| Upvotes | Title | Category | Author | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 25 | Shit test becoming boring | Hellsteelz | /r/askTRP | 20/07/18 10:12 AM | |
| 10 | Woman who hates men, worth plating? | Hellsteelz | /r/askTRP | 23/12/17 11:25 AM | |
| 4 | What are your top five priorities currently? | Hellsteelz | /r/askTRP | 18/06/20 02:40 PM | |
| 2 | Sharing something embarrassing | Hellsteelz | /r/askTRP | 07/06/18 10:31 PM | |
| 1 | Suggested date at my place - no response | Hellsteelz | /r/askTRP | 30/01/18 01:29 PM | |
| 1 | How much chasing should you do? (texting) | Hellsteelz | /r/askTRP | 23/06/18 08:08 AM | |
| 0 | How do you guys pick up girls? | Hellsteelz | /r/askTRP | 17/10/20 10:21 AM | |
| 0 | Recently I have been feeling stupid when going out with people | Hellsteelz | /r/askTRP | 20/05/19 08:00 AM |
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| 6 | LOOKS WEEKLY DISCUSSION THREADOnly for this sub though, almost daily you have arguments about looks vs personality. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/04/26 10:20 AM |
| 3 | Being honest about adultery is a good thing, not a bad thing.You people who justify cheating need to seek help. The mental gymnastics you put yourselves through is astonishing. This has to be classified as a mental disorder. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/04/26 12:24 AM |
| 16 | Women calling men “gay” is an insultIts an insult and homophobic due to the negative connotation. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/04/26 12:16 AM |
| 1 | CMV: Most guys don’t fail in dating because of looks or status.. They fail because they don’t understand banter.Looks are 90-95% of the equation, sorry bud. This only works if you are a known comedian. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/04/26 07:37 AM |
| 2 | In current dating market, women soon will soon prefer fictional men over real men and men would have no choice but to be better than they are to even be considered for relationship.These individuals have not grown up or are extremely delusional or in denial. How you can resort to these lenghts to protect your ego I will never understand. It's a mental disease. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/07/25 10:20 PM |
| 1 | Men need to be aware that they are easily replaceableNot guaranteed. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/05/25 06:51 PM |
| 0 | Friendship and family don't fully replace romantic relationshipTerrible advice for lonely (romantically lonely people too) people since you mentioned them. Having a good relationship with friends and family absolutely outweighs the opposite. Id rather have friends and family if im struggling romantically than the opposite. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/02/25 09:23 PM |
| – | You can't complain about women not being nice to men and then justify men being creepy to women that are nice to them.Your reply just further proves what im trying to say. You needing an explanation of human decency and treating someone with respect. How can you not know? You could have Googled it and gotten a fairly good explanation. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/02/25 07:18 PM |
| – | You can't complain about women not being nice to men and then justify men being creepy to women that are nice to them.I didn't follow your reasoning in the initial message I guess. I honestly dont recognize myself in what you are writing, I've usually had to work super hard for women to notice and like me. I just can't relate. I dont agree with your second reply. You can observe people and say that they are insicere, without it reflecting anything on you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/02/25 07:14 PM |
| – | You can't complain about women not being nice to men and then justify men being creepy to women that are nice to them.What pretty privilege are we talking about? That men are actively looking for their gfs to be 8/10 or above? Not the large majority of men, this is more true for women. How am I judging people based on looks when I said 'interacting'? Like from actual conversation with women, where you are able to judge their character better. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/02/25 02:43 PM |
| – | You can't complain about women not being nice to men and then justify men being creepy to women that are nice to them.Im talking about basic human decency, which is something women seem uncapable of when it comes to men. Im not asking every woman to care for every man like he was suffering from a gunshot wound or terminal cancer. Im asking for basic surface level respect. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/02/25 02:35 PM |
| 17 | You can't complain about women not being nice to men and then justify men being creepy to women that are nice to them.Crazy how fucking little women care about men unless the man is exceptionally good looking, play with their feelings or has social status. I dont think women understand how unsincere they come across when interacting. The entitlement is staggering, especially when women go around and make statements that they think are true but are, in fact batshit crazy. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/02/25 11:16 PM |
| – | All long-term relationships require the man to do whatever the woman wants33M here and I've given up on dating for the same reason you mentioned. I eventually feel like I have to be someone else for women to like me and I've always been unable to be my authentic self as a result. Not worth it imo. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/01/25 01:49 AM |
| – | Instead of being desperate for a girlfriend, men should focus on bonding with friends.Half your posts have obvious answers or answers that are pretty straight forward. Other half is pure retardation, om sorry to be so harsh, but it's true. Like for instance, one of your recently posts to men; would you date an attractive loser? It's so obvious most men would. Husbands are not entitled touching their wives. Obviously context matters, but it's such a stupid post. Why would you be together with someone if they don't fullfill your physical needs? Two people in a relationship should f… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/12/24 05:53 PM |
| – | Instead of being desperate for a girlfriend, men should focus on bonding with friends.Im 100% convinced that u/LillthOfBabylon and u/Windmill_flowers are either bots or trolls. The shit you guys post is peak baiting. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/12/24 12:44 PM |
| – | AI girlfriends are going to completely change the dating game, and it's going to happen very soon.Yep, the girls I've dated all assume that everyone is dating like they are: multiple dates, hooking up and always meeting new people. One girl even assumed and told me I must have as many different dates lined up per week as she has. Her number was 3 dates a week, I've barely managed 2/w and i felt bad about it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/11/24 04:26 PM |
| – | AI girlfriends are going to completely change the dating game, and it's going to happen very soon.LMAO Imagine the reddit post: "AITA for dumping my AI robo-boyfriend after he became 'too nice,' even though I secretly ordered the Chad-model upgrade?" | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/11/24 04:10 PM |
| 0 | Not placing unrealistically high standards on women is causing the dating crisisI dont expect women to do anything, they are living life comfortably, no reason for them to change. Its just perplexing that women rather wait for their absolute best option to pop out and totally ignore the other matches that are out there. Many of these women are going to end up single due to the illusion of choice. I cant understand it, its entitlement to the max. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/11/24 08:51 AM |
| 1 | Not placing unrealistically high standards on women is causing the dating crisisYep, shit is sad as fuck. All I can see is how this creates lopsided unhappy relationships, clear as day. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/11/24 12:48 AM |
| 0 | Not placing unrealistically high standards on women is causing the dating crisisIt's just that I fail to see how men are the problem and issue. Always blamed to be the shittier sex and all that jazz. In reality, women are absolutely insane and delusional in the way they think. It's insane for me that the average woman can come into dating and expect the crem de la crem of men at their command. The worst part of it all is that she has a match in the average men crowd (statistically speaking) that she could match with and have a good time with. Higher standards is the solutio… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/11/24 12:40 AM |
| 1 | Not placing unrealistically high standards on women is causing the dating crisisAnd this is the issue imo. The woman is average but because men want women more and the price for pussy is high, men are willing to jump through hoops. Shit is distorted. It has nothing to do with how much the girl is working out, how well she outs her makeup on, how she dresses, its all about the fact that she is a woman. She can be average at all those things and still be swamped with men. Even if she gets pumped and dumped, she thinks this is the way every man should be like. Menwhile, the ma… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/11/24 10:18 PM |
| 2 | The bar is in hell for womenThe same level of empathy women are having for men at the moment. It's very hard to empathize with women from a dating perspective right now. I dont feel sorry for them. Yeah, sure. Some of the men who have opened up to me show signs of clingy or very clingy behavior. I tell them to tone that down, but most of the guys behave normally. They get the hints and understand when a woman is not interested anymore. On the abuse thing, I can't honestly say that much, but I've heard it happen, for sure. … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/11/24 10:03 PM |
| 0 | Not placing unrealistically high standards on women is causing the dating crisisYeah, okay. You're talking about a miniority of women who put in significant effort to look good. Then, yes, its going to be significantly harder to attract them. My entire point is that average men should be able to go for average women and have a decent success rate, but im not seeing it. Average men going for below average women is just going to create a bad time for everyone. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/11/24 09:53 PM |
| 1 | Who requires more effort to keep happy in a hetero relationship? The GF or the BF?Have you ever dated a woman? If you would have you'd know what OP is talking about is expected from men in the beginning of dating. Doing the first approach, plan the dates, pay gpr the date (despite both working), be charismatic enough for sex to happen and complete for her attention and time. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/11/24 09:46 PM |
| 0 | Not placing unrealistically high standards on women is causing the dating crisisShe won't, no. But why is it so normalized for men to just suck it up and stay in the relationship despite not being happy with his match? The normal suggestion would be for the man to improve as much as possible in order to attract the best possible partner for him, but this is not either guaranteed. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/11/24 09:38 PM |
| 0 | Not placing unrealistically high standards on women is causing the dating crisisLmao. 'Go for a woman that you are not so into because others judge you as a match' Amazing reciepe for a dead bedroom. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/11/24 09:18 PM |
| -3 | The bar is in hell for womenThere are indeed women who cant get dates and struggle with getting partners. However, that number is so low its not even mentionworthy. The fact that the average man struggles with dating and the average woman does not is a tell tale sign who is actually struggling. Women are opting out of dating and relationships due to men supposedly being shitty. Yet these shitty men have no problems getting chicks. I dont believe for a second that the average man is shitty or bad. Why? I'm hanging out with … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/11/24 08:20 PM |
| 1 | The bar is in hell for womenExactly what reaction are we talking about? How the men still hookup/fuck with these women? Date them? Support them politically? Must be terrible for ugly women indeed. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/11/24 07:48 PM |
| 2 | The bar is in hell for womenYet tattooed women I've seen seem not to struggle getting men. There are tons and tons of men with tattoos who go for women with tattoos. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/11/24 07:46 PM |
| – | CMV: "Watch what women do, not what they say" is misogynisticOP, serious question. Do you have a personality disorder or are mentally disabled in any way? Everytime I browse this subreddit and see the most stupid/brainrot topics its you posting them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/11/24 07:40 PM |
| 2 | Made a post about how modern feminism has in part , played into why many young men fail to reach the standards of the young women. Think I'll make a different claim, but in the same ball park. Women are more solipsistic in dating( especially younger ones).It has a part, but I think you are overestimating the part it plays. Womens general feelings about men (not settling, illusion of choice and average men vs top tier men), income and education, men falling behind and women having higher life satisfaction are probably playing bigger parts. I know a handful (if even) of women who avoid men due to feminism, while I know heaps of women who avoid men due to above mentioned reasons. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/11/24 03:41 PM |
| 0 | CMV: More women should join the 4B movement in the USIm loving this, tbh. It exposes many women for who they truly are and what they truly think. Economy is struggling? I sleep. I think they potentially might, probably not (even Trump is against it), remove my abortion rights? I lose my shit. Women vocels, what a time to be alive. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/11/24 11:03 AM |
| 1 | Its not that women give bad advice. Its that men arent honest about what they really want.Yes, but most young men are not in relationships. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/11/24 07:21 PM |
| 1 | Women shouldn’t complain about the current dating/relationship/sexual landscape when this is everything they wantedThere is nothing remarkable about the average woman either. They are normal. Yet the average woman is looking for above average outcomes and partners. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/11/24 01:56 PM |
| 1 | Its not that women give bad advice. Its that men arent honest about what they really want.Its not realistic. It's not realistic when average looking women are demanding top tier men and shutting out the rest. Women are equally responsible for the current shitty dating market, its just a hard pill to swallow. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/11/24 10:44 PM |
| 1 | Its not that women give bad advice. Its that men arent honest about what they really want.Good gracious. Since you're not one, I would love for you to one day date as a man. You would realize quickly that what you wrote is pure bs and that most men would be very happy with not top tier women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/11/24 10:35 PM |
