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HelicopterSack/r/seduction06/10/17 05:29 PM
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I met my current GF through Tinder after I stopped trying hard and just approached the whole thing rather chill... Guess it can also work out.
/r/seduction07/06/18 01:11 PM
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The location is probably way more important than the size. Also keep it clean and adult themed. But dont just do it for a chance to get laid.... do what you like
/r/seduction26/04/18 05:12 PM
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Quit porn and reduced masturbation shortly after new years eve. Then early in the year I met my current girlfriend thus even less masturbation. Probably unrelated... tho it felt like I really wanted it to happen with her whereas before I would have not been that determined.
/r/seduction20/03/18 09:45 AM
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I am definitely not a doctor so I cant say for sure. But if you have never had an outbreak chances are low...
/r/seduction18/03/18 11:05 PM
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It usually breaks out when your immune system is under stress cause of a cold or whatever. Its also pretty hard to miss if some currently has an infection...
/r/seduction12/03/18 09:53 AM
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I can totally relate with where you are coming from. I have been there and it took me quite a while to realize how fortunate I actually am. Many sexless years with some bad dates and missed opportunities... Since you have barely any experience the only thing you can actually do is gain more experience. You will probably doubt yourself again along the way but you have to fight through. Learn from your mistakes and you will see results. And who knows... maybe in the end you will meet that one girl…
/r/seduction09/03/18 12:24 PM
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Cheers, that seems reasonable. I have tried to reduce the amount of meetups since we have become a couple, as I am actually pretty busy cause of my study. But that has been more or less effective... trying to find the proper amount of time I should spend with her at the moment. Will definitely consider your input
/r/seduction26/02/18 06:42 PM
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Thats good stuff. Thanks
/r/seduction26/02/18 06:35 PM
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I met my current FWB through tinder. I was ready to give up on that app for exactly these reasons you are talking about. The only times I used the app were on the freakin toilet... Lack of beautiful or only plain girls (I swiped left more often than right), then either no or only some generic responses... Eventually I matched with her, she initiated the conversation and it already had a totally different vibe. Worked out great thus far. There are still some decent girls on there but it has becom…
/r/seduction14/02/18 08:06 AM
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You sure you like women? If yes you should just do what you want to do... she will stop you if its inappropriate
/r/seduction09/02/18 11:33 PM
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Got it. Cheers
/r/seduction08/02/18 06:46 AM
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Good for you mate! Just try and be the same person you were that evening. Dont try some fancy games or whatever. Be natural. Usually its pretty hard to fuck up a situation like this (when the girl is clearly into you and cant keep her hands of you). Be a normal person, talk about normal stuff and try to meet her again asap. But dont appear needy or too invested (tell her which day/days work for you). Good luck!
/r/seduction03/02/18 05:37 PM
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Figured you would have mentioned it otherwise. While it is not critical you shouldnt ignore the importance. But I agree that usually make out sessions are already a good sign of how it is gonna be. Just stick around with her but dont bring up that topic yet ;)
/r/seduction03/02/18 09:14 AM
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Wait, you want to talk about exclusiveness without even having sex first? IMO you should wait at least til after... see if you harmonize on that level before actually committing to anything.
/r/seduction02/02/18 07:07 PM
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Do your thing and keep moving until you find that girl who makes the whole world feel different, gives you an instant high and most importantly makes you feel calm....thats the one Just got into that position and it feels so good.
/r/seduction02/02/18 01:46 PM
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/s ???
/r/seduction28/01/18 09:09 AM
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This post here is pretty spot on about the modern dating scene... https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/7fio7i/why_is_modern_dating_such_a_fucking_minefield/dqchyza
/r/seduction26/01/18 11:57 PM
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Lots of young guys are probably afraid of not experiencing everything there is. So if you commit to something you are afraid that you will miss lots of opportunities. The truth is tho... just do what feels right. Experiment or stick with a girl you really like, your choice. Just dont be afraid of success.
/r/seduction26/01/18 11:48 PM
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Yeah, table sitting is way too formal. Feels like a dinner date without the food? As many people pointed out you should either sit at the bar or maybe try to put your chair either to the left or right from her. My home city has lots of places where you can sit on a sofa which is pretty awesome for a first date.
/r/seduction26/01/18 04:44 PM
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Might help your relationship with your brother. Also most girls dont mind as long as he doesnt behave like a creep. Living with 2 friends and have yet to face problems because of it.
