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Stand up for yourself on one occasion. Stick rigidly to whatever it is and don't budge however insignificant it may be. Whatever happens, whetever pressures to do otherwise just don't budge and see how it feels.
/r/askTRP18/11/19 11:13 PM
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Umm you like her company, you want to go abroad anyway, and she'll pay some room cost... Why the fuck are you asking reddit what to do
/r/askTRP18/11/19 11:03 PM
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Advice is to not do 'monk mode'. It's too passive, better to do an 'adventure mode' for a week where you try a lot of crazy shit. Or just live your life instead of forcing yourself into 'modes' of behaviour. ​ You're only young once
/r/askTRP18/11/19 11:00 PM
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Everyone goes through stages at different points in their life. As a 27 year old you will be able to contribute some discussion/points from a more mature & wise perspective than many who reside here
/r/askTRP18/11/19 09:24 PM
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Everyone goes through stages at different points in their life. As a 27 year old you will be able to contribute some discussion/points from a more mature & wise perspective than many who reside here
/r/askTRP18/11/19 09:23 PM
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sounds like you are too invested in her drama - there are more interesting ways to spend time
/r/askTRP18/11/19 09:19 PM
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Should be titled: '2 equally lost & broken people find each other against all odds'
/r/TheRedPill18/11/19 08:50 PM
1

Get a job
/r/askTRP18/11/19 08:40 PM
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'During the movie she went ice cold' Could be something in the movie that affected her emotionally
/r/askTRP18/11/19 08:37 PM
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don't overthink it - it's up to you how much time you're willing to invest and what compromises you are willing to make. Above all else do what you want to do. What you ACTUALLY want to do
/r/askTRP18/11/19 08:32 PM
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Because women are all nuts. most men don't care about happiness. We care about our hobbies, work, and peace and quiet time.
/r/askTRP21/10/19 01:31 PM
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If you're not a warrior, what are you? There are plenty of parts you can play instead of warrior.
/r/askTRP25/09/19 08:34 AM
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He's trying to figure out his social role
/r/askTRP25/09/19 08:33 AM
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Men aren't bears Yes we are. We are bears, gorillas, snakes, lions, giraffes, and penguins. We are animals. Our society in the west is what keeps us acting civil toward each other without extreme violence and death. We play sports and people spectate it like the Romans used to spectate fights at a Colosseum for entertainment. We box and spectate that for the same reason. We compete for jobs. All of these things are substitutes for war, for violent sport. To satisfy the beast within in a harmless…
/r/askTRP25/09/19 08:31 AM
3

It's got to be a combination of both. If you're at work and you trip over a wire that trails along the floor of a corridor; You are at fault because you weren't looking. The company is also at fault because they left a wire trailing where people walk. The responsibility is not always black and white, but one thing that is for sure is that there is absolutely no point in blaming yourself for tripping over that wire and manically checking every floor for wires your entire life. That would be insan…
/r/TheRedPill18/09/19 06:43 PM
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That's a pretty huge red flag to be honest indicating that she's still in 'social exploration' mode; willing to piss people off while she goes about it. Good for a lay and a short adventure, not good for a LTR. ​ One massive red flag is enough.
/r/TheRedPill18/09/19 06:32 PM
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Make sure you take some real action out in the real world, rather than going down a 'reading self-improvement' rabbit hole. You like sport? Join a team and get better at the sport. You like gaming? Join a gamers meetup and keep improving at a game by playing against others. You like music? Buy a guitar and arrange to have weekly lessons with a tutor.
/r/TheRedPill18/09/19 06:29 PM
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Of course. Just tell them what you like. Get her sizes, buy it for her, dress her up, and tell her she looks sexy. It's all about how you do it for whether it's abusive or not. If you tell a girl she has to wear a particular thing under threat of punishment/control that's domination and can be considered 'abuse' if she's not into that. Some women are into heavy domination like that but most healthy women like a slightly softer dynamic. They still like the guy to have the upper hand but they want…
/r/askTRP18/09/19 02:44 PM
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It's not your fault dude she's made you think this way. She's made you think you aren't good enough because that means that you are less likely to leave her when she becomes a bitch and makes your life miserable. That's what they do. Nothing wrong with you. Once they have successfully made you feel less confident they get bored and leave/cheat because you are weaker than you once were! The only thing you need to do to rebuild your strength is spend time away from her, spend time with family and …
/r/askTRP17/09/19 04:01 PM
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'Put in more work now' That assumes he was left for the reason that 'he isn't good enough'. That's likely not the case. If OP just continues on with his life as it is everything will be fine. There is nothing wrong with him.
/r/askTRP17/09/19 03:59 PM
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Firstly there has been evil all over the world throughout history and in the present. There are many countries that tried to build empires; the Brits were just one of the best at it. In fact rather than killing everyone in other countries as an attempt of world domination, the brits made use of people's skills to help build the best society possible; a trait it still demonstrates today. Take 'The Deluge' enacted by power hungry Sweden for example. In the 17th Century they murdered 90% of the com…
/r/TheRedPill17/09/19 03:39 PM
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Really? The UK you think is corrupt, violent and unjust? Try living in Africa. England has developed a judicial system whose fairness is the envy of the globe. You literally cannot get more fair than british society anywhere else in the world. You can find more socially toothless countries like Finland and Netherlands for sure, but personally I like a britain with a bit of bite.
/r/TheRedPill17/09/19 01:10 PM
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Don't be a country cuck. Brits just need to remember their empire days and how much there is to be proud of being part of the UK. Britain needs to re-find it's backbone and culture.
/r/TheRedPill17/09/19 12:15 PM
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You can't go back, it's a different world you live in now
/r/askTRP17/09/19 11:49 AM
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But if you could choose anything you wanted would you choose your plates to be just into you or also fucking other guys?
/r/askTRP10/09/19 08:58 PM
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Ok, but would you want one?
/r/askTRP10/09/19 01:40 PM
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Your life your way
/r/askTRP10/09/19 09:11 AM
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You don't 'emphasize' your wishes or 'discuss' things like this really with women because they are emotional instead of logical. You decide what you want and you lead it that way. Afterwards you can give her a cuddle and take her out for ice cream or get her some flowers to give her all the happy emotions and she'll forget she ever cared about condom use. If it doesn't work and she doesn't like the way you choose then she can find another relationship that will play by her rules. If you aren't w…
/r/askTRP09/09/19 10:23 PM
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Don't worry about it it's normal social development for a lot of guys. Just keep doing what you're doing and the awkwardness will sort itself out over time as you learn and practice. It does sounds like you could maybe benefit from talking a bit less, and putting a bit less effort into conversations. But you're just an internet stranger so who knows.
/r/askTRP09/09/19 10:10 PM
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'Toxic masculinity' is a way to shame men for being men. It's a language weapon and it's purpose is to attack feelings. It has nothing to do with logic or reality!
/r/askTRP09/09/19 10:07 PM
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Whenever you want. Pay attention to her enthusiasm levels and if you think she's feeling suffocated pull back for a while
/r/askTRP09/09/19 09:56 PM
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The philosophy of 'she's not yours it's just your turn' is bullshit. I'm not buying it. Any man who is honest with himself would love his own personal harem of women that are his favourite physical and personality type and are all loyal to just him. It's biology, you can't fight it. That's the dream and that's the ideal fantasy we have. None of us got here from ancestors who let their women fuck other guys, even if they are casual. It doesn't make sense. We want our women to only fuck us so that…
/r/askTRP09/09/19 09:54 PM
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Mentally 'red x' him. He no longer exists at your work and you no longer see or hear him. He doesn't exist in your world or in your mind. Seek out interactions with all your other colleagues as normal. If he comes and tries to join in just walk away and do something else, continuing your conversation later when he's not there.
/r/askTRP09/09/19 09:38 PM
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Women are advantaged in some areas and men are advantaged in other areas. It has always been that way and always will be.
/r/askTRP07/09/19 11:31 PM
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It's the riskiest of his suggestions though if you do it in a needy way! To be honest you can disregard all the other responses you've received because this post gives you everything you need - the rolling eyes suggestion and put down is the easiest and lowest risk IMO.
/r/askTRP07/09/19 10:55 PM
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Women like high status guys and status indicators vary across different social groups. In other words what makes a guy high status where you live might be different to what makes a guy high status where I live.
/r/askTRP07/09/19 10:13 PM
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RP is not an identity
/r/askTRP07/09/19 10:12 PM
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True. Pehaps the solution is to learn how to use it as a tool then rather than simply get rid of it.
/r/askTRP28/08/19 05:34 AM
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and instagram can be used as a tool to facilitate that life.
/r/askTRP27/08/19 10:25 PM
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Develop your social understanding of yourself and others. Everyone has their own strengths and weaknesses, you might be strong and big but suck socially, your friend might be little and weak but has awesome leadership skills. Everyone has their place and nobody is perfect. Helps you notice that you are worthy despite your weak areas; hence you are "Good enough"
/r/askTRP26/08/19 11:48 PM
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Are you trying to convince me? Or you? Not trying to convince either way, I have no personal attachment to the utility of Insta as a way to meet girls. Just saying me and mates meet girls using instagram, so why delete it...?
/r/askTRP26/08/19 11:45 PM
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Instagram is a great way to meet girls. One of the best.
/r/askTRP26/08/19 11:40 PM
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Not everyone is the same as you
/r/askTRP26/08/19 11:37 PM
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For what reason would OP get off instagram...
/r/askTRP26/08/19 11:24 PM
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On the one hand, don't let anyone else tell you what you need to do in order to earn eating candy. You choose and follow your own path with your own choices. On the other hand, you don't get to walk into the candy shop and demand it. That breaks the rules and has consequences.
/r/askTRP21/08/19 01:21 PM
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When I look at a girl with tattoos I find her less physically attractive and less inclined to pursue sleeping with her. Not saying it's logical - it's natural biology, no idea why it's the case.
/r/askTRP21/08/19 01:12 PM
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Yes she will want someone equal or higher up than her
/r/askTRP21/08/19 12:52 PM
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"She is my favourite plate" You have oneitis developing
/r/askTRP21/08/19 12:50 PM
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Stop reading crap like "6 pillars of self-esteem"! It's a woman's book 100%. You'll get self-esteem by DOING, COMPETING, and SUCCEEDING because you are a man!! That's all you need to know. Move on from 'noting exercises' in meditation as quickly as you can into actual real life activities. You want to practice being fully engaged in an activity with your mind focused and in flow. There are likely some activities where this naturally happens for you (for me it's sport), so seek out those activiti…
/r/askTRP21/08/19 12:27 PM
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Depends on the user, setting, and dose.
/r/askTRP21/08/19 10:01 AM
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Or perhaps it's more akin to a schizophrenic trying to explain the secret alien race to an ordinary person who has more mental clarity.
/r/askTRP21/08/19 09:53 AM
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"I also ignore their negative features". Bring them to light. Next time a friend calls you a bitch, call them a fat fucker.
/r/askTRP19/08/19 10:07 AM
2

