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Yeah if you wanna go back crawling to her with your ass up reading to get pegged. Move on and become less insecure
/r/askTRP08/03/18 02:56 PM
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Also research block-chain technology and the crypto space. We are talking about the largest redistribution of wealth happening right before us. Everyone should definitely do their research before (if decided to) invest in any cryptocurrencies.
/r/TheRedPill07/01/18 01:27 AM
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Genuine enthusiasm in every aspect and interaction with him whether it be sexual in nature or simply listening to him speak.
/r/RedPillWomen24/09/17 09:33 PM
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It's just one of those things where you get better over time. Also branch out during conversations if you hit a topic where you can expand on and just go with the flow. It should be a bit of give and take for both parties. Soon, you'll find yourself more comfortable and less anxious.
/r/RedPillWomen24/09/17 09:30 PM
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Herbalife. Plastic wraps. 600 calories a day. It's all I need. Exercise wears down your joints and cartilages.
/r/RedPillWomen31/07/17 08:43 PM
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You move on. He sounds really mature and obviously has tremendous self-respect. Additionally, he was honest and straightforward with you. He has his goals and those are more important to him than you. Furthermore, he's moving away so that's yet another obstacle. So what do you do? You move on. Maybe you'll meet each later down the road. Maybe not. Regardless, self-improvement and pursuing one's own happiness should be at the forefront.
/r/RedPillWomen30/07/17 08:39 PM
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Lifting. Specifically focusing on high volume work while watching your macros. I personally say you should cut (aka be in a calorie deficit) and lift a lot. You won't get bulky, you'll build lean muscle, and you'll see your weight drop after the initial muscle/fat composition change. I'd do a 5 day split with each day targeting a different muscle group. But again, volume is key.
/r/RedPillWomen29/07/17 11:09 PM
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Really? They turn me on.
/r/RedPillWomen26/07/17 09:51 PM
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Exactly. By exploiting men's weaknesses. Reminds me of Cathy from East of Eden. Frail, cute chick. Very feminine. But evil to the bone and preyed on weak men.
/r/RedPillWomen26/07/17 08:50 PM
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Eww. I prefer fruit and oatmeal.
/r/RedPillWomen23/07/17 11:50 PM
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Additionally, relative to most other men in the same age bracket, staying in good shape raises your SMV dramatically. More so than when you're 18 where most young men don't have beer bellies or dad bods. Lift. Always lift.
/r/askTRP23/07/17 06:59 PM
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Dat fiber
/r/RedPillWomen23/07/17 06:41 PM
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Let it go.
/r/RedPillWomen20/07/17 04:48 PM
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If you're attractive, hair color won't matter to the degree many women think it does.
/r/RedPillWomen20/07/17 04:46 PM
4

Indeed. You forgot the tiny dick part. Can't forget that either, bruh.
/r/RedPillWomen19/07/17 04:55 PM
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Wash the sheets more often.
/r/RedPillWomen18/07/17 04:00 PM
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Don't ever abandon your values just because most of society is essentially doing the exact opposite of what you believe in. Just keep working on yourself in every aspect and perhaps look into dating an older age group of men who are generally more mature and traditional. And keep your options open. Even to what may appear as a sleazy immigrant.
/r/RedPillWomen17/07/17 08:26 PM
0

Honestly, maybe it's due to your venting but you don't sound like a catch at all.
/r/RedPillWomen17/07/17 08:15 PM
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Lifting. I get pissed and cranky if I don't go or can't go to the gym.
/r/RedPillWomen16/07/17 06:32 PM
1

Lol thanks
/r/RedPillWomen16/07/17 02:41 PM
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Realizing happiness is something we already carry within ourselves. It's simply a matter of manifesting it. With that said, yeah sometimes those feelings of yearning for intimacy and warmth creep in but they pass as well. But I don't let it ever become desasparation because I know my happiness isn't dependant on someone else. As a result, friends want me around and various women give IOI's. I believe this is because I'm actually happy with who I am and where I'm at. If I were desperate for atten…
/r/RedPillWomen16/07/17 02:30 PM
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Exactly. Personally, if I were a woman I'd be more worried how many relationships a dude's had or how many times he proposed. Essentially, how eager he was to give commitment. That speaks volumes more than sleeping with 20 women over the course of 15 years for example. But we all have our opinions. Some people can't stand that.
/r/RedPillWomen15/07/17 04:58 PM
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Not really.
/r/RedPillWomen14/07/17 12:03 AM
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Don't bother responding. I personally think you handled it well. Obviously, various red flags were present so why waste your time? There are hotter, more respectful women out there. Next her.
/r/askTRP12/07/17 08:39 PM

