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Blue Pill ExampleHelloImRIGHT/r/TheRedPill14/12/15 03:56 PM
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Red Pill ExampleHelloImRIGHT/r/TheRedPill15/01/16 06:00 PM
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Red Pill TheoryHelloImRIGHT/r/TheRedPill20/01/16 06:43 PM
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HelloImRIGHT/r/MarriedRedPill09/05/16 06:03 PM
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>I fucking care... You care right now. A lot of people live like they drive. They drive like shit constantly. They text, sing, eat while driving and swerve all over the place. Then a cop gets behind them. They immediately drop their phone and driving good is the most important thing in that moment. Then the cop puts on his blinker and goes around you, in 5 minutes you're back to driving like shit. ​ In other words, your girl dumped you(cop got behind you) and now you want to make more money than…
/r/MarriedRedPill12/12/18 05:58 PM
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Totally but did he not say he can't control her, but he can control who his wife is? I took that as it's a deal breaker for him. Requiring her to act in a certain way so that he doesn't feel disrespected seems kinda like mate guarding.
/r/askMRP10/12/18 03:56 PM
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I agree. Telling my wife she can't do things because it makes me uncomfortable? nah I'm good. If I have to tell my wife what she can and can't do so that she doesn't get into a position where she could be unfaithful then something is wrong with me. Anyone I have to control in order for her to not cheat isn't someone I'm going to be with. ​
/r/askMRP10/12/18 03:25 PM
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Former heroin addict here as well. Celebrated 5 years in august. Unless you make money off social media get off it.
/r/askMRP02/10/18 05:27 PM
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As a man, I'd sign one. People protecting their assets isn't that crazy of a thing. Some people act like it's out of ill will. Nah, I completely understand. I have no desire to lose my life's work if someone decides they don't want to be with me any longer. EDIT: Just to throw an update in here. If you don't wanna sign a prenup because you want to live off someone else - but you're passing it off as some kind of "relationship no no" because your girlfriends told you it was then you're a poor exc…
/r/RedPillWomen02/07/18 03:37 PM
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Men can definitely feel love. Biologically, yeah sex is what we want. We've evolved to be less interested after sex, so I see where you're getting at but it's pretty far off at the same time. I can't speak for women, but as a man, I want loyalty and appreciation too. So if a woman sleeps with me and then I go off and continue to execute my life plan but she is caught up in nonsense thoughts and feelings because I'm not there in that moment to comfort her then I hope she fucks off. I want a woman…
/r/RedPillWomen13/06/18 04:20 PM
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My problem is that, when I look at the person I like I automatically assume, he just wants to sleep with me He does. But thats not all he wants. Everything else in your post are anecdotes and assumptions that have no validity. I understand where you're coming from. However, since I'm a man, I'm pretty confident in letting you know you have it wrong. He would never understand my feelings and my needs of intimacy because he is a man and vice versa, obviously. However, that doesnt mean there isnt a…
/r/RedPillWomen12/06/18 08:50 PM
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Plus it means that no other girl wanted him That's presumptuous. He was probably manipulating me by pretending to be a nice guy to get sex. That's an odd way of looking at it. Every guy is trying to get sex. It doesn't mean they don't want something serious. I think you were looking for a reason to break up with this guy. If you actually were into him for real you wouldnt care much about him being inexperienced.
/r/RedPillWomen11/05/18 06:20 PM
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I mean perspective in the sense of knowing how good you have it. I read lots - Wikipedia, Ayn Rand, Marcus Aurelius, Buddhism, Bible, I gym, I'm self-aware, study languages, limited alcohol, stay away from toxic people You know how many people wish they had the discipline to do these things? 75%(complete guess but I bet i'm not far off) of people read nothing but facebook. A healthy perspective would be understanding this. For example in that situation Your bf broke up with you. (a normal occurr…
/r/RedPillWomen05/05/18 07:11 PM
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No, it's not easy at all. Especially because I've actually been through a phase where I was extremely logical and mindful - devoid of any emotions - monotone voice - and I was still pretty lonely, albeit "calm and happy." I dissociate. I can go blank if I want to. It's quite complicated. I went through a phase where I didn't have much of a social life - because I had nothing to contribute, nothing to say, I was no fun because I was monotone in emotions and personality. I was single for a long ti…
/r/RedPillWomen05/05/18 06:03 PM
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Regardless, never give up. My wife has BPD, self harm scars, recovering alcoholic etc.. her path? gym 6 days a week no excuses if you are emotional you don't project it onto people no matter what and you don't make decisions perspective, perspective, perspective read books- i suggest any epictetus, marcus aurelius, jordan peterson, mark manson, johann hari etc.. always be self aware. You cannot act the way you act and expect people to respond how you want them to. edit: if you are struggling and…
/r/RedPillWomen05/05/18 06:00 PM
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See though, that's when you need to give yourself a break. So the feelings overwhelmed the logical thoughts that day right? But I bet there was a time when there was no logical thought correct? So you've come from living on emotion, to living on emotion but having logical thoughts too. Meaning, one day, if you keep working you could have emotions but run on logical thought. It's not a path that's easy. You're never going to have it easy. But you need to train your mind to hold perspective and ke…
/r/RedPillWomen05/05/18 05:46 PM
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NO. Behavior illness is a better word than mental illness. DBT is the top therapy for it. Overall, it comes down to effort in hard times. You must push yourself to think differently. My wife has BPD. She thought she was a lost cause for years. Coincidentally, once she started lifting weights, not giving her emotions too much credit, and challenging old ideas, she is 100 x happier. It's not easy but its possible. Remember though, meds are stepping tools, theres no meds out there for BPD that have…
/r/RedPillWomen05/05/18 05:13 PM
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Idk bout yall but If I gotta enforce boundaries so my girl doesnt sleep with another dude theres something else going on. Of course he's got ulterior motives. The more I work on myself and continue to better myself, the less I care about what she does. The more I care about what she does, the more of a bitch I feel like, and she's not attracted to that. If you gotta enforce boundaries so she doesnt cheat does that mean she cheats if you don't enforce those boundaries? Idk, I'm not a fan of telli…
/r/askMRP03/05/18 12:59 PM
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Work on you dont get her pregnant
/r/askMRP30/04/18 07:11 PM
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They are two completely different subs with completely different goals - they just happen to share some sort of foundation. TRP is what it is because the majority of those guys have been fucked over by reality. They say they don't want commitment but they do, if it's the right girl. This sub, along with MRP, is different, atleast for me. This sub values things that we've lost - or given away because of our current culture. MRP teaches me how to lead my family, how to overcome, how to be self ass…
/r/RedPillWomen30/04/18 02:00 PM
