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| 46 | Send in your resumes.You'll always be #3 behind the horse and Daddy's money. | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 27/07/21 02:29 AM |
| 5 | The difference 4 years makes.They hit "the wall" through hive-mind peer pressure as well. You haven't lived until you listened to: a bunch of late twenty-something girls kvetch about how life is passing them by in their "ro___tic" lives (no man). Because their best friends are all getting married. Thirty-something about having children right away. Because hormones. And everyone else is. Forty-something about how disappointed they are in everything around them and how they drink wine with their friends over it. Fifty-somethi… | /r/TheRedPill | 04/01/18 02:08 AM |
| 6 | The difference 4 years makes.Of course, which is why she'll wallet-rape him in due course. | /r/TheRedPill | 03/01/18 10:16 PM |
| 5 | Do Not Tolerate DisrespectThis. If she's an asshole on the first date, walk. If they're an asshole in the job interview, walk. Not ignoring the red flags will save you a lot of wasted time. If you're into an extended relationship, whether personal or professional, where you've invested a lot of time and personal capital, then be smart about it. Sometimes a blunt, frank talk with a boss, employee, contractor (or SO) will clear the air about a lot of things. Anybody who's been in the real world for a while has had to do th… | /r/TheRedPill | 03/01/18 04:57 PM |
| 89 | The difference 4 years makes.Welcome to personal growth. You've moved on and moved up...and there she sits, expecting the world to hand her something just because she's got indoor plumbing. Sadly, what will happen in time is that she'll find her beta, squirt out a couple of kids and retire to the hive-mind of her similar friends, content in their approval rather than making any sort uncertainty-laden attempt at a meaningful life contribution. | /r/TheRedPill | 03/01/18 04:51 PM |
| 7 | "I'd love to see her get plowed by a BBC"I've been sort of in this situation a couple of times - women fucking me and then telling the husbands about it (they weren't in the room). Weird, but they were seriously hot for it so I just put it down to the guys either being totally whipped or, as you said, closeted gay guys. Either way, kinda sad - you should just let your freak flag fly if that's what you're going to do. I've also had women who do this: "Tell me how my pussy feels on your cock in comparison to all the other women?" and eve… | /r/TheRedPill | 13/12/17 07:23 PM |
| 2 | How to avoid claims of sexual harassment / assault: What every man in the workplace needs to know!I deal with a lot of female students - 99.98% of whom are straight up hard workers - and have occasionally resorted to video of in-office conferences (put a bit of tape on the indicator LED on the front). A couple of pointers: I put "permission to record" in the class syllabus. I've never had anyone call me on it (and I'm sure the lawyers will come out of the woodwork here) but if it comes down to it I've got real (if inadmissible and possibly illegal) evidence. Never close the office door. If t… | /r/TheRedPill | 22/11/17 04:35 AM |
| 10 | Woman Experiences the Wall.. from a "what part of aging do you wish someone had warned you about" thread.There's a subtle shift that she's making here - notice that she only cares about attention from "these men" ("...the big men in charge" in her own words). The real message is that she can't play the perceived power centers like she used to and is freaking out about it. Loss of center stage and the entitlement it used to bring is painful. The narcissism -- it burns! | /r/TheRedPill | 14/07/17 12:13 PM |
| 5 | Wife goes on a sex journey to ‘find herself’. Is shocked when husband leaves herThe other part that struck me is that she was following someone else's script ("Fear of Flying", by Erica Jong) to "find herself". If you've not read the book, it's a blue-pill self-indulgence manifesto from the 70s. The protagonist sleeps her way across Europe looking for a "zipless fuck" and presumably some kind of enlightenment - while her husband pays the bills quietly off-stage somewhere. Not only is he rid of this woman for her own behavior, but he's rid of someone who is utterly unimagina… | /r/TheRedPill | 06/07/17 03:52 PM |
| 2 | Men care more about looks, but women's standards for looks are higher.Women don't dress for men, they dress to compete with each other to achieve a consensus-higher status, eg. "you look better than the rest of us so you'll get a man". Nobody asks the man what he thinks. | /r/TheRedPill | 03/06/17 12:59 PM |
| 4 | The Coward's Glance: A Common Folly of Men New to Red Pill Philosophy.Older guy here who's been through the process on his own many years ago. Here's a tip: When you look at a woman you have a certain amount of time. Too long and you're a creep, too little and you're a beta. An easy way to both count and make it count is to look her squarely in the eyes, and say to yourself (slowly) "you are mine..." and look away. Even the most self-conscious can do this. Very few failures to report. | /r/TheRedPill | 19/05/17 05:18 AM |
| 1 | "What do you have to offer aside from what's between your legs?"Might seem like chess at the start, but it's checkers when you get the hang of it. Pretty much tic-tac-toe, if that, for these sorts of women. The trick is to find the ones who don't list the standard sorority-house/Cosmo drivel. Rare but worth finding. | /r/TheRedPill | 09/04/17 04:52 PM |
| 1 | It's Frightening How Easily A Woman Can Cuck You...then the appellate court ruled that one party consent was sufficient. This is sort of where I remember it in the context of getting my ex to back down on some of her shenanigans (and the comment I posted) - and I'm not in the legal field. FWIW I still record a lot of meetings/calls to get the conversation correct for my own notes - it's a big help - but never transcribe anything personal or keep the recording. Probably illegal but desperately necessary if you get a technical call while driving a… | /r/TheRedPill | 01/04/17 06:26 PM |
| 3 | It is literally 2017It is actually 2017. That post triggered my repressed exposure to patriarchal grammar-oppression. Or something. | /r/TheRedPill | 01/04/17 06:16 PM |
| 1 | It's Frightening How Easily A Woman Can Cuck You...You are correct (I should have looked at this in the last couple of decades). Deleted. | /r/TheRedPill | 01/04/17 01:04 PM |
| 0 | Men climb the mountain, women sit where they are and declare it to be the mountaintop.Of course, but one should never lose sight of the concept that women may only see those around them as competition, while a good negotiator/high SMV man will know that they're competing against a whole planet of women and thus defines his own horizons. | /r/TheRedPill | 04/03/17 04:21 AM |
| 28 | Men climb the mountain, women sit where they are and declare it to be the mountaintop.Or...you can realize that it's just another sales game and you should never enter a sales negotiation you can't walk away from. So...you're the champion and the women standing there. The real winner is the person who realizes they can take or leave any of them or all of them. Be the champion by all means, but choose your own prize, otherwise you're just competing for affection and thus pandering to Blue Pill subservience. | /r/TheRedPill | 04/03/17 03:55 AM |
| 2 | Man immediately breaks up with his girlfriend of 5 years after she suggests an open relationship. She doesn't understand why and is "heartbroken."A couple of observations: She was already sleeping with someone and wanted ex post facto approval to do so - I guarantee it. No woman is going to jeopardize her current position without a backup. He should get tested for STDs just to play it safe. Sending a friend for stuff (unless it's just a couple of things) is a good idea but kind of lame. Bringing one or several friends as help/BS detectors/witnesses is a better idea. | /r/TheRedPill | 02/03/17 07:36 PM |
| 10 | Scientific study show that male domestic violence victims are more likely to be arrested, jailed, and not have the charges dropped than the person beating themI broached this with my stepson who works with a very large metropolitan PD and his response was "Hell yes...if it keeps them out of the cold and snow, and doing paperwork in a nice warm office for overtime, you bet they will." Don't forget that they may not be wrapped up in lofty sexism or grinding bigotry, just working guys who don't give a shit and are tired of being out on the street in the snow. | /r/TheRedPill | 16/02/17 01:50 AM |
| 1 | Have you ever noticed there is never a male 'fat acceptance' movement, because women and society do not care about you.Men are groomed from birth to be disenfranchised sperm donors, cash machines and occasionally status symbols ("You married a doctor?!?"). Beyond that they're not valued at all - one of the reasons that they're persistently represented in popular media as thick-headed couch potatoes who lack wisdom. | /r/TheRedPill | 08/02/17 01:17 PM |
| 1 | The Truth About 'Speed Reading'There are a couple of other things to consider involving content - if you're working with several languages at once (and this includes mathematical formulas) you lose speed as you switch back and forth. Technical and philosophical tracts are often also stop-and-start as you go through new concepts and not just new verbiage. I've had a single technical paper (~20 pages) take several days as I work through the math and try to absorb the concepts, but I read "The Great Gatsby" in an afternoon and r… | /r/TheRedPill | 21/01/17 03:37 PM |
| 1 | [Part 1 of 2] 40 Classic Shit Tests, What They Mean, and How to Pass Them"We're not having sex." "We?" "Are you gay?" "Are you the alternative?" (quote from somewhere, but it really gets a rise out of them) “I bet you say that to every girl” "I haven't met every girl" "You're an asshole" "You're into that sort of thing, are you?" | /r/TheRedPill | 13/01/17 03:22 AM |
| 2 | [Part 2 of 2] 40 Classic Shit Tests, What They Mean, and How to Pass Them"How many women have you slept with?" "A gentleman never discusses that, and neither do I" Works wonders. Incidentally, if she asks, she's either not afraid of her own number, or it's very low (usually under 10 or so). Personal observation. | /r/TheRedPill | 13/01/17 03:17 AM |
| 1 | Applied TRP for the first time, fucked my friend's boss.like she had made up her mind about me fucking her and that was that. In time you'll recognize this is how it works - women make up their minds very quickly. You'll also recognize when she's made that choice and you can cut a lot of the small talk and get down to it. At that point, you've got game - your game - and the world is yours. Do pay attention to other comments that this won't happen every time - you'll also learn to recognize when things stalled, next them and move on. | /r/TheRedPill | 06/01/17 01:41 AM |
| 12 | Tips To Look After Your Husband - (Excerpts from a 1950's Home Economics text book)Unfortunately the source for this is pretty doubtful: http://www.snopes.com/history/document/goodwife.asp As is this (fortunately): http://www.snopes.com/weddings/newlywed/advice.asp | /r/TheRedPill | 02/01/17 05:09 PM |
| 18 | Taking joy in the fact that she will hit the wall: a note on bitterness59 phoning in here. They're not happy though they've locked down their income source BB, but their frame of reference is usually a circle of identical friends who are all doing the hive mind thing and subscribing to the nonstop commercialization of "happy". So not only do they not know why they have that nagging feeling of discontent, but the friends they compare themselves to (who are similarly disgruntled) all put on a happy persona and there's no reference to figure it out. They usually find … | /r/TheRedPill | 23/12/16 05:01 PM |
| 1 | Got punched by a dude for chatting with his GFThe guy kept talking a lot of shit, said he had a gun and i was fucked, that kinda of shit I've seen this happen - if he was armed and serious about it, he'd have just flat out shot you. Lights out, game over. The rest is theatrics. I've got a bad temper, but some things aren't worth it. | /r/TheRedPill | 19/12/16 03:31 AM |
| 7 | Got punched by a dude for chatting with his GFI had a girlfriend try this once at a bar ("He'll protect us..."). I told them to sort it out and walked home. I'm not getting shot because of some stupid wench's sense of entertainment. | /r/TheRedPill | 19/12/16 03:30 AM |
| 7 | You should ghost women who have cheated on youI agree wholeheartedly. Women feed like vampires on drama and emotional masturbation over relationships. Deny that and you have them, and your ultimate revenge if that's what you're after. With my ex, I just walked out. Stayed in an extended-stay hotel (we had a house together) and called my lawyer. A week or so of feeling miserable I realized I had run for daylight and the plates began to spin. Never looked back, even though the legal wrangling got extensive. | /r/TheRedPill | 10/12/16 09:41 PM |
| 10 | Californian Kathy Murray saved her marriage by giving up trying to control her husband. Despite considering herself a feminist, she follows the approach of a controversial book called The Surrendered Wife, which tells women to stop nagging their partners and start treating them with more respect." If you know the enemy and know yourself, you need not fear the result of a hundred battles. If you know yourself but not the enemy, for every victory gained you will also suffer a defeat. If you know neither the enemy nor yourself, you will succumb in every battle." Sun Tzu | /r/TheRedPill | 04/12/16 09:29 PM |
| 1 | Handling women bosses/peers/subordinates at workExtra Do not flirt with your colleague's wives. The power you get from the support of your team is far great to endanger with such rash behavior If you make the effort to be very polite to the point of being standoffish, you'll make a better impression on everyone. This can get you introduced to colleagues' wives female friends and that's not a bad thing. Flirting once removed is fair game. | /r/TheRedPill | 02/12/16 09:45 PM |
