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HistoricalProgress/r/askTRP21/10/18 06:31 PM
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Yes and no. Yes because being able to articulate yourself clearer and better is always an improvement and one you seek for yourself. No because self-improvement is for self. It's for you. For the most part, and definitely in this case, it doesn't have much to do with raising SMV. Being more articulate will pique more interest, but its by no means a pre-requisite to guaranteeing you the lay. To actually improve your vocabulary, don't just read books. Download a word of the day app. Carry a dictio…
/r/askTRP21/10/18 06:25 PM
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This looks like classic black pill stuff. Look up a post called stages of being alpha on the main sub.
/r/askTRP21/10/18 06:18 PM
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I don't have free time like you.
/r/askTRP21/10/18 06:15 PM
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Stability, maturity, but most importantly, they pay for my shit.
/r/askTRP21/10/18 06:12 PM
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Theoretically, yes. Practically, sex is about emotions for women. If you can form an emotional connection with a woman, really control her happiness, sadness etc. sex just becomes an expression of it. This is something I think about too; I think it's true some people can be asexual, but no one is ever completely ever devoid of emotions, no matter how sociopathic or autistic you are. One way to look at it as they haven't found the right dick yet, which may be true in a lot of cases; a better way …
/r/askTRP21/10/18 06:11 PM
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Man to have free time like yours.
/r/askTRP21/10/18 06:08 PM
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They're shit testing you. They don't really care. You're their fantasy of a life more fully lived, they see you as higher value because of your more social approach to life and so either want to pull you down or be with you. It's just joking among friends.
/r/askTRP21/10/18 06:04 PM
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You must have a lot of time on your hands you're willing to waste.
/r/askTRP21/10/18 06:02 PM
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Don't ask for nudes.
/r/askTRP21/10/18 05:57 PM
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Never ask for nudes. Why have nudes when you can have the real thing?
/r/askTRP21/10/18 05:38 PM
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Yup, just ignore her, waste of time. She wants to both not turn up but also doesn't want you to hate her i.e. be an orbiter. She'll probably reschedule then flake again after you give her some dread, so best to hard next her now until she's actually willing to like literally sleep with you.
/r/askTRP21/10/18 05:36 PM
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It doesn't matter. She's trying to exert control over you by dangling pussy in your face, expressing her perceived upper hand power and seeing if you'll dance for her. Don't. I'm sure she's a great girl, but don't let that cloud your judgement on your path.
/r/askTRP21/10/18 05:32 PM
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Stop pretending to do things and start doing things you actually want to do. Be patient. Take it one day at a time. But have an end goal and build up to it AKA a mission. Find a group which plays board games. Great way to meet people.
/r/askTRP21/10/18 05:28 PM
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'Nice'. Abundance. Makes you look like you get them all the time. Send one back. She either wants to fuck or for you to orbit, and acting overly excited is the latter.
/r/askTRP21/10/18 05:26 PM
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It's not an act, it's a belief. If you think it, if you believe it, that's all that matters. That's literally all that matters in the world
/r/askTRP21/10/18 02:36 AM
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When she exists and is in public
/r/askTRP20/10/18 09:47 PM
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Non white guy in third world country here, use these all the time
/r/askTRP20/10/18 09:31 PM
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I hunt sharks I kill whales I'm a porn star
/r/askTRP20/10/18 09:13 PM
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The only way this is going to go away is if you approach and fuck. What you're essentially describing is approach anxiety, otherwise why get invested in a glance. I know some techniques that may help you out with this specific problem, but they are higher level and for rn you need to approach
/r/askTRP20/10/18 09:01 PM
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Pook "I made time for dating even when I didn't have the time". Or something like that. I understand where you're coming from and that's very mature, so balance your life as you like, but Monk mode is really only when your life is going nowhere and you need to drastically reset your priorities back to solid food. Think trainspotting drug addict. Balance your time. There's always time to date, you just need to balance it. Take the time and effort to do it since it's a skill you'll need for the re…
/r/askTRP20/10/18 08:56 PM
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The simple answer is you're a reflection of the people you hang out with. But I think the real answer is despite how great your life is going, you still care about popularity and the popular kids. I've been in exactly your position and let me tell you kid, you're popular. You don't know it yet, but people are intimidated and afraid of you. 3, 5 and 10 years from now you'll keep running into people you meet now, and they'll all remember you even if you have zero idea who they are. Kids are idiots…
/r/askTRP20/10/18 08:51 PM
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You're a troll. Disappointingly not a good one. Go beg for attention elsewhere.
