| Upvotes | Title | Category | Author | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 67 | Girls are attracted (I guess to my looks at first), but it fades quickly | HighwindMark2 | /r/seduction | 03/12/17 04:31 PM | |
| 23 | What to do about fake flirts? | HighwindMark2 | /r/seduction | 03/12/18 04:55 PM | |
| 9 | It's scaring me (28m) that literally nothing works | HighwindMark2 | /r/seduction | 04/10/18 02:41 AM | |
| 1 | How often should I be texting my girlfriend? | HighwindMark2 | /r/seduction | 30/01/20 03:42 PM |
| Upvotes | Comment on | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 0 | I'm really not impressed by anyones 'game'I think people should just adopt their own style and maximize it to their potential. There's a strength to being quiet and introverted or loud boisterous. People just need to find it. Pick your own style and master it. | /r/seduction | 15/02/20 10:22 PM |
| 1 | Is there even a point in chasing girls if you don't have any friends?im actually satisfied with the few friends i do have. if u want to have a group of friends go ahead. ive tried before and i hated what resulted and i got rid of the group quick. its not for everyone | /r/seduction | 08/12/18 04:39 PM |
| 2 | What to do about fake flirts?Usually I meet them in college. Usually I am approached first. They say maybe to hanging out lol This happens MANY times. I swear I'm not fucking with you on that. Two I can remember hiding their BF. Some told me up front. They don't say yes when I ask them out. I consider maybe as no. None of them said they had a bf when I asked them out even if my intent was clear. Even if i get a maybe they go back to doing the same shit the next day. They beg for attention my grabbing my arm to show me somet… | /r/seduction | 04/12/18 03:00 AM |
| 0 | What to do about fake flirts?I don't think I am an orbiter. I took the "not yeses" as noes and moved on. Never spoke to her much until she sexually assaulted me during a meeting and that same week I asked her out and moved on. Any woman can have an orbiter for 2 seconds if she wants one if that's an orbiter. That's the way the world works, man's gotta make a move if he wants to get laid. I hate that this would be considered orbiting or a "win" to women it's so pathetic. | /r/seduction | 03/12/18 06:42 PM |
| 9 | Do everyone a favor and make the first moveI think it's fine if ur somewhat discreet and know how to squash drama. Not realistic if I'm single and I work 60 hours a week in a young female dominated workforce. (Nursing). If you do have a BM where you eat, just let them come to you. | /r/seduction | 01/12/18 04:59 PM |
| 1 | How to handle a girl who doesn't like to be touched, but shows you a lot of IOI?Find another girl who is not averse to being touched on dates because that's fucking weird. | /r/seduction | 30/11/18 02:30 AM |
| 1 | Have no idea what disqualification is"I like extraordinary men, are you that? She is fitting you into a category of men that she obviously likes. It's about not being too eager to be what she wants you to be. Of course Hank is interested, but he's not outcome oriented so he's not gonna jump into the extraordinary man box she wants to stuff him in. Hank couldn't care less if she gives up because if you watch the show you know he has an extremely high body count. The fuck does he care about what kind of men she likes? | /r/seduction | 27/11/18 04:07 PM |
| 1 | Have no idea what disqualification isProbably what he says here after 1:36 https://youtu.be/XuvyXYJP3Kk | /r/seduction | 27/11/18 01:10 PM |
| 1 | How to answer to this shit test?I like blondes with bigger butts | /r/seduction | 25/11/18 05:57 PM |
| 1 | Is it normal as a man for girls to NEVER flirt with you or express interest in you?Good luck. I went to college 4 years ago with the same goals as you. Am in 4th year now at square one but more accepting of the result. The answer is to talk to everyone if u are actually serious or you'll be waiting for women to flirt with you. | /r/seduction | 24/11/18 07:04 PM |
| 1 | Is it normal as a man for girls to NEVER flirt with you or express interest in you?I never do this but basically you have to go in blind. Take all the risk. All of it. 100% dude even when women take 0 risk. | /r/seduction | 24/11/18 07:00 PM |