/r/seduction26/01/18 08:08 AM
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Dear seddit, today I behaved like a human being. So proud.
/r/seduction20/01/18 08:57 AM
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Something like "I promise not to harvest your kidneys if you can promise the same" Dunno if I am the only one but stuff like that always has some creepy vibe for me. Its obviously just joking around but yeah... but maybe thats just me being too lame.
/r/seduction10/01/18 12:00 PM
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My cliff-diving pic seems to help. Not set as first photo tho.
/r/seduction12/12/17 09:14 AM
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Grab a snowboard
/r/seduction02/12/17 10:04 AM
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Jeez. You cant find some infield? Then be a freakin pioneer and make it happen. Be your self instead of copying some semi effective stuff.
/r/seduction11/11/17 12:53 AM
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Dude. That seems like a pretty clear signal that she wants to get to know you. Ask her out.
/r/seduction01/11/17 11:20 AM
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Forget about the "rub it in her face" part but its true that other women are the best distraction
/r/seduction01/11/17 11:19 AM
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You put too much of your happiness on the validation of girls. The only person you should try to impress is yourself. Work on yourself and the rest will follow. But dont expect some magic turnaround after a few weeks. Shit takes time
/r/seduction29/10/17 02:13 PM
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Depending on your chemistry with the other person it might just end up being mutual masturbation and definitely lacks the emotions of true fullfilling sex. So nah, you are definitely not crazy because of that
/r/seduction19/10/17 05:23 PM
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Why wouldnt you walk around with a smile on your face tho? Show that you are happy :)
/r/seduction10/10/17 10:48 AM
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That sub can even fix climate warming
/r/seduction06/10/17 05:25 PM
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Yep, this guy gets it . But also: Dont try, just be
/r/seduction01/10/17 10:26 PM
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The thing is you dont need all that crap. Be a decent human being and go out and have fun. Thats all you need.
/r/seduction06/09/17 10:21 AM
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You can go out with them. But people get lost in clubs. If you really want action, get lost and do your thing. I doubt they will hold it against you. Might also throw in a cheeky: Where were you guys? From that comfy bed, occupied by 2 people.
/r/seduction02/09/17 11:24 PM
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It definitely has become harder to find matches. Part of it might also be fault of the algorithm since boost and shit. While I still get a fair amount of matches with rather good looking women, character quality is in high demand. If you are looking for a lay tinder is still good but if you are looking for something serious you might not bother at all. Most of the girls I see and meet on there are so blunt and boring.
/r/seduction02/09/17 11:13 PM
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Dank cat
/r/seduction01/09/17 02:06 PM
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Only regret if you choose not to try :) // haha, wow. Cheers mate
/r/seduction01/09/17 11:04 AM
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Probably could work if you are confident enough
/r/seduction20/07/17 06:24 PM
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The thing that makes fit guys or bodybuilders attractive is the mindset you need to achieve it. Nothing is more attractive than a dedicated guy with iron will.
/r/seduction17/07/17 10:21 AM
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Fear... You are afraid of rejection thus you supress any feelings. Cant get hurt if you feel nothing right?
/r/seduction14/07/17 02:38 PM
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You are not the first person being stood up. That is not remotely exclusive to tinder. Happens with outside gaming, girls you met in a club... Move on. You hopefully dont quit at every small bad experience.
/r/seduction12/07/17 03:43 PM
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Still up on his trp thread. Is okay
/r/seduction05/07/17 11:34 AM
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And like always the real LPT is in the comments :)
/r/seduction05/07/17 11:23 AM
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Well... the less time you have, the harder it is to read the situation correctly. But you are talking about situations where you are passing a girl on the street or whatever right? Either try to establish the eye contact earlier or you gotta take a leap of faith.
/r/seduction04/07/17 01:20 PM
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Dont stare. Just hold casual eye contact. If she smiles thats your invite. A shy girl might look away, on the ground whatever but will search the eye contact again. Worth a shot. If she looks disgusted, dont bother. Simple enough
/r/seduction04/07/17 12:29 PM
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People really do that?
/r/seduction28/06/17 06:21 PM
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Lower your standards. If you have nothing to offer you have to take the leftovers... If you dont like that you either try to raise your value or gotta be content with paying for the monthly hooker.
