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Don't feel the need to tell a chick your life story when you meet her. Her brain is going to work overtime so let her imagination do the work for Eg., you don't need to tell her that you've been/done/eaten/drank etc with your mom on a family trip that was So fun but you had a cold so it wasn't really that fun, you say "Oh I've seen that before during a trip I took" Related- get some more life experiences also, helps with your aloofness and amused mastery1
/r/askTRP13/10/20 02:57 PM
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Come on dog...
/r/askTRP13/10/20 02:52 PM
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The beauty is that you just keep doing what you want, have her come over, with the expectations of hooking up, eventually you will have the "what are we" or "are you seeing other people" discussion "I enjoy what we have going, but XYZ" or "I'm dating around" she will probe for details but don't give in
/r/askTRP13/10/20 02:19 PM
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Okay what do YOU want? If you want to keep hooking up then keep your time centered around that This whole coming over and only watching a movie shit sounds like you putting yourself in the friend zone
/r/askTRP13/10/20 01:55 PM
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AA my bad
/r/askTRP13/10/20 11:06 AM
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Hard to tell as we don't know the context of your relationship as a whole Remember that her imagination will do a lot of the work for you. If the whole vibe is playful then keep it going, mayne some AS, if she is the kind to freak tf out then opt for something a bit softer
/r/askTRP13/10/20 10:44 AM
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As long as you don't start acting like a clown when you get the opportunity to get some poon you should be fine. Most guys fuck up because they start reaping the benefits of game and then once the opportunity presents itself they lose it and blow it. ​ That being said, if you want to actually "be good" in the bed it's gonna take some practice.
/r/askTRP25/08/19 12:57 PM
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Might be, most of these things that are issues usually need to be addressed the first or second time it happens It's cheesy, but the 3 strike thing kind of applies, 1- Hey next time tell me whatsup so we don't have this issue again 2- Hey I said I don't like the way you respond to xyz, if it happens again it probably won't be good 3- I told you this is a problem for me and you keep doing it, best we go our separate ways.
/r/askTRP25/08/19 12:04 PM
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well in the OP it reads like this: She stops communicating -> you ignore her for some time -> when you finally ask whatsup she responds emphatically about needing more comfort and you think it's a power play. ​ To me, it looks like she can be more open about her feelings, and you can probably pick up if she is playing games or if she is just feeling sad about having a lothario for a b/f. ​ Maybe I'm behind with the times, but I wouldn't have an LTR/girlfriend and not communicate for 4 days thoug…
/r/askTRP25/08/19 11:34 AM
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depends what you're drinking. I can drink beer and basically not get drunk, but If im drinking whiskey I'll order it in a tall glass, doubles the volume but content stays the same.
/r/askTRP25/08/19 11:26 AM
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Do you think she is withdrawing because she is legitimately upset about something? Or is she intentionally using it as a way to get a response out of you?
/r/askTRP25/08/19 11:17 AM
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LOL you engaged in a logical discussion with a chick, you weren't going to "win" anything. No backpedaling things can't be unsaid. Act like it didn't happen, if she brings it up say "yeah that was kind of uncharacteristic of me" or something to that effect. Don't go into it anymore, she isn't a therapist and you aren't with her to talk about your personal struggle. Beyond the race difference, you are male, she is female, so based on that alone both of your world views will inherently be differen…
/r/askTRP25/08/19 10:36 AM
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Not what you want to hear, but what you need. You can study and watch videos and all kinds of shit. But at the end of the day you still have to interact with a person, face to face. Most friendships are directly tied to physical proximity, as in, how much time you spend around that person. Also, most friends are people you have things in common with. If you go out of your way or over the top at work or in a social setting people will think you're weird or trying to use them.
/r/askTRP25/08/19 10:28 AM
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Much to learn pimpin' I don't see anything unique about this situation. I also don't really think it's "disrespectful" as much as it is just a slightly immature way of handling problems. If you choose to LTR a chick it comes with the caveat that you need to pick up on the fact that she is now going to start relying on you for feelz. Looks like you are just failing some comfort tests. ​ just adressing the concerns immediately like a normal human being Women don't operate in overt communication.
/r/askTRP25/08/19 10:20 AM
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Yeah im familiar with male characteristics lol... What are you asking? can you ask a girl in online dating if she is a guy? Sure you can, but if she isn't she most likely is not going to be interested
/r/askTRP25/08/19 10:15 AM
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Look pimp, chicks aren't dumb. The all know that to a certain extent all the male friends in her life want to be with her. Some have relegated their place in hopes that one day she will "realize" that she was wrong all along, others might be trying some sort of beta game. Most of them are harmless, you'll know which guys to watch out for (hint: they're the chads). This sounds cringey, but if you're "Alpha enough" in her life you'll provide most of the feelz she gets from any other male friends a…
/r/askTRP25/08/19 10:12 AM
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i jerk it to u/vasiliyzaitzev posts
/r/askTRP25/08/19 10:08 AM
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Give her the ol' firm handshake because that's what women want right? #leanin IMO you're gonna have to play it by the situation, depends on the type of girl, if she is the type who is going to be the regretful/feel bad type, give her a hug, if she is the cocky kind, send her out the door with a little ass smack. There is some nuance
/r/askTRP25/08/19 10:05 AM
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If they're doing it right then the idea is to make people think they're a chick no? Seems kind of nuclear to straight up ask somebody via internet messaging you've never met in person.
/r/askTRP25/08/19 09:58 AM
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Good to hear pimp
/r/askTRP25/08/19 09:50 AM
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remember that old saying about not sticking your dick in crazy??
/r/askTRP22/08/19 03:13 PM
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Well, look deep and figure out if it's something that needs to be addressed, that will be for you to figure out. If it's something that should be addressed and you're just dodging it because you're being a pussy then bite the bullet and talk about it. ​ That being said, if your parents are being nosey or trying to bring up old shit then I think you did the appropriate response.
/r/askTRP22/08/19 03:12 PM
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Conservative bulk, add in about 300-500 kcal a day and see how it plays out.
/r/askTRP22/08/19 01:36 PM
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She then told me that i seem to be a misogynist "Oh I'm quite the opposite, I Love women" with a shit eating grin
/r/askTRP22/08/19 01:33 PM
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Dog, that has gotta be some of the worst online game i've seen
/r/askTRP15/08/19 03:17 PM
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Go to the main page and look at the "Field Report" tag
/r/askTRP15/08/19 01:50 PM
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hahahahahahaha
/r/askTRP15/08/19 01:50 PM
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Your life at the end of the day. If she wants in then she can be, but if she doesn't like it, then good for you, you got rid of a chick who doesn't want to be on your journey.
/r/askTRP15/08/19 01:34 PM
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Bet better than betas, but be friendly with them. More or less ignore the chicks, be fun in your interactions with them, but people will do the work for you (talking about you in a good light when you aren't around). ​ Find other chicks to bang.
/r/askTRP15/08/19 01:31 PM
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Key being the last part
/r/askTRP15/08/19 11:49 AM
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Dude, TRP is about distancing yourself from the petty and tit-for tat shit chicks do. No, you don't go out of your way (read: get into her frame) to "mind fuck" her. You already are doing fun shit and being seen with other chicks, that is all the mind fucking you need to do. She is your ex because nothing came of it. She just flexed hard on you and you took the bait, sure you got to bone, but to her she calls, you answer, and who has the power (best scenario it's equal, likely it's her).
/r/askTRP15/08/19 11:10 AM
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No, it's mostly anecdotal, read something, tried it, and had success. Then again though, specifically in regards to TRP I'm not an autist and I understand that things are situational and not blanket solutions. I'll be the first to tell you that as well. I don't expect people to come to PPD for a scientific discussion, if they are, then good luck.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/19 10:35 AM
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Oddly enough, my skin usually looks better when I hit the sauna regularly, granted this is for my overall skin, not necessarily just my face.
/r/askTRP15/08/19 10:30 AM
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Just use game dude tells me to clean it whenever it's a bit messy "That's what you're here for" or a "yes massuh, whatever you say massuh" (then don't do it) That being said, if your place is messy clean it up, there is probably some truth to what she is telling you. HIGHLY caution against making an LTR though
/r/askTRP15/08/19 10:22 AM
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You have to suck the tiger cock if you want the real benefit
/r/askTRP15/08/19 10:17 AM
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yeah but remember to not make it too "bro-ish"
/r/askTRP11/08/19 01:42 PM
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agree and amplify
/r/askTRP11/08/19 01:22 PM
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The thing about men as a whole is there usually speaking are a ton of "good" guys out there. They legitimately do want to work hard, have a woman who loves them, be a good friend and help you, etc. The problem is that, like OP is saying, they've been told that just working hard will get them what they want when in reality its just not the case. The problem is that there is a fine line between being seen as a douche or ass-kisser and properly networking and having good respect from others
/r/TheRedPill11/08/19 01:05 PM
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1 year difference lol? It's just a shit test, I would AA if you have good rapport
/r/askTRP11/08/19 12:52 PM
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"okay Ms. Cleo" edit: If you even think she knows who that is
/r/askTRP11/08/19 12:48 PM
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It means "I know you're going to try and fuck other girls this weekend", and she is still gonna be around when she gets back your response: "no promises"
/r/askTRP11/08/19 12:44 PM
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If it is a legit LTR just do it in person. Don't fucking cry either jeez, there's a reason you're ending it.
/r/askTRP11/08/19 11:36 AM
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Orbiter behavior. Wouldn't recommend
/r/askTRP11/08/19 11:18 AM
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I dressed in my cute business casual clothes and was being all smiley I dressed sharp and was approachable/gregarious ​ FTFY
/r/askTRP11/08/19 10:34 AM
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Rollo has been writing for a while now, so his blog has kind of evolved into a socio/political commentary. Core tenants of TRP can be akin to an observation and whatever one chooses to do with it is on that person.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/19 10:32 AM
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this context makes no sense... ​ Just respond with "interesting I swiped right because *insert something c&f*"
/r/askTRP11/08/19 10:28 AM
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gotta clean the skeet with something...
/r/askMRP11/08/19 10:26 AM
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everything is useless in the wrong context lol
/r/TheRedPill11/08/19 10:23 AM
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It's not an act big dog
/r/askTRP28/07/19 01:34 PM
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Tell her you've got the "gasolina" back at your place, and lets roll.
/r/askTRP28/07/19 12:30 PM
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international law is different, but you should be able to call them and file a complaint with them.
/r/askTRP28/07/19 12:19 PM
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Typically you would contact the police where the harasser lives.
/r/askTRP28/07/19 11:52 AM
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I don't think so. I was lifting and eating well, working rotating shift work kinda fucked me so I wasn't getting good sleep. Got my shit checked as thought "why the fuck am I busting my ass in the gym and eating well to have shit T levels". I'm still on a very low dose but am getting good benefits. Running tren is pretty risky...
/r/askTRP28/07/19 11:26 AM
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I'm not saying that it's not possible, but in the traditional sense, traditional marriage/relationship roles, each partner brings something different to the table. Men (usually) being larger and stronger fill those types of roles. It's not hard and fast who does what, but when the time suffices the male would typically do those jobs.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/19 02:30 PM
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I think they're both equally primal
/r/askTRP21/07/19 02:11 PM
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in which what?
/r/askTRP21/07/19 01:35 PM
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In the most primal sense, yes, it demonstrates the good genetics to provide and reproduce.
/r/askTRP21/07/19 01:28 PM
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Cheesy as it may be, I was watching the Ghost of girlfriend's past and Michael Douglas' character had legit game advice in the movie. ​ It's written tongue in cheek (of course, it's Hollywood) but there is some gold in there.
/r/askTRP21/07/19 12:32 PM
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Shit was the most effective sleep aid (at least for gettting tired) I've ever taken. ​ I had a pretty hard time having some CBD and alcohol and staying awake.
/r/askTRP21/07/19 12:28 PM
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I'm seeing a trend here where she talks about other guys a lot even if she is seeing other people on the side, there should be a certain couth to not bring it up for no reasons. This reads like she is fulfilling her hypergamy to the fullest, trying to bag the richest, hottest guy she can. ​ I'd be wary
/r/askTRP21/07/19 10:45 AM
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#1 job according to maslow's hierarchy, provide shelter, that sort of job. While he might not have to fend off against nightly burglars, this usually comes in the form of interacting with strangers in the world, making sure the house has no physical danger around (falling trees, snakes, coyotes, etc. ), and the obvious physical threat from other humans.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/19 10:38 AM
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It's all about the delivery dog
/r/askTRP21/07/19 10:20 AM
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People store fat in different places, but I'd gander between 10-12
/r/askTRP21/07/19 10:18 AM
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Female solipsism is the idea that things that happen in the world are directly connected to her, through some sort of mental hamstering, when in reality, things just happen. ​ The actual definition is more philosophical, whereas female solipsism is a direct connection to the world around them. ​ https://therationalmale.com/2015/09/02/solipsism-i/ ​ I think narcissism is more connected to people using the world and people around them with no regard for others. The two can definitely be connected …
/r/askTRP20/07/19 01:26 PM
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Male here, all came from my dad, which has since been pretty useful. It all stemmed from a chick that I was upset over back in the 9th grade. He told me that "the first one is always going to hurt the worst" and then later said "you can either get your heart broken or be the one breaking hearts". he also told me to "don't ever let a woman tell you that 'if you loved me you would do xyz'"
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/19 01:19 PM
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Usually have sex during her period, BJ if I want one, but I prefer sex so it's usually NBD.
/r/askTRP20/07/19 01:07 PM
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Yeah, but you can't just fabricate dread out of thin air. Being in an LTR and then spending 6 months away from that person is something that needs to be openly address (IMO). If you decide to do the LDR thing dread will definitely be a component, but if you're questioning it from the start it might be worth ending. Don't break up with your gf because the internet told you to do so, but don't waste your time because you don't want to hurt her feelings either.
/r/askTRP20/07/19 12:05 PM
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Yeah I tend to view it on a sliding scale, but its definitely Wall-ville Giving OP credit in hopes he bagged a good looking chick at 30 lol
/r/askTRP20/07/19 12:02 PM
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You're trying to orchestrate this too much. If you're saying that your relationship is a "real RP relationship" then whatever decision you make she will/should (on her own accord) want to be with you in whatever situation you decide to follow through with. Sometimes you need to just straight up have a discussion, if she says she really wants to do the semester abroad then tell her you need time to think about it. If she wants to do it just to travel then work something out about traveling. If sh…
/r/askTRP20/07/19 11:37 AM
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The chick is 30... wall is coming up for her and she is trying to put the hooks in. It's up to you to figure it out though. Shelf life for her is probably going to be pretty short as you seem to not be putting much effort in at at all (LOL). ​ If you start going on day dates, and responding more she will most likely "label" yall as dating, and then you'll become the asshole when she gets upset because she's been monogamously dating you and you've been openly spinning plates.
/r/askTRP20/07/19 11:01 AM
2

Your girl did the right thing, it's on her to turn down male suitors, especially if you aren't there. Finding out who the guy is, and then sending a guy to talk to him, and then fighting the dude that helped you out seems a bit unstable. ​ If a lot of the people you know keep bringing it up, then there might be something to it. I'm getting a vibe that this community or social cirlce or whatever it is is not very big, and your reputation is something that is probably worth salvaging if you're goi…
/r/askTRP20/07/19 10:56 AM
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they don't mention things that aren't pertinent to the situation
/r/askTRP20/07/19 10:42 AM
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Douche
/r/askTRP18/07/19 06:29 PM
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Well short of doing sports, there isn't much of a reason for people to leave the house. Kids can get schooling online, interact with others via the internet, order food online, and get paid online. To get your rocks off you can jerk your dick to online porn too. So the internet is hitting a good bit of human needs, the only thing it really lacks is providing shelter, but if mommy and daddy do that for you too then you don't have to.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/19 02:58 PM
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“Yeah, I’m sorry. I just don’t know if I can handle the fact that so many dicks have been inside you. I mean, what does that say about you? This is a pretty big issue for a lot of men, they just won't admit it and then it eats them up the entire relationship. I didn't say it was a deal breaker but it's something that a guy would definitely consider.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/19 02:33 PM
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"OMG I never do this".... riiiiiiiight
/r/askTRP18/07/19 02:23 PM
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This sounds boring as shit man. I know you're working on getting better, but waiting til the end of the night, talking for a few minutes, then trying to have sex like a formula is just anti-seductive. You're not going to talk your wife to want to have sex. She might do it out of duty, but that's it. ​ So...should I go with talking for 20 minutes or so and then making my move? this isn't working, so no
/r/askMRP18/07/19 02:22 PM
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Why so many different dicks.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/19 02:16 PM
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I'm not sure who is advocating going for girls with lower interest? I'll also argue that maintaining frame is a sort of game, whether or not you're consciously doing it. ​ If you have a girl who is into you, then you still need to work some sort of game that keeps you ahead (basically don't do beta shit) so you keep the attraction high.
/r/TheRedPill18/07/19 01:40 PM
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The biggest consideration would be why so many? For me (obviously this will differ for people) it's not the amount of sex, but why so many. If she is using that as the only way to get male attention, then it is not something I'm particularly interested in long term.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/19 01:33 PM
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Bang,have dinner, occasionally hit the gym together if I skipped something in the morning. Watch a show or movie we mutually like. I'm getting a vibe that you're asking because you want something that is gonna make your relationship "more fun" when in reality you need to be more fun and also be with a girl you like to spend more time around.
/r/askMRP18/07/19 01:29 PM
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I don't mind commuting, I usually use it for something relatively productive.
/r/askTRP18/07/19 01:14 PM
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Pre-selection is when a girl you know finds you attractive because you've demonstrated the ability to pull other quality girls. It's kind of like poaching, where girl "a" has done the work, and girl "b" can get the rewards from it.
/r/askTRP18/07/19 01:12 PM
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It's not black and white, but it's definitely something that is considered.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/19 01:10 PM
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Not saying she will ride the "carousel" but I'd argue regardless of democrat/tradcon/political views, a guy would prefer that the girl he is with would have less rather than more partners. Not saying he would want a virgin, and that is something that would most likely need to be taught from a parent, and no, that doesn't require shaming.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/19 02:58 AM
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I'm saying that girls and boys are both affected differently from the same stimuli. Considering the question is in regards to growing up, I think there is more risk for a girl growing up, mostly as the risk she has of getting pregnant and then has to raise children, with or without a father. It's her body that has to deal with it, and then the repercussion of trying to get her shit together after having a child. Or on the flip side, if she decides to not have a child and then engage in risky lif…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/19 09:27 PM
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Food-body issues family- shitty parenting society- various social media attention hacks, susceptibility to stupid trends, etc. I still think there is a reverence for a boy/man who has become successful by his own accord, and work
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/19 08:47 PM
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I think this is happening because she's the only source of validation I have right now This is your problem. It's not that you shouldn't have a good time with your LTR, but it is extremely draining to handle ones own problems and somebody else's problems at the same time. ​ should I tell her I'm jealous or should I just stop seeing her so much and work on myself? Should I make her commit to not going with friends alone and other beta shit? You're going to get varying answers on this. ​ My persep…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/19 08:44 PM
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Maybe it's my white male privilege, but I feel that it would be hard as a girl to grow up and have a healthy fulfilling relationship with food, family, and society in general.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/19 08:20 PM
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I like this concept of more background on who the EC's are.
/r/TheRedPill17/07/19 08:03 PM
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Yeah NP
/r/askTRP17/07/19 07:59 PM
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gotcha, if you don't care then you don't care lol, It would just lead me to question as to why you're getting involved into an LTR with a girl who cares about her parents opinion if you dont. Seems like something that can cause some problems in the future.
/r/askTRP16/07/19 07:26 PM
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Pretty easy. The life a woman lives since birth, is fundamentally different than yours. Her experiences and interaction with the world is totally different than yours, as is her expectations of the world. This might be half-ass but it's not worth the time to try and get her to understand you, as it is much easier to understand the way she is and accept it for what it is. ​ How do you now go through life knowing that any woman you meet will never be able to love you as you truly desire? Honestly,…
/r/askTRP16/07/19 07:22 PM
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She told you you were "allowed" to ask later down the road? or she told you later on? Trying to get some clarification.
/r/askTRP16/07/19 07:20 PM
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never a shortage of drunk and /or old women that would say all types of aggressively flirtatious left field shit. I would just take it as a compliment even if I wasnt attracted to them. I work in Law enforcement, and this shit happens all the time. I take it as a compliment, play the game a little to stay sharp (granted its like shooting fish in a barrel) but have fun. That being said, I keep it out of the office, granted I don't work with any potentials, don't shit where you eat.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/19 07:18 PM
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I'd be legitimately interested in knowing what, if she is your LTR I think it's worth a good ask, doesn't necessarily mean you keep the LTR but the feedback could be valuable. I say that not to be an ass-kisser, but if you're rubbing people the wrong way and don't mean to then it could be worth working on.
/r/askTRP16/07/19 07:15 PM
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You're making the chicks the sole focus of your life. Now I understand that having a harem is great and there is definitely something women bring to your life that guys don't, but they aren't going to get your bills paid, and they aren't going to provide you the mental stimulation and personal growth that you're gonna have to find on your own. ​ TRP isn't some transcendental state that makes you have a red aura and the pussy just falls on your dick, but just take it easy. Go to class, talk to a …
/r/askTRP16/07/19 06:19 PM
1

What’s the worse that happens when someone negatively judges you? Let’s say I just be myself in front of a new group of people, and maybe I even offend them. What’s the worse that happens? Depends on the context. I'd say it's not if you piss people off but who you piss off. If you piss off a guy who is nuts he could try to fight/kill/hurt you; if you piss off future employers or your direct supervisor it could also have negative repurcussions. ​ This doesn't mean you just go around kissing ass, …
/r/askTRP16/07/19 05:40 PM
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Just tell them you're a huge feminist and love the company of women while smirking
/r/askTRP16/07/19 05:35 PM
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yeah especially that one where OP wants to fuck kids
/r/askTRP16/07/19 05:31 PM
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It's not a shit test. She offered to come over later (good), if it doesn't work for you then it doesn't work. Women can be tricky, but don't give her that much credit for God-puppeteering all of your interactions.
/r/askTRP16/07/19 01:44 PM
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I know you think this is a simple question but you're kind of asking it in a complex way. Alpha/Beta generally refers to a mating strategy, and I'm not trying to bang my friends. Most of the guys in my friend circle we have common things with but all offer different perspectives and different strengths, to ultimately help eachother. We don't have meetings about how we can make eachother's lives better but our different perspectives in the world help to expand our minds to some extent. Surroundin…
/r/askTRP16/07/19 01:41 PM
5

Seconded... I don't see anything urgent here... ​ Don't respond to her, or say you're busy
/r/askTRP08/07/19 06:49 PM
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You start reading around here, sidebar materials. You find your own mission in life, your mission shouldn't be to "get a wife" or "get a girlfriend" or whatever, its what you want it to be (not rooted in a woman). Along the way you find that your validation comes other sources and not just from a chick
/r/askTRP08/07/19 06:47 PM
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"Calm down I'm not trying to marry you"
/r/askTRP08/07/19 06:34 PM
1

Well if you're labeling it as a relationship then is there even a difference? Kind of implies you're both being exclusive
/r/askTRP08/07/19 06:32 PM
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Long story short you need to stop getting validation from women. There are various ways to accomplish this
/r/askTRP08/07/19 04:52 PM
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You don't really soft next an LTR though, it's more of an actual breakup. I suppose you could try some angle where you're no longer mutually exclusive but that could get weird, especially if she is telling people she's in an open relationship
/r/askTRP08/07/19 04:50 PM
2

Come on dog, you know what's going on.
/r/askTRP08/07/19 04:43 PM
3

hats true. what do you have going for you other than your looks This is a pretty solid response
/r/askTRP08/07/19 04:42 PM
3

Don't go asking strangers on the internet about what YOU should do with YOUR life. ​ You'll find guys here who say get into an LTR and hope for the best and you'll also find guys here who say that getting into a marriage is the dumbest thing to do. It's like asking people if vanilla or chocolate is the best flavor. ​ Not the answer you want, but you need to do some work and figure out what you really want.
/r/askTRP08/07/19 04:40 PM
11

this is why text game is not advised. It's easy for a girl to be lazy via text and expect you to do all the work in carrying a conversation. Can't really get away with that shit in person. ​ My advice is to not reply. Leave her on read.
/r/askTRP08/07/19 04:37 PM
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*Scrolling through* "click here for 30+ more images" Well I think I will ​ Good post OP
/r/TheRedPill08/07/19 04:31 PM
2

Good source
/r/askTRP04/07/19 11:19 PM
0

You should be using game on all women so how is it bad advice? Game doesn't mean you want to fuck whoever you're using it on
/r/askTRP03/07/19 06:55 PM
2

If you wanna keep this chick around a while, then sure, go on vacation with her family. Be fun, respectful to her parents, do some light game on the mom. Be willing to pay for your own stuff, even though they will probably offer to do so.
/r/askTRP03/07/19 05:09 PM
3

it probably Don't be too concerned with if it probably did or not. See how she is acting, if she's giving you the orbiter treatment then adjust your game accordingly. In any regards, don't make it a big deal, always keep things on your term.
/r/askTRP03/07/19 05:01 PM
12

The problem starts with your question. If your mindset is that you're going to settle to begin with. There are a lot of ways to skin this cat, but the gist of it is: As long as you're trying to get better financially, game-ly, and physically your SMV will increase with time, whereas essentially all women's SMV declines over time. Don't spend your time worrying about random hoes
/r/askTRP03/07/19 04:56 PM
5

I have been physically punishing my wife when she acts out, and came to ask what you think of the whole thing ​ I think it sounds a bit like domestic battery, and this reads a bit rapey.
/r/askMRP01/07/19 05:11 PM
2

If you're busy working as the DJ then do as TRPKiddo said and say "meet me at xyz when my set is over". You being the most important person in the club/center of attention is enough for you to not need to step away and do small talk for the time being. ​ Alternative option would simple be to tell the friend "tell her to come over here" ​ don't overthink it
/r/askTRP01/07/19 05:07 PM
3

