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you could’ve just asked me to clarify instead of making assumptions 🤣 Last time I checked Borders went out of business.
/r/seduction21/04/25 06:57 PM
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You misinterpreted my comment. I asked about how SHE makes it obvious, not all women.
/r/seduction21/04/25 05:35 PM
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Thanks for that, I’d say that is pretty intentional on your part. In my experience it does vary women to women, some told me they really don’t pay any attention to guys around them but are open to a conversation and further if there’s a vibe. Dating and people are so situational.
/r/seduction21/04/25 05:32 PM
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i missed that lol yea don’t say that. Il give bro the benefit of the doubt and assume he’s more on the nerdy side some girls are into that
/r/seduction21/04/25 04:39 PM
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You’ll know right away if she gives one word replies. Tease and if that doesn’t work back off, she’s not interested.
/r/seduction21/04/25 04:35 PM
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When I leave my girl for a second, she’s gonna get approached. We don’t mind as long as the guy is respectful, let them shoot their shot. Some dudes surprisingly still hit on a girl with a man right next to her, now those guys can fuck right off. But the first group, don’t hate on them
/r/seduction21/04/25 04:29 PM
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Curious as to what makes it obvious that you’re open to chatting? It’s very subjective.
/r/seduction21/04/25 04:21 PM
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It might be something you don’t enjoy as a woman, but you might be surprised how many other women enjoy being approached, to each their own.
/r/seduction21/04/25 04:19 PM
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You just have to be hot and very confident. This guy I know got the best game I’ve witnessed: we were sitting down having dinner outside last summer in a beautiful Mediterranean island, one of those restaurants along a beach boardwalk with people walking by. He spotted two girls and waved at them to come sit with us and we hung out with them.
/r/seduction21/04/25 04:17 PM
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Don’t do this. Be straight to the point and don’t lead on.
/r/seduction04/04/25 05:27 PM
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Well not all of them. Girls with boyfriends go out without their boyfriends that’s normal they will just tell you no. It’s easy find a girl you like, say hi and shoot your shot.
/r/seduction22/03/25 03:14 PM
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If you’re early 20s yea, but not after
/r/seduction22/03/25 03:09 PM
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share some stories!
/r/seduction13/03/25 05:38 PM
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The "game" is behaving like a preselected man at all times because women prioritize illusions of value over actual value. EXCELLENT way to put it, actually best short sentence I've read on Game. I'm curious as to why you're saying women prioritize the illusion of value over actual value. Actual value is better: If I'm actually rich vs renting a lambo, I'm higher value. Are you saying you can game it buy being perceived as high value? (ie you're in the club without girls, before approaching you g…
/r/seduction08/01/25 10:47 PM
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Share some stories how easy is it for him? I used to go out with a guy that was a tall and good looking, he’s just had to stand there and get approached
/r/seduction06/01/25 07:40 AM
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Casual sex by volume alone is wayyy faster than going out. You can have sex lined up every week with online. Not as fun and challenging as going out tho
/r/seduction10/10/24 02:49 AM
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I live between nyc and miami, having a hard time making social circle. Any tips?
/r/seduction06/06/24 03:52 AM
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Both my gf and I are cool with it as long as we’re not adding people that are questionable (me adding girls posting sexy pics or her adding fuckboy dudes). But yea even if nothing happens get the ig and she might be free someday or hit up the friends she reposts in stories and flirt with them
/r/seduction05/04/24 05:27 PM
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Scare how?
/r/seduction05/04/24 05:25 PM
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yea means shit, girls with boyfriends give it out for the follower count
/r/seduction04/04/24 11:43 PM
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Did you try to have someone take it down, sucks bro
/r/TheRedPill13/10/23 09:53 PM
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And they all post in the “are we dating the same guy?” FB group, a group that is meant to protect women as sometimes there’s guys that are married and fuck around, so it does have its uses. But it’s very abused and very easy to make things up, before they even meet up with you they essentially run a background check. Solution is not giving af, dont be an asshole and avoid these type of women that have been in toxic relationships and need to check every guy. Know friends that even for splitting a…
/r/TheRedPill12/10/23 01:44 PM
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Eh some of them suck too, they are raised by their dads to be treated like princesses and expect you to pay for everything like a trophy wife
/r/TheRedPill20/06/23 04:35 AM
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This. These guys are terminally online and are dealing with the cesspool that is online dating. All it takes is being unafraid of rejection and talk to every hot that passes by, you’re going to get results. And I’m 5’6” decent looking and in shape but nothing that makes me stand out, I’m simply relentless when I something I go get it, no matter how hard or long it takes. Good things aren’t meant to be easy!
/r/TheRedPill24/05/23 03:26 AM
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What vibe do you give off? Read your last sentence. You’re way overthinking interactions, which is normal when you get into game because you need to analyze everything. Stop caring what people think and act like yourself, act dumb/do dumb shit people at night want to party. Yes if you’re short, ugly, balding, not fit you’ll have a harder time, and you have to be realistic about what your SMV is. Accept it but know you can improve upon it. Also if you’re hanging around guys taller better looking …
/r/TheRedPill24/05/23 03:19 AM
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I’m that guy right now, dating a high maintenance latina just cause of her ass but dealing with the bullshit. Its not worth it. Find a decent girl that’s not all about looks and you don’t have to stress about it
/r/TheRedPill26/04/23 03:30 AM
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You exit the set, walk away, and a girl chases you down ? No way
/r/seduction02/11/22 05:07 AM
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Solid steps. I’d add some more advanced actions: take her somewhere and pull. This is region dependent wherever you live, you can be more or less assertive. Sometimes, most of the times, numbers don’t lead anywhere. Maximize your approaches with the mindset that you very well might not see that person ever again. Initiate physical touch during the set, make it man to woman, show her you’re a man with balls that’s going to fuck her brains out. Tell her to walk with you, get coffee/drinks ice crea…
/r/seduction19/10/22 02:44 PM
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I’d go indirect here as others suggested since this is your go to place. Strike up a conversation before class is best and then after. Bonus points if you got a ripped physique take that shirt off and let them oogle you, if you are that type of guy.
/r/seduction12/10/22 08:12 PM
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One of them was trying to make me notice her making eye contact and light physical contact while she was dancing. As in she bumped into you a few times/was in your personal space? If so yea gotta make a move. Next time dance and scan the room from time to time, if see someone that catches your eye get her to notice you and make a move
/r/seduction03/10/22 12:36 AM
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Nice bro, they hot too. Yea my buddy says uk is hard in cold approach and he’s tall good looking but that might just be his experience.
/r/seduction05/09/22 01:59 PM
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10 women in 2 weeks in London? Online or IRL? A guy I know who lives in the Uk told me it’s hard to game there.
/r/seduction05/09/22 01:47 AM
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I have recently started going to clubs in my lye 20s, is that what really goes on? Girls sucking dick wtf? How do guys go from eye contact to that?
/r/seduction03/08/22 03:36 AM
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“You like to be tied up don’t you?”
/r/seduction21/07/22 02:48 PM
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Pretty much this, hard to fake it though if you have depression
/r/seduction06/07/22 02:03 PM
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People in America have a fetish for foreign accents. You could go on any university campus, chat any girl up, and go far on your accent alone. You’d love LA. I'm not american but hardly have an accent. I thought of putting on but I feel cringy doing it. A lot of girls get disappointed when they don't hear me with an accent.
/r/seduction06/07/22 02:00 AM
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Yea low value move to tag along… should’ve at least made out with one of them and try to pull. If fail grab the digits/insta, send a flirty text couple hours later and try to pull.
/r/seduction04/07/22 04:52 AM
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Hey thanks for this I do some of these, some some people you meet randomly like in bars and clubs so I try to follow up with that, sometimes people are just being friendly at night so they don’t really mean it
/r/seduction02/07/22 03:01 AM
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Ya but sometimes I feel like I’m too friendly and too eager to be friends
/r/seduction02/07/22 02:59 AM
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So true, if you date too soon (if the relationship ended well) you start thinking nobody can compare to him/her.
/r/seduction01/07/22 06:04 PM
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Tell me more, I do what he does but I can’t seem to establish long term connections. I just float around new people it sucks
/r/seduction30/06/22 02:57 AM
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You wear that in a club
/r/seduction29/06/22 06:40 AM
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Lots of jealousy in the comment section, this guy has been posting for a while. I just had one my first DG in a club in quite a while, not so great I was to handsy and aggressive from the start even though some were receptive, but need to be more playful. Basically don’t come off so direct any tips on how to be fun and flirty? What’s your push pull line? Todd v recommends “you look sweet and innocent at first but an absolute menace the next” or something song those lines.
/r/seduction28/06/22 03:43 PM
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Alex is the best
/r/seduction28/06/22 03:34 AM
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I do think it’s harder in your late 20s/30s as a lot of people “outgrew” clubs though, which means having younger friends to go out with
/r/seduction25/06/22 07:03 PM
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You gotta look at who they’re fucking, not who they’re with. Big difference.
/r/seduction25/06/22 04:47 PM
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He can’t really do much, she is surrounded by an environment of temptation. Relationships that last longest are when both people don’t see other better options.
/r/seduction24/06/22 01:00 PM
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Very area dependent, but sometimes where you live if it’s a big city it’s better to go for insta dates less flakes.
/r/seduction23/06/22 02:49 PM
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Ive had similar experiences, no gf material. I have shit social circle gsme since I move around a lot. So don’t have other options other then online + dg/ng.
/r/seduction22/06/22 10:18 PM
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Carry doggy treats, assert dominance
/r/seduction22/06/22 04:02 PM
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That’s pretty badass dude, it makes sense though, but how you meeting these girls? I if I were a girl you matched online or heavily flirted with in person, I would be pretty offended if you suddenly switched it up on me and asked me to “hang out” and then there’s a room full of other girls you are flirting with. I like the idea but I don’t see how it would work can you elaborate?
/r/seduction22/06/22 03:36 PM
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So he just carries around a bag of grapes? I like this idea, I went out with two dimes and wish I had done something similar on my insta, I don’t use snap. Can anyone think of other ideas? If you are at a bar etc
/r/seduction22/06/22 03:34 PM
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Yea ofc lots of women like that Timothy Chalamet look
/r/seduction21/06/22 06:31 PM
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Yea I do all that and get results but I’m going for 8+s now sick of uglier girls it’s just harder though you need to be more than just looks. Frustrating to see dudes with skinny ass arms with stunning girls around.
/r/seduction21/06/22 01:39 PM
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Im pretty shredded and don’t get that kind of attention
/r/seduction21/06/22 01:52 AM
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Do you prefer going at the club early, at peak, or near closing? All have their advantages and disadvantages.
/r/seduction20/06/22 11:41 PM
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He will only get gold diggers like that
/r/seduction17/06/22 05:17 AM
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Same, And it made me realize she was a cut above the rest. But then it was too late
/r/seduction15/06/22 03:36 PM
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How did you meet these female friends
/r/seduction07/06/22 04:40 AM
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I actually have a harder time befriending guys at bars then women, I don’t watch sports , usually don’t know what to talk about other then being friendly. How can I change that
/r/seduction07/06/22 04:32 AM
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I’m planning a tattoo with that sentence it’s just so sick
/r/seduction07/06/22 12:35 AM
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Underrated comment right here
/r/seduction30/05/22 08:50 PM
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For me getting a number in a club leads to high chance of flakes, always be pulling… if you go for make out get her to come home with you or if it’s early ask her what her plans are for later then pull. Abs what you mean by make game.?
/r/seduction29/05/22 04:04 AM
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I agree but with n.2 it depends on your situation, if you are too available and don’t have anything else interesting other then the woman you will come off as a person that is boring so it’s best to take a step back sometimes do fun stuff but still be geniune with her. Lots of us date because we have nothing better to do and after a while she will noticez
/r/seduction22/05/22 04:22 PM
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This is exactly what is discussed in therapy. There are multiple versions of us and they all live inside us. We need to recognize them and give them what they need.
/r/seduction21/05/22 12:30 AM
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Too old to be this needy :)
/r/seduction18/05/22 09:05 PM
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How bro yoga is like 99% women
/r/seduction25/04/22 07:23 PM
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It’s still hard if you do the above but work in an environment with no women, more so now when many jobs are remote. How do people WFH in tech or finance manage to find the time to surround themselves with women?
/r/seduction25/04/22 06:39 PM
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I’ll be blunt here but it sounds like you are not happy with your life. Chasing pleasure is insidious, 150 women? Any of those memorable? You never wanted to settle with one of them?
/r/seduction20/04/22 02:09 PM
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That is so no true. Your life as a woman has a shelf life. You don’t understand the insane pressure they start getting when they hit 30 or are close to it. They have this need to have kids, as it somehow gives them value. Men have their entire life no restrictions. Many don’t see it at first, sure women have it easy they are less lonely then men, nobody gives a fuck about us. But it’s up to you to make something out of yourself and once you do, its endless possibilities.
/r/seduction20/04/22 02:53 AM
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Good job, I’m working on the getting rich part and high status life part. Let’s check back in 6 months!
/r/seduction18/04/22 12:23 PM
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I was too lazy to look them up lol
/r/seduction18/04/22 12:22 PM
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Feels better to look at yourself in your mirror when you’re fit tho
/r/seduction18/04/22 02:33 AM
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Can you explain all of those I forgot
/r/seduction18/04/22 02:29 AM
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There's always someone paying attention they just did not care. That's pretty next level tho, either he just stuck his dick in there without asking, or very likely she was begging him.
/r/seduction11/04/22 02:19 AM
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How do you set that up?
/r/seduction11/04/22 01:37 AM
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How the fuck does he pull that off
/r/seduction11/04/22 12:47 AM
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Never been to festivals or burning man etc, how wild is it? Is it easy /hard to game
/r/seduction10/04/22 05:02 PM
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I was watching it just now, great advice. Some developments, she replied saying she did think I only wanted sex, so I clearly pushed to hard the first meet. I then told her I was into her, but went overboard saying cringy shit like I want to know who you are blablabla. She replied to the effect of I was "too much". It's essentially over
/r/seduction05/04/22 11:20 PM
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It is thanks to you! I knew it was because of that and you validated it. Well, nothings certain, because after that message I replied an hour later confirming I was into her more then sex, and gave her a time and a place. That was yesterday evening and no answer. So either she might have just wanted to let me know that and close it, or she will let me know idk. I do know that she's going on a trip tomorrow for a week, which hurts more of my chances of meeting her again, so I do hope I get to see…
/r/seduction04/04/22 02:26 PM
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She reached out saying that I thought I only wanted sex, I followed up a little later saying I wanted more and proposed a time and place, waiting on reply
/r/seduction04/04/22 12:37 PM
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She reached out saying that I thought I only wanted sex, I followed up a little later saying I wanted more and proposed a time and place, waiting on reply
/r/seduction04/04/22 12:36 PM
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Which is why we should all focus on having the best place for logistics.. living at home makes things 10x harder.
/r/seduction04/04/22 12:36 PM
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She reached out saying that I thought I only wanted sex, I followed up a little later saying I wanted more and proposed a time and place, waiting on reply
/r/seduction04/04/22 12:36 PM
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She reached out saying that I thought I only wanted sex, I followed up a little later saying I wanted more and proposed a time and place, waiting on reply
/r/seduction04/04/22 12:35 PM
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She replied saying she also thought I only wanted sex
/r/seduction04/04/22 12:14 AM
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She replied, I had sent her a voice message saying I want to be clear that I have feelings for you not just sex and invited her to go to the beach. She replied with saying that yes she thought I only wanted sex.
/r/seduction04/04/22 12:14 AM
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Ahah you’re right, I’m not being a great listener.
/r/seduction03/04/22 07:14 PM
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Based on experience, if I don’t hear from a woman within the day, it’s a goner. I never had someone reach out to me like that days later. I’m not saying you’re wrong, but my experiences tell a different story and my gut feeling is telling me to be open to her. Again, I could care less about fucking this girl, it’s about seeing her.
/r/seduction03/04/22 07:06 PM
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See that’s what I’m used to, I always go sexual. Do guys that game, once they want an LTR, do they hold off on sex?
/r/seduction03/04/22 06:48 PM
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I would normally agree with you, but if you witness what I was experiencing she was head over heels for me, I’m not exaggerating. There’s a real strong chance if follow your advice it’s gonna go nowwhere. People make mistakes and get carried away, there’s no harm in explaining that. And it helps me to just say my piece and not stress over it, if she answers or not I gave my take.
/r/seduction03/04/22 06:47 PM
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You read my mind. I’ll keep you posted.
/r/seduction03/04/22 05:59 PM
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Bro has that ever worked?
/r/seduction03/04/22 05:58 PM
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I usually fall into number 1 but my actions or words that come out my mouth lead to number 2 and I don't understand why. I seem to find ways to make mistakes, not having answers/closure, and proceeding to fucking hate myself for days over it. Rinse and repeat... Might need a break from women.
/r/seduction03/04/22 04:50 PM
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Thanks for your point... I'm pretty mad at myself mostly because I was on auto-pilot, I seem to only be with women that just want sex and forget. I legit have been thinking about her non stop, no matter how busy I am with other shit its strange. While I'm super tempted to reach out today, I'll wait till tomorrow and just ping her about doing something with me. If like you said she still ignores it, I'll lay out and tell her that I truly am interested in her and want spend time with her.
/r/seduction03/04/22 04:47 PM
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Finally I get a woman who gets it, thank you. I simply want to let her know that I had feelings for her, I don’t just want sex. Im just unsure if I should let her know in the first text that I did not want it come across a certain way, because I really want to make that point clear as soon as possible. We were both smiling like crazy at each other when we were dancing, it was an awesome moment. Yet I’m being “cringe” just because for once I don’t just want to fuck and forget it 🤷🏼‍♀️
/r/seduction03/04/22 03:43 PM
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Not in our culture, we usually hit things off quick and if things don’t work out after 2 plus dates it’s off.
/r/seduction03/04/22 03:07 PM
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I agree with you, situations like these do take a toll on me. I do want to Hail Mary this, you still suggest waiting a couple days before pinging her?
/r/seduction03/04/22 03:06 PM
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Shitt thats exactly what happened. She's so gone fuck me.
/r/seduction03/04/22 01:54 PM
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What's wrong with being a little vulnerable? Its true so why not say it.
/r/seduction03/04/22 01:42 PM
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You're saying I played my cards, wanted sex, she didnt give in. Now she ghosts because I'm neither the sex guy or the relationship guy. Had this EXACT same scenario happen a few months ago, LMR didn't pull. Then ghosted. I'll give it a few days see if she reaches out, ping her again if not I got my answer.
/r/seduction03/04/22 01:37 PM
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Tell me something I don’t know
/r/seduction03/04/22 12:53 PM
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Yea exactly so I need her to know I’m open to pursing a relationship with her once we get to know each other. But I don’t want to double text today. I don’t understand your last point, leaving things as they are? You mean don’t beat myself up over this?
/r/seduction03/04/22 12:18 PM
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How so
/r/seduction03/04/22 12:16 PM
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I want to make it clear I don’t want to play games/ seem busy with this one, I really like the girl and could see having a relationship, but I don’t know how to act because I’m so used to just getting sex and not seeing them. One thing is I got a cold during the date, Im thinking of double texting today asking if I didn’t get her sick and to go to the mall later. And in the same text mention that I really liked her and didn’t want to come off as only wanting sex, because I think she was looking …
/r/seduction03/04/22 11:52 AM
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We weren’t drunk, I’m being clingy because I really liked the girl, same background etc. I’m sick of just sex, so why not be emotional if I really like someone?
/r/seduction03/04/22 11:45 AM
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Imma still hit them up another time who cares
/r/seduction23/03/22 12:45 AM
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You need both. I got shredded but haven’t been out much with covid. It’s all social proof mixed with your swagger. You need reps with both trust
/r/seduction22/03/22 06:52 PM
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23-24. Just gotta be out where girls go. High quality women are easier to approach in venues.
/r/seduction22/03/22 06:47 PM
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That’s almost worse then mine. My first 3some fuckup i had smoked weed with this tinder date, left cause I wasn’t into her went back to hotel and just so happened it was just me and 2 girls in the elevator, our rooms were right next to each other! They invited me in, good vibes for the first 15 minutes, literally forgot I had to fuck them and they went to sleep lol.
/r/seduction22/03/22 05:19 PM
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No they were for sure. Still might be
/r/seduction22/03/22 03:55 PM
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Cialis. Just don’t use it all the time I believe it fucks up your normal erections. But for 2+ girls unless you’re the sex Buddha you gotta go for a while
/r/seduction22/03/22 03:05 PM
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Wise words, gotta deflect that shit right away and keep pursuing your dreams
/r/seduction22/03/22 03:03 PM
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That’s why you gotta have some pills with you to make ‘em think you got two dicks, or some Natural shit like L arginine with horny goat weed
/r/seduction22/03/22 03:01 PM
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For real dawg someone up there is screwing me over
/r/seduction22/03/22 03:01 PM
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Im pissed because it’s the second time I fuck up on a situation like this, first time was even more dumb. Just gotta keep at it and don’t beat myself too hard.
/r/seduction22/03/22 02:07 PM
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Ye man I’ve done and said crazy shit and they eat it up but only if they like me. I’m case case I was prob more into her then she was into me
/r/seduction14/03/22 01:06 PM
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Like I said this is not my first rodeo (28 lays) but sometimes you just slip up man. I typically put them in my frame, get them so horny the same date they want to blow me on the spot. It’s really nuts how it’s all your mindset, like in this situation I subconsciously held back a bit, also cause I met her in a “don’t shit where you eat spot” not work but was holding back on how sexual I was.
/r/seduction14/03/22 01:05 PM
6

Cardio is for cardiovascular health it has its place in any workout routine
/r/seduction14/03/22 04:21 AM
2

Hey man if I was in SD I’d hang out with you. I’m In a similar situation. It’s key what determinator94 said, be genuine and don’t force things. It’s hard to put yourself out there, many times you’ll find that you can’t connect with some people which means you just need to find the right crowd. Congrats on telling yourself to stop with the self-hate. I recently took a yoga class and the instructor was saying to tell yourself you love yourself everyday. I thought about that and it seemed stupid at…
/r/seduction14/03/22 04:19 AM
1

I’m having the same issue as op , met a woman in person she was really into me, but I’m terrible at text game and she lost interest. We were supposed to meet up, she couldn’t make it. I ping her a few days later and she replies pretty quickly, but once I asked her out again she hit me with the I need to get to know you first.. asks for my age I tell her. Couple back and forth after and leaves me on read. Why would she say that if she was willing to meet up in the first place? It’s frustrating th…
/r/seduction14/03/22 04:14 AM
3

Why do you mention snap specifically. Must be age specific late 20s/30s people don’t use snap and depends on country
/r/seduction13/03/22 04:23 PM
1

Based on your experience, what are things you say or topics you bring up that got the girl interested?
/r/seduction07/03/22 07:50 PM
2

I think I’m being ghosted right now after getting a number, she seems very into it but it’s been almost 24 hours since I texted and no response. I agree better to get rejected right away than sitting there hoping she will contact you
/r/seduction07/03/22 04:10 PM
4

Just hit her with an “ok”. She isn’t interested, and she says friends just cause she’s being nice, next.
/r/seduction22/02/22 05:56 AM
1

Would you prefer sex and dating an average looking girl that’s got everything you need or some bimbo that fucks well?
/r/seduction22/02/22 03:44 AM
0

You made a lame ass response after editing your initial lame ass response. A+ for effort though.
/r/seduction18/02/22 01:54 AM
2

