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Woah, that sounds terrifying. It sounds like he believed he should have access to you whenever he wanted. That's a real narcissist thing. I had a friend in school who's parents were similar, they had an "open door" policy, (as they called it), shutting or locking any doors in their house was not allowed. They would always hang around suspiciously and listened in to our conversations to make sure we were not saying/doing anything "bad." I always thought it was really strange. Especially because w…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/09/21 08:22 PM
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Yes, the boundaries thing is a huge issue for them, but also it's the fact that men are raised to take up, and think they're entitled to, space. My ex would make the excuse that it's "his house" so therefore, he can to wherever he wants, whenever he wants to. It was not only the bathroom thing he did, but also if I had an early shift the next morning and was trying to get some sleep, he would stay up late then loudly enter the room, turn all the lights on to make sure I was awake, then gaslight …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/09/21 08:07 PM
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Yup... to a LVM, whatever he's doing at the time is more important than you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/09/21 07:53 PM
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This. My ex was the same. Then when I got a part time job, he'd still make it a competition about who contributed more to make me feel guilty about it. Then I realised it doesn't matter what I did, if he perceived what I was doing to be "easier" than him, he wasn't happy about it. LVM always need to feel like they have it easier than you to maintain control in the relationship. They hate feeling like they're running around after others or doing things to make other people happy because they thin…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/09/21 07:51 PM
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This. Men literally get so angry if they perceive anything to be "easy" for us. They want everything to be hard so they can play the "poor incompetent manchild" card and get looked after, while staying out with their friends all night moaning about their "crazy wife" at home.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/09/21 07:40 PM
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LVM: why do women have to act like bitches when we're just trying to be nice and say hello? Also LVM: continues to violate women's boundaries, harasses them in public, becomes enraged when rejected, won't take no for an answer, manipulates and gaslights to get what he wants
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/09/21 12:24 AM
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ARG. I saw this post on the stepparenting sub from a woman living in a ONE bedroom apartment with some dude she met a year ago, along with his FIVE kids (2 of them under 2 years old.) Did I mention she's also 6 months pregnant with her first child? She was asking for advice because since they met, he basically never let's her have time to herself, expecting her to stay home all the time Watching HIS 5 kids. Apparently she isn't even allowed to have a nice bath to herself without him getting angr…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/08/21 07:19 AM
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They really are. I can't stand how men act all socially akward when they're the only man in a social situation, like they shut down and sulk if the conversation is "not manly" or centered around what they want. It's not hard to try make fucking conversation with someone, ask them what they do for work or something then take the conversation from there. There are literally like only a handful of men I've met in my life who actually make an effort to contribute to the conversation and don't make i…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/08/21 07:46 PM
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SAME. it started when I used to hang out with my friend and her BF all the time - he was super insecure about me being a "bad influence" on her because I was single and independent, he thought that if she spent a lot of time with me, she'd end up leaving him (pathetic.) She also had her own insecurities about him being around other women. Our meet ups were always super akward and resulted in them argueing/him getting angry and driving off in a rage. Its funny how toxic relationships always need …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/08/21 07:06 AM
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That's true, scrotes absolutely love causing jealousy and competition among women, because it creates this illusion that the women are fighting over them which boosts their ego. Pickmes make it worse by feeding into this nonsense scrote behavior
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/08/21 06:42 AM
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The reason you didn't understand what was going on is because you're secure in yourself and don't see the need to act like that. It's hard to understand desperate woman who dedicate their whole existence to competing with other woman. You're right, so ridiculous and pathetic.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/08/21 06:32 AM
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I have gone through very similar situations as you, as I have had a few jealous pickme friends growing up. I remember once my 'friend' was facetiming this scrote on her laptop and they were txting at the same time. I was sorta in the background doing stuff. Later I found out he texted her saying "who's you're friend in the background, she's hot." So instead of my friend realizing this guy is an asshole and ending the conversation, she stared listing all these things that are apparently unattract…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/08/21 06:27 AM
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They think it makes them look "manly." When I was single I used to browse tinder occasionally (I live in nz) every single tinder profile photo was a man either holding up a dead fish on a boat or kneeling besides a deer or boar he'd just killed.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/07/21 10:13 AM
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Honestly I'm glad I'm not the only one who thinks this. If a guy would rather text/snapchat/whatever all day ( extra points for getting angry when you don't reply quickly) that is a major LVM red flag. No 1. It shows that he has no life of his own and no 2. He is probably clingy and controlling and no 3. If he prefers to text rather than ring or make actual proper plans with you it shows that he probably puts in little effort, may be unconfident and is hiding behind texting, or just not a very u…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/06/21 09:04 PM
