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smd
/r/seduction27/04/22 12:57 PM
-8

the simple minded wouldn't understand I get more girls than you
/r/seduction27/04/22 07:36 AM
-6

wtf u on about? benefits? if you're attractive to her, she'll fuck you. That's it
/r/seduction27/04/22 07:29 AM
6

bro just go talk like a human being
/r/seduction27/04/22 07:20 AM
1

yes, turning life around from being aloser isvery possible byt difficult. The answer is to get a good body. Very difficult, byt very achievable. It doesnt just look better. The confidence you get from it, etc is mad. And people will treat you differently which is also gonna have a positive effect on the wayu carry yourself
/r/seduction18/03/22 05:50 AM
3

Aside from doing the things others have said, begin small. Take small wins in everyday life and take note of them. Cus thats what confidence is based on. Winning
/r/seduction21/02/22 12:02 AM
0

it's easy as F and I'm not even very high value. Just 4 messages back and forth after getting the number
/r/seduction20/02/22 11:59 PM
6

then just say ur hanging out with a friend if she asks
/r/seduction20/02/22 11:57 PM
1

sure, but that doesn't seem conducive to getting the contact then and there, esp if they are with a friend. They don't want to seem too easy or something
/r/seduction07/02/22 06:11 AM
1

I promise you I will use this (or as much of it as I can memorise)
/r/seduction07/02/22 01:34 AM
3

I make hella eye contact from the beginning. As if you can't take your eye off her
/r/seduction06/02/22 01:44 PM
1

chat her up like any other girl if you're interested. Might have a higher success rate with her
/r/seduction06/02/22 12:12 AM
1

Go watch hentai
/r/seduction05/02/22 04:53 PM
1

u're confused, but i cba explaining
/r/seduction05/02/22 04:51 PM
2

it's a good sign. She's thinking about you. Even an unfollow is a good sign
/r/seduction05/02/22 04:45 PM
0

because it's the right advice
/r/seduction05/02/22 04:41 PM
5

I think that's what I'm missing. I go too hard too fast without building any comfort to begin with.
/r/seduction05/02/22 04:40 PM
3

don't stress over it, you'd be surprised how fast you can catch up. Heres the plan: -Sort out sleep. have a constant and long sleep schedule. 22:00/23:00 to 7:00/8:00. -Sort out over/undereating. -Find a way to regularly talk to people. For me it's on the uni campus - I see my friends and stranger every day in person and love it due to getting comfortable with it over time. -Find sports to play with guys your age. For me it's uni clubs again. Just do these things. Be brave and put yourself out t…
/r/seduction05/02/22 12:58 PM
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no idea who they are but a dating coach got outed as a virgin??? lmaaoo that's jokes. How did they find out?
/r/seduction06/01/22 10:17 AM
1

Honestly, I think it's the wrong approach to ask guys this. You need to ask women who have been successful at bagging a top dog. Same as how guys don't get advice on it from girls. The canadian guy is way off, even though what he says might seem intuitive on the surface. But to a certain extent, I don't think girls can have much game past being a pleasant, fun, and fit person. Cus looks are the biggest (80% of the equation) factor in our eyes
/r/seduction06/01/22 10:05 AM
3

but that IS it... Slowly expose yourself to more and more...
/r/seduction06/01/22 09:56 AM
1

I think it's when your body language doesn't match your words, or when it looks like you are trying to hide your intentions. Like you are trying to cheat your way into a position
/r/seduction31/12/21 05:20 AM
2

fair enough, I've only ever approached girls in uni, and not here at home because here I have no place to take them to and thought of it as down time. But for sure I'll start talking to more to learn
/r/seduction24/12/21 05:10 PM
2

it's not false claims bro, I'm from manchester but live in london for uni. In uni I'll literally give my phone to a random girl with instagram open and she will do the rest. Without saying a word until I text her Here in manny for the christmas break. I asked this random girl what her name was (she was one of those ugly ones who had out effort into her look) completely ignores me. I maintain eye contact as she walked by and her friend turned around to tell me her name.... Like wth, u're not even…
/r/seduction23/12/21 11:55 PM
6

reopen the sub pls
/r/askTRP26/11/21 03:13 PM
-4

isn't "how to fuck" the main point of this place?
/r/TheRedPill26/10/21 09:13 AM
4

That 3 things thing is brilliant. Any other examples of things that keeps things interesting, or excuse to run into eachother again at the end of the night?
/r/TheRedPill26/10/21 01:22 AM
1

and don't speak like that
/r/seduction15/08/21 06:28 PM
1

Just get a good body, the rest will take care of itself. you have that mysterious bad boy look by 1-being worth caring about (i.e. having a good body and being attractive). The ugly quiet guy is just creepy. And 2- by being on your own mission and living your own life. (gives a "what's his deal", "what's he up to", kind of vibe) That's all. So just get a good body in the gym and try to change your life slowly to be a life worth living for yourself, and everything else will slowly take care of it…
/r/seduction15/08/21 06:21 PM
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time I had this situation I said "Lookin to make an application? ;)" not sure tho
/r/askTRP17/06/21 03:02 PM
1

Omg...
/r/askTRP30/04/21 04:34 PM
1

Suit yourself and find out
/r/askTRP30/04/21 04:32 PM
3

"I really like her" is a stupid reason to go through that shit. In your life u will probably really like many girls. As soon as you get over this one (the chemicals in your brain go away) you will be thankful for dodging a bullet. Don't be an idiot.
/r/askTRP30/04/21 10:21 AM
2