| 41 | Before and after: How things have changed since I've lost weightI've done this - lost 90 pounds over a year when I was in college. Here's a couple of things you might not expect: Don't get cynical. Yes, people and particularly women will treat you differently, flirt with you and the like when they wouldn't like the "real you" or a less cosmetically conforming person. That's how it works and being bitter about it won't help anyone. This applies to other things; you'll likely find it easier to get a job, easier to get seated in a restaurant etc. etc. Just enjo… | /r/TheRedPill | 25/10/16 03:16 PM |
| 6 | Going to an event where you don't know anyone [FR]The woman Everyone will also think you're awesome for getting people to join the fun. This always works - just give people half a chance and the fun ramps up pretty quickly, as does your social capital (which brings more people around). Whether you're just aiming to be not-bored or are looking for some action, you can't lose. | /r/TheRedPill | 04/10/16 07:07 PM |
| 14 | I fucked up. Don't be like me.Do this: Walk away with your head up. You may feel like you've messed up but all you've really done is pay tuition in the school of hard knocks. Many of us have. Other posters will tell you all the other crap that could have happened (divorce wallet-rape, false assault charges, deadly diseases), but you're past it and in one piece. Some lessons are harder than others, and I guarantee that your radar will be on and dialed in when you start to circulate again - you'll have no problem letting go wi… | /r/TheRedPill | 23/09/16 09:30 PM |
| 9 | Yes, actually, they do want to be dominatedI'm calling highly questionable for the same reasons (as well as Internet Rules 29 and 30): 29: In the internet all girls are men and all kids are undercover FBI agents 30: There are no girls on the internet While there are girls on these apps, most of them are there to count up how many guys hit on them so they can compare notes in the popularity contest among their female friends*. Occasionally one may wander off DTF, but they won't share notes or admit it. *I had some female friends in the ye… | /r/TheRedPill | 15/09/16 09:05 PM |
| -1 | FR: Girls don't even understand how they work.Oddly, what I said was true. Under other circumstances you'd be quite correct and I'd be a shameless flirt, but that difference makes the story. Whether you believe it or not is immaterial. | /r/TheRedPill | 23/06/16 04:58 AM |
| 1 | FR: Girls don't even understand how they work.This has happened to me several times. The latest: I have a good friend we'll call Kevin, and his wife whom we'll call Rachel. We were at some mutual friends' house have drinks with about a dozen people - Rachel had had a very bad day (job troubles) and was two glasses of wine in, which she's not used to. She said something about being totally stressed, and I said "Kevin should give you a massage or something". She said "He doesn't do that...", so I started rubbing her shoulders and eventually l… | /r/TheRedPill | 22/06/16 11:00 PM |
| 1 | 5 ways to improve your presence, with examplesThere are a lot of them (search "stage voice" on YouTube) - this is pretty good one about breathing: https://youtu.be/ynmemxQicQk Note that she starts by urging working with a voice coach and explaining how bad you can get if you just use your throat to try and get louder rather than your whole body. It's the latter that got me into it years ago because I was getting hoarse lecturing to a large classroom. The other thing to do is to find your "radio voice" the pitch that your voice is best at. A… | /r/TheRedPill | 31/05/16 02:38 AM |
| 16 | 5 ways to improve your presence, with examplesNumbers three and four (projecting voice and using space) are essential acting skills. I teach some presentation skills to students and part of that is finding your "stage voice" (rather than just being loud) and using your space in a conscious way rather than milling about. There are plenty of videos, pages and books on this, but sometimes talking to a voice coach/singing instructor for half an hour can turn out to be the best money you spend - it was for me. If you want to take the leap and go… | /r/TheRedPill | 28/05/16 08:31 PM |
| 1 | Polish grandma spits Red Pill truthsNo, they had 1st and goal and discovered pot, sex, cocaine, sex, greed and elitism, sex with the neighbors, children, Martha Steward (sic), Phil Donahue, Jonathan Livingston Seagull, sex with their aura, houses in the suburbs, 80's hair, Ronald Reagan, Jesus, yoga, sex with the neighbors again, Whole Foods, Volvos, BMWs, handcuffs, mommyvans, soccer and Viagra. Net gain: Fuck all. Source: Am a boomer - people waste their lives just as much as they always have. You're next. | /r/TheRedPill | 13/05/16 11:22 AM |
| 2 | Polish grandma spits Red Pill truthsFound the new ones. NSFW-ish | /r/TheRedPill | 13/05/16 11:21 AM |
| 17 | Porn star Bree Olson hits the wall, cries that nobody respects her or wants her anymore.but the fact that she wasn't able to land a different job through networking, is sort of telling. Many successful porn stars end up behind the camera, directing, marketing, etc. This comment should be higher. Even within her industry where nobody gives a shit what you did on camera (or might even respect you for "paying your dues") if she had any modicum of ambition or willingness to work she could have a career. That nobody's stepped forward to offer her even a junior clothes-on opportunity is … | /r/TheRedPill | 28/04/16 02:52 PM |
| 5 | Porn star Bree Olson hits the wall, cries that nobody respects her or wants her anymore.So she's headed for politics? | /r/TheRedPill | 28/04/16 02:47 PM |
| 1 | "Communication is the key to a healthy relationship"what are the points of discussion here? What are you going to contribute. No, you are on the defensive and trying to justify. Most certainly not - it's drawing the most feared of swords; holding her accountable for herself. It never fails. The splutter and bluster are epic. This isn't for the everyday bullshit-of-the-day dump, it's for that "you're an asshole" screaming special. The LSA arrangement is for the rest of it. It could get sucked into some kind of flip/turnaround game, but not if you … | /r/TheRedPill | 26/04/16 09:41 PM |
| 6 | "Communication is the key to a healthy relationship"Then there was the one who said "let's not have the same fight a second time - we'll discuss it" And we did. Her, I kept. | /r/TheRedPill | 26/04/16 06:33 PM |
| 21 | "Communication is the key to a healthy relationship"Been There Done That: "Let's discuss..." "Okay, lets..." "I want...and you...." Eventually I'd clothesline this by saying "Okay you wanted to discuss something, but all I've heard is a laundry list of demands and accusations...what are the points of discussion here? What are you going to contribute." Don't get upset or otherwise affected (called "holding frame" here, I think). Of course the "points of discussion" are disappointed entitlement and general blamestorming for lack of contentment with… | /r/TheRedPill | 26/04/16 05:08 PM |
| 1 | How to expand your vocabularyThat's the next step in the process - fitting your vocabulary to your audience. "Shooting over their heads" makes you look pompous, keeping things simple but well-structured and literate does not. You can always ramp it up, but ramping it down will sound condescending if you're not careful. "Verbose"* language doesn't help much even in abstruse academic conversations. Some of the best university administrators I know can convey a message very simply, and except for technical discussions mostly i… | /r/TheRedPill | 18/04/16 03:22 AM |
| 8 | A message for my fellow self-improvement-focused noobs: go genuinely approach a girl and get rejected! It's liberating to see how little you have to lose! Don't let Monk Mode stop you from organically approaching as you go about your life.You're putting too much value on the initial conversation ("If she doesn't talk to me, I'm a piece of shit."). If she doesn't talk to you it's because she doesn't talk to you...the rest is in your head. I talk to people all day long, so talking to another girl is just talking to ... surprise ... another person. If it turns into more than that, great. If it doesn't then it doesn't. It's sort of the (contrived) Rule of 100. For every 100 girls you talk to, 10 may be interested and one may be VERY … | /r/TheRedPill | 11/04/16 07:44 PM |
| 6 | A message for my fellow self-improvement-focused noobs: go genuinely approach a girl and get rejected! It's liberating to see how little you have to lose! Don't let Monk Mode stop you from organically approaching as you go about your life.This. Just do it. When you make the decision that failure costs you nothing but a little time, you'll make the leap to failing often enough that you find your groove. Even {fill in your favorite musician} bent a lot of bad notes learning to play. More than that, at some point you'll stop giving women the power over your self-esteem -- which is the most important step of all. | /r/TheRedPill | 11/04/16 01:23 PM |
| 0 | "Jackie" Being Held Accountable in U Virginia debacle - Watch This OneFrom the article in the above link, not only did she not file, she "... refused to cooperate with their investigation." but I'm not clear if she would be liable if she caused an incident to be investigated without directly filing a report. So it may be that she could be held liable by the local LEO but they probably won't bother. | /r/TheRedPill | 07/04/16 12:53 AM |
| 2 | "Jackie" Being Held Accountable in U Virginia debacle - Watch This OneMartha Stewart got punked in a fight over K-Mart/Sears shares and board of directors, so nearly as anyone can tell. | /r/TheRedPill | 06/04/16 04:38 PM |
| 2 | "Jackie" Being Held Accountable in U Virginia debacle - Watch This OneThey were certainly misdemeanors under Virginia statutes; "Falsely summoning or giving false reports to law-enforcement officials." | /r/TheRedPill | 06/04/16 04:36 PM |
| 5 | "Jackie" Being Held Accountable in U Virginia debacle - Watch This OneDefeating conspiracy theorists is a tough job. If they won't see what's in front of them, they surely won't agree with any secondary information. | /r/TheRedPill | 06/04/16 04:34 PM |
| 1 | "Jackie" Being Held Accountable in U Virginia debacle - Watch This OneSJW goes Conspiracy Theorist in a real hurry with this stuff. "Oh, they do things like that all the time, it's just that they got away with it this time" | /r/TheRedPill | 06/04/16 12:31 PM |
| 13 | "Jackie" Being Held Accountable in U Virginia debacle - Watch This OneIt will be interesting to see if "Jackie" is prosecuted for giving false information - there likely wouldn't be prison time, but they may make her (or her daddy) pay for it all. | /r/TheRedPill | 06/04/16 12:26 PM |
| 26 | "Jackie" Being Held Accountable in U Virginia debacle - Watch This OneI'm sure his life would have been ruined immediately and he would have sued ten times harder, though it might not have saved his career. In any event, I give this Associate Dean credit for reaming them a new one. The fun part of this is that "Jackie", (Jackie Coakley), the journalist (Sabrina Rubin Erdely), and the Associate Dean are all women. Edit: Guess who found her Beta. http://gotnews.com/tag/jackie-coakley/ | /r/TheRedPill | 06/04/16 12:11 PM |
| 12 | "Jackie" Being Held Accountable in U Virginia debacle - Watch This OneThe administrator is filing a "defamation" suit which is roughly the same thing, but goes after the irresponsible journalism and dissemination of false information rather than the person making the false statements - Rolling Stone has much deeper pockets and is more likely to pay up. This may have to do with the jurisdiction, and IIRC libel/slander/defamation suits in the US are very hard to bring because of first amendment issues, which the article states (I'm not a lawyer). | /r/TheRedPill | 06/04/16 12:09 PM |
| 0 | "Jackie" Being Held Accountable in U Virginia debacle - Watch This OneThe usual criminal charge seems to be giving false information to police or similar. The penalty could be quite a bit - jail time plus costs of the investigation - but the not-guilty-by-reason-of-insanity argument is going to permeate the entire affair. Frankly, all "AWALT" RP vituperation aside, this woman is nuts and needs to be in treatment and out of circulation. If she can stand as a warning to not make false accusations, and for female journals ts to not reflexively publish them without du… | /r/TheRedPill | 06/04/16 12:03 PM |
| 20 | What happens when the Tinder and internet dating generation of women hits the wall in 5-20 yearsThis is already happening - in a recent article about the "Dating Apocalypse" women were hooking up with guys "just because" and claiming that they weren't getting anything out of it. Yet they persisted without sense and without reason (mostly because all their friends were doing it too and they didn't want to admit that gratuitous sex was fun). From the article: " Dating apps are the free-market economy come to sex. " And women have been caught short since they're not seeing the "invisible hand… | /r/TheRedPill | 02/04/16 05:10 PM |
| 1 | Treating women badly -- because they deserve itIt's much more amusing to require women to act like adults who are responsible for their own actions, no excuses, no waffling, no "I do it because I feel like it...", no "My friends are all.." hive-mind shit. This seems to define "abuse" of the worst sort but the reaction is priceless - you have to be nearly perfect at holding frame though. | /r/TheRedPill | 30/03/16 09:12 PM |
| 71 | 2 old sluts just sat next to me at the bar and started telling me I'm cute and flirting with me. They asked where my girlfriend was, when I said "I don't date" they started going off on me saying "I'm on the wrong road" and that "I just hit it and quit it" I saidThe perfect-hindsight comeback: "What's the right path? Getting married so in 15 years my wife and her friend can go out on girls night and hit on men half their age and be too cheap with their husbands' money (and so desperate for a faint whiff of validation) to even buy their own drinks?" | /r/TheRedPill | 19/03/16 02:43 PM |
