Will women ALWAYS try make an alpha commit to them?

caius100 · 2019-04-04T19:44:31+00:00

Their goal is to "tame" the Alpha. But since they sometimes fail, the beta is who the settle with. Sex is their biggest weapon in achieving this.

alpha-zach · 2019-04-04T21:34:43+00:00

Wow. Finally a descent question. I’ve been waiting days for this.

They want commitment from the alpha. Most girls aren’t high enough SMV or good enough to get it though. You’re doing everything right if they get to this stage.

They don’t want BB/AF. That’s just a product of their desires.

They want a fully alpha(fucks good, dominant, asshole, etc) and fully beta provider(good friend, puppy dog, cute, has money), but no such thing exists in one man. So because women can sleep around in relationships and marriages in our society and get away with it, we have the BB/AF phenomenon. Or at least they use BB and fantasize about AF.

So the happy medium for them is an alpha male that has some reasonably beta qualities, which starts with commitment. Too often alpha men who commit, fall into a blue pill mindset and lose respect becoming the BB.

FederalAnxiety · 2019-04-04T21:23:47+00:00

They're programmed to trade sex for commitment. She gave you sex, so where's her commitment? They're the female version of beta nice guys, who give commitment then expect sex. Women seek commitment from betas because they can't get alphas to commit. Alphas won't commit because they know that women who give sex without commitment are worthless (except for sex), as women know that men who give commitment without sex are worthless (except for extracting resources).

See the similarities?

BlkLeatherCouchActor · 2019-04-04T19:44:21+00:00

The main mistake here is that you are trying to understand them.

rpsheepdog · 2019-04-04T19:44:06+00:00

Even though society it pushing towards open hypergamy it's still not socially acceptable to openly have an AF/BB.

Most women find it repulsing to have sex with a BB so its much better to try and have an AF settle down

throwitdownman · 2019-04-04T20:52:53+00:00

They are as fickle as can be. If you’re looking for a logical pattern of behavior, don’t.

Women want an alpha to literally commit, for example, after sex. They want cuddles, they want a spooning partner. Other times, they enjoy the thrill of yelling after an alpha to commit while he keeps walking away. They don’t want the alpha to actually stop, turn around, and say I love you.

The confusing part is that they’ll say ‘I want you to commit’ in both of the above scenarios. It’s your job to decipher whether she means it literally, or if she’s saying it as a game.

Title	Will women ALWAYS try make an alpha commit to them?
Author	Acerhand
Upvotes	2
Comments	24
Date	April 4, 2019 7:26 PM UTC (7 years ago)
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