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| 13 | Field Report: Good Girl, Bad Girl: Same GirlGiven that we did fuck again (few times before she left, few times after she went home), and went from a one-night-stand to a fuck buddy, don’t think it was too bad on my end. Also, not trying to argue, but genuinely want to ask. If she thought I was alpha/manly to fuck after a night out, and then decided I was a beta after what I said (so much so that she felt the immediate need to seek other men to wash out that bad taste), and then decided I was good enough again to fuck once more, then god d… | /r/TheRedPill | 11/09/23 05:28 PM |
| 3 | Is it my insecurity or should I check her?Not trying to be a jerk, but weird logic. Like, setting a boundary is, by definition, restricting her from doing X. So anytime (especially in 2023) you try to restrict someone, she isn’t going to take it well (she might agree at the moment but eventually cry about the boundary). So it’s literally impossible to set a boundary without being a serious chat. You can’t just haha your way and set a boundary. Breaking boundaries means demotion/next, there has to be consequence and it needs to be clear.… | /r/askMRP | 02/08/23 02:05 PM |
| 7 | Is it my insecurity or should I check her?Let’s take this to the other extreme. Can you imagine if you bottled up this uncomfortable feeling, and never told her about it, and just forgot about it? That sounds like a fucking horrible way to live. Be direct, set a boundary, and RELIEVE yourself of being in no-man’s land where you don’t know what’s okay and she doesn’t know what’s okay. You must be a man here and establish the relationship rules - it’s on you and not on the girl. Don’t be silly - when someone posts a bikini selfie it’s bec… | /r/askMRP | 02/08/23 05:04 AM |
| 44 | This Medium Article from a middle-aged homewrecker shows that blackpill, redpill and female nature are real and undeniableIf you give these women a time machine, or if plastic surgery / nutrition / lifestyle / exercise gets post-wall women to look competitive with 20 year olds, they will 1000% go back to competing for Chad rather than find a sucker. They’re just hamstering that the best option available now is what they’ve always wanted. Why would post wall women go for Chad, knowing she has 0 chance to keep him? Young girls do so because they hamster they have a chance to keep him, older women know they are a pump… | /r/TheRedPill | 28/07/23 05:17 AM |
| 2 | Did "Barbie" movie get it right?There is little chance anything mainstream will make its way onto the sidebar. First, the sidebar is the real, uncensored and unapologetic truth about male/women dynamics and how we can succeed in this environment. Mainstream will NEVER go that far - Barbie at most will hint at some relationship truths, which in the long run wouldn’t drastically improve a man’s success with girls. If you think about it, it is better for society to have more blue pilled men as they conform, don’t question, and su… | /r/askMRP | 28/07/23 05:04 AM |
| 11 | What Jonah Hill did wrongI am always confused with ‘celebrity’ examples. There is too much projecting going on. I guarantee that the dynamics of this particular relationship is unrelatable to 99.9999% the relationships any one of us had, so we should be careful using personal experiences to give advice. I’ve been to a few LA parties with ‘celebs’ and the amount of drugs and alcohol in their system is nuts. Also, they’re famous which automatically changes the boy-girl dynamic - women are on gold digger watch. Like litera… | /r/TheRedPill | 12/07/23 11:03 PM |
| 2 | Is it time to divorce?Women don’t threaten leaving a relationship unless they have something better lined up. This could be a Chad who she is seeing, or the hypothetical Chad she thinks she CAN get if she was free from you. For example, perhaps she can see herself easily meeting someone else if she can go out more with her for friends, or travel alone, or whatever other BS she has hamstered. Regardless, it’s over. If you don’t stand your ground (“Sure, pack your shit and go”) she’ll lose the little respect she has fo… | /r/askMRP | 03/07/23 10:17 AM |
| 22 | Are women leeches?A LOT of borderline AMOG thinking, but honestly as someone who has a very high N-count, I cannot in good faith tell you that you are wrong. You have the choice - either not participate in the game, or embrace that getting screwed (either majorly or minor annoyances) are a part of the game. For me, reading the sidebar lead me to UNDERSTAND that shit/comfort tests will happen, AWALT exists, SMV and dread are real things, and LTRs and marriage is TRP on hard/extreme hard mode. This understanding le… | /r/TheRedPill | 30/06/23 07:36 PM |
| 4 | Red Pill Rage PornIt’s only entertainment. People monetising others in the ‘anger phase’ for clicks, women going on these shows, fully aware they’ll be roasted, for attention, branding and cash. Shitty way to make money, and an even shittier use of anyone’s time if they watch these people. Literally the male equivalent of Keeping Up with the Kardashians. Most men won’t care about Kardashian gossip and what shoes they’re wearing. Most women won’t care about frustrated chumps discussing n-counts. | /r/TheRedPill | 19/06/23 07:50 PM |
| 4 | How Cheating taught me GameThe message to all the other hopeless ones out there is to not wait until you have to resort to cheating on your wife to develop what OP calls game, or what I would call incoherent ramblings, and instead read the sidebar to prevent becoming an idiot. It’s like showing photos of druggies to scare children - this is that. Stay off the crazy or become like OP. | /r/TheRedPill | 07/06/23 05:38 PM |
| 6 | You're a bitch because you're not extreme.Frankly I have no idea who this post is meant for. If you’re on TikTok watching RP wannabes with a mass following in 2023, you are witnessing the lowest common denominator and projecting that onto this sub. If anyone needs to be told that in order to get what they want (ex: a girl they find attractive) they actually have to talk to said person - that fantasising about an optimal strategy does nothing until the person actually takes action, then the person was hopeless to begin with and TRP was n… | /r/TheRedPill | 31/05/23 04:09 PM |
| 4 | You're a bitch because you're not extreme.Obsessionals, neurotic postponement, goobers. What the fuck are these retarded phrases. English can’t be your first language. If you’re in America consider a GED. | /r/TheRedPill | 31/05/23 03:51 PM |
| 6 | ILYBINILWY received todayWith all the fish in the sea, you sure like to stay with an absolute bitch. Frankly she is more trouble than worth - do you spend your life outside of marriage settling for mediocrity? Who gives a shit if she cheats, as if THAT becomes the straw that breaks the camels back. What about the disrespect, the forcing you to kiss up, the gaslighting, the crying to manipulate you? At what point has relationships become you taking care of her, and not vice versa? The marriage is shit - how much culpabil… | /r/askMRP | 27/05/23 03:49 PM |
| 2 | Why are there not more TPR posts about having kids and raising them?Engage critically rather than point fingers. TRP is not MGTOW, most of us love sex. Read the sidebar, a large portion of TRP doesn’t stop at the ‘understanding’ phase - there are practical skills and solutions taught. For example, it is very difficult to maintain a RP frame when you cohabitate with a female. She will see your beta tendencies (which we all have, which can appear anytime), and the majority here (and I as well) would say that it makes dating (sex, attraction, frame, etc) more diffi… | /r/TheRedPill | 06/05/23 10:23 PM |
| 2 | Why are there not more TPR posts about having kids and raising them?It was literally one of the core axioms of TRP - never marry. It also doesn’t take much brain power to realise raising a child while unmarried will lead to a less than ideal upbringing. It would be useless information as you’re trying to salvage a sinking ship. | /r/TheRedPill | 06/05/23 09:27 PM |
| 23 | Went through my GF phone and now I need advice/insightNice job setting boundaries. You act all pissed off and contemplate changing things, yet all you do is welcome her home and stick around, coping by saying you ‘need time’. Yup she’s RP all right - she’s getting plates and keeping her options open. She’s happy she found a schmuck like you to ‘take care of her’ when she cries. She kept the cock and cumrag memories because she knows she can’t get that excitement from you, ever. She’s hitting the wall and wants to settle. Her ex’s are alpha fucks, y… | /r/askMRP | 05/05/23 06:27 AM |
| 4 | You’re better off getting out there then relying on dating apps.For real, she probably thought you were a celebrity lmao. Or a friend of a friend to a big shot, which was why she asked for your IG. She’s on the come up and wants you for leverage. It’s all business with these DJ types. If you can get her a connection she WILL sleep with you, they hand it out like candy. | /r/TheRedPill | 02/05/23 09:33 AM |
| 45 | [FIELD REPORT] Made out with 4 hotties and pulled a fine ass hispanic girlDownvotes? While I agree it seems borderline autistic to go as deep as OP did in analysing female behaviour in fucking Vegas of all places, content is content - dude worked hard and got laid. Maybe it’s a fuckton of work, an overspend of money, in an easy environment, but results are results. I’m neither short nor Asian so maybe this is what it takes to pull. Just one more strategy for people to consider. Way better than sitting on your ass and doing nothing. | /r/TheRedPill | 01/05/23 03:53 PM |
| 1 | My red pill bros, how do I stop being a whiny bitch and start problem-solving whenever I am hit with adversity or difficulty in life? We men are meant to be problem solvers, but a lot of us are sure forgetting how to go on about our problem solving tendencies, anyways, tips and strategies?Here’s what you need to hear that the other comments are not saying: shit is hopeless as it is. You’re an ant trying to climb Everest. Sure, there is a way to overcome all your adversity, but I don’t like suggesting strategies which have a high chance of failure. What you need is a FRESH START. I’ve seen many people ‘reinvent’ themselves. Most do it in college, other later in life. The Rock, one of the biggest draw in films, an intimidating personality, openly talks about how he was BULLIED, jus… | /r/TheRedPill | 21/04/23 03:55 AM |
| 3 | Interpreting strange signals from weird girlI’ve never met a girl who smokes weed who wasn’t a complete, easy whore. Like no frame needed. To me, smoking weed literally means she’s DTF. I’d never, ever, date a weed smoker so I’d recommend a pump and dump. It really shouldn’t be hard fucking her unless you are an idiot. Since she likely is fucking strangers regularly. | /r/TheRedPill | 19/04/23 06:08 PM |
| 3 | Is this the beginning of the end? (34, M, US)If you’re even remotely observant, you’ll know that smart, logical women love cock from the guy she loves just as much as an airhead. If you’re gut is telling you to ‘work harder or else you’ll lose frame’, chances are she just isn’t as attracted to you as you want her to be. All the debating would do you no good. You have to become successful and desired. This doesn’t mean becoming the next Bill Gates - it simply means to apply yourself and achieve some form of success in your life. It could be… | /r/askMRP | 19/04/23 06:05 PM |
| 2 | Applying Psychoanalysis To Escape The WageCageHonestly, it probably takes more effort to appear productive than it is to actually be productive. Not trying to shit on your post, but it’s counterproductive especially if you’re going to be lateraling for a pay raise. Eventually you will enter a job which you just don’t know how to do, work overtime, and becoming upset. “Do enough so you don’t get fired” also isn’t a revolutionary idea, and using technology to make our lives easier (aka Google it) also isn’t unique. The only thing that is new … | /r/TheRedPill | 14/04/23 06:51 PM |
| 21 | At-home wearIf I can’t even wear what the fuck I want to in my own home, then the relationship is already fucked. Couldn’t imagine working all day, only to put on yet another mask at home, calculating my outfits so I can achieve maximum dread. Describing a prison rather than a home. | /r/askMRP | 04/04/23 04:56 AM |
| 8 | Observations of a dying manThe women met him when he already achieved everything. They didn’t see the struggle, his leadership qualities, etc. Nobody will appreciate what they’ve always taken for granted. In their eyes, the man wouldn’t even be a part of their lives if he wasn’t successful. They see themselves as the price. So why bother thanking? If you want a ‘deep’ relationship (loyalty, understanding, appreciation, reverence, etc) it’s pretty hard. Maybe in the old days you can be like a saint to a girl, but with soci… | /r/askMRP | 05/03/23 05:42 PM |
| 2 | Just found out "deadbedroom" is a thing, and I'm definitely in one.Wonders aloud if the wife is sexually attracted to him Proceeds to outline how they have sex once a blue moon. You have your answer. Reread what you wrote. As for a solution, you cannot negotiate desire. If she doesn’t want sex, you can’t talk your way into it. You also can’t force her into it, for obvious reasons. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 27/02/23 06:21 PM |
| 18 | The Dennis system explained.You could carve it up a million different ways, it’s still the only strategy that consistently works with females. Frame, lift, push-pull, looks, sex, status, security. It’s called game for a reason, it’s literally like a video game or board game. Only thing I’d push back on is ‘3 dates for sex minimum’. Maybe I’m an ogre, but I’d be slightly pissed if I’m not getting it by date 3. This isn’t middle school, let’s get on with it. Obviously if you are in middle school or high school, disregard. | /r/TheRedPill | 28/01/23 07:24 AM |
| 6 | Encounter with a white knightIt’s called power, and they have it you don’t. He could be a midget white knight and still have the authority to kick you out. She could be a 2/10 and still have the power to be offended and your word means nothing against hers. If she’s petty, which she sounds like, she wouldn’t hesitate to talk shit about you, to everyone she knows, especially those who know you. Take the L and move on. You made a retarded joke, and in hindsight you should be less retarded in public. | /r/TheRedPill | 28/01/23 07:09 AM |
| 2 | Coming from money has spoiled me and ruined my drive.Let it be drowned in downvotes. It’s reality of the subreddit. I see no value being offered by the ‘best’ comments on this post. TRP is now a place where a directionless, unemployed 24 year old leeching off his parents is getting cheered. The clear reason to this is because there are people here who see his situation as enviable one - the only ones who believe that are in even sorrier situations. That’s the reflection of this sub. | /r/TheRedPill | 27/01/23 02:50 PM |
| -9 | Coming from money has spoiled me and ruined my drive.This sub truly is a shit-show. An autistic armchair philosopher deep in thought, the puke of a 24 year old is exactly what this sub needs. If you identify your spoiled upbringing as the issue, you sever those ties. If you identify money and daddy’s credit cards as the issue, you rip them in half. If you see the issue and do nothing, it’s now ‘your’ problem and it’s embarrassing seeing an adult, who should by now be contributing to society, finger point at daddy. But you won’t do the above, becau… | /r/TheRedPill | 26/01/23 08:32 PM |
| 17 | No More Andrew Tate ShitI’d hate to burst your bubble (or make your day, depends on you) but GLO has pivoted towards…something else. Partially politics, partially philosophy, partially cuckoo. There’s some wisdom, yet some advice that if you follow would literally move you backwards in life. You can find him on platforms alternate to Reddit. | /r/TheRedPill | 07/01/23 08:30 AM |
| 4 | Why Do You Think 'Blue Pill' Advice Is So Popular?Easy there. While your direction is correct (BP ideology tames the masses), don’t go full retard. Working and getting a good job is infinitely better than being a bum on the couch living in their parents basement. Being patient is absolutely something all people need to do. Being an idiot does nothing to advance your life. For example, if you literally shut the fuck up, not be autistic, study, get a good job, you can be on your way to making huge $ in 5-10 years. Not being a retard isn’t blue pi… | /r/TheRedPill | 28/12/22 04:38 PM |
| 1 | We live in a clown world....Agreed, but just to nitpick, your ‘Rule 2’ would be hard to enforce if it includes flirting. Obviously, exclusive means not getting rammed every girls night out. It may even mean no more girls night outs entirely. But flirting is vague. What if she says ‘Happy Birthday’ to a male coworker? Or sends ‘Merry Christmas’ to a male friend? In a purely rational sense that’s flirting. It’s talking to a person of another gender when it’s not needed. All woman socialise but mateguarding is unattractive be… | /r/TheRedPill | 26/12/22 04:48 AM |
| 2 | STOP Cold ApproachingHey, at least OP has the balls to post a ‘real’ pic. Even if you disagree, he at least lifts and looks the part. This sub has no nuance - there is always something to learn from contradicting opinions. IMO building SMV to the point where you no longer have to approach like a dog are endgame goals, he’s not wrong. If you want to get your feet wet, obviously approach, but the end game is for bitches to come to you. If it’s not achievable in the short term, then approach. Chess not checkers. | /r/TheRedPill | 23/12/22 06:41 PM |
| 1 | shit test in feminine men at work.Ayo. Pause. I’ve read some flagrant stuff. You want to bang him? | /r/TheRedPill | 11/12/22 08:36 PM |
| 5 | Definitions of female monogamy: loyalty vs spontaneous, natural exclusivityThat sounds like the bluest blue pill thinking I’ve heard in a while. Humans are biologically programmed to reproduce. It’s literally our genetic existence. Social constructs, SMV, or ‘relationships’ will not overpower her genetic goal. ‘I will only mate with one guy’ goes against our makeup. If she wants to cheat she will cheat, whether you’re Chad or not. Your turn, not yours. In addition all women are capable of seeing their man’s SMV as her own, meaning he is no longer as appealing an option… | /r/TheRedPill | 11/12/22 08:31 PM |
| 6 | I'm very weak, and need to change. But I've been stuck in the same rut for almost 4 years. Could I please have some advice?Every single person who you think has their shit together would rather be young and 19 all over again. Your whole life is in front of you. Relax. Also, go touch grass, no chance you could barf up lines and lines of garbage unless you’re home all day. Frankly you don’t know shit about life. Good things happen, bad things happen, things you didn’t expect happen, it’s called LIFE, go live it. This isn’t tic-tac-toe where the next move is logical and obvious. For some perspective, nobody has the che… | /r/TheRedPill | 11/12/22 08:04 PM |
| 5 | Here’s How To Tweak Your Personal Image To Get What You Want Out Of LifeIt’s the main factor. Cristiano Ronaldo can put a turd sandwich on his head, and still walk into any nightclub in the world as the center of attention. And idiots will hamster it’s him being ‘himself, therefore confident and attractive’. If he was “Chris Ronaldo” the Starbucks employee, he will be considerably less desirable. Messi would be a ‘short South American dude’ and have little shot even for fattiest in the western world. | /r/TheRedPill | 28/10/22 07:50 AM |
| 3 | Socialization progressive overload - a system for when you lack social skills / confidenceBuddy really went for the first girl that smiled at him, that‘s crazy. Just kidding, much respect for making your own situation better instead of wallowing in sadness. Work on yourself one day at a time. The best time to start was yesterday, so make today count. | /r/TheRedPill | 27/10/22 01:25 PM |
| 16 | Here’s How To Tweak Your Personal Image To Get What You Want Out Of LifeAre you sure Tupac, Ronaldo, Messi is hot because of what you wrote? Pretty sure it’s because they’re rich, successful and influential. If you go dressed as Tupac, you’ll be called a ‘bum’. Someone dressed and is as rich as Tupac will be seen as ‘hot’. Influence = hot in the eyes of women. It’s the exact same as why a man with a chick is seen as hotter than a man without, even if he looks/acts the same. Women use other women’s opinions to pre-screen. “If she likes him, why shouldn’t I?”. It’s ha… | /r/TheRedPill | 27/10/22 01:15 PM |
| 37 | Taking care of your body is easy, you keep away from shitty foods and smash some deadlifts. How about your mind though? Here is a list of 8 things that you can start doing if you want to get smarter. It's about time you started taking care of your brain.Just don’t dive into the deep-end and become an armchair philosopher living in a basement somewhere. Personally, interests are important but if you have so much time that you can learn such a diverse skill set (and succeed), you should probably instead use that time sending out your CV to leverage into a higher paying job with less free time. | /r/TheRedPill | 27/10/22 12:53 PM |
| 3 | Friends with benefits left me confusedI don’t know if you’re being sarcastic, but FOR REAL I have been with a few girls who type their text replies on notes first, before sending it, and keeping it for reuse. That shit cray. Not sure if it’s a trend, but if you ever get the chance to look at a girls phone, check out their notes section. | /r/TheRedPill | 07/10/22 04:32 AM |
| 32 | Friends with benefits left me confusedCommentators are soft as fuck, this can’t really the main sub? People are hamstering for her behalf. This is ridiculous. She’s not Cinderella, she’s not naive, she’s not confused. She’s a pro you dipshits and living a fast paced lifestyle contrary to some of you armchair philosophers. She, and many, many other women, have a SYSTEM or GAMEPLAN of how to get a man’s D. What in OP’s passage made you feel he did anything? The girl initiated, set a trap with nudes, escalated by arranging a meetup, an… | /r/TheRedPill | 06/10/22 04:56 PM |
| 5 | What are your boundaries on your wife’s male friends and what is your dread response?Depending on where you are, what your age groups are, where she works, and income/status level, it can be either harmless or a forest fire. From my own personal experience, when I was dating in college, texts/dms were common. Asking for homework, or betas thirsting was unavoidable. You kind of have to roll with it - focus on SMV and social proof yourself so others won’t approach and she knows you are her best option. As someone working in a ‘high flying’ industry, cheating is considered common f… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 01/10/22 02:26 PM |
| 3 | If the female imperative is to lockdown the best man she can get why are these same girls still on these apps months to years later?Can’t blame em, have you seen a womens ‘game’? Their openers are “hi lol”. They just sit and get matches - think dates, sex, free meals, events, etc. They are at their sexual prime and they will abuse it. Nobody is thinking of settling down. Even insta thots who ‘only date athletes’ or aspire to be babymommas cheat on the side with regular joes. Have yet to meet a girl who doesn’t want their cake and also eat it. As a guy you have to bring out the female imperative, being passive means she’ll ke… | /r/newTRP | 28/09/22 06:50 PM |
| 10 | Why women get into temporary relationshipsI’m unsure if people go from simple but fluid relationships, into complex but defined roles. If it was the case, as men, our lives will be easier - we don’t have to do anything in relationships, they’ll eventually, naturally become better partners. I think most on here would agree that a good LTR requires the man to put in work, in moulding the female into his frame, making her the first mate to his captain, dread, etc. Which is done by using TRP. If you’re the real deal, a women will not natura… | /r/TheRedPill | 22/09/22 11:11 AM |
| 76 | Why women get into temporary relationshipsNot sure if I agree - seen many women who secured their ‘Chad’ early (ex: highschool, college) and skip all the temporary stuff and instead push strongly for marriage. Seems you’re taking results and then reverse engineering their motivations. I don’t think any boys treat playground as practicing wheeling and dealing. I’ve played a lot of sports and not once did I do it for the purpose of practicing skills - I did it for fun. Obviously it indirectly develops social skills, which is why it’s call… | /r/TheRedPill | 22/09/22 07:53 AM |
| 7 | How to up my dating game in 2022?Just fap and play video games. It’ll give you the dopamine you need. Once you hit rock bottom, the only way is up. Or, don’t climb and just keep fapping and gaming. | /r/newTRP | 20/09/22 06:19 PM |
| 2 | How to dread my plate if I don't go out, don't have friends to party with, no close female friends, etc?Repeat after me: ONEITIS. You’ve fallen head over heels for this woman. Which isn’t something bad, as why would we as men want to be with someone we don’t like? That isn’t oneitis. Oneitis has another component - that there is an INBALANCE of attraction. You’re head over heels for her, she’s head over heels for you, but you (correctly) feel the scale is tilted. One of the pillars of TRP philosophy is that women are the gatekeepers of sex, and men are the gatekeepers of commitment. SMV being equa… | /r/newTRP | 20/09/22 06:14 PM |
| 2 | Is she quietly breaking up?As someone who has been to the Bay Area - how TF are you not getting laid. The amount of hoes there are out of this world. | /r/newTRP | 13/09/22 04:45 PM |
| 1 | Slump of 2-3 years that I still cannot overcome...Any advice?Strongly suggest a hobby because it helps with preselection - you’re already filtering for people who have similar interests. Easy conversation starters, and a higher probability of getting along. Remember you still have to deal with this chick before and after sex, do the work early and save yourself the headache. Even if you don’t close, she can, as a friend, introduce you to her friends. On your second point if you fail more now than before, either your SMV has dropped or you’re hanging with … | /r/newTRP | 06/09/22 05:42 PM |
| 7 | FR: This shit works for realShe tested, and tested, and kept making the power moves. From acting out, to sleeping outside, to looking for jobs, it all signals “IDGAF, and if you’re wondering I don’t need you, I’m independent - we’re married but I’m me”. OP felt disrespected, because he WAS disrespected. She came around to ‘mend the fence’, like a regretful child (let’s talk, makeup, etc). OP was still upset, didn’t want to calmly talk on her grounds, as equals. He wanted to talk about it the way HE wanted to talk about it,… | /r/TheRedPill | 06/09/22 06:27 AM |
| 3 | Taking a plate to the strip club‘Bring out a girls curiosity’ lmfao. Buddy, women check out other women way more than you think, they aren’t children. Give her some 1s and tell her to make it rain. | /r/newTRP | 05/09/22 12:41 PM |
| 5 | Left her on read after she disrespected, and now she unfollowed me.If you’re nervous over seeing a girl who unfollowed you after just k-closing, you must live an easy life without any worry. Man up, who gives a fuck about a 6. | /r/newTRP | 05/09/22 10:44 AM |
| 7 | Slump of 2-3 years that I still cannot overcome...Any advice?You’re too much of a pussy. No, not in the way people think. You’re too much of a pussy in that you’re half-assing your direction in life. Adult life may have hit you but you are not in adulthood. When you were young/no job, your direction was have fun so you went and got chicks. Man hungry, man eats, simple. Now, you have a job and don’t drink. That alone should set you up for fulfilment - increased savings, owning a house, paying off debt, more time to dedicate to work, promotion opportunities… | /r/newTRP | 02/09/22 07:05 AM |
| 53 | If she was stolen then she was never yours to begin withWomen can easily become the center of your life. Thinking about plates, frame, attraction, sexual strategy is addicting. That’s why it hurts, because people are obsessed about it. I’ve found the best solution to ‘get over her’ is to think of non-female solutions. For example, job goals, fitness goals, travel plans, etc. Much easier to get abundance. Losing sleep, mental/physical health, etc over a women cheating is bad. Being a nihilist or a defeatist and thinking ‘it is what it is’ also isn’t g… | /r/TheRedPill | 01/09/22 09:02 PM |
| 1 | Am I a sex addict for getting laid too much?Yeah, I’m crazy with hookups. What happened to me was, I would wake up to texts from girls, and it would distract me from my day. I knew I had stuff to get done, but girls kept asking to meet-up. Couldn’t focus and was super unproductive. For me, it was occupying too much of my mind. So, the solution was to ‘just go get it’, like I would go fuck just so I can refocus on the shit that needed to get done. | /r/newTRP | 30/08/22 07:29 PM |
| 0 | Am I a sex addict for getting laid too much?I think everyone, men and women both, will become sex addicts if they have enough regular, easily accessible sex. It’s why women go through the ‘hoe phase’, or in TRP terms riding the CC. I think men will do the same, they just don’t due to inability to get sex. My partner count is pretty high. No wonder girls ride the CC, shit is fun. Also, no wonder they want to settle - for less drama. And their way of maximising sex and then settling after getting it out of their system is fun as fuck. Liter… | /r/newTRP | 30/08/22 07:09 PM |
| 17 | [Success Story/Field Report] FINALLY fucked a hot girl! Thank you so much TRP!!!Not gonna lie, after a hookup I have so much post-nut clarity that IDGAF and have said whatever I want, because I had sex and if I ruin my chances at round 2 I don’t really care, still had sex. Some of my friends are more calculating, but the chase and thrill is all I’m after, so I sometimes unintentionally self-sabotage. | /r/TheRedPill | 28/08/22 04:29 PM |
| 3 | There’s a reason why every married man you ever meet tells you not to get married.Just cheat? TRP is amoral, so there you go, you get your cake and can eat it. It’s also a way to get divorce raped, but seems you wouldn’t be all that upset about it either. You’re better off divorcing early - the settlement will be cheaper today than tomorrow. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 27/08/22 06:54 PM |
| 6 | If a chick is constantly trying to make her ex jealous and trying to get back at him, does that mean she's alpha widowed or it means she sees him as beta?Starting to feel that some of you straight up don’t get laid. Women are petty and want the final word. Nothing to do with attraction. If the ex replies, she’ll feel satisfied and leaves. It’s similar to validation - she wants the feeling of approval, she wants to feel good. The feeling of control, to make him feel regret. It’s got nothing to do with alpha or beta. If she’s standing outside his home asking for another chance, that’s being alpha widowed. No women will want to leave an alpha. If sh… | /r/newTRP | 27/08/22 08:23 AM |
| 1 | what you think about plastic surgery?Tell her to get those double D’s! Jokes but if you want a serious answer, my mind has come around 180 on plastic surgery. I think a lot of people (mostly men) just can’t tell if a person had work done. I used to advocate ‘natural’ all the way, felt weird to talk to a chick knowing she has a piece of plastic in nose, or her jaws have been crushed in. Like what if it broke? To be honest I was just ignorant. I’ve been seeing more and more people with plastic surgery - both in person and through ent… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 26/08/22 08:09 PM |
| 1 | How do I not waste my time?Like there are also other issues, like runaway inflation. Or in worse areas, people being unable to withdraw their savings from banks, or being unable to either into a more stable currency. In extreme cases they might prohibit any currency from leaving the country. The ‘ease of mind’ when living in a developed country is well worth it as a working person. Even if taxes or prices are high, the benefits outweigh the costs. | /r/newTRP | 25/08/22 05:15 PM |
| 4 | Trying to be Setup with Single Mom ✋🏽🛑I use dating apps and I sometimes set my age parameters to older women including moms. If you ever want to be shot down, just say ‘I don’t want to be a father’. Legitimately had complete 180 from chicks once I said that. Even been blocked like on the spot after. ‘Okay, I don’t need to pretend to be someone I’m not, onto the next man’ attitude. It’s an instant disqualifier and post-wall women know they don’t have time to waste. | /r/TheRedPill | 25/08/22 05:09 PM |
| 2 | How do I not waste my time?In my opinion a ‘great’ job at a third world country is probably equal to minimum wage at a first world country due to infrastructure, benefits, safety, etc. Canada is a good decision, leaving your country is the best move. All your efforts should go towards making your next step as easy as possible. Improve on your English (assuming you come from a non-English country), including writing. Learn some French as they speak it over there. You want to get as deep into their culture as possible. Lear… | /r/newTRP | 25/08/22 08:51 AM |
| 148 | I lost my virginity last night. Field ReportIt’s your first time, congrats! But because it’s your first time you aren’t really seeing things clearly. Just imagine if the genders were reversed - who would you say was in control? Let’s keep it 100, you didn’t pull her, she pulled you. She invited you to her place, made the first moves, made you escalate, and got laid. I’ve met many girls who knew exactly what they were doing, but wanted me to feel like it was me who was in charge. You were already at the finish line, just reach out and grab… | /r/TheRedPill | 18/08/22 06:07 PM |
| 2 | Broke off with a girl, now she threatens if she sees me at the same club, she'd embarrass me?Low key makes you seem more desirable IF you don’t handle it like a baby. Don’t blush, don’t be embarrassed for yourself, be confident, move your friends away from her, etc. If you hold frame, people can tell she’s a crazy ex. | /r/newTRP | 18/08/22 05:58 PM |
| 3 | By all means redpill doesn't mean a man has low Integrity and dignity where they just pump n dump womenWe’re really not trying to tell you how to live your life so don’t get crushed because of what we say. Go plate/date a girl and be unapologetically you and act exactly like how you wrote. I actually think women are the great teachers - they make it very obvious when they’re attracted/happy vs upset/unattracted. It’s not like what you said is wrong - many women I’ve met will go ‘but I didn’t know any better’ when they bring up their ex. But talking about it puts you firmly in friend zone territor… | /r/TheRedPill | 16/08/22 04:41 AM |
| 6 | By all means redpill doesn't mean a man has low Integrity and dignity where they just pump n dump womenWew. You are hella plugged in. Good for you to write up what you believe to be your truth. I wholeheartedly disagree with everything you say, but the point of TRP is that it’s a toolbox - whether you use it, or how you use it, to optimise your life is up to you. If you’re in the fix-it mentality you’re going to be wasting your time. Women and men are different. This is a great speech if you’re the leader of a police force, inspiring selfless acts to uphold moral integrity. We’re in the real worl… | /r/TheRedPill | 15/08/22 07:36 PM |
| 5 | instagram necessary for dating?Same, hated using both. I usually give my number and they typically accept. The ones who ask for IG/FB tend to want to be friends and then escalate into a relationship. I got girls who ‘stalked’ me even when I had an absolutely half-assed profile, so for those types of girls it helps. Just be direct and say I’m not using those anymore for ‘X’ reason (saving time, don’t like taking photos of myself, etc). | /r/newTRP | 26/07/22 05:35 PM |
| 1 | Be Brutal: Is it worth trying to get girls if im extremely skinny?Too light. If it’s due to a medical condition get it solved first, chicks can wait. Otherwise, bulk up. | /r/newTRP | 22/07/22 06:59 PM |
| 4 | "Heard about what happened. Are you doing alright bro?"You forgot to plug that youtube! On a serious note the mass downvotes is very odd. You can absolutely screen for a GF who is more than a pretty face to look at - in fact, I often promote having standards to this sub. Get a girl that makes your life easier - be it less drama, willing to sacrifice for your dreams, cook for you, etc. Career oriented men say ‘I don’t have time for a relationship’ all the time. If the theory some of the commenters have is ‘she’s your girl therefore spend more time wi… | /r/TheRedPill | 22/07/22 02:24 AM |
| 12 | Biological Factors Affecting the Dating MarketplaceExactly. Can’t go autopilot and assume it always goes plate -> LTR as some chicks may not want an LTR. People don’t realize that commitment to some party girls means taking away her ability to pair bond with an alpha or experience new things with new people. Whereas commitment may be the only thing another girl wants. Know your crowd. | /r/TheRedPill | 12/07/22 08:07 PM |
| 11 | Biological Factors Affecting the Dating MarketplaceI don’t think you read what I wrote, like at all. This has 0% ‘be strong, raw raw’, literally wrote how women may look for a person different to an alpha (sex) because they process multiple things simultaneously. | /r/TheRedPill | 12/07/22 07:59 PM |
| 30 | Biological Factors Affecting the Dating MarketplaceI’ve heard this from someone on here which stuck - women view sex as a tool. Most of us just want to bang an infinite number of attractive women. Attractive women with IG literally have an infinite amount of on demand cocks to pick, yet aren’t going down the list. Sex and sexuality for women is like a tool to get what they want. She can live out a fantasy as a dirty slut. She can use it to meet with interesting men at a festival. She can use to make a married guy cheat. She can use it to get mon… | /r/TheRedPill | 12/07/22 06:20 PM |
| 6 | 3 concepts for getting your wife's BJYou are killing it and improving. Nonetheless she will ALWAYS have the memory of the beta you ingrained into her mind. All the work you’re doing and you still have the feeling things will not last. IMO you’re spending twice the work for half the gain. Meet someone new, she’ll only know the ‘you’ now, and it’ll be less hassle. You can only repair an old chair so much before you throw it out. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 09/07/22 06:56 PM |
| 7 | Strippers and escorts with SO’sTRP Mods used to ban the retarded on sight. | /r/newTRP | 18/06/22 08:13 PM |
| 2 | Split bill on first date of drinks. Did I fuck up?It’s 2022 and bitches still expect men to pay. It isn’t like they don’t have an education, don’t have voting rights, or are forced to be housewives. Inflation exists, and house prices keep staying at all time highs. Hell no don’t pay for dates. And honestly, maybe this is me being stubborn, but if I pay I expect to get laid. For example a drink when I know with absolute fucking certainty sex happens tonight, or something like paying for the uber back home. If we’re feeling each other out it’s 50… | /r/newTRP | 17/06/22 05:38 PM |
| 0 | I'm a virgin at 22 and I feel like it's distorted my perception of sex and myself.Hilarious. Every few months these ‘virgin’ posts pop up and almost always the guy will say ‘I’m decent/above average looking that dress well’. It’s always the ego protection/hamstering that gets me rolling. Buddy if that were the case, girls will chase you. Appearance is 99% of the battle. | /r/newTRP | 16/06/22 11:12 AM |
| 3 | A girl who likes me has a boyfriend, don't know if I should pursue?Do it. You seem like to type who will risk it all. Update us after. | /r/newTRP | 28/05/22 09:00 AM |
| 23 | Do not be desperate for a gf, not because girls have the supposed desperation 6th sense, but to protect yourself from heartbreakYou sound like an autist. There are always three sides to a story- your side, her side, and the truth. If it sounds this bad from your side I cannot imagine how bad it is from her perspective. Next time, just use your hands when you’re horny. | /r/TheRedPill | 02/05/22 02:55 PM |
| 3 | Asexuality is the way to go“Can’t be burned if I don’t play the game” while finger pointing at head. Wow, insightful. Now go off to another subreddit. | /r/TheRedPill | 25/04/22 03:03 AM |
| 3 | Am I moving too fast and missing some Red Flags?Wasn’t April fools over two weeks ago? | /r/TheRedPill | 16/04/22 04:07 PM |
| 3 | Why are girls from the bar so flakey?Had the same thing happen to me. Even girls I slept with flaked. Hot ones, average ones, ones to forget, etc. Thought it was me being ‘too alpha’ or not giving enough attention the next day. I changed my strategy and acted ‘nicer’. Got less flakes but still its not like they were lining up to meet again. Girls I meet elsewhere always reschedule. The truth is guys like me go clubbing looking for a bang, and girls are the same. They want sex, attention, fun, and most importantly NO STRINGS ATTACHE… | /r/newTRP | 30/03/22 03:06 PM |
| 3 | Any way to insinuate in your dating profile that tells fat bitches to fuck off without offending the rest?I just ignore them if they message first. | /r/newTRP | 26/03/22 05:09 PM |
| 1 | Not sure what to think about this activity from my GFJust swallow the pill and stop being blue pilled. She’s not yours, its just your turn. You’re in scarcity mindset. If she cheats, you find another. If she doesn’t, cool. But you’re stressing yourself out. That’s why people suggest boundaries in relationships. Its not to ‘forbid’ her from doing x, y, z, its to give you the peace of mind so you can go about your productive day without worrying about nonsense. A relationship is for FUN, its meant to be fun. If its causing you stress solve the probl… | /r/newTRP | 21/03/22 03:15 PM |
| 1 | Not sure what to think about this activity from my GFTo be honest, when I was ‘active’ in the night scene, I’ve met girls who had the same gameplan (I’m hot, I’ll use it for free drinks for me and my less hot/equally hot/more hot friends) and it never works. Because as a single guy, I’ll just invite my guy friends over. So if its a group of 5 and they all want drinks, I’ll get 5 guys and we each buy one of them a drink. Now its one on one in a group setting, or even two on one if there’s more guys than girls. Once they’re one on one and she recipr… | /r/newTRP | 21/03/22 03:31 AM |
| 3 | Not sure what to think about this activity from my GFSpeaking as someone who used to go out a lot especially pre-covid, if a girl accepts my invite for a drink its a green flag. A green flag meaning we can continue talking, and I can continue to escalate and pass shit tests. A girl bringing up her boyfriend literally does nothing for me - I would still look at her actions and not her words. If she keeps getting more and more intimate, I will keep escalating. A bracelet means nothing - its just a barrier to scare off betas. Once she meets a dude wh… | /r/newTRP | 20/03/22 07:31 PM |
| 1 | Fiancé earns more than meThere’s a reason why historically men are taught to be the bread winner (earn more than the women). Its in our DNA. With money comes power, authority, and rules don’t apply to you as much as they do to others. Men need to feel masculine. Entrepreneurs have to use all they can - looks, charm, smarts, effort into their work. As a woman, she’ll dress nicely, put in effort, enter rooms filled with men (and often dirty old bastards). She’ll be ‘mentored’ and have drinks to advance her career. If you’… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 12/03/22 03:36 PM |
| 2 | Im close to my 30 and singleYou’ll be a wizard soon | /r/newTRP | 09/03/22 04:27 PM |
| 1 | When is the best season to break up?The best time to break up is before a holiday. Spring break, summer, Christmas, New Years, etc. You’re guaranteed a rebound. | /r/newTRP | 06/03/22 07:57 AM |
| 1 | She asked to shoot some BTS for her Onlyfans?You’re one hormonal cycle away from having your conversations posted on a twitlonger and getting canceled. | /r/TheRedPill | 27/02/22 07:36 PM |
| 2 | “I Like Friends But I Like Getting Laid too”…”I Like My Parents But I Live My Own Life too”Obviously results speak for themselves. If you’re moving up to a better spot, then no regrets. They’re just putting you down to make themselves feel better. ‘You’re moving up but you don’t have friends like I do so you’re not much better’. Its just a cope, let them have it. | /r/newTRP | 27/02/22 07:30 PM |
| 9 | Response to being called a man whoreThis happens a lot. Most people on here will say ‘just DGAF’. And its true. I was in your shoes too. What I wished someone told me was that it isn’t greed, hatred, or spite that makes people say that. Its ‘envy’. People want what others have. And seeing others having what they want will make them upset. Upset enough to call you names like man whore. You cant change that, its biologically programmed in us. If you want to be successful, you will eventually have things other want. It’ll be uncomfor… | /r/newTRP | 26/02/22 06:04 PM |
| 3 | Picking Up A DancerI never browse TRP for memes but the comments section is gold. Y’all go hard in the paint. | /r/TheRedPill | 25/02/22 04:56 PM |
| 2 | My main chick asked me if I had sex with other girlsJust take two steps out of your feelings and look at it objectively. This functioning human, who wants to be exclusive yet decides not to be, who wants you to lie a month ago and now wants answers clearly is playing. You can take it two ways: she’s innocently falling in love for you, is confused, and is willing to sacrifice her wants (blue pill). Or, that she knows exactly what the fuck she got herself into, likes the thrill, and is having a good time because she INTENTIONALLY chose to walk this… | /r/newTRP | 18/02/22 05:42 AM |
| 1 | My main chick asked me if I had sex with other girlsIronically, I think she is projecting. Cheaters suspect others cheat. She herself admits it isn’t a relationship. It come across almost as a confession. Like a ‘say it first so I don’t feel bad’. If she really is the type of girl who would cry over seeing her man sexing other women, she would seek a relationship rather giving sex out without commitment. Just re-read what kind of person you think she is and see if it makes sense. There’s no way people fall for it. | /r/newTRP | 17/02/22 04:55 PM |
| 1 | 9.5 tries to make me exclusiveJust if you wanna give me something to aim for, would you mind sharing your height/weight/ethnicity? Cus you be pullin’ bitches | /r/newTRP | 29/01/22 05:10 PM |
| 11 | Lessons From My RSD BootcampSo how much did it cost? Seems you got a lot out of it mentally. Also, if you don’t mind me asking, did you or the other people in your group get laid on the night out? | /r/TheRedPill | 26/01/22 07:37 PM |
| 2 | How to get a sixpack before the summer 2022 and put it on tinder to get laidSo if you’re 173 (or say I’m 173) how much will you weigh by summer? Just wanna know how much I should overshoot my bulk | /r/TheRedPill | 09/01/22 05:18 PM |
| 3 | Working On The Alpha Fucks Side Of Hypergamy To Get The Best From WomenAs a young dude, maybe my perspective is biased, but I find cold approaches easier today than say like 7 years ago. Back then PUA was kinda ‘taboo’ with people shaming TF out of approaching strangers. Nowadays with the internet/social media people are more willing to open up and have a conversation with a stranger. It’s a lot easier (for me) to cold approach because it seems every women is receptive to an adventure. It’s in the social makeup and people meeting with strangers isn’t scary or crazy… | /r/TheRedPill | 01/01/22 07:31 PM |
| 8 | How do you compete with simps gassing/pedestalizing women online?It’s simple. You’re looking at it from the wrong perspective. First think of it like this - women online are pursued from all angles, hence they’re on a pedestal. They got options. This means they’re don’t need to be preselecting - they’re simply going with whoever gives them the best offer, at a particular time when they launch the app. And if it fails, they’ll get another lined up. For us to get laid, we have to have both a killer offer AND be right place, right time. We can’t control when the… | /r/newTRP | 08/12/21 07:55 PM |
| 2 | When you take your seat at the head of the simp tableAs much as I like shitting on him, having worked with and alongside ultra high net worth men, many of them genuinely fit the ‘old boys club’ stereotype. Misogynistic, drug doing, hooker finding, often offensive, power abusing, intern peeping men. If you’re not in the circle, they act very different in private than in public. Just go to a slightly exclusive event and rub elbows with them. It’ll take you 5 seconds to realise they don’t give one shit about females. It’s always a competition of who … | /r/TheRedPill | 11/11/21 03:29 PM |
| 3 | Do any other boyfriend-girlfriend relationships turn into father-daughter relationships for anyone else on TRP?Lol. This sub always makes me laugh. | /r/newTRP | 29/10/21 07:57 PM |
| 1 | Is Online Sexting Modern Day Hookups for People?Man, imagine if you became an employee of porbhub. You’ll technically be hooking up with the world by facilitating the distribution of porn! I think you’ve found your life calling. | /r/TheRedPill | 22/10/21 09:06 PM |
| 12 | College Bar Game (First ONS)I love the bar scene. Got most my lays there. Some people on here swear by ‘daygame’, for me the bars are easy mode. You can be yourself, girls have their hair down, and they all look dolled up. Out of the women I’ve slept with, I’ve met great, caring and genuinely nice girls. However, they’re almost always slightly ‘broken’. In your case, any girl that gives out on first night, and is easily clingy, is someone that’s ‘loose’. Enjoy the ride and don’t catch feels. | /r/TheRedPill | 22/10/21 07:31 PM |
| 3 | Massive potential deal-breaker with prospective LTRAnd now the autists are flooding the main sub. How is this garbage even allowed on here? | /r/TheRedPill | 04/10/21 05:39 PM |
| 1 | LTR has been faking orgasmsHopeless. The first thing you should do is read the sidebar. Everything single ‘my girl does X, what should I do’ question has been covered in the sidebar. Read it. | /r/newTRP | 02/10/21 05:37 PM |
| 2 | What is more impressive, getting a beautiful girl to say she loves you? Or getting a beautiful girl to send you her nudes?Since when did TRP become a home to old sexpats. | /r/newTRP | 01/10/21 06:52 PM |
| 3 | Going to a restaurant with a female friend, please help.I’d be shocked if you went from an orbiter for three years to sex after one date. Post an update for us! | /r/newTRP | 29/09/21 05:08 AM |
| 3 | Has my LTR checked out?Trust your gut. Where there’s smoke there’s fire. If she’s withdrawing attention you do the same. If you suspect her heart is elsewhere, yours should too. LTRs are earned not given. | /r/newTRP | 29/09/21 04:56 AM |
| 10 | Girl from Tinder claims to "accidentally" have looked at a dick-pic behind a 2-step pastebin url link I gave herSo this is why AskTRP moved away from Reddit. | /r/newTRP | 26/09/21 06:13 PM |
| 2 | Hypergamy is your best friend.For every man cursing about hypergamy, there is another man who is enjoying the benefits of hypergamy. You can’t win them all. Doesn’t mean you stop playing and stop competing to win. | /r/TheRedPill | 26/09/21 03:46 AM |
| 1 | Domestic Abuse Act 2021, turning your loved one, into the biggest threat to you. By Design.So tired of years of pummelling into our heads that women are constantly suppressed, abused, and have no voice and therefore the courts of public opinion, legal courts, corporations, and social pressures all feel the need to step in. The constant pampering to certain segments of our community is annoying. | /r/TheRedPill | 26/09/21 03:44 AM |
| 5 | Y'all were right. The red pill was rightF. She’s a hoe, you had your turn, but it’s hard not feeling cucked since you’re literally being cucked. And being branch swung to someone who you will see everyday. Trust that most BP men will make it hell on her ex if they have the choice. I wouldn’t like my chances at a promotion under him. Also, nobody will feel sympathy for you outside the community - reality TV, dramas, television, feminists, have made it ‘acceptable’ to branch swing. | /r/TheRedPill | 26/09/21 03:30 AM |
| 3 | Lesson: How I misapplied TRP in my younger yearsAny discussion about the ‘real point of TRP’ is retarded. What is the merit in boiling down a complex and full handbook to life into a couple of sentences or a few major ideas? Read the sidebar, and every bit. That includes the point about frame (being your own man) AS WELL as the parts about dealing with women. TRP teaches about how to deal with women incredibly well, choosing not to listen is dumb. | /r/TheRedPill | 26/09/21 03:24 AM |
| 0 | How much of a friendship "red flag" is hearing that your friend has tried heroin 6-8 times in his life?No offence, but you sound like a giant dweeb. How the hell did you find this sub? Genuine question. | /r/newTRP | 22/09/21 10:31 AM |
| 20 | Hundreds of protesters gathered in front of a UMass fraternity due to sexual assault allegationsA saying as old as time - ‘the young are easily manipulated’. Children will be children. You have to wonder who’s supporting them, giving them the courage and spreading half-truths for them to act so recklessly. Who stands to benefit from all this? Perhaps more importantly, how can we position ourselves to reap those same benefits? Fascinating stuff. | /r/TheRedPill | 21/09/21 05:33 PM |
| 7 | Men with multiple baby mamasOfficially TRP offseason | /r/newTRP | 07/09/21 06:23 PM |
| 1 | Spending money on dates?If they’re into you then they will be willing to do what you ask. You can suggest a hike to a chick who’s ‘genuinely into you’ and she’ll love it. You can ask a chick to straight up pay for your drinks if she was ‘genuinely into you’. You are overthinking. It’s a date - dates are meant to be leisure. If it’s costly ask for a split. If she doesn’t want to pay and neither do you, suggest another activity. If she’s loaded ask her to take care of the bill. | /r/newTRP | 25/08/21 05:30 PM |
| 113 | I had ball cancer - here is what I learnedOnly in TRP will we be talking about stoicism when a man has gone through testicular cancer. | /r/TheRedPill | 25/08/21 05:09 PM |
| 4 | Spending money on dates?Just saying, I know a lot of women who go out for ‘free drinks/food’ and have no intention of giving it up on the first date. If a guy expects some action she’ll call him out as a creep. Get her to do things you want. The focal point should be YOU. Have some respect for yourself. If you wouldn’t spend $50 on drinks, you shouldn’t do it just because she’s there. | /r/newTRP | 25/08/21 05:07 PM |
| 2 | Letting plate fuck my buddys, am I being respected?I’ve accidentally fucked a buddy’s oneitis because she was such a hoe and was out every weekend. So similar situation to you, except my buddy was BP and really liked her. I was like, ‘that’s the girl I banged’ and he was shook. Then I bursted out laughing, and our entire group just laughed. He was butthurt but got over it, and you will too. There’s no disrespect. If anything, it’ll become an inside joke between you and it’ll be funny everytime. | /r/newTRP | 03/08/21 03:45 AM |
| 2 | [Serious] What are some creative pings for leads that seemed to have gone ghost? Is it ever a good idea to just be straightforward?Add them on Instagram and post often. If she’s interested she’ll reply or comment. Take that as an initiation and follow up through texts to plan a meet up. | /r/newTRP | 03/08/21 03:38 AM |
