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Not sure where you got the impression that I thought that Asia was third world. I've been there before, I'm aware of the modern state of the region. But the point is people don't (and probably never really have) have kids to support an abstract concept such as a population pyramid. The state needing more babies was never a heavy factor in that decision making process
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/24 03:56 PM
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This isn't just a western thing. Birth rates are dropping everywhere. Most of Asia has lower birthrates than the west. This is something beyond collective/individual thinking
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/24 01:07 PM
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100% of all relationships end
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/23 09:32 PM
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The conversation about financial abortion is wild to me considering abortion is currently illegal in over half of the US right now. Seems very tone deaf to be upset about having to pay child support when abortion isn't an option for a large percent of women.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/23 05:11 PM
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Actually living your life and pursuing interests without needing to ask reddit for advice
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/23 10:20 PM
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All social media apps are designed to be addictive on some level. It's what keeps users engaged and on the platform. Facebook, Instagram, reddit, etc. All are designed just to give you just a little bit of a dopamine kick when you get notifications, up votes, likes, etc. It's not a high, but it is using your brain chemistry to keep you engaged
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/23 12:43 PM
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OP has clearly not had any fun discussions with people who are smart and passionate about interesting topics. People who are really passionate about certain topics can be fascinating to listen to and definitely make them stand out from the crowd.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/23 09:11 PM
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It seems to be a revolutionary statement in this sub that the best way to learn social interaction skills... Is to actually go out and interact with other humans. I fail to see why the state needs to force certain people to go touch grass
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/23 03:08 PM
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It's an industrialized society problem. Once a country reaches a certain level of development the birthrate drops, with no known reversals. This trend holds for every culture on every continent.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/23 02:33 AM
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What do you consider sexually successful? Asking this because this answer varies by person, and success for one person might not be the same for another. Men with the highest body counts usually have low standards on who they sleep with. Other men would much rather sleep with partners that they are very attracted to, even if it isn't as many. Many gay men have incredibly high body counts, but I'm assuming they don't factor into your answer. Many men also prefer certain kinds of sex and are looki…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/23 10:31 PM
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If men prefer women with a lower body count, what difference does him having casual sex have to do with this? You can prefer what you want. Just don't act surprised and upset when people state that you are a hypocrite. No different than a man who puts zero effort into his appearance stating that he will only date models. why do we act as if women can’t also disqualify a man for his body count? They absolutely do. They just don't talk pretend to be moral philosophers about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/23 09:52 PM
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Young people don't so little towns so much anymore. The small town I grew up in saw literally everyone leave as soon as they graduated.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/22 09:44 PM
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Well, Abortion was just made illegal in over a dozen states, with more on the way. So I'd say that bit changed soon.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/22 04:03 PM
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You state all these problems like they are fixed, permenant, and cannot be changed. These are all just societal things that absolutely can be altered.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/22 02:00 PM
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I also wonder how much Covid has played a role in people not getting together Probably significantly more among certain demographics than others. I just realized that someone who graduated high school in 2020 has had their entire first 2 years of undergrad with covid. This has significantly made it harder to go out and meet people, and has put a huge temper on party/hookup culture.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/22 04:10 PM
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Single mothers are ridiculed On this very sub no less
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/22 05:20 PM
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Seems like chad is just a mans wet dream Pretty much
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/22 04:35 AM
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Sluts be sluts. Poly: Multiple relationships at the same time Swinger: Having sexual relationships consensually outside of one's romantic relationships. Usually 'monogamous' couples who are seeking to have more fun.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/22 01:03 AM
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In a world where you have to be responsible all the time, having a limited period where you have less power and responsibility is very special. Especially with someone who knows what they are doing
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/22 11:25 PM
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Not entirely wrong. But swingers are a separate community. They have their own parties, etiquette, meetups, and community. While there is some overlap, there isn't a huge amount actually. Most kinksters don't really go to swinger parties because of the most loose consent policies. And because the parties are very expensive for single men, as they have to keep an even mix of sexes. I would say that those involved in the BDSM are more likely to be exhibitionists or have exhibitionist tendencies th…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/22 10:40 PM
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Splitting hairs regarding those into BDSM and those actively involved in the BDSM community. Those who are into BDSM but keep it in the bedroom I can't speak for. But, speaking for someone active in the BDSM community in multiple cities and countries, red pillers would definitely be the odd bunch. The scene is filled with a wide range of people, so it's difficult to summarize. But there are definitely a lot of things that run counter to Red pill beliefs. For starters, most people (I'd say 60%) a…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/22 10:24 PM
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Why do you care what Twitter thinks? Like... why waste any thought at all
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/22 10:30 PM
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Red Pill doesn't really even offer any new concepts. All the advice TRP offers has existed in some form or another for a while, and much of it is common sense. The only thing new about it is the branding and lingo. But it essentially is old information repackaged under ultra macho lingo in order to appeal to men who are not masculine and wished to be.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/22 04:30 PM
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I do wonder the percent of people on here that lie on the autistic spectrum. Part of me thinks that a lot of red pill men are more autistic than they like to admit, so framing relationships in such impersonal ways make it easier for them to comprehend.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/22 02:01 AM
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Its the incel pill. Belief that attraction is entirely predetermined at birth by genetic and societal factors, and therefore no amount of effort will ever make you more attractive. Therefore, if you are not attractive now, you never will be and that the only thing you can do is lay down and rot. The black pill community is basically a death cult filled with black humor, suifuel, and people reminding everyone that they will be forever alone and never happy.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/22 03:28 PM
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How much luck were you having on nightlife in the before times?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 02:42 AM
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So jerk off... literally no one is stopping you.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/21 06:56 PM
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You're asking for too much from the average PPD male
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/20 05:58 PM
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I'm not talking late 20's or even 30's. I'm talking being with someone in your 50s, 60s, 70s, etc. All looks fade in time. This is a definite.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/20 04:00 PM
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Isn't this enviable though? As we move through life no one stays attractive or in shape. Pregnancy, no time to get to the gym, poor diet, age, stress, etc. All of it eventually catches up to you at some point and you will not be physically attractive anymore. This is not a what if question, its a what when
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/20 01:12 PM
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Me? I love casual sex and can describe my pill as the 'hedonism pill'. I think time on earth is very short and you should strive to have fun. Don't know if you need a pill for that. Its just called be normal. Too many of the guys here get in their own way of being happy and constantly overthink ever single thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/20 04:07 PM
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I never understood this push to be the most she has ever had, the most intense, the most perfect. Thats not a person, thats a fantasy. No single person will ever be everything for someone. It takes a lot for someone to get around their own ego and realize that but its reality. Ive dated women who have slept around a lot, men don't exactly set the bar to high to begin with. But if youre enjoying the present, have chemistry, and are viable long term, why constantly ruin that by overthinking? The i…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/20 03:55 PM
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I agree. But Its PPD, don't take it as a representation of the general population and more a representation of younger more uptight individuals. Most of the people here have never been to a party in their lives
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/20 02:33 AM
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Most redpill advice is basic common sense. And can easily be delivered without the peusdo cultish and sexist atmosphere surrounding the advice. I.e. the sidebar is good advice, the redpill community is not. And a lot of it can be traced back to the fact that while they have taken women off a pedestal, they kept pussy on it. But really the main reason is because I'm happy with my life as is. Im in shape, I make good money, I get laid more than the average man, etc. Why would I want to abandon bei…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/20 04:21 PM
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So, from what you're saying, misandry makes men kill themselves. And misogyny makes men kill others. How would you suggest going about helping men who are depressed?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/20 08:57 PM
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The fact that they aren't in it
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/20 07:59 PM
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I think for a lot of people, the entertainment derived from this sub is akin to visiting a zoo
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/20 01:00 PM
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There are courts in the United States that have held men responsible for children produced from semen stolen from a condom. You talking about this one? Thats a satire website man. How many people here are feasting on The Onion?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/20 01:48 AM
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I mean, yeah it looks like a lot more when you repeat yourself multiple times. Both men and women have a plethora of birth control options beforehand that they can utilize. Both men and women can abstain from having sex if they feel it is to risky. Hell, men can literally cum in anyplace except for inside a pussy. There are plenty of choices, women just have the final choice. Which apparently some men can't stand. Don't like it? I'd take it up with biology, or all those conservatives who want th…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/20 01:07 AM
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I read your article. But they didn't link a source. And I really don't feel like searching the internet on purge week My data points are from here https://www.cdc.gov/nchs/nsfg/key_statistics/n.htm
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/20 10:59 PM
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https://www.cdc.gov/nchs/nsfg/key_statistics/n.htm
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/20 10:47 PM
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Including teens will drag down the average. Teenagers have a lot more n counts of 0 because, well, they are teenagers. They are just starting out. Isolating to older adults is more useful for evaluating lifetime sexual histories. It eliminates younger men who are just starting out. Even Chad had an n count of 0 initially
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/20 10:28 PM
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The median partner count for a woman at age 45 is 3.8. Only 11.2% of women over 45 have had more than 15 partners. So 10 not being a lot is subjective. Compared to pornstars and prostitutes, no, it isn't a lot. Compared to the average person, its at least double.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/20 10:09 PM
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For a man in his 30s, the average amount of sexual partners is roughly 6. Breaking up that age group we find that 2.5% are virgins, 16% have had less than 3 partners, and 28% have had 15 or more sexual partners. Meaning that 56.5% of men in their 30s have had between 3-15 sexual partners. Sounds like a standard middle class spread to me
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/20 10:02 PM
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60% of men by age 45 have had over 10 sexual partners in their lifetime. 35% have had over 15 sexual partners. Only 2% are still virgins by age 45. Extremes exist. But they are not the norm
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/20 09:28 PM
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Don't you know, men only exist in complete extremes. Kissless incels or Chad thundercock. There is no in-between, and there is no going between the two ever
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/20 04:50 PM
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A better argument imo would be that they are misinterpreting the actual papers. Oh i agree. And I believe I stated such on another conversation thread. Blackpillscience is very much a data cherry picking subreddit. As for legit scientists from legit journals, I have my doubts about some of their sources. A good deal of their papers read like undergrad students doing something for an assignment and published on a publishing farm. I believe that their top post for the month right now is a paper st…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/20 02:17 PM
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OP didn't state how many studies have been posted. He stated how many threads there are. The comparison still stands
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/20 01:27 PM
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The links are to peer reviewed studies. The talking points by the community however are non critical cherry picking festivals. They don't want to try to find an objective truth. They are instead trying to find evidence to support their truth. And they absolutely will ignore anything that pokes holes in their arguments and inflate minor points if it favors them.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/20 01:26 PM
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I can also find dozens of websites, a Wikipedia, and thousands of threads/YouTube videos/documentaries about how Flat Earth is a thing. Quantity of threads does not equal quality threads.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/20 01:17 PM
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Shhhhh, let the people cling to their fantasy. It's easier for them to imagine that they are strong, rather than the real descriptor for them which is "outdated"
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/20 03:26 PM
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Or that japanese was a top search for women in multiple countries.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/20 06:21 PM
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Porn is popular. And growing among women. I can believe that 32% (country varying) of unique visitors are women. And I can also see how teen is lower on search terms. Sexual tastes vary heavily. And its clear that teen isn't as novel as it used to be. Still is popular, but other categories hold more novelty.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/20 06:13 PM
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What are you basing this on? I know several intelligent men and they all sleep around a lot. Intelligence is quite attractive to women. So long as its not the neurotic kind that makes you too afraid to do anything
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/20 12:40 PM
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I'm aware. Mode for men of all ages is 3-6. Mode for men over 40 is 15+. Mode for women of all ages is 3-6. Mode for women over 40 is still 3-6. Only 11% of women over 40 had more than 15 sexual partners in their lifetime (sample size 11.5 thousand)
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/20 08:25 PM
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Onlinedoctor.superdrug.com is an interesting source. Not sure if I would trust it. Accoeding to the CDC the Median number of sexual partners for: Men: 6.1 Women: 4.2 more women who have been with 10 thousand men. Those are professional whores. Busy ones at that. They do not represent a normal person by any means
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/20 08:11 PM
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Is this some new copy pasta I haven't seen before?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/20 09:04 PM
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vast majority of the women in this enlightened sub admitted to being disgusted by a man who doesnt largely conform to masculine behaviours *1) I wouldn't say the population of this sub is anything close to enlightened. *2) Thats nice. I really don't care what women of this sub are attracted to. And men should care less as well. Men put too much focus of their lives into being a character instead of being happy. I place more emphasis on being happy. If a woman isn't interested in me thats her los…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/20 04:29 PM
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Oddly enough feminist discussion does cover this. But, my thoughts are that men's varied sexual interests, especially the more out there ones, are the result of said sexual repression. Men aren't really open with their sexuality with anyone. Women or other men. So men keep their sexual interests to themselves and slowly branch out into more and more obscure tastes. But will never vocalize this for fear of being shamed. The lengths some straight men will go to to not seem even slightly gay sounds…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/20 04:12 PM
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Mainstream ideas of Masculinity being seen as confining to men isn't exactly a new take.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/20 04:04 PM
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No one ever said that human beings were smart. And an adage is just that. Its not a rule
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/20 03:27 PM
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Just look up any post where the poster is absolutely flabbergasted that women like sex, that women have flaws, or that women can be awful. By their own admission, most men in the anger phase of TRP are angry cause they felt they have been lied to about women's nature all their lives. This I feel is a result of them being sheltered. As it doesn't take much observation to realize that women are just as capable of flaws as men are. And women do in fact like sex, even if they don't show it as much a…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/20 03:16 PM
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"Looks get you in the door, personality keeps you there". I figured this was a common adage. I've heard it my entire life. This sub made me realize how sheltered many men are out there
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/20 01:53 PM
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Attractive people are attractive. Which apparently was a shocking revelation for some
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/20 12:56 PM
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And a damn entertaining one at that
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/20 10:03 PM
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Fight me!
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/20 09:54 PM
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So does everyone else who posts here
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/20 09:18 PM
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All life contains risk. And while you can certainly take steps to minimize risks. After a certain point it just is excessive and restricts you from actually living. I mean, could you imagine just being locked into your house all the time? Only talking to people via Webcam or phone call? And getting groceries from delivery? Oh wait
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/20 12:59 AM
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Women won't like how men view them now that they know the truth. I think women are very much aware at how men view them. They don't need to read TRP aware of reality. Only sheltered men seem to have that issue
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/20 05:27 PM
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TRP cautions against LTR on principle. Anyone claiming red pill gives advice for LTR is projecting what they took from TRP, and ignoring a lot of other things
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/20 05:55 AM
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Confirmation bias is a thing you know
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/20 05:52 AM
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(at least in mens mind) they couldn't do wrong. And here we have the crux of the issue. Women were never pure. Women were never chaste. The only ones who put women on the pedestal were men. Women today are much more authentic to what they have always been. Men who are shocked by this are either gullible or ignorant of reality.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/20 05:45 AM
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The Blue Pill as a sub is reactionary. It only exists for the sake of making fun of and smoking the red pill. Its content solely depends upon the existence and original content of The Red Pill. The Blue Pill cannot exist without it. Cause then it would have no reason to exist. What is there to discuss?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/20 01:44 AM
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As someone involved in the S&M scene for a few years I can attest that there are several positive elements to kink play. 1) Greater authenticity. Most people have sexual desires. Most people have some sort of taboo desire. Repressing those desires and sexuality can lead to feelings of shame and anxiety. Being with people or a partner that you dont have to hide with can be liberating. And takes a lot of stress off the mind. 2) S&M play has been proven to release similar chemicals in the brain as …
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/20 01:44 AM
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As someone in the scene, it never fails to surprise me how normal people are. Even at parties, the conversations being had are similar to what I'd hear at normal mixers or social gatherings. Just normal people who are more open with their sex lives.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/20 01:28 AM
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Oh, that's a good one. Need to rewatch that. The cinematography never fails to blow me away. And the premise is so simple but so thought provoking. Love it
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/20 05:45 AM
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American men are treated like kings in many other countries Lol. Women in poor countries treat American men well because they want access to his cash and green card. Not because they actually desire him. Having seen the american men that go searching for thai hookers and mail order brides, I can tell you, those men are not to be envied.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/20 05:43 AM
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It's a self titled throwaway profile with a total of 5 comments and 1 post. It could just as easily be some guy from here. Wouldn't be the first time
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/20 02:47 AM
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Internet means teenagers suddenly have all the wisdom of sailors Yeah, somehow I doubt that.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/20 02:41 AM
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I'd say about 75% of TRP without the jingoism and without the over the top culture is pretty decent yet unoriginal dating advice
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/20 07:42 PM
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This quarantine life is death for the extrovert. I'm going to go insane if I'm stuck in my apartment longer. I swear when this is all over I'm gonna kill myself partying
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/20 07:38 PM
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Not after said events. In all honesty he has had a lot of trouble getting laid since college. Turns out having abs and beer doesn't do so well outside of academia
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/20 01:28 AM
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Has a 0% success rate in my experience
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/20 10:22 PM
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Knew a guy that was straight from a Abercrombie catalog. Maybe had like 2% body fat, insane ripped, clean, well dressed and styled hair, smart... but had a huge problem with alcohol. One of my friends was looking to hook up with him, but said he was too drunk at the time and they would fuck the next morning. He called her a fucking jew multiple times, and that killed any and all interest she had in him
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/20 10:02 PM
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Almost half of all welfare recipients are men. Hell, a large portion of incel groups are on NEET bux. Cutting social support networks in an attempt to hurt women is like cutting off your nose to spite your face. Unless you're trying to say only men should get welfare
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/20 04:59 PM
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Halal
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/20 12:58 AM
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Nothing gross about it. You havent lived until you've had a dick up your ass while another guy sucks you off while wearing a unicorn hat
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/20 12:57 AM
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Dont know what you're missing! Join the big gay orgy! We have hello shots and lots of anonymous sex!
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/20 12:43 AM
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What about how the micro affects the macro? How does it? By their very nature it is far more common that an individual is affected by their environment than the other way around. Many individuals did change history. But none of them did it alone. One man alone cannot rule. Hitler didnt create anti semitism, he merely capitalized on what already existed. MLK wasn't the only person to rise up against racism, and his strength was turning the issue into more than an individual. What about having a d…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/20 05:23 PM
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feminists who use a male VS female lens without considering other factors end up very close to trp from the other side Which is why contemporary feminism has moved on from that lense. And is instead looking at how things such as economic class, race, ethnicity, sexuality, etc all come together to affect a group. Which is why we see heavy feminist support for addressing racial/gender biases in the judicial system for example. While some feminists feel that men as the class are the 'enemy'. Many m…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/20 05:08 PM
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Every analysis of things on a maceoscale requires looking at groups of people. Biology, economics, quantum physics, etc. All those do the same thing but they are not scary. All of it requires looking at the large picture to understand how the macro affects the micro. You can't address society wide issues by only focusing on the individual. Contemporary feminist theory of intersectionality is a out deconstructing how power relationships vary depending on demographics. It does this to better highl…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/20 04:01 PM
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Feminism is a cultural and political movement based on the goal of equality between sexes. It has various subgroups that each believe in different ways to achieve that goal. Some are man haters, some believe it requires altering laws, some believe that the culture of wider society needs to change. None believe that feminism is solely about getting laid. And nothing in feminism exists as any sort of dating guide. Some companies might pay lip service to feminism or feminists, but their goals are s…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/20 03:02 PM
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He also suggested masturbation. Which men can do quite well
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/20 01:52 PM
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I become more and more convinced every day that a good chunk of people on this sub dont spend any time outside ever. Which I guess no one really does anymore now
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/20 05:16 AM
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Because that would just be called dating advice. Part of the allure of the red pill isn't just the advice. It's the people. It's the community. It's the sense of belonging to a group that makes them feel good. That has a strong pull, especially for lost non socialiable men. It's a very loose cult. But given enough time, and without proper moderation, that community will grow in different ways. And when some of the fundamental beliefs of red pill is to view sex as a competition, and to assume wom…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/20 12:03 AM
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Obviously they lie when they are talking to people in person. But most of these studies have sample sizes of tens of thousands of people who obtained their data via written response. People still lie, but there is less benefit to lying on a form that no one will see. The large survey size also helps curb this Self reporting might not be the most accurate way to determine someone's n count. But it's really the only way we have to get the information needed on the scale needed.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/20 12:56 PM
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I agree that self reported data isn't the best. But it's the only real way to get this information on a mass scale. Unless we want to have a 100% surveillance state. Best way to compensate for this is to increase the margin of error. To at least note that the data point can fluctuate.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/20 01:30 AM
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Median number of sexual partners for: Men: 6.1 Women: 4.2 Source: CDC
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/20 01:23 AM
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And yet men still have a higher average n count than women. So clearly there is no exaggeration happening here
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/20 10:57 PM
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You dont have to be religious to live in a society modelled by the religious. That is due to biology rather than social conditioning Gonna need to see some proof on that. You're attracted to a woman without ever knowing her n count. Biology doesnt care about anything more than if you're dick gets hard and your plumbing works
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/20 09:01 PM
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I think it's less forgiving and more body fat is an indication of wealth in a poorer country. If you're in a country that can barely afford to feed itself, getting fat is a luxury. That's what makes it attractive. female sex icons of previous eras are still considered attractive to men How many men actively look up those women these days? How many men find the beehive hairstyle attractive? Many of the looks that those women did to appeal to men then no longer apply anymore.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/20 08:16 PM
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Who socially messaged men to prefer low n count women ? Centuries of religious influence that permeated culture, media, and beauty standards for generations?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/20 07:57 PM
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We just going to pretend then that different cultures have different versions of beauty? Or that sex icons of the 70s aren't as attractive to men now? Or that big tits used to be in, and now it's all about thicc women? Men's beauty standards and basics of attraction literally changes by the decade. You can absolutely alter what men en masse find attractive If you got women to associate fat men with high social status or good relationship skills You just described the beauty standards of most und…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/20 07:55 PM
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And what if I dont meet someone I love until I'm 30? I just would have given up a huge part of my life and my youth for no reason. And marrying young is correlated with higher rates of divorce for a reason. I've dated many wonderful women in my life. And I know in hindsight that if I had married or had kids with anyone of them it would have been a disaster. I see this all the time with military marriages. They almost all end in disaster. So no, I reject your take. I'd much rather have a fullfill…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/20 01:44 PM
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If living a fullfilling life full of experience while you're young and healthy is ruining yourself, I sure as hell don't want whatever it is you're selling.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/20 01:23 PM
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I don't disagree. But there are plenty of men out there saying women are more violent than men with complete seriousness.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/20 03:19 PM
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You say that, yet so many men seem to take offense to the idea that Men as a whole are not noble, moral, or above using violence to get what they want.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/20 03:00 PM
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Nomadic tribes had primitive ideas about the idea of ownership and private property. Why would nomadic humans not believe in ownership of anything except for children? Based on very recent accounts of European exploration of the Americas, it seems that children were raised collectively by the tribe. Parentage was a more foreign concept, especially considering many of these societies didnt even know what causes pregnancy.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/20 02:57 PM
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Which is a shame. As understanding other men would help them understand the competition. There is benefit in not having a narrow focus of understanding
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/20 02:51 PM
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I keep hearing this meme. What percentage of your taxes go directly to subsidize women? How much money in comparison goes to literally everything else? If we are talking about the United States, the idea of the welfare state is overblown, and has been dismantled decade by decade. The main person who pays to support the woman who bore Chad's child is Chad. If you disagree please point me to specific examples
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/20 03:07 AM
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If you want to prove an evolutionary component for behavior, you need to prove that its independent of social influences. I cant attempt to stich together evolutionary reasons why people do certain things or behave in certain ways. But the most likely cause is because of social influences that an individual is immersed in. If you cant prove that it's not social, you cant definitively state that the reason is biological/evolutionary
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/20 04:36 PM
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Instead of obsessing over what ethots do pre during and post pandemics, maybe try like, not? I think a lot of men online actively seek out things that make them mad on purpose. No matter how fringe it is they obsess about it and keep searching for it. Almost like a form of digital self harm
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/20 04:32 PM
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most feminists in the developed world are fixated on the first world problems, Imagine that. People wanting to fix issues that concern the country they live in and affect them. I remember the tumblr SJW/ anti-SJW wars of like... 5 years ago. The issue kinda moved on though as the most radical of tumblr feminists were either dropped by the mainstream or the source of radical content grew up and mellowed out. That stuff dissapeared years ago. So unless you've been actively searching for it, its ou…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/20 04:30 PM
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I mean, even if the orgasm isnt mind blowing, the sex itself can be quite pleasurable. But an easy answer is that men get more personal and social validation through sex. A man is going to get an ego boost and respect from other men if he has lots of sex partners in a way that isnt mirrored by women.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/20 02:52 PM
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Agreed. There is a huge variation between just the same gender. Not even counting the fact that intensity is subjective. There is too much overlap and spread here to make any conclusive argument about this.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/20 02:01 PM
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A man that can't maintain a single relationship will not be able to maintain multiple relationships. Sleeping around with multiple women is not the same as being married to multiple women. The later takes much more commitment, work, and communication. The more women the more of that is required. So no
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/20 10:27 PM
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So glad I did my shopping on Thursday. Got to sit fully supplied as the grocery stores were ransacked while sipping bourbon on a crown of toilet paper
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/20 01:30 AM
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I find it amusing that the people who believe that boys being behind in school is the result of a systemic issues in society that needs to be addressed, will in the same breath say that the wage gap is the result of women's choices. You cant have this both ways there bruv
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/20 01:28 AM
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So I've walked around at night and been scared. I'm not a small guy, and there are a lot of times when I put on a "dont fuck with me face" and square myself up to look bigger. And I know that if someone tried to start something I could fight them off and get away. So you are right in that sense. The fear is universal. But as i just said, I'm a big guy. Most people generally ignore me. And while i get some looks and occasional comments, that's all it stays at. Now if I was a small woman, all by h…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/20 01:21 AM
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Men pay more in taxes cause men make more money than women. You don't want to pay more taxes, quit your job and live on NEET bux. Problem solved
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/20 01:08 AM
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Shaming people for being fat has been scientifically shown to have the opposite effect of encouraging people to lose weight. All you're doing is justifying cruelty to either A) justify your own cruelty towards others or B) trying to justify the cruelty inflicted upon you in the past. Trying to help others never was even a concern people's minds. And stop saying this is a guy thing. It's not. It's a you thing. And a thing many other malicious individuals do to others to make themselves seem bette…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/20 06:48 PM
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You make it sound like slut shaming is doing women a favor and is out of the kindness of men's hearts that they do it. Fucking lol. There are several reasons why a lot of men have an aversion to sexually active women, and most of it has to do with their feelings of inadequacy, and none of it has to do with helping a woman lock down a high value man.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/20 12:44 PM
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I care less about who started the interaction. I'm more interested if I'm attracted and interested in the person. That being said, a girl who approaches gets a few extra points for actually having the guts to do so. Confidence is sexy. For men and women
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/20 05:01 PM
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Any man that's had sex with someone else should get tested. Same way you get regular health check ups at the doctor or regular cleanings at the dentist. You dont have to sleep with a lot of people to get an STI. You just need to sleep with one.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/20 01:59 PM
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Most sluts I know at least get tested. Most guys I know dont have never even gotten checked once
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/20 05:24 AM
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Why would a guy want to be with a girl who's slept with 15+ guys? Cause sluts are fun?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/20 12:24 AM
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I think there are quite a few people on PPD that have been around and had quite the time. They typically just dont announce it all the time
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/20 12:22 AM
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They obviously find him somewhat desirable. Why else would they do anything with them? Even the biggest sluts say no. But desirable for one thing doesn't mean desirable for other things. This applies to both men and women
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/20 12:19 AM
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It's more that being a top is still in line with traditional male gender roles. Where a man is expected to be large and in charge. Men who enjoys acts of submission run totally counter to the stereotype, so it doesn't matter if they are still having sex with women, it's still seen as wrong in the eyes of society. Moral of the story. Fuck gender roles. Enjoy what you want. Explore what you want. And stop giving up fun and enjoyment cause of what people who dont pay your bills might think.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/20 09:37 PM
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This might be one of the most sensible posts I've seen on here. More quality content like this please
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/20 04:03 AM
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Plenty of men are friends with women. Myself included. I personally think a man who believes he can not be friends with women speaks a lot to his character and internal biases. Also, men can't stand staying the friendzone, why is that? Cause those men dont want to be friends. They want a relationship. The problem is that their strategy to get a relationship is to be friends first, but what they ultimately want is a relationship. They then end up disappointed that their unvocalized desires were n…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/20 05:43 PM
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He better hope he doesn't get the plague. Else his rage phase choice is really gonna backfire on him
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/20 12:35 PM
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I'm familiar with that theory. I dismissed it entirely until I saw that all crime levels across the entire country simultaneously began to decline as soon as leaded gasoline was banned. Not saying it was entirely the reason. But it is an interesting take.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/20 01:25 PM
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I try not to. But this entire post just reeks of it.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/20 04:13 PM
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Ok boomer
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/20 04:07 PM
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The 20s is actually fascinating looking back at it. Lot of women pushing to loosen sexual norms. The birth of the modern LGBT movement. A thriving underground counter culture due to prohibition. Jazz music. Etc
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/20 04:07 PM
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Incel rates started soaring in 2012. Citation needed. Obesity rates started soaring after 2012. Citation needed. Degenerate and liberal culture became popular after 2012. Citation needed knows it was nothing like this. It was a totally different world back then. Surprise, time has a way of shifting cultural norms due to a wide variety of factors, technology included. I'm sure dating in the 90s was a lot different than than the 70s. And the 70s were different than the 50s. And listening to old pe…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/20 04:04 PM
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Drugs are a bonus to. Life would be awfully boring to spend sober 100% of the time
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/20 12:44 AM
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If that is the primary goal of your life I'd personally recommend reevaluating your life goals
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/20 10:12 PM
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Better cope is just using the money and career benefits to live a life you want. Women are a bonus, not the goal.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/20 08:59 PM
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Cause I'm guessing in their mind, the person who is giving pleasure is a submissive act, and the person receiving pleasure is a more dominant act. But that's not always the case. Giving head or giving oral can easily be an act of dominance. But a lot of people aren't that imaginative
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/20 12:51 PM
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Training themselves to see women as disposable/replaceable and to prioritize casual sex above all else doesn't exactly line up with these noble goals of yours
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/20 12:45 PM
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Flawless logic
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/20 12:46 AM
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Chad to me is just the personification of male insecurity. You fail not because of your own issues, but because there is a man out there superior in all the ways you fail. It's easy to blame women wanting Chad and not them. And it's even easier to idolize chad. But most incels and TRPers only watch women, not other men. And if they did, they would see chad strike out many times with women. His perfection is only due to this weird reverance.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/20 01:55 PM
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I prefer the fableled TriCareatops
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/20 04:09 PM
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Clearly you haven't lived in a military town or met badge bunnies
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/20 02:00 PM
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There are three types of careers in regards to dating/relationships. Careers that are great in terms of sexual thrill. Think a woman being interested in a man in uniform or a firefighter. Or a man who wants to sleep with a stripper. They add little to a relationship or stability, but are an exotic catch. Careers that, while boring, are great for stability. So many women marry men in the military cause of the benefits. And a ambitious man often can provide stability in life financially. And despi…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/20 05:16 AM
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That sex is the ultimate solution for our problems. And that it can be used as a cure all for anything that is failing a man. A lot of women in relationships use sex as a crutch for emotional support, and as a result their actual ability to provide support for a man is awful.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/20 07:33 PM
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Do people on this sub actually socialize with other people? Or do they just understand the world according to reddit memes?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/20 07:30 PM
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Based on your description, you are just like the majority of people in the US. You're not exactly rare
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/20 08:54 PM
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Erectile dysfunction is when you want to be hard but can't. If you're not interested in having sex and don't get hard that's not a medical condition, that's normal
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/20 02:18 PM
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Fuck normal. Normal is boring. I'm happy doing what I love with people who are fun. Why would I want to be miserably boring like all the normies?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/20 04:17 AM
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Oh look. Another one of these posts. FDS and TRP exist parallel to one another. There are differences yes but they are more the same than they are different. And they hate that fact because the best way to play the SMV is without competing agendas. TRP wants submissive women. FDS wants non TRP men. Hence they dislike each other. It's honestly comical at this point
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/20 08:17 PM
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The unspoken truth though is men with high n counts have low to no standards. High n count men didnt get to where they are sleeping only with hot women. Most of the number is less attractive and easy women.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/20 05:14 AM
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I've seen some of the most nymphomaniac women I know turn down dick for being to big. The dick pics did get shared around, like a conversation piece. But the dick remained unsucked and unfucked
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/20 11:13 PM
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How much beer have you got from this sub already? Just a six pack will do for today. But purge week usually requires a case
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/20 07:24 PM
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Lol I'm definitely a weirdo. I'm bisexual and active in S&M scene. I know full well what works for me doesn't work for everyone. But even I can see obvious bad advice or mindsets that guarantee misery.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/20 05:58 PM
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Not sure what you mean by childcare business. If you mean the demographics of professionals in childcare, then the split in the US is 76k males to 907k women. So 8% men and 92% women. Or did you mean something else?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/20 05:48 PM
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Usually hired by older women or gay men. You're not going to have attractive women pay for prostitutes. Male strippers probably. But eye candy is all it will be
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/20 05:32 PM
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This sub attracts Red Pillers (who according to askTRP are outcasts), people who dont like the red pill for whatever reason, and incel/blackpill types. Right from the get go we are not dealing with the most well rounded of demographics. Incel/blackpill types are self explanatory. They are introverts to the extreme and do not socialize in person a lot. If they did, they would realize how a lot of their ideas fall apart when you drift from the spreadsheet view of dating. Also, a lot of them do hav…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/20 05:31 PM
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The fact that it pisses TRP off to no end is probably my favorite part about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/20 05:22 PM
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Most Women do the majority of household and childcare labor
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/20 05:17 PM
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RPW is tradcon women who don't realize they are closer to a subset of kink than a normal relationship. Of course you would find RPW more acceptable. Because it's about breeding women that are spineless and subservient to you. Which if that's you're thing, fine. As as much as I might not like FDS either, they are least know how to prioritize themselves instead of becoming a doormate. And before the incoming 'oh he follows mgtow' blah blah I'm married 7 years together 3. So you're MGTOW, but bad a…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/20 04:48 PM
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If a woman said she is a virgin, I would absolutely not bring her home. Virgin women appeal to men who crave easy validation and ego boost. Mainly cause virgin women have nothing to compare to, so you will always be best. How utterly boring Give me a slut who knows what she wants and what she is doing. Give me someone who is actually good in bed and isn't limited to advice from Cosmo and badly written erotica. Give me a girl who has kinks and interests and isn't a blank slate. And if you want eg…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/20 11:31 PM
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The mentality is to discourage sex work all around. But women who are having to sell tricks are doing it because they have no other option for finances. So by finding just the John's it means the women dont go to jail and instead get put into programs that give them options aside from prostitution. Of course feminist groups would support this. The goal is not about legalizing prostitution. The goal is keeping it illegal but steering women away from prostitution rather than jailing them.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/20 04:17 AM
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Women have always approached guys. I've seen it happen to others and myself plenty of times. Guys might do it more, but it still happens. Guys on this sub either dont have women approach them, or fed ail to recognize that a woman is hitting on them, so they believe women dont do it at all
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/20 02:09 AM
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It's not that the person is a 3. The person is your 3. Differences in attraction are well documented and are heavily influenced by culture. Some things are more universal but many are not.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/20 03:58 PM
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People are having less sex than the previous generation. This is seen in both genders. But it's worth noting that the previous generation had one of the highest rates of sex of all time. And a lot of the pop culture that spawned around it made it seem like sex is a lot more plentiful than it actually is. Personally, I think it has a lot more to do with people not having as much spare time as they used to, and having a lot more distractions that keep them from leaving the house and interacting wi…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/20 03:55 PM
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People are attracted to attractive people? The horror. Despite the convienent number rating system that is popular online, there is no quantifiable looksmatch system out there. There are general trends of attractive and unattractive, absolutely. But a 6 to someone could be an 8 to another. And a 7 to someone could be another's 3. The idea of looksmatch is unrealistic. The idea of enforced looksmatch is downright laughable
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/20 03:51 PM
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the incel council I love this idea. Picture it now, all the high incels gathering around the central chamber to discuss matters of importance to the incel and blackpill community
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/20 03:39 PM
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Smart, sassy, adventurous, passionate, sexual. Can't understate smart though. I refuse to let someone dumb ruin my life. If they are smart, at least I can blame them some. Cause if they are dumb, I have only myself to blame.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/20 02:18 PM
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Just got a new job in a new city. 2020 is starting off on a great note!
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/20 05:35 AM