/r/seduction23/06/17 10:36 AM
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Guess whatever floats your boat. For every good example there are at least the same amount of bad ones where the marriage went wrong after. If the dude is fine with it... I know I couldnt, no matter how good the connection seems to be. But I agree with you on the 2-3 dates thing. Pretty dangerously to asume that they are down after these. But most guys will probably say to pull out if its not going anywhere quickly.
/r/seduction22/05/17 05:59 PM
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Okay yeah. But it doesnt have to be bad thing. They will remember a good interaction and so you might have an easier opening at the party ;)
/r/seduction22/05/17 05:53 PM
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How do you build a reputation with girls who are only staying for a few nights? Stop making excuses
/r/seduction22/05/17 02:38 PM
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If your gf wants to wait til marriage then ditch her. Seriously. Sex is a pretty important thing in a relationship and to wait til after marriage to find out if you are compatible? Guess if you are fine with having sex twice a year then go for it. (or your mate) Agree with your other stuff tho.
/r/seduction22/05/17 01:17 PM
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Dont be boring :)
/r/seduction22/05/17 07:30 AM
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Women are strange. Seems like they really tried to tease you? Dont be hurt and maybe tease them back / joke about the stuff they said... Appear as like you dont care is half the battle.
/r/seduction20/05/17 10:34 PM
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Feels like you have already lost since you already think the world of her tbh... But just casually ask her to hang out sometime. Dont make it awkward tho. You should be able to see whats what after. Rejection is always better than regret!
/r/seduction17/05/17 06:55 PM
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Just saying what you want to do/feel like doing in a playful manner can indeed be pretty effective.
/r/seduction14/05/17 09:10 PM
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How do you generally behave when you are out in public? Do you try to strike conversations with random people? Like your barrista, bartender, cashier? If not try to do it. Just some small talk. But if you cant even talk with people you have no sexual interest in than how should you expect to approach the cutie waiting for the bus. Start small...
/r/seduction10/05/17 12:09 PM
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Thats just stupid
/r/seduction10/05/17 12:01 PM
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Regret is always worse than rejection
/r/seduction08/05/17 07:15 AM
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Ask yourself one question: Are you fun to hang out with? No? Why would someone hang around then? You can change your looks as in losing weight (getting fit), shave your head, buy new stylish glasses, proper clothes but all that will not change a single thing if you dont become a proper man during the process. Find some cool hobbys that you enjoy, boost your career (or get at least a proper job), make it a habit to socialize with all the people you meet during your day. All this aint new. Probabl…
/r/seduction03/05/17 02:58 PM
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Why didn't you text her? You wibed and went the whole way and then you give her the silent treatment. She probably feels used if you dont act quickly. Sometimes I really wonder... dudes trying to play games where you should just use common sense. Had a great night? Tell her and not 1 week after...
/r/seduction27/04/17 12:32 PM
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Fortune favors the bold. But in all seriousness: If you wibed pretty hard, why not? Can work out, might not. Usually not the proper thing to do as it might be a bit too pushy...
/r/seduction24/04/17 04:50 PM
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You can still have a fun night but dont expect anything too serious out of it
/r/seduction23/04/17 10:47 AM
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Have an aquaintance through a mutual friend. This guy wears a man-bun aswell... looks horrible. Girlfriend from our mutual friend calls him the asexual... go figure.
/r/seduction23/04/17 10:39 AM
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Why wait a day or two when you can wait 4 months! /s Do it. Make your intentions clear but dont be to pushy... What are you trying to accomplish btw? A lay before she leaves? Might not be up for anything with commitment since she leaves soon...
/r/seduction23/04/17 10:33 AM
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Well, I actually like looking sharp but some attention is always a nice addition. As sad as it sounds, I guess I feel entitled to female attention when I dress proper... dont take me wrong. I dont want that but it subconciously it feels like I do it. I often cringe about some interactions the morning after. When I dress casually I rarely give a fuck, often the women even come to me. I play it naturally, kinda confident. Not saying that I fuck up some interactions but overall way smoother. But is…
/r/seduction14/04/17 09:34 PM
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So, that might be a reason why I have more success when I go out in plain (still fitting) closes in contrast to when I really dress up? I usually dont expect anything to happen when I go out casually but most of the time those are the successfull nights...