| 2 | Is it normal as a man for girls to NEVER flirt with you or express interest in you?Women do this with me yet I'm still here. Should you be worried? Maybe there's something else you should be worried about. I get approached, flirted with, and invited to study. They also say I'm intimidating when I'm quiet, but when I speak I'm less interesting. I don't really bother these days. | /r/seduction | 24/11/18 06:57 PM |
| 1 | Girl starts texting conversation but then gives dull responsesI know but it's still pathetic. I look down on guys who do this to ugly girls too. I can't believe women still don't know how pathetic this is. | /r/seduction | 24/11/18 10:31 AM |
| 7 | Insights on Consistently Pulling One Night Stands after 5 Years in the GameLol@aeroplane mode trying to get people locked up. Don't do that shit guys. ONS are not that serious. Would you rather fap at home or in jail with Fleece Johnson? | /r/seduction | 24/11/18 04:53 AM |
| 2 | My girl’s got mono and she’s had it now for around a month. Is it worth kissing or not? Does anyone know how long it lasts?https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Epstein–Barr\_virus | /r/seduction | 24/11/18 04:32 AM |
| 4 | Girl starts texting conversation but then gives dull responsesThis is so dumb that this works. | /r/seduction | 24/11/18 04:09 AM |
| 1 | Girl starts texting conversation but then gives dull responsesLol I actually feel sorry for girls who do this. | /r/seduction | 24/11/18 04:02 AM |
| 0 | Women dont like nice guys.https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=HA_8-8wGMjo | /r/seduction | 19/11/18 10:50 AM |
| 2 | Looks...There was this 6/10 chick last year that showed interest. But when this 6ft classmate that looked like some 9/10 European soccer player joined my group it was over. The contrast between how she treated me and him was obvious {rude to me, thirsty for him) . She only returned to normal when he dropped out. But by then I was ghosting her. I wasn't convinced he would touch her with a 10 ft pole. It's a cold game for guys. Only difficulty women face is to get 9/10 guys like that to stay loyal. | /r/seduction | 18/11/18 08:15 PM |
| 1 | *** 5 Tips For Flirting With Women***I've seen it work, but hardly anyone can execute it. | /r/seduction | 18/11/18 07:58 PM |
| 1 | *** 5 Tips For Flirting With Women***That's because most people aren't this arrogant. I've seen it work with people who actually are this cocky. It makes you a shit test magnet. | /r/seduction | 18/11/18 07:48 PM |
| 1 | If women are turned on by being wanted, what's the point in avoiding neediness?I haven't read any Manson books in awhile but I think he was trying to convey that you need to serve your needs first and then needs of others second. (on neediness) He also said you need to let yourself be vulnerable enough to express your sexual desire. (to turn women on) | /r/seduction | 18/11/18 03:24 PM |
| 1 | Im afraid of asking a girl out and not because of rejection.That's me too. I've been chasing this for years and I probably would have no idea what to do with it when I get it. Rejection is the least of my concerns. Look at r/relationships for example. For some reason I feel fortunate. | /r/seduction | 18/11/18 03:20 PM |
| -1 | Why is it so hard to find someone who is successful at this in real life?Pretty sure they're out there. Shouldn't be hard to find. | /r/seduction | 17/11/18 12:15 AM |
| 1 | How To Get All The Way To The Kiss (Without Ever Asking Her Out) - College/Work/Gym ExampleI think a lot of guys aren't misreading anything and girls are weaponizing plausible deniability. It's just fucking wack. You say guys should do it too because they're at work or at school but I don't think so, if she wants to be awkward than let her be awkward, and you be you, how she feels has nothing to do with you, who cares. And as long as you've seen 3 out of 5 of those signs you have in Step 1 then chances are you didn't do anything wrong. Otherwise it's a good post. Always open to new … | /r/seduction | 16/11/18 08:40 PM |
