| Upvotes | Title | Category | Author | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 33 | First Rejection Wasn't That Bad | Field Report | bgoode0817 | /r/seduction | 22/02/22 03:59 AM |
| 7 | Second Girl I've Ever Asked Out. Here's What I've Learned. | Field Report | bgoode0817 | /r/seduction | 03/03/22 05:28 PM |
| 3 | Don't Know What To Say? Read This | Fundamentals | bgoode0817 | /r/seduction | 28/02/22 12:29 AM |
| Upvotes | Comment on | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 2 | Why did a solid approach turn into hesitancy to meet up?This is what I was thinking as I read the first part. Just because the OP felt their conversation went smoothly doesn't mean she felt anything. It seems she was just being nice. | /r/seduction | 14/03/22 11:53 AM |
| 1 | How to approach shy women (especially those with social anxiety)That's true. Let me change my answer. Be direct and make your intentions clear. Social anxiety or not, you'll get an answer. Make it subtle with a note or message to relieve social pressure on her. My original response requires time that is not worth one girl who may not like you. Get your answer ASAP. | /r/seduction | 05/03/22 10:28 PM |
| 1 | If you are fat lose weight. [Story Time]I agree. I'm currently in the process of losing weight. I'm doing it to feel better, more confident, and attract women. I don't have to be shredded to get girls looking my direction. With my style and smile, having a flat chest and stomach is all I need to succeed. | /r/seduction | 05/03/22 09:28 PM |
| 4 | QuestionI agree. You want a "yes." Everything else is a no. | /r/seduction | 05/03/22 09:01 PM |
| 3 | How to approach shy women (especially those with social anxiety)Start small Full conversation will be tough until she's more comfortable with you. Greetings, Light compliments, and short-answer questions are great. Don't rush Bonding isn't a race. It takes time. Especially with someone who has social anxiety. Be patient. As a side note, talk to other girls. In the end, she may not even like you romantically and you have to be prepared for that. By talking to other girls while pursuing her you don't waste time. It's okay to be friends There are girls that won… | /r/seduction | 05/03/22 08:44 PM |
| 2 | How do i even GET women, its so frustratingSocial skills and confidence are very important to women, but being attractive is as well. It's not as important to them as guys, but it's still a factor. Also, it's great that you're social. That's a huge step as long as what you say is quality rather than quantitative. | /r/seduction | 05/03/22 03:33 PM |
| 2 | Second Girl I've Ever Asked Out. Here's What I've Learned.Thanks for the comment! I know I didn't do anything wrong. She just wasn't onto me, and that's okay. | /r/seduction | 03/03/22 06:32 PM |
| 5 | POLORIZE by being authentically yourselfCouldn't have said it better myself. | /r/seduction | 02/03/22 11:46 AM |
| 1 | Kinda superficial question but what eyes you guys think are the most attractive, like green or blue..?I like green eyes the most, but they're rare which is probably why I like them. As for hair, brunette is my weakness. | /r/seduction | 01/03/22 07:19 PM |
| 8 | Signs you try to hardI agree! Natural game comes from experience. | /r/seduction | 01/03/22 07:17 PM |
| 3 | Tips needed for a shy girl - seducing my gym crushHe might not be into you. He could also be in a relationship or perhaps he's just being polite. The best advice I can give is make it very obvious you want to talk. Say "hi," smile, and try to make a lot of eye contact. Light stretching is a natural way to show off your body at the gym and may catch his attention. This is hit or miss though because a lot guys won't look out of respect and don't want to seem creepy. Good Luck! | /r/seduction | 01/03/22 01:37 PM |
| 1 | How long should I wait to talk to this girl again?Do not reah out. She said she needs time which she very well may, but it can also be a polite way to get you to back off. In any case messaging any further will more than likely make her uncomfortable and have the opposite effect of your intentions. In my opinion, the best thing to do from here is move on and learn from your mistake. There's no need to ask if you and your date are "dating." You already know the answer and worst case scenario this misunderstanding will occur again. The only quest… | /r/seduction | 01/03/22 03:30 AM |
| 3 | A girl texted that she wanted to get food with me. Then she ghosted me and idk whyI have to agree with the first comment. You missed multiple chances and you know you did. Girls don't wait forever so it's crucial to always seize an opportunity. Even if she turns you down, the sooner you get an answer the better. Don't let fear cause a potentially great girl slip between your fingers. | /r/seduction | 01/03/22 03:19 AM |
| 1 | Areas for ImprovementHonestly this 👆 Instead of asking reddit, ask your partner. It shouldn't be embarrassing. I'm sure she would be flattered and excited if you asked her what feels good. 👍 | /r/seduction | 28/02/22 01:49 AM |
| 5 | Need helpTake my opinion with a grain of salt because I don't have experience with girls coming over my house, but I think she wanted to get sexual and because you didn't take it that far she lost interest. That's my guess. | /r/seduction | 28/02/22 01:27 AM |
| 1 | Don't Know What To Say? Read ThisI couldn't agree more. Thanks for the TLDR | /r/seduction | 28/02/22 12:47 AM |
| 1 | First Rejection Wasn't That BadI have to disagree. There's a lot of nuance that I couldn't include in the post so everyone reading will never fully understand what happened. With that being said I don't think I chased too much at all. Whatever the reason she turned me down, I don't care. There will always be something smoother you could've sad, or another tactic you could've tried, but thinking about all that stuff just clogs my brain when I'm talking to a girl. I prefer just talking, being myself, and showing genuine interes… | /r/seduction | 22/02/22 03:31 PM |
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