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I remember when I was in high school I used to be jealous of the college boys that dated high school girls, as often they were some of the prettier girls in school. Then when I got to college that jealousy of those boys turned to revulsion. High schoolers stop being attractive when you leave and start to look more like the kids they are. And the guys that date high school girls do so because no girl their own age wants them
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/20 06:28 PM
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He filters out the successes and funny results from the unmatched, no responses, and negative responses.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/20 09:25 PM
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It's not super common. But common enough. Typically younger women who treat LGBT spaces like a petting zoo
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/20 03:43 PM
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I think he is saying straight women who go into gay bars to oogle and touch all the attractive men despite the men in question not appreciating being touched by strange women they are not attracted to
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/20 03:39 PM
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Idk man, why do people who don't have success in their dating life assume everyone else is just like them? We all like to assume we are average (or at least slightly above average) so we project our experiences onto others. Our own view of the world is the prism that colors how we see everything. The only way to break that is with empathy. And empathy is not exactly in great supply in these parts.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/20 02:24 AM
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Only for quickies with none of their friends around to see. The real way to get your N count up is to drop your standards
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/20 04:11 PM
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It's not because male psychology finds it particularly good for producing good offspring Do... do you not think men are biologically programmed to women with good genes and good likelyhood for healthy offspring? The majority of things that men find attractive in women are fertility and health markers. Biology wants men to have lots of good healthy offspring. This means men will be most interested in women with good genetic markers. And good genetic markers are usually accompanied with beauty tre…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/20 03:57 AM
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autistic and unpalatable Can't highlight this enough
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/20 03:01 AM
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Men are not instinctually drawn to women with top tier genes? Men don't employ sexual strategies in order to try and obtain top tier women? This is news to me. Counterpoint: Men and women are not the same. They do not value the same things. Women seek out the high level men with traits they value. Men seek out high level women with traits they value. Both employ strategies to achieve this. And both have proven in practice to be willing to abandon current partners if they realistically believe th…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/20 03:00 AM
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Dr Peterson is not what I would call unbiased or an experiment in the field. In addition, as we just agreed upon, hypergamy manifests itself differently depending on the culture, customs, and values of the population we are looking at. Men do not value money in a mate the same way women do. That does not mean men do not try to date up in other ways (status, looks, connections, etc). It is however harder to measure, as many of those categories are more difficult to measure than money. But I think…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/20 02:34 AM
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That's why I said men are the control group. Although Men's non-hypergamous nature is usually taken as an assumed fact. I dislike such bold assumptions. Especially since the pro male bias of the sub would make this assumption unreliable. In order to prove hypergamy is hardwired in women, we need to prove it's not hard wired in men. If we cannot, then the law is that men and women are both hypergamous, it just manifests differently
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/20 02:13 AM
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In order for us to be more scientific (and I use that term lightly), if we want to state that women are hypergamous, we need a control group. Usually TRP uses men as the control, stating they are not hypergamous. But as you just said, how hypergamy is expressed depends on a culture and its values/rituals/customs. Which means male hypergamy would manifest itself differently than in women. So we need to be more specific in what we are looking for.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/20 02:07 AM
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The scientific community recognizes it mostly in societies with more rigid class structures (i.e. India). There is much less acceptance of its existence in societies with greater class mobility and more vaguely defined social classes
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/20 01:56 AM
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You ever even try to experiment with men?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/20 05:36 AM
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As a life advice coach, it's hard to argue that he isn't beneficial. Countless men out there say he has helped them turn their life around and make changes for the better. For that I have a lot of respect for him. Especially since the men in question are often lost and have slipped between the cracks of larger society. As an intellectual, he knows how to use complicated language and sentence structure to make it sound like he knows what he is talking about, when in reality he does not. The man i…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/20 04:55 PM
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I find that RP is counterproductive to being happy. Lots (but not all) of those guys seem quite miserable. And while they might be getting laid more (or at least saying they are) doesn't change the fact that they still seem like they are living a frustrated existence
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/20 11:33 PM
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Yeah. If it's really late and or they've been drinking I dont mind them staying over. Far better to have someone else in bed with you than sleeping alone anyway. Whether I make breakfast for them or not is an entirely separate discussion.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/20 03:36 PM
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Men talk, but it is often shallow talk. Yes, close male friends would say if they had sex, and if it was good or bad. But how many close male friends have you discussed fetishes with? How many men would openly discuss their curiosities with? Especially ones that involve anal play You're also ignoring gay men This entire sub ignores gay men except when its convenient. And for this matter I would agree. The average hetero man operates with much less sexual freedom and openness that gay men operate…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/20 03:21 PM
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I said women talk about sex more openly with each other than men talk about it with each other. If men want to develop a healthier relationship with their kinks and sexuality, being able to talk about it with other men is a step in the right direction. But that is solely a male issue, women are not involved with that. And I'm going to disagree with you on that. I have been a part of countless discussions with women about kinks, sexuality, and fantasies with no accusations of being a rapist and n…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/20 01:39 PM
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I've more or less self taught myself how to be a therapist. Dated quite a few women with mental health issues in the past and needed to learn to be a good listener/counselor to help deal with episodes they had. I actually did this to the point of ignoring my own needs, which is something I've worked on and improved greatly the past few years
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/20 01:11 AM
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I find it interesting that male interest in females dominating is slightly higher than female interest in males dominating. Slightly surprising. Kinks are spawned from a great deal of factors, and it would be dangerous to label the cause to any one thing. But on average women are more comfortable with their sexual interests and communicate their desires and fantasies often relative to men. Men meanwhile pretty much only discuss sexual interest with each other on the most shallow of circumstances…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/20 01:08 AM
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Are you even surprised at this point
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/20 01:35 AM
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Why are you ranting about guns and hypothetical invasion by Japan for an entire paragraph?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/20 01:20 AM
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Having never been a lady How kind of you to quickly state your lack of knowledge on the topic. How's a girl supposed to submit to her Lord Oh man, didnt realizing you were trolling. Carry on
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/20 11:49 PM
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Women stayed in unhappy marriages due to economic necessity. They weren't happily married or enjoying their situation. If they were, they wouldn't have gotten divorces at unprecedented rates once they could survive without a husband. I would agree that marriage freaks men out more than women themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/20 11:30 PM
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The death penalty has been shown to be a poor deterrent. Most people who commit crimes of passion dont stop to think about the repercussions of their actions until it's too late. The death penalty has had no impact on murder rates
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/20 11:27 PM
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There already exists high end sex dolls and toys for men. Most the men here have none of them. If even the basic stuff that exists now isn't a solution, I doubt the world's most advanced robot that has ever existed will be a reasonable solution either
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/20 04:38 PM
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Not being like most of the autistic depressing men that populate this sub.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/20 06:18 PM
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Drowning in pussy, and yet they still sound so miserable and angry
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/20 05:34 PM
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I'd say about 15% of incels are extreme misogynists that produce the works that we see. The rest are just sad lonely guys who enjoy the gallows humor. One I can sympathize with, the other is a waste of time to try and help. But the extreme misogynists incels are usually the defacto voices of authority in those spaces.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/20 03:38 PM
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Jokes are good be it crowd or one on one. As is body posture. Confidence. Attitude. And ability to pick up on subtle non verbal signs of communication
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/19 10:07 PM
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You assume incorrectly. How do autistic incels find those people? Probably would be a good start for them to be in more social environments and actually get to know and read people better. Social skills are skills that need to be honed. You dont read a book and suddenly become a social butterfly.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/19 10:05 PM
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The people you described hate the opposite gender because *A) Those individuals had a fantasy idea of what women were like in their head which turned out to be false *B) They wanted something from women that they could not or did not get. All those groups are examples of the Dunning Kruger effect. They think they understand women, but have only gained a basic understanding and decided that they were now experts. How can they know the other if they only observe limited data, and refuse 1st hand a…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/19 09:35 PM
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And the other 80% will actually be forced to put effort in. This is the equality most of the men here want right? 80/20 rule and whatnot
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/19 06:36 PM
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The hampstering here trying to say FDS and TRP are not the same is dizzying
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/19 06:32 PM
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Stay away from these kinds of women. No wonder people here have bad opinions of women if these are the women you constantly associate with. Games are for children, if she wants to play games she can go home alone. Men need to have standards
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/19 03:58 PM
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Guys who play the stupid game should not be surprised if they get burned by it. I also fill zero sympathy for women who play games like this and guys take them at their word. You want something, ask for it like an adult and stop putting men in a risky scenario because you are too embarrassed
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/19 03:56 PM
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Promote family values system and provide even incentives for starting a family. Make financial abortion legal for men Put an end to female hypergamy instincts into law Stop with gender discrimination in family courts. Well this is a mixed bag of conflicting goals. Hard to say you promote family values but also are okay with having women and children go hungry. Or would you like to see a taxpayer supported child support system in lieu of having just the father pay. What kind of laws against hyper…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/19 11:26 AM
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That's more to do with their uninteresting lifestyle choices and personality rather than their age.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/19 11:19 AM
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The act of persuasion is literally that of turning a no into a yes. The act of persuasion is turning a maybe into a yes. Turning a no into a yes is risky and generally not the best use of your time and energy. Men are already generally more literal. This is a meme. Men are not more literal at all when you start dancing around hidden desires and conflict of interests. Men just like to pretend they dont play the games women do, even though they play plenty. Women generally play tons of games with …
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/19 11:16 AM
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My conclusion is that people need to pay attention to the needs of the other person. What does a person telling you No convey? Seems like a breakdown of communication and not paying attention if they say no and you keep pursuing
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/19 11:08 AM
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Agreed. You can see this much more obviously reflected in incels and their idea of "roasties". Where having sex with lots of men defouls and ruins her. But lots of sex with the same man does nothing. Most of the talk about n count and the like has just as much if not more to do with the man's insecurities than the behavior of the woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/19 03:34 AM
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And at different points of their lives
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/19 03:31 AM
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Lifting TRP takes to the extremes. There are plenty of physical activities that are effective at achieving a good physique. And many of those are much more social and less isolating. But being physically in shape is a desirable characteristic on anyone, Male or female. To assume otherwise is delusional. Extreme body builders being an extreme outlier.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/19 01:30 AM
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What's y'alls New Years Eve plans?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/19 06:13 PM
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Are you saying dating and relationships dynamics have not changed significantly in half a century? I can point to multiple trends that have occurred the past decade alone
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/19 03:11 PM
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I think you have that backwards. Traditional marriages were very much made for pragmatic economic and social reasons. Modern egalitarian relationships are more likely to be based off of mutual interest in one enough and less logistical purposes
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/19 03:09 PM
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I think most men of PPD should take a dildo or dick up the ass. For education's sake.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/19 05:01 AM
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Wage slave is such an interesting insult from poor people. The only one who can use that insult and have it mean anything is if someone so rich they dont have to work uses it. From anyone else, I find it more to be the mantra of the NEETs
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/19 04:53 AM
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Shrug it off, go back to having sex. I cant control that im not the biggest. And while I can control how good the sex is, like most technical things, the more you think about it the worse you end up being. Dont let your ego get in the way and both of these scenarios you described are very statistically likely events. Don't let it bother you, enjoy the moment and stop questioning a good thing
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/19 01:23 PM
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Being into degradation is rare. Wanting it right off the bat with a partner she just met is even rarer. I think a lot of people here confuse degrading sex with passionate sex. Lots of women are into the later. The former less so
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/19 12:47 AM
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I never said men leave their wives. What I did say is that men cheat more on average than their wives and are more likely to remarry following a divorce. This indicates that Men still notice high quality women, want them, and act on it far more than women act on hypergamy. The difference is women abandon their previous relationship whereas men don't. Not sure which is better, but they are both far from honorable
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/19 04:45 PM
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You're forgetting a few facts in your calculations there. 1) High schoolers are dumb. And have no idea how to navigate the nuance of relationships. Lots of toxic and horrible behaviors are present in high school relationships. 2) Looks are absolutely important in high school. I don't know why you would think otherwise. 3) Status is even more a factor in high school. There is a very definitive social hierarchy that doesn't really have an equivalent outside of it. Most likely due to a small group …
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/19 04:38 PM
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Women are also less likely to remarry than men are. So while they are more likely to leave, it's less of an upgrade and more just wanting to get out of a relationship. And men also cheat more than men do. I dont understand your points
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/19 04:32 PM
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We are talking human biology + history, and your source here is a psychologist. This is a major red flag for your point
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/19 12:00 PM
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We absolutely can blame male orbiters. Being an orbiter is a voluntary label. They can leave at any point. And they should as soon as they realize that the woman of their affections is not interested in them. As much as I might disagree with some red pill tenants, oneities is absolutely toxic when it involves a person who is not interested back. If those men are too dumb and have too little self respect to move on, that's on them. And I'm saying this as a man who exhibited this behavior earlier …
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/19 11:56 AM
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More of its satisfying for her to know that she was good enough to beat all the rest and have him choose her.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/19 02:26 PM
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I'm talking about PPD. Love, relationships, sex, and intimacy are very important to me. Which is why I dont take the opinions on here seriously
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/19 01:39 PM
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I'm here cause I'm bored and enjoy the occasional shit post. Do people actually take the stuff here super serious and base life philosophy around pillology? Wack
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/19 11:50 AM
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Communities that provide clear instructions as to what they expect and allow in courtship are attractive to socially challenged individuals. Makes it amusing that so many men here are so adverse to Poly. The lack of clear instructions and ritual is part of the reason they have such a hard time normally.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/19 04:39 PM
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The really impressive part is where they hampster in some evo pysch bs saying that men are immune to the effects of high n counts on pair bonding. Therefore men have an obligation to sleep with as many people as possible because women want high n count men and it has no negative consequences. I just think they think about other mens dicks far more than is healthy.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/19 02:29 PM
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Do you remember when PPD posted pictures of themselves? Not much better unfortunately
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/19 02:06 PM
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Plenty of unattractive people in monogamy as well there mate. Polygamy is still very much a fringe culture and not at all the societal norm. This means it often attracts people who are also not a part of mainstream society. A good portion of those are not conventionally attractive. And a lot more are not about to get in front of a camera or reporter to talk about their dating life. I've seen plenty of people engaged in polygamy. Some are ugly. Some are attractive. There is a heavy amount of conf…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/19 02:01 PM
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I like it a lot. I'm a very visual person, and I like the presentation and how it can accent the apperance of someone I'm already attracted to. To each their own. But I see it like unwrapping a present. Simpler without the wrappings perhaps. But damn is it more fun with the presentation
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/19 09:47 PM
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The job of your parents isnt to make you into a stud. The job of your parents is to train you to be stable and able to survive life on your own. More emphasis is placed on education, financial literacy, happiness, and work ethic. TL;DR If you had an unattractive, or emasculine son, why not inform them that if they don't try harder, or shape up, they're going to end up lonely? I want my kids to be confident, sure of themselves, and to pursue what makes them happy. I'll caution them on what their …
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/19 01:29 AM
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No. This is far too entertaining to hide
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/19 12:04 AM
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You should check out his post history. It gets better
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/19 12:03 AM
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Everytime I feel PPD cant offer something so stupid it's amazing i am proven wrong. Thank you for this glorious gold shitpost OP.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/19 12:01 AM
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Aristocracy and oligarchy are not the same thing. But they are incredibly similar. Small ruling class, with wealth and power passed along hereditary lines. Very locked social strata. Marriage is absolutely a vehicle to help amass wealth. But it's far from the only. Marriage has existed for millenial, yet peasants still remained peasants even if they were married. There are advantages to marriage, but it's far from a surefire thing. Especially with more people being financially illiterate
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/19 10:09 PM
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We already have been seeing a creation of an oligarchy. Although I think declining marriage rates is more a symptom of various problems than the problem itself
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/19 09:47 PM
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I think its more the fact that men on this thread can't even list those things. Theres a lot of hamstring answers of guys talking more about economic theories than just saying making fun times together and building a relationship/family.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/19 03:25 PM
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I wasnt talking to you. I was talking to the guy that thinks the sole cause of men not doing the dishes is cause they got dumped
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/19 02:35 PM
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Most manosphere men are conservative leaning. Conservative mentality still holds tattoos with negative connotations. I.e. the manosphere hates tattoos. Also things the manosphere doesnt like: fun
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/19 02:29 PM
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I'm sensing some projection here. Most guys in relationships dont do dishes with their partner because they didnt do them when they were single. And when they were single they werent depressed from a break up. They just were lazy and didnt mind living with the mess. How many men do you know?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/19 02:19 PM
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Citation needed. As cringy as some white knights can be, I cant imagine really any of them permenantly switching sexes just cause a woman asked them to
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/19 05:58 PM
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How often can you not get hard or cum?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/19 05:54 PM
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r/BDSMadvice and r/BDSMcommunity are some good general ones. BDSM is an umbrella term that encapsulates a huge amount of sub groups and communities. But those two would be a good place to start
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/19 04:00 PM
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TRP arent natural alpha. They are LARPing as alphas. True alphas dont mold their personality and desires based on the opinions of strangers online. I know plenty of Male submissives. And a good deal of them are tougher and more confident than OP could dream of being.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/19 03:58 PM
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I'm heavily involved in the S&M scene. Trust me, I know lol. The high powered men are into dommes is a trope. But it isnt exactly wrong either. But youd be better off hearing from a sex worker about that. But you dont have to be rich to take part in the scene/community. Just open minded and respectful.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/19 10:05 PM
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I think you must have a really romantic vision of male/female relationships throughout time if you think now things are screwed up. Humans have survived wars, revolutions, diseases, faminine, changes in technology, social shifts, and so much more. Things change, but humans keep right on chugging along. If you cant keep up with the change, you lose. Simple as that.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/19 10:01 PM
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I'm Male. And I know quite a few, of varying degrees of intensity. Honestly of all the people I know that are aligned as a submissive, half are men. I wouldn't have believed it a few years ago personally. But go figure, porn and stereotypes aren't accurate representations of actual people.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/19 09:55 PM
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How many guys do you know that want to be submissive at all? Cause I know several, and I do some of those who pass 'shit tests', hold frame, and are successful with women. Most submissive men though understandably don't give that information out readily.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/19 08:25 PM
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There are plenty of men who sleep around a lot, enjoy dominating women, AND enjoy being submissive. It's called being a Switch, and they are very common. In your mind, we can have the most alpha man in the room, confident, aggressive, holds frame, muscular, etc. But if he has even the slightest desire to be submissive in the bedroom occasionally he isnt alpha?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/19 08:09 PM
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Submissive fantasies do not equal submissive all the time. Do you know how many alpha men out there desire to not be in control? Literally millions. People are not stereotypes, and are capable of a good deal of different wants and desires
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/19 08:04 PM
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1) What do you think of this beta male? Looks like he is enjoying himself. Is there a problem? And for the record, plenty of alpha men have submissive fantasies, it's practically a trope now. 2) Is porn to blame for his submissive ness, his family upbringing being raised in an all woman household or both? There is no one root cause of peoples fetishes. Could it be childhood trauma? Could it be porn? Could it just simply be he has always be into this for as long as he can remember? Could it be al…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/19 07:54 PM
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I agree. The relationship should feel natural and not forced/ faked. But I would not say that most men are exactly thinking with their head in regards to pursuing women.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/19 01:19 AM
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I actively violate a lot of red pill laws and I still do just fine. And I'm also happier than most of the people on this sub. That's really all the proof I need.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/19 01:11 AM
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My experience in ppd daily
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/19 01:00 AM
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Oh please. Men absolutely want the most gorgeous and most desirable woman in the room. Theres a reason the term trophy wife exists
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/19 12:57 AM
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in the past, a woman goes out with dudes in the neighborhood. Tom, Brady and Mark. All fine guys. Even invite them over for a beer after we get married. This has to be one of the funnier things I've read on here since purge week. Thank you for this
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/19 12:52 AM
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I mean, I've been on the receiving end of abuse from women before as a man. It's what first attracted me to the MRA. But it eventually became obvious that they were less interested in helping men and more interested in using Male IPV victims as gotcha points against feminism. Its obvious and I'm glad I eventually moved away from that and into much more healthy relationships and groups. I think Male victims of IPV do feel very angry and alone. And it doesnt help that many of them might not even c…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/19 01:56 AM
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I never understood the mentality of "if I cant be first, I shouldn't even try at all". Life isnt a race. Theres 7 billion people on the planet. You're never gonna be the best at something. And you're definitely not going to be if you dont try.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/19 11:37 PM
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Not sure about his face, but his brain has definitely gotten mushy over the years
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/19 11:35 PM
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I've known people with low n counts that have cheated in every relationship they are with. And I've known sluts that are fiercely loyal to a relationship when they get in one. I think previous relationship history is a far better barometer for potential cheating than their success at casual sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/19 11:31 PM
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Do you links also include the severity of injuries from IPV? I know first hand that women can be just as if not more violent then men. But the numbers of men going to the hospital or mosque from IPV is dwarfed by the levels of women who are hospitalized and die. Violence of any level should not be tolerated in a relationship, but let's not try to say that a slap across the cheek and beating someone half to death are equal. I very much would like to have a discussion on the matter of Male victims…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/19 10:26 PM
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I agree. With virgins (both Male and female) there is more work behind it. And it involves much more fullfilling the others ego and less actually enjoying the sex itself
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/19 11:10 PM
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Why do men hate being virgin shamed? Theres plenty of legitimate arguments for women not being interested in virgins afterall. Doesnt make virgin or low n count men feel any better though. Actually makes them quite mad. Same thing really
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/19 10:54 PM
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Oh I have plenty of hobbies and activities outside of work. If there is a take away from my posts it's not that I am lonely or not active. But work does dominant a lot of peoples lives and greatly affects their income. The topic of work WILL come up inevitably. And immediate life discussions are more frequent than, for example, discussions on the future of human evolution.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/19 08:57 PM
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I noticed it stopped after I left university. Say what you want about school but it does develop a lot more curious and questioning mindset in people. Now in the work force, people are more interested in talking about sports or weekend plans.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/19 08:04 PM
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Serious question. What country are you from. Cause I'm getting the feeling American english isnt your first language. But also yes, I'm heavily thirsting for a chicken sandwich right about now
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/19 08:02 PM
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I dont make up the American vernacular. I just understand and use it as appropriate. Try your best to keep up. In either case thirst is a strong desire for something that you want quenched. Similar to how you can hunger for something without it involving food.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/19 07:53 PM
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I'm just 40 hours away from working 500 hours of OT for the year. Not sure if I should be happy or tired about that fact.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/19 07:18 PM
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Different strategies work for different people. Some people are better with OLD and some are better with clubs. Best pick the method that plays to your strengths. Regarding tinder, you can easily stand out a bit just by putting some effort in, cause a lot of men don't. Get good pictures with good lighting and angles, think of some joke as a description (and stay away from "I hate writing bios"), and just say something wittier than "Hi" or "Hey". Do all that and you should be at least better than…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/19 07:16 PM
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Guys are thirstier than girls. This has been discussed at length. If a girl has a full inbox a guy has to try to stand out from the rest.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/19 07:10 PM
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The Black Pill clearly
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/19 06:02 PM
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Funny. That's how I feel looking at the miserably angry men all over this sub.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/19 05:33 PM
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I am a man
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/19 05:27 PM
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My point still stands. I see more men complaining about hypergamy than women complaining men don't commit to them. And the women that do publicly complain about men not committing are also not the same women posting explicit material online. And tying back to the OP, porn existing doesnt oversaturated the SMV as wank fodder isnt competing against actual women. No healthy man is gonna choose porn over real women.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/19 04:13 PM
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Sins? Dafuq. And the women complaining that men dont commit arent the ones making snapchat premiums or posting naked pics online
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/19 04:08 PM
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Ok... and your point is?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/19 03:28 PM
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Most people go through the find themselves phase longer. The average age people get married is getting higher by the year. And most people who dont want to get married also dont want to be alone. Women like sex. Men like sex. Seems only natural that if you're the kind of man women find attractive it shouldnt be that hard to get commitment free sex. The only issue is if one side wants something the other isnt willing to give. And despite the meme, women that engage in hookup culture most likely d…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/19 03:17 PM
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Men I feel as a whole suffer from being alone in a crowded room. They have lots of shallow friendships and connections, and never really discuss anything of emotional importance. Don't get me wrong, I love my guy friends. We are always out doing something, pushing the boundaries, and having lots of laughs. But we dont discuss deep topics like we used to, and we certainly have never asked each other how they are doing aside from just platitudes. I find my girl friends to be much better with that …
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/19 02:47 PM
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Unless you are having sex with all these women online the SMV is not being oversaturated. It's no different than how porn didnt end marriage and dating completely either. Visual satisfaction is also inferior to physical satisfaction. Every single woman could be a insta hoe and I still would pursue women irl because an Instagram account isnt a real person or a real connection.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/19 02:41 PM
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Dick is cheap and abundant. Good dick is actually quite rare and in high demand though
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/19 03:17 AM
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Yeahhhhh, about that...
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/19 02:14 AM
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There are countless more distractions from the stress of life that dont involve human interaction. People spend more and more time away from other people and they slowly start to lose touch with other people. And eventually, they give up trying altogether.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/19 02:12 AM
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Men hating womens rights has existed for as long as women demanded rights. There isnt any rise, as this has always existed, and I don't really think there was a point it didnt exist.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/19 02:05 AM
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How much group work do you think happens in real life? Almost everything. A single person didnt build the space shuttle, operate a fortune 500 company, or run a business. They do group projects in class because learning to function as part of a group is just as important as your individual skills.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/19 02:02 AM
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What does evo psyche make of less men and women having kids? That seems to run counterproductive to biological imperatives as per evolutionary psychology, yet it's happening en masse
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/19 10:58 PM
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Clearly she was selling more than just her body. High end escorts are high end because they know how to entertain and satisfy rich and successful men with more than just sex. You dont bring a dumb yet pretty street hooker to high end galas
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/19 02:38 PM
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Bright makes more money than the vast majority of Americans at a young age through wealthy men valuing her company In walks bonusfruit to explain to a high end escort what men really value. Fucking lol. I love this sub sometimes.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/19 01:01 PM
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I mean, sexual acts generally happen to women. Whereas with men sexual acts are something they do unto women. I'm sure men would record higher levels of disgust if they were the one having things shoved into their holes.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/19 10:22 AM
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Posted 5 hours ago Fucking lol at the people who have the delusion that these threads arent commonplace
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/19 03:10 AM
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I would also add they've been socialized to not get involved in child rearing at a young age. So they lack experience with children. This alone makes them worse
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/19 10:25 PM
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Masculinity is defined and presented differently all over the world. This alone means that its artificial. In addition everyone acknowledges that you have to train men to be masculine. Even TRP states this. This also highlights it is not inherently natural. Nothing natural about suppressing any and all emotion to appear stoic. Or not showing physical affection and reassurance with your bros for fear of being seen as gay. Agreed with you that femininity is not inherently natural either. Just a co…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/19 09:12 PM
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Depending on where in the world you live it varies. Being in the UK it is probably easier than the US. And like abortion, just because it's not legal or easy to access doesnt mean it doesnt exist. In many states there is only a single clinic that offers abortion for the entire state, and I guarantee you there are far more prostitutes than that in the same state.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/19 10:32 AM
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A privilege is a certain entitlement to immunity granted by the state or another authority to a restricted group, either by birth or on a conditional basis. ... By contrast, a right is an inherent, irrevocable entitlement held by all citizens or all human beings from the moment of birth.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/19 06:30 AM
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What would you say if I was the only person in the world with certain anti-bodies for a specific disease? There are countless cases around the world of people containing rare blood types. Containing special life saving anti bodies. Who have genes that could be used to save millions. And in countries that respect human rights, they cannot have their bodily autonomy violated. In America and Europe you cannot have a medical procedure forced upon you, cannot have your organs removed without consent,…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/19 06:27 AM
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You are not entitled to someone elses body. We can certainly take steps to legalize sex work and have workers protected under law should they choose to engage in the practice. But I don't see you getting far with saying men being paid a monthly hooker stipend is ensuring their dignity as human beings. Redditors writing mean things about organized religion is not a violation of human rights. A country rounding up members of a specific religion and exterminating them en mass is. Very big differenc…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/19 05:58 AM
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Human rights are rights inherent to all human beings, regardless of race, sex, nationality, ethnicity, language, religion, or any other status. Human rights include the right to life and liberty, freedom from slavery and torture, freedom of opinion and expression, the right to work and education, and many more. Everyone is entitled to these rights, without discrimination.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/19 05:48 AM
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Agreed. Incels have access to porn, sex toys, sex dolls, and many have access to prostitutes. But that didnt solve their problem. Because they dont want sex per say, they want the intimacy and desire that comes from genuine attraction. And that can't be forced.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/19 04:03 AM
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I'm hesitant to define a human right as access to someone elses body. Sex workers are not a catch all solution. They are still workers offering their labor, and must also possess the right to refuse a service. Their right to refuse service to a client is one of the things that distinguishes it from trafficking. The act is still voluntary, even if it is for money.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/19 04:00 AM
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Dont know what to tell you. I have both been approached by women and have seen women approach guys more times than I can count. If you're not observing it that is very much on you. Feminists want to make everything about sex How many feminists have you actually spoken to beyond your corners of the internet? Cause it seems like you're projecting replacing manosphere concerns for feminist ones.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/19 09:37 PM
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Women do approach men. They just dont approach you. There is a difference
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/19 09:26 PM
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Ok Boomer
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/19 09:24 PM
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I think you are reading into something about me that isnt accurate. But thank you for being the first person to ever call me a prude. That was new lol
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/19 09:14 PM
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Got a better way to do the study? Want to follow people around and observe if they actually have sex or not?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/19 09:09 PM
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I find it to be a fun social activity. And it comes with it's own unique rewards and risks. I like having sex because beyond it feeling good, it also is a form of validation emotionally. Knowing you can please your partner, and knowing they wanted you as bad as they did. It's also a chance to explore new sensations and discover a persons sexuality, as only so much can be explored through theory alone. A lot of it is also social though. Men are expected to always want sex. And getting lots of sex…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/19 09:34 AM
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About as big a role it plays in every other facet of life. You can plan all you want, but a string of bad luck will undo most or all of it. And you can not plan, and end up winning the genetic lottery. But it is a horrible strategy to only rely on luck.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/19 09:28 AM
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Do you honestly think men want to be whoring around into their 40s and 50s? There is something to be said for stability and accruing long term gains over short term ones. No man or woman wants to be spending their later stages in life alone
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/19 04:45 AM
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Why is it that guys are expected to go straight from gruel to "fresh sourdough with smoked salmon and capers and nice reisling"? This is such a weird analogy that you try to make sound like a bad thing, but actually sounds like someone just struck the lottery.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/19 04:43 AM
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I mean, personally I would call energetic/charismatic/confident under the interesting umbrella. But to each their own lol
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/19 10:13 PM
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Because this sub doesnt really care about womens dating strategies. The conversation is only geared around Male dating strategies, and the occasional outrage at FDS. Women should be interesting and engaging. I wouldnt seriously date a woman that is not. But plenty of men will. And as long as plenty of men allow themselves to have low standards, many women wont feel the need to improve. Men deserve better, and should have standards for themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/19 09:55 PM
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Multiple things are necessary. I'm aware. But understanding nuance is a lost trait and many people on here need it explained to them like they are 5. Hence why I'm saying the nice-asshole spectrum is a secondary argument and less important than people make it out to be. I get bored of the "nice guys finish last cause all women want are jerks" memes
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/19 09:48 PM
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Your coworker needs to improve his diet sounds like
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/19 09:10 PM
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From the biggest sluts I know, men are far more weirded out by threesomes than women are. FMF threesomes are way more common than MFM ones. Guys arent really threatened by women as they dont see them as rivals romantically or sexually. So I've known bi women can make out with and fuck a mans girl in front of him and he will cheer it on. While a guy doing the same will elicit anger. My friends enjoy this double standard immensely.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/19 09:06 PM
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This thread is basically just "But wont someone please think of the incels!". It would be funny if it wasnt so sad
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/19 06:23 AM
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Agreed. The bar is set so low for men that it's very easy to stand out just by doing the bare minimum even.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/19 06:19 AM
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Over 70% of men have had sex in the past year. And by the age of 30 less than 1.5% of men are virgins. Men have sex. Maybe not as much as they feel they deserve but they have sex. You just happen to be hanging around with outliers of the bell curve
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/19 06:16 AM
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Ahem
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/19 12:57 PM
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A common yet unsuccessful marketing tactic. Sex ads gets attention, but rarely actually sells a product, and in many cases actually hurt sales.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/19 06:55 PM
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Mostly on these corners of the internet. I dont relate to it, my friends dont relate to it, and most of the internet doesnt relate to it. Men work long hard hours because of the money it provides. Money funds lifestyles, access to possessions, and security. If men put pussy at the top of their priority list they would stop working such long hours. I know I could get laid a lot more if I wasnt working as much as I do now. But I want the money, so I work. Same with every other guy I know. As usual…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/19 12:15 PM
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do you think people do it because they are rewarded with money? Yes
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/19 12:01 PM
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If you don't want to be in a monogamous relationship why are you asking to be convinced? Just dont settle if you dont want to. Save everyone the frustration
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/19 11:56 AM
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Doesnt sound like the non western SMP is exactly a utopia. What with India and China having more men than women. Japanese and Koreans working too hard to date. South Africa having some of the world's highest rates of rate. Etc
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/19 06:10 PM
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Interests, hobbies, sense of humor, fashion choices, opinions, dreams, goals, banter, etc. Normal human being shit
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/19 08:12 PM
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Not all of PPD. But a non negligible segment of men seem to honestly think mens sole motivation to get up in the morning is the promise of maybe having sex. And that if a man doesn't have sex as often as he feel he deserves then he will just give up on life and working. As a man I find this both ludicrous and insulting
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/19 08:10 PM
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Talking to and showing interest in them as a person as opposed to staring at their tits and drooling.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/19 08:07 PM
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RPW is tradcon women and men pretending to be the equivalent of the redpill. Fully agree that FDS is much more analogous with TRP.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/19 04:29 PM
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Guys like nice standards of living and money in their pockets. Too intelligent of a comment for this sub to handle
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/19 03:48 PM
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Just dont try to take them out to bars and buy them liquor and you should be fine. (Assuming you're an american). And if you feel odd about it, dont broadcast it to everyone. Not everything you do or everyone you date needs to be public information
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/19 05:01 PM
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If they meet the same physical standards as required by men, why would this be an issue? Sure there might be less women who can meet those qualifications than men, but if they meet them, why shouldnt they be allowed to serve? I've worked alongside military women for years. And a lot of them are tougher than a lot of the guys they serve alongside. Hell, policewoman even have the stereotype as being much more aggressive and serious than their Male counterparts. my personal hangups about letting wo…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/19 04:53 PM
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Normally you have to wait till purge week for stuff this good
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/19 02:16 PM
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Too much math involved. Clearly OP is on adderall
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/19 02:13 PM
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I didnt say all cases. Just that for every false accusation I've heard of at least two slaps on the wrist. Brock Turner getting only a few months comes to mind. There was a bus driver just a few weeks ago who was convicted of raping a 14 yo girl and got no jail time. And there was a case just a few days ago where two boys admitted to raping a girl and received no jail time. 🤷‍♂️
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/19 07:35 PM
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I just did a 2 minute search on google and got several hits for women filing false police reports and being arrested for it. This wasnt hard to find.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/19 07:07 PM
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What are you saying? I pointed out there is already due process and procedure for false reports and slander. There are defenses against false accusations and there are avenues of recourse if you have been impacted by baseless claims. What additional step do you want? You are not answering my questions to you.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/19 06:49 PM
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At what point should it be illegal? Should the person be arrested if the police deem it not worth pursuing? Should the person be arrested if the case does not end in a guilty verdict? Cause as stated above, it is illegal to make a false police report already. And you can sue someone for defamation and slander. One recognizes that wasting government resources needlessly is a crime, and the other recognizes that making remarks without base that damage someone's livelihood is also punishable. What …
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/19 06:44 PM
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It's already illegal to file a false police report. Punishable by large fines and over a year in jail depending on the severity of the false accusation. How would you suggest improving the process for rape cases in a way that better convict guilty parties and better screening against false allegations?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/19 06:35 PM
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Statistics can say whatever you want them to say. And a lot of studies vary the most by what point is the accusation considered false. Some consider it false if the police label it "no-crime", even if no action is taken against the accused. Some label it false if the case doesnt end in a guilty verdict, even though all it merely showed is that there wasnt enough evidence to prove beyond a shadow of a doubt. And some only call it false if the accuser was proven in a seperate trial to have malicio…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/19 06:32 PM