Thanks for clarifying. I’m curious, would you have shot him down if he initiated the conversation, with something as innocuous as asking what you’re working on today, or any other random comment? Try to think about that, knowing your guy now, you wouldn’t have ever met this person you fell for if instead he talked to you first.
/r/seduction18/02/22 01:52 AM
0

Keep believing that man, less competition for me :)
/r/seduction17/02/22 11:15 PM
0

Yet you’re very last comment on another post you mentioned you met your man at the gym…
/r/seduction17/02/22 11:14 PM
2

Keep telling yourself that… the women I took out that I met at the gym beg to differ.
/r/seduction17/02/22 11:05 PM
2

I sometimes talk more then my date and still had success
/r/seduction17/02/22 11:01 PM
2

I’m so close to doing this at my gym.. I’m I’m there 6 days a week like a damn gym rat and know everybody.. we’ve been getting a bunch of new signups and now there’s a always a girl with a fat ass doing Bulgarian squats with everything showing and I fucking hate it cause I can’t focus… This post made me want to just say fuck it and go up to them and tell them exactly what I think! Not new to gym pickup I bagged a few girls at the gym but never really went there commenting on their body right off…
/r/TheRedPill09/02/22 05:06 PM
0

Not salty at all, I have friends that treat the gym like their church so I get it, just saying I can’t personally resist when nowadays women walk in a gym showing everything, should be illegal.
/r/seduction20/01/22 03:05 PM
0

Hold on a sec I’m laughing at my comment I wrote shoot your snot instead of shoot your shot 🤣🤣🤣 So you don’t believe a word I say unless I write some FR? Is what I’m saying not believable? Bro I actually respect you for ignoring your sexual manly urges while you’re doing some barbell work and some girl is walking around with her ass in full view doing Romanian DLs two inches from your dick, but most of us get horny 😈
/r/seduction20/01/22 02:02 PM
3

You’re just salty bro cmon just shoot you’re snot again who caresss
/r/seduction20/01/22 05:05 AM
1

Lol bullshit bro. I bagged quite a few with headphones: gym, grocery store… doesn’t matter. She’s not gonna ignore you if you come off as a sexy motherfucker.
/r/seduction20/01/22 04:59 AM
1

Rome, girls are banging there. Bar dona probably top choice of the the ones you listed. Athens don’t know but in the summer the islands are popping
/r/seduction20/01/22 04:57 AM
1

all of that is pre covid most of us are wfh we don’t meet anyone
/r/seduction20/01/22 04:50 AM
0

Can you give us some good recommendations then on the type of setting/day?
/r/seduction09/01/22 04:52 AM
1

With so many jobs being remote now it’s getting increasingly hard to meet people.
/r/seduction03/12/21 04:06 PM
-2

I disagree, if you want to fuck her on the first date you gotta give her the vibes
/r/seduction03/12/21 03:56 PM
1

Yes don’t approach so there’s less competition lol
/r/seduction18/11/21 06:10 PM
2

I made a really good friend just by complimenting his form and talked lifts. People can be surprisingly approachable
/r/TheRedPill04/10/21 02:32 PM
6

I once fingered a woman in an outdoor bar, that was fun. Yet today I couldn’t even get out of my house and go to bars, fuck COVID it messed up my mental state….
/r/TheRedPill26/06/21 03:59 AM
2

When you mentioned “hey let’s play” what kind of games?
/r/askTRP01/06/21 12:41 PM
5

I always wrap it up but then get blowjobs or eat her or so it’s the same risk
/r/askTRP07/05/21 08:23 PM
2

Am in NYC just business as usual tbh
/r/TheRedPill02/05/21 10:37 PM
3

Shit man I also stayed true to working out but don’t have a group to go kill it with, best of luck to you!
/r/TheRedPill02/05/21 04:23 AM
9

Not at work dawg. Unless you want to get fired or its a shit job.
/r/askTRP24/02/21 05:45 PM
15

She's around you at work? Great! Flirt with her and everyone around her. Do not do this.
/r/askTRP24/02/21 04:32 PM
-2

Makes no sense to me either 😂🤣
/r/TheRedPill31/01/21 07:17 AM
3

I got laid just by talking to women around me in just a few hours people love to bitch. But I do agree on the speech laws, Allan Nairn today expressed exactly that. Because of yesterday, expect legislation against protest in DC and limit of online speech. Source
/r/TheRedPill08/01/21 12:29 AM
6

What’s your process from snap to your house? Are you in shape and send good pics?
/r/TheRedPill27/12/20 12:30 PM
1

Seems that way, let’s see if she wants to be a little fuck her girl again gonna hit her up later, need another fuck before this fucking horrible year ends.
/r/askTRP23/12/20 03:11 PM
0

Forgot to mention her sister was in the other room, so that’s less likely. You never know though could’ve been a bad bitch.
/r/askTRP23/12/20 03:08 PM
2

Cool sentence you wrote, I asked in the post for people’s experience, not some red pill literotica. Do women do this for you?
/r/askTRP23/12/20 03:06 PM
-3

I agree. I forgot that it’s good to factor in menstrual cycles. Best time to hit up a girl is when she’s ovulating. Got this tip from a dude that would keep track of when he fucked his plates and he hit them up at the right time.
/r/askTRP22/12/20 07:27 PM
0

What makes you say that?
/r/askTRP22/12/20 07:13 PM
1

Go get a Brazilian, also called manzillian for men.
/r/askTRP22/12/20 06:33 PM
1

I've done something similar this saturday as well, escalted pretty quickly. Fucked her for 2 hours since quarantine gave me dry spell, even gave her first anal fuck she loved it. I'v been refraining from texting her since sat since the sex was so good. When do you start hitting up a girl you just fucked? I want to see her this weekend.
/r/TheRedPill17/12/20 12:16 AM
13

Glamorous not at all, I just fixed a sink drain pipe and It fucked up my baby hands
/r/askTRP09/12/20 05:41 PM
53

They got game that’s all there is too it. You could be a nerdy investment banker that women use to get free meals and maybe wife you up for the $$, or you could be a plumber with jacked forearms that knows how to make her an animal in bed. If you can do both, you win! Also plumbing is a bad example it’s a great steady job.
/r/askTRP09/12/20 05:25 PM
1

Very true, My worst approaches are me looking like I’m selling something: I stop them while they walk and say “scuse me! You look beautiful!” Like an idiot. One time this old guy witnessed it and told me to work on it better lol. Body language is everything when you initiate.
/r/seduction07/12/20 12:28 AM
3

I’d go with a telegram group or signal not Facebook
/r/seduction27/11/20 08:29 AM
3

Don’t give a shit, you only have your embarrassment to lose.
/r/seduction12/10/20 04:52 PM
1

I would have as well. Losing weight is something achievable.
/r/askTRP09/09/20 02:20 PM
2

Just if you’re a wimp afraid of her reactions. I had told just that to an LTR, even told her where she is getting fat and that she has to work on it. After some initial crying she went to work and lost the weight.
/r/askTRP09/09/20 02:20 PM
1

These were good
/r/askTRP09/09/20 02:18 PM
1

I agree
/r/askTRP09/09/20 02:18 PM
1

For sure dude I don’t usually do this but the thirst is real right now 😭
/r/askTRP09/09/20 03:25 AM
-1

Oh yea? Tell me more.
/r/askTRP09/09/20 03:09 AM
1

Yep yep still falling for this.
/r/askTRP09/09/20 02:51 AM
0

I know you understand how frustrating it is, I didn’t even ask for the number she sent it asked me to text her. Shit like this makes you upset at how disposable men are.
/r/askTRP09/09/20 02:13 AM
-1

I was keeping it strictly logistics. She asked dumb questions like “how big r u” so I could tell she was playing a bit. Otherwise one simple mistake Like that wouldn’t have ruined everything.
/r/askTRP09/09/20 02:00 AM
-2

That text was a mistake. Just crazy how one fuck up and you’re done. My point still stands she was barely interested otherwise she wouldve let that one slip.
/r/askTRP09/09/20 01:59 AM
5

This is so true. I game a lot wherever I am, so I go for high volume. I’m pretty muscular and good looking (just short, which I make up for with my personality, although with US women it’s a big thing to overcome) and I’m just shocked at how inflated the egos on some women is, due to probably all the virtual attention they get. Your game and looks have to be on point more then ever right now IMO.
/r/askTRP09/09/20 01:33 AM
3

How do you find a wingwoman sounds pretty rare
/r/TheRedPill05/09/20 07:11 AM
1

Examples?
/r/seduction11/08/20 06:05 AM
1

No.
/r/seduction11/08/20 05:50 AM
1

Dude thanks for this comment. I just got back for the supermarket and spotted a very attractive woman we were both glancing at each other but did not say anything due to COVID, as well as feeling shy (I work from home don’t interact with people and I think it’s impacted my social skills). I was super pissed at myself for not approaching but reading this comment made me feel better. At the end of the day it’s an urge, an urge that can be controlled.
/r/seduction10/08/20 11:29 PM
1

Haven’t gotten to it yet I’ll send you them
/r/askTRP20/07/20 06:17 PM
1

No man you’re good thanks for the insight
/r/askTRP15/07/20 09:39 PM
2

Yea re reading my comment that is definitely overboard lol I got better shit to do
/r/askTRP15/07/20 04:53 AM
1

Will do thank
/r/askTRP15/07/20 03:48 AM
3

Oh wow what ingredients? So I know if I have a kid he won’t be a shorty. Yea I’ve been recommended elevator shoes I’ll pick some up most of them look bad tho
/r/askTRP15/07/20 02:51 AM
2

Bro wtf I did it and got 10 matches in 30 minutes... how often do you do it? Every time you notice matches start to dip? Might be useful to keep a spreadsheet and count # per day
/r/askTRP15/07/20 02:50 AM
1

Ah ok
/r/askTRP15/07/20 02:49 AM
2

Yea it seems to be way worse then when i first used it in ‘14. I’m real rusty on cold approaches I try to do a few a day but I seem to scare them off. I literally walk up to em and start a conversation but I can tell most are turned off. I’m pretty ripped but I’m 5’6” so that could be it.
/r/askTRP15/07/20 02:49 AM
1

So I got to subscriptions and renew it?
/r/askTRP15/07/20 12:16 AM
1

I’m pretty ripped I had some mirror selfies but been told it’s too obnoxious
/r/askTRP15/07/20 12:14 AM
1

Late 20s why
/r/askTRP15/07/20 12:13 AM
2

I do already
/r/askTRP14/07/20 11:01 PM
0

I do that already
/r/askTRP14/07/20 11:01 PM
0

Yea it’s easy to tell from pictures.
/r/askTRP14/07/20 11:00 PM
-2

Wrote it wrong I live near NYC I’m just 5’6” too short for most women
/r/askTRP14/07/20 10:42 PM
2

Start picking up girls now in beaches and parks. I see tons of people out this weekend.
/r/seduction17/05/20 06:15 PM
1

What’s that course called?
/r/seduction16/05/20 05:14 AM
20

Good job buddy, keep touching those contaminated barbells and kill people with weak autoimmune diseases.
/r/TheRedPill13/03/20 02:32 AM
6

Yes I agree. For example, other day I see this girl with her backpack pockets all open. I wasn’t thinking of approaching her for the sake of approaching her, so I told her about it. When she turned to look at me I thought she was cute so we talk then ask her number tell her she’s cute bla bla. Never answered, what I don’t do is sit there and cry a bout to but simply move on and think she wasn’t that into me simple.
/r/TheRedPill02/03/20 02:05 PM
1

I get where your coming from, but I don’t find this practical. You can just wait for the starts to align to get that perfect moment where you are having a blast of a conversation with a girl, and then somehow you both are interested. What it comes down to is simply not giving a fuck if she’s down or not, there are so many women out there just go by volume.
/r/TheRedPill02/03/20 01:50 PM
16

I’m having this issue, cold approached while commuting to work a few times these last weeks, they seem interested but once I text them they never answer. But of course they know you’re looking to get laid that’s the whole point of talking to a woman
/r/TheRedPill02/03/20 04:16 AM
1

Ok was drunk I didn’t explain correctly. It’s a recruiting agency I don’t work there I come in sometimes and they help me. MAke sense?
/r/askTRP29/02/20 04:21 PM
1

I did it on purpose to see who would read the body of the text
/r/askTRP29/02/20 03:54 PM
1

But I don’t work there!
/r/askTRP29/02/20 01:13 PM
1

I don’t work there though wasn’t that clear?
/r/askTRP29/02/20 12:56 PM
5

I thought working sales I was surrounded by assholes but changing careers and working with stem people., good lord it’s bad. One dude who doesn’t understand why I’m working in his “elitist” field calls me a chad and says I don’t belong. Stem lords hate their customers and their peers, miserable people.
/r/TheRedPill25/02/20 12:29 AM
1

Ahaha that’s me, the shit I’ve said and never got slapped for it... living that risky life
/r/TheRedPill21/02/20 03:16 AM
1

Maybe there’s an age difference thing but I used to do that in my teens
/r/TheRedPill19/01/20 04:53 PM
1

You must be in the Bay Area, no women there
/r/TheRedPill19/01/20 03:49 PM
4

Deleted all socials. Went to a rave and meditation festival with no phones allowed. Real life is so much better and it’s weird saying it. Our ancestors would think we are fucked in the head that we need a phone to find bitches. Seriously, image your great grandfathers face when he asks you if you getting girls and you tell them you need a device. Dude would be like turn that shit off and go talk to that smoking chick across the street. Wtf have we done to ourselves?
/r/TheRedPill19/01/20 03:47 PM
4

Preach it bro. Once you start chasing your dreams and make money. Hard work is the most rewarding thing ever. Sex is just temporary, like drinking a beer and feeling the buzz. The rewards you get from hard work and making money are endless .
/r/TheRedPill19/01/20 03:43 PM
1

I stopped reading after learning that you never met this girl. Were you like penpals ? That’s so gay
/r/TheRedPill19/01/20 03:39 PM
1

Totally agree, these dudes treating sex and dating like it changes like when a new iPhone comes out, it’s the same old shit, just listen you your manhood like your grandpa did when he knocked up his wife with 10 kids.
/r/TheRedPill16/01/20 06:30 AM
1

You’re supposed to be a pompous subject. Don’t you think you should be better than anyone?
/r/TheRedPill13/01/20 03:48 AM
1

Are you mental? That’s an American thing you make no sense bro. Go get checked out I’m worried for you.
/r/TheRedPill11/01/20 11:37 PM
1

You know what’s gay, thinking driving a huge truck and glorifying american flag and guns. Eating pizza with a fork and a knife is proper etiquette.
/r/TheRedPill10/01/20 10:52 PM
2

No worries I was shit taking too. Us are viewed as clowns though with this current administrations
/r/TheRedPill10/01/20 01:27 AM
2

I feel bad for the young dudes born in an era of virtual likes and mental masturbation. Good business idea would be to leverage than and teach the way of the Man to guys. Then get famous and charge ton of money
/r/TheRedPill10/01/20 01:03 AM
2

Most beta dudes you know the usual guys we make fun of on here. Yes my comment was a little charged as you can see from the downvotes, but I meant to say how the US Society is way to feminized
/r/TheRedPill10/01/20 12:55 AM
1

I meant American friends since I moved here. They would get disgusted with me because i had told some side chick she had to lose weight. They were like ohhh you should never offend a woman fuck off with that mentality. And guess what happened? She did and thanked me for it lol
/r/TheRedPill10/01/20 12:51 AM
5

Nah cat calling is low class trash wherever you go. It’s an uneducated poor person thing to do
/r/TheRedPill10/01/20 12:50 AM
-13

I’m Mediterranean norther Europeans are different
/r/TheRedPill09/01/20 05:47 PM
-35

I break whatever pc rule there is cause I was raise d in Europe where men still have penises unlike the us. I did get beta pussy “friends” drop me because I was a “pervert”. More power to me women love it
/r/TheRedPill09/01/20 04:52 PM
1

I try to do what you do but end up “consuming” again. It’s not easy you need discipline
/r/TheRedPill31/12/19 09:01 AM
24

I need this attitude I’ve been coddled since forever and never applied myself. Now on 2 years on unemployment working gig jobs and living with my mom. Don’t be me be ambitious
/r/TheRedPill29/12/19 05:46 AM
5

Same. But why is thst we shy away from fulfilling tasks? And prefer short term satisfaction?
/r/TheRedPill29/12/19 05:44 AM
1

Yea I miss wrote, beta boys
/r/TheRedPill14/12/19 03:06 PM
1

I don’t know how people are ok with talking about that shit , I thought women were sexually assaulted in the workplace 24/7 yet they have these conversations with a clear sexual undertone. Bitches are so dumb
/r/TheRedPill14/12/19 01:20 PM
3

That’s ok bro we all do cringy shit. This was pretty bad though they were introducing their husbands to their work husbands. If my woman ever disrespected me like that I’m out!
/r/TheRedPill14/12/19 01:10 PM
2

If I found that shit I'd slap that cunt out of my house ffs
/r/askTRP03/12/19 05:32 PM
1

He didn't fail just ignored her pitiful attempt at making him jealous?
/r/askTRP03/12/19 02:49 AM
2

Sad bad true, at 5'8" I'm basically invisible unless I'm not dressed bad that day
/r/askTRP03/12/19 02:48 AM
5

why would they text? That be a huge red flag for me if she was texting with a male co-worker, and her job doesn't involve communicating through email/ text.
/r/askTRP03/12/19 02:47 AM
1

I’m not 6 ft and do quite fine thank you
/r/TheRedPill17/11/19 01:03 AM
8

I’m direct during the day too
/r/seduction07/11/19 09:17 PM
-1

as guys who seduce women and have their way with them just to lose interest and ditch them, even lol at their desperate text messages after having conquered them Hit the nail on the head with this one, I ditch em after the first or second time, I just lose interest its not our fault.
/r/askTRP30/10/19 01:16 AM
1

I mean I do all this and to me it’s pretty basic, maybe I’m looking for more extreme shit? My biggest issue right now is since getting off meds I come within 10 minutes of fucking. Fucking her from behind even faster because I’m sensitive the most at the tip, which pisses me the fuck off cause the moment I start pounding hard and fast I feel the build up Fml!!
/r/TheRedPill17/09/19 02:34 AM
5

I gotta try going like an animal like this, I can confidently fuck on first dates but I keep it pretty basic, need to up the ante somehow cause I’m getting pretty bored.
/r/TheRedPill16/09/19 04:19 PM
0

It’s true though, most women’s n count is above 80
/r/seduction16/09/19 05:26 AM
1

Same I legitimately feel bad for the girl. Really weird attitude to spend an entire weekend with someone and then ignore the person.
/r/TheRedPill16/09/19 05:06 AM
3

Ahah seriously people do the opposite
/r/TheRedPill10/09/19 03:51 AM
86

Yea who the fuck ask someone if they are a professional or a go getter. And the line “oh sorry before I go are you a spontaneous person or....”Ike what? Here’s my opening: 1. See a cutie 2. Go say hi 3. Assume she is interested cause I’m the man, and get her anyway I can Keep it simple!!! All this shit is. Cover for low self esteem. I’m sure y’all are super interesting people just believe it and peple will gravitate towards you.
/r/TheRedPill06/09/19 05:26 AM
1

I answered the wrong comment lol but yez
/r/seduction25/08/19 02:47 AM
2

Damn number 2 is risky affff
/r/seduction24/08/19 07:27 AM
1

Good shit man not easy going solo at all I know I can’t do it I just feel weird going out on my own. What you and a lot of us experienced is last minute resistance (LMR) and you just have to push through that. She came to your place so she was DTF no way around that.
/r/seduction24/08/19 07:26 AM
0

What if I like doing drugs fucking hoes and playing video games
/r/TheRedPill24/08/19 03:28 AM
-3

That’s a lot of red meat, I can’t do that with high cholesterol
/r/TheRedPill21/08/19 04:04 AM
1

Damn I’m 5’7’ pretty built but never got my dick grabbed, eaither need more muscles or need elevator shoes lol
/r/TheRedPill14/08/19 04:31 PM
1

Damn sorry to hear... how tall are you
/r/TheRedPill14/08/19 04:05 AM
1

I stopped reading after the guy mentioned he was reading trp guide before the date
/r/TheRedPill02/08/19 04:35 AM
1

Yea I have some gloves, I do a ton of push ups already, zero back work and it shoes. I think only way to get a strong back with body weight fitness is definitely pullups. Also trying to cut on drinking most of my fat is abdomen and hips.
/r/TheRedPill30/07/19 05:57 PM
2

Of course I know soyboy I thought you were being serious.
/r/TheRedPill30/07/19 01:27 PM
4

Fuck man I want to look like that.. I can’t afford a gym now so I’ve been going to parks and using the kids playground to do pull-ups.. the bars aren’t made for that and it cuts into my hands but I just want to get big.. hope to have a body like you soon.
/r/TheRedPill30/07/19 03:33 AM
11

That story sounds so fake and also please point to me the research that has been done on Soy, and it better be peer reviewed.
/r/TheRedPill30/07/19 03:31 AM
3

You mean by muscular pecs? Lolol but good shit we’ve all beeen there. It’s good you keep remembering and hating yourself for it so you don’t fuck up again
/r/TheRedPill26/07/19 04:45 AM
1

I literally got two girls I met in a hotel elevator to come drinkin my room, I had smoked weed before and got lost taking , ended up getting them bored and no sex lol happens
/r/TheRedPill26/07/19 04:40 AM
2

Lol how the fuck do you miss a chance like that were you high?
/r/TheRedPill26/07/19 04:39 AM
2

Eh I know a guy that’s done it all, sure he’s a weirdo But had been through shit and is making a ton of money
/r/TheRedPill26/07/19 04:38 AM
0

“What’s the deepest emotion you have ever felt?” “If you had the opportunity to spread a message to the world, what would it be?” “What is the most beautiful thing in the world?” “How do you maximize your potential “ source
/r/TheRedPill26/07/19 04:29 AM
6

Wow what a cunt, i would have responded and a woman that can’t cook isn’t a woman.
/r/seduction25/07/19 01:07 PM
3

Yea looks gross to me I’d never step foot in India
/r/TheRedPill15/07/19 12:26 PM
5

Yes I feel like this sub is dying.. whenever I come here I see an FR posted by a teenager that apparently figured out life.
/r/TheRedPill14/07/19 09:58 PM
2

Lol it was actually really tight
/r/askTRP14/07/19 07:37 PM
8

Same thing with me now I’m thinking if I should dump her or not. She just won’t guzzle my juice! But then all of a sudden she doesn’t bat an eye when I raw dog her ass for the first time I don’t get it.
/r/askTRP14/07/19 05:14 PM
0

He’s got a point you wouldn’t slap a girls ass in front of your parents would you? Unless you’re low class then that explains things.
/r/TheRedPill10/07/19 06:39 PM
2

Good point I don’t typically write stuff down, but I’m looking to start a conversation, don’t really have anyone to talk to about this irl
/r/askTRP10/07/19 02:39 AM
2

The subreddit stopgaming is a good resource. I’m going through the same and it’s hard when you use your pc for work too. It’s crazy how these games are like hard drugs when you’re deep into it. When you come clean and stop for a bit nothing rivals the emotional response you get when you’re sucked in a virtual world. This is going to fuck with a lot of newer generations that are glued to a screen. If you have a kid get him outdoors trust me, if my parents did the same I’d be in a better place
/r/TheRedPill08/07/19 03:51 AM
1