Keep things simple and fun... same thing with chicks Don't expect gratifying intellectual discussion from either of them. Make the rules and stick to them.
/r/askTRP01/07/19 05:04 PM
0

Audiences are definitely different, but if he is thrust back into the SMP it would be beneficial to know at least what's going on. Not discounting MRP at all, just saying it would be a decent primer for MRP
/r/askMRP01/07/19 04:59 PM
8

yeah I'd definitely be wary of those types
/r/askTRP01/07/19 02:26 PM
3

NP if her pussy is dripping as you say she is just giving you some final shit tests to make sure you're good to go.
/r/askTRP01/07/19 02:16 PM
3

TRP is full of fucking young 20-something retards that haven't even had real relationships in their life and just looking to play the game. There is definitely truth to this. MRP does also have an "older guy" aspect to it I'd say. I just think OP is opening a pretty huge can of worms by coming here without any context to much of what is going on.
/r/askMRP01/07/19 02:15 PM
1

To be honest, I haven't thought that far into it
/r/askTRP01/07/19 02:12 PM
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MRP is an offshoot of the regular Red Pill subreddit, might be a better place to start because you're essentially single now. This sub tends to be for people who were where you were say, 5 years ago.
/r/askMRP01/07/19 01:34 PM
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It wasn't an unhappy union. We were the quintessential successful love marriage Apparently not man. We were much loved by people around us. Moving forward, this largely doesn't matter. ​ Something tells me you haven't read much around here. Based on what I'm reading you had oneitis for you ex, changed your whole life to revolve around her, she gets bored with it, and now you're done. ​ You've got some reading to do. ​ Good news is you're a male who is capable of many things, just don't go down t…
/r/askMRP01/07/19 01:18 PM
1

I make more than my wife, but she recently got a job where she makes close to how much I make. Our bills (apartment [no need for a house yet], food, basic living necessities, etc) are split 50/50 This probably has something to do with it. I take care of all living expenses with the exception of her car payment. The money she makes she can spend as she pleases for the most part. The money she makes goes toward our vacations or any kind of flex money if we need it. ​ You should be living in a mean…
/r/askMRP01/07/19 01:02 PM
21

My schedule is pretty straightforward: Wake up, lift, go to work, come home and take care of household chorses/play with my dog, cook dinner, catch tv for about 90 min or so, then wind it down. Sure I'll cruise Instagram or Facebook throughout the day. ​ On the weekend I might play some video games here and there, go to some social events etc. get a workout in. ​ Its about balance
/r/askTRP01/07/19 12:54 PM
2

Is it a red flag when women are aware of the existence of the RP? This is why I'd be wary of RPW. They kind of consensus over there is that they want to reverse engineer their relationship to have a RP man in their life which isn't going to happen. ​ The Man leads from the front in any relationship. If a girl is single and likes the place as a resource that isn't bad, but I woudn't rely on it. Almost all views and opinions women have in their life is from the most influential male in their life …
/r/askTRP01/07/19 12:44 PM
3

These comments are pretty solid, definitely don't try to fit into an archetype you aren't. Gentlemen works if you have an air of mystery about you naturally. Gangster works if people know what you're about, people who hang around crazy ass people know what they're getting into.
/r/askTRP01/07/19 12:39 PM
1

Depends on the context. If you just banged and she asks say yes and then smack her ass. With a plate who asks, I'd be more honest and say "not right now"
/r/askTRP01/07/19 12:38 PM
16

She was only 19, really independant, and kind of a feminist (so not my type). She was also a Muslim but not too strict. Quite the combination you've got here. I'd give her a pressure flip type question "Wow, you think I'm that kind of guy(seem kind of genuine/kind of sarcastic)" or accuse her of going to use you. Then respond to her repsonse appropriately
/r/askTRP01/07/19 12:36 PM
3

In person is better because you can use body language, but the same concept applies. If you're talking fast or excessively and then all of a sudden withdraw everything its a big contrast and noticeable.
/r/askTRP01/07/19 12:30 PM
3

Being a big dude and being fat aren't the same thing. ​ OP might be trying to say that if you're walking around at 200lb at 15% bf mihgt be more signaling than walking around at 185lb at 10% bf
/r/TheRedPill01/07/19 12:28 PM
8

If you're constantly keeping an open communication and then draw back it will look like you're butthurt. Yes, you're getting your point across, but again, you look butthurt. The solution would be to just stop texting and dm'ing so much.
/r/askTRP01/07/19 12:25 PM
0

No
/r/askTRP01/07/19 12:23 PM
3

Glad you referenced the Matrix as that is where the whole label gets it's name. ​ From a practicality standpoint though I think it should be stated that being mysterious doesn't necessarily mean be an outcast or dress like you're in the Matrix. It very easy to be social and outgoing and still cultivate an air of mystery about yourself.
/r/TheRedPill01/07/19 12:22 PM
8

girl from the Phillipines Verified she is a girl? ​ Jokes aside, yes it's your life you're not a slave to pussy. If you need sleep or money or time or whatever then do it. There are always going to be chicks around.
/r/askTRP27/06/19 01:22 PM
1

Lifting definitely won't give you any frame, and it should improve your confidence (maybe not with chicks, but definitely with general confidence). The whole point is that with lifting is that you have something that is objectively measurable about getting better at something. Last month 275x5, this month 295x5, there is no doubt you got stronger. A lot of the guys here literally have nothing in their life that is consistent, they chase degrees because peole tell them to, they listen to BP datin…
/r/askTRP27/06/19 01:20 PM
2

well that's why you need to find some sort of driver, i've been hitting it since I was pretty young with my dad so now I'm on some sort of internal quest to always be getting better or stronger, but that's me. A lot of people shoot for 300 bench, 400 squat, and 500 dead. While those aren't superhuman strength it definitely takes some time to get there.
/r/askTRP27/06/19 01:12 PM
9

fuck 4-5 times a night If this is true, there is a chance the pussy is just too beat up, granted her pussy is not on a clock and there's not a way of pre-determining when it will be ready... ​ Just get a blowie and then go do whatever
/r/askTRP27/06/19 01:10 PM
3

Look long enough to make it known you're looking at her. When she acknowledges it then you're good. If you make eye contact let her look away. Also eye-contact is not staring into somebodies soul
/r/askTRP27/06/19 01:07 PM
2

use this with caution, easy to be perceived as creepy
/r/askTRP27/06/19 01:06 PM
2

If I had a girlfriend now, I'd just be a normie in some 9-5 low quality job just earning money to live, have sex, eat and sleep Having a girl doesn't relegate your life to this unless you let it. While I agree with the first part of the post, a woman should never be the downfall to a man, obviously the shit happens, but a guy who is keen will know when to get out or drop a plate at the right time.
/r/askTRP27/06/19 01:03 PM
1

Okay that's pretty solid Personally, I've got to find some sort of goal in mind to really keep my training fueled (usually a competition of some sort) I find it hard to just aimlessly train just to "look good".
/r/askTRP27/06/19 12:54 PM
1

How do you know you're done with beginner PR's You can track PR's in Sets, weight, or reps, or a movement, and a combination of the them. Varying one at a time can be repeated for a while.
/r/askTRP27/06/19 12:37 PM
2

Take him out to lunch and then seduce him, then tell everybody he is gay. Do it like cartman, get pictures of his dick in your mouth, then leak the pics. That'll show him. https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Cartman_Sucks
/r/askTRP27/06/19 12:36 PM
2

Look pimp, I know it hits hard getting stacked up against the other dudes when you're still working on your shit, but guess what, you still smashed (granted so did other guys) but it still means what you're doing is working to a certain degree. TBH in the grand scheme of things she is the one who looks like a fucking psycho sloot for keeping a powerpoint of the dudes she let cum inside her. ​ Best option is to run, or try to get on all the powerpoint slides in the sorority (caution warned in thi…
/r/askTRP27/06/19 12:05 PM
1

Most people don't want to change their mind and just want confirmation bias for the view they already have.
/r/askTRP21/06/19 05:38 PM
2

True, I think the solipsism definitely describes them as a whole better
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/19 05:36 PM
1

It's not bad for taste, If having a small amount each day helps you stick to an otherwise "healthy" diet then I don't see the issue. That being said this isn't a nutrition sub either
/r/askTRP21/06/19 05:35 PM
1

Right, it's along the lines of if they're dating and can prove they've had a relationship, its obviously not a recommended approach to picking up chicks however
/r/askTRP21/06/19 05:34 PM
0

I think the narcissist is out to use the world for what they want, where the solipsist things that everything that happens relates to them
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/19 06:30 PM
1

I do agree with this , but girls do graduate HS and enroll in college while they're 17 pretty frequently, so that might be the case.
/r/askTRP20/06/19 06:16 PM
1

This is gold
/r/askTRP20/06/19 06:00 PM
1

Chicks do shit on social media all the time, they probably just want to creep on eachother and see what they're up to, they like the drama. If you and this other chick are at odds, at the end of the day it's up to your LTR to determine who she wants to be more committed do, that being said if its that much of an issue to you then you make the decision for her ​ Something to consider, is if she is friends with this girl who cheats and does drugs and willingly knows it, and chooses to spend time w…
/r/askTRP20/06/19 05:59 PM
1

IMO this statement is wrong for both men and women. For Men: You can spend your whole life chasing a woman, and then when you get her now what? Your life is over? You have a trophy but nobody to share it with (not getting into this discussion lol). Guy realizes that there's nothing inherently special about having a trophy wife other than she is hot. Dancing like a monkey to get a hot woman is stupid. ​ For Woman: How shallow is your/her existence that the pinnacle of your life is bagging a guy c…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/19 05:54 PM
2

I think the two are different, but not necessarily unrelated. I would argue that one can be Solipsistic without being a narcissist, but the reverse would not be true. I would also argue that the Solipsism that RP states isn't the same as the textbook definition of solipsism ​ A great example I use is my wife after hearing about something bad on the news (solipsism): "Omg I can't believe somebody would do x,y,z when they know it will upset people like me"
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/19 05:42 PM
7

There's a few thoughts to this, depending on the law where you live. In Fla a 16 year old can have sex with somebody up to 24 years old (doesn't mean you should). But if you're 20 there shouldn't be much of a problem. That being said if you provide alcohol or get her drunk or something you could be in hot water. Just use caution dude
/r/askTRP20/06/19 05:37 PM
1

Don't get all of your carbohydrates from sugar This question is pretty vague also what are you comparing, "bad" is a pretty subjective term
/r/askTRP20/06/19 05:33 PM
6

Exactly, literally throwing him a bone to keep him around, especially if he is throwing big bucks that way
/r/askTRP20/06/19 03:22 PM
1

It being Christianity?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/19 02:01 PM
1

"plate, I'm unavailable most evenings so if that's a problem then this arrangement might not be working out" ​ Also, if she is saying you're dating and you're calling her a plate it seems like you're on two different wave lengths. I know terminology means different things among different age groups and regions, but if she thinks you're dating, wehre I'm from that implies some sort of exclusivity, so you might want to address that.
/r/askTRP20/06/19 12:51 PM
1

If the high calorie output is your normal, then adjust your calories appropriately. The key I would think would be to adjust the bike rides intensity to have it mesh well with your training. I think the big thing for you will be to understand that if you're strictly biking to train then the biking is a part of the training program. Obviously you need to up your calories roughly by 1000, make sure you're getting enough protein
/r/askTRP20/06/19 12:45 PM
1

this is a fundamental error in manosphere thought now its geared towards FAMILY [in reference to modern Christianity] There's always a chance I'm reading it incorrectly however
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/19 12:29 PM
1

how so? You said the manosphere is flawed in that there isn't a path laid out for family? Most services I go to are the same repetitive, sing, sing some more, short easy to digest message, and more singing. They all seem to be about invoking some sort of emotional response every week, which to me is just exhausting. But I can see where women being emotional creatures would respond to that better.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/19 10:35 PM
1

You don't sound very exciting. I mean I know it's hard to be exciting all the time, but the relationship should be fun, just like the song says... girls just wanna have fuuuuuuuuuuun.
/r/askTRP19/06/19 10:30 PM
5

It's the internet... you shouldn't take much of anything on the internet that seriously. Most stuff here is anecdotal and highly context dependent. All women aren't robots, but most tend to respond similarly to game, behave the same way in certain situations, etc.
/r/askTRP19/06/19 10:27 PM
1

The manosphere has a pretty straightforward "flow chart" for how the family power dynamic and any relationship is set up. Man/Father->Woman/Wife->Child
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/19 10:23 PM
3

It's pretty beta, RP Christians frequently go into this. But long story short, it's geared towards women. Scripture wise, it's pretty Alpha Male, but it gets lost in the message. ​ That being said, TRP is a sexual strategy. The Bible's sexual strategy is "be a good man, provide, and a woman who takes care of the home will be given to you". Today's society doesn't function like that so a "Biblical Man" doesn't really fit into todays SMP
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/19 05:31 PM
1

I agree that ultimately you've gotta be able to enjoy your solitude, but I think it's "advanced" for most of what the guys here are for
/r/TheRedPill19/06/19 05:26 PM
2

If Solitude is the ultimate value then this sub is not the correct place to be promoting that message. TRP is for sexual strategy not for enlightenment, yes it happens along the way, but MOST GUYS here need to learn that the key to keeping their woman interested in them in the long term is Dread. It's not doing it for her, it's for yourself, to know that you're capable of it, and in return she will know you're capable of it.
/r/TheRedPill19/06/19 05:00 PM
2

OH the ol' summerleague team... I've definitely been there with that challenge..
/r/askTRP19/06/19 04:56 PM
2

I think if the girl has a good face it's a pretty good look. (technically speaking gray/silver is a natural hair color). I tend to be attracted to a variety of women though, the only exception is no fat chicks
/r/askTRP19/06/19 04:24 PM
3

It's all about her knowing that you're capable of doing so. It's all context dependent, if you have a chick that is always nervous about it or is already wrapped around your finger then you don't need to Dread her out of existence. Likewise if you have one of the "independent" type, then her being aware that she needs to keep her shit together if she wants to be with you will work in your favor. ​ If your relationship ends, you don't need to imediately fuck other girls. You can go NOFAP NOFAP is…
/r/TheRedPill19/06/19 04:21 PM
4

This falls into the "don't shit where you eat" category dog Unless of course you don't care about the job anymore
/r/askTRP19/06/19 04:16 PM
7

Why cant you just do both? It's called spinning plates for a reason. Plan for success pimp
/r/askTRP19/06/19 01:50 PM
2

Dog, how are you confused? Chick is out there hitting on you and kissed you??? The medium is the message
/r/askTRP18/06/19 06:28 PM
3

I'm good looking, make good money, lead an interesting life, and about four years older and she is good looking also. ​ I was aware of TRP and what it advocates before ever meeting her, vetted for a few years and wanted to make it happen.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/19 05:19 PM
2

Best way is to obviously be around them more, but it also helps to remember that the only thing most offer is their looks, which should help you have an aloof and amused mastery mindset to any of your interactions with them.
/r/askTRP18/06/19 01:12 PM
0

Just tell her yes or no; don't play tit-for-tat games
/r/askTRP17/06/19 08:52 PM
6

So the fact she is young has something to do with this. Young girls will pretty much push the limits to find what they can get away with, especially because you don't have any sort of real "power" over her, to most of society you guys are considered equals. Her bringing that up as a manipulation tool is a pretty clear red flag, and I'd definitely use caution.
/r/askTRP17/06/19 08:23 PM
2

Yeah that's exactly what it looks like
/r/askTRP17/06/19 08:16 PM
2

"I need something warmer really dude, this is so obvious
/r/askTRP17/06/19 07:38 PM
2

I'm confused by just reading this. You need to make your intentions clear. This reads like you like here and just keep pussyfooting around the fact. She is essentially giving you multiple opportunities to seal the deal and you haven't, so yes it probably is confusing for her. ​ "What do you expect from our friendship?" "Honestly, you text me more than I'd like you to" "I keep my circle small and I want to keep my personal life private" "Don't get too comfortable" "I have high standards for my ci…
/r/askTRP17/06/19 07:06 PM
2

I’m confused af why she sends me selfies of her stomach and all this flirty stuff She is sending these to multiple people, kind of like when you go trolling while fishing and cast out multiple lines to see which ones take the bait. ​ I should mention this girl is ridiculously hot by far better than anything I’ve ever gotten. Cool story bro, now get past this. Hot girls are a dime a dozen, maybe not in your immediate day to day circles, but as you up your smv you'll be suprised at how many just s…
/r/askTRP17/06/19 06:58 PM
1

That's not necessarily the argument I'm making. Two people who mutually want to have sex is not the same as one person who will fuck anything
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/19 06:56 PM
16

, then the discussion never takes place and then all we've done is endorsed a viewpoint with no logical or rational basis for having done so. Finish OP's quote
/r/TheRedPill13/06/19 06:49 PM
2

The way it reads to me is that the attraction just wasn't high enough. ASD is usually just a plausible deniabilty for her to make sure you're good enough to bang. End of the day, I wasn't there, but fortune favors the bold... I would link to Roissy's 16 Commandments but it's been removed...
/r/askTRP13/06/19 06:44 PM
1

Good way to vet if she's legitimately interested
/r/askTRP13/06/19 06:36 PM
2

Not to mention the mainstream blue pill is also trying to censor it as well
/r/TheRedPill13/06/19 06:33 PM
7

Girl was super into me apparently not ​ Is it worth giving this girl another chance? She has probably already decided that she isn't going to give you one before you can decide. ​ Look pimp i'm not trying to shred you here, but kissing is not pumping-and-dumping. You tried twice and she declined twice, whatever she says is just hot air coming out of her mouth, be concerned with what she does.
/r/askTRP13/06/19 06:26 PM
3

Ask her easy questions and then tease her about her generic responses. Be fun, it's not a job interview Give her a compliment but follow it up with some criticism, again be fun and playful about it. If she answers something that piques your interest have her talk about it some more.
/r/askTRP13/06/19 06:24 PM
0

This is why I'm fundamentally turned off by women who just want to fuck for the sake of fucking... yes it's enjoyable but if it's a free resource what's the value in it
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/19 06:21 PM
6

Jeez bro, agreeing to meet is not in her frame... Just set up the date and escalate, stop overthinking it
/r/askTRP13/06/19 06:17 PM
12

I feel the urge to mention the Root in why TRP is called TRP should be noted: ​ In the Matrix, Neo is offered the blue and red pills. The Red Pill opens one's eyes and conscience to reality and what is actually going on. The blue pill lets him live in what he has been fed his whole life, maybe happy, but no deeper meaning. ​ The Matrix is almost 20 years old now and a lot of the guys here, especially the ones under 20 or so have never even seen the movie or understand where it comes from.
/r/TheRedPill13/06/19 06:15 PM
1

To get more money, knowing that there will always be a revenue stream with minimal work required.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/19 06:10 PM
4

Nah, she grabs another big fish. Sure she might smash some younger guys, but from my experiences she finds some divorced guy and snags his money
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/19 01:57 PM
1

Well that's why they're plates If you're intentionally not wanting to date this chick then giving her a gift just doesn't seem like the best idea. While it's funny, bag of skittles is probably the best option, acknowleding the birthday, but being funny about it
/r/askTRP13/06/19 01:55 PM
1

Let me guess, you aren't seeing other girls?
/r/askTRP13/06/19 01:28 PM
1

LMAO yes
/r/askTRP13/06/19 01:27 PM
2

Your problem is that you're doing all this shit via text message. You think a girl can get away with makiing the "mmmm" noise on a date? You ask her out, she doesn't respond, her action is your answer.
/r/askTRP13/06/19 01:25 PM
3

Agreed, what an exciting conversation... "mmmm"
/r/askTRP13/06/19 01:24 PM
0

Juice is going to exaggerate any underlying issues you already had. Chances are you were already prone to being emotional but the exaggerated levels increase it.
/r/askTRP13/06/19 01:23 PM
6

It's not so much about reading a book and being good at it, it takes repetitions. Talk to the clerk at the gas station or the cashier at the grocery store. Don't be a dick and take up everybodies time, but don't overthink it.
/r/askTRP13/06/19 01:19 PM
2

Condoms are pretty effective, but I'm more cautioned about why a plate it talking about having kids with you...
/r/askTRP12/06/19 05:57 PM
1

I've never heard of this until now, seems like a bit of a fringe movement MGTOW don't think women have a value in their life in the traditional sense, so of course they would think a woman "steals a part of your soul" when you sleep with her. ​ sounds like a bit of nonsense to me, sure maybe a bit of your old blue pill self dies when you realize how easy it can be, but I wouldn't say I'm "losing my soul" about it
/r/askTRP12/06/19 05:55 PM
1

I was reading the Chaos and Pain Blog - back when it was good and he had referenced the red pill. I think I was more "purple" at the time, but found the manosphere and then started reading Rollo and Roissy (back when it was good) they explained a lot of the phenomenon that I was experiencing at the time, so it helped to solidfy a lot of stuff.
/r/askTRP12/06/19 05:52 PM
7

Female cops are generally pretty nutty
/r/askTRP12/06/19 05:50 PM
2

facts
/r/askTRP12/06/19 02:21 PM
6

Don't work if you don't want the money, pretty straightforward. Some decent stuff about achieving financial freedom, just search on the main page
/r/askTRP12/06/19 02:21 PM
8

Juice might not be worth the squeeze...
/r/askTRP12/06/19 02:15 PM
4

Might need to dumb it up some more tbh...
/r/askTRP12/06/19 02:14 PM
3

Does it matter what you call it?
/r/askTRP12/06/19 02:06 PM
1

We talked via messenger all week Well... this is usually an attraction killer so best to avoid. ​ Reads like she wants to be friends. There is a chance (smaller than larger) that she does like you but it is "too fast". But most likely is she was attracted when you met, but you kinda deflated that balloon with the constant communication prior to the date. Probably talked too much and didn't leave some vagueness and now she knows enough about you to determine she isn't interested.
/r/askTRP10/06/19 06:58 PM
4

Just rate something other than her looks. Don't play her game, make her play yours
/r/askTRP10/06/19 06:45 PM
8

pretty solid response
/r/askTRP10/06/19 06:45 PM
7

Sure, but after a while you're gonna want to do stuff because you legitimately want to, and the poon will follow
/r/askTRP10/06/19 06:44 PM
1

LOL such is the life of a plate that's why its called "spinning". What do you want to change tho? The bitchy part
/r/askTRP10/06/19 06:42 PM
3

well if she is rescheduling then she is still on board
/r/askTRP10/06/19 05:03 PM
2

The burden is on her to vet guys hitting on her. If it crosses to a stalker type situation then you could address it personally, but at the end of the day it's her battle. You should be working your passive dread anyways so this is just water under the bridge
/r/askTRP10/06/19 05:03 PM
2

I guess the lift isn't that important then... Might as well skip it and do it tuesday
/r/askTRP10/06/19 05:00 PM
1

If she is cancelling on you then the message is clear...
/r/askTRP10/06/19 04:59 PM
1

u/gaylubeoil ???
/r/askTRP07/06/19 05:48 PM
8

Dude, have some respect for yourself. Your time should be worth more that this shit.
/r/askTRP07/06/19 12:47 PM
1

Skip the barbell rows, if you have a hard time maintining neutral spine during a deadlift the BB row is probably going to put it way out of line. ​ Substitute some 90 degree back extensions and focus on squeezing your glutes at the top and pressing your hips into the pad. To get a good deadlift you need to learn how to "hinge" properly, that is learning to sit backwards and stretch your hamstrings without bending your back. ​ Stand about 12 inches away from a wall and stick your butt back to whe…
/r/RPChristians07/06/19 12:44 PM
28

The context with which you met the girls, how many dates prior, why you think there is no attraction, etc. It doesn't have to be a wall of text, but there are essentially limitless reasons why a girl might not be into you so we need some direction
/r/askTRP06/06/19 07:17 PM
90

dude you have to give more context that this...
/r/askTRP06/06/19 06:50 PM
2

Admiral Akbar has a quote about this... RIP. Jokes aside, there is a lot to unpack here, so I'll try to keep it brief. ​ One of the cardinal rules is stay away from chicks who are BPD... you have a girl openly telling you she is unstable She claims its because she finds herself as unstable It's not in a woman's overt interest to openly share a man unless you guys are comitted to an open relationship lifestyle. Where is the positive in any of the three scenarios you listed? Also, this is a great …
/r/askTRP06/06/19 06:44 PM
2

"Not tonight" is definitely coming off as butthurt. ​ I know this is only a small snapshot of your relationship, but it should not be this confrontational. ​ Passive dread in the context of an LTR is much better than trying to use active dread and come off as butthurt. ​ Better response would be to not reply, and when she double texts you say you were busy doing (insert something productive). but don't do it in a snarky way.
/r/askTRP06/06/19 06:36 PM
2

Being honest, are you pretty good looking? 13% bf is definitely better than 27% but it's not shredded, especially if you don't have a lot of muscle mass, as in 13% bf at 185 vs. 13% bf at 155. I have massive oneitis obviously need to work on this ​ The one thing I'm not seeing here is your social skills, something that is not quantifiable like earnings or bodyfat. TRP is confusing in the sense that yes, women as a whole behave in a generally universal way, but individually there is no formula. ​…
/r/askTRP06/06/19 06:16 PM
10

I'd just go straight to setting a meet up for drinks... ​ "Wow I'm surprised it took you so long to get back to me (optional pending on the rapport you had going), lets get drinks at x,y,z and pick up where we left off"
/r/askTRP06/06/19 06:10 PM
3

She talked and talked about herself, and I felt like the emotional tampon. Listening to a chick blab about stuff isn't being an emotional tampon. Emotional tamponing is listening to a girl complain about the guys in her life while you think your gaining dutiful points by "being there" for her. ​ You are correct that there is a way to ask questions that doesn't come off as the "talk to me" vibe however. ​ ​ It also depends on the context in which you're talking. If it's a first date, gf, plate, c…
/r/askTRP06/06/19 06:08 PM
56