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As a man, I place false rape accusations in the same threat level as shark attacks. Could it happen? Yes. Would it be awful and life altering? Also yes. Is it likely to happen? Not really. For every false rape accusation I've heard of in the news I've heard twice as many convicted rapists receive a slap on the wrist. And for every one of those, I've met 3 people irl who have been sexually assualted/raped. The false rape accusation hysteria to me seems more like sensationalizing a fear that isnt …
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/19 06:18 PM
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Most of the guys here have never been to a party in their lives. It's almost cringeworthy at times to see just how sheltered a lot of people here are.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/19 10:16 AM
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They also should offer better compliments than the competition. Most attractive women will hear the standard stuff of them being hot, sexy, or beautiful. The rule I go with is offer compliments on things they had a concious choice in making. Complimenting someone's outfit, make up, or hair is more a reflection of their personality than their body. Generally has a bigger impact
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/19 01:51 PM
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I violate those rules all the time. Have not suffered from it. If you can pull it off, great. But I feel most often trying to do all that with anything less than total success will not lead to success.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/19 01:46 PM
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These posts just confirm what we already know. That a good portion of TRP men are hypocrites. And despite all their talk about amorality and TRP not being misogynistic cant handle the same thing from other direction. It's fun to watch
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/19 01:40 PM
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Value is determined by the buyer. And Men have shown they are willing to spend a lot on things most would seem worthless: such as a girls bathwater or underwear. These strategies dont need to work on all men, just the men who are desperate and loose with their cash. Which according to the men on this sub is a good percentage of men.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/19 01:36 PM
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My comment was made in agreement with you. Derived from the expression "the pot calling the kettle black". Any person who identifies with TRP should have no complaints against FDS lest out themselves as hypocritical.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/19 03:36 PM
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Project harder
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/19 03:25 PM
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Pot, meet kettle. I'm sure you two will get along fabulously.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/19 03:22 PM
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Kinks and fetishes are still not fully understood, and can be manifested by a whole host of things at various ages. Many people end up developing kinks at the start of their sexual awakening as children. Chad can very much be kinky. Him having lots of sex is meaningless unless it's the kind of sex he wants to be having. I know several Chad's that are definetly kinky. They just dont have an outlet for their desires. So it kinda bubbles up in environments they think are safe.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/19 10:59 AM
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If you need viagara for your health your doctor will more likely prescribe better medication with less grand side effects
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/19 03:13 PM
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Male sexuality is repressed. But not in the way you think it is. Male sexuality is incredibly diverse and has so many different ways of expressing itself. I honestly find it fascinating in all the different interests, desires, and forms of expressing it. But the overwhelming majority of these are not accepted by society and are often shunned. Men are allowed to be interested in lots of shallow and with beautiful women with them as the dominant one. Most forms of sexuality outside of this are shu…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/19 01:41 PM
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Because of the outdated idea that virginity actually has value. Female virginity signified purity and being untouched. The idea has been fading, but traditions are stubborn. A lot of men desire virgins because they believe she is pure, unlike other women, and is giving him something special that can be only given once. It makes them feel special. In reality, it means nothing. I barely remember my first time, and most people dont remember it either. I've taken a couple cherry's in my life and hon…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/19 01:10 PM
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I say we count every man who has to masturbate instead of having sex on demand is an incel. Women dont orgasm at the sight of your chiseled jaw line? Clearlt you're an incel and it's time to rope!
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/19 11:26 AM
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Oh I agree. Which means incels are even less than 1% of men over 35. Highlighting that their woe is me mindset is an outlier and does not represent any real percentage of men
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/19 10:52 AM
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who only have sex once a week? Still more sex than most reds and incels on here have. Every guy dreams of a relationship with a nymphomaniac until they actually date one. Then they actually begin to realize the limitations of their sex drive. And also that the refractory period is a bitch
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/19 10:40 AM
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Fool me once, shame on you. Fool me twice, shame on me. I'm not saying she didnt know what the situation was. What I'm saying is that over the course of 3 years you didnt pick up on this and leave. And I will admit, you were in high school, and we all were dumb back then, myself included. But the lesson I took from high school is that if you are interested in someone as a friend, then their lack of interest in you as a romantic option isn't surprising, and shouldnt matter as they are a friend. A…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/19 10:37 AM
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How is it womens fault that some guy sticks around? If the man is solely invested in her for potential sex or relationship and never gets that, it's on him for sticking around so long. OP included based on his personal story
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/19 10:30 AM
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And yet it still is accurate
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/19 10:24 AM
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Lol 30% of men are not incels. Not having sex in the past 12 months is not the same thing as not having had sex ever. Yall keep parading that statistic like the holy grail and ignore what it actually says. The percent of all men who have never had sex in their lives is 10%. And that number is that high mostly because of young people. The amount of virgins by age 35 is less than 1.5%. Incels are still outliers
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/19 10:16 AM
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Men see red flags and their dicks tell them to ignore them A lot of red flags turn men on. Crazy girls provide some of the best sex around. Men have just as poor judgment as women when it comes to partners
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/19 02:12 PM
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Knock knock, who's there? Me again, still wondering why you're not naked
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/19 03:04 PM
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<3 this
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/19 03:04 PM
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STOP BEING STUPID, STUPID! WHY IS EVERYONE HERE SO FUCKING AUTISTIC AND STUPID! I DON'T RELATE TO MOST MEN ON HERE CAUSE THEY HAVE A COMBINATION OF A GOD COMPLEX, NARCISSISM, AND CONSPIRACY THEORIES ABOUT BASIC HUMAN INTERACTIONS. PLUS THEY OPENLY ADMIT THEIR SOLE MOTIVATION IN LIFE IS TO GET LAID. HOW FUCKING BASIC. GOOD JOB TAKING WOMEN ON THE PEDESTAL BUT KEEPING THE PUSSY ON IT. PATHETIC. AND IT BOTHERS ME MORE THAN THE WOMEN ON HERE CAUSE AS A MAN IM PART OF THAT GROUP. ICH HASSE IHR ALLE
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/19 03:01 PM
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Genetic modification of women nature Clearly the only real and cost effective solution I can think of. But while we are tweaking our DNA, let's also see about installing some other enhancements, make every man gigachad with the intellect of a god
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/19 02:55 PM
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Depends on where it is and who us being asked. Most Americans would agree that hong Kong the protester is the alpha and the cops are the oppressive state. But take the same protesters here in America and the dynamic flips. Bootlicking cops in America is a long honored tradition after all.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/19 02:43 PM
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So, I couldn't read your post over the sound of the boobs
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/19 06:24 PM
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I must not have gotten that memo. Weird.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/19 06:10 PM
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Man has the sauce. Raw sauce. No ketchup. Just sauce.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/19 06:09 PM
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Who was told that looks dont matter? I have never heard that message. Looks isnt the only thing that matters, but that is not the same thing as they dont matter at all. What's that old saying "looks get you in the door, personality keeps you there"
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/19 06:03 PM
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I mean. It's always been a dumb idea. A relationship doesnt magically fix preexisting issues. And a shitty relationship is far worse than being single. People who say it will fix all their problems are delusional
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/19 04:41 PM
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Modern art
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/19 04:13 PM
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No, I gave student debt to millenials and zoomers. Now I profit from all their interest payments they will make till the end of time. I am the final boss of the younger generations. And I only invest in single stocks. Specifically unicorn ones
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/19 04:10 PM
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Its even worse when you realize that even if they did get a girlfriend they would still be miserable. Because if they swallowed that blackpill nonsense they would spend every moment of it anxious as hell and waiting for her to leave. Which would just become a self fullfilling prophecy
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/19 04:09 PM
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It hasnt reached Vietnam war level political violence yet. When the military starts firing on unarmed protesters and the president has to flee DC cause of how bad the riots are, then I'll be worried.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/19 04:01 PM
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They complain that no one feels bad for them. Well its hard to feel bad for people that constantly bitch & moan without any desire to change and lash out at those who try to sympathize with them. My patience runs out fast
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/19 03:57 PM
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Most aren't. But there is a non negligible amount of people that are socially oblivious. I've encountered more than my fair share of them
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/19 03:36 PM
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Fuck yeah! Give me your sweet millenial tears for me to enjoy in my home paid for using your student debt! Also saved
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/19 02:57 PM
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Its purge week. No one here is gonna be putting effort into responses. It's all shiposting
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/19 10:56 PM
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I always stated that China exists in an unspoken equilibrium. The people will tolerate an oppressive government because they are getting richer and because their quality of life is improving. But if that scenario stops, during to a recession, then that throws the entire system out of stability. And all of a sudden the people will be less tolerant to the abuses in addition to getting poorer. My pet theory anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/19 08:12 PM
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I think we got a ways to go yet. As concerned as I am for a lot of things, things are still far better now for LGBT groups in most countries than they were just a couple decades ago, and getting better. Talking to older gays about the days of AIDS, secrecy, and having to form communities just for their own protection makes me appreciate the gains that have been made.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/19 04:32 PM
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Finally a solution we can all agree on
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/19 04:21 PM
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I would disagree because they do exist. But their numbers arent as great as they seem online. Their numbers only seem big because they have a lot of accounts and they are from all over the world. Irl, they are few and far between
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/19 04:20 PM
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China isnt without issue. They have a quickly aging population with no baby boom to replace it. And it's happened a lot faster than other industrialized countries. Meaning wages never had a chance to rise compared to Japan or Germany. China is going to be having some issues as their work force begins retire. That doesnt even begin to touch on the issue of surplus men.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/19 04:05 PM
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Most women can be single and happier than men can. Men starve, women dont need to eat the shitty meal.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/19 04:01 PM
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Homosexuals were also sent to concentration camps en mass. But LGBT issues are at best ignored here, and villianized as degenerates at worst. So I dont expect much from the comments here
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/19 03:56 PM
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Nah, will help us further filter out those who have no critical reading skills or just dont read these posts at all
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/19 03:11 PM
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Before their first kid usually
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/19 01:29 AM
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Most incels are mentalcels and not as bad looking as they make themselves out to be. They may not be Chad or Chadlit, but far from genetic failures. The fact remains that no one enjoys their company online except themselves. Why would anyone think you have wonderful personalities if you can't even manage that?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/19 08:19 PM
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1) This post was about the draft in America, not isreal. So I'm not sure what your point is comparing another countries geopolitical situation with some other random one. 2) This post was about draft equality. Isreal has a draft that doesn't discriminate. Soooooo kinda undermines I guess Israeli men dont have that to complain about there. Checkmate feminists
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/19 07:47 PM
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In what real world scenario would a draft be introduced but nuclear weapons would not be? Wars against small countries are decided in less than a month, and then it's just policing actions. And any war against a nuclear power will be over in a week with the end result being the earth being turned to glass. The draft was dated as soon as ballistic missiles were perfected
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/19 07:32 PM
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Based on every single response to this thread, you are the only one here who thinks that
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/19 07:11 PM
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They all share common terminology/language, common beliefs about women, common beliefs about men, which all points to a common foundational worldview that unites all three. Similar to how all Christians share a foundational worldview, but there are differences in the various sects and customs. TRP in my opinion believes the game is rigged in that society is gynocentric fundamentally (MGTOW believes in a stronger version of this belief). And as such men are lied to about how to attract women and …
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/19 04:06 PM
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Depends on the person. I always viewed that incels, mgtow, and redpill have similar worldviews, but different responses to it. TRP believes its fucked up, but if you understand the rules of dating/attraction you can improve your odds to your benefit. MGTOW just say why bother playing at all. And incels believe no matter what they do they have already lost. That belief that they cannot improve fundamentally seperates them from actual TRP. But the shared worldview means you have a lot of incels in…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/19 03:39 PM
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Men: evolved to be highly sophisticated and complex evolved creatures Also men: going to the hospital after lighting their farts on fire
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/19 07:34 PM
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Well thought about post. And I agree with most of these
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/19 07:18 PM
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Nah, that's a great idea.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/19 06:48 PM
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Fuck. This is extra booze money right here
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/19 06:47 PM
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I do that anyway, and it takes longer to scare them off. I dont have the kind of time to wait till they wisen up on the second date
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/19 06:47 PM
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Hmmm, good start. But I think we can up that by bringing in some good ole L. Ron Hubbard. "Do you want your thetan count m'lady?" No coming back from that one
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/19 06:06 PM
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Hmmm, but that's me dumping them. I feel it would better to act really surprised that she doesnt do anything with her family. Gotta sow the seeds so she comes to the Alabama conclusion in her own mind.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/19 06:01 PM
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What's the Toe Pill
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/19 03:45 PM
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I love purge week shitposting. The more pointed the more amusing 🍵
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/19 03:00 PM
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Bored at work mostly
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/19 10:43 AM
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Reddit is the 19th most popular website on the internet. I guarantee you there are at least some cool people here
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/19 10:34 AM
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Fucking lol if you think all the jobs wont be automated by 2040. Gonna have to survive off the generosity of passing rich tourists who come to admire the American dystopia
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/19 10:32 AM
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This might be my favorite thing I've heard you say on this sub. I'll drink to that!
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/19 06:35 PM
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I literally just dry heaved. Out of here with this shit. Be gone troll
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/19 05:35 PM
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Well, by definition, they certainly arent winners in the dating scene
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/19 05:29 PM
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I always always more of a fan of the Pussy Parade. Both work
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/19 05:26 PM
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Best purge comment yet
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/19 05:20 PM
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I've lurked enough incel groups to get all the jokes sanctioned by Saint Blackopscel.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/19 01:52 PM
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A true God among mortals
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/19 01:50 PM
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Women shame men for going to prostitutes. Simple solution, don't advertise the fact that you see prostitutes regularly. Shouldn't be any more complicated than that. Humans want to feel desired and validated. Agreed. Which is why prostitutes are really good at the talking game as well as the sex game. And make sure their clients feel desired and respected.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/19 10:22 AM
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Being checked up in STIs is also par for the course now. Nobody wants an orgy with someone with syphilis.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/19 10:14 AM
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I failed the test, my bed frame is broken. 2/3
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/19 10:12 AM
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Must be new here. This is standard
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/19 10:08 AM
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Yeah... tell them sorry not interested. They arent happy about it, cause rejection sucks. But its not hard to reject someone politely. Unless they dont get the hint
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/19 03:55 PM
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It's a complex series of multiple thoughts and emotions. All of which lead into the feeling that is commonly referred to as jealously: Fear of loss Desire to have what another has Insecurity and feelings of inferiority Betrayal of trust etc Jealously can be addressed in a healthy manner by figuring out the root causes of the reaction and addressing them.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/19 01:47 PM
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That's a crazy dude who read (insert any religious text), but obviously didn't apply it. Every holy text out there gives a guide of how to live your life. The cultures and individuals that develop around said texts tend to be a bit more picky and choosy about what elements they choose to follow. Hell, TRP literally says just take what you want from the toolbox. Not follow all of it
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/19 11:26 AM
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I would argue that humans are not designed for monogamy, which is why we are so bad at it. If monogamy was the more natural option it wouldnt need to be so enforced. Meanwhile the sexual dismorpism between human sexes is more pronounced than most primates, a trait more commonly associated with polyamorous species. Our closest primate relatives (chimps and bonobos) are also not monogamous. So there is absolutely a lot of evidence that non monogamy is more natural for humans than monogamy is.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/19 11:17 AM
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Most people are dumb. If you phrase it right people will absolutely vote against their own interests and thank those in power for doing so.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/19 01:15 PM
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It's not just GPA though. Its clubs, projects, internships, connections, alumni assistance, etc. A strong GPA but none of the above doesnt sell as well as someone more rounded. But the important thing is to not beat yourself up over it. There is only one person that matters in your life right now and that is you. And I know it's easy to beat yourself up over how everyone else is doing, but the only thing that will fix it is applying everywhere and getting your own journey started. It sucks man, …
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/19 11:25 PM
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I'm 22 years old, graduated last year with a Bachelor's in Engineering and cannot find work. We're experiencing a recession in my city, I graduated with a degree in engineering at 24 with a shitty GPA in a state that had virtually no engineering jobs. You're gonna have to look elsewhere man. You cant look for decent paying jobs in only one location. And even then it will take some time. When I graduated I applied to 5 different jobs a day, and focused on a different city every week. It sucked. B…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/19 11:10 PM
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Well nice guys and creepyPMs mostly involve those people interacting with the poster. Whereas WhereHaveAllTheGoodMenGone is just screenshotting the profiles of people who have never interacted with the poster. It's all fair game, but one involved actual interaction between the parties whereas the other was just looking and laughing. And in defense of niceguys, there is also r/nicegirls
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/19 05:48 PM
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Not for the first time, I wonder how many of the guys on PPD dont have friendships with any women. Or if they do, do they only exist on the hope that they will eventually have sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/19 12:03 PM
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Common shared interests that are purely platonic? Friendship? Coworkering relationship? Buinsess partners? Roomate? I'm not asexual, I literally have a good deal of friendships with women and they are provide value to my life. This thread is a bizarre read
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/19 11:58 AM
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Depends on the person and what you're interested in. Certain things will be more of a red flag for some than others. Me personally, an ncount of 0 is a red flag for me. Any girl that got to my age a virgin either 1) will absolutely not be sexually compatible with me and/or 2) has something wrong with her that has made any other guy interested in her decide not to have sex with her. Prudes dont interest me, sluts are fun
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/19 04:47 PM
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It's a reaction sub. It does only exist to mock TRP. If TRP didnt exist neither would TBP. I feel distinguishing the between the definitions is important to the argument being had. Someone who represents TBP is a very different blue pill than someone who doesnt follow or doesnt even know about The Red Pill
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/19 04:13 PM
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As a guy, I would hate this. If sex is only used as a reward, the entire thing becomes transactional instead of about mutual enjoyment and pleasure. If it just becomes a reward or punishment it quickly becomes a source of resentment.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/19 03:57 PM
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Not trying just ensures that failure
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/19 08:57 PM
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Her Body Her Choice The ability to make a choice varies greatly depending on location. Access to cheap contraception isnt always available. And many states do not have adequate or cheap access to abortion. And sex ed isnt always the best. Most southern states have all three of these issues and as a result have far larger rates of teenage pregnancy and single motherhood. Ex: Alabama and Mississippi have single motherhood rates over 11% while Maine and New Hampshire have roughly 6%
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/19 04:35 PM
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I know incels aren't mostly skinny white teens. Skinny white teens are a lot of them. But its heavily skewed by skinny Indian and asian men of varying ages. I said the manosphere at large. Incels are a sub category of the manosphere, but MGTOW, PPD, and TRP usually try to distinguish themselves from incels. Those 3 groups are mostly straight white men
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/19 03:16 PM
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To no ones surprise, the manosphere of most MC white hetero men is only concerned with MC white hetero male problems. And as such consider divorce court, child payments, and not getting sex as much as they deserve as their main issues. Whenever issues that effect minority or lower class men the issues are waved away and said it's not their problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/19 12:05 PM
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What I believe is more common is that men simply tend to lack masculine role-models more than was the case in previous decades Agreed. My theory is that in the absence of a real life proper Male role model, men look to media for their masculine influences. So YouTube, Instagram, Hollywood, etc. And most of those are pretty shit representative's for normal well adjusted people.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/19 11:59 AM
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but do not force tax payers to support her because of her decision. You realize child support is paid for by the father primarily right? Not the state. Or at least it is in my country
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/19 02:28 AM
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You wouldnt lol. You would want to LTR someone who actually has you go overseas with them
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/19 12:38 PM
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Not the direction I thought you were going with that. I was more expecting they are more likely to be long distance for periods of time. More independent. Less likely to want to settle down. Etc. To be fair, theres always a chance she will indulge in domestic dick as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/19 11:55 AM
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Based on conversations with bi women, women take rejection harder from other women then they do from men.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/19 11:50 AM
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What's your logic behind that?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/19 11:46 AM
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Sounds like low N-count men come with plenty of emotional baggage and neuroses themselves
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/19 11:43 AM
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It varies depending on your style and preference. Some people do better at bars or dance clubs, some do better online, etc. I've had women from all over but I typically do better in person. And typically when I'm travelling and in hostels is the easiest I've gone from meeting to fucking. Would you ever buxx your way into sex? How much money do you spend on your average date? For my dates I just pick something I want to do anyway, and they are just along for the ride. Dinner dates are expensive, …
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/19 01:37 PM
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Married military wives would be the easiest to go for. Military couples cheat like a fish breathes water. Of course if the husband ever found out your life might be in danger. But hey, you do you bro.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/19 01:29 PM
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Not disagreeing with you. But let's not pretend subreddits like r conservative or r the Donald didnt ban every single person who dared toe the popular opinion. Those places were not open and free speech communities either
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/19 04:08 PM
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I would say there are two people that went to braincels. 85% are just sad lonely men who are more a danger to themselves than anyone else. Basically just a place for them to share in their misery. The remaining 15% are actually dangerous and delight in pushing hateful ideas, encouraging others to 'rope', and reminding everyone that life is pointless. Those are the actual dangerous ones, and seem to thrive in the attention they get from the more passive 85%. Those 15% are the reason PPD has a no …
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/19 03:53 PM
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How was dating a very sexually active woman like? I'm currently seeing one right now actually. And if you think men have a high sex drive, you've clearly never met a nympho. But basically, if you want it to work with a high sex drive woman, you will either need to have an equally high sex drive (according to her she has been looking for over a decade and never met a guy who could do that) or it will be a non-monogamist relationship. So we both see other people as well as each other, bring back i…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/19 04:16 PM
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I've known several high sex drive women, and none of them would ever settle for "maintenance sex" or just masturbating for anyone. They will go out and see other men if their sex drive is not being met. So, most of the time, you have to have an equal sex drive as them (unlikely) or it will be an open relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/19 04:09 PM
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You just answered your own question. There is only one thing that matters in the above mentioned equation, and it's their own dicks and insecurities.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/19 04:03 PM
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Vast majority of men have had sex. At least 70% of men have had sex in the past 12 months based on this subs preferred study. Meaning it isnt just chad having sex. Or are we complaining that men dont get as much sex as they feel like they deserve? Cause that's a different topic.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/19 03:54 PM
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I'm probably not old enough for this, but BDSM and etc all go back long before internet porn ruled the incel roost. Yeah, S&M has been around for a lot longer than most people think. Like, well over 100 years old. Potentially thousands depending on who you talk to. But it also was a lot more difficult to get into. You had to actually know people who would he willing to vouch for you.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/19 02:15 PM
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I don't know too many modern feminists that do not deny that race is a factor. Hence the term intersectional feminism. I.e. looking at the intersection of various axioms that affect a given demographic; race, gender, wealth, education, location, etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/19 03:06 PM
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The point is being made is that men are the majority of victims compared to women. But the majority of these victims are more disenfranchised demographics, and a white man is safer on the street than a black woman is. 2016 Data : 4665 White Male Homicide Victims/ Population of ~98 million = 5.1 murders per 100k 6749 Black Male Homicide Victims/ Population of ~22 Million = 306 murders per 100k 1126 Black Female Homicide Victims/ Population of ~22 Million = 51.2 murders per 100k. Basically, this M…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/19 02:55 PM
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If you divide it up by gender yeah. But if you divide it up by race or income level you will see the majority of those attacks are against minorities and lower income individuals. If you are white and middle class+, the odds of you being attack on the street drop significantly.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/19 10:06 AM
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Problem is the right is not uniform. There are plenty of right wing platforms that are not in my or most mens best interests. The religious fundamentalists being the most obvious example.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/19 07:36 PM
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Half the people here dont even leave their house. Getting involved in the BDSM community is too much to expect. Hell, I remember a few guys here who adimently claimed S&M parties didnt exist
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/19 04:07 PM
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Why do you care so much what women think? Express yourself the way you want because you find it fullfilling and feel it makes the most of your one life alive. How many things out there do you want to do or try but are too scared of cause you're worried about what other people think? Fuck that. I've seen plenty of men pursue alternative modes of masculinity and get along in life just fine. Some, but not all, still do fine with the opposite sex. But that's not the point. Women have learned how to …
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/19 04:02 PM
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Yeah, PPD doesn't have much understanding of BDSM and often views it as weird/freakt. Not gonna get good advice for it on here
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/19 12:31 PM
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Being heavily involved in Power Exhange dynamics, here is my take: What is submission? How can I better understand it? Submission is the giving up of power to another entity. This could be a group, an individual, or even a concept. In a world where you must be individualistic and responsible at all times, there is great enjoyment in submission. Power and responsibility go hand in hand, so by giving up power for a period of time, you also give up the responsibility that goes with it. It can be ve…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/19 12:29 PM
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I dont think these men are much more than fringe outliers. They seem large in number, but it's mainly because they are from multiple countries all in a single talking space. Most Blackpillers are NEETs and heavily on the autistic spectrum. They have more issues than the average person does.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/19 01:18 PM
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Simply put, A death/suicide cult
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/19 01:15 PM
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I think incels are more guilty of the homoerotic leanings. If you listen to them talk about chad enough, it gets more than a little steamy
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/19 10:55 AM
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Men like Male sluts cause they idolize him and want to be him. Just like Americans love watching rich people and seem to think they are temporarily poor millionaires. Men hate female sluts cause they dont give them what they want.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/19 10:52 AM
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Is there something inherently immoral about sex to you? Or just the people who use others for just sex?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/19 10:49 AM
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What you're basically asking for is "I want to be able to do illegal things and be punished less for them." Interesting wording, because that's exactly what happens with white people. Or you could view it as "If I get caught doing illegal things I want to be punished the same as other people would be for the same crime. And I would like to not be viewed as automatically suspect of a crime despite not doing the crime anymore than other racial groups." What's one law that destroyed and hindered th…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/19 04:59 PM
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I just looked up the statistics, and while it certainly looks like single motherhood is increasing, most of the stats define single motherhood as unmarried mothers. So a couple that is together but not married had a kid, it would be defined as singlemotherhood according to the statistic. In addition, a couple that had a kid while married and then divorced would make the woman a single mother, even if she didnt start as one. Clearly more nuance needs to be done on the studies. The bigger trend I …
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/19 03:45 PM
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To each their own. I would love a relationship. But I want someone who adds value to my life and doesnt require me to put my life on hold. Until then, I'm going to have casual fun until I meet someone worth committing to. Casual sex may not be putting in work to a person, but the pursuit of casual sex definitely helps me meet people who I might want to commit to and shows me who I do not want to commit to.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/19 03:35 PM
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Don't do anything illegal and you won't end up in prison. Whites and Blacks consume drugs at the same rates, yet blacks are more likely to be arrested for doing them, and sentenced for longer prison time. So the problem is that blacks are policed much more intensively than other racial groups, and are punished more severely than other groups as well. I could go on all day about the various ways American buisness practices and laws destroyed and hindered the ability of the black community but thi…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/19 03:33 PM
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If I met a woman in her late 20s that was still a virgin I would have no interest in her. At best, it would mean having bad sex for a long period of time to get her comfortable with sex, and at worse it's the indication of something is wrong with her. Either case, no interest.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/19 02:38 PM
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Being in a Good relationship with a good match of a person is superior. Being in a relationship with someone who makes your life worse is inferior to just being alone. Who you are with is more important than just being with someone.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/19 02:34 PM
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Ah yes, because it was hookup culture that destroyed the black community. And definitely not the institutionalized racist policies and practices that led to generations stuck in poverty or prison.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/19 02:29 PM
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1) I understand your point, but damn that was wordy. Please break up your sentences more. 2) A lot of people like to overinflate their percieved self worth. They like to imagine that if they threatened to quit people would bend over backwards to stop them. The reality is no one really cares. And as large as these groups might seem online, they make up a very small percentage of the population, spread over multiple countries and continents. And while the big talking point is that they will rise u…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/19 01:57 PM
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You are seriously naive if you think women started wars and forced men to fight in them. The draft was not imposed by women. The generals ordering men to their deaths were not women. And the ones making billions selling arms were not women. Your argument that women are the cause of mens suffering does not make any sense
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/19 01:07 AM
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Who sent the men to die in the wars again? And who started those wars?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/19 08:26 PM
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Porn yes. But not the same kind of porn and many times in different media
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/19 04:54 PM
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I'm a man. It's happened to me a few times. As stated in an above comment I dont ever feel nervous about it cause I'm physically bigger than the people that do it. There was one time a man followed me down several blocks though and tried to hug me, hold my hand, and grope me. That was more concerning cause he was the same size as me, and I wasnt sure if he had a weapon on him.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/19 04:21 PM
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Gay bars mostly. But those bathrooms have switch over to unisex bathrooms in a lot of places rendering this point moot
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/19 10:25 AM
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We have the Hindu practice of Sati, where a wife must burn alive alongside the body if her husband. Women and men occupied different roles and assumed different responsibilities, out of necessity. This is not oppression. Imma go ahead and say forcing living people to set themselves on fire for a funeral is not necessary to survival there mate.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/19 10:45 PM
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The ill-tempered gender battles only started when feminism went into overkill and unjustly declared men the enemy. More, Men only felt it was a battle when the gender based oppression wasn't one sided anymore. It is not hard at all to look at history and see men as a class shared little goodwill to women as a class. Organized religion being a perfect example. "I do not permit a woman to teach or to have authority over a man, she must be silent." "...but woman is the glory of man. For man did not…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/19 08:32 PM
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Human beings are communal creatures. There are very real examples of a complete collapse of society and power structures after national disasters. And while there is some looting and violence, most of the effort is spent trying to help one another out and rebuild. I agree with you, anarchism can only enact a reset of the board, not exist as a permanent state of being. Libertarians are too trusting of capitalists for my tastes. They have (rightfully) shifted away form a more anarchy lite stance t…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/19 08:08 PM
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My friend has a saying "the more fucked she is in the head, the better you're gonna get fucked in bed". I have found this to be mostly accurate in practice
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/19 12:36 PM
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Women are emotional thinkers and care about emotions almost exclusively. Have you met men at all? Or just have this grand idea of them? Men are absolutely emotional thinkers, just as much as women are. They just have convinced themselves they are not. telling Western women not to have kids; No industrialized society is having kids. The reasons for that are economic, not cultural. Kids are expensive, and it makes more financial sense to have smaller families later in life. Most men agree with thi…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/19 10:39 AM
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I used to align pretty heavily with the MRA/anti feminists circles years ago. Felt like an awakening initially. Pointing out things I had never thought of before, such as divorce proceedings against men, male rape victims being a not negligible group, and the ridiculous misandrist feminists out there (this was the hey day of tumblr feminism). So I was quickly taken in and even amounted a decent social media following as an anti feminist and anti sjw. But then time went on, and the crazy sjw grou…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/19 09:39 PM
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Being 26, that would make my younger limit 20. I just round it up to 21 cause if I cant drink with my date at a bar, then it's just stupid and now i have to worry about giving alcohol go a minor legalities.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/19 06:29 PM
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They arent competing for the same men. 35+ women are not going to be going after men in their 20s primarily. And women in their 20s are not really going after men in their upper 30s. There is little conflict of interests except that men of most ages are still attracted to younger women.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/19 12:50 PM
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What are you defining as western civilization? Are we talking the modern nation states organized post world war 2? Are we talking European modelled civilizations? Are we talking christianity? Or are we talking civilizations that can trace their origins back to the Roman's and Greeks? Cause they all are called Western Civilization. As for your question, I'm going to assume you mean the final definition. 1) Marriage and monogamy are not the original product of just western civilization. Most civil…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/19 07:43 PM
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Monogamy =/= marriage. Monogamy is one partner for life. Serial monogamy is committed single relationships at a single time. Seeing as how most people date several individuals before finding a life partner, we are the later and not the former.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/19 07:30 PM
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But if you think families and monogamy are the bedrock, then we're doing just fine. I also dont understand how monogamy is tied with western civilization. It's a staple of most civilizations. It's not like christianity invented marriage.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/19 07:26 PM
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It's easy because they make it obvious. I've seen a few physical altercations between Male coworkers over my career. Solution was simple. Instant firing. Harder to let someone go off of less obvious traits.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/19 04:42 PM
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Europeans were short for millenia. Look at the sizes of suits of armor and they will look closer to the size of a modern child. The height of Europeans exploded over the past century because of improved DIET. Europeans and Americans eat better and have more vitamins and nutrients so they can grow bigger and taller, while people in countries with less nutrition do not. Genetics do play a part in size but there are plenty of other factors as well. In the case of Europe, its nutrition.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/19 02:07 PM
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People like you, the rad fems You must not be from around here if you think Atlas is a feminist.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/19 10:49 AM
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The show teenage and pregnant helped a little bit. People getting to see exactly what they didnt want their lives to be like.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/19 02:18 PM
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Today I learned, sitting down while eating is a luxury
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/19 09:50 AM
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Typically you need to be vetted by 2 or more existing members and the hosts. Depends on the venue, it varies. Even gender ratio (by design). Decent spread in age, although under 20s are rare. Typically majority white, but there is some diversity at the ones I've been to. Depends on the party theme. There are no apperance parameters that I know of. More parameters based on attitudes and acceptance of the scene. People are more fine with an ugly person than a guy who doesn't understand consent or …
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/19 01:56 PM
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Lol. Again, I have been, and will be going to more. They exist all over the damn place and arent even hard to find if you know where to look. If you dont want to believe that they exist that's fine by me. I literally could care less. But I do admire your dedication to your denial though.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/19 12:21 PM
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no such thing as straight sex clubs. Whatever helps you sleep at night.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/19 12:14 PM
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His accuser wrote a letter stating an issue. That letter got blown up in importance because his nomination was a political issue. Bret Kavanaugh was absolutely not a normal situation and should not be taken as such.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/19 10:59 AM
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I've been to some. They exist. They're fun. But they also heavily enforce equal gender ratios, else it would be 80 dudes all jerking off around one girl. Easier to get in if you're a couple or have friends that are women.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/19 10:56 AM
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In exchange for money. Those jobs typically dont pay as much. They could take other higher paying jobs, but they choose to do those for other reasons clearly. and yet men are ten times as likely as women to die on the job Compare that to the rate at which they used to die and get injured at. The goal is obviously not to have more women die to match men. The goal is to reduce work place casualties for everyone. And in that sense workplace deaths/injuries has been reduced tremendously over the pas…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/19 10:04 PM
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I have worked with women who served in the armed forces. I have worked with women in construction. I have worked with women who were high power electricians. I know women that work on mudflats collecting fish samples for little pay. And when push came to shove they did not hesitate to get down and dirty, in miserable conditions, working with men to get the jobs done that needed to get done.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/19 09:30 PM
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Loneliness is a problem. And much needs to be done to address it. Everything from better designed public spaces to better socialization technologies should be looked into and invested in. But incels arent incels because they are lonely, they consider themselves incels simple because they have not had sex. So many of those men do in fact have plenty of friends, an active family life, and partake in various group activities. But they have wrapped up so much of their self worth into their status as…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/19 09:23 PM
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Perhaps you could explain to me the outright revulsion that women show towards incels and MRA's? Not getting laid is not a serious societal problem. To pretend it is is laughable. As for MRAs, I would hazard a guess and say it's that they as a group paint feminists and women as the cause of their problems instead of the larger societal framework issues and power gaps between various classes. put all men into concentration camps. I am a man you dunce. And I actually laughed out loud reading this.…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/19 08:58 PM
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men going to prison for failure to pay for a child he never wanted is justice in your world Tell me, who made that into law again? The group you say holds all the power in society. I.e. men. Why dont you focus your anger on them, and actually provide some better alternatives for child rearing. Cause right now, the opinion is that the people who actually made the child need to pay. No one else. That is forced slavery and in no way consistent with your ideals that a man has authority over his body…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/19 08:49 PM
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Women, as a group, care even less about the suffering of men than men do. Women are more likely to take careers as caregivers such as nursing, social workers, teachers, etc. Sounds to me like they spend far more effort, energy, and time helping others (including men) then men do. They'd turn men into plow horses while the women are comfortably positioned in offices. And this glosses over that a good deal of women do perform dangerous and physically demanding tasks. Often it was other men keeping…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/19 08:23 PM
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The purpose of the abortion is to remove the responsibility of parenthood, not to stop being pregnant. What is the difference between the two? The fetus is in a womans body. She has a right to determine what happens inside of it. Just as a man has the right to get a vasectomy (or reverse it) whenever he chooses. It is not a question of parenthood, it's a question of if a person actually can have authority over their own body.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/19 08:14 PM
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This argument again? The issue with the paper abortion idea is that, at the end of the day, the kid needs to be taken care of. Men having their paycheck skimmed will never beat starving mothers and babies in terms of morale high ground of public opinion. So, since the kid needs to be taken care of, there are two options. Have the actual biological father who sired the kid take care of the child payments. Or have all the taxpayers fund the kid that they had even less say in. It's one or the other…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/19 04:30 AM
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The car is very pertinent to some, I lost my virginity in the back of a car lol
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/19 10:34 AM
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Can dig a bit deeper into it. The people who unplugged and took the red pill were still engaged in yet another level if control. The 2nd movie clearly states that the resistance is allowed by the machines as a way of having all the malcontents group up in one place, thus making them easier to observe and eliminate. Even when unplugged they only had the illusion of choice and freedom.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/19 10:08 AM
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I think tumblr was the best learning experience to see what kind of porn women want to consume. And while some of it was still rough, was also a lot more artsy/creative. A lot more man on man action. And a lot more written text over visuals.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/19 02:51 AM
4