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Damn. John Cena making crazy rules like take your shoes off and hang up towels! and oh my he doesnt want random people touring his home? Oh no! Literally the most unreasonable rule is him expecting you to have coffee with him. Anyone calling him a maniac hasn't met the person who lays down no rules, no boundaries, and then becomes a different person when you break his unknown rules. Get a grip people.
/r/RedPillWomen16/04/18 03:53 PM
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It really doesn't seem calculated in any way, just like he's drunk and the inhibition is gone. It may not be premeditated. But as a man, he thinks about it sober too. I dont think it's a coincidence he only has done this when your husband can't notice. If my wife mentioned that to me...that'd be the end of it. I'd apologize to my wife for even letting that situation happen and that man would not come near my house again period. Boundaries are important.
/r/RedPillWomen13/04/18 03:35 PM
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I also don't want to come between my husband and this friend of his; I'm not going to say kick the friend out or suggest my husband choose between us. This is exactly what you need to do. I have questions about your husband more than anything. How has he not confronted him? How does he allow it to go on? How does he know this happens when his buddy drinks yet continues to invite his friend over to drink? Look, my wife gets hit on often. I say nothing. My wife gets dick pics sent to her on instag…
/r/RedPillWomen12/04/18 07:35 PM
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I love JP. I read the book the first week it came out. It was good, however, I have to keep myself away from liking it just because it was written by JP. Jordan is a jungian. As much as I love Carl Jung it's hard not to notice how much of it is fishing for reason or explanation where there may not be any reason or explanation. He specifically states some of his ideas regarding his biblical interpretations took him decades to come up with. While I think they are important, and fascinating, its hi…
/r/MarriedRedPill22/03/18 03:50 PM
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First off. You're 18. You're going to have a hard time if you're super worried about this stuff looking for a Mr. Right who fits you. I for one love my wife. However, sometimes(most nights) I am dying for her to go to bed so I can game with my oldest, best friend. Why? I'm not sure. But I think /u/maybeymaybenmaybeGFY hit it on the head. I didn't go looking for my wife for a friend. I wanted someone who would was attractive and who would be a good mother. Someone who could be my teammate in life…
/r/RedPillWomen09/03/18 08:33 PM
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My advice is to kill it more in the gym. We always have things we know we could be doing better. I could eat 4 eggs every morning and that'd help me out a lot but I still don't, idk why. I could up my weight more each week, push a little harder, yet sometimes I only do that two days a week. I'm sure you could do more. I'm sure you could get more in shape and I'm sure that would get your wife's attention. Once she knows more attractive girls will go for you , she may start putting in work.
/r/askMRP01/03/18 09:03 PM
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At 5? I'm not sure I'd carry my son around unless I had to. He's been walking over three years I'm sure he has it under control. I wouldn't worry bout it.
/r/askMRP28/02/18 04:56 PM
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lol. Someone is upset.
/r/RedPillWomen14/02/18 09:27 PM
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Legit question because it does matter... does he watch porn a lot?
/r/RedPillWomen21/11/17 06:09 PM
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My wife just recently got snapchat and instagram to show off her weightlifting progress. I told her she can do whatever she wants I could not care less at all. As soon as you show her you give a fuck whether she is using apps that people use to cheat is the moment you show her you're an insecure beta.
/r/askMRP27/10/17 03:44 PM
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They've been experimenting with medications and doses. Most meds/doses make him awesome the first couple of weeks then make him depressed or worse again. So they're working on that. This is pretty much 95% of everyone on pharmaceutical drugs. If you havent yet, look into Kelly Brogan. She was on Joe Rogan's podcast and highlighted some incredible things. She also has a book as well called A Mind of Your Own. I'm a man. I'm also a recovering heroin addict. The alcohol is scary. It's progressive. …
/r/RedPillWomen25/10/17 08:22 PM
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drop it off at the dudes house when she's there. Classic
/r/askMRP19/07/17 07:03 PM
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I don't want to get bulky at all Ahhh the ever so elusive and mysterious pick up a weight and get bulky. Let me make something very clear: those girls who are bulky, or have muscles. That took them years. Seriously, YEARS. And not just going to the gym everyday years. I'm talking diet, maintenance, all of it for YEARS. You wont get bulky dont worry. I think those girls look fantastic honestly.
/r/RedPillWomen10/07/17 01:17 PM
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He did take me out to dinner every evening last week To his credit he's struggling a little financially. ????? that doesnt sound smart. I know that wasn't the point of this post but to me it's a red flag. If you're struggling financially and you want to lead, the very first thing you do is stop eating out. Other than that, it seems like he appreciates you and certainly spends time with you. Seems to me that you are doing all these things expecting something in return. Look, if he's not the dude …
/r/RedPillWomen28/06/17 03:57 PM
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Honestly, I think a lot of dudes these days are worried about saying stuff like they "like traditional roles" because of all the modern feminism and PC bullshit.
/r/RedPillWomen21/06/17 01:20 PM
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I'm not great at this shit but personally, I'd back up and get my kids into real school. I mean really how hard is it to do what you do? Cause really, I would do what you do a million times before Id do what she does daily.
/r/askMRP31/05/17 05:00 PM
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Okay let me give you a little insight: No guy will ever EVER give you their number UNLESS they are interested
/r/RedPillWomen23/05/17 04:14 PM
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Second, if she did fuck a lesbian, that would be her taking a step in the direction of fucking a real man instead of your moronic pussy ass.
/r/MarriedRedPill22/05/17 01:20 PM
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Yesterday, after fucking her, I left to go home, and she didn't answer me for 3 hours. I checked her location (she makes us do this for both of our phones) and she was at home. I called her 12 times (I know man, I know. I'm trying. I'm going to stop, I promise). Honestly, I was just scared of her having a heart attack or something. I stopped reading after this. Dont be such a bitch what the fuck. You call her 12 fucking times? Jesus christ. That's worse than beta. This fucking girl GIVES ME RED …
/r/MarriedRedPill22/05/17 01:17 PM
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Take her skydiving, rockclimbling or something. Take her out on a date that we can look back upon and high-five eachother because we actually did something we never thought we would do. And afterwards have a dinner at my place and give her 100% of my attention... What? Am I confused or did she not fuck some other dude? edit: post deleted in 3..2..
/r/MarriedRedPill17/05/17 02:55 PM
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Oh yeah, definitely. Just wanted to point out that little part for others as it's a common misconception.
/r/askMRP15/05/17 08:11 PM
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slack on calories and your body will consume muscle to keep going. Thats not true. The only time your body is going to burn muscle for energy is if you are sub like 12 % body fat or something. First, your body will burn glucose from carbs, then glycogen, lastly fat. The body only taps into muscle when fat stores are depleted Muscle is almost always a last resort. https://intensivedietarymanagement.com/fasting-and-muscle-mass-fasting-part-14/