| 3 | TRP men have unicorn fallacy about Muslim girls and I am about to destroy it with realityEven when OP is spitting facts, people still cope in the comments. As someone who’s banged a fresh off the boat Muslim, they aren’t much better than western women. Every conservative women, regardless of origin, will ‘let her hair down’ if the opportunity is there. Give them an excuse, a vacation, or a reason to hoe without being found and they will do so. Only beta men will refuse ‘on principle’. Even then, they only say so because they aren’t faced with a buffet of options, everyday, accessibl… | /r/TheRedPill | 01/08/21 06:30 PM |
| 1 | If your FWB showed up with a hickey on her neck, what would you do?Don’t raw dog hoes. Just don’t. | /r/newTRP | 24/07/21 06:37 PM |
| 3 | Just read this shit on another sub. Lmao.It’s Reddit. People make up shit all the time. Half of what’s on the ‘popular’ page is ridiculous, fictional stories with an element of ‘controversy’, be-it sexual, political, or includes a buzz word like ‘Red Pill’. This has literally everything to make typical Redditor upvote it. Suicide, breakup, abuse, Red Pill, mental health, love, missing a friend, etc. It’s hard for any BP person to not upvote and share the story to the world in order for the world to realise that they’re a good person. | /r/TheRedPill | 20/07/21 05:56 PM |
| 2 | Should I ever go to clubs if I don't drink and can't dance at all ?It’s super easy to lose your group, for good and bad. Typically I like wandering off so I can find and isolate girls without my friends giggling behind. If it isn’t successful, I’d rejoin my group to chat and hang out with them. If my buddy really likes a girl but she is with her friend this is where I’ll be a good friend and take her friend away from them, be his wingman so to speak. For my group, we go in the club together but by the end of the night we typically all scatter as we would’ve pai… | /r/newTRP | 05/07/21 04:41 PM |
| 0 | Does anyone get sad by the lack of friends they have but at the end okay with the trajectory of life?Is this sub becoming the new asktrp? Rant/venting could be the new thing around here. On a serious note, everyone drifts apart as we spend more time on ‘adult’ things, such as making money. It’s life. I also genuinely believe any high value man could make friends if he really chooses to. As in, spending the time and being deliberately conversational and pleasant. If you’re successful you would have elements which are objectively attractive in a person - knowledge, critical thinking, imagination,… | /r/TheRedPill | 03/07/21 05:42 PM |
| 3 | Should I ever go to clubs if I don't drink and can't dance at all ?Gonna heavily disagree with the others. GO. GO. GO. Even if you don’t drink or can’t dance! I got most of my lays, actual closes, via the club. On a bad night you’ll get a number, on a good an f-close is normal. It was my ‘go-to’ to find a new plate pre-covid. Sometimes I’d take matches off dating apps for drinks and quickly transition to a club. Somehow girls become massive sluts in a club, and literally the sensible girl I was chatting with is now grinding me like a stripper. I can’t dance, bu… | /r/newTRP | 02/07/21 04:27 PM |
| 3 | I [33M] just decided to separate from hot ukrainian wife [32F] right after she started to build a new LTR with a random dude. Why has she ruined our marriage? To what extent is it my fault?Given freedom, women will either ride the CC early or ride it late. You gotta control your girl. Also, you don’t ever become cheerleader for HER goals, fuck that, you’re the man. She should be the one sacrificing her time to support YOUR dreams. Also, the whole conservative Christian being a green flag is a load of BS. They fall in love hard. As a result, she’s equally likely to fall in love as hard with another stranger if they spend enough time together. Screen for women with standards and say… | /r/askTRP | 21/06/21 05:11 PM |
| 1 | My wife, 46 years old, of 17 years is having a virtual affair with her first love from 30 years ago. Do I blame myself?Way to find us when the house is already on fire. Do you expect us to be miracle workers? Next time, when you see things are turning to shit during the 5-7 years leading up to this, fake attention so it won’t cost you 50% of your net. Some flowers and a weekend round trip ticket to an exotic island for sunshine is the type of bitch management you should have done. Expensive, time consuming, unfun, but it’s a hell of a lot cheaper a divorce. Pop a pill and give her the D if that’s what it takes t… | /r/askTRP | 20/06/21 08:37 PM |
| 2 | Is the "Wall" just a Redpill cope?Met a lot of stunning 30+ women. With makeup, any women can have flawless skin. With money, any women can buy artificially body conforming clothes to enhance their features. With IG, and women can copy paste another influencer’s makeup, hair, outfit and personality to look attractive. Even after all that, if you place her next to a fit college chick, she’s going to look like crap. Everything is relative. If you’re one on one with someone older you might think the wall is a myth. If you’re with t… | /r/askTRP | 20/06/21 08:31 PM |
| 2 | My wife, 46 years old, of 17 years is having a virtual affair with her first love from 30 years ago. Do I blame myself?What are the reasons making a women a SAHM is bad, from a red pill lens? I don’t see it as positive or negative, it seems neutral. I know a few high earners who made/plan to make their LTR a SAHM. From my interactions with them they’re far from blue pilled. | /r/askTRP | 20/06/21 07:47 PM |
| 1 | Would you wife someone that's 5 in looks but 10 in "personality" and loyal af?This type of reasoning doesn’t make sense. A person’s personality can change. For example, getting a haircut may make you more confident. Wearing nice clothes may make you stand taller. Going into a club and getting approached when you aren’t expecting it will shoot up your ego. If she’s a 5, what happens if she becomes a 6 through hard work? What happens if you become successful, and she becomes known as your wife, which inflates her own perceived SMV? The logic is based into the assumption tha… | /r/askTRP | 18/06/21 08:23 PM |
| 4 | As the average American woman is a whopping 171lbs @ 5ft4 is wanting a slim girlfriend under 135lbs and a size 4 to 6 now considered "high standards"?The bigger you are, the smaller they get. Get swole bro! | /r/askTRP | 18/06/21 08:11 PM |
| 0 | Been going out with a girl who works at my gym and I'm 99% sure she's about to set me up with some kind of false accusation. Best way forward?I think you and the others commenting are so far wrong here. I don’t think she’s thinking about you. Women experience strong emotions with someone they like. The ‘tingles’. Her feeling fucked over is likely due to what the other guy said or did to her, and has nothing to do with you. She finds herself thinking about him more than you. So she’s setting up a branch swing. She’s going to look at herself in the mirror one day and decide ‘I’m wasting my time with my BF, I need my girlfriends to give … | /r/askTRP | 18/06/21 08:01 PM |
| 2 | RIP itiswr1ttenitiswr2tten - the sequel | /r/TheRedPill | 18/06/21 07:38 PM |
| 2 | Ever since learning the red pill, I can’t stand normal people anymore, and I want to change thatSomeone more experienced in TRP who’s also successful in the tradition sense (career, net worth, attractive, etc) may be viewing you the same way you view your simp friends. ‘He has all the tools TRP offers and isn’t doing anything with it’. ‘He gets distracted and has poor time management’. When you toss out other people’s imperfections someone better than you can do the same against you. As a result, it’s a gigantic waste of time worrying about other people’s problems. You’re main concern shou… | /r/askTRP | 14/06/21 08:50 PM |
| 1 | Ever since learning the red pill, I can’t stand normal people anymore, and I want to change thatThe whole point of TRP is to develop an ironclad frame based on the sidebar so that you won’t ever give a shit about what anybody else says. Half the comments are armchair psychology masterbation. If you actually read the sidebar, and agree with it, your frame won’t be ‘gee I wonder what other people think of me’. Who cares about how a normie is being controlled by his wife and stagnating at his career? Seriously, and I’m not trying to be rude, but who cares? Personally my hands are full trying … | /r/askTRP | 14/06/21 08:12 PM |
| 1 | My plate introduced me to her girlfriends.Double down and escalate with the HB8. If you’re high value she’ll want to at least get to know you. Your plate will eventually wind out, and you would’ve dreaded her so far into oblivion that she’ll come crawling back. | /r/askTRP | 09/06/21 06:42 PM |
| 1 | Totally lost and spiraling into depression, looking for some perspectiveOne man’s trash is another man’s treasure. When I was 22 (fresh grad) a few years ago, I did all the things you wanted (got the chicks, went partying, huge social circle, big birthdays, etc) but I missed out on an offer from a large company that I really wanted to get into. Settled for another job, but my career trajectory was completely not how I envisioned it. I remember thinking if I had the choice, I would have forgone all the social activities if it meant I could get the job I wanted. I had… | /r/askTRP | 05/06/21 05:38 PM |
| 2 | How to deal with ungrateful coworkers ?You’ve helped them because they voiced out what they needed help on. You can do the same - voice out what you want. I highly, highly, recommend you not to go looking for their validation/ their thanks. Instead be more selfish. Use your kindness as a stepping stone to move up your company. When you have lunch with a manager, casually point out the stuff you did. When a promotion chance comes, ask the coworkers to put in a good word. You’re seen as the intelligent, selfless guy. Use that image to … | /r/askTRP | 04/06/21 05:07 PM |
| 2 | I almost don't want to communicate with girls anymore?It’s a good thing you’re not seeing the world through a blue pilled lens. Pointing out women being bad quality LTR material means you are preselecting. Remember, you only need ONE girl if you want an LTE. One, out of the billions of women worldwide. One, out of the millions who turn 18 every year. Preselect, preselect, preselect. It’s a marathon not a sprint. | /r/askTRP | 04/06/21 05:02 PM |
| 4 | Its It just me or are girls increasingly turning to Onlyfans and the like?One of my plates posted a story of a photo of a gaming chair and with some corny caption of not being able to afford it. She’s a solid 6/10, college chick who’s active on IG. Literally HUNDREDS of messages from dudes, friends, and strangers offering to give their money to help her out. ‘I’ll buy it for you’, ‘do you have an Amazon wishlist?’, ‘how can I help’ etc. All of y’all who are surprised need to look through some of your plates phones. OnlyFans is pretty tame. | /r/askTRP | 01/06/21 06:10 PM |
| 0 | What do you do if someone gives you the silent treatment to get back at you?So you’re acknowledging you made a social mistake? You should tell the other person you realize this, not me. Snowflake. | /r/askTRP | 29/05/21 04:34 PM |
| 1 | What do you do if someone gives you the silent treatment to get back at you?Look in the mirror? If you’re mean to someone, and they next you, that seems like a logical chain of events. You must have the EQ of a wooden chair if think that you can trash people, and then turn around and believe you’re the victim of a silent treatment? | /r/askTRP | 28/05/21 04:26 PM |
| 3 | Do women ever take responsibility for a breakup?Most of the times when women breakup, they do so for a branch swing. So, why would they feel a negative emotion like ‘responsibility’? She’s more likely to seek encouragement than responsibility. As the girl, she’s branch swinging, she needs the ‘you go girl’ rather than the ‘how can you treat him like that’. Western women grew up pampered, they won’t have an epiphany and go 180 and begin pampering men. | /r/askTRP | 28/05/21 04:22 PM |
| 7 | I need help. I have been thoroughly broken and now I fully accept and embrace the Red Pill...There’s this thing called the sidebar, it’s a good place to start. You’re no more special than the other thousands of men who visited this sub for the first time. Sidebar worked for them, it’ll work for you. | /r/askTRP | 28/05/21 04:19 PM |
| 3 | Is it a bad idea to not opt for a career in your mid twenties?If you’re lining degree after degree after degree, you’re clearly financially secure, perhaps you have good parents. People make money because they need money to pay of student loans, buy parents things and afford things for themselves. You clearly don’t have the same level of burden, so you should pursue whatever you want. If you’re standing upon wealth, you can do whatever you want and still come out ahead. | /r/askTRP | 28/05/21 03:26 PM |
| 2 | I feel like working 9-5 impacts testosterone negativelyThe trade off is you get to make obscene amounts of money. Tech, finance, consulting, STEM, medicine, etc all involves working set hours at a cubicle. | /r/askTRP | 28/05/21 03:21 PM |
| 1 | In LTR, how to handle expenses with dates and what not?50:50 all day. I make more and I still go dutch. It is what it is. | /r/askTRP | 28/05/21 03:14 PM |
| 1 | How can I be successful as a very short (4'10), balding, Asian guy?This can’t be real. Pics or it didn’t happen. | /r/askTRP | 24/05/21 04:32 PM |
| 5 | "Short Guys Will Never Get Laid"Identify your weakness (height) and supplementing it with a strength (status, charisma, fame, etc) is a realistic perspective. But tbh it’s not all mental. If life is like a marathon, being short means your start line is behind someone else’s who is tall. It isn’t fair but life also isn’t fair. You make do with the cards you are dealt. | /r/TheRedPill | 21/05/21 06:06 PM |
| 16 | Tinder date wouldn't fuck but wanted to eat her out, said no and she left. Did I mess up?Y’all nasty. Chance at pussy so you will eat out a hoe when it’s hot AF out? All that delicious sweat combined with a tinder hoe makes for a petri dish of STIs. At least ask her to shower first. | /r/askTRP | 21/05/21 05:59 PM |
| 4 | Plate got herpes out of nowhereLive in ignorance instead of pursing treatment for possible disease(s). Wise. | /r/askTRP | 17/05/21 05:21 PM |
| 0 | Girlfriend of 3,5 years broke up with me. Having problems to get busy and not get caught up in my head trying to figure out how I fucked upI thought a goal of TRP was to be a better man? So nobody is going to confront the elephant in the room? That this entire essay is trash? I do not understand how men, rational people, can read this junk and not feel it’s rubbish. OP is behaving like a bitch - indecisive without a clue to what the fuck he wants. One line it’s ‘I love her so much’, the next is ‘I have so much fun with this other girl’, then it’s ‘I feel so bad it’s over’. It’s so incoherent I’m confused - is there a point here or … | /r/askTRP | 17/05/21 05:16 PM |
| 2 | Girls pushing up on you?How is it different? Fun means sexual. Male attention means leading towards physical interaction. Hence, girls just wanna have fun. Sidebar because you seem to not understand the female prerogative. | /r/askTRP | 15/05/21 04:35 PM |
| 2 | Girls pushing up on you?Girls just wanna have fun. They go clubbing for male attention. | /r/askTRP | 15/05/21 04:20 PM |
| 161 | Be Careful With Girls Who Look Sweet And InnocentI’ve always found ‘cute’ type girls to have a higher n-count than ‘hot’ type girls. They aren’t model sexy, so their lower standards mean they have a wider range of tolerable mates. They’re sweet, so guys are confident to approach. They’re act innocent so to maintain the image they will always reciprocate kindness, engage in conversation, and smile. The problem with this type of women are that they are always insecure as they know deep down they’re not ‘hot’. They don’t know how to say ‘no’. The… | /r/TheRedPill | 15/05/21 04:17 PM |
| 1 | How do you handle ultimatums?Damn, you must be a massive pussy in her eyes. I don’t talk to my worst plates like that. What the hell is the context? It does make you look like a butthurt bitch by being quiet. She’s rude but she has a point, if you had something to say, say it. | /r/askTRP | 14/05/21 04:43 PM |
| 4 | Girl I matched with on hinge and ghosted friend requested me on FacebookShe sees you as an orbiter. Not good enough to date, good enough to make her friend count have a higher number. More friends on FB equals more potential likes, equals higher social proof. Source: me and the people I know. I add people I’m not ‘close to’ just so my friend count is higher. Everyone I know does this. Girls especially, they compete for who has more ‘happy birthday’ messages. | /r/askTRP | 14/05/21 04:24 AM |
| 3 | Into cheating porn…and it’s embarrassing. How to stop?Degenerate | /r/askTRP | 14/05/21 04:21 AM |
| 2 | How effective is Redpill relationship advice when it comes to marriage?MRP is a sham. That sub isn’t Red Pill, it’s filled with purple pill people. There’s a person with a 300+ upvote post, and a week later he’s in another sub telling a female poster that she ‘should be happy and deserve the best’ and that her boyfriend ‘needs to buy her little surprises and flowers’ to keep her happy. You’re better off asking relationships advice here and getting unfiltered advice. Prepare for the worst, be happy when things turn out better. | /r/askTRP | 14/05/21 04:12 AM |
| 1 | How do you command/direct people without being “too nice” or “too pushy”Just reread everything and it took me 20s. Did it once again, slowly, and it took 30s. Nowhere near 5mins. How? English is my first language. Also the content isn’t technical. | /r/askTRP | 13/05/21 03:09 PM |
| 6 | Why being your own man is not an option if you are a b1tchThis was hard to read. Incoherent mess, ideas don’t link up. Also we’re all big boys here, you can curse. You strangely wrote ‘bitch’ in full halfway, only to back to b1tch again. Stay off the drugs. | /r/TheRedPill | 10/05/21 04:39 PM |
| 1 | Should I focus on wealth building or improving my “game”?Caffeine helps. | /r/askTRP | 09/05/21 09:06 PM |
| 11 | In what ways have people treated you differently after raising your SMV?Strangers treated me better. Used to walk in and people look past me, was the last to speak, etc. Now people look to me to start conversations. More success with women. Easier time escalating conversations as girls initiated more. People who knew me IMO began treating me worse. Started being fake, demanding more of my time, getting upset when I told them I’m busy, less honest, etc. Some felt insecure that I didn’t value them, which made conversations uncomfortable. Like anything in life there ar… | /r/askTRP | 09/05/21 08:29 PM |
| 66 | Plate wants me to stop hooking up with other girlsNews flash, every plate in the history of platehood gets jealous and eventually wants their man’s exclusivity. You do whatever you want, don’t do things to make her happy. She’s in your frame, not the other way around. If you stay strong, she’ll change her life to cater to yours. | /r/askTRP | 09/05/21 08:06 PM |
| 3 | busting to quickFuck it, if you aren’t lasting and she still comes back for more, why are you worried? Double down and bust whenever you want to. Women won’t have sex with men they are unattracted to. You’re doing a lot more ‘right’ than ‘wrong’. Take the pressure off yourself, and you’ll naturally last longer. | /r/askTRP | 09/05/21 08:02 PM |
| 8 | When it comes to the No Contact Rule is there a "point of no return"?Let’s be honest, who is nexting who? You see how confused you’re feeling now? That’s the effect it should have on HER. She should be worried about losing you. She should be confused. She should want to reach put, Not you. Use some objectivity. Reread what you wrote. Wouldn’t it be nice if it was her who wrote all this on Reddit for you? The no contact rule works because it makes emotions fly. The person who has frame gets the upper hand. The person who is the ‘beta’ feels the need to reach out. … | /r/askTRP | 09/05/21 07:58 PM |
| 1 | Guys, Need help can’t concentratePutting pussy on a pedestal never works out. That being said, when I get horny AF, I just go on Tinder. You can substitute this with whatever dating app is most popular in your country. I feel like Tinder gives me a ‘boost’ when I boot up after a while, so I get matches quick and approach relentlessly. I’m not always on it (I go on for a week, swipe everyone, get as many potential plates as possible, and don’t touch the app for months). | /r/askTRP | 09/05/21 07:52 PM |
| 3 | Should I focus on wealth building or improving my “game”?I work 70-80 hours per week, and had bad stretches where I had to clock 100 per week. Obviously unsustainable, but would I trade the money, status, and my career for jiu-jitsu, traveling and yoga classes? Hell to the no. I’m surprised you feel the need to improve. If you have a competitive salary in a competitive field at a young-ish age, you should be around highly ambitious people all the time. Naturally you should have tons of chances to mingle ‘upwards’. I don’t think I’ve ever met a ‘fitnes… | /r/askTRP | 09/05/21 07:41 PM |
| 2 | What do you do when a girl is desperate for commitment?Go on Google Images and search ‘spinning plates’. You see that tough, physics defying stunt they do? It’s temporary, you can spin the plate all you want but eventually it’ll stop. It’s why TRP uses that analogy when we talk about managing women. It’s called ‘spinning’ because it’s not meant to last forever. If it was, it’ll be called ‘shelving plates’. Eventually all women want commitment, regardless of circumstances. When it happens, plates ‘brake’ and you move on. | /r/askTRP | 07/05/21 04:03 PM |
| 1 | People made fun my muscular body because I was/am a pushoverIf it’s dudes and they’re people you grew up with then they’re just shitting around. People who know you for a while tend to not have a filter, so they just say whatever comes to mind. Plus in their minds, you’re not the guy who ‘bulked up’, you’re the guy they grew up with. When you interact with randoms, they might not make fun of your body. That doesn’t mean strangers are somehow ‘better friends’ than people you knew your whole life. That doesn’t mean you need to discard your current friends … | /r/askTRP | 07/05/21 03:57 PM |
| 1 | (opportunity) Cost of marriageBusiness card. If you haven’t a job then I don’t suggest marriage. | /r/askTRP | 07/05/21 03:48 PM |
| 6 | (opportunity) Cost of marriageIf it’s for the kids, then people shouldn’t have a problem screening for the mother of their child. If they want the best for the child, looking for a suitable partner is part of the process. Its moreso people are impatient and want kids early. Or people are lazy and want a good wife without having to vet for one. | /r/askTRP | 06/05/21 06:25 PM |
| 3 | Being single and depression/feeling worthless?Yikes. Sidebar. | /r/askTRP | 06/05/21 05:34 PM |
| 8 | (opportunity) Cost of marriageSince when was going 50:50 the equivalent of appearing like a ‘poor guy’? It’s pretty impossible and tiring to hide everything. As someone who works quite long hours and gets decent pay, I cannot imagine my LTR or fiancé not seeing that I make bank. Like, all it takes is a namecard to give it away. Not getting married is like repeated a million times on the sidebar. All cons, very little positives. Alimony sucks, divorce rapes happen. If seeing Bill Gates get divorced this week isn’t motivation … | /r/askTRP | 06/05/21 05:26 PM |
| 1 | Death grip and sex?Not sure it’s related. When I was a teen and discovered porn, I was beatin it every chance I got. Didn’t affect my erections, didn’t affect morning wood. Still watched porn while getting laid, no issues with performance. Watched porn with a plate during sex, no issues either. Get your T checked. Also, there’s probably a mental component to it. If you think porn is keeping you down then quit it cold turkey. People swear by nofap, give that a try. | /r/askTRP | 06/05/21 05:17 PM |
| 52 | My girlfriend was banging her landlord in college and he still lives in our town.Honestly, even if she can do it all over again, I really doubt she would change her actions. Hooking up with an older landlord was probably her most sexually intense experience, ever. Naughty, rule-breaking, age gap, you name it. I highly doubt there’s anything you can do with her that’ll get her juices flowing quite like what they did. Some (including me) on TRP believe if you can’t be her sexual best, the relationship is headed towards failure. She lost her ability to pair bond as she acted up… | /r/askTRP | 05/05/21 04:57 PM |
| 1 | Should I leave my wife?The divorce settlement will only get larger the longer you two are together. The best time to GTFO was yesterday. | /r/askTRP | 04/05/21 04:30 PM |
| 1 | Gf blocked me on her instagram storiesI personally think ‘silently downgrading to plate status’ is hard to execute. Pre-TRP, I was in an LTR. We moved to different cities and I subconsciously downgraded her to plate status - went out partying, barely texted, etc. She came running along but I was in such an IDGAF mode and had so many opportunities that downgrading her ‘just happened’. After TRP, and I think most people here are like this, you learn so much about female behavior that nexting or downgrading becomes a CONSCIOUS move. ‘I… | /r/askTRP | 01/05/21 05:00 PM |
| 3 | How the fuck do u pick a chick to be mother of ur kids these days?It will never come to that point. If you want something bad enough, anything is possible. Regardless of what you may think, you only need ONE girl to have a family. One. If you LTR’s 100 women and none hit the sweet spot, that’s still a tiny number compared to the amount of decent looking female strangers you see EVERYDAY. That’s why I prefer leaving when I identify a ceiling. Vetting takes time. The beautiful part of it is that after every LTR or plate, you improve. Whether it’s learning how to… | /r/askTRP | 27/04/21 06:45 PM |
| 3 | For the first time, I'm genuinely comfortable being alone. I'm concerned I may be a little TOO content being alone...Whatever progress you’re happy with, there’s another person working just as hard and chasing what you got. If it’s working for you, double down. It’s like that Venn Diagram - work, sleep, and social life. You pick two and be happy with it, if you’re in the area which overlaps all three you’re Superman (aka unattainable). Maybe this isn’t TRP related, as people here maybe don’t care about money, but I moved up an entire income bracket by sacrificing social life. I saw my plates once a week on wee… | /r/askTRP | 26/04/21 02:11 PM |
| 4 | How the fuck do u pick a chick to be mother of ur kids these days?It’s funny. She hates me for life because I dumped her, but I don’t feel hatred for her. She’s a good chick, just had a ceiling. My LTR before her did not have this problem at all (the need to fit in) and dates with her was wholesome and present. Actually flew to see me on her own dime to my place, to spend the weekend and cook for me, not for IG, not for snapchat, not for social proof. Issue with her was distance and she was career oriented (like me). Overtimes, ‘company activities’, constant n… | /r/askTRP | 26/04/21 01:56 PM |
| 4 | How the fuck do u pick a chick to be mother of ur kids these days?I felt like a dam and her the water trying to break it. With her, the dealbreaker was she craves ‘being one of the girls’. She wants the IG post to draw in simps, she wants to do and talk the way other women with red flags do, she doesn’t wants to feel worse than them so it’s how she hamstered wanting to be a hoe. There was a time we went travelling and instead of enjoying nature, she was focused on getting one picture solo by the waterfall because she saw another influencer do it. She would tal… | /r/askTRP | 26/04/21 06:31 AM |
| 2 | obssesed with TRP,no friends,not happy...There’s a reset button called college. You go there, there’s tons of other young people, and you make friends. I’m talking thousands of people. A brand new start. Don’t worry too much. Just focus on yourself and things will pan out. Your insecurities are because you don’t have a sense of SELF yet. You’ll get that as you age, so just have fun. Also, I had acne and if you’re taking whey I recommend switching to a plant based one, helped a lot for me. | /r/askTRP | 24/04/21 07:30 PM |
| 3 | Girl won't date me because she "wouldn't do that" to her friend, my exYou’re confused. Orbiters do fun shit with women. Orbiters include but aren’t just the dudes who like her Instagram and send her cat videos. Women rein in orbiters, incentivise orbiters by giving him attention and her time. She got you by the ballsack. It’s a massive mental jump that a girl who spends time with you wants to date you. That’s insane you autist. Girls have ‘guy best friends’, girls have ‘guys who look after me’, girls have ‘guys who do x with me’. They’re all orbiters. If you’re no… | /r/askTRP | 24/04/21 07:26 PM |
| 2 | Overcoming anxiety + indecisivenessI’m guessing you mean this in a ‘life’ perspective and not in relation to sex? First I don’t think any intelligent person will say ‘just make any decision and stick with it’. It’s far better to plan ahead and pursue something which aligns with what YOU want. You could look at all the anxiety and decision making videos you want, it won’t help. You need introspection and find out what kind of person you are. Do a personality test, find out your strengths and weaknesses, and it’ll give you a direct… | /r/askTRP | 24/04/21 07:14 PM |
| 2 | Girl won't date me because she "wouldn't do that" to her friend, my exYou wrote a whole novel about her. I highly doubt she can do the same for you. You’re clearly in her frame. Don’t be one of those people who say ‘I’m in control, I know what’s going on, I have frame, BUT...’ You haven’t gotten anywhere with her. And you likely wouldn’t because she has no intentions to date you. When girls say this overtly, you’re at an orbiter status. | /r/askTRP | 24/04/21 07:07 PM |
| 3 | Ugly but beautiful body, good looking but meh body.Not a good analogy. The reasons a women hooks up with a man are different than a man with a chick. Women get horny for whatever reasons, at random times. If she’s horny, she’ll bang someone who isn’t the ‘best’. If she isn’t horny, she won’t bang an objectively more attractive male relative to her. I’ve been around many hoes, and I’ve heard them say ‘he isn’t really hot, but...’ regarding their past partners. Few moments later, she’ll say ‘this guy is so hot’ and proceed to make him an orbiter. | /r/askTRP | 24/04/21 07:02 PM |
| 1 | LTR said “jokingly” to a woman at work she can’t stand me, this shit pissed me off badly. How do I tell her that was not ok?It’s weird, because this clearly isn’t a dealbreaker, or a red flag, or blatant disrespect. But why is it that for you and honestly for most men, their gut response when their women bad mouths them (even jokingly) is negative? From what I’ve seen and experienced, what we say becomes reality. If she says ‘I can’t stand you’ albeit jokingly to her BF often enough, when her friend ask her how’s the relationship, she’ll say ‘actually there are times I can’t stand him’. Then she’ll hamster the negati… | /r/askTRP | 24/04/21 06:57 PM |
| 4 | Seen my LTR text her ex a week ago. What to do?She doesn’t view you as her best. Women won’t pair bond with you when she wants someone else. You’re not her best, she knows it. Unless you’re happy just to have a turn, she isn’t worth committing harder into. Be her best, don’t be the guy she hangs around yet when she closes her eyes, she imagines someone else. She’s alpha widowed, enjoy your turn. Condoms, and don’t marry her. | /r/askTRP | 24/04/21 06:24 PM |
| 4 | Ugly wife=happy life?There’s a few issues. First, and the most obvious one are that some guys are dumb. He might’ve gotten lucky with an 8, that doesn’t mean he can consistently attract 8’s or maintain a relationship (TRP on hard mode) with an 8. A once in a blue moon event is insufficient evidence. So, he might THINK he is settling when in reality he’s wifed up someone closer to his average. Thus when he doesn’t work on himself (frame, dread, attraction, SMV, career) its irrational to be shocked when she cheats. Th… | /r/askTRP | 24/04/21 06:21 PM |
| 5 | STOP giving your LTR credit for shit she's supposed to doWow. I got shivers reading the comments. ‘Appreciate and reward’ women, ‘don’t worry about her past’, ‘women who cook and clean are 1%’, ‘people are just being happy’. Is this the state of the MAIN SUB? Have the newbie AskTrp-ers flocked here? It’s alarming. There’s obvious reality - western women have inhibited abilities to pair bond. That doesn’t automatically mean that when you find a girl who behaves somewhat like a women, you latch on and double down. You still have to VET. That includes he… | /r/TheRedPill | 24/04/21 06:09 PM |
| 2 | How the fuck do u pick a chick to be mother of ur kids these days?I get and see that question often on here. And it’s not an easy answer. I personally believe LTR’s are ‘made’, meaning the perfect LTR doesn’t just fall from the skies - you gotta lead and make her what you want. So, it gives me confidence that I can find similar. I heard from a RP poster that dating is about three things - ability (sex, game, etc), capability (SMV, job, value etc), and opportunity. When I’m in a relationship, my opportunity is low - I’m not out meeting chicks, I may dread but m… | /r/askTRP | 24/04/21 05:41 PM |
| 12 | How the fuck do u pick a chick to be mother of ur kids these days?I’m pretty strict with my criteria for LTR’s and honestly vet pretty hard. I feel it’s a losing battle. I’ve dated an n-count 0 chick, hot, popped her cherry, good family, submissive, and the whole 9 yards. I STILL found shit about her that was annoying and dealbreakers for marriage. The issue with her was that she, although good, still lived in the western environment. She still had friends who posted suggestive pics, western culture promotes riding the CC, celebrities are druggies, and it all … | /r/askTRP | 23/04/21 05:29 PM |
| 17 | Why do I always lose interest in an LTR?Maybe an unpopular opinion but I feel it’s because you have a low n-count. I believe the CC exists for women. I also believe a similar thing exists for men. Women ride the CC until they are bored, and find a man to settle with. Men, until they had ‘enough’ women will never become bored. You have to get to a point where you feel ‘full’. This obviously depends person to person. For some it may be a number, for others it may be experiences. Until you cross off your ‘bucket list’ chances are you’ll … | /r/askTRP | 20/04/21 03:52 PM |
| 0 | GF recently got cancer. I was planning to end things leading up to this and now don't know how to do so without being the bad guy.Just be beta. Start being emotional, indecisive, uncertain, and appear unsuccessful. AWALT brother. She realizes her own situation - she probably has some fantasies she want to achieve before cancer takes too much of a toll. Appear to be her WORST option and she WILL look elsewhere. Again, I must stress to breakdown emotionally almost daily, and make her feel you’re unreliable. Women, even overweight women with cancer, will branch swing and overstate their own SMV. Thirsty men WILL still want to… | /r/askTRP | 20/04/21 05:27 AM |
| 241 | [UPDATE] I think my gf is cheating on meDon’t shit where you eat. Not only do you have to see her, you’ll have to prepare yourself for the inevitable day she tries to hook you back in. Things ‘I miss you’ ‘I was wrong’, etc. There may be also a day she flips everything to ruin your reputation. She may call you toxic, controlling, abusive, etc simply because you ghosted her cheating ass. | /r/askTRP | 18/04/21 08:02 PM |
| 38 | My thoughts on suicide. Something not talked about a lot here on TRPThank you. The universe has a way of extending a helping hand. I consider myself Red Pilled and yet I do feel a wave of depression today. Life is tough, and what’s easy any other day can be impossibly difficult to push through today. Needed this to push through. | /r/TheRedPill | 18/04/21 06:43 PM |
| 2 | How do you command/direct people without being “too nice” or “too pushy”Buddy, I don’t think anyone will need 5mins to read something so short. Took me 20s from start to finish. In a job setting, directing people comes from power. Do you have the power (status, manager title, etc) to give directions? If not, you’ll come across as an ass kisser to your manager. Also, when people are working minimum, it’s hard to get motivated. They’re getting barely any cash. They don’t want to hear some dick yelling at them when they make chump change. Minimum wage workers face real… | /r/askTRP | 16/04/21 07:32 PM |
| 1 | Catching feelings for a hoe - fmlYou fucked yet? Everything depends on this. If you haven’t, don’t you have better things to do such as trying to fuck her? | /r/askTRP | 16/04/21 07:22 PM |
| 6 | Why am I attracting only post-wall women?Depends on your age. Contrary to this subreddit, people generally date close to their age. If you’re around or older than them, they see you as someone who they can get along better with. Also, it depends on venue. If you’re hanging around older crowds, obviously the people who want to date you are old women. If you’re in a college party, chances are you’ll get hit on by a college chick. If you want younger women PUT yourself in those settings where they hang out. You can’t go to an ice-cream sh… | /r/askTRP | 16/04/21 07:21 PM |
| 5 | Does RP mean men can’t have empathy?Half the people here are salty, or still deep in the anger phase and thus overcompensates. Some of the newbies here have low EQ and aren’t socially calibrated. If my friend gets dumped, even if it’s a shit relationship, I feel for him when I see him hurting. I’ll then invite him out, take him out for a night out and find him a hottie. That’s empathy - the ability to share in the feelings of another. Let’s say I’m nexting a plate because she wants commitment and she isn’t worth committing to. I f… | /r/askTRP | 16/04/21 07:16 PM |
| 14 | Plate flaked 3x after inviting her to come with me at hotel.Every time you invite her AFTER she rejects you, you become less attractive in her eyes. It may be a coincidence the first time, but multiple times in a short span? She’s not trying to make it work, because she knows you’ll be there another day. Is she clamouring to see you? No, or she’ll just reschedule. Your turn is over. | /r/askTRP | 16/04/21 07:07 PM |
| 5 | Are some girls too nervous to give iois?Absolutely not. They just don’t see you. Being too nervous to give IOIs will mean, for example, a man talks to her and she’ll look away or give short answers. That in and of itself is an IOI if she’s nervous about it. If you detect she isn’t nervous, she’s preoccupied or uninterested. I can’t imagine a situation where a girl is ‘too nervous to give IOIs’. That’s some stupid hamster level thinking. If you’re waiting for a chick to approach, you have to be worth approaching. ‘She’s not talking to … | /r/askTRP | 16/04/21 07:04 PM |
| 1 | 20 years old with no friendsYou ain’t in college? If you try to make friends outside, for example at a gym, they’re gonna be older men. These guys will have different interests, life goals, and hobbies than you. If you are in college, hangout on campus and talk to randoms. Join a sports team, talk to people on the way. | /r/askTRP | 16/04/21 06:57 PM |
| 1 | Gym, how to react to this particularly set of circumstancesWhen you first wrote he spent 15/60 mins around her, I thought it might be coincidence. Any man, even if he’s autistic, will feel insecure, fear being called out/rejection or feel strange doing such a thing unless he’s a pickup guru. Turns out she’s giving him ‘fuck me’ eyes, which gives him the confidence to escalate. Your problem isn’t him. If she rejects him, he’s gone. He isn’t alpha enough to persist, not many men are especially in this metoo era. If she clearly says ‘you’re creeping me out… | /r/askTRP | 16/04/21 04:05 AM |
| 59 | GF gave me chlamydia. Completely lost frame for a day.Broke frame? I think you held frame - nobody wants STDs and you made your point. IMO you would have broken frame by blaming yourself, being considerate of her, and telling her everything’s ok. Fuck that. You didn’t vet her properly, and now you know she’s a dirty. You have to make it a point to let her know that if she doesn’t take health seriously you’ll bounce. Remember you’re trying to hoe into a housewife. Setting clear and obvious expectations will do her good. She’s in YOUR frame now (and … | /r/askTRP | 16/04/21 03:49 AM |
| 6 | LTR very social and going out drinkingIf you don’t like going out, why’d you LTR her? The only couples who didn’t cheat on each other is when they both go out. That way, when the alcohol finishes inhibiting their common sense and make them horny, they got each other to grind on. Will she get hit on if she’s out with friends? Depends if she’s attractive, outgoing, etc. Will she hook up with a stranger? Depends on her hormones. There’s so many uncertainties. Generally the purpose of an LTR is a STABLE relationship relative to maintain… | /r/askTRP | 15/04/21 04:21 PM |
| 13 | Just found condoms in my LTR purse. WE DON’T USE CONDOMS.Trust your gut boys. Well done on going through her shit. Trust, but verify and you did. Now, you have two choices. Neither are better than the other, purely personal preference. You can silently demote and retract attention. You know what she did. She isn’t LTR material, she’s a liar and a cheater. She doesn’t deserve an explanation, she didn’t do you any courtesy so why should you. Alternatively you can confront her. You tell her what you saw, that she was being suspicious and you were glad to… | /r/askTRP | 14/04/21 07:20 PM |
| 1 | Shit test? Girl in social circle who i've slept with asked to borrow my jacket.I mean if it’s fucking freezing and you took off your jacket for a chick who isn’t sleeping with you, it’s clearly provider behavior. And you know that. This entire question seems autistic, do whatever you want. She isn’t even a plate so does it even matter? Obviously a more ‘alpha’ thing to do would be to put an arm around her or suggest to cuddle at home. But life hits fast and sometimes you don’t pass shit tests the way you wanted to. Again, this isn’t even a plate so honestly, she’ll forget … | /r/askTRP | 14/04/21 07:14 PM |
| 31 | Just heard my 11 year old sister sing WAP...The more you repress her sexuality, the bigger the slut she will be in the long term. All you’re doing is loading rubber band, it will break and rebound towards you. Women are intrinsically attracted to ‘bad boys’. WAP is a badass chick, she wants to be a badass chick to get the bad boys. AWALT. She is your sister but she’s also a women. | /r/askTRP | 14/04/21 07:09 PM |
| 1 | Too much pussy and never satisfiedFuck it, double down. You’re not satisfied because you’re NOT SATISFIED. Chase more, bang more. I was like you except I kept chasing new pussy. I ditched 9’s to sleep with 6’s for the thrill. It wasn’t until I hit a really high N-count that I felt a bit satisfied, that I can concentrate on other things, and that I can find new sources happiness/dopamine rush instead of pussy. You’ll get there, until then just do you. Unless it’s getting in the way of real life responsibilities I see nothing wron… | /r/askTRP | 14/04/21 07:04 PM |
| 1 | Is it bad I didn’t escalate on first dateIf you’re horny, she’s horny. She didn’t get laid either, so she’ll come knocking on your door again. If she doesn’t, on to the next. You might think sex is something special, but if you’re tired fuck it lol. It’s just pussy. If you really chase it you’ll have so much pussy throughout your life. No need to lose sleep over it. | /r/askTRP | 14/04/21 06:59 PM |
| 2 | Outgrown My FriendThere’s something called college. It’s about a year away for you, and there are generally more people there than any high school around. There are people who like going out, people who stay in, people who are mature, people who aren’t mature, people who are 18, others who are 30. The worlds going to get very big for you very soon. It just means you’re prepared for the next chapter in your life. Find a target college, score the grades, and don’t fuck it up by socialising with randoms. | /r/askTRP | 14/04/21 06:56 PM |
| 3 | Is this a red flag?Depends if you fucked. If you fucked, then you can do whatever you want. You can answer them honestly, or you can give bullshit answers. It really doesn’t matter - you know she’s attracted to you. If you haven’t, then who cares? You still answer them however you want, seeing as she isn’t giving you any anyway. Your whole mistake is giving a shit about what she says. Who cares what she says, or what she means. Are YOUR needs being met? If you’re bored then leave. You shouldn’t be sitting and enga… | /r/askTRP | 14/04/21 06:54 PM |
| 3 | Came late to the dateShe’s disappointed at what she sees. If you brought energy and looked attractive, she’d be all over you. Plus, she sounds like a pretentious person. Someone who is used to guys chasing after her, apologising to her, etc. You can’t reason with these women. | /r/askTRP | 14/04/21 06:51 PM |
| 5 | How do I match energy levels with a girl?I was being ironic. To us guys it clearly isn’t deep, but trust me, to women that qualifies as deep. I treat all women as stupid and it worked so much better. Keep it one liners, non-committal. More emotion than dialogue. I’ve had women tell me ‘I lost focus after the first few sentences’. Ever since then I don’t assume women to listen past two sentences. ‘Do you like X? I thought you like X. Yeah? Cool’. No more why’s and how’s. | /r/askTRP | 14/04/21 06:48 PM |
| 6 | How do I match energy levels with a girl?I could relate. I get this all the time. Women look confused, hurt, and dumb when I talk to them. I realized how to fix it from one of my plates. She literally told me women wanted to fuck me, so just be quiet and get a room. I talked my way out of potentially smashing chicks many times. Made the air awkward, then had to do spit some intense game in order to get things back to the same energy before I opened my big mouth. Really made my own life difficult for no reason. Now, I just turn off my b… | /r/askTRP | 14/04/21 05:45 PM |
| 2 | doubts about my early twentiesReading, gym and nutrition. That’s three essential ingredients to building a better future for yourself. If you decide to spend time socialising, it WILL eat into your real life progression. If you commit too little into socialising because you need time to study/lift/eat, you won’t feel included. If you commit too much to socialising, your life gains will slow. IMO there isn’t a right answer. Find the balance which works for YOU. | /r/askTRP | 14/04/21 05:33 PM |
| 2 | Moving in with a female for professional reasonsIs this the script to a new porno? Or a spin-off to 50 Shades? If I’m spending time with my colleagues I want them to see me at my best, not when I’m gaming chicks and bringing them home to bang for one night stands. That might be too much for them. Hell you might get canceled these days. | /r/askTRP | 14/04/21 05:28 PM |
| 6 | Shit test or am I overthinking?She’s likely getting plowed by a BBC. What do you want me to tell you to do about it? In fact, is there anything that needs to be done? I’m phrasing it that way because she’s not doing anything except updating you on what’s going on in her life. It’s not disrespectful. She’s not your girl, you’re not her boy. She enjoys chasing cock in her free time. You’re not the only cock she rides. You aren’t exclusive, and she’s being a free bird. She’ll fuck, text, reply when she wants to. She doesn’t owe … | /r/askTRP | 14/04/21 05:24 PM |
| 2 | [Long] Is it worth partially LTR'ing a girl nearing 30 or use her for experience?Exactly. I can tell you give way more fucks about your own well-being than about her (IMO nothing wrong with that). Which is why I pointed out the risks it does for your image. Spinning a gullible chick isn’t hard. Dealing with cheating isn’t hard. Dealing with being ‘caught’ by friends, family, teachers, her friends, etc is a bitch. Society is massively blue pilled, once they find out you’re ‘together’ they’ll say things like ‘you two look so good together’ or ‘you two are soulmates’ which may … | /r/askTRP | 14/04/21 05:16 PM |
| 11 | Why did a girl get sexually aroused when I displayed violence?Alpha fucks, beta bucks. Alpha implies masculinity, strength, power, control, toughness, freedom, and a rule breaker. Displaying violence literally embodies the ‘spirit’ of being alpha. Obviously men can’t be apes seeing as there are consequences to fighting, nonetheless women are too clouded by “muh feelz” to get over their biological impulses of banging an ape. | /r/askTRP | 14/04/21 05:09 PM |
| 7 | Shit test or am I overthinking?She’s a plate, and she’s clearly telling you in plain English she’s having a conversation with a man who she feels have a big black cock. In case English isn’t your first language, she wants his BBC and the conversation is a means to it. She doesn’t have time for you, because she’s into him. This isn’t a shit test. This is quite literally telling you she is hoping to get her back blown out by a BBC. She isn’t your girl, and she DAMN SURE doesn’t see you as her boyfriend. Y’all fuck, she isn’t af… | /r/askTRP | 14/04/21 04:56 PM |
| 3 | [Long] Is it worth partially LTR'ing a girl nearing 30 or use her for experience?This isn’t a master plan. What you’re suggesting is what people did for a long time - cheat. TRP is amoral so you do you. Just know that part of being in an LTR involves socialising publicly with your chick. Valentine’s, holidays, birthdays, etc. If you don’t, she’ll get moody and you won’t have an LTR for long. If she’s in an LTR, she’ll want comfort. She’ll want to post photos of the two of you together. You’ll be together in public settings. If she’s hot enough to fuck but ugly enough for you… | /r/askTRP | 14/04/21 04:50 PM |
| 1 | In love but not in lustThat first breakup is always hardest. You’ll feel like a massive dick, and she’ll cry her eyes out. The good news is it makes the subsequent ones a walk in the park! Unless you don’t want to enjoy any new women, you can either continue cheating in secrecy, or break up swift and painlessly. | /r/askTRP | 13/04/21 04:55 PM |
| 1 | Best response when a girl from your past hits you up?Imagine it’s her advertising her new cupcake shop she and her boyfriend opened up. It could be anything, just open up and be chill about it. If it’s friendly, be friendly back. If it’s a drunk snap, be funny back. Reciprocate the emotion if you wanna bang. Read, politely acknowledge and move on if you couldn’t care less. | /r/askTRP | 13/04/21 04:51 PM |
| 5 | Failed a Soft Next on my LTR, she assumed it was a break up.Told ya. Half the commenters calling it a lost cause haven’t sniffed pussy in years. It’ll play out exactly like I described. I TOLD you she’ll still have feelings, and be more happy than anything to see your message. Stay stoic and focus on securing the physical meetup, ideally before her friends get in her ear again. Next stop, it’s makeup sex city. She’ll be all over you, because from her perspective, you ‘put her in her place’ showing masculine value. There’s nobody she rather be with at thi… | /r/askTRP | 13/04/21 04:48 PM |
| 2 | LTR says im too dominant?The moment you act like submissive in a group setting, some other guy will act dominant and she’ll give him the horny eyes. At this point it’s too late, she already viewed him as attractive, and its one more problem for you to deal with. You’ll have to sort it out by having an iron frame, upping your SMV, introduce dread, and many other pain in the ass methods. Or you just stay dominant, have other girls see you as dominant, have her put in a position of having to fend them off, and live like a … | /r/askTRP | 13/04/21 04:43 PM |
| 3 | Failed a Soft Next on my LTR, she assumed it was a break up.Yeah man. Either through DMs or another post. Not sure what some of the commenters are here for, but I’m trying to help, not shitting on you then saying ‘next brah’. Genuinely don’t see it being as bad as they say it is. It’s her acting out, probably due to peer pressure from her friends. ‘You deserve so much better!! We’re here for you girl’. Send a message sometime soon and see how quickly she replies. Don’t talk too long through text/phone call, arrange a meetup at your home or her place ASAP… | /r/askTRP | 13/04/21 04:40 PM |
| 1 | Girl i have dated for 11 months, texting other guys.She may be your girl, but she ain’t your girl any longer! It’s over. You handled this about as bad as you can. You showed a stupid amount of weakness. You were insecure, scared of other people taking your girl, and put the guys she was talking to on a pedestal. Worst of all, your dumbass told her it can’t be platonic, so if she wasn’t looking at them as fuck buddies she sure is now! Also, you’re not ‘dating’ anyone. Until you had ‘the talk’, established exclusivity, and ground rules, you’re just… | /r/askTRP | 13/04/21 04:28 PM |
| 11 | Failed a Soft Next on my LTR, she assumed it was a break up.“Sup, wanna hangout?” You end a soft next by communicating with her. You simply forgive and forget, you don’t apologise. You could say ‘it’s mature of you to apologize, let’s do xyz’ then move on. Ignore that shit she posted. Literally pretend you didn’t see it, and she’ll delete it by next week. Remember she’s doing the ‘I’m a strong independent woman’ image. This is the same person blowing up your phone and apologising days ago. She ain’t tough!! Don’t fall for that shit. Just reach out and sh… | /r/askTRP | 13/04/21 04:24 PM |
| 9 | I (25M) switched my tinder preferences to 30-45 and WOWThe only guys who say 30+ are attractive are the ones who are coping. Attractiveness is relative. Are there 30+ who are attractive in a vacuum, as in you wouldn’t mind banging? Sure. But if you bring that same women and have her sit next to a RANDOM college chick who isn’t a whale, she looks awful in comparison. The wall is definitely real. Would you bang? Sure, women who eat clean, diet, are good with skincare and makeup will look nice. But if you have her around your arm, and walk into a room … | /r/askTRP | 13/04/21 04:17 PM |
| 3 | We live in a world where simps allow their girlfriends to spread their cheeks on Onlyfans while they cry silently. People pleasing robs men of their personal power. It kills them from the inside out like a vicious cancer. Here is what to do about it.Relevant video 50s video: https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=4dOjb0WZLQA Clearly the future we’re heading towards. Future simps feel pride when their girls cheeks are on display. Somehow I feel the whole OnlyFans and boyfriend situation to be hilarious. Today clothes are more skimpy, yoga pants are more tight, ass/titties are everywhere, social media exists and mainstream society is sexually liberal. I’d say it’s a great time to be a man. | /r/TheRedPill | 12/04/21 06:16 PM |
| 3 | Dedicated too much time to plateShe tried to pull a fast one only for you to pull a faster one. Neither one of you want a relationship. Pretty ironic you both cheated on the same night. No hard feelings, but clearly cheating is a red flag, and is an automatic demotion to a plate at best. Can’t turn a hoe into a housewife. | /r/askTRP | 12/04/21 06:02 PM |
| 0 | Soft-Nexted LTR, now she's demanding an apologyYou lurk for six months, and literally the first thing you do as a TRP newbie is enter an LTR? The fuck have you been reading? You just skipped over ‘lift and spin plates’? Had you banged more chicks you wouldn’t be so scared executing a soft next. LTRs are TRP on hard mode, getting some experience via plates is normal progression. Soft nexts are supposed to be painful. For her more so than you, but the first time you do it it WILL be uncomfortable. The point is you’re showing her your frame - t… | /r/askTRP | 12/04/21 05:54 PM |
| 4 | How to move from plate to LTRPeople do stupid things when they’re desperate, and will rationalize what they did was smart afterwards. Keep working on yourself, and not giving her commitment. She’ll grow desperate, and ask directly for it. Now, she’s walking in weak and desperate. Now, you can say clearly your expectations, the ground rules, things she have to do, etc and she’ll likely agree to all of it due to her emotional state. What’s better, is after the desperation fades, she’ll feel happy she got suckered in a deal du… | /r/askTRP | 12/04/21 05:43 PM |