I agree, I tell myself all the shit I read on investing, productive stuff is worth reading but it just amounts to information overload, to the point where I’m just bookmarking stuff and that’s it.
/r/TheRedPill08/07/19 03:47 AM
1

Thats what my family went through, fuck the bitch that did this. Some people are truly evil
/r/TheRedPill08/07/19 03:45 AM
20

Seriously this post reeked of desperation. Any man with a fulfilling career and money to be made is not going to fucking fedex making an elaborate plan to get laid. No he get girls on his commute.
/r/TheRedPill08/07/19 03:41 AM
1

You don’t eat vegetables do you
/r/TheRedPill24/06/19 02:15 PM
12

And not the second date either
/r/TheRedPill22/06/19 02:35 AM
3

It’s very hard for a lot of people, in America you kind of learn to NOT be genuine, I don’t know how that came to be
/r/TheRedPill21/06/19 02:40 PM
0

Yea nyc fucking easy just stop em on the street
/r/seduction13/06/19 06:26 AM
1

Nah but I’m down to Wingman. Is there still that nyc seedit lair? I remember joining a groupme years back.
/r/seduction13/06/19 06:26 AM
6

She can take the cum from her mouth / body and stick it in. Safer to cum in condom and safely disposing it.
/r/askTRP13/06/19 05:53 AM
2

Only n America. Go to any part of the world and looking at people is normal. It’s actually odd everyone stays away from each other, no wonder we have so much racism and hate everyone looking after themselves :(
/r/TheRedPill04/06/19 06:27 AM
2

It was actually family thing was too quick to judge, unfortunately I don’t have my own place so I’m not sure how to make it work logistics wise next few days oh well
/r/seduction31/05/19 03:10 AM
1

Since I have you here what’s your opinion on this interaction that went wrong: chatted on the phone with girl on tinder she is DTF. Replies to my texts immediately. We talked about meeting today. I call her last night to ask her where I pick her up ( she was cool with that) and she pauses and since she was taking the subway she said to text. Send her a text a little later saying to send me her pickup spot but she has yet to answer as of midday today. So I’m wondering what went wrong since this i…
/r/seduction30/05/19 03:41 PM
2

Wow I totally failed all your bullets points. Talked my ass off did a ton of touching but was just too much. Said she’s wanted to hang out tonight and now she blocked my number lol. This other chick met on tinder and chatted on the phone wants to fuck and we were gonna meet tomorrow, so I sent confirmation today but no answer. I just don’t understand man it’s so frustrating, they change opinions like night and day these hoes...
/r/TheRedPill30/05/19 06:43 AM
2

What about drinks isntead of coffee
/r/seduction30/05/19 06:37 AM
4

Yea I call bs on this shit unless it’s proven to work.
/r/TheRedPill12/05/19 05:32 AM
7

Lol at your last sentence, sure dude.
/r/TheRedPill06/05/19 06:19 AM
5

Gotta go west bro, so happy the spanish italian women I meet aint like this
/r/askTRP25/04/19 02:01 PM
-1

What age group? early 20s didn’t really grow up with social media as much as teenagers now days.
/r/TheRedPill09/04/19 04:01 AM
1

There's never a never !
/r/seduction02/04/19 03:56 PM
0

A lot of girls say I’m taken when they really aren’t. Some push it to see if you insist and go with you.
/r/seduction02/04/19 04:16 AM
1

The studio or the teacher? Just try somewhere else
/r/TheRedPill01/04/19 02:41 PM
8

Those mobility exercises are good but nothing beats an ancient practice centered on moving your bodies in all kinds of directions. Depending on where you live I recommend finding a studio that has different offerings: Ashtanga, Vinyasa, Yin Yoga, Kundalini (Breath practice), Sivananda, Power Yoga. Or try out different studios, Groupon and classpass are your friend. Mindfulness is sometimes offered in some studios as a spiritual mental practice as well. Also lots of hot girls and not much competi…
/r/TheRedPill31/03/19 02:48 AM
11

Do yoga too, it does wonders to your body and mind. I have zero pain anywhere in my body, and I lift amazingly.
/r/TheRedPill31/03/19 01:31 AM
10

I see one every second here in Milan. Most beautiful women here.
/r/seduction27/03/19 10:32 PM
2

Shouldn’t exfoliate too much. Check out r/asianbeauty and r/skincare addiction great resources
/r/seduction25/03/19 10:21 AM
3

Keeping attraction level is key. I’m 5’7 as well decently fit and attractive messed up last night. Got 2 girls in my hotel room within minutes of meeting, we got some drinks but I didn’t keep up the pace and they were on their phones after 30 minutes lol. Didn’t help I was pretty high and exhausted from sightseeing, but that just goes to show that you got to keep at it until you flow naturally and hunger/tiredness doesn’t impact you, because you’re not actively thinking how to sway the conversat…
/r/seduction23/03/19 06:35 PM
1

I got that lol but he must be good at talking
/r/seduction23/03/19 03:51 PM
1

What’s his secret
/r/seduction23/03/19 03:45 PM
4

Don’t shit where you eat dude. You’re just thinking about this girl, look elsewhere. Plenty of options. Unless you don’t give a fuck about the job then fuck her in the office she will remember that one.
/r/seduction20/03/19 10:01 AM
1

As a new grad software engineer im putting off remote as I need to see how to work in a company, but remote is definitely on my list. I would feel lonely I’m not the type to make friends easy and going out on my own. Work let’s you Know people
/r/TheRedPill19/03/19 10:42 PM
4

Do you smoke before going out? What kind of strain and what thc/che ratio? If I smoke I just want to stay inside and chill
/r/TheRedPill18/03/19 11:34 PM
13

Livers getting fucked regardless
/r/TheRedPill17/03/19 09:57 PM
12

Very true winter is always the best time to get in shape so you can show off in the summer, unless youre like me and although you look fucking good under a shirt you're clueless when it comes to IoIs and approaching lol
/r/TheRedPill17/03/19 06:20 PM
1

That’s what I’m asking you, to describe the fuck me eyes. Cause I can’t interpret for shit help a brother out... I think deep down i can read women, but I’m just second guessing myself and don’t go for it. Does that make sense?
/r/seduction13/03/19 10:49 PM
2

the other girl across the table gave me FUCK ME eyes How can you tell? Genuinely curious.
/r/seduction13/03/19 11:08 AM
1

the concept you're beginning to grasp works even with girls you walk up to at a coffee shop or in a nightclub. Care to share some examples? I've only made online game work, tried day and night game but its always an L. What are the signs to look for when you're in a coffee shop for example, I'm not that very socially aware so I might misinterpret IOI's. For example, if she's catching glances at you? What about night clubs?
/r/seduction13/03/19 11:05 AM
7

For real, I fucking hate studying in place full of hotties cause I beat myself up for not approaching, when it’s actually fucking fine cause I got shit that needs to get done!
/r/seduction09/03/19 05:50 PM
2

Never seen this shit
/r/seduction07/03/19 11:01 PM
1

Thanks for that, I manned up and asked for coffee but I got "I have a boyfriend" line, good shit I went for it though, was going to kick myself in the nuts if I didn't talk to a beauty like that!
/r/seduction28/02/19 11:26 AM
2

This is what saddens me so much when I’m on the subway. I try to look for chances at a conversation but everyone got their face glued to their phone
/r/TheRedPill27/02/19 10:38 PM
6

I get insanely afraid of doing that, like hows your mentality going to places on your own? I feel like not a lot do it. What do I do once I walk in a bar? That kind of shit trips me up, the "unexpectedness" of it.
/r/seduction22/02/19 04:19 PM
6

Lol did you go to the Marina? It’s like watching monkeys in a zoo: all the bars are filled with some women and a bunch of dudes trying to get them. And thAts the only neighborhood where you find a modicum of masculine men
/r/TheRedPill19/02/19 09:10 AM
1

Yea I don’t just throw it in the garbage wouldn’t want someone getting hurt thanks for the tips
/r/TheRedPill17/01/19 09:36 AM
1

Shit no wonder I have a ton of bumps I keep a blade for a while,. How do you recycle them ?
/r/TheRedPill17/01/19 01:48 AM
6

This is why as a new grad I'm no longer looking at opportunities in the Bay Area but the East Coast. Culturally I did not fit well at all with all the cucks being afraid of any comment or anything that goes against them. Hell you cant even make a joke in San Francisco anymore without someone getting offended.
/r/TheRedPill09/01/19 11:12 AM
7

Perfectly explained. The consensus seems to be that LTRs marriage are bad, and I wonder if it's because of the young age of most users here, who are probably in college or fresh out of college and are witnessing what a manipulative slut truly is. But if you find a woman with her shit together, solid career, that knows finance and how to manage money, is educated and has a healthy relationship with her parents it's a safe bet. I cannot stress of much education plays a role: yes there are wealthy …
/r/TheRedPill17/12/18 04:37 PM
3

Thank you for saying this, we really need to show our male perspectives as well as it helps a lot
/r/askTRP10/12/18 04:16 AM
5

Thats gaming and weed for me lately. Its thanskgiving today and I'd rather get high and stay on my own wtf is wrong with me?
/r/askTRP22/11/18 10:35 PM
1

Plenty of guys myself included aren't that great with money..
/r/askTRP16/11/18 03:57 AM
2

What's the difference between TRP.red and the forums?
/r/askTRP29/09/18 02:56 AM
2

Wait there's trp.red too... Hopefully we are not spawning off too much.
/r/askTRP29/09/18 02:55 AM
1

Ok download Vagrant to setup your environment. Follow the tutorial to get an Ubuntu install setup. After that connect to your virtual machine and get python installed.
/r/askTRP28/09/18 07:05 PM
1

Ok first off what environment are you working with? Windows Ubuntu Mac etc
/r/askTRP28/09/18 06:58 PM
1

You have to learn from every failed attempt. It's like getting a job: lots of interviews that fail but you can always learn from.
/r/TheRedPill20/09/18 08:59 AM
1

I think someone that is truly fucked is someone with a serious disability. It sounds like you're limiting yourself and it's OK, we all do that to ourselves. We are our worst enemy.
/r/TheRedPill19/09/18 07:25 AM
0

It really does not if you let it affect you.
/r/TheRedPill17/09/18 03:09 AM
8

I'm 5'6 and have no issue.. Yall just make it about height like you think that's what helping but it's not. Short dudes out there don't make your height define you, it doesn't mean shit. Women recognize influnce and internal confidence, so work on that
/r/TheRedPill16/09/18 11:35 AM
0

I'm 56 and I don't give a fuck I've emberassed myself countless time and I just roll with it. Nobody gives af
/r/TheRedPill13/09/18 08:20 AM
1

Why
/r/askTRP05/09/18 10:20 AM
2

Stop being afraid of peoples judgment. Say what you want.
/r/TheRedPill05/09/18 08:18 AM
2

Damn that should help me get a job in tech in the bay area
/r/TheRedPill04/09/18 08:29 AM
2

Fuck Netflix checkout HBO. i just finished Succession and it's super Red Pill. New York high power men doing business and beta cucks failing. There's a RP Dad that tells his BP druggie son to man up and tells him he's too soft for this kind of world. I highly recommend this show.
/r/TheRedPill16/08/18 07:30 PM
1

This post just speaks to the huge problem Americans have: lack of community and loneliness. Because people do not talk about their feelings with friends and family they delve deep into depression and cope by taking anti-depressants when there is no need. We are very lonely in this country, there is no " main square" in cities like in Europe, everyone lives within their small social circle, while they all appear happy.
/r/TheRedPill16/08/18 08:40 AM
3

That did help especially the last part thanks brother!
/r/TheRedPill03/08/18 09:05 PM
10

I have trouble with Ioi since I moved to the states from Europe. It's way less apparent here. Anybody link me to a good post about this? How do you read them?
/r/TheRedPill30/07/18 12:50 AM
2

I so fucking need this. I'm always on a computer and I have bad forward neck syndrome, and my neck is long as well. I'm developing my traps more to negate that but I still feel like an idiot if I try to hold my neck back more. This should help.
/r/TheRedPill25/07/18 08:18 AM
-1

How much does a regular pay you? Ever fucked a client?
/r/TheRedPill09/07/18 06:23 AM
3

This actually works! I fucked some asian chick after messaging on insta. We had gone to the same concert: the day after I looked through pictures of the concert and thought she was cute. Made up some bs of seeing her the night before but lost her in the crowd. Met up with her and fucked in a park. It was totally random and the opportunity presented itself, I wouldn't make it a mission to find sex on insta because it's time consuming.
/r/TheRedPill09/07/18 06:21 AM
5

They didn't even ask for proof? Jesus that's bad.
/r/TheRedPill30/06/18 07:46 AM
1

Probably, the have super high taxes. Literal a cuckold country.
/r/TheRedPill30/06/18 07:40 AM
3

Yea that was cringe and I already hate these fucking terms.
/r/TheRedPill30/06/18 07:23 AM
1

That's why girls put less clothes on, no dudes around to duck em so they gotta attract even harder.
/r/TheRedPill30/06/18 07:19 AM
7

I love hostels it's literally easy mode cause girls are DTF.
/r/TheRedPill30/06/18 07:14 AM
1

I cheated with multiple women recently. I didn't enjoy it, and I try not to think about what I did. It's that simple.
/r/TheRedPill25/06/18 11:31 AM
20

What if she didn't have a great time?
/r/TheRedPill25/06/18 11:05 AM
13

Hmm see you got me thinking of STDs now. I would never know 100% if the girl sucking me or that I am eating out is disease-free...
/r/TheRedPill18/06/18 09:58 AM
1

Pick up a challenge dude. I was in a bad place in life and am learning software engineering, it's fucking hard but so rewarding. I feel alive finally instead of fucking some hoe or partying or sputtering bullshit like I did at my old sales job.
/r/TheRedPill14/06/18 08:20 AM
2

Wow what a douche! You just embarrassed yourself dude
/r/TheRedPill08/06/18 07:40 PM
2

their biggest motivational hot button is to compete with other women. It’s why dread game is absolutely vital. I agree with this, I do worse when I plate a girl if I'm too communicative, compared to getting in touch with her just to see her.
/r/TheRedPill08/06/18 07:36 PM
5

So true, I recently accepted myself as this goofy no fucks given guy and my social life has Improved tenfold. Went out with a legit Asian 10 and got all drinks paid for by some lawyer who thought I was fucking funny. Even brought the girl home and K closed. She ain't texting back but feels good regardless
/r/TheRedPill03/06/18 11:34 PM
2

How are you 58 200 and I'm 5'7' 140? Are you fucking massive
/r/TheRedPill30/05/18 09:59 AM
1

Also Yoga, never gets enough praise on here
/r/TheRedPill30/05/18 09:58 AM
3

Jesus Christ height issues are real over there huh? That's a good challenge to see how well I'd do over there, and I'm a 5'7' mediterranean dude. In fact, do these super tall vikining women enjoy the company of us smaller charming southern folks?
/r/TheRedPill27/05/18 02:21 AM
3

Checkout GZPL, I recently started lifting again and I like it
/r/TheRedPill27/05/18 02:15 AM
1

EXACTLY. This is the point I was trying to convey
/r/TheRedPill25/05/18 05:44 PM
0

I’m happy you stopped reading, this wouldn't work for you anyways, and thanks for the downvotes.
/r/TheRedPill24/05/18 03:01 PM
1

I did commute to school but I was only there for classes.
/r/TheRedPill23/05/18 03:25 PM
2

Same. I have a few friends that are receptive to these ideas as they were raised by single moms and led to believe the female narrative, but I'm embarrassed to show them thisnsjbbreddit as I constantly see " Don't get married you will get cucked, she ate 4 cocks while he was sleeping! Etc). Need to find decent posts to share lol.
/r/TheRedPill23/05/18 03:24 PM
3

Im 25 too went to a super small arts school which I fucking hated and commuted, went straight home to play games, very depressing years of my life as I missed out. What other shut have you seen lol
/r/TheRedPill23/05/18 03:22 PM
4

God I wish I went to a college like that. You will never find anything like that bro.
/r/TheRedPill23/05/18 09:36 AM
3

So what's to believe? I mostly read the improvement threads. There really is too much female bashing on here and it turns people off.
/r/TheRedPill23/05/18 09:08 AM
1

I agree with you on that which is why my game was off as well, that's why I took the chance when I saw her seated doing nothing and in the back. Also this was an Alaska Airlines flights they are typically super chill. I just had to ask because my God most beautiful black woman Ive seen and I wanted a piece of that.
/r/askTRP23/05/18 08:52 AM
4

What can be done to change that? This is truly disgusting.
/r/TheRedPill22/05/18 02:08 PM
1

Same thing bro, plus the video game addiction that helped me shy away from the world. Am learning to be human again now.
/r/TheRedPill22/05/18 11:39 AM
1

But what if you have no social life? It at least gives you a chance to meet people
/r/TheRedPill05/04/18 07:18 AM
4

Man I'm not invited anywhere, Then again I'm a programmer that spends his free time playing over watch
/r/TheRedPill05/04/18 07:15 AM
2

It's that this post should have a different title. It's clearly targeted for college. Of course youll have a bunch of girls that down to to exercise, simply because the gym is paid for already. Women not sweating? Cmon. All the gyms I've been to everyone is working out seriously, and the hotter they are why would they go to a gym of all places to get hit on.
/r/TheRedPill05/04/18 07:11 AM
1

Like what kind of stairwell?
/r/TheRedPill08/02/18 11:17 AM
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I'm from Europe and this seemed ok to me. What's wrong with what he's saying? I do find it odd that he puts so much emphasis on a '"kiss". Is OP 12?
/r/seduction06/02/18 10:35 AM
1

Did you delete the pic? Can't see it
/r/seduction06/02/18 09:49 AM
2

Damn I'm fucked on that aspect as wel
/r/seduction06/02/18 09:31 AM
2

Have you tried crossfit? What do you think of it?
/r/TheRedPill24/01/18 09:56 AM
1

Well I went back to school and stopped working so that gym membership costs me money. Yea there are cheaper gyms but I wouldn't call planet fitness a gym..
/r/TheRedPill17/01/18 10:26 AM
2

Or you live in the bay area and gyms cost 100+ crossfit gyms cost 240+
/r/TheRedPill17/01/18 10:20 AM
1

I can't seem to last more than 3 minutes it's awful. I sometimes cum in her mouth first during role play and go straight at
/r/TheRedPill17/01/18 10:17 AM
0

Where can I read more about manipulation? The sidebar has some good stuff but not enough.
/r/TheRedPill24/12/17 07:27 AM
0

And how do I get that? You can get this shit for free if you work for the club
/r/TheRedPill17/12/17 07:01 PM
1

I do not understand your point, your writing is confusing. What do you mean by "comp tables and bottles"?
/r/TheRedPill17/12/17 06:43 PM
3

You've got to realize that Americans are weird. I've never been in a country where people's behavior changes so drastically between they daytime and nighttime. Am pretty sure it has to do with the puritans and all that shit that northern Europeans brought over, theyre a little weird too. It's just so easy to fuck everywhere else while here I can't remember how many times I've been either slapped by a hoe or whatever for being "inappropriate", while that same day she'll gladly get fingered outsid…
/r/TheRedPill13/12/17 09:06 AM
9

you must follow rule 1 and 2
/r/TheRedPill07/12/17 09:26 AM
14

I do a lot of yoga but it really is a sanctuary and not a place where id pick up women, I should try though.I
/r/seduction06/12/17 08:26 AM
3

Can't walk out of an apartment you just paid a security deposit and rent tho😭
/r/TheRedPill04/12/17 09:20 AM
1

"Sickeningly immoral" to you it is. It's her decision she's an adult! Also if you don't know... Also my man they all cheat or think of it, it's only your turn.
/r/seduction03/12/17 05:04 PM
1

I meant ghosting the gym for the reasons you mentioned. If you're just trying out a gym you don't really care since you're not a regular.
/r/TheRedPill03/12/17 01:47 PM
2

Not necessarily, if you're game is good enough she'll fuck you regardless of her situation.
/r/seduction03/12/17 06:56 AM
1

Good thing I do trials so idgaf I can hit on every bitch in sight and I'll ghost the place soon after
/r/TheRedPill03/12/17 06:51 AM
9

Exactly. I don't see the point of this post at all, what are we supposed to learn from this? The bitch fucked another dude and lied end of story.
/r/TheRedPill24/11/17 04:24 PM
3

This is why I'm always worried about catching something from all these hoes. My lips cracking cause of the cold? First thought was I got a cold sore by the girl I slept with a week ago. You never really know.
/r/TheRedPill23/11/17 04:39 AM
11

I definitely like your take on it, sure life sucks and is unfair if you don't get bestowed with the best genes, but yea everyone dies. Took my first hit not too long ago and it was definitely eye opening.
/r/TheRedPill20/11/17 08:14 AM
1

100% agree, in fact I have not heard back from her since the phone call in the last 2 days ( haven't contacted her either). I always have to remind myself to make them want to want me, if I'm sitting on the phone letting her type shit out that's not gonna work.
/r/askTRP19/11/17 08:42 AM
1

How much is it? Cause here in SF boxing gyms and other can cost up to to fucking 280$ a month.
/r/TheRedPill18/11/17 08:41 AM
1

Hate to break it to you but a girl that's on tinder is not marriage material.
/r/seduction13/11/17 08:17 AM
3

I copied this text and added your change, OP edit it out and add this.
/r/TheRedPill25/10/17 08:00 AM
2

I thought rsd videos were bs?
/r/TheRedPill19/10/17 07:19 AM
6

I would say masturbation without visual assistance is a good release from time to time, in your words you are the powerful man, since it's your imagination. Unless you're imafigining another dude fucking a chick, which is wierd af.
/r/TheRedPill17/10/17 08:14 AM
1

Piggybacking on this comment, if you're in the early-mid 20's get Dolce & Gabbana light blue for the summer and spring, and Dior Homme Sport for everything else. Dior Sport seems a popular choice amongst guys in Milan this summer, bought a bottle and really love it, females do to.
/r/TheRedPill17/10/17 12:02 AM
3

didn't need to act like a retarded "alpha male" . But you are, that's what an alpha male is.
/r/seduction15/10/17 02:28 AM
7

I'm not going to drop her because she would not agree to a threesome that's just retarded, both of us are not about that life. I do agree it would be a good shit test though, something to try. She did catch me talking to other girls, she knows I can bounce at any moment since I'm flirty with everybody.
/r/TheRedPill12/10/17 06:43 PM
15

This is what my LTR did to me, suddenly the sex sucked and she was shaming for wanting actual quality sex. For months I ducked down and just had boring fucking vanilla sex until I couldn't take it anymore. I stopped being a pussy and was very rough, started 69ing and just fucked her all over the place. She is much more docile now. It's so clear to me how all you have to do to keep them happy is fucking the living shit out of them, women are weird.
/r/TheRedPill12/10/17 07:59 AM
3

Work on what you want, they will follow suit.
/r/seduction04/10/17 07:05 AM
1

What the fuck is "Machiavellied", I just stopped reading right there.
/r/TheRedPill28/09/17 07:56 AM
1

The fuck is ape
/r/seduction17/09/17 08:02 AM
1

that's what I'm trying to do. My social skills are fine and I like the business part of IT anways. Sure it would've made more sense to go for a business degree but I think that having a techinical background really helps, especially if you want to start a company, develop an idea.
/r/askTRP15/09/17 07:39 AM
1

What do yo think of the upcoming build 57 for Firefox?
/r/TheRedPill01/09/17 05:28 AM
1