This is generally a bad idea to make plans so far ahead in the future. No it's not - OP gives her a chance to look forward to meeting him + he gets a neatly organised social schedule. doing it this way means one can line up dates for the whole week if you so wish
/r/askTRP19/08/19 12:10 AM
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Pubs/bars are easy and decent atmosphere. Doesn't need to be too complicated or exciting! Wherever you go have fun so that it doesn't matter too much if she fucks you or not.
/r/askTRP18/08/19 09:03 PM
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Your life your choice
/r/askTRP18/08/19 09:00 PM
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Perhaps if he could fuck anybody he wanted he would choose virgins.
/r/askTRP18/08/19 08:08 PM
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Not really. If the slut shaming is from a position of weakness it's beta behaviour, from a position of strength it is an alpha behaviour. I don't mind if a woman has had lots of sex in her past, but I want her to be classy about it
/r/askTRP18/08/19 08:07 PM
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Men and women are different. They have different value indicators
/r/askTRP18/08/19 07:58 PM
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You choose
/r/askTRP18/08/19 07:00 PM
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It's sounds like you dislike/hate women. Do you dislike women?
/r/TheRedPill18/08/19 10:51 AM
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Hands down the worst post ever made here
/r/askTRP17/08/19 09:58 PM
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These are all pretty shallow solutions and all psychological (internal). I would suggest real life action; anger is due to a perceived injustice or a perceived lowering of status which can be rectified with action but cannot be rectified by reflection. Anger is a legitimate reaction to many situations, and can be used to demonstrate that you won't take shit. As others say though it can also be used by others to poke and prod you for a sense of control over your emotions. It all depends what you …
/r/askTRP16/08/19 10:20 PM
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They did nothing wrong to you How on earth could you possibly know that
/r/askTRP15/08/19 02:47 PM
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Pah that's bullshit. Women cause tons of suffering.
/r/askTRP15/08/19 02:46 PM
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JBP is a therapist. What he does is therapy en masse which means his followers are usually struggling in some way. That's why some people hate him - he's authentically helping disadvantaged people rather than putting on a self rightous act that many in the public sphere do. That makes all the 'fake' empathetic people look bad because it becomes obvious that they are self motivated and not genuinely interested in the plight of disadvantaged people. It can also make people jealous to see others ri…
/r/askTRP11/08/19 08:17 AM
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Never expected to see TFAS concepts applied to TRP
/r/askTRP09/08/19 12:27 PM
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Anything designed to make you chase.
/r/askTRP09/08/19 12:15 PM
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it's a good trait in the context of sexual strategy, but a poor one in other areas of life. Welcome to The Red Pill The Red Pill: Discussion of sexual strategy in a culture increasingly lacking a positive identity for men.
/r/TheRedPill09/08/19 11:07 AM
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Something isn't working in the relationship Yeah girls get periods when we want to fuck and become moody bitches. That's super inconvenient. The relationship works for 3 weeks out of every month
/r/TheRedPill09/08/19 10:13 AM
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Society is completely wacko right now and anyone who would get married in this climate is a nutter. Some women are taking the societal narrative that "all women are victims" and using that to justify bad behaviour. Using it to justify doing whatever the fuck they want. And bad behaviour is like a virus
/r/TheRedPill09/08/19 10:09 AM
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Wow you sound triggered and I'm guessing you are a woman from the way that you type. OP isn't trying to convince anyone to cheat, he's got a live and let live philosophy and is discussing an idea. All ideas are open for discussion. Re: 1. OP never said that 'the highest goal in life is to get laid as much as possible'. He's talking about the domain of your life that is your sex life. In the domain of your sex life it's an option between 1) being stuck with a nagging bitch who has the upper hand …
/r/TheRedPill09/08/19 10:03 AM
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Everywhere. In every community there are givers and takers - you gotta proactively identify the givers, and ally yourself with them by showing that you contribute too.
/r/askTRP08/08/19 02:19 PM
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This awareness is good, you seem very self-aware. It will be really tough for you when you break - like a cocaine withdrawal. And you'll probably do lots of stuff to make it worse in the short term, but long term you'll be ok, and you'll be in a much healthier place because of it.
/r/askTRP08/08/19 12:00 AM
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Why do women like to make a man miserable before he leaves?
/r/askTRP07/08/19 11:58 PM
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This guy is in a completely different place to you, it's not that easy for him
/r/askTRP07/08/19 11:49 PM
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She likes power, she treats you like crap, and she knows you'll put up with anything. It's an intentional, calculated and cold move on her part and she's probably been training you for a while now, or simply using your nature for her benefit. You're deep in the depths of it. I pray for you brother, it's not going to be easy for you.
/r/askTRP07/08/19 11:39 PM
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Soundsl like intimacy & narcissism issues and like she is intentionally getting you obsessed with her. She's gradually directing 100% of your attention and curiosity toward her and away from anything else that life has to offer. She won't touch you in public because she doesn't see you as a sexual part of her life. Pull back from her A LOT or leave and never look back
/r/askTRP07/08/19 11:35 PM
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I got it. You won't like it though. You've been in a serious relationship with her for 3+ years, and she is still dating you. For her, your relationship doesn't classify as a LTR. She's still in the early dating stage with you and isn't that keen to move you onto the next level. Your situation would be a dream if you weren't emotionally invested & living with her thinking you are in a LTR (assuming that you're fucking regularly).
/r/askTRP07/08/19 11:21 PM
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I care for this girl man. Ahhhh then it shall be you who gets fucked in the ass in this relationship
/r/askTRP06/08/19 12:16 PM
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Thank you so much for all your help - I was completely lost without you so it's a really good job you came along to share your wisdom! You've practically saved my life
/r/askTRP06/08/19 12:06 PM
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Yeah you realise you let yourself be mind fucked and she actually provided zero benefit to your life.
/r/askTRP06/08/19 09:49 AM
0

You seem very nervous of Chad is he better than you?
/r/askTRP06/08/19 09:47 AM
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You have the support of your fellow men. We are on your side
/r/TheRedPill06/08/19 09:41 AM
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It's not a belief, it's a fact - the ideology hasn't infected the courts yet. If it does reach written law then there's nothing we men can do. Our options will be tied to either 1) fucking and taking a risk of false rape accusation or 2) not fucking. And I tell ya if you know men at all then you know they aren't exactly going to take the second option whatever happens. I'll keep drunk women within my fucking range until the day my penis will no longer take it and there's nothing that #metoo can …
/r/askTRP05/08/19 11:23 PM
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fucking hell wake up - toxic masculinity doesn't exist man. It's a term made up by angry bitter women designed to pull you down and restrict your behaviour with shame for simply taking action. Don't attach that bullshit label to your behaviour ever again. Toxic masculinity does not exist.
/r/askTRP05/08/19 11:16 PM
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The final consequence will come to us all regardless
/r/askTRP05/08/19 11:08 PM
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once they feel wronged by you, they'll try and socially destroy you. Amen brother
/r/askTRP05/08/19 11:07 PM
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What's the point of being young without enjoying a little risk
/r/askTRP05/08/19 11:04 PM
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The law still backs innocent until proven guilty so there is no additional risk for you.
/r/askTRP05/08/19 11:02 PM
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Rats need 33% positive feedback to get them to keep playing a particular game. Should apply to hamsters too
/r/askTRP05/08/19 10:56 PM
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Short, concise, easy to understand, and accurate + the example in practice to boot Thanks
/r/askTRP05/08/19 10:54 PM
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To those people in the world who think that eating more food will help them to lose weight - I pray for you.
/r/TheRedPill05/08/19 10:51 PM
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*Shrugs* everyone's a critic I think you're doing a disservice to the impact of genetic differences personally. An egg in my body is different to an egg in someone else's body.
/r/TheRedPill05/08/19 10:35 PM
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Girls value LTR's way more than we do so just because she's in the mood and you're not doesn't mean that she's gonna go running off to the first guy who will shove his sausage in her bun
/r/askTRP05/08/19 10:33 PM
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And yeah that's really sad about your sister because her brain is still early stage developing. Sugar overload now will make it a lot harder for her to manage and choose healthier food when she's older and independent. I would imagine it fucks with hormones too and can cause long term problems
/r/TheRedPill05/08/19 10:27 PM
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Ah but knowing it and taking action on it are 2 very different things. People lack discipline not knowledge everybody knows that fat people need to eat less food, less often, and replace bad food (sugar, factory made food, ready meals) for good food (fruit, veg, meat). Ask any 5 year old and they'll be able to tell you that.
/r/TheRedPill05/08/19 10:24 PM
0