If they were already into sports and socialising etc in middle school, those skills are transferable to frat stuff in college. No changes required. You see less of it because 1- no one will admit to being a little retard before if they've changed, and 2- its not easy to make that shift in life. Besides this place, no one encourages you to make those changes, they act as if "it is what it is, i just have a different personality" because that's easier than realising they're a loser and easier than…
/r/askTRP30/04/21 10:18 AM
1

What kind of irritation did it cause, if u don't mind me asking
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/21 08:09 PM
1

How has chad treated you then? I'm asking because I'm attractive, but realllly shy (19m), so I don't make the most of what I have. My first time the girl had to do and initiate everything.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/21 08:42 AM
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Threesome ;)
/r/askTRP08/04/21 12:28 PM
1

Just leave it out completely? Howcome?
/r/askTRP06/02/21 04:20 AM
2

Dont get married
/r/askTRP06/01/21 08:05 AM
2

Lmao I would but idk if that's the responsible thing to di
/r/askTRP06/01/21 07:45 AM
1

My condolences lol
/r/askTRP29/12/20 10:00 PM
1

Wtf you've seem his dick?
/r/askTRP29/12/20 06:05 PM
68

It depends on what your situation is like exactly, but just a reminder that in the moment, sometimes emotions can make things seem alot bigger than they are. So you don't need as much fixing as it seems, to fix whatever the issue is.
/r/askTRP17/12/20 06:56 AM
1

Go find a hobby
/r/askTRP06/12/20 06:18 AM
24

Fam, what are female programs? These colleges are literally favouring women for their gender. A guy with a better score will get denied because he doesnt have a pussy...
/r/MensRights15/10/20 10:35 AM
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Do you get hard when you look at a guy?
/r/askTRP08/10/20 03:34 AM
1

He said instead of masturbating to their nudes, get them in bed
/r/askTRP16/09/20 08:02 PM
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Thats not your girlfriend then...
/r/askTRP11/09/20 08:22 PM
1

You wouldnt throw hands?
/r/askTRP23/08/20 12:34 AM
3

Say, "If I wanted to put effort in I would have aimed higher" - if you want to play it like that
/r/askTRP21/08/20 01:28 AM
2

"Co parent"... thats just parenting... co parenting is if he had 2 sets of parents. Have you seen the data on kids with single mothers compared to kids with a mother and father. If you aren't some low SMV beta, and act as a good captain she'll bend. I'd try harder for my son bro, you'll regret this shit alot when u grow older (how old are you btw?)
/r/askTRP18/08/20 12:35 PM
3

Do you hold good eye contact? Dont look down after lookig people in the eye, and look them in the eye. This usually adds an edge
/r/askTRP12/08/20 02:38 AM
1

Yeah that part didnt fit in my head either. Sluts are repulsive, but women with children dont even get consideration unless if you're really desprate. Its more complex than Im trying to make it I guess, ty for the response.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/20 05:32 PM
1

Sure, but is he more attractive or less attractive from a lizard brain perspective (without any rationalisations or thought) -assuming the women he has fudged are at around his attractiveness, not just some low quality easy catch? - without any baby mamas (Geniune Q, cus I don't know for sure) This could possibly (im not sure) go back to the commitment vs sex arguement. If women are repulsed by commitment to other women (children or paying money) as much as guys are repulsed by sluts
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/20 05:18 PM
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See, its the baby mama part thats significant for u
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/20 04:58 PM
1

How big of an ick is this ick?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/20 04:44 PM
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I think the shaming and negative reactions people have to it are also biological/natureal.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/20 04:36 PM
1

The reason these hoes feel like they can get away with this shit is because people like you aree putting up with it. Should have dumped her the first time u found out she was talking to her ex, for example.
/r/askTRP05/08/20 01:48 PM
5

Haha I just looked through your comment history, I hope your life is happier and more productive than it looks 😭
/r/MensRights27/07/20 05:12 PM
5

To so freely say "I fucking hate old white men". Not the fact of being grossed out by unwanted attention from unnattractive people. To help you understand, consider; "I fucking hate old black men"
/r/MensRights27/07/20 05:04 PM
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No, that is creepy, but how OK she is with dropping in the "white" part. It doesnt need to be distinction that is made as if its an attribute of being white
/r/MensRights27/07/20 04:59 PM
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No one cares about taking it down. Thats only hiding the issue, not fixing it. Bringing attention to it will fix it though...
/r/MensRights27/07/20 04:52 PM
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You sound like you are coming from a good place. But all you said just sounds like patronising drivel with no substance. The issue is that a real, quantifiable inbalance exists m when it comes to the law (something that is meant to be fair at its core) - and that needs fixing, therefore we need MRA. And you say feminists speak up about this injustice in the law, yet you lot push the idea of "Believe all women" whole heartedly, when it does the exact opposite (injustice to men in courts). Aimless…
/r/MensRights26/07/20 10:26 AM
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Another example of it being a 0-sum game and feminism ruining the fair balance; Organisations in the west today disciminate based on gender in their hiring of employs. They dont pick the most qualified before they fill their 50/50 quota. This means deserving men are overlooked because they have a penis instead of a vagina. You(not you personally, but the majority of feminists 80%+) would call me a misoginist for saying this, yet it's true! Why is it the case? Because you lot looked at the gender…
/r/MensRights26/07/20 10:06 AM
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It will be removed! Try it. However, I believe that MRAs generally do not express these beliefs in healthy ways, and try to victimise themselves and poke fun at feminists who are just trying to do the same as you but for women. Trying your best to find few bad feminists to blame for widespread injustices against men is incredibly... The thing is, life is a 0-sum game. It's not both men and women fighting against a common enemy. Each person's rights are everyone else's responsibilities. For examp…
/r/MensRights26/07/20 09:53 AM
1