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Unfortunately many pickmes also promote and feed into this type of thing too. It's 2021, It saddens me that woman are still snarking on each other for not being societies idea of "attractive." I also wish self-depricating humor about one's attractiveness could be a thing of the past too. "Uhh omg I've put on two pounds, I have a spot on my face, I'm so ugly at the moment tehehe" Please, stop. All its doing is making the woman your talking to more self- conscious of the spot they have on their fa…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/06/21 01:01 AM
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The step mom one hit hard for me - this was my situation a few years ago. adding to that, when step fathers are seen as these heroes and again get praised for doing the bare minimum (like always) but step mothers are watched like a hawk by extended family and are expected to take on all the motherly duties as if they are her own. Any complaints about the workload or negative comments about the child's behavior will land her with the "evil stepmother" label
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/05/21 12:37 AM
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Omg are we talking about the same person?? That's like his life, just drinking every night and braging about money to woman he meets in dive bars 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/05/21 04:09 AM
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So true. Don't forget they can't be too adventurous though or they'll be slut/kink shamed. Also, Even if the men did find a woman exactly like that, he'd probably just end up leaving her anyway. His cockiness and ego would inevitably go sky high due to falsley thinking he was in that woman's league and he'll start thinking he could do even better than her.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/05/21 07:39 AM
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This was literally what I was saying yesterday to someone about a man I know (my LV ex's best friend.) He acts all high and mighty because he got rich selling property. All he talks about is how rich he is and all the millions he has, flaunting it around constantly. He has nothing else at all to offer apart from this. He then acts all surprised Pikachu face when he attracts the wrong kind of woman who uses him for his money, then goes on about how all woman are whores who use men for their cash …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/05/21 05:06 AM
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Wow this is accurate AF. I can't stand that "simp" bullshit. The youngest generation of males will probably end up even worse than the ones we have now because they're being raised to think that doing nice things for a woman is something to be laughed at and looked down upon. It's quite scary really
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/05/21 04:59 AM
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Good point. It's Because they can't/don't want to come up with a nice genuine compliment for their girlfriend, so they make it about themselves instead.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/05/21 10:42 AM
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I'm glad you got out. A close friend did this the other day too and she is Literally the easiest person to get along with. She looks after their two kids pretty much on her own and never complains. Her partner on the other hand - can't even hold down a job for more than 5 seconds, keeps getting them evicted from every house they live in due to his drug use and general disrespectful/asshatery behaviour, he has isolated her from most of her family and friends because they can't stand to be around …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/05/21 10:33 AM
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Girl, I'd be totally here for that 😂😂 imagine all the fragile egos breaking when their girlfriends stop blowing smoke up their arses and start getting real
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/05/21 10:19 AM
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Yeah. They have to realise its not cutesy or funny, just kinda cringe
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/05/21 10:05 AM
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It would have been from the stress
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/04/21 03:08 AM
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Because apparently they're the "logical" gender. So if a woman reacts badly to something they did, it must be because she'd overreacting or crazy. It's never their fault.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/04/21 02:52 AM
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Because it makes him look good. It's probably a "look at me I'm such a dominant male I have my girlfriend running around after me like a little lap dog." These sorts of men will never see you as their equal. Their always looking for ways to be "superior" to you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/03/21 10:42 PM
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That's what led me to break up with my ex. One nignt we were at a bar when this guy tried to insult my friend out of nowhere, saying "you're not that great" or something to that effect, when she hadn't even said one word to him. I stood up for her and told him he "wasn't that great" himself and that he looked like a cross between my thumb and big toe. Instead of taking our side, my now ex started siding with him and saying demeaning comments to try "shut me up." After 4 years of his BS this was …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/01/21 09:00 PM
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Girl, you keep doing you and don't ever lower your standards! I have a close friend who used to live in India and she said the same thing. That men feel they're entitled to a beautiful woman and shouldn't have to put any sort of effort in because of arranged marriage culture.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/01/21 08:23 PM
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This is so incredibly true. I've had this happen a few times when I literally just stand there doing nothing and have had insults thrown at me when I have made eye contact with a random guy. Its like they're already in defensive mode because they know they're ugly and bring nothing of substance to any relationship. And secretly they're worried that woman already know this just by looking at them. So they lash out because of fear.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/01/21 08:18 PM
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This is so true. And then the rest of the plot just revolves around said "desperate" woman trying hard to find a man, like its all her life revolves around. Then either a prince charming appears out of nowhere or realises a guy she previously put in the "friendzone" is actually the one. Such a toxic message to younger woman
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/01/21 10:18 PM
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This is totally staged. Guy needs an acting class
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/01/21 09:42 PM
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Absolutely. In fact he probably enjoys seeing you hurt. Will just be another "funny" story to tell his LVM mates about how this crazy clinger is in love with him and got triggered. Don't give him the satisfaction of a reaction.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/12/20 05:18 AM
