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| 2 | How to deal with LTR asking about sexual history?Agree. this is pretty much what i do when it comes up. It works, even tho she will persist. However... she takes that as a "yes" i did sleep with someone by omission, as in because i wont say anything i must have. Now, she can think that, but im not sure if this is a red flag for the relationship or not... it seems very jealous right? | /r/askTRP | 03/10/19 05:11 PM |
| 0 | How to deal with LTR asking about sexual history?I dont think she was mad. just sad whatever that means. maybe she thought if i was that into her i wouldn't have been sleeping with anyone else even while dating. I can tell you from what i know, she has only ever dated VERY beta men. Anyway it doesnt matter if i did or didn't. its not good to reveal that information. | /r/askTRP | 03/10/19 05:00 PM |
| 0 | How to deal with LTR asking about sexual history?The comment about her begin sad is obviously some degree of manipulation. im no idiot. However, the entire situation is what i want advice on. Im not so experienced in LTR. usually its easy to deal with this shit test but it feels different in a relationship. How can i better curve this or deal with it next time? | /r/askTRP | 03/10/19 04:59 PM |
| 1 | Tips for stop sliding to BETA in a LTR?Why start talking about girls if she starts talking about guys? I think that comes across as a bit jealous. Like, retaliating. thats how a woman would perceive that anyway. All the rest i agree with, thanks for the suggestions. | /r/askTRP | 27/09/19 12:11 AM |
| 1 | How to differentiate between actual interest and Beta Bait?did you fuck? Yes? No? beta bait. | /r/askTRP | 26/09/19 10:05 PM |
| 1 | What to do with girlfriend?Its not helping his conscience. she'll cheat anyway. He can do it but guys dont need to be in a relationship to spin plates. Any guy who is okay with a woman cucking him is messed up. going back to Fwb is one thing, but giving her all the emotional, time and validation and knowing she takes strange cock is deeply in the cuckold territory. If its an Open Relationship but in reality its just a mislabel of a FwB thats different. | /r/askTRP | 26/09/19 10:04 PM |
| 2 | What to do with girlfriend?break up dude. you are too young to be in a relationship, and you are going to hurt this poor woman. dont string her along. sure she will do threesome and may entertain some shitty behavior on your part (shes young and addicted to that kind shit) but ultimetely why bother? you can get sex easily enough. Just end it. Dont open up the relationship. do you have any idea what kind of fucking drama will unfold in your life if you go down that path? seriously. Break up, and propose a threesome one day… | /r/askTRP | 26/09/19 09:59 PM |
| 1 | Why do guys orbit women? My LTR has a few and I can't understand thisI might do it. but i dont keep those women on a regular friendship. i dont have female friends i would go out 1 to 1 with unless im fucking them or will fuck them very soon. The attractive and ones im not so attracted to are more like "group" friends. ones i hang out with through proxy, with others. I think its how they handle it. it varies. i may be a little older than you, but i think its hard to find a woman over a certain age who doesnt have some orbiters especially if they have a decent car… | /r/askTRP | 26/09/19 09:00 PM |
| 20 | Why do guys orbit women? My LTR has a few and I can't understand thisgood luck finding a woman without them these days. especially if she is over a certain age. but i agree entierly | /r/askTRP | 26/09/19 07:03 PM |
| 1 | Willing To Drive 4 Hours + Rent a Hotel Room To See Me - IS SHE CRAZY?she sounds fucked up. DO NOT LTR, OR PLATE HER. If you want a fuck go for it but im telling you this kinda crazy chick is sticky as shit. be careful homie. | /r/askTRP | 26/09/19 07:01 PM |
| 2 | Should I block my oneitis?Ignore her forever. If she contacts you in many months try for a fuck with new red pilled eyes and tactics but ultimately she will be doing back to you after failing to get a chad to commit so remember that. imo you are best to start fresh elsewhere | /r/askTRP | 26/09/19 06:58 PM |
| 3 | So you have any observations or theories about women who are naturally masculine?Most women will do stuff like ask for dick pics, tell you what they like in bed if you can bring it out in them and stimulate them properly and for long enough. you just need to get past the slut shield first, and not let them feel like a slut for it | /r/askTRP | 26/09/19 06:56 PM |
| 6 | What is the mindset of getting tattoos as a woman?Me like men with tattoo Me find man with tattoo hot Me get tattoo, i will be hot too they are retarded | /r/askTRP | 26/09/19 06:55 PM |
| 6 | Soft nexted a girl who was acting distant. A week later she's messaged me with a completely different tone. How to deal?didnt read the op, but she is probably testing the water. Are you still her beta? are you still orbiting? will you still give her validation? are you easy still? are you a lapdog? If you dont reply, she has lost you and a source of validation. If you have any hope to spin it to sex, i would ignore her for a few weeks. then initiate again if she doesnt and do shit properly this time. dont be a bitch, be in your frame, and get her chasing your validation again that she will want to win back. in th… | /r/askTRP | 26/09/19 06:52 PM |
| 2 | Meta - Isn't soft nexting a method actually for you (instead of her/them)?both. its mostly for you. get rid f the source of annoying. do something fun. problem solving! It also reminds her, you are not guaranteed, there are consequences to her actions and she has time to reconsider how fragile things can be if she is a bitch. The latter is a great byproduct. | /r/askTRP | 26/09/19 06:49 PM |
| 1 | Why do guys orbit women? My LTR has a few and I can't understand thisI know! Im red pilled so i was like wtf, this shit straight from the horses mouth pretty much as dictionary red pill. unbelievable how real this all is. This woman has proven so much of TRP to me in her own fucking words. However i wasnt sure if she just rationalized their "wanting" her, over percieving her value or some shit. but really, what kind of guy spends so much money on a woman he has no intention to bang. | /r/askTRP | 26/09/19 06:46 PM |
| 1 | Tips for stop sliding to BETA in a LTR?I see. thanks. I'll do just that. I thought my game was getting weak and that was the reason for this.... but its really just a natural progression. Sometimes i find myself doing or saying something i wouldnt have before we were in a relationship. Answering a more personal/nosy question. giving more comfort or affection sometimes. | /r/askTRP | 26/09/19 06:42 PM |
| 1 | Tips for stop sliding to BETA in a LTR?She's kidna jealous and constantly comfort tests for our future... So i think the natural dread is kinda high with us. But as this is my first LTR, i have no experience to draw on. I was kinda expecting it to be like the start(all my flings were till they ended) forever in intensity. Now it's kinda in waves or different. I'm getting hung up on that. like, if i can't maintain that(performance) then she is going to lose interest herself and it'll end. As you can see im not bluepilled and have a cl… | /r/askTRP | 26/09/19 06:32 PM |
| 1 | Tips for stop sliding to BETA in a LTR?Absolutely. I maintain a very thorough routine and always have. I always try to keep my SMV up like that. I sometimes get resistance on leading the relationship. In general, its not hard, but on smaller things i find she kinda resists a bit... but only on smaller things for some reason, and in all honesty, i really couldn't give a shit on leading every little possible avenue. It's exhausting. I prefer to control the general direction of the ship, and the major events. not the small details. I ge… | /r/askTRP | 26/09/19 06:17 PM |
| 2 | My LTR is really jealous, what should I do?I think it is a question of managing it properly. It is a draw back of high natural dread. but it has many advantages. Its very fucking annoying, but so is 1000 shit tests a day or a high maintenance woman who is a par or above you in SMV(for a LTR). Just AA and AM most of the time. If she references it for the rest of the week thats fine in my book lol. Just make it an ongoing joke at that point. I find it annyoing mostly when she is insecure and kicks up a drama stemming from it and what im le… | /r/askTRP | 17/09/19 10:59 PM |
| 1 | Why are women so retarded? ( girl told me dating guys makes her MORE attractive to men)you mean the "my wifes boyfriend" sort of guys? the literal cucks who act like they arent threatened because they know its either that or nothing for them? I always found that a really weird paradigm. Its not showing jealousy but its literally having no self respect at all as a man and betraying your basic instinct if in a relationship. wtf is up with that shit | /r/askTRP | 17/09/19 10:07 PM |
| 4 | My LTR is really jealous, what should I do?Im just not used to LTRS. I communicated i can take it or leave it through actions many times and such. I think im too strict for a LTR. in the past with plates and such if they gave me hassle i just dropped them after 2 or three strikes... Now in LTR i get a hassle every now and then, and it is usually comfort test variety or her insecurity. I feel like ending it next time this happens(a drama), but i might be too strict. I never really bend.... but after a certain point i just kinda want her t… | /r/askTRP | 17/09/19 10:02 PM |
| 4 | My LTR is really jealous, what should I do?Yes. But i seem to be oblivious to applying it in my own relationship. I think i apply dread a lot without even knowing it... | /r/askTRP | 17/09/19 09:14 PM |
| 5 | My LTR is really jealous, what should I do?I am at a loose end really. Part of me feels like im always gonna get cucked somehow. Like women even acting jealous is them downplaying and hiding their cheating. Or if you dont give them that dread, they will cheat or lose attraction. If you provide comfort, they lose attraction. If you dont provide enough, they cheat and leave. their ultimate goal in a relationship is to reduce the guy to no anxiety, limit his options and stop all his behavior, while being able to maintain her potential monke… | /r/askTRP | 17/09/19 08:06 PM |
| 2 | Why are women so retarded? ( girl told me dating guys makes her MORE attractive to men)Yes. You need to give them drama sometimes but definitely has to have a limit. It's just strange because drama makes me less attracted, but im sure it makes women more attracted. Thats why the worst option is to always agree and bend to her will. It's also very bad to argue and fight. Best is to just make a statement a few times and then do a ghost. that is like crack to their pussy for some reason. | /r/askTRP | 17/09/19 06:39 PM |
| 5 | Why are women so retarded? ( girl told me dating guys makes her MORE attractive to men)She gave it away. After I dealt with the shit and she apologized etc we were talking. She referenced how the reason I wanted to watch that film was because of the young good looking women etc. Then i pieced it together and said to her "is that what all that crap was about?" She said that yes, it started from there. lol. | /r/askTRP | 17/09/19 06:21 PM |
| 2 | Why are women so retarded? ( girl told me dating guys makes her MORE attractive to men)Lmao good insight. IDK, it has become a hobby of mine to watch how the female hamster spins and disconects from reality nowadays. Sometimes you can just never guess it. My GF once got very moody and insecure with me, throwing comfort and shit tests galore. After all said and done, it turns out it was because my movie suggestion for the next day. It was a cult classic film, but it had a lot of young women in it, who were good looking. This made her insecure and she started throwing shit. Couldn't… | /r/askTRP | 17/09/19 06:16 PM |
| 1 | Why are women so retarded? ( girl told me dating guys makes her MORE attractive to men)I mean think about yourself here too. If you see that would you feel more attracted or less attracted? I can only speak for myself. But when I see girls do that on social media a lot I find them way less attractive for it. I know it applies for guys, but imo, betas do it from jealousy. Like an orbiter will frantically enquirer, or an very jealous beta boyfriend will be steamrolling for information. It's not like, how it arouses women. its very different. As we know attention is number 1 currency… | /r/askTRP | 17/09/19 06:06 PM |