/r/seduction14/04/17 03:13 PM
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Thats quite a workout ;D
/r/seduction10/04/17 12:03 PM
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Why ruin the night even further? You are already there, get a drink or a good meal and enjoy your time instead of leaving with a bad taste in your mouth...
/r/seduction04/04/17 11:00 AM
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Well, maybe its time to ask yourself: What am I working for? You spend half your day with work. 8 hours of sleep? That leaves 4 hours. 2 of those spent at the gym. So another 2 hours for yourself or rather housework? Cleaning, laundry... And that 6 out of 7 days? You have to make mad money or really enjoy your work for that to be worth it. Where does your social life fit in? Do you even have time for deeper connections? Do you still find the time to hang out with friends? Or are your social inte…
/r/seduction10/03/17 08:38 PM
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Mood for a cheap number?
/r/seduction08/03/17 12:10 PM
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Gone done a few times? How did you not fuck yet. Is she stopping you or are you just not pushing the subject? What ages are you? This wohle thing sounds so immature. If you guys want to be fwb, she should maybe behave like a friend instead of pushing you around...
/r/seduction01/03/17 11:25 AM
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Yes! Totally know the problem. I think its normal to be more interested in the really attractive girls but that doesnt mean you have to ignore every <7. Happens quite often for me, havent really found a solution yet. Guess thats why puas often say its important to talk to all kinds of people and tread them nicely. No matter if old, young, fat, beautiful, ugly. Expand your horizon.
/r/seduction10/02/17 06:19 PM
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Thats where your fuckup begins mate. You put her on a pedestal before you even talked to her
/r/seduction07/02/17 11:32 AM
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A forced smile is awkward and indeed might appear creepy. If you cant give her an honest smile, dont even bother. Try to smile with your eyes as well
/r/seduction31/01/17 04:46 PM
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They want you to know. The longer you wait with making a move the more insecure you appear. Grow some balls and chat her up.
/r/seduction31/01/17 04:44 PM
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Its more important how you feel with them. You like the glasses, keep em. Cant seem to find a good pair? Always feel awkward? Try a alternative
/r/seduction27/01/17 08:53 AM
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You did nothing to get her to think about you in that way. You had some small talk, danced (probably not grinded?!) and hugged in the end. What is she supposed to make out of it? You asked her to be your date but then didnt advance at all. You have to show affection before you can receive it...
/r/seduction25/01/17 12:15 PM
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Communication is so important! Too many people tho dont realise that not all communication has to be verbal. Deep listening skills and proper composure are just as important
/r/seduction10/12/16 11:12 PM
0

Acne is not a problem until you make it one.
/r/seduction01/12/16 11:10 AM
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Fuck gender equality right? It' such an outdated idea that men are the ones who have to make the move. But women, even the rather undesireable ones, have always options. So most of the time they dont bother approaching. Or they are afraid it comes off slutty. Usually at a party there is at least one girl who approaches me. Not directly but giving hints that she wants to talk or whatever. But cant remember if I ever got approached outside of that environment. Might be that I miss the signals or w…
/r/seduction27/11/16 02:47 AM
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or creep them out completely, cause it's fake.
/r/seduction22/10/16 09:54 PM
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Love your attitude mate. This should press the right buttons for lots of people.
/r/seduction21/10/16 06:40 PM
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Too many people try to change for a day, do the important things for a day, improve for a day. When they don't see results immediately they stop. No zero days! Good stuff mate
/r/seduction20/10/16 02:28 PM
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Call your friends cunt and strangers mate
/r/seduction18/10/16 07:33 AM
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Why? You really think the universe fucked you this badly? Many people with disabilities or other huge disadvantages are able to live a happy, fullfilling live. But you cant? Those people realized that its themself who would keep them from having a happy life. Own who you are, improve on the foundation you are build of, focus on the stuff you are good at. You may not have the looks, you may be small, too tall, poor or have no familiy. But that are mere obstacles to overcome. Those things don't ke…
/r/seduction29/08/16 11:26 AM
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Seems like you are mistaking kindness for interest. She is most likely just trying to be nice... If she was attracted to you, you would know. Also know that mixing up work with love life is always a bad idea.
/r/seduction22/08/16 10:59 AM
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no
/r/seduction19/08/16 11:13 AM
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How is getting random boners during the day a good thing? Imagine it is rather annoying? I agree on the whole no porn thing, shit is not healthy. But nofap is just a step too far.
