Had a great conversation with a woman I approached we spoke for a solid 10 minutes we had a lot in common. Even thanked me for approaching and agreed to meet up for drinks. Best approach I had in a while we were really connecting and for once I liked the woman for her instead of just the looks.

Then the logistics nightmare started.

I asked her to meet midweek she mentioned she’s might not be able to and then asks me that she wants to learn more about me. I tell her a couple things but she didn’t reply. I ping her 3 days later and she replies pretty quickly but then again when I asked her out same bullshit about she needs to know me better and asks a couple things.

I was super close to being direct and asking her why didn’t she shoot me down immediately if she wasn’t interested, but instead went along with it. A little more back and forth and then again no reply. I just deleted the convo and moved on to focus on other stuff but wanted some feedback on this.

I’ve been doing this for a while but after years I still get pissed af when I have these situations where it seems like it’s going great and then turns to nothing, it usually doesn’t faze you but when you actually vibed and cared for the girl it does hurt.

  1. How do calibrate more in text game? I try to keep to logistics only because women are so fickle over text. Problem is, if you don’t get them out to meet you within 2 days of approach she forgets about you, like this situation.
  2. as I mentioned I’ve been at this for a bit and sometimes I just don’t give a damn to be blunt and ask why she playing games, don’t care if it makes me look like I a chump because it’s a waste a time to sit there thinking how to do better next time If you don’t even know where it went wrong you feel me?