/r/askMRP15/05/17 07:55 PM
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Logic usually doesnt work on women. Logic never works on an alcoholic. Add those two together and try to solve the problem with logic? Impossible.
/r/askMRP28/04/17 02:39 PM
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it's 11 days sober, 3 days not Wait timeout. She is refilling her script and finishing it in 3 days? I assume its Xanax right? First off, coming from a former xanax addict turned heroin addict who finally thank god got clean, this has nothing to do with MRP. As long as she is with you she'll never get clean. I never got clean cause I was tired, or cause I was broke, or homeless. I got clean cause I had no one and I couldn't be alone anymore. Leave her. Do you and focus on the kids.
/r/askMRP25/04/17 08:23 PM
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Im super skeptical of it as well. So was Joe on the podcast. I dont know the ins and outs of it but supposedly when you're fasting as he was and not taking in anything your body metabolizes something happens with your skin as well as your fat when your body is looking for stuff to burn for energy.
/r/RedPillWomen07/04/17 01:09 PM
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Leave
/r/RedPillWomen05/04/17 08:21 PM
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I'm only here because yesterday I listened to Joe Rogan's podcast with Rob Wolf. A lot was on nutrition and ketosis etc.. However the issue of excess skin after weight loss came up. Apparently, fasting and intermittent fasting solves the issue of excess skin. I'm not an expert by any means but I do know the surgeries that fix excess skin are incredibly dangerous and there are alternative solutions that actually work better. Ill share this: the guy Joe and Rob are talking about lost like 250 lbs …
/r/RedPillWomen05/04/17 03:00 PM
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Ahh I see. I'm not sure. Just know that I'm sure he still loves you despite it. My wife can go on every once in a while and it'll get annoying. Doesnt change the way I feel about her though. I'm sure I annoy her sometimes too.
/r/RedPillWomen31/03/17 04:35 PM
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I love my wife to death. I dont want to hear about work though. I mean I'll hear a funny story or whatever but day to day shit at work? Don't talk to me about it because I'm not going to fake care. Shit goes on at work for me too but I leave it at work. I'm home now I just wanna chill and relax.
/r/RedPillWomen31/03/17 03:57 PM
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You may be over thinking it. I love when my wife dresses up and wears makeup. However, there is something about the sweat pants hair up chillin with no makeup on look that is so nice. Id never tell her to not wear makeup around me, but when I do say hey dont wear makeup or dont dress up it's almost me complimenting her natural beauty..if that makes sense.
/r/RedPillWomen10/02/17 05:47 PM
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Focus on you and your kid. Stop worrying about her fucking around. If she cheats on you leave her. But worrying about what she's doing isn't attractive. Besides that just make your life better. She'll either stick around and be good cause she wants you to want her, or she wont.
/r/askMRP02/01/17 08:14 PM
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I see. Drinking every night is a big deal. Cheating on you is a big deal. Most of the time relationships never recover from that.
/r/RedPillWomen30/12/16 04:36 PM
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What even made him a captain in the first place?
/r/RedPillWomen30/12/16 04:22 PM
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You're right he hasnt mentioned SJW. But for the last 8 years I've seen Obama push this agenda that helps everyone claim they're a victim even when they aren't. If Hillary got in there it would just continue but more focused on women than blacks. I'm tired of being called a racist and misogynist when I'm neither of those things. All I am is a guy who doesn't believe government programs work and is really financially conservative.
/r/MGTOW10/11/16 07:31 PM
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I am so goddamn happy we will be getting away from this SJW victimhood bullshit.
/r/MGTOW09/11/16 06:12 PM
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Coming from a guy - yes to all of these.
/r/RedPillWomen01/11/16 03:13 PM
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Some model came out and said that she had sex with Leo and he had headphones in the whole time and was vaping during it lol
/r/MGTOW04/10/16 03:08 PM
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Its not that my wife doesnt like guns. I just dont trust her if she's ever suicidal. She has been a couple times in the past so it just wouldnt be worth it.
/r/MGTOW30/08/16 07:26 PM
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My wife has issues with depression and I wont have guns in the house because of this as well. And I love guns.
/r/MGTOW30/08/16 04:13 PM
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VIOLENT GORE?????!??? I haven't seen this movie but I assume it's food getting chopped up?
/r/MGTOW18/08/16 02:45 PM
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She refuses to show me her phone You asked to see her phone? Am I doing this red pill shit right? No. I don't pay her much attention when she doesn't want to fuck Lie. If it were true you wouldn't give a fuck who she talks to. She knows you care too much, all emotional and shit worried about her and who she talks to. Step back and work on you, you gotta be a little more confident.
/r/askTRP25/07/16 07:49 PM
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Jesus christ. What a moron. I'm sure the guys got a good heart but damn, he does not have a brain.
/r/MGTOW25/07/16 07:09 PM
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Did anyone read the article about that girl who has sex with Leo and she said he was vaping the whole time during and using headphones listening to music. god what a fucking baller.
/r/MGTOW22/07/16 05:26 PM
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First of all if someone messages you on tinder. Do you care what they say? Here is what they say and what you think hey - is she attractive whatsup - is she attractive coffee? - is she attractive hobbies? - is she attractive it seriously doesnt matter. obviously dont be a dumb ass. set up coffee or whatever if her answer is yes you're good if no give it up
/r/askTRP21/07/16 04:16 PM
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Damn, stop wasting your time. You seem young, I barely fuckin remember the names of the girls I was with when I was 19. Looking back, I wish I worked on myself and said fuck them. Everyone at that age thinks shit is so god damn important. As soon as someone starts withdrawing in order to have a better future, they instantly become more attractive. It radiates off of them that they could give a fuck less about any of that shit, and everyone sees it. However, right now, she just thinks you're all …
/r/askTRP21/07/16 02:08 PM
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I'm not great at this MRP shit, but I'll tell you one thing: when i was 18 it was fuck everybody. Im surprised she didn't take the car and say go fuck yourself. Thats what I woulda done. Once time passed, people start to think for themselves. My fiance's dad left when she was like 4. She hated him forever and just recently got in contact with him cause she realized life isn't so black and white. If she's not going out of her way to disrespect you, just declining your offer and maybe being a bitc…
/r/MarriedRedPill19/07/16 04:43 PM
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Who will fight for romance and commit quickly and stay indefinitely. That is literally the fucking dumbest thing I have ever fucking heard. Jesus Christ. It's one thing to be a father and a husband, if that's what you want to do cool. But because someone wont fight for romance, or commit quickly, they lack integrity and character? I would love to post on this guy's picture and tell him what a dumb mother fucker he is. But, I don't have facebook, and he already knows how dumb he is. He is miserab…
/r/MGTOW18/07/16 04:01 PM
