Make no mistake, learning game is important. Especially if the woman you're gaming is likely to see you frequently.
But if you're just trying to fuck & run, you don't need game.
Personally, I don't value getting laid enough to spend hours, even days seducing a woman who may or may not put out.
My uncle said this to me about a year ago, and it's proved true so far:
"A woman knows within the first 10 seconds whether or not she's gonna sleep with you. After that, you're either wasting each others time, giving her a reason to change her mind, or delaying the inevitable."
In my experience playing the numbers game, it takes anywhere from 2 minutes to 30 minutes of approaching to get laid.
Comparing that to what I used to do, which was spend upwards of 5 minutes (sometimes in multiple sessions) gaming chicks with less than favorable results.
"I love a man who knows what he wants" is perhaps the most common phrase I've heard. And no doubt you've heard this too.
It's a psychological thing. By being upfront, you convey that your time is important to you, that you're in control, that you are a leader.
Further, creates a sense of mystery.
Because you've given no information about yourself, there is an abundance of mystery surrounding your character.
My line, spoken nonchalantly, is "Wanna fuck?"
- If she say's "no", or any variation, I simply walk away. No "okay", no "well darn, alrighty then", nothing. Nothing more NEEDS to be said.
- If she say's "yes", then I either say "cool, give me your number & I'll hit you up this evening", or take her into the nearest empty room/secluded area.
Game is valuable, but it's not a requirement.
Side note:
If you're like me, you probably spent well over a year overthinking game. Perhaps even believing you need game to get laid, that your lack of game is whats keeping your dick dry.
Let me tell you something.
- Bears don't have game.
- Monkeys don't have game.
- Celestina Monkeys have lots of game, but rarely need to use it.
- Fish don't have game.
- Dogs don't have game.
Yet somehow, all of these species continue to repopulate.
Their secret? Finding a reciprocal partner.
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