Hellion_shark Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
5	This is pretty interesting and respectful to men who feel this way.		Hellion_shark	/r/ExRedPill	21/04/20 12:42 PM

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
2	Why is it considered taboo to state that a man's looks are #1 in dating? Sure bro, whatever makes you feel better and exuses you feeling sorry for yourself. It takes looking at an average couple to disprove what you say.why would they be evenly matched if women always go for hot guys and avarage men can't find a date?	/r/ExRedPill	01/06/22 06:14 PM
2	I can now see why women don't like men cold approaching Oh yeah it totally reminds me of race issues, that to some white people sound exaggerated and even as if people of color want special treatment or some weird rethoric like that.. And sometimes when politicians are voted in who are openly racist or sexist,it really makes it seem like people don't care (many countries are guilty of that) In circumstances like that you just need a few grifters, regardless of the "side" they supposedly take, to get some race war going on. Or a gender war. I do not t…	/r/ExRedPill	11/04/22 03:04 AM
1	I can now see why women don't like men cold approaching I do fully agree, however, I am tired of guys only showing empathy towards women when it's their relatives. Stories about dangerous men are all over the news and women constantly talk about it, only to be told we should stop being paranoid. Then when a dude says "Oh I found out "Daves" exist" as if we were not talking about it forever, suddenly people are paying attention because a man said it - it can get pretty annoying. No one listens to us until it's a woman in their family. Which is underst…	/r/ExRedPill	10/04/22 09:10 PM
2	Are relationships worth it? Is it better to be single? Some relationships can be pretty bad, but ... it's like with jobs, it takes searching to get a good one :D	/r/ExRedPill	09/04/22 07:41 PM
1	I can now see why women don't like men cold approaching I know it comes off condescending, but I seriously don't understand, how you didn't know creeps (and dangerous men) exist? Stories about it are all over both the internet and traditional media. Does it make the difference that he was a creep to someone in your family?	/r/ExRedPill	09/04/22 07:38 PM
2	I can now see why women don't like men cold approaching "I totally get womans fear of dangerous men after this" It's interesting that the realization missed you before this but, you know, better late than never. And that's why catcalling and shit like this are not "compliments"	/r/ExRedPill	09/04/22 07:24 PM
2	Is living with parents one of the most repulsive traits to have? For me there are too many circumstances for it to be a straight-up turn-off. Sometimes you need t take care of someone, or it makes zero sense to pay rent, or you are gathering money for something. In some cases, it's just impossible to move out alone at the time.It would be a turn-off if the case is like... idk the 90day fiancee people, whose parents often abuse their so and control their lives. It might make me wonder if the dude knows how to take basic care of himself or is he babied by mommy…	/r/ExRedPill	09/04/22 05:30 PM
4	Why is it considered taboo to state that a man's looks are #1 in dating? Well, I guess it's a matter of where we are as well. There is no point in arguing two anecdotal things. Say they are "identical" or equal. If women always go for the hot guy why are most couples identical and not a bunch of hot dudes with any woman? You said average guys are screwed, right? Your own words refute that.	/r/ExRedPill	09/04/22 10:43 AM
5	Why is it considered taboo to state that a man's looks are #1 in dating? Looks are an advantage, but you only have to look around and see avarage guys getting dates or relationships. Most hetero men don't get one night stands, because most women don't do one night stands. There is not much in it for women. I didn't say he has to have a bad personality, I said that it's not independent,as you claim. If he is a dick someone emotionally well ajusted wouldn't bother. Also assuming all hot people are treated well is rather presumptuous. As if someone cares weather kids ar…	/r/ExRedPill	09/04/22 04:24 AM
7	Why is it considered taboo to state that a man's looks are #1 in dating? Because they aren't. I mean, they might help you get a date, but a disgusting personality makes looks disgusting real fast. On top of that many dudes who are sex symbols in my country I consider super fucking ugly - beauty is subjective. A lot of it is in how you carry yourself and how you behave. I think there is a huge problem with many people thinking dating apps reflect reality. The only thing about a guy on a dating app is his looks and if he is into... craft beer? And yeah, they talk about…	/r/ExRedPill	09/04/22 01:38 AM
3	Single women feeling peer pressured by their non-single friends I am not unhappy being single. I am unhappy, casue I have depression :D Sometimes I do get lonely - mostly for physical contact as I am a touchy person, but at the same time, I have zero faith in relationships. I've only felt peer pressured when I was way younger. Now It's mostly my grandma and people who feel sorry for me, cause for them having a relationship is their biggest goal. - I mean to each their own. I intend to make it so I am okay regardless if I am single or married - that means I'd…	/r/ExRedPill	30/03/22 12:55 PM
4	Where does this idea that men get better as they age? And yet a bunch of men feel entitled to be considered attractive at 50+ hence the general idea that men age like wine, people try to reason out with fertility :D as if a "fertile young Female" would naturally want a "provider and protector" who's gonna have a bunch of age-related health troubles and erectile dysfunction in a few years' time Men are entitled to be liked by young chicks and to not have a "wall' much more than women are entitled to be considered attractive - all I said is compared …	/r/ExRedPill	30/03/22 11:47 AM