| 1 | Been seeing an older woman non exclusively, but feel embarrassedWell, ticks a lot of boxes. i wouldn't date someone im not attracted to, would rather jack off. Dating woman my own age who are fat or just not that good looking, i'd rather bang an older one who still looks good in comparison. I guess the source of the embarrassment is in that I KNOW I can and have done better than her if i wanted to (younger woman with same looks or better). I guess thats it really. | /r/askTRP | 12/09/19 06:52 PM |
| 1 | Been seeing an older woman non exclusively, but feel embarrassedYes, that is preselection at work and competition anxiety. But for an older woman, idk if that applies. Like i have seen some of my friends date some complete slampigs and not good looking woman our own age and i thing that i'd MUCH rather date an older woman who isnt chubby and as bad looking as these young women by comparison lol | /r/askTRP | 12/09/19 06:47 PM |
| 0 | Is a relationship where she makes more money doomed?I was back in school and she knew it from the start, so i suppose it makes a difference. Long term whether it works out the same or not im not sure. | /r/askTRP | 10/09/19 05:55 PM |
| 1 | Is a relationship where she makes more money doomed?ask jeff bezos | /r/askTRP | 09/09/19 11:14 PM |
| 1 | Is a relationship where she makes more money doomed?Well my stance is that i dont want marriage, or kids, and want to keep separate living arrangements. She seems cool with all of that surprisingly. I dont want a conventional relationship. She doesnt want kids of her own either. She said before she is 100% behind me while i gain traction for my ventures before and thats pretty much the simple of it. All I can do is carry on with what I want and my goals if she stays great, if not im doomed if i change course anyway. ty for sharing. | /r/askTRP | 09/09/19 07:43 PM |
| 1 | Is a relationship where she makes more money doomed?ty for your experience. | /r/askTRP | 09/09/19 07:30 PM |
| 1 | Is a relationship where she makes more money doomed?In terms of observation i agree too. I've seen the same shit happen over and over inevitably. The only variable i cant account for in a lot of examples is if the guy was a complete spineless beta in addition. I guess I would like to believe it too, but i need more experience and we need more stories of guys who have had a red pilled relationship with a woman making more. and for me, it's definitely too early to say. In reality i don't even believe "happy" relationships are good. For guys, yes. B… | /r/askTRP | 09/09/19 06:00 PM |
| 1 | Is a relationship where she makes more money doomed?I think i see this in guys who never let a woman pay. its like a source of pride in paying for them even if they cant afford it. I've seen guys do it and then bitch about having to do it after behind their back. | /r/askTRP | 09/09/19 05:45 PM |
| 1 | Is a relationship where she makes more money doomed?Makese sense from the hypergammy view. I just wonder if it is more dynamic than that. I mean in that provisioning is really only one aspect of it all. The hallmark of AF is giving no provisioning yet getting all the sexuality no? In a sense i suppose from a womans mind these goals are systematic. In terms of my own situation, im really not that attached. I'd like this to last as its been good but if it has to end i will never bend on my principals. and why would I? If i do, I am doomed to betado… | /r/askTRP | 09/09/19 05:42 PM |
| 1 | Is a relationship where she makes more money doomed?And how would weakness be shown in your opinion? Personally i couldn't care, but its always good to know what to watch out for and self regulate. its why we are here. | /r/askTRP | 09/09/19 05:11 PM |
| 1 | Is a relationship where she makes more money doomed?Nope. i wasn't. In fact, i have never brought up money for the entire relationship once. She has a couple times. I never even give a shit. I'm analsing it and trying to realise if she is a latent gold digger but i really dont think so. No way she woulda seen me so long if she was imo as i kinda intentionally tested for it. I think she said something about "not feeling like a lady" or whatever so in women language i guess she doesnt feel apreciated sometimes. Probably just bullshit to be ignored … | /r/askTRP | 09/09/19 05:10 PM |
| 1 | Is a relationship where she makes more money doomed?Is it true? We dont live together and i would never even consider it anyway. I do my own hobbies, keep my own friends, she does same(but tries to integrate a lot). I make enough money to have my own life and do whatever i want. Is making more really "holding the keys"? | /r/askTRP | 09/09/19 05:06 PM |
| 3 | Is a relationship where she makes more money doomed?This is what I thought, but i got thinking because its such a debate topic, and i saw a colleague get a divorce lately when his wife makes a lot more than him. I get it, just go as you mean to carry on and they stay if they stay, but is who makes most money really that big a deal? I know AF/BB is dualitic, and at the extremes AF is not relationship material so money matters not in the slightest, while BB is relationship extreme providing all and getting nothing. Is there nothing in the middle? | /r/askTRP | 09/09/19 05:04 PM |
| 2 | crying in front of LTR? recoverable?I am ready to leave at any moment. I think out of all red pill having one foot in the doorr constantly is most important part of a LTR. It might be sad to say bye but if she started acting unfavorably i would just cut it rather than watch shit disintegrate. I didnt notice a difference the next day at all. quite the opposite in fact she seems pretty much more attached since a few weeks ago. I dont agree that "she gonna think you will be happy" if it ends, but they do need constant reminding indir… | /r/askTRP | 28/08/19 02:30 PM |
| 1 | Can you ever have a legitimate conversation with a woman?cocky funny and amused mastery | /r/askTRP | 09/08/19 11:46 PM |
| 4 | Can you ever have a legitimate conversation with a woman?Smart women are difficult. It's like they are capable but in the end they still react the same. They use their smarts in such a goal like fashion. Study X, do Y, learn Z and I can further my optimizing hypergammy(in her mind). They still don't seem to enjoy information and fact exchange or ideas for its own sake like men do. The way men just like making information 'fit' is satisfying in and of itself, the smart women just lack that still. they'll apply that smart to social strategy, which is wh… | /r/askTRP | 09/08/19 11:45 PM |
| 1 | Can you ever have a legitimate conversation with a woman?I guess i need to find one lol. I dated a woman in finance for a while. she wasn't so bad, but given enough time, or depending on her mood overall it was a game of chance. it was better to just go in looking to make light of it all and such rather than trying to have a serious discussion because if that time it wasn't (for her) such a time, it only invited lost frame or frustration. These days i just try save it all for other guys. Have to agree with young women though. Don't even go there. Its … | /r/askTRP | 09/08/19 11:30 PM |
| 6 | Can you ever have a legitimate conversation with a woman?Maybe im extreme, but im not sold. I think women are just accepting your frame, passion and energy when it comes to your selling of the renewable energy. And, of course, renewable energy is a nice trendy thing for people right now. That is not a put down to you, im jsut making a comment on women nature. I mean, if enough attractive people and celebrities started drinking their piss on TV and advertising it for good health, with not explanation, im sure a LOT of women out there would struggle not… | /r/askTRP | 09/08/19 11:27 PM |
| 1 | She always wants me to explain my opinion and “why” etc (help my hamster)All of those things you said. Finally someone who gets it. This is my issue. I prefer to never have these discussions with her because i know it will turn into emotional drivel fast. But sue initiates them herself sometimes. I shut them down by not really fleshing out my opinion much and trying to move it along but sometimes she will latch on. Anyway yes i have noticed this. Its just difficult to avoid sometimes. Im not so “ego” driven when i talk with guys at all. Im just firm with women becaus… | /r/askTRP | 08/08/19 09:45 PM |
| -1 | She always wants me to explain my opinion and “why” etc (help my hamster)Exactly. Is this just taking myself too seriously? Thats what I suspect. I need ppl to level my hamster of so. The main issue is that I automatically assume every conversation or interaction with women is emotionally driven or will immediately become emotionally charged rather than content charged. This is why i dont really like to have intellectual conversation or debate with them. I red pilled a year ago and im still trying to sort out the nitty gritty. When im talking to guys i do not adopt t… | /r/askTRP | 08/08/19 08:57 PM |
| 1 | Is jealousy that bad? I see guys in relationships do it often.I cant see a meaningful difference. I mean in terms of practical take away. How is that put into action? I just cant see it being worth it or even usable as the supposed line is so fine... | /r/askTRP | 19/07/19 06:36 AM |
| 2 | Is jealousy that bad? I see guys in relationships do it often.Lol ur so right. Listen to what she does not what she says. One if the most profound and useful teaches of red pill imo | /r/askTRP | 18/07/19 10:27 PM |
| 1 | Is jealousy that bad? I see guys in relationships do it often.Interesting take. Have you ever noticed how so many woman change what is “manly” to suit what they want or like? As in, whatever serves their GOAL. Like they will say how some feminine trait is “manly” in either an attempt to manipulate a guy(wimp), put down another guy(shit test) or just to suit themselves? Ie guy acting out of their control, so they attempt to control him or men in general by saying how they think some feminine or crap is manly instead. | /r/askTRP | 18/07/19 10:25 PM |
| 1 | Can you guys cure my program hopping? Specific books to read instead of wasting time?Thats the intensity differences. Over a long term period and assuming your recovery as an individual is capable of the 10x3 there will be little differences in muscle net gain over a 5 year period. Take home answer: be consistent | /r/askTRP | 10/04/19 11:44 AM |
| 2 | Can you guys cure my program hopping? Specific books to read instead of wasting time?Nah. Volume can be accumulated with low reps and high weight. 10 sets of 3 with 90% 3 sets of 10 with 70% Both same volume. One is just gonna take longer and be more intense. Recovery becomes an issue for the heavier one faster. Volume is number of sets and reps done per week. Going lighter with higher reps per set just allows a happy medium on recovery. You wont spin your wheels as fast. | /r/askTRP | 10/04/19 11:14 AM |
| 3 | Can you guys cure my program hopping? Specific books to read instead of wasting time?You are wasting your time. You are thinking way too fucking much. Maybe you do this for other areas too? Are you progressing every month, or in accordance to your training age? If yea just keep fucking doing it. Lofting is not complicated. You do not need to feel brutal after every workout. You can progress on moderate intensity. Volume/Weight/Intensity. These three will be constantly balanced bases on your recovery. It is that simple. If you have done enough programs, by now you should not even… | /r/askTRP | 10/04/19 11:11 AM |
| 1 | For men, the level of motivation for mating doesn't justify the benefits. Evolution screws up men.I think you are trying to find an end game where there simply is not one. Red pill is just a sexual strategy, and nothing more. Alpha behaviour is not “the norm” but it is the most successful in passing on its genetics. So over time women became aroused by these behaviours because they instinctively are selected as a very high chance of passing genetic material into the future compared to beta males. Alpha seed, beta need. Whether alphas stick around with reduced test is a moot point in terms of… | /r/askTRP | 08/04/19 12:49 PM |
| 1 | For men, the level of motivation for mating doesn't justify the benefits. Evolution screws up men.Beta vs alpha strategy. Rollo also talks about this. High SMV makes or men with more alpha behaviour are more likely to focus on spreading the seed, or low investment in many partners. Because they can. Beta makes, or lower 80% if men are more likely to heavily invest in one or few women as their sexual strategy because thats the only way to pass on the genetics. The fall in test may be a beta male strategy to ensure offspring survive and genetics are passed on. Where alpha approach of having ma… | /r/askTRP | 08/04/19 12:13 PM |