The other guy is right, should have flicked his tits
/r/askTRP18/07/20 09:22 PM
2

I think OP is saying "masculinity is good, not toxic, here's an example"
/r/MensRights16/07/20 08:00 AM
23

RIP
/r/MensRights13/07/20 11:36 PM
6

Shit like what? You havent given examples
/r/PussyPass08/07/20 10:31 PM
5

😬 I hope you have a pleasant day
/r/MensRights07/07/20 12:06 AM
4

Funny that. Heres you talking like this, and yet you dont believe someone else could say something equally stupid to this guy?
/r/MensRights06/07/20 11:59 PM
4

Snitches get stitches
/r/askTRP02/07/20 11:02 AM
1

Just talk to him, worst case you make a new friend
/r/askTRP01/07/20 09:43 AM
4

You are going about it all wrong. 1- Girls get tons of attention already on instagram from 100s of guys, you wont stand out on there (esp if its a really pretty or famous one) 2- dont draw her, it shows that you care about her too much from the start. Only draw people close to you. Approach girls in real life instead
/r/seduction29/06/20 09:11 PM
4

Dont argue
/r/askTRP27/06/20 02:27 PM
2

Alright, do more research and learn about the stock market first (essential knowledge to have for life) - watch some videos, read a book etc. But basically ETFs are groups of stocks managed by professionals. Theres less risk with them because the large spikes (which can be losses or gains) are averaged out across the different stocks. Over the last decades this has meant a steady growth of around 9% a year semi reliably. Don't jump the gun with anything before you learn enough about it though
/r/askTRP23/06/20 10:31 AM
3

Very careful with this kind of trading. Only use what you are happy to lose. Investing in reliable ETFs could be the better way to go
/r/askTRP23/06/20 10:12 AM
2

Perhaps reduce that spent time slower? From every day to 2/7 days is too big of a change
/r/askTRP21/06/20 10:06 PM
1

Guitar in terms of the cool/cheap balance
/r/askTRP18/06/20 11:59 PM
2

Integrity, strength, and a strong purpose
/r/askTRP18/06/20 09:03 PM
2

Yeah, much less defined because you're body is holding in tons of water (to help dehydration) under the skin - drink lots of water to fix this.
/r/askTRP17/06/20 04:50 PM
1

Some female spiders eat the male after fucking
/r/askTRP07/06/20 05:01 PM
4

Thats a bit far imo
/r/askTRP05/06/20 10:28 PM
2

University of kelsinki is doing a really good free course on Java if that's the language you've chosen. Search "helsinki java mooc"
/r/askTRP05/06/20 02:31 PM
0

Whats that, and how do u avoid it?
/r/askTRP25/05/20 07:09 AM
3

Are you sure it's the medication he's on?
/r/askTRP24/05/20 01:55 AM
1

Neither. Invest your spare money
/r/askTRP23/05/20 07:18 PM
1

Pick a language to learn and search for tutorials. The one I picked was Java, and for java "Helsinki mooc" is a very good free course by the university of helsinki
/r/askTRP23/05/20 07:16 PM
1

Do the things this guy above me said ^ its not just an over-reaction, you need to change things.
/r/askTRP19/05/20 01:13 AM
4

What kind of business would u have started?
/r/askTRP18/05/20 02:23 AM
1

Nah
/r/askTRP14/05/20 09:39 PM
5

At 15 you aren't at your peak attractiveness anyways, since that seems to be your worry - youll get more attractive with age. But being younger (and not fully mentally developped either) you will be taken advantage of in places where marriage at that age is OK. It isn't ok, and you dont need to be stressing about it at this age trust me - A high value guy doesnt want a child.
/r/RedPillWomen13/05/20 12:23 AM
10

Dont give a shit
/r/askTRP12/05/20 12:43 AM
2

Shes gonna be acting like she is... whats there for her to work towards?
/r/askTRP05/05/20 10:49 PM
1

If they dont know anything about you except ur occupation (CS) then they might assume those things of you. But if they already knoe you, its not a turn off... the anti-social ness and nerdiness is a turnoff, not the job itself. Maybe be vague about your job when people dont know you yet if it worries you that much?
/r/askTRP28/04/20 08:51 PM
1

Lmao call her daddy next time
/r/askTRP28/04/20 10:44 AM
6

It doesnt impose that you're a king, it imposes that she is doing a favour by being with a peasant like you
/r/askTRP28/04/20 10:39 AM
1

He gets your sloppy seconds with the whore, who cares? Move onto better things, and act like you dont even know about her. The fact that she's cheap enough to do this shows u made the right choice to drop the bitch in the first place
/r/askTRP27/04/20 03:25 AM
1

Redpill doesnt dispute that
/r/askTRP24/04/20 11:04 AM
-1

You didnt communicate it well enough opening with "redpill's notion of 'i dont give a shit' is total bullshit". Hard nexting IS rEdPil's notion of "i dont give a shit".
/r/askTRP24/04/20 10:54 AM
1

Cant be helped man, save your time and energy
/r/askTRP24/04/20 10:45 AM
1

You handle appropriately by demoting the bitch and spinning more. Reinitiating contact to tell her his feelings are hurt when she shows her tits is retarded. Shows her the guy has no abundance. She's trying to get a reaction out of him/him to chase back after her - whos frame does that lead to? His or hers? You handle it appropriately by showing her where those actions lead her.
/r/askTRP24/04/20 10:44 AM
3

Caring about it and trying to control it shows low value. If she's that type, she will just do it behind your back, demote her to a plate (you dont get cucked by plates, because you arent exclusive with them) and you shouldnt be LTRing in the firstplace
/r/askTRP24/04/20 10:25 AM
1