Well said. Couldn't agree more.
/r/RedPillWomen11/07/17 11:48 PM
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I've worked as a Parole Officer. Benefits are great but pay was shit. To be fair, I'd rather have more $$$ and pay for even better benefits/save up. Pay as a PO was shit. The Supervisor of my supervisor made 60k tops. Let that sink in.
/r/askTRP11/07/17 05:11 AM
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Eyyyy
/r/askTRP10/07/17 08:17 PM
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Only way to get bulky is through an extensive and consistent surplus in your diet. Compound exercises are a must, followed by isolated movements.
/r/RedPillWomen10/07/17 04:47 PM
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I obtained my BA in Criminology. Wanted to and applied to be a cop to one of the best departments in the nation. I was DQ'd towards the end of the process and provided no reason why despite my best efforts to contact them multiple times. Shit hurt. I eventually found a well-paying job in the construction field that allowed me to save up to begin a coding academy. I'll be turning 26 a week before I start. I'm excited for the future as I make my way towards a Software Engineering career. It's neve…
/r/askTRP10/07/17 04:44 PM
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I disagree. I don't believe it's improper at all if it is completely voluntary. I do, however, agree that some potential dates would be put off by that reality. In my opinion, that's better for both parties. Why waste each other's time if something like that puts a wedge between them from the get-go? If a man sticks around upon learning about her unfortunate circumstance after the first or second date, isn't that a good sign for her?
/r/RedPillWomen06/07/17 05:48 AM
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It is something that should organically come up in a conversation. For a sorrowful circumstance like this, there isn't a "proper" time in my honest opinion. It just happens when it does or when you choose to. Regardless, honesty is always the best policy for yourself and any future man you date. Whatever men you date later on, simply ensure they're able to handle that truth about you. Some men can't and some men can. It'll be up to you to vet for the right type of man.
/r/RedPillWomen06/07/17 05:20 AM