/r/seduction15/08/16 06:19 AM
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Escalation ladder. Also eye contact. Show her that you want to kiss her (triangular gaze) Get the conversation to a sexular level. After kissing and making out go, for the finish ;)
/r/seduction10/08/16 10:20 PM
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Yeah, forget about that movie and try to go all the way.
/r/seduction06/08/16 11:55 PM
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If you are at it, might as well get it on camera. For science of course.
/r/seduction06/08/16 11:52 PM
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Yeah, I don't believe in that whole nofap and/or limiting thing. But what one should really avoid is porn. You can masturbate without it and if you really focus on yourself why doing so, it can have a meditation-like effect.
/r/seduction01/08/16 10:53 AM
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Cause lots of people have realised that living an awesome life makes it a lot easier to seduce someone than to learn some stupid lines
/r/seduction01/08/16 10:44 AM
1

Try the app Headspace
/r/seduction01/08/16 10:42 AM
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It always comes down to the environment. It's never black and white with talking to girls. In a controlled environment you might be better of confirming the number but when you both got places to be... be my guest and take a gamble with her number. In the end it all comes down to having options anyway
/r/seduction29/07/16 10:22 PM
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I have had women asking me to call her after she gave me her number. It's a lot easier for them aswell...
/r/seduction29/07/16 03:44 PM
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You dont have to say why you don't like EDM or whatever. If you dont like a certain vegetable, do you need to give reason other than the taste? Instead of talking about the music you dont like you should talk about the music you like and explain what you like about it. Show your passion instead of negativity.
/r/seduction27/07/16 06:00 AM
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Cause the term is mostly used by some lonely neckbeards who got rejected and put into the "friend zone" by one or more girls... Nothing wrong with having good female friends. Most women can be a lot of fun (who would have thought, eh?) and people who only have guy friends are missing out. But you have to set clear boundaries... getting attached or lying to yourself (supressing feelings) will just go bad.
/r/seduction14/06/16 10:26 AM
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What do you want from life? Doesnt seem that you like your current situation?! So everything you do should be for yourself and not some random girl whatever.
/r/seduction13/06/16 10:12 AM
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Usually I dont even know she doesnt drink when I pick a bar. Do you blatantly ask her or how do you find out?
/r/seduction20/05/16 09:12 PM
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Most girls who post their IG are just in it for attention. There are exceptions of course but I mostly dont even bother to put in any extra effort. It's a numbers game anyway
/r/seduction02/05/16 06:42 AM
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There are other ways to use a mobile than only Whatsapp... Dunno about you fucking up, pretty low on information there but seems like she wasnt interested in you in the end. Otherwise she would have given you her number.
/r/seduction02/04/16 01:09 PM
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Break your problems in to small parts... makes everything alot easier hm?
/r/seduction14/03/16 12:34 AM
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I think I can relate with where you are coming from. Seems like you held back on things. You didn't really show your true self? Often as the man, you don't really have to talk that much but what you actually do say matters alot. Some people have legit reasons not having a close connection to their familiy. Show vulnerability but dont use her as a pressure valve. Don't be ashamed of your passion. Own them. A man who loves to cook? Who could surprise her with awesome dishes? Thats awesome dude... …
/r/seduction14/03/16 12:32 AM
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Isn't that just the concept of being vulnerable?
/r/seduction01/03/16 12:43 AM
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Well yes. I wont be vulnerable around a girl I just met. Vulnerability is a way to become intimate (not particularly sex) by sharing deep feelings and thoughts. Why would I want to be intimate with a girl I just met, I know nothing about? But showing and sharing vulnerability is an important step in taking your relationship with a girl, friend or even familiy to another level.
/r/seduction24/02/16 08:21 PM
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For me vulnerability is to put yourself in a vulnerable position by showing your true feelings, being honest. So basicially opening up to the other person. Which will put you in the position of being rejected or judged. But because you are fine with who you are and your actions, you will stay true to yourself no matter their response.