11	Where does this idea that men get better as they age? Women overall take better care of themselves. Older or younger. It's just that men are allowed to age, and women are not. Old age on a woman is automatically ugly - it doesn't matter if you are beautiful or better looking than men at that age. It's how society works.	/r/ExRedPill	29/03/22 12:33 PM
11	Blaming mens actions on women, but not the other way around I am sure Puritan men never cheated :D What a clown comment	/r/ExRedPill	28/03/22 12:49 PM
4	Sometimes all it takes is teaching people the correct words and definitions and not hiding things behind new age terminology and repackaged ideas... 🤘🏼🥸🤘🏼 Perfectly said. I don't have points to drop an award, so I'll drop a comment instead. I think both things are bad, but misogyny has led to killings and systematic oppression while misandry hasn't. And people might say it's because it didn't have time and environment to get there, and maybe they won't be wrong, but we cannot judge a crime that hasn't happened yet. Currently, in social aspects they are different and the reaction is different, cause a misogynist is more of a threat to women than a …	/r/ExRedPill	26/03/22 04:54 PM
1	How much do you need to prove you're better than other guys to get women? I don't know? My guess is being socialized to think it doesn't matter as long as other men think you scored. What is your guess?	/r/ExRedPill	15/03/22 07:16 PM
1	I’m insecure and don’t trust my girlfriend Women do break up with weak men. Just not your definition of weak. Your insecurity and "dating coaches' who try to sell you their snake oil will ruin your relationship. Watch this guy instead - an actual family therapist with some experience behind his back. That's just one example. There is also the heatly gamer, who is pretty cool. Also ask yourself if you are even ready to have a relationship.	/r/ExRedPill	15/03/22 07:05 PM
4	How much do you need to prove you're better than other guys to get women? The premise itself is flawed. If you care about being "better than other guys" you've already lost. There are few things more unattractive than a guy who is trying to be "alpha" or acting in such a way. What you need is to be a good guy - in the sense of being reliable, likable, and not a burden in her life - from that point on you just need to keep looking, and seek for more than looks. having the "Hot girlfriend" achievements is a stupid reason to be with someone. Cause, yes, she has a choice.…	/r/ExRedPill	15/03/22 06:29 PM
46	Women settle for psychopaths, they never seek them Also, lots of abusive relationships become abusive later and not at the start.	/r/ExRedPill	15/03/22 06:20 PM
2	Does anyone know how we can put an end to this red pill thing? There will always be desperate young people for them to pray on...	/r/ExRedPill	10/03/22 10:41 AM
2	Would it be more accurate to say women want men who talk about their emotions rather than express them? This	/r/ExRedPill	08/03/22 01:07 AM
3	is my therapist right that women do like feminine looking men? Different women like different shit, but all you need is to see the Popstars popular with women - Justin Bieber, Harry Styles, BTS, etc, and actors like that dune guy girls go crazy over, to know that a lot of women like "feminine" men. And prefer it if a man takes care of himself, not so much workout-wise as much as wardrobe, style, hair, skincare, nailcare. ... a... regular bath at least? :D	/r/ExRedPill	08/03/22 12:56 AM
8	Just another guy realizing he can be better. Some lessons hurt, unfortunately. But also, I don't think unconditional love exists. Not even towards your dog. Their looks is a condition, their status is a condition, yes, but also their behavior, the way they treat you, what they think, do their goals align with yours - it is all a condition. We don't love people randomly for no reason. The "Female dating strategy" "pink pill" channels do exist and are about as bullshit as the red pill. Should I judge you all as a monolith because Eliot Roger…	/r/ExRedPill	22/02/22 09:53 AM
2	What does everyone here think about "Male vs Female Gaze" and what can we learn from it? If men only knew to take better care for their hands :D	/r/ExRedPill	21/02/22 09:58 AM
3	The number one flaw in all sexual dynamics is… If women would fall in love with men through orgasm alone, then the humanity would die out. Shots fired! :D :D :D While we're at it. The problem isn't that men do stuff for us, it's that it is clear why they do it.	/r/ExRedPill	21/02/22 09:50 AM
25	It's a common sentiment within the Red Pill and Pickup communities to idealize Eastern European as "traditionally feminine" and "submissive" in contrast w/ feminist Western women. What these guys are totally oblivious to is that this veneer of "trad. femininity" is informed by a culture of violence. Buuut, they want a young woman. And eastern European women from my generation and below are far from the "western" idea of traditional. The culture shock alone would kill him. It would take 3 times for her to talk straight to him, and he will be whining about how she is mean and doesn't love him. - Source - I'm eastern European. The women here who go after foreigners don't want a "traditional" guy. we have plenty of those. :D But yeah, I agree with the previous comment - they know. They hope the…	/r/ExRedPill	21/02/22 09:40 AM
6	Sam Vaknin debunking redpill shite I don't know who he is, but a diagnosis is not a sentence. Many narcs and even psychopaths can live and function as normal.	/r/ExRedPill	19/02/22 02:24 AM
1	What your opinion on Robert Kiyoaski becoming a red piller? Wait what? For real?Come ooooon noooo! I mean I am not worshiping the guy, he is kinda grifty, but I used to watch him before, I've read his book and all. Is he like a full-on red pill MGTOW Pickupartist shit?	/r/ExRedPill	08/02/22 10:26 PM
