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don't worry, feminist are working for equal rights for men too and ha ha HAAHAHAAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAAHAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAA fucking what a joke that was.
/r/PussyPassDenied28/05/20 10:42 PM
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you wouldn't want to offend the person right? or hurt their feelings? just murder them! :D
/r/PussyPassDenied28/05/20 10:37 PM
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and for seduction, "genitals"
/r/seduction18/05/17 12:15 PM
1

tinder is shit, work on infield
/r/seduction13/12/16 12:38 AM
1

pretty much this, the biggest barrier is purely the fear of rejection, the rest is basic socializing.
/r/seduction02/09/16 07:30 AM
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any chance you can elaborate on this? i really want to taste the justice that has fallen upon her, but also you didn't mention she planned the trip before you came onto her radar, that's even worst man.
/r/seduction03/07/16 07:14 AM
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RemindMe! 10 hour "guy getting cucked"
/r/seduction02/07/16 01:24 PM
14

meet other girls, the reason she seems so special is probably because she is one of few girls you know.
/r/seduction24/05/16 10:02 PM
3

the way he just swung that around, saying something so simple like " you have a nice dress" and she reinforces that idea making them both on the same page, then he drops the line "are you a pole dancer" to throw her back again. will this have worked tho if there was not a presence of a "provider"
/r/seduction18/04/16 08:58 AM
3

every game gets boring if you play it long enough, sometimes you realize the game aint that fun.
/r/seduction23/12/15 09:59 AM
2

as a guy on antidepressants can confirm, i do not suggest learning the technique above and then antidepressants tho, i had to teach myself how to cum again.
/r/seduction21/08/15 03:39 AM
0

step 17: be attractive
/r/seduction15/04/15 02:25 AM
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i read it in /r/psychology
/r/seduction14/01/15 08:47 AM
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i didn't kiss a girl till i was 17, if you can study this subreddit and take in good information then you will be more than fine.
/r/seduction15/11/14 04:47 PM
6

op dun goofed
/r/seduction30/10/14 08:37 PM
0

sometimes being a negative person and a realist can be the same thing. i would like to be a positive person myself when it comes to things, but i have seen a lot of dark things in this world.
/r/seduction15/09/14 01:51 PM
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sounds like a good way to live, i was reading about an idea where people who always think they are right because they are only friends with people who reinforce their ideas. sounds like op.
/r/seduction15/09/14 10:14 AM
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the fact they fucked op will make them feel like shit.
/r/seduction29/08/14 11:20 AM
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i do shit test all the time, physical beauty is not what i look for tho if it is what you are looking for, shit test will get rid of all of the beauty. anyone can have a good body, not everyone can have a beautiful mind.
/r/seduction23/07/14 10:19 PM
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in america if a women rapes a man and has a child, he has to pay child support, the law system is fucked
/r/PussyPass29/06/14 09:43 AM
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holy shit, if coerced will lead to convictions the human race will die!
/r/PussyPass29/06/14 09:40 AM
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was there a reason the contact stopped ?
/r/seduction24/06/14 12:16 AM
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this is how i always get in contact with people, if they actually enjoyed my company, then they will get in contact with me, if not, didn't lose anything
/r/seduction15/06/14 04:18 PM
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heard this one before, its pretty good
/r/seduction15/06/14 04:16 PM
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have money, or appear to have money
/r/seduction24/05/14 02:55 PM
1

since when was this the goal of seddit?
/r/seduction16/05/14 10:42 PM
-6

well we both look at things differently then, if he put the same effort into keeping the relationship fresh as he does into reading seddit and exercising the knowledge he gains from here, he would be fine.
/r/seduction16/05/14 06:08 AM
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i guess i'm just an all or nothing guy then :P if i was to marry a girl i wouldn't need the approval of other women to make me feel good, i would only need her approval. "Power corrupts; absolute power corrupts absolutely"
/r/seduction16/05/14 04:57 AM
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every person has the ability to earn a million dollars, does everybody have a million dollars tho ? why would you want more than that? if i had a million dollars i wouldn't want more, neither would i seek the means to make more money if i had a million dollars.
/r/seduction16/05/14 02:48 AM
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i think i would rather not know of it in your situation, i would only exercise the things you learn from seddit on your wife :P you will notice a change in herself also
/r/seduction15/05/14 09:19 PM
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just jesting, but you kinda found the holy grail and can't drink from it
/r/seduction15/05/14 08:07 PM
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inb4 divorce
/r/seduction15/05/14 07:51 PM
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ah yeah, i guess thats what boat im in haha
/r/seduction12/05/14 10:37 PM
0