Low effort = low investment. He was looking for a quick lay.
/r/RedPillWomen02/07/17 07:18 PM
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Never said I was nor that I want to be. I just know for a fact that a woman that gives shitty advice, provides shitty commentary, and fucks a guy that isn't comitted to her on vacation just because it's fun is far from being a RPW.
/r/RedPillWomen01/07/17 04:57 PM
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You don't belong in this sub. And this isn't just based on your responses here.
/r/RedPillWomen01/07/17 04:31 PM
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There you go then. You have your answer. Leave.
/r/RedPillWomen22/06/17 09:03 PM
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You know him better than anyone here. Men take pictures of their dicks out of sheer boredom or curiosity. However, just because this is true doesn't mean you should rule out the possibility of him sending the pic to someone else.
/r/RedPillWomen22/06/17 08:58 PM
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I forgot sarcasm doesn't translate well over text lol
/r/RedPillWomen23/05/17 10:30 PM
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Ahh LA. Very liberal city. It's hard to meet more traditional folk that way. I've also lived in a very liberal city as well so I speak from experience.
/r/RedPillWomen20/05/17 10:48 AM
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I guess agree to disagree then
/r/RedPillWomen20/05/17 09:09 AM
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Do you live in the US? I don't think many men here cheat specifically with escorts. Seems wrong. At least from this side.
/r/RedPillWomen20/05/17 04:59 AM
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I disagree. I believe men and women are equally likely to cheat given the right circumstances.
/r/RedPillWomen20/05/17 04:41 AM
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Makes sense when you put it that way.
/r/RedPillWomen20/05/17 04:25 AM
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Interesting. See I'd rather have the honest truth at the expense of my feelings. Also I'd be pissed about the cheating AND the keeping it a secret part. Of course. Just driving into the hypothetical a bit more. I'm sure many here would agree you're an exemplary RPW given your post history.
/r/RedPillWomen19/05/17 11:17 PM
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No. I hold myself to a high standard so I expect the same from any potential partner. If she cheats, I walk. But you bring up an interesting scenario: cheating and never finding out. Man, that's cold. I would be pissed to no end if I found out years later that a partner cheated.
/r/RedPillWomen19/05/17 11:06 PM
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Sometimes the hardest thing to do is be a mature adult. When your impulses are telling you to lose your shit, scream, and just complain to your partner and you decide to take a step back and breathe... It takes a hell of a lot of strength. You handled this gracefully. It sounds like he's genuinely sorry and won't let it happen again. Good luck, OP. Great lesson here for truly everyone, not just RPW.
/r/RedPillWomen12/05/17 11:22 PM
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Ohhhh I see. Well that sounds like a fun subreddit to lurk on lol. I think you're overthinking things. Just relax. Here's my take on it: There are varying "levels" of flirting. By that I mean there is simple teasing of her mispronouncing a word or teasing her for liking ice cream with fries (btw that's actually really good). Just stupid little stuff like that. However, flirting becomes... heavier and/or more serious the more sexual the exchange is between two parties. At least that's how I see t…
/r/RedPillWomen02/05/17 10:40 PM
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No, it's a green flag if he respects your straightforward stance on not wanting to have sex before engagement. I have a friend who was exactly like you. Virgin up until 23 and was always upfront. Sure many guys blew her off but she did find a great guy for her. Jesus, a subreddit dedicated to fat acceptance? God no lol
/r/RedPillWomen02/05/17 09:39 PM
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Honestly, what makes a woman truly interesting is one who immerses herself in hobbies she genuinely is interested in and loves. Aside from that, one who is willing to step out of her comfort zone to participate in a hobby her date/SO really likes is also a huge plus (ex: sports, rock climbing, etc.)
/r/RedPillWomen02/05/17 09:24 PM
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Also it's hilarious you put down BF% lol
/r/RedPillWomen02/05/17 09:20 PM
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You tell him upfront. Always be upfront and straightforward with men. If he throws a tantrum, what does that tell you? If he's cool with it, congrats it's a green flag.
/r/RedPillWomen02/05/17 09:18 PM
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Flirting doesn't mean you have to have sex with someone. It's simply indicative that you like said person. Of course a guy that flirts with you will want to have sex but are you going to let him if you both flirt?
/r/RedPillWomen02/05/17 08:22 PM
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It's a joke. Simply a playful jab at the fear of the "impending doom" women seem to feel as they approach "the wall."
/r/RedPillWomen26/04/17 04:28 AM
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You're annoying. Characteristics aren't specific to physical attributes. Take your confrontational attitude elsewhere.
/r/RedPillWomen25/04/17 11:27 PM
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I agree. I suggest something along the lines of only allowing male commentary/insight on posts Mods (or the majority of the RPW population) have given the ok for. I don't know if that is something that can be done on a subreddit but yeah just an idea.
/r/RedPillWomen23/04/17 09:35 AM
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Lol happens
/r/RedPillWomen22/04/17 08:21 PM
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To add to this, I also suggest following some sort of fitness program, whether it be weightlifting, yoga, or running. I'm partial to weightlifting but it doesn't have to be that. What truly matters is consistency and self-discipline.
/r/RedPillWomen22/04/17 07:57 PM
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Simple, don't. I say this because I also work in the construction/oil field. It's a male-dominated field. However, we do have few (at best) average looking women. They are treated like royalty. The exact same shit that's happened to you, happens daily over here. Why? Because they are there. A woman at the end of the day is still a woman. Plus, I'm sure many are just looking for an easy lay. Are these men in relationships? Definitely. You have no idea how much bullshit goes on or how many stories…
/r/RedPillWomen22/04/17 07:53 PM
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What's your point? Why are you asking this?
/r/RedPillWomen21/04/17 10:11 PM
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Honestly, who cares? Just seek your own happiness. Those who truly understand and follow RP principles needn't worry about what others say. If you're happy, or happier than before RP, why would you allow someone's ignorant opinion on TRP get to you? This post and article are unnecessary. Creates unnecessary stress, friction, and drama.
/r/RedPillWomen19/04/17 10:07 PM
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Fuck no.
/r/RedPillWomen13/04/17 07:13 PM
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"And now that you don't have to be perfect, you can be good." Steinbeck
/r/RedPillWomen10/04/17 01:22 AM
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You're jealous because a woman is hitting on your man while you're in an open relationship? Uhh...
/r/RedPillWomen08/04/17 11:23 PM
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My friend met his gf on Coffee meets Bagel. It's ridiculous how well they mesh together. Still going strong.
/r/RedPillWomen07/04/17 05:42 AM
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I don't think you're meant for monogamous relationships.
/r/RedPillWomen31/03/17 08:59 PM
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I just call it as I see it
/r/RedPillWomen31/03/17 07:31 PM
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The hamster is real.
/r/RedPillWomen31/03/17 07:26 PM
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He's an insecure little boy. It's a red flag. Leave. He needs to seriously mature.
/r/RedPillWomen30/03/17 07:27 PM