/r/askTRP20/10/18 08:43 PM
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Sexually aggressive=Dom woman. Every domintrix is looking to get dominated. Trust me. It's easy being a sissy sub boy. There's literally no dearth of them. Be dominant remain dominant. Don't be afraid to mix it up sometimes, but maintain mental dominance followed by physical dominance at all times.
/r/askTRP20/10/18 08:09 PM
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173.
/r/askTRP20/10/18 07:54 PM
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The answer is in your post. You're not enjoying life. You don't enjoy being who you are and doing what you do, and you'd rather beat yourself up for it than take action. I've been on that merry go around enough times. But when I'm truly comfortable, in my element, nothing can stop me, I can do no wrong. Do things you love and don't do things you don't. Spend time with people you like and don't spend time with people you don't. Practice doing that and you'll see the world doesn't come crashing do…
/r/askTRP20/10/18 07:49 PM
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Since you've been clear from your end, her emotions now are now her problem. Keep spinning, keep being happy in your decisions.
/r/askTRP20/10/18 07:40 PM
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You have so much to learn. Don't worry, we've all been there. Hopefully in time, with more reading and experience you'll understand. If you want to discuss this constructively, I'm more than happy to.
/r/askTRP20/10/18 06:39 PM
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I'll be honest, this is one I struggle with as well. Which is why TRP in practice and TRP in theory can be so different. In real world applications the world painted on the main sub can be hard to reconcile. I'm going to pen down some thoughts, I may be right or wrong, and I look forward to discussing this further. The red pill is essentially about power. In the central case, about power in heterosexual relationships. Who has that power and how they wield it. It provides general principles and s…
/r/askTRP20/10/18 06:33 PM
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You shouldn't have texted back "what's your address" to "wanna fuck" classic orbiter move, as soon as you said that her reaction proved that she'd "won" in her head, as in successfully got back your attention and the power by dangling the maybe future possibility kinda of pussy in your face. You should have replied with "no" or "busy" and she would have been all yours, for a long time to come. I disagree with the people here saying now you've got to back out. That's a sissy move and she'll think…
/r/askTRP20/10/18 06:09 PM
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I think your problem is you're intimidated by how much richer they are to you. Let me tell you as someone who has been riding the coat-tails of richer people pretty much since I was a teenager: Nobody cares, and it even makes you more interesting. Be interesting, funny, and someone entertaining they want to be around and can trust, they will want to pay to be in your company, pay for your food, transport and sometimes even give you gifts. Do you know how boring money is to wealthy people? They c…
/r/askTRP20/10/18 12:35 PM
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No I got all of that, I'm saying don't stretch the team mate analogy too far.
/r/TheRedPill17/10/18 09:24 PM
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As long as we're clear that this is a heuristic to help you get comfortable in approaching and having a good time, and not a reflection of the truth, as in women are adversarial, they do see it as win-lose, pretty shitty team mates, always trying to get you to comply and in the larger scheme of things don't care about you too much (a la women in love), then I think it's fine. Let's not stretch it to breaking point or be bluepill about women and their biological imperative and need to constantly …
/r/TheRedPill17/10/18 07:12 PM
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Well, two ways of looking at it: You actually are high SMV, in which case, she's pre-rejecting you as defense mechanism against the rejection she fears she will suffer from you. You failed to provide the first thing a woman looks for: safety (comfort). You're actually low SMV, you're hamstering about her thighs and rejection here, and you've taken the fact that HB7,8 and 9s talk to you as validation. Who's displaying more feminine traits, you tell me?