Yea everyone trying to look thuggish
/r/seduction01/08/17 02:52 PM
1

How tall are you?
/r/seduction28/07/17 10:34 PM
1

How do you manipulate gps? I bet you did this on droid
/r/seduction12/07/17 07:03 PM
9

Who the fucks gonna sit next to a lone person in a movie theater?
/r/seduction12/06/17 09:50 AM
1

That's what my colleague does he's so sly talks shut behind his back but then he's like best friends with him. I did work for him because he got a promotion, which made me realize you gotta be a hawk and do what's best for you alone, fuck everyone else.
/r/TheRedPill13/04/17 07:32 PM
1

Wtf dump this bitch people around you post respect of you. Who let's their girlfriend hitnon other guys? Just shows you're a loser dude!
/r/askTRP08/04/17 12:36 PM
20

I'm 5'6" and do just fine, I get lazy so I'm never godlike don't know what you are talking about. How tall/ in shape are you? Biggest ballers I know are short dudes.
/r/TheRedPill30/03/17 02:01 PM
1

Horse obsessed women want the big D
/r/seduction30/03/17 12:11 AM
2

I mean there's always a park somewhere right? Should get easier once we get a place of our own.
/r/TheRedPill28/03/17 09:34 PM
1

I just say hi and if she answers were good. Got it from a post that was on here.
/r/TheRedPill28/03/17 09:33 PM
2

I live with my parents so car fuck is an option. How's your experience with that? I'd just get paranoid of getting caught from a cop.
/r/TheRedPill28/03/17 09:26 PM
9

Oh that's definitely a big one for me.
/r/TheRedPill25/03/17 10:29 PM
17

I'm about to be a corporate slave because that's what will allow me to spend the rest of my 20's doing exactly what you said. How else can you enjoy travel / open up a business without capital? It is not that easy 90% of entrepreneurs fail (Fortune). You've got to start someone and unfortunately for most young men it means sucking a company's hard big dick.
/r/TheRedPill25/03/17 09:59 PM
3

THUNDERCOCK CHAD
/r/seduction20/03/17 11:42 PM
1

I'm a recovering gamer myself, thank you for this post, it's is the biggest thing holding me back. What do you do for a living now?
/r/seduction20/03/17 11:41 PM
1

Nyc
/r/seduction20/03/17 12:28 AM
2

Yea whys that it's mostly land whales on okc
/r/seduction19/03/17 11:14 PM
1

He prolly means college. I'm in the same boat and regret so much for for commuting from home and gaming instead of fucking sluts and meeting bros. That easy access social life you can't get back.
/r/seduction09/03/17 06:04 AM
9

What would you like to know?
/r/TheRedPill09/03/17 05:36 AM
157

I sell ultra high end cars and let me tell you the blue pill goes all the way to the top. You'd think they know better but most don't. Then you have the ballers that are married but come in with a new 20yr old everytime they buy a car, which is quite often.
/r/TheRedPill09/03/17 12:40 AM
1

I mean he could've slept with her if he felt like it.
/r/TheRedPill05/03/17 11:50 PM
1

When is there no place to play the game?
/r/seduction05/03/17 04:42 AM
2

I love this one, so simple to do yet often neglected. I guarantee you there would be less than half of the posts on how to get a girl if everyone just looked at every woman they want with the intention of fucking her, they be getting numbers on the way back of on the frggen subway. It's that easy I'd you think about it.
/r/seduction05/03/17 02:36 AM
1

What if it's your boss/company?
/r/seduction04/03/17 12:52 AM
1

Fuck this guy. I've had people like this in my harm and they only want to do you harm. I'd honestly beat the shit out of this guy I don't know how you haven't already.
/r/seduction04/03/17 12:50 AM
1

This it the. Biggest thing I took away from my boss today when asking for feedback, nobody wants to hang around a complainer.
/r/seduction04/03/17 12:46 AM
-3

Yea the guys sounds like such a fucktard, he's the idea of what a woman wants to see in a man, just like what a weak man sees in Trump.
/r/TheRedPill01/03/17 12:48 AM
3

I sell luxury cars to people like this, and you are on your right path. 70 years old and fucking a 20 year old nothing better.
/r/TheRedPill26/02/17 05:25 AM
8

Also you don't make shit at corporate entry levels in NYC unless you negotiate well and make good connections
/r/TheRedPill04/02/17 03:40 AM
6

Yea what the fuck they shoot up schools all the time that shit is not funny. It's like yelling there's a shark on a cali beach you don't pull thst shit.
/r/TheRedPill19/12/16 12:32 AM
24

We are their puppets. A dick is a dick and it's expendable, the sooner you learn it the better. I work in the highest luxury industry and sell what you can buy a house for. The uber rich dudes are wrapped around women's fingers, but the ones who get it change them like they would change a pair of cheap shoes.
/r/TheRedPill19/12/16 12:21 AM
1

Exactly this, long run dread is tricky, if you stay less invested she will to
/r/TheRedPill15/12/16 12:32 AM
1

Why would you? If you had to fly to NYC just for sex then pay for an escort from wherever you live lol.
/r/TheRedPill20/11/16 03:37 PM
1

That's why I stay in NYC. Plenty of competition sure, but there's plenty hot assess from a over the world.
/r/TheRedPill20/11/16 07:08 AM
6

Surprisingly so SNL made a great skit about this with Dave Chapelle. He's just sitting there with white people bitching that trump is winning and he doesn't give a fuck.
/r/TheRedPill14/11/16 04:54 AM
1

Hayek was a genius, everyone should read his works.
/r/TheRedPill14/11/16 04:49 AM
160

I know right, there could be a myriad of reasons they would support trump. Is it just me or is this sub becoming a place where people try to spin a story into a trp reddit post?
/r/TheRedPill12/11/16 05:52 AM
3

I'm so glad I was raised in Italy and work for an Italian company here in the US. We are a true redpill culture, no fucks given and romantic as well. If it wasn't shit right now over there you bet your ass I'd be there if the money was alright.
/r/TheRedPill10/11/16 03:22 AM
9

Why do you even have Facebook? It's already enough to hear your coworkers talk about that feminist woman enraged With Trump or the trump fuck boy spewing bulshit on his feed. J
/r/TheRedPill09/11/16 12:40 AM
2

Good, I need this when my internship is up.
/r/TheRedPill10/10/16 02:43 AM
1

Had to reply and congratulate you on this, really great answer. The shorter the answer the better, if not you are trying to hard.
/r/TheRedPill20/09/16 12:06 AM
1

You.. you don't just rent a Veyron to get it out of your system, you never will..
/r/TheRedPill18/09/16 05:53 AM
2

I work for a high luxury brand, highest in its sector. See plenty of trophy hoes, eyeing you and not the latest piece her doormat will purchase. Reminds me that yes money and power should be a goal, but don't expect a woman to love you unconditionally, she never will.
/r/TheRedPill13/09/16 12:10 AM
3

Very true, actually need that mindset more than anything right now
/r/TheRedPill03/09/16 04:28 AM
5

I'm 5'6" and I think that's considered short in the US. I find that it's an initial hurdle thst has to be overcomed at every new encouter, the typical shit test from girls or some amog calling me a kid. If you don't let it get to you it gets essay, but it's csn still be a small itch of a problem in my opinion, no matter how hard you internalize it.
/r/TheRedPill03/09/16 04:10 AM
1

Thanks for the correction. I think this is a great period that people should look into
/r/TheRedPill03/09/16 03:05 AM
5

NYC is the living proof of that, sluts galore walking naked among the filthy as fuck streets of new york, among the blue collar workers eyeing them and the drinks flowing night and day.
/r/TheRedPill03/09/16 02:31 AM
2

John Locke "The state of Nature", life is shit because everyone pursues their own agenda, that's why we have societies.
/r/TheRedPill03/09/16 02:26 AM
-10

What we are taking a woman's advice now here on TRP?
/r/TheRedPill03/09/16 02:21 AM
9

Be tall Don't be tall PSA: depends on where you live.
/r/TheRedPill03/09/16 01:49 AM
1

Bro wrap it up with a thin ass condom and it's the same fucking thing. If you're true redpill sex is just a short term release, your endorphins should spin when you start to make it big $$. Money first women later.
/r/TheRedPill03/09/16 01:34 AM
1

As a lowly intern I wish I could keep a kettle bell if I had a desk. I can wake up at 6:30 every day for a run ( I work at 10).
/r/TheRedPill02/09/16 02:48 AM
2

How do you mix work and working out? I. Have a 10-7 job with an hour commute each day, could go after 8 but I'm drained after work. Has to be your mindset.
/r/TheRedPill01/09/16 04:00 AM
1

You read that wrong, its literally saying in a nice way that you may still be good looking at an older age, but you sure as shit can't have kids.
/r/TheRedPill01/09/16 03:53 AM
-1

Yes but how do I keep track of my girl then?
/r/TheRedPill28/08/16 05:28 AM
15

That last part made me chuckle, that's a great idea!
/r/TheRedPill25/08/16 04:12 AM
1

Where do you look? I really need to look sharp for my job but I don't have the money yet, wouldn't mind at all getting my hand unto some good high quality counterfeit stuff.
/r/TheRedPill17/08/16 04:40 AM
1

I'm not depressed ( used to be, got out of it with exercise and social life), but Overwatch is definitely helping me staying glued to a monitor all day. I'd say defeating temptations that are not too productive is a staple to a balanced life...
/r/TheRedPill03/08/16 03:08 AM
1

Who cares about the tweets and shit? You shouldn't waste time watching social media crap, the song is catchy and that's all I'm basing my facts on. You and the other dudes are just looking through the other stuff. Can't just throw around beta and alpha terms around like that buddy, just makes you weird.
/r/TheRedPill15/07/16 02:56 PM
0

"He's trying to" kid can do whatever the fuck he wants it sounds like you hating. What do you care?
/r/TheRedPill15/07/16 07:10 AM
-2

You sound like a bitch right now with thst angry typing man. This kid from Indonesia is on the front page of //rhiphopheads. That song is a banger, might get ghost face killah remix too. Now did you do all that at 16?
/r/TheRedPill15/07/16 07:01 AM
1

How would have he even vetted her? You can't reveal deceiving people easily, they can hide it so well you won't figure it out.
/r/TheRedPill28/06/16 05:13 AM
4

I just can't fathom how someone can fake it all like that, especially if there are kids involved, that is just nuts to me.
/r/TheRedPill28/05/16 02:48 AM
1

This is me, the guy who keeps going back to the sweet comfort of video games, the same demon that stressed out my family to no end, or to gain 10 pounds in 3 years. Why is short term gratification so easy? Long term gratification requires you to grind, and it's something I hope to achieve.
/r/TheRedPill28/05/16 02:39 AM
2

Unless you're severely handicapped you are not at a disadvantage. If you're ripped, have a nice haircut and good fashion sense accompanied by game and a desire to succeed you're already in the top 10% of males, if not higher. What if you have all of that but are short? I can speak out of experience, seen people that have a towering presence definitely helps. Funny how you can get respect from even the top alpha males if you deserve it, but height, at least in the US, is a big fucking deal. All b…
/r/TheRedPill28/05/16 02:10 AM
1

What are the subs you are talking about?
/r/TheRedPill27/05/16 10:09 PM
2

Well I just got called by the head HR of an investment bank for a "casual" interview, just to talk no explicit position was given. What kind of questions would they ask me? I'm straight out of college with a BA in Economics so this is a real surprise, also meeting the manager after talking to this person. I did not study finance, guessing they want to see if I'm smart and trainable.
/r/TheRedPill27/05/16 10:06 PM
1

I thought it was a great article, thanks for sharing!
/r/TheRedPill04/04/16 10:56 PM
2

Lived all my life in Italy, now I live in the US! I think you are pointing out the fact that many 3rd generations think they are originals from the same country, pretty annoying yes.
/r/TheRedPill04/04/16 02:13 PM
2

Well that was mostly humourous but I do think it's the best cuisine in the world.
/r/TheRedPill04/04/16 12:09 PM
7

Good tips but those recipes just make me wanna throw up. How about a morning bagel with a egg cheese wrap and avocado? Sunny side up, put cheese and onion, fold the egg and stick it on a bagel with your favorite spread plus slices of avocado and pepper. Real tasty and very caloric. Careful meal planning and you can variate your meals with stuff that is actually good Source: Italian dude
/r/TheRedPill04/04/16 03:33 AM
1

I'm in a relationship where the gf is more qualified and will make more in the short run, as I'm pursuing an education and I do think about the dynamic, and do worry that if I won't make more than her everything can go south. But how much important is money really? If two people cover essential roles that it can work out, if not you gtfo IMO.
/r/TheRedPill03/04/16 09:42 PM
11

I'm sorry for your loss man, hope that's not what it takes to change a person
/r/TheRedPill25/03/16 04:02 PM
5

Videogame addiction Is the worst. At least when you're drinking and doing light drugs you're social, but being on your own gaming creates a bubble that makes it hard to escape. Once everything around you seems mediocre and not worth pursuing you know you got a problem.
/r/TheRedPill25/03/16 04:01 PM
2

Man that sucks she was an addict too? Don't know which is worse, hopefully you are doing better and moved past it.
/r/askTRP17/03/16 09:24 PM
1

Not gone I just have to push for it before it was more like "sex everyday to nail the guy", now it's sex when we feel like it, and I don't feel like fucking everyday honestly, many times there is no time do it, fucking tired when I get back late.
/r/askTRP17/03/16 09:23 PM
1

Yep I'm out, made it clear today. Not an issue really I've kept a gf cause it was comfortable but I have bigger things in mind, thank you for commenting.
/r/askTRP17/03/16 09:22 PM
2

couldn't agree more.
/r/askTRP17/03/16 09:20 PM
1

thanks man I will take your advice.
/r/askTRP17/03/16 09:20 PM
1

thanks for the comment!
/r/askTRP17/03/16 09:20 PM
2

Well unfortunately I'm at her parents in a different country, which means I'll have to keep a straight face until I leave. Considering changing the flight
/r/askTRP17/03/16 03:35 PM
2

Doesn't tell you, is friendly - time to get out ASAP and at best she's only good as a plate from here on out. The guy just asked her what she was doing there, she replied she was there that day for an interview, and if it went okay she would be there often, smiley included Wtf
/r/askTRP17/03/16 03:34 PM
1

Oh I know I am, but what if you gf tells you that the job in this country she might get hired for sucks but tells this other guy on fb, who lives close to this job, that she would like to work there?
/r/askTRP17/03/16 03:30 PM
1

We will eventually get separated for a few months as we will both be busy working. This unfortunately came up during this vacation I'm having before I go back to the states later this month, and I'll confront with her about this.
/r/askTRP17/03/16 03:27 PM
2

She actually gave me all her passwords like a year ago but never bothered to check. She just answered this dude when he saw she was in town for a job, obviously looking to hook up but she'd already left, makes me wonder if she would have!
/r/askTRP17/03/16 03:16 PM
1

I mean I've done worse studying abroad but answering to a guy when he saw she was in his town? No.
/r/askTRP17/03/16 03:14 PM
3

I'll be honest I let myself go after sticking with her. Was in better shape and had 3+ plates. And you know what? I was trying harder in life when I was single, instead of being in a comfort zone of mediocre relaxation, never improving.
/r/askTRP17/03/16 03:13 PM
1

Yes to all of the things you mentioned last, and she's a euro girl from my same country which is why I stuck with her. Honestly it could all be good if it ended at the fact that she was drinking heavily 2 years ago and had a few flings, but the fact that she EVEN ANSWERS the guy she was with makes my blood boil. Should I leave her over this? What value would I give If I simply told her not too, she let me use her fb so apparently she thinks nothing is wrong wtf?
/r/askTRP17/03/16 03:12 PM
1

She's from the same european country as me and I just fell for her cause I thought "hey she's not a slut like all the girls here". Cooks and cleans couldn't have been better right?
/r/askTRP17/03/16 03:09 PM
2

Yes im doing that hitting gym less video games but this was just the nail in the coffin, thought I found my girl great family etc but a woman's past is inexcusable no matter what people say today.
/r/askTRP17/03/16 01:34 PM
5

Yep, just saw this guy she fucked still messenges her on Facebook
/r/askTRP17/03/16 01:05 PM
1

She's my only social outlet, I'm freshly straight out of college learning programming and she's. Got an MA and getting interviewed by big companies. all I'm seeing is her being surrounded by successful alphas.
/r/askTRP17/03/16 12:42 PM
0

Four red flags, her friend cheated on her boyfriend not her. She had slut fun escape abroad for a semester, I told myself not to be with a party girl so I'll tell her about my findings but even if I accepted this I wouldn't feel good about it. I unfortunately am a man of habit and it's more comfortable just staying with a girl, typical beta dream of getting settled but this will have to change, just have to be more proactive and say fuck it
/r/askTRP17/03/16 12:40 PM
3

That's what I got from a fitness class in college. Do you want to build strong muscle fibers( difference between being strong and big), or do you want to get bigger muscle? I'm on 5x5 stronglifts simply because I'd like to develop a good lifting habit with the compound barbell lifts. What's a go-to hypertrophy workout, heavy lifts or not?
/r/TheRedPill30/12/15 09:34 AM
1

Simple Italian cooking, that is what everybody should be raised on.
/r/TheRedPill30/12/15 09:20 AM
2

Had to stop doing dips and lift altogether for a while since my elbow was killing me. Wrist stretches before and after a workout does it for me, after warming up of course.
/r/TheRedPill30/12/15 08:50 AM
1

Great tips, I recommend anyone to check out classes on negotiation, you learn stuff like this.
/r/TheRedPill03/12/15 02:06 AM
1

those hags discriminate against other women too really just anyone. Know lots of good people who don't get calls back, and they always say the person who had the power to hire them was shit.
/r/TheRedPill23/10/15 12:45 AM
2

I'm starting to do that too, deny any mention of sex until she initiates. Her trying to please me in bed seems to have ended, more dread is needed.
/r/TheRedPill18/09/15 12:31 AM
1

I don't know man my sister is pretty funny, very sarcastic and makes me laugh my ass off. and isn't compensating for ugliess. Yea most aren't funny though for reasons other posters mentioned. the funny ones are usually the ones who you wouldn't fuck.
/r/TheRedPill02/08/15 04:39 AM
4

I don't know how long OP saw the movie, but it was actually reallyy fucking red pill. The whole movie is about how she's washed up and fucked too many guys while her sister admits she wouldve been better off to find beta dude even though sex is not as great as Chad. She then finds beta doctor who is actually pissed at all the guys she's been with but doubles down like a good old beta man should and they fall in love. The ending probably coddled all the women watching feel sorry for themselves so…
/r/TheRedPill02/08/15 04:33 AM
1

My gf too, that's what fucking worrying me, the roles will be inverted if she out earns me, how else is one supposed to be top dog in a relationship like this?
/r/TheRedPill31/07/15 04:22 AM
2

A taller guy commands respect, if you're able to make it seem like you're the taller guy there's no problem. Simply easier to be taller for a man like it's easier for a girl to be pretty.
/r/TheRedPill31/07/15 04:04 AM
13

I can't find the reference on females paying for sex.
/r/TheRedPill27/07/15 02:14 PM
-7

go out every weekend getting trashed with their gfs in the club finding dudes. Girls in groups are actively finding dudes? I'm usually under the impression they're there to have a good time.
/r/TheRedPill27/07/15 02:03 PM
4

why are you paying for drinks? Also you make it sound like you can't change how you feel, perhaps seek women in other venues?
/r/TheRedPill24/07/15 04:19 AM
10

As an Italian, eh we've seen better days.
/r/TheRedPill22/07/15 05:44 PM
2

I've known people who dropped out of college and went the bootcamp route and got hired with job placement, that's them though. What is wrong with bootcamps?
/r/TheRedPill22/07/15 04:19 AM
1

What's your opinion that if someone invests 800 hours learning full stack web dev gets an entry level position of about 80k (NY)? This is what coding bootcamps info sessions tell me. Don't know if I should buy into it and start on this in about 5 months when I get my bachelors in economics, or getting into a a riskier/ hustle career that is import/export trading? (Have a skillset that is advantageous for me in a certain market). What I'm asking is, is this coding bubble a risky investment, getti…
/r/TheRedPill22/07/15 03:32 AM
1

check out financial tech programming, probably some of the hardest shit out there but it might interest you.
/r/TheRedPill22/07/15 03:21 AM
1

This is exactly what my dad says all the time! He's a doctor and professes the value of education can get you in law, medicine, engineering. He even knows about the hiring process for the IT department, you need to show some shit and better have a good portofolio of your work or graduated from a good school.
/r/TheRedPill22/07/15 03:10 AM
13

That is your point of view though, their's is overblown and most likely think it's the best sex you've ever had.
/r/TheRedPill21/07/15 03:18 PM
110

it really is ridiculously high, you recognize the ones who fucked hard through college, they behave like they're some kind of sexual goddesses, getting better and better with more dick exp
/r/TheRedPill21/07/15 02:20 PM
3

if you're saying that image was posted on the comment section, well, then it's probably the post that was removed by a mod.
/r/TheRedPill21/07/15 01:28 PM
6

You mean his soul was crushed?
/r/TheRedPill18/07/15 09:04 PM
2

I've been out of the gaming world since '13, was pretty bad then. How did it change?
/r/TheRedPill18/07/15 08:56 PM
4

this reads straight from my labor Economics course. just like minimum wage, imposing such a government policy that does not favor the firm will have negative effects on employment.
/r/TheRedPill14/07/15 03:48 PM
1

stopped using it last year, it makes you state your height? ouch.
/r/TheRedPill09/07/15 05:15 AM
2

Refreshing post. I've been going crazy over stuff like this recently, almost like I felt confined in the few decisions I could take. Guess what? It's all about habit. There's so much you can do, Work, Food, Bars, shit gets boring. Partying all the time is not the only way you can have fun. Change is good for the mind and for the body.
/r/TheRedPill07/07/15 04:02 AM
7

Careful about being not "ready" to be exclusive, r/relationships thinks that leads dumb girl on and you are using her lol.
/r/TheRedPill02/07/15 10:07 PM
3

How would've he gone to fuck more than cuddle girl?
/r/TheRedPill02/07/15 09:56 PM
1

Fucking hell OP, try being 5'6"!
/r/TheRedPill29/06/15 04:07 PM
1

She'd have to be pretty fucking hot. And offer you a ride to work.
/r/TheRedPill26/06/15 07:35 PM
-10

Shit post, I don't remember countless number of things people tell me.
/r/TheRedPill26/06/15 02:45 PM
62

Sex is just a short term relief, no matter how sugar coated the pussy is. Sleep deprivation on the other hand can fucking kill you if on the job or driving..
/r/TheRedPill26/06/15 03:01 AM
2

What's the most improvised trip you did and how did it go down?
/r/TheRedPill20/06/15 05:12 AM
3

Where is this handbook that you speak of?
/r/TheRedPill15/06/15 01:20 PM
4

I've seen some short dudes that you wouldn't want to fuck with...
/r/TheRedPill15/06/15 04:58 AM
2

NYC is just a mindfuck, so many different types of people.
/r/TheRedPill14/06/15 05:25 AM
1

bar sluts pretty much, just don't go to a female hair salon on a Sunday, you'll get your ears chopped off.
/r/TheRedPill12/06/15 01:53 PM
99

Fuck that's what's happening in my home town in northern Italy. All I saw when I visited were halal shops open at 2am. Italy also has a problem of low birthrate and too many migrants. It is however more of an economic decision, fortunately it's still a country that has not been plagued with feminists, alpha men dominate. When people will start spending more we will be on top of the other Feminists euros, and hopefully our teams will catch up too.
/r/TheRedPill12/06/15 01:50 PM
2