| 1 | Some men should stop wanting women to "lower" their standards to meet them.Disagree to a point. This whole standard thing is the reason why so many people are single, struggling, and in denial. Since we are talking about women here, I do sincerely believe that women who really subscribe to the idea of high standards are setting women, men, and themselves up for failure. A common argument is that high standards combined with the expectation for men to approach create a paradox that makes dating harder for both sides. For men, constantly initiating encounters while facin… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/10/24 04:20 PM |
| – | There is nothing wrong with not being selected by womenGo ahead and do that and tell me how it worked out for you. 2000 word essay in 6 months time. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/09/24 07:20 PM |
| – | Those who want one: Do you believe a life long relationship is a realistic aspiration?It also depends on if women will be able to "settle" for 80% of men they find unattractive. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/09/24 09:05 PM |
| 9 | You will not get arrested for approaching a woman.Can you explain what you meant by men putting in the effort? Genuinely curious. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/09/24 12:54 PM |
| 21 | You will not get arrested for approaching a woman.This needs to be said more, especially by women. Dont feel bad. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/09/24 12:43 PM |
| 3 | CMV: There's no actual problemYour DnD group is not representative of the general population. Men are OVERrepresented in DnD. It's dangerous to go alone. Take this! https://np.reddit.com/r/dataisbeautiful/s/aMqWq7Gi7N | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/09/24 08:45 AM |
| 3 | CMV: There's no actual problemYou are talking about beauty standards, not letting yourself go, mental health, and physical health. 30-40 years ago, you didn't have the obesity epidemic we have now. Women have very much participated in the obesity epidemic, yet they are the sex commanding higher standards from their partners? Women are asking men to take a look in the mirror while they themselves just dont? In reality, both sexes have their flaws, but nowadays its much easier to look at one of the sexes and demand they change… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/09/24 08:05 AM |
| 2 | Why women reject most men and how men can empathize with themFor real. If I had this in my life, I would be beaming every day. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/08/24 09:22 PM |
| 5 | LOOKS WEEKLY DISCUSSION THREADPlenty of disgusting 7+ women, too. Dont base your commitment on looks. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/08/24 06:30 PM |
| 1 | This whole idea of "get with someone you're not attracted to because it's your duty as a citizen"Agree with you, this carries the risk of being very unpleasant for the woman while the man can be hurt. This happened to me just recently, "she gave me a chance" as she put it and it just felt like she strung me along for 4 months which did not feel great, 10/10 would not recomend despite the sex. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/07/24 08:15 PM |
| – | Men have already lost the gender war and it's bound to get worseSame here. Sucks that I probably wont find a life partner but my overall mental health has improved alot not thinking and focusing about women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/01/24 10:12 PM |
| 1 | “Don’t bother a woman at [location]. She’s just there to [do activity].”Feels like different versions of this can be posted on 70-80% of the posts in here. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/01/24 11:55 AM |
| 1 | Women who complain about dating, is it incorrect to say they are at fault?It isn't. Same applies for men, learn from your mistakes. If you'd notice the title of the post, you'll see that this discussion is about women. Very hard to spot, but it's there. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/01/24 08:53 AM |
| 35 | Women who complain about dating, is it incorrect to say they are at fault?Yes, they are at a fault to an extent. Hyper focusing on standards and constantly going for the same guys is what keeps many women single in to their 30's. The number of girls I've spoken to who say that they always go for the wrong guy is astonishing. Like, do you not learn? I think this phenomenon is what makes so many women AND men single and why the numbers are rising. Men wanting to mate up with women who are not emotionally available since they are hyper focused on finding a certain partne… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/01/24 11:17 PM |
| 10 | Women who complain about dating, is it incorrect to say they are at fault?🧢 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/01/24 11:10 PM |
| 17 | Women who complain about dating, is it incorrect to say they are at fault?Women lowering their standards? Nah, man. To all the women I've given the advice to 'lower your standards' or 'change your standards' and gotten a confused/disgusted face in return is at a all time high. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/01/24 11:09 PM |
| 1 | LOOKS WEEKLY DISCUSSION THREADUntil it turns into a nightmare and you realize how much time you wasted. Yup, totally worth it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/01/24 02:39 AM |
| 0 | Trendline established, as of 2023 top 5% responsible for 50% of all sex; sexual loneliness seen as public health concernWomen face challenges and problems too, none is saying otherwise, we struggle with different things. However, in terms of help, the discussion is on another level. Women stuggled with STEM fields - lets incentivize STEM for women. We empowered women so hard in education and in the workforce that they now have surpassed men in salary. There are global movements made for women to empower them. Where is all of this for men? And why has there been such an acceptance to call men trash/losers? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/12/23 04:31 PM |
| 1 | Trendline established, as of 2023 top 5% responsible for 50% of all sex; sexual loneliness seen as public health concernIf they cared, it would be solved. This is so much "We haven't tried anything and we are all out of ideas". Strange how efficient we were in helping women in various instances but with men we are stumbling on the starting line. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/12/23 01:38 PM |
| 6 | CMV: Most young guys struggle in dating because of the society and time we live in, not because of themselvesWomen are brutal dude. They don't give a fuck if you are an anverage looking engineer. It still means they are setteling. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/12/23 12:57 AM |
| 10 | CMV: Most young guys struggle in dating because of the society and time we live in, not because of themselvesHow date you write this much sense without mentioning that its all about men wanting bangmaids. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/12/23 12:52 AM |
| 8 | Women, what do women need to improve?Good vetting includes; is he presenting himself well? is he financially stable/responsible? is he emotionally available? how does he treat family/friends/strangers? are his word matching his actions? (Best way to vet a dishonest person) is he moving too fast/too slow for my liking? do we have matching values/humor/plans? (I.e. do he match my ambition of having a LTR or is he just playing around) Just a few examples. But the idea is to both ask questions and observe if the person walking the talk… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/12/23 08:20 AM |
| 2 | Women, what do women need to improve?Wang Lee, das crazy 😂 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/12/23 08:10 AM |
| – | Women are 100% repelled by genuinely kind men and respond positively to being mistreatedOne of my colleagues at work is a living example of what OP talks about. We go out together occasionally and what this guy says to these girls and how they react is fucking insane. He told a girl who owned a big dog that she only owned the dog so she could have sex with it. In front of her friends aswell, no reactions. I was just in awe, I didnt think this was possible at all. She was laughing and by the end of the night he got her number, 5 days after that he slept with her. Shes constantly tex… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/11/23 11:44 PM |
| 7 | current dating climate in 2023Some points are completely 100% valid (dating apps and random public spaces), but I can't help to just feel the defeatist energy from this post. Bars work if you have friends/family to go with. Yes, women will think it's creepy if you are picking up girls alone in a bar. Being with friends? Gives you social proof and it's much easier to break the ice. Groups are amazing, so are friends aswell and I honestly think these are the two most underrated methods to meet someone. Speed dating should be u… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/11/23 10:14 AM |
| 9 | If you've ever called a man an incel, you can't really claim there's nothing wrong with being a male virginThis guy kills. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/11/23 06:08 AM |
| -2 | CMV: Both men and women are equally attractive (bell curve), but women work harder on their looks because men are more visual, making dating harder for average guys on visual based dating apps.As a 6'4" guy i dont agree. I see plenty of shorter guys with face get the girls, like way more. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/08/23 07:25 PM |
| 2 | What is one night stand guy(criteria)Nothing against Chris. But his beard is trash imo. He looks like a undercover gay cop. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/03/23 09:09 PM |
| 12 | Weight Preferences in Dating - Most Comprehensive Dating App Study To DateThere is only one stat here that should be alarming and that is that 74% of American adults are overweight. What the hell are you Americans doing? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/03/23 08:59 PM |
| 1 | Where is all this "men are lazy, useless, losers" rhetoric coming from?No, it's because they don't like to take accountability. These women are capable of doing alot, but won't do it because it's hard, painful or uninteresting. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/03/23 12:00 AM |
| 3 | The disgust some men feel towards promiscuous women is not biologically inherent and we should aid men to handle their insecurities not bathe in themThis sub man, this happens so often. Women get a boner for calling men insecure, it's like a chance you can't let go. Pathetic really and so obvious. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/03/23 11:56 PM |
| 23 | How many people know guys that have women on a “rotation”?Sadly this is the truth. My most successful period with girls was when I was a complete douchebag and only thinking about myself. I basically had to change my personality from being a good boy to douchebag for these girls to like me. However I personally couldn't keep this up longterm since I felt like a imposter and fake. Kudos to you for going to whole 9 yards. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/03/23 10:47 PM |
| 8 | For the first time since 2010, the percent of women under 35 who have not had sex in the last year has surpassed that of similar aged menWomen aren't that visual? Wth are you talking about? 🤣 These are the same women swiping left on majority of men online who in turn have completely normal profiles. Women are as visual as men are, and have high standards on looks as a whole (facial, dressing and grooming). Remember men, women judge your looks the way they judge their own looks. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/03/23 09:45 AM |
| 1 | Are women choosing to be single because it's easier?Nice reasoning. This is the same shit nice guys get beaten up for but women just have a pass. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/02/23 11:46 AM |
| 0 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadWhy is it always men's fault on this forum? For example. Women not finding 80-90% of the male population desirable/attractive. It's men's fault for being undesirable and never the woman's fault for having unrealistic expectations. Men finding high n-count women undesirable/unfit for long term relationships (actual studies for this, both men and women). It's men's fault for being too insecure. He's not earning as much as I am or higher. It's his fault for not advancing/taking his career seriously… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/01/23 04:59 PM |
| 17 | Study finds that sexless people are just as happy as sexually active people.Depends on what you mean with harmless. Of course you're not going to drop dead if you don't get sex. However, having sex or a healthy sex life does impact life satisfaction. Life satisfaction is in turn linked to mental health. I don't think it's healthy for the vast majority of the population to go without sex. Many of you jadrools here have such an uncharming view of sex. It's basically "dick goes into pussy" or "dick goes into ass". Sure it does feel nice physically, but there are so many ot… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/01/23 04:42 PM |
| 6 | This entire subAlways with the worst and extreme examples to prove your point. It's almost never using sound arguments which further proves this post. Women truly love to spite men instead of just listening. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/01/23 08:32 AM |
| 0 | Men have so much more flexibility than women when it comes to what you can do to become more attractiveFake it until you make it basically. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/01/23 08:16 AM |
| 4 | If a woman's sexual past shouldn't be a factor in a relationship, would you, as a woman, consider dating a man who has previously been sexually dominated by 10 men?As a guy who's had a girlfriend who was grossed about being with men who previously had sex with other men. It's feeling of them having sex with these men that grosses them out. "Men should not have sex with other men and then have se with women aswell." | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/01/23 06:47 PM |
| 2 | Not feeling desired is what makes most men (including me) have problems with women.Well put. Recently went through this reality and you just described it perfectly. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/01/23 10:50 AM |
| 1 | Personality matters. If you think it does not you don't have itIf somebody has looks and a productive positive nature, they are of course on top of the game. Bar none Well yeah, ofc. But it isn't his positive nature that gets him all the girls, it's the looks. How do you explain very good looking guys with toxic traits being able to get girls? Common denominator is the looks. I don't know if it takes longer. It takes longer to develop traits, of course. I don't know if the process of attracting the girls will take significantly longer, it will just require … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/12/22 06:35 AM |
