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No you can't.
/r/askTRP07/11/19 06:27 PM
1

Wrong. Try again.
/r/askTRP07/11/19 05:50 PM
1

You tell me. He's you.
/r/askTRP07/11/19 05:46 PM
1

No, fuck that. That's who you think you are. You're not that guy anymore. You're Tim.
/r/askTRP07/11/19 05:39 PM
1

Ok. Who are you?
/r/askTRP07/11/19 05:24 PM
1

20 a day, for 30 days.
/r/askTRP08/10/19 10:48 AM
1

I've tried direct. It's fucking fun. But not efficient, effective etc. Only worked one time. Indirect.
/r/askTRP07/10/19 07:08 PM
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Yes.
/r/askTRP26/09/19 08:04 AM
39

Cause you don't feel you "deserve" the hotter one and are putting her up on a pedestal
/r/askTRP26/09/19 08:03 AM
6

Laurence Fishburne walked up to me in a leather jacket... Your story doesn't matter, yet. My story doesn't matter, yet. And when it will, we won't care that it does. Focus on yourself.
/r/askTRP24/09/19 08:17 AM
20

Thanks for reminding me what I was like at 19, and what hunger looks like again. I let fear and superficial pleasures and the uninformed opinions of others and their agendas get in the way. My hunger, and ambition have never let me down. Stay safe kid.
/r/TheRedPill23/09/19 06:17 AM
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I wish I had a time machine so I would never have to have witnessed this mediocrity. This sub really has gone to shit. It's gone fucking blue pill. 14 year olds are not qualified to give advice. What happened to specific, helpful advice among men? There is more than one decline at play.
/r/askTRP10/09/19 08:00 PM
1

I have no anxious thoughts. Your generic advice is the enemy of value and if you have nothing better to say it may be better to not speak at all.
/r/askTRP10/09/19 07:56 PM
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Atleast it'll shut her up and make her focus on what's important, you
/r/askTRP10/09/19 04:37 PM
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:).
/r/askTRP10/09/19 04:31 PM
1

Cool, will try
/r/askTRP10/09/19 04:27 PM
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:).
/r/askTRP10/09/19 04:26 PM
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Your response is not as good as you think it is and does not address the problem, directly or indirectly. I am unconcerned with whether I have a chance or not, because I know I do, I'm concerned about avoiding drama.
/r/askTRP10/09/19 04:16 PM
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Yeah, my assuming was definitely not good. I'm not entirely sure your method will work, but if nothing better comes up I'll give it a shot.
/r/askTRP10/09/19 04:07 PM
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I'm not worried about the chance, I know I have it. I'm worried about any resulting drama in this class, which I really don't need or want
/r/askTRP10/09/19 04:05 PM
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Living up to the username. The point of your response had some merit but it's so badly made that I don't want to respond to it. Suffice it to say, I do talk to her, I don't have oneitis, and there is a thing such as vetting. If you act high value enough I may show you, but being a gronk and not adding value is a waste of everyone's time.
/r/askTRP10/09/19 04:03 PM
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What's the point of helping you if you've already admitted defeat?
/r/askTRP10/09/19 03:37 PM
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Unless it's a medical issue, no.
/r/askTRP10/09/19 03:35 PM
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"Did you ever care about me?" Pressure flip. "I don't know. I'm just worried about the military. Let's meet up" if you wanna meet up basically change the subject
/r/askTRP10/09/19 02:44 PM
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Car. Elevator. Roof. Alleyway. Bathroom. Behind a tree. Pick one.
/r/askTRP10/09/19 02:41 PM
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Depending on my mood and the vibe, I'd either say "hmmm", change the subject because she was boring me, or say "They must have pretty low standards hahaha"
/r/askTRP10/09/19 02:38 PM
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Absolutely. Check out the 5 stages of Red Pill (or 5 stages of being Red Pill) post on the main sub
/r/askTRP10/09/19 02:36 PM
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Nothing happened and then a post was made about it
/r/askTRP10/09/19 12:25 PM
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Are you likely to see her in your life regularly in your everyday life? Does she know any of your family, sexual or social circle or potentially could?
/r/askTRP10/09/19 12:15 PM
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No, because how else did our relationship start?
/r/askTRP10/09/19 12:07 PM
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Yes, they get off doing things for you. Don't reciprocate in the form of gifts. Service is the ideal of sexual expression for women, strength is for men.
/r/askTRP10/09/19 12:06 PM
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Your main mistake was continuing to act cool/cocky when she withdrew. You've got to learn to calibrate when you're running game otherwise you're going to keep running into situations like this. Also, keep your emotions in check. Your success or failure with women should not affect your emotional state or personal view.
/r/askTRP10/09/19 12:03 PM
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Yup. You're right. This is pretty par for the course. You handled it decently well. Now just don't overthink it and enjoy gaming other women
/r/askTRP09/09/19 08:15 PM
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Doing what I wanted to do did wonders for my mental health. Other than that, getting enough sleep (min 6hrs) and eating right enough of the time is important to me.
/r/askTRP09/09/19 08:10 PM
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On a scale of 1-10, how happy are you with the fact you lie to yourself, and assuming you could ever muster up the balls to, would you put a gun in your mouth in 5 years or 10?
/r/askTRP09/09/19 07:50 PM
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You seem like a smart and capable young man, which just goes to show that smart, capable young men also don't know what to do with their lives, and despite their intelligence and capability have no clue what they care about and do what others and society tells them (military, exit rat race, medical school, trading stocks, upward mobility, great offers). You keep waiting for the world to give you opportunities and give you a mission, and despite talking about working your ass off, you're unwillin…
/r/askTRP09/09/19 07:47 PM
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I think my initial answer was "I believe in a future I create" and while that's technically true, I'm more invested in me and my ability and desire to create and build the future I want to live in, for myself and the world, the real answer would be that I don't hope, I don't blindly follow or trust, I don't have blind hope in the future. I'm not looking for salvation. Emotional or spiritual validation of the correctness of my existence and actions. I just focus on the present and do, and I keep …
/r/askTRP09/09/19 07:40 PM
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Paperwork?
/r/askTRP09/09/19 07:33 PM
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You have such a long way to go, my heart aches for you.
/r/askTRP09/09/19 07:27 PM
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Hahaha oh yeah I'm so jealous, I'm so jealous of every incel out here who thinks he's red-pilled getting their just desserts waiting for "quality, traditional women" hahaha. Your ideal outcome is my weekend.
/r/askTRP09/09/19 07:22 PM
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"I hope the waitress brings out the peanuts soon before I go und-glug glug glug". Honestly, don't you have something better to do with your life than spend money, time and thoughts on a girl you haven't even had sex with and you only kind of like, who isn't that great to begin with?
/r/askTRP09/09/19 07:18 PM
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Don't make TRP your excuse for dropping out.
/r/askTRP09/09/19 07:14 PM
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Because some sex is better than no sex and sex is fun
/r/askTRP09/09/19 07:13 PM
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Tiny like Danny DeVito
/r/askTRP09/09/19 07:11 PM
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Hahaha "met the traditional woman of my dreams-she acts like a traditional woman" yeah no shit Sherlock. You wanted to go back to the olden days, there you have it.
/r/askTRP09/09/19 07:10 PM
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The answer you need is not the one you want to hear
/r/askTRP09/09/19 07:01 PM
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The question of whether you should text first is as irrelevant as a man wondering if he should get the peanuts as the plane he's on crashes l into the Atlantic. Thanks for reminding me what the blue pill looks like, and how hard it was to move past from it.
/r/askTRP09/09/19 06:58 PM
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Listen kid, you don't know what you're talking about. Don't make it worse for yourself by being unwilling to learn. At some point, you've got to switch off the computer and head into the real world, and it doesn't matter what Internet comments there are then, you might as well be prepared and happy. Cheers.
/r/askTRP09/09/19 06:53 PM
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You don't understand how kino works. You don't understand how comfort works. You've over invested in a girl. May I also have some free money?
/r/askTRP09/09/19 05:23 PM
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Ok. Then there's only one possible reason. You're in love
/r/askTRP09/09/19 05:20 PM
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None of you understand how either sexual politics works or what it means to blow off steam. Incel horde, strikes again.
/r/askTRP09/09/19 05:19 PM
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He's literally saying he's meeting a lawyer, what more can he do except take care of himself for a minute and get prepared for what's coming up. You think if he gets 10 lawyers and wins the case, that's going to solve his problems? His teams, his friends, his girls, his reputation, the stigma, his anger? He needs all the legal help he can get, but he also needs a life after this and needs to move on. He'll only be defined by this if he lets himself be, and you yahoos are acting like that's all h…
/r/askTRP09/09/19 11:42 AM
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How often do you jack off and how long do you go for? Is it only with this girl or with other girls too?
/r/askTRP09/09/19 11:36 AM
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It's like you guys want to be depressed and angry, for the rest of your lives. Incel horde, strikes again!
/r/askTRP09/09/19 11:34 AM
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I'm not asking him to ignore it. He's already seeing a lawyer. He doesn't need legal advice from me rn, he needs personal advice. Thanks for your comments! Have a nice day :)
/r/askTRP09/09/19 08:34 AM
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Indeed. Tell me more
/r/askTRP09/09/19 08:07 AM
-1

Ofcourse you are
/r/askTRP09/09/19 08:01 AM
0

I was right :/
/r/askTRP09/09/19 07:58 AM
1

Oh no. You're a waste of time. Curses!
/r/askTRP09/09/19 07:56 AM
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"Hi, wanna fuck" hahaha "I'm doing X (activity I love) at Y time and place. Join me"
/r/askTRP09/09/19 07:43 AM
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Only one way to find out
/r/askTRP09/09/19 07:40 AM
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How much did you spend on this woman without escalating at high emotion times and with escalating at pure comfort, post-payment times?
/r/askTRP09/09/19 07:26 AM
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It doesn't. It helps him not kill himself. He's already seeing a lawyer. Don't make him the scapegoat of your anger, he has a life to live.
/r/askTRP09/09/19 07:24 AM
1

Because fun is fun and having fun is good.
/r/askTRP09/09/19 07:16 AM
1

Depending on how well I know her I say "to hangout" or some other thing I'm actually interested in her about
/r/askTRP09/09/19 07:14 AM
1

Look up "I can't unbeta-fy you" or some similar title by FieldLine on the main sub. It's also in the sidebar
/r/askTRP09/09/19 07:11 AM
4

K. I'm not going to let a 19 year old actually ruin his life based off the action of one attention seeking whore.
/r/askTRP09/09/19 07:06 AM
1

I faced something similar, and it was frustrating. It could be one of two causes. What's your porn usage like?
/r/askTRP09/09/19 06:48 AM
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If you can't game in a club, an environment specifically designed for gaming and fucking, don't get your genes trunks because they will not be entering the gene pool, atleast not by you
/r/askTRP09/09/19 06:46 AM
1

How can you be friends with someone you've never met?
/r/askTRP09/09/19 06:29 AM
3

I don't have a choice. Get abundance.
/r/askTRP09/09/19 06:15 AM
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First off, go for a very long drive, just let it soak in, let yourself process your anger. I'm telling you now, it'll be ok. Focus on the future and not the past.
/r/askTRP09/09/19 06:12 AM
3

Go out and do it. Getting market tested was way better than theorising. I learnt a lot about my strengths and deficiencies in the sexual marketplace
/r/askTRP09/09/19 06:08 AM
1

Read Sex God Method.
/r/askTRP09/09/19 04:54 AM
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None tbh
/r/askTRP09/09/19 04:53 AM
1

Yes...it's this generation which started it...
/r/askTRP09/09/19 04:53 AM
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No you're not. He's not really your problem. Enjoy yourself.
/r/askTRP09/09/19 04:48 AM
1

There will only be drama if you let there be drama.
/r/askTRP07/09/19 06:05 PM
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How long did you wait?
/r/askTRP07/09/19 05:59 PM
1

It is certainly possible, and effective for a while. But it doesn't end well for you
/r/askTRP07/09/19 05:57 PM
1

I would advise you to try setting up low-key logistics one more time before giving up and letting her put in the work
/r/askTRP07/09/19 05:54 PM
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You should not respond
/r/askTRP07/09/19 05:53 PM
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Yup, and it is discussed
/r/askTRP07/09/19 05:51 PM
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Let me give you some more advice. Shut the fuck up. Spend the next 6 months figuring out exactly, truly what you care about, and then own it. That's the best way you can thank me. I wish you the best of luck. A lifetime of pain wasn't worth not having the balls to do what I really wanted to do sooner.
/r/askTRP06/09/19 02:48 PM
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Hahaha. Oh man. It's like looking in a mirror when I was 16. And afraid. For the first time in my life, I didn't know what to do. Gifted, potential, muliple interests. And all I wanted was money, power and to make my family proud. What made me tick was business. Hmm fuck yeah. Innovation, entrepreneurship, changing the world for the better through capitalism. And making a lot of money and yes, power, in the process. I thought I'd find something stable that interests me, because business isn't re…
/r/askTRP06/09/19 02:20 PM
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Tell me which part of my solution is ego-driven and which part of yours isn't.
/r/askTRP06/09/19 10:49 AM
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What is the industry? The industry is people who shoot, produce and distribute things. The industry consists of people who create. Actors who create performances, crew who create the movie, and producers who create the administration and distribution necessary to create a profit. If you become a PA, you become a part of a machinery, which is "good" because you're "in the industry", but you don't create, which means you're not. If you want cinematography work, you're going to show people what you…
/r/askTRP06/09/19 09:57 AM
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Yup. Live and learn. Get it out of your system in a small way and move on. When you're sufficiently emotionally distanced in a day or two, learn from it
/r/askTRP06/09/19 09:53 AM
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Abundance is having options, and the security that comes from the confidence in the knowledge that you can create options for yourself, whenever you want. It's the having of so much choice in what matters to you that while you have worked hard, work hard and continue to work hard to get what you want, if any particular option fails, falls through or doesn't work, you're not left in a position of destitution, emotional or financial, and within 5 seconds you can reset in such a way that ensures th…
/r/askTRP06/09/19 09:52 AM
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K.
/r/askTRP06/09/19 09:21 AM
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Take him off the pedestal.
/r/askTRP06/09/19 09:15 AM
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You're going to look like an ass regardless, in her eyes. The important thing is you don't look like one in your eyes.
/r/askTRP06/09/19 09:13 AM
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Yup. Don't worry, she just needed you to have a reaction and for her to feel like she "won" the breakup. By having a reaction she wanted to know you still cared so she could say "You know what, I don't even care" "I'm so over him, he was a baby, I'm so cool". The bad news is you broke frame. The good news is she probably won't bother you again, much. She's just happy knowing you care.
/r/askTRP06/09/19 09:11 AM
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Pretty much. With advances in technology and an topsy-turvy financial future, as well as pressures to start a career etc., more women ignore their biological and natural instincts to have kids and settle down as a family earlier in their 20s and defer that to their late 20s, early 30s and beyond. They can't afford to have kids, but taking care of a puppy and channeling that love and desire to mother to them, they can afford and manage a dog. Plus, women like cute nonesense (like babies) and dogs…
/r/askTRP06/09/19 09:08 AM
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Ok. Good stuff. I get where you're coming from. I know you're going to hate me saying this hahaha, but you are a smart kid. Why? You're already miles ahead of most people your age. By a very long shot. Own it :). Don't let your self-esteem get in the way of your talents. Secondly, why do you want to pursue a career in the secret service? Answering that would give us more background on how to help you with your question so that you're in a position to use the downtime to your benefit rather than …
/r/askTRP06/09/19 09:05 AM
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Are you saying things you want to say and other people want to hear?
/r/askTRP06/09/19 09:00 AM
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I'll keep that in mind, thanks! I look forward to seeing you on the cover of Forbes :)
/r/askTRP06/09/19 08:36 AM
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"college cass" "87.5% women" That's not shitting where you eat. That's just going to a buffet. You don't go to a buffet and worry about the price of each free re-fill to the buffet company do you? Just don't be...autistic about it. You're there to be in class first.
/r/askTRP06/09/19 08:34 AM
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Only one way to find out. Accept the invitation. Keep a back up plan. If it turns out its not going anywhere, make an excuse about the backup plan and leave. Sometimes the most high value thing I do is leave parties haha.
/r/askTRP06/09/19 08:22 AM
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Foot in what door? You work in film. Grab a camera and shoot something. Why are you waiting for someone to hand you an opportunity in an artistic field? Go make something.
/r/askTRP06/09/19 08:19 AM
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Your "gym bros". They see a new guy with no mission in his life they can take advantage of by taking on their mission and using his time for their advantage. If you don't have a mission, the world is more than happy to find one that helps it and not you.
/r/askTRP06/09/19 08:17 AM
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Yeah, online is your best option. You'll quickly learn a lot about yourself.
/r/askTRP06/09/19 08:14 AM
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Good. Atleast the conversation is going somewhere now. Better than "Guys I've been texting a girl for a week and we say good morning and good night to each other and omg I'm so love and she said she can't make it when I asked her to meet up and then she blocked me is this a shit test?"
/r/askTRP06/09/19 08:11 AM
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The kind that fit you, look professional, and you want to wear. The most high status thing is to be clean, clear, and good looking.
/r/askTRP06/09/19 08:09 AM
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You're an idiot, you're being used, and I'm so glad you exist.
/r/askTRP06/09/19 08:07 AM
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Clothes Accessories Hair Look
/r/askTRP06/09/19 08:02 AM
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Firstly, I'm sorry this happened to you man. Secondly, I don't see the problem here. Explanation: You were never in an LTR to begin with. The way I see it, either you were her Alpha-lover plate, and he was the boyfriend, or vice versa. From what you've told me, I don't think it was vice versa. I think he was the boyfriend, the Beta, and you were the Alpha-lover. Now, perhaps this girl couldn't stomach the fact that unlike what society told her, which is giving into her AF/BB instinct was wrong a…
/r/askTRP06/09/19 08:02 AM
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Read back what you just wrote and tell me if it makes any sense to you. Why are the animalistic tendencies of humans different from their good?
/r/askTRP06/09/19 05:48 AM
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Cheers. Why does it suck?
/r/askTRP06/09/19 05:34 AM
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Oh boy. You idiot.
/r/askTRP06/09/19 05:32 AM
1

Look up Prisoner's Dilemna.
/r/askTRP06/09/19 05:19 AM
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Why are we NOT keeping quite and not being a snitch while knowing that our fellow criminal is ratting us out and going scott free, while we get an enhanced and longer sentence?
/r/askTRP06/09/19 05:16 AM
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Good effort, but you're still not getting the point. How do I explain it to you? You say you're way past the point of accepting women lie. Except it's not about the woman or the lie at all. By focusing on it you're not past the point at all. It's about power. It's about how people live in the reality most powerfully constructed for them. I can assure you not one juror seriously thought the dream was evidence. That's the excuse they faces. That's the excuse a girl who got beaten up and liked roug…
/r/TheRedPill05/09/19 04:17 PM
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"Hmm why don't I tell you by the end of tonight?"
/r/askTRP05/09/19 08:41 AM
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Thanks for your reply. Yes, you are missing something. It doesn't matter whether there was a dream. She may have, she may not. She probably didn't. There was no dream. There was a woman, beaten, drunk, had consensual sex with a man. She wanted to have sex with him. She wanted him. She didn't care about this other black guy who was also there. She's beaten, she's convinced something "bad" happened because her friends tell her something bad happened. Being beaten up is wrong, society tells her, ev…
/r/TheRedPill05/09/19 06:15 AM
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Matched with you. Messaged you. Shit testing you. This is a win. Just be a snarky asshole, amused mastery, don't give a fuck about her. Just don't be a desperate snarky asshole, trying to "be a smart ass", trying to win her over etc. Don't qualify yourself. Make her qualify herself. "Come over and see the notches on my bed" Quickly establishes you want to meet, qualifies her as someone who's going to fuck with you or waste your time
/r/askTRP05/09/19 04:11 AM
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I now know how my professors feel when no one does the reading.
/r/TheRedPill04/09/19 08:49 PM
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Well, firstly, let's move past the clickbaity title. The man wasn't convicted "based off a dream". Like the DA said, she was cross-examined and a jury believed her. However, evidence was concelead, tampered with, and lost, due to human error. Rather than look at this as a case of "man convicted based off dream-women be crazy, never have sex again, world ending", the real Red Pill teachings here are: "A new glimmer of hope arrived in 2013 when Moses-El received a letter from LC Jackson, one of th…
/r/TheRedPill04/09/19 08:05 PM
24

Nah, most high value guys are like this. This is why women do it.
/r/askTRP04/09/19 12:07 PM
1

Knowing exactly what you want, how and why is half the battle. Specific exact clarity. You can't get what you want unless you know what you want. I could give you 7 techniques to improve your dating rn, but if you started applying it without knowing why it would be a complete waste of time. Take the time to figure that out for yourself, and your daughter. Cheers
/r/askTRP04/09/19 11:51 AM
2

It's not about hope. It's about strategy. And mentality. Do you want a harem of 20 year olds? Maybe you do, maybe you don't. Do you want to think and hence potray yourself as "single dad with daughter, 27" or "older single man, knows what he's doing"? I hope I'm illustrating the difference. I'm not saying one is better than the other, but knowing the red pill, what do you want?
/r/askTRP04/09/19 11:17 AM
-1

Hi. I get where you're coming from. Naturally, I'm a sigma too and my experience is largely similar. Never Alpha, never Beta, just in it for the good time, no problem with people, but at the end of the day its just me, and that's the way I like it. The great thing about being Sigma is the complete independence. I am free from all encumbrances. I can do, say, be where I want, when I want. Its great. The problem with Sigma and why I try to be more Alpha now is the situation you're describing now. …
/r/TheRedPill04/09/19 11:12 AM
5

Blackdragon is a good place to start
/r/askTRP04/09/19 10:18 AM
4

Buddy, if you didn't have higher smv than her by a few points she wouldn't be with you. Yes and no. She needs comfort in general. When you get to that "had sex 5 times stage", alarm bells seem to go off in most women's heads. Once you get into a rhythm, she doesn't want to set up expectations for this to be the dynamic of the relationship, and she's not used to giving pussy to the same man again and again for no emotional return. So yes, give her more comfort whe n you're together. No as in, don…
/r/askTRP04/09/19 10:16 AM
2

I mean, because I do the things I love everyday, I feel that way everyday.
/r/askTRP04/09/19 07:27 AM
1

Leave.
/r/askTRP04/09/19 07:25 AM
1

Nope. Not gaming is one of your weaknesses.
/r/askTRP04/09/19 07:23 AM
3

Yup. Seems pretty normal. Don't indulge in the drama and only text for logistics. Give her more comfort when you're together. If she tries random shit like the period thing again don't react then, but pretty much downgrade, soft next and if it keeps up hard next
/r/askTRP04/09/19 07:21 AM
3

What I don't understand is you don't seem to care. So why care? The more you care the less you'll get it. So far it doesn't seem like a problem so far. Just a couple of friends who like to make out every couple of weekends. Don't make it out to be something you don't care for it to be and she doesn't know yet, just because you've decided to make your identity as "virgin". Go with the flow and enjoy yourself. Do what you want to do. Either you don't care and just want to hang out or you really wa…
/r/askTRP04/09/19 06:28 AM
2

No. Not if you want to keep spinning her. Not knowing is all the fun for her.
/r/askTRP04/09/19 06:17 AM
1

Well, what do you want to do?
/r/askTRP04/09/19 06:16 AM
2

Then try it and see how it goes.
/r/askTRP04/09/19 06:15 AM
0

What's your question?
/r/askTRP04/09/19 06:12 AM
1

Is this a hypothetical?
/r/askTRP04/09/19 06:11 AM
14

I'd say real MGTOW is focused on this. You're very unlikely to find them on Reddit. There are a number of very good blogs though
/r/askTRP04/09/19 06:10 AM
12

Good for you Loreing. If you can do this you can do anything. Each point is specific, brilliant advice, and I hope more people get both the letter and spirit of it.
/r/TheRedPill03/09/19 09:24 AM
3