Why not? Daily rumps are pretty good
/r/askTRP05/08/19 10:23 PM
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For sure no-one has an excuse in the age of the internet, even the disadvantaged. How could anyone be raised with zero clue about how to eat properly with all the information around us - everyone knows what they need to do.
/r/TheRedPill05/08/19 10:19 PM
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Such a brilliant feeling of pride. You'll take that with you all the way to the grave.
/r/TheRedPill05/08/19 10:14 PM
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It's going to be a long road ahead for you bumbandit. Keep putting yourself out there even if you get some knock backs and with experience you'll figure it all out for yourself. Us randomers on an internet forum can't live your life for you. My single piece of advice is to remember throughout your experiences that as the man, you always come first.
/r/askTRP05/08/19 10:11 PM
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Not just probably - definitely. Women speak from their emotions. If they are angry then hurtful angry words will come out regardless of reality. In that moment she might believe what she is saying is true even if it isn't. If they are happy then pleasant words and actions will come from them. With some girls it can help you interact with them if you imagine them as 100% raw pink emotion rather than a living breathing human being.
/r/askTRP05/08/19 10:06 PM
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You can think about something without it being an insecurity
/r/askTRP05/08/19 10:00 PM
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Say no to LTR, and yes to a fuck. Say no to letting them know anything about where you live, what you do, who you know, what you like. Just dominate, take them to a hotel, film it for memories and never see them again.
/r/askTRP05/08/19 09:58 PM
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If you are fat it is entirely your fault. Blame it all you want on your genetics Naturally putting on fat easily is actually a stronger place to start genetically as a guy compared to being scrawny because your body is programmed to make you big. ​ If you start lifting then a fat guy very very quickly starts to lose fat and build an attractive physique. I fucking hate running and any sort of cardio but 5-15 minutes lifting weights feels like no effort at all for huge rewards ​ My brother is natu…
/r/TheRedPill05/08/19 09:54 PM
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Her face tells the story of her past
/r/TheRedPill05/08/19 07:57 PM
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No you were trying to be funny and a smartarse by undermining the SEC in this thread, so he put you back in your box.
/r/TheRedPill05/08/19 07:56 PM
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And what it could feel like
/r/TheRedPill05/08/19 01:58 PM
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Of course. One of the great things about this reality is that it is true for you too. You are allowed to be as picky and shallow as you want on the dating scene without feeling guilty about it because it's just your human nature If you want to laugh at a fatty fatty who thinks she has a chance with you because she has just the most amazing personality have at it. guilt free pleasure better than pizza
/r/TheRedPill05/08/19 01:54 PM
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As I say my only criticism is the concept of " you wouldn't do 'x', so why would they do 'x' " that is used in your initial comment. Women and men are different. They like different things and have different desires.
/r/TheRedPill05/08/19 11:28 AM
2

What if a fat guy has no money but is really tall and has a lot of muscle and physical presence?
/r/TheRedPill05/08/19 11:24 AM
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No you misunderstand. I'm attacking the concept of " you wouldn't do 'x', so why would they do 'x' " that is used in your comment. Women and men are different, therefore this logic is not sound when used to try and understand women and what they want.
/r/TheRedPill05/08/19 11:21 AM
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It's not the same, women and men find different physical builds attractive. I wouldn't want to fuck a hugely muscular chick, would you? Yet women want to fuck strong and muscular men.
/r/TheRedPill05/08/19 10:08 AM
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It never ceases to amaze me that when I do put on fat from a period of poor diet, I can lose pretty much all my belly fat in 2 days just from lifting ridiculously heavy weights and IF
/r/TheRedPill05/08/19 10:05 AM
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'Fit and skinny' Women don't want skinny. You'll get attention if you lift weights and put on some muscle.
/r/TheRedPill05/08/19 10:03 AM
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It's crazy the lengths they go to. To convince themselves, you, and the world that there is nothing wrong with them and all the world's problems lie upon your shoulders
/r/TheRedPill05/08/19 10:02 AM
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Thanks for this, great the way you laid it out because I could think about how I would have responded first, then see how you responded and compare. ​ More in the same format would be quite welcome
/r/TheRedPill03/08/19 10:46 AM
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Cheers thanks a lot for this
/r/askTRP02/08/19 02:42 PM
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Heya so a while back I wasn't aware of this and how women like to 'change stories' because the real world doesn't really mean much to them. ​ I dumped a girl and allowed her to switch it back on me over a period of 3 months so that she was the one leaving me. ​ I still 'feel' like that's the story even though I know it isn't reality. When I look back on our relationship this painful and confusing switcheroo is what I see and what dominates the memory. Any advice?
/r/askTRP02/08/19 02:33 PM
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2 things: 'estimates of physical strength determined over 70% of men's bodily attractiveness' The question didn't specifically ask about muscle, it's asking for a holistic estimate of strength which will obviously be impacted by height. The ratings were made from photographs which can hardly replicate real life attractiveness. When a girl 'feels' your height and your power over her that's what gives her the tingles. But yeah I guess it's pretty stupid to put height, muscle, fat, and skinniness i…
/r/askTRP02/08/19 02:07 PM
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Changes my whole outlook on life for the better, nothing beats it.
/r/askTRP02/08/19 09:17 AM
1

Advanced LTR shit here
/r/askTRP02/08/19 09:15 AM
1

To be fair I would complain all the time too if I bled out of my penis every month
/r/askTRP02/08/19 09:13 AM
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1st q: If you know your gf is prone to worry then it's on you because you ignored 6 calls and didn't send a text to let her know you were fine and wanted to be left alone. A simple text like 'I'm fine - need some time alone' would work 2nd q: I think you handled this situation so badly to be honest. Employees aren't computers where you press this button, then they do this (unless you are working with coders and engineers...) As manager you cannot force compliance and you cannot give silent treat…
/r/askTRP02/08/19 09:07 AM
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Yes been through the same thing, pretty much exactly. You are not responsible for her feelings in the slightest. You have to take care of yourself and put yourself first here. Just don't get in touch with her ever from this point forward unless she's very mature - she'll be in a really shitty place and might throw a ball of negative feminine energy & blame at you which will make you feel even worse. It's equivalent to a guy physically smashing a girls face in with his fist. Best thing you can do…
/r/askTRP02/08/19 08:52 AM
4

Aspergers is just extreme maleness, it's not even a disorder - it's simply a description of a certain set of strengths and weaknesses. Research shows (like you say) that high functioning autistic people can be as socially competent as anyone else with attention and practice, but they choose to pay attention to other things. They are more interested in things than people.
/r/askTRP02/08/19 08:29 AM
2

false platitudes aren't the answer to everybody's problems. This sub is about learning and improving in the domain of sexual strategy for men. It has nothing to do with groups or power, that seems to just be a consequence of how you see the world. If you don't like it go somewhere else. FYI: Platitudes are geared towards presenting a shallow, unifying wisdom over a difficult topic.
/r/askTRP02/08/19 08:27 AM
5

Uh oh OP's mum has infiltrated the thread
/r/askTRP01/08/19 08:55 PM
2

That's a nicely described concept, gold among the dross
/r/askTRP01/08/19 08:53 PM
1

sure
/r/askTRP01/08/19 06:54 PM
1

You give no reason why mine is "ill defined" I can give you a reason very clearly. 'Get what we want in life' is ill defined because people want different things. Some want freedom, some want community, some want success, some want excitement, some don't know what they want. it's an 'ill definition' because it could mean multiple different things. Clearly you know I'm right I'm not motivated by being right I am motivated to try and see what is true.
/r/askTRP01/08/19 06:48 PM
10

It's hard to believe for us guys because we see the world differently but I guarantee you it's true that women find a bigger fatter guy more physically attractive than a little skinny guy.
/r/askTRP01/08/19 05:36 PM
2