| 6 | Personality matters. If you think it does not you don't have itLook, "Chad" always wins - he gets to break the rules and not go to jail so to speak. Average Joe guys have a chance by displaying their personality - true. It's by being highly sociable, cool to be around and/or have status. However, this is not in the same realm as "Chad", because attraction, sex and relationships happen with small effort for these guys. For average Joe this process takes much longer and is much harder, it's more of an journey (personality takes time to develop) than a race (l… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/12/22 07:06 PM |
| 2 | it was safer and easier for men to approach back thenThe same thing you are describing has happened to me numerous times. Girl is happy to be with me. Flirts and laughs. We get on together. She says the right things. Does the right things. We get comfortable. She starts to put demands on you. Becomes controlling. Wants things her way or the highway. You do everything you can to please her. She loses interest. Starts disrespecting you. Belittling you. You're not good enough. Flirts with other guys in front of you. Starts messaging other guys. Leave… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/11/22 08:01 PM |
| 3 | it was safer and easier for men to approach back thenJaded as fuck. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/11/22 07:15 PM |
| 1 | it was safer and easier for men to approach back thenIt is absolutely disgusting that you are getting those kind of DMs and experiences from men. However, it's your problem and fault that you can't weed out the good from the bad not matter how difficult it is. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/11/22 07:14 PM |
| 4 | The average man have no represantation in romance movie that target womenBro, Nina Dobrev is hot af. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/11/22 06:57 AM |
| 1 | Online dating for women is just f*cking ridiculousYep. You’re likely doing something wrong, what that is exactly could be any number of things, I think a man putting genuine effort in with realistic expectation can be quite successful. I helped a guy here with his profile, he was swiping above his league in my humble opinion but he was still getting matches. This zero matches thing is either tinder or no real effort, I’ve witnessed both sides of it. Unless a man is truly unattractive, online dating will work with effort. I think I'm being fairl… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/11/22 06:24 AM |
| 0 | Online dating for women is just f*cking ridiculousCouple of days ago you referred your SO as a chad and now he's average? Being a average man with a job and not trying to bed a woman immediately is considered unicorn? I should be drowning in matches, dates and pussy then. Either you don't know what you're talking about (i.e. you don't have a clue about the average mans experience on OLD, which you don't) or girls actually rate good looking men as average on OLD and average men as ugly. Which means I actually fall into the ugly bracket. Or its a… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/11/22 07:38 PM |
| 5 | Online dating for women is just f*cking ridiculousRelationships, not marriages. You are more likely to divorce if you married off OLD as well. I don't know, I'd imagine it's a number of reasons why. To fuck, finding someone long-term, finding someone short-term, validation, insecurities. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/11/22 01:54 PM |
| 5 | Online dating for women is just f*cking ridiculousSome of them are. Many of them look better than their female counterpart. Also, it's a small subgroup of people who meet online and get married. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/11/22 01:43 PM |
| 11 | Online dating for women is just f*cking ridiculousThe average guy you are talking about in the end is not getting "snapped up quickly on apps", lol. They don't even get a chance. And if they do, it's slim. Girls don't judge personality when they swipe on you on apps. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/11/22 01:15 PM |
| 4 | Modern men's standards are just as unrealistic as women'sSome mens standards are above what they can get and the best advice for them would be to lower their standards. However, most men date down and generally have no problems about it compared to women. Women's standard is a different universe, let's be honest. They want taller men, higher income men, facial asthetics, high drive, house, a plan for marriage, needs to cook, needs to clean, needs to go to the gym and so on. I would need x amount of additional hands in order to count how many average w… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/11/22 04:05 PM |
| 1 | Is it fair to be in a relationship with somebody you don't want sexually or are attracted to?It's highly unrealistic that women have the standards they have for men considering that half of the women aren't that much better themselves. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/11/22 08:54 AM |
| 2 | Childless single women are more likely to accept the idea to date a single father than it is for a single childless man to date a single motherWhere are the studies and numbers supporting this? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/11/22 05:14 PM |
| 0 | Men here are completely oblivious to how attractive power/money makes you even in the case of a not so good looking manRegular Joe with millions+status is more leveled with Chad in the Van than Joe the Janitor in terms of sexual access. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/11/22 08:01 AM |
| 0 | Men here are completely oblivious to how attractive power/money makes you even in the case of a not so good looking manThe post is not about Bill Gates-esque type vs Chad living in a van. This is about Bill Gates type vs poor man's Bill Gates/regular joe. The regular looking dude with millions in his bank or high status always beats the regular looking dude, with a regular job and living conditions in terms of access to women. Always. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/11/22 07:48 AM |
| 6 | Men who complain that modern women have no accountability: what exactly is preventing you from calling women out on made up allegations/misbehavior?Because calling out bullshit openly is detrimental to your social life and career. Women especially don't respond well to criticism and being called out on things. I know from experience that this is a mood and social circle killer. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/10/22 06:09 AM |
| – | Daily Community Chat MegathreadThink many guys don't value this argument, this is very much a real thing and struggle for most single women and childless women. I know several female relatives who have been asked/pushed about babies. I'm happy most of them stuck to their guns and got children in their own pace. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/10/22 10:36 AM |
| – | Daily Community Chat MegathreadBullshit. There are clear advantages being more attractive when it comes to dating, career and in society. You absolutely have the right to be resentful for not getting opportunities others get with little to no effort. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/10/22 10:31 AM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadHow do you deal with these urges? Whats ur strategy when it happens? These urges are really hard to stop from what I've heard. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/10/22 05:58 PM |
| 1 | What, if any, men’s issues does society take a stance against?I need to add to this. Fathers do not ask for custody as much as mothers do. You have to take that into account when talking about custody. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/10/22 02:24 PM |
| 1 | Do women think they're with their partner mostly for his personality because they actually UNDERRATE their own partners attractiveness?Yeah, I'm gassing up a average woman who has a average man. Just because it happens to work for you doesn't mean it works for everyone. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/10/22 04:41 AM |
| -1 | Do women think they're with their partner mostly for his personality because they actually UNDERRATE their own partners attractiveness?https://www.google.com/amp/s/www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/the-philosophers-diaries/202105/is-getting-married-bad-deal-women%3famp Also The Austin Institute has a study called Relationships in America, really good read. Don't have the pdf anymore. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/10/22 06:44 PM |
| 0 | Do women think they're with their partner mostly for his personality because they actually UNDERRATE their own partners attractiveness?https://www.wf-lawyers.com/divorce-statistics-and-facts/ | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/10/22 06:25 PM |
| -2 | Do women think they're with their partner mostly for his personality because they actually UNDERRATE their own partners attractiveness?Stop being salty. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/10/22 06:19 PM |
| -5 | Do women think they're with their partner mostly for his personality because they actually UNDERRATE their own partners attractiveness?It's not vague if it's supported by studies. I'm simply responding to the fact that women do pain over Chad. Women can absolutely be happy with average men, but then again majority of marriages end and 80% of divorces are initiated by women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/10/22 06:06 PM |
| -5 | Do women think they're with their partner mostly for his personality because they actually UNDERRATE their own partners attractiveness?No. What you all forget is the number of women settling in their relationships. 30%f those women settle with their partner. 70%-90% of divorces are initiated by women. Clearly, women are not satisfied with sho they picked. There is no woman saying that she settled with Chad. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/10/22 05:43 PM |
| -6 | Do women think they're with their partner mostly for his personality because they actually UNDERRATE their own partners attractiveness?Data that points out which facial characteristics women are generally attracted to in a man. Almost all characteristics where what you would consider a Chad to be. Women do want Chad. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/10/22 05:29 PM |
| -4 | Do women think they're with their partner mostly for his personality because they actually UNDERRATE their own partners attractiveness?Sucks that data does not back up what you are saying. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/10/22 03:56 PM |
| 1 | Why should immuteable traits in a man be given a free pass just because they're immutable?If you purely go on height and ignore red flags you end up in a relationship with a unvetted partner. This unvetted partner might end up being a douchebag. It's not to say that 6' guys are more likely to be douchebags, it's to say if you don't vet outside of height you are in for a surprise. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/10/22 04:31 AM |
| 1 | Why should immuteable traits in a man be given a free pass just because they're immutable?Also true. Monkey brain is stronk. But we also live in a time where height does not matter from a safety and security perspective as much as it did before. You would think that vast majority of women would understand this. That's why I think it's very much ego driven. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/10/22 04:28 AM |
| 5 | Why should immuteable traits in a man be given a free pass just because they're immutable?You're telling me the scenario is that I'm seeing a 7/10 and 8/10 and have good chemistry with both? Easy, I'd date both. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/10/22 04:10 PM |
| 8 | Why should immuteable traits in a man be given a free pass just because they're immutable?Better chemistry. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/10/22 03:58 PM |
| 8 | Why should immuteable traits in a man be given a free pass just because they're immutable?Asking the wrong dude. I've had this scenario and chose the less hotter girl. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/10/22 03:46 PM |
| 25 | Why should immuteable traits in a man be given a free pass just because they're immutable?That actually makes it worse. Here we have a 5'10" dude, but I'm going to choose this 6' guy because he's taller. Sounds more like a competitive game, which once again debunks the notion that women choose based on personality in the initial phases. 5'2" woman picking a 6' dude over a 5'10" dude due to a dumb height preference is purely ego driven. She now gains the right to brag about how she bagged a 6' guy. No wonder women end up with douchebags. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/10/22 03:04 PM |
| 0 | How can women both be too picky, have too high of numbers, yet you are also not willing to wait?Yet there are droves of women above age 30 who still believe in this. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/10/22 10:44 AM |
| 7 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadAlways the extremes with you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/10/22 08:58 PM |
| 1 | Shouldn't we be telling certain men to give up on relationships and dating?Yes and no. More men should be encouraged to take longer breaks from dating in order to self improve and find som other priority other than women and dating. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/10/22 08:56 PM |
| 1 | Why are you still single?Girls are generally not interested in me, and never have been. Attracting a girl has always been difficult for me. This has made me somewhat indifferent towards girls Which has lead me to maximize on career, body, hobbies and social life = no time for dating now that I think of it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/10/22 08:45 PM |
| 10 | Q4W: What would you change to improve things for men?Damn, this was a good read tbh. Some points are not feasible but the big majority of points are spot on. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/10/22 03:08 PM |
| 1 | What do you believe are the underlying reasons behind the issues men face when dating? How can they be addressed by society as a whole?Congratulations writing a novel and not contributing with anything original to the discussion. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/10/22 08:33 PM |
| 3 | What do you believe are the underlying reasons behind the issues men face when dating? How can they be addressed by society as a whole?Always this not-entitled-to-anything argument. It's so lazy and offers nothing towards the discussion. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/10/22 08:29 PM |
| 1 | What do you believe are the underlying reasons behind the issues men face when dating? How can they be addressed by society as a whole?Lazy arguments all around. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/10/22 08:27 PM |
| 6 | What do you believe are the underlying reasons behind the issues men face when dating? How can they be addressed by society as a whole?Anecdotally saying "with me and other people" does not prove your point. There are plenty of women and men who put up with bad behaviour just because they landed a 10 (call it Halo effect, simping or whatever). This is a tale old as time and it still holds up. Your singular experiences do not represent women as a whole. It's very admirable that you have your boundaries, but for many people a 10 in looks means everything and beyond. This counts for both women and men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/10/22 08:17 PM |