/r/askTRP16/10/18 11:15 PM
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Always assume attraction. I think that was your main problem here. You were in your head about the interaction and probably walking on egg shells. In other words, trying too hard. Never, ever do that. Assume she's attracted to you and always act like that. That wasn't an escalation. That was a disqualification. Always calibrate.
/r/askTRP16/10/18 09:24 PM
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I'm the same way, or at least used to be. Past 5 plates have all been 30+. I used to tell myself its because I like more mature women, they're better at making conversation and I am more attracted to them, all of them partly true, but what it really came down to was a lack of fun SMV on my part to attract non-post wall women + something of an Oedipus complex. So essentially its a lack of game (lift and be more fun to get pre-wall women) and talk to a psychiatrist generally about issues with your…
/r/askTRP16/10/18 06:48 PM
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3-4. More than that is too much. Always be gaming though.
/r/askTRP16/10/18 04:17 PM
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"I figure out what I'm looking for" She had a night out of fun and now has cold feet. May text you later but probably not. This is why making her invested in you is important.
/r/askTRP14/10/18 04:47 AM
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Well, have you considered not being so damn insecure?
/r/askTRP14/10/18 04:45 AM
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What kind of mate guarding bs is this.
/r/askTRP14/10/18 04:40 AM
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Yes.
/r/askTRP14/10/18 04:34 AM
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Probably best to ignore that rattling coming from the closet.
/r/askTRP14/10/18 04:33 AM
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Wait, you haven't moved beyond making out? That's in and of itself fine. But I understand your tired-ness. You're basically acknowledging how the PUA lifestyle is in fact a lifestyle unto itself, that is, you have to spend a lot of time and effort on how you look, going out and learning game. And then it becomes a reflex. You have a couple of options: -You're looking at it too mechanically. As the 5th edition DnD Dungeon Master's Guide tells you, the die rolls don't decide the game, you the DM d…
/r/askTRP14/10/18 04:27 AM
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If you're free, go for it. If she's rescheduling she still cares about you. If you're not, reschedule with her. Basically don't make a big deal out of it.
/r/askTRP10/10/18 10:54 PM
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Stop procrastinating. Start doing. Don't stop until you're done. Keep drinking water and eat fruits. You're welcome. This may seem overly simplistic, but trust me, this simple system has helped me tremendously. Most procrastinating comes from a place of lying to yourself about your actions or their consequences and your words vs your actions. So make your words congruent with your actions. My friends for example keep saying they'll quit smoking, but I love smoking! So I'm not going to beat mysel…
/r/askTRP10/10/18 10:52 PM
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Classic is brushing her hair while she talks to me/gives me a blowjob. Girls love that shit. Great segue to grabbing her hair too. I just treat them with super amounts of patience. Give them candy. Reward them for good behaviour. And always give them some element of spontaneous fun. Setting up strong boundaries.
/r/askTRP10/10/18 10:47 PM
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It means nothing and will mean nothing, with respect to the content. What it actually means is, hey, I'm interested, and I want to see how easy it is to get you in my frame, how easy it is for you to be defined by what I think. The truth is it doesn't matter. You are who you are and if she's talking to you she's in, and will be as long as you give her them emotions and touch. Response: Better a dick than a nobody. Actually, that might be just a little too hard core. If it's the beginning you als…
/r/askTRP10/10/18 10:37 PM
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Only in the bedroom, when she's asking you to. Troubling times kids. The panopticon knows no bounds. No word or action you do is worth the tax on your liberty and money to defend yourself or your reputation in a court of law or court of public opinion. The red pill can keep his emotions in check, controlling them when they start to take control of him.
/r/askTRP10/10/18 10:32 PM
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"So do I" You're gay? Nah I was just messing with you. I'm going to this place at this time. Come down.
/r/askTRP10/10/18 07:53 PM
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Too wordy
/r/askTRP10/10/18 07:47 PM
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Literally the worst advice possible. She's handing herself to you on a plate and you ignore it? Does no one read the sidebar anymore?
