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You've got to be direct with her. When she gets back, tell her IN PERSON. Make it short. I've started to like you, and I want to take you out. Then it's up to her.
/r/seduction31/12/16 05:45 PM
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I've got acne, and scars on the left side of my face from when I ripped off most of my skin by face planting on a BMX bike. Helicoptered to the ICU, bedside plastic surgery etc. there's a fat patch where my beard doesn't grow because I split my chin open to the bone. I do fine, and so will you.
/r/seduction01/12/16 04:43 AM
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Word. My go to when I was studying at a CC was finding a table with a girl I wanted to talk to, ask her if this seat was taken, and starting the convo from there
/r/seduction30/11/16 07:28 AM
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IMO go do fun things and bring her along. Build sexual tension and indicate interest during.
/r/seduction28/11/16 09:24 PM
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Touché
/r/seduction27/11/16 01:47 AM
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Physical attraction is toppled every time by good game
/r/seduction27/11/16 12:03 AM
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IMO what you said is essentially social proof summed up.
/r/seduction26/11/16 11:30 PM
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I'm going to ahead and assume you're pretty new. Creating attraction is a combination of a number of different behaviors. It's too much to explain in one post. I'm 5 years deep and still have tons to learn. I'd pick up a book. Models by Mark Manson is an absolute MUST for beginners and experts. It teaches you to build a solid foundation for meeting girls. Look up and know these terms and concepts. Kino, push pull, indicating high value, social proof, congruency, self amusement, state, and frame …
/r/seduction26/11/16 10:25 PM
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Depends on the kind of relationship. Did you just meet this girl? Is she saying you're sweet and not giving and IOIs? She doesn't see you as a sexual partner.
/r/seduction26/11/16 09:57 PM
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I'm seeing one girl who "hates" that I don't text her back all the time, but really she eats it up. I'm seeing another girl who's would see it as a massive sign of disinterest if I didn't talk to her semi regularly. The go to advice is to be semi-elusive, but it's always good to calibrate. My go to is to text in "bursts". A couple texts back and forth, and then I'll disappear for a few hours or until much later in the night. It's normally because I'm doing something, but it also serves to build …
/r/seduction26/11/16 09:51 PM
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Hook? What do you mean?
/r/seduction26/11/16 09:49 PM
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Social proof. If you were a girl, who would you be more inclined to talk to? The guy nursing his drink alone in the corner, or the guy having a great time with a group of girls? It shows that you're a cool guy, and most importantly that other people trust and are interested in you.
/r/seduction26/11/16 09:47 PM
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Great notes. If you haven't read the book though, don't settle for the notes. Read it. Beyond pickup, it has a lot of good advice that will manifest itself as success in other areas of life.
/r/seduction08/11/16 10:47 AM
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If you're authentic in your intentions, and respectful of other people, the only "guy" you'll be is the one that people like being around. Do pickup.
/r/seduction02/11/16 12:51 PM
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What the fuck?
/r/seduction02/11/16 10:54 AM
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How much of that texting is necessary? I text a lot when I first get a girls number, but after the first date I find it's totally OK to make texting mostly for logistics. I don't understand your question. If you're trying to date 6-7 girls at a time, you're going to be busy. If you want to spend less time dating, I think your only option is going to be to date less. Or put less effort into some girls. Just be straight up. "Hey, I've had a long day and am pretty exhausted. I'd still love to go to…
/r/seduction13/10/16 10:18 AM
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You can do that early. I've tried it once with a 100% success rate. It's a suicide opener though. If she's not into it, it's going to be tough to recover. You're right that with a little more conversation before you'd have a better chance of pulling it off. In most cases it's about finding the balance between convo and making the move. Too much convo and you'll put yourself in the "friend zone" because she'll assume your relationship isn't sexual. Too little and you can find yourself in the "cre…
/r/seduction25/09/16 02:17 AM
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You've made a lot of assumptions based on beliefs you have about yourself. How many of these beliefs can be tested and proven to be true? You say that you've had a small amount of women that you've been able to ask out. That alone makes me think you are self limiting. You can ask out any women you lay eyes on. You should be asking out all of the women that you want to date, not just the ones you think you can date (whatever that means). You believe that because you're not outgoing, don't drink, …
/r/seduction29/07/16 06:39 PM
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Is it that hard? I'm 182cm and girls as short as 5'2 haven't been an issue. Or maybe I look ridiculous and just don't know.
/r/seduction25/07/16 02:53 AM
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What the hell is this
/r/seduction24/07/16 08:57 AM
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The direct approach is (almost) always the best. Either tell her how you feel and try to find a time to do something if the feeling is mutual, or show her in person when you can spend time with her. That would look like affectionate touching (kino), saying things that directly or indirectly imply interest, going for a kiss etc etc.
/r/seduction24/07/16 08:57 AM
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I wouldn't. I've seen so many office place relationships go sour, and ruin the work environment for everyone, that it's not even funny. Sure there's a chance that it will go well, but realistically the odds are against you. You've gotta weigh it yourself, but office relationships can get messy easily.