| 2 | From Having To Deal With So Many Women In My Line Of Work I Now Can't Fucking Stand Them At AllLeap before you're pushed - get your resume together. Just for laughs, sue them for sexual harassment after you're gone. | /r/TheRedPill | 10/03/16 01:50 AM |
| 42 | From Having To Deal With So Many Women In My Line Of Work I Now Can't Fucking Stand Them At AllEven the women know it: My wife did more than 30 years in corporate in a global heavy machinery company and she hated the women. "A man will come straight at you and stab you...women will sneak up behind you, or talk someone else into doing their dirty work." If you're never held to account for your actions why not? As they say "Why understand women? Women understand women and they all hate each other" | /r/TheRedPill | 08/03/16 04:58 AM |
| 47 | My girlfriend/wife promised me anal for my birthday..As it always has been: "On peut trouver des femmes qui n'ont jamais eu de galanterie; mais il est rare d'en trouver qui n'en aient jamais eu qu'une." (We may find women who have never indulged in an intrigue, but it is rare to find those who have intrigued but once.) François de La Rochefoucauld, 1665 | /r/TheRedPill | 20/02/16 05:10 AM |
| 1 | (Field Report) - When The Red Pill Stopped Being A Theory and Became a Truer Reality than I could ever imagineDon't discount the flat-out crazy. If this story is at all true, you may find out that it's not only her and her little pal Becky, but there may be some Gone Girl a whole lot worse in there somewhere and you don't want her to show up in the middle of the night. Watch your back, lock your door...seriously. | /r/TheRedPill | 26/01/16 04:52 AM |
| 2 | I decided to become an alpha maleDo the reading etc. as the others suggest, but also do this: be forgiving of yourself. If you beta out in a situation, make the commitment to do better next time rather than beating yourself up over it. That will allow you to think it through carefully (rather than just being ashamed) and make little changes for the next time, to take chances with situations, and to begin to recognize the beta response in yourself , learning to hold frame and thus be in control of the situation. Over time you'll… | /r/TheRedPill | 25/01/16 02:10 AM |
| 4 | Rumi on WomenWhy do women have pubic hair? To hide the hook.... | /r/TheRedPill | 25/01/16 01:46 AM |
| 7 | Go Full PatriarchThis. Complaining about the "deficiencies" of the ones who get them hot, when in fact its those very deficiencies that cause it in the first place. This is rooted in their training since birth to be unhappy with themselves. | /r/TheRedPill | 20/01/16 10:10 PM |
| 3 | I got a girl's number by making her seem more desirable than the leader of her groupThey'll fuck you anyway, but there'll be a lot of hand-wringing and nonsense: "I don't want to hurt ________..." (Baloney - you know what you want and when you want it but don't want to get called out for it with your friends) A lot of time and bullshit to no good purpose other than emotional masturbation for her. This can be avoided on the front end. | /r/TheRedPill | 20/01/16 05:11 PM |
| 6 | I got a girl's number by making her seem more desirable than the leader of her groupYou thought social media had to do with phone screens? Take this a step farther; you're dealing with a led group...you know Ms. Brunette will spill everything to all of them so plan and act accordingly and you may be hearing from quite a few more than the Queen Bee. The one piece of advice I'd give (goes without saying mostly) is avoid the whole "exclusive"/"relationship" thing - if Ms. Brunette announces she's got "a boyfriend", then the whole dynamic changes (cf. Nash Equilibrium elsewhere in … | /r/TheRedPill | 20/01/16 02:55 PM |
| 22 | Don't marry a girl with fake tits.If it's important to you, it's important to you, but is it important to the both of you? I knew a woman who was totally flat (when we first got naked I got a startled look on my face and she said "I told you so...") and she was absolutely great - a freak in bed and a riot otherwise. Roll with it. | /r/TheRedPill | 12/01/16 08:33 PM |
| 7 | Saw an ex co-worker and had an epiphany: Former betas/omegas, be grateful it didn't happen.Sounds like my story. Stick around - in time you'll find that your exes are truly exes. One of mine smoked herself to death, another "died suddenly" (didn't follow up with the family - that was a long time ago). Lots of them are leading awful lives in spite of professional success. I've never been so grateful to fail at something. | /r/TheRedPill | 06/01/16 10:58 PM |
| 2 | The Power of the Nickname.This creates a sense of intimacy and of connection. If you call your pal or your plate something unique, that's between you only at first (and the "in group" if it catches on later). It also helps for people like me who are terrible at remembering names. You can use this to soften a hard group (as other commentors have noted about G. W. Bush) or any of another dozen purposes and is a long-standing sales technique. Some cultures have elevated this to a high art of hyperbole and opposites (calling… | /r/TheRedPill | 05/01/16 01:01 PM |
| 2 | I Was Falsely Accused Of Rape Two Weeks Ago (And Thanks To TRP I Know Why)Crazy people be crazy. Probably the progression from drunk/horny (irresponsible and compelled) to guilty (afraid of being responsible in front of her friends for her own actions) to vicious ("it's not my fault...I'm a victim") didn't take very long. If he'd hung around he might have placated her somewhat and avoided the police, but my guess is that she might have started stalking him or worse. Crazy people be crazy. | /r/TheRedPill | 10/12/15 04:31 AM |
| 5 | I Was Falsely Accused Of Rape Two Weeks Ago (And Thanks To TRP I Know Why)Exactly this. It looks like it was more about her need for drama that was being satisfied once she got her rocks off. Pity there's no real penalty for lying to the police about this stuff (another argument). Things got hot and heavy, and after a few minutes she pulled me by my wrist out into the elevator and led me, using her own keycard out onto her floor and into her room. If I didn't know any better, I'd say she was taking advantage of my being drunk state to get in my pants, but hey, I'm jus… | /r/TheRedPill | 09/12/15 03:57 PM |
| 1 | Man spends half a paycheck to propose to his girlfriend. Gf is disappointed because she wanted it to be done in front of all her friends. She "apologize" by sending him pizza. From TIFUThis is the basis for a lot of our current social norms - you don't have to look very hard to see it all around you. It's one of the reasons I looked into the RP thing in the first place, trying to figure this out - I haven't developed a full polemic/post for the sub yet though. | /r/TheRedPill | 03/12/15 06:25 PM |
| 2 | "The Shit Test Buster Game: Round 1"Question 1: ”Are you a player?” "Chess - your move." Also: "You're not some hatchet murderer are you?" "What is this? Thursday? No...I'm off duty today." Question 2: ”Yeah, I bet you say that to all the girls..” "I haven't met all the girls yet." Question 3: ”What’s the matter? You look so sad.” Never run into this, but my favorite someday answer is "I'll be sorry to see you go in the morning..." Question 4: How many girls have you slept with?” "I'm sorry, I don't give out my number (see #10)" Q… | /r/TheRedPill | 03/12/15 06:12 PM |
| 6 | Man spends half a paycheck to propose to his girlfriend. Gf is disappointed because she wanted it to be done in front of all her friends. She "apologize" by sending him pizza. From TIFUThe problem with that is that there isn't a mind to read. It's a nebulous cloud of her friends' twitter posts, gossip, makeup ads, and Cosmo relationship-marketing gabble. The end result of this is that no matter what you do it'll be "wrong" because you're really facing the vortex of unthinking conformity to a marketing machine full of cognitive dissonance. Next. | /r/TheRedPill | 03/12/15 04:10 PM |
| 7 | How Natural Alphas Are MadeIt's a self-reinforcing cycle. Confidence gets you attention from women, which makes you more confident and pretty soon you'll have all you can handle. If you really run your game up you'll have to start scheduling them in on a whiteboard. I like knowing how women work, so if things go awry in my relationships I can quickly assess the situation and fix it. I like having the confidence that if all plates drop, I know how to start over. Sure it would've been nice if I discovered The Red Pill when … | /r/TheRedPill | 03/12/15 04:05 PM |
| 6 | Be a social dynamo so she doesn't have to beI'd say "Getting comfortable with the possibility of being rejected". When you stop overthinking it and just get yourself out there, the confidence shows through, you'll get more experience and will be more confident still. | /r/TheRedPill | 30/11/15 11:47 PM |
| 1 | Do Not Ask Women How They Feel; Tell ThemAgain, your mileage may vary, but I think you'll be pleasantly surprised. | /r/TheRedPill | 29/11/15 10:57 PM |
| 3 | Do Not Ask Women How They Feel; Tell ThemNope. Women are at their best in the 36 - 42 range. If you're reading this at 19 and are grossed out, I'm sorry but it's true. It was true when I was 22 and it's true at 58. Some have got enough mileage to be broken in, mostly over their own shit and can just relax and really, really enjoy themselves and you can both get what you need. Or they're permanently batshit and easy to spot. Your mileage may vary. | /r/TheRedPill | 29/11/15 06:05 PM |
| 8 | Do Not Ask Women How They Feel; Tell ThemThen told me he is looking for somebody who has a degree, career and mostly logical. They exist (at least in the sense that they could probably regurgitate a XOR table from memory, design a jet engine, succeed in financial trading, or diagnose an illness), but they're still a mess. Their walls still loom, they still live in the hive mind with their friends and the clock is still ticking. I have yet to meet many women who don't turn off their logic when they leave work and if you live long enough… | /r/TheRedPill | 29/11/15 05:52 PM |
| 11 | Found a quick way to shut down a shit-testerWell, I usually go on a second date and try again, and if I'm denied again I go radio silent. And guess what? That's when they get hold of me, out of the blue, suddenly ready to get boned. This. When I discovered this in college I thought I'd invented fire and apparently nothing has changed (this was in the 1980s). | /r/TheRedPill | 24/11/15 12:09 AM |
| 5 | Found a quick way to shut down a shit-testerAge 40 to 45 hardly could be called fertile years Don't bet the bank on that - a friend of mine had his first kid when his wife was 51. I can't imagine being spermjacked at 50-something, but the crazy selfishness of women knows no bounds. | /r/TheRedPill | 24/11/15 12:07 AM |
| 1 | CorporateLand: A Rat Race Survival Guide For New RatsWiFi, definitely - if you're going to watch midget tentacle porn, do it on your own platform/data. However, I've seen situations where the employee is either issued a phone or is required to have one accessible by the employer and the non-work stuff they do on it gets them in serious trouble. Also a "second line" on a given phone might not solve the problem - a separate device is better. | /r/TheRedPill | 19/11/15 08:26 PM |
| 2 | CorporateLand: A Rat Race Survival Guide For New RatsYou are absolutely correct in that, though if you find yourself dealing with such people a lot you may want to think about either who you are or what the heck you're doing there. | /r/TheRedPill | 18/11/15 08:44 PM |
| 5 | CorporateLand: A Rat Race Survival Guide For New RatsThree comments: Favors: Benjamin Franklin observed that if you ask someone in a higher position for a favor then repay it, they will be more likely to establish a civil, ongoing working relationship than the other way around. YMMV of course. Find TPWKWGO ("The Person Who Knows What's Going On"): Most set-function offices (eg. HR as given here but it could be payroll, logistics etc.) will have one person - often only one - who really knows what's going on. They'll know what the accounting rules a… | /r/TheRedPill | 18/11/15 02:55 PM |
| 5 | I encourage all of you to go find a picture of a gorgeous chick, make an OKC profile with it...make it sound realistic, and wait.::Leaning forward on walker and grabbing oxygen tank:: "Son, these used to be called 'internet inches' ... pity you whippersnappers never learned this..." |-1-|-2-|-3-|-4-|-5-|-6-|-7-|-8-|-9-| | /r/TheRedPill | 14/11/15 05:40 AM |
| 11 | FR: She cheats because she is bored.Men love what sluts do for them, not the sluts themselves. FTFY. | /r/TheRedPill | 09/11/15 02:13 PM |
| -2 | 44% of American adults will suffer from obesity by 2030From the data I've been able to find, using the metric that a BMI above 25 is overweight, and over 30 is obese, the statistic is closer to 50% for overweight and about 25% for obesity in both sexes. Data (pdf): www.cdc.gov/nchs/data/nhsr/nhsr010.pdf see tables 14 and 15. Standard My guess is that people will adapt...the whole BMI thing is historically rooted in military enlistees/college freshman data neither of which the general population will approximate. More than that, anything promoted by … | /r/TheRedPill | 06/11/15 11:07 PM |
| 2 | Do not be dragged down by women's passiveness.If if makes you feel any better, I was in the same position but she kept plowing money into professionally done improvements etc. in a market where this didn't improve the value of the house even a fraction of what those cost. I contributed "sweat equity" types of things (painting, finishing drywall, installing insulation etc). When push came to shove, I did some quick back-of-the-envelope calculations, and guesstimated that she was probably 100K in the hole for the stuff she'd done and would ne… | /r/TheRedPill | 28/10/15 08:54 PM |
| 1 | Surprise: Most women on OKCupid are fat sassy momsShe'll be the same one who's griping about what assholes all men are when said 22 year old bangs her and then disappears, too. | /r/TheRedPill | 21/09/15 01:20 PM |