/r/askTRP10/10/18 07:47 PM
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It personally wouldn't bother me. Business is business. These girls earn well and I respect a woman who knows how to get the most for her asset. This may not be the best way though. It's the lying really. And the gaslighting. Nah. Not interested in spending time with a person like that. Too much drama. Not cutting her out from your life is a recipe for emotional and financial disaster. Do it now.
/r/askTRP04/10/18 05:33 PM
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Yes. Ignore her till she replies. Move on. Learn from this mistake.
/r/askTRP04/10/18 04:29 AM
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Sure. But that dominance can express itself in many ways
/r/askTRP04/10/18 04:27 AM
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I'll be honest with you, she's attracted to you but you made a few key mistakes, specifically and fundamentally sexualising over text, asking for nudes, not texting 2/3rd, not employing plausible deniability and trying too hard. The agreeing and amplifying on the girl bit may seem fun and flirty, but at that point was down the rabbit hole of your disqualification. You did not display abundance by ignoring her after her initial refusal. You kept pushing instead of giving her plausible deniability…
/r/askTRP03/10/18 09:10 PM
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Yes. It would be pathetic. Turn her down, but that you're open to being FWBs. Pro tip: Decline by friend zoning HER. It'll shatter her world and you can then get all the sex you want.
/r/askTRP03/10/18 09:00 PM
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Best idea? Start. Keep going. Don't stop. Just do you.
/r/askTRP03/10/18 08:55 PM
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This is an LTR so I'd say the dynamics are different. Plus not everyone has a Dom frame.
/r/askTRP03/10/18 08:51 PM
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Never say that, even during sex, especially if she wants you to say "her and only her". This is perhaps the absolute deadliest female push for hypergamy I have ever seen. I would say she's even doing this consciously, if it's multiple times at the same time. She's trying to blackmail you using her sex. That's te ultimate beta position to be in. Never, ever give in to this, trial by fire. Smile, kiss her deeply and passionately, hold her tight, but withdraw also. Avoid, agree and amplify after. H…
/r/askTRP03/10/18 08:45 PM
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It's still accessible on desktop.
/r/askTRP03/10/18 08:31 PM
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Check out on the main sub a post called "Stages of being alpha". Forgot the author but it's a guy I respect. He outlines 5 stages.
/r/askTRP03/10/18 05:31 PM
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I like to play catch and release a lot, so I know I'm good at game but don't meet many women who turn me on. This can also be a defence mechanism for easy satisfaction. Results only matter. Either you're fucking or you're not, there is no try. So whatever you do just make sure you don't lie to yourself.
/r/askTRP02/10/18 07:27 PM
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Constant joking at her expense=never being taken seriously=easy for her to disqualify you. Don't be a comic except on stage. Employ push-pull.
/r/askTRP02/10/18 07:22 PM
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I'm the same way. I can be super teasing and fun naturally. However, the trap is te frame you're establishing is that of a comedian, an entertainer, and not the king laughing at the jester. Go against your instincts and withdraw teasing. Employ push-pull. Take blowjobs from bitter faces and never give them the prize of full sex with you without tons of non-sexual service from them to you.
/r/askTRP02/10/18 08:46 AM
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You're welcome! I look forward to your follow up posts about your oneitis and how she's the best!
/r/askTRP02/10/18 07:18 AM
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Welcome to the wonderful world of ASD, the greatest shit test of all, and practically the hardest. Read the sidebar. This is very much covered, and par for the course. You also deep dived into her frame when she started crying, but we all make mistakes.
/r/askTRP02/10/18 06:38 AM
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Keep in mind it is oneitis, and you will never see her naked, and as much as you're thinking about the one time you guys had lunch together a month back, she may not even remember your name, especially not at night while she's getting plowed by a guy who definitely isn't worrying so much about her. You can either push harder and risk your professional relationship together, and your reputation, or you can calibrate and stop giving a fuck. In the second scenario she'll be coming around for your l…
/r/askTRP02/10/18 06:31 AM
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That's great to hear. Keep at it.