8	Thanks to this sub, a man and a woman somehow fell in love with each other and we thank you for it existing I have many male friends tho, but some of the things they say and the way they think makes me disappointed often. One of them seems to be going down the red pill lately and I hope he won't. They are good people, but at the same time, their view on women is... well... you know... Sexist due to ignorance, at best. At the same time, they seem to dismiss my experiences as a woman and feelings about certain situations and say some questionable shit. It's just tiring at this point. There is also the s…	/r/ExRedPill	05/02/22 10:42 PM
5	Thanks to this sub, a man and a woman somehow fell in love with each other and we thank you for it existing Congrats to you two. I feel myself falling into the misandrist black hole, I'd take a bit of advice on how she got out, cause I need to avoid it.	/r/ExRedPill	05/02/22 09:55 PM
6	I just realized how useless looks are The way you think and talk about women, this whole red pill, pseudoscience crap, where you put people in categories and have the whole cult-like lingo. Treating women like aliens is also part of what women see in your personality. You may think they don't, but very often, even on dating apps, it shows itself. And man, that's ridiculously unattractive. I'm out as soon as a dude starts talking about alphas and betas or how he'll treat me like a queen, and how he is a nice guy. Or how so and so is …	/r/ExRedPill	05/02/22 02:20 AM
45	I just realized how useless looks are The mentality that looks matter so much, I think, has a lot to do with incels often being young guys, who, on top of their bad social skills, zero emotional intelligence, and average / bellow average looks, are also only interested in significantly above average women, a lot of the time. Of course, you want to be attracted to your partner, but for that, they don't have to be an idol / supermodel. That and old people who are stuck in their teenage mentality.	/r/ExRedPill	04/02/22 04:42 PM
29	This red pilled video has 300k likes on Tik tok. Is it safe to say that the majority of people these days are red pilled? Or they end up attracting a super toxic person and then go "See, women are crazy"	/r/ExRedPill	02/02/22 03:36 PM
2	Why we do struggle to admit that looks matter a lot for men? Depends on the HOT hot women you want to date. most women (and men) who care so much about their appearance, clearly prioritize appearance. There is nothing bad about that, but for them, it's in the first place. If she is with a choice between a man she finds attractive that fits her personality and a man she finds unattractive who fits her personality - it's a no-brainer. It's not like you would make a different choice, come on. No one is a fucking saint. Now as far as "The skull of the chad" o…	/r/ExRedPill	21/01/22 06:43 PM
2	Question for the fellows , Why didn’t you as a former alphas/ redpiller date any “pick mes “ or “nice girls” ? He gets to come to say hi and stuff. And who knows, maybe I'd like him too. The problem, if I don't. is when he doesn't get the hint or even the straight-up denial. It's just uncomfortable or downright scary, and I wonder how guys live with this cringe.	/r/ExRedPill	21/01/22 06:24 PM
13	Is what my brother said indicative of redpill thinking? Even if it's not an incel thing it's still a concerning thought process. And it doesn't even make sense - You know, hot people have plenty of other hot people to chose from, why stick with this particular one then?	/r/ExRedPill	21/01/22 06:18 PM
15	Theses are the red pillers. Old men trying to radicalize the younger generation. Old men trying to sell shit to vulnerable young people. They have to keep men feeling down so they can buy their cure - be it books, videos, courses... They aren't saviors they're snake oil salesmen.	/r/ExRedPill	06/01/22 09:51 AM
4	"Dont be friends with girls" Honestly, if you only see friendships in terms of how they can benefit you, you have a problem. Is the idea of being friends with a woman, because you think she is an interesting person and you have fun together in spite of the complete lack of attraction between you, so fucking outlandish to men?	/r/seduction	30/07/21 05:33 PM
4	The worst thing redpill made me do "telling me that women are machines that can't think past emotions and get turned on by any sexual thing, with no thought of comfort " Sounds an awful lot like these guys are describing themselves. IF you wanna apologize you should make it clear you expect nothing from her - forgiveness, or for things to be like they are before that or anything. And you really need to explain in detail what was going on in your brain and to make sure you would never repeat something like that again. Whether you …	/r/ExRedPill	28/06/21 12:05 AM
1	Girls liking assholes? Oh, It is super annoying to see as an observer, I get you. Hopefully, your friend will find a healthier person soon.	/r/ExRedPill	19/06/21 06:40 PM
2	Girls liking assholes? People tend to recreate traumatic situations trying to change the outcome. On top of that women are often told to wait for the beast to become a prince and that if someone treats us badly it means he likes us. So yeah. That results in some girls sticking with asswipes. On top of that - low self-esteem/thinking they will be alone if not for this guy. I don't think it's a matter of liking the asshole - it's a matter of thinking this is how things are / you can't do any better / you can get him to …	/r/ExRedPill	19/06/21 11:58 AM
-3	Why are women all the same but men are individuals? Oh, wow.... Seems the same yeah	/r/ExRedPill	19/06/21 11:30 AM
1	Why are women all the same but men are individuals? What's FDS?	/r/ExRedPill	19/06/21 10:19 AM
20	How the hell is Red Pill content so popular?! It gives a simplistic explanation of complicated things therapists spend years learning. People often eat that shit up.	/r/ExRedPill	16/06/21 10:52 AM
1	Is it possible to discuss relationship problems to get an alternative to TRP-rules? I don't think it is a problem. We need to have all kinds of friends in order to broaden our horizons. Might I also suggest some interest in fashion and beauty? Some dressing sense and good skincare go a long way. A bunch of dudes will tell you it's not manly, but you are not looking to bang dudes anyway, so who cares. If you work on yourself, even if it doesn't work out with her, it will give you more relationship choices.	/r/ExRedPill	10/06/21 07:42 PM
