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It’s really not a sweeping statement. Redpill men are rare to find and we are always advised to not date them anyways. Most of the women here are not with men who would define themselves as redpill just like most redpill men don’t find themselves dating redpill women, two niche communities with different goals in mind.
/r/RedPillWomen08/09/22 12:19 AM
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What is your husband doing ? He should definitely be helping you right now. Being a homemaker is a full time role, and with how intensive nursing school is and your full time job you are overloading yourself. A good husband would definitely be helping with the chores.
/r/RedPillWomen07/09/22 07:37 PM
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Honestly first and foremost you gotta lose some weight. Loose skin still looks better, can be concealed better, and even can be fixed with removal/time(in some cases). It’s sad that he wasted your time. This is why I stress to any marriage minded woman to never stay longer than a year without the subject of an engagement coming up once you hit 25 years of age. Most men when they find their dream girl will propose quite fast. You still have time to acquire what you want and you should avoid MGTOW…
/r/RedPillWomen07/09/22 07:33 PM
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It only matters that your husband is okay with it, honestly. Most men who would like stay at home partners generally want children though so.
/r/RedPillWomen06/09/22 12:16 AM
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It’s pretty simple. You don’t say anything. There are no expectations of exclusivity but they probably won’t enjoy hearing about you going on away trips to be with another man. It’s not being dishonest unless they directly ask and even then you could opt to say you don’t want to discuss xyz.
/r/RedPillWomen03/09/22 05:05 PM
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Most redpill men lack the personality and appearance to really rack up a high body count so they’re mostly just angry incel-y type men. However the ones that use TRP toolkit successfully are basically used goods at that point. Trad women don’t want community dick. Just like a man should be weary of a woman with a high body count women should also be weary.
/r/RedPillWomen28/08/22 11:13 PM
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What’s funny is the women that would probably be ideal for redpill men do not want anything to do with them generally. Redpill women are advised to avoid men who know of the RP or act RP. I understand why some men become jaded and their bitterness turns them to the RP but I really think that toolbox can shoot them in the foot sometimes. Maybe it helps them collect more sex (but maybe not really since a lot of that will fundamentally just be rooted in your attractiveness) but it might not be the …
/r/RedPillWomen28/08/22 12:18 PM
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She probably shouldn’t have said that, she should of just said she wasn’t interested anymore. However he most likely is being dishonest. Her mistake was letting him know she cared or felt offended. Any man who does what this man did should be skipped on.
/r/RedPillWomen26/08/22 08:43 PM
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Yes redpill is a very small community , especially amongst women. You will find a lot of likeminded women in religious communities, or mom /housewife ones. Since I don’t have children yet and am not particularly religious I think it’s hard if you don’t have either of those to find more red pill women.
/r/RedPillWomen26/08/22 02:57 PM
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Ignore the last sentence of that. He made it clear you are not a priority. Do not allow for him to come back into your life when he is bored.
/r/RedPillWomen24/08/22 07:02 PM
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Your advice is great in the case of a more established relationship. She just met this man, we don’t blindly trust men we just met. His behavior was a huge red flag at worst, but a valid reason to become disinterested as well, even on the rare chance he’s being completely honest.
/r/RedPillWomen24/08/22 01:28 PM
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Honestly it has nothing to with his ex girlfriend. To have someone move away for you to an unfamiliar state and say they’re still hung up on an ex shows how immature and careless he was. I also see that he was a cheater and probably a porn addict. You don’t see it yet but this is the best thing to happen to you given your circumstances. It’s also a lesson to not move in with a man with 0 commitment. If you’re not at least engaged don’t move in together. You have to vet properly to prevent this.
/r/RedPillWomen23/08/22 10:06 PM
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I do think PhD people tend to gravitate towards one another because they’re intellectuals at heart. Your husband must find your intelligence super beautiful. :) A lot of tech bros are alt right and probably wouldn’t care as much though there’s definitely a difference between a PhD holder in tech and the run of the mill code monkey
/r/RedPillWomen23/08/22 12:44 AM
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Your husband needs serious mental help. However you are an unfaithful wife and are definitely not helping by talking to men you have crushed on all day and engaging in pornography. Speaking to random men online all day is inappropriate for a married woman. The reason your husband doesn’t leave is because he is definitely mentally ill, but no man with self-respect would tolerate his wife doing this . Couples counseling may be in order and for the marriage to work both of you need to make some ser…
/r/RedPillWomen23/08/22 12:26 AM
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Don’t even necessarily need a career , either be working or doing school.