That's...longer then watching a TV show. Taking it to a whole other level then a simple 5 minute release.
/r/TheRedPill12/06/15 12:21 PM
2

I cum so much faster with porn then during any sexual activity, it's infuriating.
/r/TheRedPill11/06/15 08:54 PM
6

I wasn't even trying to guess the video, that's literally every music video where a female singer lead is featured. You'd never see a male lead stepping on a woman.
/r/TheRedPill11/06/15 08:25 PM
7

Every Madonna video you see.
/r/TheRedPill11/06/15 07:57 PM
1

I was not right, but I'm glad I'm not clueless and can spot things, can be exhausting though.
/r/TheRedPill11/06/15 07:36 PM
3

Agree, LinkedIn too. On why to find a job that is not minimum wage in NYC is through connections. Got to be a social whore and milk that social media.
/r/TheRedPill11/06/15 04:36 PM
1

The mind is very powerful, I went through a hamster phase two weeks ago. While in annoyed I wasted so much mental energy worrying about unfounded things, I'm glad I'm this paranoid.
/r/TheRedPill11/06/15 04:13 PM
2

It's all how you handle a divorce-rape.
/r/seduction28/05/15 04:30 AM
-7

Only sorority girl was stroking my dick while in astronomy class next to pretty boy and his motorcycle jacket, crazy.
/r/TheRedPill27/05/15 03:48 AM
1

Great FR. This was me two years ago, now I'm realizing just how hard it is out there when reaching for success. Unless it's a minimum wage job, nobody will give you a shot unless you got contacts or can prove yourself someway. In my opinion playing video games and being a recluse is very detrimental to your social skills, better stop or you will pay the price, for years if you don't change your mind set.
/r/TheRedPill27/05/15 03:32 AM
-1

I thought once you're ass brakes it's stays I've that, I'll be damned. My gf is the usual don't swallow no anal, I think the ultimate test of your sexual abilities is to get what you want, once she is so out of it from being hammered she's as conscious as a mannequin. That's my goal.
/r/TheRedPill25/05/15 12:17 PM
2

How can you tell if a girl did anal?
/r/TheRedPill25/05/15 05:13 AM
0

Wasn't talking about you, in general. Long term gratification instead of short term. Too many college kids are pampered with porn pussy and video games that it messes with your brain reward system. Cut all of that out and you're on the right track. Except to see your grandparents, they will die so spend some time with themthem.
/r/TheRedPill25/05/15 12:32 AM
-10

who cares about social life? You will have time for that in retirement, with 20 year old if you do it right. Is your goal to have social life or be successful?
/r/TheRedPill24/05/15 07:45 PM
1

what's dome good stand up for that? I take too long with comebacks.
/r/TheRedPill24/05/15 01:51 PM
2

Thanks for the post, everyone I see stoic I think of the guy sitting there all autistic-like, gotta be a little bit proactive. I used to do that and it didn't fare well. Also about shit tests gotta be careful about letting them bitches win sometimes, especially if they got connections that you need. These shits don't think twice at getting back at you.
/r/TheRedPill24/05/15 01:46 PM
1

There has to be! Who would be this stupid?
/r/TheRedPill24/05/15 03:31 AM
8

Is this legal? I can't fathom this to be even possible.
/r/TheRedPill24/05/15 02:57 AM
0

what's the cheapest ring you can buy without it looking cheap? Ever thought about going abroad buying some diamond and get it made? I remember in Thailand at this factory they had the craziest shit for cheap...
/r/TheRedPill22/05/15 08:19 PM
6

Guess this is why I'm having a hard time finding a job. everyone hires internally, nobody hires virtual outsiders unless you prostitute yourself networking. If positions are filled already why post the job? you're just wasting people's time.
/r/TheRedPill22/05/15 04:25 AM
3

Humiliating in the least, no respect for a man that let's his wife post stuff like this. pure trash.
/r/TheRedPill19/05/15 11:00 PM
7

they should crucifix her on that sticky matress
/r/TheRedPill19/05/15 10:49 PM
2

As long as your not in Feminist NY or West coast, the places I've visited in the US are alright. Asia, Mediterranean Europe... Make money, travel, and live somewhere else it's easy to get visas in other countries if your job let's you,
/r/TheRedPill18/05/15 03:27 PM
1

what did you do instead when she told you, and would. it have mattered based on what you know now?
/r/TheRedPill18/05/15 03:19 PM
3

vitamin D is just one factor to name the few, I cut meat 9 hours day shift and don't see light I know what you mean, that's just one part of it. serotonin release and endorphins through exercise help as long as you get your ass of the couch, that's what helped me instead of taking psycho active drugs that make you gain weight and fuck you up even further.
/r/TheRedPill11/05/15 06:58 PM
6

What I mostly got out of this is everyone is mildly depressed and anxious, stop taking meds america, get out of the house for that vitamin D.
/r/TheRedPill11/05/15 05:16 PM
1

With all the cum they gobble I'm surprised how they get drunk so easily.
/r/TheRedPill07/05/15 01:15 PM
2

HPV is good, only three shots every six months, highly recommend. Don't be stupid and face a slut dragon empty handed.
/r/TheRedPill07/05/15 01:13 PM
2

Seriously, learning in banking classes about discounted cash flows and determining what the fed will do with rational expectations and learning a bit of game theory is essential in taking on the financial world, Keynes is very much present OP. If you really want to go the self route, take courses on coursera and other, read the blog's books in free time.
/r/TheRedPill05/05/15 07:18 PM
1

My dad is in the same situation, made him use the T-bar row and is now taking ibuprofen every day, mobility is really crucial if you sit a lot, sitting just kills you.
/r/TheRedPill05/05/15 06:31 PM
-2

I would've said the same thing about Pac, but post fight he was very disappointing. Kept saying how he won the fight, while his painful look said otherwise, and the rotator-cuff injury? Cmon.
/r/TheRedPill04/05/15 02:15 AM
7

See this is one my difficulties, making bonds with other guys: biggest regret was not sticking with the many team sports I tried, which made me very envious of all the bros. If I'll ever have kids stick them in sports right away.
/r/TheRedPill04/05/15 02:06 AM
4

You ignored her, you didn't not validate her, it's different.
/r/TheRedPill04/05/15 02:04 AM
1

I don't get what you're saying, care to explain?
/r/TheRedPill04/05/15 01:24 AM
2

complementing is in addition of, compensating is opposition of: need two hit opposing forces so not to create imbalances, just like only doing presses instead of pulls will have detrimental effects on your posture.
/r/TheRedPill03/05/15 03:01 PM
3

Also called the Jos.A. Bank look. Dress Italian, you'll stand out
/r/TheRedPill03/05/15 02:30 PM
2

Also compensating with that a nice workout on the GHR to strengthen lower back and posterior chain
/r/TheRedPill03/05/15 02:29 PM
10

...until it becomes too easy and it's essentially cardiovascular training. Put on weight gradually on those pull-ups and you'll see what OP is talking about.
/r/TheRedPill03/05/15 02:23 PM
2

Its a good article, but a reallyy good one would be from a peer-reviewed journal, unlikely to find anything. Perhaps a study that details the differences in gender environments.
/r/TheRedPill28/04/15 04:02 AM
7

I've been enjoying Mad Men a lot, closest thing I find that aligns with TRP. The main character (Don Draper) is portrayed as a sad man that indulges in alcohol and women. What's great about the show is that there is no middle-ground: Both men that are in a marriage and the ones that are not are unhappy and unsatisfied in a way. What the main character needs in the show is self-reliance, without thought to sexual satisfaction and drug consumption.
/r/TheRedPill28/04/15 03:25 AM
1

Lets gets some brids tonight mate, loved that.
/r/TheRedPill28/04/15 03:19 AM
4

Holy Shit read the entire thing. This explains everything. EU: 40% of Women in top positions? Ouch.
/r/TheRedPill28/04/15 03:14 AM
2

Different measures with the same effect. Can't imagine how mind blown they would be if women had more independence there. Actually better this way, more lunatics would go on a jihad for the virgins.
/r/TheRedPill27/04/15 11:35 PM
1

Had to look that up, that's pretty good.
/r/TheRedPill27/04/15 11:33 PM
2

Funny how this stuff amazes us when it's practically the norm in Muslim countries.
/r/TheRedPill27/04/15 11:44 AM
2

Very unlikely sure but kids killed themselves over that shit, and bulling of course.
/r/TheRedPill27/04/15 01:41 AM
1

I'm talking about BMI in general. I assume it will go up even if your not getting fat but building weight with muscle.
/r/TheRedPill26/04/15 02:31 PM
1

perfect analogy to Interventionism. 10/10
/r/TheRedPill26/04/15 02:10 PM
1

How trustworthy is BMI? If I gain lean muscle, thus way more, BMI would go over 25.
/r/TheRedPill26/04/15 02:02 PM
1

hold on gotta finish this episode of Mad Men first.
/r/TheRedPill26/04/15 01:59 PM
4

THe infamous mattress is in there too. Good times for mattress sellers.
/r/TheRedPill26/04/15 04:43 AM
6

Goddamn this lady needs a job
/r/TheRedPill26/04/15 04:39 AM
1

good point. Just seems stupid to hide, what you got the cops on you? Theyll find out.
/r/TheRedPill26/04/15 04:26 AM
1

Thats what I did with my LTR, did what we had to do, then fucked off for the better part of two weeks. That month is now a "grey area"
/r/TheRedPill26/04/15 04:24 AM
1

Just bought the Starting Strength book, but I'm kind of bummed about the lack of accessory work. Skull crushers, T-Rows... Should I stick with SS and just add push-pull depending on the muscle used or follow another program (ICF)?
/r/TheRedPill25/04/15 11:53 PM
2

5/3/1 BBB is this it?
/r/TheRedPill25/04/15 11:49 PM
6

That's all I see in my mother's "Prevention" magazine: "Eat this and this not that it's not healthy and natural. Oh, but check out this advertisement for a new drug which should make you happy, even though you should already be with our advice. Oh, wait..."
/r/TheRedPill25/04/15 10:04 PM
2

Any good Trp sources on our rights?
/r/TheRedPill24/04/15 04:38 PM
5

of course always be aware of that and improve everyday. also, lifting does wonders.
/r/TheRedPill23/04/15 09:28 PM
4

It depends though, my gf studies her ass off in grad school for tech and management positions, she's more likely to be my meal ticket.
/r/TheRedPill23/04/15 08:56 PM
15

especially American girls, since I started living here I see it as blasphemy dating in college. Never-ending flux of peer-pressured ladies coming your way in socially-accepted sexual environments, why the hell would anyone commit to someone that lives in such a risky environment?
/r/TheRedPill21/04/15 10:17 PM
1

What about height? Definitely a huge disadvantage that I can't get over. Lift all you want you'll look like a stump compared to a taller guy.
/r/TheRedPill21/04/15 04:20 AM
0

Why do you think his case is not "air-tight"?
/r/TheRedPill21/04/15 02:45 AM
1

This is why they should just binge Mad Men in gender studies classrooms.
/r/TheRedPill20/04/15 11:17 PM
2

Just don't vote bro, there's no point. "We are all fucked in the long run" - Kaynes
/r/TheRedPill20/04/15 09:54 PM
1

I never said drink often or pot, not into the whole drinking culture myself but a nice drink during a meal fits the bill. if I owned a huttub I'd do that instead to unwind.
/r/TheRedPill19/04/15 03:54 AM
3

I'd bore my ass of it the girl I'm with doesn't even drink
/r/TheRedPill19/04/15 03:46 AM
1

I just been through one on those sjit
/r/TheRedPill16/04/15 04:42 AM
2

not if you live in NYC. had the best old fashioned with a hint of rose, I want more of that...
/r/TheRedPill16/04/15 04:29 AM
3

funny how it's a skill. Used to be a barista, stopped. Now I talk like shit. Like my dad told me, you need to get out of the house and stop talking to yourself.
/r/TheRedPill14/04/15 10:54 PM
2

TRP is like heading to the pub with your buddies, just the online version of it ;)
/r/TheRedPill14/04/15 10:41 PM
1

Fuck man, he's your bro don't you feel sorry for him? I'd get him in a gym asap!
/r/TheRedPill14/04/15 10:36 PM
2

what do you mean by energy levels? The worst place for guys who get it is a liberal arts college, it's just disgusting talking to these poor clueless dudes.
/r/TheRedPill14/04/15 10:34 PM
2

Definitely going to read that thanks for mentioning it. Feel sorry for the kids that marry in their early 20s, if you really want marriage wait.
/r/TheRedPill30/03/15 01:29 PM
0

what do think of what Obama said about having voting required for everyone?
/r/TheRedPill20/03/15 01:38 PM
11

seriously, there's a reason why New York City is New York City, the prime pussy.
/r/TheRedPill20/03/15 04:22 AM
2

good job op, just read the list and can picture so many girls like this. not to shit on your work but it's pretty common sense to recognize this behavior, I hope guys don't fall for this.
/r/TheRedPill17/03/15 11:08 AM
10

Please update us if she promptly sucks your dick in the near future.
/r/TheRedPill15/03/15 04:47 AM
-6

That is certainly true, much less of a risk factor involved by going your own way. You bring up a point about you versus everyone else: how much do you gain by only helping yourself and not others? we are used to associate empathy and actual emotion with doormat betas when thinking Trp mentality. But just like Trp says, take what speaks to you, and fuck the rest if you don't believe it. I'm thinking for myself that way am I not?
/r/TheRedPill13/03/15 01:13 AM
-2

Like I said to another commenter the death on someone would weigh on me way more than a potential lawsuit.
/r/TheRedPill13/03/15 01:08 AM
-4

If police is not around the corner there's not much they can do. that person could potentially be fatally injured by the time police comes. would you not feel in a way responsabile if a person dies for not having been saved fast enough?
/r/TheRedPill13/03/15 01:06 AM
-17

I have a hard time beliving anyone that if any one of you encounter a fight like this, the first thought that comes to mind is how fucked you're gonna be if you intervene. Sometimes there's nothing to learn or lose when helping someone.
/r/TheRedPill12/03/15 09:01 PM
1

I hope that she does it during your private lessons, otherwise that is truly unprofessional behavior for you to not reprimand a client that acts like that. As a client If I saw the teacher eye-fucking a client like that I'd leave. Should've solved this sooner!
/r/TheRedPill12/03/15 08:55 PM
3

good thing I checked the new posts. was about to close reddit for the night after reading the same old shit: women behavior. Everyone one of you claims you got them all figured out, so why keep talking about it? Only posts worth reading are the character building ones. Alternatively, use the search bar and you'll find that there are countless other men with their BMWs wondering why others won't see them as their one true God. Goodnight fags
/r/TheRedPill10/03/15 04:55 AM
30

I'd love to know what kind of reactions you got.
/r/TheRedPill10/03/15 04:45 AM
2

Ok with the deadlift, more advanced exercise that takes a while to perfect. but no squat rack? cmon. That's the best compound exercise you can do without using a machine.
/r/TheRedPill09/03/15 02:23 PM
1

ah you're in Texas thought you knew stores in NYC, I'll take a look thanks.
/r/TheRedPill04/03/15 02:42 PM
1

Only one I know of is Buffalo Exchange or Crossroads, and it's not upscale
/r/TheRedPill04/03/15 02:29 PM
1

That's why they are opening stores elsewhere to fit European size.
/r/TheRedPill04/03/15 01:47 PM
0

Well who cares what they think! AE is very popular outside of Europe.
/r/TheRedPill04/03/15 01:40 AM
2

I'd like to start a men's rights at my unversity, a liberal arts school. Straight up sucide, and for what? I'm thinking of myself and my career, you can't save everyone, they'll realize it sooner or later.
/r/TheRedPill04/03/15 12:57 AM
7

How much you make?
/r/TheRedPill04/03/15 12:48 AM
3

Funny cause a bunch of gay men shop there, but they got great stuff. Your loss
/r/TheRedPill04/03/15 12:48 AM
-3

UNIQLO all the way! Zara US sucks, our Zara in Europe is better, so don't go there. American Eagle also has very quality stuff. Other than that check out /r/malefashionadvice, they have a map in the sidebar with all the good stores to check out.
/r/TheRedPill04/03/15 12:47 AM
23

Hate to brake it to you, but you may have already lost if you were orbiting around her. What was her reaction?
/r/TheRedPill03/03/15 09:49 PM
2

I'd get more pissed at the guys, make em realize their slave-status.
/r/TheRedPill03/03/15 09:17 PM
89

Never discuss your feelings or emotions. Just don't. Holding her hand in silence or hugging her warmly is all she needs. Do not betray your inner emotional life to a woman's fickle ears. I don't agree with this is if you're in a long-term relationship. Short-term of course, don't waste your time talking about your shit when you'd better spend it fucking her. You'll need to open up to her from time to time, not the same way you do to your parents or a buddy of yours mind you, but show some emotio…
/r/TheRedPill03/03/15 09:07 PM
7

Good, time to get your asses outside people.
/r/TheRedPill03/03/15 08:52 PM
1

I hope you're not being sarcastic, 'cause I rarely see such a response on here anymore. Listen to this man, all women are not dirtbag loving whores!
/r/TheRedPill03/03/15 04:38 AM
4

I thought I was on /r/theredpill not /r/seduction...
/r/TheRedPill24/02/15 07:24 PM
1

That's why I'm cutting my prozac in half, shit's just fucks with you. Now how about some of that taurine my friend is taking..
/r/TheRedPill21/02/15 12:40 AM
2

In short, no american women.
/r/TheRedPill19/02/15 09:16 PM
-1

This post should belong in seddit or ask seddit, it's just a post with RP sprinklings on it. And yes, OP you're just a worthless cheater as her, shame on you.
/r/TheRedPill19/02/15 09:08 PM
-2

While I admire you're goals, don't set your sights on being your own boss. Too many people do that and set themselves up for failure.
/r/TheRedPill18/02/15 02:23 PM
1

I had to stop at the baby showers. I witnessed someone I know be completely detached from his life after marrying an american woman and all that extra baggage that comes with it. Do yourself a favor, either take that shit out of her head the moment you get serious, or find yourself a non-american wife.
/r/TheRedPill17/02/15 03:27 AM
3

let's just hope it's not an anime harem. OP don't disappoint!
/r/TheRedPill15/02/15 09:50 PM
-1

did it get to popular thus having a population of 15 yr old brats who think being alpha is being some scripted douche? cause that's what I'm seeing. It's either man hating lesbos or fake men. Where did the love go?
/r/TheRedPill14/02/15 09:12 PM
-2

free speech man, you might not agree with it but it's good for a healthy discussion.
/r/TheRedPill14/02/15 04:58 PM
1

I get that, OP was harsh for slamming her to the ground with that reality-check on the first conversation. You can't change everyone, you just hurt more people. Empathy goes a long way.
/r/TheRedPill14/02/15 03:01 PM
-19

Dude she was just trying to get laid for once and that fucking killed her. Not good to have a me against the world attitude it won't help you.
/r/TheRedPill14/02/15 02:01 PM
12

Fortunately though, most girls are sluts here in Sweden so at least we got that going for us. Ha, I've heard that from my gf. She said the Swedes fucked everything and everyone when she was went on student exchange.
/r/TheRedPill13/02/15 05:48 PM
1

where di you live?
/r/seduction24/01/15 11:33 PM
3

OP you are clueless if you actually married a girl like that. *Abortions *Cheater *Doesn't say she is taken I'm surprised the rest of you are upvoting this, this shit is common sense.
/r/TheRedPill09/12/14 05:57 PM
1

Living in NY I've come to hate contractors, especially the chimneymen.
/r/TheRedPill21/10/14 02:27 AM
4

I don't agree with that. The girl I'm dating for about 3 months is the girl I bitch at and fight with ever since I met her. Feels like we've known each other forever and it's not that "blissful" love that everyone is talking about. It's that love that comes and goes, that reminds you that you both got to work in and outside the relationship to keep a smooth sailing. I think that men shouldn't go try and find that pure high that OP is talking about, but something a little notches lower that actua…
/r/TheRedPill08/10/14 01:31 AM
6

I've recently moved here to the US from Italy, even though being Italian- American and having lived here on and off over the years I never found comfort in being with American women, as I could never understand them. Italians are much easier to be around with, as they are more direct, less bullshit. Am in a relationship with an Italian woman who's finishing her studies in Italy, long-distance for now but it's worth it, as there is not much to compete out here.
/r/TheRedPill19/09/14 02:31 PM
2

Pencak Silat for sure, armchair fighter here, If I ever get into a combat sport it's going to be that one. If you're in NYC White Crane Silat NYC
/r/TheRedPill29/08/14 10:07 PM
0

PENCAK SILAT
/r/TheRedPill29/08/14 09:56 PM
0

You obviously don't know and don't need to know the full story, I do agree not to apologize when women overreact to stupid shit, this is just not the case. Also not married. Also no need to be condescending, we are all here to help each other out from the dangers of the opposite sex.
/r/TheRedPill29/08/14 04:24 AM
2

I'm pretty sure you only think this because you're wife/gf/whatever tells you so, and you actually pay mind to it. I actually am, I fuck people over. No need to hide it. Women get fat when they move here. No one can deny it's not easy to gain weight here, will all the shit they have. She is losing weight by eating more healthy stuff. Why am I a pussy for taking responsibility as a man for the actions I take? It's not supposed to be always black and white. You're less of a man and more of a pussy…
/r/TheRedPill29/08/14 03:25 AM
1

what alpha dude in nyc? It's full of gay people!
/r/TheRedPill29/08/14 03:17 AM
-5

But what if I treat it just as bad, I deserve it? I am an asshole, I know it. I always make fun of her weight, she's a foreigner like me but I'm half-american, women get fat when they move here. She broke into a tantrum cause I told her not to eat yogurt since we will be having dinner later, bitching it's always about what I want. Thought about it for a bit, told her she was right, I mean she was, does a woman really lose interest the moment you utter the words "sorry"?
/r/TheRedPill29/08/14 01:57 AM
0

How about if you suffer from depression? Sometimes I think if it's morally correct to date someone that has issues.
/r/TheRedPill21/07/14 12:45 PM
6

Coming from Europe I sense that American males are more self-conscious about height issues since it's mentioned all the time. I also hear women say they don't date guys shorter than X amount. Could it be that they are just more selective here?
/r/TheRedPill20/07/14 09:30 PM
2

I'm just so stubborn that I just don't want to get around losing weight and being fit again that I've been cold-approaching anyways but I better get started.
/r/TheRedPill08/07/14 01:56 AM
1

Are you supposed to always know what you want, what if you don't? I wouldn't want to screw myself over by stating my non-monogamous intentions, since the relationship with this woman I'm seeing might turn into something else.
/r/TheRedPill05/07/14 03:41 PM
0

Coming back from an after happy hour full of networking and mingling, I was going to write about this. Looks seem to matter less to me than before. Realizing that I am a man and that a woman has to put an effort into getting to know you just as well as you do, many of these pretty ladies just don't cut it. At the end of the day Its draining cutting through all their bullshit, their "playing hard to get" games, and what for? Is her pussy really all that worth it? I find a lively conversation with…
/r/TheRedPill24/06/14 04:14 AM
-2

Looks-wise has to be nyc. Hellhole to live in compared to california, but gladly traded.
/r/TheRedPill22/06/14 01:42 AM
3