| 9 | Would you agree that the BF vs hookup is a much more useful conceptualization than is alpha vs beta?First of all, playing the ‘sweet girlfriend card’ and withholding sex isn’t a sign you’re a beta bucks. Many women, due to social upbringing, don’t want to be seen as a whore. Girls are vain, they care about their image. Even the whores will see themselves as a princess on the right day. With regards to cheating, I personally believe men and women are exactly alike. I think people cheat if they can get away with it, and if it doesn’t take too much effort. Given low effort and no risk, the likeli… | /r/askTRP | 12/04/21 05:37 PM |
| 2 | OLTR who’s 18, all of a sudden childish beyond anything i’ve ever met before.If you demote to plate, it’s a given she will be seeing other men. Plates break for this reason. We call it ‘spinning plates’ because it’s something which you do, but you expect the plate to fall eventually. On your other question, I’ve known a chick who went from ‘normal’ to super childish. Full on loving Japanese culture and acting like a baby. Simultaneously went from a normal chick, to a straight up hoe. I was never interested, then one day I swear I literally smiled and she began chasing me… | /r/askTRP | 12/04/21 05:27 PM |
| 61 | LTR got asked out by her classmate while next to meOh hell naw. I cannot tell what is more beta. Mate-guarding, or pretending, like some of the comments here, that this is nothing. Blissful ignorance can lead to a strong frame, but at least acknowledge the stupidity. How many of you guys will COLD CALL a chick to go hiking? We’re talking boys who swallowed the pill. I find it hard to imagine the BP world having the balls to cold call a chick. Her hanging up was to cover her ass, I’m willing to bet this isn’t the first time he called, and typical… | /r/askTRP | 12/04/21 05:21 PM |
| 1 | I am very timid - HELP!Straight up disagree with other comments. Telling a self-described sperg to solo approach is the equivalent of throwing a non-swimmer into the deep end of the pool and saying ‘swim, bitch!’ There are easier, less traumatic ways to get results. The easiest way to learn a new skill is to have someone show you the way. Go out with someone sociable and approach WITH him. It’ll give you confidence by not being alone he’ll look out for you as you’re his wingman, and it’ll be a ton of fun. You’ll be so… | /r/askTRP | 10/04/21 06:16 PM |
| 1 | How do I know if I should end a relationship?A woman drinking is a red flag. Alcohol does terrible things to good people. And she wants to be a mother? A mother to your child? I wouldn’t be comfortable in that. A woman wanting marriage and kids late in the LTR cycle is normal - they are aware of their fertility, the fact that their SMV is peaking, and that the wall is coming. Good women break up with good, alpha men for this reason, and it’s normal. If kids are not on the card, say so. It’s a convenient way to breakup without things gettin… | /r/askTRP | 10/04/21 06:02 PM |
| 3 | Strange Shit TestMost women have a type. The better you’re able to align yourself to the type, the easier sex will become. Often with new plates, they see qualities and personality traits in me which I flat out do not see in myself and in some cases, disagree with. They’ll paint you out in a specific picture because they are attracted to the picture. Whenever a women mentions an ex, the more you align with the ex, the better. I once got a girl by saying ‘sounds like your ex and I would be good friends’. Her eyes… | /r/askTRP | 10/04/21 05:54 PM |
| 7 | How to deal with someone spreading lies about you?Pretty shocked at your and his age OP. When I read it, I’d imagined some high schooler typing this. You’re grown. Meaning you make your own decisions, and surround yourself with people you like. Just because you were friends for a decade doesn’t mean you will be friends for the next decade. If he’s full of shit, and you can’t be bothered with dealing with said shit, cut him out of your life. Some people don’t mature. If he’s stuck at the emotional intelligence of a 16 year old, he really isn’t w… | /r/askTRP | 10/04/21 05:48 PM |
| 19 | Got catcalled for the first time.I used to get catcalled when I was a teen. By female classmates, by aunts, by older female teens. Shit was traumatic lol. My TRP brain is telling me you should make a move and escalate sexually. Keep it simple, they talk about your body you talk about theirs. Some women are like that - they will throw themselves at men. These women are vultures. When I see these chicks I just stay calm, escalate, and enjoy be free ride. | /r/askTRP | 10/04/21 05:43 PM |
| 2 | Bored of my LTRI had a chick like yours once. I was so far off in TRP that I think she was afraid to talk or communicate. She was super submissive and waited for my directions. I treated my dates with her as ‘slack off’ time. I stopped caring about her hobbies, her friends, her life and literally did whatever I wanted while she cooked in the back. Looking back, she was a real keeper and I was immature and didn’t have the perspective of how good I had it. I wanted the fun, chased it, and gained appreciation. I … | /r/askTRP | 10/04/21 05:36 PM |
| 2 | LTR gets angry for 3 days if we don't do something the way she wantsDamn, she’s soft nexting you AND applying dread that she’ll leave? She either had an alpha BF, or is using what works on her on you, without realizing it turns off men. Women tend to not be aware that the things they’re turned on by are different than men. When a chick brings up breaking up and it comes up more and more regularly, the relationship will eventually break up. You’re holding onto a chick who has mentally checked out. | /r/askTRP | 10/04/21 05:25 PM |
| 5 | Fwb comes back after three week soft next (texts attached). How do I respondShe sent you a feeler text. You replied, and were willing to meet up. She feels validated, confident, and less eager to meet up. Next text she’ll probably do the whole ‘no sex’ or ‘don’t use me for my body’ or some other LMR. Plus, you kinda implied that you are free all day, and she can show up anytime she wants. It’ll kill the urgency on her hand. You gave her what she want (attention) when she was at her weakest. If she isn’t suggesting a specific time instead of being vague, keep ignoring he… | /r/askTRP | 10/04/21 05:19 PM |
| 3 | Is it a bad idea to buy your wife a dildo?A dildo is a half-measure. If you’re not around, you think a dildo can satisfy her until you get back. A bold assumption. Unfortunately, a dildo is only half of sex (penetration). She’ll want the emotion, the heat, the positions, etc. She’ll be happy until she gets bored, and she’ll move on to other means. Not only is it a bad idea, it’s an invitation to keep her horny when you’re not around. You don’t want your women horny and alone. If anything you should think of ways to LOWER her libido. | /r/askTRP | 09/04/21 04:57 PM |
| 20 | I think my gf is cheating on meGet. Out. I’ve been on the other side - I’ve slept with a ton of chicks who had boyfriends. Whenever I asked if she felt ‘bad’, the chick will always hamster that it was ‘his fault’, or ‘he deserves it’, or ‘I needed attention’. I’ve slept with a lot of cheating hoes, and they NEVER felt they did anything wrong. I’ve even slept with a girl who told me ‘my bf doesn’t know where I live so you can come sleep over whenever’. If you can’t FaceTime her on demand and have her either pickup immediately … | /r/askTRP | 09/04/21 04:54 PM |
| 17 | Party cultureTotally different opinion for me. Contrary to the comments, I think partying while young is great. College parties, festivals with friends, and after-parties are fantastic. I always feel like half of TRP are loner types who completely missed out on college. I did well at school, and the people who got good grades all had similar work-life balance - we went out on weekends, and crushed the books on other days. Same thing with internships, and at work. The people who got offers for the ‘best’ jobs… | /r/askTRP | 09/04/21 04:45 PM |
| 0 | has anyone approached while on a run?If she’s mid run, and you just pull up and casually keep pace while following and talking to her, that’s probably not a comfortable thing for a women to experience. I’m not even big on ‘muh feels’ but just imagining it play out makes me feel uncomfortable. If you have to approach mid run, do it when she’s taking a break. Maybe when she’s catching a breath. I’ve approached women who were casually sitting on park benches before, and they told me they were out ‘exercising’. Interaction felt normal,… | /r/askTRP | 09/04/21 04:28 PM |
| 6 | How to deal with a friend who ignores you, is it bad for confidence to let it slide?If it’s a dude, who you know isn’t a creep, he’s just an introvert. You can tell when a guy is a dork, those guys may be socially stupid. You know, the guys who were picked at in school. The loner type. If you’re friend isn’t a ‘loser’, isn’t the guy that’s being made fun off, is generally seen as a cool guy, then he probably is just a quiet dude. When dealing with guy friends, it isn’t complicated. If he’s quiet, he’s a quiet guy. If he’s a dick, he’s a dick. It’s only with women that they spea… | /r/askTRP | 09/04/21 04:21 PM |
| 1 | i dont know what to say to anyone, i have no friends or any personality.Autist. Someone who has difficulties in forming and maintaining social relationships, by impairment of the ability to communicate verbally or nonverbally. Sounds familiar? Like yourself? Get yourself checked for autism. People don’t have problems making friends. I personally don’t. I don’t know anyone who has such difficulties. You need medication, not TRP. | /r/askTRP | 09/04/21 05:31 AM |
| 3 | Should I treat everyone the sameOne of the phrases tossed around TRP a lot is ‘think as you like, but behave like others’. It comes from the 48 Laws of Power, and it’s solid. If you’re in a children’s kindergarten, act like the ‘standard’ there. If you’re approaching HR for a pay increase, act like the ‘standard’ there. Treat people appropriate to the setting. You wouldn’t go into a kindergarten with the same seriousness and tone as you would speaking to your manager. Personally, I also treat my close friends and family better… | /r/askTRP | 08/04/21 04:43 PM |
| 4 | i dont know what to say to anyone, i have no friends or any personality.Man, relax. You’re reading too much. Self-love and self-improvement? All that just to make friends? You’re so far gone that you’ve lost common sense. It’s borderline retardation. And some people suggest reading books! This isn’t rocket science you autist. Let me break it down for the stupids. Friendship or any relationship, can be broken down into three factors. 1. Distance: are you in physical proximity with the other person? 2. Frequency: how often do you see/talk/interact with the other perso… | /r/askTRP | 08/04/21 04:34 PM |
| 2 | If I had an amazing connection with a woman and suddenly find out she's trans, should I sever that connection immediately or enjoy the connection for a few more days/weeks? [serious]Don’t ask, don’t tell! In all seriousness, if you have a connection, it doesn’t have to lead to sex. Connection can be a friend. Nothing wrong with having a trans friend. If you wanna bang the testosterone out of this ‘chick’, you don’t need our permission to do so. You do you homie. | /r/askTRP | 08/04/21 04:20 PM |
| 1 | I’ve been getting and finding girls who submit(or promise that they will), and one girl tells me that she wants to have intercourse, but doesn’t want to “please” me. What is that?It’s a plate, why do you care? Isn’t your main purpose when speaking to her is to arrange a time for sex? Maybe she’s trying to keep herself from getting attached. Maybe it’s her ego so she doesn’t feel like a cheap hoe. Maybe it’s a defense mechanism so others won’t know she’s a slut. Regardless the entire direction of the conversation is retarded. There’s a reason we pump and dump chicks, because they’re damaged goods. If the chick is worth worrying about, it means she’s LTR material. This gir… | /r/askTRP | 08/04/21 04:07 PM |
| 2 | LTR ended things because I treated her bad - should I try to rekindle?Buddy, I’m not here to bash you. TRP is amoral. TRP is also a handbook to enhance your life. Women check in and out of relationships. If you want you CAN easily get her back chasing you. Confront her on the issue, find out if it’s her friends trying to stir shit up, tell her her friends are not helpful while demonstrating value. Women always will stick to a man rather than her girlfriends, if the man is attractive enough. You have to CHOOSE whether it’s worth it. Will you regret letting her walk… | /r/askTRP | 08/04/21 05:07 AM |
| 1 | Why do artists get laid so much even when they are opposite of assholes?This shit is hilarious. You can have the same situation, the same scenario, and people on here will say it’s beta one day, and alpha the next. Love poems? Beta as fuck! Love poems from a singer who doesn’t get laid? Beta as fuck! Love poems from a singer who recently got laid? “Man, you see, they are intrinsically fantastically alpha in their own non-conforming ways”. | /r/askTRP | 07/04/21 04:40 PM |
| 3 | I got jealous about my now plate ex LTRKeep your head up. Your post, even though it reeked of oneitis, was an honest one. If you’re honest to yourself and keep applying TRP, and keep improving yourself, you’ll be fine in life. You know that it’s an ego issue. You understand it’s irrational to be exclusive after a breakup. You understand you need to stop stalking her. You don’t need to do anything besides live your life and gain new experiences. You might feel jealous today, but now that you’ve ‘felt’ it, you’ll be better equipped to … | /r/askTRP | 07/04/21 04:32 PM |
| 7 | LTR ended things because I treated her bad - should I try to rekindle?Listen, tune out generic ‘just next bro’ comments. Fact of the matter is while it is true, that investing further into a relationship where she has mentally left is a waste of time, there‘s depth to it. I once had an ex-LTR that was similar to yours. While she never ended things with me, she gave me the same BS your current one is giving you. Not enough attention, uncaring, too asshole, etc. At that time I’ve already plated dozens of chicks so I probably was emotionally absent. What ‘fixed’ thin… | /r/askTRP | 07/04/21 04:21 PM |
| 35 | If you want an LTR then you are probably purple pillYou say they need to take the red pill more. Honestly I feel you need to APPLY TRP more. Unless you’re generalising to help the newbies, sure, use hyperbole like this. Just understand there isn’t a lot of sense in what you’re saying. There’s no need to fear LTR’s. Personally I’m not currently in an LTR. But I’ve done and will continue to do LTR’s. I’ve literally lost count of how many women I’ve slept with. LTRs can help shake up the pace of life. Plating is fun, then it gets dull. Trying an LTR… | /r/TheRedPill | 07/04/21 04:05 PM |
| 41 | I matched with the manager of my gymI’ve always thought shitting where you eat relates to work settings. Drama at work can cause her to report you to HR, or badmouthing about you to coworkers, or to a supervisor. All this leads to possible unemployment, which sucks. A gym is a hobby. Sure it’s something we all do, and we spent loads of time at, but I genuinely cannot see her affecting you. She can’t cancel your membership. She can’t make you stop lifting. She got nothing. To me it’s a no brainier. Worst case is she’s pissed at you… | /r/askTRP | 07/04/21 03:44 PM |
| 4 | How to stop a friend from trying to redpill other guys?Sounds like you’re balls deep in his frame. You make him seem like a chump but he sure is getting a rise out of you. Worry about yourself rather than him. Fact of the matter is you can’t control every little decision made by other people. Not friends, not women. The only person you can control is yourself. You decided to help him, that was your frame, because he was a friend. Now, you’re pissing yourself and regretting your decision. Next time, think things through. | /r/askTRP | 06/04/21 04:46 PM |
| 2 | Is it beta to get a girl to introduce you to her friend instead of approaching directly?In my opinion, what’s beta and alpha is overrated. The most sappy, blue pilled idea presented by a man with high SMV will get results. The most alpha, red pilled approach by a person with pathetic SMV will be seen as a poser. It’s a meme that the golden rule to getting girls is to ‘just be attractive’. There’s a lot of truth in that. Just do whatever will make you the most comfortable, and whichever takes the least amount of time. Whenever you ask ‘there’s this one girl...’ it’s a sign of scarci… | /r/askTRP | 06/04/21 04:36 PM |
| 2 | People get angry with me when I don't understand something right awayNothing wrong with being stupid. Something wrong with being stupid AND being bothersome. If you’re dumb, be dumb and read up on it yourself. They’re annoyed because what was a one minute ‘help’ turned out to be much more. And for you to turn around and mouth off back at them is stupid. Regardless of your feelings they did you a favour. Show appreciation instead of being ungrateful. You want the help, take the ass chewing. You don’t want the ass chewing, stop asking for help. | /r/askTRP | 06/04/21 04:32 PM |
| 44 | Ungratefulness to the MAXYou view yourself as her saviour. She has pride. She sees that you gave her a shortcut, but ultimately believes that she deserves what she is getting and would have gotten it irrespective of you. The reality probably lies somewhere in the middle. You helped her, she helped herself. If you want to help someone, then do so. Don’t hold it over their head in perpetuity. It’s childish, and frankly confusing why you did so in the first place. You’re asking for validation. If you want it that bad, ask … | /r/askTRP | 06/04/21 04:26 PM |
| 8 | Newcomer to TRP, broke up with Ex GF after she revealed her past (24M)If it was before your time, who cares? If it was during your time, the relationship is over. If it’s a pattern of behavior, it makes sense to end it. The bigger issue is your own confidence. You obviously never gamed a girl at work, and had her suck you. You probably never knew of any girl who did that. The fact that your GF did it shattered your world view. When you can’t get over something a women did, you move on and find someone better. I’m not telling you what is or isn’t acceptable. A rela… | /r/askTRP | 06/04/21 04:09 PM |
| 2 | how tf is anybody suppose to compete??Not sure why there’s a lot of downvotes. OP is making a valid point. I wouldn’t bat an eye if I saw her on the street or in class, but fact is she has men thirsting for her. Obviously most men wouldn’t want to date/marry her, they want to fuck her. All the attention is so they can fuck her. She knows she’s wanted, so she gains confidence and walks around with an ego. The only thing which makes it ‘fair’ is women generally view being with ONE alpha worth more than 50 8/10s. Speaking for myself, I… | /r/askTRP | 04/04/21 06:29 PM |
| 2 | GF hanging out with “old high school friend”.She sounds like an unhappy camper. She doesn’t nearly like you as much as you think she should. She probably likes you as much as you like her, one foot out the door. The relationship is dead. Move on. | /r/askTRP | 04/04/21 06:15 PM |
| 7 | Girl allows another guy to hug her from the back, right in front of me. Downright disrespect?Nah. You saw the green flags, so did the other dude. She had a choice, and she made it. You fought, you lost, you move on. You aren’t even dating, so technically she has no red flags. It isn’t disrespectful to have options when you’re single. It isn’t disrespectful because you’re nothing to her. | /r/askTRP | 03/04/21 05:49 PM |
| 2 | What numbers did you hit on the main lifts before you were comfortably able to lift and carry around a woman during sex?The key word is ‘easy’. You can probably huff and puff your way through a short session if you barely weigh more than the chick. Use all your power to lift her up, and the use the wall as a support. You’ll probably be left with red grip marks around your neck due to her weight as a souvenir. If it’s lighter chick, it’s a breeze. No need for support, zero back strain, fun positions, and never tire. | /r/askTRP | 30/03/21 06:26 PM |
| 5 | Constant fear of gf cheating on me ?It’s experience. There really isn’t a lot of depth to women. It’s just the fundamentals which are a pain to learn. Things like frame, passing shit tests, AWALT, lifting, etc. You’re at the stage where you’re learning and applying these fundamentals. It will eventually get to a point of diminishing returns. You would have internalised TRP, pussy will no longer be rare, and you’d be close your max physical SMV. If you stay the course it’s hard for this NOT to happen. Which is why I’d recommend you… | /r/askTRP | 30/03/21 05:13 PM |
| 2 | What numbers did you hit on the main lifts before you were comfortably able to lift and carry around a woman during sex?No idea, but I think it becomes ‘easy’ if you weigh 1.8x more than them. Anything more and it goes from easy, to still easy. Anything less and it becomes more work than it’s worth. It’s pretty shallow, but it’s definitely an ego boost when you can effortlessly pickup a girl while simultaneously pumping wood. | /r/askTRP | 30/03/21 05:02 PM |
| 2 | Legitimacy to the Black Pill?Imagine subscribing to a theory which will only hold you down. You should go back to the black pill, and quit being an anchor to the high-fliers here. Some of us have a life. | /r/askTRP | 30/03/21 04:55 PM |
| 26 | Constant fear of gf cheating on me ?If she wants to cheat, she will cheat. You can work to become the hottest man in the room, but there may be a hotter one next door. With social media, you may feel you’re competing against the world. You have to accept your best, and let things go as they will. Be the best version of yourself. By focusing on yourself, it’ll pull the relationship into your frame. She either follows, or decides to follow someone else. She’s not yours, it’s only your turn. The more you do it, the easier it becomes.… | /r/askTRP | 30/03/21 04:51 PM |
| 1 | How do I make this very hard life decisionThe issue with planning on such a strict budget, with something as important as health, the reality is things may go wrong in medical procedures. An infection, an allergy, technical fault. These will contribute to more procedures. Therefore you better have a ‘cushion’ of funds to use. I’d think you should save for two more years, come with a war chest of funds, and go with the safest, best option as recommended by your doctor. In the meantime, build your SMV in other areas, such as hobbies, bett… | /r/askTRP | 30/03/21 04:44 PM |
| 3 | She wants me to be "more passionate" in bed?Whenever women are overt and obvious in their demands, it’s worth paying attention. To me, it sounds like she had an ex-lover who was more passionate, and the sex was better than with you. She’s trying to recreate that. Do not get butthurt or defensive about it. Men and women have different preferences. She has hers. Don’t overcomplicate things. She points you in that direction, and you know it’s not misdirection as it makes her climax like a fountain, so go along that direction. Don’t be autist… | /r/askTRP | 30/03/21 04:27 PM |
| 1 | Roommates Holding Me Down...They’re shitting on you because you’re the lowest on the totem pole. Every group there are complex group dynamics. They shit on you because they think you are a joke, compared to them. The fact that you’re butthurt over this proves you are in THEIR frame. If they were in yours, the picture will look different. They would say ‘thanks for pulling girls’, or ‘you always bring a crowd’, or ‘give me your workout routine’. You can have success with women and still be viewed as a joke by men. Maybe you… | /r/askTRP | 30/03/21 04:20 PM |
| 7 | Overwhelmed with guilt over being mean to my girlfriendYou have to undo your old social conditioning. Your girl wouldn’t do all those nice things for you, revolve her world around yours, if you didn’t act the way you did. Someone has to lead, someone has to follow. Part of leading is making difficult, emotionless choices. You are doing fine. You could do better. For example, deciphering whether she is giving you a shit-test or a comfort-test. The happiest I’ve made an LTR is by working on myself to become attractive. It’s kind of like how men feel h… | /r/askTRP | 30/03/21 04:11 PM |
| 1 | Argument & Dilemma with LTR. Advice be much appreciated.It’s bullshit, in every sense of the word, that women have hormones that flare up monthly and will direct them at people closest to them, such as family or an LTR. As a man, you have to remain stoic and DARE (deflect, agree/amplify, repeat, exit) instead of DEER (defend, explain, excuse, rationalise). You should have stayed silent, and if she leaves, you go straight no contact until she apologies. It’s one of the principles of TRP which works, but is fucked up that it works. Our programming grow… | /r/askTRP | 29/03/21 03:42 PM |
| 0 | My brother keeps teasing my girlfriend... how can I make him stop out for being a disrespectful fuck?Why do guys act like this? Your GIRL and your BROTHER are interacting, yet YOU feel the need to interfere. I’ve seen mateguarding examples, but this shit, mateguarding against an obese sibling, might be the most pathetic. In a two person interaction, let them handle the interaction themselves you autist. She’s not in physical danger. Whatever bullshit you say, whatever the comments tell you to do, will be INFINITELY less effective than if your girl says ‘you’re totally not my type’ and laughs ou… | /r/askTRP | 29/03/21 05:40 AM |
| 5 | I fucking hate when my girlfriend laughs at other guys jokes or gives them any kind of attention... what is wrong with me?Sidebar. She does something which pisses you off, you go after the dude? So instead of directing it at your princess, you go at the guy? That’s textbook blue pill mateguarding and will only make him look infinitely attractive compared to you. She laughs at other guys because...they’re funny you autist. She’s giving them attention because...yes they’re interesting. And from what you’re describing, funnier and more interesting than you. You can not negotiate desire and attraction. Women are like W… | /r/askTRP | 28/03/21 06:34 PM |
| 1 | What's the average success rate when approaching women at bars?Pretty surprised at the numbers people posted. Unless you have negative EQ and literally only approach women who are CLEARLY preoccupied, I’d go as far as to say it’s impossible not to get at least a conversation with a stranger in 30minutes. Talk, make an impression, then leave to mingle with other people. I find it quite hard to believe people can go into a bar (with the intention of socialising) and not get ONE conversation the entire night. If you’re literally at a bar with unfriendly people… | /r/askTRP | 28/03/21 06:27 PM |
| 6 | Need a reality check. Im about to get cheated on right?Honestly, she’s just having fun. She knows her options, and women have all the options in the world if they pursue it. No matter what you do, say, or look like, ‘fun’ will still be fun no matter what. She’s in her own world, she’s not going to stop eating when she’s at a metaphorical buffet. She will never feel guilty, or ‘do the right thing since she’s in a relationship’ because she’s having fun. It’s like asking an addict not to smoke. Her best match is a guy who also likes to have fun, and in… | /r/askTRP | 28/03/21 06:16 PM |
| 3 | TRP has been incorrect about 2 things for me: texting and being honest about other plates/women. I’ve had success in texting several times daily, and with saying who I’ve been with.Texting is 10000% bitch management. For me, it never ‘opened’ any doors - girls decide whether they sleep with me or not during a physical date. On the other hand, lack of texting has absolutely closed doors for me. If you don’t maintain the car, it behaves weird. Same for women, it’s pretty dumb but it makes an impact. Especially with young insecure girls, they go insane if you don’t text. Throw them a bone, then set up a date. | /r/askTRP | 23/03/21 05:52 PM |
| 0 | In the mirror, I think I look like an 8.5/10. In pictures, I feel like a 4/10.Everyone thinks they’re an 8, until they see 8’s, 9’s and 10’s. Ignorance is bliss. | /r/askTRP | 21/03/21 05:32 AM |
| 2 | Why are girls so damned resistant to the social media approach?Always confuses me when TRP, which gives excellent advice, gives such shit ones when it comes to using technology. Feels like the bulk of the users are literal boomers. I could ‘approach’ dozens of women through my phone, or approach people ONE BY ONE in person. My time is worth money, the time-return for day-game is inferior to using social media. I’ve gotten laid through IG, FB, dating apps, Snapchat, even TikTok. They aren’t resistant, you simply don’t bring enough value to stand out. The rea… | /r/askTRP | 20/03/21 06:26 PM |
| 2 | Does having a preference for thicker/BBW women means that a man is a beta male or low value?I used to strictly attract skinny woman, and I had no issue with them as they were my type. As I got older, and physically bigger, I grew tired of em and now I don’t mind size. It’s all relative. People who hate a certain size/race needs to get laid more. Once you have a lot of one flavor, you would want variety. If you’re n-count is under 20 of course you’ll be picky and borderline autistic about your ‘type’. | /r/askTRP | 20/03/21 06:14 PM |
| 1 | LTR of 2 years asked if I didn’t want to have sex because she’s fat. I said “yes.” She may have left me... what do I do?Pretty random nuking her out of the blue due to a comfort test. You do you. TRP is amoral but if you hate her body then dump her. What you’re doing now is nothing productive. You’re simply indecisive without direction. | /r/askTRP | 20/03/21 06:10 PM |
| 5 | Male equivalent of alpha fucks and beta bucks.Another unpopular opinion, but I think a ‘providing alpha’ is the female equivalent of finding a unicorn. I’ve seen this thrown around a lot, and even on the RP women subreddit - secure a capable alpha male early when your SMV is at its max. The issue is, from what I’ve seen and experienced, people who objectively can be ‘providing alpha’ are rare and in order to stand out, girls have the best chance at him by being a hoe, throwing themselves on him, and hoping he gets feels and wife’s her. Bein… | /r/TheRedPill | 18/03/21 05:24 AM |
| 17 | Male equivalent of alpha fucks and beta bucks.Another unpopular opinion, but honestly the optimal strategy for women is what they are biologically programmed to do - alpha fucks beta bucks, have fun early and then settle late. If we are talking optimal, women shouldn’t ‘fear’ being left with no options - there’s an OCEAN full of blue pilled providers. They should double down rather than change strategy - get in shape, have a career, develop hobbies, improve skincare, etc. Ironically it’s similar to the advice TRP gives to men - focus on imp… | /r/TheRedPill | 17/03/21 07:21 PM |
| 39 | Male equivalent of alpha fucks and beta bucks.Unpopular opinion but I stand with you - some TRP principles can be applied to both genders. Context matters, and most examples presented here are from a male perspective dealing with female issues. For example, I think about the CC. Women ride the CC, maximising their SMV apex, and settle down when their looks diminish. Men will (if the option exists) want to sleep with all kinds of women and eventually may want to settle down to find a woman to raise their child. The context in both are differ… | /r/TheRedPill | 17/03/21 05:43 PM |
| 2 | This generation of girls seriously pisses me offYou don’t and will never have the ‘look’ - tall, muscular, large in general which ALL women want. The good thing is, unless you’re genetically blessed most of us isn’t that. So you’re competing mostly with average chumps. And she’s choosing from a pool of average chumps. Women are only as good as her options. It’s normal for women to want a slice of a good option rather than the entirety of a lesser option due to scarcity. You won’t be ‘better’ than the hypothetical alpha male, but you’re defini… | /r/askTRP | 17/03/21 05:34 PM |
| 1 | Is it weird for me to not want a LTR with a woman I’m not totally in love with?Completely normal to want to experiment and seek greener pastures. If she ain’t it during the honeymoon phase, she definitely won’t be it after a year. Keeping your options open is never a bad idea. | /r/askTRP | 16/03/21 05:42 PM |
| 1 | The Social Credit Score system takes hold in it's first bold move "Tinder will soon let you run a background check on a potential date." This will become a norm. Blackballing people and reporting on bad dates will follow. MARK MY WORDS.I don’t think I’ve ever been on a Tinder date where me and the chick did NOT exchange some form of personal information. Things like social media, where we went to school, jobs, etc. If they’re just taking shit off Facebook, Twitter, or IG this isn’t a big deal to me. Though if you’re dating/married and using Tinder on the side, this might make you switch platforms. | /r/TheRedPill | 16/03/21 05:39 PM |
| 3 | What's your style to get women to sleep with you? - Would you lie to get into her pants?Don’t hate the player, hate the game. Your friend is getting results with his style. It’s obviously a legitimate option. There’s an infinite amount of ways to get woman to sleep with you. It’s on you to decide which leads to the most success for you. TRP is amoral so if you’re looking for a discussion about ethics this isn’t the place. | /r/askTRP | 12/03/21 04:47 PM |
| 0 | Muscles that make you look manly/intimidating?Doesn’t matter about height if your goal is to intimidating. I know a guy my age who’s 5’6 and 240 pounds. He’s like a tiny hippo lol. Just eat more and lift. | /r/askTRP | 12/03/21 04:22 PM |
| 2 | How to stop fantasising about high school?It’s called daydreaming, it really isn’t as deep as you or some of the comments make it out to be. Everyone dreams about success. You just happen to dream about a success story in a high school setting. The cure to daydreaming is to be so focused on something that you don’t do it. For example, I guarantee you won’t be daydreaming when you’re playing a sport, you’ll be focused on the game. Speed up the pace to your life. | /r/askTRP | 12/03/21 04:19 PM |
| 1 | Update on girl I have transactional relationship with.It’s kinda a 50:50. I had multiple girls do the exact same bullshit- had a plan to meet at my place all scheduled out, but last minute she says she wants to be taken out. One girl I took her out to a bar and literally after one drink and 20mins of chatting, we went back to my place. Another time I took another girl to the same bar, and she would ask me 9000 questions. Had to bounce when I knew she was playing games, wasted my night. | /r/askTRP | 12/03/21 04:11 PM |
| 3 | Update on girl I have transactional relationship with.I know and banged a few girls like her. Wants to be treated. Funny thing is these girls standards are so low, that even a McDonalds happy meal will make her exchange sex for it. My view is that these girls are just young and horny. Getting taken out gives her emotional validation that she isn’t cheap. Gives her a sense of purpose as she’s moving up in life. Definitely do not LTR. Ironically she’s not looking for a provider, or a chad. She’s looking for an excuse to ride the CC. | /r/askTRP | 12/03/21 05:28 AM |
| 2 | Went thought my girlfriends phone this morning. Found text messages about her having multiple sugar daddy profiles. I live with her and I'm gutted.Yes, girls post a revealing photos on there. In fact, a good amount of women put beach photos, lingerie, party photos in their PUBLIC album. The competition is high on that site. Rich(er) men, and a lot of young poor women. Revealing photos help you stand out, and ‘promoted’ via the site’s algorithm. 100% of the time, people would exchange contacts and men would want to ‘see what they’re paying for’. I genuinely find it impossible for a woman to make money off SA without sending or uploading any… | /r/askTRP | 12/03/21 05:18 AM |
| 1 | Went thought my girlfriends phone this morning. Found text messages about her having multiple sugar daddy profiles. I live with her and I'm gutted.I used to have a hookup (she’s now out of the country) who uses it. Yes, they absolutely use photos of themselves in lingerie and swimsuits. Girls there can have two albums - a public one and a private one. Anyone, and I mean anyone, can request access to private photos and she can agree to give access for free. Private photos usually include full nudity. In addition, Seeking Arrangement is pretty strict with photos. You can’t upload a cat pic for example, gotta be a photo of a real person. You … | /r/askTRP | 11/03/21 04:05 PM |
| 3 | what can I do to get laid right fucking now, at least this weekOne of the best lines of TRP is “alpha fucks, beta bucks”. This means, quite obviously, that being an alpha will lead you to getting laid. However, what many don’t realise is that ‘beta bucks’ get laid as well. It’s why you see fat, geeky men with girls. Sure she might be cheating and/or in it for the money, but betas get laid if they’re rich. Either be alpha which takes hard work and dedication, or be a rich beta, which ironically also takes hard work and dedication. If you want sex THIS WEEK, … | /r/askTRP | 10/03/21 06:08 PM |
| 1 | Went thought my girlfriends phone this morning. Found text messages about her having multiple sugar daddy profiles. I live with her and I'm gutted.Tough. What website are they on, Seeking Arrangement? Or another site? | /r/askTRP | 10/03/21 05:47 PM |
| 1 | Went thought my girlfriends phone this morning. Found text messages about her having multiple sugar daddy profiles. I live with her and I'm gutted.No offence, but she sounds alpha as fuck and you her bitch. She found better options, acted upon it (money), and kept you along as a plaything. Now she has YOU, the person who has been wronged, anxious about how to exit? What kind of head trauma have you been through? If it isn’t obvious what you need to do, you need to get your manhood checked. | /r/askTRP | 10/03/21 05:27 AM |
| 1 | Why do women feel the need to "fix" certain men?What would you rather they say? Anything to justify them being more than a glorified hookup. It’s to preserve pride and give meaning to their misguided lives. Reality is she’s just riding the CC. Use your head. | /r/askTRP | 09/03/21 06:37 PM |
| 0 | Delayed Onlyfans effectThe only dumb bitch here is you. Women have been making money by using their bodies since the dawn of time. Onlyfans made it obvious enough so retards like you can catch on. | /r/askTRP | 09/03/21 06:34 PM |
| 2 | How to avoid fucking up long term fwbStop bullshitting OP. She’s a hoe. I know it, all the comments here know it, you know it. We see the red flags. Just be honest, you want to date her. You WANT to be exclusive with her, regardless of how we feel. So stop bullshitting. Why don’t you date her, and learn through experience what a hoe she is because clearly your head is gone? The worst that could happen is a 1 month rollercoaster LTR. At least you did something. Anything would be better than you sitting here typing essays while simul… | /r/askTRP | 09/03/21 06:22 PM |
| 2 | In your experience, how long does cohabiting take to kill attraction? What are some ways to extend the time?I’m always shocked nobody brings up the other side. Everybody is worried about how the girl will feel - her shit tests, her losing attraction, etc. What about OP? I cohabited with a chick when I was in another country for an internship during the summer few years ago. I couldn’t wait to leave the house. I felt she GAINED attraction for me, and I was losing it quicker than a Ferrari on a highway. If I were you, I’d be focused on having a place to stay. I wouldn’t be worried about the girl. If she… | /r/askTRP | 09/03/21 06:04 PM |
| 5 | LTR applying for job in another countrySome of y’all are dense. OP, it’s quite clear. It’s overt. The moment she gets an upgrade she is BOUNCING. She’s only as loyal as her options. It’s called hypergamy, branch-swinging, AWALT, whatever you like to convey this simple idea - that you’re only as good as your options. Enjoy your turn. She’s halfway gone the moment she clicked ‘apply’. | /r/askTRP | 09/03/21 05:55 PM |
| 3 | Getting nudes?I’m probably in the minority of AskTRP who actually have received nudes. Seems like most on here are either allergic to the internet, or too old to have thumbs nimble enough to text. I get nudes mostly from strangers I meet online through apps. Asking friends is awkward due to social pressures of them being labeled a slut. I rarely get them from people I meet in person (ex: in a bar), as I’m focused on escalating to sex. The trick is... just ask for it. Women are horny just like men. Don’t be a … | /r/askTRP | 09/03/21 05:51 PM |
| 1 | how to deal with "fake rejection"“You tryna get this pipe?” | /r/askTRP | 09/03/21 05:43 PM |
| 20 | Found some stuff regarding my mother's involvement with a married man. Don't know what to doWhere there is smoke, there is fire. We don’t know the contents of what you found. If at a glance you thought ‘she cheated’, then she most likely did something unfaithful. Seeing as it is your mother and not just any hoe, it’s up to you how you handle it. I’d personally make it known that you can sense something is wrong. For example during dinner, I’d make a comment that the married man has been around the house a lot. Or subtly imply that you find him a loser - beta bucks. Women will pick up o… | /r/askTRP | 09/03/21 05:40 PM |
| 3 | newbie, got LJBFed. What did I do right/wrong?Nice essay. There’s literally nothing to critique. You gave little facts about the situation and literally spewed emotion. Is there a question in there that can’t be addressed by the sidebar? | /r/askTRP | 08/03/21 04:34 PM |
| 7 | Feelings of Inadequacy due to SalaryStrange because money won’t help improve your dating life. If your goal is to be beta bucks, consider a different sub. | /r/askTRP | 08/03/21 04:30 PM |
| 3 | Left girl on read on snap after she wouldn't give her number. Now she keeps adding and removing me to notify me. What to doWomen are experts at maintaining orbiters. For men, all this falls under woman ‘bullshiting’. Give up on trying to understand it, because woman are hormonal, emotional, and fickle. When in doubt, keep escalating. | /r/askTRP | 06/03/21 04:40 PM |
| 4 | Why do short girls care so much about height?You’re 6’7 and your girl left you for someone 5’10? That contradicts your entire point? | /r/askTRP | 06/03/21 04:37 PM |
| 6 | Getting wayyyy more success with women on Tinder in Nigeria compared to AmericaHell, you can get multiple wives in Nigeria without them batting an eye. I don’t think they’re too cautious about a hookup. Much less shaming there than in the western world. | /r/askTRP | 06/03/21 04:35 PM |
| 2 | Women Aren't Worse - Things Are Simply More TransparentWhile this is true, it’s also true that dating pools got bigger. Living in a city, I’m getting dates with women I would have never met without the internet. As in, there is no chance our lives will intersect naturally. I’d imagine it is 200x this for any female. In the past they will date (or settle) with their first degree connections. Now, you can text/sext with a friend of a friend of a friend. Instead of waiting around for the perfect guy to move into her life, modern woman can take an Uber … | /r/TheRedPill | 05/03/21 03:43 PM |
| 4 | Been a coward with girls my whole life.A girl who not only lets a guy smash on the second date, but also tells others about it? That’s the type of girl you caught feeling for? She better look like a damn Victoria’s Secret model. Go to bed, and reread what you wrote tomorrow morning. | /r/askTRP | 04/03/21 05:20 PM |
| 3 | Got plate to talk about past sexual experiences and it grossed me outHere in TRP we want men to chase their dreams. To lift, have goals, reach social success and financial independence. We stress this because men are not natural selfish savages - blue pill fantasies, helping others, protecting women etc. Women are the opposite. They are natural survivors and if possible, will have their cake and eat it. When you meet a girl who went HAM and rode the CC, that’s just her doing biological imperative. That’s like hating a child for pooping themselves. What you CAN do… | /r/askTRP | 04/03/21 05:09 PM |
| 6 | Am I scaring people off because im lean?Feel free to smile. | /r/askTRP | 04/03/21 05:02 PM |
| 2 | Is LTR and monogamy coming to an end ?The amount of people here who want LTRs but cannot get a ‘good’ one is shocking. Women are the gatekeepers of sex, men are the gatekeepers of commitment. I’ve never initiated an LTR, hell most of my guy friends weren’t the ones to initiate an LTR. Women PROVE themselves to YOU whether they are LTR worthy or not. Not the fucking other way around. Consider it a favor that they reveal their red flags so you don’t LTR a whore. | /r/askTRP | 04/03/21 04:48 PM |
| -7 | Are you sure monogamy is the answer?Bunch of blue pill comments. All this talk about how monogamy is he best for women, and how it gives growth to women - since when were TRP so nice? Truth is, you want your blue pill fantasy. You guys want monogamy so YOUR LTR won’t branch swing, so YOU can have the white picket fence. Blue pill fantasy. Keep dreaming of a world where somehow AWALT and monogamy can coexist. If you read half the comments in here to a girl, her pussy will dry up quicker than the Sahara desert. | /r/TheRedPill | 04/03/21 05:26 AM |
| 1 | This is the only subreddit that can help me - need advice...Perhaps I’m the only realist in this sub. Chances are when you start socialising, your company will take a hit. And chances are when you begin to socialise, you’ll feel incredibly uncomfortable. You will get recognized by someone from the past and you’ll have to go through the uncomfortable situation of explaining answering ‘omg where were you’. If you’re honest, they’ll no doubt become jealous. If you’re vague about it, they might be receptive. They might even start inviting you out again, much… | /r/askTRP | 03/03/21 04:20 PM |
| 11 | How much does being born into a family with money influence a woman’s hypergamy?This is askTRP now? How shit. Armchair psychology for the autistic. | /r/askTRP | 02/03/21 03:45 PM |
| 10 | Dealing with fake alphasI’m going to be brutally honest. They’re making you insecure. That’s a sure-tell sign that you are the lower SMV person here. Higher SMV men will make fun of lower SMV men for fun, for jokes, or subconsciously and often without ill intent. They feel it’s a joke, but the lower SMV person will get butthurt. You are butthurt, no way around it. So why compete in a losing fight? Just laugh, and ignore them. If they look, or act the part of an alpha, they will always get attention. Nothing you can do … | /r/askTRP | 02/03/21 03:43 PM |
| 2 | GF (3 months) lied about sexual pastThis shit made me laugh out loud. Take this upvote you cocksucker. | /r/askTRP | 02/03/21 03:37 PM |
| 1 | Has anyone had to tell a plate to not make it obvious they’re fucking other people?How good is the pussy for you to dismiss her hoeing around, and for you to hamster to yourself she isn’t giving hoe vibes? Last I checked, being like a hoe makes you a hoe. Talking about sex, losing track of who talked sex with her, discussing sexual topics while mistaking men, publicising late night dates for attention, etc. You say you’ve been seeing her 3 months, how long did it take for you to bang her from the day you met her? I’d bet she didn’t hold out long, she’s a hoe. She’s on the CC. … | /r/askTRP | 02/03/21 03:27 PM |
| 4 | Is not allowing "Girls Night Out" a form of mateguarding?Imagine compromising on your standards and mental wellbeing for pussy. There’s nothing wrong with saying ‘I want a girl who does x,y,z.’ I’ve never met a club girl, as in a girl who goes clubbing often, who has NEVER made out, got fingered, or did something sexual with someone she isn’t dating in a club. Chicks know what happens in a club. She knows the temptations, you know the temptations. That’s like you saying ‘Hey I’m going to the stripclub to throw cash, my single friend’s unhappy’. ‘Sex’ … | /r/askTRP | 28/02/21 06:09 PM |
| 1 | When is a girl “TOO drunk” to smash?I used to go out to party a lot pre-covid. Due to the nature of parties, alcohol is involved, and there are tons of chicks in revealing clothes. My iron rule was that I’m only asking a girl home when we’re both OUT of the club/party venue and I can see clearly her sober level. If she’s not sober (ex: tipsy to drunk) I ain’t asking her home unless she asks me to. After, I make sure SHE tells her girlfriends / orbiters she’s okay and leaving because she wants to. | /r/askTRP | 28/02/21 05:59 PM |
| 7 | Is TRP only for decent looking guys?I honestly think any person who truly follows TRP won’t have a low SMV for longer than say, two years MAX. I’m talking starting from 0. If you actually internalise TRP, lift, groom yourself, find goals, be ambitious, manage plates and develop frame, it’s literally impossible not to be a Chad. | /r/askTRP | 26/02/21 04:39 PM |
| 2 | [Semi-Long] I purposely experimented being blue-pill on a plateDid you smash during the meet ups though? | /r/askTRP | 26/02/21 04:36 PM |
| 5 | false accusation. how worried should I beI’ve got good news and bad news. The good news is you will unlikely be convicted - this is a classic ‘he said, she said’ situation. She saw you on the come up and wanted a payout, which she is unlikely to get. The bad news is the damage to your reputation has been done. She (re)caught feels, had sex, and you provided little comfort. She felt pumped and dumped. I guarantee you she told her friends HER side of the story, and the ‘you go girl’ squad will be on your ass. Deny and ghost her further, … | /r/askTRP | 26/02/21 05:21 AM |
| 1 | Did your partner's number count matter when you decided to settle down?The incompatibility issues, or red flags, are obvious. All things being equal, it’s easier to ‘shape’ a low n-count women than a high one. You get less attitude, and they tend to be simpler people. Higher n-count women say ‘yes’ even while understanding there’s no chance she would do what you ask. I’ve found lower n-count women to be more honest and say ‘no’ but ultimately come around and do what I say while feeling happy about it. With regards to ‘what is a high number and at what age’, the uni… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 26/02/21 04:52 AM |
| 4 | Did your partner's number count matter when you decided to settle down?Wrong sub, but absolutely. Does it matter to the point where’s it’s a dealbreaker? Well it depends. But given the option, all things being equal, it’s obviously preferable to have a lower n-count. Been with some high n-count girls and they are absolutely different than low ones. Better in some areas and worse in others. I personally prefer low number(s). | /r/MarriedRedPill | 25/02/21 03:40 PM |
| 1 | Gf [23] meeting up friend she used to sleep with for walkShe’s got some massive balls to say that to your face. Women do shit like this when they want a breakup, but are too much of a pussy to say so. They’ll test your boundaries and push all your buttons so YOU end it. That way they’ll be able to convince themselves they’re the good ones in the relationship. I can tell this incident is draining energy from you. She seems to be a girl who doesn’t have a clue about a serious relationship. You shouldn’t see this as serious either. | /r/askTRP | 25/02/21 02:48 AM |
| 3 | I fucked up, now I am hurtingAt least you banged your oneitis. Most the people on this sub never made it far. Majority of them wouldn’t have the persistence to chase after their oneitis (the ‘just next her bro’ army), much less actually bang her. I’d say things could be a lot worse than it is. Glass half full. Doesn’t matter, still had sex. No reason not to keep your head high. | /r/askTRP | 24/02/21 04:04 PM |
| 1 | Help decoding mixed messages with my friend Nate 27M and me 20FNot seem, you definitely are one. Is this how your brain functions? You have a problem, and you choose to visit a subreddit you have zero knowledge in, in hopes it’ll show you how he thinks? Deer in the headlights. You’re horny. Go on Tinder, swipe, and he/she can drive you around parties as well as keep you warm at night. | /r/askTRP | 22/02/21 05:57 PM |
| 3 | Help decoding mixed messages with my friend Nate 27M and me 20FNate was probably one drink away from actually raping you. Shit was hard to read. Honestly you seem to be a basket case yourself. | /r/askTRP | 22/02/21 05:41 PM |
| 12 | Common Retard Trap for NewbiesThe truth that nobody mentions is that the answer is always ‘it depends’. It depends on how you look, how you speak, your social status, your social circle, etc. It should not be surprising that a short guy without muscles should act more stoic, whereas if you’re an athlete who is USED to being a meathead, girls would appreciate a softer side. Those are extremes and most of us fall in the middle. The only way to calibrate and not fall for the trap is through experience. ‘I think I should be 80% … | /r/askTRP | 22/02/21 05:36 PM |
| 2 | Before ending an LTR, should I call her out on why I'm dumping her, or just do it with no explanation?The correct decision is to drop her cold turkey. More mental damage to her, and you don’t waste your precious energy. You can then channel it into more productive things rather then on things you are going to discard. But I’d be lying if it didn’t feel fucking nice when I nuked an ex before dumping her. That was so cathartic and felt so good. Still gives me chills and a smile thinking about it today. | /r/askTRP | 20/02/21 04:51 PM |
| 5 | Becoming the man my son deservesNot even going to sugarcoat it. The odds of someone working manual labor with no education eventually being promoted to management is slim. You need to build up your social value. You’ll be old as fuck compared to other college kids, yet it’s only a 10 year age gap. In the big picture that’s nothing. I feel you need structure - going to school where others give you a schedule, rules to follow, instructions on what books to read would be helpful at the current stage in your life. | /r/askTRP | 18/02/21 04:41 PM |
| 1 | Dealing with chicks at the gymPretty surprised at some of the comments. They’re going at you for messaging too late? Fuck em. Women chase men they’re interested in. Chances are you didn’t make enough of an impression to cause her to message you first. You also didn’t make enough of an impression to dignify a reply. Woman have egos. “Is he hot enough to ignore me, and message me after he’s finished with seeing whoever he is seeing? Am I okay playing second fiddle?”. The goal is to make a better impression, not to chase harder… | /r/askTRP | 18/02/21 04:35 PM |
| 1 | GF and I won't be able to have sex for 4-6 weeks. Advice on how to fill this gap of non-intimacy to keep the mutual attraction from dying down?Strange thing to be insecure over, it’s a place where the sun don’t shine. Good luck navigating this. No sex kills any relationship - you become friends rather than lovers. Once she sees you as a friend, she’ll want to see how others react to her new labia. Women I knew who had boob jobs, the first thing they did was go to the beach to ‘see others reactions. They feel validated, and literally ride the CC soon after. Between her curiosity and you being in a no sex, low contact zone for 4-6 weeks,… | /r/askTRP | 18/02/21 04:25 PM |
| 1 | Have you ever tried gay game, just for fun?Knew someone like this. Once he had the itch, it never went away. He’s openly bi now, but we know he’s full gay. Life is short and you only live once. TRP is amoral, I assume that goes for gender as well. | /r/askTRP | 18/02/21 04:17 PM |