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Well, not doubting some of them do make that. I'm guessing the majority of them make less than they say they do though.
/r/askTRP05/07/16 06:29 PM
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How could you possibly stand trial without a lawyer unless you waived your right?
/r/MGTOW29/06/16 07:57 PM
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Care about other shit more. Care about yourself and your future more than some bitch. Have your mission and follow it. Hedonism is not the path to happiness. Care about something, care about yourself, your health, future etc everything else will be a byproduct
/r/askTRP27/06/16 08:26 PM
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Exactly I appreciate it. It's not exactly the 12 steps that I believe help the most its the community. I believe treatment initiates recovery and community sustains it.
/r/MarriedRedPill24/06/16 02:09 PM
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I see. Definitely very interesting and I suppose we will tend to see more naltrexone treatment because of it. I'm not trying to dog the treatment. I've just seen more people recover other ways thats all, and I didnt want anyone who might need help who was reading the post to be turned off of 12 step support. The negative publicity surrounding it is overwhelming when you see what it can do for people daily. In any event, I have learned something today.
/r/MarriedRedPill24/06/16 01:31 PM
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I work in a treatment center. I'm a recovering alcoholic/heroin addict. Naltrexone is great especially in circumstances like OP's. OP is right this path is not for everyone. It certainly isn't the best method for the real alcoholic and or addict. With that said, no numbers on AA's success rate are accurate it's an impossible number to determine not only based on anonymity but also because many people go to one meeting and say it didn't work. Also, many people who aren't alcoholic want to stop dr…
/r/MarriedRedPill23/06/16 04:26 PM
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dude manhandles guy with gun haha
/r/MGTOW13/06/16 07:38 PM
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I dont understand how this shit happens? I understand guys get fucked left and right in divorces but seriously? How? What person with any common sense would give this bitch any money at all?
/r/MGTOW10/06/16 06:43 PM
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Im not saying some of them aren't true. Im sure there are those out there that are. With that said, I have rarely met ANYONE who doesn't embellish stories like these, and I'm talking people I know in real life. We all know adding internet to the mix doesnt add truth.
/r/askTRP06/06/16 01:31 PM
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I like Teresa Palmer a lot more anyway
/r/MGTOW31/05/16 05:32 PM
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Lift, study, be confident. Care about what you're doing in YOUR life way more than you care about what anyone thinks about you. Have some kind of mission. Do what you want to do, and fuck everything else. Once you care about what you're doing more than anything else, confidence will attract people.
/r/askTRP19/05/16 03:14 PM
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Lol ive been lifting 5 days a week for 4 years. I know what dread is.
/r/MarriedRedPill10/05/16 02:52 PM
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Thank you. That definitely leaves me with some things to think about.
/r/MarriedRedPill09/05/16 08:42 PM
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Youre right something is definitely off. Especially when these situations come around. I guess I've always accepted these issues as a price to pay being in a relationship. It was always alright because the good outweighs the bad by far.
/r/MarriedRedPill09/05/16 08:36 PM
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I didnt cheat on her. I was definitely talking to girls when we were first together but shit thats been over 2.5 years ago stopped once we were serious. I thought I'd mention that to say my SMV wasn't higher than hers, it wasn't that I made her feel insecure. I think she may just have abandonment issues or something. Maybe she is batshit crazy. I know that the only reason I am still with her is that the good is perfect, she is a dream when these two issues don't get in the way. I just want to ge…
/r/MarriedRedPill09/05/16 08:24 PM
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lol i dont even know what to say to that
/r/MarriedRedPill09/05/16 08:07 PM
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For real tho. Half these fucking replies are people telling me to leave her or start noticing other women, or NEXT or some shit like that. This is real life for me, not some fucking PUA shit. Thats why I posted on MRP and not TRP
/r/MarriedRedPill09/05/16 08:01 PM
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True.. the phone snooping is a little fucking ridiculous at this point. What's your advice on how to change myself to affect the relationship positively?
/r/MarriedRedPill09/05/16 07:59 PM
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How does this advice help me? I understand warning me about marriage as I've gotten my fair share of warnings. I wouldn't still be with this girl if the good wasn't worth it.
/r/MarriedRedPill09/05/16 07:53 PM
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You are spot on. I swear everyone else who has replied to me has said dumb shit that is unnecessary just to satisfy some sort of egotrip. You, on the other hand have described her perfectly. I only said she was "out of my league" because she is hot. That doesn't mean I dont value myself. Maybe it just means she's hot? Everyone else took it as she doesn't value me because I act like she's out of my league all the time. That couldn't be farther from the truth. I assume your alpha tendencies leaves…
/r/MarriedRedPill09/05/16 07:50 PM
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I understand how it could seem like that but I'm not that type of guy. Ive never been the gift giving ass kissing type of dude at all. I don't think I give her enough attention, and I think it's unintentional dread, she thinks I'm not interested, so she is worried. idk thats how I see it? Possible?
/r/MarriedRedPill09/05/16 07:36 PM
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You're right. I need to step back from trying to regulate her emotions. In reality, I don't care its just the fact that if we are around each other I would rather her be pleasant than unpleasant.
/r/MarriedRedPill09/05/16 07:08 PM
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I understand how you came to your conclusions and appreciate your insight but thats not it at all. I don't act like she's out of my league, and I've done better in the past. I think most girls I've been with are naturally more attractive than me. Although I could do better in many aspects of how I react to her, in most cases I've always been rather redpill. I dont care about much of the shit normal guys do, I've never chased girls, and I've always had them. You're right though I should let her h…
/r/MarriedRedPill09/05/16 07:04 PM
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I know not to talk about any red pill stuff. Any dread at this point I feel wouldnt be good. I'm not anything special I'm 6'5 250 which helps but its def not 250 muscle just average I guess, but I'm also not the average beta, I dont really give a shit about most things everyone else does. I handle mine, and I'm not emotional. Girls have always been attracted to me because of that, I think. She doesn't have any legit reasons not to trust me, when we first got together I was talking to multiple gi…
/r/MarriedRedPill09/05/16 06:59 PM
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Do it to it man. Congrats on taking action.
/r/MGTOW09/05/16 03:17 PM
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idk your history, and I'm not going to go through your post history to find out. However, I'm sure youre an addict (your name). Remember, you're not an ex addict, youre an addict. As am I. Been clean 3 years from heroin. I dont drink, or smoke, or any of that nonsense its a disgusting waste of time for me these days. In any event, go to meetings(like a lot), create a solid network of people who are sober. Then start hitting the gym, funnel your life into being healthy. Then reap the rewards of d…
/r/askMRP02/05/16 07:03 PM
5