Just because you're aware of the way the world operates doesn't necessarily mean everybody else is useless. TRP is rooted in sexual strategy, yes a lot of the principles carry over to other aspects of life, but you're not trying to fuck your friends right? Just shy away from conversations about relationships and whatnot
/r/askTRP06/06/19 05:32 PM
2

If you care that much about your hair then find a new job...
/r/askTRP06/06/19 01:53 PM
5

This is why text game is not advised ​ too hard to tell the conext
/r/askTRP06/06/19 01:35 PM
1

Gotta lead by example, you getting your shit together will force her to do so (if she wants to stay with you). Sounds like she is comfortable in knowing in the back of her head that you can't pull any other poon so she is getting slack with her looks. This reads like you need to work on your dread levels (Married Red Pill) if you're legitimately comitted to staying in the relationship. ​ W/ regards to turning down sex, not a terrible idea if you don't want to, that being said, if you told her th…
/r/askTRP06/06/19 01:21 PM
2

Tell her she can't come by now because you're busy doing *insert something productive*
/r/askTRP06/06/19 01:01 PM
7

Pretty solid... divorced from my mom, who I lived with. Called me religiously every night, picked me up on his weekends every time. Took time to come to all my sporting events. Still talk daily and grab lunch about once a week.
/r/askTRP05/06/19 06:51 PM
2

glad it worked out
/r/askTRP05/06/19 06:49 PM
3

It doesn't seem bad... ​ but this is why TRP advocates using texting for logistics... what positive is going to come of her saying yes or no if she wears a choker? Best case scenario: yes, okay cool Worst case scenario: no, this guy is a creep for bringing that up
/r/askTRP05/06/19 06:48 PM
1

I'm wondering if I should approach her like I do with all my other plates (coffee date, make it clear it's a date, and escalate Yes... if she is responding to you escalating then continue as usual. If she has religious convictions about not wanting to hook up with you let her bring it up, don't do it for her.
/r/askTRP05/06/19 06:46 PM
1

Wake up early, before the alarm, get a lift in, go to school, DONT TAKE A NAP when you get home. Eat an early dinner, and go to bed when you get tired. ​ Turn the blue light filter on on your phone, try to minimize phone use, take the TV out of your room. Keep the lights low around bed time.
/r/askTRP05/06/19 06:42 PM
3

This is my go-to
/r/askMRP05/06/19 06:39 PM
2

For the most part I think it's garbage and kind of a dumb statement actually. Having legitimately opposite views and life views is not very condusive to accomplishing much. That being said, having differences is probably helpful. My wife is a female, so in that regard we are opposite but that is about it. ​ dominant/submissive, party guy/quiet nerd, MBTI types, high energy/low energy These types would have a hard time finding common ground on many things and thus why would you want to spend the …
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/19 06:36 PM
4

yeah man take the L...
/r/askTRP05/06/19 06:31 PM
2

I would say passive dread is staying physically fit, her knowing the husband is socially normal, other women find him attractive, etc. not advocating active dread for a relationship. I will say MRP definitely skews towards guys who find themselves 5, 10, 15 years deep into a marriage and realize they've been fucking up for a while. because they don't know their woman well enough
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/19 06:27 PM
8

Yeah, there were some docs that came out following some insta hoes, most of them are pretty unhappy with their life, spend countless hours just taking stupid photos, editing them, all for nothing.
/r/askTRP05/06/19 06:25 PM
3

just wrap your dick in saran wrap, should be fine, or throw a grocery bag over the top
/r/askTRP05/06/19 02:57 PM
3

He should lollygag. She'll understand that, because if she stops putting in an effort its says he'll gtfo Him lollygagging is essentially putting the onus on her to dictate the relationship. If he employs dread properly it will let her know she would need to put the effort in or he will gtfo because he is capable to do so. If the woman knows that the guy is not capable of getting a different woman then she will not do anything to make the relationship better
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/19 02:52 PM
2

Think of it like this You say exes name, she responds. How you react to her response is what will indicate how serious this is for the future. If you apologize and keep bringing it up "OMG it was an accident" "IDK what happened, I'm not even thinking about her" yada yada, you get the idea, and she will continue to harp on it. ​ Stop elaborating, stop responding to her response multiple times. Sure you can hit her with a "I didn't mean to upset you, not sure what that was about" but less is more.
/r/askTRP05/06/19 02:21 PM
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I suppose both are equally important in figuring out the direction of the relationship. I felt OP's post was geared toward women who were "all in" and the guys were just lollygagging. Burden is on both to jettiison the relationship if it's not worth it for them.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/19 02:17 PM
3

Stick around until I find someone I truly love I'm not particularly sold on this explanation. This scenario presented seems to be a bit situational for me. I think the end of the day it's guys just pussyfooting around and not being clear with their intentions. If you want to be married, then make it clear (doesn't have to be on the first day, but it needs to be clear at some point) if they don't want to be married then make that clear also. ​ Look at how many women were with their exes for years…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/19 01:59 PM
1

NP- nobody advocated following through with her which led me to believe OP was not happy
/r/askTRP05/06/19 01:46 PM
1

This incredibly pretty girl Stop worrying about her looks
/r/askTRP05/06/19 01:40 PM
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My bet is she wants more help from you and you’ll get no pussy Yeah... I don't want to be a debbie downer, but be wary big dog She very well might be nice, and might be interested in you, but she also might flirt with you some to get free tutoring/etc. Up you you to figure out if you want a female friend or want to try and smash, because obviously there are two different routes you take for either goal.
/r/TheRedPill05/06/19 01:37 PM
1

Didn't like your responses from yesterday?
/r/askTRP05/06/19 01:33 PM
17

You can offer all of this, but what does a social media slut offer? The million dollar question... lots of THOTs out there, best bet would be to meet a girl absent social media like most are saying, you know traditional type places, and then run game in person. That's why they respond to game so well because it's mental stimulation that they can't really get online. Body language, situational stuff, etc.
/r/askTRP05/06/19 01:32 PM
0

Context matters... maybe guy is a cad and used all his beta points to make her get the feelz and thus they smashed. You know the "he's a good guy and just needs to be 'fixed'" game. ​ hard to tell, isolated incidents wih no context are just too vague
/r/askTRP05/06/19 01:20 PM
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It's been said before that social media validation is equivalent to porn for men Activates reward centers, yada yada I'm not a neuroscientist ​ Attention and validation are currency for chicks, social media allows them to put in minimal effort and get maximal results. It's cheap though, and they know it. If you can get past it with a girl who isn't "obsessed" then that real/tangible attention will go a long way for you to work with.
/r/askTRP05/06/19 01:16 PM
8

You answered your own question: don't entertain it, be lighthearted, amused mastery. I don't think fighting is particularly necessary unless it's a direct physical threat to you or your girl (this is also the legal articulation to fighting) so ultimately not worth the risk.
/r/askTRP04/06/19 08:10 PM
1

Maybe, but why even bother with a chick who clearly doesn't respect your time, dude she is a straight HO. Only chance would be to straight up be a dick, ghost her, don't send her any beta bait shit. Extreme ho behavior requires extreme alpha behavior.
/r/askTRP04/06/19 08:06 PM
2

Well if she rejected the girl then the chances of her rejecting you (for the threeway) is definitely high. Best bet would have been to try a random chick at the bar or something, give her the plausible deniability that the girl isn't gonna be around, you don't know her, yada yada
/r/askTRP04/06/19 08:03 PM
2

Move on dude, not worth your time. a) you don't owe this chick anything b) you aren't in a relationship c) she is a straight THOT d) regaining frame in an actual relationship is a very long and challenging process I know you want some pussy but your efforts are better spent on a different chick. With regards to your "frame". Sounds like you didn't have it, once a chick paints you in a beta/provider type light you aren't going to get the alpha tag, it works down, not up.
/r/askTRP04/06/19 07:47 PM
3

FWB saying I was her soul mate These two statements don't belong together in the same situation. You probably did game her good, but might have been a little to honest to where she thought you were exclusive. With regards to the threesome: Probably picked the wrong friend. If the friend is too close, the girl will mate guard you and shut it down, also, she will feel threatened that you want that friend more than her. The 3-way game is tricky, which also leads me to believe yall were more than ju…
/r/askTRP04/06/19 07:29 PM
6

If it's an actual PL gym like you're saying, then most of the people there are there to get in and get after it, not dick around with pointless gym stuff. They will Probably be helpful if you're legitimately about getting stronger and bigger, but only if you are genuine with your questions and not trying to be buddy/buddy. I would also limit questions about help to one or two per gym session. Also, come in with a definite goal (not some lofty shit). "hey man" I'm new to this, but really want to …
/r/askTRP04/06/19 07:24 PM
4

she is throwing you the bait, for girls digital attention is basically valueless, its minimal effort for her and she gets probably 100% response rate for whoever she sends it to. Don't let your attention be that cheap.
/r/askTRP29/05/19 06:54 PM
2

Ghosting is a very applicable tool, but it doesn't seem like you're using it correctly. Her making plans with you, and then you ghosting would be the correct application Overtly stating you want to bang is probably not a good strategy unless she is some sort of nympho. I'f you're hitting her up frequently then that is not showing abundance. You're legitmately playing games with her, set up a date (show up), and see how it goes, escalate, if it works, then good smash and plate, if not then re-eva…
/r/askTRP29/05/19 06:52 PM
5

Poon commandment 3 big dog ​ III. You shall make your mission, not your woman, your priority ​ Women will always be around, not worth sabotaging your success for a chick, who is possibly the riskiest time investment you can make
/r/askTRP29/05/19 06:47 PM
8

“Stop ringing me and texting me when it only suits you and then when I text you your just moody and say you don't wanna see me make up your mind This seems like a lot of work to deal with her That being said, your intentions with her should be pretty clear, if you contact her and then ghost that's pretty vague about what you're trying to accomplish.
/r/askTRP29/05/19 06:44 PM
5

I'm striving to be more of a leader of men. that being said, my world view tends to have the two options in different categories though. Both being obtainable. TRP starts as a sexual strategy, but the more you spend time reading about it you start to realize it's really about you and what you want. You use the knowledge to however you want
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/19 06:30 PM
3

are u trying to smash or date her?
/r/askTRP28/05/19 05:12 PM
1

Probably have some sort of dating/FWB with 3-4 women simultaneously. All were non-committal however.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/19 04:44 PM
153

Good point on not getting affected by looks. Another thing I assume when I look at a chick (especially one who is better looking) is the rule that "somewhere, some guy is tired of her shit". No unicorns
/r/TheRedPill28/05/19 04:42 PM
3

WTF is this
/r/MarriedRedPill19/05/19 01:43 PM
1

If she has a track record of coming back she will... might not even leave
/r/askTRP19/05/19 01:30 PM
56

The girl I was making out with even asked me if I wanted to go to the bathroom, but I declined because of whiskeydick, and because that's a bit too trashy for me. Eventually they left, I added them both on snapchat I understand what you're trying to do here, but this might have tanked your chances. ​ Nice FR, a bit long, but one thing I'll add is going out and approaching should be fun. A lot of guys here force the shit like it's work. Gaming is a game, and should be fun, light hearted, seems li…
/r/TheRedPill19/05/19 01:28 PM
2

*says hi to him one time on bus* "See there's this girl giving me obvious IOI, probably wants to fuck" lulz
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/19 01:24 PM
14

It's all about the feelz bad feelz are better than no feelz
/r/askTRP19/05/19 12:35 PM
38

or shit on your couch
/r/askTRP19/05/19 12:33 PM
5

I think a lot of guys here cant reconcile that you can show your intentions or be honest with people without spilling the beans about the secret book of knowledge they found online lol
/r/askTRP19/05/19 12:32 PM
11

"I'm not ready yet" "still haven't found the right girl" "these hoes ain't loyal" for family members and friends. Up to you how you interact with family and friends, but sometimes not being 100% honest is the best policy.
/r/askTRP19/05/19 12:09 PM
5

Let her figure it out, don't do it for her.
/r/askTRP19/05/19 11:13 AM
2

> nowhere does it say listen and help your wife Most guys in MRP listen to their wife too much, which is part of their problem. They don't understand that not everything she says is to be taken literally, which is why they have issues to begin with.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/19 10:53 AM
8

If it was an LTR, as you have stated, then yes, it would be an issue (aside from if you're in an open relatinship or something, but I digress). What is the point of excluding yourself from the dating market if she is not. being open and honest to me absolving her guilt for going on dates with other guys. You think she is paying 50/50 on these? ​ My advise would be to not treat the relationship so seriously, don't get butthurt and start doing tit-for-tat shit ​ Got some work to do pimp, read up o…
/r/askTRP19/05/19 10:22 AM
2

This is like the easiest softball question
/r/askTRP19/05/19 10:04 AM
1

While most guys here are correct in saying that any girl you talk to you should assume there are others, the part I would like to add is that, the fact she is blatantly telling you she is talking to other guys is not very cooth, and thus would cause me to question as to why she even brought it up in the first place. Context dependent: Shit Test: Her: are you seeing other girls You: insert game response Her: Well I'm seeing other guys too You: respond accordingly Disrespectful: You: Nothing Her: …
/r/askTRP19/05/19 10:03 AM
1

It depends on how you're using it. I use it for it's generally intended purpose, to socially interact with my distant friends and family. What I don't recommend is having political discourse, game, or anything otherwise "serious". Don't share dumb memes all day or stupid fail videos.
/r/askTRP19/05/19 09:55 AM
1

No don't punch random bitches ​ Could have fucked with her and said "I appreciate your efforts in trying to get in my bed, but i'm not interested"
/r/askTRP19/05/19 09:52 AM
3

You're doing the right stuff, I'd recommend practicing some game, the more interaction you have with chicks the better off you are with them. ​ Remember your SMV is relative to all of the other males that are out there, who are all vying after the same chicks, so keep working and biding your time and you'll continue to rise to the top.
/r/askTRP19/05/19 09:49 AM
5

(it's gonna happen cause she needs me for her career stuff This is pretty beta to hold something over her to try and make it work, also, if you work together this screams like sexual harassment/HR issue Your time is almost always better spent improving your own life. ​ I don't always adhere to the hard black and white of "once nexted, she is always nexted" there is a lot of gray area, context dependent etc. In your case, due to oneitis issues this one seems like a good idea to next and just stay…
/r/askTRP19/05/19 09:45 AM
1

The options are essentially endless if you know how to track your foods correctly. ​ "Big on a Budget" series by animal is pretty good, the only problem is it's region dependent, but watch a few and you get the idea. ​ https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=MNctsEFp7Zs
/r/askTRP19/05/19 09:41 AM
1

exactly, give her what she wants
/r/askTRP19/05/19 09:39 AM
1

Okay operator error... as I though
/r/askTRP19/05/19 09:34 AM
1

We've been together for 6 months, but have known each other for almost a decade and have had many flings in the past before we started dating. She moved half way across the country to live with me and has always told me she's always wanted this chance to be with me I'm getting a "she is settling for Beta Bux" vibe from this. Women will go through pretty extensive lengths to fulfill hypergamy My overall opinion on the situation is that women need a definitive male leader in their life. If they li…
/r/askTRP17/05/19 02:37 PM
6

Big Dick Energy
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/19 02:29 PM
1

I know it's a government institution, but that's not really how I view marriage, I suppose I could have made that more clear. I would say a public declaration of the relationship (the verbage in the ceremony) to your closest friends and family that you're comitted to it and the kid is more where I was going
/r/askTRP17/05/19 02:26 PM
2

It's literally arithmetic... which has been working for millions of years Unless you're extremely lean or extremely fat, the calculations work
/r/askTRP17/05/19 01:08 PM
0

If you're trying to actually raise a kid it's better to actually be in the kids life
/r/askTRP17/05/19 12:54 PM
3

I wanna date someone for the first time before I transfer to college just so I can experience it and I have two months until I transfer. A girl will see this desperateness (hint: it's not attractive) be better suited to lift, and be more prepared for college ​ when you have a crush You don't have crushes anymore fyi- you're an adult male
/r/askTRP16/05/19 07:34 PM
3

It 100% will lol My goal is to push heavy weight, the flow should go as such Heavy Compound lift (Heaviest) Accessory lift (Moderate) Assistance lift (ligher/volume)
/r/askTRP16/05/19 07:17 PM
11

If you get paid from this, I'm inclined to put it in the "don't shit where you eat" category
/r/askTRP16/05/19 07:15 PM
3

You're saying if I smash my triceps and shoulders then try to hit heavy doubles on bench it's not going to affect it?
/r/askTRP16/05/19 06:59 PM
12

LOL I wouldn't say you're losing frame, but you might be getting close to losing a plate. She will have The TalkTM with you at some point. Depending on where she is in your life you might want to give her some comfort, but if she isn't relationship material then id be wary of giving her comfort.
/r/askTRP16/05/19 06:58 PM
2

Jeez, glad you made a decision with your nuts. It's your relationship also, if you guys aren't on the same page about big stuff like that you're just setting yourself up for failure. What kind of chick wants to have a kid out of wedlock anyways? Use this as a learning opportunity to vet for better LTR
/r/askTRP16/05/19 06:55 PM
1

YES, classic, thanks for finding
/r/askTRP16/05/19 06:52 PM
3

How does it not work? You put the measurements in the equation and you get your percentage?
/r/askTRP16/05/19 05:58 PM
5

Lift heavy first... pre-fatiguing a muscle group is a pretty advanced technique that you probably dont need to be doing anyways
/r/askTRP16/05/19 05:56 PM
6

buy calipers and measure
/r/askTRP16/05/19 05:31 PM
1

Not necessarily what I'm saying equated for partners: I'm saying the ones who masturbate seem to know what makes them orgasm vs. the ones who don't and let the partner try and make them orgasm
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/19 05:31 PM
6

Dread and keeping her on defense are basically the same thing. ​ You have the right points here, but the reason you do all of those things is NOT FOR HER it's for you. Game other women show you have a very social life and options So if she screws up you are sharp spin your plates so you internally know if you drop one there are others to keep you going lift Live longer, look better, ability to obtain attractive women (side note: forces her to not get fat) improve money game not to provide for he…
/r/askTRP16/05/19 05:29 PM
2

Well the only thing we can prove is you guys went on dates, had fun, and didn't have sex. So speculation as to "she wanted to but in her mind it was my fault" yada yada doesn't really help much. At the end of the day if she wanted to she could have (pending the logistics worked). All chicks are different, which is part of the fun.
/r/askTRP16/05/19 05:24 PM
1

I think most guys who have to use "Monk mode" just don't know how to balance their life.
/r/askTRP16/05/19 05:00 PM
1

Despite the fact that all women shit test and respond to game, it doesn't mean the all respond the same way. If you've elicited the "safe" or "friend" feelz before the wet pussy "feelz" then you are most likely not going to convert safe to wet pussy. ​ It's not about rules, or x + y =z, or follow these three steps. ​ When you first started wit her you weren't ovbious enough with your sexual intentions. If you don't convey that then she will fall into the relationship you've created. If you conve…
/r/askTRP16/05/19 04:58 PM
2

They weren't necessarily mutually exclusive, just more of an observation
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/19 04:50 PM
5

In my experience, the best sexual encounters I've been with women who masturbated. They always seemed to know which ways to manipulate the experience so they could orgasm also. The women who were more open to casual sex seemed to have a lot more bad sex and didn't orgasm as much. ​ Obviously this is anecdotal, but my experiences.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/19 02:58 PM
3

Okay, similar story happened, except somebody in the club recorded it, both parties were into it, but OP was afraid some regret-type repurcussions were heading his way.
/r/askTRP16/05/19 02:47 PM
3

Are u the same guy who had the incident where he fingered the girl recorded in the club?
/r/askTRP16/05/19 02:43 PM
16

Preselection is a thing, but not in this case. Don't willingly be an orbiter in hopes of scraggling up some poon, you can still be nice to her, but spend your time (which is valuable) on other prospects. ​ Women generally make poor friends anyways.
/r/askTRP16/05/19 02:40 PM
1

The way OP made it sound is he wants to know her whole class and work schedule, not when the girl is "usually free".
/r/askTRP16/05/19 02:15 PM
141

yeah dog its called swoleshaming
/r/askTRP15/05/19 06:33 PM
2

That might be like 20%
/r/askTRP15/05/19 06:33 PM
2

No dog, that is a weak response to a shit test. She told me on multiple occasions that her wearing jeans have saved her from going all the way with me If this ain't the weakest excuse iv'e heard lol
/r/askTRP15/05/19 06:28 PM
3

She's been hitting me up a lot today, but is failing on making plans with me this weekend Her words don't mean anything just her actions ​ should just ghost her all weekend until I find a good night to tell her to come over, grab a drink, ice cream etc.? Yes, she should know (without you overtly stating) that a) you are not available at her beck and call b) your intentions are sexual c) You are capable and still getting other girls
/r/askTRP15/05/19 06:09 PM
1

I see what you were doing, but within the context of what yall already have established it seems like she doesn't view you as much if she is willing to even joke and put it out on the table.
/r/askTRP15/05/19 06:04 PM
4

I'd argue that's more appropriate for 5'9 than a guy who is 5'11. Numbers aside, the argument is more toward the guys who are skinny and have low bodyfat but think they're "jacked" just because they have low bodyfat
/r/askTRP15/05/19 06:01 PM
2

TBH you should always be prepared in case something happens. But not it's not a bad thing. I just know there are a ton (heh) of overweight people in relationships that are also unhappy.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/19 06:00 PM
2

I imagine it's a lot of people unwilling to leave their comfort zone. Getting a divorce or breaking up after a long time would require most to lose weight, get their shit together, etc, if they wanted to find a new partner.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/19 05:51 PM
3

I would say donate to the sperm bank. ​ You could feasably do both of your strategies at the same time. ​ TBH this is kind of goofy mental exercise
/r/askTRP15/05/19 05:16 PM
5

Keep your bodyfat low, something to consider however: You are in clothes most of the time, so there is something to be said about having a bigger neck/traps/back/chest/arms as opposed strictly to having a v-taper and low bodyfat. ​ If i'm in the bar or the club id rather be at 12% bf and bigger than a smaller guy at 8%, thats just me though. ​ I thnk a lot of guys walk around thinking if they're low bodyfat and 165lbs then they are kicking ass when in reality you're just another small dude with …
/r/askTRP15/05/19 05:13 PM
1

she said she’ll just get a hot Cali guy. I told her cool, let me know how that goes Not the best response pimp If she is willing to meet with you then yes, smash before the trip, if she isn't then find another chick to hang out with. Reads like she is too comfortable with you and knows you're on the hook.
/r/askTRP15/05/19 05:10 PM
0

ask for her schedule Definitely no... if she wants to make time with you she can move her schedule to make it fit. ​ If you're questioning if she is into you she is probably not. Work some other girls and I bet she magically reappears in your life with a more free schedule.
/r/askTRP15/05/19 05:05 PM
70

Girl: Why do people do x,y,z when they know it upsets people like me??
/r/TheRedPill15/05/19 05:03 PM
2

Jeez homie, let the hoes do what they're gonna do. If your game is tight enough chicks talking about you should work better for you. Keep it vague, if they want to follow you and stay on your dick then let them. Just don't engage with them and be petty (like they are)
/r/askTRP15/05/19 02:10 PM
3

Less is more with your words If you talk with her that much it's likely she sees you as another "girlfriend". ​ is it that simple Yes
/r/askTRP15/05/19 02:07 PM
6

she's been with no one else and sweared to God Seems legit ​ It's a lose/lose scenario If she pops positive she blames you for cheating and giving it to her If you pop positive she blames you for cheating
/r/askTRP15/05/19 01:57 PM
1

chicks don't know what they want, this is not just for dumb shit but really for everything. This example is just a small pixel of an entire picture. You pick where to eat, sure you can listen to her input, but its nothing major.
/r/askTRP15/05/19 01:27 PM
1

Sounds like THOT behavior How do u treat a THOT? by giving her the D and then be on with your day
/r/askTRP15/05/19 01:20 PM
1

My stance doesn't really change, it's more of a top down flow. As in, somebody with less power cant really sexually harass somebody with more. And yes that includes physical strength, not just structural/work power. A dude hitting on another dude isn't sexual harrassment, especially if the harassee can whip the harasser's ass.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/19 01:17 PM
2

Reading into it too much. ​ The terminology "The Red Pill" comes from a reference to The Matrix. RHCP have been around since before then.
/r/TRPOffTopic15/05/19 01:07 PM
4

and that is why it's easy to radicalize them, think the 72 virgin trope
/r/askTRP15/05/19 01:05 PM
4

so the current situation in western cultures lol??
/r/askTRP15/05/19 01:04 PM
4

Jeez dog, just make the decision.
/r/askTRP15/05/19 01:03 PM
5

what goes up must come down... including those panties
/r/TheRedPill15/05/19 01:02 PM
0

Long story short, yes. Lots of old codes help to ensure guys who are traditionally beta will be able to secure a women (sex/children) by using social norms to enforce them.
/r/askTRP15/05/19 12:57 PM
4

Reads like she is throwing a bunch of different "chick-game" tactics at you and figuring out how you respond to each to figure out if you're bucks or fucks. Seems like basic bratty girl type shit tbh. Set up an alone date, escalate and see what happens, don't overthink it.
/r/askTRP15/05/19 12:52 PM
5

I don't see a problem in expressing your direct sexual interest with a compliment. *smacks ass* "That's a nice ass, can't wait to be in it soon" or something to that effect.
/r/askTRP15/05/19 12:49 PM
4

Most here tend to be in the same contention that, it's her life and up to her to make her own decisions, you respond accordingly to her good or shitty decisions. ​ My take is you should have enough passive influence (read: dread) in the relationship to where she should come to you and genuinely respect your input/decision on the matter. You lead from the top down in the relationship.
/r/askMRP15/05/19 12:44 PM
2