| 1 | Psychopathic men have an extreme focus on mating at the expense of other domains and tend to be “parasitic” fathersThere is very little to no evidence to support that psychopaths hear voices in their head. They basically have to be coupled together with schizophrenia or a psychosis in order for that to be true. Psychopathy is often linked to anti-social behaviour, that is the biggest indicator someone might have psychopathy. One other thing people get wrong is that they think psychopathy is a mental disorder, it's not. Psychopathy is a personality disorder. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/09/22 07:08 AM |
| 6 | Psychopathic men have an extreme focus on mating at the expense of other domains and tend to be “parasitic” fathersNo, Buzzfeed only. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/09/22 10:27 PM |
| 20 | Psychopathic men have an extreme focus on mating at the expense of other domains and tend to be “parasitic” fathersTrue true. Need to work on my manipulation game. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/09/22 09:58 PM |
| 3 | Technology radically changed gender dynamics and it will only get worseEuthanasia, decline of marriage and decreased sexual exclusivity are also signs of chaos is societies. This should not be celebrated or promoted. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/09/22 09:55 PM |
| 1 | Increased Social Engagement Leads to Happiness and Relationship SuccessThanks for the long answer. As I thought, nerve-wracking indeed but in the end you create great stories and experiences. The examples you gave were honestly wholesome as fuck. High risk, high reward kind of thing. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/09/22 09:38 PM |
| 57 | Psychopathic men have an extreme focus on mating at the expense of other domains and tend to be “parasitic” fathersThis shouldn't come as a surprise for anyone. Women decide who has sex and who gets them pregnant. Psychopaths are extremely charming and manipulative at the same time, thus have a easier time getting sex from women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/09/22 09:27 PM |
| 1 | Increased Social Engagement Leads to Happiness and Relationship SuccessHow did traveling trips with strangers end up being? I always thought of it as incredibly nerve wracking to be honest. Did it work out for your in the end? Is it something you continue doing? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/09/22 09:07 PM |
| 4 | “Women make their own money now”Out of curiosity, how many men do women considering being man-children? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/09/22 01:47 PM |
| 1 | Nick Cannon having 9 kids with two more unborn is proof women would rather share a rich man of status than settle with "average"Some of these women are successful. One is a Miss State, one has her own podcast, one is a journalist. They all attractive women as well. One wonders how these women think tbh. It is definitely because he's famous, has money and is attractive. But why not have a healthier upbringing for your children instead of this chaos? Tingles man, woman tingles are undefeated. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/09/22 01:31 PM |
| 1 | Nick Cannon having 9 kids with two more unborn is proof women would rather share a rich man of status than settle with "average"These women along with Nick are trash. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/09/22 01:28 PM |
| 1 | Nick Cannon having 9 kids with two more unborn is proof women would rather share a rich man of status than settle with "average"I'm pretty sure I've read that Nick Cannon plans to continue making more children with different women. So far he's on course with his plans, and we are going to see more women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/09/22 01:08 PM |
| 7 | How common is this? "I have an amazing career, make almost 6 figures, have lots of friends and family, fit and physically active, many hobbies and talented, but I can't get a single date"Never lead with your money. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/09/22 12:43 PM |
| 4 | Increased Social Engagement Leads to Happiness and Relationship SuccessThe anxiety you are talking about could be self inducing since people with social anxiety tend to focus inwards, ie; how do I look/sound when I say this, how are others percieving me, did i say something stupid and so on. The tip is to focus on other people while interacting. Listen and respond to what they are saying. That way, you don't focus inwards, rather it's outwards which can make you relaxed. Social anxiety is so much about inward projections. Nature does value positive feelings as much… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/09/22 12:40 PM |
| 2 | "Men aren't entitled to getting laid!" is a lazy, intellectually dishonest red herring intended to derail discussion. The root of the difficulties young men face in dating is finding fulfilling romantic companionship, not getting laid.I'm not following now, what does 'men getting approached by women' have to do with this? What complaining are you referring to? Men complaining about women not approaching them? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/09/22 02:51 PM |
| 2 | "Men aren't entitled to getting laid!" is a lazy, intellectually dishonest red herring intended to derail discussion. The root of the difficulties young men face in dating is finding fulfilling romantic companionship, not getting laid.Yes, i would say it would be a step in the right direction. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/09/22 02:11 PM |
| 2 | "Men aren't entitled to getting laid!" is a lazy, intellectually dishonest red herring intended to derail discussion. The root of the difficulties young men face in dating is finding fulfilling romantic companionship, not getting laid.Wow, women having that much respect for men on a mass-scale? Sign me the fuck up, that's a great start. True. The dating part is not only about respect, there are many other levels to it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/09/22 01:59 PM |
| 2 | "Men aren't entitled to getting laid!" is a lazy, intellectually dishonest red herring intended to derail discussion. The root of the difficulties young men face in dating is finding fulfilling romantic companionship, not getting laid.Yes on both questions. However, ultimately I want a relationship. I'm not okay with being single for rest of my life. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/09/22 01:38 PM |
| 0 | "Men aren't entitled to getting laid!" is a lazy, intellectually dishonest red herring intended to derail discussion. The root of the difficulties young men face in dating is finding fulfilling romantic companionship, not getting laid.Disagree, I've had plenty women dismiss me for setting boundaries with them and tell me to be a man and to get over things. 'Dont be so sensitive' and all that. I mean, women can do whatever they want. It's not for me to decide if they want to date me or not, no matter how much that's hurts me. If your question was whether i mind female friends, then no I don't mind it at all. For a relationship tho, my goal is to be in a relationship where me and my partner have a real connection, i don't think… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/09/22 01:17 PM |
| 1 | "Men aren't entitled to getting laid!" is a lazy, intellectually dishonest red herring intended to derail discussion. The root of the difficulties young men face in dating is finding fulfilling romantic companionship, not getting laid.Absolutely true that men have to do the work in order to establish the support network, just as women did. I'm just afraid or unsure about the motivation men have to make this happen. I'm not pushing it down anyones throat. I'm just saying women's participation is necessary the same way mens participation in women's issues is necessary. This post resonated with me because it's not about getting laid, it's more about the connection you have with the opposite sex (at least for me). However, women … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/09/22 12:20 PM |
| 1 | "Men aren't entitled to getting laid!" is a lazy, intellectually dishonest red herring intended to derail discussion. The root of the difficulties young men face in dating is finding fulfilling romantic companionship, not getting laid.Women have gotten world-scale help for their problems tho. Men don't have the same support system in society. It's more up to men to fix this, but women are also involved in the problem. Women could learn alot more about men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/09/22 11:49 AM |
| 1 | “Why are men in Crisis?” discussed on Bill MaherWhats the thing about making 400k+ annually? You know 1,8% of ppl in America make that right? That's super rare unless you live in a super wealthy area. Compare everything you said with me, who grew up in a single mother household. Struggled when I was young, had almost severe developmental issues in school up until HS, couldn't properly socialize with peers, had a difficult time making friends along with anxiety issues. There are clear benefits having two involved parents. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/09/22 12:13 AM |
| 2 | “Why are men in Crisis?” discussed on Bill MaherHow have you fared in school? Jobs? Are you able to make friends? Do you have any mental issues? Are you a rouble maker? Development issues? Height you cant do anything about, so you shouldn't worry about it. Weight you can do something about in order too look better. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/09/22 11:56 PM |
| 2 | “Why are men in Crisis?” discussed on Bill MaherHow have you been negatively affected by this? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/09/22 10:44 PM |
| 1 | “Why are men in Crisis?” discussed on Bill MaherIt's overall better for the child to have an involved dad who is 5'4", dark and introverted compared to being in a single mother household with an absent Chad father. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/09/22 10:38 PM |
| 1 | Why do women seem to be less bothered by being single than men?Yeah, and you get that point across in the comment. There should be no need for me to search through your posting history. I would argue that i could have asked you to expand your thoughts even more. You say you agree but in the previous comment you say that it should be accepted regardless of relationship status. Which one is it? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/09/22 10:32 PM |
| 2 | “Why are men in Crisis?” discussed on Bill MaherThere probably is a small correlation, everything is harder with a lower SES. However, studies still show that children who spend time with two parents instead of one tend to do better in life. Single mothers who earn 100k-200k tend to live in big cities. Big cities have higher cost of living, adding a child into the equation puts additional economic stressors on the parent. For instance, it is better for the child, mother and father if they had shared custody (50/50) of the child instead of one… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/09/22 10:08 PM |
| 3 | “Why are men in Crisis?” discussed on Bill MaherThere is a causation where children who have two parents available tend to perform better in school, life, relationships and work, compare to children in one-parent households. Since its more common for the dad to leave or abandon the family, there would seem to be a benefit in having a present dad in your life. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/09/22 09:33 PM |
| – | “Why are men in Crisis?” discussed on Bill MaherObviously because they needed to. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/09/22 08:27 PM |
| 2 | Why do women seem to be less bothered by being single than men?I'm sorry about you situation, it must be very hard on you. However (and i really don't want to come across as a d-bag), but your posting history does next to nothing for me when replying to your comment. I don't tend to lurk other profiles and their history when responding to someone. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/09/22 04:53 PM |
| 0 | Why do women seem to be less bothered by being single than men?As a person who is addicted to porn (and working on it), I can see the negatives. Especially if I'm in a committed relationship with a woman or it is my goal to be in one. I do understand that you can occasionally let it loose once in a while or if youre in a bad spell, but routinely regardless of relationship status? No chance in hell. There is a need there not being met. I think sex together should come before porn, toys or dolls in a relationship. Using toys together? Super fine. Using it rou… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/09/22 04:48 PM |
| – | “Why are men in Crisis?” discussed on Bill MaherIt's true that we men need to take more care of ourselves. Do I feel embarrassed as a man that we "men are in crisis" - no. Its to be expected in a society that is currently catering to women. Men are falling behind in college, jobs, dating, relationships and friendships. It's true that men need to be more proactive regarding college and jobs, there are degrees out there worth pursuing and there are high paying/rewarding jobs. To claim that the fault lies only with men when it comes to dating an… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/09/22 03:44 PM |
| – | Why do women seem to be less bothered by being single than men?Stop choosing these men? Why are you still looking for the men who can't take care of themselves? Look, i know maaany guys that take care of themselves. I'm talking about gym, knows how to cook, cleans, showers (i don't know why this is a thing - y'all must be dating some really low value men) , funny, social, respectful, but maybe missing out on skin care and dressing perfectly. These guys are still single, they're not the hottest, but not the worst looking guys either. When they approach girls… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/09/22 12:18 PM |
| 3 | Why do women seem to be less bothered by being single than men?Average women don't like average men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/09/22 11:58 AM |
| 1 | Why do women seem to be less bothered by being single than men?Nah, women easily get sex, yes. They dont easily get the relationship they truly want tho. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/09/22 11:57 AM |
| 1 | Why do women seem to be less bothered by being single than men?The amount of sex toy replacement is astounding in this sub. It's the equivalent of men replacing sex or women with dolls/feshlight/porn. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/09/22 11:55 AM |
| 1 | what do men get wrong about women have so many optionn and can sleep with a lot of different men?It's because those men are the most attractive from the vast majority of women's pov. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/09/22 07:45 PM |
| 8 | Maybe if you just communicated instead of faking?They expect you too just "get it", you shouldn't communicate about it. | /r/PussyPassDenied | 22/08/22 06:55 PM |
| 1 | The Rise of The Single Lonely MaleStop the cap. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/08/22 10:27 PM |
| 1 | The Rise of The Single Lonely MaleWomen, the reason why Earth's birthrate is dropping. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/08/22 10:25 PM |
