoy busting your cherry
/r/askTRP11/03/20 09:39 PM
4

Calories in vs calories out will decide on either weight loss or weight gain As for macros carbs, protein , fat these can be manipulated. Low carb/ keto will shed weight quick but if your lifting it will result in strength loss and you will look flat. Get my fitness pal app and take a look at that, it’s great to track calories based on your goals
/r/askTRP11/03/20 11:06 AM
1

Left leg, right leg your body will follow.
/r/askTRP09/03/20 08:55 PM
2

She’s invited you over and your asking us if you should go. Just go, lay pipe and enjoy the ride. In the morning message her “had a great time “ and let her chase you
/r/askTRP09/03/20 08:53 PM
1

Shave your head man. My buds told me I was thinking so it came off. Hated it at first tbh some girls love it others don’t. Accept it is what it is, a shaved head and strong body can make you look imposing and dominate. People will respond differently, but when I had a full head of hair when I was younger I do feel I had more succes
/r/askTRP09/03/20 08:51 PM
2

Make yourself busy , don’t react verbally. Let your actions do the talking
/r/askTRP09/03/20 08:46 PM
2

I was out with a girl, responded well to me, kino etc etc. She rang family to let them know she was staying out with me then 5 mins later when got a club tells me she’s going home. No worries I tell her as I put my jacket on and walk out, cue the your an asshole messages and nasty. Fuck them...maybe I fucked up somewhere, who knows. There’s other women a dime a dozen
/r/askTRP09/03/20 08:45 PM
2

Pulling back the curtain and seeing life and sexual dynamics for what they really are,not what we are told to believe
/r/askTRP08/03/20 07:53 AM
1

Ime as an older guy I find kino works and you get a feel for them and how receptive they are to your touch. I’ve been successful with lays within an hour of meeting but girls also want comfort. I won’t always go for same day lays, kino and a kiss works to set up a second date if she’s invested , you got to get the balance between them not feeling like a slut and showing your intentions just right. Trial and error, what works for one doesn’t always work for another
/r/askTRP07/03/20 11:18 AM
1

Don’t compare yourself to anyone, compare yourself to the person you was yesterday
/r/askTRP07/03/20 07:51 AM
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Let’s be crystal clear...rape or any aggression is not ok towards a woman. Period. We don’t advocate that shit here and never have. Rape to a woman is as described by previous poster,something is being put inside her, it’s invasive. Then there are the consequences of unwanted pregnancy, does she keep the baby or abort. It’s psychologically destroying for the rest of her life, look at Idi Amin in Congo. Villages were taken over and rape was used as a weapon because of the fear it induced, far lon…
/r/askTRP05/03/20 05:41 PM
3

“ you only want to use me for sex”....yep if that’s all you have to offer should have been the response, keep that plate spinning a little longer and that hamster turning
/r/askTRP05/03/20 05:33 PM
1

You was specific and used logic, women don’t work that way. She then picked faults when she didn’t hear what she wanted to hear. You would have said the right thing anyway. Tell her to stand up and turn around,if she asks why repeat the same request. When she complies just say “that kind of ass” ...problem solved
/r/askTRP05/03/20 05:30 PM
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Agree with this above, a woman is fluid and will mould herself in to the container she’s with providing its strong enough. You set the expectations of what you want, she either follows and you keep her around or she doesn’t and you replace her
/r/askTRP05/03/20 12:57 PM
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You crave a woman so you drive them away, your in the middle of oneitis and don’t want sex. Sounds like someone who wants a mummy. Pull yourself together for fuck sake, get up off your knees and quit this pity parade. Your in your 30’s for fuck sake. Read the side bar and that aside you should have a basic grasp of life by now. Fucking shameful. Before you can fix this you need to start asking yourself some serious question and start being honest about why you find yourself in this cess pool of …
/r/askTRP05/03/20 12:54 PM
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Lmfao....woop woop it’s da sound of da police....takes no shit and fucking brutal
/r/askTRP05/03/20 12:45 PM
2

