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bro you posted here asking for men’s opinions and now you don’t care
/r/MensRights10/08/22 01:14 AM
-4

you’re a woman who never engages in any “femininity” reddit subs and asked r/mensrights about why women do this, I definitely believe you
/r/MensRights10/08/22 12:50 AM
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I was also reading about this in 1822
/r/MensRights10/08/22 12:41 AM
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I was lying, I can see the post. Just to be clear, you have intentionally and dishonestly framed what it says so you can fake outrage.
/r/MensRights09/08/22 09:30 PM
2

OP what did the post say? I’m blocked or it was deleted.
/r/MensRights09/08/22 09:11 PM
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I literally didn’t say that
/r/MensRights09/08/22 08:10 PM
1

Neither of those things are true. Maybe you should keep an open mind.
/r/MensRights09/08/22 08:01 PM
-1

It’s disingenuous to say a young person is young?
/r/MensRights09/08/22 07:44 PM
-3

you have zero life experience at 22. You “see a lot of posts”
/r/MensRights09/08/22 06:53 PM
-4

Well you’re 22 so
/r/MensRights09/08/22 05:49 PM
3

FYI if you’ve suffered from abuse, you don’t have to “love the women in your life.” If those people abused you, it is your right to not forgive them.
/r/MensRights09/08/22 03:37 PM
0

Statistics. Facts don’t care about your feelings.
/r/MensRights09/08/22 12:24 AM
-26

99% copy paste of their argument. You offered a whole 2 sentences, therefore you have no argument.
/r/MensRights08/08/22 09:27 PM
-14

since he’s dead, does killing her make his life matter?
/r/MensRights08/08/22 07:42 PM
-12

Yeah but he’s dead now
/r/MensRights08/08/22 07:30 PM
-38

So you have no counter argument then
/r/MensRights08/08/22 04:54 PM
-8

In other words you are spreading misinformation and you just admitted to doing exactly that
/r/MensRights08/08/22 04:28 PM
-4

demonstrably false. Not a single bit of this is true.
/r/MensRights08/08/22 04:19 PM
1

The census data accounts for each of these variables but literally all pay gap research accounts for these variables
/r/MensRights08/08/22 04:17 PM
-1

Because then women could say no, they don’t want that
/r/MensRights08/08/22 03:33 PM
-1

Because it’s not a burden at all, they genuinely enjoy military service. They like using force
/r/MensRights08/08/22 03:29 PM
-1

they don’t mind being drafted. their issue is that women aren’t drafted
/r/MensRights07/08/22 11:45 PM
1

Seems like you’re having a great time. Being persecuted usually isn’t this much fun
/r/MensRights07/08/22 11:02 PM
1

“crime”
/r/MensRights07/08/22 10:58 PM
-1

OP was simply saying “to see when they say the MPDG is problematic but the MPDB is not, watch this section.” That said, Op clearly has not seen the movie Titanic if they think the only role Jack served is to die. That’s something almost everyone on the titanic did.
/r/MensRights07/08/22 07:31 PM
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The US census data isn’t a good source lol no use arguing with a fucking idiot
/r/MensRights07/08/22 03:48 PM
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Are you still going through my account lmao gd
/r/MensRights07/08/22 03:48 PM
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You can tell that how?
/r/MensRights07/08/22 02:25 PM
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They were not omitted.
/r/MensRights07/08/22 02:23 PM
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All published research is required to show their methodology, you’re making shit up or you’ve never read any research before (which is fine, just don’t make shit up) They factor out known variables by conducting “statistical analysis” which is complicated and there are many types of analyses. One such type is where the two groups are “matched” together, so they have to compare same education, same hours worked, same amount of time taken off, same amount of parental leave, the list goes on and on…
/r/MensRights07/08/22 02:16 AM
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How do you think we know men work more hours? Lmao All (known) variables. No research claims that “all variables” have been factored out. In fact, research that is peer-reviewed and published in an accredited journal will provide its own limitations. For example, if they know about a variable they’ll say “this variable was not measured. This should be a focus for future research.” It’s clear you have a misunderstanding of how scientific research is conducted in the first place. This crap is very…
/r/MensRights07/08/22 01:56 AM
-1

Bro did you even watch the video
/r/MensRights07/08/22 01:33 AM
0

When did I say it was due to discrimination?
/r/MensRights07/08/22 01:26 AM
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Just be clear and precise regarding exchange if applicable. Drop off location and time are required otherwise the court order is not enforceable, meaning it’s difficult to prove contempt of a court order if the order is vague. Very important not to doing shit on the walls. Judges have seen these cases a thousand times and can smell a bitter ex. You are the custodial parent, courts will not remove the child from their custodial home without documented child abuse (domestic violence is not relevan…
/r/MensRights07/08/22 01:14 AM
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Do you know what “adjusted” means? Overtime and other variables have already been factored out.
/r/MensRights07/08/22 01:05 AM
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The OP said the gap doesn’t exist at all. Now you’re saying the pay gap does exist alongside other financial gaps. I’m not sure what you think the pay gap is distracting attention from considering it’s literally the topic of discussion of the post. If you’d like to say “what about” the other issues, there are plenty of other posts about those topics. The only red herring here is you my man. Edit: bro just thesaurused my ass then blocked me
/r/MensRights07/08/22 01:03 AM
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It’s clear how important this topic is to you. “Whatever”
/r/MensRights06/08/22 11:28 PM
-9