/r/RedPillWomen23/08/22 12:15 AM
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It’s definitely not. You lower your value when you hang with these men and good men will think you are loose and dumb. You don’t need to hang with trash men to know how trash men think lol. It’s been documented since the beginning of mankind.
/r/RedPillWomen20/08/22 08:08 PM
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Why are you friends with these men? Very PickMe trashy behavior.
/r/RedPillWomen20/08/22 07:22 PM
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I never have actually been the person to attempt to start a relationship so I never have been rejected nor do I have any male friends. HVM don’t want you hanging around people you wish would have been “DTF”. Even most low value men wouldn’t want that.
/r/RedPillWomen18/08/22 07:38 PM
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There comes a point where it’s best to get away from someone who is demented and abusive. I agree that people rush to suggest divorce too quickly. However there is a difference between a man asking his wife to eat better/go to the gym a bit more then say things to her that make her think she needs to change her height and develop a deadly disorder to cater to his sick fetish. Red pill women get a lot of flack from outsiders for encouraging abusive situations. I don’t think this is entirely true …
/r/RedPillWomen18/08/22 04:44 PM
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Nope. Move on.
/r/RedPillWomen18/08/22 04:38 PM
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Honestly your husband is sick and deranged. No good man would ever want their partner to be anorexic. Sounds like he’s beyond even porn sick. This is disturbing.
/r/RedPillWomen18/08/22 04:38 PM
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No. You barley know this person and long distance relationships are not easy, not fulfilling, and rarely are successful.
/r/RedPillWomen16/08/22 07:32 PM
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I feel like this is a poor excuse that enables men to not try . There are men in their 20s who can match up to her dad’s good character traits, even if you don’t include the construction business he has. A lot of men are not up to provider status and I partially blame women lowering their standards significantly and reproducing with whatever guy they find with no commitment or prospects. Vetting is important, not for the individual woman or their children, but the future.
/r/RedPillWomen13/08/22 06:23 PM
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I hope I don’t sound mean. I just think you deserve better and this guy does not sound mature or giving and I think even if he married you to appease you he would not make a good husband.
/r/RedPillWomen09/08/22 05:25 PM
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I mean someone who is 7 is already above attractiveness and since OP considers herself average or below then this isn’t really that helpful.
/r/RedPillWomen09/08/22 05:20 PM
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This is a selfish man. But you have actively ignored many red flags and he’s been upfront and honest that he is not marriage material. No matter how lovely you are if you don’t vet (which you clearly are not doing) you will be shooting yourself in the foot in achieving your goals.
/r/RedPillWomen09/08/22 04:08 AM
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Long distance relationships rarely work out. If your goal is marriage I would end this relationship and seek out people within your city.
/r/RedPillWomen07/08/22 08:25 PM
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This is an awesome idea. I like other chores but laundry is definitely the one I hate the most. Gotta try this :)
/r/RedPillWomen07/08/22 07:17 PM
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Highly agree as someone who also was an emo kid and still dresses macabre at times. Guys specifically into goth girls make terrible partners usually and are probably pornsick.
/r/RedPillWomen03/08/22 03:59 PM
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He doesn’t want you with another man but he wants to be able to try and date around. You might justify some of his actions and thoughts to spin it into him genuinely caring so much about commitment that he is scared of messing it up, but in reality he just wants to play the field while keeping you on lockdown. Anyone here telling you to give him space/time is setting you up to fail as he’s proven to you to be flaky and inconsistent. You deserve better OP.
/r/RedPillWomen01/08/22 08:53 PM
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Men from my culture don’t which is why I would say this might just be a cultural issue. My culture has the lowest rates of single/unwed mothers and divorces for a reason though and I think the reason is that there is a strong emphasis on gender roles and seeking out men who embody the provider and protector role.
/r/RedPillWomen23/06/22 03:55 PM
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I think most good traditional men are not going to worry about stuff like that. This might be a cultural difference in my ideology compared to yours since good men (especially not colleges aged ones with little money) who fit the RPW values from my culture would never worry for women only seeking money. I don’t think most good men assume all women are after their money. Only jaded ones who might have behavioral issues .