Read the sidebar
/r/askTRP03/09/19 01:52 AM
2

What's your question?
/r/askTRP03/09/19 01:29 AM
6

Oh I want to pull a trigger alright...
/r/TheRedPill02/09/19 11:43 PM
1

To be clear, X activity you, as in MCShayne1, love. Men keep thinking women need comfort. Women keep waiting for someone to treat them with no respect just for existing.
/r/askTRP01/09/19 07:35 PM
3

Same strategy. Different goals. Same world perspective. Same attention, love, options. Playing the same game.
/r/RedPillWomen01/09/19 05:03 PM
6

You'd be surprised how open people are :) After all, you're not the only person who has ever felt frustrated..
/r/askTRP31/08/19 11:54 PM
34

There is nobody who has not been through this situation, on their way up. The first thing I'll tell you is you're the sum total of the people around you. My whole life changed when I started spending time with people who had abundance vs those who had scarcity mentalities. The second thing I'll tell you is its not quite binary. Life is long. And complicated. As I get older, I see the same cast of characters again and again in my life, getting on and getting off at different stages, entering and …
/r/askTRP31/08/19 11:28 PM
1

Why?
/r/askTRP31/08/19 11:22 PM
6

Your problem isn't that you're too nice. You're problem is you've never been laid. You don't know what the feeling's like and you don't know how to get there. If a white guy in an asian country can't get laid, nobody can. Lower your standards. Fuck a 5. See how hard/easy that is. Getting IoIs is one thing. Fucking closing the deal, maintaining that relationship, and getting more relationships is a different thing altogether. As Itswritten1 would say, become a Chad spectrum thinker.
/r/askTRP31/08/19 11:22 PM
2

Absolutely. The state of your reply tells me you're learning and applying principles pretty well. Well done.
/r/TheRedPill31/08/19 11:05 PM
1

I'd like to believe you're better than this.
/r/TheRedPill31/08/19 09:50 PM
1

you know I can't read your mind right. Take your thoughts out of a blender and speak clearly
/r/askTRP31/08/19 09:32 PM
1

Well, what are you willing to give up?
/r/askTRP31/08/19 09:31 PM
2

How old are you?
/r/askTRP31/08/19 09:24 PM
2

What you're saying is you know nothing about what you're talking about.
/r/askTRP31/08/19 09:23 PM
1

Do you like being short and fat?
/r/askTRP31/08/19 09:21 PM
2

Congratulations. You now have a girlfriend
/r/askTRP31/08/19 09:20 PM
9

It's like every paragraph began with atleast one red flag. All of this aside, in my experience, when you're asking the question can I salvage this, you've already last and the answer is no. Very rarely do you want to be asking this question. Ignore her forever, and only ever reply if she messages saying "come over"
/r/askTRP31/08/19 09:18 PM
7

I wish you the best in your future endeavors.
/r/askTRP31/08/19 06:52 PM
2

Can you atleast be clear in your logic? I was hoping for a good debate here. Are they scumbags because of them being criminals or are they scumbags because women find them attractive and you're jealous? You can't have it be both ways and for your logic to be circular.
/r/askTRP31/08/19 06:43 PM
14

Usually some variation of "Hi. Nice X. I like Y about it. I'm Z. Where are you from/what are you doing here?" Get hand, shake it learn name, walk and talk, some version of insta date and number close
/r/askTRP31/08/19 06:37 PM
0

Nope, builds stamina. It's all about regulating your bodies rest v stress periods and body heat
/r/askTRP31/08/19 06:21 PM
1

Fuck her. Get ikt out of both your systems. I had a plate do this to me. It was so annoying. Ultimately, when I felt the need, I just hit her up and fucked the shit out of her, cumming in her mouth and not letting her go, treating her like a complete whore and with disrespect. She learned quickly after that. Hasn't happened since.
/r/askTRP31/08/19 06:18 PM
8

Your sexual muscle?
/r/askTRP31/08/19 06:15 PM
2

Well, what do you think is complete scum?
/r/askTRP31/08/19 06:14 PM
3

Cringe. You were too generic. Get more specific. Be a man. "When're you back?" "X day" "Ok. I'm doing (X activity you love) at (Y time and date). Come with." Stop following her on insta. Delete instagram. No better illusion of progress while making none. 1000 guys trying to angle their way into her pants. She is so bored. You want to waste her time or give her something, someone, finally, to look forward to? If she says no or flakes, consider yourself lucky, you now have more time to game other …
/r/askTRP31/08/19 06:02 PM
0

I would say do 10 minutes cardio every day you work out, once at the start and then at the end. Other than that, bulking works for you now but you'll have to include not just weights but also exercises for the core if you want to get that shredded look
/r/askTRP31/08/19 05:58 PM
1

Switch off the alarm
/r/askTRP31/08/19 05:56 PM
12

How I've met my last 5 plates: Line while getting food at a seminar (which I wasn't attending, so free lunch for me!) Seated at table at mall, girl seated close by Dating app Dating app Girl standing next to me at line at fast food place
/r/askTRP31/08/19 05:55 PM
5

Nah not really. I feel energized, satisfied and happy the next day. If this was a real question and not just a humble brag (i.e. a waste of time), look into the quality of sex you're having. Good sex, 6 rounds a night always leaves me feeling energized.
/r/askTRP31/08/19 05:50 PM
4

you're fine, this happens all the time
/r/askTRP31/08/19 05:48 PM
4

I'll take a crack at this. Plates Don't get my non-sexual time, don't get my money, don't get my non-sexual attentention (only text for logistics), don't get to tell me what to do and ideally I don't see them more than twice a week at best, sexually or otherwise. I only put in as much investment as necessary to get sex and we spend time together, but it's always surrounded by sex. Boundaries up pretty high, they learn next to nothing about me that I wouldn't tell an acquaintance. Place next to n…
/r/askTRP31/08/19 05:45 PM
3

It's just that important Internet glitch obviously..
/r/TheRedPill31/08/19 04:33 PM
4

It's interesting to me that you chose the word integrity. As you get higher value, more and more options will open to you on where to apply the most valuable of your limited resources, the time, energy and health. If you don't have a set of priorities and values in place (the what and the why) you'll always find yourself lost, overwhelmed and defeated by existence. If you can define a set of actions you want to undertake and stay congruent to the first principles that always drive you to success…
/r/TheRedPill31/08/19 01:57 PM
7

It's interesting to me that you chose the word integrity. As you get higher value, more and more options will open to you on where to apply the most valuable of your limited resources, the time, energy and health. If you don't have a set of priorities and values in place (the what and the why) you'll always find yourself lost, overwhelmed and defeated by existence. If you can define a set of actions you want to undertake and stay congruent to the first principles that always drive you to success…
/r/TheRedPill31/08/19 01:24 PM
0

It's interesting to me that you chose the word integrity. As you get higher value, more and more options will open to you on where to apply the most valuable of your limited resources, the time, energy and health. If you don't have a set of priorities and values in place (the what and the why) you'll always find yourself lost, overwhelmed and defeated by existence. If you can define a set of actions you want to undertake and stay congruent to the first principles that always drive you to success…
/r/TheRedPill31/08/19 01:19 PM
-5

It's interesting to me that you chose the word integrity. As you get higher value, more and more options will open to you on where to apply the most valuable of your limited resources, the time, energy and health. If you don't have a set of priorities and values in place (the what and the why) you'll always find yourself lost, overwhelmed and defeated by existence. If you can define a set of actions you want to undertake and stay congruent to the first principles that always drive you to success…
/r/TheRedPill31/08/19 01:13 PM
-6

It's interesting to me that you chose the word integrity. As you get higher value, more and more options will open to you on where to apply the most valuable of your limited resources, the time, energy and health. If you don't have a set of priorities and values in place (the what and the why) you'll always find yourself lost, overwhelmed and defeated by existence. If you can define a set of actions you want to undertake and stay congruent to the first principles that always drive you to success…
/r/TheRedPill31/08/19 01:13 PM
-1

It's interesting to me that you chose the word integrity. As you get higher value, more and more options will open to you on where to apply the most valuable of your limited resources, the time, energy and health. If you don't have a set of priorities and values in place (the what and the why) you'll always find yourself lost, overwhelmed and defeated by existence. If you can define a set of actions you want to undertake and stay congruent to the first principles that always drive you to success…
/r/TheRedPill31/08/19 01:13 PM
-5

It's interesting to me that you chose the word integrity. As you get higher value, more and more options will open to you on where to apply the most valuable of your limited resources, the time, energy and health. If you don't have a set of priorities and values in place (the what and the why) you'll always find yourself lost, overwhelmed and defeated by existence. If you can define a set of actions you want to undertake and stay congruent to the first principles that always drive you to success…
/r/TheRedPill31/08/19 01:12 PM
1

Habits
/r/askTRP30/08/19 08:11 AM
6

3 levels: Look healthy. Take care of your skin, hair, teeth and smell. Be strong. Even if you're not mega buff you want to look and feel strong. Strong physical frame, strong core, abs and muscles. A good way to measure this is your recover time after a mile run and how much you can lift without beginning to hurt yourself. Be happy. Smile. Be excited to be alive and be you. Move.
/r/askTRP30/08/19 04:06 AM
16

Excellent, reasonable advice. If it worked, TRP wouldn't exist
/r/askTRP30/08/19 03:38 AM
14

Most flight attendants sign up in order to find a man and quit. Ask yourself, why is she doing it the other way around? Maybe she hasn't found her man yet.
/r/askTRP30/08/19 03:35 AM
9

Absolutely. I was having a great conversation with a friend recently that I'd like to get your thoughts on. He comes from a business family while I come from a family of professionals. He was making the point that while professionals spend upto 90% of their salaries wealth and save only 10%, while business people, traders etc. Live very minimalist and simple lifestyles relate to their incomes, spending only 30-40% and investing the rest, either ploughing it back or buying land etc. As a result, …
/r/TheRedPill29/08/19 10:11 PM
4

Saw the title. Thought "Yes! This article will be valuable". Saw the poster thought "Ofcourse :) GLO provides value again". Read the article. Mostly now confused because...you're absolutely right, I agree with you and I get where you're coming from, but I don't know how you went from X in one paragraph to Y, Z and A in the next. You're missing some links there, and there's a mismatch between the problem you present and the solutions you show to them (what has my taking a bath got to do with the …
/r/TheRedPill29/08/19 10:06 PM
38

I can't think of any hobby of mine that doesn't require commitment
/r/askTRP29/08/19 12:35 PM
4

There's something messed up with everyone, if you dig deep enough. You're a) fucking a lot of women and digging deep; and b) and you've come to the realisation humans are simple idiots and messed up, from practice. You're doing something right. Now, use those to get what you want.
/r/askTRP29/08/19 07:27 AM
2

I strongly recommend getting used to it :)
/r/askTRP28/08/19 02:38 PM
0

Consistent time, food and thoughtful choices?
/r/RedPillWomen27/08/19 07:35 PM
1

Is this how you'd want to be loved?
/r/RedPillWomen27/08/19 05:48 PM
3

Pick one! Hahaha
/r/RedPillWomen27/08/19 05:47 PM
1

To restate what you've said here, if I understand correctly, love is near complete selfless integration into this ideal of the other?
/r/RedPillWomen27/08/19 05:47 PM
1

Would you have the same expectation from your man?
/r/RedPillWomen27/08/19 05:46 PM
1

Would you apply this concept of love to the one you would receive I.e. Would you want your man to sacrifice, be selfless etc
/r/RedPillWomen27/08/19 05:45 PM
3

Would you want the same love expressed to you?
/r/RedPillWomen27/08/19 05:44 PM
3

Devotion. That's a strong word. I'd say every feminine person associates love with that instinct.
/r/RedPillWomen27/08/19 11:27 AM
3

That's the theme song from House. Didn't know it was a full song with lyrics. Cheers
/r/RedPillWomen27/08/19 11:25 AM
5

Okay. So you've expressed your emotions openly here. You've catarthed. Why do you need to tell her? No, it doesn't say do whatever the fuck you want. If we did whatever the fuck we wanted, we would be loveless betas giving our heart to every woman who did us the "favour" of sex. If we did whatever the fuck we wanted we would eat fast food and never go to the gym. If we did whatever the fuck we wanted, we would lie to ourselves, justify to ourselves, rationalise our inability to suppress our blue…
/r/askTRP27/08/19 07:17 AM
3

Sure. And I'll say it again. Now that you've said it I guess you're done. Why do you need to say it to her? Why do you need, to the point of catharsis, to make her feel better? Why can't you, you know, just shut up and enjoy it for what it was? Like she is. Congratulations on the sex big man, if you want to keep having it and have a fun, happy life alongside (no drama to focus on what you want to do), you've got to be more disciplined. If you think this is a lot of sex, wait till you actually ge…
/r/askTRP27/08/19 07:09 AM
2

Why does it matter that you say it? You've said it here, you've said it now. I guess you're done. Why do you need to say it to her? Why would you give her free validation? Do you value what's free?
/r/askTRP27/08/19 06:57 AM
2

I know it's very disappointing that not one other person thought redpilled about this.
/r/askTRP27/08/19 06:50 AM
5

So? Redpill is not a democracy, and if it was guided by those values it would never exist. I can't be blamed for them being wrong.
/r/askTRP27/08/19 06:47 AM
4

Yes, but she's doing that because of the lols, feels and validation. The source of her libido is the same. There is no drive outside of those.
/r/TheRedPill27/08/19 06:27 AM
1

Nah don't do it. Don't give your attention to something you can't get anything out of.
/r/askTRP27/08/19 06:19 AM
1

I stopped wanting and started doing. That's simple without being simplistic.
/r/askTRP27/08/19 03:04 AM
1

Why the fuck is this marked in finance?
/r/TheRedPill26/08/19 12:44 PM
19

"From the last few weeks of askTRP and TRP I have assimilated general advice..." and I'm out. Why do you deserve to be heard after a few weeks of TRP? What contribution does general advice have for anyone? Speak only when you have something worth saying.
/r/TheRedPill26/08/19 12:43 PM
1

That's what I thought. Kerala?
/r/RedPillWomen24/08/19 05:40 AM
2

Which Asian country?
/r/RedPillWomen23/08/19 03:13 PM
2

The second one in the body of your post.
/r/askTRP23/08/19 11:07 AM
37

My time, money, and sanity.
/r/TheRedPill21/08/19 09:02 AM
5

lol that's actually a brilliant, simple summarisation of like the first 2 steps of TRP, that can help 90% of the folk on this forum. It's really that simple. The hard part is to have the cojones to bet on yourself, everyday. I'd also add focus on financial independence, it takes a lot of stress out of life, and opens up a lot more options.
/r/askTRP21/08/19 07:24 AM
2

Having seen this happen many many times: You'll be ok, just give it time :) Think hard about how you can the space you're now in your own, as well the home you want to build. Move more of your stuff soon, and you should feel better.
/r/RedPillWomen19/08/19 10:27 AM
-8

Hah. How old are you?
/r/askTRP18/08/19 10:47 PM
3

You can't love yourself by hating yourself and vice versa.
/r/askTRP17/08/19 09:15 PM
1

Same here. But there is particular, and there is dead.
/r/askTRP16/08/19 02:22 PM
1

An unbridled confidence as to social and sexual options is attractive to women. I can't give a fuck about any individual woman rn because I'm dealing with so many, and I can always find more. I treat them all like children, fighting for my attention. That's attractive. Don't fake it till you make it.
/r/askTRP16/08/19 05:26 AM
1

The mystery is dead. She's probably fucking other guys by now, roughly 50/50. Even if that's not true, the relationship is over and dead. Time to end it and move on.
/r/askTRP16/08/19 05:23 AM
1

I can tell by your attitude that death in terms of the market may be an excellent alternative for you
/r/askTRP16/08/19 05:20 AM
1

Come off as a douche. Who cares
/r/askTRP16/08/19 05:19 AM
1

Nah, it damages reputation much less than you think, and for any purposes, it's better to get your name out there than not, and be associated with that brand of "sexy". Do double check with the producers what "role" they want you to play though, and if you're ok with it, go for it
/r/askTRP16/08/19 05:17 AM
2

Yeah, text her "Had fun last night :)" to achieve: Avoid being accused of anything-she may reply "me too :)" screenshot that Builds positive reinforcement for putting out (he enjoyed it and I'll get a fun text when I fuck him) Disqualifies you from just another fuckboi who never calls after sleeping with her. No better way to not unnecessarily cause drama, especially if it's likely you'll see her again (more likely than you think), and plate her
/r/askTRP16/08/19 05:15 AM
0

Why is there so much bad advice on this sub lately?
/r/askTRP16/08/19 05:11 AM
1

You want non-monogamy. Learn about it, and talk to her. We are men, we can have it all if we want.
/r/askTRP15/08/19 11:31 AM
2

Yeah, pretty much
/r/askTRP14/08/19 11:05 PM
2

If you're too lazy to search the main sub for this, you'll be too lazy to apply any advice I give you.
/r/askTRP14/08/19 11:04 PM
1

Rejoice. Because 1) It's better than no emotion; and 2) It's not your problem.
/r/askTRP14/08/19 11:02 PM
1

Eat a banana 20 minutes before you start and see a doctor if this continues.
/r/askTRP14/08/19 11:00 PM
1

Bhai same date, same day, in 5 minutes, woh sab bhi hota hai, as much as in any country in the world
/r/askTRP14/08/19 10:59 PM
2

Well, there are annoying people like you, for example.
/r/askTRP14/08/19 10:57 PM
3

Nope
/r/askTRP14/08/19 10:54 PM
3

Yup
/r/askTRP14/08/19 10:54 PM
3

He's confusing feminism with female solipsism.
/r/askTRP14/08/19 10:52 PM
2

No, I wouldn't say NoFap is red pill. It isn't red pill to deny your basic urges, and it isn't red pill to moralize about your choices. I would also say that NoFap and RedPill cater to different categories of men, like if you're young and spend a lot of time fapping and watching porn, NoFap is absolutely fantastic, maybe even necessary, to get your life back on track and moving in a particular direction. Once you have a hold on your body, mind and time, is when you can start thinking about relat…
/r/askTRP14/08/19 10:49 PM
1

Before we get to the legal advice...paint him a picture of what his life is going to be like for the next 18 years. He's 20, he has hopes and dreams too, and does he really want to raise a kid that isn't his? All that money, all that time, a lifetime and a youth, put towards something he doesn't know about, an uncertainty at best and at worst a lie.
/r/askTRP14/08/19 10:43 PM
1

Sounds more like you cancelled plans. You don't need to soft next as much as just need some time apart, maybe a half week. Don't be afraid to apologize for taking longer at the gym without informing her if she's still in a bad mood after a week.
/r/askTRP13/08/19 08:31 AM
2

I had the same question a while back. Nah. It's the same thing. She wants knowledge. Once she gets knowledge, she won't care or will only use it against you. This way her imagination runs wild. She needs her imagination to run wild to be attracted to you. Is it 1? Is it 3? Is it a 100 threesomes? She may never know. It may even be 0. But she'll assume the worst, and fuck your brains hoping you won't cheat on you with 2 girls, all while being insanely attracted to you doing that, will even propos…
/r/askTRP13/08/19 08:27 AM
2

What do I think? I think you're doing well, applying dread pretty well. Go with the flow man. Her emotions are not your problem. Don't try to rationalize with her.
/r/askTRP13/08/19 08:23 AM
4

Do you watch porn?
/r/askTRP13/08/19 08:18 AM
3

Absolutely. This space on the internet, sadly, has not been, for a while, a happy place, even though the intent of TRP was for happy men to congregate together, to discuss love, sex and relationships, and be more. Now more and more it is the purview of the angry incel, so 99% of the comments are trash, and come from an angry, misogynistic, defeatist place. Get what you need and then move out, come back to refresh, but eating from the toxic trough is only going to make you sick. Out in the real w…
/r/askTRP13/08/19 08:17 AM
1

The Confidence to Leave or the Confidence to Know You Can Get Other Women
/r/askTRP13/08/19 06:30 AM
3

Just goes to show, it's always the mentality and belief of the winner that will win, no matter how good you look. It doesn't matter how valuable you are, if you don't know your value and aren't ready to own it. It's the size of the dog in the fight, it's the size of the fight in the dog. Clearly, being better looking makes lives easier, helps, but if you can't close and don't believe you can close, don't believe you have a good product, you could get a 1000 inbound leads and it still wouldn't ma…
/r/askTRP13/08/19 05:47 AM
2

That's a very clever reply and makes a lot of sense, the only thing is, you're missing something very important: there is no her before you, and there is no her after, atleast not the same her. For better or worse, for the most part, women do not have personalities like men, they do not have hobbies or interests and selves to discover. The only self they discover is the self they discover with you. While man's greatest triumph is conquering nature and himself, a woman's greatest triumph, will al…
/r/askTRP12/08/19 03:42 PM
2

I get it. So there are possibly two places you're coming from: Uncomfortable with the term; or Realise that it could hurt your game. For 1, own it. Better to be a fuckboy than invisible. The operative part is "fuck". A fuckboy is one who fucks. That's a win. For 2, over time, girls will want to be with you, but start using the fact that you're a fuck boy against you, as a shit test and then to reject you. You've got to get over their mistrust of your reputation. You'll have to do this by earning…
/r/askTRP12/08/19 03:37 PM
-1

Sounds more like he soft nexted you and you're butthurt.
/r/askTRP12/08/19 03:31 PM
2

Two truths and a lie: It's harder to do than it is to not. The identity of victim is better than the identity of failure. Most people are happy.
/r/askTRP12/08/19 03:29 PM
2

Your name speaks for itself
/r/askTRP12/08/19 03:27 PM
11

No More Mr. Nice Guy. Read it. Move on to a better life.
/r/askTRP12/08/19 02:13 PM
6

Because you give her hobbies. The hobbies she has are the ones you have.
/r/askTRP12/08/19 02:12 PM
5

No.
/r/askTRP12/08/19 02:11 PM
0

If a good friend-keep going out with her until he begs you otherwise, then sigh and let her go, for him, because his friendship matters more to you. He'll owe you, a lot, and you can always approach other girls. If random stranger-Ignore. Establish boundaries if he's making you uncomfortable. If she's giving him attention, leave.
/r/askTRP12/08/19 02:10 PM
16

Been there. Your mistake was telling the plate at that point. Go for it.
/r/askTRP11/08/19 04:43 PM
-2

Is that all you're happy with, 2 million? Is that what you want to do with the rest of your life, nothing?!
/r/askTRP11/08/19 11:23 AM
1

Hahaha, something like that
/r/askTRP11/08/19 11:09 AM
2

Exactly. That's not a happy life
/r/askTRP11/08/19 11:08 AM
1

The first option, obviously! It's like Jerry Seinfeld said when told "You don't need to work", he replies "Yes I do. What's your ideal life, doing nothing?"
/r/askTRP11/08/19 11:08 AM
-1

Out :)
/r/askTRP11/08/19 11:04 AM
5

If looks were everything, how did he only end up with one girl's number, while I end up with 7 every time I go out, after only 6 months of practice, and atleast half of them are 8+, on a very strict scale?
/r/askTRP11/08/19 08:21 AM
5

Because frame isn't something you turn on and off. It is the sum total of who you are, communicated through what you do. You cannot control what people think of you, and you cannot force them to select one memory of you over another. They will look at the totality of what you do, and decide if you have strong frame. They will judge you on whether you consistently follow the same rules you set for yourself and others, or are a phoney, or can justify why you chose to change behaviour. According to…
/r/askTRP10/08/19 09:14 PM
24

You know, so much of our thinking is platform-dependent (how to make the best Tinder profile-this must be the 10th guide, in the professional world how to optimize your LinkedIn profile, or write the best emails for particular purposes, if you're in marketing how to win at Instagram or other platforms), that you miss the wood for the trees. These are very relevant, important skills, employed to a very specific problem and purpose, that can vastly improve gains, but-they can only improve short te…
/r/TheRedPill06/08/19 10:46 PM
1

This may seem like a simplistic, single line thrown out there, but it may be all the advice you need for now: Get a dog.
/r/askTRP06/08/19 01:35 PM
8

