So, long story short - on Saturday night I met a hot girl for a beer. I had met her the night previous at a dance club.

Date goes well, we're hitting it off, good conversations. I think she shit-tested me twice: first by being late (didn't even notice as I was busy chatting up another chick whose number I just saved) and second by mentioning the dude she is currently fucking in her home city across the country. Barely even noticed both.

We close down the bar, go outside and she comes in the car with me. We are chatting a bit while parked, and I go in for the make out. She was a good kisser. She then climbed on top of me in the driver's seat. I pull her off and say let's continue this at my place. She said no I need to go back to the place I'm staying, I'll meet up with you tomorrow. So I drove her to her corner and went to bed.

You can see where this is going, she wasn't down to meet up the next night. In doing that missed-opportunity-review we all do when it doesn't go as desired, I think I may have failed a shit test. What do you think? Should I have escalated further? How?