While it might not have been with this dude, it's probably safe to assume she has banged some other dude. "is it okay that I have forgiven myself This is her essentially telling you she doesn't care about getting caught. Yes she felt bad she got caught, but damn... ​ Are you being overly emotional? It's justified to be upset, but if you had not idea this was happening then you have a pretty rude awakening coming for you big dog. Especially on MRP
/r/MarriedRedPill14/05/19 03:58 PM
3

smile back
/r/askTRP14/05/19 03:34 PM
2

There is more than looks/sex... need to smell good too
/r/askTRP14/05/19 03:19 PM
38

Its AF/BB playa... All women want both, but most realize they can't sustain it. A hot guy will throw a (moderately) unattractive girl who is broke a bone way faster than the reverse.
/r/askTRP14/05/19 03:15 PM
2

I don't think it needs to be something labeled as a "guys night" or "guys only" as much as just male peer bonding. Most hobbies guy take up have other guys involved, just by nature of doing that hobby together you have a male/male bonding experience. If you start to label it as a "guys only" thing its sort of forcing expectations on it instead of just shooting the shit with your boys and sprinkling in some real shit. ​ This is part of the reason why lifting is suggested so frequently, get a lift…
/r/askTRP14/05/19 03:12 PM
1

The link is specifically for girls night out shit tests But I told her she should have called me to begin with You call her then, it's your relationship so you take the lead. If she says she can't talk then tell her okay, we will talk about it in person. Just read the article, its a must read
/r/askTRP14/05/19 03:05 PM
2

"for science"
/r/askTRP14/05/19 03:03 PM
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It's work to keep up physically with a guy who is in shape. Most women who are "in shape" are so because they have decent genetics, most guys who are fit/jacked had to acheive it through some sort of work and they know the work associated with it. It would require constant mate guarding on her behalf to keep him.
/r/askTRP14/05/19 03:01 PM
3

Read: https://therationalmale.com/2012/08/27/girls-night-out/ ​ Also lets address this: You're 33 pimp-stop texting important conversations She is 35 and wants to go on a GNO to another country? Why are you LTR a woman who has had approx 17 years to find a husband and still hasn't? You straight up failed the shit test, no question
/r/askTRP14/05/19 02:59 PM
35

Dog just put her legs behind her head and you'll be fine
/r/askTRP29/04/19 07:18 PM
1

She’s kind of a ride or die and doesn’t want a real relationship, at least it’s what she said Wut??? So she wants to only have sex with you and follow your goals but doesn't want a real relationship??? ​ Commandment VII. Always keep two in the kitty read: https://heartiste.wordpress.com/the-sixteen-commandments-of-poon/
/r/askTRP29/04/19 06:42 PM
2

If a girl is out-dreading you that seems like a corollary to oneitis. which you admit to I've developed a bit of oneitus ​ Matching "dread for dread" seems like the relationship will either a) get very petty (doesn't seem like your case) or b) get very boring (matching stoicism) ​ I just don't see where this is going for you. Doesn't read like it's very fun, then again, just what I'm seeing
/r/askTRP29/04/19 06:35 PM
7

Just keep it vague, as you should with most questions from women ​ "yeah it was pretty crazy back then" "Yeah, some stuff was messed up, other stuff was probably accidental though"
/r/askTRP29/04/19 06:27 PM
1

I'm just saying exactly that, it's hard to tell if somebody BPD because they're like a sociopath as you said.
/r/askTRP29/04/19 02:10 PM
1

OP asked if it was outwardly obvious... and my answer is no, how am I wrong?
/r/askTRP29/04/19 12:38 AM
2

Hercules labor's did not include rescuing his dead g/f from Hades, only capturing Cerberus.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/19 12:37 AM
2

Hercules Aladdin Tarzan Pocahontas All movies with other themes, but one of the central themes is that part of the man's mission is for the woman
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/19 02:34 PM
3

It's that the guys go out of their way on these crazy quests for a woman when in reality guys think they're doing that all the time and get nothing in return other than "wow you're a nice guy for doing that" I know Shrek isn't Disney, but it's a perfect example Funny movie too
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/19 01:53 PM
9

"Hey man, I'm not telling you your business, but I don't think the situation between you and worthlessho is good, I'm still your friend but I think you should really readdress the situation" ​ you can "RP" people without spilling the beans, you just have to know how to talk to them. ​ Obviously there are context dependent factors
/r/askTRP28/04/19 01:48 PM
1

Maybe? I'm not a personality expert, but I can see why somebody who is volatile all the time would like somebody who is pretty even keeled/unaffected
/r/askTRP28/04/19 12:28 PM
1

First, are BPD women outwardly obvious No, hence the borderline part of it, if it was obvious it would just be a straight up personality disorder
/r/askTRP28/04/19 12:17 PM
3

I was actually going to offer an alternate route that included that, alpha-widow is real
/r/TheRedPill28/04/19 11:43 AM
11

A good start would be to stop using the terms "like" and "um"
/r/askTRP28/04/19 11:24 AM
3

Interesting perspective... I don't really think the desire for that hot/passionate sex ever really dies, they just don't have the means of soliciting it as much
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/19 10:52 AM
1

Or is he insecure that he'll never be able to match her past; in other words the more partners, the more potential Chads and you'll never compete with those Chads. Probably this ​ Worth the read also: https://therationalmale.com/2013/12/03/saving-the-best/
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/19 10:43 AM
1

It's not that easy, its a collection of different "theories". But for the mental exercise: ​ Alpha fucks and beta bucks.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/19 10:41 AM
22

number of guys putting up with being beta provider is lowering Is it though? Realistically it would be more THOTS that get passed around by the same upper 20% or so of men, and then more incels
/r/TheRedPill28/04/19 10:33 AM
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It's already happening. THOT it up pre-wall "settle" down with Beta post-wall Become an alpha widow and pine for any semblance of alpha you can still get cuck your beta husband into raising kids that aren't his own Repeat previous step
/r/TheRedPill28/04/19 10:11 AM
1

LOL come on dude. While yes, pre-selection is a real, the brand of being a "homewrecker" is also real. It's a pretty strong stigma for a chick to overcome for a guy who isn't a straight up boss. Pre-selection works more for a girl who is intrigued about who/what you are, "is he capable of getting a girl?" if so "is she hot/attractive?" "is this guy's genetics worth getting dolled up for". ​ If you are around a bunch of girls that have already expressed non-interest then it probably won't work mu…
/r/askTRP28/04/19 09:59 AM
3

really gets the pussy wet
/r/askTRP19/04/19 09:11 PM
5

Clearly you're in her frame on this. Obvious answer is to just break up with her. Don't make it long or drawn out or anything, the colder the better. If you're going to stay with her (again, not recommended) you're gonna need to get some major dread so she knows you're capable of pulling any talent you want and she better get her shit straight or you will (be prepared to leave, don't be a pussy)
/r/askTRP19/04/19 09:11 PM
5

No, I am married, but I also don't have female "friends". There are girls that I would be interested in (moreso acquaintance types), but not worth leaving my wife for.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/19 08:13 PM
3

They might not get approached as often but it doesn't mean you have a better chance.
/r/askTRP19/04/19 07:36 PM
12

A little bit of both, eventually you will have The TalkTM
/r/askTRP19/04/19 06:56 PM
1

I don't use drug, but based on the sheer number of people that do, it's probably because it makes you energized and euphoric. Also, a pretty good appetite suppressant
/r/askTRP19/04/19 06:55 PM
3

Don't know how you usually talk to her, bu hittin her with the Hey, I'm moving out of town in a couple of weeks, let's hang" seems sufficient to me, obviously she has a history of flaking so don't get your hopes up
/r/askTRP19/04/19 06:05 PM
2

It's called a corsage
/r/askTRP19/04/19 05:50 PM
2

This is an interesting mental exercise because you should be able to say what you want and have it protected via your HIPPA rights. Granted if she is a medical professional she is supposed to report any crime that occurs.
/r/askTRP19/04/19 05:49 PM
2

Because you most likely aren't telling the guy that you don't want to be with him
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/19 05:45 PM
6

Yep, they know either a) you're defunct for some reason and approaching them or b) hit and quit option
/r/askTRP19/04/19 04:58 PM
8

Not taking women so seriously and not being a fucking weirdo
/r/askTRP19/04/19 04:56 PM
2

Let the hamster work for you
/r/askTRP19/04/19 04:55 PM
9

Nah pimp, if she didn't want to go out then, why would she now? You really think "school work" is what kept her in?
/r/askTRP19/04/19 04:54 PM
2

pass shit tests Are you though? ^ There should be some carryover, at least to a date If you look good you shouldn't be having a terribly hard time How long have you been using it?
/r/askTRP19/04/19 04:52 PM
0

caring like Adam Levine from Maroon 5 but not having the ability to slay pussy like Adam Levine... got it, sounds more like an insult to me
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/19 01:51 PM
7

emphasis on the WE
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/19 01:49 PM
4

haha doesn't hit me hard, but I'm sure it's hitting deep to somebody here
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/19 01:49 PM
21

Softball question "OMG you're such a nice guy"
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/19 01:37 PM
4

She hits you up to talk about a book?? I wouldn't even respond
/r/askTRP19/04/19 01:30 PM
3

this is pretty vague, Jobs are jobs. Being aware of TRP can make anything "red pill" I bought a red pill car I do a red pill workout I eat a red pill diet you get the point...
/r/askTRP19/04/19 01:28 PM
1

Tonight ex gf We weren't together Something to be learned here about exes/plates/gf's....
/r/askTRP19/04/19 01:22 PM
1

(note: a guy friend told me that adults are "attracted" to people, and that they don't have crushes. I don't see the difference??) A crush is having an attraction to somebody to where it become all encompassing and one would ignore any other prospects. It "crushes" your ability to function in a normal manner. The adult term for crush is oneitis
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/19 02:39 PM
1

It might not directly apply to everybody, but the mindset should apply to everybody. so if you get lucky to find a girl that you can fuck all the time you really need to watch every move you make with her because guess what, you don't have a lot of options and you will not always be so lucky This is the mindset you directly want to avoid, if you are in a position where if you lose your current girl, ideally you would have one to call that same day (probably not applicable to most, especially in …
/r/askTRP18/04/19 02:27 PM
2

How to pass the test? Stop worrying about this especially with this gorgeous 22 year old
/r/askTRP18/04/19 02:19 PM
3

I think there is a little bit. Boredom and complaceny are worse in a relationship that love or hate. I'm not saying you should have your LTR hate you, but in the end getting any kind of emotional response would be better than her being bored with you. They go off of emotion so you've got to strike that vein when dealing with them. A little dread should keep her on her toes
/r/askTRP18/04/19 02:15 PM
3

Just get the lift in.
/r/askTRP17/04/19 07:07 PM
11

She doesn't look crazy. Single at 45... sure bro
/r/askTRP17/04/19 06:48 PM
3

She gets pretty high and gets touchy. I reciprocate just enough to let her know I'm interested in her , she tried positioning her mouth close to mine several times but I didn't do anything , just held her with me. Shoulda just smashed then?
/r/askTRP17/04/19 06:15 PM
24

Hotties are like close parking spaces Taken or Handicapped
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/19 06:13 PM
1

I was making progress, or whatever pretty vague homie
/r/askTRP17/04/19 05:28 PM
2

It's well known that women have standards for sexual partners and men have... fewer . Disagree, I think men and women have standards for all of the same categories, they are just different standards
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/19 04:39 PM
2

Just like a woman, it's not so much about what you say as much as what you put up with. What that entails is up to you, some people next, but how many "infractions" will you put up with before you next/end and LTR up to you
/r/askTRP17/04/19 02:21 PM
1

Tell your friend to make his move. If he doesn't tell him you're gonna smash, you don't have to be a dick about it, but if you're tight then you should open up to him. Not worth losing a friendship over some poon
/r/askTRP16/04/19 07:54 PM
1

Ill just say that ANY unwanted touch is technically speaking a battery, 2nd degree misdemeanor in FL
/r/TheRedPill16/04/19 07:51 PM
2

conversion tool says that's in the normal range
/r/askTRP16/04/19 07:49 PM
3

Minimize your texts to her, follow the 2/3rd rule, when she texts you Hey whatsup? Good you? blah blah blah cool lets get drinks on xyz
/r/askTRP16/04/19 06:26 PM
1

Yeah stop texting so much The reason not texting back works is because it makes her hamster work, she is assuming you're with other girls (if you've positioned yourself correctly)
/r/askTRP16/04/19 06:08 PM
2

what is your other level? not the free
/r/askTRP16/04/19 06:06 PM
1

No
/r/askTRP15/04/19 07:55 PM
2

You weigh 170 and wanna lose 30lbs? Pretty big cut, what is your bodyfat% Probably a better metric to go by than just lbs/kg on the scale. 5'7 and 140 is pretty small.
/r/askTRP15/04/19 07:54 PM
1

Seems good. Talking too much about it kind of kills the mystery or starts setting up some kind of expectation in either one of your heads which will most likely set you up for disapointment
/r/askTRP15/04/19 07:12 PM
14

stop getting validation from chicks pimp You should have more important things going on than whether or not a 6 wants to suck your dick
/r/askTRP15/04/19 06:53 PM
3

" I appreciate the offer but I don't need any more friends"
/r/askTRP15/04/19 06:31 PM
2

this is the best response
/r/askTRP15/04/19 06:30 PM
8

. I've always felt that there is something wrong with the idea that you have to put yourself out there so that other people can "rate" you This is interesting because I don't really feel the urge to put myself out there to get rated. I view it more as a place where I have the option to put out whatever I want. I don't really have the urge to put shit out there just for the sake of putting it out there. Personally, I use social media mostly for it's intended purpose, I connect with other people i…
/r/askTRP15/04/19 06:28 PM
1

This usually falls into the not shitting where you eat category. Also, probably against the rules I.e. if you get caught or it goes bad you could have some negative repercussions (that being said, might make the pussy wet if she is actually into you)
/r/askTRP15/04/19 05:51 PM
2

Dread is something that more or less does it's own work for you, at least in a relationship context. It's about the things that you can do or are capable of doing WITHOUT having to state it. ​ Hard to tell what goes on behind closed doors too, so maybe it's not so put together as it would seem.
/r/askTRP15/04/19 05:27 PM
11

It's only gay if your balls touch your transwoman girlfriend's balls
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/19 07:34 PM
4

Guy sounds like a retard. Bad boy is subjective
/r/askTRP14/04/19 07:33 PM
3

I wouldn't "abandon" it, but soft next sure
/r/askTRP14/04/19 07:32 PM
1

This is true...
/r/askTRP14/04/19 07:18 PM
2

Sidebar
/r/MarriedRedPill13/04/19 02:21 PM
1

Agreed, not saying she is going to get a top tier man, but losing weight, getting a good haircut, and dressing nice (same for men) will go a long way
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/19 01:17 PM
1

Exactly, but that being said but for the majority of men, it wouldn't be un-feasable for the 4/10 to up her SMV and get a guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/19 12:55 PM
5

Ill preface this by saying a lot of the guys in MRP came here already married as a way to salvage what they had and make a turn around. ​ Supporting a man's goals and mission is probably the best way. Can't go into specifics because each goal will be different and the way to achieve it will be also. That being said, it's hard to be an RPW if the man isn't RP either.
/r/MarriedRedPill13/04/19 12:43 PM
1

Depends what state you're in... State Laws vary
/r/askTRP13/04/19 12:35 PM
5

Where are the anti conservatism posts? TRP is about increasing men's SMV and their ability to get poon, so I can agree with the sentiment that if stuff is getting too far from that it needs to be regulated. I understand that is a wide variety of subject however. I've been around the community for a while too, I think the EC's get frustrated because almost all questions that are asked can be answered by thoroughly reading through sidebar content, rational male, Heartiste etc.
/r/askTRP13/04/19 12:18 PM
2

No not over text, there is basically nothing to be done over text https://therationalmale.com/2013/05/13/soft-dread/ https://therationalmale.com/2012/03/27/dread-games/
/r/askTRP13/04/19 12:12 PM
9

If you meeting chicks and exchanging numbers is normal behavior, and then this time her response is different then there is a possiblity it's on her. ​ The biggest red flag to me is that her response was to go instantly to petty. Meeting a guy one on one, and then banging him (again) a few days later just screams childish to me.
/r/askTRP13/04/19 11:23 AM
1

That's not so much dread as just withdrawing attention. Passive dread is her knowing that if she loses you you'll be fine and she will be devastated.
/r/askTRP13/04/19 11:19 AM
4

It means: either women Don't care about looks as much as guys do, either they are more realistic about their romantic life. Women only find 20 % of guys attractive but they Don't necessarily chase after them, they actually go for lower. It's not that they don't care about looks as much as other things have more value to them (read: ability to provide)
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/19 11:18 AM
36

Pretty good response if you ask me. Hard to tell the line in which you need to go hands on with somebody because in most cases the risks outweigh the reward. Dude is just mad he is dating a ho who goes to the club and dances with other guys.
/r/TheRedPill13/04/19 11:16 AM
3

I see this as two-fold. For many of these things there is a certain basic understanding that will be helpful for day to day maintenance. But these are (usually) respected trades and there shouldn't be any shame in recognizing that if you suck at something paying a professional to do it if it is beyond your scope of knowledge is a smart move. ​ The car thing is pretty complex now, but one thing that will never be complex is learning to change the damn tire.
/r/askTRP13/04/19 11:13 AM
1

Okay this is why you don't have conversations via text, hard to tell via her tone if she is just needing some comfort or being an asshole. ​ Also, if a girl is acting like this after only 4 months (read: entitled) then she is way too comfortable in your relationship, need to up your passive dread
/r/askTRP13/04/19 11:09 AM
17

INTP-A / INTP-T WTF is this? You are plating her already... plate life for a 34 year old chick is probably pretty short though because that biological clock has a loud tick in her ear Wrap it up playa
/r/askTRP13/04/19 10:26 AM
6

I figured, take the dick size off. If you're matching with chicks who swipe right on you based on a huge dick you're venturing into BPD and damaged goods territory.
/r/askTRP13/04/19 10:24 AM
16

The answer to your question is mostly no (yes for breaking up after she cheated) Buy her a rose and some chocolate ( usually do this when dread is applied to comfort her "I got options but I stay with you" in a kind of way) This is the incorrect response to comfort her, give a gift when she has done good behavior, not to appease her. ​ No way around the fact you basically picked up two chicks in front of your girlfriend (to her), the reasoning to a chick doesn't matter, personal training, helpin…
/r/askTRP13/04/19 10:15 AM
2

What's the question?
/r/askTRP13/04/19 10:08 AM
3

I've had success IRL and online. I don't think having online success has any direct carryover to your actual SMV (bragging to a potential date in person about online success seems cringey). That being said, I do think if you have success online (im mostly referring to tinder or photograph driven dating) you should have a good confidence in person that will indirectly up your actual SMV.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/19 10:06 AM
1

No jeez, he is making a point and making an exaggeration to do it.
/r/askTRP13/04/19 09:58 AM
8

Well bro if you're banging fatties you're gonna need that long dick to get past the fat
/r/askTRP13/04/19 09:54 AM
2

The answer is to ignore all the shit they have going on. I know it affects you because your dick is dry now, but all three of their hamsters can battle it out on their own accord. You keep gaming, being cool, and upping your smv, if they can figure their shit out I'm sure a new girl would be happy to slob on the knob ​ like corn on the cob
/r/askTRP13/04/19 09:52 AM
1

I'm not super rich, but I would imagine at that point the wealth becomes more or less irrelevant They can be providers in the sense of attention, neediness, etc.
/r/askTRP13/04/19 09:46 AM
7

Don't have serious conversations over texts asking if I've forgotten her Respond: Who's this?
/r/askTRP12/04/19 07:33 PM
1

Well if she is bitchy then it's probably some kind of nuclear game to where for a short period of time you can probably do both, just be prepared for both of them to shatter ​ They can be real sisters and eskimo sisters
/r/askTRP12/04/19 07:26 PM
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I thought that by now I was red pilled enough but it really seems like I'm not there yet! Come on bro you really thought approaching a girl is enough to be RP? Props on getting out of your comfort zone but you've got a ways to go. Can't undo what's been done, but I wouldn't have even brought up the fact that you met before. ​ Depending on how awkward it was depends on whether you can salvage anything, but if you see her again just play it off like it wasn't a big deal.
/r/askTRP12/04/19 07:13 PM
1

Her problem not yours, unless of course you want to adopt all of her problems
/r/askTRP12/04/19 06:42 PM
1

It didn't read like she seemed very threatening, only possible thing is if you think she is going to drug you with the drinks
/r/askTRP12/04/19 06:16 PM
1

Just play it off like you don't know they're sisters ​ shit if the girl is hitting you up she clearly doesn't care too much about her sister anyways
/r/askTRP12/04/19 06:07 PM
1

chubby girl with her belly bouncing underneath her shirt came Dude this isn't chubby, this is just fat ​ Keep your door locked and don't stay in an area alone with her. It's a dorm so it shouldn't be too hard
/r/askTRP12/04/19 06:06 PM
1

you're only in the friendzone if you put yourself there. If a chick is physically meeting up with you there should be the potential to make a lay. If you're buying her drinks and giving her attention then yes, you put yourself in the friend zone
/r/askTRP12/04/19 06:03 PM
1

is this still a question of SMV? Yes
/r/askTRP12/04/19 05:54 PM
1

Seems like a green light that they want to fuck with NSA to me...
/r/askTRP12/04/19 05:51 PM
5

are tina fey and anne hathaway considered hot??? ​ Those dudes are most likely just beta providers, both of those women are definitely past the wall and have already partaken in the AF side of hypergamy, current guys are BB.
/r/askTRP12/04/19 05:46 PM
1

So i call her to ask whats up, and she starts explaining how she's been dating this dude for 3 months (who's in a LTR) and that some shit went down between them and how she's feeling down. ​ Hahah dude she just indicated she doesn't give a shit about dating a guy in an LTR. Just smash it. ​ Don't assume any chick is quality until you've vetted her for a while. Most are looking to branch swing as high as they can. Rest assured all the guys they "date" probably assume they're in a comitted relatio…
/r/askTRP12/04/19 05:42 PM
1

Your current LTR should acknowledge the fact you've dated other girls, so if that is causing an issue then address it, after all you are a high value male... right? ​ Like everybody else has said, just ignore her, I'm sure she has hamstered herself in and out of killing herself over you by now and she is somebody else's problem. ​ partially crazy towards the end of our relationship I should also mention that my ex threatened to kill herself once she realized things were falling a part between us…
/r/askTRP12/04/19 05:34 PM
2

Does the chick know your a virgin?
/r/askTRP12/04/19 05:28 PM
4

But you can finger her or lick her without any problems and if she will have a good time than it was all ok. Yeah but if OP has no sexual experience this probably wont get her off
/r/askTRP12/04/19 05:28 PM
1

Lots of other commenters have given good advise, you problem is not simply "my wife hides the keys" you seem to recognize that. Captain away
/r/askMRP12/04/19 05:26 PM
1

IDK, don't know the cultural norms in India and don't have any experience gaming Indian chicks, but it still reads like you might be overthinking it.
/r/askTRP12/04/19 05:24 PM
6

Hey everyone I'm going to make this short LOL Congrats, you felt your nuts and broke up with your oneitis. Yeah you have feelings, yada yada, but you made a net positive move, enjoy being single.
/r/askMRP12/04/19 05:21 PM
9

Hey, don't forget she is a 10
/r/askMRP12/04/19 05:19 PM
1

If you walk past her house how is she having an excuse to be around you? I will agree and say if she is remotely interested in banging you and keeping it on the DL a facebook friendship with the "hot" neighbor would bring up red flags to her husband
/r/askTRP12/04/19 05:15 PM
1

It's not necessarily about going out and "doing stuff" as much as it is about keeping her on her toes and using your masculine energy
/r/askMRP12/04/19 05:13 PM
1

TBH once a woman has you painted as an orbiter or deemed you as not attractive she will always view you in the light. ​ Best option is to move on
/r/askTRP12/04/19 01:46 PM
2

This could be her warning you that she is essentially ready to leave you if you aren't willing to make some changes. Reads to me like she wants your SMV higher (hint: you should always be trying to increase your SMV) If she is doing it in an asshole way they tell her to stop being an asshole. If she doesn't stop being an asshole about it and you stay with her then who's fault is it then?
/r/askTRP12/04/19 12:35 PM
5

Maybe every day she sits at home and thinks "Wow there is this guy who walks past my house all the time and stares at me".
/r/askTRP12/04/19 12:33 PM
2

I feel like I’m supposed to stop this or something the white in white Knighting is for the absorbative qualities of how dry it makes the pussy
/r/askTRP12/04/19 12:31 PM
0

Why is she acting like this? Is she trying to have fun but you aren't keeping her fun levels high enough?
/r/askMRP12/04/19 12:28 PM
2

If you're smashing that's better, but there are still some kinds of girls who will give you pussy just to keep you around as an orbiter.
/r/askTRP12/04/19 12:25 PM
1

in a rude way Obviously she's not rude Wut? My type of response would be "Yeah I hear he's pretty funny/charming/rich/(context dependent) too"
/r/askTRP11/04/19 11:53 PM
4

Most chicks know whatsup, even if they are very horny, but want that plausible deniability for jumping into bed even if it's just after one drink
/r/TheRedPill11/04/19 11:42 PM
2

She is looking for plausible deniability to come back over
/r/askTRP11/04/19 11:37 PM
8

Why even bother approaching at all if you can just buy a prostitute ​ edit: rent a prostitute
/r/TheRedPill11/04/19 11:36 PM
9

backup / another option Orbiter- FTFY She is not even remotely interested sexually pimp
/r/askTRP11/04/19 11:32 PM
12

I wouldn't next her yet, unless you're just swimming in pussy, just ignore it for now
/r/askTRP11/04/19 07:43 PM
1

well you seem to know the obvious answer, I think learning that people generally speaking don't give a shit about your opinion helps a lot with that urge to correct people.
/r/askTRP11/04/19 07:40 PM
1

I don't know anybody involved, TBH I wouldn't go out of my way to bring it up unless you're approached directly from somebody in authority. If one of the chicks bring it up just play it off, don't get butthurt. If you go on a campaign to prove to the world you never had sex with her you're going to turn into the "guy who allegedly raped that chick"
/r/askTRP11/04/19 06:45 PM
2