That’s what “adjusted” means lol
/r/MensRights06/08/22 10:22 PM
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What are you even talking about dude? I’m just saying you aren’t adding anything to the topic at hand. All you’re doing is saying “what about this other stuff” in order to avoid the topic. Calm down.
/r/MensRights06/08/22 10:06 PM
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I’m confused, you think that statistical research is just basic division? Those “parameters” you mentioned are called known variables which is precisely why they’re factored out during statistical analysis. https://www.census.gov/library/stories/2022/03/what-is-the-gender-wage-gap-in-your-state.html
/r/MensRights06/08/22 10:05 PM
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Whataboutism
/r/MensRights06/08/22 09:42 PM
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Okay what does that have to do with what I’m saying? I’m not saying it’s due to discrimination, we don’t know why the gap exists but we know it’s not due to the variables you mentioned because when those are factored out the gap remains.
/r/MensRights06/08/22 09:40 PM
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No it doesn’t. When each of those are factored in, when all known variables are accounted for of which there are many, there still remains a 5% pay gap. It’s much smaller because the many variables you mentioned are factored out, but it still exists.
/r/MensRights06/08/22 09:26 PM
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That’s why women who marry and get pregnant receive less pay, they work less. Women who don’t have kids and are never married still earn 5% less.
/r/MensRights06/08/22 09:08 PM
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Weird how this account is still sharing this post 🤔
/r/MensRights06/08/22 08:57 PM
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Because I don’t like statistics that challenge my beliefs
/r/MensRights06/08/22 08:52 PM
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Once you do, there’s still an unexplained pay gap
/r/MensRights06/08/22 08:51 PM
-6

I’m so tired of people talking about this thing that exists, like it exists, when it clearly exists. Ugh
/r/MensRights06/08/22 08:50 PM
-14

With no explanation for the gap? I’m hearing when work is measured equally, women earn 5% less? Edit: what is even downvotable about this comment lmao
/r/MensRights06/08/22 08:48 PM
-4

I thought women were hired more? That’s why so many men talk about women dominating the workplace?
/r/MensRights06/08/22 08:47 PM
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Father saying you should act like a man and that the daughter should act like a woman is not feminism, it’s sexism as you said.
/r/MensRights06/08/22 08:45 PM
-14

What did you post about? I had the same thought. Are you saying you don’t have a problem?
/r/MensRights06/08/22 08:24 PM
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Damn what’s going on in Canada? This isn’t my experience like at all. I hope you can find a good therapist OP. You can’t change the world but you can at least manage how you navigate it.
/r/MensRights06/08/22 08:20 PM
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I knew why I didn’t report what happened to me. In what universe does that mean I know the reasons for why other people do or do not do things?
/r/MensRights06/08/22 04:58 PM
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People on here love downvoting instead of refuting huh
/r/MensRights06/08/22 02:48 PM
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No it isn’t
/r/MensRights06/08/22 07:52 AM
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I was asking because I didn’t report when it happened to me because I literally did not know it was considered sexual assault. People regularly framed men as always wanting sex, so they can’t be assaulted. Now I know better. Ironically, the fact that I didn’t report it got thrown back in my face, since “I must have enjoyed it.” I faced a huge stigma and I learned quickly to just stop talking about it. That stigma doesn’t dictate reality though, and now I know better. And look you’re peddling fal…
/r/MensRights06/08/22 04:56 AM
1

Dude you’re spamming all of my comments. If my existence bothers you, why not leave me alone?
/r/MensRights06/08/22 02:09 AM
1

Are you okay? There are resources here to help you.
/r/MensRights06/08/22 02:08 AM
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When people resort to name-calling it proves I won the debate.
/r/MensRights06/08/22 02:06 AM
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You name-called before I did, by your own logic I win.
/r/MensRights06/08/22 02:06 AM
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Yes.
/r/MensRights06/08/22 02:05 AM
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You just said Black people weren’t oppressed because slavery was legal
/r/MensRights06/08/22 02:04 AM
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This isn’t a false accusation
/r/MensRights06/08/22 12:35 AM
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trembling and shaking
/r/MensRights06/08/22 12:03 AM
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sounds like gaslighting How? I literally never said people should be blamed for their choices, you did. I hate to break it to you hun You are still wrong. Way to be a dickhead though. I love how you keep deflecting the main point I keep addressing it, over and over again. What’s so difficult for you to understand, maybe I can help
/r/MensRights05/08/22 11:58 PM
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see, it was never about the topic at all
/r/MensRights05/08/22 11:46 PM
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What?
/r/MensRights05/08/22 11:24 PM
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I never blamed anyone. I said they made a choice, which is true. Boy, critical thinking is rare these days. Ignoring most of your unhinged rant, “Working” is still not a “prerequisite to live.” The irony is you’re the one blaming people for their choices.
/r/MensRights05/08/22 11:24 PM
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Why didn’t you report it?
/r/MensRights05/08/22 10:02 PM
-2