Great stuff man keep it up
/r/askTRP01/08/19 05:07 PM
0

'Get us what we want in life' This is very ill defined and unique to each person so a list makes no sense.
/r/askTRP01/08/19 05:04 PM
1

Pants > Bras
/r/askTRP01/08/19 04:37 PM
4

Very funny. I can explain to you why I said no to your post. Height - physical muscle - physical fat - physical skinny - physical money - provisional Confidence - behavioural ​ It's not reasonable to compare behavioural traits, provisional traits, and physical traits in a single inequality for what women find attractive.
/r/askTRP01/08/19 04:35 PM
6

This is a great response worthy of a post all to itself. ​ Would certainly be higher quality than this one.
/r/TheRedPill01/08/19 04:31 PM
6

No
/r/askTRP01/08/19 04:26 PM
5

Absolutely. Unless she's 5ft or something I reckon. then the 5'5 will do fine for them probably. We are really lucky as guys because all heights are fine, it just defines the range of which girls will fuck us. At 5'10 which is about average, any girl 5'6 or below will find you tall enough. And I've found from chatting with other guys we usually only find girls attractive when they are shorter than us so it works both ways. For women it's not the case - take a 40 year old woman no guy wants to fu…
/r/askTRP01/08/19 04:00 PM
17

Height > Muscle > Fat > skinny
/r/askTRP01/08/19 03:02 PM
-21

I'll keep grinding to become the best version of myself For what purpose?
/r/askTRP01/08/19 02:59 PM
1

If you are this aggressive and put on a little show of faux anger she'll laugh in your face
/r/askTRP01/08/19 02:50 PM
1

Oh I see your joke now it went straight over my head first reading. He says it's problematic for a government and him to decide what people are allowed to say but he makes constant assumption on what is "bad", "good" and what "Reddit can and can't have" I really don't hear this at all from the interview. It's like we listened to 2 different audio files
/r/TheRedPill01/08/19 02:32 PM
1

You are wrong, boundaries do work when enforced firmly. Nothing you say will make your girl not cheat I agree. That's why you give women a choice and let her know what that choice is. You tell her that if she talks to other guys socially or on facebook then she forfeits your marriage. If she chooses to do that then you will leave her because she is not living up to the expectations you have for the partnership. She's very VERY lucky that this guy married her and invited her into his life, avoidi…
/r/askTRP01/08/19 02:29 PM
1

An unwillingness to submit
/r/askTRP01/08/19 11:56 AM
9

Don't leave a marriage and kid because you found her searching an ex on facebook, that's insane. A conversation and some explicit boundary setting will do fine. something like this: "I found this on your phone when we were looking at 'x'. I'm not happy about it, it hurt my feelings and I don't want you talking to any other guys while we are married (or whatever your boundary is). You can choose whether to follow this boundary, or sacrifice our marriage together and the stability of home for our …
/r/askTRP01/08/19 11:45 AM
1

Not saying it's true in your case but this can be a strategy to hide cheating. If you are being accused of cheating then the logic goes that you won't be in a psychological position to suspect her. You're too busy defending yourself to accuse. You're on the back foot. Obviously confront her about it and attempt a mature conversation before leaving considering the position you are in with child/marriage etc...
/r/askTRP01/08/19 11:32 AM
1

I'm allowing free speech but only on things I think it's ok. - Steve Huffman What time in the interview does he say this?
/r/TheRedPill01/08/19 05:08 AM
1

Sounds like you need some therapy
/r/askTRP31/07/19 10:41 PM
1

If you can learn to speak both logic and emotions you'll be deadly.
/r/askTRP31/07/19 02:52 PM
1

You're spot on with this ignore the negs. A 40 YO man seducing a high school girl can be seen as extremely creepy by onlookers or it can be perceived as non-creepy. Imagine Bond at 40yo in an aston martin pulling up alongside a high school. 10 hot girls gather round all giddy and a couple of them are invited into the back to have a ride with him. Is that seen as creepy? Or are the girls very lucky? Teachers and parents may disapprove but they understand on a subconscious level that there is noth…
/r/askTRP31/07/19 01:10 PM
2

Listen to your massive swelling purple heart
/r/askTRP31/07/19 12:56 PM
2

It's actually more like living in a variety of frames depending on what the person viewing finds attractive. Dominance is the picture - it's what all women want. The frame is interchangeable to give desired style. ​ It is difficult and takes a lot of energy like you say.
/r/askTRP31/07/19 12:54 PM
2

Perhaps I can link a few who provide good content for you to access on your phone. You can sort by top posts to help you find some of the best content they have written: u/Whisper u/fereallyred (this is perhaps the most clever username I have ever seen. Definitely on this sub) u/mallardcove As a place to start I think someone has already linked for you but here it is again because it's absolute gold: https://illimitablemen.com/2014/12/14/the-shit-test-encyclopedia/
/r/askTRP31/07/19 10:52 AM
1

Practically the steps to take are: ​ Education in a particular field Job in the field you plan to start a business in Build contacts, experience, and earn cash in that field Start a side business to test the waters Jump out of employment and fully invest in your business if it looks promising profit and longevity wise ​ None of these steps are easy and it will take a lot of time. You can try to skip steps (everyone has heard stories of multi-billionaires who dropped out in high school, or were f…
/r/askTRP31/07/19 10:22 AM
5

Some friendly advice - Search out the endorsed contributor posts here and only pay attention to those. Only pay attention to the high quality content. There are many randoms who will give terrible advice to anyone who will listen so you'll need to filter them out.
/r/askTRP31/07/19 10:14 AM
1

What's your definition of winning?
/r/askTRP30/07/19 08:54 PM
31

Easy as that everyone
/r/askTRP30/07/19 08:38 PM
1

losers by choice
/r/askTRP30/07/19 07:48 PM
1

That all depends on whether I swallow or not
/r/askTRP30/07/19 07:34 PM
2

You can't have both 'no ownership' and 'sloppy seconds'. They contradict each other.
/r/askTRP30/07/19 07:27 PM
4

Because peasants group together and rebel while friends will help you out and enjoy doing so. I know which I prefer.
/r/askTRP30/07/19 06:53 PM
1

I know it's a real dick move but I've always enjoyed taking someone elses girl, convincing them to leave to get into a relationship with me and then dumping them
/r/askTRP30/07/19 06:39 PM
1

That's not true as adults. You get winners across many many different fields of work
/r/askTRP30/07/19 06:31 PM
4

Well that doesn't work at a certain age because you pursue different interests. So someone who works as a journalist isn't going to look at a banker and say 'Shit how do I get to the same level'. They are gonna say 'that guys majorly successful in his field, and I'm successful in my field. How can we benefit from each others expertise?'
/r/askTRP30/07/19 06:30 PM
0

I don't think you are trying to attack me. I think you are telling me to delete a post because you don't like it and to that, I'm telling you to fuck off and mind your own business. "I'm trying to tell you to stop giving advice" You are a random and have absolutely no standing to tell this to anyone. You are not the gatekeeper of who can post what and who can't. The power you have on this forum is limited to the following 3 actions; post, upvote, and downvote. That's all. I stand by what I said.…
/r/askTRP30/07/19 04:14 PM
1

"what great weather we're having" Wow can you believe the idiocy of this advice. Imagine saying that to a girl you're gaming in real life... XD She would instantly put you into a 'category of guy' that you really do not want to be in.
/r/askTRP30/07/19 04:05 PM
1

Fuck off telling me to delete posts. You're not a moderator or an authority you're just a random. Just because you don't like the way an argument is presented doesn't mean it's not true.
/r/askTRP30/07/19 03:54 PM
1

Fair point
/r/askTRP30/07/19 01:26 PM
0

Brilliant
/r/askTRP30/07/19 01:00 PM
1

Yeah no everything you say makes a lot of sense
/r/askTRP30/07/19 12:37 PM
0

Honestly the most likely way this will happen is if you don't seek it, and don't show it off. Let it glow naturally from you. If you continue to improve yourself and date other girls. Be open about the other girls (don't make a fucking scene obviously) and ignore your ex 100% until she provides you with a subtle 'in'.
/r/askTRP30/07/19 12:27 PM
1

The dating arena is a game, not too serious. Everyone does the best they can with their current experience levels and no-one is ever to blame for a failure. Best you can do is pay attention, learn, and never stop levelling up
/r/askTRP30/07/19 12:06 PM
1

Because there is risk the mistress will become the mans bottom bitch
/r/askTRP30/07/19 11:57 AM
-1

This is a weird perspective. Trp isn't about not investing anything at all, it's about smartly using strategies to get the outcome that you want. Or in other words selecting the right sort of investment for a particular situation/desired outcome
/r/askTRP30/07/19 11:56 AM
3

Breadcrumbs
/r/askTRP30/07/19 11:54 AM
0

So your natural stoicism may be attractive to drama seeking girls as a match. Tall and short go together. Pussy and penis. Drama and calm. Try acting all overly dramatic to women for a while and see who becomes attracted to you
/r/askTRP30/07/19 11:51 AM
1

"It only looks odd in your head" Someone's never been to the UK
/r/askTRP30/07/19 11:46 AM
1