| 1 | I think the vast majority of women cannot engage in casual sex without it harming themselves or exacerbating pre existing problems." I read a study recently about how people are hardwired to turn to sources of short-term reward when the effort they are putting into other areas of life is not being rewarded enough. It's a bit of learning theory/operant conditioning where humans need positive reinforcement to stay happy and functional." Do you by any chance have this study? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/08/22 10:45 AM |
| 3 | Women claim all guys, even below average men, struggle because they all want "hot supermodel stacies" and yet they defend women who have delusional, unrealistic standardsYou're talking about a very small population of women. Most women i know who are single complain about men very much. This is not only exclusive to men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/08/22 07:28 PM |
| 3 | Do you respect someone who has consistently dated out of their supposed league less or more?Let's be honest here. Women love to talk about this, weekly I hear about this from the women around me "how can she be with HIM?", "she is so ugly, how can he be with her?" and my favourite "he must be supplying her with good dick, because it's not the looks". I does happen quite often. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/04/22 08:27 AM |
| 3 | Men who believe in RP ideologies and/or believe that men have disadvantages in the dating world, what is your relationship with your mother?Hey KingWhoCared, You dropped this 👑 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/04/22 08:17 AM |
| 6 | In the majority of instances of “Ghosting” the person who gets ghosted did nothing wrong the other party just got a better prospect/offer.That's messed up. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/04/22 05:41 PM |
| 2 | Why do women want/need commitment?Aight, fair enough. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/04/22 10:15 AM |
| 2 | Be honest, would you date the equivalent to yourself?Oh okay, thanks for clarifying. And no, I don't mind bald women. Would love to date one. Shaved head as well. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/04/22 10:15 AM |
| 1 | Be honest, would you date the equivalent to yourself?What's the difference? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/04/22 08:47 AM |
| 1 | Be honest, would you date the equivalent to yourself?Bald women are hot, wdym. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/04/22 08:39 AM |
| -1 | Why do women want/need commitment?Would you date/be in a relationship with a man earning less money than you annually? You wouldn't mind paying majority of the bills and utilities each month for both of you? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/04/22 08:35 AM |
| 6 | Woman actually do like assholesThere is an interesting dynamic taking place here so don't shrug shoulders yet. Before you became the "asshole" (i personally dont think you have - just more assertive) you were probably a normal dude looking for a relationship (correct me if I'm wrong). You were the one putting more effort and we all know how many girls lose their tingles when that happens. Fast forward, you do a 180 and change demeanor and style. Women now see you as a challenge and mysterious. They can't get their way with yo… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/04/22 08:22 AM |
| 15 | Most men present themselves poorly in public.Perfect answer. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/04/22 03:29 PM |
| 10 | How to lower standards?I lowered my standards in the previous relationship I had. Lookswise she wasn't it, but we had good chemistry (main reason I stayed) and the relationship lasted for 3,5 years. The last two years were rocky and the feeling of "this aint it" started popping up, but I stuck around and tried super hard to make things work because 'this was my looks match' and we had good chemistry. However, my feelings started to catch up on me and I started to feel guilty, weak and got severe anxiety. It got to the… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/04/22 02:45 PM |
| 1 | Older women, well into their late 20s, 30s and even 40s are often as picky as hot 21 year olds, expecting you to put in the same amount of work for them. This proves that dating is heavily tilted in women’s favor.This should be a common fact for any man trying to date in the current climate. Like honestly, if you don't know this you're fucked. Don't even date if you don't know this, you're just going to be frustrated. The main reason why this is the case is because men are desperate and are throwing themselves at women en masse at the moment. We can be bitter about the advantages women have, but ultimately it's men's fault that dating looks like it does. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/04/22 08:32 PM |
| 2 | Why is promiscuity encouraged?Wrong place to promote children my dude. This is reddit, the childfree-platform. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/03/22 10:35 PM |
| 1 | Are monogamous relationships becoming obsolete?Baby mommas and side chicks, several. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/12/21 02:44 PM |
| 3 | Are monogamous relationships becoming obsolete?Breeders instead of calling us people. Dude, just face it, you mad. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/12/21 12:55 PM |
| 6 | Are monogamous relationships becoming obsolete?Thing is it's your truth. You barely have anything positive to say about children while applauding your childfree relationship. You probably shouldn't have had children at all, which is another truth. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/12/21 12:44 PM |
| 1 | Are monogamous relationships becoming obsolete?This comment reeks of bitterness. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/12/21 12:05 PM |
| 3 | Are monogamous relationships becoming obsolete?"Not really missing out on anything." Wow, imagine hearing this as a child. Mother of the year. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/12/21 12:01 PM |
| 15 | CMV: OnlyFans creators are taking a massive gamble on their futuresDoesn't work like this anymore. We like to think it does to make ourselves feel better, but it's simply not true. At least I used to reason like this. Women get to eat their cake and then some more irregardless of their past. You slept around in your twenties? There is always a high n-count man or beta willing to wife it up. I've seen this so many times. The women who are eternally single are those who choose to be (small group) or those who are either super jaded or negative (larger group). Peo… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/12/21 12:07 PM |
| 1 | Female infidelity is worse than male infidelity.About point 3. By definition, a man, cannot be considered a cuck if his wife/gf cheated on him. Being a cuck implies that the man voluntarily agreed to get cucked. Cheating implies that he involuntarily got screwed over by his partner. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/12/21 11:54 AM |
| 1 | The biggest turn on for adult women is a guy that has plenty of things going in in his life.You can't, you need to have hobbies you don't like in 2021. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/12/21 10:55 AM |
| 2 | Wealth and sexlessness correlate extremely well. The former reliably creates the latter on average.And you don't think deaths weren't unreported back in the days? Due to technology we are able to report more now and better. Censorship does exist, but it's way harder to have censorship now than before. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/10/21 05:16 PM |
| 4 | Wealth and sexlessness correlate extremely well. The former reliably creates the latter on average.Number of deaths in wars and total wars per year would disagree with you. Before, conflicts and killings would get started by just setting one foot into ones territory While prevalent today, it is much smaller and not comparable to how it was 100, 1000, 2000 and 10000 years ago. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/10/21 04:59 PM |
| 2 | Q4W Your boyfriend used to willingly go down on his, but doesn't do it anymore on you. What do you do?Wtf, you guys live in fairytale land. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/10/21 10:44 PM |
| 20 | women on ppd: "wOmeN DO nOT fIND 80% of MeN t0 bE uNaTTraCtiVE tHAT'S jUST a myTH PeRPETUAtED By meN ON reddiT": also women on reddit:My therapist said the same after citing a study. Fucking sad when you think about it, especially for married men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/10/21 07:47 PM |
| 1 | The Queen of FDSKeep up the sigma grindset bruv | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/10/21 09:39 PM |
| – | I think it’s true- the more successful you are as a woman, the more you expect for men. It’s easier to just stay singleWhy not lower your standards in order to increase the chance of finding someone who would actually like you? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/07/21 09:31 PM |
| 4 | Q4All: How are we supposed to take dates seriously if they're sleeping around?Do not do OLD. Go out there and banter, have fun and make friends. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/07/21 12:24 PM |
| 1 | Is It Now More Difficult For Not So Attractive Men To Get Partners?I think we are talking about the same thing. If a woman refuses to settle and always dates up she is not going to have children because of her chase to find "the one", thus not spreading her genes. As you put it. Nothing is more low value than having all the options to win but still ending up as a loser. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/07/21 12:17 PM |
| 4 | Is It Now More Difficult For Not So Attractive Men To Get Partners?Let's say you never settle but keep on dating up, how is that not being bred out of the gene pool? I see alot of women not settling, and many of them are not going to spread their genes. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/07/21 11:43 AM |
| – | Is this couple looksmatched ? And if you don't believe so, explain why and what is needed for improvements?Not true. He looks better than me and I get rated as a 7. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/07/21 07:01 AM |
| 2 | Is this couple looksmatched ? And if you don't believe so, explain why and what is needed for improvements?Dude is not a 6, he is higher. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/07/21 08:54 PM |
| 9 | “He’s not emotionally available”. But is she?Deep deep down, do you really want an stable LTR? Does the familiarity of sabotaging feel more secure for you than actually going through the work necassary to have a stable LTR? I'm sorry if this cuts too deep, but I'm really curious. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/07/21 11:08 AM |
| 4 | Women have insanely narrow standards when it comes to PHYSICAL ATTRACTIONI'm 6 feet 4 inches, my cousin is under 6 feet. I earn more than my cousin. My cousin gets majority of the attention from women when we are out since he looks like a male model and I don't. It's more about looks than anything else. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/07/21 12:37 PM |
| 4 | Which gender is really more competitive/ambitious?Traditional success markers are for suckers and so are the standards of women who can't even meet them themselves most of the time given most of the white collar women I've dated live with multiple roommates and don't drive but still expect you to do better than them. This is the way. This is from someone who got burned out for putting all my effort into work. Working overtime, skipping lunch, pleasing the owners and so on. You come home exhausted and don't have the energy for gym or dating. It … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/07/21 08:20 AM |
| 2 | Even if they realised it wouldn't matter!The so called businessmen and their businesses capitalized on this by purplewashing and thus appealing to gender equality. Absolutely brilliant if you ask me. The real damage is done on society and families while the companies are just chillin. | /r/MGTOW | 09/07/21 03:08 PM |
| 2 | Men's problem with the current dating sceneShe wouldn't afford the lifestyle you pay for her you mean? I understand you paying for your other properties, but shouldn't she pay at least half for the one you live in together since she views you both as equal and shit? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/07/21 02:23 PM |
| 1 | Men's problem with the current dating sceneI hope you're not paying most of the bills. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/07/21 01:55 PM |
| 1 | It’s expected that men act in their own best interests in mind, but when it comes to their own mothers/daughters/sisters, the tables turn. What would a “red pill” man teach his daughter(s) or sister(s) about sex, dating, & marriage?It is inconsistent, I agree. What red pill is saying is that men don't care about job or education while at the same time telling men to be careful about divorce rape. Women with a good education and job won't be able to 'divorce rape' you in court since the salaries are matched. Imo, a man should be looking at a woman's education and job if he considers her marriage material. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/07/21 04:10 PM |
| 6 | Height and social awkwardness are the two biggest impediments to a man’s dating life.Young girls/women prefer older men who are accomplished, there are studies of this. This is not some sort of anomaly. You probably date more now than you did in your younger days. In my meeting with my therapist this week he told me of a study where as people age they get more comfortable with themselves and let go of expectations. Generally it's easier to hang out and associate with people who are more relaxed. It seems like you hit this bracket at a younger age, and kudos to you for that becau… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/07/21 10:29 AM |
| 5 | The central part of taking the red pill is fully accepting the overwhelming advantage women have in sexual, dating, and relationship landscape.Oh, come on. They have the buffet from age 16 to 35 (longer if they stay fit and fun) and they get to complain when they can't find the partner they think they deserve. Frankly, it's pathetic every time a woman hits me with "Oh, it's so hard to find a good man" while having gone through 20-70 of them. It's the same way this sub berates men who complain about women. We 100% have to hold women accountable for their actions. A woman that enjoys her single life and does not complain or bitch, you ha… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/06/21 06:01 PM |
| -1 | Women having a dating rotation is working against women dating with marrige or long term relationships in mind.Men cheat because it's naturally ingrained in us to mate with several women and make them pregnant. Or more specific, those who cant control these urges end up cheating. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/06/21 12:00 PM |
| 1 | What do women gain from being married in this day and age?That's your idea of what marriage means, it does not necessarily have that meaning for everyone. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/06/21 07:10 AM |
| 2 | Change my CMV: I think RedPill is correct about women's sexualityBaffles me how some random Redditors just think they have all the answers even though there are scientific evidence proving the opposite. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/06/21 11:31 AM |