| 3 | LTR lied about n-countIt’s only three months. Do you trust people that easily? I assume everyone is lying unless I’ve known them for multiple years, much less an LTR. You wouldn’t be hurt if you stopped being to gullible. Life lesson: people (not just women) fake it until they make it. She put forth a fake image to get the LTR, now it’s too troublesome to keep up. She’s crying because she’s tired of lying and she’s feeling bad about herself. “Why am I being someone I’m not”. It’s not remorse for you. | /r/askTRP | 18/02/21 04:13 PM |
| 3 | Found a thesis on TRPThe TL;DR, TRP contains violence and misogyny which can lead young men towards a ‘cocktail of rage’. The core of the essays is that TRP is misguided and Reddit compounds the issue. Did you expect a person to promote TRP when their name is going to be attached to it, and it’s for academia? Can you his future employer looking at his thesis and find that he supports TRP? | /r/askTRP | 14/02/21 04:13 AM |
| 1 | Be honest please. How much of a red flag is my plate of 1yr?I know dudes who aren’t 75kg lmao. Big yikes. If her booty is nice then keep smashing, after all she is just a plate. If she gets exposed you can just say ‘we weren’t serious’. | /r/askTRP | 13/02/21 07:08 PM |
| 1 | Am I an asshole for this?Pretty surprised at the comments. I actually agree with them - Valentine’s is like the Super Bowl for women and they’re favorite team is in it every year. I used to be like you and literally didn’t give a shit. TRP compounds it by preaching frame, leading, etc. Got into meaningless shit tests and comfort tests every year. Eventually learned my lesson and just went along for the day. I feel there should be a sidebar post about ‘when to compromise’. A lot of guys just don’t know how and when to fi… | /r/askTRP | 13/02/21 07:04 PM |
| 5 | Great date, until someone stole her phone. What should I have done?I never know what the fuck women expect out of men when they cry. Just give comfort without looking like a doormat and move the conversation forward. What you ‘should have done’ is not be there in the first place. Also, it isn’t worth getting stabbed over a phone. Hell, even if they grabbed the girls buttcheeks you should wink and move on. If they are low social status they got nothing to lose and may carry a weapon. Even if you beat their ass they could come back with friends the next time arou… | /r/askTRP | 13/02/21 06:54 PM |
| 4 | My LTR is texting (innocent) with her ex, and with a guy she had turned downOne moment you’re worried about not giving enough comfort. The other you’re worried you’re being too cold. It comes across as pathetic. Do you live every moment worrying every small decision? A relationship is recreational, you’re treating it as if it’s an exam. | /r/askTRP | 11/02/21 07:25 PM |
| 22 | Should I confront my LTR for cheating on me behind my back or just cut her out completely without a word?Her turn with you is over. I’d block her. It’ll only hurt more if you prolong it. It’ll be painful once she apologizes, then trickle truth that she and the guy hooked up while she was upset at you. Nah. Cut that hoe out. Whatever she does this moment onwards is irrelevant to you. There are a lot of easy, single girls around Valentine’s Day who instead of spending it with a guy spends it with their girlfriends to party. | /r/askTRP | 11/02/21 04:51 AM |
| 5 | LTR removed me from instagram close friends featureTrust your gut. You know it’s a red flag, she’s a liar. It’s over. | /r/askTRP | 11/02/21 04:31 AM |
| 1 | [Serious] What is the most underrated thing that can help one ace a corporate job interview?Work in a very competitive field. Biggest advantage is if you have a pretty face, tall, and show some cleavage. If you’re a guy, pray you have connections. If you’ve neither connections and you’ve a penis, you better know your shit. You’re more likely to stand apart by being intelligent than you are by having a quirky personality. Invest time in qualities which can be measured. | /r/askTRP | 10/02/21 06:39 PM |
| 8 | Are ALL women aware of the wall?Unpopular opinion but I think the wall is overstated. There’s two type of women - one type will become salty, realize they missed out on their prime, and will become jealous at younger women getting their men. Another type will retain their appearance, appeal, and value way beyond the wall. I’ve recently met a women in her 40s (!) and she was fit AF. With technology the wall get pushed back. More information on nutrition, staying fit, availability of men, online dating, posting thirst traps on I… | /r/askTRP | 10/02/21 05:39 AM |
| 0 | Approaching at the gym. Your experiences recently?Can’t tell if you truly think the girls are autistic. From this post you seem to be the autistic one. You shot your shot, they refused. Next time try cornering them and telling them about how retarded they are, that’ll show them. | /r/askTRP | 10/02/21 04:55 AM |
| 2 | How would you deal with a shitty roommate?Get your landlord to intervene again. Regardless of your feelings, he helped ‘stop’ a lot of the things you were annoyed about. Look at the evidence: after he intervened, he stopped bringing the girl over 5 days a week. He’s pissed because he got other things to manage, but tough shit that’s his job. That’s the duties of the landlord - fix problems. If you have runny water, or if the dumbass doesn’t flush, ask the landlord to tear up his tenancy and sue for damages. Unless you want to pay for cl… | /r/askTRP | 10/02/21 04:48 AM |
| 6 | Will girls occassionally reach out to guys JUST to keep them hooked and thinking they have a chance?Yes. Chicks I know do this through DMs and Snapchat. It’s kind of a ‘don’t forget about me’ thing. Some even do it when they’re not even in the same city as me. They do it because they’re lonely and want attention. Once they get it, they feel happier, and move on. It’s pointless to engage. If it’s a women you’re interested in you should already be gaming her. If you aren’t, then it’s pointless chatter. Just be polite and move on. | /r/askTRP | 06/02/21 05:55 PM |
| 5 | She ghosts and does not show up on date : hard next or something else?That’s such a fucking rude thing to do. Sometimes I take a break off Reddit to practice what the sidebar teaches, feel good about putting things into practice, and then I come here to see blatant disrespect and it makes me sick. Take a step back. You’re doing yourself a disservice by not hard nexting her. Put yourself first. If she is ignoring you, put effort into improving yourself. She’ll come running back and beg for a date. Then, you can ignore her. Once you do, she’ll keep chasing you, and … | /r/askTRP | 06/02/21 05:52 PM |
| 6 | Rejected but still receiving IOIsYou’re used for validation. You’re firmly in orbiter status. You’re going to have to work twice as hard when she puts you in that category, for average returns. Find a new girl - less work, same result. | /r/askTRP | 04/02/21 03:39 AM |
| 3 | Got invited to a secret party but COVIDCan you live with yourself if you pass it to your parents? Risk reward doesn’t seem worth it. | /r/askTRP | 30/01/21 03:22 AM |
| 0 | Where can I meet petite girls?People near the equator tend to be shorter than those near the poles. You commented you are in London, so traveling south (whenever normalcy resumes) or heading to Chinatown will get you tons of shorter women. Plus, girls in clubs wear heels, so height can be misleading. I’ve traveled a lot. A few years ago I went to Scotland. I remember thinking ‘damn, people here are tall’, both guys and girls. I also went to the Dubai, and people there were tiny. | /r/askTRP | 29/01/21 03:58 PM |
| 4 | Girl said she's been exposed to a COVID patientYikes. | /r/askTRP | 29/01/21 04:37 AM |
| 1 | Did I make the right decision walking awayShe’s being ploughed by her roommates and their friends as you type this. A real messy time. Jokes aside, she’s a girl who had sex on the first date. Surely you’re not getting feels for a hoe? I would do the same thing - not here to chat with uninvited roommates especially when they’re not inviting you into their conversations. I feel her roommates might be hanging around deliberately. White knighting if they’re guys, or keeping her ‘safe’ if it’s her girlfriends. And for her, she clearly likes … | /r/askTRP | 28/01/21 05:09 PM |
| 1 | How can I relax and stop worrying about my girlfriend while she is not aroundYou’ve magnified your own insecurities and projected it onto her. You know people sleep around, therefore you project that image, and you believe she too will sleep around. If she’s not making you feel confident, find someone who will. Don’t worry, it goes away with age and experience. You won’t always be an insecure mess. | /r/askTRP | 28/01/21 04:59 PM |
| 5 | LTR cries about every shitThey’re just horny. They do that whenever they want comfort. After getting comfort they’ll get horny and ultimately feel better after sex. AWALT. Happens with LTR’s, happens with one night stands, happens with plates. It’s always a high emotional spike, followed by horny, followed by them being happy afterwards. I once had a plate that was this on steroids. I’d crush it in bed, chat with her, and begin going home after. Everytime, regardless of circumstance, she cries when I start leaving. If I … | /r/askTRP | 28/01/21 04:54 PM |
| 59 | DIVORCE CORPEveryone on TRP stresses out about being divorce raped. Yes, of course. But the other side is the legal fees. I know many lawyers and I trust them as far as I can throw them. They’re here to make money. Lawyers pay a lot to become qualified. Even then, cash flow isn’t consistent. As a result, they have huge financial debts that need to be paid off. They will present problem to tire you mentally, all the while charging you. This goes for both the guy, who needs to defend his assets, as well as th… | /r/askTRP | 28/01/21 04:46 PM |
| 8 | Girl said she's been exposed to a COVID patientCommon sense is SEVERLY lacking in this thread. What else is there to do beside stay the FUCK away, unless you want to catch COVID? You idiots do realize it’s transmissible? AskTRP attracts the autistic. | /r/askTRP | 28/01/21 04:28 PM |
| 2 | How do you know if they're telling the truth about their n-count?I lie by a pretty significant number - I say I have ‘around 10’ and sometimes even less depending on the girl. My true n count is significantly higher. You can get a ‘feeling’ just by talking to women - if they are free spirited about sex chances are they are/have been on the CC. Try going through a 20 year olds’ Tinder and you would be shocked at how much, and how discreet, it is to hookup with high SMV guys. I have also found most girls don’t ask me about my n-count. Like even 18 year olds don… | /r/askTRP | 24/01/21 03:39 AM |
| -1 | For fucks sake, help me avoid making a huge mistakeIf this is your peak, as in this is the best you can attract, yikes. If so, you might as well chase like a dog if you think you can’t get any better. “Alpha fucks, beta bucks”. People focus on the alpha but the beta gets laid too. Just saying. It might even be more productive to be beta, make a mistake, get burned, and come back when you’re ready to improve. | /r/askTRP | 23/01/21 06:20 PM |
| 2 | Perspective on ageIt’s both. Life gets significantly better as you age, because your body matured, your mind matures, and you would have more experiences which should lead to better decision making. All these good stuff happens naturally - you don’t have to move a muscle. However, time really flies. If you slow down the person behind will, 100% of the time, catch up. As you grow so does everyone else. Keep pushing and don’t slow down. | /r/askTRP | 23/01/21 06:16 PM |
| 7 | “Sorry my boyfriend came over. Hope you had a good workout”Would you like me to translate? “Thanks for the validation, sucker! You were my backup, thank the skies my plan A came through! I still need you around in case things go bad, so stay in touch. I’m not rescheduling which means don’t call me, I’ll call you.” | /r/askTRP | 23/01/21 06:12 PM |
| 8 | How do you know if they're telling the truth about their n-count?I used to think a lot about N-count, especially after high school. I had two GFs, and back then I couldn’t imagine anyone my age sleeping with over 5 partners. Men accumulate n-count over time, whereas women tend to get a large number upfront. I remember sleeping with a 19 year with an n-count of 20, and she was a few weeks removed from high school. I thought she’ll hit a thousand cocks by 20. Having caught up with her recently, I was shocked to find out I was the one with a higher total n-count… | /r/askTRP | 23/01/21 06:10 PM |
| 1 | LTR invited millionaire male friend over for drinksI’ve read it, and deep down you know it’s not a good look. If there was nothing to it you wouldn’t be on here. Your stomach’s churning because it’s screaming ‘don’t be cucked’. The ratio of messages indicate more interest on her end than his end. It isn’t a surprise she is the one making plans for him. She’s interested in him, it’s undeniable. You can rationalize ‘it’s an old friend’ all you want, it will never change the fact that she’s interested in him, and he’s willing to jump on the chance … | /r/askTRP | 23/01/21 06:01 PM |
| 2 | LTR invited millionaire male friend over for drinksYeah the whole ignoring one girl (or even better, she talks to you and you talk to another girl instead) leading to girls doing highly sexual acts is 100% true. Most women literally do not know how to get back a man’s attention besides being sexual. Most are terrible at ‘game’ or conversation in general. | /r/askTRP | 23/01/21 10:37 AM |
| 11 | LTR invited millionaire male friend over for drinksImagine thinking men and women can be ‘just friends catching up alone at home’. Even my most basic looking female friend, while she has guy friends, knows that all her guy friends (me included) will fuck her if she asks. She knows she’s the only one enforcing the boundary, and the guys are the ones chasing. I honestly believe every guy wants to fuck an attractive girl, and want something more than friendship if they can get away with it. I also believe every girl knows this about men, and keep o… | /r/askTRP | 23/01/21 05:28 AM |
| 1 | HB9 liked my hinge pic i ask for # then she hits me with this bsA lot, and I mean a LOT of women spend stupid amounts of time on their phone. When they’re bored, they go on dating apps for ‘entertainment’. AKA - tell me a joke, make me laugh, I’m bored be funny for me. She fits in this category. She’s just here to waste time, get validation, and get distracted. Very rarely they go on because they’re horny and in these cases you gotta strike fast. Every tinder lay I’ve had felt ‘lucky’, right place, right time. By escalating fast you filter through the bs and… | /r/askTRP | 22/01/21 05:42 PM |
| 1 | HB9 liked my hinge pic i ask for # then she hits me with this bsThis is literally askTRP in a nutshell. At least OP provided photos! There are an unhealthy amount of ‘what should I text next’ posts on this sub everyday. | /r/askTRP | 22/01/21 05:34 PM |
| 12 | Ltr texting other guyThis happened to me a few years ago. Met a pretty great and fit LTR, and she texted a ‘friend’. I hadn’t fully digested TRP, but I knew it was unacceptable and honestly pointless to continue the LTR if I didn’t set boundaries. I did similar to what you did (telling her it’s unacceptable) and she did exactly what your girl did - instantly blocked, cried, and begged me to stay. My girl then even went so far as delete all the guy contacts she had on her phone, and gave me her password to her IG, FB… | /r/askTRP | 22/01/21 05:29 PM |
| 1 | Any of u guys use zinc?How much mg of each do you take? And would you mind sharing the brands you use? Are they all in one tablets, or individual? | /r/askTRP | 19/01/21 04:10 AM |
| 3 | Unplugging and resenting women after my first breakup at 28 years oldLucky for you, I’m here to announce that there are 7.6 BILLION PEOPLE on this planet. Even if you only view 1% of humans as attractive, that’s 7.6 MILLION PEOPLE. You worrying about one average girl with mental issues makes no sense. Go find another. | /r/askTRP | 16/01/21 04:37 PM |
| 1 | Was that a scam / robbery attempt in your opinion or legit chance?And you said your friend actually got robbed? What happened? | /r/askTRP | 11/01/21 04:43 AM |
| 2 | Any tips on how to grow taller?You could buy platforms. My short friend does this, we tease him about it, but I’d be lying if I said it didn’t improve his SMV. Getting a few inches from shoes absolutely made him more masculine, and the looks he got from women was night and day. It’s bs but in most people’s eyes, height matters. It is what it is. | /r/askTRP | 10/01/21 06:49 PM |
| 1 | Was that a scam / robbery attempt in your opinion or legit chance?Last time it happened, it was a robber? Gonna need a full report chief, never heard something like that. | /r/askTRP | 10/01/21 06:45 PM |
| 1 | Have you cut out toxic people from your life after growing in confidence?No offence, but you should be in a MGTOW subreddit rather than this one. | /r/askTRP | 07/01/21 04:23 PM |
| 2 | What’s wrong with using emojis like: 😍😘 ?Lots of old dudes on this sub, so of course they’ll immediately shun things like emojis, texting, Snapchat, IG, etc. IMO there’s nothing wrong with using it. I’ve never had a women interested in me become uninterested after an emoji, or vice-versa. If a hot guy does it, she’ll hamster that he is charming. If an ugly guy does it, she’ll hamster that he’s a pussy. Literally doesn’t matter. | /r/askTRP | 02/01/21 04:41 PM |
| 8 | Is there such thing as an Alpha Groom? I Have severe Oneitis for this girl who treated me like dog shit.If she’s attractive, educated, on dating apps and had sex with you through a dating app, chances are she is also meeting other people. She knows her own SMV, and she knows there are men lining up for her. She’s experienced, and therefore knows how to attract, retain, and lead on men. She’s a person at a buffet, she won’t stop nor should she - she’s at her SMV peak. With women like her, you cannot contain them. These type will hit the wall late, your commitment means little to her. The world is h… | /r/askTRP | 02/01/21 04:38 PM |
| 3 | Girlfriends bestfriends boyfriend is a simp and causing turmoil in my relationshipYou call him a simp, yet you’re clearly annoyed, and threatened by this supposed simp. What’s that make you OP? Fact of the matter is that if the guy and girl has the balls to recommend men to your girl in your face, they don’t think much of you. You call him a simp behind his back, he might be calling you names as well behind your back. If you’re that confident in yourself, your ability to lead a relationship, then grab the bull by the horns and lead. Seriously, it’s our job as men to lead. The… | /r/askTRP | 01/01/21 06:56 PM |
| 12 | If you realize uour LTR clearly likes someone else but would not easily cheat... what do you do? Interrupt? Demote? Ignore?Have you seen the old video where Obama was talking to this girl, with her boyfriend in the stands? The boyfriend said ‘don’t touch my girl’. Obama replied to her something along the lines of ‘give me a kiss, that’ll give your boyfriend something to really be jealous of’ and she did. The reaction? Everyone laughed. The people there, the internet, the comments. Everyone laughed because an insecure man is a joke. Try not to be a joke. | /r/askTRP | 01/01/21 06:48 PM |
| 2 | What do you think about going to yoga, F45, or dancing classes to pick up women?Bruh. | /r/askTRP | 01/01/21 06:44 PM |
| 1 | A relative danced a bit too friendly with my girlfriend cause he was drunk... should I tell her to never do that again if he’s like that?This is the type of content AskTrp is getting in 2021? I thought 2020 was a shit show. | /r/askTRP | 01/01/21 06:43 PM |
| 1 | Anyone’s gf ever stop using Snapchat / social media when starting to date / talk to you?I thought she gave up the hoe life, and I wanted to come in to congratulate you. Turns out she is still pursuing clicks, just without including you. She isn’t dating you. She’s just seeing you as something ‘temporary’. It’s not a bad thing - it’s called riding the CC. Enjoy your turn. | /r/askTRP | 31/12/20 05:08 PM |
| 3 | FWB Calls Me Crying About BSI can never tell if it’s a comfort test, which another who commented wrote, or a shit test. Sometime it feels like women are testing to see if you can be her crying pillow. All I know is to never try to solve a women’s problems. She won’t listen, and she’ll end up diverting her anger toward you. | /r/askTRP | 27/12/20 04:24 PM |
| 7 | How do I stop failing shit tests where my girlfriend mentions us breaking upYou’re not pissed because she’s being annoying, you’re pissed because deep down your gut is telling you a part of her genuinely meant it when she said to ‘break up’. This is what happens when you take TRP’s ‘just agree and amplify bro’ too fucking literally. If you don’t care about it, keep acting the way you are. If you do care but just pretend not to, for the sake of coming off a certain way, good luck because that’s a miserable way to live. Every girl I know who jokes about breaking up, ends … | /r/askTRP | 26/12/20 06:04 PM |
| 1 | I know I get told often that height doesn’t matter but I deeply think otherwiseBow Wow, a literal midget had some incredibly bad women around his arm. He’s short, scrawny, which I’m sure half the sub will automatically assume he has no chances with women. However he has a solid frame, a career, money and confidence. Kevin Hart - short, muscular but still fits only in small sized shirts. Still gets women. Again, he as a solid frame, a career, money and confidence. Worry about things you can control. Maximise your opportunities and don’t feel sorry for yourself. | /r/askTRP | 25/12/20 05:01 PM |
| 12 | What activities would you say have a lot of male betas and what activities scream beta?Doesn’t matter. If you’re high SMV you can have the most beta hobbies and girls will still flock to you. Focus on your body, finances, and frame. People always say ‘video games’ meanwhile rappers, athletes literally play all with a full ass headset and game room, while getting chicks for free. Twitch (a primarily video game streaming website) organises Twitch Con and dudes who play games ALL DAY hook up with their fans, and female streamers there. You can watch anime, pretend to be a ninja, and … | /r/askTRP | 25/12/20 04:47 PM |
| 6 | Does jealousy even work on ANY guys?Girl I knew did this a lot. We hooked up multiple times, and I went to another city for holidays with some friends. Throughout she kept talking about how people were hitting her up, people sliding in her DMs, she asking for ‘permission’ to go to a party, etc. I was in such a weird IDGAF/aloof frame that I honestly didn’t feel jealousy and was like ‘cool go for it! I’m going to one as well’. Whenever she texted me, I texted back pretty quick and wasn’t avoiding her shit tests, just straight up ID… | /r/askTRP | 25/12/20 04:40 PM |
| 4 | I have been humiliated beyond belief, I have never been this angryI was in your ‘friends’ shoes once. He left me and another girl alone for whoever the fuck knows why. She a hoe, so I have no idea what he was expecting. He took it like a champ, but I felt bad as I only after discovered he has feels for her. In my experience, the girl initiated everything and I wouldn’t be surprised if she threw herself at your friend. Girls love the thrill of doing something ‘naughty’ more than men, that shit drives them insane. | /r/askTRP | 25/12/20 04:32 PM |
| 1 | I have a serious baby face. What to do?That’s a massive difference, I would never have guessed. You need a medical note to get testosterone therapy? Or can anyone walk in and get it? | /r/askTRP | 25/12/20 10:28 AM |
| 3 | A guy felt devastated after seeing old videos of his fiancee having kinky sex with her EX. People shame him for feeling bad and try to convince that the girl didn't enjoy it and was forced.Note that it is more meaningful to use this to our advantage, than it is to be salty. Women type like this because they really do not care about a man’s past promiscuity. They rather share an alpha, than be stuck with a beta. All those comments come from being honest, and benefit from anonymity. If you all ever get caught with a situation like this where you are in the female’s position, now you know the sweet nothings to whisper to pass the ‘do you love your ex more than me’ test. Hypergamy exi… | /r/TheRedPill | 22/12/20 03:56 AM |
| 2 | Guy calls my number, and asks if I'm still dating Maria, says he wants to fuck some girl and wanted to know if I'm still with her so as not to proceed (?)He gave you a heads up. It’s kind of a shitty situation, because any response from you besides ‘okay’ makes you seem like a possessive chump. Personally I don’t eat the garbage I threw away, so I’d say sure and move on with my life. Funny story. This happened to my other friend. He told the guy ‘go ahead’, but immediately afterwards texted his ex about the guy. Basically as an excuse to start a conversation again, and try to intercept his attempts. My friend felt jealous and unhappy, and badmout… | /r/askTRP | 14/12/20 03:56 PM |
| 2 | How do you stop thinking of your ex having sex with someone else and feeling bad about it?Bruh. | /r/askTRP | 14/12/20 03:50 PM |
| 11 | LTR following other guys on InstagramYou’re gut is turning, because you’re correct. There’s really only one reason to follow a person of the opposite gender - because you’re attracted to them. It pisses you off, because there must be SOMETHING she finds attractive in him, hence your senses are tickling. And you aren’t wrong. The sad truth is there’s nothing you can do except improve yourself. You can not negotiate desire, not hers for you, and you can’t prevent her from desiring other men. Just work on yourself so you don’t seem li… | /r/askTRP | 14/12/20 03:48 PM |
| 3 | SlutsThey’re saying it to you, because a high SMV person once said it to her and she felt more attracted to him afterwards. So, like the monkeys they are, they repeat the same thing to other guys did hoping to get you to react the same as she did. Only issue is that women don’t realise even the bluest pilled man doesn’t like being a cucked, whereas even the hottest women would rather share a hot guy than settle with a normal dude. | /r/askTRP | 12/12/20 04:24 PM |
| 23 | "You only want me for sex"I once said this to a chick, just because I was sick of hearing it myself. She naturally and instinctively agreed and amplified. “Hell yeah, and I want more”. I couldn’t help but smile literally laugh. Whenever you are faced with a shit test, try sarcastically using it on another plate. Most of the times women just want a quick and confident response. | /r/askTRP | 12/12/20 04:20 PM |
| 6 | Plate hits me with The Talk after only three dates and one fuckHas sex with a stranger after only 10 days, was so horny she drove for cock, wants to secure a relationship right after, without any proper screening on her end. Red fucking flags galore. I really think she sent you that because she has ANOTHER date lined up, and wants to not feel bad to meet up with him. While she may like you a lot, anyone who gives it out so easily (even making effort to come to you) will give it just as easily to another guy. She’s on the CC. I would definitely not LTR this … | /r/askTRP | 11/12/20 03:59 AM |
| 1 | How to I stop my BP coworkers from telling me “how to get women” without seeming ignorant or exposing that I am red pilled.Comes here thinking his coworkers are BP and he is RP...realized that the reverse is true. You got nothing to say to them because you’re smart enough to know they’re right, just approach. All that you wrote is ego protection. | /r/askTRP | 11/12/20 03:53 AM |
| 2 | Other guy asked about his trauma, I need advice tooFollow your gut, remember that you’re the only one who can look after yourself. If I can give some ‘perspective’, I personally found ‘focus on yourself and the women will come’ to work for me. I would change it to ‘focus HARD on yourself’. A little bit of improvement won’t attract women as your SMV is the same. You kinda have to jump ‘classes’ for it to work. I got a new job, went up a size in clothes, and women followed. Not only that, but guys were inviting me out to ‘hang out with them’. They… | /r/askTRP | 04/12/20 05:55 PM |
| 1 | Am I in a beta bucks relationship? Fuck. I think pre-acceptance of TRP almost killed me too.She literally threw the kitchen sink of red flags at you, literally praying you had the balls to break up with her. Unfortunately, you are oblivious. So she, being the deceitful person she is, decides she doesn’t want to be the ‘bad guy’ and end things. So she takes the easy way, which is cheat while stringing you along. Not only are you a beta bucks, you’re Mr. Nice Guy, who place women on pedestals. You’re desperate for women, and you have no self-respect. Degenerate. Would you do this for any… | /r/askTRP | 04/12/20 04:48 PM |
| 1 | Fellas you think red pill inadvertently teaches guys to fear women?A rational person will be happier knowing all the options on the table. Or something along those lines, which is constantly said by economists. If someone reads and arrives at the conclusion ‘LTR’s are not worth it’ then we can rest easy knowing he thought it through, weighed his options, and is rational. I think pre-RP, a lot of us will not even realise that ‘willingly not having an LTR’ is even an option! Society has programmed us to believe ‘no girlfriend = loner’. If anything, it teaches men… | /r/askTRP | 04/12/20 04:37 PM |
| 2 | Other guy asked about his trauma, I need advice tooI honestly feel like TRP is better than any therapy. If you stay long enough, read the stuff posted on the main subreddit, read some of the newbie questions here and the replies from vets, you’ll begin linking the dots. When I was blue-pilled, if I paid for a therapist who said what the sidebar said, I’d say he/she was the greatest therapist ever. My advice to you is AWALT. All women will disrespect a weak man, and all women will bow before a strong man’s feet. You have to accept this reality. Y… | /r/askTRP | 04/12/20 04:31 PM |
| 6 | Married men who cheat, how do you make it work?And on the off chance you get caught, there’s a pretty hefty price to pay. | /r/askTRP | 03/12/20 05:56 AM |
| 2 | how do you teach a kid abundance mentality without having them grow up entitled (but also not insecure)?It’s not success that builds character, its failure. You can’t have abundance without failure. Even the vets on TRP sometimes slip into oneitis (albeit for a very short time) before snapping back. There’s two sides to a coin - the kid will have to experience abundance, and experience scarcity, and learn through practice. | /r/askTRP | 03/12/20 05:53 AM |
| 2 | Friend is choosing his girlfriend over 2 friends, really fucking us over how to handle?...Find another roommate? At the end of the day he made a choice. If you treat him as a friend, respect his choice. You’re only mad because of the female element in all this. TRP is amoral. You could use dirty tricks like peer pressure, mock him, guilt trip him, or ‘set him up’ with a hoe. I personally wouldn’t, as that isn’t how I treat my friends. If they want to do something, I’ve got their back even if it means we see each other less. | /r/askTRP | 03/12/20 05:30 AM |
| 2 | People keep asking about my ex and it fucks me up. How to handle?Let it go. She moved on and dated someone on her level. As you said, you got her before she glowed up. You either have a glow up yourself to date girls like her, or settle for the level of girl similar to your ex when you first met her. If it makes you feel better, in 20 years she’ll be someone who you wouldn’t give a second glance at. She’s going to age like every other smoke show, no pussy is worth being upset over in the long run. | /r/askTRP | 02/12/20 05:48 AM |
| 1 | I'm trying to plate a prostitute, any tips?Now I ain’t saying she a gold digger, but she ain’t messing with a broke “ “. | /r/askTRP | 30/11/20 04:00 PM |
| -3 | What happens to pimps, bachelors, and playboys when they get old?Have you seen those old rockbands who still tour? I guarantee you James Hetfield (Metallica) who is 57 can invite any girl he wants backstage for sex. Even on a small scale, there are plenty of no-name bands touring filled with older people who can get whatever they want. The beauty of ‘men’s SMV goes up with age’ is that you can really ride and enjoy life if you work hard. | /r/askTRP | 30/11/20 03:59 PM |
| 80 | Preparing for the next market crash/correction/pullbackIf you believe you can time when the market will go up, and down, you’re delusional. | /r/TheRedPill | 30/11/20 03:54 PM |
| 0 | One of best friends girlfriends hates my red pill way of dating.You’re overthinking this. BP guys like him can be easily convinced. Don’t speak to him. The trick is for him to see your girl madly in love with you. For example, at a mutual dinner, she’s feeding you and you’re massaging her back. He’ll feel cucked, embarrassed, and leave you alone. I tell my LTR’s ‘I’m dating you and not your friends, so keep our relationship between us so we work things out, just the two of us’. It works for me all the time, I’d recommend it. | /r/askTRP | 30/11/20 03:52 PM |
| 11 | Got flaked on three times in the last 24 hours. What the fuck am I doing wrong?Lots of nice guys in the comments, but you’re here for answers. Truth is, if she was THAT into you she was EQUALLY that interested in her other matches. Girls text multiple guys simultaneously. It is what it is. They schedule multiple dates on one day, and if they like one guy they flake the rest. Take it easy. You’re not the only fish in the pond, she’s also looking elsewhere. Equally, she is also not the only fish in the pond, it’s a numbers game. | /r/askTRP | 29/11/20 04:39 AM |
| 5 | Why are girls entitled hoes on their phone but submissive followers irlIt’s pretty mind blowing. As a young person, I’d say literally EVERY GIRL I’VE MET was entitled through their phone. Like they talked as if they had a massive penis, their shit didn’t stink, and their confidence was ridiculous. In person I’d look at them straight in their eyes and they’ll instantly dodge eye contact, be submissive, ask me to make decisions, etc. Shit is insane. It’s why I try to avoid arguments, discussions, or work with women through digital. It’s pretty dumb but the ‘try sayin… | /r/askTRP | 28/11/20 04:16 PM |
| 1 | Greetings brothers, just broke up with ltrOver Thanksgiving? That’s rough. Put TRP on the shelf and enjoy Black Friday/Cyber Monday. Buy some things for yourself, it’s the holidays enjoy it. Christmas and New Years are around the corner, plenty of chances to forget your ex if your city isn’t in lockdown. | /r/askTRP | 28/11/20 04:11 PM |
| 5 | STDs and hookersIf you’re that curious, my best advice will be to stay away. If you ever meet a hooker and she suggests going in bare, your curiosity and your horny-ness will get the better of you. | /r/askTRP | 23/11/20 03:41 PM |
| 6 | What advice would you have for a 24F virgin?Pics or no advice (jk). Unironically I think you should consider saving it for the man who you get engaged with. Think of it as what differentiates you from other 24year olds. Women SMV peaks early, and men WILL commit to a low n-count female with good traits. I’m talking engagement, marriage, the whole nine yards. Most men dislike women who sleep around. If you just lose your virginity, you’ll be single and headed to the wall, basically in the gutter with all the other low quality females. Why … | /r/askTRP | 23/11/20 03:37 PM |
| 5 | Curious, who here uses Phenibut?I’ll bite - what’s the difference between phenibut, adderall, and modafinil? They’re all study/focus drugs, what differentiates them? | /r/askTRP | 17/11/20 05:05 AM |
| 1 | King Von, an extremely popular and upcoming, brand new, superstar in music, just died over a female. How?Those women are literally gold diggers. Most of them are strippers. They literally are clout chasing thots. | /r/askTRP | 17/11/20 04:55 AM |
| 1 | How do you tolerate the absurd amount of simp music on the radio/charts these days?You realize one aspect of making music involves the pursuit of money? The music which makes radio is appealing to a wide demographic. All women loves feels - writing a song about feels is for selling to their female fans. I’d imagine making a song based off TRP’s sidebar is a lot riskier than writing a song about a teenage heartbreak which happened over summer camp. | /r/askTRP | 16/11/20 04:07 PM |
| 1 | King Von, an extremely popular and upcoming, brand new, superstar in music, just died over a female. How?Very misleading. It was more a wrong place, wrong thing. FYI: King Von meets another group who each hate each other, outside a nightclub at 3am, and both had guns. Had an argument, and guns were shot. Died because of wounds. It’s more so that nothing good happens late at night, with angry people holding guns aiming at you. | /r/askTRP | 16/11/20 04:04 PM |
| 1 | How I Turned A Formerly Low Interest Girl Into A Fuck BuddyGreat report, but even better username. I bursted out laughing. | /r/TheRedPill | 09/11/20 04:20 AM |
| 1 | Should I forgive my dad? Mixed feelingsIf he is beta and you’re the NPC, what does that make you? TRP is about self-help. Why don’t you worry about yourself, and gain some confidence? Frame is literally the largest TRP principle. You lack it, severely lack it. Do yourself a favor, read the sidebar. | /r/askTRP | 08/11/20 06:24 PM |
| 10 | Engaged girl in my bed last night, should I feel guilty? I do.His fiancé will soon be on AskTrp, asking what to do that his girl slept at another guys house and didn’t reply his calls/messages. He’ll stumble on this thread, and proceed to have his heart fall into his gut that his BP, unicorn princess is a hoe. Jokes aside, it really isn’t a joke. A lot of guys stumble on TRP, and one of the most common questions here is what to when Gf doesn’t reply to texts/calls. This is the OTHER SIDE of the situation - trust your gut. | /r/askTRP | 31/10/20 05:02 PM |
| 6 | Gf said she will propose today.It’s almost a given most women want a marriage. Remember, they haven’t dissolved the pill. Every girl dreams of white picket fences, beautiful wedding, and most importantly, picking out their dress. It’s literally every girl’s fantasy. I personally have found it difficult to address this topic. Even with the staunchest frame, women always ‘want’ the wedding. It feels like a ‘grander’ issue than something like ‘no LTR of mine will do x’. I haven’t yet found a girl who was truly willing to live to… | /r/askTRP | 30/10/20 03:48 PM |
| 6 | Soft nexted LTR, did I do this right?If she won’t do it again, then you got your point across. However since you’ve made yourself clear, you have to follow through. For example, if she does cross the same line, no second chances. Also, it doesn’t matter her feelings, or if she feels bad right now. She wronged you, it’s on HER to make it right. By doing right she canceled out the wrong. Her happiness comes from you staying. Now, you continue on and move forward. Don’t circle back. | /r/askTRP | 19/10/20 04:30 PM |
| 1 | I'm a child mentally and need to grow upGood thing, you’ll grow up whether you want to or not. Nobody defeats Father Time. As you live your life, you will naturally grow up through your own experiences, mistakes, or learning from others. I thought I was mature at 18, until I turned 19. And I thought I was mature at 19, until I turned 20. There hasn’t been a single year where I thought ‘I was more grown up last year’, or ‘I haven’t really grown up over the previous year’. | /r/askTRP | 17/10/20 03:59 PM |
| 1 | Fucking a girl on her periodYou’re too curious not to try. Do it. Afterwards you’ll discover some things. Such as, that it smells really bad, stinks of iron. And it’s a mess to clean up, you want shower nearby. Your sheets will need washing immediately. Did it when I was horny, regretted it every-time. | /r/askTRP | 15/10/20 04:06 PM |
| 1 | Is there a timeline to message a chick you want to plate?More texting if you’ve only had sex once. Less when it becomes a regular thing. If you’re with someone young texting is normal. The sub has a lot of old timers who are straight up uncomfortable about technology like Messages, IG, Snap, Tinder, etc. I don’t think I’ve ever NOT gotten laid solely because I texted too soon. I’ve definitely missed a shit ton of opportunities by being awkward about texting, withholding, and all around playing games. Just my two cents. | /r/askTRP | 15/10/20 04:01 PM |
| 2 | What do you do when a girl calls you cute ?Autism is at an all time high recently in this sub. | /r/askTRP | 15/10/20 03:52 PM |
| 5 | My LTR suddenly wants to go this to this close by (3 hour drive) and wants to go alone to “figure herself out” cuz she’s she’s been stressed out lately. Possible CC? How to approach this ?If she wants to take a break from you for 3 hours today, she will want to do it again when she inevitably feels bad again next week, or next month, or next year. For me, this is a deal breaker. If you have ever spun plates, it’s literally what you do to plates - I see them when I want to, and truly want them out of my life at other times. This isn’t an LTR. Always, always, always look at a women’s ACTIONS not her WORDS. Fuck her reasoning, its hamster talk. She’s one mood swing away from buying … | /r/askTRP | 13/10/20 03:51 PM |
| 1 | Older guys who fuck younger girls now but didn't have much luck in earlier years: what changed for you?I know I’m not your intended target audience, but I just want to chime in so the next guy who visits this thread gets perspective. I’m probably the opposite of everyone here. I fucked a lot when I was young (in school). And since everyone was young, I was obviously banging younger women. Going on parties, spring break, clubs, etc. Now, I’m getting laid a lot less than before. Once I got my N-count to a pretty high number sex no longer became a priority. I spend my time on work, working out, bang… | /r/askTRP | 08/10/20 04:11 PM |
| 2 | I feel miserable and need to talk to you guysI completely feel you. What worked for me was just filling up my schedule with random things to do (meeting friends, working out, reading, writing, learning to draw, etc). All to escape feeling lonely. I personally feel these emotions stronger at night so I’ve adjusted my schedule to wake up early and sleep early. I’ve tried therapists but eventually realized they were interested in my money and were simply performing a service - if anything it made things feel worse. When you are at your lowest… | /r/askTRP | 04/10/20 07:52 PM |
| 25 | HB9 at a resort - looking for tipsThere’s this one girl... | /r/askTRP | 04/10/20 06:26 PM |
| 249 | My "Zeroed Out" Story - Advice RequestedTake this upvote you inspirational son of a gun. You’ve got all the skills, work experience, and insight to make your next 40 years better than your past 40. She’s old and widowed, and the money the courts gave her will eventually run out. You’ve got nothing now, but you have the mental to technical ability to make it all back. If you were anywhere near me I’d hit the clubs with you and I’d guarantee I’d pull a fresh 20 year old blonde hottie for you to bring home, in exchange for you to continu… | /r/askTRP | 30/09/20 06:51 PM |
| 1 | Finally installed TikTok - omg the slutification is that bad now? Enjoy the decline?Genuinely do not understand how this is a bad thing. Are there really THIS MANY captain save-a-hoes on TRP of all places? Quit worrying about others, and more on how this can benefit you. If it doesn’t benefit you, it’s irrelevant to your goals and therefore a time-waste. | /r/askTRP | 28/09/20 03:51 PM |
| 1 | I am marked as useless by my peers and teachers at my university. What should I do?Have you thought about transferring to another university for a fresh start? Your situation sounds hopeless. Labels stick and don’t tend to change. | /r/askTRP | 24/09/20 02:15 PM |
| 2 | Great at getting ONS but not Two Night Stands. Where is my game off.Same thing happens to everyone who gets laid from parties. Women flake for no reason. Funny story, one time the same thing happened to me. I messaged her the next day, no reply. One more message then I got blocked. At another party, I found out from her friend that she blocked me because her BF was right next to her, and she didn’t want messages to show on her phone. I thought she was a normal girl. Turns out she had a boyfriend, I would have never guessed. | /r/askTRP | 24/09/20 02:10 PM |
| 1 | My FWB won’t shut up about politics through text and also when we are about to fuck. Total boner killer, should I soft next her? Or drop her completely.Remember to never use words, always use actions. Also, think by yourself but act like others do. You could easily just agree, and change the topic to sex. Or you could pull back, and meet her less so she understands you’re getting bored and are looking elsewhere to spend your free time. | /r/askTRP | 24/09/20 02:04 PM |
| 1 | Getting over my LTR's pastIf it bothers you, it bothers you. Stay in your own frame. Tell everyone to stay in their lane. Getting over something because someone told you to isn’t going to feel good. Be authentic to yourself. She’s just a woman, which there are plenty of on this planet. There is already so much bullshit you MUST ‘get over’ in this world. Inequality, long hours, income brackets, bad bosses, long days, etc. I cannot imagine having to ‘get over’ more things in my free time. An LTR is for leisure, you shouldn… | /r/askTRP | 23/09/20 01:48 PM |
| 81 | What is an ideal living situation for a male like (in his 30s and beyond)?Depends on your finances. Don’t think this is a TRP question but rather a practical one. Housing is a large commitment so think with the head on your shoulders not the one between your legs. | /r/askTRP | 23/09/20 01:41 PM |
| 3 | Overgamed a girl to the breaking point, now unsure what to doI realize you are in oneitis, try listening. If you had acted more caring/beta/affectionate, she would be happy, and eventually shit test you to see if you’re an actual beta. You’ll pass as you’re following TRP principles. After displaying this, she will want to move to exclusivity or become more possessive of you. You’d then either have to date her, or the plate breaks. If you acted exactly as you did, she will not see you as a LTR potential, realize she is wasting her time, and begin dating ot… | /r/askTRP | 23/09/20 01:39 PM |
| 2 | My girlfriend who's pursuing a career in acting is playing a role where she's being kissed/fucked by some another actor.Need an update OP. | /r/askTRP | 22/09/20 01:11 PM |
| 1 | A lot of guys hit on my girl with texts and interactions, what should I do?You’re mad because you know, deep down, she may listen and leave you since he has a point. Because he isn’t talking out of his ass, and actually has value, you’re worried she goes ‘Oh you’re right!!’ and branch swings for him. Hypothetically if you’re Brad Pitt and your girl is hit on in the same way by an obese balding man, you wouldn’t care. The fat man is not a threat, and he is worth less to you. It’s a cruel world out there, she’s not yours it’s just your turn. I see GF’s get stolen every F… | /r/askTRP | 10/09/20 03:36 PM |
| 1 | How do I use anger correctly?First of all, you’re going nowhere at 26 if you’re still shackled by things that happen decades ago. The point of TRP is to improve ourselves and to look forward. The equivalent would be saying ‘I’ve been raised a beta so I can’t be anything else’. Just because you repress anger in the past, doesn’t mean you cannot manage it today. Anger to me is a motivator. I use it because I perform better when I’m mad. I find stuff at in my workplace to be mad at to make myself act more cutthroat and chase p… | /r/askTRP | 10/09/20 03:28 PM |
| 4 | LTR has a guy "friend" whose SMV is higher than me, how to deal with this?If she’s as good as you say she is, she knows her value. Other men also know her value, and want her. It is what it is. You either out SMV him, or get your women snatched. Two possibilities... One: if she has IG, and doesn’t upload photos of you, and gives an impression she is single, she’s clearly not yours, it’s just your turn. Two: if she displays openly she’s in an LTR and he doesn’t care, it’s on her to turn him down, not for you to mate guard. Interested to know which is your situation... | /r/askTRP | 10/09/20 03:03 PM |
| 1 | 33 Years of Marriage WastedCool theory bro, but no, pretty sure she screwed him over. People who trade a large amount of shares at once have to disclose to the SEC by filling out a form. So, she will have to report it regardless. Plus, under your theory they will be committing securities fraud. | /r/TheRedPill | 09/09/20 04:54 AM |
| 1 | Hair thinning, minoxidil?I’ve seen some stunning hair transplants, I’d consider that if your budget allows. You can get it cheap in Turkey, but I’d save up and go to those in LA (the ones that serve actors). Just look at some before and after of celebs, and it’s a massive difference. Women do it too. Unironically a hair system (AKA toupee/wig) works stupidly well. Only negative is you have to swallow your ego. Some salons have an annual subscriptions where they do maintenance, repair, and deep cleaning of it and you go … | /r/askTRP | 08/09/20 04:36 PM |
| 3 | 33 Years of Marriage WastedThe funny thing is, the system IS the way it is because women cried about abandonment. Hence, divorce laws are heavily skewed, she used that to her advantage. Now, women are crying about how using the system they bitched for is unfair. It’s like introducing TRP to a friend, and he gets laid, then you get salty. Women are literally children. You just can’t please that crowd. Its shocking how the legal system is the way it is. | /r/TheRedPill | 08/09/20 04:30 PM |
| 8 | 33 Years of Marriage WastedIronically, where are all the ‘you go girl’ feminists supporting Jeff Bezos’ widow? Almost every women on TV, online, and in person are unhappy that she is now the richest. Women can’t help but be bitter since they always compare themselves to each other. Further proving the point that women haven’t a clue what they want. They literally just feelz their way through life, and somehow the sympathetic divorce courts is on their side. | /r/TheRedPill | 08/09/20 04:17 PM |
| 42 | 33 Years of Marriage WastedWomen are suppressed. Just kidding. Also, isn’t the richest woman in the world is Jeff Bezo’s divorced wife? I can’t see how divorce law is fair. Think about how much Jeff Bezos’ wife was rewarded for simply existing. What she ‘did’ was ridiculously disproportionate to the rewards she got. | /r/TheRedPill | 08/09/20 03:50 AM |
| 7 | Confronting in sportsSomehow, I cannot imagine many on TRP to have played sports. First, it’s trash talk it isn’t personal, you may be sensitive. Second, it’s competition so in the heat of the moment, mean things get said. After the game, everything is left on the court and people are be cool. That’s just how things are. Your friends had that reaction because you overreacted to what they feel was minor. So you came across as a hot head. This isn’t as bad as you think, you’re allowed to talk trash back. Just don’t le… | /r/askTRP | 07/09/20 05:04 PM |
| 2 | Should I care that Im a virgin?The only benefit to having sex is the realization that pussy is...just pussy and to not let it dictate your life. Additionally, it’ll help you not go full beta when a girl smiles at you. If you already have that perceptive, you shouldn’t care. There’s not a lot of life skills you get from losing your virginity. It’s like getting a car license - it can be helpful, and fun to do, but you can equally be a successful person without it as there are more meaningful things out there. | /r/askTRP | 07/09/20 04:52 PM |
| 2 | How many women you slept with? No hookers?Honestly lost track. I used to keep track, had a mental list in chronological order of who I’ve slept with. After about the 20s it’s impossible to keep track. It was a wake up call when I was looking at this girl, and was legitimately wondering if we had sex, or if it was with another who looked similar. When you get to that stage it isn’t fun. You will look yourself in the mirror and realize you need to set better priorities. High n-count isn’t as cool as I’d thought. There are dozens of things… | /r/askTRP | 07/09/20 04:42 PM |
| 1 | Threesomes in LTRs...Just do it. Once you try a few threesomes you’ll realize it’s nothing special, it’s just literally sex but with two girls. To me, your curiosity for threesomes is greater than the need to maintain one LTR. The worst case scenario isn’t that her breaking up with you, the worst case scenario is you spend an insane amount of time ‘plotting’ a threesome. | /r/askTRP | 06/09/20 05:47 PM |
| 7 | Help a short man get laidYou’re insecure about your height. People here might make fun of you, saying you’re a snowflake without frame. Ignore em. Honestly, everyone is insecure about one element in their life. Some people manage it better by not showing emotions, laughing it off, exiting, etc but on the inside they feel unpleasant, just as you feel uncomfortable with your height. Wearing shoes with a larger midsole or heel, even if it’s just a little bit, might give you the extra confidence to manage your insecurities.… | /r/askTRP | 06/09/20 05:36 PM |
| 2 | LTR (soon-to-be fiancée) keeps in contact with exes. Should I hard next her?If you’re smart enough to identify red flags, are you smart enough to realize the only reason you’re with her is because you do not have access to someone better? Unicorns do not exist, AWALT. But a girl with those green flags while also having less flagrant red flags exist. If you think you’ve maxed out on SMV, or is confident she will improve, accept her and work on RP stuff, in hopes she will act to please you. If you think you’re settling, understand that you’ve a long life ahead, and you sh… | /r/askTRP | 06/09/20 05:26 PM |
| 13 | How do I respectfully tell a male friend to shut the hell upImagine having a ‘brother’ who you can’t be honest with. | /r/askTRP | 06/09/20 05:12 PM |
| 2 | She has a boyfriend, but wants to lose her virginity to me.Had a similar experience. Apparent virgin who wanted me to be her first. Super shy, seemed innocent, easy to lead on, felt insecure at anything I did, etc. I felt like the big bad wolf. Things escalated a bit too quickly. I did the deed, and imagine my surprise when I checked my sheets to see no blood. She insisted she was a virgin, that I was her first, and didn’t know why she didn’t bleed. After a few trickle truths (it was hard to get out), found out she had a brief thing with another the sum… | /r/askTRP | 30/08/20 06:04 PM |
| 2 | Guys in a LTR have you cheated? If yes why?There was a time where I even had multiple LTRs, in different cities. This was before TRP. Pretty stupid, and honestly wouldn’t recommend, but I did it because I was just immature, horny, young and reckless. Ironically those were my best LTR’s. Probably because when I met them, I was genuinely interested in seeing them and they felt ‘new’ every time even though it’s not a fresh relationship. Things never got boring, barely received any shit OR comfort tests, super obedient, etc. | /r/askTRP | 30/08/20 05:57 PM |
| 2 | Reasons not to sleep with clientsMaybe she wants a better deal. Depends on her character. Just know that these things happen all the time the higher you go up the job food chain. I work in a big, competitive firm, and I know for a fact females here use their bodies to secure clients/promotions/favors. Nobody openly cares to talk about it. If the opposite happened here, a guy doing whatever he needs to do to secure a client, it wouldn’t be perceived badly as long as it makes cash, and doesn’t blow the fuck up. If you’re in a hig… | /r/askTRP | 30/08/20 05:48 PM |
| 2 | How tough is it to live the party lifestyle in your 30s if you have the money for it?Actually, I have an older friend (mid 30s) who literally pays for everything. He invites all of us younger folks to party with him, so you can definitely be like him. You’ll have a constant flow of young men/women every weekend to have fun with. Pretty easy to meet fun people if you’re opening line is ‘I can pay to get us all VIP and bottomless booze, let’s partay’. | /r/askTRP | 30/08/20 05:32 PM |