If you're legitimately right all the time then read up on Amused Mastery.
/r/askTRP11/04/19 06:22 PM
1

Well who is she telling to where it is serious? If you didn't have sex then by all means stay to your story. But if you did have sex, then if questioned don't lie about it.
/r/askTRP11/04/19 06:21 PM
1

I compete in a variety of strength sports and did so as a "natty" for a while. When I started going to the national level I started with gray area sarms, mostly for body recomp. Ostarine was by far the best one I tried. I also did s23 (probably closer to a prohormone) and got great strength gains from it. I did the prescribed PCT's for both. Recently I got my levels checked and had very low T levels, I was surprised for how often I lift and am pretty consistent with my diet. I acknowledge my sle…
/r/askTRP11/04/19 06:19 PM
3

Not suggesting 20 rep squats as a base program, but the shit definitely works as a plateau breaker or an inbetween program. Also wouldn't really recommend for beginners
/r/askTRP11/04/19 06:12 PM
1

Implement what?
/r/askTRP11/04/19 06:10 PM
2

Married RP then, read up on those sets of rules and it's sidebar
/r/askMRP11/04/19 05:09 PM
2

Spinning plates while in an LTR is up to you. TRP knowledge is inherently amoral so you can do with it what you please. That being said, if your LTR knows she is your only option then she has a good bit of power over you. Passive dread is a key for you.
/r/askTRP11/04/19 05:08 PM
5

I'm in a red pill relationship something tells me this might not be the case dude
/r/askMRP11/04/19 05:06 PM
1

not in the same way he loves her (his BP ideal)
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/19 04:57 PM
1

this doesn't affect her in finding a man who loves her TRP is for men, not really for women. For a man to give up the only thing he is capable of (resources) to a woman who doesn't love him is pretty devastating. TRP is not so much a set of rules as much as observations on things and ways to interact with them. Also-TRP is not so much about "love" as it is the ability to have sex
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/19 04:53 PM
1

Do you guys have such moments and how do you deal with them? P.S. I know that I should've ignored her You answered your own question. Setting your expectations way too high on a chick if it's to the point where you're blowing up on her and then getting blocked and shit
/r/askTRP11/04/19 04:49 PM
1

Well tinder is social media right?
/r/TheRedPill11/04/19 04:44 PM
2

while still trying to keep frame that I’m fucking multiple women at once It's definitely feasible to have emotional sex with more than one plate There are a broad spectrum of emotions that you have access to, sexual emotion doesn't always mean you will have relationship emotion, or sadness, or whatever others there are.
/r/askTRP11/04/19 04:43 PM
1

Every time I go in the office its papers stacked everywhere, boxes, files, weeks to return my emails...
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/19 02:09 PM
1

Pretty much this There is literally a fetish for EVERY type of ugly women No fetishes for video game guys, fat guys, etc.
/r/askTRP11/04/19 02:06 PM
1

I work pretty extensively with lawyers, they seem pretty high-stress/strung out types TBH the ones I work with get paid shit for the amount of work they have so I can see why
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/19 02:04 PM
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TBH it's probably a better strategy for either male or female to keep your living arrangements as best as possible. If having you over would fuck up her living arrangement (fight with roommate,or maybe this is a rule they've got with the landlord, etc) I can see why. Even you admit that you didn't want to go back to your place because of the roommate.
/r/askTRP11/04/19 02:02 PM
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Truth, I did 20 reps only 1x a week for about 6 months and my inner/groin area got stretch marks from the size put on.
/r/askTRP11/04/19 01:59 PM
1

Mate, “game” and attractive men don’t belong to the same plane of existence They literally have to exist in the same plane of existence, I have had plenty of experiences in the past in which I've had girls attracted to me and I putzed around with nice guy game only for them to get bored and move on
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/19 01:58 PM
1

No biggie, I agree, I just didn't see OP looking for guidance on a way to have a real, legitimate weight loss plan for long term success
/r/askTRP11/04/19 01:57 PM
1

No disagreement there, OP just seems to want a crash diet, I didn't get any idea he was looking to sustainably lose weight
/r/askTRP11/04/19 01:55 PM
1

exactly
/r/askTRP11/04/19 01:08 AM
1

agreed but is discipline the fastest way to lose weight
/r/askTRP11/04/19 01:08 AM
1

OP is clearly looking for a crash diet... Dieting is about maintenance and consistency, not about losing copious amounts of weight quickly. Also, we aren't talking about your diet, or any personal attacks on your discipline, knowledge, history or whatever
/r/askTRP11/04/19 01:07 AM
1

Yeah but reversing works if you are at a point in which your metabolism is shot.
/r/askTRP11/04/19 01:05 AM
3

Not saying something isn't up, just back out of it then. Go to vegas game chicks, etc. you're single
/r/askTRP10/04/19 07:01 PM
0

Which way you suggest that isn't the case?
/r/askTRP10/04/19 06:58 PM
0

ahh good
/r/askTRP10/04/19 06:58 PM
4

Kind of seems like she lost you as an orbiter, threw the pussy around as bait, and then got you right back into that status? Personally, I would want some confirmation about going on a damn trip, my money and time is too valuable to be making plans that could fall thru at any moment.
/r/askTRP10/04/19 06:46 PM
1

I don't think it's that easy for them tbh. Granted they can get away with less game, but there is always some sort of verbal interaction between men and women. Women aren't just going around fucking dudes without talking to them at all. The biggest problem that most attractive guys have is they use "nice guy" game which in reality works against them. If a girl sees a hot guy she wants to bang, she wants him to think the same way, but the guy is told to think the opposite and it turns her off.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/19 06:43 PM
5

"Drunk Sara really wanted to fuck you last night, sober Sara is still considering it " Response: They both still do ​ My observation: you're gaming her pretty good, she is having a hard time hamstering dating you because you're 36, hence when she is drunk she wants to fuck. ​ With regards to the situation, if you took off time and/or are losing money (burning leave/vacation) to go, I would ask her, about 10 days out "hey we still on for vegas?". If you're not really at a loss just ride it out an…
/r/askTRP10/04/19 06:33 PM
1

That's not a bad response, depending on how much rapport you have
/r/askTRP10/04/19 06:28 PM
3

This needed to be said Social media game can help, maybe only 5% of guys though?
/r/TheRedPill10/04/19 06:18 PM
0

AA for sure
/r/askTRP10/04/19 06:18 PM
1

Anecdotally the argument doesn't count. Pick somebody who is more attractive but not peak male attractiveness, I think the argument still holds up that if a guy is a know "alpha" that women are drawn to him.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/19 06:17 PM
2

I think all he was proposing was 1k a month, but was also looking to cut a lot of the other welfare programs. If all people get 1k a month won't it be the same as everybody not having 1k a month, at least in the dating market?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/19 06:06 PM
3

True, at the end of the day there won't ever be a perfect situation for either sex. The Cardinal Rule of Relationships In any relationship, the person with the most power is the one who needs the other the least.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/19 05:56 PM
2

Depends on what you're wanting to do. A good guys trip could be hiring a hiking guide through the mountains for 5 days and going off the path to camp and eat outside. If you wanna get drunk and meet chicks a safe bet would be a cruise
/r/askTRP10/04/19 05:39 PM
3

Here we go... bring on the diet zealots... ​ Long story short, any amount of weight you lose quickly will come back just as fast
/r/askTRP10/04/19 05:37 PM
1

True, and I'm sure you noticed girls you went to school with who peaked when they were very young and now they're your same age they are already going downhill (this is usually with bodyweight, at least in my observations). I will agree in the fact that it would be hard to be a girl who is desired by most men for a solid 10 years and expect to plan for the future, but I think it's something that should be expressed more to young women.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/19 05:36 PM
0

This is exactly what most of the people are saying. It's not that you're "settling" when you're in your 20s, but across ALL age groups for men they prefer younger looking women. A woman in her 20's has the most power to pull the type of guy she wants so instead of thinking she will have that same pulling power when she is 30 is where the wall and panic hit.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/19 05:22 PM
1

No, having a broad knowledge set and interesting life experiences usually lets you go with almost anybody's flow. That being said, if you're talking about conversing with women, a lot of them are pretty shallow and boring to talk to for an actual conversation.
/r/askTRP10/04/19 05:16 PM
5

Seems like the kind of girl who will definitely get attached if you do take her virginity. Religious upbringing is definitely a real thing and can have people get some interesting views about sex. How vested are you in really wanting to have sex with her, any other options? If she knows you want sex and is "holding it over you" as a tactic to keep you around, then you having another option will work in your favor. If she doesnt want to have sex (legitimately) and you have another option, it stil…
/r/askTRP10/04/19 05:15 PM
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Okay that makes a little more sense Sounds like your friends aren't as close as you thought. I mean if you have a hot plate/ex/whatever it's to be understood guys are gonna hit on her, but that is on them for not valuing yalls frienship
/r/askTRP10/04/19 05:11 PM
1

I definitely understand this component of the value of positive male environment, or at least the ability to post a question to a group of men who share a same world view you do. The question reads like you're just trying to make some friends on vacation, when having a true "BRO" comes from going through some shit together.
/r/askTRP10/04/19 05:08 PM
55

I told my LTR I wanted to “take a break . She still comes over regularly to fuck clean and leave You sure you're on a break? This reads like you said you're on a break but still feel and act like you're dating
/r/askTRP10/04/19 05:03 PM
2

At the end of the day happiness is something you can only achieve yourself. I don't think anybody is saying women need to lower their standards though. I think the response is that when women who are in their older years and finally want to have their own children and find a guy to marry them none of the guys their age want a part of it.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/19 05:00 PM
1

Leo is the "alpha" male based on his money and status, not a regular schmo
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/19 04:53 PM
2

I just like people to remember to keep most of the stuff centered around why TRP is there, I would like to see the offtopic sub more active
/r/askTRP10/04/19 04:53 PM
0

Rule zero: TRP's mission is to increase men's sexual power and options. Anyone who does not share that goal will be banned the instant we detect them. ​ You trying to get some wingmen or something? I mean why you trying to make some bros on vacation?
/r/askTRP10/04/19 02:51 PM
4

as long as the balls don't touch
/r/askTRP10/04/19 02:50 PM
2

https://heartiste.wordpress.com/the-sixteen-commandments-of-poon/ Commandment XIII: Err on the side of too much boldness, rather than too little Touching a woman inappropriately on the first date will get you further with her than not touching her at all. Don’t let a woman’s faux indignation at your boldness sway you; they secretly love it when a man aggressively pursues what he wants and makes his sexual intentions known. You don’t have to be an asshole, but if you have no choice, being an inco…
/r/askTRP10/04/19 01:52 PM
10

damn is gay porn that popular now??
/r/askTRP10/04/19 01:45 PM
5

"I always finish with a hug ohhh bro the cringe is real don't verbalize your intentions, just do it. Fortune favors the bold (context dependent obviously)
/r/askTRP10/04/19 01:44 PM
0

This is kind of common sense, all things equal. But think about this. If you have Leonardo DiCaprio in a bar and your random Instagram male-THOT who are the girls approaching?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/19 01:42 PM
2

Did you alpha widow your ex and this is her way of trying to stay around in your life? Is your ex nuts and is trying to find a way to sabotage your life?
/r/askTRP10/04/19 01:27 PM
1

Not particularly, I'm familiar with it
/r/TheRedPill10/04/19 01:24 PM
3

I personally don't really have any qualms with feminism. It doesn't directly affect me, I don't work with women, no HR issues. I think the issue most people have is they are letting something external dictate the way their day goes. I don't resent the past, I just live in the present and accept it for what it is, and live my life in the way I want it to be and not talk about it.
/r/TheRedPill10/04/19 01:21 PM
3

so, is this how I should carry myself forthwith? Yes And what is the best advice post break up? Your life should pretty much be the same pre and post relationship. Pre relationship- prioritize yourself, lift, make money, game girls. Post relationship- prioritize yourself, lift, make money, game your girlfriend. If your life drasitcally changes when you get into an LTR then you need to re-evaluate what makes you you
/r/askTRP10/04/19 01:16 PM
2

Would you accept it? Basically have to, its not whether you "accept it" or not, as soon as she knows/learns that it is something that bugs you it's going to be a point of contention, especially if she actually cares about it. I hate to do the lame ass "pick your battles" note, but if you're actually going to be in a serious LTR you need to figure out which things are causing problems and address them. If you make it known that xyz is causing a problem and she doesn't do anything to address it th…
/r/askTRP10/04/19 01:09 PM
58

Keep lifting and find a veterinarian because you're about to become an animal
/r/askTRP10/04/19 12:56 PM
5

Most do, I think most girls want to get something dainty that they think makes them different but in reality it's nothing special. I'ts to the point where most women have tattoos so now I find myself looking at placement and size
/r/askTRP10/04/19 12:54 PM
1

I would agree, but many people with shit genetics keep having kids
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/19 12:49 PM
1

I don't disagree, this would help with overpopulation and the fact that people who don't have the genetics to attract a mate wont pass the genetics on to another generation
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/19 06:33 PM
15

I think women should select their partners earlier in stead of prolonging it because they necessarily can, doesn't really mean they should. That being said this is geared toward women who want to have a child that they create with a man. ​ I don't necessarily think women are the cause of the decline though. I think women have kind of been given a pass to dictate everything about dating and generations of guys have gone along without setting the boundaries and are now stuck where they are.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/19 06:32 PM
7

Its called oneitis, the opposite of abundance
/r/askTRP09/04/19 06:23 PM
1

I don't think addressing it is a bad idea, but assuming she wants to bang and making that the topic of discussion doesn't seem like the best way.
/r/askTRP09/04/19 06:08 PM
1

Seems like a bad move to openly address the fact that you think she wants to fuck you (which might be the case, but if they're your landlords it could get weird). Maybe they think you're being sketchy and are looking for a reason to kick you out
/r/askTRP09/04/19 06:01 PM
1

Shouldn't be to hard to explain some pickup to him without openly saying its from TRP
/r/askTRP09/04/19 05:59 PM
1

True, I saw the part about reaching for coke or chocolate to deal with the stress of the day
/r/askTRP09/04/19 05:54 PM
2

exactly
/r/askTRP09/04/19 05:53 PM
6

Willingly seeking out a source of dopamine is pretty weak pimp. You can go on a walk or something, but yes ride it out, take an iburprofen or something
/r/askTRP09/04/19 04:36 PM
2

Jeez bro time to get off the internet
/r/askTRP09/04/19 04:35 PM
7

9's and 10's claim they never get hit on, but (whether they're actually acknowledging it or not) almost all of their male encounters they have are dudes trying to hit on them (most of them are some kind of beta game).
/r/askTRP09/04/19 04:34 PM
2

bad car salesman in the fact that its disingenuous, good on the sale
/r/TheRedPill09/04/19 04:29 PM
3

Take up some new hobbies, why lifting is so important here, almost any gym you go visit there is gonna be a guy stronger, bigger, or more cut that you. Martials arts are good because no matter how much of a badass you think you are some non-descript dude in the gym is probably way better than you.
/r/askTRP09/04/19 04:28 PM
5

It's not a "she acted up. so I better up the dread" thing This is crucial, if you apply dread only because she "acted up" then it's just playing games
/r/askTRP09/04/19 04:21 PM
0

Easy answer is no More complex answer is that hypergamy always affects women, it's to the extent of which it affects them is what is the question. Usually upbringing is the way to cull hypergamy, but it will come at a cost somehwere else. The strict religious upbringing is a common example-outside, yes girl loves blue-pill guy, but most the other things that come with strict religious uprbinging can be problematic, e.g.-views on sex, alcohol, etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/19 04:12 PM
5

I'm not one of these anti drinking guys, but being drunk and being at a club is not the best way to find the type of girls who aren't going to flake
/r/askTRP09/04/19 04:08 PM
5

When you're meeting the girls are you both drunk? Plausible deniability for her for the "oh I was drunk and having fun I dont really want to date though" excuse? Or are you grabbing chicks at the end of the night who are just horny and/or ovulating and then don't want anything after it. There is also the option that you might not be the top of a girl's list. They have a collection of dudes that they're usually working
/r/askTRP09/04/19 02:21 PM
7

Not what TRP is for; you don't get to pick and choose how it works without getting the consequences
/r/askTRP09/04/19 02:03 PM
1

Just do it occasionally, I've been told that if you look at the bridge of somebodies nose it is sort of a "hack" and perceived as looking into somebodies eyes, can't really attest to it though.
/r/askTRP09/04/19 02:01 PM
8

Because he is a self-help guru Chicks love that chick-magic, auras, horoscopes, all that bullshit. If it makes him different from all the other dudes that hit on her then it gets the job done. ​ https://therationalmale.com/2012/05/01/chick-crack/ ​ Edit: Credit/sources
/r/askTRP09/04/19 01:41 PM
1

I can stare a woman down till she looks away first It's not a staring contest dog, you just need to look long enough for her to know (you should know) that you're consciously making it known you're looking at her, flash a quick smile, then in like 10-15 mozie on over there and talk to her. ​ People have been talking to eachother for millenia, don't overthink it pimp
/r/askTRP09/04/19 01:25 PM
4

Good rapport, but save it for in person. Her: whenever I go out I buy myself a bottle You: that's cute, maybe you can buy me one when we meet up on X date/time
/r/askTRP09/04/19 01:19 PM
3

The creepiest guy I’ve ever met was a Pakistani guy Wife shares the same sentiment from when she worked in the restaurant industry. Said they were generally disrespectful and poor tippers
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/19 01:16 PM
10

I can appear be more attractive than my sole looks this is what game is for At the end of the day you know she is attractive, so does she, it's a moot point, don't even address it Every other swinging dick that talks to her probably goes straight to complimenting her looks because they are such niceguystm
/r/askTRP07/04/19 02:28 PM
4

It's kind of like playing an instrument, TRP can help you learn certain moves and specific patterns, but the actual performance is up to you. ​ We aren't going to tell you to make her your g/f because we don't know if that is what you want. You gotta find out what you want out of it. ​ My .02, LTR a girl strictly for status increase seems like a bad idea.
/r/askTRP07/04/19 02:23 PM
4

Up to you, context matters, you know, dont do something like get off on her stop and then tell her you got off to talk to her... that is creepy, then again don't comment about how you know what stop she gets on and off at like you know her schedule... also creepy. ​ Keep it aloof, whether its on the bus or not, don't psyche yourself out of it.
/r/askTRP07/04/19 01:54 PM
27

You're already talking about how great and beautiful this girl is like you've never seen a hot chick before. I'm not saying she isn't but hot girls are a dime a dozen
/r/askTRP07/04/19 01:47 PM
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She could do modelling if she wanted she has a perfect body too ( oh maybe she is doing already haha ) Damn pimp you already have oneitis and haven't even talked to her. Stop worrying about 1) her looks (all this does is make you nervous) 2) her potential to get other dudes (you're already ruling yourself out) ​ "Hey I've seen you on this route a few times, [insert comment about riding particular route], I've got to get off soon, what's your number and I'll set something up for a drink later" ​
/r/askTRP07/04/19 01:22 PM
1

Maybe they're shit, but its more practice than reading a book about it
/r/askTRP07/04/19 11:59 AM
3

Rollo specifically indicates there isn't a definition of alpha
/r/askTRP07/04/19 11:25 AM
93

Feminism is like a bad car salesman- trying to convince you that you need something you don't even want
/r/TheRedPill07/04/19 11:25 AM
1

don't overthink it, don't be rapey either
/r/askTRP07/04/19 11:03 AM
2

If your girl is hot and fun to be around it shouldn't be to hard to find some chicks with a bi tendency at the club or bar. That or you could set up a tinder and be up front about what yall are looking for.
/r/askTRP07/04/19 10:33 AM
1

Rational women LOL
/r/askTRP07/04/19 10:27 AM
1

The guys who get laid the most are SUPER jacked There is definitely an upper limit to the level of jacked-ness, but then again it depends on what you're defining jacked as. ​ ​ ​
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/19 10:18 AM
6

all natty bruh
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/19 10:16 AM
3

You trying to find another girlfriend or just a chick to fuck around with?
/r/askTRP07/04/19 10:14 AM
3

Chateau Heartiste (Roissy). The website is kind of hard to navigate, but the older stuff is very game oriented. Newer stuff reads good also, but tends to be more social/political commentary as opposed to game.
/r/askTRP07/04/19 10:08 AM
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Who gives a shit if you have the same friends, if a girl is legitimately crazy enough to hurt herself she won't give a shit about hurting you in the process. ​ Probably should re-evaluate how you're treating a plate, sounds like this chick thinks you're in an LTR. Also, there were probably some warning signs you missed along the way, look back at the red flags she started putting up and keep a wary eye for the future.
/r/askTRP07/04/19 10:07 AM
2

well the other problem is that it's the internet, there are a ton of guys who just parrot shit without really knowing why
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/19 09:54 AM
2

First one is girl trying to be funny. Both seem interested
/r/askTRP06/04/19 01:30 PM
1

Non-sequitur text game has it's place https://heartiste.wordpress.com/2013/12/24/pictogram-text-game-trending/ ​ but this only works if you're already in a good place to be running it, not where to start.
/r/askTRP06/04/19 01:18 PM
5

Yeah, i know what you're saying, I'd say tread with caution, make sure he isn't the kind of guy who will hunt you down for "her honor" or something and try to cause personal damage to you.
/r/askTRP06/04/19 01:04 PM
4

Just tell everybody you're not gay because you sucked a dick once and didn't like it. ​ Real answer, it doesn't matter that much, but based on the description you've provided you seem to be giving off a soyboy vibe, so that is probably why
/r/askTRP06/04/19 12:37 PM
4

Well by definition if you get her pregnant and then let him raise your kid then you are cucking him...
/r/askTRP06/04/19 12:35 PM
2

I'm not saying they're demanding it. I think the reason guys have a problem with the high partner count is but they are the guys who don't pick up girls while they're young and then get attention from them when they are older/provider type guys, aka beta bucks aka they resent women for having the ability to do what they want to but cant. I haven't looked too deeply into research, but there is some that suggests that women with a high n-count have a more difficult time in maintaining a faithful r…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/19 11:48 AM
2

I like to tuck my balls inbetween my legs and then look at the mirror and say "I'd fuck me"
/r/askTRP06/04/19 11:23 AM
3

True, I was never around for forums, but I've been floating around TRP since around '13
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/19 11:22 AM
4

I think it's disapproval of women who sleep with more than average and then expect to be treated as if they only have a low number of partners. To me, the simple solution would be to just not chose to LTR a woman that you don't want to be in a relationship with. If there is a guy who wants to be with her, red, blue whatever, let them be.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/19 11:21 AM
1

I'm not going to assign a 1-10 scale to a bunch of dudes because I don't fuck dudes
/r/askTRP06/04/19 11:18 AM
3

You have a few options, if you're (the key emphasis being on YOU) ready to LTR that is fine. You are going to have to be the leader in the relationship anyways so there will be a certain burden on you to make sure the relationship goes in the right direction. ​ You're a chump if she starts to act like a shitty person and you continue to deal with it and not a) correct it or b) leave her. ​ People have histories, shit happens, etc. Doesn't mean it is an excuse to act like an asshole, and if someb…
/r/askTRP06/04/19 11:16 AM
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That makes sense, I must be out of the times. Maybe I'm just naive, but I view most of TRP's message not so much as a "we need to change society" as much as "Hey this is how society is, do what you want with that information"
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/19 11:11 AM
2

I definitely agree with this sentiment. Ask TRP is definitely not the place to get any sort of opinion on what it means.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/19 11:09 AM
3

You're missing the point, male SMV is not strictly height, weight, bf, and golden ratios
/r/askTRP06/04/19 11:06 AM
1

LOL dude you need to step your sex game up. The shit happens when you do certain positions.
/r/askTRP06/04/19 10:33 AM
4

I don't really see any political ideology in TRP, at least strictly party lines type political behavior. ​ I think a lot of it is the blind leading the blind who read some stuff, but don't really understand it. I wish there was a way to filter for EC comments. There are a lot of guys on there who are bitter or got burned, or think it is easy to think the world is black and white, sure, but it's the internet, so at best it's good to read anything with high amounts of doubt. ​ There is no doubt th…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/19 10:32 AM
4

You're asking a false question. You can't pick up a chick without interacting with her and thus having some sort of personality. While the guys aren't Greek gods, I'm sure they can pull in their respective spheres. The RP conference isn't all PUA, it has various speakers that address different components in men's life that they typically fail at.
/r/askTRP06/04/19 10:25 AM
2

I disagree, most of the guys look like the dress well for their age and build. In the pictures presented they all seem to convey a "command" type presence, at least from what we can see. TRP is just as much the way you speak and carry yourself as much as it is about looks.
/r/askTRP06/04/19 10:16 AM
2

Reads like a shit test, if she wanted to really be with her ex she wouldn't be meeting you at the bar. She is giving you enough rope to hang yourself or get in that pussy
/r/askTRP05/04/19 02:37 PM
2

You haven't even addressed what you want?
/r/askTRP05/04/19 02:34 PM
1

Probably better than a movie or dinner
/r/askTRP04/04/19 08:22 PM
1

Even though society it pushing towards open hypergamy it's still not socially acceptable to openly have an AF/BB. Most women find it repulsing to have sex with a BB so its much better to try and have an AF settle down
/r/askTRP04/04/19 07:44 PM
3

If you're only doing it for her then you might as well not even do it at all.
/r/askTRP04/04/19 07:42 PM
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If you're trying to get her jealous then you're playing games. If you're running good dread then it should be pretty obvious all the time that you're a valuable male.
/r/askTRP04/04/19 07:41 PM
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Eh been there done that, like OP, 2 plates, one ONS, two had drama and past issues, one was a legit student from a town about an hour away, drove up once a weekend to work then went back. It was fun I suppose, my buddy was a big time strip club goer (the kind of guy a dancer texts so he can pay for a champagne room) I would tag along, have a few drinks in the back, enjoy the show. Never bought a room, or tipped big, actually I'd only tip if they did something that was legitimately impressive. It…
/r/TheRedPill02/04/19 07:09 PM
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This doesn't read good pimp. like a brother to her You seem to know that chicks (well I'm assuming most) don't want to bang their brother. This just looks like she is trying to make you her orbiter and get validation from you. ​
/r/askTRP02/04/19 02:06 PM
1