2	Is it possible to discuss relationship problems to get an alternative to TRP-rules? "TRP-logic says with 36 beginns the alpha-reinterst and she could leave me for a guy, she has real desire for." What? :D hahah dafaq did I just read :D Is it REinterst if you were not interested in the first place? Sometimes trp truly makes me laugh. We are often socialized that if a man treats us like shit it means he loves us. Shit like that starts in middle school, if not earlier. There is also this desire in some to turn the beast into a prince. Sometimes people are stuck attracted to shitty…	/r/ExRedPill	10/06/21 07:31 PM
7	TRP is and always was stupid but the alternatives aren't better Do you start all your answers with a "LoL"	/r/ExRedPill	01/06/21 09:17 AM
5	The redpill ruined my last relationship It's like alt accounts of the same butthurt idiot are commenting under your post. "If it doesn't work you're doing it wrong" tell me how they are not a cult :D	/r/ExRedPill	25/05/21 04:01 PM
7	Please help, I think my fiancée is beginning to resent her own existence because of RP content I feel you. part of teh reasons - bigger than I'd like to admit - I've given up on dating altogether is TRP. I can't help but think most men think like that anyway and at this point, I can't be bothered. It's better to stay away from those environments - they really make people sexist and depressed in more ways than one. All that so some skilless shmuck could sell his books and online lessons.	/r/ExRedPill	22/05/21 04:55 PM
1	RedPill stole my years of love It's not about whether you live with your parents or not. It's about A) How dependent ar you on them - can you live by yourself or they need to cook and clean for you. B) What are your goals for the future - people with no drive are unattractive regardless of where they live. I know, cause I am one - and what is your plan to get there. C) Do you intend to move out - especially if you get a significant other. Add-in of course whether your parents will give you privacy and be nice to your girlfrie…	/r/ExRedPill	07/05/21 05:25 PM
4	A question on showing interest on dates Being indifferent works with the insecurity may people have to a varying degree - of not being interesting, no being given attention, being abandoned. ou may land second dates, but it's not becasue they like YOU, they wanna prove to themselves they can get that second date. That they are not uninteresting, boring, or stupid.	/r/ExRedPill	03/10/20 11:27 PM
1	I was banned at asktrp for pointing at hypocrisy of the community leaders Yeah, some maybe are, but you need a few mods who are mgtow or something of the sort. The red pill in general is toxic with some good ideas inbetween. I am pretty sure if your question cannot be answered without admitting to the inconsistent things, you'd just be deemed a hater by the mods. Hence the ban. You don't question why they are right you question them. And how dare you.	/r/ExRedPill	27/08/20 06:55 PM
1	I was banned at asktrp for pointing at hypocrisy of the community leaders What made you think these peo5are open for a discussion. They are like a weird crutch. Granted so.e subs ban you just cause the mods woke up on the wrong side of bed. It's just that I am not surprised asktrp only want questions their mocuscience holly book can answer.	/r/ExRedPill	27/08/20 06:47 PM
19	The redpill applies to many women While maturity certainly comes with a lot of positives, I think a lot of this had to do with the kinds of women you've dated. Good people are not a rarity, but good people we fit romantically with seem to be like finding a unicorn sometimes.	/r/ExRedPill	18/08/20 07:00 PM
4	I think I know why I want a virgin girlfriend Agree. It's seriously isn't SO meaningful and important. Even with that same partner I had experiences I cherish more.	/r/ExRedPill	16/08/20 07:56 PM
13	I think I know why I want a virgin girlfriend Cool, but you know how few people experience this? Of all, ALLL the people I know IRL I was the only one who lost my verginity to a virgin partner. And what does it matter? We dumped each other a few months after. This isn't a realistic view of relationships, really. If a woman knows what she wants she can give you a much better first-time experience, and if you don't know what you are doing you can give a virgin girl a really horrible experience. And vice versa. You cannot return the past. And …	/r/ExRedPill	16/08/20 07:21 PM
2	Do you have any positives which came from your experience with the red pill? That's a wholesome post :)	/r/ExRedPill	13/08/20 06:59 PM
5	Hey guys, after watching this video and reading the comments, why is it that men are felt like this in the comments? I see a lot of hurt men just projecting others to not get with a woman at all By your own logic your love life must be incredible. But your presence here and the tons of salt in this comment, say otherwise. I guess feminist guys with girlfriends are just not the droids you're looking for. That said preforming feminism to score some pussy, like mister perfect ally hoped, doesn't really make you a feminist, eh.	/r/ExRedPill	10/08/20 12:49 AM
6	"Holding frame" is about being an emotionless misogynist. Honestly, this is some of the weakest ideas ever. Mentally stable people who are okay with themselves do not let their lives revolve around a self-imposed fear of embarrassment and skewed ideas of attraction. This is childish AF	/r/ExRedPill	05/08/20 09:13 PM
1	Ugly men have a right to be angry Idk where you're from but 100% not the same here. I've a couple where the guy was the better looking exactly two times. Usually they are equal and often the woman is waaaaay hotter and dates a dude that's bald and looks pregnant. But the problem with generalizing statements like Wome always date up is what do you do with the explanations, especially when they are that many.	/r/ExRedPill	02/08/20 01:15 PM