Great post, thanks for the work.
/r/TheRedPill31/07/19 12:01 PM
1

Absolutely. And no. Ugly=80% of men. Sex happens, and a lot of it, all the time, everywhere.
/r/askTRP31/07/19 11:47 AM
1

You want non-monogamy. Go for non-monogamy. Talk to her.
/r/askTRP27/07/19 08:49 AM
4

I'm not being accusatory, but isn't that moralising?
/r/askTRP27/07/19 07:19 AM
2

Because you're bad at it. I don't mean that in the 14 year old "haha what a faggot" way that a lot of AskTRP contributors can get into (can you blame them?) It's that you're actually quite bad at it. Approaching women is the most natural, everyday thing. Just ask most women. If you're bad at it, you get kicked. If you're good at it, the woman wants you around. Figure out what you're doing wrong and fix it. Common problems are: being under confident, telegraphing interest, being overly aggressive…
/r/askTRP25/07/19 02:57 AM
4

I can relate. Here some thoughts I have used to get over this: "This is such a small thing. You have such a huge world to conquer, so many more great things to do. This is going to be great, but only a footnote in your story. But you have to do this right and great if you want to do that." "I stand on the shoulders of giants." "Continuity is the only thing that matters." This is a product of scarcity mentality, easily satisfied ("Well, I've done something now, that means I'm all set, this is it,…
/r/askTRP23/07/19 07:30 PM
2

No, but it's better than never showing intent.
/r/askTRP23/07/19 07:24 PM
1

Reduce weights for a week to what you're comfortable. Stretch before you lift. Work in break days to give your muscles time to heal.
/r/askTRP23/07/19 07:19 PM
3

None. They're plates. My money isn't what they're after.
/r/askTRP23/07/19 07:18 PM
4

Well, you just said "PM for pics" so it can't be that your "gestalt" is intimidating... Does this even qualify as a problem?
/r/askTRP23/07/19 07:17 PM
2

Well, if you're saying you can't do it, you can't do it. Who am I to convince you otherwise?
/r/askTRP23/07/19 07:14 PM
2

"Ah well. Would you rather be too early or too late?" + "I'm a limited period offer"
/r/askTRP23/07/19 07:10 PM
1

That's actually great advice. It's better when you put in the effort.
/r/askTRP23/07/19 06:49 PM
1

Assuming everything you wrote is true, then it's the work that's not sufficiently exciting. Take on other projects that you can do to spend your nights and weekends on, or otherwise find what you can do that would be exciting at your current internship for the rest of the time here and ask for it. Create your role, don't wait for it to be handed to you. On a general note, to avoid this situation in the future, work with either smaller companies or startups, where you'll get more responsibility a…
/r/askTRP23/07/19 06:47 PM
3

Can I get back to you on that?
/r/askTRP23/07/19 06:42 PM
3

Are you good at anything?
/r/askTRP23/07/19 06:39 PM
-2

It was a rhetorical question, but I appreciate your effort
/r/TheRedPill22/07/19 05:59 AM
15

Yup. Don't talk about it. Simply downgrade her. Act like the happiest man in the world, because you are. You just freed up a lot more time to get other girls.
/r/askTRP22/07/19 03:09 AM
4

SHE. WANTS TO HAVE SEX WITH YOU. SHE. ENJOYS SEX WITH HOT GUYS. SHE. THINKS YOU'RE A HOT GUY AND WANTS TO HAVE SEX WITH YOU. SHE. WANTS TO DO THAT BECAUSE YOU'RE A HOT MUSICIAN. SHE. DOESN'T KNOW, DOESN'T CARE AND DOESN'T WANT TO KNOW ABOUT YOUR PITY PARTY. JE-SUS. She shouldn't have to buy a bill board and get a tattoo on her forehead for you to get an idea that you should get a hard on. She's coming to fuck a musician. She wants to fuck a musician. Why would you throw away your whole competiti…
/r/askTRP22/07/19 02:47 AM
-1

Interesting. I tried. More for me.
/r/TheRedPill22/07/19 02:23 AM
2

You either win or you lose. You can't do both.
/r/askTRP22/07/19 01:56 AM
5

Yeah, that works. When it comes to boundaries, there is no such thing as covert contracts. There is also such a thing as a slippery slope. Men are so love-starved, the first woman to fuck them daily and act cute and open has got them making wedding plans and opening up their whole lives to them. It's immensely sad. You want someone to love you? Get a dog. Her cuteness is not some mystical reason to drop your boundaries or standards. Certainly reward it, but not the endgame.
/r/askTRP22/07/19 01:53 AM
1

Read the rest of what I wrote.
/r/askTRP22/07/19 01:45 AM
14

Well, you do understand the difference between an experienced TRP man and an "8" as nomenclature, don't you?
/r/TheRedPill22/07/19 01:13 AM
10

The code is you're doing it all wrong. Her desire to get married is not your problem. Yes, women develop personalities. A sense of humour. Become traditional. When they hit 30. Cause they're beauty is gone, the options are gone and the walls are hit. The clock is ticking, and no ring is on her finger, no white dress only worn once, no party for friends to show she succeeded in the game. So of course she has to try. I don't blame them for it. I have plated many an older woman. I enjoy their compa…
/r/askTRP22/07/19 12:05 AM
8

I mean, she's probably fatter than her photos show her to be, btw. Yup. It is that easy. It's just that easy. When a happy man lives a happy life and treats the world like a happy place full of opportunity for the prepared and capable, good things happen. She may flake though, just be ready for that. Don't break frame, as we say here. I'm guessing you're new here. Check out what "breaking frame" means when you have the time, after the date.
/r/askTRP21/07/19 11:58 PM
4

I mean, I generally don't, because that's not the relationship I have with most of these girls, translating into how I act. I will reach over, touch her back, squeeze her hips, her shoulders, her hands if we're going on a walk, let her know I'm present and physical.
/r/askTRP21/07/19 11:52 PM
1

That doesn't matter. That's all anybody is doing on it, anyway. It's a waste of time to hate on him for it.
/r/askTRP21/07/19 11:49 PM
1

Wow, you guys never get it, do you?
/r/askTRP21/07/19 11:47 PM
0

Yeah, no offence, but realistically speaking it's not much of a date. Act like it's a hangout, don't stress too much about it and definitely don't appear as if you're stressing about it. Double check with her like 10-15 before or whenever you're making your plans for whenever you're planning to meet her, and be open to preparing to reschedule atleast once. Softball toss's don't get hard replies. Be a man. Show some initiative. That's the only way to make them actually wet.
/r/askTRP21/07/19 11:17 PM
3

Great. Assuming you have what would be called a 'normal' student life (4 year college, live on campus, full time student) start with a direct sales job in the service industry, that is, as a waiter but more as a cashier, on campus. That'll get you the experience of getting into the rhythm and habit of having conversations. Next, sign up for activities. Sign up for everything, for now. Turn up for everything. Turn up for sports, turn up for talks, turn up for jam sessions. Be on campus. Study in …
/r/askTRP21/07/19 11:04 PM
2

Fuck the girl. Have fun. Girl you may not even get with? Sure dude. Girl hits you up on IG, follows for months, travels to your city and wants to meet you. You haven't had sex in months, are living in a drought, are comfortable and have made that your identity. Girls don't do things at random. Go out and have fun. It's the only way you'll ever actually have any.
/r/askTRP21/07/19 10:50 PM
1

Did she reply?
/r/askTRP21/07/19 10:03 PM
2

Organize a small show/jam/get together in your house. Let her stay the night.
/r/askTRP21/07/19 10:03 PM
2

Well, what can you do?
/r/askTRP21/07/19 10:00 PM
272

I wish there was a rating system or categories on TRP, like, for beginners, intermediate, proficient, advanced etc. because while this is great advice, misapplied by a beginner, it would lead to a lot of confusion, heartbreak and misplaced anger.
/r/TheRedPill21/07/19 09:50 PM
3

Hey, so this was post was clearly different than what the title indicated it would be. Let me put it this way: If you could achieve all this, you're clearly not a failure. Sales gets a bad rep. Very few people seek it out, seek to join it, seek to become salesmen. My story is very similar to yours, it followed the almost exact same trajectory, except with one key difference: I did great in school. I was always smart. I had great cognitive ability, and it consistently shows. But I also learned ea…
/r/askTRP21/07/19 09:24 PM
2

How long have you been studying economics?
/r/TheRedPill21/07/19 07:08 PM
1

Yes and no. Yes in that I always have atleast one good plan I could go to, no in that I may just want a night in, have work, build or watch something on my own maybe, go to bed early. It's more important to have plans and the ability to make them, but ultimately focus on what you want to do in the end. Once in a while I force myself to. If, for example, I'm staying in all week, that's clearly a problem.
/r/askTRP20/07/19 03:55 PM
2

Probably. Being funny is not a bad thing. It didn't help, certainly. It's less about the being funny part and more about the insecurities, lack of comfort with yourself and weak frame which caused it.
/r/askTRP20/07/19 03:52 PM
-1

I should have checked who asked the question. No, no she won't. And it shouldn't matter to you if she does. Do you make a post every time you text a girl?
/r/askTRP20/07/19 03:50 PM
6

You say "Good for you! Sex is fun. Come here.". She's a plate. She wants you to react. Don't.
/r/askTRP20/07/19 03:49 PM
1

"Here. Come give me a hug before you go" slow dance as you whisper naughty things in her ear How do you not approach other women? As a rule of thumb, I take it as the first two approaches I make don't count. They're just practice and help me get over my approach anxiety. The worst thing that ever happened to me was that the first girl I ever cold approached strategically irl went home with me that night. Beginner's luck, and didn't help me learn and set up my expectations all wrong.
/r/askTRP20/07/19 03:47 PM
3

You messed up. The emotions booked the train ticket, the friends and reality came 2 days later. "I'd like to get to know you better" = "I'm not attracted enough to get on the train" Just don't respond, honestly. No better way to let her know you don't care about her games or feelings.
/r/askTRP20/07/19 03:43 PM
0

I know what you mean. I go with 'haha' maybe one or two times and then don't reply.
/r/askTRP20/07/19 03:39 PM
1

Ok. But neither seems interesting enough to worth having a problem or strategy over, so.
/r/askTRP18/07/19 01:54 AM
2

As much as I respect you, I had to groan at that. "There goes GLO again...". You risk becoming a caricature of yourself. Also, never ask a question you may not know the answer given to, when trying to make a point.
/r/askTRP18/07/19 01:43 AM
2

Murder them, obviously. Doesn't get simpler than that.
/r/askTRP18/07/19 01:34 AM
1

Reply with your own pics. Play the game. Make her want you more than you want her.
/r/askTRP18/07/19 01:31 AM
1

Would I be correct in saying all your questions in the last 2 days have been about the same girl/situation?
/r/askTRP18/07/19 01:27 AM
1

The process of getting it overruled is too long? Love me a good soldier. I'm always happy to accept service.
/r/askTRP18/07/19 01:21 AM
6

She's checking up on your plans to make sure the investment of pussy she made is keeping the option open. You're giving her free validation. She's employing push pull and has you on a leash. Waste of time, time to block.
/r/askTRP18/07/19 01:16 AM
13

Yes. It is the truck that is the problem. The lengths some of you go to lie to yourself...
/r/askTRP18/07/19 01:09 AM
1

I'm sorry for your loss, it doesn't change the world we live in.
/r/askTRP18/07/19 01:07 AM
1

Got it :) Have you used any particular resource on online dating? Or was it just trial and error?..
/r/TheRedPill17/07/19 06:37 PM
3

In that regard, have you heard of Black Dragon's blog and what do you think of him?
/r/TheRedPill17/07/19 06:00 PM
1

Great guiding principle. Only downfall I can see is applied by the unclear or the...un-vigilant?..can lead to BP outcomes ("To be a man is to marry this single mother I met on craigslist")
/r/askTRP17/07/19 05:29 PM
1

Is there anything happening in your final year at college apart from partying? Be honest. I do a few such similar things. How I structure them is I be at college for the important stuff I need to be now in my final years, which is classes, but otherwise I'm out at the jobs I love, hustling, building my network and a future I love. Now, technically how it's structured is I'm a full time student, and have the option to work remotely, part-time, so in terms of the day to day, I can work from wherev…
/r/askTRP17/07/19 05:26 PM
1

How old are you?
/r/askTRP17/07/19 05:18 PM
6

I can relate. The first thing you've got to understand is, is it really you and him against the world? That may be the way you're thinking, but is it the way you're acting? In fact, is it even the way you've phrased the majority of this post? I know that with my brother and I, I liked to think it was him and I vs the world, but I realised in my actions, I was simultaneously his greatest hero and friend, but in day to day life his enemy, someone who would push him around and make fun of him. Once…
/r/askTRP17/07/19 05:11 PM
3

Seems fine. Held frame. The words themselves don't matter, the holding frame does. The girl's operating in his frame replying unprompted. He got an emotional response, from the girl and Reddit, so he's doing something right. He's not unmatched yet, is he?
/r/askTRP17/07/19 03:50 AM
1

Yup. Tell her tonight won't work out then and invite over a different plate. If she wanted to come, she'd find a way to come at 9.30. Brad Pitt test.
/r/askTRP16/07/19 09:36 PM
1

I suppose if it works for you that's great. We have nothing really to contribute here. I have no idea where you're coming from. See if it works and keep experimenting
/r/askTRP16/07/19 09:33 PM
1

You need a mixture of both. Every group naturally finds its rhythm to an often subconscious, unstated hierarchy. Be the highest or among the highest in the highest group you can find.
/r/askTRP16/07/19 09:29 PM
2

I'm going to answer the actual question and ignore the telenovela you wrote because I think this could be a great learning opportunity for you: Make the jealous, the fake, the paranoid, the gossiping your friend. Perhaps not your closest inner circle, but keep them on your team. Why? Keep your friends close, but your enemies closer. People like this typically flock to power. They are shallow, power-hungry and easy to manipulate. Good. Use that. If they're on your side, they see you as the most p…
/r/askTRP16/07/19 09:25 PM
2

You set the appointment. Meet at a neutral location first, like the hotel lobby.
/r/askTRP16/07/19 09:12 PM
6

Don't cheat. Do non-monogamy.
/r/askTRP16/07/19 09:11 PM
2

"Love has got to be something more than just chemicals. Relationships have got to be something more than just this stupid fucking market." Why? "Something has to be out there to make this horrifically unfair game, worth it." There is. You'll never find out unless you play.
/r/askTRP16/07/19 09:09 PM
1

Haan bc ofcourse. Till then enjoy.
/r/TheRedPill15/07/19 01:08 PM
1

I have faced these situations before, especially from white guys. I look them dead in the eye and shake my head no, for about 5-10 seconds, exactly as I do with a stray dog trying to get my food. If he gets the message, he either complies or leaves. Or if he's too drunk, to get the message, I signal management and take the girl I'm with out to a different spot. In the sexual marketplace, race definitely can be a thing, but it's all about dominance and mental strength. In the sexual marketplace, …
/r/askTRP14/07/19 07:14 AM
1

You've had one kiss in your life. Chill out.
/r/askTRP14/07/19 07:09 AM
1

It's her job to "keep the relationship alive".
/r/askTRP14/07/19 06:22 AM
1

That matters as much as what happened to the shuffle board sticks on the Titanic. Read the rest of my comment.
/r/askTRP13/07/19 06:59 PM
1

You're welcome 🙄
/r/askTRP13/07/19 04:59 PM
-4

Thanks for asking. I would throw the appliance at her face and tell her to get it fixed by tomorrow. I would then go out. If she didn't fix it by then I'd steal the money from her to buy a new one. Do you see where I'm going with this? You don't reason with a bitch, you get yours, and move on.
/r/askTRP13/07/19 04:58 PM
4

Yeah Medium's been taken over by the worst of the millennial feminists. Almost every even "starred" article is the deep rationalisations of women. Real article titles I read this week "Why sleeping with strangers is good for you"; "Why my smiling during my sexual assault does not make it ok"; and others. 5 articles a day.
/r/askTRP13/07/19 03:56 PM
3

Your problems go deeper than Snapchat. Learn about game.
/r/askTRP13/07/19 03:53 PM
3

Let's try this one last time. You give no fucks about this woman. You give no fucks about your friend. You could line up a hundred women in a week if you wanted. What do you do?
/r/askTRP13/07/19 03:52 PM
1

Time to do a Roosh V.
/r/askTRP13/07/19 03:49 PM
0

Yes?
/r/askTRP13/07/19 03:48 PM
3

Never. Or atleast never accusatorily. They thrive on that drama. Don't give them those easy wins by breaking frame. She knows what she's doing. Play the game, don't talk about it. The people with tin foil hats may be right, but we still call them crazy.
/r/askTRP13/07/19 03:47 PM
1

Is that actually all you would do? Try again. If you had balls, what would you do?
/r/askTRP13/07/19 03:44 PM
1

Start with anyone. I will say this fatty-specific advice: they can be much harder to game. Have their shields up. Not used to being hit on ergo don't have great social skills. Will judge you for being low value for hitting on them. Leads nowhere fun. Avoid it as a targeted strategy. You want to be aspirational for a fatty.
/r/askTRP13/07/19 03:42 PM
3

Absolutely. Otherwise I'd only have to date the ones I'm not attracted to.
/r/askTRP13/07/19 03:40 PM
17

Cool. Good for you man. First of many.
/r/askTRP13/07/19 03:39 PM
3

Re-read my comment and tell me what you'd do.
/r/askTRP13/07/19 03:38 PM
2

Don't thing you did anything "wrong" per se. But you've established high value, start doing, stop doing. Her: Can't sleep, what are you doing up this late? Me: Wondering what your address is so I can come over. Her: address Me: see you then! Her: ASD Me: I know a really cool Netflix documentary on mountain climbing. I wanted to watch it with you tonight :)
/r/askTRP13/07/19 03:37 PM
0

Always assume attraction. Don't need to know your height or eye colour to tell you that. That was very gay.
/r/askTRP13/07/19 03:32 PM
1

What're you trying to ask? In 3 sentences
/r/askTRP13/07/19 03:31 PM
1

"LTR of 7 months" "Rest of post" How old are you?
/r/askTRP13/07/19 03:30 PM
1

Cut all contact. Aversion therapy. You're in too deep.
/r/askTRP13/07/19 03:29 PM
1

High school never ends. The only reason you hate the drama and gossip is you're not on top of it or good enough to not even thing about letting it touch you. If this is your reason for starting a business, don't. If you can't learn to win with people, a very learnable skill, I would recommend a lot of freelancing and working from home. Oh, and you're a faggot.
/r/askTRP13/07/19 03:28 PM
3

In 2 weeks, will this matter?
/r/askTRP13/07/19 03:25 PM
7

What would you do if you had another girl, another set of friends and gave no fucks about any of them?
/r/askTRP13/07/19 03:24 PM
2

Oh fuck that's ugly why would you show us that. Listen kid, I know why you posted this. It's fun to rip off the band aid a 100 times. It's even more fun to let the wound heal. Improve yourself. Your short comings are not your identity, they are just the story of your life so far.
/r/askTRP13/07/19 03:22 PM
3

"You're in the top 10! Hahaha"
/r/askTRP13/07/19 03:19 PM
3

Don't ask for Snapchat, ask for number. Be different.
/r/askTRP13/07/19 03:18 PM
1

She threw a comfort test, you responded. Why haven't you pulled the trigger btw? The purpose of mystery is not to have conversation, but to get laid. Would you watch a movie only made up of trailers for other movies?
/r/askTRP13/07/19 03:17 PM
1

Wetness does not always equal arousal does not always equal orgasm or intensity. Women's arousal and the connection between the actions of the mind and vagina work in hit/miss ways. The same is true for men, although to a much lower degree. I wouldn't read too much into the wetness specifically.
/r/askTRP13/07/19 03:14 PM
2

Attention whore. Waste of time. Leading you on. Drop her.
/r/askTRP13/07/19 03:11 PM
3

Ok. In that case, I would advise against it. Over sharing/over communicating can lead to breakage of frame and formation of emotional dependence i.e. Every high beta casual relationship script. That being said, she is still a "friend" as in a friend with benefits. Just be careful and be objective.
/r/askTRP13/07/19 02:58 PM
2

Are you fucking any other women?
/r/askTRP13/07/19 02:41 PM
3

Don't divorce. When she returns, either change the locks. Or pack up your things, move in with a friend and block her from all numbers. You may lose the house (hopefully rented) but the benefit to your mental health will be much more than worth it. Men have been dealing with this situation for millennia. Go out for a pack of cigarettes and never come back.
/r/askTRP13/07/19 03:56 AM
1

Good. A. Nightclubs and bars. B. Yes. C. Depends. Are you ripped and can take good pics? Tinder is a channel, not a strategy
/r/askTRP09/07/19 05:30 AM
1

Try one more time?
/r/askTRP09/07/19 04:27 AM
3

Yeah, but who cares what they think? They're one country, there's atleast 203 more, and they couldn't identify most on a map anyway.
/r/askTRP08/07/19 11:58 AM
3

Oh god this guy. Asia is more than China. Stop now, for your sake. Bye.
/r/askTRP08/07/19 11:56 AM
6

Dude I'm not 6th generation anything. I'm Asian, living in Asia. Expand your mind of what TRP can be. Very ironic for a guy saying "the world is larger than you think, learn Mandarin". Weird.
/r/askTRP08/07/19 09:22 AM
2

Lol what an idiot. It means I know what I'm talking about, and I know it better than you do. Take 2 minutes and think about it.
/r/askTRP08/07/19 08:52 AM
5

Show me one red pill youtuber worth giving 10:03 minutes (cause ad revenue) of my time to and I will show you 10 books/articles you can read in the same time to make yourself better I grew up on YouTube from pre-nigahiga days to a few weeks ago. YouTube is now an ad platform and a social media site. They don't support independent creators and 99% of it is self-indulgent, bordering on pornographic, noise. Take my advice, delete it now, and live a better life. Create, don't consume.
/r/askTRP08/07/19 08:50 AM
5

What the fuck dude I'm Asian hahaha
/r/askTRP08/07/19 08:40 AM
1

Ignore.
/r/askTRP08/07/19 07:56 AM
1

I slept with my high school English teacher. She was a cutie, and it was after high school. Hmmm she always used to flirt with me and we had a connection. She liked how 'active' I was in student activities. She wanted the dick, we made it happen. Make yourself socially dominant.
/r/askTRP08/07/19 07:55 AM
5

Delete YouTube. Read.
/r/askTRP08/07/19 07:52 AM
7

Demotion is penalty. You basically want a non-monogamous relationship. Talk to her about it. Learn how to do it right first
/r/askTRP08/07/19 07:51 AM
1

Building your social circle is the most important thing you can do, apart from hitting the gym. One activity each night, outdoors, a few different groups.
/r/askTRP08/07/19 07:50 AM
1

Write this in less than 3 sentences, and I will try to help you.
/r/askTRP08/07/19 07:48 AM
5

Do this if you're stupid enough to not believe women everywhere are the same. What do you think is going to happen? Learn and improve frame, don't settle for lower quality women.
/r/askTRP08/07/19 07:47 AM
1

No you literal-taking dumb bell. You don't matter, now. Keep at it. Matter. Do things that matter. Keep going. You may matter in 5-10 years. You don't matter now. Make a post or don't make a post. Stop talking about it. Out.
/r/askTRP03/07/19 07:16 AM
2

Yes there is. It's called TRP. You don't matter as much as you think you do. Write a field report. Write a post. Get comments. This doesn't matter as much as you think it does. Shit, or get off the pot. How do I know this? I made the exact same post a few months back. I had the same attitude. I received some rude but also insightful comments from ECs that showed me how little I mattered, then. You don't climb a molehill and make a mountain of it. You have a long, long, long way to go.
/r/askTRP03/07/19 04:32 AM
3

No. Do it when you've done it a 100 times. There's enough noise in the world. Add value.
/r/askTRP03/07/19 02:56 AM
41

Your girlfriend is bi, and your post is gay
/r/askTRP03/07/19 02:54 AM
0

Of course I am. And I am.
/r/askTRP01/07/19 03:30 AM
0

Doesn't change the facts.
/r/askTRP01/07/19 02:33 AM
2

Yeah, I don't think you should wear the watch. You're not fun enough and don't have the attitude to carry it.
/r/askTRP01/07/19 01:04 AM
0