What the fuck do I do? I need to stay for the remainder of my training Well it appears you've answered your own questions ​ Long story short, you need to learn what your supervisor wants you to do. While I don't necessarily agree with the "put your time in doing bullshit" mentality, this place might be a work environment where they have a track for new people. ​ How are they more reserved if you couldn't ask questions in the first place? ​ A week ago my boss had a go at me being unprofessional, …
/r/askTRP02/04/19 02:02 PM
1

What kind of advice is this Working on main lifts, squat, bench, dead, ohp, pullup that elicit the most muscle recruitment, thus developing more muscle which is the most metabolically demanding type of tissue to maintain. Having more muscle will have a higher basal metabolic rate, so if OP keeps his calories the same and puts some more mass on he will be in better shape. And if OP is trying to lift to look better you arent even on the map unless you're over 90 kilos anyways, at least if you want…
/r/askTRP01/04/19 06:49 PM
1

Looking back, I don't really think so. Biologically speaking, a man's "chemistry" is pretty regular, where it is scientifically documented that women's hormonal levels fluctuate on the menstrual cycle (hence AF/BB). ​ Maybe when I was younger (like 13) and believed that there was a "special" girl for me, but since growing older I tend to see women more as a collection of genetics, decision's they've made, and their upbringing. The combinations of the three categories determines the attractivenes…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/19 06:19 PM
2

there is a whole sub called RPchristians for this type of discussion
/r/askTRP01/04/19 05:26 PM
1

try not to flirt via text, it's too easy to get the tone of the response wrong. ​ be vague with your answer
/r/askTRP01/04/19 05:25 PM
2

Alright pimp im gonna be honest with you All of those lifts are extremely low, that paired with you being 20% bodyfat is just telling me you're just not in that great of shape (very fixable). ​ Work on hitting some heavy weights in the 4-6 rep range, do some HIIT cardio and you will put some mass on and at the least not gain any more bf
/r/askTRP01/04/19 04:15 PM
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Too thin with abs, well, it's like commenting on a fat girl's tits. Of course you got tits, you fat. Truly disappointing to see fat chicks with no tits... ​
/r/askTRP29/03/19 02:45 PM
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I was going to say South Park did this already
/r/TheRedPill29/03/19 02:43 PM
2

You're welcome, but what you're doing sounds like it's out of petty-ness and not out of dread. I'ts like a tit for tat and not dread. Dread is an overarching theme
/r/askTRP29/03/19 02:39 PM
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The first guy you are talking about is not a men's rights activist, he is a male feminist, a tool of the left. Most actual MRA are trying to address the legal inequalities and disposability of males.
/r/askTRP29/03/19 02:37 PM
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The burden is on her to turn down guys hitting on her, not you. You can't stop guys from hitting on her or sliding in her DM's, so it's not really worth the effort to keep tabs on her all the time. If she wants to be with you she will. If your gut is telling you she is cheating on you then investigate it some but you're just going to create anxiety by doing it all the time. LTR game is based on Dread. If you're saying that you are a legitimate exclusive LTR then "nexting" means essentially break…
/r/askTRP29/03/19 02:31 PM
1

I agree, pending on what one's goals are.
/r/TheRedPill29/03/19 02:17 PM
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This is a good strategy for somebody who is having major self esteem issues I think. Probably good in developing an "I am the prize" mentality for folks in a small pool. This strategy is limited in the fact that while you might be better than Jim at playing violin, Jim is probably better at building benches or chairs at his house, so now you are at a zero-sum game. Not saying this tactic is useless, but I also think it's limited in it's use.
/r/TheRedPill29/03/19 12:25 PM
1

Well if she is engaging with these guys through the DM's and sending them shittest(y) type responses then she might be looking to branch swing. The story definitely looks thirsty, pending on how importantly the relationship is, DGAF, if you're serious with her, spin plates if she isn't as serious. Dreading her should be pretty helpful if she likes to play the attraction game.
/r/askTRP26/03/19 11:04 PM
1

I reread Rational Male year one pretty regularly
/r/askTRP26/03/19 11:01 PM
1

I wish I could say the same back...
/r/askTRP26/03/19 10:56 PM
3

Its stupid chick shit to signal she is edgy and cool. If she is constantly on her phone and talking to guys in her DM's then handle it, but overanalyzing all her shit will make you go crazy. Newflash OP- If you have a girl who is remotely attractive she is going to get hit on, its up to her to vet the shit, if you try to be overcontrolling she will see it as a beta behavior.
/r/askTRP26/03/19 10:53 PM
2

At the end of the day it depends on the guy, its too easy to put everybody in a box
/r/askTRP22/03/19 04:23 PM
2

That's funny you bring that up. I don't have kids, but my dad was talking about it and he hit me with a "The shit ain't that hard".
/r/askTRP22/03/19 02:50 PM
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You can do whatever you want. ​ That being said, if you want a relationship it is best to have a feminine woman and a masculine man. Can a woman be "successful" and be feminine, of course, but this reads like you're asking us some BP regurgitated shit. ​ This question is far too vague to get a concise answer. ​ What if she is successful and makes her own money because she is pretty? Does that count as a "strong" woman. Or what if she makes her own money by being a high end escort?
/r/askTRP22/03/19 02:47 PM
5

I'm not the expert on side hustles, it depends on what you want to do
/r/askTRP22/03/19 02:42 PM
13

Start your side hustle
/r/askTRP22/03/19 02:31 PM
2

thicc*
/r/askTRP22/03/19 01:23 PM
6

I try to stay away from the term "high value" but yes, assuming she is not a total asshole or hates you then absolutely
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/19 11:48 PM
3

askMRP is a better resource
/r/askTRP21/03/19 10:43 PM
3

I feel like we're missing some context here
/r/askTRP21/03/19 09:52 PM
3

I wear dark jeans, some casual nike's and usually a neutral color v neck and it works out fine ​ edit: for a casual night at the bar or an outing with friends
/r/askTRP21/03/19 04:58 PM
1

I wouldn't care, that being said, I wouldn't LTR her or accept her as anything other than a hypergamous woman smash it
/r/askTRP21/03/19 04:39 PM
3

Ah the shitposts are back
/r/askTRP21/03/19 04:37 PM
1

So were talking about the levels of promiscuity? ​
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/19 04:36 PM
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Wasn't there a bill about any time a man masturbates it was considered "rape" of the women in the porn he was watching also?
/r/TheRedPill21/03/19 04:33 PM
1

That is fine, but for a true "lean" bulk the progress has to be pretty slow. If you don't care about putting on some extra fat then that is fine.
/r/askTRP21/03/19 04:29 PM
5

I laughed way too hard at this
/r/askMRP21/03/19 02:32 PM
7

Thanks
/r/askTRP21/03/19 02:07 PM
1

In my opinion id keep it low to minimal then, just keep track of your food intake and try not to gain more than .5 to .75lbs a week. If you have a boner for doing cardio then you could sprint variants I'm partial to tabata assault bike sprints, but that's me.
/r/askTRP21/03/19 02:05 PM
1

This is a pretty in depth discussion to get into, why are u doing cardio? for health or to stay lean?
/r/askTRP21/03/19 01:14 PM
1

You might be, but keep running good game
/r/askTRP21/03/19 01:12 PM
2

No, there are no hard and fast rules
/r/askTRP21/03/19 12:44 PM
3

Personally I would recommend reading The Rational Male Year one Read all of the essays
/r/askTRP21/03/19 12:43 PM
2

The "life of a cop" comment isn't necessarily about having a look or being prepared, it's more about having an out of whack sleep schedule, working off-duty jobs at all kinds of crazy hours to make some extra cash if you need it, not seeing your fiance or kid a lot of the time, staying up on your days off because you cant sleep or tossing and turning all night because you're used to getting after it at 2am instead of sleeping. Not eating consistently, that kind of stuff. Again, it can be mitigat…
/r/askTRP20/03/19 12:20 PM
2

Better up your dread playboy
/r/askTRP19/03/19 11:55 PM
20

Women generally don't make very good friends. The life a woman lives and the life you live are drastically different which is a fundamental reason why being friends with one is challenging. The things that you most likely find important as a male and were fundamental in what made you who you are were very different for her. If you have a work friend or something very shallow then sure, but a true, shirt off your back type friend probably not
/r/askTRP19/03/19 11:54 PM
3

Can we get some context?
/r/askTRP19/03/19 09:59 PM
2

Just something to consider Being a detective is not the first step, you will need to put a few years on the street; typically 12 hour shifts working 6pm to 6am working between 4 and 5 days straight. I work with a ton of guys who left a very typical career because it is a passion to be the police, big pay cut, etc. There is a lot of time away from home so you're going to need to figure out that with your fiance. That being said you can definitely make things work. ​ Also, when you do the academy,…
/r/askTRP19/03/19 09:03 PM
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You don't debate with women, their brain doesn't function the way yours does, there is no point system and right and wrong arguments. You made her feel a certain way and words can't do much to change that. ​ Why did you call domestic violence hotline? That's for physical violence no?
/r/askMRP18/03/19 07:39 PM
2

Water under the bridge
/r/askTRP18/03/19 07:37 PM
4

If the girls ask you about it treat it like shit tests (which is what they are) Tell the friend to stop ruining your game
/r/askTRP18/03/19 07:24 PM
11

WTF kind of friend is giving out all your secrets
/r/askTRP18/03/19 07:14 PM
2

This is definitely the best answer
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/19 06:56 PM
1

300 Bench 400 Squat 500 Dead are pretty solid 1 rep maxes to strive for, you won't be winning any competitions but will be stronger than most in the regular gym This will take some time though and some actual strength programming if you want to get there. If you want to get shredded you need to monitor your diet
/r/askTRP18/03/19 06:51 PM
5

It kind of seems like you're using shit test reponses to some comfort tests.
/r/askTRP18/03/19 01:46 PM
1

I'm saying your probation is important, but if you over emphasize it your relationship with her will turn into you and her focusing on the probation component instead of you being fun and being the leader
/r/askTRP18/03/19 01:43 PM
1

I like the science reference
/r/askTRP18/03/19 01:42 PM
1

OI is outcome independent
/r/askTRP18/03/19 01:42 PM
2

In all reality, that is why we push for a real life encounter to get past that awkward tension. It's really a lose lose situation if you text her now, because you acknowledged her presence but didn't do anything in person, so why over text.
/r/askTRP17/03/19 01:39 PM
1

I wish I could help some more, I'm pretty self validating and OI from most of my interactions, not in a spergy way or anything. I just have low expectations of people in general which in turn lets me not rely on them for much. I still like and enjoy people just dont expect much.
/r/askTRP17/03/19 01:35 PM
5

You should have put your hand in your pants, grabbed your nuts to remind yourself you're a dude *removed hand from pants* then hit her with a : Hey I thought that was you. ​ groundbreaking strategy I know.
/r/askTRP17/03/19 01:30 PM
1

I think the term swallowing the red pill is over and misused. The proper term would be "red pill aware". Red pill aware means you acknowledge it exists but haven't necessarily internalized it. ​ to be honest, I think most of the youner people who post don't even actually know where the red pill reference even comes from. The matrix came out in 99, which I would gander most people here don't even know where it came from. ​ ​
/r/askTRP17/03/19 01:24 PM
1

WTF kind of shitty martial arts gym do you guys train at? None of this shit should be going on at the gym. ​ ​
/r/askTRP17/03/19 01:08 PM
2

When I trained at a gym with one I used it every lift, stretch in the sauna before and just relax after. I have a boner for the sauna
/r/askTRP17/03/19 01:06 PM
12

I once was texting to a girl and she told me it feels like she is talking to a psycopath serial killer when she is talking to me I'm literally LOL- that being said known serial killers still get more poon than some guys ​
/r/askTRP17/03/19 12:53 PM
1

i just re-read the post again, sounds like you keep pushing a conversation she doesn't want to have. You're too deep in the conversation to really have any sort of recovery tbh. ​ I would hit her with an okay, and then go radio silent. she can reach out to you
/r/askTRP17/03/19 12:40 PM
2

Is this a chick you want to bang or not? ​
/r/askTRP17/03/19 12:31 PM
1

Dog you asked a girl for a dick pic and you aren't sure why she thinks you're gay???? ​ Then I asked for a dic pic ​
/r/askTRP17/03/19 12:27 PM
1

mice study, but definitely interesting research is changing the game all the time!
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/19 12:06 PM
7

coming out with the spicy comment
/r/askTRP17/03/19 12:03 PM
1

Hit heavy breathing squats once or twice a week. I did that for about a year and definitely put some size on. ​ Disclaimer: LEARN HOW TO FUCKING SQUAT CORRECTLY FIRST
/r/askTRP17/03/19 11:54 AM
1

Yeah TRP is really two sided, game and theory
/r/askTRP17/03/19 11:33 AM
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https://therationalmale.com/2012/08/27/girls-night-out/comment-page-2/ ​ This is required reading
/r/askTRP17/03/19 11:12 AM
3

Is any dread game accidental though? Dread to me is more of like the climate, where its always present and not necessarily applied
/r/askTRP17/03/19 10:35 AM
2

Interesting tactic... I'd be lying if I said I hadn't partaken in it slightly, but if you've got a chick who is remotely BPD its pretty risky
/r/askTRP17/03/19 10:32 AM
4

Gets no matches: My pictures aren't great and I have no bio ​ come on pimp... ​
/r/askTRP17/03/19 10:31 AM
1

what not in the USA?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/19 10:29 AM
1

Depends on if she is just a plate or your LTR or what to be honest. Me, id probably give it until next weekend or so, or until you run through your rotation and she is back up. I'd stay radio silent with her, then when you talk to her again act like nothing happened. If she wants to bring it up, then consider if she really is just a plate or not. ​ Side note: get a car playah
/r/askTRP17/03/19 10:26 AM
1

Not sure, globally I would imagine that there are more women than men. Especially in a poorer country where women are still valued for their ability to produce children and there are wars of violence all the time. ​ Interesting thought experiment though would be a country or culture that fully embraced hypergamy and every woman would have 2 men, one to reproduce and one to provide provisions, which in that case the men would outnumber the women
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/19 10:21 AM
1

well all fetuses start as female so that makes sense
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/19 10:18 AM
2

Listen I'm from a super weird country, but can't name it because... reasons. Never mind the fact that somebody who lives here could be on TRP and help though
/r/askTRP17/03/19 10:17 AM
14

TRP is good for men across the board, especially the AF/BB side of it. ​ I think the nuances to the pickup side are definitely context/region/country dependent. Then again, I wouldn't even pretend like I know how to tell an Indian guy how to pick up chicks because I'm not in their culture.
/r/askTRP17/03/19 10:16 AM
2

Prolonging the discussion of yall being on probation is basically increasing the importance of if in the relationship. If you don't want it to be a deal breaker then put it on the table. Based on what you wrote it doesn't seem that she is pushing you to break the probation, so it shouldn't be a problem. I know that there are major repercussions if you violate, but you seem to have your shit together so far and on a good path to not do so. She will be upset, but chicks get upset over all kinds of…
/r/askTRP17/03/19 10:11 AM
93

I'm not an expert, but asking a chick about her racism probably isn't going to get her pussy dripping ​ ​
/r/askTRP17/03/19 10:04 AM
10

I'm so torn on whether to up-vote or down-vote
/r/askTRP17/03/19 10:03 AM
4

Where you went wrong? Right here She ends up getting mad and ignores me for a couple of hours, which pissed me off because I had just got showered and dressed to go out. ​ I get it that the main driver is you wanting to get your dick wet, but you've gotta give off the vibe that you're OI about the situation. Should have gone to the party and had a good time FOR YOUR SAKE not to rub it in her face. ​ ​
/r/askTRP17/03/19 09:59 AM
3

This kind of sounds like gas lighting, obviously a dark triad method. ​ Like most questions that get asked here, it's context dependent. ​ If you have a plate or gf and you're always making her feel like she is the problem, then you'll probably seem like an asshole (not the good kind) But if you have a girl and you're ribbing her in a productive or playful manner then sure, a pressure flip is fine.
/r/askTRP17/03/19 09:55 AM
2

50/50 in regards to what? Population in general?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/19 09:53 AM
1

Pretty much
/r/askTRP17/03/19 09:50 AM
3

so OP is gay?
/r/askTRP15/03/19 09:10 PM
1

Reads a lot like you're trying to get validation from chicks and the various relationships. ​ A chick is like frosting to your life, it should never be the focus, only something to help what you already have
/r/askTRP15/03/19 08:34 PM
15

Okay having a group chat isn't anything, having real encounters is much more important. Stay on your path and do what you want to do. Everybody goes to the bars and clubs and nothing happens, tbh you don't get much out of going to them anyways. You're a freshman, its a weird mix of people who a) repeat what they did in high school and think people still care b) go buck wild or c) actually use the time to get better
/r/askTRP15/03/19 08:32 PM
1

There isn't really a "hack" for anything. ​ Start lifting, it will knock out one of those jerk off sessions and help your sleep schedule
/r/askTRP15/03/19 08:30 PM
1

sounds like she just wants the validation I would suggest hitting her with a "maybe after we go to [iinsert date]"
/r/askTRP10/03/19 11:51 PM
3

Match from tinder, get #, make date, pass shit tests, smash, repeat
/r/askTRP10/03/19 11:10 PM
12

sometimes slapping her ass and calling her a ho goes a long way
/r/TheRedPill10/03/19 10:31 PM
1

Exactly what I'm saying, they don't understand that context matters
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/19 01:41 PM
1

Nobody's love is unconditional
/r/askTRP10/03/19 01:01 PM
3

What is the point of this post? ​ This doesn't even belong in TRP
/r/askTRP10/03/19 12:57 PM
184

be the guy who "just gets it"
/r/askTRP10/03/19 12:18 PM
3

I think overall TRP is very beneficial to guys, but I think the issues that come from it is that, as many EC's have said, its rooted in a male only space, the "locker room" talk type stuff (I don't particularly like this phrase, but it gets the point across). Its men swapping notes and stories with each other about what has worked in the past. ​ I think one of the biggest issues that because it is a male space, and guys tend to think in a more binary way a lot of the guys who aren't socially awa…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/19 12:10 PM
2

you've been a naughty student...
/r/askTRP10/03/19 10:55 AM
3

Make sure none of your shit is missing ha
/r/askTRP10/03/19 10:19 AM
5

Those are red flags, the abuse part sucks, not her fault, however, she was in 2 relationships that were both the same. In police work they call that a hint. ​ At the end of the day, it's not on you to "fix" her or be her "white knight", that's her own issue she is going to have to work out.
/r/askTRP10/03/19 10:18 AM
1

its only a 41% match, being honest I'm pretty close, I imagine his physique is more lean than mine, but I do pretty well in the looks department though if I'm being honest
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/19 03:10 PM
2

41% match here ​ That being said this guy is some sort of soccer player in another country so his "celebrity" status isn't really applicable to the US ​ The pitirev one matched me with a bunch of black dudes and I'm not even black so I'm kind of questioning that ​ ​
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/19 02:27 PM
1

Yeah, also consider that if a chick is doing some shady shit then yeah you're gonna need to have solid game and look good and that doesn't guarantee anything, she is still doing shit behind a guy's back
/r/askTRP09/03/19 02:21 PM
3

Well it's called pre-selection ​ do with it what you want... TRP is amoral
/r/askTRP09/03/19 02:16 PM
2

I'm pretty similar looking to Taylor Lautner; when he was peaking we were around the same age so there were lots of comparisons to him. We have similar builds, facial structures, features, I'm probably bigger than him and carry a tad more bodyfat
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/19 02:15 PM
1

I'm conflicted on this, IMO a girl who is passing out her number is at least putting it on the table Women are predictable but its not a hard and fast rule that says every time a chick does a she wants b.
/r/askTRP09/03/19 02:11 PM
4

As chris brown says- Theese hoes ain't loyal If its strictly text game then you're probably just orbiting If you're at a bar and its closing time, you've been gaming all night and getting in the Uber together and she casually mentions the BF its just a shit test
/r/askTRP09/03/19 01:52 PM
4

You telling us you really trust the fact she is on birth control?
/r/askTRP09/03/19 01:50 PM
1

If your SMV is high enough, just rejecting chicks should work in your favor.
/r/askTRP09/03/19 01:30 PM
9

I'll preface this by saying TRP is amoral ​ The burden is on the woman to turn down a guy. Use that as you may, but if you're out and vibing with a chick and she only mentions her bf as ASD then how important is he? At that point its just a shit test ​ ​
/r/askTRP09/03/19 01:26 PM
11

I would say your lays are a better representation of your SMV
/r/askTRP06/03/19 08:12 PM
1

AM for me is a "been there, done that" type attitude about things. With a chick it usually manifests itself as being better than her. ​ The actual definition is being so good at something (mastery) you're amused or entertained by her attempts to be as good as you, or her trying to impress you
/r/askTRP06/03/19 07:11 PM
0

You home schooled?
/r/askTRP06/03/19 06:07 PM
3

In this circumstance... no ​ Typically you would gift a girl with good behavior. She cooks a few meals for you, cleans up your house without asking, threeway with her friend etc.
/r/askTRP06/03/19 05:34 PM
5

Lets start this by saying women lie about stuff ​ Your snooping is worse tho, based on what you've said. ​ You want to start a fight about snapchat. Think if it like this, if she is fucking the guy and you fiind out, then simply hit her with a next, if she isn't and you bring it up you look like a bitch. ​ Yes it sucks if you got cheated on, but you save face and don't get all emotional. If she learns that she has more dread on you then you are fucked for the remainder of the relatinoship. ​ Sho…
/r/askTRP06/03/19 05:25 PM
1

fuck no don't fuck with your hormones at 17, you're already taller than average
/r/askTRP06/03/19 05:20 PM
6

Well it seems like you have a negative response to everything, make a shift to being more indifferent (at least fake it at first until you actually stop giving a shit) Family: bossplayaintraining you're so xzy, you should do (insert activity) this way to do blah blah blah you: eh its working for me so far, but ill look at what you're saying Deflect that shit, don't be so emotional
/r/askTRP06/03/19 05:17 PM
16

You are friend zoned. ​ Don't say anything about him and her, don't console her. Figure out if you want to be "just friends" or if she is a candidate for the cawk. If you wanna get in that ham-wallet adjust your game with her.
/r/askTRP06/03/19 05:08 PM
2

Why did they start laughing
/r/askTRP06/03/19 05:05 PM
4

Did she "randomly" tell you though? I (obviously) wasn't there but this to me reads like we aren't getting enough context from the situation. If you are in a social circle and the girl is making conversation with you I'm seeing this as maybe a group is concerned about you and this chick has been more or less "delegated" to be the group representative to see whatsup. ​ Also nexting is more applied to somebody that was "in" your life, doesn't sound like she is. ​ You can still be cordial or at lea…
/r/askTRP06/03/19 05:03 PM
2

Exactly, closing #s have to count for something.
/r/askTRP06/03/19 04:53 PM
1

You're welcome
/r/askTRP06/03/19 02:43 PM
24

Seems to me like "alpha" guy is trying too hard at the party, comes off needy. Compared to the attractive "beta" guy who is carefree and aloof, outcome independent at the party, if he gets a chick cool, if not, also cool. "Alpha" guy needs to learn more game
/r/askTRP06/03/19 02:43 PM
3

Read the 16 commandments of poon by Heartiste
/r/askTRP06/03/19 02:34 PM
5

I'll start by saying having shit happen to you is not a beta disease Vulnerability in the relationship sense is when you can't handle your emotions and are constantly leaning on her. Don't let your work/career problems creep into your LTR, dries up the pussy pretty fast. Stay aloof and fun with her and bust your ass in private.
/r/askTRP06/03/19 02:32 PM
3

I prefer to discuss molecular theory
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/19 02:28 PM
12

Beta sex must be rough if it takes 24 hours to get in the "mood" for duty sex ​ I guess beta men relying on whatever strategy they develop is now "quantum mechanics", its not like people have been banging since the beginning of time. ​
/r/TheRedPill05/03/19 08:49 PM
5

Candy I don't really partake in academic discussions with my wife, we enjoy each other's company and have other types of discussions, but the primary function of our relationship isn't academics.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/19 06:14 PM
1

how is this micro-rejections related: what is a micro-rejection
/r/askTRP05/03/19 01:50 PM
12

I can't remember which EC said it, but having 1 plate is not really a plate... its like a half-ass relationship If you don't have other girls in rotation "plating" your ex that you're still in love with is just stringing yourself along. 5 months isn't really much of an investment, sure you get the warm fuzzy feeling inside, but you shouldn't be getting validation from her anyways ​ ​
/r/askTRP05/03/19 01:49 PM
1

LOL well you can be a rapper and drug dealer and knock two points off your list off the bat, might as well start pimping some hoes while your at it. ​ Then, get an EBT machine, and use it like an ATM, if they wanna get cash from their EBT card, do it 2:1, they "buy" 50 bucks worth of shit from you for $25 cash. ​ Get a couple pit pulls, have some dog fights every now and then. ​ Once you get good cash flow, open up a fish-table arcade so you have a legitimate business front. Launder all your pim…
/r/askTRP05/03/19 12:47 AM
5

Right, they get fed up with the covert contracts that beta men come up with, so they feel an overt need to state they don't owe men anything. ​ In that same vein, you and men don't owe women anything either.
/r/askTRP04/03/19 10:51 PM
3

I mean I guess a kid could be the AMOG among his peers, but that's why I think there is defunct mental processing because the sphere that a 13 year old is in is not the same sphere a twenty-something year old woman is in.
/r/TheRedPill04/03/19 10:47 PM
12

Agreed, most times a woman will adopt the man's political philosphy if they have the correct relationship hierarchy. ​ Related: This is one thing Hillary blamed her loss on, because women voted how their husband's told them too...LOL
/r/askTRP04/03/19 06:09 PM
1