/r/askTRP01/10/18 11:27 PM
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The term you're looking for is imposter syndrome. So ask yourself two questions and don't be afraid to go as deep as necessary in asking them, or taking as much time as necessary, or professional counselling help with them. The first is, why do you care what other people think? The depth of the answer you give yourself may shock you, so keep on digging to the root. The second is, am I comfortable with who I am? Can I be? How can I be? you need to be in your own skin, you.
/r/askTRP30/09/18 11:04 PM
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See, now I know nothing of Bulgaria. So my scope to help you is much limited. See, wasn't that so much easier than whatever 1000 word bs you wrote in the question. I do know conservative society though. I live in India. For the most part, the kind of statements you're referring to are said by men and women in society to shame men into acting in conformity with societal expectations rather than what those men would really want to do. For the most part, its not really a problem. At the back of you…
/r/askTRP30/09/18 10:58 PM
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Sure, the words themselves don't matter. I have other advice for you, but I know it'll just get in your head rn, which you clearly are a lot in already. Go for it. Enjoy yourself first.
/r/askTRP30/09/18 10:52 PM
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This may seem like a weirdly phrased question, but I get where you're coming from. The anixiety, the uncomfortableness, the lack of surety with myself. The first thing to realise is that these will never-fully-go away. I've come a long way to become an individual much more comfortable with myself and not let my anxiety really exist anymore, but it can be there and needs to be kept at bay. Secondly, its not about the activity per se. I found it in a niche hobby activity, one that I won't reveal b…
/r/askTRP30/09/18 10:47 PM
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Take, don't ask. Forget about her. She exists for your pleasure. Go primal.
/r/askTRP30/09/18 10:38 PM
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Take, don't ask. Forget about her. She exists for your pleasure. Go primal.
/r/askTRP30/09/18 10:38 PM
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The fuck was this question? Just tell us where you're from and we can help you out.
/r/askTRP30/09/18 10:37 PM
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I would strongly recommend you go see a therapist about unresolved issues you may have regarding your divorce. A divorce can clearly be a traumatic, impactful event in a person's life, and for the sake of your own health and comfort with yourself, you should see a therapist and work through these issues you've downloaded regarding women. Don't be too hard on yourself, and take the time to get the help you need. Just whatever you do, don't discuss this with plates or any women you're seeing reall…
/r/askTRP30/09/18 10:33 PM
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I repeat: This is the biggest non-problem of all time. Just ask her to come over, smile, and fuck her brains out. If that's the first message she sent you, (and really in most other cases, but with more game), coming off strong is the only way to get what you want with the least amount of drama and the most amount of fun. From a logistics stand point, take her number and tell her to hit you up when she's in your town and say you'll do vice versa. Then don't talk to her until that happens. Abunda…
/r/askTRP30/09/18 10:29 PM
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Maybe focus on your own life instead of the life's of people who don't know you exist and don't care. I know it can be hard. When you're first getting unplugged, you want to look at the whole world from the Red pill perspective, and talk about it. But don't. The most red pill thing is to not worry at all about what other people think or are doing unless it affects what you want to do.
/r/askTRP30/09/18 10:25 PM
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Is that the message she sent you? This is the biggest non-problem of all time. Just ask her to come over, smile, and fuck her brains out.
/r/askTRP30/09/18 10:23 PM
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Nothing we say here will matter because you've made up your mind, but there a 1000 different ways this ends badly, and badly only for you. You can ignore the experience of the 2 million men before you, or you can make the same mistakes. Maybe you'll learn. Time to put the dick back in the pants, stop fantasizing and get back to work. Be red pill not blue pill. There is much sex to be had for a successful man. Flirt and fuck if you must, but keep lives 100%%% separate.