expressing yourself isn't a bad thing, it shows confidence and reveals intentions, if you are interested in her and tell her and she backs off even tho you have been pretty psychical so far, maybe she just wanted sex, this has happened to me a few times recently so i just moved on. Now i'm in a pickle with a girl who cant make up her mind, she flaked on me a lot so i just rescheduled and she flaked again, so i told her i'm interested in her and asked her "whats up?". she cant really make up her …
/r/seduction12/05/14 08:14 PM
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this subreddit has me questioning life alot, or my goals, i don't give a fuck who i sleep with, i just want to find someone i connect with and all i find at clubs is the same chick with a different face
/r/seduction11/05/14 11:48 AM
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i had a friend like this, i ended out leaving him behind, but he did not want to change his ways, he never got any better. do you want to help him or help yourself more ? you gotta pick one, you can do both but it will take longer. explain to him that you want to expand your social circle so you are changing your attitude then ask him if he wants to join you in this adventure, before you know it you could have a kickass wingman :D
/r/seduction02/05/14 05:18 PM
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once i get a match, i'll let you know how that works for me
/r/seduction01/05/14 04:19 PM
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i tell girls if i feel something, i don't lurk in the shadows when it comes to feelings, surely this scares some off, but if they don't want it, then did you not get the result you wanted ?
/r/seduction29/04/14 05:18 PM
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i'm only hugging them to comfort them!
/r/seduction29/04/14 05:17 PM
1