| 0 | For men, the level of motivation for mating doesn't justify the benefits. Evolution screws up men.Nope. Sex is the end game. Children is just the unavoidable outcome in nature before birth controls were invented. Biologically having sex and having children are the same in terms of male sexual strategy. The lonely old man myth is just a stupid social convention betas subscribe to so that they fall willingly in line on their own. Almost every single guy i know who has aspirations to get married and have kids is a complete AFC. | /r/askTRP | 08/04/19 11:09 AM |
| 1 | Is this a type of shit-test? when they try to make you sweet, nice, and sensitive?Yes its called betaization. Sometimes its obvious as fuck and they know they are stroking ur ego or trying to reward u for behaviour they want. Chicks genuinely think they want you to be like that. Beta is comforting to them | /r/askTRP | 07/04/19 11:03 PM |
| 1 | Is this a type of shit-test? when they try to make you sweet, nice, and sensitive?In your personal definition. There is no prototype alpha male. There is no prototype beta male. Alpha is just a set of behaviours. An extreme alpha can be a wicked bastard just as much as a respectable person but the wicked bastard is much more likely to display them in raw form | /r/askTRP | 07/04/19 11:00 PM |
| 2 | Need help understanding the rational males definition of alphaAlpha= sexually arousing behaviour Beta = comfort providing attractive behaviour | /r/askTRP | 07/04/19 04:47 PM |
| 14 | Plate of 1.5 years said she was going to kill herself if I left her.Bpd. Run. | /r/askTRP | 07/04/19 10:45 AM |
| 1 | Just like TRP predicted, I got the "2-Month-Post-Breakup-Saturday-Morning-Apology" text. This means she fucked some dude right?Dont. You still have a lot to learn. She has a lot of red flags and it sounds from her behaviour and story you mismanaged her and broke frame often or went beta. Plating an ex is not easy. Maybe you can in the future. If you do you need to sent HARD ground rules, not even ones you communicate but ones you covertly enforce. Can you do that when she will test them hardcore to reestablish the past dynamic? Or will you bend and let her get more than a plate gets? It’ll be 10x harder than a new plate… | /r/askTRP | 07/04/19 08:55 AM |
| 1 | Improving Communication skillsWant to improve fast? Drop the video games and anime. Get out there and practice. Its uncomfortable for a reason | /r/askTRP | 07/04/19 08:42 AM |
| 1 | Do 'happily married' women still think about their AF partners?Marriage is not red pill. You can mix them but it is not red pill. Guys on married pill are just making the most if their shitty situation. Some guys still have marriage as a goal. I have no judgement. It is still old paradigm snd not red pill. | /r/askTRP | 07/04/19 08:33 AM |
| 6 | Am I an idiot for wanting to move out of Australia because our women age so poorly?Anglo 5-7s are dome of the most annoying basic bitches ever | /r/askTRP | 07/04/19 08:31 AM |
| 1 | Aren't a lot of the guys here just as bad as the thots they don't like?Not only that, im pretty sure most all guys here are getting all the women they plate from dating apps or school | /r/askTRP | 07/04/19 08:25 AM |
| 2 | Do 'happily married' women still think about their AF partners?https://heartiste.wordpress.com/2013/04/08/five-minutes-of-alpha-fifty-years-of-pining/ | /r/askTRP | 06/04/19 10:58 PM |
| 1 | Did i just fail the “what do u like about me” comfort test?She has already done so which is why i think i may have fucked up. Do you think acting too asshole/aloof/alpha affords you more soy or beta behaviour every now and then, like failing a shit test here or there or breaking frame | /r/askTRP | 06/04/19 07:40 PM |
| 4 | What’s next . Ltr . Possible emotional cheating.Do you live together? She cheated. Your gut knows it. Next her immediately. Even if you hamster it as her not cheating, you are letting her disrespect you. Not LTR material. Next her and find another. If you live with her, calmly explain its over. Tell she has a week to pack up her shit. Bonus points: Arrange a day she will collect it all, and get a girl friend of yours who looks more attractive to come over for any reason at all. Make ur ex collect her shit while you are together and waych the … | /r/askTRP | 06/04/19 01:20 PM |
| 3 | Is this a good or bad sign?I dont think he failed. He just didnt pass it well. He was overt. He did give an ultimatum but at the same time was stating boundary with dominance. She seemed to hamster it as an ability to move on like he isn’t all that invested which is GOOD. Another chick may have hamster it as possessiveness. Go figure. There are way worse ways to respond to it. There was a slight hint of possessive neediness here that was his problem. I think stating boundaries should be as covert as possible too. A good r… | /r/askTRP | 06/04/19 12:08 PM |
| 1 | LTR wants to improve her image all of a sudden, goes on a school trip to another town in a few days.She hunting for some good ol fashion dick. Not any just any kind of dick though. She wants that pristine new dick. That alpha kinda dick to explode down her throat. If you aint the one exploding down her throat and making her fear you may stop and do it to someone else at any moment, she gonna find new dick | /r/askTRP | 06/04/19 11:52 AM |
| 1 | Crazy bitch won’t stop texting me.Did u ever tell her u were not exclusive? Did u communicate anything at all? You probably lead her to believe you were an item with actions, yet didn't state you were not | /r/askTRP | 05/04/19 06:23 PM |
| 2 | Is this just an example of a classic shit test?Shit test. Just say im not interested in him, or say thanks but im not gay. Or even dismissive like “congrats, want a cookie?” She wouldnt have invited u if she didnt wanna branch swing | /r/askTRP | 05/04/19 06:19 PM |
| 6 | Are plates like beta orbiters? I noticed similarities in how they act.You are viewing it a little wrong. Sex to women is what commitment is to a man. Beta orbiters give commitment without sex Plates give their sex without commitment. Both are expecting to get sex/ commitment out of the exchange. | /r/askTRP | 05/04/19 04:57 PM |
| 1 | Do women seriously just travel for dick? I've noticed whenever I'm backpacking, the women I'm around act more horny...Lol no. All the guys here saying women travel to whore it up are also just anger phase. Do some women travel JUST to get laid? Yes Do some women even do sex tourism specifically? Yes. The percentage of women doing that are small. Tiny. Women travel and it sets the ripe conditions for them to act out their sexuality and sexual strategy. It is not really a conscious. She is just going to maximise opportunity, minimise repercussion. Simple. Right guy, right time, right place. Women travel for the s… | /r/askTRP | 05/04/19 10:32 AM |
| 1 | Will women ALWAYS try make an alpha commit to them?Femininity i suppose | /r/askTRP | 04/04/19 10:31 PM |
| 1 | Will women ALWAYS try make an alpha commit to them?Lol. Female version of an alpha is simply an extremely good looking woman. | /r/askTRP | 04/04/19 10:23 PM |
| 1 | “Polygamy” and open relationships, or “swapping”. How is this not cuckold tier?At best, i noticed they are just older and bored of each other. But usually low smv, or the guy was submitted into it so the wife can get new dick now that her BB side of her sexual strategy is taken for. She gets young alpha dick without feeling like she is cheating. The guy rarely is the one who suggests it and also is getting quality women from it. Why? Because a guy who is capable will simply be committing infidelity or have an open situation where he can fuck around without her involvement.… | /r/askTRP | 04/04/19 10:32 AM |
| 2 | “Polygamy” and open relationships, or “swapping”. How is this not cuckold tier?I wont rule it out but mostly what i gather these swingers are all low smv ugly people | /r/askTRP | 03/04/19 11:38 PM |
| 8 | “Polygamy” and open relationships, or “swapping”. How is this not cuckold tier?It still falls under the definition of plating. If they commit to you that is here nor there. Plate theory does not suggest commitment for either party. If you are providing emotional support or other kinds of provisioning to them while they commit to you but you not to them, it is a little different from plate theory i suppose. | /r/askTRP | 03/04/19 09:59 PM |
| 9 | “Polygamy” and open relationships, or “swapping”. How is this not cuckold tier?Thats plating. | /r/askTRP | 03/04/19 09:08 PM |
| 7 | “Polygamy” and open relationships, or “swapping”. How is this not cuckold tier?Seeing too many people try make a case for sex clubs not being beta cuck shit in the past year. | /r/askTRP | 03/04/19 06:33 PM |
| 18 | “Polygamy” and open relationships, or “swapping”. How is this not cuckold tier?The ONLY time i can see an “open relationship” not being cuck is a FwB kind of thing. There is not really even a relationship or provisioning here. Tends to simply be the AF side of things with no commitment on either side. When labels like “RELATIONSHIP” come into it, it is nothing but female sexual strategy trying to claim provisioning in some form. When a guy has “open relationships” he is spinning plates. If girls commit it is up to them. There is no label necessary. Sex clubs and such are p… | /r/askTRP | 03/04/19 06:29 PM |
| 4 | Plate wants to be exclusive but possibly fucked another guy recently, how should I deal with itGet this cuck shit out of here | /r/askTRP | 03/04/19 05:43 PM |
| 1 | Is this a nuclear shit test? (Cuck bait from fwb)You need to have internalised game concepts or you’ll get fucked up and wrecked by this crap. I almost immediately thought that she was trying to provoke me. Specifically jealousy. Especially as she has expressed a frustration at my lack of it with more covert means before. So i was kinda surprised and disgusted at this. Then i realised this may be some extreme last resort measure from her. Knowing this i encouraged her to speak the fantasy. She’d ask me if im jealous which confirmed it. I would… | /r/askTRP | 03/04/19 12:49 PM |
| 2 | Is this a nuclear shit test? (Cuck bait from fwb)Yup. Was about to hard next her as i had been thinking about it more. Now i have a clear vision | /r/askTRP | 02/04/19 09:02 PM |
| 2 | Is this a nuclear shit test? (Cuck bait from fwb)It was me. Read OP again, second post | /r/askTRP | 02/04/19 08:56 PM |
| 2 | Is this a nuclear shit test? (Cuck bait from fwb)She simply earned herself a cap on what things could be in my mind. I have already done a soft next a week long may end it now after gaining some alternate views here. If it was simply a desperate attempt to see where she stands with me i get it. | /r/askTRP | 02/04/19 08:03 PM |
| 3 | Is this a nuclear shit test? (Cuck bait from fwb)Lol can you imagine what would happen? Not sure if BPD. Dating her has been extremely good for developing frame. Regular shit tests bounce off me now. I think a woman like this would destroy someone who isnt really stable emotionally. | /r/askTRP | 02/04/19 07:45 PM |
| 1 | Is this a nuclear shit test? (Cuck bait from fwb)And by nuclear shit test, you think this infers a complete frustration with me not being jealous and committing(trying to find where she stands) or that she thinks im complete beta? On some level feel disgusted she would even say such things, like the fact she DID means she believes im beta. Hence me wanting to next her over it. Just unsure if im looking at it incorrectly, and instead shes just frustrated with Alpha aloofness | /r/askTRP | 02/04/19 07:25 PM |
| 1 | I know decades of blue-pill conditioning wont go away in a year or two but damn, how do you guys keep it at bay?I dont struggle with BP conditioning much. I’ve always been naturally a bit RP, RP simply gave me the words and tangible concepts and understanding. What i think is a bigger struggle for many guys and certainly even myself at times is not reverting to BO beliefs, but falling into Beta behaviours. Nobody is AF all the time. Its a prototype. Sometimes Abundance mentality can be difficult to act upon even if you know its true. | /r/askTRP | 01/04/19 12:31 PM |
| 2 | Need feedback: Where did I go wrong with my first plate?Simple: You met on a dating app. There is nothing more to discuss. You are probably emitting a lot of information that your newly pilled brain doesn’t even recognise as wrong or a sign, but thats here nor there at this point. You want to know why she is seemingly losing interest. Who knows man. Maybe it was something you did, maybe some other dude is now in the picture. Dont waste ur time. You are either her better prospect and she wants to enthusiastically suck ur cock or she isnt. If not u fin… | /r/askTRP | 31/03/19 03:43 PM |
| 1 | Why is TRP so adamant about engaging in boxing or other contact sports?The game is about perception. Do whatever the fuk u want. If u can cultivate a perception snd win the game without the brain damage great. If u wanna box. Do it. Dont hamster it. If u can cultivate a figters attitude and mentality and decode the u derlying behind why contact sports are attractive you are just as well off | /r/askTRP | 31/03/19 03:32 PM |