| 1 | A plate told me she only contacted me for a sex date because she got rejected by someone she wants. Should i ignore it and fuck her still or should i block her for that disrespect?You’re this petty over a plate? Are you hungry or not, if you are clean the plate. If not, ignore the plate. You’re ADHD ass has to decide what you want. If you’re just reacting to everything anyone does, you’re never in your own frame. | /r/askTRP | 30/08/20 05:23 PM |
| 1 | What do you do when you become indifferent?You become indifferent because for many who used to be/are blue, finding ‘the one’ is literally one of if not the very top of their life goals. TRP shows you it shouldn’t be your goal. So naturally, something you held in high regard is not proved to be not so great. What I did is find new goals which are more meaningful goals. For me it included getting better grades at school, securing a nice paying job, getting a car, paying off loans, etc. I don’t think I can ever say ‘I’d trade anything for … | /r/askTRP | 29/08/20 05:37 PM |
| 1 | In your experience, what are the best cities in the world for sex?Any place with a lot of travellers is great. Typically the best (and easiest) sex I had was going with my friends to another city for a concert, festival, etc. Tons of people from out of town go there to just fuck and have fun. I went to Coachella and it’s just a bunch of easy sex with relatively attractive (young and fit) women. Personally feel that going to a city and expecting the sexlife to pop is wack. It’s the type of shit advice you get from a 90’s dating handbook. | /r/askTRP | 29/08/20 05:30 PM |
| 3 | Have you done hookers?The comments here who are extreme anti-hooker have never tried them. The truth is it’s not the best shit in the world, it’s also not the worst. In a way it’s like TRP - it’ll make you emotionally detach yourself from the whole ‘pussy is sacred’ belief we are fed through media growing up. If you used to place pussy on a pedestal, or are obsessed with hot babes, getting a hooker even once will let you mentally ‘move on’ from this phase. I personally feel you are less likely to get hooked on hooker… | /r/askTRP | 29/08/20 05:16 PM |
| 4 | How to respike attraction with my girlfriend?I’ve actually been on the other side of this, I locked myself in the library before exams and always bumped into this girl who had a BF when I went for a break. Without going into details, I realize it’s quite easy to bond, flirt, kino when openers like ‘when’s your exam’ are so subtle yet effective. Without going into details, I did what I had to do. If she wants to cheat, she will cheat. You can never negotiate desire. Just stay fundamentally RP (frame, dread, pull back). Also I’d recommend ac… | /r/askTRP | 21/08/20 04:14 PM |
| 1 | Broke up with a LTR girl and she hopped on tinder and seeking arrangement right awayI truly believe women don’t break up/agree to a breakup unless she has a Plan B prepared. If she has Tinder/SA, chances are she was using it on and off while in the relationship. It sucks, yet it could be worse. I’ve matched and chatted with an acquaintance’s GF on Tinder days after he bought her the biggest batch of roses for Valentine’s Day, and posted about it on IG. Worst part about it was my other friend ALSO matched with her, so she was going hard on Tinder. Eventually he found out, realiz… | /r/askTRP | 21/08/20 04:06 PM |
| 1 | How to act when friends disrespect/say things way out line towards youWhy don’t you find out for yourself. Do/say something to the biggest Chad you know, and see how he reacts. It’s probably quicker learning from example than listening to theory from internet strangers. | /r/askTRP | 20/08/20 04:11 PM |
| 2 | Why do women exhibit promiscuous nature after experiencing trauma?More men on here should do the same after a breakup, instead of whining, sulking or self-isolating. Sex, or a rebound, is the best way to forget about an ex. This is the best lessons we can learn from women, almost all the women I know do this better than men. | /r/askTRP | 14/08/20 03:25 PM |
| 2 | Me and my girlfriend again !Just listen to the endorsed contributor, rest of comments are mostly trash. People telling others to ‘next cus disrespect’ after a shit test have such a fragile ego, hard to believe they have anything resembling ‘frame’. It’s a shit test, AWALT, they all do it, move on or date men. The question for women is always whether she has anything to offer. If you find her annoying, you balance it by expecting more out of her. | /r/askTRP | 14/08/20 10:47 AM |
| 8 | Any success stories after a breakup?Great comments but I’m taking it another direction. Prior to TRP (and when I was younger), I broke up with a really great girl because I wanted to chase other women. She was a solid 9, and had tons of orbiters. When I broke up, I just did what I wanted - which is to be free, hangout with friends, party, and it was my most pain free transition. I still feel no remorse about the breakup. However, if I had seen her social media, I’d probably be in your shoes - depressed, loss of momentum, second-gu… | /r/askTRP | 14/08/20 05:44 AM |
| 1 | My LTR keeps disrespecting Bach (haha) and I'm about to snap; what is a man supposed to do?Pretty surprised you made a throwaway account revolving around Bach of all things. I’ve just listened to D Major Allamande and it’s amazing. I unironically got introduced to great music from a shit-post. | /r/askTRP | 13/08/20 03:10 PM |
| 3 | Possibly pregnant plateIf she’s a plate chances are she’s banging other dudes. Get a test and don’t be a beta bucks. If she sees you as unreliable she’ll ask someone else to be the father. | /r/askTRP | 09/08/20 07:49 PM |
| 1 | LTR wants to get married ... I do notIf you think you can do better, then be about it and get better. Otherwise you’re just shifting your attention from the fact that you’re not high enough SMV-wise to persuade your LTR to get in shape, or make her want to do the type of activities you enjoy. | /r/askTRP | 05/08/20 07:26 AM |
| 2 | In case you need to be reminded on why you shouldn't commit to a promiscuous woman.These are the answers they give, imagine if the women weren’t honest. Even if it’s anonymous, I somehow doubt a n-count 50 women will say she slept with 50 men. Many women don’t count giving head, or on a vacation, or a rebound, or whatnot. So if you ever meet a women who admits to a high number, run. Run like the house is on fire. | /r/TheRedPill | 20/07/20 07:04 PM |
| 2 | How do I react towards LTR after her annoying me?Good question, but terrible advice. The fact that OP is only replying to terrible advice means more arguments, and drama will follow. Really unfortunate. | /r/askTRP | 13/07/20 06:04 AM |
| 3 | are all types of piercings a red flag?Yes, I’d echo what you said. Think you’ve answered your own question better than anyone else, so don’t doubt your gut. With tattoos, it’s usually small pieces that people get. People get it because it’s cheap. They walk in, sit for half an hour, and ink something cute. It’s spontaneous, you don’t go in for a consultation. Stars, letters, random animals, etc. Large tattoos takes time and it’s not cheap. You book an appointment, they sketch it out, and you sit for hours. Not to generalise, but man… | /r/askTRP | 12/07/20 07:27 PM |
| 2 | What's the average age of a asktrp member?Pretty sure askTRP will always attract younger people. People come on TRP when they have an issue with women, and this happens during their first few relationships. So it’s always going to be skewed towards HS, college ages. Quit hating, everyone was a noob at one time. BP mindset is ingrained in society, becoming unplugged takes time. | /r/askTRP | 12/07/20 07:17 PM |
| 3 | How to help bp friend who‘s extremely good looking, lifting, and still lives the lies the society has taught him?Don’t do it. You’ll go from being his friend, to ‘an asshole’. BP men enjoy their bubble and turn angry when people try to burst it. Don’t do it. | /r/askTRP | 12/07/20 07:12 PM |
| 3 | Thoughts/tips on dating a girl whos taller than you?How cute, she can give you her old clothes that she grew out off. Jokes aside if you have the personality to not care, go for it. Life’s too short. If other people give you shit, ignore it as not many have the confidence to attract, keep, and date a taller girl. I’m not here to mince words - you will get shit for it from friends, and giggles from strangers. | /r/askTRP | 12/07/20 07:10 PM |
| 2 | are all types of piercings a red flag?Flip it around. Pretend you have a sister, would you introduce to her a man with all types of piercings? Tattoos? If you were to get a piercing and tattoos, why would you do so? To look tough? Was it for attention? What kind of person tends to go for these things? What kind of interests or jobs is he interests in? It’s common sense. I have friends who got tattoos and they did it for the attention, from peer pressure, ‘yolo’ lifestyle, or to be tough. Depends on if you seek those characteristic i… | /r/askTRP | 12/07/20 07:03 PM |
| 1 | Why would a woman cheat on a guy she was obsessed with?Women seek the highest quality man she can get, and will branch swing if she finds better. Which she did. Women have one thing which doesn’t come naturally to men, which is abundance. With social media, night clubs, dating apps, women will continue thinking of their BF as their best option until he slips up. If he slips up enough, she will branch swing - it’s called hypergamy. | /r/askTRP | 12/07/20 06:43 PM |
| 3 | Why would a woman cheat on a guy she was obsessed with?I’m going to give it to you straight unlike other comments - you have no idea what you’re talking about. It’s like trying to explain space-time without reading a textbook. You lack red pill fundamentals, so all your conclusions are messy. Women are driven by emotions. These emotions are VERY different to what men feel. Men’s feelings are consistent - I like her today because of ‘xyz’, I’ll like her tomorrow because of ‘xyz’. A women’s emotions are fickle, change due to her hormones, and go up an… | /r/askTRP | 11/07/20 07:33 PM |
| 6 | She's Mad That I Don't Want MarriageAm I reading this right - you call your women your wife but you’re not actually husband and wife? | /r/askTRP | 11/07/20 07:02 PM |
| 3 | The "empathy" betaAlright I’ll bite. So obviously the man should STFU and hold frame. They are in a relationship and this is a comfort/shit test mixed in one. My question is, PRACTICALLY speaking, what should he (in the LTR) do? With plates I just exit if she keeps on crying about her day, I’m here to see her and not to solve her issues, it’s on her to be presentable to me. I’d tell her bitching is unattractive and it is what it is. I don’t think this is correct in an LTR? Those of you who LTR and are good at com… | /r/TheRedPill | 10/07/20 03:44 PM |
| 6 | Suicide note from alpha widow "streamer" who kills herself over AF\BB and liberal cultureLots of softies on the main sub. Truly the end of a great run. | /r/TheRedPill | 08/07/20 09:48 PM |
| 2 | Is it a good thing to look intimidating without glasses?Bro what | /r/askTRP | 08/07/20 09:39 PM |
| 2 | Slept with a girl and her pussy stankCommon sense has been lacking on this sub for a while now. | /r/askTRP | 08/07/20 09:38 PM |
| 5 | Is TRP too ruthless with breakups?No. You’re in trouble if you reconnect. Women get over breakups VERY quickly. Many men suicide over a women, the reverse not so much. Women need feelz, when she realises you’re gone she will look for alternatives. Do not be the guy who connects back with her, only for her to guilt you. Do not be the guy who after a few months, she trickle truths that she already met with a guy while you two broke up. You’re setting yourself up for disappointment going back. | /r/askTRP | 05/07/20 05:59 PM |
| 3 | Girlfriends ex is still trying to harass me 6 years after their break up. What do I do?Honestly, I hate these kind of posts, contrary to the comments. What do you mean what do you do? Your girlfriend is a grown ass adult - she knows how to call the cops, she knows how to block, she knows how to find a lawyer. She has family, friends, who can help alongside you. It’s not solely your fucking responsibility. Unless you’re in a backwater country, societies have laws to promote peace and order. She’s not fixing her shit, and pressuring you to solve her problems because she’s needy and … | /r/askTRP | 02/07/20 05:26 PM |
| 10 | Do you kiss girls after blowjob and after you came in her mouth?I tell girls to rinse her mouth, full gargle. I’m also a hypocrite, as I kiss women after going down on them. | /r/askTRP | 28/06/20 09:52 PM |
| 0 | Should I break up with LTR because of this?And people think TRP philosophy applies only to women. See OP - it apply to HUMANS. Cheating, wants moral high ground for ego, stringing them along, pussyfooting the breakup and now wants a 180’. Might as well go cry, make it seem like it’s her fault, and try for round 2. If TRP is about making better people, commenters have to be objective. If we come down on AWALT, we have to hold OP to these same standards. | /r/askTRP | 27/06/20 05:56 PM |
| 6 | Why do women expose a man's secrets?You’re seeing the problem from a masculine perspective. You think snitching, you think being not loyal, you think petty, you think untrustworthy. You have to see it from a feminine brain. She wants to preserve her image and ego. Women hate accountability. The worse they paint you, the better they look. ‘He’ made me breakup by abusing me. ‘Can’t believe I dated a guy who did xx’. ‘How can I be the perfect girlfriend that I know I am when he does xxx’. ‘He didn’t do enough, he was too busy xxx (wh… | /r/askTRP | 27/06/20 05:51 PM |
| 2 | How to game neighborhood mom?Stacey’s mom, has got it going on. Don’t shit where you eat. | /r/askTRP | 27/06/20 05:46 PM |
| 7 | No place to bang and gf against hotels and stuffThis must be a joke post. You’re trolling. It’s almost specifically targeted at TRP to get a reaction. You’re basically describing someone who rode the CC, is approaching the wall, and has pinned you as beta bucks. | /r/askTRP | 27/06/20 05:45 PM |
| 10 | Mental breakdown after failing an examThe only people I’ve seen bounce back after fucking up (academically or otherwise) are those who hit rock bottom. I’ve got a friend who failed HS exams, pretty badly. It was embarrassing to say the least. Everyone laughed, everyone felt happy knowing he would come behind them. He went to community college, retook exams, grinded while everyone paced themselves, and got into an Ivy League. The other people who didn’t do well in school, who said ‘it wasn’t so bad’ or ‘it’s just a one time thing’ us… | /r/askTRP | 27/06/20 05:35 PM |
| 1 | Kicked out of my friend group“I was never an asshole to these guys”. THAT is where you fucked up. In my experiences, I’ve found being nice to betas unironically gets me hated. I get less favors, less invitations, less benefits. Being an asshole from time to time works - they will respect, fear, and eventually introduce women to you. Often in a group, you’re either an alpha who is straightforward, or the beta simping to women. There’s no inbetween - you can’t game women while being the ‘good friend’. Mainstream society does … | /r/askTRP | 27/06/20 05:28 PM |
| 4 | Ltr just posted a bikini pic on ig, what should I do?“Not a fan of attention seeking shit” no fucking wonder she posted the pic on IG - she’s signalling her availability because you can’t even be straight with a bunch of strangers on Reddit. If it’s bullshit, immature, and embarrassing to you then say so. If you want to stop being a sensitive pussy, say so. Truth is you have zero clue on what you want. If you’re this passive aggressive towards online randoms, you must be a doormat in real life. | /r/askTRP | 26/06/20 10:57 PM |
| 3 | Thirst traps. Is this a shit test?Women will test a man’s boundary when in a LTR. Even if you draw a line clearly in the sand, if you slip up a few months later, she’ll forget about this boundary and attempt to cross it. They’re just not like men. Accountability and consistency just are not women characteristics. Which is why ‘she’s not yours, it’s just your turn’ exists. | /r/askTRP | 25/06/20 09:11 PM |
| 1 | I gave in to her demandsThat’s the point, they want followers but will never turn back to hang out or talk to them. It’s literally like how some people collect stamps for the sake of collecting stamps. Women create simps just for the heck of it, because they can. | /r/askTRP | 25/06/20 06:52 AM |
| 1 | I gave in to her demandsA lot of women I know do this on purpose. They get off knowing they have created a simp. They’re happy to have orbiters, and they are aware that their actions make more simps. I’ve had women joke to me about it casually. They always feel proud of it. It’s pretty hilarious, but classless. | /r/askTRP | 24/06/20 10:27 PM |
| 2 | Getting a Vasectomy in my Early 20'sSTDs are a government hoax anyway, amirite? /s | /r/askTRP | 24/06/20 10:21 PM |
| 2 | LTR in contact with her exesMy stomach turned reading this. It feels the worst when you can see what will happen, but it hasn’t happened yet. If you think ahead, people will say you’re overreacting/lack frame. If you don’t, you’ll end up slowly being tickle truth cucked. If you’re in a relationship, LDR or not, she should miss you instead of seeking closer, more convenient replacements. Whether it’s for validation, social interactions or sex, she should look for YOU. The fact that she’s doing everything opposite, even seek… | /r/askTRP | 24/06/20 06:45 AM |
| 1 | Me and 6girls in a house over the weekendYou have to post an update! I’ve got bets lined up on how his situation will turn out. We need answers! | /r/askTRP | 24/06/20 06:14 AM |
| 8 | How do you deal with women when most of the time they're pretentious cunts?Your mistake was treating women as equals. They’re literally large children, don’t expect conversation. They get distracted, horny and become emotional at random times. The girls in my life who consider me as a friend, I only consider them as an acquaintance. If they want to talk to me, I’m always polite but I’ll never go into it thinking she’s anything more than a pretty flower to look at. | /r/askTRP | 22/06/20 10:39 PM |
| 4 | I'm becoming increasingly bitter and i don't know how to stop itYou should go on Instagram, and follow some ‘influencers’. Absorb the simp comment section, and their validation seeking behavior. Watch their YouTube channels, and their streams with their guy friends. Observe how these guys laugh at her every move, make an effort to be ‘nice’, and are smiling so bright you’d think the sun is colliding with the Earth. My point is....You’re bitter because it’s legitimately fucking disgusting. So stop looking at it, focus on yourself, and do what YOU want. | /r/askTRP | 22/06/20 10:33 PM |
| 119 | LTR cheated with a guy who has a GF - let his GF know?Objectively it comes across as being petty - like you’re bitter that your ex and her bf hooked up. She may also hamster a reason to stay, even after knowing about it. Doesn’t do much for you or your reputation, besides being therapeutic. However, if I was in your shoes, I’d tell her. It’s better for my sanity. | /r/askTRP | 22/06/20 06:30 AM |
| 2 | Is a potential plate seeing me talk to other women at an event a boost of my smv in her eyes?I’ve had it go both ways. Once, after having a good conversation, I carried off and talked to others. She asked me out a few days later. Another time, same thing. She kept side-eyeing me. Eventually she became impatient and left with another guy. I feel it has to do with your SMV, and the girls confidence. Some girls just give up and say ‘fuck it’ to protect their ego from getting rejected. Dread is good, but when the chick very interested, any more and you’re cucking yourself. | /r/askTRP | 22/06/20 06:07 AM |
| -4 | my cousin is trying to ruin our family’s livesCalm your tits. People have inaccurate things said about them all the time. Grow some balls, thicker skin, and stand your ground. | /r/askTRP | 22/06/20 04:58 AM |
| 14 | When was TRP wrong?Anything modern and TRP behaves funky. If you look on those ‘what should I text her’ posts, the comments always come up with the worse messages. People type literal essays to demonstrate agreeing and amplifying, before adding a “;)” at the end. It’s a dated way of texting. | /r/askTRP | 21/06/20 09:33 PM |
| 0 | Are young "widows" unicorn-material?Buddy, how does the blue-pill rainbow taste? Tastes good doesn’t it? You did it you sly dog. You found a career oriented women who is respected, loyal and not hypergamous. Imagine how she would treat you, the superior man without a patchy beard. I wouldn’t even bother plating, jump straight into a serious relationship, because good girls like her will never accept being plates. These ‘RedPill’ assholes may ask questions like ‘how can you verify she isn’t full of shit?’ These guys don’t understan… | /r/askTRP | 21/06/20 08:51 PM |
| 5 | Looking like 30 at 24, how does it affect sex appeal?Sex appeal is affected by SMV. You’re either attractive, or not, which is subjective and depends on the girl. Age alone will never be the barrier which makes it so you can’t get laid. It’s a combination of factors. Age on its own doesn’t matter. | /r/askTRP | 21/06/20 08:20 PM |
| 2 | I lost my gf by being a asshole and following incel adviceYou lost her by being emotional, not because you’re an asshole. Assholes don’t go begging girls back. Calling her names without reason shows weak emotional control. Remember guys are meant to be stoic, and hold frame. Being an asshole in my experiences is 100% a viable strategy. Suppose you have an LTR who wants to go on a girl’s night out. You saying ‘I don’t date thots’, an asshole statement, is a million times better than ‘I don’t want you to go but if you must then have fun sweetie’, a nice … | /r/askTRP | 21/06/20 08:04 PM |
| 2 | Why is it that girls are better looking in richer areas?Same way a guys SMV skyrockets by owning a well-fitted shirt, a women’s SMV is higher when she can afford nice clothes, makeup, dental, hair, etc. | /r/askTRP | 21/06/20 07:58 PM |
| 0 | Ex texted me that she's fucking other guysScreenshot and share with friends on the DL. If she’s willing to text you with an alt, who knows what type of gossip she is spreading about you as a person. | /r/askTRP | 21/06/20 07:56 PM |
| 3 | How to deal with (potential) cheatingI’d define an asshole as someone who treats others as dirt. A man who fucks another man’s women (even if she’s a hoe, and the relationship was doomed) will be considered an asshole. Whether or not you give a shit about a label is up to you. Doing it isn’t going to make you the biggest asshole ever, but it’s absurd to say cucking someone isn’t an ‘asshole’ move. It’s justifiable, so it’s a moral issue. Probably only immature people will think otherwise: “dude I fucked his girl lol!!!”. | /r/askTRP | 20/06/20 08:49 PM |
| 5 | My girlfriend asked me if she should stop being friends with her male buddy. What do I do?You should develop the honesty to tell random strangers how you feel. If you don’t like it, ask for advice on how to get her to stop. If you don’t want to care, ask for advice on how to give less shits. Surprised people here have any idea what you want. If you’re asking us a general a ‘what would you do’ you’ll get unspecific answers. Someone who plates may see this as no big deal, someone else may see this as a pain in the ass, and consider nexting. | /r/askTRP | 20/06/20 08:34 PM |
| 4 | Girl I’ve been seeing for a while says “we need to talk, it’s important”If a girl likes you, she wouldn’t need time to think about exclusivity. Women will bring it up first. Most women love being on the phone - if she isn’t blowing up your phone she isn’t interested enough to even think about dating, much less a relationship. Be prepared the ‘talk’ is most likely to tell you she doesn’t see a future for you two, but would like to stay friends to see how it goes down the line. AKA - you are welcome to be my orbiter, like my insta, and validate me as I have better opt… | /r/askTRP | 20/06/20 08:23 PM |
| 1 | Do you think this is good reason to hard next Fiancee?Why do people even post these, surely it’s a troll. You literally spelt it out how she’s treating you worse than dirt. And you brush it off with ‘I let it slide’. The fuck is your logic at. You should probably go back to school/stay in school, cus girl problems are not the issue, your brain capacity is low. Stay off drugs. | /r/askTRP | 20/06/20 08:13 PM |
| 3 | Still getting mini heart attacks on the way to some pussy?That’s amateur. I used to get nervous shits before getting pussy. Even on an empty stomach. One day it just randomly disappeared, and it still hasn’t came back. I wouldn’t worry. You’re body will eventually adapt and no longer view pussy/sex as a big deal. | /r/askTRP | 19/06/20 09:13 PM |
| 3 | How do I calm myself down in heated momentsThe only answer is to be more of a man. What do we mean by a ‘man’ here on TRP? Stoic, leader, rational, purposeful etc. How does getting upset accomplish any of the above? You’re not ‘heated’ because of what he/she said. You’re heated because you can’t become a MAN, one who does not get insulted and a man that insults do not affect. When you are heated, direct the anger at your goals, not towards bitching. Here’s an example: Me: (spills my drink on the floor) Him: ‘What a mess’ Me: ‘Yeah, right… | /r/askTRP | 19/06/20 09:08 PM |
| 11 | How to treat a pregnant LTR?Not a father, just know it’s a fact that pregnancy causes mood swings and hormonal imbalances. Which means her behavior will be outside your control now more than ever. What makes a women happy is still a man (stoic, lets her be a free girl, etc). However there eventually will be a 7.5 pound living organism kicking, turning, eating inside her. Don’t be a doormat, but be understanding cause pregnancy is physically and mentally terrifying. | /r/askTRP | 18/06/20 10:23 PM |
| 32 | When I caught my ex cheating on me she said "I told him I had a boyfriend cause I didn't want anything to happen" why did this dumb bitch think that that'd magically resolve thingsLife is hard for modern strong, independent, women, y’know? Misogynistic pigs just keep walking up to princesses and abusing them. She needs your comfort and not for you to turn your back on her. You have to do whatever makes her happy when she feels sad. Go do it king. /s | /r/askTRP | 18/06/20 10:07 PM |
| 1 | how to go about this shit test(?) with girlfriend..She’s clearly in charge. She’s checking on if her puppy (you) has his feelings hurt by something she unintentionally did. It’s not a shit test, it’s reality - her frame is stronger, her commitment to you is less than yours to her, and a breakup will benefit her more than you. | /r/askTRP | 15/06/20 08:00 PM |
| 1 | Should I force myself to lower my standards to go on dates and practice game on uglier girls?That’s a lot of hamstering to massage your ego. When was the last time you got laid again? Walk the talk. Honestly if you’re this much of a manlet in person you should practice on the 2s and 3s at the local mental hospital instead. | /r/askTRP | 15/06/20 07:56 PM |
| 4 | Mid 20s. Don't give a shit about muchI did the same. I thought my SMV would plummet due to having a singular focus on making money. Turns out it increased. Life sucks. It rewards selfish behaviour. The more you enhance yourself, the more you get out of life. The Red Pill applies here - be supplicating? Never laid. Be selfish, and focus on yourself? SMV raise. Friends miss you more, people look up to you, friendzoned girls no longer friendzone you, acquaintances are nicer to you (perhaps out of fear or intimidation), etc. | /r/askTRP | 14/06/20 07:34 PM |
| 4 | LTR starting to hit the wall, should I bail?You’re welcome. | /r/askTRP | 13/06/20 07:31 PM |
| 2 | LTR starting to hit the wall, should I bail?If you think no marriage equals no chance of payment you’re a fuckwit. Or living in some third world shithole. Common law you fool, if the parties actions support the conclusion that an implied contract for an alimony existed, it is enforceable. Or that will be what she argues for. You have to then hire a badass lawyer to prove otherwise and pay for their time. | /r/askTRP | 13/06/20 07:28 PM |
| 2 | My take on moderate n-count girl (13)Don’t fucking do it. Been there, done that (although I never considered marriage). Dating a slut leads nowhere. Can’t teach an old dog new tricks. You’re only thinking like a lunatic because the sex is good. She’s plate material at best. | /r/askTRP | 13/06/20 07:20 PM |
| 2 | How to tell a girl you are married AFTER not telling her at first?If your wife finds out, she’s going to be seeking compensation, aka half of everything you own. If you piss off your potential plate, she’ll threaten to go public with your affair. Either way, your balls will be firmly in their hands. If you are fine/rather learn through experiences, I’d fuck her before I tell her. It’s your personal business, no point volunteering information. | /r/askTRP | 13/06/20 07:12 PM |
| 1 | Girl says I ain’t easyGhosting is optimal. Not because ‘bitch ain’t worth my time, I’m the prize’ as that is your ego talking. The best, easiest way to get women is if she has interest in you. There’s so many women in the world, there’s bound to be many who are naturally interested in you. Find those, and ghost the ones who are feeling so-so. As an analogy, you’ll have more fun driving your Ferrari on a freeway than on a bumpy, rocky, poorly maintained road. Also, don’t assume ‘hot girls are less interested than aver… | /r/askTRP | 13/06/20 07:06 PM |
| 2 | LTR starting to hit the wall, should I bail?TRP is amoral. Just realise the longer you stay, the bigger the alimony will be. You have an entire life of wealth accumulation - half of what you have is pennies compared to half of what you have at 50. Common law will find a way to screw you. If you feel you haven’t hit your peak, but she has, then she’s only going to siphon more and more of your resources. The best time to plant a tree is 10 years ago, the best time to split is earlier rather than late. Cheating is a best of both worlds solut… | /r/askTRP | 13/06/20 06:54 PM |
| 2 | Your thoughts on Linkedin?Unsure why the downvotes. If you ever worked in anywhere corporate, licking boots works. Honestly if you’re not licking, you better at least comment that their boots look nice. | /r/askTRP | 12/06/20 10:02 PM |
| 13 | Why do women hate it when you're playing video games or watching sports?Untrue, it’s SMV. Taking an extreme example, NBA players play COD, 2K, and only watch sports yet they access to premium pussy. Jocks in schools are the same. The loser-gamer-sports junkie only applies if you look like that stereotype. If your SMV is low, you could be curing covid and women will call you an useless geek. If you’re SMV is high, women will hamster and join in on the gaming and wear your favorite teams’ gear. | /r/askTRP | 12/06/20 09:48 PM |
| 3 | When a girl has more social media then you and you've been a kind of loner in the pastFor someone who is off social media, you probably care more about it than everyone who uses it. I’ve never met someone wet his pants so quickly at the thought of social media. Do you always put everything on a pedestal? | /r/askTRP | 11/06/20 05:14 PM |
| 3 | Weird ass womanNah man. Not everything has to lead to sex. Do what you want, outcome independence. However in my experiences, women can get offended if you do not escalate if you meet them on a dating/socialising site. Maybe it’s because they catch feels easily. I personally only enjoy talking interests with guys - less chance of an emotional fallout. | /r/askTRP | 11/06/20 05:10 PM |
| 11 | What are your must follow rules for LTR ?This is super specific, but theres a lot of truth in this comment. While you will never find a unicorn, filtering out the garbage at least leaves you with a workable person and a decent foundation. Also remember good LTR’s don’t exist naturally. You as the man must shape, lead and create a high quality LTR through your actions. TRP on hardmode. And even then, no matter what you do or how well you screen, things can go poorly and you must be prepared to walk if it happens. | /r/askTRP | 11/06/20 05:05 PM |
| 4 | Weird ass womanYoung padawan, you have much to learn. Use your brain instead of your emotions. You met her on r4r, a dating sub. You and her are both there to meet other people. You talked, had fun, but didn’t escalate. Your turn is over. Guess what she’s doing the next day? Exchanging contacts with the next person on her r4r list. She’s visibly uninterested because she has another dude lined up. It’s hypergamy. You confronted her on it (why can’t we play). She gave you a bullshit reason to make it seem like S… | /r/askTRP | 11/06/20 04:57 PM |
| 6 | bitch went into my office and found my calendar when i was in the showerThis is some boomer shit - a physical calendar. Jokes aside, expect to get attitude from her. If you didn’t make it clear you were seeing others, she will take it some sort of way. Women want commitment, multiple women competing for your singular commitment makes her life harder. Just look at her actions. If she’s being a baby but still physically sticking around/showing interest in you, all is well. Pass the shit tests, never apologize, and she WILL hamster a reason to stay. | /r/askTRP | 11/06/20 04:49 PM |
| 1 | Can't get rid of blue pill fantasiesYou’re probably smart enough to know the blue pill does not exist. Just look around the world, on this sub, on your own experiences, on your friends experiences. Blue pill feels nice, it’s like a drug. And when your blue pill bubble bursts, you’ll be hurt and be back here. If you’re smart enough to break through this cycle, embrace the red pill. If not, just go through life enjoying the ups and downs. Just know you WILL get burned eventually, despite how nice it feels now. | /r/askTRP | 10/06/20 10:33 PM |
| 13 | Girl says you have to earn itOP: How did you get that degree. Girl: you have to earn it. OP: (damn she shit testing me??) Read the sidebar. | /r/askTRP | 10/06/20 10:27 PM |
| -1 | Young father, torn as to what to do...If you’re not married/dating, sooner or later one of her friends will convince her to cheat on you, and she will bring a man into your daughters life. Have you considered fighting for sole custody? You’ll be the sole male influence on your girls life, and you can have fun. | /r/askTRP | 10/06/20 10:25 PM |
| 1 | Does any of you guys feel pressured to get married at 30yo to make your parents happy? My mother means a lot to me, she is 62yo and i know it'll make her happy to see my kids before she dies. I'm 27, i just don't wanna have kids at 30yo, and specially not get married at that age, i wanna enjoy it.I personally think all parents will be happy to welcome grandchildren. Plus, if they’re retired, it’s more time to spend with the grandkids. Being around youth makes old people feel more alive and youthful. That being said, you don’t always get what you want. You want something, your mother wants something. Only one of you will get their way here, so make a choice and live with the consequences. | /r/askTRP | 10/06/20 10:21 PM |
| 15 | If your LTR is going out with a genuine male friend alone, is it a Red flag yes or no?You’re a man, use your rational and logical brain. When a boy and girl goes somewhere alone, its called a date. Quit hamstering that it isn’t. Maybe you like her a lot, and don’t want to ruin your image of her. Or you have a fragile ego, and you don’t want to face the fact that you’re girl is going out with another. A date is a date call it what it is. Is it the end of the world? Does this mean they’re fucking in the car, like always? No, but it doesn’t matter. If it makes you feel uncomfortable… | /r/askTRP | 10/06/20 10:16 PM |
| 2 | Do women really enjoy being single mother?No. Anything to prevent themselves from facing that fact that their best years are behind them, and the wall is approaching/has arrived. Being a single parent is tough. It’s sacrifice, work, and effort. If she has time posting photos for validation, she will not have the discipline to responsibly raise and provide for children on her own. | /r/askTRP | 10/06/20 10:08 PM |
| 2 | Chick cancels date cuz of no communicationWe didn’t talk is girl for ‘I’m offended you didn’t orbit me’. Women have the most fragile ego so they would never face the fact that you rejected being her orbiter. Also, you cannot negotiate desire. She moved on, so should you. | /r/askTRP | 10/06/20 10:03 PM |
| 2 | Lost frame to a kidNo big deal. All my teachers growing up lost their shit to kids. Yelling, screaming, crying, borderline physical, etc. Kids can get under anyone’s skin. The problem is that almost always there are consequences. Parents complain, kids complain, teachers lose their shot at a promotion/get fired. | /r/askTRP | 10/06/20 10:00 PM |
| 1 | Just got a knife pulled on meIn broad daylight? No surveillance cameras to capture it? Nobody nearby? | /r/askTRP | 10/06/20 09:57 PM |
| 3 | Dealing with 'Woke' chicks in this day and age..all just a massive shit test?When a man says he is passionate about something, he will dedicate his life towards it. He will worship it, and truly live it. When a women says she is passionate, she means she is passionate “right now”. It’s how she is feeling “currently”. You don’t have to be intimidated by woke chicks and their convictions - they are capable of feeling/acting differently the next day. It’s like a kid saying a certain type of food/music is the greatest thing ever. It’s cute, and harmless. If the kids being to… | /r/askTRP | 08/06/20 10:05 PM |
| 4 | LTR found a picture of another girl I saved on my phoneNo big deal, move on. However, be prepared that down the line, she’ll remember this moment and may use it against you. ‘You did this so I can do this too’. | /r/askTRP | 08/06/20 09:56 PM |
| 2 | Have you ever taken a girl’s virginity and it be HER to be the one to lose interest in you?Depends what ‘for a while means’. If it’s been a few weeks, it’s likely she was looking to lose it to whoever, and you just came along. Now that her goal of losing it is complete, on to the next. There are now more things on her to-do list (ONS, drunk sex, cock carousel, different ethnicities, etc). If it’s been years of dating and she chooses you, those are the situations where the girl rarely loses interest and in fact gains interest. | /r/askTRP | 08/06/20 09:53 PM |
| 2 | Girl I've been dating suddenly goes supercold out of the blue.I never understand these stories. So she goes to party while you sit your ass at home waiting for her to come back? Plus, taking the time to read her party texts and trying to attempt a conversation the day after is pathetic. Do you not realize how low value and available it makes you look? It’s not out of the blue, it’s that you fell back into the blue pill after being comfortable in the relationship. | /r/askTRP | 08/06/20 09:48 PM |
| 13 | Girl tells me only charming guys get to sleep with meIt’s always a losing battle when you type a long message and she replies a short stupid one. You’ve shown yourself as having more interest, and she showed she isn’t as interested as you. | /r/askTRP | 08/06/20 09:38 PM |
| 7 | When a girl laughs at you behind your backI’m going to give it to you straight. Girls (and many guys too) do this. It’s called ball busting. They humiliate you and pick on you. They do this because they do not respect you, much less consider having sex with you. This usually happens when your low ‘status’ in the group is clearly established, and they know there would be no consequences for busting your balls. In fact, they expect other people to join in, because everyone in the group sees you as weak. You must distance yourself from thi… | /r/askTRP | 08/06/20 09:36 PM |
| 25 | When Men become MonkeysSex is a game of numbers. If it’s four girls and however many dudes, it’s in her favor. You shot your shot, nobody accepted. No point in wasting more time, I’d leave too. | /r/askTRP | 08/06/20 09:28 PM |
| 1 | How can one go forward with checking an LTR’s phone?If it’s shit all women say, how many are saying to you now? It’s over dude. | /r/askTRP | 07/06/20 06:12 PM |
| 2 | How can one go forward with checking an LTR’s phone?Fuck ‘somewhat true’, this is 100000% true. Trust your damn gut people. | /r/askTRP | 07/06/20 06:09 PM |
| 1 | How to CuckNever met a girl who took nudes only for one person. It’s always stored and used/reused for the future. And I’ve met a ton of women. | /r/askTRP | 07/06/20 06:05 PM |
| 1 | Is it destructive behavior if I look for sex immediately after breaking up with LTR of 2 years?You HAVE to have sex to get over an ex. Otherwise your mind will never leave her. | /r/askTRP | 07/06/20 06:02 PM |
| 8 | Stay with “unicorn” LTR or cut freeI’ve literally had a ‘more unicorn girl’ than you as a LTR before dumping her. N-count of zero, NEVER argued, submissive, rich, athletic, top 1% earner, literally helped me get fit/enter my dream profession. I knew she matched me, yet I dumped her because my friends liked to party, and I wanted to party/hookup. Grass is greener, etc. I have since dated and plated many more women. How do I feel now? Honestly, I regret it. I’ve sampled enough women to know she was best for me. It’s been years and … | /r/askTRP | 07/06/20 06:01 PM |
| 0 | Serious discussion: Do rioters give girls tingles?Women are emotional creatures. They flock to drama. Plus, a cause in which they are fighting against oppression? ALL women can relate to that. I honestly feel all women are capable of seeing themselves as victims in ANY situation. Right now, protests are dramatic. Drama leads to feelz. Feelz leads to tingles. If she’s tingling, she’s more willing to fuck. It’s less about rioters being sexy, rather the atmosphere giving them the roller coaster of tingles. | /r/askTRP | 07/06/20 05:39 PM |
| 3 | Why do most single boomers failIf you’re old and single by choice, you will always have options. Women will look to you as beta bux. Or an alpha if you’re a bachelor-type (fit with qualifications). If you’re old and single not by choice, then it’ll be tough because your competition is either alpha fucks, or beta bucks. If you’re neither (ex: declining fitness and poor), you’re in trouble. | /r/askTRP | 07/06/20 05:30 PM |
| 1 | Bulking = acneSame experiences here. I got it when I took whey protein, it’ll appear on my chest, face or back. I always shower with soap, and my clothes are always washed/clean. When l stopped taking it, it cleared up (or maybe I just grew older). | /r/askTRP | 07/06/20 05:24 PM |
| 1 | Why do most single boomers failThey are leftovers. Nobody want them anymore. There was a time where they had options - they didn’t go for it. The ship has sailed. | /r/askTRP | 07/06/20 05:20 PM |
| 6 | Actual conversations with "abuse" victims.Holy shit. Your examples almost sound exactly like OP, however in your case it went the opposite result. That’s bullshit. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 04/06/20 09:39 PM |
| 1 | How to deal with LTRs male friend ?Underrated comment. Revenge fucks to ‘get back at the boyfriend’ happens. I actually see it a lot, and have been the recipient to it a few times. Keep an dude nearby long enough and he will slide in when you drop your guard. You have to establish early that you’re not threatened by him, that he’s a #2 to your #1, and literally DHV to make it a no brainer for your girl to select you over him. You don’t even have to AMOG (although you can), simply crush his frame a couple of times in front of her … | /r/askTRP | 02/06/20 09:15 PM |
| 39 | LTR of 10 months took off to suck some other dickAlways trust your gut. I would ‘trust, but verify’ while internalising that she may not tell you everything, with the intent to trickle truth it down the line. In terms of the breakup, my advice probably differs from a lot of people here. I had a breakup with a very sweet girl in my BP days, and it didn’t hurt because I was so busy with friends and partying that it never really hit me. I had another breakup at a time where I was more focused on myself and goals, and it hurt a lot more because do… | /r/askTRP | 02/06/20 09:08 PM |
| 1 | Meth head - yay or nay?I would marry her. She’s the one friend, the unicorn TRP never found. I mean, a meth head? That’s the epitome of femininity. | /r/askTRP | 01/06/20 09:41 PM |
| 1 | Best Way to Handle Music Festival?My first music festival, everyone was drinking/drink during the shows. Literally the easiest, most free girls. You don’t need charm, game, or even RP knowledge. They’re all horny and there for fun. | /r/askTRP | 01/06/20 09:38 PM |
| 1 | Do you basically have to be a 9 or a 10 male to fuck IG/TikTok thots?I don’t think I’ve ever gotten a date by directly approaching a 9/10 through social media. I have fucked 9/10s who I discover after have a huge social media presence. What worked for me was meeting them offline, and running game. If it’s online, it’s you along with celebrities, athletes, and obscenely rich men all sliding in the DMs. If its offline, it’s literally you and her. The girls I banged who had large socials were so insecure and needy of validation that when they’re away from their phon… | /r/askTRP | 01/06/20 09:33 PM |
| 2 | Tank topsI wear them, especially when it’s hot out. Tank tops and short shorts. Girls wear booty shorts year-round, no shame in wearing it during the hottest season of the year. Nobody would bat an eye if you wear it. Unless the area you’re going to has a dress code, where whatever you want. Plenty of out of shape men wear sleeveless NBA jerseys and nobody bats an eye. No need to be self-conscious. | /r/askTRP | 01/06/20 09:26 PM |
| 1 | How do you deal with relatives telling your girlfriend to ignore you on things, like if you were abusing her?OP doesn’t owe an explanation to anyone. It’s his life, and they are snooping into his lifestyle. These people are not looking for a discussion - they want OP to do what they say. Seeing as OP doesn’t want to do what they want (be a beta), further discussion is meaningless. Treat it like a shit-test and move on. | /r/askTRP | 01/06/20 09:21 PM |
| 3 | How to deal with annoying beta coworkers?From my experience, you gotta shit on betas to make then stfu. Although it may be weird being the asshole, you have to be. Most normal people are calibrated/not emotionally retarded so you can have a normal conversation. The type of people you described lack self-awareness, so stand up for yourself. Join in on the jokes. | /r/askTRP | 01/06/20 09:14 PM |
| 1 | Blindsided by LTR, what's going on?In a weird way, she has a point. Remember women are like WiFi - they seek the strongest, nearby, connection and attach themselves to it. Had she been living under your roof, her opportunities to wander will be slim, as she will be attached to you. There is no Chad in the world who can maintain attraction with a 3/10 if she is nowhere close for an extended period of time, AND if she has options nearby (girl night outs, Tinder, ‘what happen here stays here’ mentality, etc). ‘There’s a million cock… | /r/askTRP | 28/05/20 08:02 PM |
| 3 | Am I a douche for showing my buddies nudes of a girl that I smashed?Well now you’ve done it. To correct the wrong, you have to show the rest of us on this sub. | /r/askTRP | 28/05/20 06:58 AM |
| 2 | I'm 42, had sex with a 20 yr old Sat, now ghostedYou think someone who sends nudes to a man (twenty+ years her senior) she only recently met is the type to think sex is precious? You’re a bigger hamster than OP was the day after he banged her. | /r/askTRP | 26/05/20 06:29 PM |
| 3 | My false rape accusation- an interesting battle for over 1 yearIts always the uglier girls who cry rape. I’ve very rarely known/seen any girl in my social circle who were attractive act like this. Personally feel the uglier the girl, the more insane her hormones. Also ‘cute’ is just an alternative to saying she looks like an average, feminine person. So an average, chubby, girl with cut marks. Just avoid low SMV women, especially if they are easy. | /r/askTRP | 26/05/20 06:02 PM |
| 4 | Girl from work asked me out?Wow. So it’s the office politics and gossip which can spiral out of control. I can see that happening...water cooler talk and picking on you. Probably sucks to work there and being thought of as ‘that guy’. So she felt the heat and may have thrown you under the bus, to keep her job/reputation. | /r/askTRP | 25/05/20 04:10 AM |
| 1 | Girl from work asked me out?Wait. That was not the outcome I expected. So you didn’t lay with her, and still had to deal with her games? Did it eventually get better? On the other hand, I can equally see a scenario where if you went full beta, she may see you as beta-bux and continue chasing you. | /r/askTRP | 24/05/20 07:06 PM |
| 2 | Girl from work asked me out?Gonna need details, would help. How did she make your work life bad, and how did you overcome it? | /r/askTRP | 24/05/20 06:57 PM |
| 2 | How long did it take you to get/master discipline?Read that 10000 hours is around how much time it takes to ‘get good’ at something. Not sure if anyone ever reaches or masters anything in life. | /r/askTRP | 23/05/20 06:05 PM |
| 1 | Promoting an alpha widow (slight oneitis)Gaslighting, lack of honesty, emotionally unstable, trickle truths, bad influences, etc. Didn’t come out until a few months in. It’s also...different trying to form a connection with someone who had tasted a village’s worth of cock. If you’re the stubborn type who learns through experiences then date her and learn by making mistakes. It’s simply an LTR, it’s not a lifelong commitment. If the pros outweigh the cons go for it. Once you’re in the LTR, leave if the cons outweigh the pros. That’s wha… | /r/askTRP | 23/05/20 06:03 PM |
| 3 | How do you bang a chick in HER house?The reverse is also true. When a women takes initiate and invites you over to her place, it’s the easiest lay ever. Whenever a women doesn’t give a shit about plausible deniability and just invites you, do it. I literally once went up to a girls home, gave her a hug, sat on her bed, and we had sex within minutes. | /r/askTRP | 23/05/20 05:42 PM |
| 3 | Promoting an alpha widow (slight oneitis)This is looking to be a great train wreck. I’ve also promoted a girl with red flags in the past and honestly, don’t do it. I promoted her because I thought similar to you - what’s in the past is in the past. She was super submissive, treated me well, the whole nine yards. Once I got to know her, I realised a lot of what she did, she did it intentionally. Almost manipulatively- she knew all the tricks to make me happy. Over time she will slip up, and you will realize why she was an single in the … | /r/askTRP | 23/05/20 05:35 PM |
| 1 | People who used to have luscious locks that have since gone bald, how has it affected your interactions with women?If you look at the Rock when he was younger with hair, it’s objectively more attractive than him today without hair. I can guarantee that if he could grow out a fro, he definitely would, and he would get a bump in SMV. He also wouldn’t be type-casted as often in the action hero role. The TRP philosophy is that once you reach a certain SMV (ex: lift, good outfits, job, frame, charm, etc) any increase in SMV due to ‘having hair’ becomes negligible. Using the Rock example, he clearly has no issues … | /r/askTRP | 23/05/20 05:18 PM |
| 2 | People who used to have luscious locks that have since gone bald, how has it affected your interactions with women?Neat reply but did you smash? | /r/askTRP | 23/05/20 05:04 PM |
| 0 | Downloaded TikTok to see what the hype was about. I'm stunned by the content on this app, what the hell is going on with Gen Z?How’s it going boomer? In all seriousness, this is how it always was. TikTok users come from all around the world, across cultures and wealth. If you go back fifty, hundred years, there were (possibly still are) young girls doing all kinds of things for money, attention, or drugs in a poor neighborhoods. Skanks exists from every time period - you just were fortunate enough to grow up having not seen it with your own eyes. Your standards for strangers are too high. You should care as much for a t… | /r/askTRP | 17/05/20 06:25 PM |
| 6 | Is quarantine increasing the female hypergamy?Hypergamy is constant. What you’re describing is making you feel a certain way when it really shouldn’t. When you walk in a club and see a hordes of girls twerking, you don’t think ‘damn, women are increasing in hypergamy’. You laugh and move on. You’re putting women on a pedestal by believing in their social media image, instead of internalising that all women are capable of hypergamy. A ‘good girl’ who always uploads photos with her dog on IG isn’t automatically an angel incapable of uploading… | /r/askTRP | 15/05/20 10:23 PM |
| 6 | Prostitutes dont help me forget my exIf this isn’t copypasta, it has the potential to become legendary copypasta. Best post I’ve seen here in a long time. | /r/askTRP | 15/05/20 06:58 AM |
| 1 | Is there any telegram group chat where people can discuss about the topics we can find on trp?Is there actually? I thought mods didn’t want it and made another website. Have the link? | /r/askTRP | 11/05/20 05:52 PM |
| 3 | Why Do I Keep Fantasizing About Impregnating A GirlYou need post-nut clarity. When you’re horny, things get out of control. Gets worse when mixed with alcohol, or other substances. I’d recommended fapping before meeting a girl if you’ve been dry a long time. Or just fuck more. Also, it’s a hot fantasy. I got that feeling a lot when I was with this hot young plate, who clearly isn’t looking for a baby. It’s naughty and risky. I solved it when I met another girl who straight up wanted a baby, saying she’d deliver my son, and talked about how I’d b… | /r/askTRP | 11/05/20 06:41 AM |
| 1 | How do you guys get over being cheated on or played?I really resonate with this comment. Number one and number two applies directly with a person I'm dealing with. I've always felt dealing that girl who isn't introspective was tiresome - always two step forwards and one step back. I feel drained dealing with this person, despite all the other genuinely good qualities in her. The fact that you, having went through it, will not want to go through it again makes me feel I have to make the difficult short term decision, for my long term sanity. | /r/askTRP | 09/05/20 08:48 PM |
| 2 | Girl I‘ve been seeing starting to post selfies on her snapchat storyThis is the only accurate, straight to the point answer. Quit hamstering. It’s simple and plain as day - she’s exploring options. | /r/askTRP | 09/05/20 06:06 PM |
| 6 | Ltr losing attraction and I'm losing confidence and becoming more beta.It’s one thing to be honest, critical, and self-reflective. It’s another when you’re keeping at it. It’s not your job to be an alpha 24/7 AND be on eggshells that every time you drop frame, you feel you fucked everything up. You have to trust in what got you here, and improve organically instead of stressing out every mistake. She’s just a girl, who in 10 years will look considerably less attractive than the younger college hottie. I feel you’re putting her on a pedestal. Covid and distancing su… | /r/askTRP | 09/05/20 06:03 PM |
| 0 | LTR not making moves to see meCovid is ruining so many relationships. I’ve seen tons of ‘recently single’ chicks off tinder, and even in my social circle breakups are happening quick as hell. The saying that women are like WiFi signals couldn’t be more true - they latch on to the closest, strongest signal. If you’re not around, she will want to connect to another signal. It’s why tons of women in the past cheat on men when they go overseas as part of the army. LTR is truly TRP on hard mode, especially now. You have to create… | /r/askTRP | 09/05/20 05:54 PM |
| 18 | Just got dumped minutes ago by LTR. How to respond?I’ve never seen a girl dump a man without having a backup plan in place. It’s called branch swinging for a reason. Either she is already seeing someone else, or has gone wild with her girl friends and want to do it again without the burden of a relationship. Regardless women here face a choice - either trickle truth the real reason she’s leaving, or distort reality making the man feel like HE is at fault. Forget about her - this includes replying to her, talking to her, or thinking about her. Th… | /r/askTRP | 09/05/20 05:48 PM |