So to recap a woman who's into you comes to your door wearing slutty clothes, and you don't have the balls to close.
/r/askTRP01/07/19 12:56 AM
1

Depends. If you can manage the cost of living, and you'd enjoy the big city life, it's the place you want to be.
/r/askTRP01/07/19 12:53 AM
1

How long do you plan to live?
/r/askTRP01/07/19 12:51 AM
1

Yeah, I have some advice. Sucks, doesn't it? I've been down the road you've been on, I know where your heads at. The only problem you have rn are your shame and fear. There's nothing wrong with you. You're just like everybody else. I say this with no malice, no hurt, no moralisation, but we live in a shameless, hateful world. People take out their insufficiencies and disappointments on each other, in twisted, angry, big and small ways. Murder, rape, drug use, crime, and the violations of the sou…
/r/askTRP01/07/19 12:48 AM
1

Effective*
/r/askTRP01/07/19 12:36 AM
2

Wait, what? You're not trying to flex wearing the fake version of a 20k watch. That's the only weird part about this post. Tch. Don't lie to yourself. Don't rationalise the pros and cons. Go for it. Wear it. Have fun. Assuming it's good quality, works and looks and feels good, go for it.
/r/askTRP01/07/19 12:35 AM
3

Oh buddy, no. "I want to walk down dark alleys late at night with my wallet out to experience the ups and downs of getting mugged"; "I want to invest all my money in Blockbuster franchises to experience what it's like to be poor"; "I want to jump into the river to experience what it's like to drown". You want to end this relationship now. I don't say that lightly. But if she's changing her mind on things like this on a whim, have a conversation why. She definitely should not be your girlfriend a…
/r/askTRP01/07/19 12:31 AM
1

Hey, give me some time. I'm trying to think of a helpful response.
/r/askTRP01/07/19 12:22 AM
2

This isn't the seduction subreddit. You're approaching this the wrong way. Always assume attraction. Prioritize your time. If you're actually gaming a woman, if you've shown you're high value, if you've been having fun, and she's still not biting, move on. This is more a problem of "I don't know what to say or do". Learn more about game, learn more about escalation. Have a strategy for women, not just tactics. Start from sosuave and Real Social Dynamics if you don't know where to start, hell sta…
/r/askTRP01/07/19 12:16 AM
1

K.
/r/askTRP29/06/19 10:44 PM
2

The two redpills clash again. To type so much and make a point so badly must be a gift. I appreciate your point. Is it possible, conceivable for a person's lived experience to be different from yours?
/r/askTRP29/06/19 10:02 PM
2

Why?
/r/askTRP29/06/19 09:31 PM
2

Good question. What do you want to know?
/r/askTRP29/06/19 09:21 PM
6

Thank you for saying that. If every man listened to every commenter on TRP, he'd divorce every woman he met and like, be raising wolves in a cabin in the depths of Newfoundland.
/r/askTRP29/06/19 08:40 PM
2

I would say this is less about trickle truth and more about being alpha widow-ed. This was completely unconscious. In her mind, there is only man, and that is her ex. You are, or were until recently, only her comfort pillow for night, a roof over her head and a wallet. Now you're more than those things. Now you're giving her those feelings which she associates with him. Her subconscious got confused. Trickle trickle is a strategic tool for plausible deniability women use to consicously lie to th…
/r/askTRP29/06/19 08:38 PM
3

This is completely addressed. No one reads the sidebar. 48 Laws of Power. Pook. You always want everything to seem "lucky". Everything should seem effortless. Women don't want to know about your life, how hard you work, diet, exercise, the months and years it took you to get here. They want to believe they're with the luckiest, smartest, richest, sexiest man in the world, cause he just is those things. This is always a good thing. And they're not idiots. They know you work hard. They just don't …
/r/askTRP29/06/19 08:32 PM
2

Yeah, you're right. My bad. Best of luck. For your sake I hope you figure it out sooner, rather than later.
/r/askTRP29/06/19 08:08 PM
1

Sure, but it's more helpful than you think.
/r/RedPillWomen29/06/19 07:02 PM
1

This is a brilliant question and the responses here just confirms that this definitely 100% a question I'm going to be asking any woman I get serious with in the future. I don't think I'd control our finances, because I'd never pool them in any significant manner, but what a great potential litmus test on whether she's capable of running a household and a wardrobe on a budget.
/r/RedPillWomen29/06/19 06:12 PM
5

This may seem like the most counterintuitive advice you'll ever get, but based on everything I know about you, you're going to be eaten alive. Everything you've just described is like the puzzle pieces of the high beta, coming together. These are the things exactly that they say. I will eat you alive. You will live a satisfactory life, but never a happy life, a fine plowhorse, but 10-20 years from now, you're going to be married, cheated on, seperated, and divorced, if you're lucky only once. Yo…
/r/askTRP29/06/19 06:04 PM
4

Two thoughts: Think of the future, not the past. If you were in any point from the 1970 to 1990s, I'd say programmer. Now programmer's while well paid, are a dime a dozen and the older you are, the more pink slips you're collecting. That's a plan for 10 years, not the next 50. You want to move up the ladder, be the one sanctioning the employee appreciation budget rather than receiving a 10th of it. People skills, and not (just) the kind you learn at management school. My biggest professional ass…
/r/askTRP29/06/19 05:34 PM
7

Intro: My answer. Body: I've found whenever I feel weird escalating its because I'm not comfortable. This is usually due to two reasons: (a) mental stress; or (b) I'm not attracted to the girl. (a) can be caused by moralistic, religious feelings-smile and tell yourself they're bs; (b) I'm too focused on work or something work related. In which case I either stop and get that done or find a mental solution to the work problem for now and move on (I have to send X email...I will send it at 10pm...…
/r/askTRP29/06/19 02:16 PM
2

Ok. Firstly, good job, I'm happy for you, live a good life. There's nothing and there is nothing stopping any men who find the Red Pill from having a good life. In my experience, there are two "red pill worlds". The first red pill world is out in the real world, and the second red pill world is here. If you look at the world around you, in its design, function and how people live their daily lives, they understand and acknowledge most red pill truths. They just don't like it called the red pill …
/r/askTRP29/06/19 02:07 PM
1

I understand. I'm not going to give you a prescription. If you're a Red Pill man, read men in love, read women in love, read them again, and think for yourself. Caring and loving for other people is not a bad thing. Let it coming in the way of loving yourself and putting your plans into action is. Google blackdragon No disney.
/r/askTRP29/06/19 12:22 PM
1

Yes, something is going on. You're catching feelings for this girl. Just because it's not the answer you want doesn't mean it's not the answer you need. That's the situation. It's not a bad thing to catch feelings for your girlfriend. Evaluate whether this is good for you and proceed.
/r/askTRP29/06/19 11:16 AM
1

What do you think it means. You just stated it.
/r/askTRP29/06/19 10:22 AM
1

Yup.
/r/askTRP29/06/19 10:21 AM
1

To teach you, in ways you may not be ready to learn.
/r/askTRP29/06/19 10:21 AM
0

Think about it and tell me. Don't disrespect your intellect so easily.
/r/askTRP29/06/19 10:20 AM
1

Thanks
/r/askTRP29/06/19 10:18 AM
1

Will check out
/r/askTRP29/06/19 10:18 AM
2

Well, what does "having your fun" mean for you? Look man, 1. You can almost always find a good girl, if you're the right guy. 2. It should be job to worry about keeping you and the relationship, not the other way around. 3. Define what fun means for you. If fun is with this girl, and it continue to be with this girl, why waste your life and time doing not fun things? 4. Always have options. 5. Its not always going to be this way. Keep options. Plan for non-monogamy. Monogamy, is generally unsust…
/r/askTRP28/06/19 03:20 PM
0

Stopped reading after don't like the word "ambition". Do you like the words "I'm sorry, but we're giving Greg that position, even though he joined just now and you've been here 5 years doing that job. Actually, can you train Greg on how to be your boss". Why waste our times like this? Work or don't work. The battlefield is no place to start quoting haikus.
/r/askTRP28/06/19 03:15 PM
1

Nah, bad advice. Trying too hard. Let her get back to you. All of these are shit tests. You should make plans to meet up and chat her up generally, just treat it as "whatever". She's young, doesn't know what she wants, is trying to get you to chase. Don't. She's not proving she's worth it so far.
/r/askTRP28/06/19 03:13 PM
1

Buddy, that's not a shit test. That's a bye bye.
/r/askTRP28/06/19 03:10 PM
2

You have 300 women waiting for you, you have a strategy in place and you've understood what you want from each of them. What are you waiting for my validation for?
/r/askTRP28/06/19 03:09 PM
1

Ok. This is already too long. Hamster wheel. Get off of it.
/r/askTRP28/06/19 03:07 PM
1

lol no they don't. Any half-way hot feminist is dating a high beta and fucking a Red Pill man. The number of times I've heard "Feminist in the streets, misogynist in the sheets". Feminist=choke me, misogyny fetish, consensual non-consent/rape kink.
/r/askTRP28/06/19 03:06 PM
-1

"Short and sweet" 3 paragraphs later... Realistically, if you're asking, you're not at that point yet.
/r/askTRP28/06/19 03:03 PM
2

"Anyone here drown just a little bit?"
/r/askTRP28/06/19 03:02 PM
1

Good on you for saying it.
/r/askTRP28/06/19 03:00 PM
1

Well, I think we both know this is about something deeper than just responding to texts. Ask that question and answer it for yourself.
/r/askTRP28/06/19 02:59 PM
1

"Nice"
/r/askTRP28/06/19 02:57 PM
1

You're catching feels. Evaluate for yourself whether that's a good thing.
/r/askTRP28/06/19 02:57 PM
2

Thanks.
/r/askTRP28/06/19 02:45 PM
9

What's wrong with the classic answers "We're just friends"; "It's complicated"; "No comment"; "I don't know". If there's one thing I've learnt from reading celebrity articles next to the comics in the supplementary papers...
/r/askTRP28/06/19 11:18 AM
1

Graduate. I hope you can see this is a low value question, searching for validation.
/r/askTRP25/06/19 11:10 AM
18

Your only problem is your shame.
/r/askTRP25/06/19 09:48 AM
5

"Would you want it to go slowly?" Stop banging your roommate. Why would you add this drama to your life? For future reference.
/r/askTRP25/06/19 09:02 AM
6

Depends on context. Usually "Stop checking me out".
/r/askTRP25/06/19 08:58 AM
5

It means to add value with every word you say.
/r/askTRP25/06/19 08:58 AM
2

Be high quality yourself.
/r/askTRP25/06/19 08:57 AM
1

Who cares?
/r/askTRP25/06/19 08:56 AM
2

Yes. Than most guys*. Guys are also Veblen goods for women.
/r/askTRP08/06/19 04:02 PM
2

Because women operate through a hierarchy of beauty. It doesn't matter how useless,uncomfortable or expensive an item is, if its shiny or cute, it will increase her prestige and status among women. It will give her a personality and help her stand out, in her eyes. Whoever has the cutest, most expensive nonsense wins this female dick-waving contest.
/r/askTRP07/06/19 08:11 PM
28

Hahahaha shit son. Did you just realise why people are investing so heavily in keeping Instagram, Facebook running as advertisers, why people pay influencers and that the makeup, fashion and accessories industries are one of the strongest in the world? Women will kill a whale if it means getting oil that can be used in moisturizer so that she can cling on her to fast depleting physical value. Women know this. Its most men who need to get the memo. None of this is rational, all of it is exploitat…
/r/askTRP07/06/19 10:12 AM
1

If they're checking their phone on a date out of habit, I simply grab it and put it in my pocket. I continue as if nothing happened. I tell them they can have it back at the end of the date if they're good girl. Problem solved.
/r/askTRP06/06/19 03:58 AM
1

That's true. Gotta keep remembering that. He's my younger brother though, he looks up to me. I don't have social media. Should I talk to him about it, with this thought at the back of my mind about not being able to fix him?
/r/askTRP04/06/19 04:40 PM
1

Good thoughts. Going to try to communicate this to him without being an asshole, sanctimonious about it
/r/askTRP04/06/19 04:38 PM
2

Good idea.
/r/askTRP04/06/19 04:38 PM
0

Good idea.
/r/askTRP04/06/19 04:37 PM
0

It's a complete waste of time, gives the illusion of socialising and its a sinkhole of time, attention and privacy.
/r/askTRP04/06/19 04:37 PM
1

What the fuck is inhib? Talk like a person. It could not have been easier typing inhib instead of inhibition. I can see your problem is different from the what the question suggests. You're talking about being low energy/high energy. I mean, recognize you're going to be low energy sometimes. That's not a bad thing. If you're constantly available and have no social inhibition, your time and interaction is worthless and not valuable socially, and people would not want to associate with you. Take t…
/r/askTRP02/06/19 08:43 PM
3

Worst response.
/r/askTRP02/06/19 08:38 PM
10

I don't see anything wrong with what you've described. Being any more direct, especially at work, will only get you kicked. Women like to earn a man's love. If they can get your attention just by a compliment, they won't be impressed. Obviously it's an IoI, but you have to keep that way. Go with the flow, evaluate her. In my experience, it is rarely that a girl who is direct about compliments like that is high-value, unless she's really high-value, which would become obvious the minute she's in …
/r/askTRP02/06/19 08:38 PM
1

The last few lines are very confusing. What are you saying? For an average joe like Jim, this is the dream. He has a woman in his team, who knows the business, doing the work and coaching him to success. She is serving him. Jim can live an easy life, as long as he maintains frame in their sexual married life. I know this is hard to accept for a lot of people new to the Red Pill and in the anger phase, but not all actions of women are bad things and not all women are bad. It takes time to accept,…
/r/TheRedPill01/06/19 05:00 AM
1

I appreciate the time you took to write that.
/r/askTRP21/05/19 01:00 PM
1

I do. I am a happy man. It's more like a love to give, and want to give it to someone, that the kind of relationship I have only with plates is not romantically or sexually fulfilling.
/r/askTRP19/05/19 05:27 PM
4

Nah, L'Oreal told me that too.
/r/askTRP18/05/19 02:56 PM
2

I'd like there to be one day when I am only responsible for what I write, not what you read, but I suppose today will not be that day.
/r/askTRP18/05/19 06:05 AM
2

The problem with that approach is it invites too much drama and can backfire, they are after all friends of some sort, and you want to avoid unnecessarily establishing low social proof.
/r/askTRP18/05/19 05:56 AM
2

Hmm this could be good advice. If not executed properly it can come off as needy and unnecessarily enter his frame. Perhaps better than "is this your boyfriend" would be "hey look its your boyfriend". Creates more sexual tension and deflates him immediately.
/r/askTRP18/05/19 05:55 AM
1

When's the wedding is great, if executed properly. Good advice.
/r/askTRP18/05/19 05:53 AM
1

Mostly night game. Day game people don't really care much.
/r/askTRP17/05/19 05:23 PM
1

Hello my friend, Welcome to Sigma Game :)
/r/askTRP17/05/19 01:40 PM
1

Hey look you're quoting from your own post.
/r/askTRP14/05/19 05:24 PM
2

Hey buddy, I can see from your question that you're new to the red pill. That's fine. Look up Let's Just Be Friends. Use this as a learning experience to see that any more time and energy you give her is a waste of time, your time and energy are valuable and just delete her number from your phone, unfollow her everywhere etc. Take the next few months to read the sidebar, read the top posts on TRP and read TRP books like Book of Pook, No More Mr. Nice Guy and apply the same. You need to know this…
/r/askTRP14/05/19 05:22 PM
2

I think that may be too advanced for him.
/r/askTRP14/05/19 05:19 PM
1

As a fellow sigma here, I 100% get where you're coming from. Socially however, there are wide benefits to having a tribe and group of men you can rely on and who can rely on you.
/r/askTRP14/05/19 04:18 PM
1

Absolutely.
/r/askTRP14/05/19 04:17 PM
5

Huh. I took a couple of minutes to think about this and honestly I don't have any. There are different qualities I admire in different men, such as Warren Buffet and Bill Gates, but I don't want to be like them. I like being me, more than anyone else. I'm lucky to have influential mentors, but I wouldn't want to be anyone else. So I guess the answer is me, I'm my male role model.
/r/askTRP14/05/19 04:13 PM
42

Because women communicate covertly. Saying "I like guys with big muscles" in public is asking for a world of pain from beta guys and other women calling her a shallow whore, or atleast in her mind what is a world of pain, so she learns to avoid it. Covert communication. Actions not words.
/r/askTRP14/05/19 04:10 PM
3

Check out the law of power threads; there was a discussion of this in one of the early ones.
/r/askTRP13/05/19 08:11 PM
2

She learns that your boundaries don't mean shit and she can break them again.
/r/askTRP13/05/19 12:31 PM
1

Because they wish they were him.
/r/askTRP13/05/19 10:00 AM
1

Well, I knew this was going to be good, and I was not disappointed.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/19 04:59 PM
1

Yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/19 04:57 PM
2

I mean, I would say you're right apart from the last line. I think that's just a stereotype. All women are at some level clingy, annoying, overly emotional and stupid, so while high-value men do select for not having that, they also like to keep those girls around for the ego-boost.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/19 04:57 PM
2

Well, Your premise that Beta men getting casual sex is wrong. Most beta men have to do a lot of provider work to get any sex, including casual sex, and most men are usually getting relationship sex, whether they like it or not. Women have 100s and 100s of options...in their early 20s. By their late 20s, those attractive options are drying up, they're not getting any younger, and a new girl turns 18 everyday. The market is cruel but fair, unless you're delusioned. Now she has to fend for herself,…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/19 04:51 PM
1

I'm glad you had a fun night, but for all your abundance in trying to pick up girls, you have no outcome independence. You really, really wanted them to come home with you, and you were afraid they were going to go away. You should have played it off like "yeah, I got some candies at my place, they're extremely rare and a delicacy in my country, I have a few more, lets go to my place and you can have them". While trying to execute this pull you need: Max IDGAF, you don't want sex, you just want …
/r/askTRP11/05/19 04:35 PM
1

Oh go full rough. That's not even the question. In fact, not to get in your head, but if you don't you're more likely to face rape charges. See, this time of girl can have an unstable tendency to them. I have a lot of experience with these wonderful, broken creatures. You most probably have nothing to worry about, but, take pretty much standard precautions. Screenshot all the conversations wherein she said she gave consent, explicitly ask for it, in a hot way, and screenshot that; save all and a…
/r/askTRP11/05/19 04:26 PM
2

Well, sex is weird and people get off in weird ways. I have a girl rn who loves sitting on dustbins while masturbating and licked the toilet seat for me. I just wanted to see if she would do it. So yeah, go for it, you do you, what else is there to do
/r/askTRP11/05/19 04:22 PM
3

By going out into the market and testing your product. There is no other way.
/r/askTRP11/05/19 04:19 PM
0

Slut realises she's being a slut and hates herself for it, in the middle of being a slut. And no I don't use "slut" as an antonym for "quality women", all women are sluts for the right man. What you experienced is something which is not your problem, which is the distance between her body and her mind on her attraction to you. Her body says yes yes yes, I want sex, but her mind, due to social conditioning and her experience and relationship with sex and her body so far says "no, no, no" she need…
/r/askTRP11/05/19 04:18 PM
2

By doing. There really is no other way. There is no secret mantra, there is no secret society. There is nothing I can say or do that will magically fix you. That's your job. So do it.
/r/askTRP11/05/19 04:08 PM
5

Yes. Fuck them. That's the best way to do it. Seriously, just literally reinitiate contact with a couple of plates you liked and smash them. You don't have time for two texts a day and 30-45 minutes of sex two times a week? Even Jeff Bezos had time for an affair, as beta as it was, and you're not Jeff Bezos. Sex is a good thing.
/r/askTRP11/05/19 04:06 PM
2

I would never try anything but I made a post about it. And I call her a hot girl. Pick a lane. Fuck her or do not. Do not waste your time hamstering about it.
/r/askTRP11/05/19 04:04 PM
2

The thing about a bull in a china shop is that it doesn't stop to have a considered conversation. You are blinded by your anger and emotions right now, and any answer I give you will only either validate that feeling or vindicate yourself in your mind. The reality is, as you go out into the world, this too shall pass. And it'll come back. And pass again. It's the world, at its core. This is not a bad thing, so stop moralizing about it. I would say best of luck, you're not at a positive MGTOW sta…
/r/askTRP11/05/19 04:00 PM
5

My only advice to you would be to take off your headphones, switch off your mobile phone screen and look around. There is a world around you, making sound, movements, and you can literally hear people's thoughts through their actions. This "not caring" or "not interested" is, at this stage, more likely a manifestation of ego protection to prevent yourself from the risk of actually talking to people rather than the realisation of what you do and do not care about. Take your head out of the sand a…
/r/askTRP11/05/19 03:56 PM
3

Its something I struggle with as well. The reality is you have to arbitrate your values for yourself. No one can tell you how to live your life, nor is anyone else going to live it. Your values will be your compass in this world, whether you're a king or when shit hits the fan. Figure those out. Machiavellanism is a mindset and a set of behaviours, a means to an end, but its only a set of behaviours; you need to decide what that end is.
/r/askTRP11/05/19 03:50 PM
-1

You don't. You move on to better things. Accept your turn is over. Maybe you'll get another one with her. In any case, not your problem. This behavioral part of TRP where the rubber meets the road is where most of you fail.
/r/askTRP11/05/19 03:47 PM
5

I sometimes have a hard time reconciling this with the 48 Laws of Power, or similar parts of TRP. Its as if you have this pretty much sure set way to success and power (but not..happiness?). So many of our conventional understanding of "morals" are blue-pill ("do the right thing"), that anybody who finds themselves blasted into this side of the matrix can have a hard time reconciling these, and TRP does advocate a form of optimistic nihilism about the world (definitely the sidebar does-from men …
/r/askTRP11/05/19 08:17 AM
6

Exactly!
/r/askTRP06/05/19 07:24 AM
4

Is he fat or just not jacked?
/r/askTRP03/05/19 07:59 AM
8

Pimp game is the best game. But what you're describing isn't pimp game. You are worried about this girl grinding on other dudes and you do want to LTR her. Firstly, strip clubs are a bad financial idea since that industry is on the decline. Those women are scraping the bottom of the barrel and they know it, so obviously they turn to prostitution, which is a problem for you. If she goes into stripping, she will be fucking other guys, for money or for pleasure, and that's a guarantee. Secondly, yo…
/r/askTRP01/05/19 08:10 PM
4

Absolutely.
/r/askTRP01/05/19 08:04 PM
1

Selective hearing disorder at 27 is young.
/r/askTRP01/05/19 07:36 PM
3

That's the winning attitude! "I don't track, I do things cause I don't understand, I keep my habits and thinking the same, I know where I want to be but wherever I get is where I get, life is a mystery lol :)".
/r/askTRP01/05/19 06:59 PM
1

Wait, one guy made one comment and you're ready to give up on fatherhood and being with your daughter? I don't care about the societal implications of absentee fathers, but I do care that that's what you outlined for yourself as your goal and what you value. I mean, you wanted to be in this child's life and hated the idea of it, but now you're "blindfolded by fatherhood". So whatever else you do, get your head screwed on straight, for yourself: do you want to be in this child's life or not, and …
/r/askTRP01/05/19 06:30 PM
1

Well, I lost 15 pounds in one week doing OMAD, most of it was water weight. That rate is not sustainable however and you'll drive yourself crazy checking the scales every day or two days. You want to lose weight at a rate of 3/4 pounds or even 1 pound a day. Let's do the maths. Each kg comprises of 7,700 calories. Each Kg is 2.2lbs. So each pound is 3500 calories. For a man of your height, age and weight, assuming a sedentary office job lifestyle your TDEE is 2427 calories a day, that is, in ord…
/r/askTRP01/05/19 06:23 PM
1

You wouldn't. Game is rarely a neat maths equation. There is no Game in theory.
/r/askTRP01/05/19 02:21 PM
4