| 2 | LTR of 4yrs who had a dozen green flags left me for a guy at her work and I am unsure of how to feel.It isnt always going to stop it happening. Sometimes they will cheat because they are a cheater. Maybe you missed red flags. Maybe your game wasnt tight enough and the smv gap got you lazy. Perhaps you even overestimate your own SMV which is common. We can have endless speculations. The point is still in general you will have a better time of it. You will natural have dread without much effort. Not always but often. It is hypergammy 101. Women always want more, and their biggest fear is “is he t… | /r/askTRP | 31/03/19 12:52 AM |
| 13 | “That’s the only reason you want to see me?”U made her feel too slutty | /r/askTRP | 30/03/19 10:59 PM |
| 2 | Went to hipster coffee festival. Amazed at how many soyboys there had gfs. Am I missing something?Found the guy with a tatted up slogpig with dyed hair | /r/askTRP | 30/03/19 10:58 PM |
| 1 | Went to hipster coffee festival. Amazed at how many soyboys there had gfs. Am I missing something?Beta fucks dynamic? Can u elaborate? | /r/askTRP | 30/03/19 10:55 PM |
| 4 | That study that said men under 30 aren’t having sex what’s your take?90% of people gaming and watching anime are indulging in escapism. Thats why teenage boys love it. It fulfills many primal needs without really accomplishing anything. Nice your level 100, while the guy who spent the same 20days of in game time can speak basic Mandarin. I stopped gaming once i realised how much it stagnates. So what if 90% of guys do it? Do you wanna have the same SMV has 90% of guys? | /r/askTRP | 30/03/19 10:22 PM |
| 3 | LTR of 4yrs who had a dozen green flags left me for a guy at her work and I am unsure of how to feel.Yup. Play the smv game to your advantage for LTR. I find you still have to game them a lot(smv lowers with lack of dread, and lack of alpha behaviour) and you also have to create that emotional rollercoaster, but you have a lot more slack. And they treat you better. Hypergammy is not about being the best out there. Good luck.. you can just be the best you can be, and you only nees to be the highest smv man she thinks she can land. She wont risk losing you. Ofcourse if you go completely beta you … | /r/askTRP | 30/03/19 09:58 PM |
| 4 | LTR of 4yrs who had a dozen green flags left me for a guy at her work and I am unsure of how to feel.I honestly feel like a psycho sometimes but i started to view it differently. The dating market has changed. Men will always adapt to the market and the game or get left behind. Its that simple. Female hypergammy unrestricted is a new paragdim for society and Red pill is honestly a new frontier. Men or males of any species will always adapt and do what is most effective to reproduce, and those best at it will always win. Those who fail to adapt lose. Right now Bp men clinging to a strategy that … | /r/askTRP | 30/03/19 09:36 PM |
| 10 | LTR of 4yrs who had a dozen green flags left me for a guy at her work and I am unsure of how to feel.Only red flags exist. Green flags like good behaviour are generally just a reflection of how she respects you and is trying to win you over in an acknowledgement of your smv gap. Thats how you should view them. She cooks for u, much like she sucks ur dick with enthusiasm is her acknowledging the gap and trying to make up for it. The tricky party in a ltr is discerning between her doing things because she would anyway or because she wants to please you. | /r/askTRP | 30/03/19 09:15 PM |
| 5 | LTR of 4yrs who had a dozen green flags left me for a guy at her work and I am unsure of how to feel.And this is why i never LTR women who are my smv or higher. Always 1-2 points lower. Sad but this is the reality, and the way to the best relationship as a male. You also have to game them Forever. Cant stomach it? Thats why its a red pill | /r/askTRP | 30/03/19 09:09 PM |
| 1 | LTR of 4yrs who had a dozen green flags left me for a guy at her work and I am unsure of how to feel.Fam. This fucking feeling. NEVER FORGET IT. This is a cold branch swing in action. Learn from it and you will become bigger and better. This is the red pill men find hardest to swallow: Women do not love the same way men do. A womans love is even more unconditional than a mans can ever be. A womans love is fleeting. A woman loves how u make her feel and how much you make her feel like she has secured a high value man who gives her attention (validation) through this. The moment that ends, the ti… | /r/askTRP | 30/03/19 09:07 PM |
| 3 | What do women like more sex or love?He’s saying the man simply needs to provoke the feminine concept of love into her rather than loving her like a man loves. You do this by being high SMV alpha and doing the hings that will provoke her to feel her concept of love. Not doing anything that would lead a male to love. They are different things. | /r/askTRP | 29/03/19 04:55 PM |
| 2 | Thought I was red pilled but just had my heart shattered, why did I get so invested?Ur feeling jealousy and lack of abundance. Maybe you emotionally invested with her, if u spent A lot of time with her and doing non plate things like hugging and hanging out. Understandably. You just need more experience, to have abundance, learn how jealousy works to sabotage you and finally how to vet a woman you dare invest emotions into | /r/askTRP | 29/03/19 04:40 PM |
| 1 | Are women always attracted to the alpha male of the group they are in?You are not entierly wrong. Its not practical for people to argue this “doesnt always happen” because it is an immense performance to prevent it and its simply not practical. Not to say with effort you cant maintain things longer but intensity will never match the early 2 year period or so especially before commitment. | /r/askTRP | 29/03/19 04:32 PM |
| 10 | Are women always attracted to the alpha male of the group they are in?Its called “contextual alpha”. Go read the side bar material. “The rational male” is mandatory reading. Yes. You can have a contextual alpha. They may or may not be alpha in ther contexts(or in general). A teacher is an alpha to the classroom and students, but he could be the biggest beta bux going outside of that context. Even your own alphaness is in a state of flux with any woman you spend time and do things with. You are more or leas alpha depending kn where and what. Some things will remind… | /r/askTRP | 29/03/19 04:28 PM |
| 1 | Is my FWB playing next level mind games? (jealousy)Thanks! Yes character flaw. She is a very insecure woman imo, possibly always has been. Odd part is she is classy and well mannered, educated not trashy at all. Maybe much like ur ex. Well behaved and fun, serial monogamy as far as i know(disclosed her full dating history to me for some reason) and i learned her past boyfriends were all betas who showered her in compliments and she got dry and bored. I’m a solid 2-3 notches above her in SMV as i workout a lot and look decent. That probably makes… | /r/askTRP | 28/03/19 07:47 PM |
| 1 | How do you set boundaries properly?It is a lot harder that way but i find it is much much more effective. In fact the times where i have overtly stated a boundary or not to do something, they have later done it again in an attempt to get a reaction from me. Because i told them, they knew it bothered me and it becomes ammo. Doing it covertly has had a much better effect, but it really is difficult to do it and it takes a lot more frame and patience. Leading is better, i think knowing when to covertly state barriers vs lead is diff… | /r/askTRP | 28/03/19 07:15 PM |
| 1 | Is my FWB playing next level mind games? (jealousy)So u think it was an invitation rather than some bullshit? Of course this behaviour makes an upgrade from fwb now off of the table. High value guy, try to make him jealous buy talking about fantasy of him watching. If he gets jealous it ups her value lowers his. She gets mind fucked, no jealousy happens. Her value is lowered as high value guy doesnt care, his value is raised even more in her mind. | /r/askTRP | 28/03/19 07:02 PM |
| 1 | How do you set boundaries properly?Interesting idea.. i think if we talk about say LTR and FWB...Plates are plates. generally setting boundaries should be done overtly or covertly? Obviously a LTR asking to see other guys or even entertaining anything them them is grounds for a downgrade and next. Women know when they are being bad, no need to say anything overtly right? Setting boundadies with plates on other things though, is being overt giving them power?(ie they now knkw that it effects you as you overtly acknowledge it). | /r/askTRP | 28/03/19 06:56 PM |
| 1 | Is my FWB playing next level mind games? (jealousy)Frankly it makes no sense to commit anyway for other reasons. What kind of stuff did your ex do? This is all amazing for developing frame. I think if you are not a very emotionally flat person a woman like this will fuck with your head though. From your experience do you think that this was an attempt to make me jealous or just something else? The fact she back out saying “its only a fantasy and in real life it’s disgusting etc” when i encouraged her to do it(except without me and not showing je… | /r/askTRP | 28/03/19 06:46 PM |
| 1 | Is my FWB playing next level mind games? (jealousy)This is what i’m trying to figure out. Is this a massive shit test or is she really trying to introduce things she wants to do | /r/askTRP | 28/03/19 06:09 PM |
| 1 | Is my FWB playing next level mind games? (jealousy)Thanks! Thats great food for thought. Actually i kinda feel bad. Shes trying very hard to get me to commit or break frame and show some neediness. But i know the reality is that as soon as i do(ESPECIALLY I A JEALOUS WAY) her attraction will plummet and that leaves both of us no better off. | /r/askTRP | 28/03/19 05:44 PM |
| 1 | Is my FWB playing next level mind games? (jealousy)Not sure. We’ll have to see about that. I already said i had a fantasy a about FFM threesome but she started saying how its “unfair” and stuff. Not so sure. Its not easy to find out. Any tips? Actually i think shes pining for commitment from me mostly but shes been doing these nuclear level shit tests to test my frame and find out if i would commit. Honestly adter dealing with her going to other plates feels like easy mode driving with eyes closed now when it comes to shit tests and frame | /r/askTRP | 28/03/19 05:34 PM |
| 2 | Is my FWB playing next level mind games? (jealousy)😂😂😂 I have a feeling she may be a little bit Crazy. I hold frame and i think as a guy still gaining experience this woman has been a trial by fire on holding frame. Any newbs who can find a woman like this will learn fast. I feel like this is a very covert mind game to probe my commitment level. As she has experessed my lack of jealousy before and how it bothers her, and she tried to see if id commit a couple times but i didnt yet. She knows that bringing up guys doesnt work(and also makes her l… | /r/askTRP | 28/03/19 05:23 PM |
| 2 | ...And What of Young Men?Its worth sitting down with him and figuring out starting salaries, interest rates and battle plans(does he want to live at home for a couple years post degree to save to pay off debts up front?) or would he rather do something else? Imo the uni degree, if he NEEDS it, he should try get it faster to save valuable time. The debt if low enough interest can just be viewed as a larger tax for a while. | /r/askTRP | 28/03/19 04:56 PM |
| 2 | ...And What of Young Men?Where is the logic in paying off a degree with cash instantly IF you dont already have it? Its not efficient at all. Time is more valuable than money. If he takes 2-4 years to get the cash, he could have had a degree by then. The loans interest will(asuming he lands a good job in STEM) not be more than he can pay off working. If he is frugal and priorities the debt, he is still earning work experience in his field that whole time and increasing his pay prospects. Additionally he could make use o… | /r/askTRP | 28/03/19 12:40 PM |
| 1 | Need advice... “emotional support” beta/comfort or shit test?It’s not exactly working. It worked... till it didnt. Now im getting hit with this kinda stuff more often. Thats why i finally made this post. I dont usually do relationships, no idea if i need to apply “comfort” more. | /r/askTRP | 26/03/19 09:13 PM |
| 2 | Called me “emotionally unavailable” said i dont talk about emotions enoughHow? I dont really know how to do that with ppl without reciprocating which isnt the right way for me. I guess just make it about them instead etc | /r/askTRP | 13/03/19 05:19 PM |