| -2 | Where to fuck women if you don't have your own crib?How about just jacking off and hitting the books? You don’t realize how important your final years in high-school is in setting up your LIFE for success. The system is rigged - a lot of doors get closed if you’re not from a good college. Similarly getting into a good college will have recruiters of high paying jobs slobbering over you. It’s pretty smooth cruising if you get in, so make it a priority to get in. Spending free time on things which benefit you in the long term is infinitely better t… | /r/askTRP | 08/05/20 06:27 PM |
| 6 | Girl gets mad for nothingMaybe she’s dumb (compared to you). Having a smart friend boosts her SMV, similar to how having orbiters, or being with an alpha boosts her SMV. If she gets better grades, it also boosts her SMV (hot girl with a brain). To me it sounds like she’s not that interested in you, and more so sees you as a stepping stone to get to where she wants to be. If she wanted you, she would think ‘did I blow it by annoying him, or did I ask too much, or does he think I’m dumb’. Women get insecure with men they … | /r/askTRP | 08/05/20 06:10 PM |
| 1 | Should I finish this long distance relationship? Girlfriend slept with married man before meeting meEvery girl I’ve ever met who sent me nudes/videos has either also sent it to someone else before, or is planning to send to someone else. Never met a ‘take and delete’ girl. She is a rule breaker, needy, and sexual. What happens when she’s feeling needy, your unavailable for whatever reason, and all her sexual energy is just festering? There’s a million cocks between the two of you. On the other hand there’s a million pussies between you two. If there was a 9 in your city without the married man… | /r/askTRP | 08/05/20 06:02 PM |
| 16 | Girl gets mad for nothingIt could be that she’s making an invitation, but I’m in the minority that feel she’s using you and trying to get an orbiter. If her intention is to get your attention sexually, she would be pissed off by you talking about work and not taking a hint. The fact that she ONLY talks to you about work and wants you to reply about work means, IMO, her intention was to use your brain not your body. College homework can be hard, and is deadline oriented, so it explains why she’s pissed you’re not replyin… | /r/askTRP | 08/05/20 05:53 PM |
| 2 | I think I might have just accidentally swallowed the wrong pill.What a fucking burn. With how PC the world is, I haven’t heard a burn like this in a while. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 07/05/20 09:17 PM |
| 1 | Girl on dating app says she’s looking for friends onlyIt may or may not be a shit test. It’s just as likely she’s overtly telling you that as things stand, you have 0 chance to smash. If you wish to continue, you will be seen as a friend. You can not negotiate desire. If she said all that but is still inviting you out, it’s a shit test - say ‘alright’ and escalate. If she said it and is keeping you at distance, she’s politely telling you to manage your expectations. | /r/askTRP | 02/05/20 07:45 PM |
| 2 | I don’t want to hang or or be excessively cool with any girl I’m not fucking. AITA for this? What is this called that I’m experiencing?That’s actually a great compromise - spend a little time and leave early. I’ve been getting very tunnel vision on my work and developing skills, that my social circle has noticeably shrunk. In my head, I’m thinking ‘I could be reading or catching up on rest, instead of spending my hours and hours talking for no purpose’. | /r/askTRP | 02/05/20 07:34 PM |
| 5 | Ltr has got me wondering if I should Break up with her or not.Who’s really hamstering here? For context, I’ve seen more breakups in a short period of time (due to covid) than I’ve seen ever. Met a ton of ‘just broke up’ girls off dating apps. Girls everywhere are eyeing other options. Seems she has mentally checked out of the relationship. Breakup is inevitable. Good news is there are tons of newly single ladies for you to meet, without the attitude. | /r/askTRP | 02/05/20 07:25 PM |
| 6 | Is this disrespectful?Probably stoned and gave you the honest answer. If you confront, she’ll say it’s a joke. Few months later she’ll trickle truth to you and say she made a mistake. Whether or not you think it’s a deal breaker depends on your values. For example: whether you enjoy cuckoldry, being a doormat, or have no respect for yourself are important questions you have to answer. | /r/askTRP | 02/05/20 07:20 PM |
| 2 | How do you win arguments with a LTR over miscommunication?Here’s some practical advice that relates to our generation...don’t be sarcastic or joke over text/phone call/video calls. Assuming your a young-ish guy, girls are used to an unrealistic amount of kindness through text. The winning strategy is to be aloof, and not take convos beyond the surface level over text. I’ve literally had an ‘argument’ over a plate for sounding ‘mean’ over text. All I did was type in proper English and capitalised my letters. You’re asking too much of girls to understand… | /r/askTRP | 02/05/20 07:13 PM |
| 1 | Shaved head, ltr hates it.Remember, women always will branch swing. If you validate her by arguing or getting insecure, it will compound the SMV drop in her eyes. Stay stoic, more shit tests will come. In the long term, she’ll either learn to accept that your SMV hasn’t changed all that much and deal with it, or branch swing while masterfully putting the blame on you for causing it. | /r/askTRP | 01/05/20 10:37 PM |
| 12 | What were you like before swallowing the Red Pill?TRP was like flicking light switch in a dark room. Literally felt like life opened up and it puts everything into perspective. I used to be trusting of women. Treated them more as friends than children. Less focus on smashing every thot, more on being nice. More willing to help rather than ask for help. Censored myself around girls i liked. Texted a lot. Could form a connection with girls, but could never hold their attention for long especially in an LTR due to oneitis. Literally a miracle I go… | /r/askTRP | 01/05/20 10:30 PM |
| 1 | How come black guy so good at trp?Especially in the US, a LOT of older black men who pass on RP knowledge, without even knowing it. For example, they’ll get divorce raped, learn from it, and openly talk about it as a lesson for young black men to follow. Things like ‘making mistakes so the young can follow’ are common as their culture is united. Whereas for other cultures, there’s a stigma attached to these things. Maybe it’s embarrassment, maybe they want youths to learn on their own, but it creates a knowledge gap between gene… | /r/askTRP | 01/05/20 10:22 PM |
| 3 | What's up with sluts and their anxiety?Not sure, imo it firmly places you in the friend zone. Wouldn’t you be in her frame if you do so? Not really my style. Regardless I see your logic, and can see it working if delivered correctly. | /r/askTRP | 01/05/20 10:13 PM |
| 1 | What's up with sluts and their anxiety?Equality is ass. The mindset of a women when faced with a challenge is insane. I literally had a girl who after having trouble at work, started complaining about how ‘nobody helped me, they should help me and show me if they know how to do it’. This was literally after some beta sat by her desk for 10minutes. She didn’t want to learn - she wanted him to either do it for her, or let her copy his work. Must be nice. Even worse is that they get approval by simply saying “anxiety” or “depression”. S… | /r/askTRP | 01/05/20 10:10 PM |
| 1 | How to be Alpha AND likeable?It’s actually incredibly difficult dealing with people who do not get the clue that you’re not interested in them, be it sexually or as a friend. | /r/askTRP | 01/05/20 07:22 AM |
| 1 | How legit are opinions on our subreddit?So you’re listening to a man’s opinion, of telling you not to listen to another man’s opinion, because listening to another man’s opinion isn’t good? You sure you’re not doing exactly what he’s telling you not to do? Edit: and now you’re asking us to tell you more opinions which you will then base your opinion on? You’re missing the picture. | /r/askTRP | 28/04/20 07:51 PM |
| 1 | If I get married, how can I maintain control if I have a wife that works too.It depends. Having a job is good as it shows she is capable. Having her own income means less financial burden on you. However if she manages a ‘competitive’ job, chances are the travelling, drinking, socialising, networking, and big cheques will cause her to have character faults. I would look at the typical employee lifestyle of where she works and see whether it raises red flags. | /r/askTRP | 26/04/20 08:06 PM |
| 1 | LTR Advertises the Zoom call on social media for her cheater BPD friend and orbiter to join. Advice on how to handle or continue to ignore?Why did she cook before? Because she was afraid you would leave. She cooked for you so you HAD to spend time with her. Now? She expects to spend time with you. There’s a routine. And as it’s her routine. She will do what she wants with it. She’s comfortable, so she’s taking charge. She’s not afraid of you leaving (until you apply slight dread/be more mysterious) so she’s doing whatever she wants, rather than walk on eggshells. | /r/askTRP | 26/04/20 07:44 PM |
| 7 | I can’t be the only one constantly getting challenged in public right?Lmao. Oddly might be the most accurate comment here. | /r/askTRP | 18/04/20 07:40 PM |
| 2 | Is ‘just wanting to be single’ worth breaking up with a otherwise great LTR?Imagine not doing your projects because you feel your unemployed LTR would be offended. Nice frame. Not sure if it’s that you want to be single, or you just dislike being domesticated. | /r/askTRP | 18/04/20 07:37 PM |
| 1 | My girlfriend just got a love message from her ex and I don’t know how to handle this cause she didn’t block him nor shut him down appropriatelyChill with the blackpill comments. OP you’re hamstering and it makes you look like a massive pussy. If you typed what he typed, and posted on AskTRP asking if it’s a good message to send to your ex, you would be laughed out of Reddit for being an orbiter. So why is it that when someone does it to you, you feel threatened and insecure? It’s more a reflection on you than it is on her. If they way to pussy is to send simp messages like these, don’t you think the sidebar will have it? The only way f… | /r/askTRP | 18/04/20 07:32 PM |
| 6 | Is the cheating as bad as it seems? LTR ever worth it?I would never recommend an LTR for inexperienced men (n-count less than 20). Spin plates and get to know women. Once you do, you’ll have a better understanding of men/women dynamics and can consider an LTR, which is TRP on hard mode. | /r/askTRP | 18/04/20 05:42 AM |
| 3 | How to Overcome or Deal with Sexual FrustrationFind someone to have sex with. Ideally at least three times a week. | /r/askTRP | 18/04/20 05:39 AM |
| 4 | How do you respond to GoodbyeThese chumps out here getting alpha widowed. | /r/askTRP | 18/04/20 05:39 AM |
| 5 | I can't stop lying to women. Casanova. Digging my own pit.Women aren’t snowflakes, get that out of your system. They’re adults and guess what, adulthood isn’t always easy. She’s just going to have to get over the breakup. Statically women get over breakups far quicker than men, so just know her crocodile tears will dry up after a week, and although she may resent you, she’ll get over you as women crave comfort and will find it off another guy. | /r/askTRP | 18/04/20 05:37 AM |
| 2 | Is it just me or is all chicks posting on gonewild pretty much looking for beta males who would sign up for they only fans or send them cash thru PayPal?Quit hamstering. Why do they do it? Because they are hoes. Why do men fall for it? Because they are losers who can’t get laid. | /r/askTRP | 17/04/20 10:04 PM |
| 6 | Banged my sisters GF... should I care?Honestly you did her a favor. If her ‘GF’ would sleep with you, she is not LTR material - she’s the type who looks for ‘right place, right time’ situations to cheat and count it off as a one time thing. Huge red flag. The quicker your sister understands, the better off she’ll be. Why hate you, who is not in the relationship, when she should direct her anger TOWARDS her relationship partner? Sounds like this GF has your sister by the nipples. She’s only being a bitch to you because she’s too much… | /r/askTRP | 17/04/20 08:28 PM |
| 2 | Is there any upside at all to marriage if a man is High Net Worth?I feel most people got married for the sake of having a solid environment for raising children. If you’re uninterested in children, stay single. I personally am interested in seeing how the trend of ‘single fathers’ take shape - guys who have a child through a surrogate mother. For example, C. Ronaldo. And get a girlfriend / nanny without the fear of losing half your net-worth. For me this has always been interesting - the family line continues, you experience maturing through fatherhood, can nu… | /r/askTRP | 15/04/20 07:18 PM |
| 4 | GF texting another guyCan’t believe I had to scroll this far down to see this. OP you’ve completely ignored the concept of dread, frame, abundance and pretty much everything else. | /r/askTRP | 12/04/20 06:33 PM |
| 1 | Should I send happy birthday to my ex's daughter?This posts sounds creepy AF | /r/askTRP | 08/04/20 08:14 PM |
| 1 | Best country to live in for the ambitious individual?USA | /r/askTRP | 08/04/20 08:12 PM |
| 1 | AMOG - disqualifying associates who chase every girlYou’re frame is so strong that you feel the need to AMOG a beta. Totally not insecure or overcompensating. I’m sensing great abundance /s | /r/askTRP | 08/04/20 08:10 PM |
| 1 | LTR is online late hours on whatsapp and gives shitty answersHey OP. I had multiple LTR’s like this, except the roles were reversed. She would flip shit and get angry when she saw me online. She’ll get angry when I don’t reply quickly even though I’m online. In fact I think all my LTRs behaved like this at one point (as I’m just bad at multitasking to reply multiple people). This really is the type of stuff girls do to men, and not the other way around. It’s a little bit emasculating for you to be hamstering, when it should be her job to hamster about you… | /r/askTRP | 06/04/20 08:30 PM |
| 1 | Anybody else not really care for sex?You think it’s a good idea to study, pay, and earn those yourself? Or find a large corporation to train/sponsor it? Also, would they only hire people with ‘x’ years of experience in IT? | /r/askTRP | 05/04/20 07:04 AM |
| 1 | Anybody else not really care for sex?Oh shit, that sounds rad. Will it be tough to get in without an IT degree? | /r/askTRP | 05/04/20 06:07 AM |
| 3 | Making her submissive long distanceThe fuck | /r/askTRP | 30/03/20 06:48 PM |
| 1 | is the texting game (logistics only) changed due to the virus?The fact that this is getting downvotes shows this sub is already going to shits. | /r/askTRP | 29/03/20 07:37 PM |
| 2 | going to sleep chronically lateYou’re ‘concerned’ but obviously not concerned enough to do anything about it. | /r/askTRP | 29/03/20 07:34 PM |
| 17 | Cheating ex-wife wants me backIt’s quarantine season so the dicks she’s been seeing are on hold. The new dicks that she’s chasing is also on hold. Money is drying up. This isn’t rocket science. She’s out of options, and know you as a provider. If you want to get a couple months of action at your dignity’s expense go on ahead. | /r/askTRP | 29/03/20 07:27 PM |
| 1 | Religion and TRPThere’s isn’t a question in here. Post it on my main sub. | /r/askTRP | 28/03/20 10:05 PM |
| 4 | How to deal with the realization of many red flags within an LTRCongrats, you’ve spotted the issues before you got fucked over. You’ve just improved your ability to spot red flags. Now go out there and find someone with less red flags! | /r/askTRP | 28/03/20 10:03 PM |
| 1 | LTR listening to other menWho is or isn’t LTR-worthy is for YOU to decide, based on what you want and the quality of the next girl you have in line, or the next girl you know you can attract. Me personally? If it wasn’t obvious enough, fuck no. Personal preference. | /r/askTRP | 28/03/20 09:07 PM |
| 1 | Would you want to connect with a friend who had your back but was quite toxic at times?Imagine beating up a someone, and eventually getting the kid apologise to you for upsetting you. Honestly makes you look like a bitch. If the fight was as bad as you say it is, and if he was responsible, he should be mending the bridges, not you. But you do you, your happiness is your own to seek. If you miss the good old days, the easiest option is to reach out. I personally wouldn’t. | /r/askTRP | 28/03/20 08:50 PM |
| 1 | LTR listening to other menRhetorical question: why can’t the LTR say ‘get the ketchup yourself’? In this case, why can’t she say ‘get the table yourself?’ So many of these comments below are telling OP to speak on her behalf. She can say no on her own. The only reason for anyone to speak on behalf of their ‘girl’ is that they’re afraid of what she will do, if he does not step in. ‘Damn she’s gonna do what he says, gotta step in, can’t bring myself to hear it’. Let her prove her worth to you, it’ll save you time in the lo… | /r/askTRP | 28/03/20 08:39 PM |
| 1 | Attractive but rarely get laidSounds like a lot of excuses. If you’re ugly friends are getting laid like monsters while your exceptionally handsome face lies in bed alone pondering what could have been, your SMV is nowhere near what you think it is. Sidebar. | /r/askTRP | 28/03/20 08:32 PM |
| 1 | Are women's only interested in romantic relationships/love/drama? (Men's life's are about things, women are about people)Just think about a generic man and a generic women’s upbringing. Boys play, joke, fight. Girls get told how cute they are. I’ve also never had a teacher scold a girl in my childhood. Saw plenty of them scolding boys. The bullies always picked on the boys while girls watched. When we are brought up so differently, naturally we see things differently. Girls are given things, boys earn them. | /r/askTRP | 28/03/20 08:26 PM |
| 1 | I can’t commit for shit.Dude, that’s women. ‘What can you do for me?’. Hell thats pretty much how the world works. Whether it’s work or making friends, people will want you if you have something they don’t. You’re only feeling this way because you’re getting older and realizing this is ‘real life’. Recalibrate. Because your previous worldview isn’t how this world works. Find a new worldview: | /r/askTRP | 28/03/20 08:21 PM |
| 1 | Would you want to connect with a friend who had your back but was quite toxic at times?Dude, those aren’t friends. Sounds to me you either never had a real friend, or you’re in a scarcity mindset afraid of losing them. Go make some new friends. It’s better to have a small, close circle of people you enjoy rather than a large circle of people who bring you stress. If your sense of humor is banter and jokes at each other, then find those people. If your sense of humor is more doing stupid shit and laughing at yourself and not at other people, find those people. | /r/askTRP | 28/03/20 08:16 PM |
| 1 | Anyone else miss having a girlfriend? (srs)You really should read the sidebar though. Because if you simply read the sidebar, it’s crystal clear that TRP is a handbook which you then adjust and apply to your life, based on your values, circumstances, expectations, and needs. That means applying TRP and thinking for yourself. | /r/askTRP | 28/03/20 08:12 PM |
| 1 | LTR listening to other menBunch of babies. The answer is it depends on context. If your ‘friend’ is asking your girl to booty shake in front of everyone and calls her honey after, he’s showing you up. If he’s asking her to pass the ketchup because she’s sitting next to the fucking ketchup, it makes you look like a social retard when you say ‘go get it yourself (while thinking I ain’t no cuck, bitch)’. And you know what, it shouldn’t even fucking matter which context it is. Your frame is all kinds of fucked. This is a cha… | /r/askTRP | 28/03/20 08:02 PM |
| 1 | Dealing with male disrespectTRP offseason in full effect, what a struggle. | /r/askTRP | 27/03/20 09:20 PM |
| 1 | Do you think regular gym goers will get smaller because of the covid-19 lockdowns and ultimately increasing the smv of people that could afford decent gym equipment?The amount of muscle mass lost in 6 months will not shaft an ‘attractive’ guy to become ‘unattractive’. Lost mass is also a lot easier to gain back, compared to new mass. To me it has 0 impact on the dating market. | /r/askTRP | 27/03/20 09:17 PM |
| 3 | GF told me her body count....Speaking from experience as someone who’s been single for a long time and only pursued plates and one-night-stands, I’ve lost count after 30. Just think objectively - it begins hard to keep track of numbers so high. I remember my early ones quite clearly, but it becomes a blur after. Her number is a ballpark estimate. If someone asked me about my n-count, I’ll also give a ballpark estimate, but on the low side. Her saying 50 means it’s at least 50. It most probably is more. Regardless stop hamst… | /r/askTRP | 27/03/20 09:15 PM |
| 46 | Had sex with a 18 year old girl from tinder on 1st date. Im 26. Girl says it doesnt feel comfortable to date someone my age.At the end of the day, all the bullshit she spewed is her hamster trying to distract you and herself from the biggest fact of them all - that she had sex with someone on the first date, in a car, off tinder. She’s trying to justify her CC ride by trying to shift to a LTR position, but ultimately gives you a bullshit reason (grey hairs) to ghost you and return to her CC ways. In her head, she IS a ‘good girl who tried to make things work with an older guy, but cant’. In real life, she’s a Tinder … | /r/askTRP | 27/03/20 01:40 PM |
| 1 | If a woman tried to shame you in public what is the best way to act?DARE never DEER. Sidebar. | /r/askTRP | 24/03/20 09:15 PM |
| 2 | Prince HarryIt isn’t even just the title to be king. Being a part of the royal family means being a part of the number one family in the UK. You’re connected to the best connections, live rent free in a larger than life home, and get paid for existing (though the royal family makes more for the government than they get). They can literally go to any of the top schools, universities, and mingle with dukes and duchesses in castles riding horses and having cake delivered to them. Instead, he chooses her and ba… | /r/askTRP | 24/03/20 09:09 PM |
| 4 | How the fuck are you supposed to not be paranoid knowing AWALT?You just have accept that men and women are similar. Many men when they get horny don’t go out to find women. They go to porn, play games, or hang out for validation. Men also might not cheat due to respect for their LTR. A guy who always goes out whenever he is horny irrespective of circumstances means he ‘thinks with his dick’ and is unfit for LTR and should be a plate. Flip this for women. When she gets horny, she might masterbate, post a cute selfie, and seek validation from orbiters. It is … | /r/askTRP | 22/03/20 06:23 AM |
| 9 | Tinder bioBe attractive. Don’t be unattractive. You can have the corniest, geekiest Tinder bio and chicks will love it if you’re attractive. You can also have the most hardcore, edgy, greatest pickup line ever spoken and chicks will love it if you’re attractive. You can also copy a bio, or make one yourself, and if you’re unattractive it’ll do nothing for your matches. | /r/askTRP | 21/03/20 11:17 PM |
| 2 | LTR acting strangeAlways trust your gut. Cancelling LTR dates, and for her to go ‘ok’ without asking for a reschedule, or feeling any negative emotion is a red flag. Means she’s detached. A women’s SMV is tied to their man - if he wants to see me, that means I’m doing something good. Woman hate being low SMV. So how is she getting her SMV calibrated if you aren’t there? Maybe it’s from men other than you. Maybe it’s seeing other women on the CC and realising that can be her. Maybe she wants to live in branch swin… | /r/askTRP | 21/03/20 11:05 PM |
| 3 | I want to own my laughter, since it's my natural emotional response, but the things I genuinely laugh at tend to be really offensive, uncalibrated, or outrageous with little context. Any advice?If you’re looking for validation on your immature behaviour, by dressing it as ‘it’s who I am’, you’re not getting it here. All the examples you listed are stupid. I’m not even trying to shit on you, but all those examples you listed are so socially uncalibrated it sounds like you have an mental illness. | /r/askTRP | 21/03/20 10:47 PM |
| 1 | Liking girls posts on social media during corona pandemic?Ask TRP offseason is worse than I had remembered. | /r/askTRP | 21/03/20 10:24 PM |
| 1 | Why is there such a massive disconnect from myself and the world?You’re definitely in the anger phase. You have to grow up and realize life is not fair. Doing someone else a solid does not mean they will do you back a solid. So what do you do? I accept it, and learn from it. What can I learn? To not let others take advantage of my resources so easily. I also learn that this person is unreliable, not a friend, and is a leech. I will maintain my distance. | /r/askTRP | 21/03/20 10:23 PM |
| 1 | Whenever a girl approaches/initiates me first, I get laid. But whenever I approach/initiate, I never get anywhere.Some of these comments are retarded. Obviously if she’s sending you overt IOIs it become considerably easier. Common sense. What OP wants to know is how to have a higher conversion rate when HE approaches. That’s a question about technique, about game, which he can find by searching PUA on google. If you’re trying to pick up a ‘low interest girl’ or a girl with a resting bitch face, ‘just lift bro’ doesn’t work. If she’s disinterested, the impression has been made. The only way to break through,… | /r/askTRP | 21/03/20 10:17 PM |
| 2 | Worth applying for uni accomodation?If you’re actually significantly older than first years, you likely will not have as good of a time socially as you may imagine. Add on the expenses and I personally would not apply. | /r/askTRP | 20/03/20 10:08 PM |
| 1 | Girlfriends of my buddies coming on to meI don’t know anyone who hamsters as much about nothing as you. Nothing fucking happened. You’re making a big deal about nothing. You may be autistic, but not everyone is. But I’m just a random. Why don’t you go have the conversation with your buddy, or any other friend? “Hey man, your girl was eye-fucking me and grabbed my arms, thought you wanted to know. You know, cus it means she’s about to branch swing to me”. Experience for yourself how pathetic you can be in front of your friends by making… | /r/askTRP | 14/03/20 05:00 PM |
| 2 | Girlfriends of my buddies coming on to meYeah, it isn’t. You’re in scarcity and blowing your load over ‘eye-fucking’. Imagine being so much of a pussy that you are concerned about irrelevant shit. | /r/askTRP | 14/03/20 06:13 AM |
| 0 | Girlfriends of my buddies coming on to meImagine hamstering so hard over linking arms. Insane. Here’s an advice - spend less time on Reddit, and more time getting experiences. You only see this as an issue because you’re projecting your bitch mentality into your ‘buddy’. You’re thinking that because you’ll be butthurt seeing your girl linking arms with another, surely he is as well. Grow a pair. | /r/askTRP | 13/03/20 10:33 PM |
| 5 | Went raw by accidentIf she is okay with fucking you raw, she’s okay with fucking someone else raw. It’s common sense and TRP 101 - don’t think she is a snowflake, and conversely, she will never see you as a snowflake either. I‘d recommend only to go raw if it’s a monogamous relationship, and after getting tested 3 months into it. Condoms for 3 months, get tested, raw after. Plenty of birth control methods exist on the market which eliminates the chances of an accident. Pick one, and stick by it. | /r/askTRP | 13/03/20 10:28 PM |
| 19 | My friends gf hitting on meCongratulations, you’ve been used. Either as a validation tool (I’m in a relationship yet I still got it), or as a accessory to make her bf jealous, as a shit-test. You can flirt all you want, all you’re doing is getting her wet for her boyfriend, seeing as she’ll leave with him and not you. | /r/askTRP | 04/03/20 06:46 AM |
| 20 | Recorded FWB messing around with mutual friend while I was in the bathroom. I don't feel right about this but I want to ask this place for support first.I definitely feel it’s genetically in us men to feel awful when we get cucked. The feeling your having sucks. I always preach trust your gut. In this case, your gut made you press record. Now, your gut is making you feel gross, which is a sign you should leave. I’d hard next her (block her, delete her number) since it seems to have a big mental drain on you. Cut that shit out of your life. Drop her to get over your oneitis. | /r/askTRP | 04/03/20 06:42 AM |
| 1 | How did your life changed since you are jacked?What do you mean by fatter? Do you mind sharing your height and weight? Curious about your weight when you were ‘jacked’ and when you were fat as a comparison. | /r/askTRP | 03/03/20 06:39 PM |
| 1 | Anyone ever have unprotected sex with a stranger on vacation?Cud you’re a child with unethical fantasies. Just do it, it’ll save you time in the long run. TRP is amoral. | /r/askTRP | 16/02/20 07:57 PM |
| 1 | Anyone ever have unprotected sex with a stranger on vacation?If you’re asking, you already want to do it. That desire is not going to leave, even if we tell you it isn’t a good idea. If you know it isn’t a good idea, and still have the desire, just do it. | /r/askTRP | 16/02/20 07:47 PM |
| 3 | Best places to meet single women in their 30's?This is actually hilarious. Obviously a joke. | /r/askTRP | 16/02/20 07:46 PM |
| 1 | Gf of 6 months says “I make her feel like she’s not good enough” cancels Valentine’s Day plansI’d guess she went out for a girls night out. Come on, Valentine’s plus Friday evening is a march in heaven. In her mind you are the villain, she’s the victim, and all this emotion is making her horny. She may fuck someone to get back at you, as she knows it’ll hurt you. Couple months ago, a guy posted here about how his LTR ditched him on New Years because he made her feel bad. Exact same situation. She went out with friends to club instead while his ass sat at home. AWALT. | /r/askTRP | 15/02/20 08:54 PM |
| 1 | How long does it take you guys to get enough RP to get over the barrier of being a cuck towards women?Not time, experiences. Plate, FWB, date, LTR, all of it. You have to learn by doing. After getting experiences, you internalise TRP. If you just read and never apply, it’ll take you an eternity. | /r/askTRP | 15/02/20 08:45 PM |
| 1 | Anyone here dyes their white hairs?It’s a lot more acceptable to have greys as a man than as a women. I’d embrace it. That being said, if it bothers you dye it. You’re the one who has to wake up to it, a hair color change isn’t permanent, is cheap and may give you a confidence boost. I think greys make men look older. If you have facial hair and they are grey, they really make you look older. I know actors and models who dye their beard to avoid being ‘typecast’ as an old man. Which, in my opinion, resulted in them being more att… | /r/askTRP | 15/02/20 08:42 PM |
| 3 | I'm only attracted to party girlsYou’re all over the place, I can’t understand what you’re saying. One minute you’re into this, the next you’re that. So many buts, however, and confusion. And then you hamster away. You’re not going to solve this issue because what you need is not a solution, but to get off the adderall. | /r/askTRP | 02/02/20 09:34 PM |
| 2 | LTR networking with male colleagues/orbiters?You realize you can be honest with us, a bunch of anonymous internet reddit users, right? You’re jealous someone is going to steal your girl under the disguise of ‘catching up’. The answer has always been women will branch swing - you cannot filter out the possibility of her leaving. So focus on yourself and your life. You’re also worried she takes this networking opportunity to conveniently cheat. The answer has always been if she wanted to cheat, she will do so - women have plenty of choices. … | /r/askTRP | 01/02/20 06:36 PM |
| 3 | Got into an awkward situation by telling my LTR I would be bothered by her dancing with other guys. How can fix this?How dare you, a participant in a relationship, ask for your girl to not be a slut! You have to submit to her needs, or you look like a jealous pussy. /s. Sarcasm. Do not think like that. If you’re actually happy in this LTR, as the captain, you have to make uncomfortable choices. You have to dread when she starts feeling herself. You have to push pull. You do this as women want a strong man who is in control, because if left to her own accord, she’ll fucking steer your ship to ruin. Quit caring … | /r/askTRP | 01/02/20 06:17 PM |
| 1 | Girl ive been casually fucking for 3 months hits me with this...It’s a signal that your turn is ending. If you think plates last forever, read more. | /r/askTRP | 01/02/20 06:08 PM |
| 1 | What’s with the celebrities getting divorced in just a couple of yearsCelebrities are either people who are already famous due to past work, or someone coming up and rising. For the first type, women are attracted to him because he is famous, and successful. Once she locks him down and makes him commit, he is no longer the free type of person she was attracted to in the first place. If she met him before he was ‘famous famous’, she would like him for his personality traits. However, the relationship changes when she sees him going off due to increasing commitments… | /r/askTRP | 22/01/20 07:52 AM |
| 2 | Mother is threatening to divorce my father in order to leave he and myself "homeless" after dispute she has with me. Any advice on how to handle this situation would help.Probably a really good opportunity to get a restraining order/favourable divorce/sole custody, especially if your father and sister are willing to testify that she is as abusive as you say she is. If you have the evidence, and your sister/father support, you can take this chance to force her out of your lives completely. Take note that if you do not act now, it’ll imply that you and your family are alright with this type of treatment. | /r/askTRP | 22/01/20 07:40 AM |
| 1 | Plate wants me to take a picture of her on an outing "for her instagram". How do I avoid falling into her frame?You’re gut instinct is correct. Remember - the occasion is YOUR birthday. Assuming you’re of high value, how you spend your birthday (an annual event) should be earned by plates/friends. You were too focused on the money (expensive restaurant, she’s paying) and now she knows you can be bought. She then escalates. By asking for photos, she’s seeing if you can only be bought, or if an exchange is good enough to secure you on your special day. I don’t think it’s exactly a red flag though, moreso a … | /r/askTRP | 19/01/20 05:34 PM |
| 1 | Girlfriend has on "bucket list" to go to a male strip showYou’re looking at this from a point of scarcity. If it truly becomes “I’m going to a strip club REGARDLESS” then it’s is clear he should dump her, assuming OP does not want that type of relationship. Saying that he wants a FFM threesome does two things. First, it reframes the argument (she’ll try to stop him, chasing him rather than vice versa). Second, it overtly signals abundance, conveying the message “I’m still looking for other women, DESPITE being in a relationship with you. You are replac… | /r/askTRP | 17/01/20 05:39 PM |
| 1 | How to know you're just the "settle down" guyHell no to 10 partners at 28. And she was single when you met her? That’s a flat out lie. Unless you’re dating a whale, live amongst Mormons, or you’ve been dating since 21, 10 partners is highly unlikely. | /r/askTRP | 17/01/20 05:14 PM |
| 7 | Do I tell him I slept over with a girl he dated?He WILL find out, it always ends up coming out. Either from his mutual friend, her trickle truthing, it’ll come out. Regardless that’s not really your business. Your business is whether or not you value him as a friend. If he’s your ‘bro’, it’s cowardly not to tell him. If he was my true friend, I would ask for permission before sleeping their ex’s. Sleeping with someone’s ex comes across like a snake. I would not ruin a friendship over one girl. However the fact that you didn’t really give a sh… | /r/askTRP | 04/01/20 08:00 AM |
| 2 | Tried gaming girls apart from my LTR and my worst fears have been realized, my game is down. Been with her almost 2 years. What do from here?You shouldn’t be in an LTR. If you have to ‘game’ just to make sure you still have it, you never had it at all. Why don’t you break up, be single, game women daily, and acquire this skill? Or you know. Do you. Keep this relationship while sneaking out to practice ‘game’. You sound autistic but maybe you’re into making stupid choices. | /r/askTRP | 03/01/20 07:47 PM |
| 2 | Went clubbing with a girl got wastedAs someone who goes clubbing, this story is hilarious. Take a chill pill, lot of these comments are way too serious. First of all, in say twenty years time, you would have dozens of clubbing hookups, but only a few ‘wasted’ night outs so enjoy the memory. AWALT, and abundance. Missing out on a club girl is not the end of the world. In my opinion, club chicks are the easiest. If you’re feeling bad simply go out again to scratch the itch. I also do not think this girl is a ‘lost cause’. A girl inv… | /r/askTRP | 27/12/19 06:34 PM |
| 6 | Older guys, what was dating like pre-social media era?Hard to say. My hypothesis is AWALT, regardless of time period. It is simply that with the internet, we can SEE sexual strategies in play. In the past, you wouldn’t have such clear, and readily available evidence of AWALT. The biggest difference is in techniques. In the past, a girl may ‘visit her family for the weekend’. Nowadays, girls may ‘go on a hike with friends for her IG’. It’s the same purpose - to branch swing, reassessing her SMV, find orbiters. As unicorns don’t exist today, I feel t… | /r/askTRP | 20/12/19 08:58 PM |
| 6 | Two tipsy female coworkers were just telling me "how nice" their boobs are...Do you want to be an orbiter? | /r/askTRP | 20/12/19 08:38 PM |
| 2 | Are your married friends happy?I do think this is the most productive perspective. It is not fair that women can be unaccountable and hamster that ‘you did this to me!’, denying accountability and lacking in integrity yet get away with it. However life is not fair. Yet it is also very difficult to achieve this (imo, impossible). You can be constantly rising, the best shape of your life, and improve your SMV, yet a girl who has been by your side for an extended period of time will eventually see your ‘progress’ as her own - sh… | /r/askTRP | 20/12/19 03:44 PM |
| 1 | Are your married friends happy?Jeez. Truly the CC never ends. AWALT, regardless of relationship status, and the only way to prevent it is to be the best version of yourself. Even then, ‘she’s not yours, it’s only your turn’. | /r/askTRP | 20/12/19 03:29 PM |
| -1 | Are your married friends happy?How do women change specifically? Is it more ‘my kid is not getting the best, they need more books, nicer clothes etc and you are going to provide it’ type of whining? Or ‘I’m a mother, look at me and my feelings, I’m hitting the wall and I lost my physique, I’m feeling sad, feelz feelz look at me’ type? | /r/askTRP | 20/12/19 03:26 PM |
| 1 | Are your married friends happy?What do you mean by this? If the relationship is ‘captain, first-mate’, does it mean she becomes more challenging of your decisions? If so, do these shit/comfort-tests come from the perspective of ‘I want what is best for my child’, or with a ‘I’m suffering so much as a mother, look at me, I need MY needs addressed’? If it’s the second, I’ll probably never get married. | /r/askTRP | 20/12/19 03:21 PM |
| 3 | Are your married friends happy?Very underrated comment. Your anecdotal evidence is completely in line with TRP philosophy. Passing shit tests, dread, frame is all done to make ourselves the prize and in turn, become something women see as fleeting. | /r/askTRP | 20/12/19 03:11 PM |
| 1 | chick talks about bad experiences on dating sites, red flag?Isn’t it simple? She’s plate material at best. | /r/askTRP | 19/12/19 06:41 PM |
| 1 | DIFFICULTY MAINTAINING COOL WHEN BULLIEDI really do not understand why people don’t just roast people back. Men, even friends, will break your balls every once in a while, so return the favor. An eye for an eye. | /r/askTRP | 05/12/19 06:28 PM |
| 2 | How to decline work Christmas party invite from my Ltr?You don’t have to go, you know. It’s common to bring a +1, most people do, but if you DON’T want to go, then don’t. Also, if you were busy with your mission, you would have a ‘reason’ to decline. You’re only self-conscious about this because you have nothing better to do. So find something better to do, commit to it, and that would be your excuse to slip out of this social setting. Also gives your LTR an explanation ‘boyfriend is busy with work’ during her social event. Looking forward, if YOU d… | /r/askTRP | 05/12/19 06:19 PM |
| 1 | std's how to keep em in check while plating ?Would never have guessed native Hawaiian /Pacific Islanders went ham like that. | /r/askTRP | 05/12/19 06:10 PM |
| 10 | LTR is friends with a co-worker who has high SMV. How to handle jealousyYou HAVE to dread in an LTR. One party always applies dread, the other engages in self-loathing and tries to ‘chase’ the other. You have to become the type who applies dread, not the buttercup who gets dread applied onto. Men in general uphold values like respect, or treating others how you want to be treated. In an LTR you have to purposely be slightly manipulative and improve yourself WITHOUT your LTR, so she sees your status going up. For example, you’re feeling the way you feel not because o… | /r/askTRP | 02/12/19 04:28 PM |
| 1 | My brother with his gf - he’s incredibly blue pilled. Do I try to help him?Ouch. A story like this is incredibly common but still hurts to read. AWALT. Women will always test a man’s boundary to the limit without mercy, and if the man does not hold strong, she will run over him without mercy. | /r/askTRP | 01/12/19 07:59 PM |
| 1 | Feel disrespected by a girl i've been seeing. Should i hard-next?This is the issue with almost all women. Once they stop chasing you, they expect you to chase them. Something as retarded as hooking up with others to GET you to chase her back is something only a hamster can create to validate her decisions. It’s also female projection-they will chase harder after the alpha if he has options, and women enjoy being reminded their alpha has options yet chose her. | /r/askTRP | 30/11/19 06:23 PM |
| 58 | Women in LTR are all potential cheaters? Regardless if you are alpha or beta?Almost impossible to nip any and all possibilities of cheating. The saying here goes that no good LTR appears - you have to craft your women into a good LTR. That being said, an hormonal swing here, a branch swinging opportunity there, and a sip of alcohol is all it takes for an LTR to cheat. It’s why women go in pairs whenever they go out - they know they will slut out, they know they cannot control it, they know they want it yet will regret it, so they bring ‘girlfriends’ along to keep them in… | /r/askTRP | 30/11/19 06:17 PM |
| 1 | My brother with his gf - he’s incredibly blue pilled. Do I try to help him?Care to elaborate on how it drove your family member that far? | /r/askTRP | 30/11/19 06:12 PM |
| 22 | Got an offer... idk if I should take it.Male escorts, like male pornstars, generally don’t make good money unless they do gay as well. Your client base is a very small percentage of the population - women who are wealthy, yet unable to pick up a man at the bar. I doubt you will have a revolving door of customers. Honestly you sound like you have already decided to take the offer, so do it and report back. | /r/askTRP | 11/11/19 07:16 PM |
| 2 | Fobby Asian Girls Also "Prostitutes"?Don’t put any women on a pedestal. There’s no cure to AWALT. If the cure was to subject a female to ‘conservative Asian values’ the world will be a better place. I’ve slept with Asian girls before and they are every bit the slut as western girls. They eat, shit and sleep like every women. They give shit tests, comfort tests, and test a man’s frame like every women. Many of models are ‘prostitutes’ - they just don’t advertise it as such. They’re ‘hustlers’, ‘sugar babies’, or ‘models’. That inclu… | /r/askTRP | 11/11/19 02:06 PM |
| 2 | AWALT. Lesson's you can learn from Chanel Miller and Brock TurnerThe more the facts come out, the more apparent it seems that things were sensationalised. The issue here is that it has lead to serious repercussions, in return for selling papers. Miller gets interview on 60minutes and vaulted to sainthood, Brock’s name in shambles, judge loses his job due to public pressure which seriously undermines judicial independence. Oh and Chanel Miller’s interview hit popular on Reddit. 10k+ upvotes on /news. Take a look at the comments. | /r/TheRedPill | 24/09/19 06:04 AM |
| 2 | AWALT. Lesson's you can learn from Chanel Miller and Brock TurnerI don’t even think this is that hot of a take. The same could be said of both genders - there must be rules in place which prevent lying, and sufficient consequences for doing so. | /r/TheRedPill | 21/09/19 05:04 AM |
| 4 | AWALT. Lesson's you can learn from Chanel Miller and Brock TurnerEven part of me, having been in university, finds it doubtful that a 22 year old, which I’m assuming she was a senior, was this special butterfly who did not know what happens in a frat party. Someone who was 22, who traveled to another school, to a frat party, who didn’t have the awareness to stick with a friend. Her story is literally - I went to a party, don’t remember anything, and got raped by a 19 year old. Seriously, something about her taking NO accountability about anything is reminds m… | /r/TheRedPill | 21/09/19 04:49 AM |
| 3 | AWALT. Lesson's you can learn from Chanel Miller and Brock TurnerCrimson, as far as I know, I don’t even think her being unconscious is a proven fact. The two Swedish men who called the police made no mention of the fact that she was unconscious. Her being unconscious is her side of the story. Secondly unconsciousness is relative. There is the Glasgow Coma Scale, to which she scored an 11/15. 15 is full motor skills, 0 is no eye movement, no verbal sounds, no motor skills. You can only conclude there was mild brain injury. Disorientation and fatigue from alco… | /r/TheRedPill | 20/09/19 08:03 PM |
| 10 | AWALT. Lesson's you can learn from Chanel Miller and Brock TurnerIt’s truly shocking how a women, who literally (or claims to) have 0 memory, is so convinced that she is correct even in the face of evidence. Imagine being blackout drunk, and literally hamstering the worst case scenario upon yourself, and then pursuing legal remedies. Now imagine that you received evidence that no sex happened. Instead of backing down, you now double down. You bring race, status, genders, every topic to get everyone involved. Now imagine being so far gone, that you begin to se… | /r/TheRedPill | 20/09/19 07:51 PM |
| 8 | AWALT. Lesson's you can learn from Chanel Miller and Brock TurnerImagine how his BF felt, GF at another school, ignoring his calls all night. Probably had the ‘nothing happened’ talk the next day, things getting back normal until she eventually trickle truths. I’ve literally seen women do this to ‘test if their boyfriend loves them’. Then, they cry when the BF inevitably gets jealous. Eventually, they both makeup through the phone. Now, with all her hormones worked up, she goes back into the party forgetting the entire conversation. Women thrive off emotions.… | /r/TheRedPill | 20/09/19 07:37 PM |
| 11 | AWALT. Lesson's you can learn from Chanel Miller and Brock TurnerHonestly, he’s stupid more than anything. He was 19 it happened, and Chanel Miller was 22. I feel if it was truly reported correctly, he won’t be the poster boy of rape. How can a person, who did not engage in sex, be the most visible icon for rape? Again, due to the ‘he said, she said’ nature of the case, it’s impossible to verify facts. Turner says he received verbal consent, Miller says no consent was given. Turner said they drank, danced, kissed, and she agreed to leave with him, and she gav… | /r/TheRedPill | 20/09/19 07:30 PM |
| 4 | AWALT. Lesson's you can learn from Chanel Miller and Brock TurnerTRP has a backup site. It is literally on EVERY single post here. There was nothing which pushed TRP into quarantine in the first place. Admins never bothered to explain the quarantine. If TRP on reddit were to be deleted, it would not be due to this post, or any other particular post. It’ll be because management told admin to delete the sub. Nothing said here is illegal. It’s a discussion, with no actionable steps. Nothing malicious, nothing illegal. The only thing which may be hurt are preciou… | /r/TheRedPill | 20/09/19 07:22 PM |
| 33 | AWALT. Lesson's you can learn from Chanel Miller and Brock TurnerEven the words ‘ran away’ has negative connotations. I wonder if he ran, as in fucking sprinted like a burglar from the police, or if it was a ‘fuck this shit’ walk away. From the facts of the case, he ‘ran’ 75 feet, or 25 meters. Its words like these which help drive the sensationalism. | /r/TheRedPill | 20/09/19 03:17 PM |
| 11 | AWALT. Lesson's you can learn from Chanel Miller and Brock TurnerNobody here has implied that he is innocent, personally I’ve even called him out on being a dumbass. I’m simply pointing out the story has become twisted beyond proportions. There is a middle point between making him the poster child for rape, and him being a saint - hyperboles are not helpful. This is a complicated issue. This requires a balanced viewpoint, which is something I hope discussions can lead towards. Having a balanced opinion for BOTH parties is literally justice incarnate. Somehow,… | /r/TheRedPill | 20/09/19 03:02 PM |
| 18 | AWALT. Lesson's you can learn from Chanel Miller and Brock TurnerInterestingly enough, seems like all ‘rape’ cases involve a female of lower SMV, against a person with higher SMV. She was likely attracted to Turner DUE to his status as an athlete attending a good school. Somehow it gets flipped to him being privileged. On a smaller scale, I’ve noticed my most ‘troublesome’ plates were those who are lower in SMV. The type with school issues, family issues, friend issues, etc. | /r/TheRedPill | 20/09/19 02:03 PM |
| 22 | AWALT. Lesson's you can learn from Chanel Miller and Brock TurnerAgreed. I don’t even think the judge was biased, or unfair. If anything it would be insane to book him for life, for fingering a girl after a party where they both kissed, danced, and hugged. To think he lost his job due to public pressure (a petition with 1M signatures) is also unfortunate. Cynically, it would have been better had he done the ‘PR’ move and jailed Turner for 6 years, throwing him under the bus. He would still have his job, and avoided the PR nightmare. Sad state of affairs. | /r/TheRedPill | 20/09/19 12:52 PM |
| 1 | Women's boundaries are different depending on men's attractivenessDodged a bullet - finding a women is a lot easier than submitting CVs around applying for another job. I do think it was a case of LMR, rather than a boundary due to SMV. From my experiences, if she is willing to make out with a guy, she’s also willing to have sex with him PROVIDED he pass shit tests. There may be more shit tests if the guy is not as attractive, but I wouldn’t call it a boundary. Also, it may be the ‘right place right time’ with your other colleague. Maybe she’s ovulating and de… | /r/TheRedPill | 18/09/19 05:44 AM |
| 1 | Why are women so retarded? ( girl told me dating guys makes her MORE attractive to men)As others have said, women project their views of SMV onto themselves. They want a guy with lots of female options, and in turn think it is attractive themselves. Also, they enjoy validation and being chased, which is why they would blame it on men (I’m doing thins because GUYS like it) rather than owning up to it (I like the attention and being on the CC). | /r/askTRP | 18/09/19 05:36 AM |
| 1 | Don't care anymore (first girl coming over my house)Happened to a friend of mine. He is now happily gay. Just throwing it out there, try playing for the other team. | /r/askTRP | 17/09/19 07:17 AM |
| 1 | How to act around alpha friends?Men? If so, I’ll encourage you to make new friends. Nobody I know worries about ‘frame’ and ‘alpha/beta’ with MEN, you’re not trying to get them to have tingles for you. It’s worthless being the king of a sausage fest. We talk to male friends about hobbies, past times, our troubles and rational shit. In other words, being ourselves. If you have nothing to say, and only tag along, then why are you even there? If they want to go clubbing, and you don’t, then don’t go. They’re going clubbing to mee… | /r/askTRP | 11/09/19 08:39 PM |
| 5 | What precautions are you guys taking in the metoo age?Don’t share with women your wealth, status, or anything of value. There’s a reason most ‘me too’ cases happen when the man starts getting successful. Pursing ‘me too’ against ugly, unsuccessful men will affect their SMV, which she women want to keep high. It’s why texting ‘I had fun’ the night after works so well. Presents a beta image. Boring is good - the less emotions she feel, the less chance of ‘me too’. If you text a girl a photo on a yacht surrounded with new women the morning after, and … | /r/askTRP | 11/09/19 08:12 PM |
| 3 | What precautions are you guys taking in the metoo age?Take notes on how others handle it. Counter-sueing for defamation immediately seems to be a great option. | /r/askTRP | 11/09/19 07:34 PM |
| 1 | The less you say the better. Does anybody feel the same way? (Dating)I literally turn off my brain and just mirror girls when I go looking for new plates to spin. I consciously turn off my brain on dates. I’ve find that women don’t enjoy good company. They like the superficial stuff, as they’re looking for reasons to NOT have sex with you. Literally just spending time with a girl while mirror-ing her actions/views will cause her to get tingles. | /r/askTRP | 03/09/19 09:12 PM |
| 3 | Can money get you any girl you want?Define money. If it’s ‘a spare hundred’ then no, it’ll make little to no difference. It has to be “jumps in income bracket“ type money we‘re talking about. A spoiled kid might not get the girl. However you best believe Jeff Bezos can get any women in foreign, less wealthy, country if he truly chases her. If you have the money to dress expensive, wear bling, VIP tables, free flow alcohol, Rolex and diamonds bracelets, have a penthouse, sports car, high income career, ability to get her an interns… | /r/askTRP | 03/09/19 08:28 PM |
| 2 | Paranoid about being 'friendzoned'Don’t live life chasing after a stranger’s validation. Her opinion/sexual interest in you should not cause paranoia. Move on. | /r/askTRP | 03/09/19 08:08 PM |
| 1 | "I've got plans tonight, but maybe tommorow."It’s the anger phase, you’ll get over it. We all have felt similar frustrating emotions. | /r/askTRP | 03/09/19 08:05 PM |
| 5 | LTR is a small part of my life, but she's demanding more attentionDon’t fall for it. In my experiences, even small concession (for example, giving a hug when she asks for it and seem to need it) results in her being entitled, less respectful, and more demanding a few days later if she’s your LTR. My personal rule in LTRs is to NEVER give anything to her if she asks for it. Even if she deserves it, I’ll give her something similar, but not what she asks for. In turn, I’ll proactively reward her for good behaviour so she is trained to expect positive responses wh… | /r/askTRP | 03/09/19 08:03 PM |
| 3 | Is it better to go into monk mode and hide from the world for a year+?Just make sure you don’t fall behind on real life obligations. For example, school, getting a job, etc. Totally okay to take a break from socialising. It’s similar to ‘cramming’ for an test. Decreased social activity in order to focus on what is important. | /r/askTRP | 03/09/19 07:46 PM |