I meant more for that specific example, with the itching behind the ear type stuff lol
/r/TheRedPill04/03/19 06:01 PM
5

Sex makes the world go round, some jobs are more overt about it. don't become dependent on that to get your sexual "fix" though. Keep getting better and learning game and you'll have a chick do it for free.
/r/askTRP04/03/19 03:39 PM
-4

I'm not saying it is a fetish in the stereotypical sense, but comparable to how guys get wrapped up into crazy porn. She pushes the envelope a tad more each time and next thing she knows she fucking a 13 year old. Obviously there is some sort of mental dysfunction because she didn't understand when the hard line is drawn.
/r/TheRedPill04/03/19 03:37 PM
4

I have a bit of a different take than most here. I would say a fuckboi is a guy who doesn't manage the plates properly and has all of them leave on negative terms. Whereas a DJ leaves women with a pleasant taste in their mouth. ​ That being said, both guys are still getting poon, and it depends on the type of reputation you want. Some girls like the bad boy hump and dump type, and others want to have the smooth guy.
/r/askTRP04/03/19 03:32 PM
14

I think this kind of thing is one of the extremes of female hypergamy, paired with some sort of mental illness. ​ If a woman is attractive enough and her sexual dichotomy is so far separated from eachother that this extreme kink type behavior is manifesting itself.
/r/TheRedPill04/03/19 03:29 PM
3

I see the connection you're trying to make here... but this seems borderline like a kink/fetish thing
/r/TheRedPill04/03/19 03:26 PM
1

28m, no kid, 5 years together- pretty much passive dread, that and my wife takes pride in looking good so she has a pretty good drive to keep herself looking nice
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/19 03:20 PM
2

#1 and she ubers back to the location is ideal I always liked #2 though, gives her the comfort of not having to stay or rely on you when she wants to go.
/r/askTRP23/02/19 03:22 PM
3

Don't put so much emphasis on it, the chick wants to be talked to, and you want to talk to her
/r/askTRP23/02/19 03:20 PM
2

Probably some ego involved, but as u/fereallyred said, women have the unique ability to make babies, so they tend to stay in the sphere that revolves around that
/r/askTRP23/02/19 03:18 PM
3

That's how chicks work, very rarely do they want to be a "plate" for eternity, at some point you will have The TalkTM talk as friends LOL aka a reason to still be around, her words say boyfriend but actions say lets hang out still ​
/r/askTRP23/02/19 03:16 PM
2

Yes, she probably saw you called, but maybe the reason she didn't come home with you is the same reason she isn't returning your call? Maybe she has a boyfriend and is regretting the shit now? Lots of different reasons ​ I say wait a little longer, in the meantime, work some other chicks, or do something productive.
/r/askTRP23/02/19 02:56 PM
1

First, I would suggest reading around married red pill, it is geared toward LTR and marriages. ​ But honestly, having a logical discussion with a woman is not really an effective way to communicate. STFU, essentially not talking is one of the most effective strategies, say OK, or I hear what you are saying, basically dead end statements, you don't want to DEER (defend, excuse, explain,rationalize)the big takeaway is don't engage in a stupid argument. I'm sure you can attest, that if she snaps at…
/r/askTRP23/02/19 02:52 PM
5

This isn't really "frame" as much as it is just gaming a chick. ​ It's only been 3 hours, chill out pimp, she legitimately might be doing stuff ​ LOL @ "shrimps"
/r/askTRP23/02/19 02:37 PM
2

Dog... Just because a chick is "cool" with being a FWB or a plate it doesn't mean she is "cool" with watching you fuck or "sensually dance" with other chicks. They know it is happening, but don't really want all the details. Vagueness is your friend ​ edit: just saw you work together, come on bro, this is not adding up good for you
/r/askTRP23/02/19 02:34 PM
3

Nah nothing against you OP, comment was addressed to the new guys who read be bold, be sexual, clear with intentions, but don't understand there is context to encounters and women don't exist in a vacuum
/r/TheRedPill23/02/19 01:36 PM
1

I usually sign up for some kind of competition, I think it's the former athlete in me ​ Pick a few months and see if you can get your 1rm's up, dedicate some time to training for it and see the results
/r/askTRP23/02/19 12:50 PM
1

Exactly what I came to say
/r/askTRP23/02/19 12:48 PM
25

I feel like it should be noted that OP clearly recognized that the girl was showing legit IOI's and gamed her appropriately. This is not some kind of war of attrition pickup attempt or just throwing out rapey lines. ​ Good read OP!
/r/TheRedPill23/02/19 12:35 PM
6

Yeah I mean it seems like he made his decision... I truly believe that actual friendships and relationships aren't worth "fighting" for if that requires convincing somebody you should still be friends I have too much shit going on the convince somebody to be my friend, if they want to be on the boat they're welcome, but they're also just as welcome to be off the boat or follow along. At the end of the day I'm the captain going where I want to go
/r/askTRP23/02/19 12:33 PM
9

Long story short, people change 1) for a guy with such a "cool" social media life he sure does put a lot of emphasis on not having you involved at all 2) you seem to care way too much about this shit, I get it you were friends but people change 3) you haven't told us why he blocked you, which leads me to believe we aren't getting the real story ​ ​
/r/askTRP23/02/19 12:16 PM
10

That's exactly the point, breast tissue is either muscle or fat, there isn't another type of "tissue". The fat will be there, but if compared to more muscle the ratio will be less.
/r/askTRP23/02/19 12:11 PM
6

Not the answer you want to hear but ​ where I need to defend myself against a light attack or a witty comment. ​ Having good game is rolling with the punches, and giving some shit back to people, a good fort/castle's defense doesn't get affected by a light attack. ​
/r/askTRP23/02/19 12:10 PM
18

Let me guess... she's also "on the pill" and wants you to nut in her... Remember, when a chick is ovulating she will be very horny, but also make stupid ass decisions like say lets bang with no rubber and cum in me Ovulation is biology telling her "lets get pregnant" you can hack it to your favor but it can also play you like a fool
/r/askTRP23/02/19 12:07 PM
1

Acronym for Anti-Slut Defense. It's what a chick does when she recognizes she is about to partake is some ho-like behavior and is second guessing whether or not she should let you in the ham-wallet.
/r/askTRP23/02/19 12:05 PM
1

This is what I came to say also
/r/TheRedPill23/02/19 12:03 PM
3

wrong for leaving: no how you left: cringey
/r/askTRP23/02/19 11:55 AM
1

Maybe its me, but if you actually are trying to study for an exam the last thing I would recommend is inviting a prospect to "study" with you. same goes for the guy asking about a gym date If you're trying to keep your game class-centric, id go for a "hey this class is blah blah blah, i'm studying on x date/time, but when I'm done lets get a drink/coffee/smoke crystal meth/etc." don't overthink it or put too much value on the fact that you guys matched, I mean the shit could have been an acciden…
/r/askTRP23/02/19 11:53 AM
6

I can guarantee this response is not get surgery. Try putting some size under your moobs to mitigate the response.
/r/askTRP23/02/19 11:46 AM
2

I have two takes; 1-you just weren't the lothario you thought you were, interesting enough to warrant a posible second date, but not enough to get that poosy dripping 2- There are other factors at play that can influence her decisions if #1 isn't tight enough, possible period coming, maybe her room looks like shit, she lives with her roommates/boyfriend, she didn't shave her pussy, parents coming in the morning- the problem with these excuses is sometimes they are actual excuses, but most of the…
/r/askTRP23/02/19 11:44 AM
1

Not bad, I would have hit her with a -we will see about that at next week's party, if you're coming Her: well i am. ​ YOUR RESPONSE: OK good ​ Talking about what you want to do is showing your hand, in your head you're thinking you're building sexual tension but in reality it gives her good plausible deniability to not go and/or get some ASD built up. Also, it puts this expectation on the night, which in my experiences just leads to more disappointment when it doesn't go the way you planned. ​ T…
/r/askTRP23/02/19 11:36 AM
3

The RP is a two sided coin, but yes it is rooted in sexual strategy Some guys need help with the actual mechanics of getting girls (the PUA/Seduction side). They have the ability to meet them or are good looking but awkward and need advice on how to take it to the next level. ​ Other guys get to TRP because they want to just even be visible to women. That side of the coin is the one that emphasizes actual self improvement. You gotta value yourself first. ​ That being said, IMO, the advice given …
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/19 11:34 AM
1

Im sure he fits into her mating strategy somehow
/r/askTRP22/02/19 06:07 PM
2

these hoes ain't loyal
/r/askTRP22/02/19 03:39 PM
9

All else being equal I know that 99% of girls will rather a more muscular version of me, and that's fine, I feel great in my body Congratulations you played yourself ​ Lifting is emphasized here because it is a linear and almost 100% reliable method to gaining confidence, and self discipline ​
/r/askTRP22/02/19 03:38 PM
4

I wouldn't take my workout advice from a PT... ​ Learn fundamentals for basic lifts, Squat, Dead, OHP, Bench, Pullup ​ Find a basic powerbuilding workout from Ben Pollack or something and you should be fine, your body type shouldn't dictate what "type" of workouts you do ​
/r/askTRP22/02/19 03:21 PM
7

look pimp, all that seems shitty now because relative to the short amount of time you've already lived, a crappy time consumes most of it. If were being honest most of what everybody does in high school is to get chicks to like them. Some guys join gangs, some rap, some play sports. Some guys' game is shitting on other dudes, in high school it might work because you're kind of in a vacuum. What makes the AMOG in high school isn't necessarily the same thing as the rest of your life. This isn't so…
/r/askTRP22/02/19 03:16 PM
7

I'm not saying to rap... I'm saying get out when you can, if your grades are good go to a school in a decent area and make some new friends
/r/askTRP22/02/19 02:52 PM
2

I'd agree, but it the man is keeping in good shape and DHV it should dread the female half enough to keep up her end, still starts with the guy though
/r/TheRedPill22/02/19 02:50 PM
5

If you lose "frame" after you nut I'll argue you never had it in the first place
/r/askTRP22/02/19 02:48 PM
17

Bro, get out of the hood, nothing good there, get a job in another city, join the military or something, if you don't get out nothing will happen, rappers SOMETIMES make it out and what's the first thing they do? MOVE ​ All those guys in school that are AMOG now will falter into nothing anyways, almost all high school AMOGS do ​ Definitely keep lifting, keep grinding, and hit on some chicks that aren't the typical kind.
/r/askTRP22/02/19 02:47 PM
1

Best shitpost in a while
/r/askTRP20/02/19 06:47 AM
4

I feel the only real use for a smith machine is either a seat, or for very high level bodybuilders who are looking to hit very specific body parts. DB benching is pretty safe actually, very easy to bail on them.
/r/askTRP20/02/19 06:46 AM
39

Did you really come here to ask this? I think a Soviet Union parade would have less red flags
/r/askTRP18/02/19 08:24 PM
1

Glad to hear
/r/askTRP18/02/19 05:46 PM
5

Yes bad idea don't shit where you eat, also, sounds like you just have work friendships, you seem to be assuming a bit of things
/r/askTRP14/02/19 11:03 PM
8

Its part of women's survival mechanism, the hamster is strong. They have a way of justifying shitty decisions biologically. Historically, if the mongols come and pillage your town and kill your men, all thats left are the women, so the women who could cope better with being raped by the captors were the ones who reproduced. Disclaimer: I'm not a scientist, but rollo talks a lot about this in his war brides essays https://therationalmale.com/2011/10/03/war-brides/
/r/askTRP14/02/19 10:58 PM
8

She just wants the validation. Treat them as shit tests, but also remember women tend to be crappy friends. At least "Real" friends.
/r/askTRP14/02/19 10:54 PM
8

I wouldn't respond
/r/askTRP14/02/19 10:52 PM
8

Okay pimp, I know wanting to ""get her to be more attracted to [you]" is why you came here but the big takeaway is that anything you do to "be better" for her should really be for yourself. Example-Lift to get more attractive to her? wrong, have muscle so men respect you and more women find you attractive When you move along the path and learn to respect yourself more you will realize if she is worth your time. ​
/r/askTRP14/02/19 07:14 PM
1

Maybe on PPD but on actual TRP I don't see it frequently
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/19 05:43 PM
2

keep both dates, do logistics as you need to Commandment of Poon VII VII. Always keep two in the kitty Never allow yourself to be a “kept man”. A man with options is a man without need. It builds confidence and encourages boldness with women if there is another woman, a safety net, to catch you in case you slip and risk a breakup, divorce, or a lost prospect, leading to loneliness and a grinding dry spell. A woman knows once she has slept with a man she has abdicated a measure of her power; when…
/r/askTRP13/02/19 09:04 PM
1

keep it vague pimp
/r/askTRP13/02/19 09:02 PM
5

Yo playboi you need to hit her with some dread... read up on dread in the rational male married red pill is a great resource for LTR/Marriage all of that being said you are 17, and tbh you need to keep your mission at hand and don't get carried away with making a chick your priority. I
/r/askTRP13/02/19 09:00 PM
2

Rollo speaks on the Red Man Group podcast about alpha and beta. Alpha and beta aren't actual people. They are definitions or placeholders for an action, or a response to a situation.
/r/askTRP13/02/19 08:30 PM
6

I often see redpillers trot out the fact that lesbians have worse divorce rates and higher domestic violence rates as evidence that women are "toxic" and destabilizing in relationships, and that gay male relationships are supposedly the "best" relationships I'm on TRP pretty frequently and this is essentially never discussed, just gonna put that out there ​
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/19 08:27 PM
6

I would like to contribute to this discussion but I couldn't make it past the picture on top of the article
/r/askTRP13/02/19 05:12 PM
1

If you are a female and look attractive, it will look better for him being associate with you don't talk shit about him to prospects
/r/askTRP12/02/19 06:28 PM
3

be attractive...
/r/askTRP12/02/19 06:24 PM
1

Your problem is your main focus in life is a woman not to mention you should probably figure out the bi-polar stuff first before bringing another person into that issue
/r/askTRP12/02/19 05:35 PM
11

A chick you dated and lived with is probably not a good plate candidate put her shit in a box/bag and have it ready for her. essentially cold turkey
/r/askTRP12/02/19 05:33 PM
1

You are right in inviting her to something you were already planning on doing, but it just seems not very exciting
/r/askTRP12/02/19 02:52 PM
1

I think you're overthinking it pimp, put it on the back burner and let it simmer, in the meantime, work some new angles
/r/askTRP11/02/19 08:41 PM
3

a) I feel age is relevant here, so put that next time ​ b) "Hey, I've been thinking about going to the mall to get some cookies and walk around a bit. You want to come?". This sounds boring, the biggest way to get some interest from girls is to elicit some sort of emotional response, exciting, interesting, cocky, etc. But doing any of that online is very hard to do. ​ Does it sound like pussy is getting wet from walking around the mall and getting cookies? (answer is no) I love me some warm cook…
/r/askTRP11/02/19 08:39 PM
1

Well you need to figure out where you are in the relationship, and when I say that I mean you and your role. New guys like to toss the term "frame" around a lot around here, but for an LTR its a good place to start. Does she defer to you about most of her important decisions? Are you asking her "permission" to do things or vice/versa? You say you are "out of her league", but are you really or just saying that? Why are you out of her league? Things you can fix or things you can't? (hint- you can …
/r/askTRP11/02/19 08:30 PM
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I recommend young dolph
/r/askTRP11/02/19 08:23 PM
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IDK man thats up to you to figure out the logistics... I wish I could give you a hard and fast answer but chicks lie, so its hard to tell if she is being legitimately busy or not, best to err on the side of letting time do the work for you.
/r/askTRP11/02/19 08:21 PM
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Unless she specifically stated she is only good on weekends I don't see the harm in shooting for an early evening dinner, granted if you wanna drink to get loose working the next day could be sucky
/r/askTRP11/02/19 07:43 PM
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Bunim & Murray I believe are the producers
/r/TheRedPill11/02/19 07:42 PM
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I can't believe I haven't found your blog earlier, great post again. ​ Teen mom is definitely a shit show... the white trash part is funny because how many black and brown girls get pregnant, yet there's no show about them.
/r/TheRedPill11/02/19 01:43 AM
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Not necessarily, but it depends on how you do it. If you tell her, don't do it in the context of "I need you to be my emotional rock and support me" that is beta. Keep it brief, tell her what happened, and you're working on figuring it out... TBH it might work in your favor as a "mystique" type thing, you know the "troubled man" that women want to help and fix.
/r/askTRP11/02/19 01:38 AM
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"yeah it was cool" doesn't really read as very enthusiastic response, at least to me ​ I'd wait to text her. If a girl is interested in you she will make her schedule work to meet.
/r/askTRP11/02/19 01:35 AM
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go kart racing, putt putt, a walk or something
/r/askTRP11/02/19 01:24 AM
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Dude this shit ain't magic, you don't take the red pill and pussy just falls on your dick. It's a process I’m just upset like yesterday I was at a friends party, really thought tonight was the night I get laid Lets start by having some Outcome Independence, whether or not you get some box at a party shouldn't be that big of a deal, chalk it up as a learning experience and hit the gym ​
/r/askTRP10/02/19 03:33 PM
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Keep up the good work it's your ship so captain it appropriately
/r/MarriedRedPill10/02/19 03:29 PM
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the sidebar has the actual definitions of the pills as described by the mods... ​ All pills are rooted in sexual strategy Red Pill- two sides, both are rooted in having better relations with women, but the information is DERIVED FROM OTHER MEN. 1 side is focused on the self improvement, the other is on the actual "game" side. Blue Pill- also a sexual strategy designed to have better relations with women. Information on the blue pill is DERIVED FROM WOMEN. IE women giving advise to men on how to …
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/19 03:25 PM
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I can appreciate the work you have put in to this list. The problem I see however is the people that are most passionate about these issues don't approach them logically. The zealots on both sides are essentially too far down the rabbit hole. So while a healthy debate is good for the mind, I don't see any real progress being made because people have their ego involved too much
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/19 03:21 PM
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I've had a few conversations w/ my wife about this topic. Long story short I told her there is nothing a woman can bring to the table that I uniquely provide. ​ IMO girl/girl play is not the same as dudes actually fucking. There is a primal nature in putting your dick in somebody that girls can't replicate.
/r/askMRP10/02/19 03:16 PM
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To get that butt thunder! IDK why I even comment on these shitposts
/r/askTRP10/02/19 02:48 PM
1

I would probably go the General Zodd route and wipe everybody out. ​ ​
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/19 02:46 PM
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I agree, that being said, it doesn't mean you don't come back to her if she is in the rotation.
/r/TheRedPill10/02/19 02:42 PM
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That was a great read. Spot on. My parents were divorced and my mom tried her hardest to just slander my dad and really paint him in a bad light. Luckily for him and I, he always stayed in touch and religiously picked me up on his weekends. ​ Gavin McInnes had a quote about fatherhood from his dad: You can be friends with your kids when they are young or old, not both ​ It was a commentary about how fathers who want to be "bros" with their young kids never establish the correct identity for them…
/r/TheRedPill10/02/19 02:37 PM
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What move or trick do you guys use to for the k-close No tricks pimp, just go in for it. Seems like debilitating and your stomach is all in knots at shit, but you'll be fine. ​ Gotta remember, if it is a good date, she wants you to kiss her, she isn't gonna say it, but she wants it! ​ My advice is to pick a date that you guys are physically close in (not movie or dinner) and do it early in the date. That way you aren't sticking to this boring ass date script where you kiss at the end of the nigh…
/r/askTRP10/02/19 02:10 PM
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Don't move in together ​
/r/askTRP10/02/19 02:03 PM
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Exactly, that is annoying, when somebody gets a job because "they know somebody" and then you're working with some bozo who should be 2 or 3 levels down.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/19 01:48 PM
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This is common sense to me, then again my dad was pretty active in my life and we did shit together all the time. When I was younger he would drag me everywhere, errands, grocery store, gym, etc. but looking back I realize how many different discussions we had about just anything and how much I learned about the things they don't teach in school. ​
/r/TheRedPill10/02/19 01:47 PM
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Gross Do girls just enforce blue pill methods and secretly want a red pill relationship? Girls do like blue pill things, that is why it exists, the problem is guys fuck up the proportion of how much blue to red pill shit they do. Also girls don't know what they want ​
/r/askTRP10/02/19 01:43 PM
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I would say technically you were cold approaching I tend to view cold approaching as talking to chicks in situations that arent traditionally social, such as the grocery store, commute to work etc.
/r/askTRP10/02/19 01:40 PM
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Alright pimp, just slooooow down. this reads like you were just stalking up and down a sidewalk for ten miles looking to swoop in on some chick. If it reads like it then I can only imagine how it looks. Lots of good comments here, part of internalizing this whole thing is going to take time. Talk to chicks that are zeros (chicks you wouldn't bang) first. Fatties, uglies, old ladies, etc. You won't have any anxiety or anything, be comfortable with talking. Then talk to some chicks that you would …
/r/askTRP10/02/19 01:30 PM
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OK, and then STOP COMMUNICATING WITH HER
/r/askTRP10/02/19 01:21 PM
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she is still into you. Hurt feelings > no feelings ​ you alpha widowed her, what did she expect, going on a date with a beta orbiter
/r/askTRP10/02/19 01:19 PM
2

A blood test for your testosterone levels
/r/askTRP10/02/19 01:15 PM
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With regards to the DJ sphere (I know this is anecdotal), I recently found some female DJ's that dropped some suprisingly heavy dub songs, I was pleasantly surprised. ​ Glass staircase: I agree. This is the problem with equality of outcome, just putting somebody in a position because of their demographic does not make them qualified.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/19 01:15 PM
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Moving out of the house was one of the best decisions I ever made. Living on your own and making your own decisions with what to do with your time is very liberating. When you move out your parents will also view you differently, not as somebody on the tit anymore, but an adult. I had a good relationship with both and it only got better.
/r/askTRP09/02/19 10:45 PM
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Just game as usual.... if you just wanna smash, then why would you bring it up?? Only handle ASD if it comes up... don't do it for her
/r/askTRP09/02/19 10:25 PM
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Reads like she was looking for a good way to get out and this just happened to be the good reason to.
/r/askTRP09/02/19 10:15 PM
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It's subconsciously a power thing. Chicks thrive on emotions, good better than bad, but both better than none. If you try to pull your ultimate move (breaking up) and she can talk you out of it there is nothing more for you to stand on.
/r/askTRP09/02/19 10:14 PM
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a) sounds like you could have found a lay b) Drunkeness isn't so much about being more confident as much as about caring less about the repercussions. I can see why they can get conflated, but not the same
/r/askTRP09/02/19 09:56 PM
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While I agree with most here that says to be a top 20% women you have to have good looks, and thus some good (not all genetics)... I will say the path skews some when one is looking for a good LTR, vs. a good night. ​ That being said... good looks (genetics) are pretty important for being top 20
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/19 09:54 PM
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I'm not saying you did or didn't handle it like a bitch, Roissy's comandments of poon is an OG staple for RP ideology. You did say I cant tell if its showing weakness or showing strength that you can admit when you fuck up ​
/r/askTRP09/02/19 09:52 PM
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Frome Roissy/Heartiste Poon Commandment: VIII. Say you’re sorry only when absolutely necessary Do not say you’re sorry for every wrong thing you do. It is a posture of submission that no man should reflexively adopt, no matter how alpha he is. Apologizing increases the demand for more apologies. She will come to expect your contrition, like a cat expects its meal at a set time each day. And then your value will lower in her eyes. Instead, if you have done something wrong, you should acknowledge …
/r/askTRP09/02/19 09:26 PM
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Yes, I'm speaking more along the lines of things OP would observe independent of his interactions with her, social media, etc. aka- trust the gut
/r/askTRP09/02/19 09:24 PM
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Skip wal-mart, I've always had good luck at Kohl's for finding the pre-made slim fit shirts. Express clothing tends to run slim also.
/r/askTRP09/02/19 09:16 PM
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asks to be friends-> gets ignored so I go over on social media because I can’t talk to her irl Come on dog, you're hamstering here she’s also insanely hot like the last girl You gotta get over any girls looks, and FAST, this will clam you up ​ You just need to practice game pimp, and don't use social media to hit on girls you know in real life ​
/r/askTRP09/02/19 09:14 PM
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Lol, I have definitely smelled pussy that is worse than others
/r/askTRP09/02/19 09:10 PM
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How she interacts with her female friends and who they are, if she is hanging with a bunch of hoes then take the hint If she talks shit about her friends, take a hint If her pussy stinks... take a hint EDIT: that being said these are more geared toward fwb or plating a chick, if you're looking for some strange you have more leeway
/r/askTRP09/02/19 08:52 PM
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Tingles are something that makes you different (positively different, not negatively) than all the other slinging dicks that go buy her a drink. It's almost like an intrigue that is brought up by a "this guy has an interesting life" or "I can't believe he just said that to me" or "this guy probably pulls hot girls all the time, now he is talking to me". ​ ​
/r/askTRP09/02/19 08:50 PM
1