The idea that monk mode and approaching women for sex are somehow disconnected needs to be taken behind the barn and shot a horrible death with multiple rounds of shotguns for as long as necessary. I have no mercy for that idea. It doesn't matter how good your product is if it's not in the market. It doesn't matter how "optimal" it is if you have the greatest product designer but no sales and Marketing team. That's a product not a company. You could a picture perfect 10 who shuts himself up at h…
/r/askTRP01/05/19 12:02 PM
1

Love the username, very kinky 👍🏾
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/19 06:22 AM
1

See the rest of my comments.
/r/askTRP30/04/19 08:19 AM
1

Higher income tax, lower earning potential I believe.
/r/askTRP29/04/19 03:51 PM
2

What?
/r/askTRP29/04/19 03:18 PM
1

Yeah, it does. Time is a crazy powerful force that can either work against you or for you.
/r/askTRP29/04/19 02:47 PM
13

I did a study of this. Atlanta, GA has the best income to cost of living ratio for my related professional field, for a early-mid 20s renting professional, and lowest state income tax iirc, where I can make 100k+ p.a. And keep close to 50% in savings.
/r/askTRP29/04/19 02:43 PM
9

It is indeed a balancing act. I am however happy that the UK has maintained its common law tradition of strict adherence to the principle of fairness of trial.
/r/TheRedPill29/04/19 02:37 PM
8

As a thought experiment, would you believe this is an acceptable method of collection of evidence in other forms of crime or even Civil evidence?
/r/TheRedPill29/04/19 02:36 PM
1

That response told me that you that it is not a valuable endeavour to engage in this with you. Men have to go it their own way. Sucks, but it's true.
/r/askTRP29/04/19 12:08 PM
1

For me, it was that my voice got sexier. It also indicates "fun and wild". There's a pleateau though, keep it up and it'll make you unattractive in a few years, fuck up your teeth and mouth.
/r/askTRP29/04/19 12:07 PM
1

See, you're clearly Beta to be doing this, so let's get that out of the way. If this arrangement is working for you, keep at it, BUT don't expect it to end well, and definitely don't invest any more resources on her.
/r/askTRP29/04/19 12:05 PM
1

Nope.
/r/askTRP29/04/19 12:03 PM
1

Yeah go for it. Set up the meeting direct. This is win-win. She knows why she got them.
/r/askTRP29/04/19 12:02 PM
1

The idea isn't to do things at dances, sports meets etc. It's to interact, make contact with lady friends you can hit up later via texting, social media, set up dates.
/r/askTRP29/04/19 11:58 AM
1

Usually, in my country, all boy's schools have sister or related all girl's schools that they interact with, have dances with etc. Is that not an option?
/r/askTRP29/04/19 11:54 AM
2

Just to be clear, why do you need to reply to this?
/r/askTRP29/04/19 11:51 AM
1

Well analysed, and I would say well compartmentalised too, for inclusion of black swans. Again, there are different methods that work for different people, but I would say you're misunderstanding the essence of how it works. It's not to do "categories" of tasks or about streamlining them. You asked for a quantifiable way in which you can look at your tasks at the end of the day and go "I achieved this/I did not achieve this", it doesn't have to do with categories as much as with specific tasks "…
/r/askTRP29/04/19 11:47 AM
2

Yeah, cause that's hypergamy. That's just how it is. Even the chaddest of Chads has had his heart broken. It's part of the game.
/r/askTRP29/04/19 11:22 AM
1

Lean and muscular, low BF. The face will follow. Underappreciated: the importance of posture.
/r/askTRP29/04/19 11:20 AM
1

I do.
/r/askTRP29/04/19 11:19 AM
2

You see the consequences of breaking frame. Use this as a learning experience. Don't get scared of approaching, but if a girls trying to cockblock you you're doing something right. Definitely never get angry or appear to lose your cool on a cold approach, and never insult a friend, that's negative social proof. Just don't go there for a bit and don't worry about it. It's less a deal than you think. But skip it for a week or two. Also, keep a rotation of locations, never just go to one location. …
/r/askTRP29/04/19 11:18 AM
1

So I don't use Instagram, but one of the prominent PUAs in India does and does effectively. What he does he only posts pictures of his "exotic, exciting, rich" life. So every 3 pictures you're going to have one foreign or exotic location, one picture of an exciting experience like skydiving and one picture of high class/fun food and restaurants. You can build up quite easily from there. Don't think he's published anything on it.
/r/askTRP29/04/19 11:12 AM
7

This isn't exactly Red Pill, more generic advice, but an effective system is the '5 points a day', wherein you make a list of 5 actions you want to achieve in a day, you take stock at the end of the day which you achieved, and you carry forward any that didn't. Massive immediate focus and transparency. Pioneered in the hey-day of thinking of productivity and relationship management by industrial executives in 1920s America. I may have gotten the name wrong, but you can check out more on James cl…
/r/askTRP29/04/19 11:10 AM
2

It's always tough, but you hear the happiness in their face and the hope in their eyes...even going into a 2nd or 3rd marriage. You hope it'll work out. The factual reality is the world is blue pill, and marriage is one of the best ways for most betas to access women's intimacy. In the larger scheme it's a losing strategy, but everyone can't be a 20% man.
/r/askTRP29/04/19 11:06 AM
1

How much clearer do you need than "got a stranger pregnant: a guide". Apply the principles. Ignorance is not a sign of superiority, and appeals to helplessness, as well documented on the main sub, are Beta, a feminine play. Your inability to read is not the world's obligation to spoon feed.
/r/askTRP29/04/19 10:58 AM
0

Glad you could recognise that.
/r/askTRP29/04/19 08:53 AM
0

Read the rest of my comments.
/r/askTRP29/04/19 06:43 AM
8

"Hoping she was LTR material" is the problem here. She's rescheduling right? Have fun. On the other hand, if you do want an LTR, break it off. Your insecurities, however, are not her disrespect.
/r/askTRP29/04/19 03:38 AM
5

You may think the initial convo was short, but that's not a bad thing. You've established frame as a doer, not a talker. Call her, and laugh about how you met and how you never do this, and then mention you're going for a local music event/movie which should be fun, and invite her.
/r/askTRP29/04/19 03:36 AM
-6

Good on ya for recognising that.
/r/askTRP29/04/19 03:23 AM
18

You're hitting the nail on the head almost, but domination /=seriousness and intensity. My point is you can be fun without being funny and you don't need to be funny all the time. The deal is done, so now shut the fuck up and enjoy yourself.
/r/askTRP29/04/19 03:14 AM
5

Hey, I regularly cold approach in India, but I am in a metro. Kahan se ho? PM me if you don't want to reveal aise hi.
/r/askTRP29/04/19 02:39 AM
1

No the kind of joints I had in mind, but "Why don't you come over and find out" still works
/r/askTRP29/04/19 02:35 AM
1

Sidebar on here.
/r/askTRP29/04/19 02:32 AM
1

It didn't really give me that "eat, pray, love" Instagram bs learning. I did gather a lot of great experiences, new places, and new people. It basically became an adventure and a challenge to explore a new land and meet new people, have new experiences.
/r/askTRP29/04/19 02:30 AM
5

"Suppose for the sake of the question of the question that you do feel jealousy" No. I don't feel jealousy. Jealousy over a plate? What a waste of time. Repeat after me. This is a good thing.
/r/askTRP29/04/19 02:25 AM
4

Well, firstly, if you can't do anything better, why wouldn't you lie to get what you want? Secondly, yeah sometimes it's an issue. It's also an issue for some girls to be too old, too short, too tall, did you grow up in Boston or Somerville, is your dad a mechanic or a plumber, did you wear a red shirt or green. Women are always looking for excuses to disqualify you and not fuck you. In this regard, sometimes first disqualify them. But really, who cares what they think. If you can make her physi…
/r/askTRP29/04/19 02:20 AM
-71

I sure as hell won't stay silent, but yes, I will "swoon" her hahahaha, with my Alpha pheromones. You are going to be so bad at cross, don't go into trial.
/r/askTRP29/04/19 02:13 AM
-11

Damn good.
/r/askTRP29/04/19 02:11 AM
29

"Yeah, pretty much. I'll get some snacks". Because that's what you're doing. Stop trying to Jedi mind trick girls into bed. If she comes over and she looks cute and you feel like it, put your hand on her thigh and your mouth and hers, but otherwise, have a good time! Also, everyone's asking from a position of their frame. Figure out your frame, and you won't need to ask the internet for every text to send, you'd know it.
/r/askTRP29/04/19 02:08 AM
32

This inability to shut the fuck up and always try to act "funny" is the reason most of you don't get laid.
/r/askTRP29/04/19 02:06 AM
1

It's not disrespect and it's not bad behaviour for a girl to have a personality, a sense of humour and a past, and the sooner you accept that, the sooner you can be with women irl instead of whatever conception you have in your head, the happier you'll be.
/r/askTRP29/04/19 01:59 AM
2

See my comment below.
/r/askTRP28/04/19 05:26 PM
3

Because: It shows you're dealing with women in theory, not practice. Women talk like this, women behave like this. All women. If you don't know that they just haven't shown it to you yet. It's massively butthurt over something that doesn't concern you and you have no control over her, her previous relationships and sluttiness. She's really not yours, it's just your turn. Every time I see comments like these I wonder about the quality of women these guys are dealing with or thinking about. Any ha…
/r/askTRP28/04/19 05:26 PM
8

Fun, masculine energy. Everything else is secondary. Your life is awesome and you want to give her a tourist visa into your fun world, valid for 4-6 hrs and extendable for good behaviour.
/r/askTRP28/04/19 05:19 PM
1

Could you elaborate?
/r/RedPillWomen28/04/19 05:16 PM
1

Then forget about it.
/r/askTRP28/04/19 07:37 AM
1

A new batch turns 18 every day.
/r/askTRP28/04/19 06:54 AM
1

Who cares?
/r/askTRP28/04/19 06:53 AM
2

Yeah, got for it. Should be fun. Be clear that it's not a "date", that you're new to the city and just hanging out. Have fun. Who knows, you may hookup with one of her friends. Don't pay for anything you don't have to though, that's when you know you're fucked.
/r/askTRP28/04/19 06:48 AM
1

The seminars and boot camps aren't snake oil, but they are expensive, yes. There are two groups of people they're meant for: rich losers who want to get out of the house and need a "coach" to shout in their ear so that they approach a girl at a club, and a smaller portion of experienced gamers looking for specific tips to improve your game. You can learn a lot from the videos itself. Good on the reading! Now go out and practice.
/r/askTRP28/04/19 06:46 AM
1

Yeah, delete it. Don't re-download until you're a celebrity.
/r/askTRP28/04/19 06:43 AM
1

Good question. The reality we're hard-wired to be liked, because not being liked in pre-historic times meant you were going to be left out, and going to be killed. The interesting thing is people who didn't care about being liked took what they want, focused on work, made new discoveries. They actually pushed themselves and society forward, and they were liked for the value they provided, not some thin old-age fleeting social calculus. Make yourself truly valuable. The thing is it's a process, t…
/r/askTRP28/04/19 06:41 AM
1

These kind of responses make me want to throw up.
/r/askTRP28/04/19 06:37 AM
-1

These kind of responses make me want to throw up.
/r/askTRP28/04/19 06:37 AM
4

Rookie mistake. You guys were playing a game, having fun, you introduced real stakes and made the conversation "serious". Imagine playing Risk and everyone's having a good time and then you draw a gun and shoot the next guy in the face shouting "Asia's mine!". You did the conversational equivalent. Don't engage. Just kind of act like you never said that, whatever, and change the subject, move on.
/r/askTRP28/04/19 06:34 AM
3

I think he lucked out, if she's stupid enough to throw away something good on something like that then good riddance, time to move on. Probably sounds like shit test drama that should be ignored.
/r/askTRP28/04/19 06:31 AM
0

67.5%.
/r/askTRP28/04/19 06:29 AM
2

I'll miss OP.
/r/askTRP28/04/19 04:31 AM
5

Don't do it overtly then and there. Just make an anonymous tip to the manager and..let him handle it
/r/askTRP27/04/19 07:09 PM
7

I occasionally read something good but otherwise it can be a shit show.
/r/askTRP27/04/19 07:08 PM
2

Yup. Pretty much. Shit tests are part of the game. Are you fun? Can you be fun? Ooh wee.
/r/askTRP27/04/19 06:57 PM
8

I thought you were more red pilled than this. I am disappointed in you.
/r/askTRP27/04/19 06:45 PM
7

Yeah, its dissapointing. You think they'd know better.
/r/askTRP27/04/19 06:44 PM
12

Cause it shows you're threatened, it shows you can be threatened and that you will place him on a pedestal reactively when threatened. No better way to say "I'm low-value, look at me". Shut the fuck up.
/r/askTRP27/04/19 06:35 PM
1

There's a fine line between dread and acting butthurt. One way to figure it out is do her actions affect you. Lunch is lunch
/r/askTRP27/04/19 06:29 PM
1

No, dude. OP had weak frame, but the lunch was not a reward. It was lunch.
/r/askTRP27/04/19 06:16 PM
-1

K.
/r/RedPillWomen27/04/19 06:10 PM
2

Yup. Now if we'd just shut the fuck up and give them that, they'd be so happy.
/r/askTRP27/04/19 06:04 PM
1

Have you....met a woman?
/r/askTRP27/04/19 06:02 PM
3

Because you're a challenge and that's fun. Here's a secret: Women just want to have fun, and you can define what that is for them. You're s fun guy, and now you want to invite her into your awesome world.
/r/askTRP27/04/19 05:56 PM
4

Both good sets of advice 👍🏾. Have a plan. Know what you want and where you want to go. Worry about you liking her and not the other way around. Anything else is advice without context and will just get in your head.
/r/askTRP27/04/19 05:54 PM
2

Repeat after me. This is a good thing.
/r/askTRP27/04/19 05:51 PM
1

Nope, that's pretty normal when they're addicted to you.
/r/askTRP27/04/19 05:49 PM
2

Bit confused. Did you not want to fuck her or did you want to break up? Who cares what she thinks, I don't get what you were thinking though. That's a lot of melodrama, you guys did the normal BP couple fighting stuff, you held frame, then she threw herself at you, and then it looks like you showed you were low value by doing more drama of your known. My bro, she's probably literally on an orbiter's dick rn. Did you want her to leave?
/r/askTRP27/04/19 05:48 PM
1

Your weight and perception of self didn't change?
/r/askTRP27/04/19 05:42 PM
1

Down boy.
/r/RedPillWomen27/04/19 05:09 PM
24

Thanks for recognising that. All these kids on here mate guarding, shouting their insecurities with words that say "I'm Alpha, here me roar", but actions that say "I'm insecure, am I being Alpha??", like Simba in the first parts of Lion King.
/r/askTRP27/04/19 05:08 PM
12

No my friend. The king does not duel with peasants. You guys need to shut the fuck up on this emotional stuff.
/r/askTRP27/04/19 05:03 PM
1

Maybe, but is it not true?
/r/RedPillWomen27/04/19 04:58 PM
12

No quicker way to drive her into his arms.
/r/askTRP27/04/19 04:48 PM
31

Low value guy hits on your gf and she shuts him down. If you engage at all with your gf on this you'll show you're low value and insecure. Tell the gym authorities he's being creepy, get him kicked and move on.
/r/askTRP27/04/19 04:47 PM
1

Cute. If women could in sex or love think this rationally, we wouldn't be here. There are any number of men in your life who you were head over heels in love with and were pumped and dumped by that have never seen the inside of a gym or told you exactly what's on their mind, you just hamstered it away. You don't like thinking about that because it hurts, and I get it, but as much as you make a list, the next time a TRP aware and practicing man comes into your life you won't be able to predict it…
/r/RedPillWomen27/04/19 04:41 PM
1

Yeah I do. Love a good rave. Yeah I'm super duper smart. Nah, you don't. I thought you were a Virgo see
/r/RedPillWomen27/04/19 01:53 PM
1

Hey, it's you. How's it going?
/r/RedPillWomen27/04/19 01:52 PM
5

Honey, if you could predict it, we'd never be here.
/r/RedPillWomen27/04/19 01:44 PM
1

The sigma
/r/askTRP27/04/19 05:56 AM
1

True or false? Irrelevant. Because you have the opportunity to define your sexual strategy for yourself. The world will never be as black, white and orange as you want it to be, so why don't you read up on knowledge and theory here and then go out into the real world with your sexual strategy, AF, BB, ABCD whatever. This kind of male hamster will never get you anywhere. You're dealing so much in theoretical caricatures that any conversation is irrelevant.
/r/askTRP27/04/19 05:55 AM
5

Betas see obstacles and get scared, Alphas see opportunities and worthy challenges.
/r/askTRP27/04/19 05:51 AM
2

Yes. Staying in your room isn't going to solve it.
/r/askTRP27/04/19 04:53 AM
1

Let's wait for OP to answer.
/r/askTRP27/04/19 04:52 AM
7

Cause you're a challenge, and that's fun.
/r/askTRP26/04/19 05:23 PM
11

Wtf did I just read
/r/askTRP26/04/19 05:19 PM
6

It's less about whether you should move or not, and more about after you made your position clear you decided to move. This teaches her that she can apply her emotional dread on you and drama from her will get you do what she wants. Bad move. Soft next for next 4 days just to let her know you weren't cool with the way she acted. Draw your boundaries man.
/r/askTRP26/04/19 05:17 PM
1

Why are you feeling the urge to? Because it's the right thing to do?
/r/askTRP26/04/19 01:57 PM
1

Roll Tide! But also, more common than you think among non-blood relatives.
/r/askTRP26/04/19 01:55 PM
1

Yes.
/r/askTRP26/04/19 01:55 PM
3

For you at this stage, yes. Generally no. Also make it only a part of your sexual strategy and not the whole thing aka go out to clubs or wherever you can pick up girls.
/r/askTRP26/04/19 01:54 PM
6

You don't offer them value and only take value. Reverse that trend and win.
/r/askTRP26/04/19 01:52 PM
10

A few things: You think there are low-value guys not out there not approaching because "they're waiting for the right one" or "she wasn't that attractive anyway" or whatever other ego-protecting method they use and want to believe. You'll hear this a lot in this echo chamber is that 80% of women are competing for the top 20% of men, and while that is perfectly true, it also means that there is a difference between the girl in the 21st percantile and the 89th percantile, and their ability to attr…
/r/askTRP26/04/19 09:56 AM
3

See it's the difference between knowing what you want and being something. These guys, and a lot of guys, and girls, use tall, muscular etc as substitutes for masculinity, as masculinity in its fundamental sense is knowing what you want, knowing why you want it, going after it and getting it done. The most masculine thing you can do is be in control of yourself an for your world. This does mean for Beta cucks starting out that lifting is part of the process of being in control of yourself and op…
/r/askTRP25/04/19 08:34 AM
31

I want to underline why this post is very valuable and also why it's not: It is very valuable because it's a spotlight on this carcicature of "Alpha" that so many of us fall in into when introduced to TRP, the buff, strong, IDGAF, which are all true, but also in our lives Alphas have been assholes, in our mind, and that's crucial, shoving people around and abusing power for fun. So we say, yes, finally, I will be powerful too, I will shove people around and belittle them. What we fail to realise…
/r/TheRedPill25/04/19 08:06 AM
-1

Why?
/r/askTRP24/04/19 08:27 PM
47

This debate isn't going anywhere soon, so I'll add some nuance to add value. Attract a woman-Be hot. Keep a woman-Be strong.
/r/TheRedPill24/04/19 05:46 PM
2

Yeah, you'll get over it and over yourself. Unplug internet connection for a few hours and tell me you don't feel beter.
/r/askTRP24/04/19 05:32 PM
19

Atleast you have self-reflexivity. Good for here, mostly not good for the real world. Anyway, this is a great learning opportunity. I've been there, and it sucks. You may walk away thinking this was a failure of your execution of escalation, that you need to learn some secret of kink that would have avoided her disdain and would have let her happily have sex with you because you wanted it. It's not. It's a failure of frame. You need to look at her actions, not words. She was still sitting there,…
/r/askTRP24/04/19 04:19 PM
1

I see this question come up, and there are some serious variations in what disrespect means. What does disrespect mean to you?
/r/askTRP24/04/19 04:00 PM
3

Did you just share something written by the Unabomber without context? Reading this was actually kind of sad, because I always kind of respected his intellectual integrity. Here he sounds like any other raving conspiracy theory lunatic. This is what happens when you live a life of such complete isolation and mental illness. He may be right, but it doesn't matter, because he's also crazy and setting you up to live in reality a life like him. Pro-tip kids: Don't become the Unabomber. Gandhi may ha…
/r/TheRedPill24/04/19 03:47 PM
1

Read the latest post on the main sub titled "The Dread Pill"
/r/askTRP24/04/19 05:13 AM
2

Yes he does get hurt. He gives her attention. He signals that he is willing to "do the right thing" and give time to a crazy woman. He signals that her actions will warrant attention from him, that he is ready to continue to invest time and energy in her, as also that she's getting through to him, and should continue with the crazy behaviour to wear him down. He signals that there's still a conversation and interest he has. This is not a professional work environment or even a sane or stable wom…
/r/askTRP24/04/19 03:23 AM
1

Yeah, but do you want to do the decent thing, or the real thing, the one that saves you time and energy and makes your life happier, and doesn't get you possibly hurt? Never clicked "still plugged in" quicker. Drama is as drama does.
/r/askTRP23/04/19 08:01 PM
1

Just don't respond. That's the only way this will go away. Completely unplug from her bs and block her everywhere. Move on with your life.
/r/askTRP23/04/19 07:58 PM
21

Service is not value. For women, receiving service from a man is not a form of value. Socially, we applaud people who do service, but doing things for her in the hopes of winning her intimacy will always backfire. For a man, receiving service from women is valuable, but giving service simply reduces your estimation in her eyes. It's also just not your problem. Also, let's not use the phrase "emotional labour", that's a term 3rd wave feminists use to describe how hard it is for women that they ha…
/r/TheRedPill22/04/19 10:38 PM
2

Yeah, I got a similar feeling. All the right Red Pill thoughts, as if thrown in a blender, but the perspective it lead towards was to supplicate, imo.
/r/TheRedPill22/04/19 10:32 PM
5

My father is a great man. Through focused, hard work he topped the national entrance exam for the best college course, has all the professional qualifications in a very difficult and competitive field that most people can't even touch, he is at the top of his profession and we're basically in the top 1% globally from a very middle class beginning. He's also a huge fucking Beta pussy. He can't sleep in his own bed. He commands no respect from his wife, children or mother and we walk all over him.…
/r/askTRP22/04/19 10:21 PM
1

You've got to understand, I don't think you will because you're not at that point in your journey to respect this knowledge yet, but you've got to understand, we have nothing, or atleast I have nothing, against girls drinking, partying, slutting it up, getting high af and wasted, Wednesday night to Saturday night every week, that's my jam, and we're enjoying ourselves. You just don't see what these girls do and get into relationships with them. Whatever they do is their problem and its going to …
/r/askTRP22/04/19 09:27 PM
2

Firstly, well done, congrats etc. but you knew that. Secondly, beginner's luck. No it's a real thing in cold approach. I hate the first bitch I approached for being so hot and easy that set up my expectations too high instead of forcing me to work harder. Thirdly, keep going. Just keep going. Do it everyday. 4 weeks later you won't recognise yourself. If only all the "I'm a beta autist virgin" guys took 5 minutes out of their day to talk to women for a month, they'd be unrecognizable. So that's …
/r/askTRP22/04/19 09:03 PM
0

All the time. They pay for my shit. Sugar mommas.
/r/askTRP22/04/19 08:52 PM
13

I can relate. I get it. Physiologically, what has essentially happened is you've shut down that part of the brain that cares about masturbation, sex and those kind of pleasures, and the muscle memory associated with masturbation to enable the brain to view this as a worthwhile or pleasurable activity. If you go hardcore NoFap for an extended period of time, this happens can be hard to break out of. Arguably, you woudn't want to break this cycle, because this is an almost Nirvana like state where…
/r/askTRP22/04/19 08:51 PM
1