No point explaining the rules to him, but if you could get him to go gym with you that will send him in roughly the right direction naturally. If he doesnt want to, then I say dont bother, and find better friends
/r/askTRP24/04/20 10:21 AM
1

Are 6 inches good?
/r/askTRP24/04/20 05:21 AM
2

Are you getting 8 hours of sleep and sleeping at the same time every night? Its amazing how much of an effect sleep has on your chemicals. - i become much more irritable when tired. And secondly, make your decisions about your career with your career in mind, not what some stupid bitches at work think, and trying to run away from that. You're caring too much about other's opinions of you and they can probably see that too. Might want to see a therapist and learn some breathing techniques to calm…
/r/askTRP23/04/20 11:22 PM
1

U dont feel any hositlity if you dont look at it... no one's coming to you and forcing rheir hostility on you
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/20 12:01 AM
0

What is a pickme?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/20 11:57 PM
2

Probably because that side of her looked more attractive you retard, who cares what side you walk on?
/r/askTRP22/04/20 06:51 AM
1

Are you getting good sleep, and are your vit D levels right?
/r/askTRP19/04/20 03:06 AM
3

Dont start leaning on her and showing weakness too much, stay the big boy
/r/askTRP19/04/20 03:05 AM
1

The spectacle aspect is gonna be a hurdle, but commitment wise, if u sell it well (as if it means alot to you, then that's not gonna be an issue)
/r/askTRP18/04/20 02:26 AM
2

It isnt a wedding. Its just the two of you promising vows to eachother next to some fat tree or something to make it feel special. Hippy shit.
/r/askTRP17/04/20 08:05 PM
1

I havent done it yet but if i ever do, it will be a redneck vow thing like that, with no official aspects at all. Its just a compromise between not marrying at all (the actual smart move) and having that stronger bond/life long promise thing. Tell her you dont like the modern connotations of "marriage", and it leaves a bad taste in your mouth and doesnt make you hopeful about the future of your relationship - which is true, but reworded to make it softer/sappier. Then suggest the two of you come…
/r/askTRP17/04/20 08:02 PM
0

Howcome?
/r/askTRP17/04/20 07:57 AM
1

Sleep is more important than than the extra bit of studying and training. Both training and studying relies on sleep for maximum gains. You can defo find another 2 hours in your day for sleep if you have to. You have to.
/r/askTRP17/04/20 05:17 AM
5

Dont legally marry. Make some shitty vow thing up where you say your vows only to eachother (find a scenic area that not too many people go to - a place that you can call "special") with no one present. She's gonna think its romantic cus its like a you and her only - kind of thing.
/r/askTRP17/04/20 05:07 AM
2

Yeah thats too friendzoney. Tells her you have no interest in her
/r/askTRP17/04/20 04:32 AM
2

Yeah, two parents work waaaayyyy better. Check the stats on children from single mothers and full families. Smarter, healthier mentally and physically, more likely to be successful, less chance of comitting crimes, etc. And all by massive margins aswell. When these kinds of stats are applied across a large population, you can imagine the effects. In general, it makes weak men out of young boys. And weak men = less competent society. if we can just convince more men to invest in their kids... Two…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/20 04:11 AM
1

Yes, because they have more options. Attractive girls probably have more sex but more sex doesnt add to the attractiveness. Thats what you are getting wrong. (Its ok if they're attractive enough they can make up for it, but the average girl shoots herself in the foot by becoming a slut.) And let these pussies cry about the 'sex shortage'. We have a nuclear family shortage! Generations are growing up without fathers. That's a bigger issue
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/20 01:39 AM
1

If its because they are ugly as shit, then yes. Otherwise big no
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/20 01:05 AM
1

Its not the same like that, but tell yourself that if it makes you happy 😂 Its well proven a virgin guy < fuck boy, and the other way around for girls.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/20 12:26 AM
15

"a million different reasons" is deflecting it. My bet is he doesnt have a good enough reason to be sending you this
/r/askTRP14/04/20 06:04 PM
109

Update later, its an interesting mystery
/r/askTRP14/04/20 05:44 AM
2

Your a guy! Ohshit
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/20 03:50 AM
2

Butterflies
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/20 03:17 AM
0

Are you seeing it that way to justify your own life choices? I think its more of "use the sluts like you use a tool, or marry a woman worth settling for (rare now since many are the sluts u are already using anyways, so whats the point of settling)" Its not fun vs boring Its a rusty wrench vs a sparkling diamond
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/20 03:17 AM
1

Does he give u tingles yet? Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/20 03:02 AM
2

Oh my bad i misunderstood ur question. For S it would be mainly physical attractiveness, or if she acts trashy
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/20 02:04 AM
1

High n count, tattoos and piercings, dyed hair, that sort of thing besides the physical
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/20 02:01 AM
11

No fix to this unless if you find someone who already has similar plans to you
/r/askTRP13/04/20 02:55 AM
12

U sound crazy, but i think you're actually onto something. I used to do this in HS. I called it "self manipulation" back then, but same as what you said about that side effect thing, I think it makes you like a psychopath. Had forgotten about that until now
/r/askTRP12/04/20 02:36 AM
2

Cant outslay the supermodel, but how many men are supermodels? Focus on doing better than you are doing currently. First, how about making a circle of friends and not being "the laughing stock". Get to a position where instead of crying about girls making a face, make a face back like "bitch who the fuck do you think you are?" Or ignore completely because their opinion is wrong and beneath you. They can smell mindsets on you bro. Be a man
/r/askTRP11/04/20 05:32 PM
-4