/r/seduction25/08/15 12:34 AM
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Dude he put in the effort to offer advice to the community and you're telling him that it's not good enough?
/r/seduction26/06/15 06:04 PM
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I think this is a form of AA. The anxiety doesn't stop you from talking to the girl, but it does stifle your creativity.
/r/seduction23/03/15 04:11 AM
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Right, which is why I made no absolute statements in my post. most fears... Basic way to cure most fears
/r/seduction16/01/15 09:21 PM
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Definitely. All great points. In a communications class I took in college we learned about social anxiety and how to cure it. The most basic way to cure most fears is systematic desensitization which is pretty much what you're saying. After facing your fear over and over again over a period of time, similar to what you're saying, you'll find that the fear isn't a big deal and you'll become comfortable around it.
/r/seduction16/01/15 07:21 PM
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This is all very cool.
/r/seduction15/01/15 02:30 AM
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"Hey, how are your games going?"
/r/seduction14/01/15 12:35 AM
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In all honesty........ditch it. Those sites are for beta guys. Oh jesus christ. This is why I rarely visit this sub anymore. Do you really think this is good advice? Meeting girls (the purpose of this sub) online is a bad idea? Why the fuck not? Why not try to get a few dates and see where it goes? What do you have to lose? Also the dichotomy of alpha and beta is dumb. That's just too simplistic to describe what you are striving for. Also, what is beta? Actually. How do you define who is beta an…
/r/seduction07/08/14 08:14 AM
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Even if this does work for you, it's not sustainable. Just work on yourself instead.
/r/seduction15/07/14 01:56 AM
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There was a reddit thread about how you should, as you board, give the head stewardess a big bag of chocolates to share to show you appreciate their hard work, that might impress your target too. That honestly sounds really weird.
/r/seduction16/04/14 02:09 AM
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My favorite thing that I've learned from this subreddit is that failure = success (most of the time.) Before I thought that it looked like this: failure <- me -> success But in reality it looks like this: me -> failure -> success
/r/seduction10/02/14 08:42 AM
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Are there any games I can play with myself/other people (mental or verbal) to increase my outcome independence?
/r/seduction08/01/14 06:13 AM
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Education is too much of an umbrella term, but I could tell what he meant. He might have not been educated in areas that mattered to him intrinsically. Don't feel personally attacked, OP's post might not apply to you.
/r/seduction31/12/13 09:23 AM
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Jackpot! I was thinking about this today. I think I have a lot of forced enthusiasm and I am even starting to think it's weird. How did you calm yourself down?
/r/seduction02/07/13 06:53 AM
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Awesome timing. I was just about to post a simple question. Actually I have two so here we go. I'm having a lot of difficulty in social situations diverting from an objective or goal oriented mindset. What habits can I adopt to help move away from this? Also, for me there are few feelings better than making someone laugh but I SUCK at it (which is probably why it feels so rewarding.) Now that I think about it I actually don't find many things that funny. Is there a way I can work on developing a…
/r/seduction02/07/13 06:19 AM
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I honestly disagree. It's a harsh truth. If you can't dedicate a few minutes to read a couple of paragraphs then you should re examine your habits. It's something I'm working on myself.
/r/seduction18/06/13 09:12 PM
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I deactivated my account two summers ago. I thought I we be missing out on so much but I was wrong. Not having a Facebook is awesome.
/r/seduction18/06/13 09:09 PM
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Hey wowimclueless. Here's a tip that helped me overcome this problem. I had similar struggles as you. My inability to just talk off the book really limited my success and relationships with everyone. I began to challenge myself. The challenge that I set for myself that helped me overcome this was pretty simple - In conversation, sometimes I would get the urge to say something but I would just excuse it. So to progress, I started saying EVERYTHING that came to my mind ALWAYS. No matter what it wa…
/r/seduction26/05/13 04:29 AM
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Kind of the latter. Instead using small talk to break the ice I try to just jump into real conversation. As soon as any small talk comes up I'll try to relate it to something real in my life or others. I hate small talk. Its only use is when you're meeting someone. Even then I try to keep it to an absolute minimum.
/r/seduction26/05/13 04:22 AM
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Of what? Conversations that I've had or things that I've said?
/r/seduction26/05/13 03:21 AM
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Try going direct. I love that feeling of cutting through the bullshit. Starting the conversation with something real or deep. It throws everybody off guard and allows them to cut through the bullshit too. Awesome feeling and awesome way to get to know someone.
/r/seduction26/05/13 12:30 AM
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What would one expect there? Blowjobs and STDs.
/r/seduction12/05/13 08:39 PM
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Don't worry about the scar dude. When I was in 9th grade I was BMXing and faceplanted and was out cold for a couple of days. My chin split open to the bone and I had to have plastic surgery to close it up. It's not even a bad ass scar. It's just this huge blob of discolored skin. I grow a beard every week and I wear it proud. It's always a good conversation tool too.