| 3 | How To Be "Alpha" In The Male Social HierarchyDon't ever, ever interrupt someone when they're speaking. Serious question: What if they never stop talking? We all know people like this... | /r/TheRedPill | 21/09/15 04:05 AM |
| 3 | Law Enforcement Officers guide to dealing with womensome girls like super rough sex, some even get off by saying "no" but meaning "yes". If you encounter one run the other direction This. If she's into serious pain and injury you're dealing with someone with a head full of fire ants to begin with. It won't get better. If you must play dangerously, track everything, get a phone video of her begging for that conduct while sober and know that all of it won't wash away her accusations of abuse in a jury's eyes since it will then be an argument of "We… | /r/TheRedPill | 15/09/15 05:20 PM |
| 1 | Get off your phone. Master the art of conversation.If you obviously stop, put the phone away/turn off the monitor etc. then focus on them it's an unstated way of saying "You are important - you have my full attention". That alone will make them focus on you...unless they don't, in which case you know something about them. | /r/TheRedPill | 12/09/15 08:38 PM |
| 1 | Disturbing Social Trends Observed During Summer VacationI want a woman with long hair to run my fingers through and pull when I fucking her from behind. Or maybe an invitation to use a proper collar or scarf to pull on while fucking her from behind...that makes some of them nearly come before you start. | /r/TheRedPill | 24/08/15 02:18 AM |
| 2 | MoneyAgain, you have to go through the whole thing. Don't underestimate yourself if you haven't got much "work experience" - if you break down the skills sets you've been using at whatever you've been doing (drinking too much doesn't count) you'd be surprised what you find. It's super helpful to go into a job interview knowing what you're good at, who you like to work with and where you like to do it - at that point a job interview becomes you interviewing the company and that's a great feeling. | /r/TheRedPill | 23/07/15 03:40 PM |
| 9 | MoneyIf you really want to do the work, and you have to do the work, get a copy of "What Color Is My Parachute" - the 2016 edition should be out soon...and do the work. You go through what your real skills are (not the labels, the actual skills), where you like to work (geographically and situationally) and with whom. Then it's how to find the situations where you're most needed since the people who need you usually are so overloaded they don't have time to look. The answer you get may surprise you s… | /r/TheRedPill | 21/07/15 09:24 PM |
| 22 | Sex Positivity Does Nothing For Men.Like most things, the minute you clearly define "bad" (no PIV sex before marriage) then everything else is "not-bad" which rapidly becomes "good". This is a very human trait, whether you're dealing with religious dogma or political contributions. | /r/TheRedPill | 21/07/15 03:24 PM |
| 6 | Sex Positivity Does Nothing For Men.Those girls' numbers are always 0, no matter what their number really is. | /r/TheRedPill | 21/07/15 02:24 PM |
| 23 | Sex Positivity Does Nothing For Men.It's called relativism and is the underpinning of how modern marketing keeps women of all ages furiously spending someone else's money. | /r/TheRedPill | 21/07/15 02:17 PM |
| 1 | Post asks women how their SO reacted to their 'high' sexual partner count. The responses are priceless."About" means "much higher" - women always round down. Tell her you're not over sex for its own sake, you have no wish to be part of the 1/3% and wish her good luck in her future endeavors. | /r/TheRedPill | 21/07/15 02:10 AM |
| 28 | Thoughts on the Ashley Madison hack, "37m cheaters exposed."That would scuttle the whole SJW thrust of the data attack...God forbid it should show women as anything but innocent victims of paternalist aggression. Next they'll say there's gluten in it. | /r/TheRedPill | 21/07/15 01:44 AM |
| 36 | Thoughts on the Ashley Madison hack, "37m cheaters exposed.""If you think this is a crime against women, why are the most clients women? Because the women aren't clients, they're employees or profit-sharing subscribers. Follow the monetization of the site...many are making money by being there - there was a posting by a girl who paid her way through college on AM simply on the kickbacks from the site and who never went out with any of the clients. Lawsuit by woman who allegedly created thousands of profiles for cash: http://www.vice.com/read/a-woman-is-s… | /r/TheRedPill | 21/07/15 01:03 AM |
| 38 | Post asks women how their SO reacted to their 'high' sexual partner count. The responses are priceless.Protip: If she asks for your number, hers is low (usually less than 10-12 at middle age). Also if she asks "How she feels down there compared to the rest of the girls you've been with" (it happens). If she doesn't it doesn't necessarily mean that it's high, but it's more likely. If she seems annoyed at the concept or just lays it out there ("I've been around"), she doesn't want to tell you how high it is. Protection is mandatory. If she tells you "I've done it all and I'm not someone you want in… | /r/TheRedPill | 19/07/15 05:56 PM |
| 1 | "The RP Guide to Defeating the Enemy: Mindset"Very well done. I've been looking into how current popular culture, driven by advertising and consumer-targeting, promotes impulsive "feel good" spending, particularly by women (at the expense of thoughtful spenders - men - who are shown as being passive and stupid). I think that much of the mindset that you write about is mirrored and promoted in our media images because it's so incredibly profitable. | /r/TheRedPill | 17/07/15 12:08 AM |
| 7 | #1 on the front page: The elephant in the room has been mentioned.So what happens if Josie puts her finger or a sex-toy in Jake's no-no place. Isn't that mutual sexual penetration? | /r/TheRedPill | 11/07/15 12:59 PM |
| 2 | Spun Plates. Got Herpes.Then there's serious protection. | /r/TheRedPill | 08/07/15 04:27 AM |
| 14 | Do not rely on women to empathize with you in professional matters.Tl;dr "Don't rely on women." | /r/TheRedPill | 07/07/15 05:14 PM |
| 20 | FYI - There is an organization fighting Higher Ed totalitarianismI think I'm going to go with Occam's Razor instead: HR departments are busy covering their ass, teachers are busy hating their students and covering their ass, and heads of departments are busy hating faculty and students, covering their ass and balancing budgets. There's darn little thinking (rather than reacting to either moderate or to prevent bad press) which is the real problem rather than a deep, carefully considered (and time-consuming) ideology. | /r/TheRedPill | 07/07/15 05:13 PM |
| 3 | The "You're gay" shit testChoose your battles (I was dealing with complete jerk) - but if things have gotten that far, shit-test them back. Riposte: "That's 'unshackled'...and I really enjoy it" Or: "You say that like it's a bad thing" Or: "And you're that way because....?" Consider the mindset they have - "You're nobody unless you're with somebody." Any other way of thinking is beyond their comprehension and this is your advantage. Also, if being single is an affront to them, they're probably out to do something about i… | /r/TheRedPill | 30/06/15 06:12 PM |
| 15 | The "You're gay" shit testOne of the best burns ever to a total bitch: "Are you gay?" "If you're the alternative, I just might start to go that way..." Walk away, alpha as fuck. Epilogue: Her friends (who thought she was a jerk too) heard this and I wound up with one of them who wasn't a total asshole. ~~~~~~~~~~~~~ Edit: If it matters, this stems from a quote I read though I can't remember the source: "Are you a homosexual?" "Are you the alternative?" | /r/TheRedPill | 30/06/15 11:13 AM |
| 1 | First weekend as a bouncerI used to sub for friends in a college town. Wait'll you have to deal with mom's weekend. Hint: Card them. Seriously. Then tell them you have to with anyone that looks like they're under 30...if nothing else everyone gets a laugh out of it. And have someplace to meet them since they may or may not have a hotel room. | /r/TheRedPill | 29/06/15 08:20 PM |
| 1 | You might never get your revengeOr just become someone attractive and ripped enough so you become "the one that got away" in her mind. Here's the problem. You'll be the one who was "insensitive" or "uncommitted" or "emotionally abusive" or some other label that allows them to write you off in front of their friends. "In her own mind" doesn't count as much as the hive mind of her clan. | /r/TheRedPill | 29/06/15 06:39 PM |
| 5 | You have a sexual relationship with your smart phone and your computer and it's killing your desire to pursue women.Had some of that after surgery...not only will you not finish, you'll not remember starting and...what were we talking about? | /r/TheRedPill | 26/06/15 06:26 PM |
| 3 | [FR] Fighter GirlsThis can also serve as a test of what sort of girl she is. Dated someone for a while, who was a "champion" Tae Kwon Do fighter but when I sparred with her a bit I found that she was the sort who memorized things perfectly but absolutely couldn't think on her feet. This carried over to other things. Next. | /r/TheRedPill | 26/06/15 06:22 PM |
| 66 | Interesting conversation with my 87 year old grandfather about working women, and why they will never be satisfied."Don't try to understand women - women understand women and they all hate each other." (variously attributed) | /r/TheRedPill | 24/06/15 06:30 PM |
| 7 | Girl on TwoXChromosomes continues hooking up with "an inconsiderate, disgusting douchebag" for 3 years straight. Hamsters ahoy!Sounds like she had help - possibly one of her orbiters. | /r/TheRedPill | 23/06/15 11:28 AM |
| 1 | Divorce: She Gets Half His StuffAnother story for the files: Guy gets hosed and divorce is pending. He knows he's about to get seriously fucked in court since she's pressing for half his income plus a bunch of other physical assets and talks to his lawyer. She (thinking like a woman) says "what have you always wanted to do with your life?". "Sell yachts and give massages to rich women". She says - "do it...and go broke". He quits his job (engineering management - six figures in aerospace) and does exactly that. In court his la… | /r/TheRedPill | 19/06/15 01:08 PM |
| 25 | Cheating wife tells her lover (me) how loyal she REALLY is.OP's married fucktoy is banking on this - the costs of her husband kicking her to the curb are likely so high he puts up with it all. What hubby doesn't know is that the liberation would be worth every penny. | /r/TheRedPill | 19/06/15 12:29 PM |
| 7 | The women seeking rich older men to pay their university feesYou have to factor power/visibility into this as well - a man in an influential or popular position will have his choice of higher-income women. Alpha isn't only about money. | /r/TheRedPill | 17/06/15 03:53 PM |
| 8 | AWALT - Why Women Fuck Alpha Chad, as explained by House, M.DHave dated female physicians/surgeons - they were middle-schoolers emotionally (and well above the age of consent, you pervs) but with advanced degrees, a lot of money and a strong notion of entitlement. | /r/TheRedPill | 15/06/15 05:35 PM |
| 2 | Chad Thundercock succeeds at online dating.32 - 36 has always been my preferred age range. Old enough to know what they're doing, to be past the BS and ready to go. Worked at 21 and still works at 58. | /r/TheRedPill | 10/06/15 02:43 AM |
| 1 | Ask a veteran consumer behavior researcher anything.If you're desperate and near a university you may be able to get into the databases there, though a logon might be necessary. There's an ugly and persistent rumor that consultants buy adjunct professorships via large donations just for data/library access here since it would be a net savings. | /r/TheRedPill | 09/06/15 05:46 PM |
| 3 | Chad Thundercock succeeds at online dating.If you're past the age of abs (yes, it will eventually happen), having a strong statement about your intellectual interests, great career and outside pursuits (make sure these actually happen outside - sailing, rock climbing, mountaineering etc.) will do pretty well, though you should keep lifting so that when you do meet she'll know you for the beast you've always been. Works like magic though you have to sift through a lot of serious nut cases, ticking clocks and the like unless you're still t… | /r/TheRedPill | 09/06/15 09:21 AM |
| 6 | Chad Thundercock succeeds at online dating.Go to the local fabric store and get a bunch of "tieback cord" or "twist cord" - not only will you have it tonight, every girl in the store (that is, everyone there) will be wondering what you'll be doing with it. Smile knowingly - or get their numbers. Bonus Round: Get a color that matches/compliments your sheets or makes some indication that you didn't just point and grunt "Me want pretty rope" - it'll make you look like a pro. Double Bonus: Be sure you get paraffin candles rather than beeswax… | /r/TheRedPill | 09/06/15 09:17 AM |
| 0 | Chad Thundercock succeeds at online dating.They have these things called "hotels". | /r/TheRedPill | 09/06/15 09:08 AM |
| 2 | Women's reality is defined by their emotional state: Emma Sulkowicz carries her mattress to graduationIt was so long ago, I can't really remember. I don't watch a lot of TV so it may have been PBS (frontline(?)), but the interviews were striking. | /r/TheRedPill | 20/05/15 08:39 PM |
| 16 | Women's reality is defined by their emotional state: Emma Sulkowicz carries her mattress to graduationSimple, really: Women have a solopsist / relativist perspective: Everything relates to how I feel/think at the moment for whatever reason, and the world should suck it up and honor that. Because that's how I feel, of course. Because of relativism, anything you make up - often as a result of social pressures and advertising - goes and is the reality of the moment. There is no social contract beyond this. Because of the lack of social contract and its obligations, you never have to pay your own ta… | /r/TheRedPill | 20/05/15 01:55 AM |