/r/RedPillWomen23/06/22 03:48 PM
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Honestly can tell your gender based upon the content of your comment. This is very male centric advice that benefits the man in this situation but not so much the woman. He is 10 years older than OP, she should not have to coddle him. He should absolutely have his life more in order. And based upon what OP has said they are completely incompatible and she does not see him as an alpha. It’s so wrong to tell a young girl in her prime time settle for a relationship like this.
/r/RedPillWomen21/06/22 06:59 PM
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Highly agree with this.
/r/RedPillWomen16/06/22 09:30 PM
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A kind man would not be stringing along a clearly desperate and confused woman (you), continuing this emotional affair to feed his ego and get some extra attention, then go home to the woman he prefers while sharing some very private details of her life (assuming that abortion story is even true). Get yourself together. Stop chasing men who are cheaters. It shows poor character on your end but you’re also securing yourself a mate who will most likely be unfaithful to you.
/r/RedPillWomen13/06/22 08:19 AM
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That is why I don’t entirely understand why redpill men (or any man) are allowed to contribute here. A real redpill man is fundamentally not that compatible with us. We want entirely different things.
/r/RedPillWomen11/06/22 05:25 PM
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Honestly I feel bad for OP. But everyone in this story is definitely mentally disturbed. I feel genuine fear for her daughter’s wellbeing. I don’t think this post even belongs on here because there’s nothing I think the redpill can do for this situation. Therapy. Divorce. Her husband cheats on her and allows a rapist around their children and his wife. Not to even mention the weird parading of OP in a sexual manner. The whole side of her husband’s family must be complete sexual deviants.
/r/RedPillWomen08/06/22 11:17 PM
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He’s disrespecting you. I doubt he would react as graciously as you have if you were watching thirst traps of handsome men. Probably porn sick too. Very huge red flags I think you should look into, your intuition is probably correct that this man is probably lower value.
/r/RedPillWomen08/06/22 12:38 PM
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Redpill theory and transgenderism do not work together. You can definitely find a masculine man I’m sure, however.
/r/RedPillWomen07/06/22 08:29 PM
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Low, of course. Promiscuity isn’t a good look for either gender.
/r/RedPillWomen02/06/22 06:20 PM
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My partner is a lot less talkative than myself. Personally I think it’s a good balance but I’ll sometimes share the same insecurity. It’s important to take what your man says seriously so if he’s saying he loves that about you you should listen. If he’s lying then that is 100% on him and not on you. When he’s watching tv or preoccupied it’s probably more polite to just not talk too much unless it’s an important matter or relevant to what he’s engaging with. Men, especially quiet men, need to dec…
/r/RedPillWomen02/06/22 04:24 PM
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Purple pill is just for men and women in general to interact and discuss. There should be a space, if it doesn’t already exist, for redpill men and redpill women to discuss. I don’t think the women’s subreddit should be for that. We deserve our own space just like the men do. I never dare to intrude in male focused communities, I think we should be extended the same courtesy.
/r/RedPillWomen31/05/22 04:20 PM
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There should be a space for maybe both mature redpill women and men to interact but I still think even if a man is giving solid advice he doesn’t belong in the subreddit for women. Men need their own spaces just like women also need our own spaces away from the opposite sex. This is just a personal opinion. I think the net good of men being allowed to interact on this subreddit does not triumph over the bad.
/r/RedPillWomen31/05/22 03:59 PM
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I agree. It’s really awful and I think it would be a much more pleasant space if males were banned altogether. The men who would invade a woman’s space are not going to be good men and I have not yet anything positive or useful from a man. They’re always belittling or just commenting their own preferences of what a good woman is while they themselves are frequent visitors of incel subs.
/r/RedPillWomen31/05/22 02:09 PM
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I sorta feel like males should be banned altogether because masculine men would not invade feminine spaces in general so anybody commenting is probably not worth listening to anyways. This is a great PSA though.
/r/RedPillWomen31/05/22 01:56 PM
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Majority of the men who interact on redpill/manosphere spaces are men who have been very unsuccessful with women. They are definitely not all incels but there is a huge overlap.