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This is one of those rare times in which I believe introducing him to RP might spark a revolution within him. However, I firmly believe this man can't be the Dom you yearn for given that he's so casual about suggesting another man laying down pipe on his woman... That's completely baffling to me. A genuine Dom would never allow that to happen. With that said, I think it comes down to how important that sexual lifestyle is to you? Is it a necessity for your happiness and the long term success of …
/r/RedPillWomen30/03/17 12:59 AM
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If that's what makes your happy and brings a sense of fullness to your life, do you. There's no underlying condescending tone behind those words. I'm all about living and letting live. I just offered my one, small perspective on your situation.
/r/RedPillWomen27/03/17 11:22 PM
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Like I said, do you.
/r/RedPillWomen27/03/17 10:48 PM
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You've only slept with two guys but make out with guys at parties just because they're cute. Yeah.. self-improvement at its finest.
/r/RedPillWomen27/03/17 10:35 PM
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I agree with you in that regard. I personally do not agree with everything RP states. However, I firmly believe that whatever choices we make have consequences we will undoubtedly have to accept and deal with. With that said, I think you're hamstering a bit. RP doesn't say be perfect. It simply shows, for the most part, the reality of the dynamics between men and women. Do with that information whatever you want. Personally, I choose self-improvement and consistently aiming for a higher SMV. Tha…
/r/RedPillWomen27/03/17 10:13 PM
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Do you. Just don't bitch about the results and consequences.
/r/RedPillWomen27/03/17 09:39 PM
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It's pretty damn hard. Not impossible though. My advice: don't limit yourself to just college guys.
/r/RedPillWomen24/03/17 09:37 PM
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Dafuq
/r/RedPillWomen24/03/17 09:34 PM
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Generally speaking, "RP-like" women can be found in more rural areas/small cities versus big cities. Religious women tend to also be more traditional. However, other factors are more important. What's the relationship she has with her parents like? Are they still together? What is their relationship like? All I can say is that living in a big city means fewer of these women around. Therefore, screening for the right one is just a matter of dating so that you can get to know her better.
/r/RedPillWomen23/03/17 04:50 AM
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Dat paradox tho
/r/RedPillWomen22/03/17 09:30 AM
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Yes, please send some this way. Xxxxs please.
/r/RedPillWomen21/03/17 09:10 PM
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TIL I'm an ass hole.
/r/RedPillWomen21/03/17 07:19 PM
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It's a dealbreaker. Regardless of the situation. You lie, I kick your ass to the curb.
/r/RedPillWomen16/03/17 07:48 AM
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Being over 6 feet.
/r/RedPillWomen14/03/17 09:22 AM
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Your mom is wrong.
/r/RedPillWomen10/03/17 09:25 PM
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You're overthinking things. It's very clear he's comitted to you and the family. Whatever you guys have going on, it's working. P.S. Don't listen to the marriage talk. If both of y'all don't particularly care for marriage, marrying isnt this fail-safe action that will prevent him from leaving.
/r/RedPillWomen10/03/17 12:03 AM
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Just because a man doesn't want to marry doesn't mean he doesn't believe in long-term commitment. He sounds pretty committed. The best advice is to keep being his soft place to land.
/r/RedPillWomen09/03/17 11:54 PM
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Sounds like she's projecting her unhappiness onto you. Plus, she sounds jealous. Leave her be. Continue being you. There will always be people trying to drag you down with them, even if they are siblings. Don't ever let them win.
/r/RedPillWomen09/03/17 11:01 PM
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You deleted your post. Can't help now, can I?
/r/RedPillWomen06/03/17 11:37 PM
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You should take a moment to step back... and breathe. It sounds like you're just opening your eyes to reality which would put you in the depression stage. We have all been there. With that said, most people are unaware of redpill thinking. This means not all men are recovering "betas" attempting to become "alpha" by overcompensating (aka most newbies over at TRP). Just let yourself breathe and keep working on yourself and doing the things you love. Don't let those negative thoughts overcome you.…
/r/RedPillWomen06/03/17 10:54 PM
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Your hamstering ability is impeccable.
/r/RedPillWomen06/03/17 12:02 AM
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This post is reflective of your own insecurity and unhappiness. Maybe one day you can get past the anger and fear that you carry.
/r/RedPillWomen28/02/17 10:41 AM
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He sounds immature. You can be a good gf and still decline his request to work out together. If he throws a tantrum... Well there's your response.
/r/RedPillWomen25/02/17 05:42 AM
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Ironically, you were alpha widowed.
/r/RedPillWomen22/02/17 08:26 PM
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Sounds like regular, traditonal dating. In regards to narrowing down your options, just simply let them know you don't feel a connection nor do you see a future with them.
/r/RedPillWomen21/02/17 11:05 PM
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Only shows how ignorant you are then. Not every man out there is alpha or repill. Guess what that means? Some men don't care. It's beyond me but that's reality. So no, it's not terrible advice. You're just an ignorant fuck.
/r/RedPillWomen20/02/17 07:44 PM
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Is it an issue for him? Ask him directly. It's best to tackle that problem if it's there. However, if it's not an issue for him, then why worry? It's done. Shit won't change. Best to forgive yourself and keep improving. You already have him so why worry about the wall or your N count? Just focus on keeping him by being the best partner you can be.
/r/RedPillWomen17/02/17 05:45 AM
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Do what you want. Some men, especially more liberal and modern ones, care less about N count. Just be prepared to deal with the consequences of your choices, good or bad. Personally, I think it's not your current N count that would put many men off. It's your curiosity and "what if the grass is greener on the other side" mentality that comes across as a red flag in regards to a long-term relationship.
/r/RedPillWomen14/02/17 08:12 PM
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Agreed, the delivery is critical. Otherwise, the situation can go from bad to worse.
/r/RedPillWomen10/02/17 08:23 PM
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Just like the Kinsey Scale, I believe a similar scale exists for alpha/beta traits. Seems like your SO is leaning more towards the center while in that beta area.
/r/RedPillWomen09/02/17 11:19 PM
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Besides being a complete racist towards Native Americans, he always had the best quotes.
/r/RedPillWomen06/02/17 08:12 PM
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No, I don't believe in the idea of soulmates. I believe more so on compatibility and maturity for the success of a long term relationship. Unfortunately, it's such a dull way to look at relationships.
/r/RedPillWomen05/02/17 09:10 PM
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He made the final decision. Sounds like he changed his mind. Either way, I'm with him on this one. I don't think you should press the matter any more. Who knows he may change his mind... Again.
/r/RedPillWomen03/02/17 09:40 PM
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Stop seeking his validation or approval for self-improvement. That's on you. YOU will know when YOU have improved. As far as fake goes... No. At least not from this little scenario. On the other hand, his reaction was totally out of line. Dude needs to chill and apologize to you.
/r/RedPillWomen02/02/17 05:43 AM
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No. There's more to a relationship than sex.
/r/RedPillWomen30/01/17 10:10 PM