Break the xbox (or hide it)
/r/askTRP09/04/20 04:26 PM
2

Told a girl i liked her in the way kids do (i was 16). She seemed receptive and said "now what". I said "nothing, i just wanted you to know" 🤡
/r/askTRP08/04/20 09:51 PM
1

Whatsan example of pressure flip in this situation above?
/r/askTRP07/04/20 01:44 PM
1

A science
/r/askTRP07/04/20 01:38 PM
8

Women are interested in people (nurse/doctor, teacher etc.), men are interested in things (mechanics, engineers, lawyers)
/r/askTRP06/04/20 12:46 AM
17

You're an idiot for "investigating" as her mum put it. She cut herself for attention from you, her plan worked. Now she knows what to do to get that attention again... Not on you though. Please stay away from this bitch, she wont kill herself, her family and friends are probably on alert now, she'll be fine. Care about yourself and stop incentivising her to do this again by giving her more attention and care
/r/askTRP01/04/20 09:02 PM
3

Nah this aint it
/r/askTRP31/03/20 10:49 PM
-1

Ur not fit for giving advice if u dont agree with that
/r/askTRP30/03/20 06:19 PM
1

The point is that you arent different unless if you look at yourself as different. Girls are probably smelling this mindset on you. There is no different guide.
/r/askTRP30/03/20 01:21 AM
-1

1-Take responsibilty for your shit. (You, your family, humanity) Humanity relies on us to make the changes generation by generation. So go make things happen. - thats the biggest thing imo. The knowledge that everything made before you was made by someone just like you, and everything around you is a tool for you to use to exert your own will in the 70 years you have.
/r/askTRP27/03/20 06:48 AM
3

Go for it, nothing to lose
/r/askTRP27/03/20 06:13 AM
2

Sure
/r/askTRP26/03/20 09:58 AM
12

Ignore those feelings, they go away once u fuck another girl. So go do that. But in the short term; go to the gym, workout.
/r/askTRP24/03/20 10:44 AM
21

Wtf is this gay shit?
/r/askTRP24/03/20 10:38 AM
3

Pronounces the eyebrow ridge maybe?
/r/askTRP23/03/20 10:39 AM
1

Women have feelings?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/20 07:24 PM
1

Are you trolling or serious? Do you know how repulsive a woman who has had another man's children is to other men? Even the biggest incels won't have that shit after they get their dick wet once... (this shit runs to our core biolotically, so its not up for discussion) About homecooked food; the average man can cook himself, about sex; the average man can attract multiple women himself over his lifetime, the whole problem is that there isnt enough in a marriage for men, this makes it even less..…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/20 06:38 PM
1

No you dont
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/20 09:17 AM
1

You're delusional.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/20 08:55 AM
2

So it benefits women and the minority of men that are so unfuckable they die virgins. Whats the benefit to the average man?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/20 07:03 AM
2

How would you know about who/what gets people laid then? Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/20 06:56 AM
0

Its more that commitment isnt smart for a man. U lose more than you gain kind of thing
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/20 06:56 AM
0

No ones angry. Just some low quality minority who doesnt know how to play the game...
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/20 06:50 AM
1

You've been pulling in Iran?
/r/askTRP21/03/20 09:09 PM
1

Past doesnt matter. People today have nothing to do with what people in the past did. Its like blaming a guy for hitler being a man
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/20 07:13 PM
1

I've been in the same exact situation to the T. People respect you less and see as more of a child (I had good friends who looked out for me more as a result) Anyway, try standing back a bit and listening, and watching people's faces more (take in what they say and their emotions). Dont try to force a 180 turn, but whenever you remember just make a point to stop and listen/observe. vertime you'll catch yourself out more and more until it naturally fixes itself. The fact that you have noticed it …
/r/askTRP17/03/20 09:09 PM
6

Tell her u wont wait 3 months for sex, if she doesnt change tune then break up
/r/askTRP16/03/20 01:59 AM
9

Are u sure its the flu?
/r/askTRP14/03/20 12:39 AM
1

Learn to code, check out "helsinki mooc" - open course that teaches Java, really good so far..
/r/askTRP12/03/20 10:17 PM
1

Id go for religious girls then (ones that actually live that way)
/r/askTRP12/03/20 03:04 AM
1

What difference did it make? Just more gains for the same effort at gym?
/r/askTRP10/03/20 05:27 PM
7

She wants to bother u, and its clearly working, find other women
/r/askTRP10/03/20 03:36 PM
5

On a banana peel bro
/r/askTRP10/03/20 06:39 AM
1

Tell her you're ENTJ
/r/askTRP10/03/20 02:32 AM
2

Where?
/r/askTRP07/03/20 11:12 PM
1

Im not talking with myself in mind lol, im 6'1, and get approached by girls, im giving my thoughts on why something is the way it is. And its not semantics, you can look more masculine and have the same testostrone on average. E: answering -> giving
/r/askTRP07/03/20 10:58 PM
1

No i dont think so, many other factors are in play. But black women are completely fucked for that reason though (long term)
/r/askTRP07/03/20 10:51 PM
2

I didnt say anything about testostrone, i said "masculine"
/r/askTRP07/03/20 10:50 PM
2

Naturally more alpha. African americans are generally more masculine (men and women). This is good for black men, but bad for black women.
/r/askTRP07/03/20 10:37 PM
34

Its probably reputation. He must have started small, with few people following him, now leads alot as people probably joined for protection, or for social status as opposed to being an outcast, no one steps out of line because everyone in the group is scared of everyone else in the group jumping on them if they step out of line.
/r/askTRP07/03/20 08:15 PM
1

Apologising means u are admitting you did wrong. He didnt di anything wrong. He could ask on their next meeting what she wanted to talk about (if even that -he isnt her bf to offer her comfort) but never "im sorry" for that basic shi. Wth are you on?
/r/askTRP02/03/20 11:47 PM
2