Didn’t Bill Cosby drug and rape women for like.. decades? And Roman Polanski drugged and raped a 14yo child, later he won like an Oscar and this was after he fled the country to avoid his crimes. What a double standard, turns out being rich means zero consequences.
/r/MensRights05/08/22 09:40 PM
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That’s because every US state has its own legal statutes. Same with every country or province. I’m not shifting the burden, I am giving you all the information and you straight up don’t give a shit. You are mad because I’m not force feeding you information, like an actual man-child. You are bitching about having to do a google search, cry me a river.
/r/MensRights05/08/22 09:18 PM
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What a shitty title OP. It’s not “sex” it’s sexual assault of a child. Since she is a sex offender, she will be on the sex offender registry for life. It’s so sad how you’re using the assault of a child for internet points but here we are.
/r/MensRights05/08/22 09:14 PM
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So literally nothing, cool. What claim did make without evidence? Oh god, you’re talking about the claim I made and then provided a quote with the exact words so you can search and read for yourself. I even said “I will help you if you want.” That claim? What a fucking crybaby.
/r/MensRights05/08/22 08:58 PM
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Nothing more important than what Fox News says CNN says about millionaires
/r/MensRights05/08/22 08:12 PM
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your choices in life matter I never said they didn’t. Weird. Working is not a prerequisite to live, where’d you get that idea? You think people are entitled to a job? Weird. Not everyone who drinks soda develops diabetes. You are severely lacking critical thinking skills.
/r/MensRights05/08/22 08:02 PM
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Because it’s true, regardless of your inability to understand it. Do you have nothing to offer besides insults?
/r/MensRights05/08/22 08:00 PM
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The laws at the time were written about and applicable to Black people. There was never a group named “slaves” which were oppressed. It was explicitly about Black people were were oppressed regardless of being slaves. You really think I’m saying slaves were uplifted. That’s the level of critical thinking you’re bringing to the table.
/r/MensRights05/08/22 07:32 PM
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I’ve accepted basically all criticism levied toward me. I’m not at all framing myself as someone who is incapable of making mistakes. The only time I’ve been discourteous are when people, like yourself, repeatedly ignore the boundaries I’ve clearly set. You don’t have to tell anyone they’re stupid or whatever your point was, you choose to do that. You can talk about all the problems men face and you can be right about a lot of them. Just make sure you mention how you’re perpetuating the same bul…
/r/MensRights05/08/22 06:34 PM
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Bro, I never asked for any advice, especially not from you. Maybe it’s time to… mind your business. why comment at all I literally don’t have to prove anything to you. If you don’t like it, feel free to fuck off. I’ve been as courteous as I can be toward you and I won’t stand for your repeated attempts to waste my time.
/r/MensRights05/08/22 05:52 PM
1