Today I learned wanting to please your partner is apparently anti feminist.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/19 02:47 AM
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Technically yes. When women want sex, they want sex just as much if not more than men. This can be seen how most guys want a nymphomaniac but then cant keep up with her in actuality. But (most) women dont want sex all the time, and often require things to get them in the mood. Whereas most guys just need a stiff breeze
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/19 05:41 PM
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The fact remains is that women are more fine with being single than men are. Women dont need men, but men believe they need women. This is reflected in that more divorced men remarry than divorced women. Based on that alone, women will have higher standards because as a man, you have to convince her that she is better off hanging out with you than her doing her own thing. As for widespread backlash, I dont think it will come. People complain online and you will have the few isolated incidents. B…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/19 04:32 PM
0

Correct me if I'm wrong, but are gay men not men? Are minority men in the criminal justice system not men? Are men not partaking in higher education not an issue that affects men?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/19 01:42 PM
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You (men of the manosphere) trot out the stats on violence, sentencing and jail time, unemployment, college enrollment, etc, knowing damn well once you remove poor and minority men from those numbers, “men” are sitting pretty. Adding on to this, I often saw parroted that women face less risk of violence than men. But, as you said, when you factor race into the equation, Hispanic and black women face far higher rates of violence than than white and asian men.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/19 10:14 AM
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It doesn’t seem like women care about everybody when the are furthering gender agenda at the expense of injustice for men. An interesting point to make, when it seems like the only ones who do really care about a lot of these issues effecting men are women. The push for criminal justice reform is heavily led by women. It's mostly feminist groups that push for the end of selective service. LGBT rights and acceptance (which are mens issues) are heavily fought for by women. Better schools and easie…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/19 10:10 AM
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It's not new, and its definitely not exclusive to women. Plenty of gay men call other men daddy. It's more a lot of people find a dominant and caring Male figure comforting. There is also men and women out there with a mommy fetish as well. There are varying levels of it. Most just stay on the shallow part of the power exchange, whereas only a few actually do the full age play aspect. And those that do the age play often dont mix sex in with the play. It ain't my thing, but to each their own.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/19 01:44 PM
0