| 3 | Called me “emotionally unavailable” said i dont talk about emotions enoughI feel that. But for me its gotta be sparingly. Its apreciated more and you have leeway if its seldom | /r/askTRP | 13/03/19 02:00 PM |
| 6 | Called me “emotionally unavailable” said i dont talk about emotions enoughYes, thats what i think. Not like in a malicious way i came to realise. Women just naturally try create betas over time almost like a test. I found myself a few times answering questions or such in a manner which i was considering her feelings first before my real answer. Shit like this has to be nipped in the bud fast. When in doubt, turn up the AM, agree amplify and pressure flips i guess? Long term establishing snd maintaining your own frame is not as easy as it seems. There is a tendency to … | /r/askTRP | 13/03/19 10:40 AM |
| 1 | Should i next? (Says she needs time before we talk)100%. Got a little blindsided. Thanks for reminding me, thats why i value this community | /r/askTRP | 08/03/19 05:01 PM |
| 1 | Should i next? (Says she needs time before we talk)Ofcourse. That is exactly what im hoping to get out of it. I LOVE the idea of having plates or fwb in many countries. Makes traveling so much better. There is just no way it even makes sense to commit. Im gonna see what happens but if i cant eatablish open relationship or something then so be it, playe smashes itself | /r/askTRP | 08/03/19 11:05 AM |
| 1 | Should i next? (Says she needs time before we talk)Onitis has taken over, i need a cure asap🤣 | /r/askTRP | 08/03/19 11:03 AM |
| 0 | Should i next? (Says she needs time before we talk)maybe onitis. I dont want to comit but i wanna maintain the plate. Shes fun, pays for trips and has incredibly useful connections for my career, said she can get me a job in a very respectable company internationally when im ready. What you think? I know red pill well now, but im trying not to sabotage an opertunity just for the facade of maintaining dogmatic red pill following. | /r/askTRP | 08/03/19 09:28 AM |
| 1 | Should i next? (Says she needs time before we talk)I have a few ideas but do you really think it’s inevitable? I wonder if i can convince her an open relationship is good... Right now im simply unsure if she will even give that ultimatum. The trip was intense and she hinted, but her period started at the end and now she started saying how she needs time to process and handle all the emotions for at least a week. I cant help but interpret that as waning interest. But maybe im not seeing bigger picture | /r/askTRP | 08/03/19 09:26 AM |
| 1 | Should i next? (Says she needs time before we talk)Im 26 shes 41. No kids. She has had a couple long term relationships which she gave full disclosure on to me, and it appears they were all with chumps who bended to her will and were full blue pill suplicators. I did none of that. I think it drives her mad. She never gave me the talk, but hinted once. She also said that its going to be extremely hard to keep talking once the trip ends. I noticed she is also a little jealous. Like when i talked to young waiters shed quiz me heavily, and she compa… | /r/askTRP | 08/03/19 09:11 AM |
| 1 | Should i next? (Says she needs time before we talk)Ah got ya. It was a text tho so i couldnt do much. So the best thing would be to just continue as normal now and not try make any kind of power play here? I interpreted it all as an attempt to distance herself. Cold feet or something. | /r/askTRP | 08/03/19 09:05 AM |
| 1 | Should i next? (Says she needs time before we talk)Express her feelings how exactly? Always eager to improve my game. Do you mean when i said she needed “time to process” after the trip? When she told me this i simply said its ok and told her “im not sure our paths will cross again, even though id like it”. She got upset about this and said it hurts but maybe its the best thing. I then told her that it doesnt have to end but we need to decide what ia practical. She agreed and then said “thats what i mean, i need a week or so before we talk about… | /r/askTRP | 08/03/19 08:55 AM |
| 1 | My FwB said she is afraid that we “wont click”.Hmm. I thought it was pre branch swinging but she still happy to fuck. Maybe ur right. Telling me she’s extremely nervous to point of stomach ache. I always thought this was a good thing to make them uncomfortable but seems extreme | /r/askTRP | 12/02/19 10:08 AM |
| 27 | The more “alpha” I’ve become the quieter I am?Well most guys here are highly introverted. So this will be upvoted a lot. Not saying it has no merit(i am introverted too) but gotta remember who the posters here are. “Super power”. Dont let this forum fool you out of improving yourself. A lot of guys here hate the idea of getting better at conversing and being outgoing. This obviously would result in massive upvotes. Its the equivalent of a forum of fatties upvoting a post about “fat acceptance” | /r/askTRP | 12/02/19 09:39 AM |
| 2 | Women who use instagram a lot, are they damaged?I dont think so. I think we've always been this way. Instagram and social media in general have just brought to the front a very primitive side to us in an even easier to observe way. It's very easy for these dynamics to play out on social media in general. I think thats why women are addicted to it on average. their brain was designed to seek validation and all that jazz in nature but social media is like crack. the brain never evolved to deal with it like that. This is why it makes people mise… | /r/askTRP | 07/02/19 01:19 AM |
| 2 | Women who use instagram a lot, are they damaged?Both go hand in hand as far as im concerned. I place no moral judgement on it, but the traits that drive a woman towards it(whether money is the sole reason or just a bonus) are often a red flag to me. The whole thing has become a characture at this point. Its hard to even imagine these people are real any more as i know what is behind the curtain with this space. It’s hilarious. If u look close you can see the cracks. | /r/askTRP | 07/02/19 12:58 AM |
| 1 | Women who use instagram a lot, are they damaged?From the mass attention from thousands of orbiters, or the inante need to even try have an instagram with that following all for the pursuit of ego boost and validation. Chicken or egg? It could be a symptom of a highly insecure woman for doing it in the first place but the huge attention from orbiters and such make things worse. | /r/askTRP | 06/02/19 11:48 PM |
| 6 | Women who use instagram a lot, are they damaged?Yeah attention for sure. Validation. I think its normal. Most girls use instagram this way. They may post pics with their BF to communicate status too. Some women post thott selfies all the time, thats there shit becomes a red flag. Buuut then the next elaborate level is like i described in OP. Trying to be an “influencer”. Even the ones fetting paid for it, are damaged to me. Im actually dating one, but her niche is pets and it is kinda small too, so not sure what to make of it as she gave it u… | /r/askTRP | 06/02/19 11:25 PM |
| 2 | Period cycle and her behavior. anyone know about this?It gonna be effected by the stress in current context of life etc, but i think you can view it as a way things get amplified etc. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 06/02/19 11:34 AM |
| 1 | Period cycle and her behavior. anyone know about this?Ty | /r/MarriedRedPill | 06/02/19 11:00 AM |
| 1 | How to reply to texts, questions, compliments?Aye. But there has to be high interest in the first place. Texting more can build a bit of tension or comfort( imo thats fine but you dont even need to do it much to do that before a meet). A lot of guys try BUILD interest with it, which is a waste of effort and form of oneitis. Dont waste time on women that are not interested. Life is too short. Say what you will, but most guys dont know what they are doing, and those that do often wont get in situations like OP is in now. Like so: her interest… | /r/askTRP | 04/02/19 03:15 PM |
| 1 | How to reply to texts, questions, compliments?It’s not so much that texting and such cant make things less awkward( in reality they do very little. If you are a sperg it will be awkward in person no matter how much you become a text buddy first) but its risk to reward ratio is heavily on the risk side for little reward. Often times its just because the guy is needy or bored, there is no real reason for much texting especially raunchy stuff pre fucking. You can pull it off but the effort involved for what? Any “gains” can be gained in person… | /r/askTRP | 04/02/19 02:50 PM |
| 1 | How to reply to texts, questions, compliments?Stop wasting time texting. Just dont do it. Stop giving out your attention and validations when u have not even fucked yet especially through text. No pics, no “can i see ur dress!!” Shit. Save that for later if you must text. Instead you should focus ur game arouns getting her hamster spinning. If she likes you and wants to date you, just stop responding and build tension till you arrange a meet and leave it at that. Tease her at the very most for flirting till ahe has fucked you. Escalate IN P… | /r/askTRP | 04/02/19 12:28 PM |
| 16 | "You are emotionless" shittest“Beep bop does not compute” Yes show some emotions towards her but sparingly, randomly and nlt on her whim. Reward is best. And fo it covertly. Dont confess and gush | /r/askTRP | 04/02/19 12:18 PM |
| 1 | I always feel like a 'loser' after having sex, anyone else?I feel way too sleepy and most time just wanna lie down with whoever im fucking for a bit lol. But in a way i feel thats kinda lame and boring, it bugs me | /r/askTRP | 03/02/19 07:53 PM |
| 1 | Sending pics?Well the situation which promoted this post is my FB. She lives very far away but we're meeting up soon for about 8 days to chill and fuck. It's not a LTR bc i dont believe in LDR, but she asked me for a pic or two | /r/askTRP | 03/02/19 07:51 PM |
| 1 | Sending pics?I do this with plates. But with ltr where we are already scheduled for shit im not sure the way to go. I suppose u can do the same | /r/askTRP | 03/02/19 06:53 PM |
| 1 | Attraction constantly on a scale?It's in the descrip. I'll make it concise | /r/askTRP | 30/01/19 06:35 PM |
| 1 | Am I a Snapchat orbiter?Lol, cmon man. She has low interest. Stop | /r/askTRP | 28/01/19 11:37 PM |
| 1 | Dread game when you don't get what you want comes over as sulkingYou are viewing dread from a male perspective. From a female view, it doesn't look like sulking at all. Sometimes it can look like ur upset/butthurt/sulking IF DONE WRONG. For example, If a LTR or plate insults you jokingly and you withdraw attention then yes that looks butthurt, especailly if you just turn away from them and stop talking and go on phone. This should be dealt with differently. If its sex denial or something, and u cant leave the room or bed because u live together, then its … | /r/askTRP | 28/01/19 11:22 PM |
| 1 | How to maintain frame when she denies sex.Talking about it seems really difficult to even pull off. What would that look like without losing the frame and supplicating immediately? | /r/askTRP | 28/01/19 11:19 PM |
| 1 | How to maintain frame when she denies sex.You are talking as if either they had not fucked before, or that somehow the woman lost all attraction for the person. both cases still aren't so binary like you make it. No fuckin shit you get denied sex if it was never on the table in the first place and you tried to push for it | /r/askTRP | 28/01/19 11:15 PM |
| 18 | How to maintain frame when she denies sex.This ones easy. You do not react at all. You do not convey any desire for it, you DO NOT bargain for it. you DO NOT try change her mind. You should try your best to convey "i'm not going to try get you to put out I an just get sex elsewhere if i want". Act bored, and WITHDRAW attentio nand affections. Try to wrap up whatever you were doing together beforehand in a NON butthurt way. Often times they do a turn around. Why does this work? Abundance mentality, and 99% of guys she would have ever… | /r/askTRP | 28/01/19 11:12 PM |
| 1 | Is tinder lazy beta game?I didn’t say to look in bars or clubs. I agree that environment is generally no better. This sub is full of edgy high school kids. Its shit compared to 3 years ago. But not the point. | /r/askTRP | 28/01/19 11:17 AM |
| 0 | Is tinder lazy beta game?Not at all. I stopped using it in 2014 and from what im told it was better back then. Read the thread, stop reading my post with your veil of insecurity. It sounds like you use tinder a lot but im not attacking you, its ok, and yoi can try read my point instead of looking for a reason to protect ur ego. Dont make a point for me which only serves to try bring urself up while putting me down to feel better. Thats what chicks do. We are mem and we can have different discussion without involving our… | /r/askTRP | 28/01/19 08:37 AM |