| 1 | How To Get All The Way To The Kiss (Without Ever Asking Her Out) - College/Work/Gym ExampleI did it and then I pretended it didn't happen. She's still showing me signs after the fact. If I do it at work then it's only when the signs are obvious. Even if she avoided me I still wouldn't care because I know I didn't do anything wrong. I think men are better off not being flustered about what women think (whether if its at work or school or on the street), unless you're just creeping people out (which is when some frank self-evaluation is in order) rather than just reciprocating advance… | /r/seduction | 16/11/18 07:50 PM |
| 1 | problem with bringing girls around my friendsGuys just think it's open season generally if they aren't dating yet. I feel like I'm different because nobody respects shit like that if ur not dating her yet. | /r/seduction | 12/11/18 03:40 PM |
| 2 | problem with bringing girls around my friendsA lot of my friends do this and it's apparently okay and do it behind my back. Zero communication of whether or not I'm getting played. I kind of expect this and see it as normal now, everybody around me is saying it's okay. Fuck that I tell anyone point blank that their girl likes me more and he's probably getting played. When a friend of mine likes someone and he doesn't get laid much I keep a wide berth at all times yet friendly. And i communicate what I think if he asks. I know how I felt wh… | /r/seduction | 12/11/18 03:33 PM |
| 2 | I am starting to hate women,because they are so unpredictable.Wait till you grow up and find out dudes are letdowns too. | /r/seduction | 10/11/18 03:47 PM |
| 4 | I told her I like her. Then what ?I don't think there's need for any of that. I agree he shouldn't have said that but it she reciprocated instead of pretending he didn't say it lol. So I think he lucked out. It usually never goes this smoothly, OP. | /r/seduction | 03/11/18 01:55 PM |
| 1 | I really can’t wait till I’m just older and I won’t have to worry about or think about anything with girls or dating like as a young person. It’s too depressing and rough.This isn't making new friends. It's learning how to bed women. Let's make that clear, this isn't r/socialskills | /r/seduction | 01/11/18 08:11 PM |
| 7 | I really can’t wait till I’m just older and I won’t have to worry about or think about anything with girls or dating like as a young person. It’s too depressing and rough.Well then you have chronic pain and erectile dysfunction to worry about. Now you can't even beat your meat. | /r/seduction | 01/11/18 12:09 PM |
| 1 | Alpha Male Philosophy: Is Wanting to Avoid Conflict Considered “Beta?”I think picking your fights is important too. I think it's "beta" I prefer "lame" to just be offended at everything someone says to you. If you read Manson's "How to not give a fuck", it tells you what you shouldn't give a fuck about and what you should give a fuck about. Should I fuck this guy up for talking about my mama or go about my merry way? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/10/18 09:21 AM |
| 76 | Oneitis = Lack of PurposeStop oneitus when you realize that people are generally flawed and are usually never anything special. Women are not any more special than men and vice versa. I don't even have a dream woman. | /r/seduction | 23/10/18 03:00 PM |
| 1 | I walked out of a date todayYeah I've had girls that I knew were hoes said that I could be a provider because my nose is always in the books. My response? In your fucking dreams. So you're not a provider, and you're a lover. So be it, that's who you are. What she says shouldn't matter. | /r/seduction | 21/10/18 01:14 PM |
| 2 | Am I bad in conversation or are we just incompatible?No, he's right. But women are not gonna budge on this particular issue. Manson also says to pick ur battles in subtle art of not giving a fuck. | /r/seduction | 21/10/18 01:38 AM |
| 1 | How to proceed after "Maybe."If they can't give a firm answer I think it's a green light to invite someone else. "Oh I didn't know u were coming" I think it's fair. | /r/seduction | 20/10/18 09:23 PM |
| 2 | Am I bad in conversation or are we just incompatible?That is weird to girls. I actually agree with you to a certain extent, but girls swear that's not the case. I have some female friends that I wouldn't smash ever, but I know they'll be down if I give them a chance. | /r/seduction | 20/10/18 09:18 PM |