/r/seduction05/05/13 05:14 AM
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To be fair, to lift properly your brain kind of has to turn into mush. You've really got to be focused on your form and energy to be able to get a good workout.
/r/seduction05/05/13 05:11 AM
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You and anybody who you're going to talk to in your life is going to die relatively soon compared to the cosmic time scale. The universe doesn't give a shit about what you do and it never will. No matter how many rejections you get, it's not going to matter. Chances are only a couple people will hear about it, and they're just going to die anyway. So stop giving so much of a fuck and go do something for yourself. Stop thinking about what other people are going to think, because they don't matter…
/r/seduction05/05/13 05:09 AM
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Simple as it gets - I have a date in a week. I know she is super into me and we have talked about getting intimate together. When we're hanging out, how do I escalate?
/r/seduction30/04/13 04:04 AM
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Professional help is really the best way. Nobody wants to do it, but seeking professional help is really the best way to get you out of that state. Start there, then once you've identified your demons start flushing them out one by one.
/r/seduction29/04/13 11:12 PM
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It's awesome to see some solid content like this on the sub. Thanks for posting.
/r/seduction29/04/13 11:09 PM
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Shit. And I thought I was introspective. Thanks for the insight. I'll ponder on this a bit and see if I can come up with someing.
/r/seduction19/04/13 06:33 PM
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I've definitely been watching Tyler and Julien a lot. Those are the two RSD coaches I connect to the most. Here's another thing I struggle with, I'm very content with my self. Content to the point where I'm not happy with myself. You know what I'm saying? Right now I'm sitting in my room, watching videos and preparing to wind down for the night. I'm feeling like "oh, this is alright. Things could be better, but things could be worse." I want to feel enthusiastic about everything going on around …
/r/seduction19/04/13 01:08 AM
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This isn't really a short question, but hopefully there's some stuff you guys can pick up on or experiences you can share Alright guys, here we go. I've been reading this subreddit off and on for about 4 months now. I've made tremendous leaps in my inner game by breaking negative thought patterns and trying to find the fun in everything. At this point, I think I have two main obstacles to climb. 1- I should probably start this by saying that I'm 18 and still in Highschool. I've been dating since…
/r/seduction19/04/13 01:05 AM
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This sounds just like me, to an extent. I don't go back to AFC mode, but I certainly don't feel like I'm on top of my game if I miss workouts or if I eat shitty. I'm probably not in the best position to give advice because I'm still struggling with the same thing, but I think it has something to do with momentum and scaling. If you or I were to miss a day of lifting and eating pretty often, it would definitely take its toll. But if you or I were to miss a day after hitting our marks perfectly fo…
/r/seduction19/04/13 12:15 AM
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First let me start off by saying that I'm not pick-up expert. But if there is one thing I've learned from this subreddit, it's that you shouldn't try to be somebody that you're not. Be yourself and don't try to emulate personality. People, to an extent, can sense authenticity. Plus, it's easier on you to be yourself. It won't take any effort and once you get the ball rolling, being that charming and confident guy will become effortless and natural.
/r/seduction10/04/13 03:21 AM
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Says the unbiased source. Kidding. I just made a most on the subreddit to get the opinion of the user base so well see how that goes.
/r/seduction08/04/13 05:36 AM
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I was kidding. I tried /r/nofap back in the day out of desperation for some magic trick to make me good with girls. I really didn't feel much benefit. Went for a week.
/r/seduction08/04/13 05:19 AM
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2 hours of my day were just freed up.
/r/seduction08/04/13 04:03 AM
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Silent stare for sure. I think of you said what you mentioned it would escalate the situation. If he's a bigger guy, he will probably dethrone you at that point.
/r/seduction08/04/13 04:02 AM
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I have a friend like that. Love the guy but shit can he be a real asshole. How do you deal with it? Could you provide and example?
/r/seduction07/04/13 09:24 AM
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Awesome read man. Thanks.
/r/seduction06/04/13 09:45 PM
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This is killer.
/r/seduction06/04/13 09:22 PM
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For whatever reason this really resonated with me. Thanks man. So are you saying that I really direct the conversation towards learning about her?
/r/seduction02/04/13 01:20 AM
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I agree with that.
/r/seduction30/08/12 03:20 AM
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The only real definition I would be able to give you on cliches would be the dictionary definition which I imagine is not what you're looking for here. You DEFINITELY have the right idea. But that's not the kind of question I would recommend asking somebody you've just met. The best way to make your intentions known is by being subtle. Grinning at her, lightly touching her shoulder or hand etc. My favorite is the 'joke push'.
/r/seduction30/08/12 03:20 AM
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I probably should have been more specific.. You're correct in letting your intentions be known. But there is a right way and a wrong way to do it. I, personally, would not reccomend using cliches to start conversation.
/r/seduction29/08/12 11:32 PM
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Try not to make it an interview.
/r/seduction29/08/12 11:21 PM
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Nope.
/r/seduction29/08/12 11:21 PM
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