Interesting perspective. Young, hot, with conservative values and a societal disrespect for sleeping around, societal respect for family are still best conditions IMO for LTR. You can train a younger girl to do things the way you want
/r/askTRP30/07/19 10:50 AM
3

When OP wasn't aware of this he was vulnerable to be taken advantage of. With wisdom he is stronger
/r/askTRP30/07/19 10:37 AM
2

Not gaslighting. Decent advice here
/r/askTRP30/07/19 10:32 AM
2

This is so true women are motivated to hamster away 'first loves' as immature and not real. So you have a big advantage in that way.
/r/askTRP30/07/19 10:24 AM
2

Perfection doesn't exist. Gotta be comfortable with making some mistakes. Imperfect action is better than passive non-action. Yes it means you'll become aware of things that you have done wrong, but in the long run that'll help you
/r/askTRP30/07/19 10:18 AM
1

Virgins are better for LTR's because you can train them how you like
/r/askTRP30/07/19 10:15 AM
3

Basically if you catch yourself thinking about something and you aren't taking any real life action on it you're ruminating.
/r/askTRP30/07/19 10:15 AM
1

Action is the solution. Practice taking action with out thinking using only your gut as a guide
/r/askTRP30/07/19 10:13 AM
2

Some truth in this. Take action and think a bit less is the remedy for you. Some people need to think a bit more and take less action. Not you.
/r/askTRP30/07/19 10:12 AM
4

Please don't it's terrible advice which will fuck you up
/r/askTRP30/07/19 10:11 AM
5

Wrong. Terrible advice. It's too passive and who the fuck spends time imagining their current girl being cummed on by other guys. You nutter
/r/askTRP30/07/19 10:10 AM
1

Wrong
/r/askTRP30/07/19 10:09 AM
3

Wrong. Don't do this. It's too passive and she'll just leave you
/r/askTRP30/07/19 10:09 AM
7

Trust your gut, if you're jealous it's because she's likely not seen enough alpha behaviour from you yet to fully eradicate memories of her ex's. You're not satisfying her desire to be sexually dominated yet and both of you know it subconsciously. My advice; pin her down, tie her to the bed and fuck her hard while pushing her face into the pillow. Do this as a kind of ceremony for yourself to 'fuck her ex's out of her'. Imagine her exes watching you and being intimidated by how strongly you are …
/r/askTRP30/07/19 10:08 AM
3

Women are very VERY good at slowly beta-ising men for their own gain and long term benefits. All young men no matter how mentally strong and resolute are at risk of this because at that age we just don't see it clearly enough. Our attention can be manipulated, our emotions used against us, and our imaginations guided in the direction a woman would like. I compare it to physical strength. We can beat up and physically kill any woman because we are naturally bigger and more physically capable. We …
/r/askTRP30/07/19 09:53 AM
3

There are definitely younger and less dicked girls around who are genuinely more innocent. I'll take those thanks especially when society begins to slut shame women again. We'll be left with a load of 35 year old dicked women shunned by society who can't find a man because us men are all choosing younger, fitter, and cleaner models. Our status increases over time and with experience. Our most exciting chapters in life are still to come. Still to look forward to. The cock carouseled old ladies: u…
/r/askTRP30/07/19 09:34 AM
3

And they see a fantasy of status so when you've been in a LTR for years, other men who are actually lower status than you LOOK higher status to the girl than they actually are. It's because the other men are new, different, and idolised by the woman. That's why you can never let a girl in, never let her get to know the real you. Keep yourself a mystery and a fantasy to her
/r/TheRedPill30/07/19 09:22 AM
2

Who is 'them'?!? ​ You are ranting like a paranoid schizophrenic
/r/TheRedPill29/07/19 10:01 PM
2

I would offer you a tinhat but you've probably already got enough
/r/TheRedPill29/07/19 09:58 PM
0

from 13:10 to 14:10 he discusses free speech. He says that it's problematic for himself, a private company (reddit) or the government to decide what people can and can't say. What ideas survive and what ideas die. He says that decision lies with the people. Surely that's a well measured opinion...? It's certainly not oppressive. He says the ideal situation is that the users of reddit debate and discuss ideas which naturally compete, develop and win/lose. That sounds good to me. The only issue is…
/r/TheRedPill29/07/19 09:55 PM
1

You shouldn't be asking me because I'm just a random guy on the internet. You have no idea who I am and you have no idea whether to trust what I say or not. I could be a bitter 55 year old man who has failed at life, I could be a useless obese human being who smells because he never showers, I could be a 16 year old girl, or maybe I could be a very successful young guy who has no idea what I'm talking about but likes to give advice on reddit anyway. My circumstances and personality are very diff…
/r/askTRP29/07/19 08:25 PM
1

Caring women are often open to a one sided open relationship - you don't need high smv. As long as she feels secure that you won't leave her for your sex buddies she'll be fine
/r/askTRP29/07/19 10:32 AM
1

Perhaps willingly get into a relationship with a 'helper' girl (ie nurse, carer, or therapist by profession) and use her for fuck loads of affection until you are satisfied and don't feel a burning need for intimacy anymore? ​ Probably easier to learn to cope with less female affection by actually getting loads of it and realising it's not all that you had felt like it would be. To know that you have the choice to have it whenever you want but you don't actually need it to be comfortable.
/r/askTRP29/07/19 09:55 AM
2

You held too much power, and too much mystery. You gave absolutely nothing away and 'neglected her needs' for intimacy in a real relationship. Imagine a game that is just too fucking hard to get past the first boss. You want to progress but there is nothing you can do to win. There is 0% chance of success with what you want so what do you do? Eventually you just give up and go play something else. ​ Also re: "I've acted the way a man should in a healthy relationship." There's not really a 'corre…
/r/askTRP29/07/19 09:50 AM
2

desire is already being negotiated by her. She started the damn negotiation
/r/askTRP29/07/19 09:17 AM
2

No no no no if you are thinking long term then this is not the way because women are very sensitive creatures and they will hate you for being so direct about it. If OP is thinking shorter term and just wants to fuck a girl with a clean asshole then yeah be direct and fuck her self esteem - doesn't matter as long as you get clean asshole.
/r/askTRP29/07/19 09:14 AM
0

Not everything in life and relationships are as simple as you think they are
/r/askTRP27/07/19 07:39 PM
2

Women cannot take their eyes off a man who 'dresses himself up' socially.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/19 05:49 PM
1

Me too
/r/askTRP27/07/19 05:38 PM
1

This is a really tough time for you man. A lot of people in this thread are calling you a cuck/loser/whatever - just remember they are probably either 17 year old virgins or 50 year old has beens who are bitter and angry about their own failed life and taking it out on you by attacking you, a random internet guy who is going through a rough time. You've probably got further than them by even making it 7 years with a girl before she got bored sexually. Everyone is on a level status on the interne…
/r/askTRP27/07/19 05:35 PM
1

well 2 excuses... Not 10 Oneitis is "the feeling that a particular woman is actually special." I don't believe she's special. I don't believe any woman is special. I think it would be easier to fuck my ex because she knows what I like, she's well trained, and she trusts me. All the groundwork has been laid already so it's a matter of effort.
/r/askTRP26/07/19 12:46 PM
13

No
/r/askTRP26/07/19 12:36 PM
5

Good advice. Another possible result of this is that she will lose any confidence she has and try to drag you down again. If she does that don't put up with it. Tell her that even though you're happy outside of the relationship you're willing to stay with her as long as she treats you well. Watch what she does to please you If that doesn't work you might have to threaten to leave her or actually leave for a while to establish a new relationship pattern. If that doesn't work then move onto to per…
/r/askTRP26/07/19 12:34 PM
9

This
/r/askTRP26/07/19 12:31 PM
1

Fuck off asshole I'm not living in your fantasy land. Don't try and shame me for seeing reality how it is. FYI I do lift to improve my performance in the sport I play, and I'm not a loser.
/r/askTRP26/07/19 12:12 PM
5

I wouldn't worry too much about it - it's natural in guys especially when we are young. Keep putting yourself out there and getting experience with women and you'll naturally develop your understanding and knowledge of women and how they work. The worst thing you could do is to stop putting yourself around women.
/r/askTRP26/07/19 12:07 PM
1

Why don't you fuck a new girl? Couple of reasons, firstly I'm not a big fan of novelty. When I find something that I like I stick with it - so I would prefer to eat my 3 favourite meals every week on rotation than look for new ones. If she became a discrete fuck buddy for life (including throughout any LTR's we have) that would be my ideal scenario. I don't think that's desperate and she won't see it that way either. Secondly I don't exactly have women lining up to fuck me, it's work to go out a…
/r/askTRP26/07/19 11:51 AM
1

That also explains why some women love racist jokes (if they consider themselves part of the 'in-group' for whiteness) and some hate racist jokes (they consider themselves more part of the 'in-group' for minorities). ​ If we can move women from identifying as minorities, and instead have them identify as 'privileged' then they will forget all about the gender pay gap, metoo, and patriarchy.
/r/TheRedPill24/07/19 08:34 AM
32

Women identify the men who are just looking for sex (and open about it) as 'fuckboys'. ​ Edit: obviously the guy has to be fuckable too to be a 'fuckboy'. Otherwise he is just a loser who wants sex but can't get it...
/r/TheRedPill08/07/19 03:22 PM
1