It does. For example, me. Hahaha. I would not have pinned you for that...yeah, I'm a virgo, so I'm very organisation of the rave parties I organise.
/r/RedPillWomen22/04/19 08:40 PM
7

quiet magnetism I practice quiet magnetism all the time. In a very real sense, my physical and social reality kind of revolve around me, and I don't need to say a word. My actions and gestures communicate much more than my words will ever need, and I don't need to use my words to get things done in some parts of my life. One great example of this is the Godfather. A quiet confidence. A confidence where you don't feel the need to prove anything to anyone. Any room you enter, you become the centre…
/r/askTRP22/04/19 08:32 PM
2

I didn't mean reading Pook is not fashionable, I was lamenting that no one reads Pook anymore, otherwise this question wouldn't come up.
/r/askTRP22/04/19 08:23 PM
2

See, I'm not even going to say "when does high school re-open" because while you're sitting here acting like a retard there are other 14 year olds out there actually reading the sidebar, actually lifting and actually learning game. They don't deserve my attack because of 14 year olds like you, they're giving themselves a leg up in the game while you're here acting like a retard.
/r/askTRP22/04/19 04:51 PM
1

I don't give a fuck? about? you? Retard.
/r/askTRP22/04/19 04:48 PM
1

Why does everything need to be spoon-fed to you?
/r/askTRP22/04/19 04:44 PM
3

Yeah, you're the first to have noticed this. When does high school open up again?
/r/TheRedPill22/04/19 03:59 PM
15

Yeah, pretty much. Giving attention without getting anything back. Adding to her validation while not adding value to your life.
/r/askTRP22/04/19 03:38 PM
2

Yet you keep proving me right in the way you live your life.
/r/askTRP22/04/19 03:36 PM
4

Yeah, you're right man, you're absolutely right. The feminists will never win if we start believing in their ideas and copying their modes of argument. Smart!
/r/askTRP22/04/19 03:15 PM
7

Oh yeah man, you've definitely been around this shit more than 99% of the people here. You're the special unicorn knowledge of life here, sorry to bother you. I guess this is why the red pill is hard to swallow. I'm atleast happy that you'll get to learn from experience, I won't have to do shit she's going to fuck your life over in whatever quarterly installments you prefer. Have fun knowing what you're talking about then.
/r/askTRP22/04/19 03:01 PM
8

TL; DR Girl is psycho and great at showing herself as perfect, except when she drinks, which is all the time, and the truth juice makes her be real, hookup and whatever else. How you guys get into and stay in relationships with girls when there are literally 1000 others continues to baffle me.
/r/askTRP22/04/19 02:25 PM
15

I was talking to this girl today who posts nudes on Reddit, and is quite famous in our corner of the world for it. She was telling me why she had to remove all her pictures recently and basically put her account on lockdown mode (NOT deleted). It's because she recently got a boyfriend, and had been posting for 4 months, wanted to post pictures with him, but didn't want him to know that she'd been doing this, at a very high level and frequently btw. So she tells him she's heard of this practice a…
/r/askTRP22/04/19 01:53 PM
11

Ew no. Don't fight and definitely don't fight for her attention. Get her body. I face a similar problem being in India with all these thirsty ass beta men around. From one of u/Vasiliy plates on one of his posts - "I can maybe have hundreds of men, but I only need one". Women are fundamentally different. Check out MentoMorpheus's recent post on when he became Chad. Really helped me get the right mindset. Quiet magnetism works. No one reads Pook anymore.
/r/askTRP22/04/19 01:18 PM
1

Cool :) There is a big difference between theory and practice. You won't be getting pussy just because you improved yourself or you wanted it or in Delhi. Now you'll need to learn game and that's a huge learning curve but a rewarding one, as a constant endeavour, even and especially in India, that would take months, if not years. Make no expectations about yourself, your attractiveness, women, their priorities, expectations and nature, and about the sexual marketplace and your position in it. Th…
/r/askTRP21/04/19 04:31 PM
3

"The issue isn't she slept with someone else" "The issue is she disrespected me" That makes no sense. She's a plate. There's a good chance he's her boyfriend aka BB. You're the AF. Stop following plates on Instagram. Don't even think of mentioning it, Mr. Non-exclusive. If you're not her boyfriend, don't act like her boyfriend. Your business is your business and does not include her business.
/r/askTRP21/04/19 04:23 PM
10

You're not 9/10. Monk mode to focus on college does not change your SMV unless you improved other socio-sexual aspects of life. Reduce your expectations relating to you, women and pussy otherwise you'll end shooting yourself in the hostel. Bhai, in 3-4K you can get a good smartphone. Even chowkidars have smartphones. It doesn't look like you want to be seen as a villager gavaar, so don't act like a gavaar.
/r/askTRP21/04/19 03:00 PM
26

Nah. All girls watch porn now. Our whole society watches porn. Porn has ruined the world.
/r/askTRP21/04/19 01:53 PM
1

Yup.
/r/askTRP21/04/19 01:38 PM
1

Women want to have an identity given to them. If it's not you, it's the stars. They have no sense of identity or definition outside the external. This is good; you can define their identity for them as you want.
/r/askTRP21/04/19 01:38 PM
348

Yup. You'll get over it, mostly. Welcome to the Red Pill.
/r/TheRedPill21/04/19 01:36 PM
1

Edited to be realistic. I wouldn't verbalise like I did then, maybe sometimes.
/r/askTRP21/04/19 01:02 PM
1

If there's one part of game that been written volumes on, it's I Have A Boyfriend. Start with FerallyRed's recent post to start out with, and just keep going down. Your approach is also damn weak and they're probably not attracted to you. Don't tell them what you want to do to them, just do it. Beta: "Hey I think you're beautiful Id like to get to know you". Alpha: "Ssup girl, pick you up at 8, I've got something special planned"
/r/askTRP21/04/19 12:55 PM
29

More common than you think. Theoretically, every woman you've ever met, for the right man.
/r/askTRP21/04/19 12:51 PM
1

Act your mind rather than speaking it is a great way to put it. Don't verbalise it just because.
/r/askTRP21/04/19 09:53 AM
2

I raise my eyebrow, I decide my life is pretty good without her, I walk away to find another girl and delete her from my life.
/r/askTRP21/04/19 09:46 AM
3

All of them.
/r/askTRP21/04/19 09:29 AM
2

Are you a king?
/r/askTRP21/04/19 09:15 AM
2

Take the time. Learn more. Don't beat yourself up.
/r/askTRP21/04/19 06:15 AM
1

As someone who is basically you, it's very easy to put life and people and things into buckets. It's easy to write yourself off before you start. Dare to dream. Be hopeful. Risk getting your emotions hurt. Invest outside yourself, in your friends, in your community. For people like you and me, it's very important to step outside our own head and thoughts and be present around others as well as live in reality, as well as sometimes shut the fuck up and go with the flow. We think we have it all fi…
/r/RedPillWomen20/04/19 06:04 PM
2

It's like I'm the male version of you. I came to this realisation a few days back. I chase women, and get numbers, but they never stick around. Why? Because I have nothing to offer to women. SMV/RMV is your market value I.e. In that context, what do you bring to the table. I realised I brought very little of value to a woman that your average joe could not. This to me was a very liberating thought, for the following reasons: I was finally asking the right question-what do I provide as value? I c…
/r/RedPillWomen20/04/19 06:33 AM
7

It's like I'm the male version of you. I came to this realisation a few days back. I chase women, and get numbers, but they never stick around. Why? Because I have nothing to offer to women. SMV/RMV is your market value I.e. In that context, what do you bring to the table. I realised I brought very little of value to a woman that your average joe could not. This to me was a very liberating thought, for the following reasons: I was finally asking the right question-what do I provide as value? I c…
/r/RedPillWomen19/04/19 03:07 PM
3

Great advice which I needed rn. Focus on the process until you get results. I may have thought it a 1000 times, you need to get to a particular mind space in order to accept knowledge, and have someone else say it and say it right. You keep building, you start from a foundation and don't stop, before long you'll have a mansion. Wish I could give you gold, you contributed value, I hope someone else does. It can be so easy to get sucked into the manosphere jargon of thinking, so much of which has …
/r/askTRP19/04/19 01:12 AM
2

Like you could touch your toes.
/r/askTRP17/04/19 04:50 PM
-1

Same.
/r/askTRP17/04/19 02:47 PM
2

The Deep State is the committee meeting you didn't turn up to voice your opinion in for the past 50 years and now you're surprised you were left behind and your voice isn't being heard. The Deep State is a bureacrat doing the job he was hired to do, its just easier to blame the deep state that the slow movement of time and the need of the world to replace the old with the new.
/r/askTRP17/04/19 01:38 PM
-2

I don't understand where from you're getting the relative standard of "less likely to abuse power to get sex"
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/19 01:10 PM
-1

why do you think men won't be victimized? Aren't victimized*
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/19 01:09 PM
0

So you think it will happen? Do you think it'll be brushed under the carpet or taken seriously though?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/19 12:54 PM
0

Yes, that does make sense. It must be the chow mien and the cell phones. It's a pity no one will get that reference since its so apt.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/19 12:53 PM
-1

I think he's the only one holding frame in front of Trump though, recognising that they're operating in Trump's frame.
/r/askTRP17/04/19 12:38 PM
4

Well, firstly, that's just not true. There is for one the article I've linked, and then there are the stories of men who have been sexually abused by their bosses or offered professional quid pro quos. Secondly, people are people. It's not that women don't use power to have sex, as wrong as that statement is, its that they haven't had the chance to so far. Now, in the zeitgeist, where women are at the top, do you think it will happen, a female me-too
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/19 12:35 PM
-1

I wish I had changed the title to "will there be a female me-too movement". So if we were to, then what
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/19 12:33 PM
1

I wish I could edit the title to say "will there be a female me-too movement"
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/19 12:25 PM
1

Dagnaggit. It goes deeper than I thought. Right up to the White House.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/19 11:59 AM
1

The plot thickens. Well, you know what to do now. It's time to get some pins, a board and some yarn. You want to get the best quality, stretch it too thin, pun intended, it may break.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/19 11:45 AM
0

Well, I've never been like, I take a girl's pants off and I storm off going, fuck this shit. It is deeply rooted in society's tilt towards pedophilia. Don't believe anyone who tells you otherwise, they're in on the conspiracy too. It's the only logical explanation. Pedophilia. That's the first thing we go to now. Sheesh. The internet I tell you.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/19 11:27 AM
1

Yes, I get that, I have better numbers than that, my problem is moving past that, if you didn't understand the question.
/r/askTRP17/04/19 07:06 AM
3

A.B.P. A lways B e P lating.
/r/askTRP17/04/19 06:49 AM
1

That's not the question here. Her baseline of thought process here is to go by the average. An average man however is not an attractive proposition because he is well, average. Additionally, women do not choose statistically their partners, to be the average mean. Hence. An average man. She has already admitted that's what she wants.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/19 10:25 PM
-1

Hmmm. In what other categories do you want an average man?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/19 10:18 PM
-1

And you want an average man?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/19 10:12 PM
6

That's honestly not that huge a number so...are you sure it's not out of your insecurity?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/19 09:59 PM
4

Why?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/19 09:09 PM
2

-Blend it into a chocolate smoothie, especially dark or rich chocolate. -Peanut butter with fruits, again smoothie, milkshake. -Blend it in with curds and fruit for a form of yoghurt.
/r/askTRP16/04/19 07:39 PM
1

Tch.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/19 07:33 PM
1

He's not ace. He was born with the purpose, to crucify your mind.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/19 07:23 PM
1

Oh yeah, it's pretty huge on Reddit. What a story man.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/19 07:21 PM
1

Given everything you've said, that's very strange. Let's dig a little deeper. Why do you think that is? By all baseline measures, you're an attractive guy, and even outside of the self-help bubble of the "great guy", you're also empirically attractive to women, as they do want to sleep with you and be in a relationship with you, so, simpliciter, the problem cannot be your ability to attract the attention of women. They may or may not fawn over you, but you're certainly able to maintain a relatio…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/19 06:54 PM
1

ok.
/r/askTRP16/04/19 06:38 PM
2

Yes.
/r/askTRP16/04/19 06:37 PM
1

Absolutely. Its fun.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/19 06:37 PM
1

Why would I DM you for info?
/r/askTRP16/04/19 06:36 PM
0

Absolutely. Thanks, Rollo.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/19 06:34 PM
1

If that's all true, then fair enough. But what's the cause for this? You must be wondering the same. Also, Alpha M, is that you. And you know, I'm sure you know this, but hotness has as much to do your power, social status, general attitude, sense of humour etc as it does with pure physicality.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/19 06:33 PM
1

You'll be walking on the street some day, minding your own business...then BOOM a car will come hit you. Also about your definition of excellent driver.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/19 06:15 PM
1

Would it make any sense, and I know this is a crazy idea, if you tried to be hotter you would be hotter. Like, does that make any sense to you.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/19 06:13 PM
0

lol no.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/19 06:11 PM
4

Did you just get two gold for that? Damn
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/19 06:11 PM
1

I'm concerned about you.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/19 06:02 PM
1

Tch.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/19 05:59 PM
2

Ok, listen up: the automatic button for failure in life, cannot be suicide. And I don't think suicide is something that can just be bandied about as a joke, unless its a good one.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/19 05:58 PM
1

Why do you say so? My experience doesn't add up to that using Tinder
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/19 05:57 PM
1

Nice, thanks for the input. I can't imagine the facial lotion would go far or be good for your beard though, if you grow it out longer
/r/askTRP16/04/19 05:56 PM
1

Hmmm ok gotcha. Will try that.
/r/askTRP16/04/19 05:55 PM
1

Nice! So you watched the documentary first. How did you chance upon it
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/19 05:54 PM
1

Hmmm. I wonder, just as a thought experiment for you, if you would feel any differently if the person your friend's family was suing was a guy? Rn I also think you see yourself in her. You seem to be around a lot of car accidents. Y'know, my mother and father have both been driving for 30-40+ years, yet I am scared to get in a car with my mother, because almost every time she finds a way to get into a nick or scratch, and has an accident every 6 months or so. I don't claim to be a great driver, …
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/19 05:53 PM
1

what bothers you about it
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/19 05:49 PM
1

lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/19 05:48 PM
1

Explain.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/19 05:48 PM
1

You can't tell me what to do.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/19 05:48 PM
1

Oh, honey.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/19 05:47 PM
1

Nice/sad.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/19 05:46 PM
0

That little red letter thing is cute.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/19 04:16 PM
1

Nope. The same people go on to pull the same shit, the same power-grabbing, malicious, kick the other person down, live life with no regard for the rule of law and society, fuck, cheat, marry, kill, till they're 65 and then they find religion. The fact that you are finding this hard to believe means whatever crap justification we're putting out there is working. The Upper Middle Class can be the worst because they want to be us but they're not already, so they're willing to do "whatever it takes…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/19 04:12 PM
1

Yeah, I only hang out with upper middle class people or rich people, because that's my upbringing and social circle, not out of choice. We are the worst when it TRP and displaying TRP behaviour. At my university for example I don't interact with the global 1% or even the .1%, I interact almost exclusively with the 0.0001%. We are the worst.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/19 04:00 PM
2

Nahh..really?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/19 03:25 PM
1

K.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/19 03:24 PM
1

I don't think so. How do women look at a high value man?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/19 03:19 PM
1

I'll have to check, but I don't think so. I've never PM-ed you. PM me about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/19 03:03 PM
0

Great hamster. Charity principle. Let's assume that's true. Why do you have to tell me about it. Why can't you just be like "haha you're right" and hate yourself on your own time, to self-improve or whatever.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/19 03:00 PM
1

Nicks? I don't think I've ever PM-ed you.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/19 02:58 PM
1

I'm surprised I have to explain this to you. I don't mean that in a mean way, just genuinely. He's not looking for or in it for a friendship. If he could, if he had the slightest inclination of balls or that she would let him, he would take her on the dinner table and then fall madly in love with her or never call her again, or only call her for sex. He's not interested in hanging out, chilling, those are just sex tokens he's putting in to get the prize, her.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/19 02:57 PM
1

Which one?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/19 02:51 PM
0

Why is everyone trying to out incel themselves on this sub?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/19 02:51 PM
2

Hey! Yes I have. It had such a great ending, I was really happy for him.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/19 02:48 PM
2

Nice.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/19 02:39 PM
2

No one ever asks us how we're feeling. :(
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/19 02:38 PM
2

Yeah, that's great and all, but the entire time he's just a cracker packing in lustful energy, just "waiting for his chance" to "confess his undying love" and she's just enjoying the attention, while she may or may not be leading him on. So he's not interested in friendship, just a lustful rocket ready to take off. My larger point being that you need two to tango. If she's being a friend and he's not, even if she is, that is not a friendship.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/19 02:36 PM
1

Hmmm. Well, its...a month and a bit old? It definitely isn't small. I look like an Abraham Lincoln impersonator. Never heard of balms. Do they work better or worse than oils? Like what's he difference. Yeah, I clean it as often as my hair, every 2-3 days, but normal shampoo doesn't seem to work as well. Will consider using baby shampoo. It seems hydrating is important. More than your normal hair?
/r/askTRP16/04/19 02:34 PM
2

Wow seems fancy but surprisingly affordable. Thanks!
/r/askTRP16/04/19 02:31 PM
2

I've never heard this "no" thing before. Tell me more.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/19 02:28 PM
1

What would be equal friendship for his time? The whole thing isn't friendship anyway. It's just a guy orbiting. I'm a nice kind of person.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/19 02:28 PM
1

No I mean the response you give. What do you say to turn down these men
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/19 02:22 PM
0

I mean, you probably are. The top 20% is just 1 in 5 really.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/19 02:17 PM
2

Is it just a question of nomenclature then, what would you say
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/19 02:15 PM
2

If he made this proposal, I'm pretty sure he's orbiting her. I've used this excuse once. It was because she was annoying, not because I valued the friendship. It's an excuse.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/19 02:14 PM
1

What's your question exactly?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/19 02:06 PM
0

I wish I had the picture saved, but in one of our Indian PUA groups, there was this pic of the god-awful dumpiest looking woman, short, stout, beady eyes, teeth almost falling out, wide as a car extremely attractive standing next to one of the members who was tall, very fair, handsome, good looking guy with a few hobbies, and he was talking about what a score she was, how he had picked her up at a mall and had sex with her and what a stud he was, and seeing how absolutely disgusting she was made…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/19 02:05 PM
3

From my experience, older women are definitely still slutting it up majorly because they need to in order to compete.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/19 02:00 PM
3

holds your back Everything is going to be ok.
/r/askTRP16/04/19 12:59 PM
8

Dude leaves two fiancees at the altar on their wedding day. Two? Not even one, two? And then he goes and gets engaged again. Hahahaha. Oh man, people are the best.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/19 12:52 PM
2

You seem like you have a good head on your shoulders; you know what you want to do, you have an assessment of risk, just don't let others smoke and mirrors game come in the way of doing what you want to do. Be aggressively self-critical of any optimism, and stick rationally to the facts. In this context, I'd like to give you two pieces of advice: Always have an eye out for the graveyard: The graveyard is the place dreams and hopes go to die. You're not special? You think you're the first kid wit…
/r/askTRP16/04/19 10:17 AM
1

Go, but have a backup social plan ready if it starts going nowhere for you after an hour, or if people start flaking. Nothing says high value like having options and the ability to leave. Preferably one where you can game other girls.
/r/askTRP16/04/19 09:44 AM
0

Adding "person on youtube said this" to my list of questions I won't answer.
/r/askTRP16/04/19 09:32 AM
1

If you're so afraid to be with yourself, how can you be with other people? Scared of your own thoughts, unwilling to take a call in life, make choices. Your own ego so shattered and weak you dismiss the existence of others. You will always live a life of such doubt if you're not willing to live a life of clarity and happiness in your own actions.
/r/askTRP16/04/19 09:30 AM
2

You do so many things you don't want to because you think you should. How can you ever be happy?
/r/askTRP16/04/19 09:25 AM
1

Yes. Stop playing the game. More for me.
/r/askTRP16/04/19 09:23 AM
2

Oh boy. This brings back memories. The long and short of it is get your degree. His company may be taking off now, he may seem cool, everything seems so great-it's hard to explain since you're 17 now, and I was the same, exciting new oppurtunity, exciting new people, exciting new places. Get your betting your future on someone else's words and actions instead of your own. You're also learning only a very particular list of skills that would only be valuable in a particular sector or position, th…
/r/askTRP16/04/19 09:20 AM
11

"Stoic" does not mean "unemotional", it means not ruled by emotions. You can be very expressive without saying a word.
/r/askTRP16/04/19 09:09 AM
2

Does anyone else listen to Rodriguez here?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/19 08:32 AM
1

Hmmm hookup culture is basically a catch-all term for men and women, whether straight or not straight, building an infrastructure and social norms around dating apps, texting etc and most importantly having a lot of casual, disposable but fun sex with people they find attractive physically. The prime feature is the disposability of it. Had a fun great experience tonight, back to the grind tomorrow. Dating apps have really enabled this, where you can hook up with people you don't know and the lik…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/19 06:11 AM
1

I can remember the physical sensations of most of the sex I've had pretty well, like I can physically feel the sensation if I want to, while I'm masturbating. That's what the spank bank is for.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/19 06:05 AM
1

Yup.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/19 06:01 AM
2

Absolutely.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/19 06:01 AM
4

Text. Don't even acknowledge in person. Let the hamster hamster.
/r/askTRP15/04/19 07:00 PM
3

It would be some part of a repressed white knight in you, yes. You don't need to condone what he's doing, but you need to let them deal with it, unless they specifically ask you for help and if you want to give it. You're hung up on this question of abuse. So when does it become abuse. When he says it becomes abuse. That's a bit weird right, a bit strange. It seems patently absurd. It feels like a get out of jail free card on all kinds of degrading, cruel, immoral actions out there. But that's i…
/r/askTRP15/04/19 06:15 PM
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Two seperate points here: Social media is validation for the sake of validation. You can post complete garbage and it becomes "the news". Basically, instead of taking pride in contributing value, you take pride in followers, likes, retweets, pride in creating more noise. The content monster machine must be fed. So yes, abstain. Being high value does not mean you do not show high value. This is a bit nuanced since high value can established through indirect ways, such as social proof for example,…
/r/askTRP15/04/19 05:56 PM
3

Why are you so concerned by this? Does it seem like a double standard? That he's a man and she's a woman. Does she seem weak? Does this seem cruel? Well, she's still there isn't she. She still loves him doesn't she. She still serves him doesn't she. She still turns up. He cheats on her every 3 year and she's still by his side, and happy to be there. Men can't understand this, but women can. Look at her actions, not your feelings of what's happening. Now you may have certain moral or personal res…
/r/askTRP15/04/19 05:51 PM
4

Acknowledge it if some mutual topic of conversation allows for it, otherwise act like you've never really noticed her before and game like any other chick.
/r/askTRP15/04/19 05:18 PM
3

Look, in the context, its all about holding frame. This is some nuclear dread game but its also expected and makes sense in the context. See: I've already entered his frame. All of this sounds reasonable to me. He has a frame and is maintaining it. If he was beta husband so far, and upon hearing this, suddenly went nuclear Alpha like this he'd probably have the cops called him. He's trained her to know what to expect when she lives in his frame, which is what women do. Now, as to whether you sho…
/r/askTRP15/04/19 05:16 PM
1

Iron Rule of Tomassi #3 Any woman who makes you wait for sex, or by her actions implies she is making you wait for sex; the sex is NEVER worth the wait.
/r/askTRP15/04/19 04:10 PM
1

poooooooooooooooooook.
/r/askTRP15/04/19 04:07 PM
0

Those sound like great qualities. Why would you want to change them? Apart from the scared part. The rest of it is pretty good.
/r/askTRP15/04/19 01:32 PM
1

Honestly, as I become a higher value man, I practically only text for logistics now. I simply don't have the time, or care enough to go on this elaborate adventure of seducing her via green bubbles in a virtual ping machine. I'd much rather do it in person, give her my most valuable asset, my time. When I was lower value, I used to spend a lot of time obsessing over text and text game, even if I texting a little or texting a lot, it wasn't good for me. Tbh I always had decent text game, but it w…
/r/askTRP15/04/19 01:30 PM
2