2	Ugly men have a right to be angry Well taking care of yourself is a choice. No one is stopping guys from doing it besides other guys and women who aren't like the other girls. And even then I disagree. In general in couples make off and naked, women are the better looking. At least where I'm from.	/r/ExRedPill	02/08/20 01:11 PM
2	Ugly men have a right to be angry This bullshit. A bullshit easily disproved when you look at couples on the street. At least 8/10 times the woman is the better looking half. Personally is the problem and it's time incels realize they are not nice guys.	/r/ExRedPill	02/08/20 07:41 AM
5	Ugly men have a right to be angry They are not like that with you. Cause they are not angry with you, and act differently around women. regardless the mentality rubs off on you. I am yet to meet an incel who respects a woman or seed her as equal. At best they see women as inept kids at worst as evil Feeemoids. If they don't find them attractive they don't even talk to them, and they have joined a community, for whatever reason,,that is very clear about how it feels about women, without protesting it much. Partially cause they ar…	/r/ExRedPill	02/08/20 01:16 AM
6	Ugly men have a right to be angry Maybe I misunderstood what you were getting at. But even then, what these guys refuse to understand is their personalities aren't "Normal" they have a whole lot of issues and not enough charm to cover them up, so they can at least get with some chick to fuck over the way the "chad" does. Normal looking people with normal personality have relationships. But it's easier to disregard it as just being ugly, cause then you can get away with not putting any effort in self and feel justified. Look at t…	/r/ExRedPill	02/08/20 01:00 AM
10	Ugly men have a right to be angry And how is being fat something you have no control over? Red pill is the first to shit on fat women for letting themselves go, so clearly it's a choice, but okay.	/r/ExRedPill	02/08/20 12:47 AM
10	Ugly men have a right to be angry Life is not fair. Stunning, I know. Everyone has the right to be angry at something. I don't see them ugly men wanting ugly women. Ugly men have a much higher chance at an actual relationship than an ugly woman as far as my skills of observation had thought me. You are entitled to your feeling, anger included, you are not entitled to the feelings of others. And when your anger is expressed in a movement that openly hates women and makes them inhuman and teaches you how to manipulate them and has…	/r/ExRedPill	02/08/20 12:35 AM
0	Majority of men won't date sex workers and that's okay The only reason for that is I fear he is red pill, or a sexist, with the "player" mentality, not so much because he is a gross slut. I don't care about experience at all as long as the person is worth it. I'd date a virgin if I think he is worth the time,and I would date a fuckboy, if he doesn't have the aforementioned flaws. So most women is quite the generalization. I do, however, know more women who don't like guys with a past, some who don't care, myself included, and not one who would see m…	/r/ExRedPill	21/07/20 10:17 AM
7	Majority of men won't date sex workers and that's okay Have you talked to "most" men? Have you done some extensive statistics, found one maybe? or are you basing this on personal biases created by the culture you are surrounded by?Most people can't agree on basic common sense shit, let alone dating preferences.Not to mention the huge umbrella of professions that fall under sex work.Some men would say "Ew I won't date a whore" but not only would they not even consider half the stuff that classify as sex work in that statement, but also there is no gu…	/r/ExRedPill	20/07/20 08:07 PM
0	Majority of men won't date sex workers and that's okay Most, all men you know is much better than the generalization, yes.	/r/ExRedPill	20/07/20 07:50 PM
8	Majority of men won't date sex workers and that's okay No one can force you to change a preference. But also lots of men don't mind it - many pornstars have husbands and boyfriends. You can't really say most, as you can't speak for them.	/r/ExRedPill	20/07/20 07:45 PM
2	RedPill women If these are real it's some Not like other girls shut taken to an extreme	/r/ExRedPill	29/06/20 10:37 PM
3	Was I too harsh or she's overreacting? Idk why all the downvotes. If you were getting nudes she wasn't leading you on. She was pretty clear about her intentions. Probably just worried abou being hurt figuratively and literally.	/r/ExRedPill	27/06/20 08:51 PM
1	Was I too harsh or she's overreacting? Of course it does she is already at least a bit calm about you being the hetero Jeffry Darmer	/r/ExRedPill	27/06/20 08:48 PM
17	Was I too harsh or she's overreacting? Well even if she isn't stringing you along, she is so insecure she can't let you see her. Both cases are kinda shit. That said I am weary of meeting men I don't know. Not everyone is Ted Bundy but it takes one. So I am annoyed when I agree to a meeting if we are not by ourselves and they get pissed cause it's not "a date" makes me even more suspicious of their motives and ghat they either hope to quickly get me in bed and bounce or worse. Maybe she had some real bad experiences with meeting peop…	/r/ExRedPill	27/06/20 07:46 AM
1	How to not compare men and women's experiences. Is it possible? This. Also, happy cake day	/r/ExRedPill	27/06/20 06:24 AM
3	Toxic "Manosphere" types should't be censored but highlighted, challenged with facts and openly mocked. Your sister is your sister. She respects your opinion at least a bit. People do change but most redpillers are not here cause they question their views, they are here to troll and throw tantrums.	/r/ExRedPill	27/06/20 06:20 AM
3	Toxic "Manosphere" types should't be censored but highlighted, challenged with facts and openly mocked. It's like arguing with anti vaxxers, it's pointless	/r/ExRedPill	25/06/20 10:06 PM
3	Found PUA notes in bf's journals "I want to envelop them and swallow them and absorb them completely for a short period of time then move on" Sooooo dramatic. Why are they always so dramatic in such a cringy way? Pn topic. Idk OP. I'm sorry. I would probably bring up the red pill, in general, to see where he stands now, and then act accordingly.	/r/ExRedPill	13/06/20 12:33 AM