Damn, sounds like she's someone else's problem now. Hey, atleast she was honest I mean - she's not "doing" anything to you. It would have been more of a dick move for her to not say shit and keep going with you not being the man she wants. You're full of blue bro. My last four years have revolved around her That had to be exhausting for her. The hardest thing Ive ever been faced with. I hope you didn't tell her that. Pain is an intrinsic part of life, get used to it, accept it. I pleaded to her …
/r/askTRP22/04/16 05:26 PM
4

Dude, your friends wont admit it but I guarantee they all wish they were bachelors again.
/r/askTRP22/04/16 05:20 PM
1

What? Giving a shit about what someone thinks about you and your pets is beta. Do what you want to do and dont give a fuck what people think.
/r/askTRP04/04/16 05:58 PM
2

I partied a lot when I was younger, but wasn't really going to parties when I was 15. You're on the right track talking to people just keep doing that, focus on school and never leave the gym. By 18 you'll be slayin em
/r/askTRP16/03/16 01:18 PM
1

trippy
/r/askTRP08/03/16 09:36 PM
1

I got a lot out of mostly all my trips. I thought I had insane spiritual connections and epiphanies and shit. I know now, I was just naive and young. I know now exactly what LSD does to your brain chemistry and I know everything I experienced was due to that and not some incorporeal essence.
/r/askTRP08/03/16 09:21 PM
-4