| 1 | Im unable to concentrate on what the girl is saying on a dateYou can learn some active listening skills. Physically face her, if her reply is sort of long winded just re-summarize what she said back to her. Lean forward, eye contact, clarify. I don't think its a big deal though. When I talk to girls I like, I pretty much lock eyes like what ur probably doing. | /r/seduction | 20/10/18 01:53 PM |
| 1 | It may not be a big deal to most but I walked out on a date who was late.I think burning bridges is the bad move though. I did that a lot but I realized later that although they were shitty people, they still had their perks. Don't place so much expectations in others ( not even to be a decent individual), then they won't disappoint you so badly. When they disappoint you, you learned more about who they really are. So what if a friend flakes on you, or is late? When you invite her again have a back up plan, chill. How are friends gonna take advantage of you when you … | /r/seduction | 19/10/18 11:25 PM |
| 1 | It may not be a big deal to most but I walked out on a date who was late.She does it because she either has a fucked up knee or is a bad friend. Doesn't mean she can't still be a friend and hang out cuz now you know what she is bad at: punctuality. Expect her to be late if you invite her again. | /r/seduction | 19/10/18 11:05 PM |
| 1 | What to talk about with girls that have literally no interestsI get that, but avoid the scarcity mentality if you can. | /r/seduction | 17/10/18 10:21 AM |
| 3 | What to talk about with girls that have literally no interestsThey're only like that when they don't like their company. If that's not the case then its a waste of time, she's boring. | /r/seduction | 17/10/18 09:13 AM |
| 1 | Why not just use escorts for sex?Cuz they automatically like u when you give them money. It's basically a cheat code, all your stats are maxed out. Without the time, practice and L's taken Escorts are a lot of fun especially when you get a 10/10 one though. If you can do that, it doesn't matter tbh. Celebrities do it who gives a shit. | /r/seduction | 15/10/18 08:46 PM |
| 3 | Seducing this girl, pretty sure she likes me, not sure how to go from here (not got this far with a girl without her pitying me)Call her out for the leg touching. Your gut sounds good. | /r/seduction | 13/10/18 12:42 PM |
| 2 | This shit is so fucking hardScratch that I think most people that get upset know they did alright but things went south anyway because the game is actually rigged and each player has their own way of rigging it. Women just have options. But you just need to win this rigged game once. That's why I quit being upset about this shit anymore, I'm willing to learn but if I can't get an A+ on my exams I have no business aspiring to be perfect, I just need a pass. | /r/seduction | 13/10/18 06:01 AM |
| 1 | This shit is so fucking hardFor me it's like getting my ass beat when my enemy has a sliver of health left. | /r/seduction | 13/10/18 05:24 AM |
| 2 | This shit is so fucking hardCuffing season is a bitch isn't it. Myself I thought things were going well but they aren't. Same pattern girls think I'm cute but not enough for a first date, but I think I'm the shit and they're missing out. You're farther than many people out there. Look at my earlier post here. I just try to self reflect as much as I can and rethink how I approach situations. You may fail a lot but you only have to win once, whether it be you getting a girl who isn't a bitch or however else you view success,… | /r/seduction | 13/10/18 05:22 AM |
| 1 | This shit is so fucking hardYou can't compare this to a video game dude. What kind of games u playing when ur playing flawlessly but still fuck up. Not even Bloodborne is that cruel. | /r/seduction | 13/10/18 05:12 AM |
| 1 | It's scaring me (28m) that literally nothing worksI've looked at seddit material in the past. I'm not sure what enjoy your weekend rather than offering a reschedule, right after saying she can't go means to you. It's why I disagree with you. If she wanted to go she'd figure it out. | /r/seduction | 04/10/18 09:53 PM |
| 1 | It's scaring me (28m) that literally nothing worksI stop after soft nos. Read the next sentence after. she was trying to shut down the next offer before it came as I thought about Saturday. | /r/seduction | 04/10/18 08:54 PM |