He is. Read the post again.
/r/TheRedPill27/01/17 10:07 PM

True but it's idiotic to stay committed with this chick.
/r/TheRedPill27/01/17 09:43 PM

Then why commit? Don't be an idiot. At this point, the best option would be to plate her at best.
/r/TheRedPill27/01/17 07:35 PM
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Uh no. Move on.
/r/askTRP25/01/17 05:57 AM
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Exactly because it doesn't feel like you're comparing us to other men. It just shows whart you value in a man and that we meet that standard. Direct comparisons between me and other men is what would put me off. But I can only speak for myself.
/r/RedPillWomen25/01/17 12:09 AM
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From a guy's perspective, if a woman ever compared me to other men, whether in a good or bad light, I'd be put off by it. However, paying genuine compliments (especially in regards to what you like in a man) to who I am as a person is entirely different than comparisons.
/r/RedPillWomen24/01/17 10:50 PM
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He's promoting infidelity. Dudes like these don't need to be in monogamous relationships.
/r/RedPillWomen20/01/17 05:23 AM
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Excuse my bluntness but: Not everyone wants or gives a shit about your opinion. This is not exclusive to women. Same goes for men. Generally, I don't offer any opinion or advice unless asked. I'd rather listen and analyze first and then if a person wants my opinion, I'll offer it.
/r/RedPillWomen18/01/17 08:26 PM
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Quality post. Couldn't agree more.
/r/RedPillWomen18/01/17 05:31 AM
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Would you prefer someone with a lower partner count or a virgin?
/r/RedPillWomen17/01/17 05:41 AM
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Personally, it's a red flag for me. I wouldn't want my partner texting other guys late at night or exchanging selfies through Snapchat. But that's just me.
/r/RedPillWomen14/01/17 10:29 PM
1

Since when is not paying for your shit make men sissies? Haha please
/r/RedPillWomen14/01/17 10:27 PM
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Lol
/r/RedPillWomen13/01/17 05:54 AM
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He's not redpill. He's just a confident, self-respecting man.
/r/RedPillWomen11/01/17 12:04 AM
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Go be a plate if that's what you want to be because that's clearly what's gonna happen.
/r/RedPillWomen11/01/17 12:01 AM
1

Most men want the best for their partners. Men who are scared of a woman with ambition or career goals lack immaturity and I would go as far as saying are insecure. With that said, I'd say most men simply value other qualities over ambition or whatever career a woman has. The only time I can see it would be a problem for a guy is if your career was a priority over him (and family). Either way, ambition in a woman isn't that big of deal to us. It's neither an attractive or unattractive quality. A…
/r/RedPillWomen10/01/17 05:36 AM
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Duolingo will be your best friend. It's what I'm using to learn German. Or at least trying.
/r/RedPillWomen06/01/17 11:15 PM
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Totally off topic but that username cracks me up
/r/RedPillWomen06/01/17 11:06 PM
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Ask him to make the drive. Be fair to yourself.
/r/RedPillWomen04/01/17 11:50 PM
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I discovered TRP about 4 years ago. I have definitely left and come back several times since then. On top of that, I don't agree with TRP 100% but there are truths I agree with. Regardless, at the end of the day do whatever you have to do to be both a better partner and person. You don't need TRP for that.
/r/RedPillWomen02/01/17 08:24 PM
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He's just a piece of shit. Your choice but if I were you I would have left a long time ago. The cheating only puts the nail in the coffin for this relationship IMO.
/r/RedPillWomen30/12/16 06:21 PM
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It's the constant influx of newcomers. However, I'd wager some do get stuck in the anger phase of swallowing the pill. Regardless, right off the bat, anger and frustration are the predominant emotions of the sub. But if one can get past that, the doors for self-improvement are all open. You do bring up a good point though, it would be interesting to have a sort of... Qualifying sub. An intro sub of sorts. Where all the newcomers or people stuck in the anger phase have to get past the initial hum…
/r/RedPillWomen30/12/16 01:26 PM
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Alpha widowed. And now you're looking for a Beta Bux. If you're genuinely willing to be a RPW, read all of the side material, read the top posts of this sub, absorb all the information from this sub and then make yourself a better you. I honestly believe everything will be clearer for you then.
/r/RedPillWomen29/12/16 07:30 PM
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I suggest that you keep an open mind. Vet for the right man regardless of ethnicity. I'm not saying you can't have prefences. Simply that, not all men or races are the same. With that said, working on yourself should always be at the forefront. Keep striving to become a woman worthy of a high-value man.
/r/RedPillWomen22/12/16 10:24 PM
2

Well said. Love is different for both sexes. Or the interpretation I should say. OP, this user made excellent points. You'll find many men are more towards the middle rather than be like the trp men
/r/RedPillWomen20/12/16 10:30 AM
1