First of all, acid won't accelerate any kind of personal growth or spirituality or any of that nonsense. I've ate acid hundreds of times. Until I got clean and stopped drinking did I really find any kind of growth worth mentioning. However, I'm not gonna tell you to toss them or anything because you could a good ass time. You can take one if you want, to get the feel, but if you really want to trip you and a buddy should both take two. Chill out, listen to music, go hiking, camping, whatever. Do…
/r/askTRP08/03/16 05:47 PM
1

This. I am relatively quiet but not in a weird way at all. I do what I do and people can see that, I dont justify or rationalize my actions, and I could care less about what people think or say. No one really needs to know my opinion, nor do I care to give it. No one bothers me, no one ever has. I've been told I'm emotionless multiple times as a compliment and an insult but it has helped me more than it's hurt me. I would consider reading A Guide to The Good Life: The Art of Stoic Joy
/r/askTRP02/03/16 06:20 PM
1

I would say he fiddled around with dogs for two hours not knowing how to approach you. I may be wrong, and I don't think there is a clear line of alpha or beta, some people just do what they want. But yeah I wouldnt exactly call him bold.
/r/RedPillWomen02/03/16 06:14 PM
-5

I agree. They like him because he "says what he thinks" and is "alpha". First off, nothing about trump makes him a republican besides the fact that he says he is. Trump is generally and always has been for big government, and I can't stand that shit. Trump is only winning because all the other votes are split up and no one will drop out. If Kasich drops out, Rubio or Cruz will win. I for one like Rubio, because he will beat Hillary hands down, it's obvious in the polls. None of this will affect …
/r/TheRedPill25/02/16 04:29 PM
5

Sober for almost 3 years now. It seems to help me more than anything. People are interested in stories I have of my past, the hurdles I overcame so on.. It's interesting to a lot of people, but I dont talk about it unless asked. Also, it's helped me as a person immensely.
/r/askTRP24/02/16 05:38 PM
3

So many married men wish they had what you have right now. Take advantage of it, improve yourself.
/r/askTRP23/02/16 03:51 PM
2

Somehow I'm getting downvoted. I legit am confused where Oxycontin plays a role in this story at all.
/r/askTRP10/02/16 09:15 PM
1

Oxycontin?
/r/askTRP10/02/16 07:52 PM
3

I've come to see a lot of it has to do with just not completely swallowing the red pill. They've read the sidebar and they "get it" but they still grew up being fed all this bullshit and they haven't regurgitated it yet. In other words, they still think if they can get a girl to spend enough time with them the girl will find out he is a good guy and therefore they will be attracted to them somehow. Because they've heard girls their whole life say, " I just want a nice guy". They never remember t…
/r/TheRedPill10/02/16 03:57 PM
5

Dude. What the fuck. I'm not gonna be like everyone else and tell you to leave this bitch, because I know you wont, even though you should. However I'm gonna make you realize one thing for sure. You've been with this bitch for 4 fucking months. 4 MONTHS. not 4 years, not 2 years, not 1. Not a half a year. For fuck sake bro. The military always has this affect on guys that make them feel like they need to get married. You don't need to do shit, work on you, get your shit together.
/r/askTRP10/02/16 03:41 PM
1

You're not gaining her attention by anything you say. Your SMV is. If anything talking decreases it - especially if it already isnt high. Girls dont give a fuck about small talk and they can tell real quick if you're trying too hard. You need to be able to see that girls aren't into you a lot quicker. Girls will give their number to most guys just to avoid awkwardness.
/r/askTRP10/02/16 02:19 PM
1

Keep your head up dude. Whatever you're going through now will make you better later if you use it right. I'd hit the weights 5 days a week. It's good for you - body and mind.
/r/askTRP09/02/16 09:33 PM
2

/r/bodyweightfitness
/r/askTRP08/02/16 05:33 PM
5

Next her. Girls will kiss you just to avoid the awkwardness. She's just not into you thats all. keep going tho man.
/r/askTRP08/02/16 04:09 PM
1

I've never lived outright alone. I've lived in expensive areas but I've always rented rooms out. I own a house today. My bedroom, and 3 other bedrooms. I dont have enough possessions to even fill my house so I rent out the other rooms. I actually make money on the deal.
/r/askTRP03/02/16 07:32 PM
2

No problem man. Youll see other guys around your age wasting time with girls. Just go to the gym, do well in school, and girls will show up without you doing anything.
/r/askTRP03/02/16 06:09 PM
3

Understandable. If I were you, which I have been at one point in my life. I would focus on my studies, and hitting the gym.
/r/askTRP03/02/16 06:00 PM
4

Get a job and your own place, that should be step one.
/r/askTRP03/02/16 05:27 PM
2

This.
/r/askTRP03/02/16 02:50 PM
1

Hahahahah I used to do that shit for my H dealer. But nah, shes a lost cause. Goodluck to your friend.
/r/askTRP03/02/16 02:49 PM
23

Is it confirmed yet? jesus christ, if it is this easy I'm not every buying anything again.
/r/TheRedPill02/02/16 06:29 PM
1

