As a man who just entered my early 30s, I frequently see my friends getting engaged and even participating in their marriages. When I see them and their SO it’s clear how much they care about each other and having kids and typical blue pill behavior and dreams. It almost seems rushed and forced once you hit a certain age. I do feel some social pressure because of my friends but my gf is years younger than me and not in a rush. Those who are older and have also witnessed their friends get married, were there some obvious signs you noticed from your buddy’s SO which indicated that your buddy may have set himself up for failure (divorce or divorced with child support payments)? Did you feel like you knew it was going to end up in divorce for any one of your friends? How long did the marriage last before it came crumbling down?