Well eating food is a risk. Working outside is a risk. Drinking a soda is a risk. Doesn’t mean anyone who does that stuff deserves cancer or diabetes or a heart attack. Your argument is basically that people who drink soda “choose” to develop diabetes. Obviously this sounds silly because they chose to drink soda and that’s it.
/r/MensRights05/08/22 05:45 PM
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And I actually engaged with those people. You don’t actually care about the issue, that’s why you’re here with no intention to add to the discussion. You’re here to mock me. Just admit you care more about shitting on men and stop pretending to care about mens rights.
/r/MensRights05/08/22 04:42 PM
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Oof no because pregnancy is not a “consequence” of sex, that’s something a TV villain says. You are right that women choose to give birth rather than opting for adoption, that is a choice. Someone can’t really choose to get pregnant. Like me, for example. That’s not oppression.
/r/MensRights05/08/22 04:37 PM
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Surely you’re not saying all slaves were oppressed? Many folks were treated really well, probably better than you’ve ever been.
/r/MensRights05/08/22 03:41 PM
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You are correct except “being a woman” is oppression. “Being black” is oppression. This is because women do not deserve rights and because Black people commit more crime.
/r/MensRights05/08/22 03:39 PM
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Being allowed the option is still a privilege. It’s damned if you do or don’t, but it’s a choice nonetheless. Cry more baby boy.
/r/MensRights05/08/22 03:38 PM
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You can look up how many people have served the military. The vast majority of them aren’t killed in the line of duty. Try using that big brain a bit.
/r/MensRights05/08/22 03:37 PM
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Your question was “describe to me someone who is oppressed” I answered what you asked.
/r/MensRights05/08/22 03:35 PM
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Show me where I attacked anyone. Show me what “aggressive questions” look like. You’re just making excuses to act like a bully. Literally ignoring the things I say. I’ve never been banned from any feminist group because nothing I’ve done is against any rule. I literally do participate in those spaces you mentioned. I asked this before and you never answered. Are you acting in good faith? Edit: lmao this guy blocked ME! You can look at his history, he regularly searches people’s profiles (like he…
/r/MensRights05/08/22 03:29 PM
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You people are so fucking dumb lmao. I never said “that’s fine.” Please tell me what you think I “don’t understand” kid
/r/MensRights05/08/22 03:21 PM
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You haven’t made an argument yet.
/r/MensRights05/08/22 03:18 PM
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Lol okay dude. If men have a record of crime, they’re going to get harsher sentences. Have a good life.
/r/MensRights05/08/22 03:17 PM
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I wasn’t arguing with what they said
/r/MensRights05/08/22 05:37 AM
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Not 100% of the group, I’m saying “as a group.” It’s the same idea behind an exception not representing a rule. When men perform the role of a Man, they do not experience oppression. When they fall outside that role, sure, but they’re oppressed for not being a man rather than for being a man.
/r/MensRights05/08/22 05:37 AM
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somewhere That’s not how “as a group” works. There are no “exceptionless absolutes” regarding people. You clearly do not understand how authority and the organization of humankind functions. The world does not exist in a vacuum. Just because you were born yesterday, I mean.
/r/MensRights05/08/22 05:34 AM
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The last line is important because that means I’m also not responsible for those reactions against me. You are throwing a fit about me tricking people while also criticizing me for pulling the victim card, as if I used that to avoid discussion. I’m admitting that I did not do anyone any favors, but their misunderstanding is entirely on them. Regardless of my intent, it’s clear the culture in this space is not one to facilitate challenging discussion. If dissenters are mocked and ridiculed, I don…
/r/MensRights05/08/22 05:32 AM
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No, you’re being stupid and here’s why: Black people can be the oppressors. In a predominately Black Country with a white minority, white people can definitely be subject to racism. This doesn’t mean “white people” are an oppressed group. I’m not saying men can’t be victims, of course they can. I’m saying men are not an oppressed group. I don’t understand why so many comments want to play this weird oppression Olympics.
/r/MensRights05/08/22 05:15 AM
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Intentionally speaking a certain way isn’t “bad faith.” Are you speaking in good faith now? I don’t think anyone is owed or entitled to my thoughts or feelings nor are they responsible for them. The post is about the oppression of men and the point I wanted to make is that the oppression we face isn’t because we’re men. I don’t think the many, many aggressive folks cursing and insulting me is warranted here. I didn’t assume any genders, unless you think there are zero men in the comments here. D…
/r/MensRights05/08/22 05:10 AM
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I really have no disagreement there. I don’t think it’s an example of “men being oppressed for being men” but it’s still an extremely shitty, disgusting, and archaic practice.
/r/MensRights05/08/22 04:47 AM
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Well it’s just a dog shit article so I wanted to know why you think it’s something
/r/MensRights05/08/22 04:45 AM
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I feel passionate about the topic itself, it’s just tiresome getting called a fucking idiot over and over lol. Gotta keep it fresh somehow cause like I said I actually do give a shut
/r/MensRights05/08/22 04:41 AM
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It is for all intents and purposes, we’ve just covered why it isn’t technically rape, it’s sexual assault (same thing). The difference is between a dunk and a layup.
/r/MensRights05/08/22 04:39 AM
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I took a break
/r/MensRights05/08/22 04:39 AM
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I’ll jump to the last part because you are 100% correct about that. I intentionally spoke in a misleading way as bait. It’s true that men can and regularly do face oppression all over the world. I would hope a place such as r/mensrights could acknowledge that “men” as a group do not need to be oppressed for us to have solidarity. Plenty of us men are privileged and we can use that privilege for good. I’m extremely invested in this discussion, I don’t think I’ve insinuated otherwise. I shouldn’t …
/r/MensRights05/08/22 04:38 AM
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“Forced to penetrate” is considered “sexual assault.” You have a misunderstanding of the term ‘rape.’ Rape and sexual assault (in the context of forced sex) carry similar sentences. Not disagreeing about the statistics though, you’re right but fortunately we are getting better over time as more and more men speak up.
/r/MensRights05/08/22 04:34 AM
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But being a man isn’t why they’re oppressed, it’s the gay part. When men successfully perform the role of being a man, a real man, they are not oppressed in any way and therefore “men” as a group are not oppressed. There’s nothing inherent to being a man and being oppressed.
/r/MensRights05/08/22 04:32 AM
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Oh so you’re just another man oppressing men
/r/MensRights05/08/22 04:30 AM
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Not everyone born with a penis is a man so… I said optional when I should have said “predominately American.” In many places circumcision is not the norm.
/r/MensRights05/08/22 04:29 AM
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This is a complete nonpoint. There are no “men” anywhere in the world who are oppressed for being men yet there are women outside of western society who are oppressed for being women.
/r/MensRights05/08/22 04:27 AM
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“Rape” is a technical, legal term. I can’t say whether you were raped but the US acknowledges men being raped. When the assailant is female, it typically falls under sexual assault because the man is generally not penetrated. The sentences are the same. I’m not sure why you want to say you were raped.
/r/MensRights05/08/22 04:24 AM
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They chose to do that. Don’t give me this “just following orders” bullshit.
/r/MensRights05/08/22 04:21 AM
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Look I’m sorry man but your experience is not universal and just because you are “a man” doesn’t mean it happened “because you’re a man.” All I really have to say is you are the one refusing to spend time with your family because of a fantasy in your own mind.
/r/MensRights05/08/22 04:20 AM
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I can’t literally stay on Reddit every second of every day. Do you have something in particular I should respond to? The overwhelming response is just people calling me stupid
/r/MensRights05/08/22 04:17 AM
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That’s why I’m here asking. Each answer is just circular.
/r/MensRights05/08/22 01:03 AM
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That’s fine but I’m wondering why no one can explain how men are oppressed for being men and not for some other reason
/r/MensRights05/08/22 01:02 AM
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I’m not trying to say it needs to be “all men” or “all” of any group. I’m saying people are rarely ever “just” men. There are Black men, gay men, white men, trans men, poor men, rich men. How can we say that it’s our status as “men” is the cause of oppression rather than belong to a minority group?
/r/MensRights05/08/22 12:57 AM
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That’s so stupid.
/r/MensRights04/08/22 11:16 PM
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Sometimes I do , sometimes I speak hyperbolically. It’s only a problem when someone, like you, feels this entitled to knowing what’s inside my head for some reason
/r/MensRights04/08/22 11:14 PM
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I’m just busy on mobile but I will give your comments more time in a bit because I’m interested after what I got from the first comment
/r/MensRights04/08/22 11:13 PM
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Your opinion, free country
/r/MensRights04/08/22 11:11 PM
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It’s a post, not my opinion. You’re struggling with this English thing huh
/r/MensRights04/08/22 11:09 PM
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And there are no deferments? The genderless government constantly abducts 16yo boys? Assuming you are younger than 16.
/r/MensRights04/08/22 11:08 PM
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Well I don’t see how another post is relevant to this discussion? It seems like you’re trying to just adhom me which only reveals your own insecurity and incompetence.
/r/MensRights04/08/22 11:01 PM
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Women didn’t make that law lmao what is even the point? Voters don’t vote directly if you’re talking about the US. But in China they did commit a gendercide or infanticide against baby girls, is that oppression?
/r/MensRights04/08/22 11:00 PM
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I can’t, these MRAs are oppressing me, a white man
/r/MensRights04/08/22 10:59 PM
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At least you’re a little funny. What I meant is that I was speaking hyperbolically. It happens here all the time, maybe you should check the stickies.
/r/MensRights04/08/22 10:58 PM
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Oof I’m sorry but I can’t go into all that right now. I appreciate the organization though. I don’t agree that feminists are right about oppression either, not entirely. I don’t think anything you listed is oppression of “men.” You can’t be sure it’s oppression of any other group that isn’t women. Oppression of gay people isn’t oppression of men, you don’t get to claim them like a token.
/r/MensRights04/08/22 10:57 PM
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I never said that; you might have heard it, I might have thought it, it may even be true, but I never said it😂
/r/MensRights04/08/22 10:54 PM
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Definitely wouldn’t say that either, just that “women” by default are oppressed. Men are sort of a “out of the box” deal under patriarchy which is why we are neglected and chastised emotionally. Men are supposed to just work and deal with it. The difference is that women are then thrown into this male atmosphere, because of course men designed the world for men. Now that women are gaining more autonomy and representation, it’s natural for us men, who still suffer the ill effects of patriarchy, t…
/r/MensRights04/08/22 10:54 PM
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I feel for you, happened to me too and I remember a strong regretful phase because it was never my choice. That said, it’s a completely optional practice. Uncircumcised penises also face stigma and scrutiny, which makes me think that sex or sexuality is the target there. Christians aren’t doing this “to men.”
/r/MensRights04/08/22 10:47 PM
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Yes, I was wrong when I said that. Lol people can change their mind. You’re right to criticize me for it though, I just wouldn’t say that accurately depicts my current views. To be clear I thought you were saying in this thread, which is why I pushed back. I know I never said it here because again, doesn’t represent my current feelings
/r/MensRights04/08/22 10:42 PM
0