/r/askTRP26/09/18 10:49 AM
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Depends on how well you know them, and I'm talking about from the perspective of you do you want this girl to know where you live. If you guys are comfortable and there's sex in the air, go for it. If you need to feel it out, meet her in a park and spend sometime getting to know she's not crazy. Bring an activity.
/r/askTRP26/09/18 10:46 AM
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Stop thinking about girls and start thinking about yourself. See a speech therapist.
/r/askTRP26/09/18 10:44 AM
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Only and only after she stops being a client, and you're sure your business future and personal future will be separate.
/r/askTRP26/09/18 10:43 AM
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Yup.
/r/askTRP26/09/18 10:42 AM
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Few options: 1. Take her in and charge her rent. 2. Tell her to fucking live with her mother. 3. Tell her to move in with friends. Totally depends on you here. 4 months is too short a time. Are you "seeing" her or fucking her? Either way, I would strongly recommend don't get involved, at all if possible. Goes against our instincts, but there is genuinely no story which comes out of this good, not Disney.
/r/askTRP26/09/18 10:40 AM
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I'm fat, limited ambition, new to the game as a game. Yet every relationship I've had has been mostly like this. It also doesn't last, it's not built to, on some level it's not sustainable and healthy.
/r/askTRP26/09/18 10:28 AM
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I've come to realise that nearly every woman above te age of 21 has a true some level been alpha widowed. From your perspective, while it may seem macho to "ruin her for other men", that's a blue pill fantasy. You want to be an alpha but not widow her if you like her, you want her to be there and want to keep coming back for more, love, not sex btw, your love which she needs to remain validated and survive. Your time. Your chest. Your voice. Your touch. You want to show her comfort as well, and …
/r/askTRP26/09/18 10:26 AM
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That is not a true man. That is a beta, porn fantasy. I have been in this situation with girls, and trust me, it stops being fun quickly if you don't try to do more. It's almost never about the dick, or to put it never just about the dick. He's holding her in his hands like a toy, and she's all the emotions with him everywhere, that she just wants to BE with him. If not controlled, that's just crazy fights. If not guided, it's just another story of a ruined relationship, a waste of time. She's t…
/r/askTRP26/09/18 10:23 AM
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Far too long for no value. Cut it down.
/r/TheRedPill24/09/18 06:52 PM
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Nope. Just unplugged from all social media like a couple of weeks back (except Reddit, which will be soon). Best decision I ever made. It's such a sinkhole and a waste of time way to give beta attention. I'd rather do my life. Also adds to mystery when we're dating, doesn't give we all the data points in my life immediately. It is difficult, but it forces you to live in the real world.
/r/askTRP24/09/18 11:30 AM
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There's no coming back from this blatant disrespect. You don't need this drama in life. Time to hard next. This relationship is over.
/r/askTRP23/09/18 07:15 PM
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What the bot said
/r/askTRP23/09/18 02:10 PM
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Check out Black Dragon's blog on never lying to a woman and keeping your FBs/plates and LTRs in check.
/r/askTRP23/09/18 09:54 AM
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You sound like the kind of guy who would die first in a real war.
/r/TheRedPill13/09/18 02:28 PM
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Read pook
/r/askTRP13/09/18 02:25 PM
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I find it insulting that you think this is surprising for any Red Pill man. Go write erotica somewhere else man, there was zero value to this post except as porn. In fact, it's kind of weird you're even holding this up as trophies; I genuinely have lost count of how many women I've fucked where, and can't remember half of them.
/r/TheRedPill10/09/18 10:26 AM
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Sigh. If only all shitposting was this high quality. That being said, there is one important point made here to be kept in mind while reading this. While the Red Pill is a great guide to life and ECs and the Vanguard are to be respected and admired (as in every male hierarchy where people who contribute most value get most respect), everything they say or everything in the sidebar should be taken with a grain of salt. This does not mean that any of this is wrong, but to create false gods or edif…
/r/TheRedPill01/04/18 07:45 PM
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Used the line today with a slight modification ("I love it when you try to be funny") to a rant about feelings and time, got good results
/r/TheRedPill28/03/18 03:59 PM
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