Dont apologise, forget her and let her message you again, or not. She wants to pull you into being her emotional pillow, stick with your original message, dont backtrack
/r/askTRP02/03/20 11:45 PM
2

Maybe she sees u as a safe option with law school and your previous behaviour... stay away imo
/r/askTRP02/03/20 11:41 PM
1

I think its an insecurity thing. I got a similar thing after my growth spurt (not muscular or anything, but tall and big bones)
/r/askTRP02/03/20 11:36 PM
1

A low bf% makes the face look more defined, its hard to find someone so ugly that no muscle/charm can fix you. Im 80% sure a good build can take any guy to atleast 5, and if u started at 5+, it can add 2/3 points. Same for girls when they're skinny (to a healthy extent).
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/20 11:26 PM
1

Ahh ok. Depends on how attractive you look, and how fun your company is.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/20 05:34 PM
0

What if he worked out, got jacked and being bigger gave him a more leaderly personality on top of that?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/20 05:29 PM
1

It doesnt seem to work the same way for girls then, Finds attractive almost always equals wanting to bone. Trust me, all "good" male friends are creeps waiting to jump on you in a time of weakness - they're men who dont think they are good enough to attract you, or dont know how to, and hope to slowly "show you" how much of a good mate they are - think of jim from the office, but a bit more opportunistic. In terms of true friendships, no one will compromise for a friendship with the opposite sex…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/20 05:23 PM
7

Damn bro you've convinced me... imagine working hard your whole life to get fucked and have to work the rest of your life the fix that fuckup with just enough time left to die...
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/20 06:38 AM
2

Damn
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/20 06:23 AM
1

Ofc. No point to life if you dont end up having a family. (The self gratifying "I'm enjoying my single life" is the biggest waste of a life imo) But I wouldn't do a traditional marriage, i would make our vow - our own personal promise/bond thing (romantic, and avoids the shitty one sided laws). And the modern relationship dynamic seems a bit one sided to me also, i dont think the full 100% equal egalitarian, individualistic approach is good either :/
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/20 06:07 AM
1

U dont calculate it yourself, but u can guage based on the reactions from your surroundings. U paint ur face and get attention from a guy/guys u found attractive that never before gave u attention... BOOOM u've matched his 7/10, and u're now judging urself to be at his level, giving no time of day to poor 6s and 5s when u were a 4 pre makeup urself.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/20 04:18 AM
1

Hamstering at its finest all over this thread lol - "it doesnt change bone structure so its fine" aswell you know😂
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/20 04:12 AM
1

The "bones structure is still the same!" shit is crazy to me. If it didnt improve your looks, you wouldnt be using it lmao. Dark eye circles, pimples, uneven skin, its all a part of it 🧠💀
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/20 04:08 AM
1

Yeah, my answer to your question was that its Impossible to do that, and it isnt so bad. Why it's impossible: Because it doesnt make logical sense when u think about it outside of just "hey that aint fair". Its not about lacking internal fortitude its about filtering out loser to get the right mate. Why it isnt so bad: I dont know, is it hard? Whats the big issue with asking her out if you are already getting to the stage where she's dropping hints?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/20 03:13 AM
1

U didnt get friend zoned for being too short. Ur face is probably not up there. And the butt can be worked on with squats, if a guy can work out his whole body, u can do some legs mate, u got this!
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/20 02:25 AM
1

Then what I said doesnt apply to you lol. I think its more male biology. Your girl looks very pretty though, good luck to yous 😁 (sry for snooping)
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/20 02:05 AM
2

Hmm 🤔 Are you biologically a man or woman?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/20 01:59 AM
0

Thats true, because the fact that they are sub 5 and high school drop outs working at McDonald's shows too little SMV... being picky wont help that for a 7+ 6figure suitor. But if you were a 7 who was picky, you'd be of a higher smv to the suitor than another 7 with no standards.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/20 01:55 AM
1

That because you're only judging based on sexual satisfaction. You fall into the catagory of "those who dont care what hole, as long as their dicks gets wet" in my comment. Respect though, do as u wish 😉
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/20 01:37 AM
1

Then what?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/20 01:31 AM
2

U are trying to rationalise things based on a perfect world. In a perfect world everyone would put in the same amount of work. - thats not real life, a guy who doesnt take the initiative is less attractive, so it would make no sense for a girl to go for that. The fact that you are upset at such a trivial thing means ur being bad at being a man. Embrace it man.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/20 01:20 AM
0

Being picky is just another way to communicate the fact that you have high value. Someone highvalue can afford to be picky, so if you're picky, you're worth having.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/20 01:11 AM
3

Its not that deep of a rationalisation, if it was, then it wouldnt be so widespread (among men) all over the world all throughout history, its simply an innate thing. Its disgust, not insecurity. Like u're getting a broken toy (sounds dehumanising but i think that explains it well) The minority of men who don't care about N counts either cant afford to be picky like that, or only care about getting their dick wet and dont care who's hole, or are rationalising "well its only fair" - maybe we shou…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/20 01:08 AM
1

If someone isnt picky, then they are telling you they arent worth having...
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/20 12:55 AM
0

Kitchen knives are used to prepare food, orbiters are used as different options. Ur metaphore would fit better if tou said "this is like saying that because someone owns kitchen knives they are looking to cook some food" - which they are...
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/20 12:42 AM
1

Just talk then. Doesnt matter if u are doing it right. Just talk. About the weather even lol
/r/askTRP26/02/20 10:01 AM
1