Found the engineer
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/19 05:06 PM
5

Risk taking and aggression matter little to control. In fact they are very easy to harness and direct. The most angry are the ones that are more easily recruited and directed by other agents because they want an outlet for their rage, someone just needs to point them in the desired direction.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/19 07:25 PM
3

Sounds like we stumbled upon the discussion you actually wanted to have
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/19 07:22 PM
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Yall need to take sex off this giant pedestal you've placed it on. Sex can be intimate, but it doesnt have to be. And plenty of other things can be far more intimate than sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/19 04:22 PM
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You just wanted everyone to blame the women and not discuss you This actually is a good amount of the content here. Its fitting to the sub in that sense
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/19 04:25 PM
2

Oh God, is zoomer really the term we are going with for Gen Z?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/19 07:34 PM
3

Ignore them entirely could be seen as an insult right back. They arent worth your attention or energy because they are so far beneath you. Theres a lot of variables at play here but responding to every slight can be seen as just as much a weakness as never responding to any.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/19 10:34 PM
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Pretty good compared to a lot of peoples apparently. Was in middle school, went over pregnancy, STDs, contraceptives, the importance of getting tested regularly. Even had a wooden dildo that we would need to demonstrate the proper way of putting a condom on with. I do also remember the teacher tickling people in the ear with the dildo if they ever fell asleep in class.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/19 07:49 PM
4

Right? This is a weird greatly exaggerated description of the Male perspective. To the point it almost sounds like it was written by a womans idea a man. Its weird.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/19 05:02 PM
6

Just wait for the next purge week. Then all the normally suppressed incels start popping up again.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/19 04:33 PM
3

Lower birth rate is tied more closely with things like cost of child rearing, access to contraception/abortion, and education of women. Japan's birthrate is next to nothing because of the insane culture of overwork they have, where if you don't work 70 hour work weeks you are deemed a slacker.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/19 02:56 PM
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Its more or less why Trump is the president right now. Please for the love of God go outside and off reddit. Trump was elected for a good deal of reasons. Men having trouble getting casual sex is so far down on the list of reasons its delusional to even bring it up.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/19 02:53 PM
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Who prizes their virginity these days except middle school students? At least in america. Inviting girls on boats does the same thing. "Because the implication"
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/19 02:10 PM
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The guy gets miffed cause he feels like he is owed something via the covert contract. I.e. it's not free, it's a debt that is expected to he paid.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/19 02:09 PM
3

Good talk
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/19 07:24 PM
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Oh I'm aware. And would probably say that those men are most likely more emotionally stable being single than the guy who stays at home, plays video games, and lifts by himself. I disagree heavily with TRPs incessant push that lifting is the only acceptable form of exercise, and shuns/ignores more social and still valid team sports. Plus the push that the man needs to be an 'island' or a loner, and constantly repress everything. The RP mindset does not breed happiness.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/19 07:22 PM
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How does this evo psych theory contend with the fact that women arent having kids by choice now in large amounts? Cause your argument is based on the assumption of the reproductive urge as something that cant be fought against. Whereas we are seeing concious choices overrule that consistently in practice.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/19 07:14 PM
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Imo, humans are social creatures, and are wired to socialize, interact, and be heard. It happens that a lot of Male hobbies are more individually focused (lifting solo, video games, crafts, etc). Whereas women are often engaging in more social environments. Basically, both genders might dislike being single the same, but women are less lonely because they have a better support network.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/19 06:56 PM
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Research from the Kansas City Federal Reserve noted that the nonparticipation rate among prime-age men rose to 11.4 percent, from 8.2 percent in the two decades ending in 2016. This study attributed the trend to a decline in demand for middle-skill workers and increasing automation, which has rendered certain skills obsolete. So a 3% trend over 20 years. While it is a change to be noted, I feel "alarm bells" is very clickbaity. The article I noticed did not look into what this 3% of men are doin…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/19 06:53 PM
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Well, why is it that then? In your opinion
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/19 06:48 PM
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Cause no one wants bottom tier. People are biologically and socially driven to pursue attractive traits. Incels like to say that women actively hate bottom tier men, but they themselves dont really put that much effort into trying to get bottom tiered women. Plus, what is considered bottom tiered varies greatly amongst different demographics and individuals. Would they both rather be single than settle? Yes
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/19 06:37 PM
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I'm really confused by this report, mostly because it goes against every other economic report out right now. We are close to peak employment, which is at a 50 year low. The only reason there would be an abundance of unfilled jobs currently is because there isnt enough people in the country to do the work.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/19 06:30 PM
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Why the fuck would guys work full time if they don't have a family? Idk, that bit where money can be used to buy goods and services bit sounds nice. Also being in America, health insurance and benefits are a lot better if you work full time as opposed to part time
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/19 06:21 PM
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Mostly cause interest rates are insane and make that one weekend much more expensive in the long run. If your smart with a credit card and pay it off on time, you can actually make money off it instead. If you dont have to pay interest, don't
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/19 05:55 PM
1

I work out because I enjoy it and I like how I look. It's also incredibly beneficial for helping maintain stress as physical activity has proven mental benefits. And it makes me more mindful of my diet. I dont work out because I plan on getting to a single state and then stopping. It is the goal
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/19 04:00 PM
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It's less red pill and more trad con. Which is fine if that's what you're looking for, but dont act like its advice that works for the majority of people. It's a niche group that works for some. So take it with a grain of salt.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/19 04:47 PM
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I work with women. Half my friends are women. Some of my best friends are women. My roomate is a woman. And I've dated plenty of women. So basically in all the settings. There is literally not a day that goes by that I do not interact with women on some level. Which is why I get confused when people say men and women cannot be friends. You might not be able to, but most people are able.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/19 06:13 PM
1

You realize that women do in fact like sex right. And that if sex happens its a win for both.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/19 12:39 AM
5

Why specially tax funded assistance? Every world economy is locked into the permenant growth model. Any sort of stagnation of an economy is seen as crippling. A falling population would undermine the entire economy, not just public assistance.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/19 05:36 PM
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It's not just a western thing. The birth rate has dropped in every country that has a higher standard of living, lower infant mortality rate, and better access to education and careers for women. Pretty much all countries except for sub saharan African and a few middle eastern countries are below replacement level. Most of the world is in the same boat, not just "the west"
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/19 02:06 PM
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I am beginning to wonder if I live on the same planet as some of the people on this sub.... or if these people just live their lives on reddit and never go outside and actually interact with other people
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/19 12:32 PM
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I dont understand your question. You make it sounds like the ONLY way to get laid is by resorting to manipulation, which is... revealing about you. I do quite well with women myself without having to resort to many TRP manipulations. In fact, I have done the opposite of what TRP suggests several times and it's still worked out for me. I have my own strategy that works for me and my goals. My self worth is not tied to having as much low quality sex with as many low quality women as possible. The …
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/19 12:17 PM
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I'm going to take it I read that wrong and assume you did not actually mean you expect underage women to be actively approaching older men.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/19 03:48 PM
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1) This view ignores the posts from many women here who said men were harassing them/stalking them at young age. Several here said they noticed the behavior as young as 12. And one said a man tried to lure her away with him when she was 5. That indicates a problem far more dark than simply men expected to make the first move. 2) Women do in fact make the first move. I've seen it happen a lot. It just doesnt happen to you. But that doesnt mean it doesnt happen.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/19 01:57 PM
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Most men have some standards and shit tests. A fact that seems to escape a lot of men on this site who have none
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/19 10:50 AM
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My point is that there are other sources of validation that are more powerful and longer lasting than sleeping with some random person. And I certainly dont want to give up interesting conversations lol, I die of boredom when the conversations are dry af.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/19 07:51 PM
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Being validated for your apperance is not that impressive. It certainly is nice to have your looks complemented dont get me wrong. But comments about things I have no control over affect me less than things I do have control over. Like, "congrats on the face" isnt going to validate me as much as complimenting my choice in outfit or actions. But in terms of validation, I've literally had conversations and discussions that were more validating than casual sex. One is skin deep and with a stranger,…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/19 07:36 PM
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I've had plenty of casual sex. It's not super validating. Just a fun experience that I shared with someone I thought was hot. I've had far mord validation from certain conversations with people than random hookups from people I don't care about. If you are the kind of person that thinks being liked for your looks is the most validating thing ever in your life, you really need to take another look at your life.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/19 07:31 PM
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You asked a question why people joke about them and I answered. Never said it's what I think. Men shouldn't worship women, that's stupid. But being easily triggered by answers in a debate sub is also stupid.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/19 11:43 AM
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Arent they mostly left be? The MGTOW boards are pretty devoid of women by design. But if they come to a debate sub and are specifically asked what people think of them, that's entirely different.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/19 11:08 AM
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Same reason people make fun of flat earthers or most conspiracy theorists. They aren't scary. Just easy to make fun of for being seen as not rational.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/19 11:07 AM
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Men build the world so he can have the world. Men of means, wealth, and position are not well known for being generous and caring. Especially to random thots.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/19 04:45 PM
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I mean... yeah. You touch someone without asking there is a chance she is into it, and a chance she isn't. Making sure she is enthusiastic about it or asking her first is a good way to put the odds much more in your favor.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/19 07:27 PM
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So you agree with the feminist idea then. Women need to be more vocal in what they want and not be as passive about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/19 07:22 PM
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It tends to frame sex like navigating a legal contract as opposed to, and in my experience, something that "just happens" The only ones making this legal are people who have trouble understanding that women also enjoy and want sex. Did she kiss you? Did she help you take off your clothes? Did she participate in sex or just lay there without making a sound? All of these are enthusiastic consent. Because she would not be doing them if she didnt want sex. Look at it in terms of a risk profile. If s…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/19 07:09 PM
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Now you're thinking with your dip stick laddie
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/19 05:39 PM
1

and possibly food You mind expanding upon this one a bit more
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/19 05:23 PM
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Historically soldiers have done the most raping. And policemen don't exactly have the best track record either.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/19 05:20 PM
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Did we not just have this exact same thread made yesterday?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/19 01:55 PM
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Simple. Have her pay for everything on the first date. Guaranteed she will not see you as any sort of provider anymore
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/19 11:31 AM
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And that's fine. If it works for them so be it. I just cant get behind it. The women in my life are too beneficial and supportive for me to fall too far into that mindaet.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/19 04:45 PM
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MGTOW I like in principle. "Hey live for yourself, not what random women think of you". But I cant really get on board with the "cut all women out of your life completely" crowd. Not all, but a lot of the user base just seem like generally unpleasant people to be around.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/19 04:25 PM
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Exactly. Men are allowed, and absolutely should have shit tests of their own. If the girl isnt enjoyable to interact with, why bother continuing
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/19 03:01 PM
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I love TRPs drive for self improvement and focus on the self. The structure it provides is very useful to many. And a lot of the dating tips are actually useful and I've noticed I did a lot of them with success already. The blue pill view however offers a much more rounded approach to being overall happy though. There is more to life than being attractive to women and getting laid. And so many TRP men (not all) can't or won't see anything past that. It's just a numbers game.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/19 05:55 PM
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People are work. But if they add value to your life and time then it is worth the investment. Be it Male or female. I laughed at your reasonings because nothing you said was inherent traits to women. Women are work because they are more open about their emotions and need for support. Men are more work cause to this day, I havent had to pay bail for my women friends, just the guys.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/19 05:21 PM
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You ever been friends with men? Men are fucking work as well there mate. Herding cats is a good way to describe the experience lol. Edit: just read your username. My mistake for arguing with a troll.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/19 04:12 PM
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I, as a man, have great and amazing friends, both Male and female, of all levels of attractiveness. My friendships with women are just as deep and fullfilling as my ones with men. Hell, I've had women as roomates, week long snowboarding trips, and international travel partners. I am always confused by this question. Are there really people out there that think they can't be friends? It doesn't make sense in my mind that you inherently cant.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/19 04:10 PM
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That point is missed a lot of time. I remember when wolf of wall street came out, the point of the movie was to show how the main character is an awful person that destroys everything he touches. But so many guys took away the opposite message and viewed him as a role model.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/19 01:51 PM
4

Biology is all about caring on your genes. Human beings exist pretty for the purpose of preserving the line of DNA. To do this, your brain rewards behaviors like having sex or eating with dopamine in the hopes you will continue to engage in such behavior. Your enjoyment of meaningless sex does little for biology or society at large. It is, by your own wording, meaningless. Also, women like variety as well. Monogamy gets boring for everyone.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/19 06:09 PM
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That's not biological imperative. That's your imperative. The only thing biology dictates is that you reproduce. Mission accomplish. Biology doesnt care if its with lots of women or one woman. But it's a lot more convenient for the records if its one. There are in fact women out there that are open to their man still sleeping around. Some are even open to hookers. If that's what you want find those women.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/19 05:52 PM
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You had your 2.5 kids. Biological imperative achieved. If you still want to have sex with other women that's between you and you're wife. Not society
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/19 05:40 PM
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I put at least some effort in. Most of the time I just find something I wanted to do anyway and invite the girl to join me. That way even if it's a dud I still have fun with or without her. According to the girls I've dated, this gives the impression of putting effort in or at least doing something different than the rest. When actually on the date, I just focus on having fun and getting them to open up and the rest just comes naturally For example, the last few dates I've been on consisted of a…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/19 05:17 PM
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Having been to a mostly Male engineering school and spent a lot of time around military guys I can absolutely say men absolutely change their view of how attractive a girl is based on what's available. In that school I would see men fight and compete for girls they wouldnt have given the time of day with anywhere else. You can say that men will sleep with people they find unattractive, and I agree, but they wouldnt put effort in. And in environments with few women, men will put lots of effort in…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/19 05:13 PM
3

My favorite is watching how other men react when women offer critiques or advice for improvements. They take it very personally and refuse to accept it most of the time
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/19 04:57 PM
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I knew a guy who liked to say you're not a real man until you're holding your sleeping baby in your arms, and then it throws up all over you, and you just sit there and take it cause you dont want to wake your child up. Cute sentiment. Not sure if I'm ready to have baby vomit all over me yet though
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/19 04:52 PM
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Agreed. But they always ignore our insights when it violates their theories.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/19 09:08 PM
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Oh, actually a topic I am somewhat experienced in. In the kink scene submissives make up a slight majority of the population. There are more submissive women than dominant women, and there are more submissive men than dominant men. After all, who doesnt enjoy just letting go and not having to think or worry for a little bit. A lot of this has to do with ingrained societal expectations for men sexually. Namely that men are less shamed for having lots of sex, they are shamed for straying beyond va…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/19 08:37 PM
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Agreed. Africa has dozens of countries and hundreds of cultures. Simply saying a black African isnt very helpful
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/19 10:44 AM
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Large parts of Africa still have long ways to go in terms of equal rights. Or just rights in general. The west only recently codified that there was no difference between being raped by a spouse and being rapes by a stranger. It makes sense that for countries that are still a few pegs down on the development ladder to have not made this leap yet. And most women in this culture are a product of it, so their values will tend to reflect that of society at large. Also, telling men not to rape their …
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/19 10:41 AM
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Yeah, I get the jaded. It's why i dont go to normal parties anymore. My parties have to have at least 2 midgets. And a zebra.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/19 09:13 PM
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Are you really surprised though? Half of PPD hasnt even been to a normal party.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/19 07:55 PM
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The point of going to a strip club isnt to try to have sex or not. The point of going to a strip club (aside from the pathetic reasons) is to have fun with your friends in a more adventurous environment than just a normal bar. I've been a few times, always with groups of friends, a good number of which were girls. We all just had a fun time getting drinks, buying each other dances, and flirting with the dancers. The trick is to not blow all your money getting blue balled.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/19 07:54 PM
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Fair. And valid
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/19 05:11 PM
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only men could have status(to simplify it) So, simplified, only men could achieve power. And women were denied it. Which is another way of saying women were forced to comply because they lacked the agency to accept any other situation. or get stuck in a marriage with a man they DON'T find attractive. Why do you that is only a modern trend? They were always married to an unattractive man, the difference was they didnt have the ability to leave it. If that set up was the better deal men and women …
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/19 05:10 PM
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So more masturbation then. And prostitution is already legal in multiple countries. And a lot of those countries have worse hypergamy than the US. Those aren't solutions to your problem, they are avoiding the problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/19 04:00 PM
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I'm not sure if you could say monogamy was working just fine if the only reason it worked is because women were prevented from actually having independence. Forced compliance doesn't mean something is working, it means it's only working for the group in charge. Also, monogamy is still the standard. At least serial monogamy is. Polygamy is still very much a fringe lifestyle
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/19 03:51 PM
0

So, how would you suggest this be addressed in a constructive way?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/19 03:48 PM
5

In you opinion. What is the root cause of the problem?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/19 01:22 PM
2

Cause one is rational and the other is irrational. Another human is under no obligation to like you back, so being mad at them for failing to live up to your fantasy is entitlement. Taking it out on them in anger is doubly so
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/19 05:09 PM
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Lol I have several good women friends where there is no sexual chemistry between us. And yet we have an amazing time together. There is one girl who I've gone on cross country snowboarding trips together with. No sexual chemistry, but she goes harder than most of my guy friends when it comes to stuff like that. This advice is bad.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/19 04:51 PM
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I get frustration is a normal part of human interaction. But the question is what are you being frustrated at? And why? If I want to be with someone and they dont want me back, that will lead to frustration. But am I frustrated at her for refusing my advances? Or am i frustrated at myself for not being up to par? Also, how is this frustration communicated? If I start yelling at her and insulting her, it doesnt matter if I'm frustrated with myself deep down, cause all she sees is that she is the …
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/19 01:32 PM
3

It's the direction of frustration. Are you frustrated at yourself for failing to achieve a goal. Or are you frustrated at another for failing to live up to your desired expectations?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/19 01:20 PM
3

Yeah, was an interesting choice of a title for that documentary. I'm not sure if it was done intentionally, or were they completely unaware of the community of the same name that also existed parallel to MRA circles.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/19 04:20 PM
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I think you weren't paying attention, because plenty of men were joining in with the MeToo movement. Terry Crews is the most famous example. But we also have the dozen or more men who came out against Kevin Spacey, Asia Argento's accuser, the men who came out against Michael Jackson, the men who came out against that California politician, and the hundreds more that I can't think of off the top of my head
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/19 02:02 PM
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What honesty would you like that these men are unable to figure out on their own? That being attractive helps you attract people? That being polite is not a personality? That being risk adverse will offer little reward in return for low risk? Do we also need to teach them that water is wet and that the sky is blue? Parents number one job is to set their child up for a successful life. And that means getting a good and stable job takes priority over getting them laid. And personally, I would feel…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/19 09:39 AM
2

How long 8" actually is
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/19 09:32 PM
6

Let's not get crazy now
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/19 07:08 PM
1

Male. Not in bad shape, but want to improve. Ecomorph build, looking to get tone
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/19 06:51 PM
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I need to get back in shape. Anyone have any exercises they would recommend to get ready for summer?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/19 06:42 PM
3

Things my previous partners have brought to the table: pushing me to go out and do more things, being a source of stability when it felt like my world was falling apart, giving me tips for hygiene/skin/hair care that have saved me money and given better results, made me laugh, made me see the world on new and exciting ways, made me dinner, cleaned my house, made my time spent with them far more fullfilling than it would be without them, helped me discover new things about myself, gave me the con…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/19 06:04 PM
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The men who make this claim do not live in reality. They live in memes and reddit threads. I would ignore their ridiculous delusions but they are so damn many of them lately and they all stubbornly cling to this meme.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/19 03:26 PM
2

Thank God the mods banned some of the more overused incel slang. All the "copes" got old real fast
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/19 05:01 PM
2