Well this toxic feminist agrees with you, welcome to the club
/r/MensRights04/08/22 10:40 PM
1

Right, but “men” are not oppressed for being “men.”
/r/MensRights04/08/22 10:38 PM
0

I was asking a question dipshit You aren’t understanding the difference between “some men experiencing oppression” and “men are not oppressed as a group.” No man is oppressed for being a man. Gay men can experience oppression for being gay, and they may be victimized by people for not being manly enough or whatever, but it’s their sexuality that’s being targeted here. Being trained as a military soldier and receiving literally hundreds of thousands of dollars in salary, gear, lodging, and food i…
/r/MensRights04/08/22 10:33 PM
2

No reason to insult me so stop or shut the fuck up. You’re saying men are mocked for seeking help or displaying emotion. I said that’s unfortunate and a bad thing, but it’s not oppression. The reason it’s not is because that happens to everyone. When women are emotional, it’s literally a punchline to say she’s just PSMing or it’s “that time of the month.” I’m not disagreeing that men are mocked for seeking help, it definitely happens. However I’m a man and it didn’t happen to me when I asked for…
/r/MensRights04/08/22 10:28 PM
1

Good try :(
/r/MensRights04/08/22 10:23 PM
-1

Also not true but way to double down on your lie, it’s a great look.
/r/MensRights04/08/22 10:22 PM
3

Can you tell me what oppression is?
/r/MensRights04/08/22 10:21 PM
-2

Certainly not the Vietnamese people right? Who ordered the war? The draft? AFAIK there has never been a female president. I just don’t see how it’s oppression of “men”
/r/MensRights04/08/22 10:19 PM
0