Are you ugly? 10000, and going abroad for therapy is a bit excessive.... You probably give off a desperate vibe
/r/askTRP26/02/20 08:51 AM
1

Stfu
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/20 02:42 AM
7

Alphas. But guys are all beaten into pussies as they grow.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/20 01:35 AM
2

Better than telling him he was perfect the way he was and that there was someone for him out there?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/20 12:59 AM
1

+-50 dollars per date.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/20 05:38 PM
3

24 x 50 = 1200 💀
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/20 05:36 PM
1

If you're not a virgin by choice then work on your social skills bro, thats all it takes if your bar aint high.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/20 05:06 PM
1

But hormones are biological. If you define instinct in that way. Then it is in instinct. oxytocin is about bonding... Mothers arent protective of their children as a result? But its not oxytocin, so that's irrelevant, just thought its interesting the scientists likened it to oxytocin once there wasn't a competitive threat
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/20 05:04 PM
1

Maybe to clearfy, by instinct i mean an inclination towards. The study said after a mate has been secured, testonstrone acts similar to oxytocin. Oxytocin is the shit that makes mothers love their babies.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/20 04:25 PM
1

You cant be 100% sure when talking about the nuanced way hormones affect behaviour. It would be disengenious to say their findings are 100% true. And thats not because of the finding, but the whole field of psychology itself. "Conclusion: Testosterone magnifies both prosocial and antisocial behavior." -whichever meant higher status. No surprise since status is being selected for "But we doubted that this drive would automatically result in aggressive and antisocial behaviors," says Boksem. "We h…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/20 03:54 PM
1

https://www.google.com/amp/s/www.psychologytoday.com/gb/blog/the-athletes-way/201310/testosterone-fuels-both-competition-and-protectiveness%3famp No, science does support my point of view. What do you gain from having such a nihalistic view on men?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/20 03:34 PM
1

https://www.google.com/amp/s/www.psychologytoday.com/gb/blog/the-athletes-way/201310/testosterone-fuels-both-competition-and-protectiveness%3famp No, science does support my point of view. What do you gain from having such a nihalistic view on men?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/20 03:34 PM
1

It generally doesnt play a part in how attractive a woman is. Edit: i say generally to account for outliers. It doesnt play a part in how attractive a woman is on its own.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/20 03:07 PM
1

What's untrue? This is like RP 101 I dont know how that affects how true what Im saying is.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/20 03:00 PM
1

I guess you could call it that. Im not implying anything. I think we agree, but have difference idea of what confidence means 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/20 02:48 PM
1

Howcome? Im speaking purley from myself and my friends experience. But it makes sense in terms of an evolutionary point of view too. You want to protect your fam, your girl. Your cave(?) Your offsprings ect.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/20 02:45 PM
1

I dont know about humans as a whole. But I know a big part of liking a girl is to do with the protective aspect of things. I think its the equivalent to how women get a safety feeling from guys. I think guys have the opposite version about wanting to feel protective and useful in that sense. Thats why you dont usually get guys going after girls physically bigger, or more competent in terms of career (exceptions exist obv) because you'd feel useless in that kind of relationship. - although you wa…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/20 02:38 PM
1

The question is about how much does confidence affect how attractive a girl is. And there are two kind of confidence. 1 increasingly popular where you scream "YES QUEEEEEEN!!" - loud, irritating, more consideration for self than the collective. That's ugly. The other kind of confidence is good for dealing with people, but doesnt play a part in how attractive someone is. The first kind of confidence isnt feminine, so its mutually exclusive. The second is better to deal with, but it doesnt add sub…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/20 02:29 PM
1

But you're a women, you can't possibly know enough about how attraction works for men to say "any man who thinks confidence is unattractive is an insecure bully". You're making that up based on your ideology? And choosing to believe that instead of actual answers to the question? Confident people - as in people who are comfortable in their own skin are easier to deal with, so on a social interaction level its better, but its not a make or break kind of thing unless if its the other kind of "conf…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/20 01:51 PM
1

Protective instincts do exist. Thats why shorter girls are cuter 😊
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/20 01:19 PM
1

A sensible solution to the current situation would be something like men picking up more traditional female duties like cooking, cleaning, taking care of kids, scheduling, emotional labour, etc. Cooking, and cleaning are good shouts, but men are less optimised for emotional labour and large parts of taking care of kids, and more optimised for making more money
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/20 12:53 PM
1

MGTOW and incels are a tiny tiny minority, don't you know?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/20 09:53 PM
8

LMV male thirst. And thirst for pussy not relationships. <<<Biggest thing to remember
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/20 10:46 PM
1

This isnt the only thing against high ncounts. The biggest is that its one of the biggest turnoffs as dar as inate nonos go. This scaresity thing explains a reason for why we could have that inate feeling. Not a reason for why high n counts should be looked down on. But a reason why they are being looked down on.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/20 10:42 PM
6

More money more value? Why dont we print more money then? Oh wait!!! 😂 same applies to everything else on your list
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/20 10:33 PM
1

Maybe you should 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/20 10:16 PM
1

Careful, acknowledging differences is sexist here
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/20 10:10 PM
1

Not all women. Just attractive ones. You could argue its easier ro fake your SMV upwards through makeup etc. But still, most women arent overconfident, and arent in a position to be getting cash and prizes for existing.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/20 10:08 PM
1

Based on what?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/20 10:03 PM
2

Lifestyles have changed durastically over the past 100 years, so you can't judge today based on then. That was under different circumstances. Like if u have a daughter, she's getting married and moving to/helping another family. If you have a son, he will get married to someone else's daughter, then you keep your son for work, and you have extra hands in the form of a daughter in law. That might be over simplifying it, but its smart to favor sons in that specific situation. Today its different. …
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/20 10:00 PM
1