| 9 | Is tinder lazy beta game?Yeah this is what i find. I have never found a single good quality woman on tinder. Looks are different. There are some hotties on there that put out sure but i'd never even consider for a minute of ever upgrading one from a plate. And what do you gain from it? sending a few messages form behind a phone with no risk and just validating them for free. to me thats why blue pill and beta males love it... its easy I guess depends on ur goal. my goal is to find plates of good quality and then upgrade… | /r/askTRP | 28/01/19 12:14 AM |
| 2 | Found a weird video in ex-fiances data, need opinion how to handleThis is exactly what I got from this post. Honestly. Chances are that guy was just being used for validation and fun. I dont know why more people didn't point this out? really feels like this community is going downhill a bit Now of course it is potentially a huge red flag for a LTR to even bother doing that, but it's besides the point. Maybe they fucked, maybe they didn't. but imo considering that this guy just did some stupid thing as soon as she seemed to have asked, just another blue pilled … | /r/askTRP | 27/01/19 11:44 PM |
| 1 | How to respond to this shit test?Never argue with womrn. Best to wait till in person to even bring it up again, or when their mood is changed | /r/askTRP | 27/01/19 04:19 PM |
| 1 | How to respond to this shit test?No, but its early so im not that invested. But ofc i am making this post so see potential | /r/askTRP | 27/01/19 12:25 PM |
| 1 | How to respond to this shit test?Yes, and she made a deal out of it. I think best action is to ignore. However im probably leaving out important context. Overall she definitely thinks im not interested in pleasing her as this happens semi regularly. She has made comments many times alluding to the fact that i dont show enough comfort basically. | /r/askTRP | 27/01/19 11:27 AM |
| 1 | How to respond to this shit test?Exactly. So manufactured drama= shit | /r/askTRP | 27/01/19 11:10 AM |
| 1 | How to respond to this shit test?Yeh this is kinda what i was thinking. I cant stand drama especially over little things where it didnt exist. Ty | /r/askTRP | 27/01/19 10:35 AM |
| 1 | New to TRP.... how not to overuse it and view Every interaction as a shitest from a woman? (being ON 24/7)You know what helps every time? Pretend i'm dealing with one of my little sisters. Seriously. I grew up wit several younger sisters and the dynamic at times is exactly the same in amused mastery and teasing them and shit. You just dont take anything seriously. | /r/askTRP | 26/01/19 01:17 AM |
| 2 | New to TRP.... how not to overuse it and view Every interaction as a shitest from a woman? (being ON 24/7)That's practical, i like it. I've never really done too badly in the past, and yes you are right in that i've past shit tests without trying in the past. However now that I swallowed the pill, I have the need to internalize why I past a shit test and how it was a shit test etc. Now that i'm there, I am stuck in this area and obsessing over everything like an autistic. So essentially... worry about the bigger things. Not the smaller things... and eventually women inevitably give you the bigger … | /r/askTRP | 26/01/19 12:50 AM |
| 1 | New to TRP.... how not to overuse it and view Every interaction as a shitest from a woman? (being ON 24/7)Edited | /r/askTRP | 26/01/19 12:40 AM |
| 1 | Shit test? ( talking about other guys behaviour?)Yeah, pre selection is powerful. Women all say they hate "fuck boys" but in the end, they are still talking about them. But i was more asking if her saying this is a covert tactic to communicate something or if its just mindless natter? Regarding guy in OP... just internet points as far as i am concerned. I noticed most ppl who talk a lot or try brag about ppl they are fucking on tinder or whatever mostly they aren't scoring often or want validation | /r/askTRP | 26/01/19 12:36 AM |
| 1 | Shit test? ( talking about other guys behaviour?)Yes!! I always dive in at the deep end on everything I do in life, i am very familiar with this. When I learned Russian randomly this was very apparent for a while. Same with driving a motorbike.. and learning to program computers.. trade markets.. I always found BEST way is to accept ur shit as fast as u can... u cannot avoid that first stage but u can get through it fast. Then you need to be humble and just ask questions constantly without giving a fuck about looking stupid, saving face, any… | /r/askTRP | 25/01/19 10:44 PM |
| 1 | Shit test? ( talking about other guys behaviour?)I do this and i recognized it. It's really hurting my game sometimes. Every interaction feels like a test of some form or a chance to "fuck up". That just isn't healthy. and I don't think anyone can pass every shit test and say the right thing constantly. We all fuck up sometimes. I can't see how viewing everything is gonna help me at all, but a the same time due to being new, I need to learn fast. Like it is kinda bad. For exmaple, even jsut i ngeneral chit chat sometimes i feel like i gotta … | /r/askTRP | 25/01/19 10:29 PM |
| 2 | Shit test? ( talking about other guys behaviour?)Ah. Still a newb, sometimes I over analyse, as im trying to learn fast. I read that women are covert in their communication, In turn i have become a bit like this myself to read it better. It is basically a standard "fuckboy" hatred rant exactly, thats why i dismissed it. All women say this. However, unless i understand red pill wrong, they find that really attractive in reality. Do you think it is disrespectful or a red flag for a FB to even mention something like that? Or just female verbal di… | /r/askTRP | 25/01/19 10:13 PM |
| 2 | Shit test ( talking about sleeping around)Mind elaborating? Its all good experience to learn for me. I care enough to make this post agreed. I would imcrease investment in her IF the benefits outweigh the negatives. (Free weekends away as is the current set up). What would you say is the solution to maintain it as long as possible( fight off commitment probing). So far i have two solutions: 1: tell her that it has to be open and its simple as that 2: AM and dismissal till she breaks it off for me. | /r/askTRP | 25/01/19 05:50 PM |
| 1 | Shit test ( talking about sleeping around)Intersting thanks. So money and providing doesnt matter necessarily? Reg stability... not sure. She constantly moans im not avaliable enough, too mysterious and hard to read and making her feel unworthy and shit. Made this post because it’s starting to get dramatic now where it wasnt before... ie not worth the hassle. I’m definetely interested in maintaining this arangement, why wouldn’t i be? But if it ends due to increased commitment demands so be it. Thats wht im trying to figure out I have n… | /r/askTRP | 25/01/19 05:47 PM |
| 1 | Shit test ( talking about sleeping around)This IS what confuses me. There is a 15 year age gap (im early 20s she late 30s) and i have never communicated any financial value, (i make her pay for everything, and she travels to me). So i don't really get this dynamic. it's a bit odd compared to other women i've been with. being viewed as BB potential seems out of the question to me, but i'm not dumb enough to view everything so binary. What do you think? I honestly though it was like boy toy situation at first | /r/askTRP | 25/01/19 05:03 PM |
| 1 | Fb wants to go to a gay bar together?This particular one is a little different. The theme is forced dancing. Waiters are employed to dance with each pateron. So every woman gets a young guy to dance with and every guy gets one too(gay bar) and i think some transexuals too. Then after a little while shirts come off and all kinda crazy. Its not a normal gay bar where its just a bar but with gay people. Its more like an event. What do you think? | /r/askTRP | 17/01/19 09:43 AM |
| 0 | Fb wants to go to a gay bar together?would you go to a seafood restaurant if you dislike sea food, or would you be a bitch and go because your company really wants to even if you know you dont like it? It would be a very strange situation for me to do that. | /r/askTRP | 16/01/19 04:21 PM |
| 0 | Fb wants to go to a gay bar together?Is it insecurity? I genuinely don't fancy going. I have been to gay bars before, and i would rather do something else. Have you ever been to a gay bar? insecurity to me is when you buckle under pressures against what you feel is revealing. | /r/askTRP | 16/01/19 04:18 PM |
| 8 | Fb wants to go to a gay bar together?english is not my native language, but you probably wouldn't have any idea about learning a new language | /r/askTRP | 16/01/19 04:15 PM |
| 1 | Fb wants to go to a gay bar together?Lmao, i dont actually care to go to gayish places(i went before and it was with a friend and not bad, plenty of women there with guards down, but overal not interested in those places now already been), but knowing that, its easy to come off as insecure becase “gays”. What would you suggest? Is my response in op good enough? Just stste they once and drop it | /r/askTRP | 16/01/19 02:54 PM |
| -4 | Fb wants to go to a gay bar together?No. Im not interested in gay bars. But showing that can come off as insecure. So best way to handle it? Im not sure. | /r/askTRP | 16/01/19 02:53 PM |
| 2 | Is being “stable” good? Chick told me thisLmao. Stil very new to rp, wasnt sure if this was a shit test. Need to read aide bar again | /r/askTRP | 16/01/19 10:39 AM |
| 3 | FB with older woman, a trap?I like doing things differently, It's a unique experience for sure. All fun. Thats the key. Fun, not interested in leading anyone on. It just becomes a headache. I would have laughed if you told me this shit was gonna happen a year ago though, i will admit | /r/askTRP | 14/01/19 09:47 PM |
| 2 | FB with older woman, a trap?I will do, need to set the frame. How does it get crazier? I havent dated with an older woman before, especially not in this kinda international situation. It certainly feels like its going down that path, either that or i'm part of some mid life crisis fantasy. She admitted she is kinda passive with dating and meeting people and she seems extremely nervous. Any tips or signs to look out for? | /r/askTRP | 14/01/19 08:49 PM |
| 1 | First time sex any tips(late bloomer)Lol this is exactly what happened. I couldn't even cum. literally took 2 hours | /r/askTRP | 14/01/19 07:27 PM |
| 2 | How do you handle “full disclosure” with ltr vs plates?Is that giving validation? I suppose sometimes you need to, but i would only do it right after good behaviour or fucking | /r/askTRP | 14/01/19 01:01 PM |
| 2 | Why do women try to show off men they fuck? (advice)Lol its so cute when they think stuff that would work on them (dread) works on guys too. Its annoying and mostly any guy worth his shit wont bother with a chick doing this for long | /r/askTRP | 12/01/19 06:35 PM |
| 1 | Why do women try to show off men they fuck? (advice)I'm not even entertaining it as i pretty much assume thats what it is. Sounds like you were proven right. It probably wont last, i'l let it run its course. but what do you make of this? some more details. I'm younger than her, shes post wall and 35 i'm 25 I'm a good 2 points in looks above her easily, and i lift and got ripped She traveled very far to see me last time, like 5 hours just to fuck we're planning another meet where she has to travel far She happily pays money to do it She comfort te… | /r/askTRP | 12/01/19 06:15 PM |
| 2 | Why do women try to show off men they fuck? (advice)Yeah I thought so too. Im pretty sure she wants us side by side to try compare or see who gets jealous or some shit. Thats why I dont even bother entertaining idea. I assumed it was an attempt to get other guy to chase. fortunately i'm not too interested in anything long term. Here is further context: I'm younger than her, shes post wall and 35 i'm 25 I'm a good 2 points in looks above her easily, and i lift and got ripped She traveled very far to see me last time, like 5 hours just to fuck we'r… | /r/askTRP | 12/01/19 06:11 PM |
| 3 | Why do women try to show off men they fuck? (advice)Social media is different imo. Its obvious why chicks do it on social media. But this is different and more direct, especially as she outright telling me | /r/askTRP | 12/01/19 05:28 PM |
| 2 | Comfort test or shit test? ( called me emotional cold)Exactly it's my natural way. I can't oblige too much unless shit is super serious, not early on. I get TRP but I probably am too aloof and non needy as i'm naturally that way and probably exaggerate it with this. | /r/askTRP | 11/01/19 05:19 PM |