Which is why I wish the mods would only allow rejections FRs, or at most neutral. It way more comfortable knowing some other guy did exactly what you wanted to do, failed at it, but stays at it.
/r/seduction21/06/14 12:07 AM
2

Same here, good thing mine's at internship, so I can decide If I want to work a 9&5 in front of a monitor all day.
/r/TheRedPill14/06/14 05:04 PM
1

Good point, but what is considered creepy in the united states? A lot of guys here come from all over. For example where im from you pretty much hug a girl right from the start
/r/seduction14/06/14 06:17 AM
1

Thanks for a more scientific approach to the question OP posed, definitely will go more into it. For the people with anxiety it see s to be the same: strong build-up in the morning, more mellow later in the day.
/r/seduction11/06/14 03:27 AM
22

Biggest expectation to get rid of: getting laid.
/r/seduction08/06/14 10:07 PM
3

I'm always horny, so the cute line works for me.
/r/seduction03/06/14 07:31 PM
1

I stopped using Tinder for this reason, its just empty sex. Everyone is different though, you may be sitting next to the most amazing woman, but you'd never find out unless you take on bigger perspectives.
/r/seduction03/06/14 07:29 PM
0

I'm actually at ground level, does that still count?
/r/seduction01/06/14 03:47 AM
3

For the life of me I can't do that in NYC, we all got that unfazed look on our faces.
/r/seduction29/05/14 03:56 AM
2

If you just say she's attractive and ask for her number you will get your answer faster but I guarantee it will be a flakier number. Very true! If done this way stay in set longer, you really got to build attraction instead of just complimenting her and walking away.
/r/seduction26/05/14 09:03 PM
1

For posture if you have a long neck you really got to exercise and straighten, because even if you try to correct your posture its highly likely you'll still slouch.
/r/seduction25/05/14 11:48 PM
1

I'm trying to, but there is so much from so long ago I can't even look at it.
/r/seduction25/05/14 11:46 PM
-4

He lived in a halfway house and yes they were all male.
/r/TheRedPill25/05/14 11:41 PM
0

That's what I'm getting at everytime I check the sub: When I close the browser I just feel pissed off and be like :Wonder what kind of counter I'll have to come up today when said girl gives me a shit-test".
/r/TheRedPill25/05/14 01:23 PM
1

Another smaller example I've seen is changing "[I'm] sorry" to "Excuse me" when just trying to pass through people. Simple but effective. Being Italian and living in NYC for a year I just pass through people.
/r/TheRedPill24/05/14 07:30 PM
1

Tbh that could be a shit test, just depends how many times she says it. This girl did say it a few times so it's definitely a no. Just weigh in how much interest you really have for this girl: if the cost to have her around is bigger than move on.
/r/seduction24/05/14 01:04 AM
1

Some are really stuck-up though, gotta drop them after the first date. Goes with sexy talk, lets you grope her all over, then says "you don't ask those kinds of questions".
/r/seduction22/05/14 03:56 PM
5

So, I need to find a gay guy.
/r/seduction22/05/14 01:46 PM
3

Also when shoping for clothes its better to ask a gay a gazillon times, ask chicks for opinions only if you want to hit on them, NEVER EVER FOR AN ACTUAL OPINION. why?
/r/seduction22/05/14 01:20 AM
3

When you get to fuck an entire sample of a population then you can say you've mastered the skill of seduction.
/r/seduction21/05/14 10:17 PM
1

It's best to try and stray away from bars. So many other guys proposed that to her, just like so many guys tell her she's pretty. Finding something fun to do is way more unique and will get her to think you are different from the other chimpanzees that try to fuck her.
/r/seduction21/05/14 10:15 PM
15

Or save it along with the other trillion stuff you saved and never look back at it.
/r/seduction21/05/14 10:12 PM
2

No it did not, he did so for the intention to speak to her in private instead of the whole group.
/r/seduction21/05/14 10:10 PM
1

Dont tell me, moved to NY and what a difference. Where you there for vacation? I sure hope you went surfing.
/r/seduction21/05/14 06:53 PM
2

I walk into the mall to pick up some jeans and perhaps a girl The way you wrote that makes it's pretty damn funny.
/r/seduction21/05/14 01:35 PM
0

Depends on your career. Right now I'm a lazy unmotivated shit of a college student, but if I had a really good job I'd be sure to keep that rep in place.
/r/seduction21/05/14 03:14 AM
5

Tell me it's the Beach Boardwalk in Santa Cruz, so many hot bitches.
/r/seduction21/05/14 03:11 AM
1

21 years old here, realized I was wasting my potential with drugs and videogames at 17, 4 years later feel like I never aged. Taking one step at a time as there's LOTS do worry about. What is really unnerving is that at this age you're supposed to have fun, not fix yourself to then have fun when you are hitting 25+ and should have real shit and commitments to deal with.
/r/seduction18/05/14 12:44 AM
1

what did you say?
/r/seduction17/05/14 09:36 PM
1

How differently do you approach them compared to white or asians or other ethnicities? I got a few numbers but I felt like I wasn't aggressive enough in my approach.
/r/seduction17/05/14 06:53 PM
2

Jesus why did I have to read this now, I literally just bailed out of a date because " I didn't feel like it". I kind of hate you OP for posting this, but thanks.
/r/seduction17/05/14 06:18 PM
1

Either way, I have to think about what I did wrong yesterday. And I wanted to share with seddit a lesson I learned. Being the life of the party is one thing, making something with that attention and value is another. A party is a short-term investment of your time, and you should get as much out as possible. However, if you can't apply and re-spend the investment, it holds no real monetary value. Either way it's a sunk cost. You'll do better next time, no need to think of the past.
/r/seduction17/05/14 05:59 PM
1

I don't believe you've literally been trying for six years, are you applying the same "techniques"? Wouldn't that be the actually problem. You could be simply stuck in a rut.
/r/seduction13/05/14 03:19 AM
1

Definitely agree with you more on this, as well as the fact that being a "joking cocky pervert" just doesn't work for some people, you got to have the face for it.
/r/seduction12/05/14 02:33 PM
1

facebook is dead, or dying.
/r/seduction10/05/14 01:31 PM
14

This went better than expected, I thought you #-closed your mom, like for practice or something...
/r/seduction10/05/14 01:10 PM
2

As much as I am supportive of legalization, other than the fact that I was a heavy smoker myself, marijuana is NOT for everyone. It is a depressant, and can trigger anxiety and past family history. If you have someone in the family that suffers from a mental disorder, even your great-grandfather, then I would highly suggest you don't smoke, as it was suggested by me by different professionals. In my case I'm on different medications for mental disorders, and marijuana worsened it. It's gonna be …
/r/seduction08/05/14 01:08 PM
2

This may apply to a lot of people, actually everyone! Caffeine gets you anxious I've cut down on espressos in the morning, may intially feel like shit but at least I'm calm.
/r/seduction07/05/14 10:11 PM
1

If you're not the leader, what other role can you fill? great advice as always hero.
/r/seduction29/04/14 03:46 PM
2

but.. what if you got no friends?
/r/seduction18/04/14 06:10 PM
2

SquattinCasanova has great infield material, also brings his clients out and tapes them. You get to see the awkwardness wash over after a few sets.
/r/seduction27/03/14 10:42 PM
1

I agree but sometimes logistics just won't grant you the opportunity to get up and leave. Let's just say you paid to get in somewhere, you're not gonna leave right after because you just had a "peak" moment, got to be smart about it. Then again if I were to do this I'd just over-analyze the situation making things worse.
/r/seduction19/03/14 01:32 PM
0

Today in class I found myself sitting next to the Tinder girl I almost fucked. We just looked at each other and she wanted it. However I started paying attention in class (8k tuition, that's what I start thinking when my mind wonders to tits and ass during class), she took it as I was ignoring her. I did however send her a text during class, to which she didn't respond. I give the pen back to a girl I borrowed it from and have a light chat, she just gets up and leaves. I'll still approach her ne…
/r/seduction19/03/14 01:26 AM
3

this is all you need to know really. Fucked up with logistics last night, got booted out from roomates. Logistics logistics logistics... memorize it or write it on your skin
/r/seduction16/03/14 01:54 AM
1

one told me to leave her alone, she was on her phone and had earphones on. You def need to know how to approach in cases like these.
/r/seduction12/03/14 11:22 PM
1

I'm guessing you don't carry your phone. Bigger flake rate if you give her yours. And no social media please.
/r/seduction12/03/14 11:19 PM
1

sucks if you're a commuter though.
/r/seduction10/03/14 11:52 PM
3

her rude friend was probably pissed that she didn't have a guy as awesome as you talk her up. You did good OP.
/r/seduction09/03/14 07:31 PM
1

"Be unforgettable" That certainly puts a lot of pressure. Lets be honest, this is perhaps the hardest goal of all. Being confident is one thing, knowing you're the shit and the best out there probably takes a lot of personal development. Its still a good goal though.
/r/seduction03/03/14 03:59 AM
1

I noticed this too when I moved to the States. People seem afraid to pick up the .phone
/r/seduction02/03/14 04:23 AM
2

God I love your comments.
/r/seduction02/03/14 04:16 AM
2

Thank you for replying but this is after the approach, I mean as soon as you look each other. She's walking in front of you, what do you do? Shes on the subway, but it's so packed you can't get to her. I usually try to keep eye contact, look away, look back at her and smile. Then try to find a way to get close to her. I'm kidding this is what I WOULD do.
/r/seduction28/02/14 05:26 PM
1

This allows me to reach the hook point super fast. I've seen the slow approach and it doesn't hold a girls attention like this does. What would you say the hook point here was? Saying slow or fast approach is really up to interpretation so it won't get us anywhere in the understanding of it, but I definitely like the slow approach, let your body language do the talking. How would you then change it up when you ask her out? You couldn't possibly keep this up for hours. Like you said "girls like i…
/r/seduction28/02/14 03:58 PM
4

Thanks for providing infield audio, really helps understanding the dynamics. I'm not an expert, but here's my feedback: I am not comfortable with your approach, I don't understand the style. It felt you barreled through questions, trying to avoid silence and taking things slow. You can still establish the rhythm of the interaction without changing from one topic to another so fast, why not stick to say, cars for a while, or if she likes NY better than where she is now. Props to you for thinking …
/r/seduction28/02/14 02:16 PM
1

It really is a sex negative culture. People avoiding glances so not to appear as perverts. I for one cannot hold sexual intention with eye contact, i imagine people would disapprove, but who gives a fuck? Even if she's not be interested yet and you're assuming attraction you should still pull it off.
/r/seduction28/02/14 06:41 AM
5

When you see a girl and she looks back, smile, BUT do it slowly Keep the f*cking eyecontact with a smooth smile I'm sure this has been pointed out before time and time again, but I'm just NOT able too. I am an attractive guy, and I've been told that. I am very self-conscious too, meaning that I'm always aware of my surroundings. Needless to say I notice when I get checked out. I just don't look when that happens, like I'm afraid to acknowledge her with a face that says " I like you, who are you?…
/r/seduction28/02/14 05:58 AM
1

I don't get how he decided not to have sex: She obviously had that intention by bringing OP to her home. If the " we are not having sex" is a shit test I'm done, how pathetic is that? What is the incentive? I've never heard a girl do that last minute. She if she wants a booty call op if not move the fuck on I guess... Good try though, Tinder can be good.
/r/seduction28/02/14 05:41 AM
1

The power of now? Have it in my bookshelf and I'm pumped to read it after all the recommendations. Why do you think he's full of shit? You ever tried Mindfullnes.
/r/seduction27/02/14 11:41 PM
1

Reminds me of Mindfulness? Life is made of moments that happen and never come back again. People keep bringing up Eckhart Tole and meditation, should really get around to learn it.
/r/seduction27/02/14 03:02 PM
3

Especially 12 rubbish beers.
/r/seduction27/02/14 03:00 PM
1

I dont know many that know what reddit is, and what's wrong with it?
/r/seduction27/02/14 02:58 PM
1

What do you mean by 15 minute increments? Funny thing is it's a mexican restaurant, not exactly sexy eating tacos when you got food all over your fingers. THe place also has an open bar, If I try to change venues or getting up to go at the bar she can just say why not stay here, or even worse why not stay put and ask the waiter to bring the drinks. Ouch!
/r/seduction26/02/14 06:25 PM
2

yea, and I felt like a fucking champ after.
/r/seduction26/02/14 06:21 PM
1

Fair enough. I went with a restaurant because I don't know where else to take care her, there isn't much around. Was thinking getting her comfortable at the restaurant, moving to a bar later to make it more intimate.
/r/seduction26/02/14 04:11 PM
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It made me want to feel rejected all the time: trying doesn't kill you! Crazy how people beat themselves up letting their thoughts run wild without ever taking action. Reminds me of the famous Italian poet Giacomo Leopardi who never left his rich home but wrote about his loved one, who he never met, until she died well into his old age.
/r/seduction26/02/14 03:04 AM
77

I did this with this gorgeous girl in class: walked down the library stairs and saw her sitting there. Thinking "oh shit" I just walked straight ahead, found a pc and sat there, swallowing my anxiety. I walked back, sat next to her and introduced myself. Unfortunately she obviously had a boyfriend, didn't really know how to carry it from there and blurted out " at least I tried", which obviously struck her. After I left all I thought was how stupid of me not looking up the girl's name (the class…
/r/seduction26/02/14 12:11 AM
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you got a row of tables and everyone's sitting across, except the two of you? Just seems odd. I'd try it but im having my first date since forever and don't want to fuck it up with something like that lol.
/r/seduction26/02/14 12:06 AM
7

idk after I started reading Models these pua sites seem like a waste of time. Just got to go out and experience seduction without the lines.
/r/seduction25/02/14 10:41 PM
0

It just seems odd to do it at a restaurant with the typical four seat table. Even if you're not wasting space is does seem like it.
/r/seduction25/02/14 07:40 PM
2

But what about IOIs? You are trying to find out if she's into you. Where can I read more about this?
/r/seduction25/02/14 04:28 AM
3

I've set up a date for next week. Got numbers out of most of them and I'm trying to work them. I'm using Tinder and Hot or Not. I have a short convo and then ask them out.
/r/seduction25/02/14 02:51 AM
1

That's pretty much my que to start opening. I don't have the balls yet to assume attraction ( like opening when she hasn't even seen me yet), so I just. Ring up a sly smile, see if she acknowledges it, and then go for it.
/r/seduction24/02/14 10:51 PM
11

Like others say its mostly a validation app, why so may beautiful women and single? Got send nude pics but that was it, set up three dates too. Really depends, obv higher flake rate than asking someone one on one, but its a no pressure so its pretty neat.
/r/seduction24/02/14 03:47 PM
2

I mostly use mobile dating apps, I look at the pictures and just comment on them. Something random, or an observation "that's an awesome looking dog". Sometimes I just comment on their appearance or saying what's up works. It truly is 50/50, there's never certainty.
/r/seduction24/02/14 06:42 AM
1

Really sorry for you man, you sound really committed, dont give up. Fortunately someone here will give the advice you need.
/r/seduction24/02/14 06:33 AM
2

The way they painted it made it almost sound like a rape date. I stopped posting in askwomen after the most upvoted comment was that women should see every man as a potential rapist.
/r/seduction23/02/14 03:34 PM
1

oh wow yes. I guess you can use both in this context.
/r/seduction23/02/14 03:32 PM
1

Assume attraction. Thats what I did when I flirted with this girl from my class. She had a boyfriend. Still went for it though!
/r/seduction23/02/14 07:40 AM
1

To be fair they have a point. You cant take what you read on here for granted, it depends on the circumstances.
/r/seduction23/02/14 07:37 AM
0

Pinning?
/r/seduction23/02/14 06:15 AM
1

That's unfortunate, its not active at all? Gothamseddit is pretty nice but you don't live in ny :)
/r/seduction23/02/14 02:04 AM
1

Shit 4,00-502 right here. I should stop tryin
/r/seduction23/02/14 01:59 AM
1

That's just mean, give him. A chance poor guy.
/r/seduction22/02/14 08:59 PM
0

If you look at the sidebar there are different seddits according to your location, Seattle is one of them.
/r/seduction22/02/14 08:21 PM
2

This should be top post. Too many broad and confusing arguments and baseless statements.
/r/seduction22/02/14 08:19 PM
1

why isnt there a a westchester seddit
/r/seduction22/02/14 01:25 AM
1

Aim for Immersion, the absence of thought. Meditation That's all you really need.
/r/seduction22/02/14 01:11 AM
1

Graffiti sorry, in Europe they're called writers.
/r/seduction21/02/14 05:35 PM
1

Best way to do it IMO, if you fuck up at least no one knows you.
/r/seduction21/02/14 03:46 AM
2

Heard it too. Wonder if it was the white plains mall.
/r/seduction21/02/14 03:31 AM
1

I'd do this too if my campus wasnt small. You dont want the same people looking at you while you incessantly hit on another female. Or maybe shouldn't give a shit.
/r/seduction21/02/14 03:23 AM
1

I'm getting an even weirder response: girl keeps luring me saying how much she wants it sending snapchat pics and all, but I can't get her to settle a time, starting to think she's fucking with me?
/r/seduction20/02/14 09:43 PM
2

Best thing I did was drop people like that. Ironically I found out one of them got arrested for writing of all things. I better finish my education after witnessing these things.
/r/seduction20/02/14 09:38 PM
0

Unless you look the part ( yoga/hippy), some are bound to assume you went there for different reason. Just approach those that don't care and seem interested.
/r/seduction16/02/14 05:45 PM
1

What would you suggest in a small campus environment? I approached a few girls got numbers, one wasn't interested. Am a commuter but word would still get around, I wouldn't like to be known as the sleazy guy that hits on everyone.
/r/seduction16/02/14 05:43 PM
1

What's DHVing
/r/seduction14/02/14 11:02 PM
5

I'd love it if this became a TV show.
/r/seduction14/02/14 10:43 PM
1

That's the problem. I for example am comfortable, but 99% aren't. I also try to not make it uncomfortable, it they just seem to blabber on and on so they don t let silence set in. I blame it on people being constantly connected to their fucking phones.
/r/seduction01/02/14 01:22 AM
1

You synthesized it perfectly. You can use look as a good starting point to assess if shes interested or not, but then you got to open your mouth...
/r/seduction29/01/14 12:38 AM
9

And tell her " you're amazing. Can you cook and clean too?". I guarantee that won't get you anywhere...
/r/seduction29/01/14 12:37 AM
1

How about this situation: commuting to a small university (4000-), how do you not fuck it up and embarrass yourself? Since I'm not really planning on building a social standing I'm just flirting with women in class, working, whatever. but it still can come back to me and bite me in the ass, especially if I ever plan to move on campus. Basically you just got to be careful.
/r/seduction26/01/14 06:02 AM
1

Indulging in narcissism has never gotten me anywhere That's my problem right there, I live in the extremes: either I feel grandiose like I just took meth or I'm depressed and live like a hermit all weekend. Surprisingly I am not bipolar.
/r/seduction08/01/14 10:53 PM
14

How did you go from exchanging numbers to basically hooking up? I get lost after exchanging numbers.
/r/seduction08/01/14 01:56 PM
1

Boo I'm in Westchester :(
/r/seduction06/01/14 05:29 AM
1

I am not spontaneous, nor present, i simply plan everything I do during the day, orchestrating every moevement of my body and speak every word i think beforehand, with an end goal in mind. I have the book and have been referred by many to read up on mindfulness and meditation. Looks like it might do the trick.
/r/seduction01/01/14 08:22 AM
2

So I guess my mother counts?
/r/seduction01/01/14 08:11 AM
2

Wtf 150 for an open bar? Man I miss Europe.
/r/seduction01/01/14 08:11 AM
0

Dont try too hard? 90% on this sub are fucking trying too hard, and whatever happened to fake it till you make it? Happy new year
/r/seduction01/01/14 07:38 AM
3

Number 10 is spot on, but mostly applies to long term-relationships/ commitments. Look at her mum....lol.
/r/seduction28/12/13 05:06 AM
3

I agree with everything except the commonly told " Agree and Amplify". Sometimes it just doesn't cut it and you look like a fool, either come up with something funny to say or suck it up and try next time. I believe there was a rant/post on this a week ago, was spot on imo.
/r/seduction26/12/13 04:45 PM
3

whats wrong with getting an erection? I get a raging hard-on when the grinding comes.
/r/seduction26/12/13 04:42 PM
1

I hate to admit it to myself, but I never know what the fuck I'm doing if I'm away from mom too much.
/r/seduction26/12/13 06:53 AM
2

Yes therapy and happy pills just seem like they dont do shit for me, I think I really need to live, fall down hard and rise back up again.
/r/seduction26/12/13 06:50 AM
2

care to elaborate?
/r/seduction14/12/13 03:22 AM
2

Wish they had these in NYC, I'm not desperate enough to pay a guy to show me , especially at 20...
/r/seduction03/12/13 01:41 AM
1

Very insightful. You also mentioned the concept of Mindfulness. I suggest anyone with a shitton of anxiety to look it up, as it was suggested to me by different people in the field of cognitive therapy. It is more of a eastern philosophy, living in the moment (not going mental). If you look up on Buddhism you may find a striking similarity to many things that surface here on this sub and on motivation subs and all that.
/r/seduction30/11/13 11:15 PM
1

I'm terrible with people my age and under but great with adults. Maybe I should just give up and go for milf's.
/r/seduction30/11/13 11:10 PM
1

Fuck my only facial muscle is a smile.
/r/seduction20/11/13 01:30 AM
6

I am definitely not the kind of guy she would fall for
/r/seduction20/11/13 01:27 AM
4

From what I take from it, and from what a person I know that has been doing it for years, it's the perfect solution for overcoming AA, and more importantly, getting out of your head. My living in the moment, acknowledging that you are here. Breathing and focusing eliminates thoughts, thus having more organic conversations and leading a less "scripted" life.
/r/seduction08/11/13 01:17 AM
4

what drives me insane is that they are so fucking wasteful. They print pages and pages, almost an entire book, just because printing is free. It'd be cool if we were in the same school.
/r/seduction07/11/13 02:47 AM
1

I don't see how this works unless your slightly drunk. Or maybe my assumptions are wrong. I assume that by going to myplace/yourplace entails sex, making the process and transition much easier. It is much harder IMO to escalate to the point were you're having sex right out of the bar.
/r/seduction07/11/13 02:27 AM
2

All your bulletpoints are great but will take a while to learn. 2 year spell will probably turn into something longer.
/r/seduction07/11/13 02:20 AM
1

if you you're short you got it long?? ok...
/r/seduction07/11/13 02:14 AM
1

motherfucker winter is where it's at, we get to wear boots. Aiiiiiiiii
/r/seduction07/11/13 02:14 AM
6

That's my school right there. Fucking athlete kids with scholarships who get up midway through class to play their games, while I'm sitting there with full tuition. Pretty much gave up approaching, it's like they speak another language, I'm a foreigner and speak better than them lol.
/r/seduction07/11/13 02:12 AM
3

I heard some shots.
/r/seduction07/11/13 02:09 AM
2

I highly doubt northern europeans show off, that you get down South and yes mine was a compliment. You and OP write better than 80% of the entire American population. Just today I heard someone say "difficultly" and "stealer" as in reference to a thief.
/r/seduction01/11/13 01:28 AM
1

How do you northerners always speak such good English?
/r/seduction31/10/13 11:53 PM
1