| 44 | "Poker with Black Widows"This one ain't playin' kickball. People like that aren't the other team, they're enemy soldiers - emotional thugs. Given half a chance, she'll beat you, leave you bleeding and curse you for being weak enough to be conquered. She's Anton Chigurh with tits. Remember that when she turns up again, as I think she will. Arrogance is its own weakness and you're playing hers pretty well...so far. Fuck her, but never, ever turn your back on her. | /r/TheRedPill | 11/05/15 10:18 PM |
| 3 | "Poker with Black Widows"Deep essays are a waste of time and make you sound like you haven't got anything else going on. On the other hand, literate indications of why I might be interesting - written in complete sentences - worked out very well for me. Possibly because so few others bother. And the filter thing saved me a lot of time. Probably not for the Tinder/ "What uP Gurl!" universe, but then I'm older. | /r/TheRedPill | 11/05/15 09:22 PM |
| 0 | "Poker with Black Widows"It is enormously successful for men who write well. It's also a good filter - I had any number of women say "I'm going to need a dictionary to talk to you". Next. | /r/TheRedPill | 11/05/15 08:47 PM |
| 8 | "Poker with Black Widows"This. I'll bet she'll be back -- and more than once. | /r/TheRedPill | 11/05/15 08:41 PM |
| 56 | "Poker with Black Widows"“the coldest man she’d ever met” Take that as a compliment, a sign of professional respect - she's obviously a stone-cold manipulator. You had your fun and you're well rid of her. And don't feel bad about the final stab - I'm sure she either has done or will do much worse to some poor bastard. | /r/TheRedPill | 11/05/15 08:39 PM |
| 4 | The Best Sex She EVER HadOr that you're about to be fucked good yourself - hot chicks can play the money/status game like no other. | /r/TheRedPill | 06/05/15 09:17 PM |
| 12 | The Uncanny Valley between Alpha and Beta MHere's the zen thing about it - the essence of Alpha is not pretending. Even if you aren't the Perfect Bro, you'll do fine so long as you're comfortable in your own skin. You'll do great if you have a sense of humor about yourself. The harder you try to fake it, the more fake it looks and the worse you'll do. Doesn't matter if you're after pussy or a paycheck. You should be on a continuous path of self-improvement instead of putting a fake personality together because you don't think you're perf… | /r/TheRedPill | 06/05/15 02:31 PM |
| 7 | Women are like BowlingWhat's the difference between a girl and a bowling ball? The third hole is much closer. | /r/TheRedPill | 01/05/15 02:30 PM |
| 12 | The source of your power stems from the ability to walk awayThis is true of any negotiation, which relationships are (and the reverse is true as well). What you're doing is ridding yourself of "anchoring" - the idea that your world's values are fixed to some point or person, usually encountered early on. Salespeople do this all the time - "Here's a cheap car that's....okayyyy, but for just a few dollars more you can have this deluxe model". The cognitive bias is that the first is cheap and thus the next one is a bargain, while the first model might have … | /r/TheRedPill | 29/04/15 09:03 PM |
| 130 | Lesson learned: If a woman asks how much you make, break it off ASAP.This often goes hand in hand, though not so much a moron and more the opportunist. Telling women you're not made of money is a pretty good filter for the lazy and the gold-diggers (to paraphrase Machiavelli: "You won't go broke maintaining a reputation as a person of careful expenditure"). I've seen some otherwise-brilliant women play this game (the standard motto is "You can marry more in five minutes than you can earn in 50 years"). Of course then they complain about being oppressed and having… | /r/TheRedPill | 28/04/15 01:47 PM |
| 13 | Sometimes, when people get upset at you, it means you're on the right trackThere's an advantage to having people be upset with you. My late brother in law told a story about going shopping with his dad for a new car when he was little. His dad kept asking annoying questions, bringing up little details etc. etc. until the salesman was about to boil over. When the salesman went "to look up some numbers" my brother in law said "Dad, you made him really mad", to which his father replied "Yes, exactly the way I want him". The salesman came back and was worn down further as … | /r/TheRedPill | 26/04/15 03:51 PM |
| 2 | Improve your voice!This is what we all do, though most of us don't acknowledge it. Copy machine in the office doesn't work quite right? "You load the paper in the top tray only and mind the trolls". Can't bleed down the brakes for that `96 Windstar that's over your head in Bay #3 dripping oil right now? "Let me show you this trick I learned". With the internet and specialty interest forums, you can find out how to do other amazing things - I keep an aging Jeep on the road thanks to a couple of them. There's a RP m… | /r/TheRedPill | 24/04/15 01:07 PM |
| 3 | Improve your voice!You are correct and it is amazing. I actually like operatic singing in small doses but absolutely cannot sit through an entire performance, much less the pretension that goes around the whole Opera Crowd (not the Oprah crowd). That said, choral concerts are amazing and I do go to a few of those. | /r/TheRedPill | 24/04/15 12:53 PM |
| 25 | Girl forgets to lie about her n-count, makes lame attempt to reduce number, shows AWALT.There's a trick that's missing here - waiting for her to ask you. I've found that if she asks you, her number is usually less than ~10 or so and numbers matter to her still. If she never brings it up, then she's hoping you never do. The fun part is that I've run into women who are straight up about it ("I've been around" etc.) and they're the best if that's what you want. No illusions and everybody knows what they're there for. | /r/TheRedPill | 24/04/15 04:12 AM |
| 3 | fucking married womenThis. Be forewarned. I ran into this once - hot, married babe and I hooked up for months, then I nexted her and her husband "took her back" (as if she'd ever left) after I disagreed most strongly with her wanting to branch over to me. Weirded me out until I saw what they were up to - he's a cuck, and dug it that he's boning me second-hand, and she's a playa who gets nailed on the side and her betamax hubby paying the bills. Ugh. I just pity the next poor bastard. I'm not sure what the existentia… | /r/TheRedPill | 24/04/15 04:02 AM |
| 22 | Improve your voice!Mostly get some coaching. Think about it - operas have always been sung without amplification, and whether or not you like opera (I'm not a great fan), they have a hellish voice skills. The difference? Practice and technique helping to maximize their own voice, mostly. I lecture a lot and do some narration (on-campus educational videos - nothing anyone's likely to see) but was getting very hoarse doing it. Spent $15 for a half-hour with a voice instructor in the music school and she showed me ho… | /r/TheRedPill | 24/04/15 02:13 AM |
| 0 | "You missed out"I gave a fuck about sex, but was socially clueless - that goes away in time for most people as it did for me. The early bloomers? They've got alimony, child support and other miseries. Me? A "high number", a happy marriage and a knowing smile. It's the long game that counts, no matter how frustrated you get. | /r/TheRedPill | 19/04/15 08:33 PM |
| 6 | My Omega to AF TRP year.The best part of it is that once you have all that, you can finally enjoy LIFE. This. Welcome back from the darkness. Your life becomes your own when you declare it to be your life, on your terms - not a public opinion poll. | /r/TheRedPill | 17/04/15 04:47 PM |
| 3 | My Ex Gf pulled the pregnancy cardThis looks like a classic spot for the best parting shot of all time: "Honey, you're not pretty enough to be THAT stupid..." | /r/TheRedPill | 17/04/15 04:17 AM |
| 2 | My university just passed a new policy.Publications and other mailings from the UK often have a huge choice of titles - my mailbox is full of things to Lord Heinous Fu_kery, The Right Reverend etc. I should insist on them at work too. | /r/TheRedPill | 15/04/15 10:00 PM |
| 27 | Stop being a Good Little BoyThis is gold - and I agree with most of the comments so far, but I think there's an important distinction to be made: Good Boy, Bad Boy and Manhood. Good Boy is the obedient son, the good student, the genteel suitor as described and is not well served in the "real world" beyond childhood. Bad Boy is the rebellion against that first phase - the bad boy, the dropout, the rude jerk, the irresponsible child...again, as described. The reward is the illusion of freedom by acting out, and the occasiona… | /r/TheRedPill | 13/04/15 02:20 PM |
| 71 | Changes I have noticed since I stopped fapping and porn and started visiting prostitutes.When asked "Why would a man like you, who could have any woman he wanted, pay for sex?", Errol Flynn (allegedly) replied "I don't pay them for sex, I pay them to go away afterwards." | /r/TheRedPill | 12/04/15 01:21 AM |
| 31 | The Friendzone is an InsultI prefer the fuck-hate. Makes getting them to leave so much easier. | /r/TheRedPill | 12/04/15 01:19 AM |
| 5 | Practice somewhere else.A jeep with the top down ain't bad either... | /r/TheRedPill | 07/04/15 08:44 PM |
| 2 | Practice somewhere else.SOP is "100 miles from the flagpole" for various indiscretions and misdemeanors. I live in a rural area and have found that 40 - 50 will do for the central Midwest. If you're in the Missouri Breaks (or the Outback of Oz) somewhere, it may be a good deal farther. | /r/TheRedPill | 07/04/15 08:42 PM |
| 12 | Some reflections after 3 months of spinning plates for the first time after my divorceI went through this about 15 years older than you (maybe a dozen years ago) and is one of the reasons I check in here from time to time since there wasn't any canonical wisdom of RP to find at the time... I had to figure it out the hard way. Wound up banging women from Capetown to Kotzebue - lots of crazy out there but in my older age bracket, lots fewer ticking clocks and more straight-up "let's do this". Some observations: Women are mammals too - they do all kinds of crazy shit, but they need … | /r/TheRedPill | 07/04/15 01:25 PM |
| 3 | Thirst can play tricks on the mind - even the hard core playersHe was lucky never to have gotten arrested. Most people that sell drugs at that level get arrested and that ruins your life pretty much. Funny that he'd be savvy enough to keep the right cops paid off (how it worked where I grew up) and not see how, because of his own wounds, he couldn't turn the shit tests around by finding another girl (and, of course, bringing the philandering father issue up). She knew that. | /r/TheRedPill | 05/04/15 05:40 PM |
| 9 | [FR] How I *accidentally* turned my ex-gf into a FB"Old lovers are like old shoes - they're really comfortable, but pretty soon you notice the smell" | /r/TheRedPill | 19/03/15 10:09 PM |
| 15 | I've slowly watched my divorced co-worker become red pill in front of my eyes.Perhaps she was spending his cake and having her pie eaten too. | /r/TheRedPill | 18/03/15 03:13 AM |
| 37 | I've slowly watched my divorced co-worker become red pill in front of my eyes.She was likely already doing that - the alpha/beta thing, right? | /r/TheRedPill | 17/03/15 04:50 PM |
| 1 | The Rational MindAbsolutely. Oh, and put the screen down and talk to one another once in a while, willya?? | /r/TheRedPill | 17/03/15 12:50 AM |
| 3 | The Rational MindI'm going to argue for balance here. I do research, a bit of coding and a lot of writing and couldn't do nearly as much without a lot of connectivity and resources. I think that you also have to turn it all off and digest what you're working on, or you'll just be a hollow conduit of others' thinking and not really adding value. | /r/TheRedPill | 16/03/15 04:01 AM |
| 1 | "Can I make it?"I got this and although it gave me pause, it seemed a little too pat (or maybe too tragic)...something...so I just let it be. Here's the RP board post (same content as the Email). Nothing I can add to the advice he's gotten already. | /r/TheRedPill | 11/03/15 08:21 PM |
| 7 | 70% of men aged 20-34 aren't married. 50% never willThey'll be left helpless as they watch their looks fade, the attention they used to receive dwindle to trickle, as they pop anti-anxiety and antidepressants down their pelican gullets while reminiscing about their golden days and finally coming to terms that they are nothing more than a shell of their former self. The solution seems simple. Find women who don't depend on their looks and who are responsible for their own lives and their own states of mind. Hint: they won't be the hootchie chicks … | /r/TheRedPill | 10/03/15 12:45 PM |
| 1 | As a man you can never 'own' someone else's accomplishments or wealth. Thats what separates the sex's, we only get what we earn.I think you're right - he'd have been a great corporate sales guy or something similar. | /r/TheRedPill | 09/03/15 07:44 PM |
| 1 | As a man you can never 'own' someone else's accomplishments or wealth. Thats what separates the sex's, we only get what we earn.Bush has been described as very bright but being scornful of contemplative consideration (to paraphrase the Times article) and although he might have wound up being a very good counterperson, history is full of bright, energetic young men that don't become president for the lack of the political dynasty to support them and the inside track to societies like Skull and Bones, all of which speaks to my point of familial connections over intrinsic qualifications. | /r/TheRedPill | 09/03/15 02:57 PM |
| 8 | [Slight FR] My oh my, women have a skewed perception on "average".Everyone has a dream. Women like that hold men responsible for making their delusional aspirations happen, complain that they're repressed and "held back" if it does (since it wasn't their doing and they feel disconnected from the process), and complain that the man is inadequate if it doesn't (since they weren't involved in the failure and therefore it wasn't their fault). The issue isn't peasants and queens, but princesses. | /r/TheRedPill | 09/03/15 10:30 AM |