Or it's a habit in some domains and not in other domains
/r/TheRedPill07/07/19 10:51 AM
1

This is a great example of how a discussion/disagreement is held most effectively - both of you are listening to each other, engaging, and wrestling to deepen each others understanding
/r/TheRedPill07/07/19 10:50 AM
2

Did he stutter?
/r/askTRP07/07/19 07:31 AM
1

Strip away the dressing and do you think there is any merit to his point that hobbies have nothing to do with dominant (alpha) behaviour?
/r/TheRedPill07/07/19 07:09 AM
25

Most people don't play video games as a hobby, they use it as a time filler because it's there and it's easy. ​ It's not a choice for many, it's a lazy default. People don't realise how much more stimulating a proper hobby can be because it's 'hard work' to them.
/r/TheRedPill07/07/19 06:57 AM
16

Because the cameras are there to film scenes not to film what happens in bathrooms...
/r/TheRedPill06/07/19 09:50 AM
1

There's a lot more going on in tinder photos than physical attractiveness. ​ There are multiple indicators of traits, personality etc. within the photos and bio that girls actually pay attention to
/r/TheRedPill01/07/19 12:30 PM
1

You need to back up criticism with reason
/r/TheRedPill01/07/19 12:22 PM
5

From the sidebar: ​ Bad titles: Do x Go out alone Become x Stop doing x Can we please x We need
/r/TheRedPill01/07/19 10:00 AM
1

Most of the benefits you list are financial and men just don't want a woman to provide for them financially. If a guy like myself is earning enough money to keep his desired lifestyle going, he has no reason to look for money from relationships. Even if the world was set up so that only women received money, and men were not allowed any I would choose to live homeless rather than gain access to money from a relationship with a woman. It's just not a source of money that comes into my sphere of v…
/r/TheRedPill01/07/19 09:40 AM
1

So what benefits specifically are there for men in a marriage?
/r/TheRedPill30/06/19 10:30 AM
10

Or stand up against shitty behaviour and maintain your virtues
/r/TheRedPill29/06/19 09:18 AM
57

Don't let it surprise you any longer cookie cutter. Women despise weak men in the past, now, and forever into the future. A weak man to a woman is like a fatty fatty girl to us. That's why they're always saying 'I'm a strong independent womemmmz' because that's what they find attractive in men. They assume we find the same thing attractive.
/r/TheRedPill27/06/19 07:51 PM
3

Ok poster number 2 throwing down some idiocy. (by the way poster 1 has scizophrenia which shines some light on his comment and why the ideas were linked in a weird illogical way) Capitalism is not responsible for the societal issues that you list. It's an econmic and political structure that determines how money flows between entities and individuals. In a capitalist society if you want something you need to work for it. Capitalism = stable societal structure that drags people out of poverty in …
/r/TheRedPill27/06/19 07:34 PM
8

Read a book or two before you try to make novel connections like this. The idiocy of your argument knows no bounds. The main contributer to feelings of loneliness is not having solid genuine connections with others day to day. That has absolutely nothing to do with communism and capitalism. You can be homeless and have friends so that you are not lonely. You can be CEO of lloyds bank and have friends so that you are not lonely. I'm not saying I have the answer or a complete theory of loneliness,…
/r/TheRedPill26/06/19 08:28 PM
7

You are OP why are you talking about yourself in 3rd person... it's not at all obvious what you are saying in the original post. It is written in a very confused manner. Now with this clarification, it seems the message is 'you could do better', which is pseudo self help wrapped up and delivered in a ball of shame. Perhaps the reason you don't want it picked apart 'word by word' is because the message is weak, shallow, and self serving.
/r/TheRedPill25/06/19 09:45 AM
24

You start to notice friends who are fucked playing by old rules.
/r/TheRedPill24/06/19 10:58 PM
13

Marriage has absolutely zero benefit for a man and can cause so much pain. ​ My father has been rather successful and has earnt a ton of money all by himself. My mother refers to their money as shared, and because they are married there's nothing my father can do about it. ​ My mum can treat him like shit if she wants to and he has to put up with it or give away half his resources and go through a messy late life divorce AND RP swallow... Not a good deal. RP swallow is harder the older you need …
/r/TheRedPill24/06/19 10:56 PM
1

"Why is that guy who usually wears videogame t-shirts and unkempt hygiene suddenly wearing douchey sunglasses indoors with a bad haircut and trying to insult every girl in here?" "Oh him? He read a PUA book"
/r/TheRedPill24/06/19 10:49 PM
1

You're better off shaming some fat incel into quitting weed and hentai RPGs than telling him it's ok to do in moderation. If he picks up some SMV friendly hobbies just for the sake of pussy and thus with the wrong mindset, chances are he'll grow out of that mindset anyway Fair point ​ women will have zero clue if you do it for them or for yourself They can smell it on men like a cat can smell tuna.
/r/TheRedPill24/06/19 10:42 PM
3

You make a lot off assumptions. Just because you work on your SMV doesn't mean you'll be an attention seeking bloop. That's true. I never meant to suggest it's always true that working on your SMV will mean you are doing it for the wrong reasons - I don't believe that for a second. The commenter and OP seem to be suggesting that 100% of your time needs to be SMV increasing activities to the point of shunning hobbies and that's what I disagree with. ​ What you said about OPs approach can be said …
/r/TheRedPill24/06/19 10:17 PM
1

Then you need to work on your critical thinking skills and develop some independent thoughts.
/r/TheRedPill24/06/19 09:51 PM
3

Irrelevant. No it's not irrelevant because the guy said ' High SMV men have the privilege... You do not.' ​ He is assuming that the commenter has low SMV, so it is a very relevant comment to make. ​ Chad can play xbox four hours a day, but most of us here ain't Chad, so we can't afford losing four hours that could be spent working on your SMV. ​ I disagree with this point. If a man dedicates his life to 'increasing his SMV' it will not increase his success with women, and in many cases will actu…
/r/TheRedPill24/06/19 09:42 PM
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Excellent post with insightful points. Thanks for sharing
/r/TheRedPill24/06/19 09:38 PM
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being 1% the '1%' is not static. The people that make up the top 1% of any endeavor (including sexual competition) is constantly changing due to a variety of factors. One of the most obvious being that people grow old and die. ​ since they have, for example, lots of money, status, and so on, already. Its almost "justified". If this is what OP is trying to say it's shallow and vague bullshit that doesn't really mean anything at all. It means the original post amounts to nothing more than a low le…
/r/TheRedPill24/06/19 09:36 PM
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You do not How do you know whether he is a high value man or not? ​ I find the idea of being a 'high SMV' man or 'low SMV man' naturally to be very dubious. ​ This is because there are many ways that Men's SMV changes throughout life depending on events which are largely random, as well as simply staying alive and building more connections/resources/skills. Of course there is some genetic component, but every man alive today has successful genetics in some form or another because they have survi…
/r/TheRedPill24/06/19 09:24 PM
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This is so confused - what point are you trying to make exactly? ​ The post seems to be suggesting that people naturally have high SMV and/or low SMV, then this can be improved by certain behaviours (working out), or lowered by certain behaviours (playing video games/smoking weed) ​ Is this a fairly accurate interpretation?
/r/TheRedPill24/06/19 08:11 PM
1

"I'm not in the game of telling people what to do" 4 paragraphs later "Stop this. Now." In the title "Stop living in women's frames" Sure... Thank you for this wonderful contribution to trp.
/r/TheRedPill07/06/19 06:11 PM
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I got roped in The thing is girls can be very manipulative and effective at putting on a false persona, then slowly changing over time so that you'll accept more and more cluster fucking from them. If you think you are immune to this and have never had it happen to you, then you are exactly the sort of person at risk from a girl who does this. ​ You may suddenly find a girl like this has become ingrained so deep in your life and mind with their suction cupped tentacles that it's really difficult…
/r/TheRedPill07/06/19 10:44 AM
9

Not true, marriage rates are plummeting
/r/TheRedPill24/05/19 11:13 AM
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You can tell women that you don't believe in marriage and that you will never get married, but that you are all for a celebration of love. That way they get a party with all their friends and they get to say 'vows' while you're protected legally and not locked down forever tied to this one lady. ​ If a woman turns down a celebration of love ceremony, but desperately wants to get married then it says a lot about her unconscious/conscious desires. What's the difference? Why does she want the marri…
/r/TheRedPill24/05/19 11:11 AM
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It's not a chore - it's a fun way of interacting once you try it. ​ Like drinking beer. The first one you have at 16 tastes like shit and you pretend to like it, then as you get older and older you start to genuinely like the flavour and appreciate the experience. It's smooth and relaxing.
/r/TheRedPill22/05/19 07:54 PM
2