| 5 | People are underestimating the popularity of the childfree movement in Gen Z.The fuck? Have people gone mad? You are no better than the crowd criticizing child free people for not having children. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/06/21 06:04 AM |
| 4 | New Data from the Telegraph indicate that levels of sexlessness among young men are still steadily increasing, just 34% of male University students report being sexually active while studying at University and 43% report never having had sex.Women as in more than one. Yeah, true, they probably weren't that into me but the point still stands. If they are able to do it, they will. They don't care, they'll do whatever they please at the end of the day. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/06/21 06:39 AM |
| – | New Data from the Telegraph indicate that levels of sexlessness among young men are still steadily increasing, just 34% of male University students report being sexually active while studying at University and 43% report never having had sex.I've previously had women (who I dated) tell me I should date other women as well and not only her. It's false that it's a "few women". | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/06/21 08:13 PM |
| 3 | Are men not self sufficient or are women purposefully humbling those that are?It's because girls in general don't want to be associated with homes that look like bachelor pads while being together with a guy. Why some girls mock guys for this I will never understand. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/06/21 01:11 PM |
| 0 | Women are only attracted to the top 10-20% of men because the bottom 80-90% don’t put enough effort into their appearance.Most women are also average at best, but we overinflate their value nonetheless. In fact, most women are so average that they don't deserve a guy who takes care of himself. These discussions about height and face compensating is insane, most women don't deserve these features in a man. We men need to realize this honestly. Women have such a insane advantage when it comes to make up, they can basically hide their averageness. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/06/21 08:32 AM |
| 4 | CMV: Men are still expected to honor societal contracts while women are taught full hedonismMaybe so with work, but remember how many men go into the more dangerous and not so glamorous jobs compared to women. I'm talking waste disposal, farming, fire-fighting, trucking, construction and more. I don't see women in large numbers in these fields and we men are often taught that these "hard-working" professions would make us into men making it draw for us. Ironically, these jobs are also what makes society run. No flak towards women who sacrifice themselves working in female dominated job… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/06/21 06:06 PM |
| 12 | Should I end a great LTR over partners sexual past?Dude, its 30 sexual partners at age 24. A average person has around 10 sexual partners in their lifetime. | /r/askTRP | 02/06/21 09:29 PM |
| 1 | How common are relationships where the person isn't even that much attracted to the person they just want to get away from trauma or escape pain?This is a good take-away everyone should adopt. Dated the so called "good-upbringing" girl, turned out she had serious skeletons in her closet, surprised the hell outta me. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/06/21 03:42 PM |
| 5 | Everybody is having less sex, it's just easier for womenIt's not 80/20 for all men, it's 80/20 for single men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/06/21 03:19 PM |
| 3 | Most of the time it is not women’s fault that they stop messaging you on dating appsYep, while OP does speak some truth the girl you are talking to is still able to choose from her top pickings. It maybe worse with OLD, but approaching a girl in public is the same. You are still competing with a lot of men for her time. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/05/21 05:07 PM |
| 3 | Most women want something serious once they are above 30 while men want nothing serious when above 30. Why?That's insane, hope you firmly told his girl to chill. You mean he is miserable with her? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/05/21 12:01 PM |
| 9 | Most women want something serious once they are above 30 while men want nothing serious when above 30. Why?What I was trying to say was that I see more and more people content as single for each passing year. Of course the larger population wants someone to spend their life with, but it does not mean they get someone. And I think their coping mechanism becomes "I was not meant to find someone, it's better being single". I think this hurts Swedish women more than the men, since the women here don't realize how hard it is being with them in a relationship. Feminism is big here and your job is super imp… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/05/21 08:50 AM |
| 44 | Most women want something serious once they are above 30 while men want nothing serious when above 30. Why?I see more and more people being content as single. I don't know if it's specific for each country but here in Sweden people would rather live alone than be in a unfulfilling relationship. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/05/21 08:36 PM |
| 0 | Promiscuous men of reddit who have have slept with lots of women (50+). What's your secret?I have a friend with a 20 n-count. He is normal height, 1,7-1,8 m tops. In the army, good body (takes care of himself) and on his way to become a flight technician. Dude is the epitome of fun, everything he does is for himself to have fun. That's his attitude and women get sucked into it, they know what they get with him. Fun time and good sex. However, he does not manage to get a relationship from the hotter girls, so it somewhat taking a toll on him. He wants a relationship. He's still slaying… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/05/21 08:06 PM |
| 2 | After all my years of reading TRP, I have never been able to pass a shit test. I started taking a hormone (HCG) to double my testosterone levels. Now I pass shit tests without noticing it's a shit test. What do I make of this?Yeah, i really don't get the broscience in this thread. When I had low T i still passed shit test without problem. It has to do with your state of mind, not the T you're producing. | /r/askTRP | 30/04/21 05:26 AM |
| 2 | Why can’t men just accept that women are just attracted to whatever it is they are attracted to and there’s nothing we can do to change it?Nah, I think you misunderstood me. Personality can also be unattractive. A good looking guy with a bad attitude can still get laid, a bad looking dude is going to struggle more. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/04/21 12:38 PM |
| 1 | Why can’t men just accept that women are just attracted to whatever it is they are attracted to and there’s nothing we can do to change it?Some aspect of the guy would need to be unattractive for a girl to ditch him. There is nothing wrong with girl finding a guy unattractive, it's normal. However, being honest about it is better than sugar coating it in order to look better. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/04/21 12:11 PM |
| 29 | Why can’t men just accept that women are just attracted to whatever it is they are attracted to and there’s nothing we can do to change it?To every guy reading this: Do not listen to what she says, watch what she does. She can tell you it's not about the looks and that's is about personality and blah blah. But she can't hide it once she spends time with someone she finds unattractive. She will postpone dates, not get physical and generally not invest. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/04/21 08:18 AM |
| 2 | Hitting the wall refers to when man begin to have an advantage over women in the sexual/ relationship marketplaceThis is also true, I think the obesity rate here in Sweden for 30+ is close to 40-45%, which is insane for a country where fitness is a big part of life. As you say, if you let yourself go you are decreasing the chance of someone finding you attractive. This was a major wake up call for me 2-3 years ago. Hard to swallow, but it's reality. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/04/21 05:39 PM |
| 13 | Hitting the wall refers to when man begin to have an advantage over women in the sexual/ relationship marketplaceYep, this is what TRP gets wrong. You don't magically hit the wall the day you hit 30 as a woman. If you stay in shape and take care of your body you will prolong your prime. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/04/21 01:12 PM |
| 1 | If you give her the best D she’s ever had, she will never leave youNot true for all women. One girl in particular that I remember came in truckloads with me and even questioned how i did it because she lost control of her body. Left me 4 weeks later because I was too needy. | /r/askTRP | 05/04/21 04:48 PM |
| 1 | Low-Sociosexuality men consider a woman choosing another guy as a reason to "next" - here's whyYep. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/04/21 02:43 PM |
| 1 | Bad Redpill arguments against promisciousness of womenThe problem with herpes and HPV statistics is that it's on the rise. 5 years ago the number of HPV infections were one in ten, now it's one in six. It's clearly on the rise and so is herpes. While the risk for cancer is minimal, you can still see that more HPV cases = more genital/head cancers. However, we are also fighting it with vaccines, but they don't cover full protection. I think the STD-argument is super valid in this case and frankly disgusting that people have no clue they are walking … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/04/21 11:25 AM |
| 6 | Low-Sociosexuality men consider a woman choosing another guy as a reason to "next" - here's whyJust know that you never can relax with your fitness then. The reason she ultimately chose you was because you fixed your own body (your words not mine). You new look was what got you in the door and she probably stayed because you're a cool dude. But know that once you slack with fitness you are in the risk of being dumped. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/04/21 11:17 AM |
| 2 | Human affection is NOT code for sex. If a man is truly lonely, he can make friends.Spot on dude. Girls in the west where I live assume that guys (average ones as well) go around and get as much sex as they do, which is insanity. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/03/21 12:42 PM |
| 2 | Are women inherently more aware of male nature than men are of women’s?The point you make about being nice to girls and pay for dinners was what I was being told when I grew up. Totally tattooed onto my brain and stuck with my until I was 24-25 (now 29), watching how other guys got all the girls and me sitting there like a donkey wonder what was going on. Now it's bizarre and thank the higher powers I know better. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/03/21 09:07 PM |
| 1 | No social media = increase in attraction?Yep, this is the case more than not. | /r/askTRP | 17/03/21 11:42 AM |
| 3 | Why would a girl tell you her body count ?It's no what she says that's important, it's what she does. | /r/askTRP | 10/03/21 09:23 PM |
| 3 | Why the fuck are women so broken mentally?Well put dude. | /r/askTRP | 05/03/21 11:05 PM |
| 1 | Saw this on AITA, I couldn't believe the comments...The result is a win imo. Lost the ungrateful psycho wife and son, gained money + loyalty from the daughter. | /r/MGTOW | 23/02/21 08:35 PM |
| 7 | Quick reminder why twitter is pure poisonGood post, these stats are interesting as hell. | /r/MGTOW | 20/02/21 10:40 AM |
| 2 | Is it ever beneficial to be friends with a girl you want to fuck?I made the mistake of totally nuking girls i met who weren't as interested or the plate broke. Some were warranted tho, but some were bad judgement from my side. You live and you learn. It wasn't until I met a girl who wasn't interested romantically, but was cool enough to invite me to events and meet her friends. Not only did my social circle expand, but I also had new prospects. Some girls you gotta next, but some you keep if they add value. | /r/askTRP | 17/02/21 09:16 PM |
| 13 | Dating Over 30 Struggling with AF/BB. Line up men to be the "sensible" one she doesn't feel spark forIt's really sad tbh. It's a cycle of bad relationships stemming from your childhood that has been ingrained onto your brain. It becomes like a routine after a while and screws you up long term. Basically you are used to being treated badly most of you life while also getting some love. You don't know better, so your brain makes you believe that abuse = love. It's like a child with abusive parents. Even though they hurt and abuse the child, the child is forced to cling onto the mother or father i… | /r/MGTOW | 16/02/21 11:38 PM |
| 38 | Wife reaching out to my ex GFThat's weird behaviour from the wife. You should fuck her ex to show dominance. | /r/askTRP | 14/02/21 03:57 PM |
| 5 | If there's more to life than sex and intimacy, why am I unsatisfied pursuing it?This is the answer. | /r/askTRP | 14/02/21 03:56 PM |
| 4 | When is the party life over?Daaamn, killed him. | /r/askTRP | 13/02/21 01:13 PM |
| 2 | Do you think the value of a man increases from 30 to 40?Your value increases after 25 when you land that sweet job after college. You value increases as you get promotions, as you get in shape, as you have social circles, as you treat people nicer, as you earn more money. You get the gist. It's not about the age, it's more about what you are doing in life. At 30+ younger girls will see you as more mature, which gives you a upper hand to the younger guys. However, in order to maintain that level you have to work harder (staying in shape for example). | /r/askTRP | 13/02/21 01:35 AM |
| 8 | Turning EX LTR to PlateOnce in a while these posts pop up. You read the post and just realize how much more learning the OP has left and you feel sorry. This rarely works OP, take it from a guy who set his first "red-pill" goal to get his ex back 4 years ago. There is no situation you come out on top. | /r/askTRP | 07/02/21 09:37 PM |
| 2 | Should I fuck this stripper that I knew in high schoolDude, don't live in a illusion created by others, they don't know what they are doing either. Do what you want. Strippers are far in the crazy zone as op said, but they are amazing in bed because of it. I'd say go for it! | /r/askTRP | 24/01/21 01:09 PM |
| 0 | “Sorry my boyfriend came over. Hope you had a good workout”Yes, sure. However, I don't think TRP is here to decide for us what is moral or immoral, that's something for you to decide. | /r/askTRP | 23/01/21 07:05 PM |
| 2 | How do I graduate from HB6 to HB8+ plates?High SMV increase and more maturity. Once you have the SMV for the nines they're usually pretty chill. They know they are attractive and want to have sex. | /r/askTRP | 23/01/21 06:45 PM |
| 0 | “Sorry my boyfriend came over. Hope you had a good workout”Okay, let's not hamster like women do. Sleeping with someones GF is morally wrong, unless they have a open relationship. She is the one to blame the most since she controls access to sex with anyone, but you could still deny her. I guess it comes down to your beliefs in the end, but you can still argue that it's a shitty thing to do. | /r/askTRP | 23/01/21 06:34 PM |