Exactly. How anyone carries themselves speaks volumes more than any stat.
/r/RedPillWomen17/12/16 02:27 AM
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First off, don't really care what you think. Second, this is based on my experience not something to "make me feel better."
/r/RedPillWomen16/12/16 08:45 PM
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Personally, yes it's very important regardless of what anyone else says. Putting metaphors and stats aside, I've been able to tell difference between women with lower partner counts and higher partner counts. The former proves herself as a better bet for the success of a long term relationship and a happier one all around. However, this is purely based on my experience.
/r/RedPillWomen16/12/16 05:56 AM
-7

Keep gagging on his "alpha" dick
/r/TheRedPill03/12/16 02:49 AM
-2

Nah you broke frame after.
/r/askTRP01/12/16 05:24 AM
-5

You fucked up and broke frame.
/r/askTRP01/12/16 12:08 AM
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You really shouldn't tell people to lie or omit the truth in relationships.
/r/RedPillWomen22/11/16 09:48 PM
2

Instead of trying to "make him a better man," work on yourself. You can't change someone. It has to come from within. You can communicate to him how you feel and what you want from him and the relationship by being direct but kind. Ultimately though, it's on him.
/r/RedPillWomen20/11/16 11:43 PM
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Femininity is a state of mind. You're focusing too much on the physical, immediately noticeable aspects of how be more desirable as a woman. That's both excellent and important but it's not all. With time and concentrated efforts to improve on these physical attruvute, you'll eventually see positive change. However, it's the internal characterististics—one's state of mind— that are just as critical as the other stuff. It's what determines commitment from high value men and the success of LTR's w…
/r/RedPillWomen17/11/16 12:30 AM
7

You're human and it's a learning experience.
/r/RedPillWomen16/11/16 10:29 AM
2

Ideally, I'd like to have someone with as many similar views as mine. Women who are too far right or left usually results in incompatibility issues. Ultimately, if she's a prospect for being a long-term partner, too many political differences between her and I is, unfortunately, a red flag. Regardless of how compatible we are in other areas of the relationship.
/r/RedPillWomen09/11/16 05:59 AM
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I don't need a government certificate to validate my commitment to my partner. Doesn't mean I don't want a life-long partner. However, to each their own.
/r/RedPillWomen02/11/16 08:24 PM
5

His lack of trust and invasion of privacy should be more troubling. With that said, I understand where he comes from. There's virtually no benefit to men getting married and nearly everything can be lost, even with a prenup. To be honest, it's one tradition that should die off. Not wanting to marry does not equal not wanting a life-long partner. At any rate, it boils down to what you want most. Him or marriage?
/r/RedPillWomen02/11/16 10:27 AM
1

Sounds like he wants to have control and "lead" not because he's a confident man but because he's insecure and beta. Tbh his behavior is a prominent red flag. Additionally, it sounds like he's purposely hiding his flaw, which I'm sure you can guess what that is.
/r/RedPillWomen21/10/16 04:53 AM
7

Lol @ trump being an alpha. He's a fucking idiot. Hill is no better but seems like everyone in this sub can't stop sucking his "alpha" dick.
/r/TheRedPill14/10/16 10:27 AM
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Consistency is key. You can go walk 45 min on the treadmill every day and gradually lose weight. Circuit training with short rest times is a good approach. Splitting up different body parts for different days of the week is one way to go about it. You can do upper body one day, lower next, abs/cardio next, and repeat. It's all dependent on your goals. If you simply want to lose weight, eating at a deficit and cardio, more specifically HIIT, will get the job done. Regardless, the most important f…
/r/RedPillWomen13/10/16 03:42 AM
7

No need to mention you're a man.
/r/RedPillWomen13/10/16 03:30 AM
6

Classic hamstering
/r/RedPillWomen10/10/16 08:18 PM
12

Don't do anything you're not comfortable with.
/r/RedPillWomen04/10/16 02:37 PM
2

I'd say it depends on who you ask. Some would say PIV sex would count towards N-Count yet dismiss foreplay or oral as something that wouldn't count. Others would consider any sort of intimacy with another person as a +1 in their N-Count. It essentially boils down to wherever the individual person you're asking the question to draws the line.
/r/RedPillWomen01/10/16 09:36 PM
3

Calorie intake for fat loss will be different for everyone. This is dependent on several factors such as height, weight, age, activity levels, intensity of workouts, and listening to your body. It could very well be that she might cut at 1800 cals but that doesn't mean every women should cut at that number. Some smaller, skinny-fat women actually have to drop down into the 1200-1300 range assuming they're behind a desk all day. OP I suggest you track macros. Use a macro calculator to calculate y…
/r/RedPillWomen30/09/16 03:06 AM
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You're not RP
/r/RedPillWomen25/09/16 03:44 PM
1