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100%. And don't explain yourself. A simple "that is inappropriate" or "im not comfortable with that" Is all that's needed. If he's a decent human he would have apologized and not done it again
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/12/20 09:01 AM
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Honestly, I don't know what is with the fuckboys obsession with snapchat. As soon as he asks if you have a snap chat, you can pretty much guarantee he is one. Probably because he knows all the evidence would be deleted and he can't take accountability for what he said/ pics he sent etc. Its especially convenient for cheating LVM'S.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/12/20 10:45 AM
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Trying to make people feel sorry for him, I bet people in the comments are falling for it too. Yes you are a monster, and an awful person for leaving your wife when she needs your support the most. Stop trying to justify yourself to gain sympathy
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/12/20 09:44 AM
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Every time I brought my feelings up to my ex he would turn it around on me and I would be the one who ended up shouldering the blame for everything. He'd also do this thing where he'd change the subject or derail the conversation so i'd completely loose track of the arguement and couldn't make my point. It took me the longest time to realize what he was doing. Looking back i can't actually believe the lengths someone could go to avoid understanding and listening. So yeah, fuck anyone who say "co…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/12/20 09:01 AM
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Very true, in my country anyway. I live in nz and there are plenty of advertisements and campaigns where the typical "macho" rugby guy will speak about his depression and encourage other men to speak out about it, that it doesn't make you weak etc. There's also things raising awareness on depression and suicide amongst nz men who are farmers, encouraging people to check up on their farmer friends. Nothing at all about womans mental health. No awareness about post natal depression which is one of…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/12/20 08:05 PM
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Honestly, I cringe to think what these young gen z'er males are taking in, and how they will treat woman when they are older. "Simping" was a term made by a "famous" gen z tiktoker, encouraging other guys his own age not to treat their girlfriends with respect or do nice things for them. Other impressionable people will be taking on what he's saying and thinking its the cool thing to do.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/12/20 03:12 AM
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YES! THIS! Its just an excuse for men to be lazy and not pay attention to our needs. And the whole "i thInk sHes AngRy bUt I d0Nt kNow wHy" annoys me too. Especially if its obvious. Like instead of going about it the lazy way and asking what's wrong, then expecting us to do all the work explaining exactly what they did wrong - if we expect a simple thing like them approaching us first with a proper genuine apology, its our fault and we're deemed "difficult" and high maintenance.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/12/20 09:48 PM
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That's really interesting. Could you remember where I could find the article?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/12/20 07:12 AM
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Lol I honestly struggle to comprehend how any grown ass adult could live like this.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/12/20 07:10 AM
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They aren't less drama. The worst place I've ever worked at was a place with all males, I was the only female. There was constant ego trips, arguing about petty things, if someone had a problem they would talk behind their back instead of confronting them and working through it like adults. Never mind the perverted discussions I was subjected to. I once brought it up to them that it was disgusting the way they talk about woman and they hit me with the "you're working with men, that's what we do,…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/11/20 09:04 PM
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Honestly I never considered that this could be a possibility until I found FDS but it makes so much sense. I can't begin to think what this poor woman is going through. I have only one 6 month old baby and it's hard enough as it is, even with having a HV husband who's present and supports me. Let alone having 7 to a complete asshole who contributes nothing while making me feel bad about my weight. I'm guessing she's also financially dependent on him to a certain degree, so getting out of the rel…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/11/20 09:56 PM
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Exactly girl. Men want to keep that bar low too by saying things like "oh he must just be desperate for sex" And calling men whipped when they actually have respect for their girlfriends and go out of their way to make them happy. They don't want HVM to make them look bad, or to be called out for their lack of effort, they want that bar to stay in hell
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/11/20 07:41 PM
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Woa, she's really acting like he's the best thing ever because he played video games all day but occasionally included her
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/11/20 03:22 AM
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Disgusting. Of course he gets to stay in shape because he works out every day while she looks after 7 kids, breastfeeds a baby and cooks 3 meals a day. I bet he contributes fuck all but expects her to meet HIS expectations all the time. Get rid.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/11/20 03:11 AM
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Yes! If a woman did the same thing they'd be labeled as crazy and possessive
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/11/20 07:21 AM
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Exactly, I bet he doesn't even care about the turkey, he's not the one who slaved in the kitchen making it. He probably just shrugged it off and went to buy takeaways for himself. Then wanked off in the bathroom again.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/11/20 03:39 AM
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Yes I've had something similar happen to me too. Its as if when a guy confesses that he likes you everyone pushes for you to be together, when you say you don't like them back, they're all dumbfounded and don't understand why. Then they say things like "ohh just give the poor boy a chance." Woman are looked down on for wanting to be with a man they actually like, if they reject anyone they're not into, it means they're "stuck up."