| 3 | LTR mentioned how they are struggling that I am shorter than themRemember when my 6'5" friend started training MMA. One of the trainers was a 5'6" dude, very reserved but also focused. The first couple of training sessions the trainer tossed my friend around like nothing. Folded him like a newspaper. It was bizarre in some way but also awesome. 50% of women don't know shit, they go with what society, friends and family tell them when it comes to looks. Totally agree with you, this is 100% the case. | /r/askTRP | 17/01/21 03:09 PM |
| 1 | She Wants MarriageNo, you shut the fuck up. You have no clue what you're talking about. Writing that you want a kid with this woman so you can have a legacy while you have no clue what goes into raising a child or maintaining a relationship. Do not get this woman pregnant because you two will destroy the child. You should be out there banging away at age 23. Yet you are worried about single moms when you are 40? You are confused my dude. | /r/askTRP | 14/01/21 07:02 AM |
| 1 | She Wants MarriageGet the fuck out. You cheat on her and then you're unsure about her as a future partner? The fucking nerve, take some responsibility. | /r/askTRP | 13/01/21 10:26 PM |
| 2 | She Wants MarriageDo you work with who people have PD on a daily basis? What's your background? You can't call most of the female population BPD just like that, because it's factually impossible. 1-2% of the population has BPD, and it's is way more serious than what OP wrote. I know this since my GF works with people who have personality disorders. This is at BEST maybe BPD tendencies and not full-blown BPD. | /r/askTRP | 13/01/21 10:24 PM |
| 1 | Unless you're a 10/10 male, how do you embrace our current society? Because it makes me hate life and dread the future...This is basically a sign that you should pursue other things than women. It's your body telling you to do something great and to be remembered by. | /r/askTRP | 01/01/21 05:42 PM |
| 2 | Experiences with women after the red pill shiftThat sub is so so confused. Instead of easy explanations like yours, they complicate the matter to the point of it being impossible to fix (in their mind). | /r/askTRP | 28/12/20 11:30 PM |
| 6 | I am getting tired..One beer won't cause a dad bod. | /r/askTRP | 28/12/20 11:20 PM |
| 5 | Other guy asked about his trauma, I need advice tooMy therapist understands my emotions better than I do and calls my bs when I get off topic, its definitely worth it if you have the money. | /r/askTRP | 04/12/20 12:03 PM |
| 2 | Rugged Masculine look or Pretty Boy, which (on average) do women prefer?Does not matter. If you look good, you look good and women are going to make you aware of it. Focus on game instead. | /r/askTRP | 24/11/20 09:21 PM |
| 1 | I don't enjoy sexCould it be that you are more interested in the chase than the sex? | /r/askTRP | 24/11/20 09:16 PM |
| 2 | What is the best approach for telling your girlfriend to put on makeup, shave legs, etc on the days she sees youAight, keep it safe! | /r/askTRP | 24/11/20 09:12 PM |
| 2 | What is the best approach for telling your girlfriend to put on makeup, shave legs, etc on the days she sees youDude, you should be aware of STDs with a girl like that. That's how I got a STD, you should test yourself. | /r/askTRP | 24/11/20 09:06 PM |
| 11 | How the fuck do I deal with my strict ass parents.By moving out. You can do whatever you wish by getting a job and moving out. But once you are in their house, it's their rules. | /r/askTRP | 08/10/20 12:40 PM |
| -1 | Is there any way I can prepare myself in case of a false rape accusation?Do a voice record. | /r/askTRP | 23/09/20 10:34 AM |
| 5 | Why do girls..You only say that because you lack something that you think makes you inferior. Confident women are awesome. | /r/askTRP | 21/09/20 05:26 AM |
| 20 | Anyone dealt with extremely narcissistic women?Not many people get diagnosed with NPD, about 1% of the population are true narcissists. However, people with narcissistic tendencies are many. To say that the average woman has NPD is false, but they might have npd tendencies. | /r/askTRP | 20/09/20 12:54 PM |
| 8 | Why does taking sex off the table work?If she mentions sex in any way it means she is thinking about sex. Its the way women communicate subtly and if you dont pick it up, chances are you are going to fuck up. | /r/askTRP | 15/08/20 07:59 AM |
| 3 | Does the wall bother all women or mostly single 30 plus year old women?I know girls in their mid twenties aware and stressed about the wall. | /r/askTRP | 08/08/20 03:54 PM |
| 2 | Cheated on my LTR, the girl told my LTR.. what do I do?Be honest and tell her what went down. You fucked up, grab yourself by the collar and have some decency as a human being and tell her. | /r/askTRP | 05/08/20 10:15 PM |
| 1 | All the men around me seem to be settling down or going MGTOW, but I can't stop thinking about fucking hoes. Is this a sign of immaturity?It doesn't go away, you have to control it. We are programed to look if we get attracted to somebody. Question is, how much do you miss single life? Does it override the feeling of staying together with your girl? If, yes, then you should think things through. | /r/askTRP | 03/08/20 09:13 PM |
| 1 | My girlfriend wants a break, but not a breakupIts 100% necassary pain. He'll become stronger after this experience. | /r/askTRP | 02/08/20 04:54 PM |
| 3 | Can’t stop my brother from getting married. What Tips can I give him?Stop doing this, seriously. Some people need to learn the hard way. If they dont wanna listen, then there is no point in giving them "advice". People are going to becom suspicious of you aswell and you'll get major shit if you continue. Trust me, shit like this spreads and you dont need more problems. | /r/askTRP | 01/08/20 09:06 AM |
| 7 | Every time this account logs in, over 75% of threads merit bans (shitpost all you want here)Hi guys So my LTR and i have been together for 1,5 months today. I know you should vet for 6 months at least but she cleans, cooks and fucks me on the regular. I also moved in with her and cancelled my lease. She is a 23 year old single mother and I take care of her 4 year old daughter as I only work half time. I lift everyday for at least 2-3 hours, 3,12% body fat and 6' 12" tall. My girlfriend has a couple of red flags but its no problem as I can handle them. I have 2 questions tho: My gf aske… | /r/askTRP | 27/07/20 09:24 AM |
| 4 | SMV is near it's peak. Leave LTR or stay ?20 small body count?! Average person has 7-12 sexual partners in a lifetime. Comedy hour right here. | /r/askTRP | 20/07/20 08:07 PM |
| 1 | I'm 31. I've been spending nearly a year bettering myself after ltr breakup, lifting, going back to school, finally getting a decent job that will allow me to make a man's wage. People at my new job can ruin that.Look up stoicism, seriously. It helps you see things from another perspective while accepting things for what they are. You'll become more comfortable in your body and stupid shit wont bother you. | /r/askTRP | 20/07/20 08:03 PM |
| 2 | Always getting rejectedYou actually trying to put yourself out there at age 17 says something. Just keep going and your game should improve. 3000 kcal sounds alot, but then again your activity level seems to be high. | /r/askTRP | 20/07/20 07:58 PM |
| 32 | What was your harshest experience of "She's not yours,it's just your turn"?Nahhh dude, that didnt exist in my blue pill days. She broke it off with me 1 week after. Glad I fucking learned though, holy shit. | /r/askTRP | 19/07/20 12:35 PM |
| 115 | What was your harshest experience of "She's not yours,it's just your turn"?Girl I was seeing for 2 months in my blue pill days. We hang out at my place, I cooked us a nice meal. She proceeds to ignore me for the rest of the night and is burried in her cellphone. I try to make a move and she pulls the phone away and tells me "What are you doing?" in the most disgusted and suprised tone. She goes out on the balcony, talks to someone and leaves 15 minutes later. Chick just wanted a meal before getting plowed by some other dude. | /r/askTRP | 19/07/20 11:13 AM |
| 1 | Why the fuck are American women so hot? (Compared to the UK)Or better yet, Scandinavia minus Finland. | /r/askTRP | 17/07/20 07:01 PM |
| 1 | Girl says me looking at her is "creepy", but still likes me?Are you waiting 2 days for waitings sakes or are you actually busy? You should be truly busy to act like that imo. If you have nothing to do, setup the date for the weekend asap. | /r/askTRP | 04/07/20 09:46 PM |
| 7 | GF doesn’t feel wantedYou read the gym and lift the sidebar. Nothing else, you got this! | /r/askTRP | 01/07/20 03:30 PM |
| 6 | She keeps pushing for me to tell her I care for herWalk away and dread her. She will either crawl back or ignore you. Win win really. I would have ignored her completely tho. | /r/askTRP | 29/06/20 10:54 AM |
| 7 | Non submissive womenI like turning non submissive girls submissive. These are the girls who will for sure have really good sex with you but are a pain in the long term since you have to be rock solid with your personality and frame. Usually they run alot of shit tests, but once you pass them they will relax. Have a solid frame and enjoy the moment. | /r/askTRP | 27/06/20 07:25 AM |
| 4 | I'm about to cuck a guy (morale thoughts).She does NOT love him. You cant love without respecting the other person and she does not respect him. Fucking feel awful for the guy. I would have gone through if it was a cuck thing, but if its not I would have come clean to the dude. | /r/askTRP | 18/06/20 08:58 PM |
| 10 | imagine asking for permission to spend your money (r/pcmasterrace)This is more the mans fault than the womans. Get a grip dude. | /r/MGTOW | 15/06/20 09:58 PM |
| 2 | How to last longer?Prefferably without the porn. The goal is to ejaculate. But this should be last resort. Then just cum, give her a compliment and tell her you'll be ready in 5 minutes again. This has never failed for me. Even the best of us bust early with 1-2 hour foreplay. Good luck dude! | /r/askTRP | 14/06/20 12:46 PM |
| 4 | How to last longer?1) Masturbate before sexytime. Could lead to not cumming at all during the sex, but atleast the girl will. Win-lose situation if you ask me. 2) Stop and go. My favourite. When you get the feeling that you are cumming, stop for a while and then pick it up. Perfect time to play with her clit or asshole during the downtime. If she asks, then tell her she felt too good so you had to stop, they always like it. | /r/askTRP | 14/06/20 09:43 AM |
| 1 | If only it was that simpleDont blame women sloley for this. On the other end there is a thirsty guy playing for this shit and feeding their egos. Supply and demand. | /r/MGTOW | 22/01/20 05:35 AM |
| 6 | Saving money heavily as a young(er) person?Dont think savings in the form of retirement, think investments (watches, appartments, funds, stock). In my opinion you should always have a safety buffert that would last you 6 months minimum. That means you should be able to live 6 months without pay, minimum. Take your savings and put them into funds that yield +6% annual growth and take some money aside for high risk stocks. Its always a good start. | /r/askTRP | 08/01/20 10:53 AM |
| 6 | Had an intense FWB relationship for 2 months with girl i met while travelling. She left to go meet her friends in a different country. I think she is fucking one of them. Should i tolerate this and still make her a plate or not?Why would you care about the other guy? You seem very invested in this girl tbh (considering she is only a fwb) , bordering oneitis. Stalking her social media is not something thats good for you, it only causes issues for yourself. I wouldnt care about the other guy. I would have fun with her as long as possible until things changes and keep my mind open about other girls. Good luck! | /r/askTRP | 07/01/20 01:08 PM |
| 3 | Did I mentally screw myself up by having a relationship with an older woman?Yes, you are screwing yourself up. But there is a cure. You are overthinking it. Get out and gather some abundance and you will feel great again. | /r/askTRP | 22/12/19 12:39 AM |
| 1 | BPD women relationships that ruined your life in a wayReally well put my dude. | /r/askTRP | 01/12/19 11:23 AM |
| 1 | 20M. I don't have a strong father figure. My parents (mom and dad), treat me like a snowflake and have spoiled me . How do i become more disciplined, masculine and tough?Get a job and move out. | /r/askTRP | 25/01/19 05:33 PM |
| 9 | What are your examples of women saying TRP shitGirl on my job, employed as a consultant, with uncertainties whether the boss is going to permanently employ her, said this to me; "If he doesn't employ me im going to show everyone what he wrote to me on Tinder, and then report him." This girl goes around flirting with guys in the office and says some other crazy ass stuff, and she has a bf. At this point im sure she is trying to catch a case. Glad i didnt escalate my flirting with her and only kept it to light teasing. If you're an manager or … | /r/askTRP | 13/01/19 02:32 PM |
| 3 | What would you tell your 17 year old self?Funny how I find it the opposite. I would tell you to have fun and party more in your younger years. | /r/askTRP | 09/08/18 07:23 AM |
| 3 | One plate took half a day to agree to a "come over" request for the night, next or?I dont quite get what the problem here is, just let her come over? It's another thing if you already made plans with another plate while she was taking her time to respond. | /r/askTRP | 02/08/18 02:13 PM |
| 2 | How long should I wait? [Newbie here]She told me she will let me know if she can go out on Saturday. "I may have a better option this Saturday, but i'm gonna keep you on the backburner in the case nothing happends." You dont call her, ignore her even, and make plans with the other chick, let he HB8 chase now. Nex time just respond "Okay, hope you have a good weekend" or "Yes or no then?". Abundance mentality always. | /r/askTRP | 02/08/18 09:43 AM |
| 9 | Can’t enjoy sex anymoreI've been in the exact same situation as you. Dated a girl for 2 months, squirter, best sex of our lives and then she moved on. Feels pretty bad, I'll admit it since no sex has measured up, but good at the same time since I got to experience something most guys dont. Did I enjoy sex after her? Yes, but it took some time. The truth is that you wont connect with most girls and as a result the sex is going to be average/ok. To add more, somewhere along the line the ex fucked up, and he's going to f… | /r/askTRP | 01/08/18 08:28 AM |
| 2 | How to handle Depression while working on myself?However I struggle to adjust to the group setting, and to be social in general. It always goes something like this: I try to make new friends/hang out with people (get out of my comfort zone), I see that they don't really like/appreciate me and/ or that the girls don't care who I am. Fuck em. Why would you care about people who dont care about you? Focus on taking the right steps to become more social instead. Also focus on talking with everyone and dont be way obssesed with girls only. I see a … | /r/askTRP | 26/07/18 11:12 AM |
| 3 | Shit test becoming boringHonestly true. The level and usage of shit test seems to be a good indicator of intelligence and how well behaved they are. | /r/askTRP | 20/07/18 02:52 PM |
| 2 | Shit test becoming boringTell me how "You're one of those bitch guys?" and "You're not important/dont matter" translates into interest and foreplay. Fuck dat, I aint wasting my time on someone who does not know how to hold a proper conversation. The best foreplay I've had is with girls who enjoy escalating slowly with tension and not with girls who call me retard and then ask to fuck me. | /r/askTRP | 20/07/18 02:48 PM |