being able to relax and be open to all thoughts and possibilities really helps with this stuff, and looking at everything with a positive viewpoint will go a long way. if you are determined, then you will get there! :D
/r/seduction14/04/14 04:22 PM
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if this were true, then why would you be here asking questions. The point is chicks do this to bullshit to EVERYONE i was merely making a joke, if you cannot handle a small joke then i wish you luck in your path, because it will be a difficult one.
/r/seduction14/04/14 03:56 PM
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why chase other guys girls? i know there is a chance they may be bluffing you (a very high one in OP's case)
/r/seduction14/04/14 03:40 PM
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anyone else wanna play some dungeons and dragons after reading this ?
/r/seduction13/04/14 08:23 AM
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since when did confidence become rape? you can be assertive without being a rapist, its not like you are removing her options like you imply.
/r/seduction08/04/14 07:48 PM
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it seems to me like you start controlling the sitution, and then instantly give up control of the situation. Instead of asking i usually just go with "i'm going to (insert fun location here) and you are coming with me" if she gives an excuse not to go then i brag on the highlights which will most likely happen at the place, and then if they still insist they cannot go, i say "i will ask another friend of mine then, another time ;)" this means you could be asking anyone to go, or another date but…
/r/seduction07/04/14 08:39 PM
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5 years, fuck that! sex isn't that good
/r/seduction06/04/14 10:06 PM
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oh.. wow i feel even more lost than before the video
/r/seduction30/03/14 07:27 PM
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OH!!!! wow you just saved me from a really awkward situation!
/r/seduction30/03/14 03:04 PM
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so, if i want to go for a girl who says she has a "bf" i need to cut her up while her "bf" watches?
/r/seduction30/03/14 01:48 PM
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if sex is all you want, that needs to be clear before any emotional connection takes place, perhaps befriend him, but make it clear that a relationship is not what you are looking for, but you are open to options. a line a friend said to me once was "i'm gonna friendzone you, but nobody said friends can't fuck each other"
/r/seduction25/03/14 04:30 PM
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the first approach is the perfect one, it is the hardest and from there is only gets easier, but then again, its all talk until he does it
/r/seduction23/03/14 11:36 PM
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this guy will surely have some of the information you require in his video, he has never failed me
/r/seduction23/03/14 06:56 AM
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this is how i look at it, my online life holds no value compared to my real life and anything i do online does not compare to anything i do in person, telling a girl i like her online is nothing compared to doing it in person. doing it in person is much more rewarding.
/r/seduction23/03/14 03:11 AM
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I think this was one of my biggest issues, I'm a pretty big guy and I thought for a long time that I was intimidating, but soon realized it was all in my head to some degree. I now enjoy eye contact with women and never flinch.... NEVER
/r/seduction19/03/14 06:24 PM
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i haven't used my phone for 7ish months, i just carry it to receive calls from my family, and i got to say, i am out of the game and no longer live for women, i no longer pedestal any of them and i have made a lot of women friends because there is no tension between me and them, because i am not looking for it, and it all seems to start over the phone. when i find a girl that doesn't bury her face in her phone, then i will talk to her, but it is not a common thing. i just do what makes me happy,…
/r/seduction20/02/14 09:52 AM
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its them first conversations that get you, just speak to them like another guy, that's how i do it, speak to them like you are going to make a friend, once you take the first step with talking to women, you can only move forward
/r/seduction23/01/14 05:16 PM
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not everyone of them, but it is so common, the type of girl i would go for would not hang out with the people here, me included, i am not the person i want to be yet and do not even desire her yet is all i am saying really. i just dont want to catch anything off the locals, its terrible here. i personally know 3 girls that sell themselves for drugs, 2 of which are now pregnant also friends of each other, the other one is only 16 maybe 17 now. i just wanna move, i read all these storys about peop…
/r/seduction09/01/14 08:41 PM
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loool, when i have a wife, if i have a wife, then i do not want to give her herpes or hep-c or anything like that, so i think im gonna stay clear of these people, you can have them, they are all yours since they seem to be craved here
/r/seduction09/01/14 03:03 PM
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wish i found this when i was younger, got my first kiss at 17 lost v's at 18 (22 now), i lived in countryside tho, so hardmode. the seddit thing after a while you see the same messages after a while, the one i see the most is, anything works if you try it enough. throw that net wide you will catch something and don't use a fishing rod, a single hook will catch you nothing most of the time. seddit is about breaking the ice really, the rest is you.
/r/seduction09/01/14 01:30 PM
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read my edit, then put yourself in my shoes
/r/seduction09/01/14 08:54 AM
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this could be of use to me some day, because right now i'm not trying at all, only once a girl actually catches my attention then will i try, but right now they are all bland and show no intellectual connection or proper priority in morals edit: alright, ill give in and then start doing drugs and heroin, did anyone actually think that maybe i live in a fucking shitty town where 90% of the people here only care about smoking dope, and giving each other herpes (almost 1/3rd of my friends who are n…
/r/seduction09/01/14 02:39 AM
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woah dude, what if they were interested but they just got something going on at the moment, i wouldn't "cut them off" just i wouldn't invest into them heavily, if there was a lot of kino yet she can't find time assuming is not interested because she is busy is wrong. i would never verbally end something with someone, keep all options open, when i hit on girls, i don't "hit" on them, i aim to make them my friend, then can i decide if i even like them at all. i am not interested in 99% of the girl…
/r/seduction05/12/13 09:01 PM
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i too wish to know, this seems to happen to me A LOT
/r/seduction24/11/13 12:53 PM
1

i think you need to get that mentality YOLO jks, but seriously, i'm always like, "fuck it, lets do this" and do it, that is all the hesitation that i will allow myself, anything more and i know that i'm just fucking around and will never do it. Every moment you don't do what you want, you grow more comfortable in not having what you want, you should do whatever you can to remove that comfort and find comfort in getting what you want, you will be happier for yourself
/r/seduction27/10/13 11:09 PM
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in about 3 years i have found about 3 girls i have wanted to date, the rest just are short term goals, they are all so superficial or care so much about what people think of them they never enjoy themselves or just want to have fun or relax. i stopped looking for girls to date
/r/seduction20/10/13 06:55 AM
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also don't make rape jokes around girls haha, its seems that 2/3 girls i meet has been sexually abused, no joke
/r/seduction16/10/13 06:33 PM
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what i did to become confident, is just say whatever is on my mind, i always found myself thinking "imagine if i said that" and now i just do it, sometimes it hits people where they don't want to be hit, but most of the time its something pretty funny or witty, in my case at least
/r/seduction16/10/13 02:12 PM
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came here to say this, when i see something i like in this sub-reddit, then i practise it until it becomes nature, slowly but surely i'm becoming more awesome >:3
/r/seduction13/10/13 12:32 PM
2

that's a good valid point really, sluts are definitely cheaper
/r/seduction08/10/13 08:28 PM
1