The first thing that pops into my head
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/19 09:50 PM
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Admittedly it's an issue that I do myself. I've had to do a lot of unlearning that it is okay to ask for help occasionally. It's far better to succeed with help, than it is to fail/break alone. Most men do not mind helping others, it's just they/we hate asking for it
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/19 07:10 PM
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It's more an American phenomenon. But when you compare how American men interact compared to other cultures, it's clear American men go to lengths to avoid anything that might be misconstrued as intimate. In other cultures men hug a lot, some even kiss each other on the cheek. On top of this many things that are masculine in other cultures are seen as more feminine in America. Skin care, dancing, dressing well, etc. America might tolerate or even accept gay men these days, but it certainly won't…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/19 06:56 PM
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Agreed. I have so many wonderful women as friends who are huge parts of my life. Anyone who says they can't be friends is really saying they just have no self control
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/19 06:31 PM
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I'm a Male. Male friendships were the default for me for most of my life. Since I've gotten older I have some amazing friends of both genders. Generalizing here, there are some differences between my Male friendships and female friendships. Male friendships are more engaging and we would always push ourselves; but the discussions are shallow and they have trouble surviving if someone moves. Female friendships I can be more open with and they survive distance better; but they often need more supp…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/19 05:47 PM
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My theory is that's it's the one two punch of trying to conform to mainstream masculinity, and trying hard to not appear homosexual. Which means minimal physical contact, little discussions on feelings/passions/insecurities, and less spending one on one time in public. I do remember once I went to the mall with a good friend of mine, and we were asked if we were a couple. It was so weird. I'm just like "no... just two straight guys getting lunch".
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/19 05:17 PM
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Women place a greater importance on friendships and have more supportive/close friendships. I think it would be silly to not focus on this one. For all the talk that Male friendships are like brotherhood, the data doesnt seem to back this up. And if from practice most Male friendships, while fun, are also pretty shallow affairs. I love my guy friends, they are awesome. But rarely are things of substance, like our personal lives and interests, talked about.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/19 05:08 PM
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To be fair. I know A LOT of women that have been raped. I know even more that have been assaulted. And even more that have been forced into uncomfortable situations with men. Some of the scale might be inflated, but it is hardly an imagined problem. Or a problem that is taught to them, more one that is learned from life.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/19 12:32 PM
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Managed to track down the original article The reasons it highlights are as follows: 35% of young men living at home compared to 29% of women in the same age group Reduced labor force participation among young men (NEETS) Greater distractions and things to do aside from interacting in person with other people. Less people in relationships, meaning less frequent sex. 2008 seems to have been catalyst for the current trend. Which makes me think a lot of the causes are economic in nature.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/19 02:04 PM
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What's the breakdown in ages for that 27% though? Cause if a whole bunch of 12 and 85 year olds arent having sex, its gonna skew the results. Every other survey from legitimate sources seem to indicate a healthy sex life for most of the spectrum. I want to know more details of how they came to 27%
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/19 01:45 PM
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A lot of people on this sub are actually racist. So no. Even though race has a lot of affects on sex and dating, I dont think this sub could objectively talk about it fairly.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/19 12:21 PM
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Do you not think it's a glaring flaw to build a worldview only looking at half the picture? Observing men is quite useful and insightful. A lot of TRP ideas fall apart when you actually pay attention to guys as more than a stereotype
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/19 03:36 AM
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They also set themselves up for failure no matter what by saying that if a woman does end up with them, she is settling and will leave him at the first sign of something better. Which ensures that they will never be happy and instead be in a state of constant paranoia.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/19 03:51 PM
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Admittedly, blackpillers are turning up everywhere these days like weeds. Even TRP is having issues with incels
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/19 03:29 PM
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I did not this time unfortunately. Will need to check that one off another time
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/19 02:37 AM
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Some areas are worse than others. And it varies by person. I didnt have too many issues, but other people I was with did. I would still recommend bug spray. But nothing worse than I've experienced in the states
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/19 02:36 AM
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Patagonia was like something from a dream. It just didnt seem real. Between that, Salsa dancing in Medellin, relaxing in Rio, and hiking in Peru, I regret not visiting the continent earlier
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/19 08:18 PM
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Finishing up my trip in South America. Highly recommend for those who love going on adventures and visiting places off the beaten path. Such a beautiful continent
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/19 06:57 PM
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Exploitable and valuable are synonyms when it comes to labor economics. And agreed, hence why I said that a well maintained body is a status symbol. It means you have both the money and the free time to maintain that look. Just like how being overweight used to indicate wealth and status in the past.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/19 04:40 PM
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I don't. Although I have had plenty of experience with physical labor jobs. The point being that jobs that require a trained mind pay far more than those that require a trained body. And while there are certainly jobs that exist that require physical dexterity and strength, most do not. A toned physique is more of a status symbol than a requirement for those living in an industrialized societies.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/19 04:35 PM
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Oh dont get me wrong. It is fun. But so many men consider themselves failures if they dont do it, and it is very unhealthy. They could have a great job, a good home, fun hobbies, but they still see themselves as miserable if they dont get laid regularly. Ideally men should be happy with who they are and seek sex as a bonus. Not seek sex as a foundation to happiness.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/19 03:37 PM
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You care far too much about what women think of you. Men should be and do what they want for their own self fulfillment. Not frame their entire personality and lifestyle around attracting women. This entire mindset that you Need to have lots of shallow sex with many different partners is stupid.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/19 03:07 PM
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The only masculinity problem is the men who cannot or refuse to adapt to a changing world, and instead cling to antiquated ideals, forever frustrated and confused that those ideals and traits are no longer benefical. Adapt or die. And too many men refuse to adapt. Ex: Physical strength is fundamentally irrelevant in the age of machines and automation. Looking strong is a nice perk, but it is window dressing only. A well trained and educated mind is far more valuable in todays world than a strong…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/19 02:41 PM
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What is Trump doing to stop automation? Which is the real threat to traditionally male jobs.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/19 02:05 AM
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Agreed. We are talking about men who hate socializing and interacting with people unless there is some ulterior motive. As opposed to just interacting with people for it's own enjoyment. Or seeking out non sexual pleasures and fulfillment.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/19 09:22 PM
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I think braincels has the biggest cult status of all the listed examples. It is literally a death cult, where any sort of positivity or hope is stamped out, suicide is encouraged, and jokes pertaining to violence against 'femoids' are encouraged. It's an awful place to end up in.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/19 03:37 PM
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Being invited to sex is not inherently disrespectful. Asking your supposed friend if you can "fuck the shit" out of her while she is in the middle of a breakup is more on the disrespectful side.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/19 03:12 PM
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From the OP: Because it’s not respectfully. I’ve been invited to foursomes, told how they want to “fuck the shit” out of me etc. That’s not respectful
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/19 02:55 PM
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Probably cause they thought more highly of men then most men do of themselves
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/19 02:51 PM
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Engineer here. Dated a nurse who made more than me actually. What's your point? Also, you must not be from the US, most university professors dont make that much
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/19 01:39 PM
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Most men dont listen. Be it that they think in their heads they already know what works. Or they dont care. Either case, communication isnt a 100% surefire thing
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/19 09:01 AM
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I have no idea. You'll have to ask OP that. I've dated people who made the same as me. Was great. Money was never an issue for us and we didnt have to bother with the games of who pays for what.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/19 04:19 AM
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Not really. I've done it a few times. Its fucking awesome. I recommend you try it sometime
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/19 03:20 AM
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Only marry someone who makes as much or more than you do. You glossed over the bit of dating someone who makes as much as you do.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/19 03:13 AM
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Women have standards for whom they marry. Why shouldn't you?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/19 03:09 AM
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Absolutely not. I enjoy my life and independence far more than I would enjoy living rent free. I also have a personal distaste for cleaning up other peoples messes. Fuck that.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/19 02:53 AM
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What do you mean by chasing? Are we talking putting considerable emotional effort into wooing her affections? Or are we talking sending the occasional text message and liking her selfies on insta?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/19 06:03 PM
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Here here
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/19 12:48 AM
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The internet exists though? If he wants to be a creative writer or work on video games he doesnt need to live in any specific location. OP needs advice with more than just dating
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/19 03:42 PM
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Based on your responses here and on other threads you are intentionally being obtuse and refusing to believe facts and experiences that run counter to your argument. And it's gotten boring
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/19 03:59 AM
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Depends on what the goal is. Men actually having an emotional inner life is attractive in a LTR, and shows the man is more than maniquen fresh off the assembly line. Whereas for a STR it is a distraction at best and a liability at the worst. Different strategies for different goals.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/19 03:22 AM
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People in general hate that. No guy like a crying unstable mess of a first date. Some might tolerate it to try and get laid, but it sure as hell means he is more likely to get the hell out as soon as he got his. Even in a platonic setting you're not about to bring up delicate, humiliating, and embarrassing things with someone you just met.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/19 03:17 AM
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That costs extra
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/19 02:38 AM
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It depends if she is emotionally invested in the person. No one wants their date to just dump large emotional bombs early on. But when they have an actual interest in the man, most of these problems go away. Speaking as someone who had breakdowns in front of partners and didn't experience any of what trp talks about
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/19 02:12 AM
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Different sexuality doesn't mean different physiology. The mechanics still work the same for lesbian women as straight women.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/19 11:06 PM
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Another addition I would like to make for point 3. Men are more likely to define themselves by their career, and attach a lot of self worth to their profession. Whereas women more often see a job as a means to fund their life, and their self worth is more defined outside of it. This ends up being double edged sword for men in that, it often drives them to work harder and more dedicated. But it also means that being laid off is much more emotionally devastating, and are more reluctant to change c…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/19 12:44 PM
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Statistically lesbians are more overweight than their hetero counterparts, and less likely to conform to traditional female beauty standards. So, unlikely
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/19 10:46 PM
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How does your research reconcile with the fact that lesbian and bisexual women report higher rates of orgasms than hetero women?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/19 02:53 PM
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What explains this disparity? It's an ego thing. Men think they are better in bed than they actually are. Women here also say that they make recommendations to their partner to say what feels good for them but it is typically ignored. A lot of it also comes down to self interest, and men are more often only interested in their orgasm than that of their partners. I have a theory that I think explains it. I read your theory. I think you really need to spend less time online. It reads as this weird…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/19 02:25 PM
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Dont trust anyone OP. Live a life alone in a shelter in the woods. Only there will you truly be free of the evils of mankind and never have to trust anyone other than your dog. A much better life
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/19 12:05 AM
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Agreed. A lot of guys, from listening to both men and women, domt really put much effort into being good in bed. Be it because they have no interest in being one, or simply think they are already great and dont need to change. But there is a world of difference between fucking a girl that just lies there, and fucking a girl who is just as engaged and active as you are. The best partners I've had all had different styles and weren't passive lovers. Men are just as likely to encounter and miss old…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/19 01:27 PM
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The hole might not be all that different, but everything else is. Women fuck in different ways and have different attitudes about it. No two women have been the same in bed aside from the bad ones.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/19 12:59 PM
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I just looked at the site. The conservative bias will most likely be skewing a lot of their results and findings I think. I would take this study with a grain of salt.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/19 12:41 PM
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So, in your opinion, why doesn't this seem to affect men as much?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/19 12:29 PM
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Same problem, I just tried not to use alcohol too much as a crutch. But it works wonders. I basically just retrained my brain over the years to socialize more and more until it became more natural and enjoyable. I think working retail for a bit really helped, as it forced me to engage with complete strangers.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/19 04:28 PM
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I wasnt aware that the term was specific to women.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/19 04:25 PM
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Of course. I'm very much a type A personality. I like interacting with people, building friendships, meeting new people, and creating new experiences. Staying at home doing nothing but playing video games seems like a waste of time to me. If you do, do you have any good experience with hook ups? Do you go out to hook up or to have fun? I have decent ones. But I mainly go out to have fun. Getting laid is a bonus, not the main goal, similar to your friend's opinion. Even when I'm in a relationship…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/19 04:24 PM
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I'm not currently in an LTR, but I've been in them before. They have to add value to my life, not take from it. If a woman allows me to do more, enjoy things more, and the time without her is lesser than the time with her, why would I not want to commit. I have high standards for the kind of person when I'm with. But when someone meets those standards, I lock that shit down because it would be stupid to let something that makes you happier and more fulfilled slip by.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/19 04:42 PM
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I have a need for food. I have a desire for good and a variety of food. Same goes for sex. Your hand is more than enough to satisfy biological urges. And good friendships fill the need for companionship. Sexual validation from many people is a luxury that is nice to have, but not required.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/19 09:29 PM
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That's not a need. That's like saying a person needs to feel famous and popular. It's a desire yes, and potentially a strong one. But to call it a psychological need is disingenuous at best, and petty at worst. No different than those girls on social media seeking attention that everyone here makes fun of.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/19 09:19 PM
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A lot of people confuse being nice for a personality. Being nice is good. Having absolutely nothing about your personality other than being polite is just boring.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/19 08:47 PM
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but men cannot get their needs satisfied without being players. You mean their wants. No man Needs to have shallow sex with many women. That'd just ridiculous
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/19 08:40 PM
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I dont know why this gets glossed over so much. Women do approach guys. The guys that complain women never approach are just guys women dont want to approach. Just cause it doesn't happen to you personally doesnt mean it doesnt happen
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/19 06:39 PM
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few women would be glad if a man dismissed them. I'm confused. Are you now saying women want to be actively engaged in decisions? That they might not care about unimportant fluff but still want to help steer the ship? You seem to be undermining your own point a bit here. If women have the veto power, they still have a power and say in the matter. No one wants a wall flower for a partner. Except maybe the guys here who want the living equivalent of a sex doll.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/19 03:51 PM
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All the decisions? Or some decisions? Cause there is a clear distinction. A girl might like the boyfriend to plan a date or where to get dinner cause she doesnt really care. But when it comes to vacations that same woman who deferred in that category organizes and plans everything. Most relationships have a more blurred power structure than a clear cut one.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/19 12:21 PM
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Wanting an assertive and actively engaged partner does not inherently make one submissive.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/19 12:11 PM
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Oh I fully agree. While there are plenty of rationale arguments to be made for or against relationships, the underlying reasons for it all are enherently emotional. And any sort of strategy with a partner(s) should be fully based around what personally makes a person happy. What works for me wont work for you, and what works for you wont work for others. Although I'm not sure about the evolutionary arguments regarding monogamous LTRs. Nothing about monogamous LTR I would consider 'natural'. And …
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/19 11:53 AM
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I'm not sure if you are familiar with blackedoutfast on here lol
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/19 12:14 AM
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A false, but interesting projection and analogy. One I want to explore further for fun. There is no rational benefit to buying a new car. It's a shitty investment, it will lose its value rapidly. Buying a car fresh off its first lease offers a car at a fraction the price for more or less the same quality. So why bother buying a new car at all? We do it for the emotional value we get out it. We can make and force the mental justifications for why buying new is superior, but ultimately it is all j…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/19 09:07 PM
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And? What's the problem exactly? Why does it matter? Sex is fun, if someone wants to engage in it frequently, why do you even care? All this argument is is just hampstering a justification that some men personally find sluts gross.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/19 06:58 PM
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the end of the social system that made the west what it is And what social system is that exactly? I can think of a lot of things that made the west, and chaste women is not one of the things that comes to mind.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/19 04:41 PM
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Pretty much this. But adding on, men with high n counts dont receive the same response because men can sympathize with other men more, and hope to be live like chad one day. Just like how people love following the successes of already rich people, a lot of men show more support for Chad than Stacy because they want to be just like him.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/19 04:35 PM
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The girls I've seen most crazy for marriage are the ones outside military bases, looking to lock down some of that BAH benefits. Its pretty much local knowledge that the girls that hang around the barracks are not on BC and looking to lock down the first person stupid enough to knock her up.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/19 11:20 AM
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This thread just gives me a weird vibe. Like... why do you want your mother heavily invested in your sex life? Wanting your son to succeed I understand, but that means in life, dating is lower on the list for kids. Maybe Freud was onto something after all...
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/19 11:15 AM
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I wonder this a lot about people on here
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/19 11:05 AM
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Ah yes, the Sex God Method (TM). 1) Actually pay attention to what she responds well to and listen to what she says feels good. 2) Foreplay 3) Actually have her orgasm Do these 3 things and you'll be beating the average man based on the conversations I've seen on PPD
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/19 01:16 AM
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I'm aware. But if we are talking about the girls that are waiting, they most likely want more than just sex. So the risk of bad sex is worth the benefits of filtering out those with undesirable personality traits.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/19 01:13 AM
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Him being bad at sex is a risk no matter how long you wait for. The sex could be disappointing date one just as much as on date 10. But the idea if waiting is that it helps filter out guys who show other undesirable traits, such as little patience, no actual interest in her as a person, or just no respect for her boundaries. Those benefits are achieved by waiting, whereas a bad lay is just inevitable with little potential screening for it. Plus, from the sounds of it, most men aren't that good i…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/19 12:57 AM
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Not for the first time, I actually wonder how much people in this sub go outside and interact with people. Not the majority, the minority are quite vocal about it
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/19 08:25 PM
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Because they hate that they have what they want. But they idealize and are jealous of Chad too mi h to hate him.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/19 06:53 PM
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I know that more and more women are starting to join the workplace now Not sure where you are from, as this has been happening since WWII. This is hardly a recent trend. I mean there’s a program especially for women offered in my school that helps them find jobs more easily. You realize these kinds of programs exist for men as well right? And that many of those programs are geared towards heavy Male demographics, such as veteran work programs, or professional fraternities. it’s always women who …
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/19 01:41 AM
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You know, you're right. I've clearly got my priorities messed up. I think I'm going to do things differently now, and only do things if there is a concrete benefit or profit, and no long do things just because I enjoy them. I mean, I already have a job, and work plenty of overtime, but you're right. I should see about making life my job instead. Thank you
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/19 07:03 PM
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I do a lot of things. From craft building, hanging out with friends, casually dating, or attending parties. Sitting around at home doing nothing is the real waste of time. Dont be so vanilla lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/19 06:15 PM
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Lol I just love peoples fascination with that word. And in my scenario I wouldn't call it cuckholdry seeing as we arent exclusively seeing each other. And since I'm still sleeping with other women it works both ways. Plus I benefit from this financially in that she pays for a good deal of the dates. So in that sense, she is paying to hang out with me.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/19 06:09 PM
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I'm dating a girl now who is currently a sex worker. I'm cool with it, I dont have to pay to be with her and I'm not trying to wife her. But to be fair, I wouldnt consider myself the average type of man around these parts. Half the stuff that bothers men here doesnt even phase me.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/19 05:14 PM
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What strengths or weakness is inherent and important enough to block people from certain parts of society? Should men be blocked from childcare because the average man isnt that good with children? Should we block women from computing because men are more interested in it? Of course not, I have met some men who are great with kids and women who I wouldn't want near mine. And I have met brilliant women coders and some men who couldn't wrap their head around computer logic. People should be free t…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/19 12:17 PM
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No. It's just that those industries focus on promoting beautiful women (and pushing it further with makeup, lighting, photoshop). There are plenty of beautiful women in all sorts of other industries, but they arent publicized to the extent of the entertainment industry.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/19 12:13 PM
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Being agitated or frustrated your grass didn't grow is not acting entitled to grass. True. But in the context of this conversation we are not talking about a passive plant, we are talking about the expected reactions of an autonomous person. Doing a thing, and then expecting the person to reward for the thing, and then being mad at them when you arent rewarded is entitlement. So for your scenario, if she wanted her husband to do something he was not asked to do, it is entitlement. So this standa…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/19 08:09 PM
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I'm impressed with your effort to put entitled in quotations every time you used it. The popular claim is that a man does something he thinks will make a girl into him, and then when he realizes it did not, he is upset that things didnt go as expected and he wasnt rewarded for his behavior. Having expectations is not the bad thing here. The entitlement is the lashing out/anger for not getting what you want. And when the thing you wanted was a fully independent human being, yeah the behavior come…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/19 07:39 PM
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Are you wrong? No. I've been there, an exhaustion and stress quickly kill the desire to have sex. And you should not be forced to do something that you don't want to do. I would state the obvious though and say it's not an ideal situation and you should be trying to get to a more livable state. Cause if you're too exhausted to have sex in 2 weeks, it more than likely means you are at an unhealthy level of stress and need to try to cut back on whatever is causing it. And the added stress to the r…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/19 03:03 PM
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Of that, we can strongly agree on
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/19 01:29 PM
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You are aware that he is married right... to a gorgeous and famous woman....
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/19 01:24 PM
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They really do. Sex is fun, and I love it, but they go to some incredible lengths and effort to sleep with women they wont even remember. Men should focus on self improvement and bettering their lives. But doing it all for cheap pussy just seems like a waste.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/19 03:59 AM
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I agree. Mens workplace deaths and injuries is not inherently a gender issue. But that hasn't stopped many other men here from trying to make it one. But then again, the argument could be made that work place safety improvements would mostly benefit men more than they would women.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/19 03:56 AM
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Hes going off the source that states 1% of all men in jail are raped, and that number would be higher than all reported rape of women in the country. Plus more men are involved in violent crime and are more likely to be victims of homicide and assualt. Two weaknesses of this argument. 1) The 1% of all men in prison being raped is an estimate. Not reported. And if we go with some of the estimates for how many women are raped each year opposed to reported, the stance falls apart. And 2) more men t…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/19 03:43 AM
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Devils advocate back. Men work more dangerous jobs because they pay more money. Men make bigger risks with their health and wellbeing. All concious choices that lead to a higher amount of men dying. Would you still not see this as something worth addressing or talking about? Or just say that men dying is the result of their choices and leave it at that.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/19 03:31 AM
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The old school red pill guys I identify with a lot more. Its grown and shifted into this sub quality thing over the years. And the user base now seems far less connected with reality as the incel types began coming in. Red Pill likes to say it takes women off the pedestal, and it does. But often it leaves pussy on the pedestal and the rest of the woman in the basement.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/19 03:26 AM
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Just because you rarely saw them get rejected doesnt mean that they weren't. I guarantee you that they had been rejected plenty, you just were unaware of it and they weren't exactly willing to tell you that they had flopped. Making acquaintances is easier than making friends. I have plenty of shallow acquaintances in life, but only a few close friends. And it becomes harder as people get older and have more established circles. So it's a numbers game, to see who you like, who likes you, and more…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/19 08:41 PM
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Dating, and honestly most social interaction, is a numbers game. I have lost count of the amount of times I've been rejected or things that went nowhere. But when one says yes, the nos dont really matter anymore and you forget about them. Rejection sucks. My God does it suck. But they ultimately matter little in the end. The only thing you can really do is shake it off and try again.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/19 08:30 PM
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And? Theres some people that were born into wealth. Others born smart. Some born with a creative gift. Just because you have to put more effort in than others doesnt mean you shouldn't bother if it is something you want.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/19 08:16 PM
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A hardworking failure would be hardworking in the wrong areas. Working smart is just as important as working hard. And I dont have the patience to help every single person, but I do enjoy helping people where I can. But the person also has to be willing to listen. A lot of people want sympathy, but then also shove it away when its given. Different strokes for different blokes. There are a few different ways to meet people that have their own pluses and negatives. But staying at home and not talk…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/19 08:11 PM
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Its the internet. People are especially shitty on it more than they would be face to face. I am usually more vocally empathetic with someone when talking one on one then in a public debate forum. I used to be very awkward and unlike socially when I was younger, so I completely understand where many frustrated men are coming from. And I would love to help them become better and happier men. The main issue is that quality results are not easy nor quick. And most men in that situation are looking f…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/19 07:28 PM
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A lot of those responses depend a lot on the context. Going with the one size doesnt fit all mentality, a lot of dating advice needs to be heavily personalized to the specific person. And the only way to give personalized advice is to know the subject well enough and to explain in more detail what that one person should emphasize on based on what they want. Most people dont have the energy or time to do that for random strangers on the internet. And a lot of people, especially incels, refuse any…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/19 07:13 PM
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I think it's more a causation from a tired trope that is heavily reliant on stereotypes and strawmen. Are there some feminists who are involuntarily celibate? Yes. Is it an accurate representation of the whole. Highly unlikely.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/19 03:01 PM
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This seems like a really drawn out way to restate the "Women become feminists because they can't attract a man". Which has been a trope since the early days of feminism.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/19 01:00 PM
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So what's the problem then? Women ride the cock carousel in youth just like men partake in the pussy parade. And then as youth ends most people of both genders feel that investing in something more permanent is the better option. And based on the fact that more men remarry than women and that married men live longer than single men, I'd wager men crave a stable relationship slightly more than women on average.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/19 03:13 PM
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Until women show Redpilled men otherwise who engage in slutty and childish behavior don't deserve the respect I'm confused. Isnt the entire point of the redpill to allow men to engage in slutty actions just like women? If sleeping around is something that doesnt deserve respect, why does TRP think that they deserve respect for doing the same thing that they say doesnt deserve respect. This is just an endless loop of bad logic.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/19 03:10 PM
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Generally the girls with a super high n count are not craving monogamous relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/19 02:52 PM
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I'm in the kink scene. I see that shit all the time and I never get tired of it. It's an interesting experience walking through an orgy going on
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/19 07:36 PM
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It's like two person sex I feel, depends a lot on who you do it with. All three of us enjoyed the rougher side of the spectrum so it was a very lively and eventful time. By the end she couldn't even stand and her legs were shacking uncontrollably. Which always makes me feel happy with my handiwork
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/19 07:18 PM
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I'm a man, not fully bi but closer than most.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/19 07:09 PM
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MfM. They were both gorgeous so I didnt mind in the slightest.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/19 07:06 PM
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Had my first threesome this weekend! I'm still a bit giddy how it all played out. But a good way to start off my birthday week
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/19 07:01 PM
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It's not being helped by the news running an article everytime something new is heard, whether or not it did happen. First the two brothers were arrested, then let go without bail. Then some there is an investigation to see if smollett staged it. And without proof there are people saying he did it before the investigation even concluded. I'll wait to see the results of the investigation before I pick a hill to die on
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/19 07:00 PM
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Blue pill is just anyone who isnt red pill. So any non red pill advice is blue pill dating advice. r/dating advice r/relationships r/sex Etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/19 06:48 PM
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Rule 34 has definetly been one of the more accurate assumptions made about society since Moores Law
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/19 04:24 PM
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I find in practice most men are far more vanilla than women are. And most either dont consider kink stuff, or are terrified when their partner brings it up. Rough sex, yeah, but actually kinky stuff is more common in women. blueberry porn I'm terrified to ask, but what?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/19 04:18 PM
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But men are increasing in suicide rate is MASSIVE levels. Suicide is a complex topic with a lot of factors going into it. Feminists circles talk about this issue A LOT. But it's also important to break down the statistics more than just simply men. It's not all men killing themselves, its white men and native American men. Other races suicide rates are a fraction of the other two. Feminists like to point out that this is because of toxic masculinity, which is certainly one of many components goi…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/19 09:48 PM
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And using that same data set for the 25-29 age demographic, we can see that the virginity rate drops to 3.4%, and for 30-34 it then becomes 1.9%. And for the 20-24 range over 43% of men have had over 3 sexual partners. I.e. my hyperbole of 99% of men being laid was an exaggeration, 96.5% of men get laid.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/19 08:52 PM
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Citation needed
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/19 08:34 PM
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If women weren't attracted to 99% of men they have a funny way of showing it. I've seen too many women get nervous and awkward around guys because they find them attractive. As red pill says, you cant force sexual attraction. If women were not attracted to 99% of men, nothing could change that. Yet 99% of guys get laid, so your hypothesis is flawed. As it has been said before, most womens level of physical attraction goes on 3 scales. Will not fuck, open to fucking, and will fuck unless he does …
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/19 07:32 PM
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I think the rage comes before the self realization. Most guys might not think they are great, but they certainly think that they are at least above average. If you think you're better than you are, and people don't treat you like you think you should be, that also equals rage. I agree it's easy to improve. But one actually has to honestly look at oneself to realize what needs to change. And actual change still requires effort and time. There is no quick fix for quality improvement
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/19 05:25 PM
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Building off this, it's also the realization that you arent as good as you thought you were. I know realizing that fact shook a lot of guys to the core. But no growth can come from believing a lie, and that the shock that one needs to change and improve is necessary in the end.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/19 05:19 PM
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He definitely missed all the guy on guy sex going on in ancient Greece and Rome. I don't think the red pill is all for the gay orgies, but I'm willing to be surprised.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/19 12:38 AM
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Jordan Peterson does really well on the general life advice side of things. And he certainly is very intelligent. But a lot of his ideas, especially on modern culture and dating are not his strong suit.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/19 02:20 PM
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And yet, here we are on PPD, doing just that most days lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/19 02:17 PM
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Exactly. The devil is in the details. That always cited OKCupid study states that if you rated some as a 4 or 5, it would tell that person that you had, incentivizing people to not rate higher. Like how super likes on tinder are just weird. There was a study here a few days ago that said single parent households were exploding. But the asterisk at the end said single parent households included every single non nuclear family arrangement. Making it misleading to the point of useless. The internet…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/19 05:28 PM
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It also has a lot to do with the wording of a question. Many surveys can have leading phrases questions whivh can greatly affect the result. It's why the questions usually are as dry as possible.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/19 04:55 PM
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According to the US Department of Health and Human services, the average American womans N count is 3.5. The percentage of women with over 15 lifetime sexual partners is roughly 9% The average American man has a count of 5.2. The percentage of men with over 15 lifetime sexual partners is roughly 23%. Your premise seems to rely heavily on outliers and stereotypes.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/19 02:03 PM
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Its changing slowly. There are plenty of men (myself included) that will stubbornly suffer if only to prove that they can take it and they dont need to be pampered. And the reward for willingly suffering from a preventable condition? Pain and discomfort. That's it. who admit they don't even wear sunscreen outside! I always love the instant regret of that decision. One day at the beach later and they can barely out on a shirt and look like a lobster.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/19 10:40 PM
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I used to live in Maine. By far one of the most underrated states in the country. Especially if you like doing things outdoors
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/19 10:37 PM