I think OP is referring to how valueable we are in society rather than what people have to do to get by. Obviously everyone has to work to get by.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/20 09:39 PM
3

I dont know, time will tell. I think society will swing back towards traditionalism in the generation after ours. It goes back and forth like that, over-correcting each time.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/20 02:30 AM
1

The worst Ive seen is men are all pedos because they like 18 Y/O porn. FDS isn't exactly like TRP because its a response to TRP. A few girls saw TRP and got offended so they thought "two can play at that game" and started FDS as an anti TRP (blurred lines between TRP and men in general). Like "TRP is dehumanising and objectifying and vile, so lets start something that has the same effect for them, upsetting people is the goal basically, rather than actual results for their users. They've been tr…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/20 02:23 AM
1

Makes sense, but i was talking about FDS specifically and going by what they preach on their sub. They don't compromise and justify predatory behaviour. If your partner learn about FDS he will run away.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/20 01:12 AM
1

Its a culmination of some men's frustrations. Just like FDS, dont take it fully seriously. Its more important to look at the underlying reason for why it came about - if you care to.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/20 01:06 AM
3

Thank you! I dont know why people seem to look down on stay at home moms, or any form of stereotypically female chores. And its mostly surprisingly women who look down on their peers like that :/
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/20 01:01 AM
1

literally everything you wrote is the opposite of what I said and what FDS aims for. Exactly. We agreed that the FDS ideal is unobtainable, and there need to be compromises, i was discussing possible compromises. It sounds bad because it is. It is regressive and sexist. Sexist and oppressive how specifically (Im not denying, I dont know, Im asking to understand better because I think its one of the better solutions rn) Please explain how I strayed from FDS principles By conceding that there do n…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/20 12:47 AM
2

What do you mean specifically, which concessions?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/20 12:39 AM
1

You are making some more sense now, But you have strayed from FDS' preached principles now. I agree that a relationship involves compromise, but i think RPW represents that kind of compromise. U let the man lead, and in return you get the adoration that FDS yerns for from men, and you get taken care of financially. Children arent required - depends on the couple's choice, and you dont NEED to stay at home (depending on the children choice) but RPW does advocate for the girl to do more of the coo…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/20 12:08 AM
1

Makes no sense. Your mothers generation is a more accurate reading on the state of things today, than some retard beating his wife 1000 years ago. But im guessing its a response to women they've encountered themselves, so their generation, i.e. probably your generation, not your mum's.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/20 11:53 PM
2

But that doesnt exist in the real world. The two equally passionate, job oriented, independent people arent going to have a good relationship while still being independent (me first). There is simply too little being given for a guy to become monogamous and comit, and I guess too little for the independent girl to settle either. So its unobtainable, because its not ideal for both people. Both lose and no one gains.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/20 11:44 PM
1

Hard to say since they get banned, girl or guy for saying anything opposing. What is the ideology though? Its just any feel-good meme or tweet that says anything negative about men. I guess the specific things in those memes(?) And tweets meant to be taken seriously, and is instead just for hurt people to feel better about themselves?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/20 11:40 PM
1

A question; what is the main aim of a typical user of FDS? Like for TRP its mainly sex, and for RPW fulfillment for both sides. What is the equivalent for FDS?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/20 11:28 PM
1

Doesnt RPW advocate for women finding a man of value worthy of them to settle with instead of having casual sex just like FDS? Its just FDS without the childish 'hate to get back at them' mentally.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/20 11:10 PM
1

Tbf people dont fail to disprove it, they arent allowed to talk against it, tgey get banned, because talking against it with any logic is a threat for the subreddit, and when something (reason) is threatening for people, those people dont side with reason... oh look!😅😅😅😅
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/20 11:07 PM
3

To add to your last line; just the way mgtow and TRP are helping many men.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/20 10:55 PM
1

TRP isnt meant for women. Closest is RedPillWomen.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/20 10:51 PM
0

Shes 49 and hes 56. A 7 year gap is significant. But examples dont prove the law.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/20 08:04 AM
1

But you do see more women with older men. And in most relationships the man is older. 8% of all married couples in the west have a +10 age gap. Onle 1% of them the woman was older. high value men to women can be more easily found within their age group. It depends by the extents, and individuals, but generally a high value guy wants a high value partner. The so called wall eats away at that value, and women dont have a security factor to supplement that a bit as they age. So if successful enough…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/20 10:30 PM
0

I didnt say loser, but I want to emphasise the lower value than they could have achieved earlier in life part. Because thats my point. It depends on individuals and other factors, but youth is very important to SMV and RMV especially for women. About your friends; they have a thing for relationships with them? I get a kink, but you dont see 45 y/o women with 25 y/o men. That's absurd.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/20 10:07 PM
-2

Their value takes a huge hit. They will get attentions because there's plenty of low value loners, not the best you could have done in your life.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/20 07:05 PM
1

Oh wow. Yeah witholding as a form of punishment is recipe for being cheated on. And deserving it.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/20 01:34 PM
2

We are talking about witholding sex at the beginning of a relationship right? In that case it isnt causing any suffering. Simply move on to the next girl if all you want is sex. If you want a relationship, then isnt it encouraging to see your potential girl isnt a whore? So its decent on both ends for a guy. For a girl who is looking for a relationship (hence the witholding), it reduces heart ache and potential for single motherhood which is bad for everyone.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/20 01:22 PM
2

Good point. My bad. Although witholding reduces the net suffering on humanity, so I think it's a good strategy in a post enforced-marriage society.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/20 01:06 PM
2

People are bad for not wanting to open their legs to you?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/20 12:56 PM
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