I heard two in a row today," I only go for tall guys" and "I only go for athletes". Well shit I wonder why your beautiful amazing guy isn't showing interest, maybe cause hes got someone else on the side? So I proceed to flirt with her, fail miserably, she probably really only goes for her preferences. Guess what I'm saying is don't get to caught up with people, after all everyone is entitled to chose who they want, as superficial as they can be, but who am I to judge.
/r/seduction31/10/13 03:15 AM
1

Conversations thrreading? Can't find any in the sidebar. Will look online,
/r/seduction28/10/13 08:51 PM
1

Yes I agree, going to clubs just for dancing ironically brings in pussy. There are so many guys playing tough statues, that ypu ll surely stand out.
/r/seduction28/10/13 08:50 PM
1

Great post Leo, I hope it gets up there. I strongly agree with social dynamics, as most,including me complain a lot about it, perhaps failing to see that seduction should come after self improvement, as well as building a strong social circle. Unless its a one night stand, I find it hard that a woman wouldn't get creeper out by a loner, even though he might be a player. May I ask what kind of business you do? 21 is awfully young, but then I'm 20 so I don't know jack shit about business, apart fr…
/r/seduction28/10/13 08:45 PM
1

Happens to the best of us. Congrats on striking down Thor's hammer on a beautiful northern lady, may it happen again.
/r/seduction28/10/13 08:41 PM
3

Yep number 3, building a network is important socially and let's be honest, , much easier to land a job if you know someone...
/r/seduction28/10/13 08:31 PM
1

Hardest one IMO is assertiveness, all else comes easy. I'm a fucking caveman so I hardly know where the cool places are at, as with friends to bring
/r/seduction28/10/13 08:28 PM
1

Damn man you really aren't afraid of getting venerals are you
/r/seduction28/10/13 08:20 PM
4

Or a dog, bitches won't stop talking about your dog. So bring a dog to the club, an accent too.
/r/seduction28/10/13 08:18 PM
2

Exactly. People here seem to get caught up too much with plans A B, showing off their pua lexicon like there is no tomorrow, failing to realize its not so black and white, but surprisingly conversations can be ACTUALLY organic. All this pua isn't 100% foulproof, you got to rely on yourself, we just got to stop being engineers, trying to figure out how pussy works.
/r/seduction28/10/13 08:13 PM
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No hope for you dude, this is perhaps the only I instead where I advise to stop reading, it can get to your head.
/r/seduction28/10/13 08:09 PM
0

Dude you got to show you're the least bit responsive, can't be looking like stone-faced Joe over there.
/r/seduction28/10/13 08:06 PM
9

That's bullshit. If it comes off as teasing/joke, ain't nothing wrong with that. You can just act nonchalantly, so like you said escalate, even if its a joke it still getting into her head. its not like she would be screaming SEE HE STILL IS A NEEDY MOTHERFUCKER, GOING STRAIGHT BACK IN THE FRIEND PIT BUDDY. Obviously it would go exactly like you said if your face lits up looking like you got off the leash, ready for papa. IMO its all about delivery, what you say does not matter, its how you look…
/r/seduction28/10/13 08:04 PM
6

Trust me, as an italian "il Papi" Berlusconi had money, why else would they be around him? He did build himself a harem, so thats pretty fucking cool, a different girl a night. While I get the idea, I disagree on always being the leader of a social group, really all it takes is having just presence and jumping in witty comments, so she is always aware that you are there. Being a social animal is very energy consuming for some, I wouldn't change who I am that much, just improve and amplify in are…
/r/seduction26/10/13 02:53 PM
1

Very true, my problem is delivery. I'm not a great conversationalist. Get great first impressions from beautiful women, have sucky interview mode questions. Cant tell if she is not active in the conversation because we're incompatible, or because I made an error on my part.
/r/seduction26/10/13 02:43 PM
1

Good tips, but asking to hang around just seems odd, like " hey is there any room in the circle so I can actively participate in your convo and then join you in whatever else you're doing?" I mean of course you can jump in right? I guess you should wait for the right moment where everyone stop talking for a sec, which means you hide until, that moment. Actually forget everything I said, I need some sleep.
/r/seduction26/10/13 04:35 AM
1

No I wasnt , im just a college student new in NY, seems like as good idea back in Cali but def not here. Its just hard getting to know people man, if you bene here for a few months and you know 0 they just think you're creppy, ehh what can you do.
/r/seduction26/10/13 04:29 AM
1

Or you know what, if shes crazy enough you just find one of those big parks. Got a bj once outdoors, feels so much better 'cause you're afraid of getting caught. hardest part is seeing if shes interested "so how about we go to this very isolated park in the middle of the night?
/r/seduction26/10/13 04:24 AM
1

Ill go rent one right now. 20$ right? She can pay the drinks.
/r/seduction26/10/13 04:22 AM
1

But wait, due to the psychology of positive reinforcement, OP has to always touch tits to reach Godmode. I see him getting on a sex offender list pretty quickly Y.
/r/seduction26/10/13 04:18 AM
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Godmode is felling like a surfer on meth,taking on waves that touch the sky because he feels on top of the world. Its that kind of feeling you get when you've been drinking but too much, where every goes so fucking right.
/r/seduction26/10/13 04:15 AM
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Unfortunately some are socially anxious around friends to, so they may not know abut that calm feeling. Best way I can describe it is treat everyone as family, because who isn't comfortable with family, except that nosy aunt who always asks you what you've been up to.
/r/seduction26/10/13 04:11 AM
1

Hey bl1y you a new yorker? Itd be great to have a champ like you over at sedditnyc
/r/seduction26/10/13 04:05 AM
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He he not an easy task my friend, can't have sex while my dads watching TV. Moving back in with your parents just kills you. So sex in car it is,and its not even an SUV...
/r/seduction26/10/13 04:03 AM
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Talk about interesting things ? not a problem. Volunteered for children, politically active but really, they just don't fucking get it. I just get remarks like "oh what a sweetheart", and then she just talks about her superficial shit. OK, I had the privilege to travel a lot, so a lot of what I have talk about may seem hard to understand, but I'm passionate about it, so why can't you be the least bit receptive? I think being entertaining comes down to being funny too, and I'm just not, I take my…
/r/seduction26/10/13 04:00 AM
1

Yea now that I think about it what are some good car sex spots? NY suburbs are crowded.
/r/seduction26/10/13 03:50 AM
1

You're in Germany man! Tomorrows Saturday, get ready for round 2. You can make up soon much bullshit when abroad
/r/seduction26/10/13 03:17 AM
1

That's why op go the digits. Who wouldn't want to fuck in a penthouse?
/r/seduction26/10/13 03:11 AM
1

Anything less than 8 puts me in a coma. I'm dreading life after college and a part time job. Means I'll have to hit the bed at 10pm.
/r/seduction26/10/13 03:08 AM
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Cmon man you can get the real hardcore women, bitches tough as nails, 98% of us here can't get that.
/r/seduction24/10/13 01:20 AM
1

This is basic psychology, but the idea is that by positively reinforcing the girl with attention at a Variable Ratio, her behavior ( her attraction to you) is very addicting for her and hard to extinguish, whereas if you gave her constant attention ( Fixed ratio), she responds and then doesn't against the next reinforcement, thereby making the behavior easier to extinguish. My PsY101 book gives Gambling and slot machines as an example: its very addicting because even though you receive punishmen…
/r/seduction24/10/13 01:16 AM
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Although it was a good read, article like these aim at the extreme for the simple reason that its much easier to do so, labelling people. Not much critical thinking here.
/r/seduction24/10/13 01:06 AM
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Very true, and I experience this daily working at a cafe'. Sometimes you get people who are rude at first, but as soon as you smile and act patient they get comfortable and realize they're being idiots. I just love their look on their face when they catch themselves being rude.
/r/seduction22/10/13 01:18 PM
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I'm still reading it and yes, she seems to have picked introverts that were either very influential or ran some mega business, still a great confidence boost though.
/r/seduction22/10/13 01:16 PM
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What do you mean by jump points? Is it like when you have to stop talking becuase of talking and then resume? Most of the times I'm like"so I was saying".. My problem is that I haven't been interacting with many people in the past two years( was being a recluse), so I can hardly keep a conversation, but working at a coffee shop is really helping, since I'm talking to people a lot. I obviously cant practice seduction in a work setting( I do get away with sometimes), so I should seek other outlets…
/r/seduction22/10/13 01:37 AM
1

Dammit I always go Interview mode as soon as the jocking died s down. Its like you feel it coming, here comes boring me...
/r/seduction22/10/13 01:23 AM
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Can you give a good example of a follow up to what OP said? I can hardly imagine pulling sick game and kissing her in a school setting.
/r/seduction22/10/13 01:21 AM
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I wouldn't either if it was a healthy hobby of mine. I flunked a semester last year playing COD in a one bedroom studio, talk about pathetic. I just got to stop getting addicted to things man.
/r/seduction21/10/13 03:32 AM
1

So in a way, being natural means having organic conversations, but if you're trying to improve yourself you're back to square one, because you're manipulating then variables.
/r/seduction21/10/13 01:38 AM
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That was probably the most retarded opinion of something I have ever heard and no, I'm not explaining why I think so. Its pretty obvious.
/r/seduction21/10/13 01:26 AM
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I'm working at a coffee shop and minimum wage doesn't really cut it. I'm a smart kid so I know that if I work hard I can get a good job in the future, but for now I'm planning to stay in school until I graduate, perhaps even graduate school. What kind of jobs do grads have so they can afford their education and still have time to study?
/r/seduction20/10/13 07:05 PM
2

Besides, their idea of a nice guy is simply a different definition than yours. To most guys, a nice guy is a wimp who kisses her ass and does anything she wants. To her, this is a man-child, a big baby, a non-sexual loser who she would have to "care for". She may as well get a dog. What women really want is a guy who has a life, is confidence, has self control, and is a challenge. You have to be in charge of YOURSELF and know it. You can't act like some spastic 12 year old and think any mature w…
/r/seduction20/10/13 03:26 PM
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Yes man I'm 5"5" and its a hard one. Luckily I have a well defined cheekbone and look 4 years older, but my heart just sinks in when I get snarly remarks by taller/buff guys. I know its immature and pathetic but its hard to get over. OP just keep trying until you build enough confidence to overshadow those thoughts of helplessness. Perhaps do something new and refreshing, maybe you will get some kind of inner validation.
/r/seduction19/10/13 10:52 PM
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Yes man great field report. I love clubs/venues because I love music, it makes me happy, puts me in the right mindset, and leads me to the right places. I should try approaching whilst listening to my beats all the time. Or act like a total douche and blast music on my phone, grinding with pretty ladies at the bus stop.
/r/seduction19/10/13 10:45 PM
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Good point. Getting annoyed by someone who, by your account, mostly enjoys frivolous talk is a bad form of prejudice. Perhaps the one I always catch myself doing is relying on stereotypes, such as hating on the athletic "douchebag", or not approaching because "she looks promiscuous and might not go for a guy like me", "what does she care about pollution?". Maybe her dad died because of an occupational hazard related to pollution, and she is an acitivist, you would never know if you never approac…
/r/seduction19/10/13 10:35 PM
1

On a date, you are not there to impress her. You are there to vet her. It's a rookie mistake to focus the date on making her like you. The road to serfdom is one of pain and misery. Instead, you should be enjoying yourself and if she isn't a right fit, you should be the one to move on. What if I can't enjoy myself? I know a lot of history and movies and that's it. I even bore myself out when talking about it.
/r/seduction17/10/13 10:05 PM
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If you wipe your ass with baby wipes, NEVER dump them in the toilet.
/r/seduction17/10/13 10:02 PM
2

I always ask myself how people talk so much, and it's simply because they talk about anything for endless amounts of time! Am I an asshole for not participating in discussions when the hot topic is gas prices and the new Iphone?
/r/seduction17/10/13 10:02 PM
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ADD THIS TO THE SIDEBAR ALso, I recommend everyone to read Quiet. I thought I was an introvert, but I do love clubs and hanging out with people, I'm just terribly awkward. I think that everyone should experiment, clubs or libraries,whatever, until they find where they are truly comfortable. Of course, getting over anxiety or other, more serious issues is a MUST. Youl'' never know who you are and what you're capable of unless you get rid of all that shit under the bed. THanks OP, we need more thr…
/r/seduction17/10/13 09:58 PM
2

The brain really is scary. You get locked-in to habitual thoughts that you can't escape. He is saying that it is hard to fix because your brain and body are so used to the thought process that it is almost like an impulse, it's crazy.
/r/seduction17/10/13 04:41 AM
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Second post like this this week, way to make me depressed guys :( You really do have more time on your hands in college.
/r/seduction17/10/13 04:35 AM
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dude but that's the problem, similar to mine. I never really succeed because I don't really have anything to do other than work+school, making me really uninteresting. People say here all the time that you have to have value to seduce people, but it takes so long to get there. I can't wait till I make my life more interesting (and getting over some issues)!
/r/seduction17/10/13 04:29 AM
2

But how can someone live happily in old age, if they're living it right now? Yes. If they're living in old age right now, meaning living life passively, floating through it.
/r/seduction16/10/13 02:54 PM
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That's why it never works to think ahead of what you have to say. We're not machines, you got to be creative and spontaneous, which is not a skill that everyone has unfortunately.
/r/seduction15/10/13 07:09 PM
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solid openers, so true about how it's easier to approach someone going in the same direction as you, but I might add that you can approach differently with someone going in the opposite direction if this person is not in a hurry, like making a quick opener trying to establish a quick connection, and get the number. " Hey I can see you're in a hurry but I'd like to get to know you".
/r/seduction15/10/13 07:07 PM
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yea FB really warps reality. You see pics of couples having fun, next day they're either divorced or split-up, and now your comforting a friend on a post, while the day before you were like " you guys look so cute!". Weird.
/r/seduction15/10/13 07:00 PM
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We have to be stronger than that. If everyone was weak against resisting to drugs, then everybody would be drug addicts, but ironically, the ability to use the internet and video-gaming is much more accessible, so your basically substituting one for another.
/r/seduction15/10/13 06:57 PM
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Stop it stop it stop it stop it. Its like I'm closing my ears right now like a kid because I don't want to hear the cold hard truth. I have so much fucking time to sit on a PC all day when I'm old. Hell, I'll even have a warm toilet and someone that makes me breakfast. But how can someone live happily in old age, if they're living it right now?
/r/seduction15/10/13 03:33 AM
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I blame the internet, I blame the internet for creating such a perfect world free of judgment, a place where a person with no self control can build a life around it. I want to destroy the internet right now. If we didn't have it, we'd be forced to stay outside and get vitamin D, which I'm sure would help a lot of redditors.
/r/seduction15/10/13 03:29 AM
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Yep, I'm the latter, thing is I don't even deliver!
/r/seduction15/10/13 03:15 AM
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Ya that's the problem right there. You think you're being productive by reading seddit and stuff like r/getmotivated and lie to yourself your making progress, but your not. As long as you live life passively you aren't getting no where. IMO 60 or more of people here arent even ready for seduction, simply because we are leading boring lives. How can you seduce someone if you regard yourself as lame? You can fake it all you want , maybe get lucky with a one night stand, but the bottom line is that…
/r/seduction15/10/13 03:14 AM
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But the problem is right there, planning. I'm just sick of thinking so much, especially of what I have to say, and what is regarded as appropriate. The only time I let go is if I'm either 1) drinking 2) with family, and my filter just comes off, and I start being really humorous. Problem is, I can't risk losing a liver drinking all the time, and I can't also be around my family all my life. Just gotta stop going mental! We need a bumbler sticker like that.
/r/seduction15/10/13 03:06 AM
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I play videogames all day and I admit, I don't try at all. This sub helps people who actually want to apply themselves and improve their lives, so stop whining.
/r/seduction14/10/13 02:34 PM
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If I talk to slow I ramble on an people loose interest. Gotta deliver what you want to say in a clear and concise manner I guess.
/r/seduction14/10/13 02:31 PM
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I feel like I'm driving like in the movies, even if I'm going 20. All I need is some good music.
/r/seduction09/10/13 03:40 AM
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I like their input, but it always seems that they never go against the sub general opinion.
/r/seduction09/10/13 03:09 AM
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TBH, I ask myself a lot when reading stuff on seddit or from people I know. Is a girl that shit- tests really worth it? I understand that going for challenges is more rewarding, but really, the type of person that acts like a queen is not really worth it in my opinion, even if she's got all the assets. Does it make me lazy and a loser, the fact that I don't point higher? Maybe, but maybe struggling isn't all that worth it for some people. If you like risk-taking, then that's something else. To e…
/r/seduction07/10/13 09:52 PM
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It's good to see a semi-postive FR once in a while, we're not all Casanovas out there. Just got to point out not be like me and think of a number as the Holy Grail, because it's just a number. I have a lot of numbers on my phone but I rarely use them. The harder steps come after that, but you can also think of it in another way. You said in the end you weren't really interested in that girl, but wanted her number anyways, and I think that is great practice! The bigger sample size the lower error…
/r/seduction07/10/13 09:47 PM
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I've been everywhere to, and yea I'm gonna bitch, I hate this whole social ladder shit, always gotta be watching your back and what you say, certainly doesn't help with AA. This applies everywhere, not the US, but maybe a little bit more, since there is more of a rah rah culture and frats and all that.
/r/seduction07/10/13 02:12 PM
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And fuck Facebook man. I use it a few times in a span of months, so I probably look like the serial murderer OP mentioned. And I hate people "vetting" me too see if I'm fit.
/r/seduction07/10/13 02:37 AM
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hey in his defense, the man was in South East Asia, probably found some mail-order wife like they all do when they're over there.
/r/seduction28/09/13 01:01 PM
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Yep, been to California, been to the east, very different. Haven't been to Florida yet, but I'd imagine why they all run down there halfway through a marriage.
/r/seduction22/09/13 02:45 AM
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yea man it's great, females there are also very open and actually expect you to act in that certain way. It was good of your friend to keep his game then same, I unfortunately had to downplay it a little because I seemed "too forward". Apparently people here freak the fuck out with body contact.
/r/seduction21/09/13 10:53 PM
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Hey man, this is coming from a guy that's living at home and had to get his ass dragged out from his mom to go to an interview. It lasted 20 minutes more and I landed the job. Only thing I can say is just FAKE it. Look confident, eye-contact, GET OUT OF YOUR HEAD, pay attention to what that person is saying, and when it's your turn to speak, give a reasonable answer and add a little bit more, you got to bullshit just enough that you're not lying. Sugar coat it a bit. It really is all about self-…
/r/seduction21/09/13 02:50 AM
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Italian man here, that's how we do it :) Unfortunately it does not work well when you get real old, I wouldn't want to be groped by some old man.
/r/seduction21/09/13 02:38 AM
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Great comment man, it's exactly the way you put it. Just because we live in the fucking 21st century, have heated toilet seats that wash your butthole for you, and a little robot vacuum cleaner that cleans shit up for you, we feel entitled to think that we have conquered our inner emotions, which is certainly not the case. Women are attracted to confident men, and men are attracted to confident women. However, I disagree with the whole "dominating" debate, simply because there is no proof. I've …
/r/seduction21/09/13 02:26 AM
2

you fight over the pussy, like our ancestors did.
/r/seduction13/09/13 04:10 PM
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Great tips! I might also add that you can push this even further. If you're actually making the initiative and people are unresponsive, fuck em, find new friends. I used to know a guy that on boring days he just got on his bike and went downtown by himself to bars and such. He'd either get a few drinks on his own and talk to the bartender, or join a table, and then he would proceed to get back on his bike, if he could, and slowly pedal back to his place. There is a quote that says that it's good…
/r/seduction13/09/13 02:24 PM
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It's funny how you can learn so much from History and actually apply it in the real world. I can say for a fact that by learning the great works of Socrates and other great thinkers of our I past, I have gained insight on the workings of the human brain, which in a way can help us understand each other better and communicate in a better fashion.
/r/seduction13/09/13 02:19 PM
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I just don't get while people stress so much over openers. Just sit next to her and exchange a handshake or something if you've never met her or just say Hi. Openers aren't shit compared to the rest of the conversation, which is wayy harder. It's not that making a good opener magically starts the vibe going, it's what's after that's important. I've done so many 180's when I followed up an opener with some stupid joke or wierd comment. It really is what comes after.
/r/seduction13/09/13 02:16 PM
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to be honest I kind of hated your comment because I hate the fact that I'm wasting time without taking advantage of my situation. It gets worse thinking that when you actually do have big responsibilities, you get flooded with past regrets, if you make them look that way, that is.
/r/seduction13/09/13 12:27 AM
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or you're not telling the entire story, that is the fact the you and your roomate made an extremely well planned schedule so that when he got the girls in your room, you'd go to another girls room.
/r/seduction13/09/13 12:22 AM
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That's how I see texting as, a tool of simple communication. THe problem is that you might appear a bit detached if the girl you're with is into the texting seen. For example, I texted this girl I met day gaming at a bookstore yesterday with a something like 'guy from the bookstore. here's my number :) ' , but she starts asking me about shit and I just wanted to reply that Im busy for the week and call her another day.
/r/seduction12/09/13 11:45 PM
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I hate it when people say stuff like that. " Those were the good years", "pussy was easy". Yea I think it really was easier, but now that I'm trying to stop feeling sorry for myself, I believe you are the one that creates opportunities.
/r/seduction12/09/13 11:35 PM
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doesn't apply to the first time out only. Even great players have to work their way up the ladder after a stopping for a while. In my case, drugs and depression stopped by dating experience all together, and now that I'm getting my confidence back up I working on a few decent looking girls.
/r/seduction12/09/13 11:32 PM
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very good point. I see a lot of FRs of guys seeing different women and I just don't get it. I guess you can do that in a big environment, but not really in a closed setting, like a small college.
/r/seduction12/09/13 11:27 PM
1

I got that from a book called how to talk to anyone, by some woman author.
/r/seduction12/09/13 02:14 AM
1

That's only supplicating if you make it so, meaning that you actually do believe that ride= fun/kiss/sex
/r/seduction11/09/13 05:26 AM
1

yea not 21 yet here in the states, but hopefully you don't really get carded in NYC. And to think that back in Europe I could go anywhere at 15 :(
/r/seduction04/09/13 04:46 PM
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If you can maintain a friendship with her then by all means be friends, take her out winging with you. Take advantage of the female company, dont buy her meals but ask if she wants to go out as mates and she pays 50/50 etc That is very powerful. Classes start today for me and I'm actually thinking of chaining my mindset: Instead of being like " I better meet some women" I want to be like " I better make friends with women/ establish a network", sounds like it would make things so much easier and…
/r/seduction04/09/13 04:31 PM
1