Reeks like a troll
/r/RedPillWomen19/09/16 08:29 PM
3

Ah i see. That would make sense. Yeah just continue improving on yourself. However, my statement still stands: he sounds immature. Sounds like you're not the only who could improve.
/r/RedPillWomen19/09/16 06:27 PM
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Then he's not RP or mature. Part of being an adult is accepting the fact others, including people you're closest with, will have differing opinions.
/r/RedPillWomen19/09/16 05:56 PM
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Wow. Some of the worst advice here. Lying about your past? Terrible, terrible advice. Improve on yourself. Be a better you. But never forget your past is also a part of you. Should previous sex offenders never reveal that info to potential partners? What about a wife beater? How would you feel if your man didn't reveal to you that his past was much darker than originally presented? Perhaps he raped someone when he was 17? Or was a severe alcoholic? How would you feel if he lied to you? Listen, t…
/r/RedPillWomen12/09/16 02:53 AM
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You sound like a teenage emo kid trying to sound cool and unique.
/r/TheRedPill06/09/16 06:39 PM
3

Entirely fair conditions. Your choice. Yeah just communicate that with him and go from there. Good luck.
/r/RedPillWomen02/09/16 03:05 PM
5

In a way, this is the equivalent of a woman riding the CC since hypergamy is part of her intrinsic nature. If you want to stay with a man whose core intrinsic nature is to spread his seed amongst many women then that's on you. Given that the main goal of RPW is commitment from a high value man, most women in this sub wouldn't settle for anything less. Conversely, (most) high-value men would never commit to a woman who has a history of riding the CC. Both situations, in my opinion, are a reflecti…
/r/RedPillWomen02/09/16 12:33 PM
4

Calories in vs. calories out. That's all that matters.
/r/TheRedPill01/09/16 01:23 PM
5

Finally, a solid post. Well-written.
/r/TheRedPill01/09/16 01:16 PM
5

God forbid others have differing opinions
/r/TheRedPill01/09/16 01:16 PM
2

Well said. One image that stood out throughout your whole comment was a classic interaction between a man and woman in the 50s. She would be coy towards him and he would pursue. Just watch all those classic black and white movies. That was just the norm back then.
/r/RedPillWomen28/08/16 04:42 PM
8

That's funny. The same dating advice is given to men. If this continues no one will text and both sides will just assume the other isn't interested lol. Text him. One time. Ask how his holiday is going. This shows you're thinking about him and that you're interested. At that point, the ball will be in his court. One attempt at texting won't burden him.
/r/RedPillWomen25/08/16 09:36 PM
3

I see nothing wrong with being proactive in regards to dating. (Being more available, dressing more feminine, generally being nicer, etc.) However, there's a difference between being proactive with dating and attempting to lead or taking on a more dominant role in the initial phases of dating to gain a man's interest. Many men are indifferent towards the former, but most are put off by the latter. It's counterproductive. Therefore, I'd suggest you yield more towards a proactive approach rather t…
/r/RedPillWomen25/08/16 09:16 PM
1

I'd definitely go the house route. Assuming the house market is becoming increasingly more expensive in your city, this would be he smartest route. You could always sell and make a profit down the road. And no, men don't see this as something that would lower your SMV. It's a not as important imo as it is to women in regards to men.
/r/RedPillWomen22/08/16 03:50 PM
4

Forgiving yourself. Accepting your flaws and making amends to mitigate them. We can't control what life throws at us but we can control how we react to it. Find the strength and discipline, in your moments of weakness (hungry, tired, etc.), to combat that negative mentality. And remember to do it slowly. Baby steps. Be sure to reward yourself when you succeed. Which you will. And to not be so hard on yourself when you fail. And then just top it off with consistency until it becomes habit and eve…
/r/RedPillWomen17/08/16 08:15 PM
4

Shut up. Don't listen to this crap, OP. Seriously the worst advice ever. Best thing you can do is be the best supportive and feminine wife you can be and go from there.
/r/RedPillWomen03/08/16 01:12 PM
4

Well you know him best. Do you trust him? If so, then don't worry. Listen, when a good man legitimately loves his SO, not only does he want to make her happy but his mentality shifts. It's no longer "what's best for me." It's "what's best for both of us." "I've gained her trust. I want to ensure both of us are happy and secure." I'm fairly certain these are the general thoughts that go through a man who's committed to a partner he cherishes.
/r/RedPillWomen30/07/16 06:58 PM
10

With men, you have to be straightforward. Subtle hints will likely go unnoticed. For that reason, a firm, kind, and direct approach will work best in my opinion.
/r/RedPillWomen25/07/16 01:11 PM
1

Exactly. Couldn't agree more.
/r/RedPillWomen24/07/16 02:28 PM
10

A woman who shows self-restrain when it comes to sex is worth pursuing. She's the equivalent of a man who's confident and ambitious with in regards to his career and any endeavor. Both qualities, respectively, are desired by the opposite sex.
/r/RedPillWomen18/07/16 08:07 PM
4

Who cares? If you enjoy it, watch it. Don't give a fuck about what anyone else thinks. Specific little shit like this doesn't make one alpha or beta. Being insecure about enjoying it makes you the latter.
/r/askTRP27/05/16 06:26 AM
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I can attest to this. I play Ultimate Frisbee (got into it in college). Definitely as much of a workout as soccer players get. Especially those who play this sport competitively. Lot of the guys I play with engineers or entrepreneurs. Now, speaking from experience, and to put it in blunt terms, most of the women I've seen who play are unfortunately not very feminine or attractive so recognize if you've got both then you're already more attractive than the rest of the female population. Also, wom…
/r/RedPillWomen03/06/14 11:57 PM
1