| 2 | Is a girl who literally just got dumped fair game?Let this be a reminder - women are always quicker to forget about a relationship. No matter the tears, or how she may beg, she’ll give up her number to another in a heartbeat. AWALT. As for your situation, if she doesn’t sleep with you she’ll sleep with another guy soon. I’d go for it, in my experiences being the ‘rebound’ or ‘side-dude’ is a lot of fun. | /r/askTRP | 03/09/19 07:42 PM |
| 30 | Dropped an LTR for „not telling“ the truth. Have I overreacted?Hang in there. Let me first by saying you did the right thing, for yourself. You are the priority in your life, and you should not have to deal with this excuse of a relationship and this low quality women. 100%, I would do the same. Let me also balance it out by being brutally honest. By dropping her, it guarantees she’ll sleep with him. Had you not hard nexted, there are cases where the girl ‘hangs out’ with a guy, ends up getting cold feet (or cockblocked), creates drama, and doesn’t actually… | /r/askTRP | 03/09/19 07:39 PM |
| 5 | Girl I hooked up with acts like a bitch after I offer to return her clothes. Why?If a stranger, or a guy, messages you that after you volunteer to return an outfit, would you still act as pleasant? Have some respect for yourself. Quit putting her on a pedestal. | /r/askTRP | 02/09/19 06:32 AM |
| 2 | 6 month LTR gained weightShe thought she had to be hot to attract a man into an LTR. She thought she had to had abs in order to compete for your availability. 6 months later she realized she had misjudged your SMV. She didn’t need abs to get your availability. Now she’s smartly playing down to your SMV. Women always only do the minimum amount of work needed to get a man. | /r/askTRP | 02/09/19 06:28 AM |
| 1 | Guy calling LTR hot in front of meAnd what would you do if they go over regardless? For example, a couple of drinks later, and one guy starts sitting closer trying to escalate? I’m only asking because I’ve seen this happen. It happens more often than I’d think. | /r/askTRP | 01/09/19 05:30 PM |
| 2 | Guy calling LTR hot in front of meTough situation. If you mate guard, it’ll dry up her pussy, and show you fear him. Obviously never mate guard. Hypothetically what happens when he keeps escalating, or he does so despite knowing you’re her bf (I’ve seen this happen when alcohol is involved)? You can AA, or AM. However anything which communicates to the guy that she’s yours will inflate her ego. If you don’t say anything, you’ll probably feel like you’re being cucked, watching him hit on your girl. | /r/askTRP | 01/09/19 05:24 PM |
| 1 | How to gain respect in a new workplaceIt’ll be a pain in the ass working with a newbie obsessed over ‘asserting dominance’. | /r/askTRP | 28/08/19 07:21 PM |
| 1 | Feel like I have no close bros + Can't get into partiesYou just puked a bunch of emotional garbage. The entire second paragraph highlights what you need to do better - you’ve identified your short comings, just act on it. Not exactly sure what you are asking. Just apply yourself. Frankly, I’d worry more about your GPA and finances. | /r/askTRP | 28/08/19 06:54 PM |
| 1 | 3 Year LTR GF randomly started clubbing: is this doomed or am I over analyzing)?How are you justifying her poor behavior? You’re way too far gone. | /r/askTRP | 06/08/19 05:53 AM |
| 5 | 3 Year LTR GF randomly started clubbing: is this doomed or am I over analyzing)?She may have already lost her V-card, or will shortly do so in the near future given her behaviour. Night out and alcohol usually leads to sex, in case you did not know. Plus, how was this not foreseeable? Chick works as a bartender, she obviously will be surrounded by drinks, drunks, see guys pull girls, make-outs, etc. Very naive to think that environment will not lead your unicorn to ‘explore her sexuality’. | /r/askTRP | 05/08/19 06:47 AM |
| 3 | Stuck a landing, but not on purposeThis, I’ve been on many night outs, and this shit happens a lot. The ‘i got to take care of her friend’ who participates in the flirting, likes the attention, gives IOIs only to leave AND pull her friend away at the last minute. Most of the time it’s because she has had her fun, got jealous, or that she ‘sobered up’ and drags her away (cold feet, perhaps the guy was not aggressive/worth the risk). | /r/TheRedPill | 27/07/19 07:58 PM |
| 157 | Too ugly for my ltrDon’t worry. I know a FEW hot women who, when I saw a photo of her boyfriend, me and all my friends (guys and girls) would go “wow, that’s him?”. SMV is subjective - she’s with you for a reason. If she likes you for whatever reason, go with it EVEN IF it is not ‘traditional’ (ex: handsome, stable). I know hot girls with a guy with a pretty bad visible skin condition (IMO attracted as he does drugs), another with a fat man (who’s rich and has a IDGAF mentality), and a hot girl who dates a guy a w… | /r/askTRP | 18/07/19 06:04 AM |
| 8 | Any way to break out of cycle of unfulfilling plate spinning?If you have to travel, what options are there for an LTR if you have a high sex drive? Skype cam sessions? Or an open relationship? Seems to me you’re just thinking the ‘grass is greener on the other side’. Another option is the ‘casually dating’ route. You can even bring her to meet your friends - and maintain that you’re casually dating/still getting to know one another. After, just break up and rinse repeat. I’ve done it before and it’s a way to make plate spinning more fun. Much different th… | /r/askTRP | 17/07/19 07:35 PM |
| 5 | Friends calling me a whore.Some comments are retarded. People take the whole AA shit way too far. If some guy decides to be an asshole repeatedly, you don’t just smile and be a doormat for eternity. Have some self-respect. Quit being scared of confrontation. Diss them back, don’t just sit there and take it like a dolt. | /r/askTRP | 16/07/19 08:42 PM |
| 5 | Where to travel solo at 18?You probably should travel with a friend though, just in case. Nightlife, parties, booze, in a foreign country as an 18 year old - more things can go wrong than right. To your question, I’d fly out. You’re gonna want to get out of the US. For example, clubs are 18+ in EU versus the US. And clubs are a lot of fun, especially if you have never experienced it. | /r/askTRP | 15/07/19 09:37 PM |
| 1 | TRP quite destroyed my lifeStay off the weed. | /r/askTRP | 15/07/19 09:30 PM |
| 9 | Today I noticed my family makes me act like a beta fuckProbably because they are actually older and wiser. You may be funny to your friends, but you’re boring and predictable to them. Quit trying to get validation. | /r/askTRP | 15/07/19 09:29 PM |
| 1 | GF to help a guyThere’s probably a lot of subtle clues you are not picking up on. As it reads right now, your post makes you look autistic and a possessive beta. However, I have and always will believe in a man’s gut instincts. If everything appears okay, and there is a negging feeling something is off, perhaps you are simply unable to notice, analyse, and evaluate it. So fuck getting advice do whatever you want to do. Even if ‘ignoring’ is what I and most here would do, if you feel uncomfortable then tell her … | /r/askTRP | 15/07/19 09:27 PM |
| 1 | Dad potentially cheating on mom? What to do?Snitches get stitches. | /r/askTRP | 05/07/19 07:24 PM |
| 1 | Having the hardest time getting close to any femaleIf you want to approach better, there are tons of resources online. In fact, reading the sidebar will give you these skills (abundance, AA, AM, DA, frame, etc). In my personal life, while these all helped, the biggest contributor to me getting more female attention was to simply become ‘more attractive’. For me, it was by getting bigger through lifting. | /r/askTRP | 05/07/19 07:22 PM |
| 2 | How do I stop getting nervous about situations that are no big deal?Probably because you have not been socialising as much. Loss of confidence. Honestly, I’ve found taking a shit before anything which makes you nervous helps. Just releases all tensions. | /r/askTRP | 05/07/19 07:18 PM |
| 2 | In ltr is it normal to want to fuck other girlsHave cheated before in an LTR. Odd thing is cheating makes me more attractive to her, makes me more attracted to her, and honestly improves the relationship provided she does not find out. IMO it is a cheap way to gain abundance. Everything else follows. Also, TRP is amoral. | /r/askTRP | 05/07/19 07:16 PM |
| 1 | In LTRs, is it dump or be dumped, basically?If you’re young, and you are misguidedly against plating women, expect a dump or be dumped lifestyle. If you know what you want, and she follows and supports what you want (captain/first mate), then you can apply some higher level thinking. But honestly for most, just having a dumped or be dumped mentality saves you a lot of trouble. | /r/askTRP | 03/07/19 06:57 PM |
| 1 | Plate hard to read between datesBeen there done that. Turns out the women I was seeing had a boyfriend who was out of the county, and I was the side-dick. Hey, I’m not complaining. Enjoy the ride. You are 100% correct - women will blow up the phone of someone she likes, especially since you two already had sex. Don’t be naive - she’s definitely hiding secrets. | /r/askTRP | 03/07/19 06:49 PM |
| 55 | What the fuck is up with young women and not using condoms lately?I used to think it was me. That I was the Chad who made her drop the condoms. Then I realized that the only reason she did it with me was that she had done it with someone else/will do it with someone else in the future. It’s honestly true that you will just be another on her CC ride. You’re either the first of many she will go raw with, or one of the many she has gone raw with. Plus, it’s always been like this. People have been saying hookers are cleaner (STD-wise) than girls at clubs since....… | /r/askTRP | 03/07/19 06:45 PM |
| 6 | A promiscuous girl can acquire a boyfriend whenever she feels like it but a good looking and confident man has to settle for anything he can get his hands on?Women’s SMV peaks early. Men’s SMV gradually increases. At a young age, women have access to better options, and it is often effortless. It’s just how life is. If it makes you feel better, we tend to win the long game, due to the wall kicking in when she hits a certain age. No matter how stunning you think a girl is, just remember in 20 years she’ll be wrinkled, and infinitely less attractive than the random 20-year-old Jane from chemistry class. | /r/askTRP | 03/07/19 06:41 PM |
| 0 | The girl I’m seeing is a YouTuber, should I see that as a red flag?Populism is everywhere, and if she is a YouTuber, she’ll be swarmed with liberal ideologies. I guarantee that your and her definitions of a relationship are different. Her (and honestly most women’s) definition of an LTR is like a plate relationship in TRP terms. Not much screening, go with the flow, break-up make-up, unrealistic expectations, etc. | /r/askTRP | 03/07/19 06:35 PM |
| 5 | Is it a terrible idea to have female housemates?You might as well try. 6 months to learn the hard way never to do it again. I lived with female housemates before, and I lived in an all guy’s house before. Living with women was annoying as fuck. Had infinitely more fun with the boys. It’s also cleaner living with guys than girls. I had girl who stopped doing chores one weekend, and another who always leaves hair in the shower. | /r/askTRP | 03/07/19 06:31 PM |
| 1 | Feels like I'm in Limbo...short guy looking for adviceCheck the doc. I remember reading something about the spine, and something about there being a scientific procedure to determine whether you still have the capacity to grow. If you do, doctors can give you an injection to ‘jumpstart’ the growth. | /r/askTRP | 03/07/19 06:26 PM |
| 1 | Persistently getting asked "Are you mad?" Why does this annoy me so much?U mad bro? Jokes aside it is definitely you. ‘U mad bro’ is a meme because it is meant to incite a defensive response. Get thicker skin. | /r/askTRP | 03/07/19 06:23 PM |
| 0 | What’s this plate womanese?Sidebar. Pay attention to a women’s actions, not her words. You got a rough journey if you insist on deciphering her words. | /r/askTRP | 03/07/19 06:22 PM |
| 1 | Is there any reason why a girlfriend would hang out with a friend who is a guy besides fucking?These types of questions always divides the sub. Even endorsed contributors have differing views. IMO, in every relationship there is one party who IS in control, and another who is chasing/wanting/likes the other person more. From a RP lens, be the guy SHE has to worry about cheating on HER. To do so, you have to be busy (lift, work on school, work on your job, etc). Personally I think it’s a red flag. Flip the scenario. If it was me, and I was regularly hanging out with a female friend solo WH… | /r/askTRP | 03/07/19 06:19 PM |
| 2 | Wife of 7 years called me with his ex's name during sex.She better be massaging your feet while apologising profusely for the next 10 years for a slip-up like that. | /r/askTRP | 29/06/19 09:40 PM |
| 12 | What to do when GF goes out on nights out in fairly revealing clothing?The biggest issue here is not that she is clubbing, is that she is not inviting YOU with her, for YOU to see her in revealing clothing. Honestly you and her are both too young for a relationship. She wants to feel young, feel sexy and get attention. Which she can and should, as her SMV peaks early. She’s not doing it maliciously, she just has not experienced enough, and wants the shiny apple. These are all not optimal qualities to have in an LTR. And honestly, for most women if she has never exp… | /r/askTRP | 22/06/19 05:57 AM |
| 4 | How do I go about asking out a Christian girlThey are paid/told by their church to ‘spread’ the faith. I’m forgetting the word for it, but it is common (missionaries?). I’ve been approached before (both genders). They’re usually cool and socially smart people, and after about a few mins they start talking about their church. Then you go ‘ah-hah, that’s why you talked to me’. While it’s not exactly a dealbreaker, it may not have been an IOI moreso she’s doing her job. | /r/askTRP | 20/06/19 04:56 PM |
| -1 | How the hell can you remain frame when you got herpes and has a MORAL responsibility to let future partners know?And here comes the retard. Clearly, spreading a venereal disease will be met with no legal risk. I cannot fathom why there would be policy reasons to discourage spreading diseases. Enjoy your day-job, I’m sure you have little fears of litigation. Can’t imagine anyone going after your money, when you have nothing to give. Life must be nice that way. | /r/askTRP | 18/06/19 08:58 AM |
| -6 | How the hell can you remain frame when you got herpes and has a MORAL responsibility to let future partners know?READ. If you live in a country that is in the EU, not only do you have to follow your own country’s judicial system, you can be also tried in European Courts for certain offences, like infringing someone else’s human rights. You know what human rights are right? You know, sanctity of life and shit? Willingly spreading a disease is a breach of that. The threat of having a human rights lawyer come after your shit should be reason enough to disclose. Plus, it is criminal (rape) to spread a disease … | /r/askTRP | 18/06/19 04:51 AM |
| 10 | Opinion on drugs?Bunch of stupid responses. Is ‘X’ good for me questions can always be answered the same way. ‘It depends’. Create an outline for your own life - career goals, academic results, physical fitness, dating life, personal growth etc. Then, work towards those goals. If you feel you are on pace for your EXPECTATIONS, then go ahead and do ‘X’. If you’re shit behind, then don’t do ‘X’. I do not see the merit in having an armchair psychology debate on the merits of drugs, or marijuana, or fucking fapping … | /r/askTRP | 16/06/19 07:47 PM |
| 2 | Gf shit-tests during blowjobsIf you’re asking for tips on coercing someone into non-consensual sexual services, you must not enjoy having freedom and liberties. | /r/askTRP | 16/06/19 07:39 PM |
| 5 | Ex-girlfriend didn't make my son visit me after a fight for Father's Day.Man, that’s bs. This must drive you insane. I hope your son is old enough to realize parenting is complicated. If he’s young, buy him a Nintendo Switch or something. It’ll make him happy, plus distracted long enough for you to sort it out with lawyers. Kids need things to be happy about, and him having positive memories associated with you will make his childhood, more like an actual childhood. Posts like this make me realize girl problems are nothing compared to mother-of-my-child problems. | /r/askTRP | 16/06/19 07:34 PM |
| 1 | Girlfriend's ex has cancer because of drug addiction, she feels guilty, what can I do ?I mean, it’s sad but honestly I’m going to give you amoral advice. Her life, her problems, her issues. It’s the same if her friend Sally has the new shoes that she wanted before her. Your mindset of ‘helping her’ and making sure she knows it’s ‘not her problem’ is beta as fuck. You are in HER frame, solving her problem. Women do not want supplicating betas (here - I’ll do your homework for you). Know what will cheer her up when she feels bad? Give her a MAN who she can lean on. So she can discar… | /r/askTRP | 14/06/19 09:16 PM |
| 13 | Girl "forgot" to take birth controlTake the plan b....? This is less a TRP question than it is a common sense question. | /r/askTRP | 14/06/19 09:03 PM |
| 6 | AMA - Prostitution in South America. Legal, cheap and of quality.To add on, did you know how you got those STD’s? From a high class hooker, regular hooker, or a lower class one? Through kissing, unprotected oral, or unprotected sex, or something else? | /r/TheRedPill | 14/06/19 08:55 PM |
| 23 | coworker trying to dominateQuite surprised you are in finance, yet you do not have the awareness to realize that the financial profession is a giant dick measuring contest. If he’s being a dick to you this overtly AND nobody stands up for you (while siding with him), then you have some character flaw that you’re not realizing. If you’re not into office politics I recommend you to find a less competitive profession. | /r/askTRP | 14/06/19 09:08 AM |
| 11 | About to kick my LTR to the curb, she wanted a break, confesses to kissing another guy during it. Would love any advice.If she cheats, she’ll repeat. Cut her out cold turkey - she should not be in a part of your life or thoughts anymore. | /r/askTRP | 09/06/19 03:09 AM |
| 3 | Care about LTR’s sexual history?Pre-TRP, I cared a lot. Like a lot. It’s not like I wanted a unicorn - I knew it didn’t exist even back then. I wanted a ‘good’ girl with a low N-count. Honestly, I wanted it because at the time I also had a low N count - I wanted someone similar in values. Post-TRP, I could not care less. I’ve learned ‘good’ women are groomed by the man. I’m pretty confident most women’s N-count is less than mine (esp as I prefer young girls). If I’m entering a relationship, both me and her will get screened fo… | /r/askTRP | 06/06/19 08:45 AM |
| 3 | “If you don’t know you want marriage in the next 5 years, I gotta move on.”She is 29. In five years, she’ll be 34. Quite generous of her to give you a FIVE year window. She’s not saying marry me NAO like some of the commenters understand. If you’re RP aware, you know what the wall is. Good luck getting married if you’re a girl who’s 34. If you’re single at 34, you’ll have to meet and date before marriage. So you’re looking at a wedding at 36. All the while bearing the social pressure, female gossip, and insecurities she will face. I had a friend. She was 24, Guy was 23… | /r/askTRP | 06/06/19 08:32 AM |
| 9 | Am I correct in assuming in order to fuck you never bring it up, it’s simply taking her from place to place?Yes, always maintain plausible deniability. As per the theory. However I’ve recently been having success on Tinder by being overtly sexual through text. I’m questioning as to whether the ‘slow play’ of not talking about sex is needed. | /r/askTRP | 06/06/19 08:20 AM |
| 1 | How attached to get to an LTR whose studying abroad in January?Why even post on here if you are unwilling to listen to advice which contradicts your already formed opinion? Seems like you already made up your mind. | /r/askTRP | 04/06/19 09:35 PM |
| 1 | Sex and intergender relationships.First, this is askTRP (lol). Second, I don’t think you have read the sidebar, or internalised TRP. Sexual desire cannot be negotiated. You can maintain your position, I however can hear the sound of female legs closing. | /r/askTRP | 04/06/19 09:05 PM |
| 6 | All that matters is the information that TheRed Pill provides.The time, effort, and energy you spend on analysing someone else’s problem is less time you have on your own. It’s why many of the worlds richest often say ‘it’s not my job to fix that issue, I’m not paid to do that’. TRP is a handbook. Read it, and apply it. Then come back to it, fill out knowledge gaps, and apply it again. Rinse and repeat. Crawling down the rabbit hole of debating other people’s problems without a purpose is a time sink. | /r/TheRedPill | 04/06/19 08:58 PM |
| 1 | Ruined A Plate & Lost FrameThis type of post happens every few days. Why do you people always believe what a women has to say? And why the fuck have you not read the sidebar. If you honestly believe that a women will lose tingles ‘because my friends don’t like you’ you are an idiot. You lost her some other way, or someone better came into her life, and that’s her bullshit cover job to make you look bad, to ease her conscience and to maintain her image. She’s not yours, it was just your turn. | /r/askTRP | 04/06/19 08:52 PM |
| 1 | How do I regain frame?Aren’t you worried you will get a brain aneurysm from digging so deep into a thot’s history? You should get checked for STD’s at this point. Honestly the more you chase this loser, the more of a loser you become. Just look at yourself - it’s embarrassing. It’s not your fault either. Like a good train wreck, it is hard to take your eyes and attention off the batshit inane. My honest opinion is to grow up, and develop some discipline. | /r/askTRP | 04/06/19 08:48 PM |
| 6 | [17M] I look too youngIt’s not that you look young, it’s that you don’t have a solid frame. So what if you are young - stop seeking validation and own it. If it makes you feel better, wrinkles, a receding hairline, and poor vision will come your way no matter what you do. | /r/askTRP | 04/06/19 08:41 PM |
| 1 | Funny redpill storyWomen are clever enough to pretend to be angels, evens after blowing the entire football team. I feel men should start learning to be clever, and claim to be angels ourselves rather than try to be honest and use reason. It’s why AA, AM, DA work so well on women, bullshitting is their native language. | /r/askTRP | 04/06/19 08:39 PM |
| 3 | Factors and ratio of women who act on their hypergamyFirst, they have an image to maintain, any sane couple will not air their dirty laundry. She’s living out her fantasy of being married and living the white picket fence dream. If she has as many red flags as you say, she’ll eventually stumble on a ‘revelation’ and she will want to ‘be herself again’ and she will be ‘reborn again’. Something along the lines to hop on the CC. The only way to control hypergamy is to be the man that she wants to chase after. Women, left to their own accord, will alw… | /r/askTRP | 04/06/19 08:35 PM |
| 1 | I am being a paranoid insecure bitch. Please help me.I’m going to cut to the chase, skip the bs. Ships sailed, any more effort is wasted effort. I have always and will always believe in a man’s gut instinct. If you feel something is off, like she is cheating, odds are she either IS cheating, or is planning to. Our anti-cuck defences have been selectively passed on for generations. Also women branch swing - they don’t break up THEN look for another, they look for another BEFORE breaking up. The solution that a lot here (and I agree with) is to care… | /r/askTRP | 04/06/19 08:25 PM |
| 1 | Neymar accused of rape goes out and show his texts with the girl (Translated text)It is the best move in the long run. The cost is lost sponsorships, future sports contracts, media opportunities, and forgoing his brand. Plus his ‘honour’ or ‘integrity’ if he values it. The correct method is to sue for defamation, get an injunction, and allow the courts to decide private matters. Now, it’s basically ‘sell your story to the press and we go from there’. Folks on TV and online will always side with the women. Even if you are proven innocent, people will still hold it against you.… | /r/TheRedPill | 04/06/19 08:05 PM |
| 1 | Embarassing boner problemFlip it up. Thank me later. | /r/askTRP | 02/06/19 07:14 PM |
| 8 | Which is better a studio or 1 bedroom apt?Depends on ventilation, and if the studio is new. If you cook a steak, would your suits begin to smell of olive oil? What about lights, power sockets, and location? I cook a lot, so for me, 200 for a door so my sheets don’t smell is a no-brainer. | /r/askTRP | 02/06/19 07:11 PM |
| 7 | How to go back to the girls house?Make up any bullshit reason to not trigger her ASD and LMR. I’ve seen horny, primed women ‘sober up’ when I directly brought up sex at her/my place. You don’t even have to be smooth, or witty, about it. I’ve asked to borrow a girl’s toilet to go to her place. After entering her house, escalate and profit. Clearly you should have condoms prepared beforehand. I’ve only had the ‘direct’ method work on tinder, where it is established I want sex, and she wants sex, so we can skip to the sex and start… | /r/askTRP | 02/06/19 06:59 PM |
| 1 | Gaining muscle mass at homeI’ve seen some fitness monsters who work out solely at the park, swinging monkey bars and shit. So it is possible, albeit unnecessarily difficult. Unless you have the time, genes, experience, and dedication, you’re better off paying for a gym membership. More gains less effort. | /r/askTRP | 02/06/19 06:52 PM |
| 7 | Neymar accused of rape goes out and show his texts with the girl (Translated text)Legally, these texts do not matter. Rape is a consent based offence, and a person being horny does not automatically means it is grounds for a man to penetrate a women. HOWEVER. Seeing as our culture will judge and execute a person a la ‘guilty until proven innocent’, this is a great move. When dealing with a bunch of idiots in the court of public opinion, releasing texts protects a man’s image, and his reputation. I wished more accused men would release texts, DMs, and photos. | /r/TheRedPill | 02/06/19 06:46 PM |
| 2 | How do you stop the urge to commitCommit as in what, marriage? The common protocol is: plate -> LTR. If she is a good plate, promote her to an LTR. If she remains a good LTR, keep raising your standards and ask more out of her. Date a few years, and if truly she has no (and I mean fucking 0) red flags, only then do you even CONSIDER marriage. I personally recommend entering into an LTR unless you have already slept around. | /r/askTRP | 08/05/19 05:00 PM |
| 1 | How to maintain I am the prize mentality when it's obv I fked upSounds like oneitis. You don’t owe her shit. Stop thinking you do. | /r/askTRP | 08/05/19 04:54 PM |
| 2 | How do you respond to insults?Man, these type of common sense questions have been flooding the board. Shouldn’t you have already learned how to deal with people calling each other names in primary school? | /r/askTRP | 08/05/19 04:52 PM |
| 0 | Starting a Business/Startup abroadWhy would you want to start a business abroad? Most tax regulations are a lot less forgiving for foreign companies/investors. Unless you have connections in your desired country, it sounds like a recipe for disaster. All your assets: friends, money, and connections are in your home country. Moving elsewhere would be moving away from those assets. | /r/askTRP | 08/05/19 04:51 PM |
| 1 | LTR getting hit on shit test via text. how to respond?You’re a special person to enjoy dating a girl who likes to be drunk without you, all the while getting hit on by others. Don’t you feel awful right now? Butterflies in your belly, feeling like you’re getting cucked by another random at the bar? Forget about her, focus on yourself - is this really what YOU want in your life? | /r/askTRP | 08/05/19 04:47 PM |
| 1 | Best way to break up with LTRSeeing as she lowballed and disrespected you by hiding shit, fuck her. Anybody who would delete messages is not worth an LTR. A plate at best. It’s troublesome demoting an LTR, so ghost. If it was me, I’d just block on everything and move on. No explanation. She would not deserve my closure, nor does she even deserve a conversation. For option 2... I mean, if you’re emotionally unstable and petty, you CAN nuke her and drop all your facts on her. Make her cry then dump her, to complete the alpha … | /r/askTRP | 08/05/19 04:45 PM |
| 3 | Stopping porn and masturbation made me come quickerSimply pace yourself. My practical advice is to be in charge. If my sex-addict plate rides me like no tomorrow, I’m not lasting long. If I’m pounding her from behind or on top, I could control the pace. Second tip: Do something to lubricate her vag. It makes that shit less tight. Less tight = less friction. Less friction = less pressure on your second head. Less pressure = longer lasting. Either do it through foreplay, or get those condoms with lube, or straight-up use lube. Guaranteed success. | /r/askTRP | 08/05/19 04:36 PM |
| 2 | The Economist: No sex please, we’re millennials: "The portion of Americans aged 18 to 29 who claim to have had no sex for 12 months has more than doubled in a decade—to 23% last year."23% is a high number. Unfortunately, I’m willing to bet the house that the most of them are men. Look up threads on ‘AskReddit’ with questions like ‘ladies, what was the longest dry spell you’ve had?’. The responses will surprise you. They are taking about the LONGEST EVER, and very few women reply with > 6months. Most common responses were two weeks, or four weeks. Yes, weeks. Women count in weeks. Men count in years. With the help of anonymity, there are even female users who type how they are… | /r/TheRedPill | 08/05/19 02:10 PM |
| 1 | New GF followed her doctor from instagramLmfao | /r/askTRP | 08/05/19 11:26 AM |
| 2 | Need help dumping GF - most painless way?Just ghost. Don’t think of it as something bad, everybody has done it before. Hell, she’s doing it to you right now. Eventually, when you ghost a girl, she’ll ask you what’s up. At this point, you can play dumb (which is what she is probably doing to you) or be direct and say it’s over. Whichever you choose, the other party will eventually ‘get it’, feel ‘disappointed’ and move on. You’ll feel like an asshole for a minute, but you’ll get over it. She will to. Your social circle will as well. Tim… | /r/askTRP | 07/05/19 08:21 PM |
| 2 | Dated a Borderline Girl. Best experience I had.Not saying they are. The only truly ‘borderline’ girl I knew, turns out she was sucking dick as a side job. I’m sure being a escorts/sugar babies helped their ability to live double lives, and to get inside a man’s head. If it’s not clear, I’m speaking from personal experience. An opinion. Just a comment, not asserting the fact that borderline = sugar baby. However I wouldn’t be surprised if OP finds out his girl is on Seeking Arrangement. | /r/TheRedPill | 06/05/19 05:33 AM |
| 2 | Would it be stupid to move country for smv?Work in London for the doe, visit Eastern Europe for the hoes. Big fan of Scottish women myself, friendly and attractive. | /r/askTRP | 05/05/19 06:16 PM |
| 3 | money and looksHonestly, with money you can buy an unlimited supply of women. If your goal is a high N-count, the sexiest man alive will not outrace the richest man alive in a race to see who has more sexual partners. If you take away the commercial aspect of sex, looks are more likely to get you laid rather than money. Evidence - AF, BB. Plus, I believe women care more about ‘perceived wealth’ than ‘actual wealth’. If you’re in the room with a bunch of rich people, the women next to you will think you’re ‘ric… | /r/askTRP | 05/05/19 06:09 PM |
| 16 | Dated a Borderline Girl. Best experience I had.This may sound weird but I have met a girl like this before. Odd, yet very charming in a manipulative way. Turns out she was a sugar baby/part-time escort, which explained why her social skills were through the roof, and she knew exactly what to say, when to say it, and which emotions to use. As you said yourself, she is deceptive. High income gifts, yet no official source of income. When I read that, I immediately thought of my past experience. | /r/TheRedPill | 05/05/19 06:03 PM |
| 3 | Would it be stupid to move country for smv?TRP response - work on yourself so you BECOME the high SMV man in your neighborhood. This will push you to become the best version of yourself. And to chase money, goals, and success rather than chase women. To be the best of the best, rather than he biggest fish in a small pond. However, your premise is correct. I’ve traveled around, and I’ve noticed this SMV discrepancy myself. It is real - I would get tinder matches (non-gold user here) in certain countries like crazy, but in others it’s dead… | /r/askTRP | 05/05/19 05:57 PM |
| 3 | Why do Beta Bucks stay in the relationship? Can't they tell they're just being used for money?Just as the women is using the beta bucks as a lapdog, the beta bucks is also equally using the women as a source of life validation. Women get a man who they can whip around. They get a man who will never leave, who is attentive, who gives her gifts and money. This is obvious for those who visit TRP. For men, this is what you are failing to take into consideration: the value of their money is LESS than the value they get from being ‘TAKEN’. These benefits include: being a family man, having an … | /r/askTRP | 05/05/19 05:48 PM |
| 77 | Science study on low female libido hits Reddit front page. Typical advice get top comments.It felt emasculating just reading that rubbish. Brb banging a plate. | /r/TheRedPill | 05/05/19 05:41 PM |
| 1 | Weird feeling inside. I want to dump my GF after she said this to me...If she cheats, she’ll repeat. Once a branch swinger, always a branch swinger. It is not as if a relationship cannot work, but I would suggest you screen for someone with less red flags than her, especially as you’re considering LTR-ing her. | /r/askTRP | 05/05/19 06:16 AM |
| 1 | I find meeting and gaming women more fun than actual sex itselfIsn’t this the male equivalent of validation seeking? Like how a girl will say: ‘I’m on tinder for the validation, I use snapchat/IG for the attention’? While I believe in AWALT, I feel a lot of human behavior applies to both genders. | /r/askTRP | 25/04/19 04:06 PM |
| 3 | Contemplating breaking up with LTRI’ve been with many women, and I’ve never seen one who were not emotionally needy. It’s what women do - their hormones are all over the place depending on the time of month, and you can never expect consistency from women. Perhaps start dating men. Also, seeing as she is soon to hit the wall, what percentage of her bad behavior stems from the fact that she isn’t married, and won’t be getting married anytime soon? Women seek commitment from a man, it must be discouraging for her to know her pipe-… | /r/askTRP | 24/04/19 01:33 PM |
| 1 | Dude gets handys with your girl and kisses her a couple of times right in front of you, what do you do? (video)Clickbait. It’s fake. Tons of these personalities are ‘fake’ boyfriends and girlfriends. As in, there’s a giant contract which they both sign indicating they play their roles and cannot let the ‘truth’ slip out, else financial penalties. | /r/askTRP | 20/04/19 08:24 PM |
| 3 | Woman ALWAYS consider an alternativeIf you invite a bunch of old(er) men into a bar near a college, invite the college football team, and invite all the freshmen girls on campus, my money is that the girls will pair with the similarly aged. Your observation (IMO) only applies to working women, who frustrated by working, lack of status and low pay, seek an easy solution via an older provider. Or, it applies to women who have been ‘brushed aside’ by attractive similarly aged men, dislike unattractive similarly aged men, and turn to … | /r/askTRP | 20/04/19 08:21 PM |
| 1 | Guy flirting with LTR and she’s not shutting him downThe funny thing is, with younger women, they fall in two categories. Either they become crazy obsessed, or they have a ‘yolo’ mentality and officially board the CC. Young women (like men) are always horny. So getting attention from the opposite gender is addicting. It’s difficult to suppress her desires. So, focus on yourself. Get her to do things for you. So she spends her time catering to your needs, rather than having the spare time to message strangers online. | /r/askTRP | 20/04/19 08:08 PM |
| 1 | Plate got offendedWomen getting offended, women asking if you meant it...I’ve heard these two lines from almost every girl I had sex with. It’s just her hormones acting up. Not your fault at all. Ignore, or dismiss it. If she pesters you on it, say: ‘I meant it but you interpreted it incorrectly’. This gets their hamster spinning. Never give a direct answer. Many girls eventually hamster their way out being offended. Saves me time and energy. | /r/askTRP | 20/04/19 08:02 PM |
| 3 | Jerking off before sexAnecdotal but if I don’t have sex AND not fap for like a week, I have trouble getting it up when the time comes. In my experiences, you got to exercise it a bit, however you can. Else it just kinda stops working. | /r/askTRP | 20/04/19 07:58 PM |
| 3 | How to study?I’ve seen people attend every law class, do every assignment, study every weekend, and get bad grades. I’ve also seen people skip classes, cram in the last two months, and come out with a good grade. Find someone who gets similar grades with you, and someone with similar study habits. Once you have someone to compare to, it’ll be easier to see when you should study, and when you don’t have to. In my experiences, unfortunately, academic results is not linear. What that means is, the more time spe… | /r/askTRP | 18/04/19 05:14 PM |
| 10 | How to demote ltr to plate?Never works well, better off finding another plate and dumping her all together. Too much strings attached. If you insist, then withdraw attention. Soon she’ll ask what is wrong. Then you can suggest a polygamous relationship. | /r/askTRP | 18/04/19 05:08 PM |
| 2 | Should I be concerned that my voice hasn’t broke yet?It’ll happen naturally. If you are in a rush, you can do vocal exercises. Tons of guides on YouTube. Focus on the lower ranges. There’s a NFL commentator with a deep voice when he is casting. However, when he’s giving an interview, it’s a regular pitched voice. This proves that vocal range can be trained. So whether you choose the natural route (wait), or choose the artificial route (training vocal cords), the pitch of your voice can be freely changed. | /r/askTRP | 18/04/19 05:07 PM |
| 1 | How to deal with knowledge that my ltr gets groped/grabbed at the clubLTR a girl with similar values. Plate a girl if all she provides is quality distraction. | /r/askTRP | 18/04/19 05:03 PM |
| 6 | Possibly avoided Tinder mugging or real life 'Hostel' movie?Good news: you dodged a bullet. Sounds like a scam. Your kidneys are in tact. Also good news: you’re in Eastern Europe. Tons of good looking women, and a great place to party. So you should find a replacement quick. | /r/askTRP | 16/04/19 05:09 AM |
| 1 | how real is the risk of std/stis?Things like herpes, genital warts, syphilis CAN transfer with a condom. A condom helps reduce the odds of getting a STD/STI which transmit via SEXUAL FLUIDS. Such as gonorrhea. Condoms do nothing for STD/STI which transmit through SKIN CONTACT. | /r/askTRP | 11/04/19 06:44 AM |
| 8 | how real is the risk of std/stis?Buddy, read. Nobody is talking about casual sex. I’m talking about not using a condom, your original question. Not using a condom = not worth it. You can have casual sex with a condom. | /r/askTRP | 11/04/19 06:14 AM |
| 1 | At what point do you become too muscular for most girls?Not the person you replied to, but you are both correct. Right place, right time >> looks. I’ve seen it happen, it’s happened to me, it’ll happen to you. It’s what he is referring to. Plenty of stories here of how the LTR of a rich, successful, attractive man cheated on him with a bum from the corner. Right place, right time. In other words, being ‘lucky’. However we cannot control ‘luck’ (nor expect to be consistently lucky). Out of the factors we can influence, looks is the most important. It’… | /r/askTRP | 11/04/19 06:05 AM |
| 6 | how real is the risk of std/stis?I’m not sure about the real risks. For me, it’s the SLEEPLESS nights I had which made me take on condoms at an early age. I’d get so paranoid that I’ve either gotten a girl pregs, or the STI risk, that I’d be sweating at night. Which impacted my mood and productivity the next day. When you want to get checked, you may have to wait 3 months for the virus to become detectable. It’s a painful wait, someone’s you’ll be wondering if that itch is because of something you caught. Not worth it. | /r/askTRP | 11/04/19 05:38 AM |
| 1 | Broke it off with LTR, all my “friends” trying to fuck her not even a week laterIf you have the courage, and decisiveness to drop an LTR, why can you not muster the same strength and confront your ‘friends’ about it? Are you scared of men, and only can be confident around women? If you have a problem, identify the root cause. You KNOW who is causing you discomfort - the ‘friends’ who are after your ex. There is NOTHING wrong with busting their balls and saying ‘you want my leftovers?’. These betas who would wait until you are out of the picture, to swoop in, I guarantee the… | /r/askTRP | 11/04/19 03:33 AM |
| 2 | Plate of 1.5 years said she was going to kill herself if I left her.As insane as it sounds, I’ve had a plate say the exact same thing. In my experience, my plate guilted me to stay longer than I wanted to (exactly like what happened with you). I showed my beta side, made sure everything is okay, before having her kiss me and me leaving after. The next day, she continues to be bi-polar. Threats, tears, regret, begging me to meet, etc. I went to her place the third day, and did the deed. When she walked into another room, I snooped her phone. Turns out she does th… | /r/askTRP | 07/04/19 06:07 PM |
| 2 | Is it wise to take a girl to a house party?So we just take an extreme and apply it to what I wrote. Somehow there’s a false equivalence that not bringing her to a party, is the same as locking her away in your room. | /r/askTRP | 05/04/19 10:10 AM |
| 1 | Will women ALWAYS try make an alpha commit to them?In my experience they don’t mind if you do with other women. Once a girl said that to me. She originally said to me it’ll be over immediately, no looking back if I was with another. A hard line, black and white. Asked if I understood, I brushed it off. Sure enough she ‘discovered’ I was with another. That ‘hard line’ then moved into ‘ok don’t do that again, and we can still be together’. In my opinion, women don’t really care. They just want good feelz. Also, look on this sub. How many men gave … | /r/askTRP | 05/04/19 06:47 AM |
| 1 | Will women ALWAYS try make an alpha commit to them?That’s your logic. Women operate off of ‘feelz’. If SHE wants sex only twice in two weeks, and if she wants cuddles only twice in two weeks, it’s commitment (from her perspective). With women, it’s not binary. You have to give it to them when they want it. ‘Strike while the iron is hot’. If you show up whenever she wants cuddles, her female brain will have no complaints. For example, I once plated a girl while doing this. Showed up whenever she was horny/needed comfort, without explicitly giving… | /r/askTRP | 05/04/19 05:40 AM |
| 3 | Is it wise to take a girl to a house party?Anything where you hand deliver her to a pack of hungry, horny men. Why set yourself up for failure? | /r/askTRP | 05/04/19 05:29 AM |
| 1 | Will women ALWAYS try make an alpha commit to them?The ironic thing is it doesn’t. Cuddles is not commitment. But the women I have met seem to think exclusivity is more about a greater amount of care given from me to then (ex: cuddles), rather than monogamy and ‘FB official’. It’s may sound manipulative - she wants ‘commitment’, you just be nice to her after sex, and throw her a bone here and there. But from my experiences, women’s definition of commitment is not the dictionary’s definition. Which is why so many guys fall for the ‘I gave her com… | /r/askTRP | 05/04/19 05:21 AM |
| 2 | Help me break up with my girlfriendCruel, but OP these are the words you need to hear, and internalise. Hope you enjoyed your ride because it’s over. Move on, read the sidebar, and find plates. | /r/askTRP | 04/04/19 09:12 PM |
| 2 | I don’t know where else to ask this but I’ve built a resentment towards my sister and it’s ruined our relationship what should I do?She’s giving you shit-tests. Now go dominate her. | /r/askTRP | 04/04/19 09:09 PM |
| 3 | What should I do with friends to get that adrenaline rush?I’ve been wanting some adrenaline rushes myself recently. A few years ago I did not ‘get it’. I went skydiving, and didn’t get any adrenaline rush, I just thought I did something stupid. Same with mountain climbing - no rush/sense of accomplishment, just fatigue. I think back then, I thought normal life was exciting enough. Now, I’m so used to life that I want thrills. Outdoor recommendation is to go to raves, drugs and all. Indoor activity of choice would be late night horror movies. | /r/askTRP | 04/04/19 09:06 PM |
| 6 | Is it wise to take a girl to a house party?Of course. It’s social proof. You can piggy back off her to get other girls. Plus she doubles as a ‘backup hookup’ if things don’t go well. The only time I will not recommend this is with an LTR. She’ll know you like the back of her hand - your strengths (alpha side) and your weaknesses (beta side). If a man at the party has a trait you do not have, her CC juices will start flowing. Woman overrate a strangers SMV due to the mystery factor. I feel it’s better to be strategic, and avoid CC-trigger… | /r/askTRP | 04/04/19 09:00 PM |
| 2 | Do u ever wish ur gf was a "mute"?Bruh | /r/askTRP | 04/04/19 08:54 PM |
| 1 | Will women ALWAYS try make an alpha commit to them?They are as fickle as can be. If you’re looking for a logical pattern of behavior, don’t. Women want an alpha to literally commit, for example, after sex. They want cuddles, they want a spooning partner. Other times, they enjoy the thrill of yelling after an alpha to commit while he keeps walking away. They don’t want the alpha to actually stop, turn around, and say I love you. The confusing part is that they’ll say ‘I want you to commit’ in both of the above scenarios. It’s your job to decipher… | /r/askTRP | 04/04/19 08:52 PM |
| 10 | Thoughts on Bezos divorce?Another reason why you should not mix TRP (life guidance) with finance. In case you idiots did not read past the headline, the divorce made her the FOURTH RICHEST WOMEN ON THE PLANET. She is walking away with 35.7 BILLION. Giving Bezos control means her shares will APPRECIATE. She might end up as the richest female in a few years. This narrative that she’s some angel who is willing to give Bezos his money has got to stop. The lawyer fees were adding up. She decided to walk with more money than s… | /r/askTRP | 04/04/19 08:46 PM |
| 1 | LTR ended because I’m not beta?No, of course not. Plenty of men take out their frustrations (caused by the real world) on women. For example, have a bad day, drown it out in alcohol, and take it out on the wife and kids who’s minding their own business. You can yell at a person for anything. The ‘he/she caused it’ is just be a cover up to vent at someone. Girls do the same thing to guys - jealous that her friend got flowers, take it out on BF. | /r/askTRP | 27/03/19 08:17 PM |
| 2 | Need some serious advice after an idiotic one night standListen up. Don’t be stupid. Do not call her. Do not find her. Do not look for her. First, the women you met was not born yesterday. She knows that unprotected sex can lead to pregnancy. She knows about plan b. She also knows the steps it takes to get an abortion. Second, if she hooked up with you raw, she will have done so with another. Almost every women who I’ve had sex with ‘easily’ was also hooking up with other men. It’s never ‘my game is so strong’, and almost always ‘she’s a hoe’ when a g… | /r/askTRP | 27/03/19 07:01 AM |
| 7 | LTR with other guy, should I be worried?Way to call us while the house is already on fire. You showed ‘fear’ and ‘concern’ over him - a sign of weakness. Women want strong and dominant. You showing weakness for him makes HIM look strong and dominant. It signals to her that YOU believe his SMV is higher than yours. Women branch swing - if she is a normal person she will be tempted to cheat. It’s fucked up, but getting women to respect relationship rules is more so on us than on her. She WILL see it as your fault, and she WILL convince … | /r/askTRP | 27/03/19 06:47 AM |
| 7 | I am seeing a girl who is super progressive, and always replies with “If a guy can do it, why girls can’t?” everything a guy can do she replies with something like that.She doesn’t believe her own bs. In fact, most women don’t ‘stand by what they say’. They say it because they feel that way. She’s justifying riding the CC. It’s a symptom of AWALT. If you can stop her from riding the CC, you would’ve cured AWALT. Seeing as how AWALT has not been cured forever, I’d say enjoy your turn. | /r/askTRP | 27/03/19 06:35 AM |
| 1 | LTR ended because I’m not beta?Yeah. Plenty of stories of women sticking around ‘abusive relationships’. Then captain save-a-how comes along, and she still runs back to her ex. It’s a strong frame because the man who yells at women is basically saying ‘I don’t give a fuck about the consequences’. It’s dominant, something women like in men. On the flip side, if you yell at her ‘because’ of something she did or said, then you are in her frame. | /r/askTRP | 27/03/19 06:29 AM |
| 1 | LTR ended because I’m not beta?Stoic means not showing emotional reactions. Reactions means react-ING. Reacting means you are in her frame. If a man is a drunk and physically abuses women, yes he is emotional, however in this twisted example he is maintaining frame. Again, just to hammer home this point, frame gives women tingles and feelz. Makes them feel like they have an alpha, gives them a sense that things are under control. None of the things here contradict one another. Some people focus on the wrong words and get conf… | /r/askTRP | 26/03/19 06:47 PM |
| -1 | Women treat dating apps like chat roulette, agree or disagree?What the fuck has the sub degraded into. Women treat dating apps as a way to find attractive men to have sex with / date. It is, and always will be, the primary reason people use dating apps. It’s why it’s called a dating app. If you think women are on there solely to chat, you’re batshit insane. The chatting is FILLER, it’s the way to pass time before she swipes someone she wants to fuck. It’s like saying people buy video games in order to play the mini-games. Fuck sake, the mini-games may be f… | /r/askTRP | 25/03/19 07:03 PM |
| 2 | LTR ended because I’m not beta?I have never lost an LTR due to being ‘too alpha’. I have also never met a LTR couple who broke up due to being ‘not beta enough’. Shit-tests, yes, never ends it. If you’re ‘the man’ women are motivated to ‘domesticate you’. They get a kick of trying to reform men, of chasing the alpha. They WANT men who are not beta, so they can domesticate them. I’m all-in on the theory of alpha fucks, beta bucks. You lost her due to frame. When you argued, you lost your cool. You are no longer the stoic man, … | /r/askTRP | 25/03/19 06:48 PM |
| 34 | Why do most girls nowadays claim to have 'anxiety'? What's up with that?Attention. They want to feel like the world has CAUSED bad things to happen to them, and that their bad experiences are not due to poor choices, but ‘anxiety’. It makes them feel special, even when fucking up. There’s no person, male or female, who never felt ‘butterflies in their stomach’. I wish I could say ‘anxiety’ the next time I go in for a job interview, and not get laughed out the building. Anxiety is also incredibly popular with white women in the western world. | /r/askTRP | 25/03/19 06:39 PM |
| 1 | Tinder girl told me she is on her period, and if I still want to hang out.I had a phase where I’d smash tinder girls even if they had their periods. I’ve found women don’t care - helps their cramps. Plus it’s disarms their ASD as she’ll think ‘no sex because period’. How silly. Personally, I no longer do so because the smell of blood and vaginal liquid reeks. Plus it’s messy. It’ll be better to wait. If you’re so horny you don’t care, I’d recommend putting towels underneath her. Trust me. And use a condom (STIs and STDs transmit easily via blood). | /r/askTRP | 22/03/19 07:36 PM |
| 4 | Told LTR when the lease is up in two weeks I "Want to take a break"Should’ve kept your mouth shut for two weeks. I’d personally say ‘let’s try working things out’ to get her to stfu for two weeks, and properly dump her after saying ‘it didn’t work out’. You‘ll probably enjoy her more these two weeks knowing you two are done after anyway. | /r/askTRP | 22/03/19 07:31 PM |
| 1 | should i tell/explain why i don’t want to see an ‘unofficial’ fwb anymore?Go if you wanna get your dick wet. It’s that simple. If she flakes, then enjoy your night some other way. | /r/askTRP | 22/03/19 07:29 PM |
| 9 | Thinking of quitting college at last semester. Advice needed!You’ve been studying for 4 years, you can afford to study for 6. Quitting school is not a good idea. There’s a reason why people are encouraged to stay in school - it’s a safe pathway to employability. This isn’t the Wild West, get your degree, and do things the proper way even if it takes 2 extra years. My other suggestion is that if this is something which you are uninterested in, you can consider swapping to a different major. | /r/askTRP | 22/03/19 07:27 PM |
| 0 | Girlfriend is not happy with our one sided open relationshipIs this a language barrier issue? This is a textbook plate relationship. Call it what you want, but if it’s not a monogamous relationship, you two are not bf/gf. A harem while having a one sided relationship is the most beta, naive idea I’ve ever read. There’s a million cocks between you and your snowflake, who you seem positive is doing everything for you. I’m not buying that she is monogamous. And if you do not care that she’s fucking other people while you’re also fucking other people, that’s… | /r/askTRP | 22/03/19 07:23 PM |
| 2 | Cheated on LTR and now the relationship is better. Why is this?Prepare for shit-test galore in the long-run. It’s never a 100% automatic breakup if she finds out. So you’re fine in the near future. But when you mess up (and everyone does in an LTR, whether it’s failing a comfort test or being beta) you best believe she will bring it up when her hormones hit her. When she said she could have done things differently, it sets the stage. The rule, going forward now, is that when one party fails in their ‘relationship duties’, the other has the green light to ch… | /r/askTRP | 11/03/19 06:53 PM |
| 34 | How do you explain an interabled relationship? Makes no senseShe has an dominant personality. She wants to be in charge, and practically wants a ‘bitch’ to play around with. Think ‘dom’ in BDSM. I’ve seen many girls, and she also looks insecure - she looks like she’s walking on eggshells. I would not be surprised if she was alpha widowed. Now, why him? He provides things many men don’t. He seems like a nice guy, someone she can walk over. Also, he’s completely reliant on her - zero chance she gets her heart broken. Disability checks are also good. And fin… | /r/askTRP | 11/03/19 06:46 AM |
| 13 | I had a ONS with a girl last night and she messaged me "I'm sorry for last night." How do I proceed?Hope you wrapped it up. What kind of insane chick says ‘sorry’ after sex? I hope it’s for psychological reasons and not because she passed you herpes. | /r/askTRP | 10/03/19 06:06 AM |