I myself grew up in a toxic environment. I feel you but ultimately you control your path in life, far to many people fuck up and blame it on their past rather than take responsibility for themselves. Walking the tough path and coming out the other side gives you a very different prospective.
/r/askTRP05/03/20 12:41 PM
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Go fuck prostitutes if that’s your only option...the problem you have no other options. What are you doing to improve yourself? You seem to think your owed something from a woman, you want something from them but what do you offer in return. There’s always a transaction my friend. Up your game or opt out and take the easy route. Choose your path
/r/askTRP05/03/20 12:37 PM
1

She sees you as beta bux, nothing wrong in spending money on a woman in my view if she adds value and you enjoy her. You got the shitty end of the stick my friend, sounds like a self entitled cunt and self declared princess. Fuck her off and get someone who values you.
/r/askTRP05/03/20 12:33 PM
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Your looking to others to make you feel worth something by seeking validation. You feel shit because there’s something missing.The question you should be asking is what can I do to fulfil my needs without looking to others, once you figure out what that missing piece is others will be drawn toward you
/r/askTRP05/03/20 09:54 AM
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Low interest on her part...if your high enough value you can get away with shit most people would be ashamed of
/r/askTRP05/03/20 08:13 AM
2

Agree with this...just let it go, she’s letting you down gently. In time you will be thankful, there are always better women out there, upgrade yourself and upgrade your options
/r/askTRP05/03/20 08:11 AM
4

We all make mistakes and slip up, shit happens but at least you have the knowledge to recognise what went wrong. Being red pill aware doesn’t make us immune it’s about being aware. Fix yourself,rebuild and learn not to make the same mistakes again. Don’t be so hard on yourself
/r/askTRP05/03/20 08:09 AM
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Women want what is hard to obtain as they are so used to validation from thirsty men. Just keep being busy, either she will chase harder or she won’t. When you genuinely could not give a fuck either way women have a 6th sense for this
/r/askTRP05/03/20 08:05 AM
1

Dress appropriately for your age group. As others have said it’s a reflection of your personality.
/r/askTRP05/03/20 08:02 AM
1

Splint it with matchsticks
/r/askTRP05/03/20 08:01 AM
1

If she’s fucking you then great...if She’s not fucking you then fuck her off.
/r/askTRP05/03/20 08:00 AM
2

The road to success has many paths of failure along the wayw
/r/askTRP05/03/20 07:55 AM
1

Pick a program and stick to it . Build a solid base first then see what weak areas you have and work on those, or build the base then chisel away and create the aesthetic physique. Heavy compounds are my go to with some accessories thrown in
/r/askTRP05/03/20 07:53 AM
1

Get a small job in your neighbourhood, do gardening,wash cars anything to earn your own money, you want something bad enough you’ll make it happen. 1 gram of protein per pound of body weight,plenty of carbs and vegetables and your good to go. Jon doe bodybuilding is a good read as a young guy finding his way as a young kid and his journey
/r/askTRP04/03/20 07:34 PM
1

Rejections are like feedback, not all women will respond the same way to you but you can use the feedback as a gauge for what works and what doesn’t . If your confident and your body language is congruent with your words you can get away with a lot more than you think.
/r/askTRP04/03/20 07:28 PM
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All women are sluts for the right man. Your either the guy she lets fuck her in the ass or your the guy she rejects because you don’t get her wet. You can’t help the genes you're born with but you can improve your body and your game
/r/askTRP04/03/20 07:22 PM
3

Pick your direction and stick with it, if it fails own your mistakes. Making a decision and having it fail far exceeds making no decision, from every situation presented to us there is a lesson to be learnt
/r/TheRedPill04/03/20 12:41 PM
3