Nah he's just scared of being called an asshole. You kiss two girls at one party in a closed circle of friends, you've got to be ready to be called an asshole. Doesn't mean he is one, doesn't mean he did anything wrong, just be ready to be called one. Like it even matters really, what one girl thinks of you.
/r/askTRP15/04/19 01:21 PM
2

Yeah but are you a liar? No. So why do you care? Man, you are not responsible for her hamster and her actions. You are responsible for the consequences of your own actions. Drama inversely correlates to sex being had in terms of effort and ROI. Do you want to be liked or do you want to get laid.
/r/askTRP15/04/19 01:09 PM
2

Yeah, but why does he want to apologise? What does he want to apologise for? "Oh girl I kissed once, I'm so sorry I kissed another girl the same night, are you mad at me, are you jealous, please don't be jealous, oh no how did you get jealous, why is there so much drama in my life". Please.
/r/askTRP15/04/19 01:05 PM
6

Why would you tell her? Can we be honest here? The real reason you want to tell her is you kissed two girls at a party and you're feeling like a stud and you want to show her what a stud you are, oh manly man. That's great and I'm happy for you, but if you want to have this kind of success in life regularly, and not just one night that feels great, can you please learn to shut the fuck up? There is often very little to be gained from talking. For all the women bashing by half-wits on this sub, w…
/r/askTRP15/04/19 01:00 PM
1

Yeah, they always like to say that. Hmu, maybe I can help you. It occurs to me that if you're so sure you're going to lose, why not enter a settlement and negotiate a deferred model of payment to offset whatever damages you have to pay. It is quite a common practice in settlements to allow the party to pay over a period of time instead of a lump sum, because after all what the opposite party wants more than anything is to have the full amount. You can say you'll pay 2-3k upfront (always good to …
/r/askTRP15/04/19 12:53 PM
1

Just to be clear, you are being sued for 10 grand, but you have to pay, does that mean you've already lost the case?
/r/askTRP15/04/19 12:37 PM
29

How do you guys get into relationships like these is truly something. And once you're in these relationships, seeing actions like this you continue to be in them. Have you no sense of self-respect whatsoever? For your time, energy, resources. For your ability to get another pussy at the veritable snap of the finger. What motivates a man, a man, to stay in a relationship in these circumstances. There is so much of life and so much of woman to be explored, and you choose to live life like this? Co…
/r/askTRP15/04/19 12:18 PM
1

Yes, so was I. But it doesn't sound like you are, so how can you be obsessed with something you're not doing. That's just called a waste of time.
/r/askTRP15/04/19 12:00 PM
8

You abuse the good faith of my attention and my time, neither of which you have a claim to, nor anybody's, just because you were lucky a condom broke 18 years ago. What more is there to say.
/r/askTRP15/04/19 11:58 AM
1

I'm confused. What're you obsession about again?
/r/askTRP15/04/19 11:55 AM
8

No, you dimbleweed, you are not fucked. Go out and get a life and control it, sitting in your room jacking off crying that you're not the next LeBron James won't make you into one.
/r/askTRP15/04/19 11:54 AM
1

What? You may not be binging TV shows, but you're still wasting your time.
/r/askTRP15/04/19 11:51 AM
1

Well, you're not. Now what?
/r/askTRP15/04/19 11:49 AM
7

Describes high status. Then says if not that. If you don't want to do those things that's fine, atleast don't whine about not being high status then. Traditionally, student government/council. Other than that, lead large campus events you're interested. You won't be as high status and Chad-ding it out as the future NBA drafts, but you'll have a good, strong social life and people who look up to you.
/r/askTRP15/04/19 11:48 AM
1

Anything really. Day game: Statement about the surroundings, general conversation. Night game: Give me a kiss on the cheek/hug.
/r/askTRP15/04/19 12:46 AM
6

I'm Indian in India. It's very effective. Now I'm going to give you the same advice I've given you the past 3 times you've asked 6 questions about game in the last 48 hours-go out and do it. Its great to have questions about game. Its bad to have nothing else going on in your life that its your only focus. Its worse that you keep hamstering about each girl you talk to and dragging us down with you.
/r/askTRP14/04/19 10:43 PM
3

I have advice to give you, but right now you don't need it. Right now, you just need to wake up the next morning, and the morning after that, and the morning after that, and just do. You can read all the posts you want on TRP, you can read all the responses on this question, but you're now making the leap from theory to practice, rigorous practice, daily practice. So there's only one piece of advice which matters right now: do. Keep doing. Keep going. Keep going out, keep trying, keep at it. Let…
/r/askTRP14/04/19 09:37 PM
1

I feel like I'm talking to myself rn. PM me, let's plan something out sometime.
/r/askTRP14/04/19 08:28 AM
1

Tbh I don't notice guys that much. I try not to notice most girls too, once I figure out they're not attractive.
/r/askTRP14/04/19 08:24 AM
2

Let me tell you something that I think will help you out a lot: You can either be liked or get laid. If you want to be liked, forget about getting laid. And if you want to get laid, forgot about being liked. By the women you're fucking, by the women you're not fucking, by men, friends and randos on the street. The Godess Fortunata, the Greek goddess of luck and good fortune, was always represented as a woman, because fortune favours the brave. The fearless. In some situations, it's better to be …
/r/askTRP14/04/19 08:03 AM
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Absolutely. Very important to have plausible deniability and give her tingles to break the ASD. A lot of this may be going over OP's head. OP the bottom line is isolate her, give her a reason to be a alone with you ("Movie at my place"), physically escalate by employing kino, if she rejects you, wait, try again in like 30 minutes, if she rejects (and I do mean rejects, like violently), watch the movie then send her home. If she was receptive or continues trying to talk to you, invite her over on…
/r/askTRP14/04/19 07:50 AM
1

Yeah, it's like I've said before, once you master yourself, your emotions, your actions, hold frame, the words and actions of others either become irrelevant, entertainment or a boundary to be established. Most guys need to shuthefuckup. Once you've established your value and your sexuality, you just need to shutthefuckup. At that point you can communicate just through eye contact and body language, and let the world hamster about it...without saying a word. It's fun. It's so much fun. Most men …
/r/askTRP14/04/19 07:41 AM
3

Wear 3 condoms.
/r/askTRP14/04/19 07:33 AM
2

Pretty much. In this context I would even say despite all the signs pointing to AF like being "trouble", she's just telling him that and shit-testing him to see how Alpha he is by seeing if he'll orbit. The only choice OP has now is to watch her actions, not words, try to escalate a couple of times, and if it fails, hard next her, can't be giving her no more attention than that. The alternative is to employ a long game orbiter strategy, but usually that's not worth it, and would require massive …
/r/askTRP14/04/19 07:28 AM
2

Absolutely. You need to have that mentality of a king. In that context, if it was that random and keeping the frame of a king, a blank look could be interpreted as autistic. I like to give the "wtf" raised eyebrow or scrunched eyebrow or concerned look, or roll my eyes if I I feel a girl's being a weirdo or that childish. We cannot validate the actions of women just because they're women, like s Beta guy would, we have to hold frame and let them know they're being weirdos. So something to keep i…
/r/askTRP14/04/19 07:21 AM
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Oh man, you are speaking my language. Addict to a few similar maladaptive emotional behaviour patterns and substances till 23, clung to my IQ, like that fucking means anything, any time I was faced with a situation I didn't like or lost in. "I can't be a lose, my IQ is XYZ". Anything I have achieved now has been through hard work and it has been my salvation, and I completely agree with the analogy of the high horse power car, you don't want to buy it to keep it in the garage. At that point, you…
/r/askTRP14/04/19 07:09 AM
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Yeah, that doesn't sound like disrespect. Just her being playful. Also something to think about is that in that setting, she may have started getting jealous that a different couple was getting more attention, and was trying to hamster up some drama. Things you did right: 1. Held frame. 2. Established boundaries. 3. Communicated covertly. 4. Did not engage in her drama. 5. Withdrew attention when your boundaries were again violated. I mean, theoretically, you could have handled it slightly diffe…
/r/askTRP14/04/19 06:55 AM
2

I keep frame 24*7, all day every day. It's harder to do when you're drinking, which is also why TRP recommends against drinking hard or a lot beyond your capacity (apart from the other issues with alcohol like how it affects your physical state or how it can be used as a social crutch). I could recommend you books, like The Rational Male, No More Mr. Nice Guy and the Book of Pook, but the reality is you should have read them by now, and if you already know about it, and you agree with me, there'…
/r/askTRP14/04/19 05:53 AM
6

Any generic advice I give you will either be so generic as to be practically useless or put you in the wrong frame of mind with you end up acting "creepy" on the date, because there is a lot of context and a lot that can be lost in communication from the words I type here to the actions you take, in practice, so why don't you tell me the context of the date, how you met the girl, and what you think are ways you can establish a sexual frame, and we can work from there. The reason I'm doing this i…
/r/askTRP14/04/19 05:32 AM
1

It's easily avoidable if you lift and keep frame. So you get bored with holding frame and start acting like a clown? As in, you break frame. That's a deeper problem. Hold frame. If you can't hold frame in the little leagues, how're you going to do it at the World Series?
/r/askTRP14/04/19 04:54 AM
2

You got a little emotional at the end and should have maintained frame. I wouldn't have engaged the call and acted dumb, like you don't know her or anything about the photo. Like "I take a lot of photos with people, who are you talking about?...Oh her, we're just friends" or whatever. Remember, your goal is to not get sucked into this drama, to minimise the present and future drama you face and move on with your life. You shouldn't have said anything about not knowing she has a boyfriend, now it…
/r/askTRP14/04/19 04:50 AM
4

Pressure flip. "Hmm don't you think you're an interesting person"
/r/askTRP14/04/19 04:43 AM
2

What kind of relationship do you have with her?
/r/askTRP14/04/19 04:38 AM
2

She thinks you're a child. Women do this all the time, and it's not a good thing. It means you're in the friend zone.
/r/askTRP14/04/19 04:37 AM
4

Well then why do you care if they "chat" with you? Looking forward to your hamstered response.
/r/askTRP14/04/19 04:35 AM
1

Stop "chatting". Start doing. Get off the internet and game girls in person.
/r/askTRP14/04/19 04:34 AM
2

Wtf man
/r/askTRP13/04/19 10:45 PM
7

Ironically, reading the Drama of the Gifted Child is part of the..drama of the gifted child. Growing up, the word I hated the most was "potential". These constant expectations of greatness and the excruciating self-hate that I was not a famous prodigy. I am glad I am too old to be a prodigy now. That part of me can die. Being gifted never got me anything meaningful, good hard work did.
/r/askTRP13/04/19 10:43 PM
0

Define self help book.
/r/askTRP13/04/19 10:40 PM
1

Do what you want. It's your life, don't let us live it for you. I would ask you this though, why are you doing this? Be clear on the reason that this is something you want. And be ok with changing your plan if you meet a girl you really like and you want to get in on, don't be afraid of your male sexuality.
/r/askTRP13/04/19 09:07 PM
1

Post this on PPD. They may have the patience and the hamstering to deal with shit like this.
/r/askTRP13/04/19 09:04 PM
3

Didn't I just give you advice on the exact same question less than 24hours ago? The past 24 hours have just been your hamstering about the fact that you didn't approach anybody at two parties or whatever. It's good to want to learn game, its bad to have nothing else going on in your life.
/r/askTRP13/04/19 08:51 PM
2

Wow dude. Sucks to be you rn hahaha. You live and your learn. Why did you react to their awkwardness at all? Like they matter at all in the scheme of things. You should have fucking laughed that off to the bank. You even got the other girls competitive! "I'll go check on my dog", you let the social shaming re-beta you. Once you make a statement like that, you own that you made it; laugh it off; if you can see it making people uncomfortable (NOT the case here), calibrate, tease and disqualify her…
/r/askTRP13/04/19 08:42 PM
1

Well, where do you want it to go. Once you start cold approaching, it feels liberating, why wasn't I doing this before. You have fun convos sometimes, you get brushed off other times. The bottom line is you're relying on your luck, "I approached didn't I, where's my prize, I am such a man". No, you need a plan. Sexual strategy. That's what TRP is all about. Why are you cold approaching? Where do you want it to go from here? Do you have your logistics in place? How do I go from approaching this g…
/r/askTRP13/04/19 05:13 PM
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Hope can be a double-edged sword though. You don't want to run on an eternal treadmill of delusional hope like many BP guys do. I do understand the distinction you're trying to make between self-action based hope ("I can change this") vs hope in the universe ("Things will get better, the signs point to it"), the kind of hope that relies on tarot card readings and the opinions of others.
/r/askTRP13/04/19 07:44 AM
3

Yeah, I've been there. The first time I went out approaching I was like, surely the police or the guards or the old aunties next to us or the girl or the guy taking selfies on the phone is going to stop me, berate me, take videos of me, make me the national poster for sexual harassement/toxic masculinity. Nothing happened. I go out every other night. Still nothing has happened. I have to date been kicked out of one club, and that was in my pre-TRP days when I was being a mildly drunk asshole. I …
/r/askTRP13/04/19 05:43 AM
2

Hmm what's on your mind? Do you feel like you NEED to approach, rather than can approach? It seems like you're tying your ego up with approaching, the way many guys new to the gym or to any other new activity do with a hobby.
/r/askTRP13/04/19 05:34 AM
2

Bro this is way past that. Any attention he gives her now is going to feed her hamster. She probably has a shrine built to him in her closet or something. I love that hamster emotional investment love too, but stalkers are NOT fun.
/r/askTRP13/04/19 05:32 AM
1

That sound you hear is your plate breaking. You're lucky it happened now rather than later. The lesson to be learnt here is: 1. Never apologise for women's imagined slights. That's where you broke frame. 2. You validated her crazy behaviour by continuing to give her attention in the beginning and dealing with her like a rational person rather than the child she clearly is. Now she thinks this is the way to get your attention, which is more important than sex, food or air to her. 3. You've got to…
/r/askTRP13/04/19 05:31 AM
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I have an answer for you, but any answer I give you right now would be theoretical, since historically I have only been good sometimes in dealing with this pain. I would say things that have helped me constructively deal with the pain in the past was being around other people, that is, outside of myself, going for a run, using physical activity to run away from the pain. I use music and art as a form of expression and catharsis, picking up my guitar and playing it into the night is one of the fe…
/r/askTRP13/04/19 05:22 AM
3

Yeah.
/r/askTRP13/04/19 05:15 AM
1

What're those?
/r/askTRP12/04/19 11:48 PM
2

Right. I would agree with a lot of those. But I'm also surprised you didn't mention women. I think it varies a little bit based on your place in life and society, but we're talking about a TOP 10% man, I think it's a little harder Tina that.
/r/askTRP12/04/19 11:01 PM
1

Even quiet girls know how to show interest. The bottom line is you're trying too hard. While the validation and feeling of "talking to a girl" may feel good, understand that at best she has low interest and move on to better targets.
/r/askTRP12/04/19 10:10 PM
1

Not ASD, plausible deniability. I'm sure that's what you meant, but an important difference. Yup. Women do this all the time. It's annoying but it's what they do. Just set up a time to meet her at your place so she can drop off the shirt and have your setup for sex, wine, condoms whatever ready.
/r/askTRP12/04/19 10:08 PM
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You're trying too hard and talking way too much. She's into you but you're not showing her comfort , so while she's enjoying the attention she thinks you're a talker and not a doer so instead of being into you she's now going to let you orbit. This is a comfort test so just be like "my bad, although this is a good thing since I do like dogs though". 70% Alpha, 30% beta. After that only text for logistics and stop talking so damn much, giving her attention and drama for no reason. Everything is n…
/r/askTRP12/04/19 10:05 PM
1

The good thing about weak genes is that they circulate out of the gene pool, so you can be happy your kid won't feel this way!
/r/askTRP12/04/19 09:52 PM
3

I can't remember if you mentioned your height or whether you're ripped.
/r/askTRP12/04/19 09:47 PM
3

No, not really, but if this happens again with a girl you're attracted to you may be doing it out of fear or inexperience.
/r/askTRP12/04/19 09:43 PM
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Get a wingman to run interference on the girl trying to cock block.
/r/askTRP12/04/19 09:41 PM
3

Where's your EC tag?
/r/askTRP12/04/19 08:21 PM
1

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/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/19 07:33 PM
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/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/19 07:17 PM
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/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/19 07:08 PM
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/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/19 07:06 PM
2

Most of those women's columns are though. They are also bad science and bad feminism, I don't react to them but I always walk away thinking that broad is crazy. There is so much absolute fucking noise in feminist writing. You academically played yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/19 07:05 PM
2

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2

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/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/19 07:02 PM
3

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1

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1

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/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/19 06:47 PM
2

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/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/19 06:45 PM
2

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/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/19 06:44 PM
3

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1

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/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/19 03:40 PM
1

Yes, there is. The perfect alpha male is dead. Literally. Alphas die like flies because they take high risks, and find themselves in powerful positions. People want that power, money and they fuck over people, women and get killed once their luck runs out. A TRP man is aware of this and builds his life more sustainably. He may be living the same lifestyle and having the same success, but he's managing his plate instead of straight up telling her to fuck off, he's sharing the wealth of his risks …
/r/askTRP12/04/19 11:21 AM
1

I used to think this too but nah. I spent some time doing this kind of selling, and there is a difference. Here you have to walk up to a person and try to sell yourself, with a pre-defined script. When approaching a woman you're doing it to see if she can sell herself to you and to shoot the shit. Take the script away, and you now need to develop the skills to sell yourself without selling yourself. That's the real skill.
/r/askTRP12/04/19 11:16 AM
4

I'm in india, I approach women all the time. She's not a 9/10. Stop watching porn. Stop going on Facebook. You're not good looking, despite what your "bhai-log" comment on your pictures. I get this response from women all the time, staring at me, eye-fucking me, trying to get my attention, 10 times a day. It means nothing. Your post screams you're from Delhi, not in a good way. Fuck her if you want to or don't. She's declined your friend request, that should tell you something. Move on. Read the…
/r/askTRP12/04/19 11:05 AM
1

The way I see it, there are two problems with playing video games, which is why I don't generally: It's fantasy. I don't get why you would spend so much time and energy, like literally hundreds and hundreds of hours, building up your "character" and overcoming pre-defined, fake challenges in an artificial environment, a lot of the time really all alone, in a digital world. Why don't you spend that time building up your "character", you, in real life and achieving real-world goals and satisfactio…
/r/askTRP12/04/19 10:52 AM
4

This is absolutely shit advice and a pathway for many people to end up with no assets or become one of those people sitting at home refreshing the trading app they use every few seconds in the hopes of getting a 2$ killing. The kind of people who believe in "value investing" but only practice day trading. Don't do this kids. Build wealth through cumulative interest and asset appreciation AKA the boring way every billionaire became a billionaire.
/r/TheRedPill12/04/19 08:02 AM
5

What's an instance of a BP using RP to fight incel?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/19 10:14 PM
1

Yeah, you did. You can make it up to me at dinner tonight. Pick you up at 8.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/19 10:06 PM
1

You were supposed to say "Maybe, xyz rationalisation" or something along those lines. Then I would say "Cool. Pick you up at 8". It was going to be so smooth.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/19 10:00 PM
1

Can lawyers date other lawyers?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/19 09:55 PM
2

Absolutely. I have to constantly protect against this.
/r/TheRedPill11/04/19 03:16 AM
3

He's moving on to becoming higher value. You need to keep up with him and provide him value if you guys want to hang out.
/r/askTRP11/04/19 12:51 AM
2

I don't know where you got that idea. A lot of TRP, the good stuff, talks about society a lot. Btw it can also be addictive to "find red pills", alternative theories or facts, when reality is reality. Other than that, GLO talks a lot about society, and you can follow him down the rabbit hole there.
/r/askTRP11/04/19 12:50 AM
2

Going out and doing it.
/r/askTRP11/04/19 12:47 AM
2

This is a good question because there can be such a thing as too big. If you're just a bulbous mass of circular muscles Michelin Mann-ing it up with muscle, instead of fat, you can be weird looking. Gymcels are a real thing. We all know guys who like this who live at the gym, have no other hobbies and are constantly only eating protein powder, from afar they look massively bulked up and really strong but you go and talk to them and they literally can't talk, no like literally can't push together…
/r/askTRP11/04/19 12:45 AM
1

Yeah, I've lived my life like this. I can get away with a lot of shit other people can't, I can get stuff done other people can't, because I'm smart about it, charming, and it's a skill I've developed. Don't get any ideas though about yourself, especially for small stuff like this that you have some special powers. Confident, smart, rich, intelligent people always get what they want, depends on the level they operate at. It's just how the world works. Until you can get someone to give you a bill…
/r/askTRP10/04/19 10:28 PM
1

You keep describing drag but say it's not drag.
/r/askTRP10/04/19 10:17 PM
1

How will she know you're high value if you don't display you're high value?
/r/askTRP10/04/19 10:10 PM
1

Breathe. Drop these ideas of what you think a man should be. Breathe again. Realise that your desire for authority, fulfilment and the pride and validation of others goes much deeper than debt, than what kind of job you do or who thinks what of you. You have some deep seated issues. I think we both know that. Take the time, a few weeks really, to understand yourself, what you want and don't want. Once you know what you want, what you want, not what you think you should do either because society …
/r/askTRP10/04/19 10:06 PM
3

No worries. I hope the surgery goes well and you can feel better soon. It shouldn't matter what she thinks or believes. Just take it easy on yourself mentally rn and focus on the surgery. I'm sure you've developed ways to keep your mind off the pain. Feel free to hit me up, we'll talk about anything but self-pity and suicide because that's a waste of time.
/r/askTRP10/04/19 09:55 PM
39

Honestly, none. None of core TRP beliefs I disagree with. As I go out and experience more life, and improve myself, I agree more and more with a lot of it. Theoretically, I can argue against any of it, but practically, it's true. Despite being in India, a lot of it works. Also I might add, I am ruthlessly empirical and wary of cognitive biases, but so far, TRP holds up. This has nothing to do with TRP, I do hate the incel-y members and content of looks is all you need, the constant talk of Chad,…
/r/askTRP10/04/19 09:48 PM
3

Wait, so what's the problem here exactly. Is it that she won't turn up and you paid for it, and you're looking for the money back? Or she paid for it and will now back out, or paid for her part? Because the latter two are not problems.
/r/askTRP10/04/19 09:41 PM
2

The bottom line here is you don't know and are hamstering about it, that too from a place of insecurity. Talk to her about it, tell her what you want and establish your boundaries.
/r/askTRP10/04/19 09:37 PM
2

Have you considered they're seducing you and talk deep shit with everyone and you're not special? I know I do it to make my partners feel special. Lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/19 08:24 PM
3

What a female defined view of substance, friendship and brotherhood.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/19 08:23 PM
2

That's good, better. Getting closer. Try again. If fundamentally you are a child, what do you want most from your parent? Also think, do healthy parental buy their children's love?
/r/askTRP10/04/19 03:33 AM
1

Good data, but why do you think that is? Is it a factor of their education simpliciter? We do know that the simple fact of education, whatever the quality of education or student, can improve a person's quality of life and options. So is this the consequence of the education, innate to the people getting the education or something else?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/19 02:32 AM
9

The only correct response.
/r/askTRP10/04/19 02:12 AM
1

Thanks!
/r/askTRP09/04/19 07:35 PM
2

lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/19 06:43 PM
1

Sure. I don't have an issue with the content of what you said, but I believe in the context of this question your expression of that idea was overboard. By this I don't mean to say I have a problem with it or particular words or your general style of expression, but rather that what I've learnt from being on TRP for the past couple of years is, different people are it different places with respect to their journey through TRP, and they need to be in a particular position or go through certain ex…
/r/askTRP09/04/19 06:40 PM
4

Absolutely. I've been practicing being unapologetic in my actions and desires over the past few weeks. Have you noticed how men get shamed for our very natural and basic biological desires? How our being a man itself is a problem and that we must apologise for our desires and our masculinity? I've stopped trying to apologise for my existence. I don't need to prove myself to anyone, I don't need to be scared of expressing my desire in a a healthy and constructive way. I deserve to be here. I don'…
/r/askTRP09/04/19 06:22 PM
1