| 7 | Should an advanced age virgin admit the fact to a girl he’s trying to fuck?No. There is no gain or benefit, other than trying to satisfy your own insecurity by talking about it and hoping pressure is less as a result. They dont need to know and tbh often its only going to work against you to say. They will probably realise you are inexperienced come the time,and by then they aren't exactly gonna stop. I was 23 when I lost my virginity, and guess what? It went completely how i thought it would, but not in some ways. She ended up saying I was the best sex she ever ha… | /r/askTRP | 09/01/19 11:46 PM |
| 1 | Is this older woman trying to trap me?She asked if we’d meet ever again and tries hard to find out if i sleep around. Told me i don’t compliment her enough and tries to bait compliments all the time lol. I dont give her compliments on looks. She tried to make me jealous too which is fucking hilarious because it just amused me and made me not not want to bother anymore( when women do this its usualy because they are desperate for ur attention). Also noticed she blows up my phone a bit cant go a single day without messaging me which i… | /r/askTRP | 09/01/19 10:50 AM |
| 1 | Is this older woman trying to trap me?Thank fuck. Thought she was trying to lock me down. Dont mind the current arangement as is tbh. Just a fucking ridiculous number of comfort tests. More than any other woman i’ve had even younger and my age | /r/askTRP | 09/01/19 01:24 AM |
| 1 | Is this older woman trying to trap me?Not a troll. I land myself in weird situations. I guess its natural when you are sort of person who is willing to try most things that are not harmful. Im too curious lol. I actually dont want to continue this. Im new to red pill and was just wondering wtf is going on. So this would be an alpha fucks beta bucks situation? I thought so. Just strikes me odd how attatched shes getting. | /r/askTRP | 09/01/19 01:09 AM |
| 1 | How to deal with beta orbiters cock blocking?Lol it turned out how i thought. She is an easily influenced woman. She pretty much started to hate the guy trying to cock block me after that chat, told me afte ri told her that he had the hots for her she kind of couldn't even have any patience with the guy anymore | /r/askTRP | 10/12/18 09:21 PM |
| 2 | Met chick online, shes coming to see me need suggestionsLol no. She can be a plate or nothing, there exists few 30+ women who would look for anything long term with a 23 year old guy, its very obvious it's a hookup. now considering that, think bar is a good idea? Like I said, I am very new to dating and red pill so this is good experience for me, gotta start somewhere | /r/askTRP | 02/12/18 08:01 PM |
| 1 | Career chicks?She's not quite this bad luckily. But yeah, it's clear why single imo. Good practice for me as im still new to all this, and frame is probably the most important red pill concept im trying to learn. I always like to learn with the hard path first, so i feel like someone who will test frame a lot is actually good for me to gain experience really fast. "even her out or piss her off" lol so true. Do you think that they need extra prompts compared to other women? Seems like you need to be a bit more… | /r/askTRP | 28/11/18 09:05 PM |
| 1 | "you always flee from disagreement"Sage advice, she is a career type. Will remember ty. any other advice for career women? So far i find generally just need really solid frame, and they respond well to it | /r/askTRP | 27/11/18 09:14 PM |
| 1 | "you always flee from disagreement"OMG im glad someone who trades forex commented. You know how strict you gotta be with set ups and entering positions with analysis. No way am I normally letting anyone influence me without great scrutiny, let alone some woman i'm plating. She doesn't get that. Agree, probably the worst thing could possibly talk about with a plate lol, | /r/askTRP | 27/11/18 09:10 PM |
| 2 | "you always flee from disagreement"Yeah, calls me stubborn all the time but yet continues to be with me, when she self admittedly changes opinion constantly. | /r/askTRP | 27/11/18 09:06 PM |
| 1 | "you always flee from disagreement"Awesome. She is really testing my limits a couple times i was on the verge of nexting her. I'm kinda new to red pill concepts so I wasn't sure. thanks. | /r/askTRP | 27/11/18 09:01 PM |
| 1 | "you always flee from disagreement"Ah this is where I may have fucked up. I said something like "nope, you probably just see what you are looking for" and didn't even address it further. . I think it was really on her mind, she gave long winded context relevant to one time it happened, and said some other kinda emotional loaded stuff "its seems to be about who is right and wrong" - which i have never made it about, all her projection. I pretty much moved subject onto something without her noticing, saw little point addressing it … | /r/askTRP | 27/11/18 08:57 PM |
| 1 | "you always flee from disagreement"I think thats exactly it. I don't debate her because when I have in the past she quickly exposed over emotional attachment to her view, childlike relationship with being right vs wrong and even insulting me over me having a genuine debate but not budging on my views (called me arrogant, ego, etc). I learned very fast waht kinda woman she is. Shes intelligent, likes intellectual stuff but she is still emotional about it I learned as with most woman you cant have an honest debate with them, its … | /r/askTRP | 27/11/18 08:52 PM |
| 1 | "you always flee from disagreement"Yeah. Mostly just wondering if it's something i can improve my game on. Context: We both do forex markets and sometimes talk about it Me: I think X will happen, i'm going to do Y Her: No, This is going to happen, and i'm doing Z. Me: Cool, lets see how it turns out She will start ratting off about it here essentially because i'm not going along with her view and action. probably feels rejected? IDK. Even threatened to stop talking to me once to which I said once "ok" and ignored. Generally this … | /r/askTRP | 27/11/18 08:49 PM |
| 1 | Implications of a woman coming to see you from far away?The fact she willing to come so far away and only met me briefly a while ago (minutes) seems odd. So don't want to really share where I live or work till later when I know shes not crazy. After that all is fine. Yes I think It seems likely at this point too, I just usually roll with plausible deniability and wondered how to frame that when insisting on going to their place instead. I was thinking something more direct considering the scenario lol | /r/askTRP | 21/11/18 06:02 PM |
| 0 | Implications of a woman coming to see you from far away?Never hooked up with someone like this before, but yes your right i should just wait till it happens and go from there like any other date. I think im being cautious because the 10 hour thing seems odd to me so normally would invite back to my place but not this time unless it clear shes not crazy | /r/askTRP | 21/11/18 05:34 PM |
| 1 | First time sex any tips(late bloomer)I dont care if i cream myself just from touching a tit, but i’d rather not have it be awkward. Like a ben stiller movie or something where i cant get her shirt off and elbow her head | /r/askTRP | 20/11/18 11:15 AM |
| 1 | First time sex any tips(late bloomer)Ok ideally not my place because I haven’t met her for ages and dont know her that well. Would rather her hotel room i’ll try push for that. | /r/askTRP | 20/11/18 11:14 AM |
| 1 | First time sex any tips(late bloomer)Cool. Actually I'm not that nervous about fucking for the first time, I'm nervous about logistics i realised. Don't really date that often. Suppose I should take her to a bar then try move back to the hotel or something. Shes forward imo, would not come all the way here if didnt want more. What do you think? | /r/askTRP | 20/11/18 03:32 AM |
| 3 | First time sex any tips(late bloomer)Srs? Might have to sneak to a bathroom or something. I think i conditioned myself already as ive edged when masturbating since i was like 12 and have no refractory for some reason. Im hoping its not awkward | /r/askTRP | 20/11/18 02:49 AM |
| 27 | First time sex any tips(late bloomer)All of them preferably | /r/askTRP | 20/11/18 02:47 AM |
| 1 | 24 not much experience should i just get it done with this older woman?I have my bias but i agree with him. Thats why i never lost till now despite having chance to loads of times. honestly put no effort in because i was in no hurry and felt like if i really wanted i could just install tinder and get it done in a week. Have been more focused on my business and some passions the entire time instead of women in all honesty, maybe to an extreme. Find it kinda pathetic that you put so much importance into it and fixed on it but we all are different and value differen… | /r/askTRP | 11/11/18 11:32 PM |
| 0 | 24 not much experience should i just get it done with this older woman?Nice | /r/askTRP | 10/11/18 08:09 AM |
| 1 | Appropriate response to “you dont know how to treat a lady”?Yeah wtf. I never really got this dynamic its strange. Shes older im younger. I guess it's just womens nature to try do this to guys even if they realise they are post wall | /r/askTRP | 04/11/18 11:48 PM |
| 1 | Appropriate response to “you dont know how to treat a lady”?Well something similar happened before and i was quite frank that i dont deal with drama or bs and she was nice as pie. This time, Effectively I ignored it. the circumstances which proceeded her comment were basically a stupid argument which I shut down instantly then ignored and moved away for a bit. Only did i hear this comment a few minutes later where I said something and then again ignored it. I sometimes think ignoring like this is a sign of weakness, but not sure how women view it. I will… | /r/askTRP | 04/11/18 11:47 PM |
| 1 | Appropriate response to “you dont know how to treat a lady”?Yah. Gut instinct is to just next her instantly for it, but sometimes i feel like I next too easily. Women are just women. I'll say for sure, that I care much less noweach time something like this happens I put less effort into spining | /r/askTRP | 04/11/18 11:28 PM |
| 1 | Appropriate response to “you dont know how to treat a lady”?Yeah. I know. I grew up with 4 sisters and no brothers. Honestly I think that really prepared me. However, IDK. sometimes I think I take it too far. for example, sometimes when women act up like this, I literally ignore them. Like, I make a few comments matter of factly, don't react emotionally then I just exit, or I stop texting them. This is what I learned since a kid. Is that appropriate with plates acting and trying to argue? Or would it be interpreted as weak? | /r/askTRP | 04/11/18 09:40 PM |
| 1 | When womrn disagree it’s all emotional right?She was kinda rational at first and making statements seeking clarity but then when an orbiter gave it (defending me) she started acting childish. Maybe realised she over racted. I learned from growing up wih many sisters that when they know they are wrong and it clicks, the WORST thing you can do is bang on about it. They know. Is this really apropriate with plates too? I did ignore her but could hear conversation continue from Next room | /r/askTRP | 04/11/18 08:31 PM |
| 1 | Appropriate response to “you dont know how to treat a lady”?Yup. I know full well shes single at 38 for a reason. Which is why im looking for hints at red flags and how to react to them to keep fucking for a while. Fine tune my game | /r/askTRP | 04/11/18 07:34 PM |
| 4 | Appropriate response to “you dont know how to treat a lady”?Im still new but doesnt that sound a bit reactive? I play it safe and rarely give a recation or seem bothered by any outbursts. Tho i wonder when it is appropriate to kinda lay down shit like that. I wanted to say “if you want to make judgements about me as a person because you cant control your emotions then you know where the door is” and generally say i cant put up with childish reactions like that, but felt kinda like i was butthurt if i said that. | /r/askTRP | 04/11/18 07:33 PM |
| 6 | Appropriate response to “you dont know how to treat a lady”?This is why i asked. If it were a younger plate i wouldnt give it two thoughts lol. Never been with an older woman. Shes been drama free for the most part. But some signs are there. Wasnt sure what the subtext was with an older woman saying that. I basically said “Nope, he’s a real gentleman” and dismissed it | /r/askTRP | 04/11/18 07:25 PM |
| 39 | How is frame so damn powerful?Embrace it. Directness, lack of ambiguity and steadiness drys up vagina. Make her uncertain, make her mad, happy. Unpredictable. Never let them think they figured you out. | /r/TheRedPill | 28/10/18 02:46 PM |
| 3 | Advice on older woman hookup?Weird being so direct after dealing with younger women all my life. never been with an older woman in this age range. any suggestions with game? Assuming I can more direct about my intention and just move shit along fast, no games or need for plausible deniability so much? | /r/askTRP | 26/10/18 01:47 PM |
