Is outcome independence the key to all interactions, whether it be a casual conversation with someone, gaming an attractive girl, or any social situation (like a party or an outing)?

The thing that make someone charismatic, fun to be around, and just magnetic overall. Not only to girls, but to everyone you meet.

There are so many tricks that people try to remember to do, that it just ends up making them act like a robot and become socially awkward. When it seems like it all boils down to approaching situations without an agenda in mind.