Respond with this: "Sure if you buy me a drink(s) there" Then proceed to have fun. You're focusing too much on her and women for success dude. Go out. Have fun. With or without her. That is the success.
/r/askTRP31/05/14 12:33 AM
8

"I don't talk about that." Firm, straight to the point, no need for explanation. Done.
/r/askTRP29/05/14 11:50 PM
4

You need to do a 180. Marriage is THE last thing you want/need. Time to next her. You fell hard for this chick because she's "awesome" and hot as fuck. I would not feel an ounce of remorse if you don't see what you need to do and end up marrying this chick. The red flags are right in your face and you still have to ask what to do? It's time to have some self-respect and next her.
/r/TheRedPill17/04/14 04:19 PM
11

I fucking loved this story.
/r/TheRedPill16/04/14 04:21 PM
1

Got it. Thanks!
/r/TheRedPill11/04/14 07:08 PM
2

Rollo, I'm reading you book and it's truly fantastic. However one question I have is after finding yourself in an LTR, what are some of the best ways to ensure that she accepts this dynamic of the man being the man and her being the woman? In other words, what are some of the best ways to convince any LTR gal to adopt and breathe this philosophy?
/r/TheRedPill11/04/14 06:03 PM
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She's obviously hurt by this. Don't drag her along is what I'm saying. Either man up and change the nature of the relationship or leave her. Why would you want to hurt someone you care about because you like getting your dick wet with other chicks? It's possible to do that without hurting some chick that obviously doesn't deserve it.
/r/askTRP10/04/14 08:05 PM
1

You won't mind then when I pick up your girl then? Be a fucking man. Either leave her or stop cheating.
/r/askTRP10/04/14 07:46 PM
3

Classic.
/r/TheRedPill09/04/14 03:54 PM
-1

This<sup>this</sup><sup>this</sup><sup>this</sup>
/r/askTRP09/04/14 02:12 PM
1

Good luck, sir.
/r/askTRP09/04/14 02:05 PM
12

Can you blame her? She's not attracted to you. She's manipulated you and thus lost respect and attraction for you. Gain that back by being a man. Not a pushover.
/r/askTRP08/04/14 08:43 PM
-1

is the best option
/r/askTRP08/04/14 08:23 PM
13

Wow. Listen man, I don't know much about marriage but at this point you need to step up and be the man of the relationship, which means not taking shit from her. She has zero respect for you or your hard work. Plus, a second child is the last thing both of you need, you financially, and her in terms of maturity. Stand your ground. Yes, there's a chance that she may go spiteful bitch mode and use your own child against you but that's a risk you have to take, in my honest opinion. At the very leas…
/r/askTRP08/04/14 08:17 PM
5

Just next her man
/r/TheRedPill08/04/14 07:47 PM
2

Ignore and use butter for your no-fucks-given pancakes.
/r/askTRP08/04/14 02:51 PM
5

Cut off all contact. Don't worry because you're the shit and can always meet new people, make new friends, and bang hotter girls than her. No use in wasting your time, much less get angry about any of it. It's over. In other words, hakuna matata the fuck on.
/r/askTRP02/04/14 09:45 PM
4

Go to places you like. Do things you like. Like reading? Go to a bookstore. Like chilling outdoors? Go to a park (especially if you have a dog). Like animals? Go to a zoo. Like history? Go to a museum. Like relaxing in chill atmospheres indoors? Go to a coffee shop. Point is do things you want to do. Immerse youreself in activities and places you genuinely like and make meeting women secondary. Date yourself. Good luck.
/r/askTRP02/04/14 09:36 PM
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For whatever reason, you rub me the wrong way. RP isn't about becoming a sex god that all the chicks will swoon over. But I'll give you some advice since I know how much being a Beta sucks. Cancel on her. Next her. Forget her. A cheater isn't worth it. Now, take your "blank" canvas and head to the side bar and read, absorb, digest, and breathe all of it. It will be a long process but entirely worth it. Don't learn the material, literally understand it and apply it to your life. Develop a new met…
/r/askTRP02/04/14 07:20 PM
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Make another account and subscribe.
/r/TheRedPill31/03/14 07:21 PM
28

Very well executed. However, look at the red flag: she wanted a break. That's something I'd look into
/r/TheRedPill31/03/14 07:19 PM
3

Wtf is this shit?
/r/askTRP28/03/14 02:58 PM
4

It's a shit test. Follow /r/robesta's advice. Say "you two look cute. Y'all should date." Then proceed to find another plate. Don't get hung up on one.
/r/askTRP27/03/14 07:33 PM

This dude is projecting his insecurities through direct, hostile, and verbal attacks. Aka dude probably got cucked by "Chad" at some point. Move past the anger phase, phgt.
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