| 8 | "You make me feel important."The best way to demonstrate value is simply to have enough going on in your life - friends, other interests, career success, other prospects, social and political connections - that you can walk away, that your life is so "abundant" with other things that you're not anchored to anyone, no matter how appealing. This kind of fullness-of-life can't be hidden. | /r/TheRedPill | 08/03/15 11:09 PM |
| 16 | As a man you can never 'own' someone else's accomplishments or wealth. Thats what separates the sex's, we only get what we earn.Actually men inherit familial wealth and status (though some of those turn out to be dimwits), and it's a better predictor of future success than simple effort or education, though the best predictor seem to be cognitive control which is "frame" in a more general way. I think George W. Bush would be manning a gas checkout counter (badly) somewhere if it weren't for his family. | /r/TheRedPill | 07/03/15 06:33 PM |
| 2 | Violence in lesbian relationships is higher than heterosexual relationships.Since phones are simply computers, you should be able to run a VM type arrangement with no easy evidence in the main device - something like this though I've never tried it, and there are enhanced locking system - again, I've never tried this. That said, if you're a playa, you're just going to have to make a hasty exit from time to time (voice of experience here)...just be glad you have all your parts intact. | /r/TheRedPill | 06/03/15 07:35 PM |
| 7 | Violence in lesbian relationships is higher than heterosexual relationships.I found that the best solution is to look them straight in the eye and say "Do you really want to go there with me? I've never had a woman take it any farther (I'm a big guy), but I'm always prepared to walk permanently if they do. As John Barrymore said "The way to fight a woman is with your hat. Grab it and leave." | /r/TheRedPill | 06/03/15 05:46 PM |
| 11 | Violence in lesbian relationships is higher than heterosexual relationships.This sounds like "the biggest/meanest one" to me rather than "male". Plenty of ladies around here heavier and nastier looking than me. (No, I'm not about to go to California to try it all out) | /r/TheRedPill | 06/03/15 05:40 PM |
| 13 | 100,000Perfect. Women have often told me that men should be "more sensitive", more "sharing" and should "evolve". (Into what?) At that point I tell them that women are socialized to be normative in a group ("We're all equal here, right?"), then compete for status - usually by "stabbing each other in the back instead of coming at them head-on" ¹. Men are socialized to explicitly strive for status and will, in time, find groups and friends while doing so ². At that point, the discussion goes back to comp… | /r/TheRedPill | 04/03/15 02:48 PM |
| 1 | Quick-and-dirty tips and tricks for aspiring alphasAnd bug netting if you're not from a dry/bugless climate. Some places you can wake up nearly exsanguinated and certainly miserable from insect bites. | /r/TheRedPill | 04/03/15 01:58 PM |
| 55 | Quick-and-dirty tips and tricks for aspiring alphas"Avoid trails, climb mountains, get lost, take some risks. If this seems unnecessary or dangerous, you are still psychologically a child." I'm all for this, but if you REALLY have no clue in the great outdoors, start small or get some help. Read up, find a club/outing/REI...anything to not start from zero. All those movies about clueless people in the wilderness have a real-world equivalent. It's okay to goof up, but don't make your first trip up Denali solo or something really dumb. Every year … | /r/TheRedPill | 03/03/15 11:16 PM |
| 6 | [FR] They will attack you at any chance they getMoral: Phone, with files saved online (off the phone*) AND police. Women are used to being taken at their word no matter how delusional or self-flattering, but that doesn't stand up to cold, hard evidence. Also, lock your doors. Next crowd that jumps in may be a lot more serious. *Dropbox is good since even if the phone is taken and the files deleted from there, you can get at them through the web site via "Show Deleted Files" ... serious backups with that service. | /r/TheRedPill | 03/03/15 04:27 PM |
| 6 | It's Just (Post wall women ) LunchLike this - fascinating. | /r/TheRedPill | 26/02/15 03:56 AM |
| 2 | [Venting] Equality...yeah, sure, you broads are so equal now that according to the passport office I'm a probable child abductorThis was in Michigan some years ago - I don't live there now. Probably most anyone working in one of those offices is thinking "I don't get paid enough to get in the middle of this!" | /r/TheRedPill | 24/02/15 11:16 PM |
| 3 | [Venting] Equality...yeah, sure, you broads are so equal now that according to the passport office I'm a probable child abductorSee my post about getting title to a car in this thread - probably no different. | /r/TheRedPill | 24/02/15 03:41 PM |
| 26 | [Venting] Equality...yeah, sure, you broads are so equal now that according to the passport office I'm a probable child abductorHere's a good illustration of the same thing: I was at the Secretary of State's office getting some car paperwork taken care of and as I walked in, I noticed a Volvo station wagon packed to the gills with what was obviously someone's complete belongings - didn't have that "I live in my car" look, but more "I'm moving"; absolutely packed and a luggage pod bulging at the seams on the roof. A couple of kids in the back in car seats. I'm in the office and I notice the car owner at the window next to… | /r/TheRedPill | 24/02/15 03:36 PM |
| 8 | The only fear I have about getting older as a man.I have found that some of the benefits I had back in my school days are no longer around. I have more responsibilities, it is much harder to meet people, wild and crazy parties are almost impossible to come across, and women for the most part have grown out of the hook up culture wanting something more serious now....Instead of exploring their sexuality like girls did back in college, they now want a provider and are using every trick in the book to lure you into committing to them for the long … | /r/TheRedPill | 23/02/15 02:42 AM |
| 5 | A Tale of Training Butts and Crabby Bucket SlutsRelevant | /r/TheRedPill | 22/02/15 02:45 AM |
| 3 | The Data-Driven Blue Pill Predator: Amy Webb talks about hacking internet dating, setting up bogus sites to see what men click on and then the rating system she used to find her husband.Yeah, edited that to make it clearer. Thanks. | /r/TheRedPill | 20/02/15 04:00 AM |
| 15 | The value of non-complianceTruth. Step out of the game and you're the victor. My wife (whom I would never sell nor... consume) was having a bad moment and started to shit-test me, basically getting mad at anything I said to her. I stood up from the couch, said "it's pretty obvious you just want to find a reason to start a fight or make yourself miserable, and I'm not going to play games like that -- I'll be in my office" and went off to get some work done. I've not had a problem with her since. Motto: When you start playi… | /r/TheRedPill | 20/02/15 03:50 AM |
| 33 | Man paying 30k for someone else's childFunny that the judges in these things are usually women... | /r/TheRedPill | 20/02/15 03:40 AM |
| 2 | You are going to slip and fall right into a comfortable sofa. Get the hell back up.Do what you can, where you are, with what you have. Lungs clogged up and can't run? Lift. Can't lift? Swim. Can't swim? get on a bike/trainer. You don't have to go full tilt if you're really messed up but do something and you'll feel better and you'll be off the couch. There is a limit to this - if you have symptoms of things like pneumonia/serious infection/illness etc. get to the f**king doctor and get after it (voice of experience ... not worth toughing it out if you're not going to get bette… | /r/TheRedPill | 18/02/15 08:29 PM |
| 2 | Game Cheat SheetI'm going to second this from experience. Since RP loves acronyms, how about "GOT" - Get Out There? Each area, situation and population will have its nuances and you just can't ride the rote scripture through that stuff. You'll quickly find what doesn't work (hint: if "Hey sugar, wanna lock hocks and make gravy?" ever does work, you'll regret it in the morning). You can't shortcut experience, good and bad. Edit: Check out another post - http://www.reddit.com/r/TheRedPill/comments/2vxluj/on_the_c… | /r/TheRedPill | 15/02/15 04:56 AM |
| 6 | Man wins right to sue rape-accuser for defamation after he was cleared of rape charges.This will be worth watching and will likely not produce a global sea-change in the way that these false allegations are handled since the accuser is a minor, and the evidential procedures are a bit tangled. Definitely a step in the right direction, though. | /r/TheRedPill | 13/02/15 06:47 PM |
| 3 | Topping from the Bottom – 50 Shades of GreyThis, though start with gentle spanks first (think of porn-flick ass slaps) ... you'll know if she wants to get serious. Use some of her own things to restrain her - a long scarf is a blindfold, with a simple double overhand knot it becomes a gag. If you have any sailing friends (or a bit of cash) get some double braided line which has a soft cover - run it through the washing machine a couple of times to soften it up (use a chain knot to prevent tangling) - wonderful stuff for tying to the beds… | /r/TheRedPill | 09/02/15 10:54 PM |
| 1 | Turned 31 few minutes ago; no cake for me, just the pill (rant)Do exactly that - it's the first step to being unique. I wound up in the same place in my mid-40s and made the decision to go out and get a life and not be limited by other people's expectations and ridiculous mindsets. You'll spend a few lonely moments but the tradeoff is that you've sloughed off the detritus of parasitic people and lockstep conformity, and will have some truly amazing times and experiences. When you and your real friends - you'll have them in time - are telling tall tales abou… | /r/TheRedPill | 09/02/15 02:28 PM |
| 8 | FR: When in doubt, just fucking escalateFrom a female friend: "Men know they want to go to bed with a woman as soon as they meet them, and women wait about 30 seconds longer than that." No point in not escalating so long as you're reasonably tactful - you're just wasting time on pointless formalities after a while. | /r/TheRedPill | 02/02/15 11:11 PM |
| 8 | Learn from older menAlso, if you're an older man, opine. Share what you've learned. It's easy to simply repeat "pump iron, slam chicks that you meet in the bar" until you believe it - if you're barely of legal drinking age. Threading your way through a larger world (family, work and the like) is much more complex and difficult and we've been there. As an older man (57) who found his own way through much of the path that RP advocates without any formal terminology or method I've both encountered things that the cano… | /r/TheRedPill | 30/01/15 01:53 PM |
| 8 | [FR] LTR shit tests and treating her like a childIn reading the comments, there needs to be some comment made about the sunk cost fallacy in a deal like this. You've got four years into this thing, and she's acting up knowing full well that most people will have passed the point of no return and won't torpedo that kind of time "investment" for minor squabbles...that continue...until control is whittled away and you return...to beta. These have been parts of a long-game shit test, and my guess is that it's just starting. Don't be most people. O… | /r/TheRedPill | 29/01/15 04:42 AM |
| 20 | Women and the Art of LyingWomen socialize to be "normative", that is to be roughly equal within a group, while men socialize to be dominant in some way, that is singular in a group. Nearly everything else follows from this, not the least being dishonesty/gossip/backstabbing which is a way to fight your way to the top while appearing to be one of the girls, outstanding among equals. Guys duke it out in a more forthright manner most of the time, and learn to appear singular instead. This, of course, brands us as "unevolved… | /r/TheRedPill | 28/01/15 08:37 PM |
| 2 | "It was like sex with a friend" #struggleneverdiesPalahniuk knows his way around damaged characters pretty well cf: "Choke". | /r/TheRedPill | 27/01/15 03:30 PM |
| 7 | Womens unreasonable fury and how it links many concepts on here, from shit tests to divorce rape.Of course. And dealt with green-skinned babes. | /r/TheRedPill | 27/01/15 04:41 AM |
| 3 | How to be happy alone and not seek validation through womenGive something away. Part of my job is teaching and it's great therapy - stage time, mentoring time, helping time. All the energy that I put into it comes back many times over. | /r/TheRedPill | 26/01/15 09:11 PM |
| 9 | "It was like sex with a friend" #struggleneverdiesAnybody that fucks to not feel dead inside is truly messed up and is nobody you want to share a time zone with. Don't be insulted, be grateful. It's not unlikely she was baiting you, in her own fucked up way, to come back and "prove yourself". | /r/TheRedPill | 26/01/15 09:07 PM |
| 14 | Womens unreasonable fury and how it links many concepts on here, from shit tests to divorce rape.Dont' forget Kirk's law: If you're in a tight spot, change the rules (I made that up, but it works). Women who invent tirades and offenses? Don't deal with them, and for God's sake don't enable or ennoble them. Keep your cool/"frame" and let them self-destruct. Not your problem - and you're better off without them. How do you tell if that's what's going on? Like any conflict or negotiation if you're getting angry, you're about to lose, so change the game. It's up to you. | /r/TheRedPill | 26/01/15 09:03 PM |
| 3 | Sports team captain, ripped, good looking, glittering military career, new job as a stockbroker - STILL BLUE PILL ... dumpedNorfolk WillFuck (Pronounced "Nawfawk willfawk") | /r/TheRedPill | 26/01/15 08:55 PM |
| 7 | Sports team captain, ripped, good looking, glittering military career, new job as a stockbroker - STILL BLUE PILL ... dumpedFiscal responsibility. I mean if we're doing fiction here... | /r/TheRedPill | 26/01/15 08:52 PM |