Er what? Not trying to insult you but what are you saying here? If a country full of men in the military order other men to do stuff, how is that oppression? There are men at the top who oppress other men? Therefore “men” as a group are not oppressed. Something else is happening. I’m not saying it doesn’t matter or it’s not important, it’s just not oppression. Why do es it need to be oppression?
/r/MensRights04/08/22 10:18 PM
-1

Blatantly false , and how pathetic of you “bro”
/r/MensRights04/08/22 10:15 PM
0

I never said it didn’t matter. Stop putting words in my mouth.
/r/MensRights04/08/22 10:15 PM
-1

Oh. Do you have some experience in the courts? I can tell you they do tend to favor the “custodial parent” which is wherever the child lives. If the child lives with the father, they can sue for child support against the mother and win. Why do you think it’s oppression?
/r/MensRights04/08/22 10:14 PM
1

Forced to flee, you mean? What’s the other option? Also how is that oppression?
/r/MensRights04/08/22 10:12 PM
0

That’s unfortunate, not oppression. Oppression doesn’t mean “bad thing”
/r/MensRights04/08/22 10:11 PM
0

You’re trying to say this specific thing a specific judge told you happens to “men” as a group. I’m a man, it didn’t happen to me. Go play victim somewhere else.
/r/MensRights04/08/22 10:10 PM
-2

Ah yes the thing that happens in every war
/r/MensRights04/08/22 10:09 PM
-2

I disagree with you saying your experience is universal. Stop talking down to me bro, or first learn what words mean.
/r/MensRights04/08/22 10:06 PM
-1

They don’t. That’s what courts are for.
/r/MensRights04/08/22 10:02 PM
-3

Lmao what? I said I disagree, never said your experience was wrong. How old are you?
/r/MensRights04/08/22 10:01 PM
0

I mean no it doesn’t lmao? I’m telling you my experience and you’re saying I’m wrong.
/r/MensRights04/08/22 09:58 PM
0

What does that have to do with the question they asked?
/r/MensRights04/08/22 09:57 PM
0

Police ignoring crime isn’t oppression no, unless you think it is?
/r/MensRights04/08/22 09:56 PM
-1

I have been, I am now, and I vehemently disagree with you. I never said men can’t be victims.
/r/MensRights04/08/22 09:32 PM
0

You literally cherry picked from what I admit was not a well organized comment. I acknowledge I did you no favors but you have continued to blatantly lie and misrepresent what anyone can just go read themselves.
/r/MensRights04/08/22 09:31 PM
-6

So men are oppressed because they are sentenced worse for the same crimes as women; but Black Men are not oppressed despite being sentenced worse for the same crimes as other Men?
/r/MensRights04/08/22 09:30 PM
-4

Still lying. “Termination” and “relinquishment” are different.
/r/MensRights04/08/22 09:28 PM
-5

That’s not what I asked. I’m asking if Black people are convicted for crimes at disproportionate rates as let’s say white people?
/r/MensRights04/08/22 09:21 PM
-34

Do you get paid?
/r/MensRights04/08/22 09:20 PM
0

Literally not true lmao. Like none of this is. You shouldn’t believe everything you hear, if your mind is left open then it’s all going to spill out.
/r/MensRights04/08/22 09:20 PM
1

That’s not true. When you apply for adoption you have to testify to things like that specifically. You won’t be able to find any legal statute which says as much.
/r/MensRights04/08/22 09:18 PM
1

I wasn’t being literal about the speeding thing lol just going along with your analogy because I liked it. I’m just saying if a Black Man faces oppression, how do we know if the oppression is because he’s Black or because he’s a Man?
/r/MensRights04/08/22 09:16 PM
-24

Does it matter if the men are, let’s say Black?
/r/MensRights04/08/22 09:13 PM
-4

No lmao. Bro. It’s for either parent with rights of a child. The language is made to apply to either parent. You are actually being a complete lying fuck and you know it.
/r/MensRights04/08/22 09:12 PM
-1

How are men forced to die? Doesn’t everyone die
/r/MensRights04/08/22 09:09 PM
1

Oh. I mean….. This stuff is heady but come on. First link, you can sue anyone for anything. If a parent has or wants rights, they should also share financial responsibility. The second link is just… come on.
/r/MensRights04/08/22 09:07 PM
-1

Good one man. Point?
/r/MensRights04/08/22 09:06 PM
-1

Okay, if you live in a US state then google “relinquishment of parental rights” and read the statutes for yourself. I can help if you want.
/r/MensRights04/08/22 09:05 PM
-1

Dude, it’s called “relinquishment” of parental rights. You fill out a form, that’s it. I’m not saying it’s “easy” or anything but it’s definitely a thing. I shared my state’s statutes elsewhere as a comment, but you can simply google “forfeiture” or “relinquishment of parental rights”
/r/MensRights04/08/22 09:04 PM
-15

Slaves weren’t oppressed. Black people were. Other ethnicities were. “Men” never were. Keep trying though, you’ve almost figured out what words mean.
/r/MensRights04/08/22 09:02 PM
0