| 2 | It's scaring me (28m) that literally nothing worksWell I hope I figure it out | /r/seduction | 04/10/18 11:05 AM |
| 2 | It's scaring me (28m) that literally nothing worksI've done that too | /r/seduction | 04/10/18 10:53 AM |
| 3 | It's scaring me (28m) that literally nothing worksIf I was oozing negativity 24/7 why does this happen in the first place. This is far from the first time it's over and over. Some of you seem to be as clueless as I am, I'm not sure if I'm this pillar of negativity if I get attention in the first place. I think the attitude around me would be a lot different than under the table fun. Probably avoidance. | /r/seduction | 04/10/18 05:44 AM |
| 1 | Reddit hates /r/TRP because it's filled with nerds. Not because of misogyny .Depends on which Rap. Drake is pretty feminist except for his hiding a child and pornstar baby mother. Drake is also the number one rapper. His colleague The Weeknd is dark shit but women don't seem to listen to his lyrics, all they care about his haunting voice and great production. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/06/18 03:28 PM |
| 1 | Female friend a cockblocker??Women aren't dudes so they don't get it. If she was lesbian I bet she would though. | /r/seduction | 16/03/18 03:12 PM |
| 1 | Bored of dating sites. Anybody else feel the same?Try bumble where women are forced to make the first move. "hey" I reply No answer. | /r/seduction | 15/03/18 10:57 PM |
| 1 | Female friend a cockblocker??She could be peeped whats going on snd texted him. But since she wasn't briefed on what her role should be, it's all fair game lol. It would be nice if female friends bothered to read the situation more. | /r/seduction | 15/03/18 10:55 PM |
| 1 | How do you get over lust driven oneitis(es) to date more effectively?Get rejected. | /r/seduction | 15/03/18 10:51 PM |
| 2 | What are some signs that you’re desperate to be in a relationship?Soon you'll have a heart of stone and won't fall for them so easily. Takes time. No pain no gain though. Truest words ever spoken, | /r/seduction | 10/03/18 04:50 PM |
| 1 | What are some signs that you’re desperate to be in a relationship?You might think internal feelings are hidden. But they manifest in even subtle ways that most women pick up. Girl gave me mixed signals so I convinced myself she is ugly. She starts coming back in full force. | /r/seduction | 10/03/18 04:27 PM |
| 3 | I need my own placeLiving with parents is one thing, another is living in a suburb with nothing to do, nothing going on and terrible public transit. Literally nothing to do, no jobs either. I work in the city because of that. | /r/seduction | 10/03/18 04:25 PM |
| 2 | Do you have to be indirect when asking girls out not in person?If you are good at texting than go for it. Most people aren't. I myself am not good at it. | /r/seduction | 23/02/18 11:44 PM |
| 3 | Girls say I'm cute and like to pretend we are married?In the kitchen. | /r/seduction | 23/02/18 11:41 PM |
| 1 | How do you become more likable guy with girls and guys?Only time I called someone annoying was because she'd joke around which is fine, but her jokes weren't funny, and she'd beg me to laugh, or ask why I'm not laughing. Its like I was the only one who doesn't politely laugh at shit jokes. Then she says"I'm just kidding" after damn near every thing she said, not just jokes. | /r/seduction | 23/02/18 04:34 AM |
| 1 | How do you guys keep the conversation going?You can keep one going for eternity as long as u pay attention. That's what I learned while on ADHD meds. | /r/seduction | 23/02/18 04:29 AM |
| 0 | I've got some insecurity issuesRotation of women is an easy bandaid to the problem. The hardest thing to do like you said is to just "get over it". Requires a lot of objective retrospection that a lot of people aren't ready to do yet. | /r/seduction | 29/01/18 01:53 PM |
| 1 | I've got some insecurity issuesThis guy is right because the reason OP is getting led on because girls just have other guys they happen to be more invested in. | /r/seduction | 28/01/18 04:56 PM |