18	You guys should block this user from your sub, he seems to be frequent poster. This is one sad piece of shit. I hope he never spreads his seed. Actually I hope he stops being a dildo, but I doubt it.	/r/ExRedPill	07/06/20 11:00 AM
2	I dumped my long term girlfriend because of TRP You've made your bed Op. Suffering and regret is the consequence of your actions. Both hers and yours. I don't say you don't desrve to recover, but popping back into her life so you can heal your own regret is just another way to be a selfish ass. She will hate you forever, and probably distrust every men for a very long time, because of you. You did that and you have to live with it. Let this be a reminder to never repeat it.	/r/ExRedPill	31/05/20 12:39 AM
1	My problem with "focus on yourself" Honesty it sounds to me like you hold resentment towards women. And no one wants to date a person that will resent them. If you think approaching women is hell, then how about injury, death, and all other serious shit? If you only work on yourself to get pussy you only live to be disappointed, not to improve.	/r/ExRedPill	26/05/20 01:49 PM
7	Working on a YouTube channel to combat TRP and similar philosophies... need some advice. don't be mean to them. I hate the mentality, but they are, usually (In the cases they aren't trying to sell you shit) just a bunch of hurt, traumatized people who don't know how to deal with their issues and blame them on women. It is hard to show empathy for someone who never extends that courtesy to others, and I have been a cunt to them sometimes and kinda regretted it so I get it, but at the same time more scorn is not what they need. I know it's tempting and funny to mock someone who is as …	/r/ExRedPill	24/05/20 09:46 AM
2	The ugly truth I don't think it is most women, rather most people. Men often tell guys they were lucky to fuck so early if their rapist was a woman. You said it yourself most of the people calling her out were women too. Many people are too self centered, it seems. Like "I can't deal with your bullshit " or "you are broken" or "I wanna see you as a flawless god/goddess" "how will that go with our sexlife?" and it's a relationship thing mostly, it seems. All my friends who know regardless of gender and orientat…	/r/ExRedPill	23/05/20 09:01 AM
6	The ugly truth I don't think someone's unrealistic image of a you is a standard to live by, tho. Even if she was attracted to that image, and you have yo keep it up in order to keep her, she not a woman you want to be with. She sounds like the kind of basic bitch who rides the neighbor cause "the spark is gone" her relational trauma is not yours to fix, let alone to live by.	/r/ExRedPill	22/05/20 10:18 PM
5	The ugly truth You don't know. People react differently and you just take the risk. She clearly has her very own idea of what a man should be and was in inlove with that idea, not with the person. People like that irk tthe shit out of me. When some men learned about my assault, I was their little project - their broken doll to fix with their love, and it was my fault I wasn't fixed when they thought I should be, cause they loved their own fantasy of being a hero, more than they loved me. Thi chick has issues a…	/r/ExRedPill	22/05/20 10:10 PM
14	To incel/MGTOW lurkers: I found the way out Glad you're out OP. When you are happy with yourself others will pick up on it. The incel atmosphere is really as damaging to its members as it is to others.	/r/ExRedPill	07/05/20 10:12 PM
5	Opening up to Women Yeah, and if people mistreat you, fuck them.	/r/ExRedPill	01/05/20 12:57 AM
2	Opening up to Women Best thing you can do in any kind of relationship is being open about how you feel, unless maybe you make a conflict out of everything. Most people are hard to trust for a good reason, but if you live your life constantly fearing death you'll never do anything. It's the same. You choose someone, you talk, and let things take their direction. Most likely these girlfriends have lost their attention for various reasons and the dudes telling the story would rather demonize them than look at themselv…	/r/ExRedPill	01/05/20 12:30 AM
1	Can't look back at anything I enjoy without seeing a Nice Guy. " Women aren't attracted to people who follow the rules. " Women are attracted to different people for different reasons. Most don't like Lawbreakers. I think you need to think of who you are and the kind of woman you want to attract, rather than how to get whoever. If women treat your hobbies like this, you have to wonder how did you end up with such women, to begin with. I don't victim blame, as someone who had to hear the same shit, fuck your ex, but it sounds to me like you are thinking more…	/r/ExRedPill	21/04/20 01:12 AM
10	Don't MGTOWs realise that sexism creates shithole countries? Japan also has one of the highest suicide rates, and not many people wanna have kids there.	/r/ExRedPill	09/04/20 07:16 PM
8	Trapped "Your average woman truly could not give two shits about whether you hate, ignore, or pay attention to them. "This. Like really. Only men think we do everything we do for your attention or that all that matter is being validated by some random dude. Outside validation is bullshit anyway. Very few women I've ever known cared about attention from men they are not interested in. if she is interested in you and you don't give her attention, she probably won't be interested all that long, unless she …	/r/ExRedPill	09/04/20 07:00 PM
10	Thoughts from a woman who once had a red pill mentality "It doesn't matter whether or not this is scientifically true. It's just the best way to actually form a connection with another person. " THIS! clearly man and women are biologically different, but making a big deal out of it is preventing you from connecting in any meaningful way, especially for those who see women (or men) as lesser. What relationship would come out of that?	/r/ExRedPill	31/03/20 08:56 AM