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Every valentines day that I've been single for I've turned into a time intensive cooking day. One year I made some cajun gumbo that took about 4 hours to make. Another I made some Indian vindaloo that took lots of trial and error. Occupies my time, and I get a delicious reward at the end. Will probably do that again this year.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/19 10:35 PM
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Upvote or downvote aside there still seems to be some decent advice and direction given in those threads. I dont see this shaming going on that OP was talking about
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/19 10:24 PM
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They do. My ex girlfriend forgot some skin care products at my place when she left and I've been using some of it occasionally without shame. Its winter, fuck having dry flakey skin.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/19 10:20 PM
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I'm a guy and I trim my armpits. Theres nothing attractive about armpit hair and it just looks dirty and unkempt honestly. I dont shave it, but I definitely trim it as well, so you're not alone
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/19 08:02 PM
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Does it count as significant, under your definition, that I have pockets big enough to hold my phone, clothing sizes that make sense, razors sold to me are cheaper than ones sold to women, and I'm under no expectation to pierce my ears?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/19 07:24 PM
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That men are out there getting laid left and right and that being single is just like the sitcoms. Turns out, people arent drowning in sex as much as everyone thinks they are
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/19 08:14 PM
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I think that varies on what definition of Blue Pill we are using. The Blue Pill subreddit is entirely just an anti red pill community. It's no different than stuff like inceltears, niceguys/girls, or Iamverysmart. But there is the other definition that blue pill is the conventional and mainstream beliefs regarding gender and dating dynamics. The dating actions and strategies of the billions of people who have never heard of the red pill would be considered blue pill. Big difference between who w…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/19 01:47 PM
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Wheres the fun in that? This is a debate sub. If we agree to disagree this sub has no point to exist
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/19 11:40 AM
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Shhhhh, nuance undermines their strawman arguments and outrage culture
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/19 02:50 PM
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Well this certainly doesn't sound like strawman arguments at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/19 02:50 PM
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How much more open men are with their emotions and thoughts with other men that they are not trying to impress or save face in front of. That a good physique is something that took months or years of effort to make, not just something that emerged after a few weeks. That sometimes we just dont want to have sex, and there is no deeper meaning. It doesnt mean we are cheating on you. It doesnt mean we need immediate TRT. More likely we are just tired and need to sleep. The joy of having pockets and…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/19 10:56 PM
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Shit man, I dont even remember all the casual sex I've had. Let alone number of people that have sucked me off. It's called casual for a reason
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/19 10:53 PM
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The manosphere idea of repression is that they can't have sex with people because those people dont want to have sex with them back. The Male sexual repression I think of is that, aside from enjoying lots of shallow conventional sex with conventionally attractive women, men arent allowed to experiment. And that self repression creates A LOT of weird kinks and fetishes that they keep hidden. Hell, most men arent even allowed to enjoy anal stimulation despite the fact that that's where his g spot …
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/19 04:47 PM
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I would agree that most people in general are vanilla. But even vanilla men enjoy like having the girl take charge a fair amount of the time. Male sexuality is a complex thing, as there is a lot of repression to it. Just not in the way that the Manosphere thinks it is.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/19 04:39 PM
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It's a very complex question, with lots of fascinating answers. Sexual psychology is something I love to discuss and learn about. But the short answer is that there really is no one reason why people like what they do, and its heavily individual based. That being said, most humans do enjoy not being in control on some level. Its freeing in a way not to have to worry about being responsible.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/19 04:37 PM
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I will definitely say that the amount of sexually submissive men is higher than a lot would expect. My views are ancedotal of years of running in kink circles, so I'm willing to admit that I have a skewed view of things. But in those circles I know as many Male submissivesas female subs. And online it seems they are even more common.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/19 04:34 PM
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It should be known that when a man said he likes submissive women, usually he means he want a woman to never reject him sexually. It doesn't mean he is actually 'dominant' or 'responsible'. And that's why so many of the men around here really like the idea of sex bots. They just want a female body that can never refuse their advances.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/19 04:20 PM
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Controversial opinion: I actually think most men are sexually submissive. They just are likely to never admit to it except under very trusting circumstances. Most guys who I know enjoy a girl taking the lead in the bedroom or even tying them up a bit. Theres a reason there is such a huge market for dominatrixs.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/19 04:19 PM
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I'm actually in favor of leaving this up. It's probably the most unintentionally hilarious thing that's been posted here in a while
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/19 10:33 AM
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I second the motion.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/19 10:32 AM
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A womans vagina gets looser from sex in the same way that a mans dick gets smaller the more he uses it. In that it doesn't. Same how your mouth doesnt get looser over the years as you eat various foods. Or how your ass still remains tight as accommodates the various dicks of your partners. But thank you for this post, I needed a laugh before work.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/19 10:14 AM
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This is the very definition of incel content
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/19 10:08 AM
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But are they ACTUALLY virgins though One of my roomates in college has a thing for Muslim girls. He dated several of them. They all only did anal though. So I'm laughing right now since I know Muslim girls use the same ole poophole loophole as preppy white girls.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/19 03:11 AM
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Sugar babies aren't a guaranteed laid. Everything you just described applies to sugar relationships as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/19 12:16 AM
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Based on what Based on the fact that the biggest determining factors in a child's wellbeing are the wealth of the parents, the time spent with the child, and an emotionally stable and supportive environment. Two parents can provide more time and money than 1, but if the parents are constantly fighting and arguing with one another, that child will still grow up with very unhealthy ideas of relationships, gender dynamics, etc. Better to let the parents divorce then not. Criminal justice reform sou…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/19 10:21 PM
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Single motherhood is going to result in problems. Namely half the potential income (resulting in higher poverty rates) and any masculine influence on the child coming from less healthy sources. But it is the better alternative to a child growing up in a household where the parents hate each other, but are forced to stay together. In which case an extended family unit would be a far better framework to help alleviate the stresses. In terms of preventing single parenthood, that requires different …
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/19 09:56 PM
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The nuclear family unit was a breif and mostly American invention, brought about mostly by the post war economy and explosion of suburbia. Like the 1950s style housewife relationship, it is neither long lived, nor as stable as tradcons like to suggest. An extended family unit, with grandparents, aunts, and uncles has worked for thousands of years and is far easier on the parents than a 'traditional' nuclear family. Your source makes it seem like there has been an explosion of single parents, and…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/19 09:38 PM
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The saints should be there absolutely. But sadly it's too little too late for that. It's less that I'm for the rams, and more for whoever hits Tom Brady around like a ragdoll.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/19 06:37 PM
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Fuck the Patriots
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/19 06:30 PM
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It's not about tonight. But tomorrow is the superbowl. I'm making my buffalo chicken wing dip, usual actual ingredients from buffalo. And my friend is making football shaped long island style Italian meatballs. I'm hoping everyone else at the party can cook and it's not just 711 stuff
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/19 06:24 PM
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This thread seems either really lonely or old enough to hate random people.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/19 07:59 AM
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Imagine a world where women have 3 tits, men have 3 foot long dicks, and dogs do all the work of civilization. Imagine!
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/19 07:53 AM
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Is worth giving up being single for. Adds to my life as opposed to taking from it. Someone who can keep pace with me as opposed to slowing me down. I’m not sure if I should commit, and right now I’m leaning heavily towards “no”. Sounds like you already have your answer. The only reason you should reconsider is if you feel you would be worse off without her in your life, because if she wants a relationship and you dont she will probably move on. If that's fine with you then you're all good.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/19 05:06 AM
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When Red Pill men claim to take women off a pedestal, but actually leave pussy on the pedestal, and just put the rest of the woman in the basement. When people claim that tracon relationships are inherently stable and organic Using the term 'Resources' of men. Its cringeworthy AF. A complete lack of self awareness The "oh wo is me" stories combined with the assumption that every man everywhere has it as bad as incels
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/19 03:21 AM
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I'm not sure what point your imdb list provides. Obviously society doesn't take female on male sexual violence seriously, but that's hardly womens fault. I can't tell you how many times I see a news story breaks of a female teacher raping a kid, and all the guys in the comments are making jokes and going "niceee". I know far more men who laugh at Male rape than women who do.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/19 03:07 PM
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If their primary dating strategy is to latch onto economically to another, because they are unable to be independent, they are low value. High value individuals make their value, they don't get it from riding on others coat tails. Of all the women I have met that have ambition, intelligence, and passion, none have opted to achieve their goals by dating a guy they don't like to just give it to them. They would rather be independent than be economically chained to a man they dont really like.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/19 03:00 PM
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I was more referring to relationship manipulation, less political circuses. So on that note, try not to confuse patriarchy for capitalizing on political scandal, or preying on peoples good nature. That fake veteran story giving money to a woman GoFundMe made millions because people want to help veterans, and veterans know how to capitalize on that. The wall GoFundMe made millions doing for similar reasons even though it turned out to be a scam in the end. Hell, Alex Jones makes his entire liveli…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/19 12:02 PM
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I'm not sure what exactly you mean by gender center norms as opposed to gender fluid. But yeah, there are a good amount of women out there that work men for their "resources". Typically these are 'low value' women though. And by low value I mean the kind of woman that is incapable of surviving or advancing in life on their own. The average woman can survive on their own just fine and does not often use this strategy. Amusingly enough, red pill tactics work better on these kinds of women, which f…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/19 07:59 AM
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Red Pill in their own words observes what women do and say. They pay no attention to themselves or men because they dont see the point in it. Personally, the archetype of a chad is a figment of their own insecurities. Far easier to covet the fantasy that is Chad than accept the more nuanced reality.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/19 07:10 AM
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TIL its better for women who to hang out with guys who don't respect or help them. Everyone else is a soyboy/orbiter apparently.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/19 05:48 AM
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Believe the woman enough to listen and support and investigation into what happened. Like, how many people called Terry Crews a liar and attention whore when he came forward with his story of sexual assault? Or Jimmy Bennett when he accused Asia Argento? I don't believe women are all trustworthy. Or that they wouldn't make up false claims. They're not Angel's. But statistically speaking, when an accusation has been made, statistically something probably happened. So it's worth letting the courts…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/19 02:26 PM
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Just spent some time on r/datingadvice and saw plenty of shy and unsuccessful men asking for and getting advice for how to do better with women. And some sympathy for that being lonely sucks. So there's a good place to start
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/19 02:10 PM
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Why not just cut the bullshit and admit that being nice has no relation whatsoever to sexual attractiveness? It certainly is an element to it. But far from the only. Its obvious you can be a sleaze of a person and still get laid with certain people. To say otherwise is a lie. It's how all the traits stack up (personality, apperance, persona, actions, etc.). Like, being a good person might entail being nice, but being nice doesnt enherently make you good. And looks definitely go a long fucking wa…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/19 02:04 PM
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Fair. But assuming they aren't jumping into a metaphorical meatgrinder, no one rises to the top of any power structure without some measure of risk. Any entrepreneur or politician is, by their very nature, engaging in a higher risk activity than someone who doesnt invest, create, or campaign.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/19 01:53 PM
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There's a silly fad of risky behaviour that is constantly rewarded. Risky behavior is inherently high risk high reward. You play the risks and you win big. The world is not inherited by the meek and the mild. But there are plenty of people who take those risks and lose big. But like startup companies, we only focus on the success stories, not the failures. Niceness is a good trait to have. It just shouldn't be the only trait.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/19 05:55 AM
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The Nice Guys that get criticized are the ones that are shocked that their niceness isn't rewarded with affection. The name comes from those men themselves calling themselves "Nice Guys". For those men, they are not actually nice at all, and merely feign basic niceties and politeness because they think that earns them affection alone. They are called out when they lash out when rejected, deny they were ever interested in the girl to begin with, or resort to physcopathic behavior. Saying that you…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/19 05:26 AM
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I have. The world has more food, less illness, and higher life expectancy than ever due to modern innovations and industry. There might be some hiccups along the way, but there is not a period in history I would choose to live aside from the current era. Whereas blackedout is clearly talking about a return to some further back than 100 years. but if one day men decided en masse that this system was no longer beneficial to us, all of that "automated society" shit would go out the window and we wo…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/19 09:26 AM
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Probably the best relationship I ever had was with a nurse who worked 12 hour night shifts. I never re ally experienced those negatives you talked about, as well, I have a job as well that eats up time. But some of the benefits of dating a career woman I experienced: Makes money, so doesn't mind going Dutch or paying for gifts Has a passion. Something that is seriously attractive in anyone Is independent, so I didnt have to take care of every little problem, she could actually do fine without me…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/19 08:57 AM
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Yes. She had been gang raped by multiple men at the age of 14. Suffered PTSD and a lot of suicidal thoughts from it. I learned a lot of therapy tips and read a lot of books on how to take care of an individual with that much damage. When she was with me she acted like her normal self, sassy and adventurous, and very compassionate and caring. But she had her demons still. And after her trying to kill herself multiple times with me I couldn't do it anymore. I still keep tabs on her occasionally, a…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/19 03:22 AM
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Yeah, I'm sorry, but only the dumbest of the dumb would be on board with that idea. No sane and rational individual would desire a world of starvation, disease, and death just because their egos can't handle women having power. Your power fantasy of muscles being on top again is just that, a fantasy.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/19 09:56 PM
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physically stronger and that's all that really matters Physical strength is actually one of the most useless traits in an automated society. It's a vanity plate to have good personal appearance, but no president, CEO, or even gang leader got to their position based on physical strength.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/19 07:09 PM
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You ever heard of compression shorts? Men do wear tight clothing. It's just then covered up by more in style gym shorts
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/19 11:36 AM
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But that's the point. It's a personal function and aesthetic choice that has nothing to deal with sex appeal. Women everywhere say how much they love a guys arms, but that hardly factors into why men dont wear sleeves.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/19 11:35 AM
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People like showing off their form and being happy with the progress they see in themselves. Guys do this all the time. Guys don't wear sleeveless shirts and muscle shirts to impress chicks at the gym (cause there are none). They wear them because they like how they look in them. You dont need to dig for any real deeper meaning than that.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/19 10:21 AM
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It's better to do something you want by yourself, then to always not do those things cause your friends dont want to do them with you. People joining you is a bonus, not a requirement
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/19 03:59 AM
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I'm taller than my 5'8 friend. He got laid more than I did when we would go out to bars together. Check mate
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/19 03:58 AM
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Sounds like OP was upset they got downvoted heavily for their own comment on that thread
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/19 01:11 AM
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A lot of posts in that subreddit are fake. To the point where the mods are used to spotting MGTOW or TRP bait. As for the post, the words used by the husband are word for word lines I've seen used by TRP here. So it's either fake, or we just spotted one of our own in the wild.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/19 01:08 AM
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Only way to know for sure is if there isnt any money involved. If there is, then you'll never know, and it's best to assume it's all about that cash
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/19 03:00 PM
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Some men i feel are overly optimistic. And tend to take a woman being flirtatious and nice as genuine and forget that money is being exchanged. I haven't seen this happen too much in reality personally, but I have heard of it happening enough. Dont get me wrong, sometimes it is real, but the only way to be sure is if the situation is not profitable anymore. Such as the waitress staying even after her shift has ended and the already transaction closed.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/19 02:59 PM
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Women are visual I agree. But there is far more about a man that makes him attractive than just his looks. If you did it right you could fuck those girls, and they could easily screw it up and not get any of the girls. Looks get you in the door, but everything else keeps you there.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/19 03:29 AM
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Two of my good friends are dopey looking fellows. Not that tall, not much facial hair, not in the best of shape, etc. And yet they both have an n count over 30. They pull girls through being charming, being present, and making women comfortable for them. No commitment or money was promised. You are way overthinking this.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/19 03:11 AM
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I dont think it's possible for any human to never look at or consider other people attractive except for their SO. But that's just it, looking. And nothing more than that. Men have high sex drives yes. But not to the extent that it leaves us mindless brutes with no self control or without other desires. I have never cheated, and have never had the urge to cheat. And the vast majority of men have not either. Understand that he might find some other women attractive, as you might still find other …
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/19 02:28 PM
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You realize there are hundreds of subreddits calling out various behaviors right? Choosing beggars, gatekeeping, iamverysmart, etc. Why is Niceguys the one that's the problem? Why should men who lack self awareness (to an almost comedic degree) be sheltered or given a pass?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/19 09:12 AM
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Yeah? And? No one ever said that all men act like that. Just a few do. Similar to how there is also r/nicegirls for women that exhibit the exact same behavior
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/19 08:59 AM
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They are called nice guys because that's what they refer to themselves as. "What? Why dont you want to sleep with me, I'm a nice guy. You're such a bitch". So the word usage is because of that. But if it makes it easier to distinguish we can call the desperate ones Nice Guys (TM), as opposed to actual nice guys
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/19 05:27 AM
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Nah. I have plenty of good quality friends that are women. There is no romantic or sexual interest between us, I just simply like their company, think they are awesome, and have been dependable friends in the past. Your desire to be with someone is not a weakness so long as you dont sacrifice other elements of your life in pursuit of that. Don't be with someone that makes you miserable just because you dont want to be alone. And dont bend over backwards for someone who wont do the same to you
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/19 03:35 AM
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The 20/80 (as it is used here in that the top 20% of the men have 80% of the sex, or that 80% of women chase after the top 20%) fails in reality. "Chad's" might get an easier time for one night stands, but men in relationships have far more sex than chad. If we are talking total number of times having sex, the beta strategy wins. And probably has better quality sex too as its always better with a consistent partner. And I bet you 60% of self proclaimed incels are volcels. They are an extreme out…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/19 11:14 PM
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If she is a 2 or a 3, I doubt that the person in question would ever refer to her as such. Ruins the ego stroking of his field report lol
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/19 09:28 PM
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TRP is nothing new. The things that they say and believe have been said and believed for decades now. Maybe worded and formatted differently, but it's not new. So there is only so much sway an old idea can have. The Red Pill, even the most non misogynistic aspects advise against marriage or LTR on principal. It can't produce better relationships with women because it doesn't advocate for them in the first place. It's only good for short term flings, it is not equipped for any sort of LTR. that t…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/19 08:37 PM
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have sex toys for pleasure and friends for company, men become essentially useless to them More like they no longer have a monopoly on those things, if they ever did. Jesus girl, just because men arent the sole potential provider of things and experiences doesnt mean men are useless. If anything it makes companionship more meaningful because women have other options and still chose men.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/19 05:51 PM
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It's okay. I have a lot of experiences the same as yours. But i think a lot of guys here are well below average in looks and personality. It's easier to blame the 20/80 principle for their failings than undergo actual self reflection.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/19 03:38 PM
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Narcissism can certainly be a component of some peoples feminism and misogyny. But it is not inherently required. Some people hate women because they believe that they as men are superior and better than women, and others hate them for plenty of other reasons. And feminism isn't inherently about hating men, although some women use it as a cloak for that certainly. And there are certainly some narcissistic women in feminism. But again, more correlation than causation
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/19 03:27 PM
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Well that was quite the trip to read lol
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/19 03:23 PM
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I'm 25, 4 times First was my high school sweetheart. Lasted for a year until I realized that she was toxic as fuck and abusive on so many levels. Then in college I dated a girl for 4 years. Was great, and we still talk occasionally as friends. It's just by the end we were both tired of it and it didn't survive me leaving college. I dated this British girl for 2 years. Easily the best sex of my life, and easily the craziest person I've ever been with. Poor girl needed actual mental help that I ju…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/19 09:11 PM
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In college I would go out with one of my best friends a lot. He wasn't especially good looking, on the shorter side of things, a little dumpy. His game wasn't that impressive either. Nothing about him was remarkably impressive. And yet he would come back home with a different girl every weekend. It baffled me for the longest time. I eventually realized that every party we went with were filled with guys thinking about how they were going to approach girls, what they were going to say and do, etc…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/19 09:07 PM
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It's from 2013 and a fake at that So no opinion
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/19 09:27 AM
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There are obviously going to be benefits. And if combined with other things (diet & exercise) it could be very effective. Especially for older men who's T has been dropping. But there are also some unsavory side effects that make me skeptical. Artifical sources of testosterone will further reduce your body's own natural production. It's why men on roids start having mood swings and developing bitch tits if they dont keeping injecting. Plus the increased risks of strokes and heart attacks. Basica…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/19 08:04 AM
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I've done both. And I'm willing to admit my experiences might not be an accurate representation of all women. But the women I grew up with have never worn makeup, except for maybe a handful of times a year. And the women I lived with spent maybe 90 minutes at the absolute most. What is your typical pre date ritual?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/19 07:55 AM
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Dating: I think whoever asks the other person out should pay. Would be rude to invite someone out to dinner and then have them pay for my meal. I spend dry roughly an hour getting ready for a date, I'm not sure how much more time women typically spend, but longer than an hour seems a bit excessive. I try to avoid the stereotypical dinner date as well, so that helps minimize the excessive fluff. Asking out: I'm confused as to this women never ask men out thing. I've been asked out a few times ove…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/19 07:46 AM
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Has made me realize how stupid pill theory is in general. Definitely started moving to the no pill side as opposed to blue or red. The real thing this sub has done is make me wonder if the men here are representative of the average men or is this just the outliers. Cause the men here are like nothing I've ever encountered in real life.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/19 07:31 AM
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I've been seeing testosterone therapy everywhere. Reminds me of snack oil salesmen. So many men make a big deal out of testosterone that it becomes very easy to market gullible men into spending money on the service, regardless of not they actually need it.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/19 07:25 AM
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Bodybuilder in need. Spare any gains?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/19 11:39 PM
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Or depressed... or both lol
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/19 11:34 PM
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A bit. But IQ isn't everything when it comes to overall intelligence. Education and experience are just as important as IQ for all practical purposes.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/19 03:39 PM
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And I shall say the same thing now as I say to all those people: "It's now very common to hear people say, 'I'm rather offended by that.' As if that gives them certain rights. It's actually nothing more... than a whine. 'I find that offensive.' It has no meaning; it has no purpose; it has no reason to be respected as a phrase. 'I am offended by that.' Well, so fucking what." -Stephen Fry
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/19 03:30 PM
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Do they? It doesn't seem to be a one size fits all rule, as some companies increases sales, while others recorded losses. But the ones that lost out are also the ones that stopped selling a certain product (dicks no longer selling assualt style guns, cvs no longer selling cigarettes, etc), whereas others like Nike resulted in profit after the 'woke' campaign. So there is obviously a limit to its effectiveness, but it's not universally a loss Dicks lower sales, mostly from lower revenue in huntin…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/19 08:49 AM
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From a business standpoint, very effective. It's gotten so much free publicity from people being triggered by it. I think they might lose some sales, but not enough to offset all the new attention it's getting. Kinda like how Nike made more money by sponsoring Colin Kaepernick. From a personal standpoint, indifferent. It's not attacking me or men in general. It's just calling out certain behaviors. Sure, it might be a little preachy, but whatever. If anything I find it more amusing at all the pe…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/19 08:08 AM
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I go to various partiesin cities across the country and have had actual D/s style relationships before so I'd say I'm pretty well practiced in kink. Do you think more then average people interested in gender dynamics also have a intrest in kink? I think most people have a curiosity in kink, but far less actually follow up with it. It's the fun and exciting forbidden fruit. There are probably some redpilled men in the scene, but in practice I think their truths and methods fail in this setting. A…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/19 09:37 PM
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Male here. Yes. Might not be an automatic deal breaker depending on other details. But it would certainly raise a lot of questions in my mind. Namely, why have they never been in a relationship? What basic things do I have to teach them?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/19 09:32 AM
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Are they? I do see them a lot but I'm also neck deep in the kink scene, so my view isnt the norm.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/19 07:37 AM
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Pretty much. I view them as not too different than people in kink relationships, except people in kink are at least aware that their shit isn't typical.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/19 05:23 AM
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M, 25, No Pill Friends are the people that I share my life with even when it's not convenient. The ones who still are a part of my life even if I don't live in that area anymore. The ones who I actually care about, and them care about me in return.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/19 01:31 PM
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I think humans should live like salmon. Climb a mountain to somewhere majestic. Then fuck till we die of exhaustion. Good way to go
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/19 01:06 PM
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Biology doesn't care about that though. All biology cares about is that he gets to cum inside a fertile female. Biological programming beyond procreation is minimal. The idea of two parents raising a child together is a practice tied to monogamy. In more tribal polygamist cultures that issue is non existent to the point where they wouldn't understand the concept. Education and child rearing is communal. I.e. that fear is caused entirely by societally pressures
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/19 12:29 PM
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A few reasons, none if them biological. Previous societal attitudes where women are expected to be pure and chaste, so any deviation from that is treated as a perversion. Iti You could also toss on risk factors such as STDs. Risks of negative mental issues. And I do think jealousy plays a part
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/19 12:10 PM
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I mean, one of my girl friends gave me a couch to crash on when I was broke and unemployed. Another picked me up and gave me a ride home after I got jumped by 5 guys and was left pretty bloodied. And I went on a 3 day snowboarding trip with yet another. I'd say they are quality friends. I like my guy friends as well dont get me wrong. But a lot of them I cant bother to bring to half the stuff I do, so it's a limited in that sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/19 04:52 AM
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I misunderstood. I thought you were implying the more blanket statement that men couldn't be friends with women because they would always want more as opposed to a more conditional one. So I agree with your statement
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/19 04:38 AM
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Do you want to be more than friends with every woman you hang out with?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/19 04:17 AM
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I never understood how this is still a question. I have dozens of friends that are women. And they have lots of friends that are guys. I feel like people who don't believe guys and girls can be friends are very sheltered and don't notice the evidence in front of them, instead relying on reddit stories. The people who can't be friends with the opposite sex are the kinds of people who don't see much worth in the opposite sex except for, well, sex
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/19 03:37 AM
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I dated a girl for 3.5 out of the 4 years I was in college. I regret nothing. Drunk one nights stands and fuck buddies were fun but ultimately boring and hollow in the end. I had much more satisfying time building something with someone. And idk why, but I find it easier to get laid out of college.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/19 09:24 PM
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Court of public opinion is less codified than the court of law. People will think what they think, and often that follows the first impression of the story they hear. To be fair, I'm not sure if I would want to go back to a job or college that kicked me out publically like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/19 05:44 PM
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Would probably sit her down for a very long and awkward conversation. But so long as she is conducting it in a safe matter, is in charge of how the scene is done, and is fully aware of her choices I would not be pleased, but also would respect her choices. Would personally also prefer her face not be shown. Also might reconsider my own porn viewing habits to reduce the risk of seeing her.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/19 10:09 AM
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people quit going to their jobs due to inhuman conditions If by quit you mean staged mass strikes, unionization, and in some cases revolts then you're right. maybe you should learn from history if everything is so unfair. Funny, I could say the same to you https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Ludlow_Massacre https://historycollection.co/6-violent-american-labor-protests/ https://www.msn.com/en-us/news/us/30-largest-worker-strikes-in-american-history/ss-AAwAOZm https://www.vox.com/2018/8/17/17664048/n…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/19 07:05 AM
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Redditing ain't hard. Dealing with dense motherfuckers is
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/19 04:32 AM
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This is my new favorite thread. Ty OP
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/19 03:00 AM
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This is starting to sound more and more like a horror movie idea
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/19 03:00 AM
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I know this is a big deal for a lot of people. I just have trouble sympathizing with a man that will still be one of the top 10 richest men in world once this is over. The lifestyles of the rich and the famous are far beyond us mere mortals
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/19 02:49 AM
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Possibly. I do see it as a big blind spot for the study, as it contradicts some of their stated conclusions. Researching womens orgasm rates with more masculine or feminine women would fill in that hole I feel. Edit: pun not intended
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/19 12:40 AM
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And if its working for them they can have way more orgasms than we can. As a guy, I'm kinda jealous of this ability. To orgasm over and over and over without a 'reload' period.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/19 12:36 AM
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How does this research coincide with the fact that lesbians report higher orgasm rates than straight women?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/19 12:33 AM
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I just worked 120 hours the past two weeks. Thanks for keeping me entertained PPD
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/19 06:58 PM
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Oh this is fascinating. I might play around with this tool a bit more today. But the blue pill is connected to PPD, with a very big thick line. What is fascinating is the different groups and associated subreddits. It's nothing new, we all knew that MGTOW and TRP had heavy overlap. But I do find how seperate incels are from them unexpected. I would have figured that MGTOW would have been the core that they all circled around. But as others have said, the prescense of alternate accounts limit the…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/19 08:15 PM
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TIL that Angela Merkel is a sex symbol
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/19 12:41 PM
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Ah Comment still applies then
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/19 12:36 PM
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Not gonna change your view. Don't date anyone if it makes you happy. No one is going to force you to date if you dont want to, and no one is going to mourn you going your own way.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/19 12:16 PM
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Humans have jumped on grenades, used themselves as human shields, or put themselves in fatal situations to protect others. If we can override the survival instinct, I think its possible to overcome lesser programming
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/19 11:31 AM
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Any incel dating advice can be generally written off as useless by definition
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/19 08:39 AM
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I've spent my life improving my SMV as well. Granted more improving myself for my own personal reasons, that also just happen to increase my SMV. And I haven't really seen this phenomenon. Which makes me wonder what else is at play, cause I'm sure there are other factors at play that are being glossed over.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/19 08:29 AM
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What is your first hand experience with this exactly?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/19 07:55 AM
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The only ones who I've seen gone to jail are the people who got the alcohol for under 21 year olds. No one under 21 I've seen actually serve jail time except if they broke other laws, then they tossed that on as an addition. Most legal and policing efforts is to stop people from providing the alcohol. Ex: if a 19 year old is drunk in a college dorm, the alcohol will be poured down, maybe get a citation. But if the 19 yo gets into a fight with a bouncer, then they will be arrested and the alcohol…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/19 07:50 AM
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Hmmm, how to describe the feeling. For just viewing an attractive woman say, on the street, the more primal side of my brain is just drawn to them. Not necessarily in any concious way, but just subtly pushing you to look and experience her more. The more attractive the less subtle the feeling. It's all controllable, and it's gotten easier as time has gone on. But there still have been a few times where I forgot what was going on around me upon noticing a really attractive woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/19 04:47 AM
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They're at the receiving end. Sometimes. Not always though. Women can be just as proactive in bed as the man
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/19 04:37 AM
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In 2018
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/19 08:34 PM
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And? You say that like it's a bad thing that there hasn't been a war between major powers in almost a century
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/19 09:27 AM
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I dont think anyone seriously has ever stated that looks are not important. The saying I grew up with was "looks gets you in the door, personality keeps you there". No blue pill or red pill person here has ever stated otherwise. But overwhelming bit is more up for debate. By the age of 30 only 3% of men have never had any sexual contact. So if there is a bottom threshold, it's so incredibly low that the majority of self proclaimed incels are vocels/mentalcels. And if they delude themselves into …
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/19 08:39 AM
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There seem to be more evidence for incels points than against them What points exactly?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/19 07:56 AM