| 2 | Advice on older woman hookup?Yeah, Im inexperienced and new to all this shit in all honesty. I'm viewing it casually too. I'm not really concerned about when she get here or whatever. What I can't figure out is why she would go to all this trouble. she lives half way across the planet. She got money, really good career, I'm a college student. Why can't she just find some young cock where she lives? Odd. | /r/askTRP | 26/10/18 11:25 AM |
| 1 | Gaining trust?Nah. I want something a bit more. I think she was comfort testing and im not as good with those. | /r/askTRP | 25/10/18 06:49 PM |
| 1 | How to deal with beta orbiters cock blocking?She doesnt actually like him after I told her he clearly likes her a lot, and keeps asking me what to do about him now, but doesn't wanna ruin group dynamics etc(he is in our social circle) Best to ignore entierly? I haven't ever dealt with this before | /r/askTRP | 23/10/18 07:26 PM |
| 1 | How to deal with beta orbiters cock blocking?I feel like I fucked up by even talking about this guy at all, but she was acting weird and not trusting me anymore. I didnt want to try "win" back anything, so i just said he is crazy for her so her hamster could figure it out. Do you think it was the right move? Is it even worth trying to end it or let him continue now that I did say this to her | /r/askTRP | 23/10/18 07:09 PM |
| 1 | How to deal with beta orbiters cock blocking?I did ignore it for ages till now, because she started asking me weird shit, and not trusting me at all. I could tell it went way too far. Maybe after explaining how he made in love with her i can go back to ignoring as you said? | /r/askTRP | 23/10/18 07:07 PM |
| 2 | Living with parents, Is there any way to frame this?I like this answer. Thanks! Took a lot of planning to decide this, I believe it's for the best. If someone cant connect the dots fuck em | /r/askTRP | 21/10/18 11:06 PM |
| 1 | Older women for experience?All the effects of being post wall basically. I think there is a reason most of them are still single. Sometimes they focused on career too much. same deal situation in the end no matter the reason. This one that im spinning atm is such a case. Im just inexperienced with plate spinning in general and hoping to gain some. In this case she is cool, moved around the world a lot and i think she just focused on career too much and in her culture she wont find a man easily now (East Asia). any specifi… | /r/askTRP | 20/10/18 12:00 AM |
| 1 | Older women for experience?thanks for this. With one of the older women(33) I am talking about, she keeps doing a lot of comfot testing constantly. I know I built enough attraction because she give me huge hints. When i try to push things she does these fucking comfort tests every time before I can go further but she will oblige after. is that something that is common with older women? | /r/askTRP | 19/10/18 07:47 PM |
| 1 | Older women for experience?What I am saying basically is if I can just be direct about these things and they wont care or not | /r/askTRP | 19/10/18 07:29 PM |
| 1 | Older women for experience?I figured but how to the rules change? Like i said i'm inexperienced so any pointers on handling things differently are welcome. Someone said to me being more direct with them is fine and that you don't have to work too hard at creating as much value as with younger checks (you can make more mistakes with frame etc) | /r/askTRP | 19/10/18 07:06 PM |
| 1 | Was apologizing this way okay?Hahahaha, good one | /r/askTRP | 17/10/18 11:31 AM |
| 1 | Was apologizing this way okay?Your right, her feelings are not my responsibility. I should have viewed it like that. Even if i was very abrupt, It wasnt exactly a really serious situation like injury. Keep getting mixed up on how guys apologize to each other and its not same with women. I respect a guy so much when they do apologize that way. thanks! makes sense now | /r/askTRP | 16/10/18 08:18 PM |
| 1 | Was apologizing this way okay?It wasn't an outright apology. I only did so because I felt like i would have done that with anyone, because i genuinely fucked up and did go against my principals, which i tried to communicate. I don't ever really apologize usually. im stubborn. thanks for your thoughts, i will remember | /r/askTRP | 16/10/18 08:11 PM |
| 5 | How is it that you all are doing this well with women?Underrated post. When I started reading about Red pill concepts, I realsied that I already "knew" most of them or did a lot of them, just didn't realise I was doing it. Red pill is just theory behind it. It clicks so much sometimes when i read it. Generally Just take the principles and use the idea behind it all. for example: negging or push pull? It's just a way to create some emotional spikes on your own grounds. I think most men who are good with women are a bit more "feminine" in their soc… | /r/askTRP | 12/10/18 10:38 PM |
| 9 | How is it that you all are doing this well with women?try 4 years | /r/askTRP | 12/10/18 10:35 PM |
| 4 | How is it that you all are doing this well with women?Pretty much every time i read any post I automatically assume the woman is some tinder slut or average to below average. Why? because most likely it is true. | /r/askTRP | 12/10/18 10:35 PM |
| 1 | "TRP focuses too much on women"I think i get it. My definition of being red pilled is the general one. This subreddit is mote of a specific ideological definition of it, a bit more narrowly. I mean being red pilled vs being blue pilled. By definition its just learning uncomfortable truths, and being unable to go back. So whwn i got into finance and learned of fractual Reserve banking... i could never view money the same again, or the economy, or the blue pilles ways of looming at financing, even “good” blue pilled stuff like … | /r/TheRedPill | 07/08/18 02:39 PM |
| 1 | "TRP focuses too much on women"said while nervously scratching his arm | /r/TheRedPill | 07/08/18 09:37 AM |
| -1 | "TRP focuses too much on women"Yeah fuck those ppl. But i agree that trp does focus on women too much. Not in a philosophical way, but in that all threads are about it. And any other advice about the reality of finamces etc is just a token”we talk about and advise it too” without ever seeing people actually talk about it | /r/TheRedPill | 07/08/18 09:36 AM |
| 0 | "TRP focuses too much on women"Those subs arent red pilled. You will get shitty advice like investing into stocks at the peak of a bubble. | /r/TheRedPill | 07/08/18 09:34 AM |
| 1 | "TRP focuses too much on women"Idk. I am new here. I get the jist of your words, but there does seem to be an extreme focus on women. The be all end all. I can see the logic in this line on of thinking, but misleading sub name. You dont have a monopoly on what philosophy of being red pilled is. You know you can be red pilled in lots of areas. Some people are red pilled to fuck on the reality of world finances, while not on women. We want whole if possible. I dont see much discussion on those other things even if we accept wom… | /r/TheRedPill | 07/08/18 09:29 AM |
| 1 | You don't have to be interesting, you just have to interest her.thats so annoying. it takes either persistence (sometimes something you say makes extroverts interupt because it reminded them of something. this is how extroverts talk i notice. they never really finish their anecdotes most the time before someone chimes in and then the conversation just flows like that before someone else does it again). If you really wana finish it just persist unless its clear their being disrespectful, in which case i dont. But the goal in the end is to relate and inspire t… | /r/seduction | 02/10/17 10:02 AM |
| 1 | You don't have to be interesting, you just have to interest her.its not selling yourself in that sense. not pushing yourself saying how great i am. its presenting yourself in a way to appeal. little secret: the best salesmen don't push their products at all. they just try their best to relate to their clients personally, understand them on a personal and emotional level and then appeal to their imagination to help them find out what they want and sometimes make them discover it. nobody will feel manipulated if the salesman is honest either(as in not trying t… | /r/seduction | 01/10/17 06:12 PM |
| 1 | You don't have to be interesting, you just have to interest her.hahaha it would be a funny thing. probably does exist man. I learned it just though my life. like i noticed what all the most charming or amusing people had in common, and then i saw what the most attractive people had in common when it was not their looks. what draw so many people to them despite them being plain looking? Its charisma. some ay its an inborn thing. i think you can develop it a lot. I'm introverted an ISTP if you know what that is, didnt work against me. Though i will say im much… | /r/seduction | 01/10/17 06:07 PM |
| 1 | You don't have to be interesting, you just have to interest her.practice. observe others who are good. become charming. A lot of it just knowing how to deliver it properly. I mean who wants to hear "i went to the shops, got a bottle of milk, and then went home" at a gathering. meh. you could try zone in on what was unique about it or recall a detail that people relate to but don't always bother sharing because it isn't obvious enough. "you know when you decide to make something great to eat and your out of that ONE thing you need for it!? yeah i needed some … | /r/seduction | 01/10/17 05:59 PM |
| 2 | If I have a boner when a girl sits on my lap or hugs me for a long time...lmao imagine | /r/seduction | 01/10/17 05:52 PM |
| 1 | Being called Cheeky in response to flirting?i know text game is lame, but i'm young and so is she, and shes quite shy too. though i dont want to make this point about my particular situation. I'll assume shes being playful as shes went along with flirting before in different instances. Ok, its kinda like the word sassy i guess. | /r/seduction | 29/09/17 09:16 PM |
| 1 | Being called Cheeky in response to flirting?i usually just say "i know" or something. Like this particular chick has said it a couple times which is what made me wonder this time, both times that i made a flirty double entendre. what would be a condescending way in your experience? | /r/seduction | 29/09/17 09:04 PM |
| 19 | You don't have to be interesting, you just have to interest her.it basically boils down to selling yourself. as does a lot in life. If you know the art of selling and enticing peoples imaginations you got it. imagination is the key to sales imo, and so is it for seduction in this sense. Appealing and pressing the right buttons, knowing how to convey emotion and create it. story telling. they all have that in common. A good story teller can make a mundane trip to the shops exciting for much the same reasons. notice that people love to be around good story tel… | /r/seduction | 29/09/17 09:00 PM |
| 1 | If I have a boner when a girl sits on my lap or hugs me for a long time...own it. elephant in the room and all that. Just say something like, "your so naughty sitting on my lap and making get a boner like that, what are you like?" | /r/seduction | 29/09/17 08:55 PM |
| 1 | How to keep talking with a shy girl?if she likes you and you know it you got an easier time of it. Do activities together. and go to places with stuff going on, lots of conversation topics to pick from then. easy. Otherwise just become gifted in the art of thread line conversation. Ask a question, find a hook where she gives a little info and roll with it, branching out to related stuffs. | /r/seduction | 29/09/17 08:49 PM |
| 1 | Troubles Texting a quiet girl?I dont text much, i know that would be silly. maybe twice a week or less in all honesty. It's never drawn out. I will organize a meet soon, but i have been busy over the summer. in fact we already tried to meet up at a festival i was going to which i invited her to, but she was already going to a local one with all her friends that weekend (is a weekend where every festival happens at once in my country). I'll try again this week. thanks. | /r/seduction | 29/08/17 04:31 PM |
| 1 | If You Don't Feel Like Going to the Gym Today then Just Think of John.Never been one to miss a workout, but when i broke my arm i was tempted. However i decided i could work legs 3 tomes a week instead. My squat skyrocketed, and I discovered frquency and volume were amazing for me. From that point on my training evolved. I never would have got off of bro splits, which suck, if I hadn't of brokrn my arm. | /r/TheRedPill | 16/06/17 01:37 PM |
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