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/11/20 01:12 AM
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Honestly I just shake my head at every single post that goes up on there. How they stick around and deal with so much BS I just.dont.know. then when you suggest FDS they call you "men haters."
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/11/20 11:11 PM
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I got banned from another sub for telling a woman complaining about her scrote to get advice from FDS. he'd cheated on her multiple times and used her for money. At the end she wrote "i have no idea why I attract assholes." I just replied to all the haters saying if you all got advice from FDS they wouldn't all be on there complaining about asshole boyfriends wondering if they should give them another chance. They would have left them already. BANNED 😂😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/11/20 04:27 AM
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Ahh the typical non apology. Notice he didn't take accountability at all - "bUt I tRyeD"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/11/20 10:03 PM
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After reading your comment I looked it up on YouTube and wow.... what a pathetic baby... I just can't with that guy.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/11/20 08:34 PM
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100% what huevos_and_whiskey just said, if your scared to stand up to someone and speak your truth, there's usually a reason for it. Listen to your gut. I was like this with my ex, later realized it was because no matter how much I stuck up for myself, or how articulate and confident I was while delivering the message, id probably just get yelled at and gaslighted anyway. In the end they don't care about listening and understanding you, their aim is to "win" the arguement at all costs and come o…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/11/20 04:21 AM
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This reminds me so much of what my scrote ex used to do. I'll never forgot one particular new years eve, everyone was sitting around the table chatting and having a good time. Out of nowhere he starts making sly belittling comments at me, undermining everything I said and bringing up personal information I had specifically asked to keep secret, making me the butt of his jokes. (This was a regular thing and I had asked him to stop this so many times.) Obviously no one else thought it was funny ex…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/11/20 04:08 AM
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That sounds all too familiar. Overtime it makes you feel guilty for enforcing boundaries or even bringing things up that legitimately hurt you. This only gives him more power to do and say what he wants with no consequences. RUN
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/11/20 02:31 AM
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It's like reading a story of my previous life 😂 he'd expect me to change plans last minute or drop everything to accommodate what he wanted to do, however he would never do the same for me. When I actually stuck up for myself he'd rage about how selfish I was, list everything he "does for me" (like mowing the lawns and you know, looking after his own house like adults should do anyway). Everything he wanted to do was always more important in his eyes. The thing about men like this is they get so…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/11/20 09:06 PM
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I wish they'd learn that while they're trying to "impress" us by talking non-stop, what we're actually impressed by is a man that actually has good listening skills and can hold a proper TWO WAY conversation
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/11/20 08:46 PM
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Yeah that is true
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/11/20 08:41 PM
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I used to have a close friend who was a huge pickme, she focused her whole life on getting a man, if someone gave her a little bit of attention she'd fall for them straight away no matter how obvious their LVMness was. She'd go on and on about how awesome they were and would always justify their wrongdoings and red flags, convincing herself and others it "wasn't that bad." She'd turn herself into their maid, doing all the housework and putting all the effort in while they did nothing, hoping the…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/11/20 03:37 AM
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I think sometimes it can also be because they're nervous, they might not realize they're doing it. Once they get a bit more comfortable with you the good ones will start asking questions and showing interest in your life. If he doesn't, then he's a self centered git who only cares about propping up his own ego. Delete and block
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/11/20 02:21 AM
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I know right massive eye roll! Just heard about the term mansplaining and he used to do this all the time. Funny thing was I worked as a registered nurse while he had no qualifications and even argued with me about medical related stuff that he had no idea about, stuff that I literally dealt with at work 5 days a week. But no, I'm clearly wrong 😂 I agree it would have been better to tell the truth from the start, but of course they have to lie and twist their stories to make themselves look bett…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/11/20 02:15 AM
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Woa, wait so he was turning up to a school he didn't even work at to make it look like he was still working as a teacher?? Im so glad you did some digging and saw through that shit! My ex was very similar, if we were having a debate he would refuse to listen to my opinion writing it of as "silly" or he would just start talking over me. Took me a while to realize it was complete lack of respect. After feeling unheard and insignificant in our relationship for so long I finally decided to call it q…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/11/20 01:20 AM
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Same here - a few years ago I had a guy on tinder call me "pathetic" because I ignored him after I was sent an unsolicited dick pick after barely saying hello - so I ignored that message too, then he proceeded to send me a long ass message about how he earns 96k a year and doesn't have "time to he mucked around by woman like me" 😂😂 So he expects every woman to throw themselves in his direction with a sign saying "fuck me" on their foreheads because he earns 96k a year!! Please form a single line…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/11/20 12:44 AM
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Yes 100%. If a guy is really into you he would have already planned a time and date with you before any excuse came out of his mouth.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/10/20 04:25 AM
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"Wow" A typical fuckboy response who has just been called out on his shit and now is trying to make out you're overreacting
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/10/20 04:23 AM
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