| 1 | I've got some insecurity issuesLeading boys on is a sport. Everybody gets led on. You just got to accept that's just something that some most girls do, and if possible forgive them, and yourself. Be grateful that you discovered the behaviour when you did, now you won't have to waste any more time. | /r/seduction | 28/01/18 04:54 PM |
| 8 | A question about vulnerabilityNobody has to know that. It's more than just revealing secrets anyway, it's about standing up for yourself, and your belief if someone (not just girls) happens to be rude. Not playing stupid games, being upfront and down to earth. Being honest, and open about what you think. How did you lose your virginity? Well, that's none of their business is it? | /r/seduction | 27/01/18 03:08 PM |
| 1 | Girls are attracted (I guess to my looks at first), but it fades quicklyCharles Manson used the Dale Carnegie book to gather people into a cult. I do regret using a serial murderer as an example of the books effectiveness though. I am not pursuing taken girls what happens is they flirt and I make a move thinking I have a shot. I'm not imagining it either, each of them gave me and others who saw the impression they were down. If they're single same thing. And I'm not like aw shucks calling myself a loser or anything like that. People say I'm confident. I invite girls… | /r/seduction | 04/12/17 07:14 AM |
| -1 | Girls are attracted (I guess to my looks at first), but it fades quicklylol i have a chin strap. | /r/seduction | 03/12/17 06:38 PM |
| 16 | Girls are attracted (I guess to my looks at first), but it fades quicklyOne thing is annoying is people ask me how come I don't date. Like I'm physically beating these girls off with a stick on purpose. Like, I just don't know anymore. And it's not like women will honestly tell you anyway. | /r/seduction | 03/12/17 04:57 PM |
| 5 | Low confidence guy with ''above average'' looks seeking helpBeing handsome pretty much gets the girls talking to you. But if your game is horrible then... Then there's those 52 matches on Tinder he has, I'd almost think he's fucking up on purpose. | /r/seduction | 26/11/17 06:14 PM |
| 1 | Low confidence guy with ''above average'' looks seeking helpI'm a dude and I say you're handsome as fuck. I'm not even kidding. What you just need is some confidence, not too much because cockiness+ looks scares some girls away. Working out will build some confidence in you. Wear nice trendy clothes. | /r/seduction | 26/11/17 06:11 PM |
| 0 | Tinder seems to be useless in big citiesI get a lot of matches on Tinder but I don't send any messages. Last one I sent a message to got bitchy about my joke that was a response to her joke on her profile. It wasn't anything personal or anything. Lol, yeah and that was it, other times they don't really go anywhere, and I don't really want it to go anywhere other than my bed (my mindset is a bit messed up that way). I actually thought about that first message and what I should send, and that I should be funny. Then on bumble, (which is… | /r/seduction | 10/11/17 01:12 AM |
| 1 | Million Yen Women [Japanese TV Drama on Netflix]Of course the weirdo protagonist strikes again, guy confidently bangs a prostitute at the soapland but becomes an incel when one of the girls comes on to him. Even if one of them happens to be a former prostitute herself, all he had to do was keep his mouth shut. Why am I on /r/MGTOW? | /r/MGTOW | 08/11/17 05:04 PM |
| 2 | TIFU by being an attractive guyI wouldn't tell her BF, because she will tell the police to save face. And then op gets kicked out of graduate school. Lay low OP. Or fuck her and record audio. So she gets what she wants and you get proof that it's consensual. I would lay low though | /r/seduction | 04/11/17 06:26 PM |
| 1 | Girl didn't buy my frameGirls will say the cruelest things if you're cocky funny. If the frame is fake, you're toast. She's testing that. Last time I faked it. I had to hold back tears. Jk but I was surprised at what length she would go. | /r/seduction | 04/11/17 06:10 PM |
| 19 | One of my best (girl) friends are showing me mixed signalsNext time make moves until she says stop. Come on dude. | /r/seduction | 04/11/17 12:23 PM |
| 12 | How to get a guy to have sex with meGuys aren't rocket science. Ask them out. If you ask me to come over, I'm bringing condoms. | /r/seduction | 04/11/17 12:21 PM |
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