| 3 | Is the pursuit of 9's and 10's for an LTR is a horribly bad idea?This should be "stickied" into the subreddit main menu: Wife Zone Chart Describes the hot/crazy tradeoff, girlfriend, wife and "unicorn" territory. With graphs. | /r/TheRedPill | 25/01/15 11:03 PM |
| 4 | Women behaving like childrenHow do you think 85% of homes are sold? Bathrooms, landscaping and kitchens. Why? They're not writing the checks, and "plumbing", "wiring" and "dry rot repair" aren't part of their makeup kits and something you find a guy to do for you. This is actually a pretty good litmus test for someone - if you can take them shopping and they don't act like this, there's a chance they can see past cosmetics and marketing and you may have a winner. | /r/TheRedPill | 24/01/15 08:05 PM |
| 9 | Women behaving like childrenFlies, floats, fucks or foals....stay away from horses too. | /r/TheRedPill | 24/01/15 08:02 PM |
| 7 | Good news everyone, I am NOT the Father.Yep, though it will vary depending on state. The usual justification is something like "to provide financial support for the child while they grow up" - roughly the "deep pockets" argument. Google around if you want to find others. | /r/TheRedPill | 24/01/15 07:59 PM |
| 7 | Good news everyone, I am NOT the Father."Father" in her mind apparently means "Deep Pockets". Good thing you weren't married since child support is often demanded of non-fathers in divorces; I've had friends hosed this way. The accusation of "cheating" was the first key. It was essentially responding to an issue that hadn't been on the table. | /r/TheRedPill | 24/01/15 03:11 AM |
| 7 | "I love it when you pick me up."It's not height, it's attitude. I'm 6'4" and learned early in High School not to mess with the shorter guys in wrestling. They don't have height, they have leverage. Work with it rather than being discouraged about it - if you shoulders are higher than her hips you can hoist her. | /r/TheRedPill | 22/01/15 08:40 PM |
| 13 | The Rules of TinderFind a gay hairdresser who knows what he's doing. Seriously. It's not contagious. Mine's does drag shows, but he absolutely knows what women want and what male hair is like to cut. Also (6.) When/if you first meet F2F, NEVER look at her breasts when you talk. Here's how it works: If you do, you're just a letch and they almost always write you off (unless they don't, of course...but you're playing the odds). Either way your value wanders towards "ordinary". If you don't, but are clear that you li… | /r/TheRedPill | 22/01/15 08:14 PM |
| 5 | Hookup culture: Does anything beat college when it comes to opportunities for casual sex, one night stands, and sleeping around with a lot of different women?Being a college professor, and never touching your students. Really. Every woman on the planet who's been to college has "Do a prof" somewhere in their bucket list, and almost none have actually done it. The moment you tell them, truthfully, that you never paw at the "coeds" (which somehow makes you noble), you're in and over a pretty remarkable age range (near 30 to 60...I'm 57). You are their fantasy - fusty mannerisms, arcane verbiage and all. You're tapping into memories of their wild years … | /r/TheRedPill | 20/01/15 10:41 PM |
| 3 | why inconsistency works, A theory.Bandler is a "self-help" guru which means he's in a target-rich environment...crazy women who want to make themselves feel better by doing what they're told. Getting rid of them would be the ongoing challenge. | /r/TheRedPill | 20/01/15 08:38 PM |
| 7 | why inconsistency works, A theory.This is classic operant conditioning. If you put rats in a Skinner box and have them rewarded somewhat randomly for pushing a lever every time a light goes on, they'll literally work the thing until they die. I'll bet B.F. Skinner got way lucky in his day... | /r/TheRedPill | 20/01/15 04:03 AM |
| 9 | [Education] "Why Girls and Science don't mix" (so therefore) STEM to gain a letter and become dilutedThe STEM to STEAM transition is also a function of a couple of things, as usual mostly money and marketing: Universities that are seeing their (low revenue) liberal arts faculty being backwatered in favor of (high revenue) STEM systems in grants and aid. By including Arts as part of the acronym, they stand to increase federal and state revenue. The increasing fusion of art, design and engineering - MIT et al have had centers that do this for more than a decade and others (as usual) want to jump … | /r/TheRedPill | 20/01/15 04:00 AM |
| 13 | Red Pill Strategy for the Less EndowedThis is exactly right. So long as you can leave her in a sweaty, delirious heap it's all good. Okay, I'm going to resurrect an old joke from online chats way back: Internet Inches (to scale): |-1-|-2-|-3-|-4-|-5-|-6-|-7-|-8-|-9-| "Honest honey...it's nine inches. Internet inches!! Edit: Here's an illustration of the perceptual errors and bias in all of this: I'm 6'4", "much taller" than the average U.S. male, who is 5'10", although if you do some simple division, it's only 8.6% bigger (76"/70").… | /r/TheRedPill | 17/01/15 02:18 AM |
| 2 | To fall in love with anyone, do thisApparently it's Alain de Botton, though I came to it via a different article. | /r/TheRedPill | 14/01/15 03:02 AM |
| 6 | To fall in love with anyone, do thisI'm going to add this piece on crushes, which I have tucked in with the posted article. Why crushes? Crushes are what develop when you don't really know someone, but you both find some similarity and start filling in the blanks yourself, somehow making them fit you and you both fit together in your own minds. This can lead to bad marriages, bad LTRs or at least really embarrassing walks of shame. It can also lead to real love. Crushes don't always turn out to be the same thing as love in real li… | /r/TheRedPill | 13/01/15 04:22 PM |
| 3 | Banging the ex girlfriend."Old lovers are like old shoes - they are very comfortable, but you soon notice the smell". I've done it, and I've not done it - depends on the situation but in retrospect, a post-breakup bang is the result of blue-pill "feelings" making women do anything they have to to save or re-establish "the relationship" which at that point is mostly in the self-validating parts of their heads, while I was mostly just horny. So this puts you in the position of her outpourings: "I thought we had something g… | /r/TheRedPill | 07/01/15 07:07 PM |
| 16 | How women's "feels" view a Pre-nup.Older person here - what nobody discusses in all the "You don't trust me/pre-divorce" tabloid-squalling is what can happen if a couple stays happily married and one of them leaves....their mind. A prenup is also a guard against joint liability - remember that marriage is a contract and you can write it any way you agree to (and it has nothing to do with the wedding vows, which may be prescribed by culture or religion...or not). If one spouse is non compos mentis because of age and/or disease and… | /r/TheRedPill | 07/01/15 02:49 AM |
| 19 | Texts during a first date help close the deal"Man pursues woman until she catches him." She had her mind made up - what pushed her into immediate action is the idea that others might get in front of her. I'm going to throw in something that I got from a female friend of mine long ago: "Men know they want to go to bed with a woman as soon as they meet them, and women wait about 30 seconds longer than that." From experience, with a bit of practice you can recognize when they make the decision and spend a lot less time in small talk and let t… | /r/TheRedPill | 06/01/15 07:37 PM |
| 5 | Married woman I know from high school trying to swing branches, hilarious.Oh hell no. I'm cringing just reading this, and opinions are running between "Bang only with signed consent form and in the presence of legal counsel, with a video crew appointed by a judge, and a one way ticket to Dubai (no extradition)" and "Run away, change your phone, change your name...anything before her crazy/selfish becomes your life". Your call. | /r/TheRedPill | 06/01/15 04:42 AM |
| 2 | At dinner party over the weekend, women says she only dates tall menFrom experience (and with the privilege of hindsight), with some practice and seasoning you take these kinds of opportunities to take a higher road in the conversation: "Yes, but don't you think that it's really sad that a lot of really great people are overlooked because of their physical stature?" This not only points out that she's shallow, but (from the meaning of "stature" as height or girth) that she is throwing stones from a glass house; it will likely poke her right in the insecurities w… | /r/TheRedPill | 05/01/15 09:40 PM |
| 1 | The Soup and Blowjob Acid TestNot bad. (I'm better with lytotes) | /r/TheRedPill | 05/01/15 04:39 PM |
| 6 | Don't underestimate the power getting in shape as it relates to your SMV.It can be done without cardio, but it's the side benefits: Get into the running/cycling/tri/rowing etc. etc. sports and there are a ton of fit, healthy girls to chat up. Plus you get out of the small circle. Just sayin'... | /r/TheRedPill | 02/01/15 08:35 PM |
| 2 | Don't underestimate the power getting in shape as it relates to your SMV.I'm going to throw in that there should be other than lifting in this - when I was a collegiate rower, we lifted iron like dogs but also lots of running and cross training. Being in generally amazing shape will make you stand out among the "bros" who hang out in dimly lit gyms talking to one another, and the fresh air doesn't hurt either. | /r/TheRedPill | 02/01/15 07:45 PM |
| 10 | Biggest overt example of female behavior since swallowing the red pillMarket value depends on two things - what the "seller" has on the market (and their perceived value of it) and what that's worth to another person. She can boast all she wants about how much she's got going on, but my guess is that she's NOT mentioning the guys who get what she's about (likely the majority) and run in the other direction because she's just not worth it. She'll roll over into respectability in the burbs with some guy who's too naive to smell the burning crazy...until she has to g… | /r/TheRedPill | 02/01/15 12:00 AM |
| 6 | [FR] She doubled down on polyamory and has been summarily nexted.So long as you were straightforward about it ahead of time, it's all good. She wants "polyamory"? The poly people I know have multiple real relationships - think polygamy/polyandry without the "I do" part. Too complicated for me, but I don't judge. She just heard that word somewhere. She wants to fuck a lot of people, and there's a difference. What she wants is polysexuality - lots of sex from all directions. Nothing wrong with that*, but you two don't match up. Tell her that you consider polyam… | /r/TheRedPill | 31/12/14 08:00 PM |
| 2 | Fucking years...It's a constant journey - did much the same myself years before any kind of dialogue was available. Never give up on yourself and believe in your goals....you'll get there. | /r/TheRedPill | 20/12/14 08:17 PM |
| 3 | Do average men in big cities have a harder time getting dates online?I think the assumption is that if you're online you're only going to look at very close prospects, and that's not necessarily true for everyone. Did Match (this was before OKC) and found that getting dates in a smaller town wasn't a problem, though you have to be willing to expand your radius slightly. Had a few in other cities as I traveled, and also got plenty through F2F. The difference is I was older (mid 40s) and had/have a good career going. When you're over ~30ish the game flips and you a… | /r/TheRedPill | 20/12/14 08:11 PM |
| 9 | How TRP helped me avoid a race traitor Asian girl.Yep, the cold "goodbye" is the best policy - two things will happen; she'll come to her senses (yeah, right), or she'll write you off as a shitheel. "That last guy dropped me without so much as a ..." is fair warning to the next poor bastard she's trying to hit up. Rule#2 - if she says she's been dropped a lot, you're about to find out why.... | /r/TheRedPill | 20/12/14 05:18 AM |
| 1 | Some RP truths from Malcolm X's autobiographyMore discussion on the ghost-writing/collaboration on Wikipedia http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/The_Autobiography_of_Malcolm_X | /r/TheRedPill | 11/12/14 01:33 PM |
| 14 | How to know you are dating a slut. Source: I married one.She had raw sex with other guy's dogs in public view? | /r/TheRedPill | 09/12/14 05:49 PM |
| 22 | How to know you are dating a slut. Source: I married one.Because you're "nice" - she assumes she can waltz in with her baggage and you'll happily carry her shit while she continues to invent reasons why she's not responsible for the selfish decisions she makes. Hint: It'll be your fault. If you combine some of that with the Dark Triad you'd have my ex. My approach, no abortions, serious drinking or smoking and very successful via manipulation - the rest was all there. I got out of it with my cash intact and negative blood work. Someone else's problem … | /r/TheRedPill | 09/12/14 05:47 PM |
| 2 | What's wrong with dating single moms?Not a thing, but they'd better be the right single mom, because there aren't many out there (widows and women whose first husbands finally had the decency to come out of the closet), and they then have to have been single for a good long while to figure out who they are, know what's up, and stop acting like selfish 13-year-olds with PMS or institution-worthy crazies (in other words, like most other women). You probably won't find one that's worth the trouble who's under 40-something. Source: Exp… | /r/TheRedPill | 08/12/14 02:53 PM |
| 7 | Wall Anxiety, Done with CC, looking for sperm and $ provider -She forgot the part about how "mature" her "new" point of view is. | /r/TheRedPill | 08/12/14 04:10 AM |
| 4 | FR: Walking Away From An HB9 Can Be Hard. Do It Anyway (if the alternative is oneitis and/or emotional harm).Been there done that - here's the challenge for everyone: Can you turn this hindsight into foresight? With experience your radar gets better and better if you want it to - next time, you'll know what she's about beforehand rather than after and this will help you choose between HB9/asshole-crazy and HB9/worth waking up to. | /r/TheRedPill | 02/12/14 02:50 PM |