| 1 | Shit test becoming boringLeaning more towards that death stare thing you are talking about. "No", "Stop that" and "Thats rude" are responses that I have thought of but never used due to the uncertainty of the success they have. You say that they work? But how well? Do the girls ignore you or are they more attracted to you? I buy the whole hamster thing, but wont they feel criticised? Just like their father telling them to behave. | /r/askTRP | 20/07/18 02:36 PM |
| 1 | Help me figure out some stuffHas that led the girls to think that they don't have to attract me with sex anymore? and just skip it and go straight to the point of a LTR? No. They are probably seeing it as you trying to tie them into a LTR fast. Aiming for LTR most likely comes off as needy and desperate and the girls can sense that. This makes is very hard to build attraction and sexual tension. From my own experience, this is one of the fastest ways of losing attraction with a girl. 40-50 years ago this might have worked, … | /r/askTRP | 03/07/18 11:08 AM |
| 95 | You're not her top optionYeah, these are the posts that sting extra hard, right into the gut. They are also the ones who make you more aware. | /r/TheRedPill | 29/06/18 10:13 PM |
| 7 | Are my friends trying to bring me down? They want to hold an intervention for me.My old friends said i changed and need to have a serious talk with me. Haha, top 3 beta things to tell your friend. | /r/askTRP | 29/06/18 07:46 AM |
| 1 | How much chasing should you do? (texting)How would you calibrate in this situation? Texting too much might make them disinterested while texting too little might make them go cold. | /r/askTRP | 23/06/18 01:36 PM |
| 1 | How much chasing should you do? (texting)Both. When we have sex it takes them longer to get cold on me. If it's some chick i've seen once and gotten number/sm they get colder faster. It probably has to do with them having so many options otherwise that me not texting them is no biggie, they just go to the other dude. This together with their princess complex makes it impossible to keep up in their way. I'd rather not in this point. Pretty much answered my question. | /r/askTRP | 23/06/18 01:34 PM |
| 1 | What the fuck is wrong with me?Sounds like you are in the depression stage of TRP. However, you seem generally depressed considering the suicidal thoughts, which means that you need professional help. TRP-wise, i mean, you just have to read it and apply it IRL. Read books and apply why they say. How to Win Friends and Influence People by Dale Carnegie is my first recomendation and then How to be a 3% Man by Corey Wayne. | /r/askTRP | 12/06/18 11:39 AM |
| 1 | Sharing something embarrassingObviously im not talking about porn or shitting your pants. It's more about allowing someone to paint your nails for example or that i fell and got mustard all over my new shirt. | /r/askTRP | 08/06/18 07:12 AM |
| 1 | A little interpretation/insight Relationship (6m)She is prolly settling with you dude. By the looks of it, you seem like the provider type for her. You'll have to ask yourself if you can live with this, because the road is going to be bumpy with this one. Also, the "eh"-feeling is mostly projected from you, I recomend to work on that. | /r/askTRP | 05/06/18 01:27 PM |
| 3 | A little interpretation/insight Relationship (6m)Alpha widow most likely. Red flag with the tattoo and meaning, that is just plain weird, she crazy. Multiple tattoos usually indicates a deeper need for attention. She seems like fun tho, plate material tops. | /r/askTRP | 05/06/18 01:04 PM |
| 3 | I have no friends. Its getting lonley and depressing. What can I do?And don't be a No-man when you eventually do make friends in the above mentioned way. Twice I passed on the opportunity to make friends when I approached them in bars because I was down and depressed. My point is, dont pass up on friendship even though you are down. | /r/askTRP | 05/06/18 07:46 AM |
| 1 | Where to meet girls for an incel/omega to get started?Holy shit dude, listen to the fucking advices given to you. They are golden, internalize them. | /r/askTRP | 31/05/18 09:28 AM |
| 1 | How old were you when you moved out?Depends on personal economy. North europeans tend to move out quicker than soutj europeans due to economy. | /r/askTRP | 28/05/18 03:26 PM |
| 2 | How old were you when you moved out?19, 320 Euros/Month. | /r/askTRP | 28/05/18 11:00 AM |
| 2 | Any of you have a anxiety disorders? How does is effect your frame and how have you dealt with it. Ive realized my anxiety is the main cause of me losing frame.Value added activities works for me. I still have anxiety, and I've realized it's something I need to manage instead of ignoring. Value added activities or activities that add value to your life has helped me escape my negative though patterns and worrying. How? For example, I consider running to be a value added activity. While I run, I focus on the running only. Running also adds value to my life by cutting weight and improving my fitness which makes me feel better. Now im focusing on adding m… | /r/askTRP | 15/05/18 11:25 AM |
| 4 | How NOT to Day GameYou're way too harsh on yourself mate. The negativity you have in your head and when approaching needs to be eliminated asap. I reckon that is holding you back the most and working on that will give you some success with women and sex. | /r/TheRedPill | 20/04/18 07:03 PM |
| 1 | Girlfriend and I bonded over shared experiences of depression, what now?You only tell about your weaknesses (depression, anexiety, whatever) if you want to get rid of a girl. Otherwise, never. | /r/askTRP | 26/03/18 09:59 AM |
| 3 | ‘All Men are Trash’Agreed, hold fram enough and they will display this behaviour sooner or later. Great way of disqualifying themselves. | /r/TheRedPill | 24/03/18 04:21 PM |
| 0 | Blessed with height but cursed with weightAre you getting the nutrition you are supposed to get from the food you are eating? The goal with bulking is not only to each as much food as possible, you actually have to get the balance between vitamins, minerals, proteins, carbs and fat. You should eat consistently over the whole day as well, 4-5 meals a day. Also, keep consuming water throughout the day, this helped me (along with 7h+ sleep) to eliminate my headaches i had daily. If it still persist I would take medical advice, might be ser… | /r/askTRP | 07/03/18 02:44 PM |
| 1 | Ex boyfriend is alpha as fuckEverest is one of the easiest mountains to climb if you take into account the big ones. It has several pre-determined route up to the top with few actual climbs and several log camps. It's still an achievement and requires you to be somewhat experienced in mountain climbing and in shape but not as hard as K2 for example. You are making the Everest thing too big of an issue. Also, you are dating the girl and not him, and there is a reason for that. | /r/askTRP | 07/03/18 11:33 AM |
| 1 | When you realise literally every-woman has a backup guyAbsolutely spot on amazing piece of text. Every man should read this. | /r/MGTOW | 01/02/18 10:46 AM |
| 1 | Suggested date at my place - no responseThanks for the reply. I came to the same conclusion today, I still have major attachment issued towards girls that I have chemistry with, not being able to let go. | /r/askTRP | 30/01/18 01:44 PM |
| 1 | Woman who hates men, worth plating?I made sure the date was slowly ended after that. | /r/askTRP | 23/12/17 02:50 PM |
| 10 | Woman who hates men, worth plating?You're right, the risk is too great. | /r/askTRP | 23/12/17 02:49 PM |
| 7 | Elon musk and his multiple divorcesNot more phatetic than stalking someones posting history months back, cheers dude! | /r/TheRedPill | 05/12/17 08:51 PM |
| 32 | Elon musk and his multiple divorcesThe dude has 6 children, why on earth would you have Amber as your "prostitue" when you could afford real high end prostitue to do splits om your dick? Elon has cried om TV as well, so if he does indeed play mind games, hes doing it from a weak position, i.e. playing a victim. | /r/TheRedPill | 05/12/17 03:24 PM |
| 69 | Elon musk and his multiple divorcesAfter that breakup he told the media he does not like to be alone and prefers to have someone next to him in bed. Just by those comments, he reaks beta. | /r/TheRedPill | 05/12/17 12:06 PM |
| 17 | "Marriage counseling may work"We truly are the stupid sex | /r/TheRedPill | 02/12/17 08:00 AM |
| 7 | Sweden not the US lead #metoo trends on google.It's insane. Some famous people have been outed already and it will probably continue. The good thing with this is that all the creepy blue pill betas will be exposed. But the definition of harassement has been changed. A wrong/misstaken touch can be considered as rape and jokes can come off as inappropriate. Words, not actual harassement is enough to destroy you. The Swedishness is at dangerous levels now, no kidding, its not a myth. Women (younger) are seeing themelves as victims along with re… | /r/MGTOW | 24/11/17 02:10 PM |
| 2 | Every male celebrity in 2018We thank the movie gods for that! | /r/MGTOW | 23/11/17 11:19 PM |
| 16 | Every male celebrity in 2018Well, if a mass scale does not like the movies, guess what? Its going to show on the earnings and thus no additional funding for sequels or episodes. | /r/MGTOW | 23/11/17 05:27 PM |
| 3 | English woman admits to cheating on every guy she has dated, all to maintain controlThe most amusing thing is that she feels great about it, its empowering and she feels like the most badass bitch ever. You go guuurrrl! | /r/MGTOW | 07/11/17 09:00 AM |
| 4 | ATTENTION: Visitors from CNNSame, the subreddit gave me answers i couldnt find elsewhere. Still pulling myself out of depression but feeling much better than I did a year ago. The only thing that matters is the progress and results you make. | /r/TheRedPill | 03/11/17 08:53 AM |
| 1 | Girl continually flakes on me asking for a date. Give ultimatum text. She suddenly wants to get dinner. Thoughts?If she really was interested in you she would have made time for you. Simple. However, she did ask you for a date which you both planned 2 weeks in the future. Good, fine, then stick to that. You should not have contacted her and asked for more dates. Yet, you still proceeded to do so and nothing came out of it, at this point you seem needy. She feels guilty because you stress her out with contacting her about more dates. It should be the girls job to contact you and not the other way around. Yo… | /r/askTRP | 02/11/17 03:35 PM |
| 23 | TRP is 'You can't win if you don't play' and MGTOW is 'You can't lose if you don't play'Thats the interpretation Chad Thundercock has of TRP, to chase the pussy and get as much as possible until he hits the ground. TRP is not about pussy, its about you. If your goal is pussy, you will lose. | /r/MGTOW | 30/10/17 02:00 PM |
| 10 | My experience w/ a narcissist + notes for youAs harsh as this sounds, its true. What happened to OP happened to me and the conclusion is simple; ultimately, the problem is you. However, OP does list a couple of things that people should be aware of. But in the end, its about you respecting yourself and removing manipulative people asap. Narcissist feed on week and needy people like vampires. Never do what OP did in The Story part of his post, that shit will destroy you. | /r/TheRedPill | 18/09/17 09:05 AM |
| 108 | Honest Observations after 8 years in the gameThis is a very good and simple post for the newcomers that have read the sidebar. It almost feels like an synopsis of the subreddit. I especially like the the two first points: Women are not inherently evil. It's not their fault. Every woman is different, Every woman is the same. They really go hand in hand, just the way you described it. Often you see too many posts and comments on this subreddit that puts women down. You should not hate them or dislike them, they are like they are by nature an… | /r/TheRedPill | 18/09/17 08:21 AM |
| 0 | While you're talking to her about TRP, I'm fucking her in the assNah, no expert at all. I have stuff to learn still. Im talking about experiences, having my own intense and bold personality previously. It never helped me, and never worked for me so I had to learn. Yes, boldness is important, you should go and get what you deserv and not let anybody stomp on you, and you could eventually make it work only if you can handle it. I would love to read the piece you are reffering to, sounds interesting. But what i got from what you are reffering to is basically 'fa… | /r/TheRedPill | 18/08/17 04:01 PM |
| 1 | While you're talking to her about TRP, I'm fucking her in the assYou're overanalyzing. Keep it simple. Being bold does not work for everyone, it can backfire hard if you dont know what the fuck you're doing. There is no way you can maintain a bold frame all the time and get away with it. Thats a super intense frame and people dislike it. However, if you're a powerful individual with followers, it will work. It will also work if you add humor to the frame. Its not all about women, i know this sub is 80% about attracting women. There is a social world outside g… | /r/TheRedPill | 18/08/17 02:46 PM |
| 1 | While you're talking to her about TRP, I'm fucking her in the assI'm ready to agree on taking it too far with the joke, but it was probably because he wanted to add humor to it to increase his chances. After all, the girl is familiar with the meme. All i wanted to point out was the usage of the rule. You need to be coy and pretend like the rest in order to get under the radar. Especially when it comes to TRP. | /r/TheRedPill | 18/08/17 11:41 AM |
| 3 | While you're talking to her about TRP, I'm fucking her in the assRead the 48 rules dude, OP did the right thing. Figure out why. | /r/TheRedPill | 18/08/17 10:59 AM |
| 1 | Being the "other guy" helped me swallow the red pill. Here are some lessons I learned.Thats fucked up dude, ur still banging the chick after posting this? | /r/TheRedPill | 31/07/17 12:02 PM |
| 2 | Don't Aim To Be Right With Your AssumptionsI've been doing bland stacking for a long time until recently, i mostly get wierd looks from girls which makes me assume im wrong about my assumptions. Glad to hear that they should be a bit provocative. | /r/TheRedPill | 27/07/17 08:25 AM |
| 1 | What's next?I am very happy to see men waking up to the nature of women. I am involved with or encounter new age/spiritual type people frequently. It seems in this genre the chads are somehow also white knights, and there are emasculated pussy worshippers galore. The extreme narcissism of the women is obnoxious beyond belief, here it gets to have a spiritual disguise. This. And everyone has to understand this, even the Chads are blue pill manginas to some extent. The behaviour you all see from women is vali… | /r/MGTOW | 20/07/17 09:25 AM |
| 24 | Why MGTOW is so dangerousYeah, its true. I've not swallowed the red pill completely, but the changes I've been through just make it nearly impossible for me to return back to the blue pill lifestyle. I'm still not completely convinced by MGTOW and probably never will be. BUT there is no denying that most of the information is true and it has opened up my eyes regarding women and how dangerous they are. Even though Sweden does not have as messed up marriage laws as the US, women are still favored. In that regard I thank … | /r/MGTOW | 27/06/17 02:28 PM |
| 3 | Last week of work until 3 weeks in Pattaya, Thailand.Pattaya is fucking disgusting, wear protection! | /r/MGTOW | 26/06/17 11:31 AM |
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