| 2 | I see happy couples everywhereThe blue pill in you is rearing it’s ugly head again. Try to internalize TRP. | /r/askTRP | 09/03/19 06:16 AM |
| 30 | Girl cries after sex, says she's afraid I won't want to see her againDo not believe her words, trust her actions. She’s a person who is insecure, and wants a man to be there with her. In other words, this is how she justifies being on the CC. I’ve been with a few girls who hit me with this line before when I didn’t want to sleep with them after sex. They felt I was only there for sex (true). It’s a ploy to guilt you to give bf/gf levels of comfort. These girls were easy lays. Funnily enough they were also fucking multiple other people. These women are broken. Pla… | /r/askTRP | 06/03/19 04:16 AM |
| 2 | It's been over two weeks and I'm still feeling like shit about being dumpedHate to be that guy, but ‘breakup sex’ and ‘rebounds’ are terms that exist for a reason. They work. And they work well. Chasing, and ultimately having sex with another women will cause the butterflies to disappear. The only way to get over her is to get more wins in your belt. You just suffered a big fat loss. Start getting wins by moving on and meeting more women. | /r/askTRP | 28/02/19 07:51 PM |
| 3 | How to deal with being bad at something your date wants to do?You idiot, the point is the date and not what you do on the date. It’s blue pill bs to think that a ‘date’ is meant to impress. Get that shit out of your head. It doesn’t matter if you can’t stand, or if you can do multiple 360s. It’s a one on one date, so think ‘escalation’. Be sexual, escalate, and close by bringing her home. Make it fun, be memorable. It’s a winning strategy. Touch, escalate, kino, humour, sex. | /r/askTRP | 28/02/19 07:47 PM |
| 3 | What did my Ex's friend wantWell don’t give up now. Update us with the details when it works out! | /r/askTRP | 28/02/19 07:29 PM |
| 1 | LTR wants to work in a club as bartenderWhy are you explaining, or even discussing this matter with her. Even a halfwit understands being a barmaid isn’t good for a relationship. Odd hours, alcohol, parties, red flags galore. When the answer is so obvious, alarms should be going off in your head that the entire thing was a shit test. You don’t give that much mental energy to a shit-test. I suggest you dump her, plate women, experience a buffet of shit tests, and ultimately become a man who can identity and pass shit-tests. You lack ex… | /r/askTRP | 28/02/19 07:26 PM |
| 345 | You should NEVER ignore any signs of infidelityRemember, when a man flirts openly with your women, it’s HER chance to demonstrate HER value by turning him down. If she fails, you know you have invested in a bad product and it’s time to sell. This shit is meant to make YOUR life easier. If she makes the wrong decision, then she demonstrated her value and practically made the decision to end it for you. Don’t be a pussy and mateguard. People only mateguard because they are afraid to see their girl fail this test, and they’re afraid to see that… | /r/TheRedPill | 28/02/19 06:25 AM |
| 3 | What beta traits do women desire when engaged in a LTR?Maybe it’s because of how blue I used to be, but in my last LTR, I had to dial back the beta traits to 0. I’m going to guess that most men could use less beta and more alpha in every aspect of their life. Whatever you feel the appropriate amount of beta is, half it, and you’re getting close to the amount a women in an LTR needs. A slice of attention every now and then, and cuddles was enough in my experiences. | /r/askTRP | 24/02/19 07:02 PM |
| 1 | Girls repulsed by my lifestyleI know plumbers that kill it on tinder. The older raggedy ass drunk types, I might add. I doubt a job means much. | /r/askTRP | 24/02/19 06:48 PM |
| 1 | Advice for 15yo?Stay in school. | /r/askTRP | 24/02/19 06:39 PM |
| 2 | Do you guys wait for a SOI before you approach?The lack of an SOI should not be the reason you do not approach. If you want to approach, do it. Take initiate and do not have regrets. That being said, I have to be honest. I’ve had much more success after receiving an SOI (f-close, rather than say a number). I do feel your odds skyrocket with an SOI. | /r/askTRP | 24/02/19 06:39 PM |
| 2 | Looking for career adviceFinish what you started. A degree is a degree, it’s meant to take time. You haven’t been studying psychology for the past 20 something years - it can wait another year until your masters is done. | /r/askTRP | 24/02/19 06:33 PM |
| 4 | Same night lay fail. Should I reinitiate?Honestly, the ‘optimal’ way is to probably drink less, to secure the lay. Personally my most ‘fun’ lays have been when I had a bit too much to drink, makes for a better story. To your point, if presented with the option of going to hers or not, always go. In her mind, you would have already been to hers/seen her naked - much easier to secure a second date and less shit-tests. If you just got a number and went home, most girls will flake and never reply. I would just shoot a message and go straig… | /r/askTRP | 24/02/19 06:30 PM |
| 2 | My fiance saved a guys number in her phone as a girls nameThis. Anyone who offers their pussy for a jacked dude, can GTFO. | /r/askTRP | 21/02/19 07:58 PM |
| 1 | My fiance saved a guys number in her phone as a girls nameAssuming not a troll post.... Can’t be living in a bully’s shadow forever. My friend who’s not the tallest or strongest always said: ‘you may beat me up, but you’re also not leaving without a scratch’. Oh and with regards to your fiancé, find a new one. She doesn’t know boundaries, and is incredibly disrespectful. She knows what she’s doing is wrong, it’s common sense, she’s entertaining it because she WANTS to. Don’t absolve her of her decisions. | /r/askTRP | 21/02/19 07:57 PM |
| 1 | Boys, my friend is going to meet up with 10/10 psycho and I’m worried he is going to get majorly cucked. Advice?You can lead a horse to a well, but you cannot make a horse drink from the well. Or some shit. Bottom line, if he doesn’t heed your advice (which the comments suggested plenty of), don’t feel bad about it. You did your job. Just repeat to him what the others here have said, he can then make his own decision. | /r/askTRP | 21/02/19 07:51 PM |
| 3 | Chicks with boyfriendsAWALT is a definitely a thing. I love the phrase ‘she’s not yours it’s just your turn’, very accurate. Enjoy your turn, move on. I had to train myself to have a short memory, but things got better once I did. | /r/askTRP | 21/02/19 07:47 PM |
| 8 | Do women miss their exes as much as men do?From my observations it seems women are more fickle in the way they miss their exes than men. One day it may be tears and genuine sorrow, the next it’ll be telling their new date that they’ve never been happier and that he’s the best she’s ever had. Whereas with men, it seems more consistent. Miss her today, still miss her tomorrow. Thought she was great yesterday, will still think she was great in certain areas even when dating a new girl. | /r/askTRP | 21/02/19 07:39 PM |
| 0 | I finally dropped a girl that I liked and it feels so fucking good.The next time you see her: ‘Oh hey it’s you! Are you mad at me, what can I do to make up for it. Oh my gosh you’re so funny!’ It’ll be easy mode from here, it’s amazing how nexting someone makes them chase you. | /r/askTRP | 21/02/19 07:35 PM |
| 1 | I spun 180 degrees and strolled away from my date in public. Too fast of an ejection?Here’s an upvote you Chad, you. | /r/askTRP | 21/02/19 07:31 PM |
| 1 | TRP doesn’t just apply to women..?I simply disagree. Abandoning your logic for feelz is the most retarded rationale to justify instant gratification. If you’re talking about the negative impacts as a whole, then yes, everyone who participates in instant gratification will set themselves back in the long run. For me though I look not only at the end result, but also at how they arrived at the result. I feel the mental gymnastics women do to justify instant gratification makes it worse than what men do. | /r/askTRP | 19/02/19 04:36 AM |
| 3 | First time hookup and period sexBeen there, done that. Met a girl, plated her, and we wanted sex. She had her period, and I didn’t want anal. Things were fine until we switched positions. I remember going at her doggy, and as I looked down, thick blood kept dripping out of her vagina and onto her sheets. She didn’t care and wanted more, so I kept going. By the time we finished, the sheets were disgusting, and the smell was awful. If that sounds fun to you, go ahead. Nowadays, I only have ‘period sex’ with women who are on day … | /r/askTRP | 19/02/19 04:16 AM |
| 2 | TRP doesn’t just apply to women..?If we can get women to remove their desire for instant gratification, we would have solved hypergamy and branch swinging - in essence AWALT. Their endgame will no longer revolve around riding the CC in their youth and locking down beta bux as they approach the wall. It’s not even that instant gratification is a bad thing - drinking a milkshake is delicious. It’s the ‘woman’ form of instant gratification that’s retarded. They drop all logic, all past memories, and operate only on feels and tingle… | /r/askTRP | 19/02/19 04:05 AM |
| 1 | Does a womans career matter to you when considering LTR?Lawyers, consultants, or high finance is a no for me. The lifestyle is fast paced. Traveling, long hours and stress are not helpful to bonding. There’s also the fact that the amount of drugs, alcohol and partying in those professions are unavoidable. Sometimes it’s disguised as the ‘company Christmas party’, which means good luck slipping out of it. It’s basically a deviation of the college party house / frat house mentality. By the way, this is all common knowledge within the industry. It’s a s… | /r/askTRP | 19/02/19 03:50 AM |
| 5 | Sick feeling that LTR of 5 years has cheated. How I do I deal with this?It will not get any better. The longer you stay with her, the longer your gut feeling will eat at you. Forget being alpha, it’s tough to live life worrying about someone stabbing you in the back. You should dump her for the sole reason that she makes you feel bad. It’s not a type of ‘bad’ that you should ‘man up and take’. It’s the type of bad which any self-respecting person should walk away from. It’s rude, disrespectful, and is energy draining. If I were in your shoes, I wouldn’t even dignify… | /r/askTRP | 18/02/19 07:21 PM |
| 3 | How to go about asking my current fwb's roomate out for a date with minimum damage.Easy there cowboy - Hard to break someone’s heart when the person in question doesn’t even get any to be exclusive with you. Seems like a case of ‘I want to have my cake and also eat it’. If she’s not exclusive, you don’t have to be exclusive. Just as you’re free to date her roommate, she’s free to date yours. | /r/askTRP | 17/02/19 08:49 PM |
| 6 | Taking a girl to a humble houseShe’s basically asking for the D. I really don’t think women are stupid. If they are so eager to go to your house, it’s pretty much an automatic lay. It’s just a disguise so her ASD doesn’t go off. I’ve used the line ‘come over to my place’ and I’ve never, ever had a girl talk to me about my interior decoration choices, and leave after. | /r/askTRP | 17/02/19 08:15 PM |
| 2 | Need help trying to figure out logisticsMotels, back of the car, behind of the playground, the quiet side of the beach, public toilet, etc. Be creative. I personally wouldn’t go on a date without the ‘endgame’ (sex) being possible. | /r/askTRP | 17/02/19 08:11 PM |
| 7 | Why do I attract BPD girls like flies on shit?BPD chicks are easy. Seems like everyone has had a BPD chick in their lives before. Enjoy your turn and move on. | /r/askTRP | 17/02/19 08:09 PM |
| 16 | Can trp ever become more mainstream and benefit society as a whole ?Never. There is too large a stigma attached to it, and pre-existing social values are ingrained in our culture. It’s in our news, our textbooks, our law, everything. | /r/askTRP | 17/02/19 08:08 PM |
| 13 | Ariana Grande with the anthem for hypergamy and branch swinging?It’s a good thing. The beta in all of us cries foul. The RP in us should say - more branch swinging means easier lays and more plates. Further validates TRP. Work on yourself, learn frame, become desirable, and women will willingly flock themselves to you. If you’re in an LTR, even better. Your GF/wife would be on high alert, knowing hypergamous women will be chasing their man, making them act even more on edge. Although this song promotes ‘feminism yeah!’, we end up winning. | /r/askTRP | 17/02/19 08:04 PM |
| 6 | Can anyone explain the phenomenon of the couple that has been together since high school?Answer is you don’t see the arguments, and what goes on behind closed doors. They’re more likely to forgive, due to sunk cost fallacy. High school sweethearts were also more common in the past. No social media, less abundance mentality, more quick to get hitched. More social pressure. Less female empowerment, women needed a man ASAP. I guarantee there are less today than 40 years ago. The only one I know who are still together have taken ‘breaks’, which we all know is code for riding the CC whil… | /r/askTRP | 16/02/19 05:51 AM |
| 1 | Punishment suggestions for a subBruh. | /r/askTRP | 15/02/19 08:09 PM |
| 1 | Should I (28/M) breakup with my girlfriend (26/F) after last night?She’s in between phases - on one hand she’s trying to maximise her on youth by going on trips (to meet strangers, feel exotic, etc etc). On the other hand, she knows she’s older, and wants a man who knows how to treat her, AKA betabux. Her bipolar personality is acting up, I’d dump her. There’s no future with someone so unstable. We can go on about how she might be more invested on her upcoming trips and want to be ‘single’, or how you may have failed a shit-test, but the bottom line is she’s a … | /r/askTRP | 15/02/19 08:08 PM |
| 1 | Kicked a girl out after she disrespected me, did I handle it right?Is always DARE never DEER no longer required reading? | /r/askTRP | 15/02/19 08:00 PM |
| 1 | Sometimes I wonder if she wants me not to give her any gift?Do. Not. Do. It. Speaking from experience, you have a good thing doing, with defined roles (she gives, you receive happily. She makes your life easier with gifts, you focus on yourself and become a better alpha). The slightest action of giving her a present, and this dynamic shifts. And holy shit, when it shifts it completely 180’s. There’s no happy medium of gift exchanging and she still remaining adorable. I wish I had never ‘given’ back to an ex of mine (mainly out of guilt). My worst mistake… | /r/askTRP | 14/02/19 09:23 PM |
| 1 | I won’t be able to see a girl for weeks. How do I not lose her interest?Hope you’ve had sex with her, otherwise her giving you attention may be because she has you pinned for a sugar daddy. Ask HER to visit you. It sounds crazy, but works. Once met a girl whilst traveling, she thought I was rich. Went to her place, hooked up for the duration of my trip. She asked when I would visit her, I said ‘it’ll be nice if came to me instead’. The girl actually then immediately planned a meet up, taking classes off, and paying for the flight over. Girls love spending money irra… | /r/askTRP | 14/02/19 08:55 PM |
| 3 | Do you celebrate valentines day?I’m stubborn, and actually used the ol’ every day is Valentine’s Day before. It’s the most expensive day to eat out, and the biggest frame trap. I’ve come to realize that no matter your frame/looks, it’s nothing compared to the momentum of Valentine’s Day. Your woman will see others with flowers. Other woman will ask her if she got flowers. Some women have jewellery, others are going to a restaurant. She WILL give you attitude if you literally do nothing, no matter your frame. It’ll be gone by t… | /r/askTRP | 14/02/19 08:44 PM |
| 1 | Slept with hb8 on the first date, when do I text?You reply, something simple like an inside joke between the two of you, which would lead to a positive response, which you pivot into logistics on the next meetup. To answer some of the comments on the balance of validation vs. leading, I only validate (or give comfort/show emotion) immediately after a date. So, nighttime after the date, and the following day. Only to women I’ve had sex with and if she’s drama free. This keeps the momentum going. Once you meet her a couple of times, then you hav… | /r/askTRP | 14/02/19 08:32 PM |
| 3 | trying to be the one my gf wants/needs “alpha”I don’t want to overload you with information. I’ll keep it simple - you cannot negotiate attraction. If she wants another, there is nothing you can do. Second, you be an alpha for yourself, not for her. Girls want to chase a man, they do not want to be chased. It’s why they like the ‘bad boys’, hence alpha fux, beta bux. To do so be more selfish, ask for her to do more for you, be more demanding, be more rude, etc. Make her your servant, not the other way around. Thirdly, you’re knee deep in on… | /r/askTRP | 14/02/19 08:19 PM |
| 1 | Went over to her house and we fucked but now?You’re her plate. It’s simple. Also, like how we plate women, we don’t meet our plates everyday because we either have goals to accomplish, or other plates to attend to. She has other men in her life. Accept that you had your turn, and you may not get that turn again. Move on. Do not listen to her talk, listen to her actions. A horny lady who hooks up via IG all of a sudden stops seeing you? Her needs are taken care of by another. It’s the nature of the CC. | /r/askTRP | 14/02/19 08:12 PM |
| 1 | Turn Ex-LTR into a PlateDon’t. | /r/askTRP | 14/02/19 08:10 PM |
| 2 | Why do i fail shit tests on text only?Take it as a compliment. I had the same thing happen to me before. Plate was submissive in person, she barely spoke a word against me, then shit-tests via text. I didn’t really give a shit about her, so I confronted her on it one night. In her words, she ‘finds it easier to communicate in text because it gives me more confidence’. She said something along the lines of feeling ‘insignificant’ (yeah, I give orders you take them honey), and she wants to ‘feel like an equal’. | /r/askTRP | 14/02/19 08:09 PM |
| 2 | The dating pool for red pill/mgtow men is so slim its disappointingJust dropping by to say, don’t maintain those expectations. The odds are you’re going to be disappointed with those expectations. Speaking from experience, I’ve also wanted a ‘low n-count’ girl before, and thought I found a jewel in a virgin. Turns out the whole virgin thing was a ploy. Plus, she had so little experience with men that she acts all submissive to any man who looks at her for five seconds. Nexted her, bitch went crazy. Since then, I’ve met a handful of girls who told me the same li… | /r/askTRP | 14/02/19 07:55 PM |
| 7 | LTR pulled the “man up on valentine’s day” card on me this morning because I refused to take her daughter to school when she drives right by it every morning.It was a pressure flip, not the worst response OP could have made. Plus, walking away instead of talking to her showed he held frame. His response were correct, he’s simply getting cold feet by being worried. Which is why posting here is correct. OP, nothing to worry about. The bigger concern is developing oneitis from her. Remember, she should chase you not the other way around. Stick by your actions, be stoic. As you said, logistically she is in the wrong, she’s in her feelings. Never apologis… | /r/askTRP | 14/02/19 07:45 PM |
| 1 | My date asked what is my age and I responded with "Old enough to fuck".Quite hilarious honestly. I think that line might work a lot better in person. But in regards to your question, it’s definitely something which triggers a ASD. You gotta be sneaky. Girls like sneaky (maybe that’s why they branch swing). | /r/askTRP | 14/02/19 07:39 PM |
| 6 | Married girl wants me to meet her and her husband?Mentioning her husband?!? Clearly the solution is to treat is as a shit test. AA and plant the seed in her head that you can be the branch she branch swings to. /s | /r/askTRP | 13/02/19 06:26 AM |
| 3 | Giving off a too strong player vibe?Buddy, you are getting way too philosophical. Social media is a tool for socialising. It’s just that, quit putting it on a pedestal as something which can cause you to ‘live a lie’. It’s a tool in a toolbox. The best way to use social media is not ‘to not have an account’. That’s not a productive answer, you’re answering a different question. It’s like if you’re learning to skate and ask ‘how do I kickflip’, and the teacher replying ‘just walk instead, it’s quicker’. My answer remains to only po… | /r/askTRP | 12/02/19 07:41 PM |
| 2 | Girl I'm developing kind of an LTR with says she will hang out with another guy--how to respond?^ this. She knows what the fuck she is doing. You don’t get it. Women will branch swing to her best option, like a magnet. If she’s not sticking to you, you’re not her best option. | /r/askTRP | 12/02/19 06:30 AM |
| 1 | Depressed and been trying to improve for a long ass time now but going in circles. PLEASE help me9/10 attempt, well done. | /r/askTRP | 11/02/19 09:01 PM |
| 2 | Giving off a too strong player vibe?Honestly? Disagree with the comments. I’d rather the people on this sub all have IG accounts with photos of them with multiple women. If partying is the most interesting thing going on, then post parties. You don’t intentionally post a dentist appointment. Social media is a platform for DHV. It’s a SMV marketplace and you use it that way. You don’t post boring shit, you SHOULD project a fun, busy lifestyle. You don’t post your cool hot wheel collection - you show off being swarmed with hot chick… | /r/askTRP | 11/02/19 08:35 PM |
| -1 | How to kick out a roommate?Then you’ve got to put on your hard hat. Put emotions aside, and ask him to sit down. Tell him it’s business, and you think that although he’s a cool guy, he has to pay rent. Give him a period to get his finances together, as a courtesy. The goal is to sort it between the two of you. Lawyer fees are time consuming and expensive. If he reacts negatively, bring the tenant agreement which he has signed to the lawyers, and have them deal with him, not you. They’ll strong-arm him into paying. When he… | /r/askTRP | 11/02/19 08:07 PM |
| 10 | What's wrong with me?You’ve got to shatter your old blue pulled self. You’re not the problem, she is. What you are feeling is the feeling of being cucked. It’s a survival trait. You KNOW who she wants. You KNOW who she will get with should you two breakup. You KNOW it’ll feel like shit to watch the two get together and have the story play out. You KNOW you will feel bad when she inevitably posts a photo with her ex, with a lovey caption. Its an inevitable car crash and your BP self is trying it’s best to ‘save the r… | /r/askTRP | 11/02/19 07:56 PM |
| -2 | How to kick out a roommate?If it’s month to month, just give him a heads up that you’re moving to another apartment. Much easier to change yourself rather than another person. Forcing him to leave creates drama. Leaving yourself is much more simple. | /r/askTRP | 11/02/19 07:43 PM |
| 1 | Feeling insecure with a girl out of my league. What is the red pill advice?She talking down on hook-up culture is a bait. Remember, judge her based on her actions not her words. If she’s not going to clubs, and avoids alcohol, etc that should be your evidence she’s against hook-ups, not that she ‘said so’. For your reference I met a plate who would talk down on hookup culture. Funny thing is, although we met at a coffee shop, she eventually invited me out to a club. Brought her home, the rest is history. She still continues to talk down on hookup culture, even though w… | /r/askTRP | 11/02/19 07:39 PM |
| 11 | Everyone around me getting hitchedSidebar. Frame. Read it. All you’ve said is how your friends have influenced you to feel like marriage is the ‘correct’ thing to do. And now you want us (through examples) to persuade you that marriage is not the ‘correct’ thing to do. Honestly, you’re going to flip and flop between getting hitched, and not getting hitched because you have not internalised a decision. You should know the pros and cons of marriage by now. Man up, make a decision, and stick to it. | /r/askTRP | 11/02/19 07:30 PM |
| 4 | Got the "We need to talk text" From girlfriendQuit hamstering. Out of control drunk, flirty, has a tinder behind your back, AND YOU STILL give her one more chance. You’re perspective is so skewed, you’re not objective. You should have dumped her last week. She doesn’t respect you. You still say ‘one more chance’ after everything? In her eyes, she’s thinking “damn he still forgave me, what a joke”. What do you think her friends would say? “Damn, he saw all that, and still took you back? What a chump”. | /r/askTRP | 11/02/19 10:09 AM |
| 1 | How should a women make the most of her youth before she hits "the wall"?I’ve read an article a while back, which was basically saying the optimal strategy is to sleep with powerful men for jobs and shortcuts. First, use sex as a tool to get that interview, or to get that job. The mid-game is to ensure you have multiple men backing you up (betas, or seniors who you have sex with). The end game is to marry a rich senior manager, with the intention to divorce him after having kids. So, the timeline is this. 0-22 years old: schooling. 22-30: the above strategy. Post-wal… | /r/askTRP | 11/02/19 06:11 AM |
| 3 | Making money in year 12You can get a job in the summer. Focus on grades. You get a lifetime to make money and buy a car, you only get one chance for finals in school. Good grades gets you into a good school. Which opens the door to good careers. Which leads to lots of money. Which leads to you buying lots of cars. The reality is society is based on wealth and status. Getting good grades is the ‘easiest’ way to jump income brackets. | /r/askTRP | 11/02/19 06:02 AM |
| 3 | Plate cancelled next date after amazing nightI didn’t realize we count people we haven’t slept with yet as plates. Took weeks to sort out one date, and she gave you the fits by playing the walk away game, and she tops it off with LMR. Which part of her is amazing again? | /r/askTRP | 11/02/19 05:58 AM |
| 1 | My sister (40/F) has gone back to the man who has cheated on her and impregnated her 3 timesA woman in her 40s who gets back together with an ex could be doing so for a multitude of reasons. You’re looking at it from the perspective that she’s being played. Maybe she sees him as a beta-bux. Rode the CC, and now wants to settle down. Maybe she baby trapped him - she’s getting together with a man who may provide her a white wedding. Or maybe she is pregnant with a strangers child, and is using him as the fall guy - picking a sleezebag automatically means she has all friends and family im… | /r/askTRP | 08/02/19 04:41 AM |
| 11 | Do you enjoy dropping red pill facts to others?Don’t do it. Blue pillers will react negatively, and turn their blue balled pitchforks towards you. Red pillers will react positively internally, but externally will distance themselves from you in public settings. If I’m at any formal dinner and a guy nearby says ‘AWALT’, I’m definitely pretending I heard nothing, and slowly walking away. Only do so with friends, in private settings. | /r/askTRP | 07/02/19 10:03 PM |
| 2 | short shorts in the winterHow strange, it’s almost as if she is inviting attention. Oh wait... Shorts in winter, can’t think of an easier opener. At this point she’s practically begging for the next cock on her CC journey. | /r/askTRP | 07/02/19 09:56 PM |
| 61 | [25m] my girlfriend[24f] told me she had only slept with 3 guys, her best friend[24f] blurted out that they slept with a guy every city in Europe they visitedOldest trick in the book - N counts are never accurate. | /r/TheRedPill | 07/02/19 09:51 PM |
| 1 | What is the “ideal” path for red pill women?Probably a better post on r/RedPillWomen | /r/askTRP | 07/02/19 09:44 PM |
| 2 | I forgot her birthday yesterday and was cold to her the day before. She invited me to her birthday night that’s happening tomorrow. What’s my best game plan?She’s not taking it seriously, and you shouldn’t either. Girls care a lot about these ‘important dates’ like Birthdays, Valentine’s Day, NYE, etc. If she didn’t address it, it means that you’re her plate. She had/will have a good birthday time irrespective of whether you are there or not. While you remember ‘bring cold to her’ and ‘forgetting her birthday’, she had hundreds of friends wish her a ‘Happy Birthday’ either in person or through social media. She clearly is not bothered by your action… | /r/askTRP | 07/02/19 05:28 PM |
| 2 | Not getting any action during period week in LTR?You should act with abundance - she doesn’t give it? Make it seem you never want it. She’ll initiate if you’re cold, then you escalate sexually and get your blowjob. Personally, I hate period sex due to the smell and mess. As a result, I always say ‘let’s wait till after your period to meet’ to my plates. Ironically, this gets them to take initiative to set up the date (‘it’s not bleeding much, let’s just hang out at mines’). From my experience, the best way to get period action is to not ask fo… | /r/askTRP | 07/02/19 05:21 PM |
| 2 | Got an advice from a jacked gym broNah man, I completely know. You misunderstood I’m just worried OP or other readers who seems kind of new would mistake it as an anger comment. I completely agree with what you said. | /r/askTRP | 05/02/19 07:58 PM |
| 1 | Got an advice from a jacked gym broThis MAY appear like an ‘anger’ comment but his points are 100% true. It completely reflects my observations. You are 100% better off by being the guy in the club, or the guy on vacation who meets these horny women. Go with the flow, not against it. It’ll get your N-count higher, develop abundance, and you’ll have more time for academics. | /r/askTRP | 05/02/19 07:53 PM |
| 5 | Does it get easier after High School?Eastern Europe is party heaven. Make guy friends and go out to college parties. You’ll be swimming in drunken, hormonal, CC riding teens. | /r/askTRP | 05/02/19 07:49 PM |
| 71 | Get over being unattractive.Tinder is like the beach. You can’t expect to get attention from strangers with your ultra cool beach mat, or ultra-plush sandals. It’s straight-up a dick measuring contest comparing SMV’s. | /r/askTRP | 05/02/19 07:46 PM |
| 65 | Wife is not home yetIf she wants to cheat, there is nothing you can do to stop it. You cannot negotiate desire. Focus on improving yourself. Look better physically, talk to more women to gain abundance. Get your finances sorted, consult a lawyer to at least discuss an exit strategy. You shouldn’t have to live in fear of your wife cheating behind your back. | /r/askTRP | 05/02/19 07:42 PM |
| 2 | Even my mom has beta orbitersSounds fishy. Something about this feels odd. | /r/askTRP | 05/02/19 07:38 PM |
| 4 | Advice to get rid of a parasite“911 I have an emergency, I work out 7 days a week but this petite psycho girl is beating me up in the club, someone save me!!” It’s not that serious. She’ll get over it, or implode on her own. If it happens again, inform a staff in the club. You’re a paying customer, it’s their job to make sure you’re not getting slapped and punched. | /r/askTRP | 26/01/19 05:08 PM |
| 2 | Shit Test your overprotective parents before it's too lateThere’s a lot of conjecture and projecting going on with OP. Interesting, however not an objective opinion. There’s a lot of nuance to this topic. Hard to apply this as a theorem to other people’s lives. Hope OP feels better getting this off his chest. | /r/TheRedPill | 26/01/19 04:55 PM |
| 2 | What career direction would be wise for a 15 year old?Do what you are good at. Made the mistake of taking up courses which I thought would be ‘good choices’. Ended up having to study extra hard, for grades which ended up being nothing special. Cannot stress enough to do something you are good at. Less time invested, greater returns. | /r/askTRP | 26/01/19 04:14 PM |
| 1 | Why do they get weird about sleepovers?That’s quite interesting, most men would LOVE this happen to them. Women taking the initiative to leave after sex? Great! I don’t know about women, but for me, I don’t sleep with plates as I’m just here for fun tonight, and I’m ready to go home and prepare for the next day. Sounds to me they’re just here for sex. They’re on the CC. | /r/askTRP | 20/01/19 06:08 AM |
| 3 | What is the specific reasons for girls to go for older men? Talking about 18-19 year olds..Honestly, I’m not even old but I’m starting to notice this pattern as well. In my life it’s the experience gap. I know what to do, when to escalate, what to say, how to get there. For her, she has no clue as it’s all ‘new’ (and we know AWALT and their desire for new shiny things) and to me she’s a sitting duck. There is some truth to ‘preying on young women’ - it’s like taking the same exam while having the answer key, feels like I could pick up young girls until I’m 50. All 18 year olds are pre… | /r/askTRP | 20/01/19 06:05 AM |
| 6 | Girlfriend suggested she goes to a crazy party without me, but ended up not going to it when I said to come over straight to my place as planned. Do I still tell her going without me to a crazy party isn't okay and set a boundary, or would that be seen as mate guarding?It’s an uphill battle if you need to state what is and isn’t allowed. Show with actions - make yourself less available (dread). | /r/askTRP | 20/01/19 05:52 AM |
| 1 | What does it mean when a girl cries after sex?Yikes. I’ve had an emotional plate who cries when she knows I’m with someone else, but never after sex. In my experience, she cried as she was emotionally and physically abused as a child. After she told me that, I smiled, and ghosted her the next day. | /r/askTRP | 19/01/19 07:57 PM |
| 1 | What is the right way to deal with GNO in a LTR?I must be falling into oneitis, revisiting the sidebar. Please be patient with me. It would guilt me knowing a ‘good’ LTR has put aside her desires to go out, for me (because I’m desirable to her) but I’m acting on my instincts to go out. The Rational Male talks about this as ‘the desire dynamic’ - you can not negotiate desire. Say I have this desire to go out, and it’s not going away. A high-value male acts upon these desires - one women should not sway a man (scarcity). However, is this not th… | /r/askTRP | 19/01/19 07:53 PM |
| 1 | What is the right way to deal with GNO in a LTR?Honestly, that’s the part I’m having difficulty with. Is it as simple as ‘I’ll do what I want, you can leave if you wish’? If she asks: ‘but that’s not what you told me’, is it as simple as ‘different rules apply’? Men lead. It’s strange to lead someone (ex: ‘I will not tolerate a LTR going out solo’) but then acting the contrary (doing what you prohibited). Perhaps I’m slipping into a BP phase. I’ve no ego, feel free to slap me back to reality. | /r/askTRP | 19/01/19 11:26 AM |
| 1 | What is the right way to deal with GNO in a LTR?What would you say to OP if the situation was reversed? Say she listens, and does not go GNO. The following week, his friends ask him out for a night out to celebrate someone’s birthday. Say he wants to go. Does he go? Or follow his own principles and doesn’t go? | /r/askTRP | 19/01/19 04:12 AM |
| 1 | Anyone else bored of companies like Gillette jumping on the let’s all hate men bandwagon?Which person, the one who directed the Gillette ad, or the one who wrote the thing for the quarantine? Regardless, when anyone passionately promotes a movement (such as TRP are bad, or men are evil), they should really be squeaky clean, else risk looking like a hypocrite. Whether that’s fair or not, it’s incredibly stupid to hire someone sketchy to be in charge of a ‘pro society’ project. That’s like hiring Wall Street to make an ad saying capitalism is bad. Or a BP divorce raped man to make a R… | /r/askTRP | 16/01/19 07:17 AM |
| 1 | Anyone else bored of companies like Gillette jumping on the let’s all hate men bandwagon?Reminds me of when they quarantined TRP, and left an anecdote to a website written by a rapist (or something along those lines). This ad was directed by Kim Gehrig who has been accused of sexual abuse by 2 men and 5 women, allegedly when they were minors. SJW’s are hilarious, always quick to point. I know you see this feminist movement as easy PR. Quit salivating about the opportunity at gaining the moral high ground and do a background screen. | /r/askTRP | 15/01/19 08:43 PM |
| 1 | My party game is zeroDepends on the scale. As a party goer myself, the strategy differs on context. If it’s a small house party, the main thing is to isolate and physically escalate. Take it slow, and try not to have it become a group conversation where your other friends join. Repeat with another (dread), by the end of the night someone will want you for themselves. If it’s a club setting, it’s all about eye-contact, and fast escalation. Almost all girls would have been already ‘warmed up’, so you can be direct and… | /r/askTRP | 15/01/19 10:15 AM |
| 1 | Living with parents and bringing girls back to yoursCar, motel, outdoors, dorms, her place. | /r/askTRP | 15/01/19 09:48 AM |
| 3 | Why do LTR slip back into blue pill?A lack of abundance. A tradition LTR means monogamy. You may have an abundant frame, but you’re not literally swimming in pussy if all you see is one girl. LTR’s are TRP in hard mode. | /r/askTRP | 15/01/19 09:45 AM |
| 2 | When you first start dating, should you let her know what you want?Never be the one who brings it up, women tend to ask ‘so what are we’ quite quickly. Just be patient. When she does ask, I personally don’t like to answer (AA, deflect, etc). But it’ll get to a point where she’ll overtly ask for a clear answer (near your turn’s end). Then, you can say what you want. Just don’t be autistic. | /r/askTRP | 15/01/19 07:19 AM |
| 1 | Jeff Bezos to divorce wife of 25 years, leading to the costliest divorce settlement ever...You know how growing up we had participation awards? Basically, we didn’t do anything but we got something? This is that, on steroids. $68b, a claim at half of Bezos’ everything just by having shared the same living space, insane. Where was she when Bezos was starting Amazon? “Hey guys, you do the work, I’ll bring the tea. In 25 years, we split everything 50:50, okay?” Another example to show young women that beta bux is a winning strategy. For reference, Bezos was working in a hedge fund when h… | /r/TheRedPill | 14/01/19 07:03 PM |
| 7 | Youtube "Try-on" videos...example of the decline?If we get into the numbers, I’d actually wager that most viewers are women. It’s the age old ‘buying something shiny makes me feel happy’. Women logic - (Look at this Youtuber who is happy opening her bikini. She is happy. I want to be happy. I’ll also buy this, and share it on IG to spread happiness. Turns out I don’t look as nice. I’m not happy. I need validation. Proceeds to seek male attention). By the way, if you call out the obvious sexual undertone, you’ll be labeled a mysogonist. Girls a… | /r/TheRedPill | 14/01/19 06:44 PM |
| 1 | LTR and IG, uploaded pictures of her ex but not meSure, live in a frame where you’re pissing yourself over asking a question. | /r/askTRP | 14/01/19 04:28 AM |
| 1 | Girlfriend's past is bothering me, even though her past is nothing crazy. Should I break up and try to find someone else even though her n count is very low?What the hell man. | /r/askTRP | 13/01/19 09:01 PM |
| 1 | Do I text her or noSeeing that it’s past Friday, it means you failed an shit test, and she lost attraction. You should wait, and when you do text her, text her something random, or a logistics message inviting her out. Absolutely make no mention about her forgetting to follow up, don’t act hurt she forgot, and don’t bring up your previous date. | /r/askTRP | 13/01/19 08:57 PM |
| 1 | Do women ever initiate sex with men they are in relationship with ?It’s a mutual thing, but girls initiate lots as well. Especially plates, FWB’s or LTR’s. The only time I find myself initiating is with a random, or on a first date. | /r/askTRP | 13/01/19 08:52 PM |
| 2 | LTR wants to call almost every evening, holding frame?It’s cute, calling each other to say goodnight. I’m not sure the implications. Personally I don’t see it as something that makes you a beta (ex: crying on her lap), or denying your LTR a call as something that makes you an alpha. You can still be stoic, hold frame, etc while having a call. If she misses you so much, why is she not sleeping over as you’re both in the same college? | /r/askTRP | 13/01/19 08:49 PM |
| 4 | LTR has denied me sex recently. Been dating 8 months.This is why an LTR is TRP on hard mode (and marriage 10 notches harder). A moment of weakness and it’s like the sky is falling - shit tests, frame traps, emotional puke, etc. If it was me, and I wanted her around for whatever reason, I’ll invite her out and be overly macho. Take her on a hike and bang her, something barbaric. My two cents is that it’s not worth it. It’s not worth the energy, and she’ll always have your moment of weakness ingrained in her head. If she’s overtly denying you sex, I… | /r/askTRP | 13/01/19 08:38 PM |
| 6 | Boredom when not drinking alcohol?Have sex. | /r/askTRP | 13/01/19 08:30 PM |
| 1 | Getting too comfortableShe gives you non-sexual services, you give her time. It’s normal. This is what people mean by ‘spinning a plate until she proves she is LTR worthy’. Seems she gets the drill. You, on the other hand, don’t have a plate if she’s your only bang. Get plates. | /r/askTRP | 13/01/19 08:30 PM |
| 1 | LTR and IG, uploaded pictures of her ex but not meChoose one. 1. Live life the way you want to, in your own frame. 2. Appease to someone else’s descriptions of alpha vs. beta. It’s pretty beta being afraid to ask your ‘LTR’ a question, fearing that she will think less of you. I’d hate to be so caged that I cannot express myself to my LTR. Why bother with a LTR at that point? Are you lacking so much self-confidence that you think a question (valid in my opinion, and one that is clearly bothering you) will cause her to think you’re a chump? Reall… | /r/askTRP | 13/01/19 08:21 PM |
| 2 | Have I been to leniant on my ltr? Should I next herGet a grip. Dump her, she’s an anchor. Stop letting this hoe steer your life. | /r/askTRP | 13/01/19 08:15 PM |
| 8 | How to react when a guy compliments your girlfriend in front of you?Blessing in disguise. A test to see if your girl is LTR material, or a plate. You have nothing to do (mateguarding is not something you need to do). It is up to your partner to prove TO YOU that she is worth your commitment. | /r/askTRP | 13/01/19 05:04 PM |
| 3 | How do you deal with someone openly mimmicking your personnality and using your jokes?The real question is - why are you intimated by his growth? Answer - he’s been learning all your shit, and you’ve been standing still, complacent. If everyone had your scarcity mindset, nobody would give public speeches. Obama would be afraid of speaking and Einstein would have kept his notes a secret. CEO’s of companies share ideas and answer questions FOR FREE all the time, people on TRP give advice - they’re not afraid Joe Blow would beat them to the cash or girls. Get out of scarcity. | /r/askTRP | 13/01/19 05:01 PM |
| 1 | LTR and IG, uploaded pictures of her ex but not meIf something is bothering you, why are you afraid of saying it to her face? Quit hamstering. Sounds like she’s wearing the pants of this relationship. | /r/askTRP | 13/01/19 04:53 PM |
| 2 | Have I been to leniant on my ltr? Should I next herYou’re trolling. | /r/askTRP | 13/01/19 04:45 PM |
| 1 | Does every Male in the world have the potential to become alpha? Or can their genes stop them from becoming one.Think the reverse - can a person through genetics alone become an alpha? That meaning - financially successful, physically fit, and have their shit together. I do not know any person who can achieve any of this without hard work. I do, however, know of people who through hard work has become ‘alpha’. Personally, I feel the intangibles like work ethic, motivation, and a willingness to learn are worth 100x more than genetics. | /r/askTRP | 13/01/19 04:44 PM |
| 1 | Just broke up with LTR of 3 yearsThere’s something about a start of a new year which just leads to a lot of breakups. Probably girls reevaluating their SMV, or wanting to hop on the CC after missing out on NYE, or seeing their ex- single friends paired up with their new hookup boyfriends. It’s definitely a girls thing to break up either before a big holiday, or immediately after one. Just know that this is a great time to meet women. One door closes, another opens. Get on tinder, day game, take up on hobbies, go party. By summe… | /r/askTRP | 13/01/19 04:40 PM |
| 1 | LTR of 5 years about to dump me. How to react?Hell. No. To. Closure. You know how to feel better? Delete her off your phone contacts, off your social media, and block on everything. You can send a message as well, up to you, but you have to hard next. Doing so is therapeutic. You actually become in a much healthier state of mind. Hanging on is too stressful on any person’s mind, especially if it’s been 5 years. Even if she reaches out to you again, mentally you would have moved on, and you would be much more rational in evaluating her (she’… | /r/askTRP | 13/01/19 04:34 PM |
| 1 | I'm a little paranoid that a girl I've been seeing might get pregnant. What's the best way to deal with this?Just know that there are people out there who would say ‘I’m pregnant with yours’ even if that’s not true. It’s bad because you can not verify DNA via a blood test until the fetus is formed. Some women will say it because of ‘feelz’ - they’ll rationalize lying, about something as awful as this, as ‘they’re hurt and need attention”. It’s not a good feeling if this happens. It’s the ultimate feeling of dread. I hope she knows little about your private life. | /r/askTRP | 09/01/19 05:21 AM |
| 1 | I want girl orbitersOrbiters by definition are guys girls have no sexual attraction to, but keep them for attention. To get female orbiters easily, hang out with 3’s and 4’s. Or, become rich and famous to get groupies. | /r/askTRP | 07/01/19 06:53 AM |
| 1 | How to hook up with a friend I'm getting high with tomorrow?Objectively true - alcohol and drugs will set you back from competing in the real world - for a better degree, better job, salary, personal growth, etc. But an unrealistic stance to take - hard to say no to alcohol in corporate world when the higher ups love it, and it’s considered social etiquette to at least take a sip of wine. Else risk being outcasted from the ‘old boys club’. | /r/askTRP | 07/01/19 06:18 AM |
| 1 | Need advice for collegeHomesickness is real for a lot of college students, heck my first semester was rough as it’s my first time living alone and having to manage classes, friends, love life, and chores. Probably ate unhealthy the entire time, life was hard. If you stick with it, it will get better. ‘What doesn’t kill you make you stronger’. You’ll adapt, I did. I’d also pick the college which is rated higher in the nation rankings. Helps with getting a job. | /r/askTRP | 07/01/19 06:11 AM |
| 3 | Just a yes or no question. If you want to explain.Depends on context. What do you mean by a first date? If you mean it as ‘first time I ever met the girl in my life, and we proceeded to have sex’ it’s a yellow flag. Such examples would be meeting a girl in a club and bringing her home, Tinder, etc. Or do you mean ‘first time I took her on a date’. An example would be, a girl from class (who knows your existence) where you ultimately mustered the courage to ask her out, and then had sex that same date. Both of these are ‘sex in the first date’ b… | /r/askTRP | 07/01/19 05:59 AM |
| 12 | She comes over, but shrugs me off when I escalateHer mind: “I’m getting away with not even kissing him. He’s working so hard for me, and giving me more and more dates, and great attention. This is fun.” Sounds rude, just dread or next. | /r/askTRP | 06/01/19 06:09 PM |
| 5 | What to do when it might be to late for me in collegeNo, it gets easier with age. In my opinion, it’s harder to plate a sorority chick when you’re the same age, or in the same year of college. I do not know why, but picking up a chick who’s younger is infinitely easier than one of around the same ‘stage in life’. Right now, I find it super, super easy picking up sorority chicks RELATIVE to when I was younger. Even with people one year younger, it’s a million times easier. Women want ‘new experiences’, and older men have more experience than them. … | /r/askTRP | 06/01/19 06:05 PM |
| 12 | Advice for 24 year old virgin who maxxed out his SMV to get laid?If you’re on this sub, its not a matter of ‘if’, but a matter of ‘when’ you get laid. When it happens, you’ll realise it’s pretty damn similar to masturbating off of porn. So relax, and enjoy the process. I’d recommend you to find a casual LTR as it makes the ‘first time’ at least somewhat memorable. Casual meaning you don’t have to screen for all the red flags - just someone you like and want to have sex with. Then break up and spin plates. | /r/askTRP | 06/01/19 05:58 PM |
| 4 | I'm a little paranoid that a girl I've been seeing might get pregnant. What's the best way to deal with this?Let’s look at the facts - met on tinder, and you were shooting it inside within a few dates. Chances are she is on the CC. Chances are she’s on the pill, and even if she is not, the chances it is yours is low. I know you are feeling cornered and under duress. Stop worrying. This could play out in two scenarios. First, she says she is pregnant. From here you can dark triad your way into an abortion. Or, she keeps it. After a few months, you do a DNA test, which shows it either is yours (worst cas… | /r/askTRP | 06/01/19 05:49 PM |
| 1 | Why am i so attracted to younger men?Pics, or you don’t exist. | /r/askTRP | 31/12/18 06:05 PM |
| 2 | Was it wrong for me to sleep with my neighbor's wife?Personally, a PTSD soldier coming home to see her women with you is a murder scene waiting to happen. Bit weird since these soldier often have mistresses themselves when they are overseas. I don’t know the stats, but most double murders come from this setting. I’d be careful fooling around if he’s around town, but fair game if you can get away with it. | /r/askTRP | 31/12/18 06:03 PM |
| 1 | What to do with ltr for new years, live with parents, don't drinkBro, have some confidence. If you don’t want to drink, just say “I don’t want to drink”. Develop frame. Frame which should be ‘I do what I want to do’. Women follow men, it’s that simple. A clean church girl can meet a druggie and get hooked on heroin. It doesn’t matter what you do (to drink or not to drink), if you say it with conviction she’ll think it’s the best thing to since sliced bread. If you want something simple, find a place to watch the fireworks, then go on a walk, and get some food… | /r/askTRP | 31/12/18 05:59 PM |
| 6 | What is your opinion on neck kissing?Love doing it to women. Hate it done on me - girls are awful at doing this and walking around with a hickey is a no for me. | /r/askTRP | 31/12/18 05:41 PM |
| 4 | New years eveFor me, my easiest lays are on New Years Eve. Highly, highly recommend bars and clubs if you want a plate, or a one-night-stand. You have to push through crowds of people, and drunks, and drama every sidewalk, and long lines into the clubs. The payoff is once you get in, you can literally find a person who is DTF in 20mins. This is because girls usually get in quicker, so they’ve been drinking/bored for a long time. By the time you get in, they’re primed and ready for a stud to swoon them away. … | /r/askTRP | 31/12/18 05:38 PM |
| 5 | I'm so paranoid of cheating now.First, there is no risk-free strategy in long term relationships. The risk of cheating is permanently ingrained and impossible to get rid off. Being alpha, passing tests help treat the symptom but it is impossible to filter away that risk. The ‘optimal’ strategy is to NOT COMMIT until you are financially, socially, educationally, and status-ly set. That way, when you’re rich, have a house, and have status, you get to filter through hotter women than you would have had you not had those things. T… | /r/askTRP | 31/12/18 11:08 AM |
| 2 | 3 year ex girlfriend broke me.Breaking up right before winter break? Sounds like she wants to ride the CC. Pretty obvious, now that you saw her on Tinder it’s even more blatant. I empathise with you, its awful being dumped before the holidays. Yet, what a better time to be single - Go out and enjoy NYE. In my experience it’s the EASIEST time of year to get laid. Young girls, working girls, older women, all types are drunk and looking to hookup. | /r/askTRP | 31/12/18 09:43 AM |
| -2 | Feel like my friends are holding me backYou ever heard of leading by example? Tons of these posts flooding TRP recently mentioning how they have bad friends. Tons of OP’s saying they tried talking about it. How about being the action and acting instead of chatting it up, and blaming them. Quit being feminine. | /r/askTRP | 31/12/18 09:37 AM |
| 4 | A girl I’m seeing (potential LTR) is clueless about relationships and assumes exclusiveness/commitment.Ouch. You’re in for a bumpy ride. Wow. Let me give you a piece of advice. Be rational and walk this out with me. Do you think a virgin, good girl, never kissed, non-boyfriend having girl, would give her FIRST KISS on a second date? You’re in a BP mindset. With experience, you’ll understand AWALT. All women put up a facade, you have to learn to read their actions not their words. Personally, I do not believe for a split second she’s a virgin and never kissed, yet loves you so much she would kiss … | /r/askTRP | 30/12/18 05:22 AM |
| 1 | LTR of 6 years broke up and let another guy eat her out 6 hours later.She’s not yours - she never was, never will be. In fact, no women you meet will ever be yours, not your mother, not your daughter. You shared truly special memories together, yes, but that does not make her yours. It was your turn, and now it is over. Just as you had your turn, someone else will have his turn with her. Learn to look at things from a glass full perspective. You had a great 6-year blue-pill relationship. Now, you’re about to enjoy the rest of your life with red-pill glasses on. Th… | /r/askTRP | 25/12/18 05:51 PM |
| 2 | I have a hooker i go to once a month just so i dont get too stressed from my daily life. Is this correct coping?Some people can be hypocritical as fuck. Apparently this is the measuring stick - people hiring escorts are ‘betas’, while athletes and celebrities, who have high SMV (as they’re rich, and their job is to be in shape) are ‘chads’. News flash - they hire prostitutes, strippers, more than anyone. Tell me the verdict - are they alphas because women throw themselves at them? Or are they betas? Stop getting tied down to labels. If you have spare cash, and want to have an exotic Russian drain your bal… | /r/askTRP | 23/12/18 05:40 PM |
| 1 | Plate doubting to break up with her boyfriend of 6 years or staying with mePsst. She will eventually be saying the same thing to her boyfriend. Women love it when men fight over them. It makes them feel wanted, safe, and valuable. She’s not doing this to secure her branch swing, she wants her own little romantic novel. Also, you met her whilst she was cheating on a 6 year long LTR. Yet you want to LTR her. I suppose she must have made you feel like you are 500x her bf’s SMV? She’ll make for a great puppet master. | /r/askTRP | 23/12/18 05:23 PM |
| 41 | Got lunch with a girl and it seemed it went fairly well. Invited her again via text and she never responded. What's the best way to handle that if I see her again in person?Holy smokes, do not send that text. I don’t even know you and you are giving me severe creepy vibes. Will you also send this as a email if a future employer denies you an interview and never replies? What if a friend ignores your text? She did not respond AFTER having met with you because she is not interested in you. Which is fine. I think she’s not replying because she’s afraid of your reactions. She might be batshit insane, or you’re too uptight. The truth is probably somewhere in the middle.… | /r/askTRP | 23/12/18 05:13 PM |
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