Hahaha for real. I honestly just imagined them both in a zoo or something, pretty much going full retard. Everyone watching them like, "wtf are they doing?" and anyone who knows better is just like...thats jim and sally ignore them they are fucking retarded.
/r/TheRedPill01/02/16 08:26 PM
3

The point is you don't react. If you feel like you need to do or say anything when someone is hitting on your girl you are going to come off as insecure.
/r/askTRP01/02/16 05:42 PM
5

Jesus Christ? What are you doing may 26th? Seriously? Who expects a real answer from that when its still January FFS.
/r/TheRedPill29/01/16 02:37 PM
1

Dont talk to her anymore, block her from everything. In fact, delete all your social media. Blocking her won't do as you will unblock to check up on her. Work on yourself. I take it your relatively young. Life is long, and at the end of it this girls name wont even be remembered.
/r/askTRP29/01/16 01:53 PM
4

Personally, I enjoyed doing them both at once. But yes you're right I'd bet money she doesn't do much at all except be a slut.
/r/TheRedPill22/01/16 04:21 PM
7

I gotta agree with /u/Momo_dollar. Who does meth but NEVER does coke? Oxy's make her itch but she does heroin? Its the same thing they both make you itch. Everyone likes benzos. This bitch doesn't know what she's talking about. She's just talking. Women talk. When all is said and done, a lot more is always said than done.
/r/TheRedPill22/01/16 01:52 PM
1

Her: What do you do? You: What do you think I do?
/r/askTRP22/01/16 01:39 PM
1

They've literally been saying this for years. Generation after generation people say the next generation is fucked.
/r/askTRP21/01/16 09:48 PM
1

They get caught up in feelings right from the get go. They don't have feelings for anyone else they are no nonsense with, so they act alpha
/r/askTRP21/01/16 02:45 PM
1

Be the best version of myself and empower others. I leave it fairly vague but it's specifically in working with addicts and alcoholics. I work in a rehab and I find more joy out of doing it than any other thing I've ever done. A positive to this is that no matter what I do: succeed in my career, develop my body, develop my mind. It all benefits me and I can share it with others.
/r/TheRedPill21/01/16 01:22 PM
3

Keep it up brother. Be the best version of yourself. Give us an update in a few months!
/r/TheRedPill20/01/16 09:18 PM
1

It's so far from natural it's unbelievable. But we grow up thinking we are learning to act a certain way because it's the right way to act but it doesn't do anything beneficial for us and actually harms those coming after us. It's crazy. The quote you used helped me realize I'm a retard and typed right and not write tho so there's that.
/r/TheRedPill20/01/16 08:12 PM
0

Let me guess, you think fate is playing a hand and this is your chance to fuck this girl huh? If I'm wrong and you just need a place to live, move in and ignore the fuck out of her.
/r/askTRP14/01/16 06:42 PM
3

Don't say that lol
/r/askTRP04/01/16 04:00 PM
1

There may be. I kindled it. In my mind, Tolle is spiritually above the rest of the world.
/r/TheRedPill31/12/15 04:27 PM
4

Jesus christ this shit is fucking ridiculous. It's so crazy how many dumbfucks will read this and not understand the reality of it. It's mindblowing to me that a girl can even say things like this and not realize how ridiculous it sounds. just goes to show awalt
/r/TheRedPill31/12/15 03:13 PM
1

The Power of Now is awesome, but I definitely suggest reading Practicing the Power of Now. It's a lot easier to implement his teachings into your life after you read than reading the original.
/r/TheRedPill31/12/15 03:04 PM
1

No. She may just not want to see you anymore and is using this as an excuse.
/r/askTRP24/12/15 05:20 PM
34

Holy shit that was painful to watch. Lofton is seriously class A retard. I would have loved to ask Lofton what happens if this music is banned? Everyone just says, "Oh well, we won’t make it anymore"? Everyone always tries to side-step the fact that laws do not deter people. You see it everywhere. Speeding, prohibition, even states that have the death penalty tend to have higher murder rates. Ask anyone who doesn't shoot heroin why they don’t shoot heroin? I guarantee about 99% of them won’t say…
/r/TheRedPill24/12/15 03:55 PM
2

He did. Good shit. Baby steps if you have to. Dont complicate txting her. Get to the point, she already gave you her number so that means something. If she wants to she you, she will. If she doesnt, next her.
/r/TheRedPill24/12/15 03:05 PM
8

Jesus Christ. I touched the back of her head and felt my palm touch her cheek and thought "embrace the moment, never forget". Magic. Fuck man. Take your head out of your ass. It was your first date. Maybe she wasn't as into it as you, big deal. I was needy. I am needy. Somehow, I want to start something serious after having kissed someone. No - you got attention, for once, and wanted to keep it and were scared of losing it. You're getting validation from her. The memory of this date will never f…
/r/TheRedPill23/12/15 05:36 PM
58

I've been with my girlfriend for over two years. She's had two "friends" die both of whom I had never met nor had she ever talked about. HOWEVER, after they died she insisted each one was her best friend. Literally, any time she talks about one of them or the other she says, "my best friend so and so died earlier this year". I'm not saying she isn't upset, and I'm not saying they weren't friends. I'm saying throwing the "best friend" in there is attention seeking. I can't stand it.
/r/TheRedPill23/12/15 02:27 PM
1