| 6 | PSA 2: Do not post shit about hitting women. EVER. One and only warning.None of these should be taken as literal advice - raising an army to march through China wouldn't be very useful either, but Sun Tzu had more finesse and a more spare and oblique style which is easier to use as a touchstone than the wordier Machiavelli. Also consider the times in which they were written - the Borgias weren't notorious for their politeness after all and assassination and murder were constant threats. The principles are timeless though. For example: Not spending all your money try… | /r/TheRedPill | 20/11/14 03:44 PM |
| 13 | PSA 2: Do not post shit about hitting women. EVER. One and only warning.I'm also going to throw in that you should read "The Prince", by Niccolò Machiavelli. It's not about unscrupulous manipulation of people as most people (most of whom have never read it) assume. There is a lot of wisdom about how to keep your head attached to your shoulders - an actual problem in the warring dynasties, religious empires and fiefdoms of the Renaissance - when you're in a position of power and responsibility. Available free at Gutenberg (and many other sources) Also thought-provoki… | /r/TheRedPill | 20/11/14 03:15 PM |
| 1 | Bringing the party: Give value instead of leeching itLike most zen things the harder you try to get it, the more difficult it will be. If you just relax at a party and get to know people and talk to everyone, even if you never get any - you'll have a riot. You may make friends you never had before, learn things you might never had otherwise and generally improve your life. The dirty secret? Women can't judge for themselves except as a group exercise, so they judge alpha by how many others think you're interesting - like Google's search engine and … | /r/TheRedPill | 17/11/14 03:08 PM |
| 1 | Do you notice a difference in looks from women when you wear a suit?Relevant username? | /r/TheRedPill | 17/11/14 02:49 PM |
| 3 | Do you notice a difference in looks from women when you wear a suit?I haven't read every comment here but will throw in my own - relax and be assertive. Long, long ago I was told I "look like shit in a suit" and when I objected saying that the fit/style etc. was dead on, the response was "Yes...but you don't look comfortable" and looking like the suit was an imposition ruined the whole thing. I found this to be very much the case - if you look at "power figures", they're relaxed in whatever they're wearing (the exception being formal State occasions - military d… | /r/TheRedPill | 17/11/14 01:07 AM |
| 6 | AWALT: GF that thinks 'porn is disgusting' except for the shemale / anal / pregnant gangbangs in her browser history.Send the playlist to yourself and look at the vids with wild abandon - when she says "Ewww...that's disgusting!!" just tell her you got it from her phone. (You didn't say if she had any siblings - this sounds like a classic kid brother prank to me) | /r/TheRedPill | 15/11/14 10:53 PM |
| 1 | Self confessed "strong women" queue up to be spanked, slapped, and cummed on in r/sex confirming yet another red pill truth AWALTI'm going to argue that this kind of submission gives reinforcement to their sense of power in the rest of their lives. I've known more than a few "powerful" women who absolutely love to be tied up and treated roughly in bed, but it seems to me that once the "you have overwhelming desire for me" thing is done with it's back to the egotistical thing of "I'm so powerful that nobody less than a completely physical person can get with me...I'm just that badass" or some such nonsense. Both of those a… | /r/TheRedPill | 13/11/14 01:14 AM |
| 2 | Self confessed "strong women" queue up to be spanked, slapped, and cummed on in r/sex confirming yet another red pill truth AWALTTry "You're my BAD girl" (don't wind up sounding like you're talking to a dog though). A little hyperbole goes a long way. There may be some other term that work well too..."My toy"? "My fuck slave" You'll know when you find it. | /r/TheRedPill | 13/11/14 01:07 AM |
| 1 | Drama: How It's a Woman's Drug and Why NOT To Avoid ItWhat if.... By hanging on and playing beta, you're registering as an incompetent in the world of drama (thus being a failure and not of interest), whereas by walking away or not-playing you're changing the game and leaving women with the drama in their own head (no co-player), or among her friends, which, of course feeds the need and thus winning? | /r/TheRedPill | 30/10/14 05:51 PM |
| 2 | Damn:secure your fucking assetsI went with my (local) attorney - it varies state by state and often "half the possessions obtained during the marriage" get iffy anyway, so far as I know unless there's clear ownership - I'm not a legal expert. When you get kids into the mix, it gets more complicated because of child support issues (which often become mom's income). What it should give you is some shelter for liability as I described and protection of pre-existing assets. My wife and I married late in life (we're in our 50s) so… | /r/TheRedPill | 25/10/14 05:59 PM |
| 6 | Damn:secure your fucking assetsThe ridiculous part of this is that you should always get a pre-nup. Always. It's less about women often being wankers and a lot to do with liability. If one of you gets sued for something random (think traffic accident), you don't lose everything. If there's a horrible illness, the medical bills don't eviscerate both of you and you keep a roof over your head. If you love each other forever and one of you loses their marbles in old age and signs contracts they shouldn't, then there's recourse. I… | /r/TheRedPill | 25/10/14 01:52 AM |
| 10 | Did you know the legal definition of rape and 'consent' is changing? Here's how - ‘conditional consent’ is rape if the man does not keep what the woman expects, eg. a relationshipFake breasts are rape by deception! They're fraud, since the intent is economic gain rather than sexual gratification. | /r/TheRedPill | 24/10/14 01:30 PM |
| 2 | The Red Pill Truth that salsa dancers intuitively understandPractice a bit then be the ringer. And dance with the other women... because "you just discovered how much fun it is". Be aware that the Sunday Salsa thing is mostly about you being vetted by her "friends" who show up every Sunday so be...unattainable; mysterious yet sexy. Yeah, all that shit... | /r/TheRedPill | 24/10/14 04:05 AM |
| 4 | When asking a girl out, use the Brad Pitt ruleMaybe you should thank her - at least in your own mind. The reality is that by turning you down she's just decided you guys weren't a match and saved you the favor of a shitty date, a pre-dawn coyote exit or, worst of all, some sort of shitty relationship. Everyone has dry spells, strikes out and mismatches, so the only way to really lose is to let someone who's just turned you down affect your self-esteem. | /r/TheRedPill | 22/10/14 02:03 PM |
| 35 | 12 Irresistible Bad Boy Traits Women CraveCosmo: "Entrapment for fun and profit...or at least a comfortable sinecure through 'relationships' ". "101 Sex Tips That Will Guarantee A Life of Shopping" | /r/TheRedPill | 21/10/14 10:05 PM |
| 5 | We've Been Too Serious Lately Around Here, So I'm Gonna Tell You How To Do Vegas Correctly.Enjoyed the post but dispute the cash-machine mentality - Vegas is built, front to back, as a money filter. People arrive, the hustle starts, money is extracted, they leave. Profit. Once you get that, you get a lot about how things work . Got the back room tour (literally and figuratively) from a woman who was born and raised there...lots of interesting stories. Does that make me an expert like the OP? Nope, but there are alternatives. Situational awareness/cachet can take you a long way. You ca… | /r/TheRedPill | 08/10/14 01:49 PM |
| 3 | Lessons Learned From Online Dating PT. IGood observations - can confirm a lot of this though I'm older (out of the green hair population). Being very literate online can take you amazing places - started with AOL moons ago and got all the action I could manage (I don't live in a very populous area so the numbers are likely less), moved on to Match, OKC and POF and it continued. Unfortunately there is a whole lot of crazy out there (and yes, they're that good in bed) but it's not worth it once the novelty wears off (You know it's getti… | /r/TheRedPill | 01/10/14 01:17 AM |
| 3 | Beware the newest male liberation shame tactic: The Peter Plan ComplexThis is just a retread of the "Men are immature" nonsense. I didn't marry until 51 (and then with a prenup as thick as your wrist) and soaked up a lot of that BS. My life, my choice. Your life, your peer pressure. Finally it's up to you - getting married just because it's "that point in your life" is nonsense used to put you on the treadmill to sell tampons, mortgages and diapers. Caveat emptor. | /r/TheRedPill | 28/09/14 01:20 AM |
| 8 | SMV Graph Confirmed by XOJaneOh man...the stories I could tell. Re-singled in my early 40s, left the quiet life behind and started killing it right out of the gate. So many desperate, deluded, disenchanted entitlement princesses, nut-cases and ex rodeo queens. So many mornings coming to work from a new direction. The author of this piece seems stuck on the fact that the world owes her because she has ovaries, and the world owes her right now because they're getting wrinkled. From experience, what's really happening is that … | /r/TheRedPill | 24/09/14 03:17 AM |
| 2 | The Three Stages of the PillWord. Took me the first 48 years of my life to figure this out. Happily at stage III now. | /r/TheRedPill | 18/09/14 08:18 PM |
| 2 | I think I broke her...You are correct, sir. Edited. | /r/TheRedPill | 07/08/14 03:51 AM |
| 20 | I think I broke her...Edit: OP meant misogyny. One of my rules of women says: "If she says she's been dumped a lot (or left with no promised phone call), you're about to find out why..." | /r/TheRedPill | 07/08/14 12:29 AM |
| 2 | Study Finds That Men Like Nice Women, But Not the Other Way Around"In other words, it appeared that in an initial encounter men liked nice ladies; women thought nice guys were kind of lame. " It's worth noting that this study, as with most of them, utilizes a sample of "3C" subjects ("Close, cheap and convenient"); in other words nearby college students. Not representative of any larger population but good publicity for the researchers and fodder for the press. | /r/RedPillWomen | 28/07/14 03:40 AM |
| 30 | 'Older women still want sex...but men don't want to sleep with them': Actress Jacqueline Bisset, 69, talks about female desireWhat's being lost here is that women who are drop dead gorgeous often spend their lives being pretty and as the gorgeous goes away there's nothing left to be attracted to, and they don't understand why. At 57 most of the women I'm attracted to have perspective, experience, a clue, a brain and something interesting to say for themselves. It's rarer than you think. You can overlook a lot of wrinkles when you do find them. | /r/TheRedPill | 28/07/14 03:31 AM |
| 5 | Girl gets mad when husband is sickI second this - my ex was like this and one time I was horribly sick (food poisoning to the point of hallucination) and I woke up in the middle of the night to her weeping "Who will take care of me?" rather than "are you still alive?" Don't miss that kind of crazy at all... | /r/TheRedPill | 03/07/14 04:45 AM |
| 1 | 'It's bad to be in your head' but how do you remember what Seddit has taught you?Exactly this. You have to have it such that it becomes "a song in your head" rather than something you studied to pass a test. How do you get there? Practice! Will you make mistakes? Of course. Will you learn and improve? That's up to you. | /r/seduction | 03/06/14 03:05 AM |
| 2 | As a married insecure guy trying to get his balls back...if I am out with my wife dancing/clubbing/bar hopping and some dude is running game on her...how "should" I react?And if he isn't? Plenty of guys dig being the third. | /r/seduction | 03/06/14 02:59 AM |
| 1 | Rules different for those of us in our late 30's early 40's?Was in the same situation at 45 and found that you could find much younger women, but the chances were much, much higher that they were looking for something other than a one-nighter or a wild fling. Often they see you as their ticket to financial support, domestic bliss, a daddy figure, or a last chance at sanity (there are some real nutters out there). The good news is that women closer to your age are into mad flings, actually know what they're doing most of the time and can actually have an … | /r/seduction | 02/06/14 05:14 PM |
| 6 | Being Alpha vs. Having ConfidenceThe shorter version: Be genuine. | /r/seduction | 02/06/14 05:09 PM |
| 3 | The Top 5 Game-Changers Of Sincere SeductionMost of this is pretty good advice - about #1, don't forget that the other girls in the room are watching too, per Nash's observation. Working with that is to your advantage - talk to the most beautiful one but be a social butterfly making it clear that you're not simply lusting after her alone, which will alienate all the rest of them. Talk to all of them then settle on your picks later - I found this out in a weird way after I'd just sort of given up on picking up girls at parties and started … | /r/seduction | 02/06/14 05:03 PM |
| 2 | I've found the key to successThey get more girls and fewer women. The latter are much better. | /r/seduction | 02/10/13 08:40 PM |
| 2 | [FR] Lost my virginity on a solo night out, first ever sober approach.Here's some advice you weren't expecting - hang onto this post somewhere in your digital life so you can read it later. Here's why; seduction is always a bit of a gamble, and with most sorts of gambling the worst thing that can happen is that you hit it big the first time. Sooner or later you'll have a dry spell and you'll need this to remind yourself of how good your game can get and that you need to get yourself back out there. Source: Experience. | /r/seduction | 02/10/13 08:37 PM |
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