I said something to them commenting on their inability to stand up straight, and got a nice cold rejection response telling me I belonged 'over there'. I probably would've darted off crying after that. the transition sounds like a Rocky montage, well done dude! keep at it, you inspire all of us AFCs.
/r/seduction04/09/13 04:23 PM
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so what I got from this is never go at a restaurant for a first date: boring-non adventurous/ you have to pay appetizers all the way to the dessert.
/r/seduction04/09/13 04:20 PM
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so you're saying that her inviting him in her car would have led to some sexual stuff if OP had done it differently? I sure think so.
/r/seduction04/09/13 04:14 PM
1

shit they have those? I can't find any decent group counselings in my area. It' usually themed for suicidal kids or people with drug problems.
/r/seduction04/09/13 04:11 PM
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Next time - if you have time - when you get the number, stick around for 5 minutes or so and try and develop an emotional connection. Hard to have done that since she was busy selling flowers, I think he did a good thing to leave for class. Plus I hate getting to class late.
/r/seduction04/09/13 04:05 PM
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sounds like you planned it right. I'm asking this because I'm taking classes in college and was wondering how I should play it off: if I flirt with a girl sitting next to me, and I either don't like her or she turns me down, I'll look like an idiot if next time I filrt with someone else, even if I am successful. People around would notice and be like oh it's that guy. Or perhaps I shouldn't flirt with girls in class at all?
/r/seduction04/09/13 03:25 PM
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so how are you juggling between the others? Honestly I've only had one girl on my mind at a time, and we all know us humans aren't good at multitasking.
/r/seduction04/09/13 01:07 AM
1

man your post just completely scared me away from doing a business major. I hardly know how to communicate with people, let alone negotiate, but maybe it's just a learning process?
/r/seduction04/09/13 01:02 AM
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Yea I don't get that either, how do they go on and on? I really think it is an art, being able to connect what you are thinking with what you are saying, or at least it is for me. I see talking as a chore, I know I shouldn't but it's a hard mindset to get away from.
/r/seduction04/09/13 01:01 AM
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I disagree a bit on this, IMO you have to experiment, try it both ways. Do like OP did, try both extremes and go from there.
/r/seduction04/09/13 12:56 AM
1

You got it bad? Italian parents... At least my "mamma" makes good meals, no need to leave...
/r/seduction04/09/13 12:29 AM
1

Yes and the fact that there are more women than men, 51% and 49%, is just mind-blowing.
/r/seduction01/09/13 02:00 PM
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but the 9 will always choose the man with a good body, high status, and good game over the man with good game, high status, but an overweight body. not if he's got money.
/r/seduction01/09/13 03:48 AM
1

and that's why I say fuck Facebook. It's a gold mine for finding shit on you. I used to make a lot of posts or whatever they're called, now I just upload pics/chat/answer replies, better keep it safe, job-wise also.
/r/seduction01/09/13 03:45 AM
1

isn't that what they say about nice guys? I've heard it before, "nice guys" aren't so nice because when they get shatted on they get real angry and don't understand why the mistreatment occurred because to them it is unthinkable that it could ever happen because they are such nice, respectful guys.
/r/seduction01/09/13 03:41 AM
2

I met people from Hamburg/Cologne, very nice people.
/r/seduction01/09/13 03:38 AM
1

You feel more qualified to denigrate yourself based on past failures, so you never have to push the limits and step out of your comfort zone. Even though those experiences sucked, they provide a sort of "ground" for you, as much as you hate to dwell on them. frogma you just told me what a psychologist hasn't been able to tell me in the past few years, thank you. I actually do catch myself almost enjoying being the victim, it really is easier that way, it just takes to much effort to change, espe…
/r/seduction29/08/13 03:29 AM
1

Yes I guess it really does apply to everything, being able to keep your frame in any kind of situation. There was a TIL about an astronaut that managed to manually re-enter Earth in a desperate attempt to get back, by writing down calculations all over the shuttle and timing the re-entry with his fucking wristwatch. It's amazing what us humans can do when we delve into our potential, truly amazing creatures If I might say so.
/r/seduction29/08/13 03:16 AM
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that's very interesting. If I understood that right, by meditating I am able to keep control even in an unfamiliar setting, meaning that what I have learned can be applied everywhere.
/r/seduction29/08/13 03:11 AM
1

I wasn't implying that.
/r/seduction29/08/13 03:09 AM
1

not only that, psycho active drugs totally fuck up your brain, or should I say rewire it. There is no scientific proof that they balanced "chemicals' in your brain, it's an idea sold by big pharma and the psychiatrist that get paid by them, which is the 99.9 percent. That's why I said fuck that shit, I 'll do it the hard way, take some BetaBlockers which are fine and Im on my way.
/r/seduction28/08/13 04:49 PM
5

why use a throwaway? It's nothing really embarassing, I mean fuck, I don't even use one when I'm on r/incest.
/r/seduction28/08/13 04:38 PM
1

My therapist told me to practice it where my a anxiety and negative thoughts arise, that is in a place full of people, he said I should do it at like a mall or something. How does meditating in a comfortable environment translate into you applying the same concept when under pressure?
/r/seduction28/08/13 04:36 PM
1

trust me, I remember every single tiny detail that has embarrassed the fuck out of me, It's like demons in my closet, only that they got out and follow me wherever I go.
/r/seduction28/08/13 04:34 PM
1

Once again there is nothing wrong with being an introvert, people really do not know what the term means anymore and associate it with all the negative connotations, such as insecurity, shyness and all of that. Apart from that I totally agree with you, I was flabbergasted by the fact that most people thought I was this social animal, the coolest guy around, while all I was thinking In my head 24/7 was what to say, how to act, and all of that shit that drives me nuts.
/r/seduction28/08/13 04:32 PM
2

are you perhaps Vitaly from YT? he's Russian and seems to pick up girls pretty well.
/r/seduction27/08/13 01:57 PM
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I'd like to think it's the pissed off high schoolers who can't get anything out of their lives and man up on the internet, man
/r/seduction27/08/13 01:55 PM
2

why don't you come back to us after you cool off that attitude and pick up a book on the subject
/r/seduction27/08/13 01:53 PM
0

first of all, get your facts right, introvert doesn't mean being a damn sociopath. We are either intro or extro, that's how it is, but shyness and other mental conditions can be changed, which is perhaps what you are referring to.
/r/seduction27/08/13 12:24 PM
3

so how did it end? you stuck around for something that felt like time passing by endlessly?
/r/seduction27/08/13 03:16 AM
0

too bad Kick Ass 2 sucks! I'd say lets go watch this is the end
/r/seduction27/08/13 03:13 AM
5

I'm right here with you bro...
/r/seduction27/08/13 03:12 AM
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that was a good one bro, looks like it comes easy for you :) I guess that when english isn't your first language you got to rely more on body language.
/r/seduction26/08/13 11:02 PM
2

ironically I should not have stopped smoking cigs, but then again all I need is a smoking buddy :)
/r/seduction26/08/13 10:50 PM
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I'm sorry what do you mean by time bridging? Like setting up a meet with her right there on the spot?
/r/seduction26/08/13 10:36 PM
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Yes I think so too.
/r/seduction26/08/13 10:26 PM
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One good exercise is to pass patio restaurants on a summer night, and notice how many women are eating with other women (especially in NYC). You think they want to be eating with their complaining, whining friend, who is depressed and with whom they have to split the bill? Of course not! They’d jump at the opportunity to be with a guy, so ask them out and then bang the shit out of them! I have the biggest grin on my face right now, this is so fucking funny, this guy is the master.
/r/seduction26/08/13 09:59 PM
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I might be dumb but I can't picture the last one.
/r/seduction26/08/13 09:52 PM
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do you remember the other shit tests? that's where I usually fail, since I don't really have a quick tongue.
/r/seduction26/08/13 09:47 PM
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yea thing is, how the hell did you have conversation in a club? its loud as fuck! was it like like one of those bar clubs, not an actual dance club? oh and nice run man
/r/seduction26/08/13 09:46 PM
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I'm good, I got a pretty vivid imagination, makes things more fun.
/r/seduction26/08/13 09:44 PM
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what do you mean by investing
/r/seduction25/08/13 03:42 PM
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True , but I don't think that's the case when you got someone that harasses you everyday day. Unless you can counter him in some way, you're just going to feel irritated and counter in some Beta way, like getting angry and then insulting the guy, or even try to hurt him.
/r/seduction23/08/13 02:20 PM
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anxiety is easy in comparison to depression, but fuck meds!
/r/seduction22/08/13 04:24 PM
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Anyone been to a community college? What do you think is different in terms of socializing and flirting from a Uni with dorms?
/r/seduction22/08/13 04:23 PM
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so it's pretty much like HS, with all the cliques? I haven't been to HS in the Us but that's what I heard. Am at a community college right now but it sucks, no campus, people rushing in and out of class, feels like you're wasting their time talking to them. Hopefully I'll actually meet some people when I transfer over to Uni, but if you're telling me it's about reputation, I don't want to be known as the awkward goof I am, just got to improve myself beforehand.
/r/seduction22/08/13 04:21 PM
1

that actually makes sense... but wait, it's usually always the guy that invites the girl, which means you always have to pay!
/r/seduction22/08/13 03:26 PM
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I understand, but I hate women thinking its a free mail, like they are special or something. I thought we were the catch?
/r/seduction22/08/13 02:52 PM
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Does this girl that keeps flanking in you just wants attention? By agreeing ti seeing ber again wouldn't you fall into her attentio seeking clutches and possibly get stood up again?
/r/seduction22/08/13 09:38 AM
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The situation he's in is a bit unberable, the guy that says he likes to fuck with people is a pathetic prick and it is hard to keep a " I dint give a fuck" attitude when a person is actually trying to fuck with you, unless you got the skills to one-up him on the conversation
/r/seduction22/08/13 09:17 AM
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So on what date do you stop paying? Seems wierd than I dont pay on date two because its not a first date
/r/seduction22/08/13 09:09 AM
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I agree. What are some good date ideas where she doesnt expect you to pay? If I ask her out to walk downtown and don't offer to pay for her drink, is that considered beig alpha or being a cheap son of a bitch?
/r/seduction22/08/13 08:03 AM
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atta boy
/r/seduction22/08/13 07:56 AM
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Would he really look like a dick if he asks to split on the date
/r/seduction22/08/13 07:52 AM
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I don't get this, in Europe I never really pay for anything, is it expected of here in the states that a guy pays for everything?
/r/seduction22/08/13 07:49 AM
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Would you mind explaining the " more insights' less observations"? , thanks .
/r/seduction20/08/13 11:39 PM
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Isn't it also called Harakiri
/r/seduction20/08/13 11:36 PM
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I got this from a video, found interesting what the you tuber said, and I think he was mentioning outcome independence/dependence. basically conversations, with anyone really, are much easier if you you don't expect reactions after you talk, but instead channeling your energy/vibe to the person you are talking to, like people that are really outcome dependent that they are mostly there for self amusement.
/r/seduction20/08/13 12:30 AM
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22 perfect job, future gf 21 with job, man I don't know why but I always have the illusion that internet people are lazy shits like me, thank god its not that way.
/r/seduction20/08/13 12:21 AM
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Best Fr I have read so far on this sub. You really seem to be a great guy,empathetic at that, for the way you described the AMOG dudes. It was also great how you recognized the true affection you had for the girl and didn't go for the tempting sex.
/r/seduction20/08/13 12:13 AM
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I'm strangely good at escalating physicality in clubs, not so much in other areas. When I was about 17(you can go to clubs at 16 in Italy) we just got behind girls, hands around waist. If she didn't shoot you down you proceeded to make out. I don't find this approach easy anymore since I'm obviously gaming older women but you never know. What I do now is approach in a fun way: I establish social proof by being loud, playing games on the dance floor with girls and guys too, this does work better …
/r/seduction18/08/13 09:23 PM
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in short, dress like a European, classy as fuck.
/r/seduction18/08/13 09:49 AM
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Thank god someone pointed that out! I fucked up with 4 HB7-9's solely for this reason. I guess the more you do it and realize you're actually an awesome guy will be the moment you'll start going for it.
/r/seduction18/08/13 09:43 AM
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um ok, funny how you felt important that you had to specify that lol.
/r/seduction18/08/13 09:39 AM
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cognitive behavioral therapy, often used with people suffering from illnesses such as anxiety. Like what you did, you put everything into a logical viewpoint and consider the possible options.
/r/seduction18/08/13 09:26 AM
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third and last question: how to improve game if you're a generaly clumsy/ slightly out of it guy?
/r/seduction17/08/13 10:45 PM
1

best way to deal with excuse is CBT
/r/seduction17/08/13 10:44 PM
1

Has anyone here solved their issues with confidence/depression or bullying? Were you still approaching even during this transition? How did you eventually solved your issues?
/r/seduction17/08/13 10:38 PM
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yea and I"m surprised no one mentioned that you have to take on the bulk of the social interactions, because they just fucking stand there. It can get quite exhausting.
/r/seduction17/08/13 10:34 PM
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does anyone else think that r/askseddit is kind of a mess? Perhaps it can't be helped, but there are so many questions that so many get unanswered. Whenever I open up that sub I immediately go back to seduction.
/r/seduction17/08/13 10:32 PM
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I agree on this very inspiring post, just want to point out that you should get your shit resolved first before even considering opening sets all the time. I'm saying this especially for the guys like me that have to get over confidence and maybe depression issues that should be prioritized instead of chasing after women who will turn you down as soon as they sniff out the shit you're hiding in your closet. Just pointing it out because I see a lot of this, especially on r/askseddit. I should avo…
/r/seduction17/08/13 10:28 PM
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Let's be honest here, will I appear as monumental dickhead if I split the bill on a first date?
/r/seduction17/08/13 08:10 PM
1

so you never once answer positively? I wrote up a post on how would you respond to getting approached by a stranger on r/askwomen, a people seem to prefer getting hit on in more appropriate contexts.
/r/seduction17/08/13 08:06 PM
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Italian here, can confirm. Had to tone down my approach in the states a little, we are a very social, and in r/askwomen, also rapey.
/r/seduction17/08/13 08:02 PM
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Could that be a reason that I was getting the BIGGEST most obvious IOIs while I was visiting NYC? I'm by no means a super handsome dude, just a little bit above average. This has also happened on numerous occasions. Perhaps it was just a good day.
/r/seduction17/08/13 08:00 PM
1

I bet they could smell the shame between each other
/r/seduction17/08/13 07:56 PM
1

I understand what you mean and I agree, but I used the phrase in a way to indicate my lack of self-control, which is a habit that is more present in adults.
/r/seduction17/08/13 07:52 PM
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If you were the first one in class, did you just hang right outside the door? Also, props on stopping with weed/gaming, I'm doing the same, hope I'll get the same great results as you man. Inspiring FR.
/r/seduction17/08/13 07:07 PM
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yes playing on jealousy is fun! I like to manipulate, I'm guilty of playing with people, which imo is unavoidable once you go along the path of self-improvement/self-analyzing yourself.
/r/seduction17/08/13 07:06 PM
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attractive, 6'7", and doing it all at 19. OP has it all.
/r/seduction17/08/13 06:46 PM
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I do follow competitive gaming, mostly FPS. It just doesn't seem like a happy life though. Optic gaming, a COD FPS xbox clan, owns a gaming house where they get to play day in night to stay on top of their game. No social life whatsover. That's also the reason I'm not going for my computer science degree, it's just not for me.
/r/seduction17/08/13 06:22 PM
1

I really think it is all about self-control and maturity. I've always had difficulty concentrating on things when I was young, and when it came to guilty pleasures, I prolonged them wayy to long. Guess it's time to really act like an adult.
/r/seduction17/08/13 06:17 PM
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I actually started hearing the in-game sounds, even after an hour after I stopped. Good thing I (hopefully) done with that shit. I think I need a 1 month retreat in a Buddhist temple in southeast asia to get a hold of myself again lol.
/r/seduction17/08/13 06:15 PM
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Same thing man, I flunked an entire semester just because I hid away in my tiny studio apt smoking weed and gaming. Now I moved back with my parents and will start community college in town. It's a bit sad that I moved back in but it's the best solution so far, can't handle myself. Gave up on gaming and weed, people that get easily addicted to things/no self-control just should do games or drugs. I could possibly get back at it when I'll actually be able to handle myself, but I'll probably be to…
/r/seduction17/08/13 06:13 PM
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this. I used to exercise a lot in high school, stopped. Went for a hike the other day, never felt better. It's the endorphins that really fuck with your brain in a good way, but unfortunately don't do jack shit if after a shower you go back in game. Having a regular exercise routine is the way to go imo.
/r/seduction17/08/13 06:09 PM
1

Yes the virtual world will be ever so present year after year, lets just hope we won't become like the guys in the movie the Surrogates, the one with Bruce Willis. I also think gaming is the perfect short term instant-pleasure solution for those that suffer/suffered the same problems I had. At least it's better than turning to drugs, but like everything it needs balance. If you're a person that is easily addicted to things and can't handle yourself, gaming is just too overwhelming, and it is som…
/r/seduction17/08/13 06:07 PM
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and fuck shooters, I just get wayy to competitive/insult everyone. I was saying obscenities on the mic one day that the neighbor had to come knock and ask if everything was alright lol
/r/seduction17/08/13 06:01 PM
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ahh.. my bad, forgot about that.
/r/seduction17/08/13 05:59 PM
1

yea perhaps it is me, I am known to be slightly out of it, weed in fact accentuates that. I'm really not a quick thinker, which is exactly what hinders my game. I'll never have good game because I'm a quirky/clumsy guy, and I'm fine with that. I'll probably fall with a woman like that whenever I'll settle down.
/r/seduction17/08/13 05:59 PM
1

idk that's a bit direct
/r/seduction17/08/13 05:55 PM
1

wouldn't know, but what if you only read depressing books and convinced yourself that was reality
/r/seduction17/08/13 05:54 PM
1

if you come off as weak people jump at the opportunity to look tough. Smiling seems to be a biggie too, kind of sucks that if you're just a humble, respectful and chill guy you'll just get shit on my people because you're not as "nasty" as them.
/r/seduction15/08/13 09:34 AM
1

You also get people that are good at making snarky or bitter remarks that require a quick comeback, and you know that you can't ignore it and respond or you'll just appear butthurt. You also can't go all defensive or you'll probably have the same results.
/r/seduction15/08/13 09:32 AM
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I think it depends on what kind of person you are. If you are like me and are that guy that is always a bit aloof, clumsy or in the clouds or whatever, you will get people that will laugh at how much of an idiot you are, and you will get people that will laugh with you. I guess that also applies to respect?
/r/seduction15/08/13 09:30 AM
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lol sorry man, I can be a real complainer. Probably not the forum for that :)
/r/seduction15/08/13 09:27 AM
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letting yourself stagnate anywhere That is so true, If you're not actively thinking of self-improvement or just changing things up, you just fall into a limbo. We all like our habits, our routines, because it takes too much effort to change things up. I remember that I got bored sometimes when I was really active with sports, because everything was on a schedule. You always get that feeling of being unsatisfied, always hungry, wanting more out of an experience, if that makes any sense.
/r/seduction15/08/13 09:26 AM
1

about my quasi- clinical analysis? Yes I think I am. Ever smoked so much pot, or other drugs for that matter, where the next day your unable to string together a complete sentence? You get the same effect after 12+ hours of a gaming session.
/r/seduction15/08/13 09:19 AM
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I bet it was man! I knew a guy that did the same, turns out he became a fucking airline pilot. I mean, I love videogames, it's a hobby like any other, but unfortunately if you get easily addicted to things it is best to stop doing them. Hell, at least get addicted to something productive, like playing a musical instrument or a sport, at least you know you're getting something out of it. What do you get out of videogames? Increased reflexes? Also mine's more of a PC gamer's perspective, it doesn'…
/r/seduction15/08/13 09:17 AM
1

lol, thought it was funny you had to specify the girls were 18, in Europe it's common for minors to date guys age 20+. Also, what's a hockey? What's the best way to find a wingman online? I only know of the seddit lairs and the projectGO website.
/r/seduction15/08/13 12:28 AM
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I added you as a friend, or whatever that option is on reddit. I'll randomly hit you up when I feel down, if you don't mind that is.
/r/seduction14/08/13 11:46 PM
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thanks for putting time in replying man, feels good You know what? It really is easier to be a dreamer, and it's ironic how we like to think about things we can't have than things we can actually have, but require a little change.
/r/seduction14/08/13 11:36 PM
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couldn't have said it better, and this comes from a video game addict. Internet, games, TV, Movies, it's all an illusion. If you give it too much attention then you really start to think that THAT is the real world. You just start building your own virtual world where everyone plays by your own rules, you become hateful and resent everyone around you, There's countless young guys that fall into this, and I believe it's always a pattern: being bullied, poor parenthood, introversion...
/r/seduction14/08/13 11:32 PM
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or if she's on her phone, and I haven't approached her yet ( or if she's just checking it for that matter), I'll be like "How's the boyfriend doing?", to which she replies " Oh, I don't have one", "bullshit". Worked since middle school.
/r/seduction14/08/13 11:21 PM
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great reply, but I can't help to think of so many variables: what if she is a foreigner? what if seem friendly even though you try to build attraction, simply because you're a friendly guy?
/r/seduction14/08/13 11:17 PM
1

you mean because he was a local?
/r/seduction14/08/13 11:14 PM
2

height is something that pisses me off: at 20 ad 5"6', I'm sure I screwed myself over when I started going to the gym at 15 instead of running around like a mofo. Then again they say you still grow in your 20's, let's just hope....
/r/seduction14/08/13 11:13 PM
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That quote is such bs, how can you be like a tree if you're probably more unstable than the girls you date? Sounds like all that shit I read from the book of pook, recommended by this sub. Manson does make more sense though.
/r/seduction14/08/13 10:59 PM
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you know what? At first I thought it was stupid to make up stories for the sake of it, and thought it was pathetic that people actually do that, but then realized that as long as you don't exaggerate it's actually quite fun. Guess I take myself too seriously.
/r/seduction14/08/13 08:40 AM
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I'm jealous! That's a pretty solid first approach, I'm still stuck at the sidebar! Tell me something, how did you "internalize" everything you learned on this sub? 'Cause I just seem to forget.
/r/seduction12/08/13 09:59 PM
1

why don't we all stop an asshole with a big titted chick if he did indeed act like an asshole to get her, make it like a survey, everyone posts their response and see where we go from there. I'm of the opinion that not everything is so fucking black and white.
/r/seduction12/08/13 09:51 PM
0

I so want a follow up after this, with your drunk brother of course.
/r/seduction12/08/13 09:47 PM
1

good for you dude! and how do you open it up, keep the conversation going with all the chaos that you usually find in the subway? IMO If I didn't really give a fuck I'd just sit on the same train and go around loops for hours, hitting on every girl that comes on, imagine all the numbers I'd get, or slaps lol.
/r/seduction09/08/13 02:56 PM
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yea I would say the same about the missed #close, but perhaps it was too soon? He did say he thought she was mostly being kind. I think it was cool that he wasn't too impulsive with getting her number, shows he just wanted to talk to her and maybe get to know her better another time. After all, their goal was just to approach.
/r/seduction09/08/13 11:32 AM
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Yea I used to have good natural wingmans back home, but here I'd just find it creepy to talk to random guys.
/r/seduction09/08/13 11:20 AM
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When I lived in california I found people to be wayyy more social than back east, granted, the opening smile they give is mostly out of courtesy ( meaning it is not a real smile). Californians give this wierd positive vibe to everything, which really is contagious. Yes, I did find some to be overly cocky and obnoxious, especially with all the bro talk, but I found the people there to be less intimidating than New Yorkers for example. Now that I'm in NY, I actually like it better! People here are…
/r/seduction09/08/13 11:19 AM
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In a way high school follows you all the way through your life, like a shadow. You either learn not to give a fuck about social hierarchies, which I deem to be the right away, or you keep trying to follow the dream.
/r/seduction09/08/13 11:10 AM
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what he did have was unstoppable confidence and the ability to make anyone laugh on command from crazy one liners and an eye for reading women. and that's the hard part, humor. No PUA technique can teach you that.
/r/seduction09/08/13 11:08 AM
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alright sounds good. I actually get way too intimate and touchy, it's fine but then I never follow through lol.
/r/seduction08/08/13 10:06 PM
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error 404
/r/seduction08/08/13 10:01 PM
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is all this material found through searching?
/r/seduction08/08/13 10:00 PM
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