/r/seduction24/02/16 07:58 AM
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Too much theory and not putting enough time into actually practicing it. Just do it :)
/r/seduction18/02/16 06:14 PM
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I assume you have read "No more Mr. Nice Guy"? No? Do it. What you basicially want to do is to take better care of yourself in every way you can imagine and don't put other people needs before your own. Start by taking care of your body. You are only doing harm to yourself by avoiding exercising (or do you specifially mean lifting?). However, you don't have to lift. You should pick up some healthy hobbies tho. Start running, cycling or whatever. Take pride in yourself by dressing well, smelling …
/r/seduction15/02/16 06:46 PM
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Some things come up again and again in this sub. *Dont do cinema/dinner first dates. *Try to text for logistics only. Also, it's not uncommon to suddenly lose interest in a person. Maybe she went on other dates in the meantime which offered more fun, chemistry. Doing that video wasnt the smartest move aswell, would have been a legit reason for her to come over. Forget about her and move on, it was only a tinder date afterall.
/r/seduction03/02/16 12:05 PM
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Shouldnt be the approach itself the goal? So you dont determine your success with the amount of positive responses you got?
/r/seduction31/01/16 11:00 AM
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People like to talk about themselves. Bei interested in her, lets her talk about stuff and occasionally throw something in...
/r/seduction28/01/16 06:46 AM
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No harm in asking? Leave out the cute part tho, wait with compliments until you see her in person. Met a girl on a party a while ago. Forgot about the number... added her drunkenly on facebook. Didnt bother to chat her up tho, as some pictures hinted at a boyfriend + a comment I misunderstood. However, when I met her again, I got her number. We started to chat, currently dating. Turns out the guy was her best guyfriend aka. friendzoned dude. Only one way to find out mate.
/r/seduction27/01/16 02:23 PM
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You shouldnt care about the outcome at all. Good/bad... who cares?
/r/seduction26/01/16 04:18 PM
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Only talked for 10 minutes 1 week ago, didnt text her at all? Just delete the number, she probably doesnt even remember you
/r/seduction25/01/16 02:08 PM
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What kind of help do you expect with that little information? But probably yeah
/r/seduction24/01/16 04:14 PM
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You tell her "wait", look her in the eyes and go for the kiss. You can use it nearly in every situation. She is telling you something, she is leaving... You probably should not do it coming out of the blue but if you did some kino before it is an easy transition.
/r/seduction24/01/16 11:23 AM
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I would probably wait til after the exam. Do some other stuff, dont think about her, be busy so you dont get too attached. and if she flakes me again ask her what day is good for her? Give her a few days she can chose from. If you ask her what day works for her she might think you dont have anything better to do at all...
/r/seduction24/01/16 11:14 AM
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She seems to have some serious problems. You gotta figure out if you want to have these problems near you... Maybe you could get a lay out of it in the future but is it worth it? Best move would be to just move on and look for opportunities elsewhere...
/r/seduction23/01/16 09:46 PM
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And losers who will tell me to move on need not reply. Even I am aware of that option and everyone eventually does it when things don't work out. Its not an advice its just the most generic thing to say. A perfect 5/7 Do the obvious thing and move on...
/r/seduction23/01/16 09:18 PM
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Smile at her, go for it if she smiles back :)
/r/seduction21/01/16 08:24 PM
1

Well put man. The gym can be the first step for so many great things. If you were able to go the gym regularly 3-5 times a week why the fuck wouldnt you be able to improve in "whatever you wish" aswell?
/r/seduction18/01/16 10:23 PM
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tl:dr: Friends paid for escort girl, op took too long to make his move, escort left him (somehow went through my mind while reading this) Damn strange night mate
/r/seduction17/01/16 07:33 PM
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Oh I remember that story, guy got damaged for life :/
/r/seduction15/01/16 03:36 PM
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Dont overthink it... you are already way too invested (girl of my dreams). Go there with your friends, hang out with your friends, have fun. If she is already there, go to her and say hello. Maybe a quick chat and back to your friends. If she comes later and you see her, look her in the eyes, smile andh keep doing what you were doing before. If she doesnt approach you, you might have to initiate it but that wont look really promising than.
/r/seduction15/01/16 12:07 PM
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Yes this. You should know if you are attractive. If you have to ask its a sign of looking for validation and low confidence.
/r/seduction14/01/16 10:41 AM
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Emotional boner ;)
/r/seduction14/01/16 12:14 AM
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Hit a gym and proper diet... Maybe its not the thing you want to hear but its the truth...
