Hey guys,

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Brand new to TRP, slowly digesting as much as I can. Sorry for the long text, but I'm hoping to get a little advice.

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So I'm 36, was chasing a 23 year old for 7 months or so (by chasing, I mean I made it clear I liked her but didn't over pursue. She texted me EVERY day for almost 7 months straight. I always responded, because this was pre-red pill.

She says she appreciated my persistence, but the age difference was something tough for her to get over.

I said cool, no problem. Ended up fucking a few other girls. She caught wind of this, and weirdly saw me out and texted me to come over that night. I said no, I was busy.

She texted me the next day "Drunk Sara really wanted to fuck you last night, sober Sara is still considering it"

The normal texting goes on, we go to lunch a shit ton, and my instincts are that she is just using me for validation.

Finally, one night I go over (again, after she catches wind of another girl) and I fuck her. It was ho-hum at best, almost like she was just doing it to dangle the carrot.

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Since then she has called me drunk SEVERAL times to come over, most of the time I have turned her down because I was in no condition to drive myself.

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Monday I was in the area, and needed to do something near her place in the morning, so asked to come over. She agrees. We watch TV and go to bed, and she essentially shoots down my advances.

Now the texting has dropped off considerably. I either did something to turn her off or she has another dude.

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Here is the problem. We have a trip booked to Vegas in 2 weeks that she already paid for. We are going with another couple that I am close with. She was very, very excited about this... and now I can feel in my gut like she isn't into it or may cancel even though the flights and rooms are booked.

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I know I should not give a shit if this happens. HOWEVER, is there anything I can do to try to turn this situation around before we leave, just so the trip isn't fucking awkward as hell if she still goes? I understand I will likely get shit on for this post b/c one-itis, etc. I just want this trip to be fun and not feel like shit if she ends up making everyone feel weird and is cold to me the whole time.

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tl:dr : Vacation (already paid for) with a girl, all of a sudden cold to me after several months of being an awesome friend/fwb (only once), want to avoid awkward vacation if she doesn't cancel