I don't like the thought of dying alone. Who does?
/r/TheRedPill19/05/19 09:39 PM
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.....and until you realize this, you will never pull women, let alone live a successful life. This is demonstrably false since myself and people that I have known personally have got laid regularly, and been successful in professional lives without the realisation that 'it's ok to die alone'.
/r/TheRedPill19/05/19 11:07 AM
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I guess the people who don't believe in independent thought see only indoctrination and nothing else.
/r/TheRedPill16/05/19 07:01 AM
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Oh yes I don't know how I missed that part of your comment.
/r/TheRedPill12/05/19 04:07 PM
4

no misdeed warrants the death penalty (that idea is retarded) The reason many people oppose the death penalty is the high rate of false imprisonment, not because they believe that it's too harsh a penalty. What I mean by false imprisonment is somebody being convicted of a crime that they have not committed, due to an error in the legal process/evidence/set up etc. ​ It's too high of a risk to give a final death penalty to someone who we can never be 100% certain committed the crime. It is not re…
/r/TheRedPill12/05/19 02:42 PM
1

Excellent comment thanks for sharing
/r/TheRedPill10/05/19 12:44 PM
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I wouldn't take wisdom from game of thrones, especially not the most recent seasons which are plagued by bad writing and modern faux wisdom. ​ Earlier seasons perhaps as the story is deep and not moralised. Anyone in any position can die even if they make all the 'right' decisions. Earlier seasons look at the laws of the jungle as they really are, and it's a lot more complicated than 'there are survivors and there are dogs'. Sometimes dogs survive. Sometimes snakes survive. Sometimes everyone di…
/r/TheRedPill10/05/19 11:24 AM
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Way way too many variables in play to draw the conclusions he did, and the conclusions you are making. ​ For example the subsection of women that Freud dealt with were on the craziest side of the spectrum because they were seeing a therapist for a reason. It's dangerous to play therapist to women you want to date because you'll become the person they dump their emotional shit on. ​ This strategy may get some girls attached emotionally, but it's hardly a master key as the post suggests. ​ It's al…
/r/TheRedPill10/05/19 10:49 AM
3

The cat will come now while you work if you let it choose to
/r/TheRedPill09/05/19 09:37 AM
5

So what would be a solution to emotional trauma preventing neocortex engagement? ​ Come up with some form of logical timeline of events that includes the emotional trauma, and plot a route for the future that continues that line in a direction that resolves that epoch?
/r/TheRedPill08/05/19 12:26 PM
1

You're gonna hold them accountable for their behaviour
/r/TheRedPill08/05/19 11:01 AM
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I made a post about this concept a few months ago and suggest that comparison with the local community is the appropriate size. Internet is too big, and your past self is too small. ​ If you are in the top 2% for a particular domain, that's success. It's achievable in any domain you want, because everyone's time is limited, so as long as you spend more time in your particular domain than every 50 people, you'll be in the top 2%. ​ Comparing yourself to your past self is helpful at the start but …
/r/TheRedPill06/05/19 07:48 PM
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Do you think the gender war is about increasing numbers and competition in the workforce to produce better workers then? ​ Do you think this is a careful strategy being enacted by a particular group/person or do you think it's a naturally born ideology that is running it's path? ​ Personally I think it's much more likely a naturally born ideology that some have/are using to their advantage.
/r/TheRedPill06/05/19 10:39 AM
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I take this definition to mean that you are confident when you objectively know your power. Ah yes this is right actually, I misinterpreted. ​ Having complete confidence is not arrogance - separate thing.
/r/TheRedPill05/05/19 09:42 AM
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what I like about OP is that he became powered by the rejections ​ Oh yeah I'm sure OP won't become one of the guys that I describe in the future. I reckon he'll be one of the ones to read the sidebar links, he sounds bright enough to be able to understand it all, and brave enough to try putting it into action.
/r/TheRedPill05/05/19 09:30 AM
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Confidence is being willing to be wrong and knowing you’ll be ok if you are. This is not the definition of confidence (I offer dictionary definition below), but if we are working with your definition of confidence then definitely OP can aim for more of that and it will help move him towards his goal. ​ I'm still uneasy about having confidence (dictionary definition confidence) as the goal itself. The goal is to have all the sex that you want to have - confidence comes from improving at the skill…
/r/TheRedPill05/05/19 09:21 AM
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Women today are awful at cooking Women have always been worse at cooking than men. It is a caring job which is why their role was to cook for the family in the past. Women tend to be better carers. ​ Women don't know what their role is anymore.
/r/TheRedPill05/05/19 08:21 AM
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I don't know about you but in my experience the guys who are 100% confident in themselves are the worst and often don't do well with women. ​ They assume they know everything already so they don't read the sidebar, they don't read good material about how to strategically approach and they do stupid things to embarrass themselves! ​ These people lack self awareness because their subconscious tells them 'you're great you're doing the right thing! You are awesome and you don't need to improve!' whe…
/r/TheRedPill05/05/19 08:06 AM
2

Moral of the story is you have to take action in order to learn. And what specifically did you learn from the experience?
/r/TheRedPill05/05/19 07:55 AM
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It's quicker that's for sure
/r/TheRedPill02/05/19 07:56 PM
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Good point, I would suggest that what you understand from the phrase 'contributing to society' is different to what I mean by 'trading value to society'. Let me explain what I mean with an example. ​ Imagine you are so funny, that you make it onto a stage in front of hundreds. They love your comedy and you are put on a stage in front of thousands. Still loved and you get a show on netflix. You get money, and satisfaction from trading the value you have to society. ​ It's not necessarily that you…
/r/TheRedPill30/04/19 12:18 PM
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except MGTOW disavows women... I love women.
/r/TheRedPill30/04/19 09:23 AM
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All this investment to make yourself attractive means you are investing a huge amount of time and effort into doing something with a reward in mind. That's just being the best of the blue pill you can be. If you commit to action with the expectation that women will find you attractive because of it, then it is not real RP, it is fake. ​ Ideally you want to do the above slowly and at your own pace for your own benefit. That way if you're dumped after 5 years even when you are doing all this shit …
/r/TheRedPill29/04/19 03:26 PM
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This post sounds a bit brainwashy
/r/TheRedPill29/04/19 09:51 AM
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Maybe we should allow long term women in our lives to do what they choose sexually Edit: The meaning behind my words has been lost on most... Don't take it so literally and think a bit deeper. Remember TRP is all about accepting the truth of reality.
/r/TheRedPill28/04/19 12:31 PM
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Looks to me like a lot of men will choose relationships with AI machines long term, and THOTs will be very unhappy about that. I mean look at porn, many men prefer to watch porn than fuck their long term partner because it's easier and less bitchy. Imagine porn in the form of virtual reality, or a realistic robot. No way a THOT can compete. We tend to take the path of least resistance and a realistic robot specified to your own desired physical preferences, as well as a personality designed by y…
/r/TheRedPill28/04/19 12:25 PM
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Because awareness is power
/r/TheRedPill28/04/19 12:02 PM
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Nothing in his post indicated anger
/r/TheRedPill28/04/19 11:51 AM
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Perhaps. ​ I'm unconvinced of your reasoning that suggests women are completely satisfied and that is why they are not offering marriage. In my experience women are the ones who want to get married. ​ Women are not satisfied with short term attention from thirsty men, they want a long term and healthy relationship that is guaranteed for life with some excitement on the side. At the moment women are not getting what they want, and it's going to be difficult for them to get it when they reach mid-…
/r/TheRedPill28/04/19 10:07 AM
1

Wow you just threw a massive bunch of pearls before some swine.
/r/TheRedPill28/04/19 09:08 AM
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Are there enough beta's? The marriage rate is plummeting and more guys than ever are avoiding long term relationships.
/r/TheRedPill28/04/19 08:50 AM
2

An oxpecker can take up residence on top of a zebra. The oxpecker eats all the little bugs and parasites that are on the Zebras back, so it gets a nice big hearty meal and the Zebra gets a clean. The Oxpecker will also fly into the air and screech when a predator is nearby, alerting the Zebra to a potential danger and possibly saving it's life.
/r/TheRedPill27/04/19 10:55 PM
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Paracitism is one form of mutually beneficial relationship and is what you are descibing. It is not a desirable relationship for the individual being drained. Commensalism and mutualism are other forms of symbiotic relationships that humans are capable of and involve no significant detriment for either party. Mutualism involves a benefit for both parties and many animals are capable of this both within their own species and with others. If Monkeys can do it men and women can do it. when you say …
/r/TheRedPill27/04/19 10:45 PM
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Marriage provides no sexual value for men apart from a realistic and responsive sex toy, however it can provide value in other ways. Woman are excellent at 2 things that I know of: caretaking and emotional intelligence. Caretaking is helpful to ensure that your progeny makes it to adulthood as competent and effective human beings who can pass on your genes. The caretaking skill can also be used to benefit the man in a relationship if he chooses to engineer it that way. Emotional intelligence can…
/r/TheRedPill27/04/19 10:51 AM
3

Is it a problem if mules want to be chained? If you come across a chained mule you have a few options broadly categorised into a T junction. 1. Make him aware of his situation/help him unchain himself/cut the chain 2. Feed and praise him/tell him he's a good little pet/tell him he's a big dog who can do whatever he wants in life. Option 1 you make him aware of his situation; does he not get depressed, unpredictable and possibly angry at you? If option 2 a chained mule is fed and praised for bein…
/r/TheRedPill27/04/19 10:32 AM
3