/r/seduction13/01/16 09:28 PM
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Politely tell them that you are not interested? Treat them like you would want to get rejected. The girlfriend/boyfriend thing seems to get ignored by men and women alike.
/r/seduction13/01/16 12:01 PM
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I sometimes have the same problem. Comparing a new acquaintance to this one girl I knew years ago. She seems perfect and the other girls pale compared to her. But then I remind myself: I was such a lousy guy back then, of course I put the girls who were nice to me on a huge pedestal, especially her. We went out a few times but I never got that close as I was awkward. Now she is the past, I'm the future. Let me tell you: Your girl was not perfect, she may have been nice to look at but nothing out…
/r/seduction12/01/16 12:21 PM
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Well if a friend introduces me to a gir he knows and I have never seen before I would probably not hug here but rather shake her hand thats true. Just wanted to emphasize the importance of going for the hug if you somewhat know the girl. Be it that you have talked to her on some party or met her on tinder... ;)
/r/seduction09/01/16 03:25 AM
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Its all a question of how much time your spend doing it. You can lead an awesome social life but still game from time to time. But of course its pretty easy to get lost in games. Playing 4 hours of whatever is way more relaxing than going out there and try to chat up women. While games are not the problem at its core they do make it really easy to isolate some people.
/r/seduction08/01/16 06:56 PM
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Exactly my thoughts. There are probably better things one can tell her to get access to her legs. A hug on first tinder/online-dating date makes it less awkward. Handshake only would freak me out.
/r/seduction08/01/16 02:29 PM
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Thanks for doing the follow up :) That truely sounds like an awesome night. Surely one to be remembered. Keep that positive vibe going, you are one lucky man!
/r/seduction31/12/15 02:19 PM
1

Thats why you should use different smiles. Dont use your best smile for strangers. Just a small, friendly smile. Keep your biggest smile for those people that deserve it.
/r/seduction28/12/15 01:40 PM
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You seem like an alright guy ;). Just appreciate the opportunity and experience you got from this. Move on to the next, hopefully more stable, one.
/r/seduction28/12/15 10:41 AM
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If you dont like her response you can (and should) walk away.
/r/seduction28/12/15 10:30 AM
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Quite the wall of text but thanks mate.
/r/seduction18/12/15 07:28 AM
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You wont know until you make your intentions clear. But seems like she just wanted to hang out eh?
/r/seduction15/12/15 08:55 AM
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Well your biggest problem is that you likely appear boring. What value do you bring into hanging out with people? Why should they bother having you around? Lead the conversation, make them laugh, tell good stories, be fun to be around. How do you want people to remember you? As the guy who sat quietly and creepy at the edge or the guy who brightened the mood? How do you do that? Be passionate about your hobbies, improve your confidence, social skills, be the best you you can be and everything el…
/r/seduction11/12/15 11:17 AM
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"Ok" Get some distance between you two, probably too much attention.
/r/seduction10/12/15 08:59 AM
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Good stuff mate, glad you learned something from your mistakes. "The Master has failed more often than the student tried" (or something like that :D) Essentially: Dont be needy, stay true to yourself no matter how "perfect" the girl is.
/r/seduction04/12/15 07:07 PM
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Well for effortless sex there is thing called hookers...
/r/seduction02/12/15 12:01 PM
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At least half of them will probably realise in a few years they made a huge mistake. Dont stress yourself :)
/r/seduction25/11/15 08:22 AM
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True. You could stay safe and away from challenges and failure. But you will never achieve anything besides mediocrity. You want to achieve anything worth mentioning in life? Get your ass out there and fail. Pick yourself up and try again. And then you will reach a moment where suddenly everything seems to be working out. Congratulations, you made it :)
/r/seduction20/11/15 04:07 PM
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A quick and clean no is the best thing that could happen (besides being sucessful) ;). She certainly wasnt interested. Your approach was not the problem here. Just keep on doing it, the first is the hardest, from here on out it just gets easier :)
/r/seduction20/11/15 07:36 AM
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Well put. I like your 'fun adventurer' approach. Be sexual (verbally) before you even had sex, it will make her much more comfortable with the idea of doing it.