Good argument “bro”
/r/MensRights04/08/22 09:01 PM
1

Good one. What’s your point?
/r/MensRights04/08/22 09:01 PM
-1

Good argument, nice job uh… being a man.
/r/MensRights04/08/22 09:00 PM
0

Uh, no? Do you think it is?
/r/MensRights04/08/22 09:00 PM
-2

I never said I “have no problem” with it you disingenuous fucking liar. Could you actually make an argument? You have yet to show how men are oppressed. Come on.
/r/MensRights04/08/22 08:59 PM
1

If only “men” are drafted, but only “Black Men” are sent to the front lines, what is that? But you make a good point, if women weren’t fined for speeding. Maybe women are fined less frequently, because they speed less? And just to be clear, drafts are fucked up. Whether or not it is “oppression of men” is what we’re discussing.
/r/MensRights04/08/22 08:53 PM
0

Well if I don’t become an astronaut I won’t go to prison. If I refuse to follow the law, I may go to prison. So no I’m not saying everything is the same, that would be dumb. I’m saying everyone who disobeys the law is punished, that’s how laws work.
/r/MensRights04/08/22 08:51 PM
-1

I’ll just provide my State’s actual statutes okay? You’re still wrong, stupid, or lying intentionally. Sec. 161.103. AFFIDAVIT OF VOLUNTARY RELINQUISHMENT OF PARENTAL RIGHTS. (a) An affidavit for voluntary relinquishment of parental rights must be: (1) signed after the birth of the child, but not before 48 hours after the birth of the child, by the parent, whether or not a minor, whose parental rights are to be relinquished; (2) witnessed by two credible persons; and (3) verified before a person…
/r/MensRights04/08/22 08:49 PM
0

You just go to a judge and fill out a form. Technically a judge does have to make a ruling, but that’s true for every aspect of custody stuff. I’m not sure I understand the first paragraph. Everyone has to work. You can google your state’s OAG for parental right forfeiture.
/r/MensRights04/08/22 08:38 PM
1

It’s very good so far but I don’t think it quite makes the argument you might think. Basically, the researcher says they don’t know why (as a researcher should). A key thing here is that not all oppression is oppression of men specifically. We know that Blackness, poverty, homosexuality, etc., are important. Mental health. I do think there exists some female privilege which can counteract oppression, just like having money can protect against mental health issues (affording therapy/medication) o…
/r/MensRights04/08/22 08:36 PM
-1

So the Iranian government oppressed men or maybe the US government oppresses Iranians?
/r/MensRights04/08/22 08:28 PM
-1

But it applies to anyone who breaks the law. If I speed, I’ll get a fine. If I don’t speed, I’ll be late to work and get fired. That isn’t oppression of men.
/r/MensRights04/08/22 08:27 PM
-4

That isn’t what I said. I never said individual men can’t experience expression. That’s not the same as saying “men” as a group are oppressed. Gay men are oppressed for their sexuality, trans men are oppressed for their gender identity, Black men are oppressed for their color or race. “Men” however are not oppressed as a group.
/r/MensRights04/08/22 08:25 PM
4

I’d need to look at the other issues I mentioned, like poverty and race. If there are extremes, like Black Men being convicted the most severely, my guess is that it throws off the curve if that makes sense. Let me read first though because this is all speculation on my part.
/r/MensRights04/08/22 08:18 PM
1

Good argument.
/r/MensRights04/08/22 08:13 PM
-3

Technically a judge has to make a ruling but no, you are wrong to say that men cannot forfeit parental rights. You are also wrong that women can adopt out a child despite the father wanting custody. You can’t provide a source for any of the lies you’re telling.
/r/MensRights04/08/22 08:13 PM
-2

I don’t get to choose to be an astronaut or not either. How is that oppression? Fathers can forfeit their rights to the child which also forfeits their financial responsibility.
/r/MensRights04/08/22 08:11 PM
1

Cool. Way to be a man.
/r/MensRights04/08/22 08:10 PM
1

I can’t say how they’re treated but I know there are clear laws that criminalize the behavior. I know you think Australia will do the same, but no one does it currently. I’ll check out the link when you find it.
/r/MensRights04/08/22 08:09 PM
0

What are chromosomes if not biology?
/r/MensRights04/08/22 08:08 PM
0

If men are “forced into a certain set of actions based on our chromosomes” then wouldn’t periods be oppression?
/r/MensRights04/08/22 08:07 PM
-1

So you have no argument. I’m asking you to explain how “breaking the law” is “oppression of men” and you refused.
/r/MensRights04/08/22 08:07 PM
0

If it effects everyone then how can you say it’s oppression of men?
/r/MensRights04/08/22 08:06 PM
-14

Okay, like what?
/r/MensRights04/08/22 08:05 PM
-2

If they forfeit those parental rights then they also forfeit any financial responsibility.
/r/MensRights04/08/22 08:04 PM
0

Okay, what country? Source?
/r/MensRights04/08/22 08:04 PM
-5

What? No you can’t force another parent to give up a baby wtf?? Men can forfeit parental rights. Bam. It’s that easy, no more financial responsibility.
/r/MensRights04/08/22 08:03 PM
-6

Men can have a “financial abortion” lol. It’s extremely easy to forfeit parental rights. “Rape” is a technical term. Men can report sexual assault and in the US at least the sentences are the same. Men are responsible for building men’s shelters. Why don’t they?
/r/MensRights04/08/22 08:02 PM
-78