3	Young male teetering on the brink of inceldom/blackpill. Relationship/gender subs like /r/purplepilldebate and /r/trp are depressing but I can't help but feel like they're right. Please convince me otherwise. Of course they keep your self esteem low. Their gurus need to sell books and push patrons, so the tactic is simple - make your value depend on the opinions and decisions of others (women) and then blame them for not giving you said value, to make you feel like they are on your side and they get you. Even their dumb Game isn't all that effective, it's mostly aboit getting used to rejection, and trying a whole lot of times until someone horny buys into it. And yeah, you will get somekind of a fuck…	/r/ExRedPill	11/03/20 11:57 PM
1	Girls cannot sense or smell out weird creepy insecure or abusive men because if they did they wouldn't fall for them all the time. I am pretty sure everyone has an opinion about someone 10 seconds after meeting them and some just choose to be vocal about it. Now thinking you are 100 percent correct every time is a sheer arrogance, but not trusting yourself when someone seems off fan lead to some crazy shit. So it's more of a proceed with caution kinda deal. And yeah,most women will be paranoid of most men. You cannot change that. It's not that women sniff out the creeps like a truffel pig. Creeps tend to revel themselves ve…	/r/ExRedPill	10/03/20 12:01 AM
1	We should stop bullying nice guys. Nice guys do not make themselves and are products of mixed messaging and upbringing. Yeah and saying someone is too nice is also bullshit. There is boring, and there is fake, there is I don't find you attractive and there is I don't know I just don't like you/ don't wanna anger you/ don't wanna hurt you. In most cases "You are too nice" is a spineless verbal filler with some of these meanings behind it. Think of it reasonably, have you met a nice person you dislike because they are too nice? And yeah self proclaimed nice girls are the same. You don't have self esteem but at leas…	/r/ExRedPill	09/03/20 03:29 PM
1	We should stop bullying nice guys. Nice guys do not make themselves and are products of mixed messaging and upbringing. Most of the red pill crap. Women just hate nice people and are vain that's why they don't like me, is something that dosen't come from a truly kind person. It's just another form of women hating and why would anyone not only be with some that fundamentally hates them, but uses the false front of niceness to show how much better they are? Saying your problem is you are too nice and women just want a douche, is like going on a job interview and list hardworking as a flaw l. Than going - guess they…	/r/ExRedPill	09/03/20 03:14 PM
1	We should stop bullying nice guys. Nice guys do not make themselves and are products of mixed messaging and upbringing. Whatever someone's reasoning they need to be called out for such bullshit. If no one called out my bullshit I'd still be an other girl.	/r/ExRedPill	09/03/20 03:02 PM
3	What are the signs of a misogynist? yeah, but also everything that women excel at is considered stupid and inferior. One of the worst ways to offend a man is by calling him a woman. It's a bit more than rights and opportunities.	/r/ExRedPill	19/02/20 08:18 PM
3	Im having troubles getting rid of the mindset that all heterosexual women unconsciously want to be treated roughly during sex. How about just plain old vanilla sex? I I have to choose tho, I'd rather be dom than a sub. I think it's just a matter of I want to be the active one who pleasures the other and guide them, and as far as I know, I'm straight. But I prefer Vanilla - abuse-like roleplay does not sit well with me, especially if I'm on the receiving end.	/r/ExRedPill	10/02/20 07:42 PM
48	“Men prefer debt free virgins without tattoos”. So if I get a tattoo and weird hair I'll never have to deal with red pills? Deal.	/r/ExRedPill	07/02/20 04:31 PM
1	Explain to me why Hypergamy is not a real phenomenon. This sounds more like you are venting about your personal issues than anything to do with my post? Where did I ever say women have no preferences? I said their preferences are not what your echo chamber tells you. I didn't even mention hight. I did not understand your question at all, in fact I don't know if you are even answering the right person.	/r/ExRedPill	03/02/20 06:23 PM
2	MGTOW has been quarantined Mn going their own way. Basically dudes who cut off relations with women casue feminism is the enemy,	/r/ExRedPill	01/02/20 11:23 PM
4	MGTOW has been quarantined I feel like they are the kind of people who would say - If everyone talks shit about us we must be doing something right - well, no, sometimes it means you are an asshole. But yeah, I'm happy they aren't gong to fuck anyone anymore, they'd e a blite on someone's life. Their sheer arrogance of "We can do no wrong" is insane.	/r/ExRedPill	01/02/20 11:21 PM
24	MGTOW has been quarantined Ahh, now they are gonna whine how they are censored by the evil femoids or ome shit.	/r/ExRedPill	01/02/20 03:46 PM
2	Had a nasty fight with my girl heavily influenced by TRP insecurities; could use some advice then I find it a bit weird she said that. Even if she is telling the truth, which she probably is, why say that? It like giving an excuse and explaining yourself, before it is asked of you. Could be her own baggage, from being with someone controlling before idk. All in all, she priorities her own comfort, of not being worried or in an awkward situation. not her friend's feelings. At least it seems that way to me. "nor would I ever ask for an invite somewhere that’s insane" Ha ha Off topic, but …	/r/ExRedPill	29/01/20 06:40 PM
2	Had a nasty fight with my girl heavily influenced by TRP insecurities; could use some advice So the problem is that her friend hates you and Gf doesn't want the conflict of having you two in the same place? I didn't get that from your post. I don't see why she had to point out why she did not invite you unless you asked, but this isn't "Prioritizing her friends" she just avoids having a bad time with the pressure of thinking of you two and your possible differences, and her friend was probably the one to invite her? Or really wanted to go see this singer/DJ/band, while you'd be indiffer…	/r/ExRedPill	29/01/20 06:15 PM