I think there is a time and a place... just not as an opener ha
/r/askTRP09/02/19 08:45 PM
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Okay i'll start by saying TRP does not advise letting your attractiveness speak for itself (as a male) TRP advocates being in shape and taking care of yourself is important, but learning game and being able to interact is probably more important. ​ that being said, you need to understand the context where you meet people School/Class: people are there to learn primarily and make friends secondarily Party: Enjoy time with current friends/expand social circle/get intoxicated Social Club: Make busi…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/19 03:40 PM
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so rolling into work and saying "Whattup nigga?!" is appropriate now?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/19 03:33 PM
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For some reason I can't open the link. A story circulated like this a while back on here, it read very odd, like the girl had the guy's phone number and rode around with him all night, boyfriend finds out she had been seeing the guy and suddenly he becomes the "rapist" yet she still was seeing him. Boyfriend even condoned it as some kind of coping mechanism. ​ ​
/r/TheRedPill09/02/19 03:31 PM
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I’ve stopped texting her to build rapport I'm not discounting this tactic, but it's not rapport do you man, if she wants to see you she will come, keep gaming girls closer and work what you can
/r/askTRP09/02/19 03:25 PM
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Message her? If you live together just talk to her lol Also, just because you can deal with the crazies doesn't always make it the best option lol Just go get the pre-drinks, she can open up and then go from there
/r/askTRP09/02/19 03:24 PM
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So it seems like she likes you, my observation is, does she seem like a good plate candidate? She is twitchy and doesn't socialize well with people, could be anti-social type but also could be kind of crazy, that being said you live with her and I dont. ​ Tread lightly pimp ​ I say that because you can't un-dick somebody (unless you're a chick and claim it was rape #metoo-another topic for another discussion), and like thy say, don't stick your dick in crazy
/r/askTRP09/02/19 02:56 PM
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leaving on read is the big red flag to me, I'd say meet in the middle or she can visit you
/r/askTRP09/02/19 02:48 PM
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Bruce Jenner had too many women is his life and now look at him...
/r/askTRP09/02/19 02:47 PM
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Ah okay, kind of odd, why is she reaching out now? How long have you lived together? If she know's you're moving and has been thinking about it then it might be a time to have some good lays before you move out.
/r/askTRP09/02/19 02:45 PM
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Well there is your problem, getting affirmation externally, even worse, from women...
/r/askTRP09/02/19 02:41 PM
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You don't that's how. Shitting where you eat, when it goes sour you think bringing chicks home is going to work?
/r/askTRP09/02/19 02:40 PM
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I like the "are you secure and man enough to look past it" little addition there lol. ​ Just asking RP men is casting a pretty wide net. There are RP aware men who would. I'm sure ​ Me, probably not, then again, I wouldn't go around asking the question either.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/19 02:39 PM
1

Right, politics in general just seem so fake, bitch and moan about a problem you do nothing to help with... good idea
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/19 02:36 PM
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Okay well you should have been lifting and doing your music the whole time while in a relationship, is my first observation. ​ Whats your question here? Im assuming it's should I get back with her, and I'd advise no, too much work and drama, take some time and respect yourself some.
/r/askTRP09/02/19 02:35 PM
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It's kind of tongue in cheek because I know it's a real argument
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/19 02:26 PM
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orbiter status i guess. Lesson learned, moved on, nothing to see here For you maybe, for her? maybe not ​ She hits you up with a friend last minute when you had plans, reads like she might be milking you for some drinks ​ My response: "Good she can house-sit for you while we have drinks" if she insists the friend comes then you know the play ​ With regards to threeway: you haven't even had sex with the one chick, so I'm doubting that is on the table. ​ ​ ​
/r/askTRP09/02/19 02:02 PM
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Bro being a cuck and shit is not normal, BP to the max Not saying you're a cuck, but I am saying it's not normal, alpha or beta or whatever. ​ I'll be honest man, after learning game and really internalizing RP things about 5 years ago, my porn usage has gone down like 95%. I didn't do no fap or anything like that. Just learned game, started talking to girls, took care of myself, things definitely impoved. ​ having real world interaction with a girl, shit if you are that low, just going on a dat…
/r/askTRP09/02/19 01:55 PM
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fuck no, do not see her ​ edit: to add this chick left you on read and now you wanna travel an hour to see her, waste YOUR resources GTFO big dog, respect yourself
/r/askTRP09/02/19 01:48 PM
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I have heard of it, it's in a pre-workout I take, I think it's similar to theanine to help reduce the jitter side of stims
/r/askTRP09/02/19 01:47 PM
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a chick telling you "love you" sounds like something she would say to an orbiter/friend zone ​ Invite later, like 2 days before because chicks don't plan shit anyways so its not worth the effort
/r/askTRP09/02/19 01:31 PM
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No wonder, a stim will exaggerate anxiety I've dabbled with Kratom and Phenibut as alcohol alternatives or potentiators, that beings said I still prefer the ol' scotch I lot of people love kratom though, its pretty easy to obtain
/r/askTRP09/02/19 01:29 PM
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I might be splitting hairs here, but for me it doesn't make me more confident, just care less about the repercussions. ​ Edit: Suggest kratom if you want the relaxed feeling without the intoxication component
/r/askTRP09/02/19 01:17 PM
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it's a nationalist breeding war; they just fear that "their people" will be outbred and there will be more "of them" which is why they can't solve the problem with immigration This is what the issue is, the thing is it is actually happening.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/19 01:16 PM
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Not to be the debbie downer here, the only legit negative repercussion I can see is if a) people figure out who she is and dox her b) She claims you did that against her will... #metoo c) you get the public lynch mob coming for your throat ​ that being said, like most people here are saying, like the salem witch trials, just own it. Yeah it was me, we were dancing, she was grabbing my dick, I was grabbing that poosy, we had a good time.
/r/askTRP09/02/19 12:46 PM
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"For Science"
/r/askTRP09/02/19 12:41 PM
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" I don't keep track" That can be a legitimate answer or a classic shit test response. Depends on the delivery.
/r/askTRP09/02/19 12:40 PM
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Well I'm going to guess this is a European question because that seems to be quite the topic over there. My troll response for the politicians is-let in more refugees in because they don't seem to have any problems artificially raising the birth rate. ​
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/19 12:39 PM
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Well if you guys go out together and are all clones (I'm visualizing chubbies, sperries, baggy button-down type) you could AMOG your bros by being dressing a tad differently or having a different "vibe". ​ You're already in good shape, so if yall come in and people tend to notice, having something a bit different should help
/r/askTRP09/02/19 12:17 PM
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That was pretty hard to read... I get the point of the go-bag though, is this a story about banging the mom or daughter?
/r/TheRedPill09/02/19 12:08 PM
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Well tbh almost all the women you game are older than you, as you are 17 Game is still game, the problem you're going to face is you're basically another walking dick to most women, a young guy new to college who is in shape, literally a dime a dozen, just like all the basic bitches in college. ​ Be bold, and confident, act like the shit doesn't matter because it shouldn't to you. If they shit test you about your age treat it accordingly.
/r/askTRP09/02/19 11:50 AM
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I dont want to come off as needy and spam her with snaps Then don't be needy and spam her with snaps don't overthink this shit pimp, you hooked up with a girl at a party, it's not that big of a deal. Hit her up in a few days of you doing something cool, if she takes the bait, then use it for LOGISTICS ​ P.s. and for the love of God don't lead off with a dick pic ​
/r/askTRP09/02/19 11:41 AM
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kinda sounds like you're both beta, you're just in his frame now
/r/askTRP09/02/19 11:37 AM
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I generally agree, but it (like most things here) are context dependent. ​ Speech and language are how most people actually interact with the rest of the world, so having a good command of the language and being able to articulate are attractive for both sexes. ​ But like inflation, the more you have of something the less valuable it becomes. If you constantly are talking then people stop listening.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/19 11:01 AM
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#3 for sure
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/19 10:55 AM
2

It really shouldn't take that long to wash your body and hair, I get it if it's an "experience" for you, but there are tons of ways to streamline most of these mundane tasks
/r/askTRP08/02/19 06:57 PM
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A shower should take less than 5 min, get a haircut that doesn't require styling Putting on deodorant is too time consuming? ​ Set up everything the night before, wake up and its ready to go ​
/r/askTRP08/02/19 06:14 PM
2

okay that makes more sense
/r/askTRP06/02/19 06:24 PM
2

You're in college and this is happening?
/r/askTRP06/02/19 01:59 PM
3

Just grow the extra .67777777 inches
/r/askTRP06/02/19 01:57 PM
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A) prostitute B) 5x5 on 45lbs... come on pimp, you might as well said you don't lift
/r/askTRP06/02/19 01:56 PM
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Kind of a vague question My wife and I are interested in having sex, raising kids, and going on trips together. ​ Our gender relations/roles are pretty conservative, if you mean in the broader sense among the national dialogue, they don't affect us much at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/19 10:42 PM
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no....
/r/askTRP01/02/19 08:53 PM
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He's in your frame and wants to bang you ​
/r/askTRP01/02/19 12:57 AM
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Good luck with it pimp, hopefully its just for another semester
/r/askTRP01/02/19 12:06 AM
1

How bout you just go with a "Thanks"...
/r/askTRP31/01/19 11:05 PM
2

I believe its on Entrepenuers in Cars
/r/askTRP31/01/19 10:48 PM
2

Okay so if you have been acting a certain way for an extended period of time and then suddenly change, then yes you technically are acting different, problem exaggerated by your flatmate. Not saying its good or bad, but that's the way it is. Once a woman has a perception of you in her head you're basically burned into her as that person. It's why women have such a hard time coping with guys who become RP aware. ​ Creating a hostile living enviroment could suck, same as if you were to fuck one of…
/r/askTRP31/01/19 10:46 PM
1

TRT, get your levels checked
/r/askTRP31/01/19 10:40 PM
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Doesn't seem to bad, not all chicks are gonna bang you the first time you spend time alone...
/r/askTRP31/01/19 10:33 PM
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its in the same place on all vaginas... get experience with some more and you'll know
/r/askTRP31/01/19 09:19 PM
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This right here... ​ This is why eliciting the feelz and being fun are so important. Hate is better than indifference (I'm not saying make her hate you, but it means something is there). ​ Also, this is why women generally make shitty friends.
/r/askTRP31/01/19 09:17 PM
1

I'll argue and say a part of SMV is the game and not just looks, and say its a pretty large component.
/r/askTRP30/01/19 11:33 PM
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Your friend is too safe, dog She was looking for a plausible reason to find some bad boy dick, just so happens Tyrone is there, has the cred, other dudes fear him, she gets a little ganja on the side for trading her pussy for it. She knows she is one in the rotation but is eventually "going to change him" or become the queen bee. Also-women with religious backgrounds tend to do one of 2 things... completely rebel or, Missionary-date, like find a guy she can treat as a project and convert his bad…
/r/askTRP30/01/19 09:16 PM
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Seems like a lot of work tbh. You got used, and she was flirting with a good friend of yours. I'm not gonna tell you your business, but do you really think the effort and mental drain you're putting into this chick couldn't be better suited toward working on a new girl or more rewarding venture?? IDC how many chicks say that relationships are work and whatever nonsense, they really aren't that hard...
/r/askTRP28/01/19 11:58 PM
1

As u/bobbyperu said, I don't listen much for the lyrics, but if you like some ghetto ass rap young dolph and 21 savage make some pretty red pill lyrics toward women
/r/askMRP28/01/19 11:52 PM
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Come on dog, we didn't even have to read the content to know the answer is yes. ​ If she gets the weekends off and you're never the one hanging out with her then I think you get the hint. ​ ​
/r/askTRP28/01/19 09:53 PM
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IDK pimp, sounds a little sketchy to me
/r/askTRP28/01/19 09:34 PM
5

Let me guess... she's on the pill too right? And wants you to shoot the club up because it feels good?
/r/askTRP28/01/19 08:57 PM
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I don't have the source, but I remember reading on this as a way the left is cannibalizing itself. ​ The feminists want men and women to essentially be genderless, but the trans want to be ultra-feminine. ​ I'm just sitting back with my popcorn watching the show.
/r/TheRedPill28/01/19 08:22 PM
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Doesn't seem too bad without knowing the context of your relationship Could have AA after she said she was gonna message him. ​ The thing is if you have a remotely attractive LTR she is gonna get hit on, at the end of the day its up to her to vet whether or not she follows up, so if you get caught up in telling her not to do so you're missing the boat.
/r/askTRP28/01/19 07:55 PM
1

There's nothing to do about it? Make your SMV higher and chalk it up as a loss
/r/askTRP28/01/19 07:50 PM
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What are you asking???? Okay not everybody is going to think you're attractive?
/r/askTRP26/01/19 10:08 PM
2

I'd say breaking up with a girl for messaging her ex is a legit reason to do so. You need to understand that men are the true romantics and Love Ideally but women love opportunistically. It might be nice to have the emotional warmth of having somebody around, but she is there because you provide something to her.
/r/askTRP26/01/19 09:27 PM
5

Doesn't sound like a promising strategy Women don't wanna bang dudes because their brother likes them
/r/askTRP26/01/19 08:08 PM
1

This is hard to read... why are they cancelling on you?
/r/askTRP26/01/19 08:06 PM
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They most likely still need to be provded for, especially the alpha widow types that never really developed an independent lifestyle
/r/askTRP25/01/19 03:42 PM
2

Yep, the medium is the message
/r/askTRP25/01/19 03:22 PM
1

I drink socially, usually only about 2 servings. whether it be beer or whiskey. With regards to fitness goals, I plan ahead and adjust my macros early in the week to be lower and have a higher day if I'm gonna drink
/r/askTRP25/01/19 01:07 AM
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No she is another woman, the "sisterhood" applies
/r/askTRP24/01/19 02:17 PM
3

Yeah looking at facebook and paying for a background check are a tad different IMO
/r/askTRP24/01/19 02:16 PM
6

Okay if you hard next then don't communicate with her? If she watches your social media who cares? She is trying to validate herself making you an orbiter and then if you get alpha cred she will try to get you back, don't fall for that shit. It sounds like you're trying to still game her through social media which isn't a hard next...
/r/askTRP24/01/19 02:15 PM
2

It doesn't sound like its worth the hassle to convince a chick that what appears to be a plate that you aren't married. If you tell her that you aren't and then she either does the background check or somebody else does it doesn't really matter. These hoes wanna talk about trust, and then not trust you. If you are married and lying to her well that is on you, but sounds like some typical chick shit to get some info and then let the hamster run with it. Personally sounds like id next
/r/askTRP24/01/19 02:09 PM
2

If you're playing out AA and CF just be more aloof.
/r/askTRP24/01/19 02:00 PM
6

wtf dude why is she doing a background check on you...
/r/askTRP24/01/19 01:57 PM
1

What if you are nice to all your plates??
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/19 01:56 PM
-2

Just because somebody is high SMV doesn't mean they are RP aware. That being said, the black community definitely has different views about sex/partners than most white communities. A lot of times in the black community these rappers only grow up with a mom and no dad, so the "Strong black woman" archetype is pretty strong, so they tend to go for these powerful type women because that is what they know.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/19 01:17 AM
2

Well its not about getting poon, that's a side effect. Sounds like you don't really know what you're trying to get out of life.
/r/askTRP23/01/19 10:52 PM
5

General RP thought is the "Wall" As women get older they realize their looks begin to fade and they are not capable of attracting the type of alpha guys they want. When they are younger and more attractive they put up with the shittier relationships because they can find another guy who is "better". This usually gets rationalized with some sort of "experience" and "biological clock" argument but the core is that they can't attract the guys they used to.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/19 10:40 PM
14

A few different strategies: learn to talk to all women, old, young, skinny, fat, ugly, hot, black, white, it will help you to better understand how to communicate with them. keep an outcome independent mindset don't overtly state "if you don't go on a date with me another girl will" but give off that vibe, OI ​ That being said, if you have shit SMV work on that first
/r/askTRP23/01/19 10:29 PM
7

This is discussed ad nauseum in various discussions of hypergamy ​ Wall hits-> unable to attract alphas she used to -> justifies her settling for a beta by saying she is over "rough times" or "turmoil" and ready to "settle down"
/r/askTRP23/01/19 09:40 PM
8

Depends ​ I wouldn't go flaunting around the low smv chicks i'm hanging out with, also, women don't make great friends, so keep that in mind also
/r/askTRP23/01/19 09:21 PM
2

I understand, but it is a mindset/frame thing, young male, young man, young guy... you see what I'm saying
/r/askTRP23/01/19 09:16 PM
2

I wouldn't refer to myself as a "boy"... cringey
/r/askTRP23/01/19 08:51 PM
3

Sounds more like a failed close...
/r/askTRP23/01/19 08:50 PM
5

Gotta start somewhere
/r/askTRP23/01/19 08:46 PM
10

Don't worry about doing arm exercises; heavy benching, overhead perssing, rowing, and pullups should do just fine
/r/askTRP23/01/19 08:11 PM
2

haha no... did get a broken nose tho, made sleeping tough for a few weeks
/r/askTRP23/01/19 08:07 PM
2

Yeah, I know I'm surprised you even found it
/r/askTRP23/01/19 06:06 PM
1

A dude with 2k followers is not that impressive... ​ But buying followers is obviously fake also
/r/askTRP23/01/19 06:05 PM
2

If you are looking to get into sparring, learn to control your emotions, getting punched in the face sucks...
/r/askTRP23/01/19 06:04 PM
1

If OP has already tried the above methods and attempted to give him some RP truth then what more can he do?
/r/askTRP23/01/19 02:38 PM
8

No, he is going to have to figure that out on his own.
/r/askTRP22/01/19 09:53 PM
2

The same as if you were asking any other girl. "Hey on x date and time I'm doing this activity, you should come"
/r/askTRP22/01/19 09:43 PM
1

I wouldn't bring up the whole "i hear you're single now" thing either.
/r/askTRP22/01/19 08:49 PM
3

try to be her friend Yeah fuck off with that noise, I mean you can be her friend if you don't want to get some of that poon. ​ Keep being cool, working on yourself, throw her an invite out somewhere or date, if she wants in she will come. I don't think there is as much of a timing window as you're thinking. ​
/r/askTRP22/01/19 08:46 PM
1

Common rebuttal from women/BP men is NAWALT; Not all women are like that
/r/RPChristians22/01/19 08:39 PM
18

She is just playing the field, yeah she probably likes you, but I wouldn't assume you're the only dude in her life. Girls aren't flakes like they play it off, they read all their texts, know when and where they need to be places, but just act like they forgot or some bullshit. Yes some are air headed but most know whats going on. If a girl is legitimately into you it wont be confusing, and you will know.
/r/askTRP18/01/19 02:45 PM
1

This is core reading right here...
/r/askTRP18/01/19 02:38 PM
5

Sounds like you're skipping leg day...
/r/askTRP18/01/19 02:36 PM
4

Lift before class, go to bed as soon as you can after class.
/r/askTRP18/01/19 02:36 PM
2

no, everything isn't consciously sex driven. Get promotion-> make more money or status-> increased chances of finding an attractive wife/gf/lover etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/19 02:34 PM
1

Id consider character to be part of ones morality, and TRP is amoral ​ Whether somebody uses the knowledge for good or bad is up to the person.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/19 02:32 PM
2

I don't think it is a thing to begin with but if your argument is that a group of men created "toxic masculinity" and asking what sort of women will bring it up I think the ones listed will be the ones to do it
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/19 08:59 PM
15

Well to start its comedy, he is just making a joke about common male behaviors they partake in.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/19 08:34 PM
3

I would guess it would be a person like Christina Hoff Summers or a Lauren Southern, MAYBE Tomi Lahren to bring up the discussion ​ that being said, I don't adhere to a toxic masculinity or femininity
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/19 08:32 PM
1

tell her when and where on the weekend, and that's make it early enough to set up a second date later in the night for a more reliable plate too
/r/askTRP17/01/19 08:17 PM
1

well you need her to know what you're about then
/r/askTRP17/01/19 07:05 PM
6

Okay not all chicks will want to bang you on the first or second date, that being said: You need to figure out if you're failing LMR shit-tests If you already have her pants off and she is naked then you should have escalated If she asks you to walk her to the cab and you guys have been dating then maybe you should have just walked her down? ​ So i showed her frame And you don't "show" frame, you are in frame or not in frame ​
/r/askTRP17/01/19 06:56 PM
16

Jeez, this reads like you are just stalking the chick, next and move on. ​ Also-askTRP...
/r/TheRedPill17/01/19 06:52 PM
2

It depends on the environment, but a 1 handed low waist grab, and pull in relatively close get them meaty paws on the back and show you're physical
/r/askTRP17/01/19 05:58 PM
1

other than extremes, no...
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/19 05:37 PM
2

a lot less personal than kissing on the cheek...
/r/askTRP17/01/19 05:36 PM
2

Most men compete with eachother to increase their chances of reproduction. Earning-make more money Physical traits-look better, have less, fat, be stronger Social- be funny, cool etc. ​ Within each of these there are sub-competitions but the overarching goal is to be the top of the food chain within the circles you roll with to increase the chances of finding a mate. ​
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/19 05:35 PM
1

This is kind of a loaded question considering on who you're talking to. From the RP perspective: Women sometimes settle when they realize they are no longer capable of attracting the "big fish" (aka hitting the wall), some never do and turn into the lonely spinster I think the term settle is a negative connotation to begin with because it implies you aren't getting what you want. Long term perspective to me is that you eventually resent what you settled on.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/19 05:30 PM
24

HAHA because she is lazy and doesn't want to keep up
/r/askTRP17/01/19 03:25 PM
0

MarriedRP is a decent sub to look around in Redpillparenting is a sub also, but that one id use caution
/r/askTRP17/01/19 03:24 PM
5

I'd be very wary If you go dark triad you can probably do anything you want with/to her but on the other side if you decide you want out that is the kind of behavior that makes chicks go insane; think slashing tires, fake rape charges, fake DV charges, etc.
/r/askTRP17/01/19 03:00 PM
1

Yes it is a shit test jeez chicks are not naive
/r/askTRP17/01/19 02:15 PM
3

I read your comments ​ Come on pimp, you know this shit is going nowhere, she is good for a plate but willing committing to exclusivity to her while she has non exclusivity to you is just beta behavior. ​ She wants the best of both worlds
/r/askTRP17/01/19 01:57 PM
9

Check out the Jocko Podcast youtube page, lots of short excerpt videos about workplace dynamics and productivity ​ My take is that by nature you're in your employer's frame they are the one with something to give, but they also need somebody for the job they have. Present yourself as confident, willing to learn, and social competent
/r/askTRP17/01/19 01:53 PM
9

Yes She needs to demonstrate to herself and others that you are not a loser in social environments
/r/askTRP16/01/19 06:51 PM
1

Yeah especially on twitter he is a bit more active, some of the "originals" are Roissy-Chateu Heartiste now Roosh V and Rollo
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/19 06:50 PM
3

I think its more of the newer guys who get exposed to it and think "holy shit society is out to get me" and when the see stuff like that they see it as a direct attack. Guys like Rollo will tweet it out and comment on it, but that is Rollo's thing and his commentary on social issues is pretty solid. I tend to notice the EC's of the sub don't really comment on what is happening in media etc. they tend to focus on the actual physical dynamic between men and women
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/19 09:09 PM
3

I think the issue is that TRP knowledge is legitimately something radically (by current standards, I mean shit the sub is quarantined) different that what society is preaching, but because of it's taboo nature you can't talk about it without being instantly shamed or put in a box. ​ The gillette ad is just as radical as TRP, but its on the "right" side of society's standards so it gets a pass and applause. ​ Many RP guys understand how important TRP knowledge is for the health of men who are des…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/19 08:33 PM
2

RP Christians is a smaller sub that talks about this some. ​ My take is that all women are affected by hypergamy. How they act on it is what makes women different from each other and not robots. What influences how they act on it is the unpredictable part, its been argued that societal and religious upringing is definitely a factor, but it is not that simple to say because she had a very religious upbringing she isn't going to cheat/be a ho/ etc. ​ She very well might have peaked while younger a…
/r/askTRP15/01/19 08:27 PM
10

Well how big is the dick? under 1inch is just a big clit
/r/askTRP15/01/19 08:10 PM
8

Being red pill aware and taking the red pill are two different things. ​ I would say a decent number are red pill aware, but don't actually internalize it to the point it changes them as a person
/r/askTRP15/01/19 08:09 PM
3

I believe the term is called "assuming the sale", it helps to keep you in the right mindset that things are in your control and her saying no would actually be a surprise, but not a problem.
/r/TheRedPill15/01/19 08:08 PM
1

Okay well not having an important conversation over text is a great way to avoid this. If you've been dating for only 6 months and need a "communication break" I think your writing is on the wall...
/r/askTRP15/01/19 06:40 PM
3

I'm not here to tell you what to do with your money, but Rollo is a RP OG, if you can just buy it from him
/r/askTRP15/01/19 06:38 PM
2

Yes and No Think of certain actions as red (alpha) points or blue (beta) points, no person is an "alpha" or a "beta" just a collection of the actions they take over and over. You can be an "alpha" guy but do some beta stuff and vice/versa ​ ​
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/19 06:37 PM
2

This is stupid. ​ You don't want to give away all the information about yourself, also, you can't negotiate desire. ​ So you guys answer questions the right way, great wahoo you're kindred spirits, but does she answer the boner question? Or maybe she is just a chameleon and copies you because she is BPD. ​ ​
/r/askTRP15/01/19 03:46 PM
2

Her period and ovulation are all part of the same cycle. Ovulation is a powerful tool that works for and against you
/r/askTRP15/01/19 03:16 PM
2

That's why Men get salty when they find out they're courting Women who won't put for them as easily as others Well they turn into AFC because they're told one set of rules for the game, but the other party (women) are playing by a different set of rules. They don't understand because they think linearly, like a+b=c but in reality it is much more complex, like A(x) + B(y)=C. Women know this, but men don't. ​ But if Women put out too quick then they're sluts and should get dumped. I would argue th…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/19 03:12 PM
2

Yes
/r/askTRP15/01/19 03:04 PM
3

Funny Puts up LMR about hooking up, bangs, then ignores you. ​ She could have been ovulating and now re-thinking banging in the first place
/r/askTRP15/01/19 03:04 PM
1

Looking back on the thread I'm not sure I was correct in saying it was induced by hypergamy...
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/19 02:49 PM
1

"no biggie, i'll see you later"
/r/askTRP14/01/19 09:01 PM
2

TRP is rooted in sexual dynamics between men and women Most guys have a BP mentality but are great dudes to be around. I generally speaking don't pick my friends based on how successful or not they are with women.
/r/askTRP14/01/19 08:58 PM
3

If you are in school probably just talking to people in person is a good place to start. Related: it comes off as weird if you meet somebody and right off the bat and suggest you guys hang out
/r/askTRP14/01/19 08:57 PM
3

okay pimp, you talk about recovering and fucking her but you haven't even kissed first. Start small
/r/askTRP14/01/19 08:38 PM
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