/r/RedPillWomen30/05/22 06:41 PM
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Are you implying all professions that can’t be work from home are done by people who didn’t put in the effort ? Doctors, nurses, and firefighters don’t try I guess. Stay out of female spaces with your bad faith questions. Stick to the places for men. So weird to invade a woman’s sub.
/r/RedPillWomen29/05/22 11:49 PM
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It’s pretty unfair to both you and him to continue this in my opinion.
/r/RedPillWomen29/05/22 11:33 PM
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There’s some apps like Peanut that let you connect with women in your area, they have all kinds of neat features like finding women who are also pregnant at the same time as you :) And there’s filters for stay at home/working moms/etc.
/r/RedPillWomen07/05/22 01:12 PM
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I don’t subscribe to the idea that once a cheater always cheater, but it does seem relevant in most/many cases. However I believe because you are unmarried it is probably better to just move on. Those anxieties you have never really will ever fully go away. And I can only really justify trying to mend a marriage with children when infidelity has occurred. It’s not easy because 3 years is nothing to sniff at but I believe you deserve to find a man who will make you feel much more safe and secure …
/r/RedPillWomen25/03/22 12:10 PM
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Yes I can’t even believe that so many people here are telling OP to chase this man more. OP, he sees you as an easy set of holes who does all the work for him. He doesn’t care about you beyond sex. OP should absolutely drop this whole mess and find someone who is truly into her.
/r/RedPillWomen25/03/22 12:05 PM
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Honestly no high value man would accept this friendship because it is not high value behavior to keep past hookups in your life.
/r/RedPillWomen03/03/22 02:32 AM
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Best of luck then! You can take a horse to water but can’t make it drink
/r/RedPillWomen25/02/22 06:47 PM
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OP mentioned a preference to trad lifestyle and wanting that which is why I based my advice around that, I don’t think all RP women are trad. She seems to believe because he’s “RP” he must be trad. In reference to going through RPW material it’s that he comes off as low value and her insistence on continuing this dead end of a relationship works against her and her interests.
/r/RedPillWomen25/02/22 05:38 PM
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RP men honestly are generally not good long term partners. I don’t understand why you believe he is trad considering he does not want marriage and he isn’t monogamous. It’s also a LDR. It would be a foolish endeavor to waste any more of your time on this man. You deserve better
/r/RedPillWomen25/02/22 12:41 AM
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There is nothing trad about this man.I’ve read your comments and he seems like absolute garbage and low value. You need to go through some RPW material again.
/r/RedPillWomen24/02/22 09:34 PM
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It almost always does. RP women want a certain man and RP men do not meet that. Doesn’t mean there’s anything wrong with RP men necessarily but that’s not what a RP woman would seek out when dating intentionally.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/22 02:34 AM
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People take RP and mold into whatever agendas they want but it doesn’t mean they’re truly acting in a RP manner. RP women do not advise dating RP men because a true RP man will not be a suitable mate.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/22 02:14 AM
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RP men have different goals then RP women. While both can be “trad”, not all RP men are trad. Most RP also do not fit into the mold a RP woman would be seeking.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/22 02:08 AM
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They want trad men, not RP men. RP are not trad. Redpill for women is different from redpill for men for the most part, there are only some small similarities in beliefs.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/22 10:52 PM
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Redpill women actually tend to advocate against dating Redpill men. They’re not the same. Redpill men are not beneficial or compatible to redpill women dating strategies
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/22 07:12 PM
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Please tell me she didn’t send it
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/01/22 06:39 PM
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If our purpose is to reproduce then women are simply more valuable. And considering technology and women entering work force in masses, as well as being more educated in general, men’s purpose of being the worker ants is even less meaningful now. Which is pretty unfortunate for men, especially those who are average /below average .
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/22 11:16 PM
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Biologically speaking women are more valuable. 1 man can produce thousands of children, 1 woman is limited to producing one child a year for only so many years. Humanity can survive with significantly less men but can’t do the same with less women.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/22 11:06 PM
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What subreddit is this ?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/01/22 11:02 PM
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Long distance and he’s a cheater ? You need to seek therapy and fix your self-esteem . You deserve better .
/r/RedPillWomen21/01/22 12:32 AM
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