/r/seduction05/11/15 11:50 AM
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You had a great night, which should be your main concern. Those girls not showing signs of interest could have so many reasons. Mixed group? Maybe they didnt want to come of slutty in front of their friends? Maybe they where overwhelmed, no idea how to handle this awesome guy. Maybe they just didnt feel like it... You worry too much. Just keep on being awesome and you gonna see results soon :)
/r/seduction02/11/15 08:46 AM
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There is a sub reddit for tinder but its mostly used for fun stuff I think. There are some useful links in here as well.i "lol no" sounds like a real qualitiy response. Probably some stupid remark like "rofl yes" or just ignore and move on. It is so easy to lose interest online that you shouldnt worry about single cases.
/r/seduction16/10/15 02:52 PM
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Pretty good advice there. Reminds me about one time I went out with some mates and his gf and her friends. Dont really like her and her friends were quite boring aswell. So as we went into this club I slowly seperated myself from the group and had fun on my own terms. Found myself suddenly in the mix with a small group of attractive girls. Nothing came off it tho as I didnt quite understand how to close at that point. Nevertheless I had a great time which is the most important thing.
/r/seduction16/10/15 11:05 AM
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Okay... lots of input, gonna try to point out some mistakes I think you made. FF to tonight. I was out swing-dancing with the university club tonight, and met this girl - let's call her Sally. Beautiful girl, big lovely smile. The way the dancing thing worked was we went around in a circle, dancing with a new partner every 3-4 minutes. Whenver Sally and I were together, I held the conversation well, made her laugh, and I think generally portrayed a confident and fun attitude. Good place to meet …
/r/seduction29/09/15 04:15 PM
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Thats a road you should not go down
/r/seduction28/09/15 02:42 PM
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Why would this person focus his future/career on sex? Doesn't seem very fulfilling to me. This person would be better of just focussing on himself, getting a nice job, interesting hobbies and a big social circle. Getting women wont be a problem then. Otherwise... be a pornstar.
/r/seduction28/09/15 10:49 AM
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Looks like you are genuinely unhappy with your current life. A girlfriend is not going to fix your problems. Dont make your happiness and life dependent on another person. The focus should be on yourself. You have to key to happiness. Try to do things that make you happy. Always wanted to take ballet classes? Go for it, dont care what other people say or think. Once you have recovered your happiness and purpose in life, the girls will follow.
/r/seduction26/09/15 12:24 PM
1

Make her think of you in a sexual way. Dont be her emotional tampon. The actual sex is a bonus. Easy as that :)
/r/seduction15/09/15 10:33 AM
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Chosen to be in the friend zone? You mean became friends with a girl on a purely platonic basis? Nothing wrong with that if you have no sexual desire towards her. Otherwise it is gonna lead to frustration and anger... As you have already stated that you find her kinda hot etc. I would advise against it...
/r/seduction01/09/15 06:52 AM
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Girls sometimes just want to have someone listening to their problems. But doing so without making any kind of advances will swiftly put you into the friendzone... What did you do while she was talking about herself? Showing that you were actively listening? Using some moments to get closer? Grabing her? Touching her? As a man, you dont have to talk that much, seriously. It is more about how you handle her, how you react to her stories. Show that you listened, that you care about her and about h…
/r/seduction26/08/15 10:44 PM
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Demonstration of High Value It's in the glossary (sidebar) ;)
/r/seduction07/08/15 10:44 PM
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I guess if you didn't see here for quite some time it may be possible that her impression of you changes like " Wow, cant remember him being like this!" But why care? This non boring/serious/needy guy shouldn't have any problems getting to know other girls, eh?
/r/seduction05/08/15 07:02 AM
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and part 2: Way to prevent running out of things to say. 1. Whatever you say has importance. 2. Start talking to eveyone early. 3. Be self amused The Self Is Always Coming Through... Be yourself, you don't need a random girls attention. Do what you love/self amused :) Treat everyone the same...(Normal) Everyone in the world is your friend and they want the best for you You're not above the process of going into state State is...enjoying self, in the moment, authentic, yourself, speaking your min…
/r/seduction21/07/15 04:40 PM
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Felt like formatting it cause there might be some good stuff in there...probably got some sentences wrong as they confuse the shit out of me. Mostly didn't bother with correcting grammar: Your word is immpeccable.. Never be stiffled, be yourself in everyway You take nothing personal, when someone attacks You, its because of themselves You have no assumptions or judgements on anyone..everyone is great You always do your best because action makes You happy Change her mood, Not her mind Women make …
/r/seduction21/07/15 04:28 PM
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