You're not dead until you're dead.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/19 04:06 PM
162

You worry about what others think, you worry about being mean, because you want to be liked. More than anything in the world, you want to be liked. You want to feel loved. You want to feel loved and that you are doing ok. You crave validation. You will put up with noise, with a low-value world, a world of randomness, a world of not achieving your goals, of letting the words of others bother you, because you care. You care so much. You would not dare to rock the boat, you would not dare to be lef…
/r/askTRP09/04/19 05:19 AM
1

Then he is not a buddy of yours. He is a waste of time. Hang out with low value , you'll end up low value yourself.
/r/askTRP09/04/19 04:27 AM
18

Absolutely. I did this. And it changed my life. People underestimate how social we are as people, how important it is for us to have social bearings in order to succeed. Even if you're an introvert, you need some form of social interaction in the day/week to keep you going, it's very important. It's also easy to see how easy it is to slide into degenerate behaviour when you don't have that social safety valve, become a loner in a very specific headspace, there's no feedback mechanism so you can …
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/19 04:09 AM
7

Lol. Women call it chance "omg it just happened" Men know it's game. We don't take chances, we create them. Yeah, cause a woman never slept with a guy so that he'd like her, or a woman never wanted him to stick around but he didn't. We need to stop pretending sex is this holy prize and have it if and when we want to and like it. Emotional sex is better than straight up just physical sex, but that doesn't mean all sex can't be emotional.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/19 02:41 AM
1

Absolutely. Came here to talk about the caveat needed. In the wrong hands, this post becomes fuel for people looking for a "higher purpose than sex" while playing video games all day and drinking Mountain Dew, to feed the cliche. Not sure you provided the necessary caveat though. Not sure you can, as these people can rationalise anything.
/r/TheRedPill09/04/19 02:16 AM
1

I don't mean to assume, but did you read the post?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/19 08:57 PM
1

Hmm try again.
/r/askTRP08/04/19 08:55 PM
1

I don't mean to assume, but did you read the post?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/19 08:54 PM
1

Neither am I. Quite a few people like me, but I don't someone else to tell me about my life. So you can tell yourself what you've told yourself in this post, or you can wake up, look out the window and start conquering.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/19 08:52 PM
3

Well, good for you man. You knew what you wanted from women, you developed a strategy for it, you went out and did it, and now you got what you're looking for. What can be more red pilled than that. As long as you don't lie about it to yourself, that's great and I hope this works out. Let's also be clear that without the TRP skill set and thought process, you wouldn't either know what you want, have her or keep her, is that fair to say?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/19 08:50 PM
0

I do it almost every night, and here I am, in no literal prison.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/19 08:43 PM
1

Hmmm I haven't thought about it so much I guess. Just something about a skinny black girl, African, turns me on.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/19 08:35 PM
1

Lmao.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/19 08:34 PM
1

I can't say that cause I don't believe that. Black women for me please. Unless we're talking Romani.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/19 08:33 PM
1

I have. I agree on Tinder, that's a waste of time, mostly cause there's maybe one girl over a 6 and 600 dudes thirsting on her. In the street, though, AWALT man.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/19 08:32 PM
7

Absolutely. You have won me over with your eloquence and analysis. Meet me in the back in 10.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/19 08:31 PM
0

You and I both know it's not untrue. The expression was disproportionate to the question asked. Now, I know you have a particular style, I don't mean to cramp on it. It may be, and I do say may be, valuable to alternate to a less machine gun approach, especially for a question so simple.
/r/askTRP08/04/19 08:30 PM
0

You're absolutely right. That is the link I'm interested in and looking at, and in the context of these genes moving out of the traditional gene pool, which being hot genes, is weird.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/19 08:24 PM
1

That's...random.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/19 08:22 PM
1

Yeah black people in general are the best. Especially the women.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/19 08:21 PM
1

Bro. Bro. Bro. What're you talking about. It's all out there man. Literally every single woman you see. It's definitely a you problem. That's not a bad thing. Now you know the problem and can fix it.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/19 08:20 PM
1

Ok dude, you are the superior idea explainer. What else can I say
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/19 08:18 PM
2

That's why I said it's not a bad thing. But even for you, this was a stretch. If you're not careful, you'll start sounding as crazy as Andrea Dworkin
/r/askTRP08/04/19 08:17 PM
2

I don't think it's crazy. The style may be a character, and it's crazy by design, to shock and disturb and grab your attention. It's also effective though because, usually, there's something beneath it. I won't hamster on his behalf though, just my experience.
/r/askTRP08/04/19 08:15 PM
1

Sure, but again, I'm talking about genetics, not effort.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/19 08:13 PM
-1

It's very hard to take someone seriously when they say looksmax without context. It's just incel jargon. Describe what you mean by it. But again, it's irrelevant, because like I said, I'm talking about genetics, not grooming. This is not the cheerleader effect, this is objective, one on one. Visually they stand out of course, but that's neither here nor there.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/19 08:12 PM
1

Absolutely. You have won me over with your eloquence and analysis. Meet me in the back in 10.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/19 08:06 PM
1

I can't take your opinion seriously I feel you express it like that. I don't want to be dismissive for the sake of it, so try again, without the irrelevant parts, which was most of it.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/19 08:06 PM
2

Atleast you're honest about being knee-jerk in your first response. Not talking about the effort they put in, talking about genetics.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/19 08:04 PM
1

Absolutely. You have won me over with your eloquence and analysis. Meet me in the back in 10.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/19 08:03 PM
2

Absolutely. You've won me over with your eloquence and analysis. Meet me in the back in 10.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/19 08:02 PM
2

Like I said in the post, not talking about the effort they put in, I'm talking genetics, even if they had beer bellies, quite a few of them have superior genes, as described
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/19 08:01 PM
0

I do notice them. A majority of gay men, like most people, almost by definition, would be genetically average. However, there are a significant number of them, higher than for straight men, who are genetically gifted.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/19 07:59 PM
-1

Like I said in my post, I'm not talking about the effort they put in, I'm talking straight up genetics. You can't fake genetics, atleast not yet.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/19 07:58 PM
8

Do you ever just, like, play table tennis? This constant paranoia, and I'm not saying it's a bad thing, is either the best thing or worst thing that happened to you.
/r/askTRP08/04/19 07:56 PM
1

I know plenty of ugly gay dudes too, but there is a significant number of the kind of men I'm talking about. What the fuck does this have to do with what women notice?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/19 07:51 PM
11

I'm super into dudes and having a good time. Take that hunky 9's shirt off and...dance to Daler Mehandi. Play mariocart. I'm aggressively honest with myself. This is a very low quality response though, it adds no value.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/19 07:49 PM
0

Nah dude, I'm Indian living in India. Women are just as promiscuous, just as sexually aggressive here. You just have to push the right buttons, play the game.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/19 07:46 PM
1

Who says I fail every time? I just fail a lot. I learn. I change. I sharpen my skills. I succeed. And so on.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/19 06:47 PM
1

Hey I can see you getting close but I can also see you making some cardinal mistakes a lot of guys make when they're starting out. So let me ask you this, what do you think is the value you have to give her?
/r/askTRP08/04/19 04:19 PM
1

Love, like any other emotional state, is definitely very real. It's just not forever, or meant to be with only one person.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/19 02:42 PM
1

Oh, you mean like yesterday? And everyday? And the day after? I fail a lot with women. I get my success with women as much from my successes as from my failures.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/19 02:38 PM
1

"stoic"does not mean "boring" or emotionless, or incapable of communicating emotions. It means you don't let them affect you and can move on.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/19 02:35 PM
3

I think great advice for everyone would be to hit the gym, lose weight and build muscle, and take care of their bodies. Now the great thing is everyone won't follow it, which means following it and just sticking with it will you give you some natural advantages. You don't need to be made of muscle, just be healthy and fit, take care of your diet. Also, if I think about it more, this question is fundamentally flawed. When I thought of other advice I'd like to give women, I realised its all things…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/19 02:32 PM
1

I can relate. I've been through almost the exact same experience. Just say "I took some time off to go work, I couldn't be bothered with University, I wanted real life experience but now I'm just back to get my degree and move on with life"
/r/askTRP08/04/19 01:06 PM
2

What more do you need? Go forth and conquer. Live your life.
/r/askTRP08/04/19 01:02 PM
2

This is a situation you will face again and again in your life, so its best you figure it out now. As you become more and more of a high value man, more and more people will want your time. They'd want to just be around you. You have to be very careful about who you give your time and sexual attention to, because both personally and socially, it will affect your self-image and your mission. You will have girls throwing themselves at you, you have to figure out if you want to catch. I've made thi…
/r/askTRP08/04/19 01:00 PM
1

He is the real life version of a troll. Don't feed the troll. I act like he's the weirdest/most disgusting guy on the planet. He certainly doesn't deserve my attention. Always respond with a concerned look/a look of disgust, very minimal eye contact and be like "ok dude" and move away.
/r/askTRP08/04/19 12:52 PM
17

Let's say for example you've eaten porridge your whole life. You eat porridge, people around you eats porridge, every day every meal. It's not much but you're happy. After all, every else is also eating it. There is brotherhood. You complain about porridge together. You relish porridge together. It doesn't get better than this. Then one day, your start eating chicken. This is very strange. An army of people eating porridge, at the same time, in orderly lines. But this man was dissatisfied with p…
/r/askTRP08/04/19 12:48 PM
4

I thought this post was going to be about men and their ideas of how attractive they are or their sexual prowess. What a waste.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/19 12:46 PM
1

Got it. I prefer the first definition.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/19 12:20 PM
1

Words were said. Why, that remains a mystery
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/19 10:41 PM
1

You are Chad.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/19 12:18 PM
0

You will have more luck on the swingers subreddit.
/r/askTRP07/04/19 09:57 AM
4

Definitely.
/r/askTRP07/04/19 09:52 AM
1

What's a pick me woman?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/19 08:44 AM
1

Nope.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/19 08:20 AM
36

Achieve balance. Knock out the rest of your teeth.
/r/askTRP07/04/19 07:54 AM
2

You're currently focusing exclusively on the negatives. I'm sure, and I'm deadly serious, that there is something you're interested in and have something to offer. I have felt this way many times too. You are your failings, but you are also more than that. You have no concept of self or esteem. You need to change from a losing mentality to a winning mentality. So far, you've seen the effect of sad thoughts for years how that affects you, so you know the cumulative effect of thoughts over time an…
/r/askTRP07/04/19 07:24 AM
9

You mean she wasted a great opportunity.
/r/askTRP07/04/19 05:27 AM
1

You are Chad.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/19 05:07 AM
2

Well, you can't have it. Now what? You can either accept it now or be angry and accept it later, the choice is yours.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/19 05:05 AM
2

You are Chad.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/19 04:56 AM
7

Thanks! I've been following your posts, and you provide value, so this means something coming from you
/r/askTRP07/04/19 04:54 AM
2

You are Chad.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/19 04:45 AM
0

?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/19 03:18 AM
1

nice! Valhalla does await
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/19 01:15 AM
2

Yeah, but think about it, why should I care about you wanting a friendly discussion or your curiosity? It's important you learn this now; every conversation must either get you something, or is a waste of time. That something that doesn't need to be tangible, small talk is great, being open and social is great, but when you're having a conversation you should know why you're doing it, what value is being traded and how to keep it valuable for the other person. Now this is diminishing value for m…
/r/askTRP07/04/19 01:03 AM
1

k dude
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/19 12:58 AM
9

I used to think the same way. I used to blame my lack of frame on my lack of sleep. In one way its an excuse. The reality is that's what it is about frame. Come hail or come storm. The entire world shouting at you, disagreeing with you, telling you to fuck off, your family disowning you, you haven't had sex in 3 years, you haven't had sex in 9 years, you slip and fall on a banana peel, you get too much sleep, you get too little sleep, you eat too much, you drink too much, you eat too little. You…
/r/askTRP07/04/19 12:49 AM
2

Thanks. I'm glad you could relate. Just go to the main sub and search for GayLubeOil, you should find them.
/r/askTRP07/04/19 12:42 AM
1

No its not. PUA is different from TRP. PUA is about learning a specific skill set to get women into bed. TRP is about finding a positive masculine identity for yourself and defining a sexual strategy that isn't just about how and when to text. PUA will teach you that. That's what you need rn. You're too young and too inexperienced to understand what I'm saying, that's not a bad thing, but how can you agree or disagree when you don't know what I'm talking about. Read the books. Learn Game. Take y…
/r/askTRP07/04/19 12:36 AM
13

You have no idea how much, from the bottom of my heart, I wish you were right. You're not. Your question had the potential to be a keen observation, now its superficial. There is more to TRP than you think there is. You can either learn this now and save yourself a world of pain, or you can go forth in life and ignore it, and get your heartbroken like the many men do in their 30s, 40s, 50s, even 60s. I'm just saving time. I've also learnt that different people take different times for knowledge …
/r/askTRP07/04/19 12:33 AM
2

Everyone on this thread is treating it like an indictment of their interests. Fun is not about drinking, going to the club or anything. Fun, is being outside your house, having a conversation, having a personality, having an attitude about you, being confident in your actions, and having emotionally charged conversations. The ability to have a good time. Alcohol is the go-to and Bacchus be blessed, but you can have fun whenever, wherever. For example, in my case, its almost like a switch. If I w…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/19 12:27 AM
9

Ok dude.
/r/askTRP07/04/19 12:11 AM
27

If your question is, what is the reason for this? I say this without any malice, any moralizing, any concept of hatred towards anybody, but life is this game. Its the game. Whether you like it or not, you're in it. You can either play it or you can sit by the side and cry about it, you can say the game is rigged, you can complain about the existence of the game, but the game is still there. The game doesn't care. You can either play it and win or play it and lose, but you have to play it, in its…
/r/askTRP07/04/19 12:01 AM
2

Ok. That's a long time to be on the internet. Given your specific situation, I would honestly suggest you don't TRP, you need PUA. Don't fuck up your college life by for example telegraphing interest and making girls uncomfortable. Take a few weeks, read The Game, read Mystery Method, read RooshV, watch RSD videos, and most importantly, take the time the make a personal inventory of yourself, with complete honestly. Forgot everything you know about women, seduction, love, and most importantly, l…
/r/askTRP06/04/19 11:52 PM
2

She's all I want, and I've waited for so long.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/19 11:43 PM
1

No I didn't need to, your name is Pranav. Why do Indian guys always make Reddit usernames their actual names "RajeshKishore11" just commented on my post, I wonder who he is. So you're from India studying in Canada now?
/r/askTRP06/04/19 11:37 PM
4

Exactly. From what I can gather from "The Game", Owen was the first to talk about the concept of Alphas, and frame, and if you listen to this video he's talking a lot about concepts like frame, abundance etc. and its not be accident. Those terms may have shifted since how he used them in the mid 2000s, and I do agree that they do tend to push the general "looks don't matter" PUA thing, but over the years Owen, if not RSD, has really moved in TRP directions.
/r/TheRedPill06/04/19 11:35 PM
1

Where in India are you from Pranav?
/r/askTRP06/04/19 11:30 PM
1

The response will be the same the last 3 times this was asked in the last week or so. Go out and try it. We could either all be one guy posting from 1000s of different accounts to perpetuate the lie that being hot gets you laid, that going to the gym and working out makes you more focused, strong emotionally and physically and happy, but there's only one way for you to prove me wrong. P.S. my name is Pete, I started TRP 7 years ago, its very tiring running all these accounts.
/r/askTRP06/04/19 11:27 PM
3

A paper salesman comes up to you and you're enthusiastic about purchasing paper. Halfway through his pitch, he suddenly stops, gets a weird look in his eye and starts telling you he wants to sell you printers instead. You're confused, you write him off as a waste of time and move on with your life. When you hold frame, a woman knows what you're about it, and almost their sole mission in life is to break it. Once you break frame, they now don't know what you are about, they thing you've been lyin…
/r/askTRP06/04/19 11:19 PM
3

I mean, for me, its almost like I re-discover TRP every few weeks rn. I get my heart broken in some way, I swear off women, social activities and just say I'm going to focus on my life, and the cycle repeats. You can also tell yourself you're TRP, you read the sidebar, you read the posts, you think about y'know men's rights and whatever, but you're still living your life like a loser, holding onto BP assumptions, holding onto a concept of the world, that frankly, doesn't exist. So, firstly, its …
/r/askTRP06/04/19 11:12 PM
3

Exactly. I found that part important too. Like he said he spent a decade lying to himself about women. I generally try to keep the distinction between PUA and TRP, because a lot of PUA can be just about techniques to serve the female imperative, but this was definitely about the importance of finding your own identity and maintaining that superior frame, while not being a pussy.
/r/TheRedPill06/04/19 11:04 PM
2

I'll let you have this conversation with yourself because clearly you didn't read my reply to your comment, even though it was only 1 line.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/19 10:56 PM
2

Nice.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/19 10:54 PM
2

You wrote the comment, I didn't. I've found its a great practice to listen to what people aren't saying as much as they what they are saying.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/19 10:52 PM
2

Quite a few actually. They may not be hitting the clubs, but the women always have to be doing something new.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/19 10:51 PM
0

I mean, at some level, yeah pretty much. Either she's then attracted to you or she's wet herself haha. One part of that, if we're talking seriously, is cognitive dissonance. Laughter feels good. I like laughing. He made me laugh. Therefore I must like him. Like actual laughter, not awkward get me out of here laughter.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/19 10:50 PM
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Ok. Let's assume you're attractive. You are literally the hottest man on earth. Low value girls are breaking down your doors to try to get with you. Now what? Honestly, now what? What's the game plan? If you're not fun, if you don't have game, it won't matter. Are you waiting to become the hottest man on earth before you learn game, or are you going to play the hands your dealt and fucking win? Then, you'll find a new reason. The problem is in the mirror but its not your looks.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/19 10:48 PM
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Even in their stable relationships, if there's not something new happening, if they're not being taken out, if there's no drama to keep that hamster spinning, there's going to be the "you never take me out/you're so boring" conversation, which in bp guys case leads to desperate qualification and then break ups.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/19 10:44 PM
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Your flair says MGTOW but your comment says I think a lot about women, if that's what you look forward to most.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/19 10:43 PM
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The important part there is throw in a few eat out nights a week/month. That is a very important part of their existence, without which life would SUCK. To them its not a boring corner, whether its a week or a month if they're not getting that sweet sweet drama from their guy to obsess about at some point of time, there is going to be conversation about how boring he is.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/19 10:41 PM
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Girl, please
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/19 10:39 PM
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Found the incel.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/19 10:39 PM
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I think you just described this entire sub in one sentence
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/19 09:45 PM
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You always surprise me with your ability to look at the point, understand the point and then completely miss it.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/19 09:44 PM
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Shake your intellect for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/19 09:40 PM
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What do I say except K. Come play video games with me, I will be in your pants in 30 minutes, either wearing them or..the usual, other thing
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/19 09:39 PM
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Nah, I don't think I want to get married, or have a monogamous LTR, that's for sure
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/19 09:37 PM
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Ok, weirdo.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/19 09:36 PM
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Hot.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/19 09:36 PM
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Exactly. I don't necessarily hold it against these guys. Learning the truth is one thing, but you have to be at a time where you're ready to accept it to accept that knowledge. It took a year+ to get there.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/19 09:36 PM
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The number of women...who fuck on hiking trails...is mind-boggling. You're out in the woods, doing physical things, for hours together, possibly also majorly alone, the excitement of reaching the top. Dude no.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/19 09:35 PM
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I don't have experience to comment on that, but I generally agree
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/19 09:34 PM
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No dude, even video games or literally whatever you're into can be fun, and a lot of women are into video game culture now, its that most guys play video games as a stop gap on their soul rather than because they want to or care about it. Its not fun, its noise in the background that enables them to relate to other people, its like guys who play guitar to get laid. The essence of it is fun. I remember one of the ECs on TRP used to be a yu-gi-oh international player as a teenager, going to tourna…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/19 09:32 PM
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Hey, nice shoes. See, I found something interesting to talk about with you.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/19 08:54 PM
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Amen to a lot of that.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/19 08:54 PM
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Pretty much yeah, they get comfortable and then it stops being fun. Its why married women flirt so much, they miss the game and the attention, even if they won't do anything.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/19 08:52 PM
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There's a lot going on there, but I get your basic point. Fun for different people is different things. That's part of bringing her into your frame. "These are the fun things I like and this is way, and I fucking love it" and the women will find those things fun too.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/19 08:51 PM
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Where'd you get that from...
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/19 08:49 PM
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I don't judge women for being women. I've learnt its a complete waste of my time. To try to turn back the clock is useless. I believe women played themselves through radical feminism, I play the game and enjoy the decline. I get way more benefits this way than without.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/19 08:28 PM
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Be the tease you were born to be
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/19 08:26 PM
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Thanks!
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/19 08:25 PM
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Nope. This is the main mindset I'm talking about. "If I don't have money, if I can't give her great experiences I can't be fun". The roots of this are blue pill "I will earn her love", you're qualifying yourself by your ability to give her treats and experiences. That's a particular kind of game. You can give women experiences without needing to break the bank on a holiday. They want fun, new experiences, to learn and do things they've never done before, with you, to make their personalities aft…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/19 08:24 PM
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Yeah, having a modicum of money and looks maybe, but most men have that and enough. Its not that hard getting laid when you're broke, although it may be harder to do so consistently.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/19 08:16 PM
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"The fun will just happen" That's not true. Women have that luxury and so will never understand what a lot of men have to do to build that chemistry, internalize fun until you "just make it happen". Compatability, even if not all the time, can also and in fact needs to be created
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/19 08:15 PM
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Nah, its not about being a clown, and it goes beyond being cocky and funny, although that's an integral part of it. Its important to not confuse being a clown and being fun in the context of this post. You can be fun in a lot of ways
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/19 08:14 PM
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I dunno, I used to get laid a lot more before TRP, I just wasn't happy with myself
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/19 08:12 PM
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Yeah, this is why Pook is gold. We must however, keep in perspective the limitations of the fun guy PUA worldview. It didn't exactly provide an identity for men. Otherwise, in terms of game, nothing like it.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/19 08:11 PM
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I think so too
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/19 08:11 PM
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abstemious Learnt a new word today, or a new form of a word. I agree wholeheartedly in terms of fun being what gets you laid. I do think that a lot of men kind of get this wrong. In this case, I would divide TRP men into two categories, the people who confuse "stoic" for "boring", chasing the strong silent type in almost all their endeavours, not realising that they're feeding the beast of their own blue-pilled conditioning. The other side is the 20% of men who are high-value, high status who ha…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/19 08:10 PM
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Free solo?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/19 06:33 PM
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Yeah, but you haven't proved me wrong yet.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/19 06:11 PM
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Yeah, and that's about it. That's all women want. Girls just want to have fun man, and most men aren't
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/19 05:46 PM
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k
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/19 05:45 PM
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Even for long term, I think women just want to have fun. They don't care much really what your bank balance is, that's just something they have to do socially. More women leave men for not being fun than for being poor. She will seriously have a multi-year LTR with a fun but poor guy over a rich but boring guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/19 05:38 PM
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I don't think you could.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/19 05:21 PM
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I only follow OSCOLA.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/19 05:18 PM
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Look I'm famous! :D
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/19 05:06 PM
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Your title is one question but your post is about something else entirely. So what do you want an answer to?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/19 05:05 PM
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And cue redpillschool 2015 post, again.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/19 05:04 PM
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Pretty much. Btw, Alpha is defined on the TRP sidebar. Its a spectrum of traits, from a TRP perspective. There is a contextual element to it. The most important factor is that he is a promiscuous man who is sexually in-demand by women, high quality women and lesser women alike. The most important element of that he appears to be in control. He is in control, setting the agenda, getting what he wants. That's naturally attractive and people want to be around powerful people. This could be formal o…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/19 04:50 PM
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Hmm I don't remember what it was before. I just like your username.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/19 04:44 PM
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