Channel that anger and all those emotions into improving yourself. Keep away from alcohol and drugs and women for now. Clear your mind and focus on yourself things will get better, whilst we say awalt and this won’t go down well, lusually we hold some part in things going tits up. Reflect, learn and improve
/r/TheRedPill04/03/20 12:39 PM
1

More red flags than a Japanese military parade. The real question is why are you lowering your standards to be concerned about this girl. Have some dignity and self respect, if you can’t find higher quality women then you need to work on yourself
/r/askTRP03/03/20 10:21 PM
1

She could be busy, she could be shit testing. You should be so busy yourself and focusing on what’s ahead not to really give two shits. Focus on what’s ahead you not what’s behind you....clue...yourself
/r/askTRP03/03/20 10:18 PM
1

Familiarity breeds contempt. Make yourself uncomfortable and start stepping out of your comfort zone. You say you can do better but your bullshitting yourself because your not doing anything about it. Commit yourself to make small changes, the small changes become a routine and routine becomes the new you. Stop thinking start doing.
/r/askTRP03/03/20 10:12 PM
2

This demonstrates your are making improvements and are following the right path ... as your quality increases so will the women you attract...keep at it soldier
/r/askTRP03/03/20 10:08 PM
1

There is no disaster that will strike. She’s worried about competition and will either up her game or fuck right off to some chump. No biggie, learn from this,improve yourself and your game.
/r/askTRP03/03/20 10:06 PM
7

What the actual fuck is this. Take some damn responsibility for your direction in life and stop with the pity party. Be thankful for the shit you’ve received and build yourself into something that won’t allow you to get in this mess again. Read the side bar and lift for the mental clarity and self respect. You can’t control others but you can control yourself and your outcome in life. You are responsible for you, burn that into your mind.
/r/askTRP03/03/20 10:03 PM
1

All plates break,let it go. You could go with cool no worries and maybe she’ll come back in time for another round. No need for witty messages. Maybe she’ll be back maybe she won’t leave the door open with a positive vibe
/r/askTRP03/03/20 09:59 PM
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The more you spin the more you find they are just....well average. Average wrapped up In different packages, some blonde,some brunette, some fat and some thin. Memories are just a shared moment of time spent together in a small passage of life...it’s brutal to accept reality from the truth we’ve been sold. Once that’s been swallowed you learn to create new and different memories and experiences with other girls
/r/askTRP03/03/20 08:29 PM
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Men will shit test to see if your physical development matches your mental development. Embrace it, it’s good. Some women will like it whilst others will be more subtle. I’ve been sat alone and had men approach and come talk to me about random shit, it’s not about others reactions, it’s about you. There will be some with crab in a bucket mentality...you smile gracefully and continue on with your purpose whilst watching them slowly fade away as you push on
/r/askTRP03/03/20 08:04 PM
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My thoughts...Get up off your knees...pick your balls up and go take a long hard think about why anyone would want to marry in 2020 as others have said
/r/askTRP03/03/20 07:55 PM
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Outcome independence is knowing you’ve created something of yourself. People are naturally attracted to a confident charismatic personality. How do you create that.....you become better than the person you was yesterday. Lifting is the easiest way to begin this process, you have pride in what you have worked for, people subconsciously pick up on that and are drawn to it. Outcome independence means not giving a flying fuck because you know you can conquer whatever shit is thrown in your path and …
/r/askTRP03/03/20 07:39 PM
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If your lifting hard and have goals you’ll feel that drive caused by increased testosterone. As an older guy who’s experimented with many substances this shit makes you lazy and wraps you up in a warm cosy blanket. Opposite ends of the spectrum...pick your poison
/r/askTRP03/03/20 07:22 PM
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Your being tested to see if other women find you attractive. Women want what others want. Pre selection, always say yes whether you’ve fucked before or not. Their interest either spikes or it doesn’t...either way you loose nothing
/r/askTRP03/03/20 07:16 PM
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Saw this an literally laughed...good man trash that shit and cleanse your mind...greater things lay ahead
/r/askTRP03/03/20 07:10 PM
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