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It doesn't mean that every time you conclude that you are the victim you are wrong. Of course. But there is also the concept of the self fullfilling prophecy. Where a strongly held, yet incorrect, belief sufficiently influences people so that their actions ultimately prove their belief. Thereby creating a feedback loop that is difficult to break. Then ofc there is a question about where do you draw the like to divide ugly people form normal. That would be a question for incels to decide amongst …
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/19 07:42 AM
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Cheers. So the rudamentary Death rates per 100,000 are 0.418 for a serviceman to die in combat, and 0.272 for a high school student to die in a mass shooting. Edit: for reference the work place fatality rate for Financial Services is 1.3 per 100,000
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/19 07:28 AM
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It's easier to assume your problems are external and that you are a victim, than to assume responsibility for the problem and put the effort in to a solution. I.e. the problem is caused by uncontrollable sources and not controllable ones. The existence of mentalcels prove that they are aware that personality factors into things. Are there ex incel groups? I know many that have ascended and still lurk occasionally. But most once they ascend choose to detach from the communities. Or maybe its they…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/19 07:19 AM
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If you would like to do the math to produce the accurate rates be my guest. I just provided a ball park. But if we include all overseas US military deaths in 2018, including non combat deaths, we get 30. https://thefallen.militarytimes.com/search?first_name=&last_name=&start_date=&end_date=&conflict=&home_state=&home_town=&branch=&age=&year=2018&year_month=&sortby=dod&page=2
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/19 06:09 AM
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In 2018 there have been 9 combat deaths in Afghanistan, and 95 injuries. https://www.armytimes.com/news/your-army/2018/11/24/us-service-member-killed-in-afghanistan/ In 2018 there have been 41 kids killed in school shootings (not counting the shooter) and 79 injuries. https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/List_of_school_shootings_in_the_United_States These are US stats only of course, and I haven't bothered to calculate rates, or to include every other kind of violence in schools, or non combat deaths…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/19 04:50 AM
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That's fascinating. I love finding out about random beneficial mutations. Real life examples of super power potentials for human evolution.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/19 04:34 AM
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I wish I knew what it was like to see how they do. Problem is they probably dont even realize their super powers lol. And we could never comprehend what it's like cause, like, how do you even describe a color to someone?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/19 04:09 AM
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I have it run parallel to racism. I'm not going to bother getting involved in ever single slightly sexist, homophobic, or racist thing said around me. But there are times when it's just so blatant and in your face that I have to confront someone on it. People should engage to the level they feel comfortable with, but ideally hateful beliefs should not be tolerated. Also, didn't see the video cause I'm at work, but going off the description: no one speaks like that. Sadly they do. At least in my …
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/19 04:07 AM
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I think we've done a good job about minimizing combat deaths for men in the west. Seeing as how it's more dangerous to be a kid in school than an actual soldier. Plus, women weren't allowed to be soldiers until recently. And it wasn't women preventing them from serving.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/19 03:59 AM
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First off, thank you. And I think a lot of people have a problem separating feminism from women. The two have overlaps, but not every woman is a feminist. There are plenty of women online that sell their body/image and have the assertive/bitchy chatacther persona to go with it. But that doesn't make them feminist, it just makes them women. But that feeds into their image of what a feminist is, even though of the hundreds of women that I have met that call themselves feminist, none of them fit th…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/19 03:56 AM
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Incels are already about 85% gay for chad anyway
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/19 11:58 PM
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Everyday I wonder how this sub will out autism itself. And every day I am not dissapointed, just surprised
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/19 11:55 PM
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1) All those loosely affiliated groups are very different in their purpose. While they all share much of the same worldview, the response for how to deal with that is different. Out of all of them I think only the MRA somewhat tries to fo anything involving real change. MGTOW, TRP, Mens Lib are more personal groups for individuals to reflect and change. Masculinism is just satire, I wouldn't bother including it with the rest. Egalitarianism is the equivalent of all lives matter, for people who w…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/19 01:44 PM
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It's fake masculinity guys who are having problems (i.e. whinny Trump supporting MAGA bitches). Okay, I actually laughed at this. Thank you
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/19 11:29 AM
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Your lack of basic reading comprehension is baffling
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/19 11:28 AM
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Short answer: I doubt that they care Slightly longer answer: there are far bigger and more important issues that concern them than some random woman's dating habits. I really dont think they care. Why dont you go present it to r/askfeminists
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/19 11:26 AM
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An interesting choice of words, considering the traditional masculine skillset is becoming more outdated every year as automation takes over. And that masculine behaviors are far more likely to lead to actual death
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/19 10:50 AM
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Believe it or not. Not everyone wants to be aggressive and competitive. And even less people want to have external forces change them into being something they dont want to be
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/19 10:34 AM
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You taught yourself how to be more traditionally masculine because it is what you wanted. The key word I used was forced. As in the person had no desire to be aggressive or competitive, but became so for whatever reason. That is most likely to cause misery and unhappiness because it's not what the person wanted.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/19 10:06 AM
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A man capable to seduce you and attract you is going to be an asset for a long relationship. Of course. But nuance is important. What works to turn you on might also piss you off if done too much or at the wrong times. I enjoy women I date to be fiesty/sassy, but that can easily just make me actually annoyed/mad if done at the wrong times. All women think they are unique that way but they aren't. They do. But then again so do men. Everyone wants to be special. But as one of my favorite quotes go…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/19 09:36 AM
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Redpill women is always an interesting journey whenever I venture over there. I always pictured it like observing a 1950s book club of housewives
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/19 09:25 AM
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You can keep posting that same quote all you like. It's not the checkmate you seem to think it is against feminism. This entire discussion is how one, singular, woman wrote an article how she is attracted to more masculine men and she also happens to identify as a feminist. It says more on her own internal thought processes than it does for feminism as a whole
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/19 09:10 AM
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I had no idea that this one woman represented all feminists everywhere. Or that all feminists thought and reacted the same way. Fascinating.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/19 08:29 AM
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All those traits are good. But they can become toxic if taken too far. Similar to how enjoying alcohol isn't a problem, but alcoholism is. We can in fact distinguish the two. And those are only winning hands for men who are naturally aggressive and competitive. Forcing a person to be something they are not is a sure fire way to make that person miserable
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/19 08:11 AM
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Did you read that article beyond the headline and the first paragraph out of curiosity? I know many woman who would be incredulous if a man displayed such machismo as to put his hands on her body — as if he were owed access to it — within minutes of meeting. And I don’t blame them. Women are becoming more rigid in the behaviors they’ll accept in a mate, which is leaving a lot of men confused. I also know that such oafish behavior from men will get annoying soon enough, that the unsolicited advic…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/19 08:08 AM
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I agree. But it's more to do with tweaking the ideas around sex, as opposed to providing any sort of sexual strategy for women. Regarding slut shaming/slut walks: the obsession has to do with giving women access to and freedom to pursue the kind of sex they enjoy. There still are prevailing attitudes that a women's worth and her sexual history are intertwined, with the further from virgin, the lesser the woman. The idea is that a woman can have sex and still be seen as a moral or upstanding pers…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/19 06:44 AM
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Feminism is not dating advice. It's a political/social movement for equality. They are more focused on ensuring people are not hurt and taken advantage of than getting laid. The fact that PPD men cannot separate the two blows my mind. And if I had to hazard a guess it has less to do with teaching men how to approach and talk to women then the surrounding misogynistic beliefs that often accompany PUA and TRP. Namely stuff like women are children, women are goldiggers, AWALT, or that all women wil…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/19 05:52 AM
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Not everything comes back to testosterone. Men are more than a hormone, despite what certain corners of the internet like to think
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/19 05:33 AM
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Cannot confirm. I own several toys. Have had no problems so far with women about them.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/19 04:54 AM
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Discussing systemic discrimination =/= dating preferences. They are two seperate conversations. One is personal, and the other is societal/political. There is no hypocrisy unless your dating life is a political discussion, which around here it seems a lot of men do think that. I can argue for better mass transit in my local politics while still being willing to drive cars. No hypocrisy
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/19 08:50 PM
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Yes, women are more likely to slap and throw things. This is horrible and unjustifiable. But which gender is the one that's more likely to end up dead from DV? Cause the severity of the violence is not mirrored currently in most cases
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/19 05:14 PM
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I do wonder how the rates of violence differ when you start controlling for things such as race or income levels. I do believe men suffer higher rates of violence, but its definitely a different type of violence. A stranger mugging me is going to affect me differently than say, a friend trying to drug and shove themselves inside me. But I've met way too many women in person who were raped to dismiss their fears as completely unjustified.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/19 01:47 PM
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Toxic masculinity is part of the problem. But it doesnt offer a complete picture. If we break stats up along racial lines, we can see that it's also heavily cultural based. Suicides among white males has been increasing drastically while PoC suicide rates are boyh lower and more stable. My personal theory is that PoC cultures are stereotypically more community and family oriented than modern white culture. This leads to white men being far more likely to be lonely and without support groups to w…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/19 01:16 PM
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I've seen guys get solicited for sex by random girls, and seen them turn it down. I've done this as well cause it's weird as hell for a stranger to just walk up and ask for sex. After being here though, I'm beginning to reconsider what I consider average for men.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/19 04:35 AM
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Women like guys that are mature. A trait far more scarce in younger men. Women will choose a man their age over an older one 9/10 times if the younger man can show that he acts more like an adult and less like a teenager
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/19 04:20 AM
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The real thing is maturity. They like slightly older men for mainly that reason. If a younger guy can be more mature than his peers, it is very attractive to women.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/19 04:17 AM
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Men were less tolerant about women cheating cause it affected them. To increase punishments for men cheating would mean putting themselves at risk for a crime they would not be the victim of. The child factor plays a hand in it, but really, the simpler answer is just basic old fashioned sexism.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/19 12:17 AM
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This is my favorite troll post today. You can insist it's not a troll. But there is no way I can take this one seriously haha
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/19 12:09 AM
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Plus most men swipe right for everyone. Which would heavily invalidate any studies validity
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/19 12:06 AM
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Speak his name three times, and he shall appear
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/19 12:06 AM
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Oh it absolutely is. Sexual compatibility does make up an essential part of most relationships. But why does that need to be established on the first date? That filter does not necessarily determine sexual compatibility, merely just their willingness to put out. And is more likely to dismiss otherwise great partners that match on many levels, including sexual. I don't mind having sex on a first date. But it's not a deal breaker if it doesn't happen. Or even on the second.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/19 11:08 AM
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Because sex isn't the only thing I look for in a person. And I can actually value things aside from sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/19 10:02 AM
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This just in, women enjoy sex as well, more on this breaking news at 11
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/19 11:10 PM
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The entire pill thing I find amusing. It's a curiosity for me. I have far more important and interesting things to invest the majority of my efforts into. I grew up conservative, but that changed as I got exposed to the world and modern conservatives changed. I've flirted with the MRA in the past, but moved on after I got tired of the inconsistency and the idea that men are the most oppressed people ever. I'm not fully onboard with the feminism thing, but they have a better grasp of reality than…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/19 11:09 PM
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I wouldn't say changed. But some less solidified options have shifted around a bit. I definitely underestimated the level of desperation that a lot of men put on casual sex and surface level validation. Such as changing your entire outlook on life and personality just to get laid a bit more I think I also realized that a lot of things that seem obvious to me are less obvious to others. Like how so many men seem to think that women are pure asexual angels that could do no wrong. I never fell into…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/19 08:42 PM
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Oh I'm aware. The biggest improvement the PUA did for itself was try to distance itself from its... colorful past. My personal favorite example if you have the time. http://www.cracked.com/blog/the-sad-reality-christian-pick-up-artist/ Sounds dirty lol. But in all seriousness the trust goes both ways. You don't know what you could be walking into. But in the interest of having a good time, certain things might be glossed over. But fucking in club bathrooms is still on shallow end of the spectrum…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/19 05:45 AM
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Pick up advice has been around for decades. I've seen some PUA stuff going back as far as the 70s. And I'm sure there is stuff along those lines from even earlier. I will give you that the internet has allowed it more avenues and allowed people who follow it communities to grow. But it's not anything inherently new, just the userbase is more visible. The Instagram discussion I feel is a whole other topic of depth. Many women on Instagram use it as a business platform of sorts, and use tactics al…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/19 05:22 AM
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The majority of guys are not promiscuous. But the majority of girls are (by virtue of how easy it is for them to get a guy) I have trouble following your logic here. So most men are not promiscuous because they cant be even if they want to, yet most women are promiscuous because they can be, yet choose not to. If we are going to make a definition for something can we please be consistent. I.e. if a person sleeps around in action they are promiscuous, intent and ease to do so do not count. We now…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/19 04:21 AM
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Quality wholesome post
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/18 10:47 PM
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I second the motion
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/18 10:34 PM
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Darn you kakakarrotkake. You am no real supersand
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/18 09:10 PM
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Toron the rod god doesn't need any help. The never ending erection does all the work for you
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/18 09:05 PM
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If your erection lasts for longer than 4 hours, call another girl over
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/18 08:50 PM
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Decision one: fetch me and everyone else here a drink. Purge week is more fun without sobriety Decision two: everyone must wear robes. Underwear optional Decision three: Hookers and blow for everyone. But like, the classy kind Gonna make PPD the place to be for new years. Edit: I also want more fan fics of PPD regulars.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/18 08:43 PM
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You tease
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/18 08:26 PM
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Being kink shamed is my kink. Do your worst
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/18 08:25 PM
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Agreed. Only gigachad should make decisions. All incels and normies should also have to pay tribute to our strong jawed overlords /s
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/18 08:21 PM
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Imma need about thre fiddy
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/18 08:16 PM
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You must be fun at parties
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/18 08:03 PM
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MRAs pay lip service to all those things, but they'd much rather blame feminism for all mens ills than actually help men, or acknowledge things that are helping men. And by men, they usually mean straight white men.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/18 07:50 PM
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Need to get into that sweet spot. Somewhere around 3 to 4 drinks in. Any less, the alcohol doesnt kick in enough. Anymore, too drunk to be useful
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/18 07:38 PM
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I ship this
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/18 07:35 PM
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Pretty much. Online echo chambers tend to magnify things to be larger than life
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/18 07:35 PM
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Most mainstream porn has gotten more and more out there over the years. The amateur stuff with actual couples is far more realistic and enjoyable. There is a difference. Granted rough sex is considered kinky for most people. It's almost amusing how many female friends I have complaining that their boyfriend is TOO gentle with them. But consent is still the bottom line, no one should be subject to anything they don't enjoy or are not comfortable with.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/18 07:28 PM
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9 goats. Certified fresh
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/18 07:15 PM
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Porn is fake, and a lot of men do fall into the trap of thinking it's real. And that translates to poor performance in bed, and a lot of that is the result of poor communication and an inflated ego. But let's not fool ourselves here, I talk and listening to women plenty. And it taught me that most women are far kinkier than most men. Most women do want some passion and excitement in bed. That doesn't mean chains and whips, but it does mean presence and some physical primal passion. It doesn't in…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/18 07:12 PM
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I mean, is that not what this entire sub is more or less?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/18 07:01 PM
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You win the thread. Please have a gold sticker as a reward
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/18 06:55 PM
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Oh good, I needed an outlet for my drunken thoughts before the year ended. Cheers!
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/18 06:54 PM
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My apologies, you're far kinkier than I. This post isn't about you.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/18 06:50 PM
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Hey, don't judge sticking your dick in a bear trap till you try it. I'd personally recommend an electrical socket, far more tingles
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/18 06:49 PM
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Oh yes, very. The intestinal cleansing was done at the ER. All fine now though, just laughs at their expense
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/18 12:22 AM
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You do you bro. So long as you aren't hurting people bo one really don't cares.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/18 11:03 PM
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Just spat my drink out reading this hahaha
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/18 10:50 PM
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Don't take life too seriously man, no one makes it out alive in the end. Enjoy yourself a little
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/18 10:40 PM
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My friend got hammered drunk last night and drank a bottle of a clear liquid in a water bottle. Turns out it was miracle grow. After a ritual intestinal cleansing, we have been making tree puns all day.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/18 07:25 PM
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Awesome. More conversations about BDSM from people who have no idea what they are talking about. My favorite.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/18 10:17 AM
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Soooo just want to clear up a few misconception, as someone who spends a good deal of time in the BDSM communities. First off, how BDSM is practiced does use some things close to what feminists argue for, namely clear and enthusiastic consent upfront. All parties clearly negotiate what they want, what their limits are, and how to stop a scene before it begins. Every scene outside of relationships is very structured. Second, as I have to argue to radfems, BDSM is not inherently misogynistic becau…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/18 09:59 AM
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I mean. The technology is not necessary. Monks do this stuff for an entire lifetime. So its possible of doing it through self control. But if not, I'm sure we have pills out there that do a good job of killing desire for sex
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/18 11:18 PM
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I just pass time here. So the goal is to keep things interesting enough that it stays worthwhile. Real life: make money, party like a mother fucker in Rio, go to a weekend long fetish festival, have a threesome, keep growing and experimenting
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/18 01:36 AM
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I dont even think the majority of trans people feel this way.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/18 08:25 PM
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I do a lot of work with the military. And have friends all over the world. Its incredible the stuff that's out there that you don't hear about. And I say rose tinted glasses because people out there like to state how great it used to be in the good old days and how we need to return to them. JP does it, a lot of the manosphere does some of it, the modern right definitely does it. But they often gloss over the fact that it actually wasn't that great back in the day for the majority of people. Ric…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/18 08:11 PM
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I mean... I have pills you can take that will give you a feeling similar to that haha
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/18 07:53 PM
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No. The phrasing of the redpill is a metaphor from the movie The Matrix. But TRP uses the symbolism all the time to better describe their experiences. A man is in the computer matrix, the true nature of the world as a simulation is hidden except to a select few who have taken the "red pill" and now see the horrifying truth. So like how a man who has bad luck with women sees how women's attraction actually works, and embraces an exaggerated version of old fashioned masculinity. I could dig into m…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/18 07:41 PM
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The mindset is valuable. And any understanding of our presents and future will come from the foundation of the past. Which is also why it's good to not look at it through rose tinted glasses. The only people who see current trends as a decline have a rosy view of the past and ignore inconvenient details. I do find the subsets of the 'manosphere' interesting. As they all share more or less the same world view. Yet all draw very different responses to it
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/18 07:34 PM
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The morality stance confuses me. I have met plenty of moral atheists, and plenty of awful people who were Christian. Christian morals are not universal morals, and have little basis on the modern world.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/18 07:15 PM
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Red Pill is not the unplugging from the matrix they like to say it is. Merely playing the same game as everyone else just with a specific strategy. It offers no freedom from the game, no alternative strategies, and certainly not greater happiness. Walking away from the game seems more like a real unplugging.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/18 07:14 PM
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Different general body types for men regarding muscle and fat composition. Ecto is lean and tone with low body fat, doesn't bulk easily. Endomorph is large muscle and fat body mass, but has difficulty getting lean Mesomorph is body builder
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/18 02:02 PM
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RP works for a very specific setting and specific group of people. There are a lot of boundaries outside of which RP strategies become more liabilities than assests
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/18 10:23 PM
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Agreed. All of these OPs are poor questions. And seeing the same hypothetical but worded slightly different is getting old lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/18 04:16 PM
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You're right, being slutty is no guarantee of expertise in bed. But being a virgin at 28 is a sure time for a bad time. Yeah, a slut with that high of an N count is most likely going to have some issues. But do you really think a woman who is a virgin at 28 is totally free of issues as well? There is most likely a reason no guy has ever done anything with her, and if I'm going to have to deal with crazy, give me the fun kind.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/18 02:40 PM
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I've dated girls like that, I don't mind it. I actually prefer it. But then again, I'm not average. Sluts and fucked up individuals are far more engaged to me than some goodie two shoes who couldn't even suck a dick at all in their life. I want someone who can keep pace with my deviant behavior, not try to tell me about the wonders of jesus
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/18 04:12 AM
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I'm 25, and far from the typical interests. I would never date the 28 year old as soon as I found out she was a virgin. I would be bored to tears with her, I'm sorry. I want someone who knows what the fuck they are doing and ideally a more perverted mind like mind. So fuck it I'll take the 21 year old.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/18 03:52 AM
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Based on the very limited information you provided, I choose option C: Marry neither. Why should I marry someone I'm not attracted to, and why should I marry someone who is not attracted to me? Sounds like a recipe for lifelong success. Yeah, other factors are important, but they weren't listed, so here we are.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/18 01:32 AM
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To expand upon that. I don't think anyone who is against feminism is able to quote any feminist aside from Dworkin
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/18 12:10 AM
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My family has a bunch of weird yet wholesome traditions. Chili w/ oyster stew on Christmas eve. Mimosas and cinnamon buns Christmas morning. And we go one at a time opening up gifts. We also do joke gifts for everyone in the family. For example, my grandma fell and broke her arm last year, so we made her a bubble wrap suit. And through it all, lots and lots of alcohol. I like it, less focus on gift giving and more focus on spending time with families. The trick is to never ever bring up the topi…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/18 11:40 PM
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Not generally no. Fear isn't always rational. The emotion might be real even if the threat isn't. Men have far more things to fear greater than false rape accusations.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/18 09:20 PM
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People are afraid of shark attacks and lightning strikes. Doesn't mean they are common occurrences and shouldn't instead be afraid of more mundane things
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/18 09:08 PM
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There are plenty of MTF that talk about how much more difficult their life is as well. Transisitions are always difficult because it's a switch from what they are used to. It would be disingenuous to assume men have it rough cause of only MTF trans interviews as a sole source.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/18 02:34 AM
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Why mention it at all? Of all the experiences with girls that flirted/hooked up with from parties/bars/clubs I've never had to explain why I was there. You don't need to explain why you are in a night club dancing with people aside from that you're out to have a fun time. And you really don't need to explain that you came to a place you don't enjoy that much by yourself just to try and get laid.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/18 01:35 PM
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is it possible to go out alone at night and do well. Yes it is. But it depends on things like location, your attitude, and your social skills. I find that going alone can help you in the sense that you are forced to socialize with others, as opposed to just staying in the security of your group of friends. But I would also caution against ONLY trying to talk to girls you want to hook up with. Mix it up, talk to other people as well, be seen as social and personable, as opposed to being seen as a…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/18 01:02 PM
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Oh definitely. In their quest to take women off a pedestal, they forgot to take pussy off as well. As a result, it seems their only pursuit of socialization is to get sex, and forget that socialization without other motives is fun and fullfilling as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/18 08:50 AM
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Honest self reflection involves looking at oneself honestly, warts and all. But for many people what they see doesn't match up with what their ego paints them as. As a result, most people opt to not look at inconvenient realities and place all the blame on external sources. Goodness knows I've been guilty of this in the past. Men who stop letting their ego get in the way of their own thoughts are typically more stable, honest, and capable of improvement. But you can't win internet points by real…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/18 07:11 AM
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That if you love a person all the rest will work out. Two people can love each other deeply and truly, but so many factors can ruin it. Meeting at the wrong time in life, money problems, health problems, scheduling issues, random life events, etc. A couple being in love is only one component of a relationship being successful. Life has a way of making things difficult, and if both can't work to work past them the relationship will not survive, no matter how much they love each other.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/18 06:48 AM
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Modern marriage has significance for a few reasons: Its symbolic. It's the ultimate stage of a relationship. The statement that you are willing to spend the rest of your life with that person. Economic: tax breaks for filing jointly, far easier time having kids as a married couple, easier to get loans with two income earners, potentially double purchasing power, etc. Religious: the union of two souls in the eyes of whatever church. Santictifies whatever kids and tame sex the couple will be havin…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/18 06:44 AM
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Pretty much this. Red Pill advice IS existing blue pill advice, but presented in a unique way so that it seems original. You can find a lot of analogs between the two. I personally don't disagree on a lot of RP advice, cause a lot of it is good advice. But the same material can be found elsewhere, without the accompanying framework and worldview.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/18 06:18 AM
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Exactly. I don't see why people push harder to include women in an outdated system as opposed to just scrapping it entirely. If you can't fight a war with your all volunteer army, it's a war you should probably not be starting to begin with.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/18 05:36 AM
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I believe the core purpose of marriage was forming alliances between clans/families and codifying the idea of a family. But cultural traditions change over time. The meaning of marriage has varied greatly depending on the time, class, and culture one was in.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/18 01:10 PM
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Im a man, I just find lack of self awareness amusing. Men here claiming they are attacked for their standards, but simultaneously considering women doing the same (hypergamy) is causing the downfall of society. Men can have their own standards and preferences. Last I checked no one was actually stopping them from having them. Yeah people might be upset and call you shallow, but why do you care what random people on the internet think? And do you go on DB aside to look for more confirmation of yo…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/18 02:46 PM
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I mean, gender roles or archetypes are by definition constricting. I do believe people do choose what interests them, but a lot of time those interests are actively discouraged by others. If people were allowed more freedom of expression we wouldn't see death threats made against 12 year olds for deviating from the norm. https://www.washingtonpost.com/news/morning-mix/wp/2018/08/14/after-facebook-posts-threaten-12-year-old-transgender-girl-oklahoma-school-district-cancels-classes/?noredirect=on&…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/18 02:25 PM
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Everyone has different sex drives, and despite the stereotype not all men have a high sex drive. And everyone's sex drive fluctuates over time due to a variety of factors beyond just attraction. The problems come when both partners drives no longer align for long stretches of time. And this is usually the result of problems beyond just loss of attraction. Plus, plenty of dead bedrooms (based on the subreddit roughly 40%-45%) are because the man doesn't want to have sex with his wife. As for your…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/18 10:43 AM
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Variety is indeed the spice of life. So why should both genders be confined to specific ideas of what they should be? Wouldn't there be more variety with people able to pursue their own form of self expression free of traditional standards?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/18 10:14 AM
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So we have a 2nd wave lesbian seperationist science fiction writer from 50 years ago (props btw for picking an obscure one, and not the usual go tos) and two tweets by one woman sarcastically saying how she is kick off the real gender wars. What can I say. You got me. Feminism is cancelled everyone. It was a good run while it lasted.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/18 03:01 PM
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think the male population should be culled to 10%. I don't think anyone is seriously attempting to push this idea beyond some lone cat lady with access to a blog.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/18 01:41 PM
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I'd say both groups are large enough that there is a large spread of ideas and feelings. So while there are extreme ones in each that hate men, I don't think the majority do. I think most Red Pill types are at best apathetic to men. They don't care about what they do, they're lives, they just have a singular goal and will work towards that purpose. Often this comes at forcing their narrow view of masculinity onto others, which while I don't think is healthy or right, is not hatred. There are how…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/18 01:38 PM
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That's actually a point I rarely see on here. Passion is very attractive. So much superficial things people do to appear better in dating, but it's hard to fake raw passion.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/18 07:23 AM
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Same. So long as no one elses rights are being violated I don't think it's the government's business. I just enjoy the irony that a lot of the people on the right claim to be for freedom, and in the same breath want the government to regulate peoples sex lives.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/18 06:30 AM
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Something I feel the gays would agree with you on
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/18 06:05 AM
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Define dating down in more definable quantas. Money? Class? Attractiveness? Etc. Most people do date/marry people in similar class/economic levels. You don't see many billionaires dating homeless women.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/18 06:01 AM
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If someone doesn't want to date a slut, I don't have a problem with it. People are free to not date anyone they are not interested in, and I doubt they needed these graphs to reach that conclusion. But risk minimization can only be done so far. The ultimate risk minimization is living in a survival bunker and never emerging, and I don't see many people opting to do that. Some risk is fundamental in everything we do, and some of the more rewarding experiences require a lot of risk (skydiving, goi…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/18 07:51 PM
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I agreed. I know full well why they didn't include Male data. This was from blackpillscience after all, we know subreddits of incels and incel types aren't exactly interested in men, more just calling out those damn "roasties". The other interesting conclusion would be if the Male data mirrored women's data. That would mean that having lots of casual sex with women is bad for men to, and is not the key to happiness afterall. People are drawn to groups like TRP because they think it will help get…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/18 07:30 PM
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But people who are having good, consensual sex with one partner are not likely to look for another People can have great sex with someone, and not want to lock them down. Some of my best sexual partners were people I hooked up with a few times, them moved on for whatever reason. "good and consensual sex" is just an ideal that rarely happens in reality. The consensual bit happens far more often than not. The good is more up for debate based on what I've seen/heard/experience lol. In any case, it …
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/18 11:49 AM
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I think that is precisely what OP was implying with the graphs. These graphs are all over blackpillscience, I know full well what he was implying. The fact that these graphs only include female data trends and not Male data trends adds to that fact. What if women with STD's are angry (at men in general, because it was men who gave them the STDs), and as revenge, have sex with other men to infect them? That's a... very specific example. One that I feel is statistically insignificant. Especially w…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/18 10:47 AM
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Correlation does not equal causation. For example, people who own horses live longer than those who do not. Owning a horse does little to extend your life, but if you can afford to own a horse odds are you can afford good health insurance as well. A lot of this data follows along similar lines. The data says that women with higher partner counts are more likely to be depressed. Id put money down saying that they were already depressed, and using casual sex as a way to feel better. And a person w…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/18 10:10 AM
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Suit and tie, shirt and pants, no lipstick, no revealing clothing. Alternative idea. Everyone needs to be in high heels, wear basic makeup, and wear pantsuits and dresses. Men and women not wearing this standard dress code will now be inappropriate.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/18 08:42 AM
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Some men do. Most men who understand women don't look like anime girls do not
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/18 04:21 AM
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Agreed. Although I would also tack on that if you're sole defining feature is that your nice, and nothing else, then you will lose. Nice people who are interesting, engaging, and memorable do well. Nice people who spend the entire time asking if you're okay and have have the persona of wall paper will not.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/18 09:56 PM
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I don't think a good chunk of PPD gets out much.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/18 08:59 PM
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Agreed. Although that one time I visited Berlin was interesting. Bouncers would kick you out if you didn't dress appropriately. And did it frequently. I remember seeing some guys who were dressed like Calvin Klein models wait in line for an hour only to be denied entry. Apparently not a good look for going to a rave in an abandoned power plant.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/18 08:58 PM
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I mean. It's not so different from men on those times we dress up. We want to look our best and it feels good having people compliment you on your appearance. This isn't something super complex to go try and decode.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/18 08:55 PM
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Ngl, I died laughing reading that bit
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/18 08:52 AM
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You put a lot of work into this for a troll post. I'm impressed
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/18 07:33 AM
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Do you go on black pilled subs at all? Cause I feel like we are talking about different things. A good amount of the blackpill communities that OP is talking about call for some form of 'enforced monogamy' or sharia law. The common claim is that the values of western civilization freed women to pursue from restrictions and now women only want Chad's, leaving 80% of men effective incels. Edit: I didn't realize you were a troll before. My mistake. Carry on
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/18 07:26 AM
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