So what you’re really talking about is privilege maybe? I don’t think men are “punished a lot more for being a man.” I think there are some side effects to the cultural stuff you mention, like men not showing emotion because we are taught not to show emotion. We’re also taught to shame men who show emotion. This thread is a great example because I’m not putting down anyone, I’m just asking questions and engaging with people. I get downvoted for some reason, which should seem a little weird since…
/r/MensRights04/08/22 08:00 PM
-3

Huh? So it’s oppression of women to have a period?
/r/MensRights04/08/22 07:53 PM
-16

“Forced to go to war” Or you can go to prison. You’re acting like you don’t have a choice but the choice is clear. People choose to enlist because it’s ultimately better than going to jail. How is that oppression?
/r/MensRights04/08/22 07:51 PM
1

You’re making the claim. Where’s your evidence?
/r/MensRights04/08/22 07:50 PM
-26

The vast majority of military men do not kill anyone and are not killed themselves. But I don’t see how that is oppression? If you break the law, you go to jail lol
/r/MensRights04/08/22 07:49 PM
-34

Completely wrong. Men can opt out of parenthood at any time. You can use google bro, I have no reason to lie to you.
/r/MensRights04/08/22 07:46 PM
0

Everyone or just men? Do a lot of people die during those two years?
/r/MensRights04/08/22 07:46 PM
1

Nothing you said about america, Germany, or Australia’s is true.
/r/MensRights04/08/22 07:44 PM
-9

Um, I’m asking how it is oppression. If someone smokes a crack pipe and gets arrested, would that be oppression? If you break any law, you go to jail that’s how it works. I’m listening if you’re willing to explain.
/r/MensRights04/08/22 07:43 PM
-48

That’s what I thought but I wasn’t sure. The term is definitely backwards though because men can opt out of parenthood at any time with literally zero consequence. Men are in no way forced into parenthood. Like anything else, men are not guaranteed to be parents. You aren’t guaranteed to become an astronaut or a doctor or a lawyer or a cop either.
/r/MensRights04/08/22 07:41 PM
0

Oh. No, you’re completely wrong.
/r/MensRights04/08/22 07:39 PM
-2

Well individuals aren’t “oppressed.” That happens to groups of people. Individuals experience oppression in the form of discrimination sure, like a metrosexual man being treated like a gay man or being treated like a woman. Why do you think men don’t like being treated like a woman, or like they’re gay? Maybe those groups of people aren’t treated well. Men understand that men are treated well as a group.
/r/MensRights04/08/22 07:38 PM
-7

Those are all things that happen to everyone. I asked you how men are oppressed for being men and your response is “men are oppressed for being men because men are oppressed for being men”
/r/MensRights04/08/22 07:36 PM
-2

What country?
/r/MensRights04/08/22 07:33 PM
-1

Why do you think any of this is oppression?
/r/MensRights04/08/22 07:33 PM
-2

What?
/r/MensRights04/08/22 07:31 PM
-7

Why do you think this is oppression?
/r/MensRights04/08/22 07:31 PM
-1

How can anyone be oppressed?
/r/MensRights04/08/22 07:29 PM
-5

So how are “men” as a group oppressed for being “men?”
/r/MensRights04/08/22 07:29 PM
-1

How does war only affect men? Seems to affect everyone.
/r/MensRights04/08/22 07:28 PM
-6

Men are not required to exercise parental rights.
/r/MensRights04/08/22 07:27 PM
-8

So how are men oppressed for being men? Edit: I think they blocked me so Men can have a “financial abortion” lol. It’s extremely easy to forfeit parental rights. “Rape” is a technical term. Men can report sexual assault and in the US at least the sentences are the same. Men are responsible for building men’s shelters. Why don’t they?
/r/MensRights04/08/22 07:26 PM
-1

The article is dog shit. “Men experiencing oppression” is not the same as saying men are oppressed.
/r/MensRights04/08/22 07:26 PM
-2

Can you say this in your own words?
/r/MensRights04/08/22 07:25 PM
-14

People recognize oppression in gay men or Jewish men or trans men. How are “men” oppressed?
/r/MensRights04/08/22 07:24 PM
-13

So without the culture, men are not oppressed correct? Or can you explain?
/r/MensRights04/08/22 07:23 PM
-33

Can you explain how that is oppression? You’re just describing how breaking the law works and this is the case with any crime.
/r/MensRights04/08/22 07:22 PM
-19

How is “having a draft” oppression of men?
/r/MensRights04/08/22 07:20 PM
-29

Can you elaborate? I don’t understand this phrase “force fatherhood”
/r/MensRights04/08/22 07:20 PM
-173

Men don’t experience hardships due to being a man. There are many other factors like living in poverty or belonging to a minority group but none of the forms of oppression is of a man. Edit: to elaborate, many many men can experience oppression. People who are perceived as men can experience discrimination and can be oppressed. “Men” as a group however are not oppressed. Under the Man umbrella exists all sorts of people who may be oppressed based on those other things. The underlying connection …
/r/MensRights04/08/22 07:19 PM
1

Where’s the humor What the fuck are you talking about
/r/MensRights03/08/22 01:46 AM
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