If you are going to accuse OP of using EQ in the wrong context, then you will need to substantiate your accusation and explain yourself rather than simply state it as a 'fact'.
/r/TheRedPill25/04/19 09:33 PM
3

They just hate the world really and are dealing with it by trying to cause others pain.
/r/TheRedPill22/04/19 10:43 PM
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It's become fashionable for women to be as much like a man as they possibly can, that's it really. ​ It'll pass in time
/r/TheRedPill22/04/19 01:24 PM
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Yeah nice that's exactly it. ​ I get the impression the original post is looking at holding frame through quite an inflexible and definite lens. As if it always has to apply in every situation all the time. ​ It perceives defiance as equal to 'holding frame' as opposed to what holding frame actually means which is choosing healthy behaviours within a frame at the appropriate time and location. (healthy behaviours and appropriate time/location being judged by yourself and what you want rather tha…
/r/TheRedPill22/04/19 01:20 PM
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of course they wanna be with the strong hunter who can hunt his own food rather than the wimp who depends on the hunter for survival. It's not A or B as this part suggests. You are not either a lone wolf or a pathetic loser there are other options. ​ Another option is you can hunt with others even though you don't depend on them for survival. ​ And another option is you can hunt for others and have them repay you in other ways. It's a community. ​ There are many options to choose from and many s…
/r/TheRedPill22/04/19 12:57 PM
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What would you do if someone at a gathering asked you to pour them a drink?
/r/TheRedPill22/04/19 12:53 PM
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A person who belligerently 'holds frame' and refuses to comply with all requests from other males is behaving like a 2 year old in an adults body.
/r/TheRedPill22/04/19 10:31 AM
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The only way to end it properly is to be 100% sure and committed to the decision regardless of what happens after the words leave your mouth. Once it's done it is done. ​ Don't let her manipulate you, don't fool yourself into going back to her once it's finished, don't think you can fuck her after without consequence. Just end it, leave, and never breathe another word to her. She'll likely be super angry because girls do not take well to rejection and often look for revenge. You gotta protect yo…
/r/askTRP15/04/19 09:31 PM
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I'm still not 100% sure what you are worried will happen - is it simply a false sexual assault allegation or an office politics movement against you? Or something else? ​ I'm not sure choosing behaviours based on fear will lead a person to the life of safety and security that they desire. Obviously sometimes it is prudent to make decisions based on risk analysis (in other words fear).
/r/TheRedPill15/04/19 08:39 PM
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Very true. Fall back/defence needs to be solid. ​ Don't feel like you're surrounded by enemies, there are still many men (and women) that don't buy the metoo bullshit as evidenced by online communites like this one. A lot of people are just scared to speak up in real life - if you find yourself in a precarious position try telling the truth to those around you and see what support you get. You might be surprised. ​ In addition to social support, courts where I live generally uphold the truth and…
/r/TheRedPill15/04/19 08:10 PM
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They'll believe me. I'm pretty good at fighting my corner and building a support network ahead of time that will be a safety net. ​ If I like a woman at work and she's receptive I'm going to try and fuck her despite what reddit guy #1 says. ​ Remember she's the woman with volatile emotions and a manipulative disposition. I am the man with a calm and rational point of view.
/r/TheRedPill15/04/19 07:48 PM
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... explain how one would lose their job by fucking coworkers
/r/TheRedPill15/04/19 07:21 PM
26

Exaggeration is funny. Autism is not
/r/TheRedPill15/04/19 07:19 PM
1

Knowledge is a powerful yet dangerous thing. If it's a core truth then accept it and adapt.
/r/TheRedPill14/04/19 11:13 AM
1

Nope not once. I'll just say something like 'right if you get first round I'll get second' or something like that and they happy to do it. Sometimes the girl will make a little fuss but she's fine with it really. Like she might do a little light hearted test/joke and say 'wowww you invited me out and want me to pay?'. And I'll just say something like 'yeah you're a fucking adult too aren't ya!' then we laugh and move on. It's not a big deal and won't make things awkward unless you let it.
/r/TheRedPill12/04/19 01:56 AM
1

Splitting the bill as an action itself does nothing to communicate alpha or beta. It depends on why you take the action, and how you do it. Is it a choice you made? Are you gonna stick by that choice regardless of how she reacts? Or are you taking the choice because that's what you think you should do to 'be alpha'? Are you doing it because someone on reddit told you to? Or are you thinking for yourself and choosing the action you want to do? Yes definitely I personally often invite out girls an…
/r/TheRedPill12/04/19 01:40 AM
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Dunno I don't think about that really, it's never been a problem. I don't advertise the fact that I have money, and never use it as a way to peacock so that probably helps. It means replies are more likely to be genuine. I value myself outside my wealth and expect women to as well. Sometimes I do pay for both depending on how I feel about it, but it's always a choice. I'm not overly keen to pay for a girl I don't know very well and I'm careful not to imply that I will pay. If you really wanted t…
/r/TheRedPill12/04/19 12:19 AM
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To be fair false sex assault accusations is always a risk when you sleep with women. It's one of only a few tools they have to use when trying to gain the upper hand or explain away sex decisions they don't wanna take reaponsibility for. That applies whether you 'use game' or not (whatever the hell that even means...)
/r/TheRedPill11/04/19 11:57 PM
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I seem to remember a little experiment done on a uni campus where 50% of women said yes to a request for dinner, and only 1% to 'wanna fuck'. ​ Most women don't wanna feel like a monkey, even when they wanna be fucked like one. So you gotta give them an excuse to act like a monkey. ​ I usually use 'wanna drink?' or 'wanna grab something to eat?' with a pretty high success rate. Conversion of date to fucking is worth the investment too. ​ I always go somewhere I would go anyway so if they aren't …
/r/TheRedPill11/04/19 11:39 PM
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Sometimes it's beneficial to look at something and say 'hang on, let me think for myself a second'. A person might feel good for playing computer games! Maybe shame is non existent in a person with free choice. Maybe they enjoy it and it's an important part of their life. When they 40, they can reminisce about playing video games, that's a nice thing to have! They can make friends with others who like video games and share experiences with them if they want to. That guy who allowed himself to be…
/r/TheRedPill11/04/19 12:59 PM
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Men get more attractive to women as they get older
/r/TheRedPill05/04/19 09:38 PM
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This post really over complicates matters. ​ Woman are choosers for short term sex due to supply and demand. Always have been. It's not something they actively 'engineer'. ​ Men are choosers for long term relationships due to supply and demand. Women of this generation are gonna realise they fucked up when they want to settle down at 30-35 and the good men have the option of marrying a 21 year old fresh out of university, or a dried up ex-slut with permanent dick stains inside of her. ​ If you a…
/r/TheRedPill04/04/19 03:48 PM
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None of those labels really matter. Who cares if wanting a young sexy woman is seen as toxic and misogynistic by some people? When you're fucking a sexy fit 21 year old you're not gonna be worried about what Jenny down the road thinks about it, you just do it for you because it's what you want and you only live once. Jenny will just have to deal with it
/r/TheRedPill04/04/19 03:35 PM
3

This is a weird comment. You been on shrooms?
/r/TheRedPill29/03/19 10:07 PM
1

Aren't we in the age where all are equal and there are no winners or losers ​ If you believe that's true then you are not seeing straight, and you haven't persisted in developing a skill. Become competent at something and show it off. The world will notice.
/r/TheRedPill29/03/19 05:51 PM
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Brilliant. You would also prefer to be the wing of a chicken than the ass of a cow. You would prefer to be the breast of a chicken than the ass of a cow. Basically, just don't be the ass of a bovine and you'll do fine.
/r/TheRedPill29/03/19 02:41 PM
1

True that it has limited use. ​ I'm talking specifically when you compare yourself to others, then the appropriate size of comparison is something along the lines of your immediate community/city/town, rather than the internet world which is too big, and your past self which is too small (and patronising for a man imo)
/r/TheRedPill29/03/19 01:21 PM
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We all compare ourselves to others - including you. ​ It's a biological thing that every one of us has, and cannot get rid of. ​ If you think that you don't compare yourself to others, what is likely happening is that you subconsciously compare yourself favourably with others, meaning you have high self confidence. That's probably because you are successful within a few domains, and/or are content with where you are now.
/r/TheRedPill29/03/19 01:15 PM
2

You've said it yourself that the reason many are depressed now is because their standards have been reframed to a global perspective. It's wrong to look at the world that way. ​ Imagine the best cello player in the world is in brazil. All the girls in your local area (which is A LOT of girls) aren't exactly going to travel to brazil and fuck this dude if there's a perfectly good cello player that comes close living 1 road away. ​ + you aren't going to fuck my girls because you likely live far aw…
/r/TheRedPill29/03/19 11:53 AM
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Edit: I've mulled this over and yes, that's what I'm saying and I don't believe it's myopic. I see it as practical. If you are having confidence problems then keeping the blinders on allows you to concentrate, at least for the initial years of learning something new. ​ Original reply: The idea is to look at reality and recognize that you will be a small fish in any new pond. ​ There are many fish that don't even jump in and get wet, and those fish are the real losers. They die out there. ​ You w…
/r/TheRedPill29/03/19 11:46 AM
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