Honestly, by the time I was 14 I felt I had outgrown my mother. My mother, by all means is a successful, smart lady. However, her emotions get the best of her far too often. My father, however, seems light years ahead of me and most other people in his perception of reality. I can't quite put my finger on it. I'm a grown man and to this day I still say stuff like , " well my dad said ....."
/r/TheRedPill23/12/15 02:09 PM
3

Why would he cry when she hugs him?
/r/askTRP22/12/15 08:17 PM
4

Okay. Peace Out
/r/askTRP22/12/15 07:21 PM
6

Why would you sniffle when she hugs you?
/r/askTRP22/12/15 07:20 PM
1

A huge thing I like to realize everyday to keep my emotions in check is that life is long dude. Everyone's got issues. The problems that we face today, problems that most people lose their shit over, dont need to dictate our attitude, because at the end of our life, we wont remember them. I get pinned as emotionless a lot but it's not because I dont care, it's that I do my best to make a choice what I put my energy into, and almost every problem isn't worth it.
/r/askTRP22/12/15 03:27 PM
3

looks like /u/stokestix just told you to do something. It doesnt seem unreasonable, so go do it. really though, no one here is going to take a title of mentor and tell you what to do. You've been on TRP for 7-8 months and dont have guidance? It's simple. Lift and educate yourself, anything else at your age is pointless. Everyone on TRP will tell you the same thing. Lift and focus on your future. There is your advice, now follow it.
/r/askTRP22/12/15 03:15 PM
2

She obviously doesn't want you to disappear. You dont got time for this bitch. Leave her alone.
/r/askTRP22/12/15 02:06 PM
4

People tend to associate red pill with asshole and bluepill with nice. It's not necessarily like that. They think being honest to someone you made a commitment to is bluepill, which it's not. I like to associate redpill with reality. If the reality is you value some girl enough to give them your commitment, honesty is a good policy to an extent.
/r/askTRP22/12/15 02:02 PM
2

Dude you're young. At the end of your life, when you tell your life story, this bitches name wont even be mentioned. go find some strange.
/r/askTRP22/12/15 01:52 PM
1

AA is pretty strong in my area. Charlie Parmalee (from the Joe and Charlie Big Book Studies) helped establish AA around here. But yes Im a friend of Bill
/r/askTRP17/12/15 08:56 PM
1

Honestly, I like to tell them I'm a straight up heroin junkie(which i was). A lot of people tend to be pretty interested honestly. I don't try and hide what I am or but I dont put it out there unless someone asks.
/r/askTRP17/12/15 01:47 PM
1

2 and a half years clean and sober. It's different and hard when a lot of people want to meet up for drinks. But a lot of people find it appealing when someone doesnt drink or do drugs.
/r/askTRP16/12/15 02:39 PM
1

She remained in my group of friends for a while but I never chased her again after that night and ignored her completely if she tried to talk to me
/r/TheRedPill16/12/15 02:37 PM
1

You're thinking too much. This isn't a puzzle. Be confident. Give her an option to meet up with you, and in most cases if it's a no then she isn't interested.
/r/askTRP15/12/15 06:34 PM
1

Chicks dig a little grey hair if you own it, especially if you bulk up. Your close friends are married, so what? If you start living a little they will be jealous of you. Believe me just because they are married doesnt mean they have anything you want.
/r/askTRP15/12/15 05:50 PM
2

You feel nostalgia when you think about being with your ex which is normal but it's not love. She cheated on you. Dont text her. From the sound of your post you are young. Life is long. So you're sad -sometimes people get sad. Use it. The pain and sadness I've felt in my life is my greatest asset. Be a man. Fake it if you have to. Get big, focus on school, and be sad if you have to. Things will go your way if you put the time in now. My idea of hell is being on my death bed and thinking about wh…
/r/askTRP15/12/15 05:37 PM
5

Time spent alone is so underrated. What do you want to do? do it. If you have fear, feel it and do it anyway. Get a gym membership. Moving is rough. I moved across the country to enter rehab and stayed thereafter. That feeling doesnt last forever. As long as you don't sit at home 24/7 you will meet people and it will start feeling like home.
/r/askTRP15/12/15 05:19 PM
2

Stop it now. End it and don't talk to her again. You're 29. You're only past your prime if you accept you're past your prime. That's your decision.
/r/askTRP15/12/15 05:12 PM
1

I think there was definitely a little bit of that. I think once I got her into bed and calmed down and she thought about Chadwick over here. That was my biggest mistake was letting her calm down once I got her into bed. I was trying to be way too nice, show her I was there to help her and not just for sex. If I would have played a different route and taken control she wouldn't have had the time nor the energy to think about anything else.
/r/TheRedPill15/12/15 04:18 PM
2

Right? My problem was exactly that. It worked for me till I got emotionally involved at all.
/r/TheRedPill14/12/15 09:51 PM
4

hahahaha I appreciate the idea. But this would make the night beyond fucking weird.
/r/TheRedPill14/12/15 08:45 PM
3

Right? and to think she actually thought she was being nice by telling me I didn't have to leave. Id rather her have called me told me to gtfo honestly lol
/r/TheRedPill14/12/15 07:20 PM
13

I never felt I was beta, in so many instances until it came to this girl. I always kinda had an idgaf attitude that a lot of girls were attracted to, I think. I imagine that's why it was so hard to accept defeat with this one, because it was a challenge that I wouldn't give up. idk. This is all in hindsight years later.
/r/TheRedPill14/12/15 06:50 PM
7

Good point. I never understood the wait three days rule either, but I always somewhat tried to follow it- in this case it was just too hard to not to. I'll take the response, or non response of the first text a little more inquisitively next time. Thanks
/r/TheRedPill14/12/15 06:48 PM
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