what i do is i friendzone every girl i meet, i don't verbally say it, but i make them know it, it asserts yourself and gets rid of that "stink" that guys tend to get that scared girls off. some of my best friends are chicks and they are the best wingmen, because they don't cockblock, if i go with any of my male mates then they will cockblock me at any opportunity if they think it will increase their chances of getting laid, even tho it obviously doesn't. anyway, after i friendzone girls is when …
/r/seduction06/10/13 03:02 PM
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i can't seem to find ones that aren't sluts, is there a subreddit for finding a suitable girl ?
/r/seduction03/10/13 03:13 AM
1

i feel like a pro now :3
/r/seduction03/10/13 03:11 AM
2

good read, i was in your situation, but when my x left me i had no warning, there were communication issues, i isolated myself for near 3 years to some extent, and have greatly increased my confidence in all situations, when i am out at social events i tend to practice something that comes to mind in seddit, seddit to me is not just about seducing women, there comes better ways to interact with people. i have started working out, eating better, and getting into routines, all these things make me…
/r/seduction15/09/13 09:23 AM
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be the better person and do not be affected, there are always more options, personally i like to stick away from my friends, or friends of friends
/r/seduction23/08/13 03:05 AM
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there is nothing alpha at all, all his behaviors are instinct and emotionally fueled, nothing he does is honorable, if that is alpha, alpha sounds fucking retarded
/r/seduction13/08/13 07:35 PM
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he has no morals, fuck him, he doesn't care about other people, he is selfish
/r/seduction13/08/13 03:36 PM
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i would like an anwser for this also, because i was texting a girl and said "hey, want to come to my sisters birthday party with me ? " and she said yes, so i was setting up the sound system when i got there, went to talk to her and she was flirting with my brother and then got pissed off at me when i said i wanted to be alone with her for some time, she also said " if you wanted to hang out with me, then why did you invite me to a party" i was dumbfounded, she slept with my brother, and i havn'…
/r/seduction13/08/13 11:18 AM
1

i have been practicing escalation quite a lot lately its proving quite good, confidence is key
/r/seduction08/08/13 01:40 PM
3

better safe than sorry
/r/seduction08/08/13 01:39 PM
1

self diagnostic: depressed
/r/seduction01/08/13 03:00 PM
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hehe
/r/seduction18/07/13 02:05 AM
0

it was probably easyer in usa cos you are foreign :P
/r/seduction17/07/13 09:41 PM
1

this here! this here is so true, i put on a very positive mood whenven i meet people, so whenever i text them, they think of everything i write in a positive mood, and quite franky if they don't think positively then they are a negative person themselves, and its a good way to test a personality. if someone i'm texting constantly takes everything i say negatively, then i no longer text them
/r/seduction15/07/13 11:11 PM
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am i the only person thinking you are overthinking this? i use emoticons and punctuation a lot, and never seem to have any issues. to me the 2nd example lacks emotion, and makes it seem like you don't care about what they, i also feel that example one is a little over the top, i have a mid-ground of these 2 examples
/r/seduction15/07/13 02:09 PM
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ok cupid
/r/seduction09/06/13 08:19 PM
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i tried it in new zealand, and in my city of 10k not a single single lady registered on the website, the closest was 300 km away
/r/seduction09/06/13 07:10 PM
0

now that i think about it, i have had a couple of stalkers in the past
/r/seduction05/06/13 09:31 PM
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haha i don't think there is such thing as a clingy girl in new zealand, but i welcome the idea
/r/seduction05/06/13 08:12 PM
1

i have a very serious looking face, of concentration sometimes, i think it scares people sometimes, also im 6ft 2in and 115 kg not in a fat way...
/r/seduction03/06/13 08:49 AM
2

i got no friends, i know this :D
/r/seduction02/06/13 07:41 PM
1

great read, i have been in a town where i have no opportunities for anything like this, i plan on moving within the next 2 months, and this is the path i wish to take, i am a perfectionist and i am excellent at anything i do
/r/seduction01/06/13 05:21 PM
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being a girls "first" is going to create complications, she is going to have an attachment to you, that's if you were her first, some chicks say that because they think it's what guys want to hear. good luck either way tho, she seems like she more just wants a new bf, if i were to create a friends with benefits thing, then i would not want any emotional attachment to them.
/r/seduction27/05/13 06:00 PM
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you pat your grandparents cat?
/r/seduction26/05/13 06:49 AM
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