12	Explain to me why Hypergamy is not a real phenomenon. It dosen't need to be explained. Look around.All the women I know are with men either equal or lower in social status or have been with such a man at some point. I've only known one gold digger. And even she had dated "lower" but the point is that to the person the one the yare dating is not "lower" they like what they like. Sometimes they have a savior complex, other times the guy is genuenly cool/nice/loyal. It's enough to talk to people to have this bullshit idea disproven.How do ugly guys / …	/r/ExRedPill	29/01/20 05:01 PM
1	Is it true women lose interest/attraction once they feel they have you? Funny, I used to feel the same way about men. As soon as they get you they start to look for reasons to hate you so they can fuck the next chick free of guilt. When they stop touching me, I knew this relationship is going south. My point is it's probably not a gender issue but a relationship one. Communicate what you want clearly, and without blame.	/r/ExRedPill	24/01/20 11:17 AM
1	What do women think of the whole alpha/beta male concept? That it's dumb as fuck and has no basis in science or reality.	/r/ExRedPill	13/01/20 03:40 AM
1	Please help me You sound like you have depression, tbh. Maybe look into that, cause it gets worse when unchecked, but it can be healed. Robert Sappolsky has a very good lecture about the subject, scientific and yet not too complicated. It's called Depression in America. With that said you are young and have had experience with young women. People at that age are often assholes. It's like a person's empathy truly develops after 25 Haha. And women are often thought to treat badly man who make advances on them. T…	/r/ExRedPill	13/01/20 03:21 AM
2	They say females will NEVER date down... is it always true? No one dates "down " cause that would pretty much mean being with someone when you think you deserve better. Unless yiu are desperate that is. We don't have an X/Y line we put our exsess on plotting to get with someone "higher " we get with whoever we fall for if they feel the same way. And when you like someone, you don't see them as down or lesser. Now, others might think they are a piece of turd, they might even be right from their perspective, but you don't see them that way so no, women don…	/r/ExRedPill	13/01/20 02:57 AM
2	I was a one day red piller, but I've been into PUA and self development for years Idk about the man, or the other women, but that's rather true to me. I hate it when a guy promises some grand shit and how he will love me forever - it's bullshit my man. I cringe when I hear stuff like that, especially when they are baseless. And I also hate it when I cannot be myself becasue It's like I need to fill a role in his story and I have to change for it. So I agree with this so far. Don't lie to me dude, if I leave casue we want different things then no one had their time wasted. Som…	/r/ExRedPill	12/01/20 02:02 AM
5	I was a one day red piller, but I've been into PUA and self development for years These things work casue they are teh symptoms of what actually attracts women - being an individual with a life and interests who gives their girlfriend some time to breathe. Basically they are telling you to not be pushy and clingy and to not put the responsibility for your well being on her by making her the center of your life. But you have to become this person, not just pretend to be like they suggest. For your own happiness.	/r/ExRedPill	12/01/20 01:53 AM
1	4 years ago I found the red pill and it warped my perception of women. I’m here to warn other young men. I think it also has a lot to do with the jerk being honest about being a jerk. When someone is nice just because it will help them get their goal, it's a bit worse than someone bring a cleara asshole. And it kinda makes you wonder, how is he capable of showing that ugly side to people without caring about their opinions? How is he so honest about something as shitty. I am not into the Bad boy, but I've seen the mentality. There is some of the red poll idea, that you want to be worthy in the eyes…	/r/ExRedPill	09/01/20 12:31 AM
19	4 years ago I found the red pill and it warped my perception of women. I’m here to warn other young men. follow this advice was also my negative past experience Thanks for answering. Yeah, I don't know where this "You need to talk to a bunch of other girls so she knows you have options." came from but it's total BS as soon as the guy is interested in someone else he stops existing in any sexual or romantic context to me. And not only to me - many others.	/r/ExRedPill	08/01/20 06:31 PM
28	4 years ago I found the red pill and it warped my perception of women. I’m here to warn other young men. What changed your thinking?	/r/ExRedPill	08/01/20 02:00 AM
2	(BF30) becoming more distant after I(F21) told him the truth about having only one other sexual partner. Exactly. I agree red pills is a red flag (puns, puns everywhere) and They also ruined The matrix, so that's another reason, on top of the shit cake, not to date them. but my point was we don't know if he is into that, who knows maybe in his head he was trying to give her a compliment without realizing how fucked up this sounds. It's definitely not enough to leave him over just that.	/r/ExRedPill	15/12/19 01:36 AM
2	(BF30) becoming more distant after I(F21) told him the truth about having only one other sexual partner. Come on, it's not a huge red flag.	/r/ExRedPill	14/12/19 02:29 PM
2	(BF30) becoming more distant after I(F21) told him the truth about having only one other sexual partner. This argument s like YouTubers not wanting people to know about Ad-block. Everyone does, some don't use it, others whitelist. If your BF has internet he knows about the "red pill". It's all over youtube and any other site. It's not something contained on Reddit. It's better to straight-up talk to him. Even if he doesn't know about it it's better you introduce him to it than some bitter incel.	/r/ExRedPill	14/12/19 02:23 PM