| Upvotes | Title | Category | Author | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 262 | Our daily reminder that dating older men will get you absolutely nowhere | REMINDER 👑 | Historywillabsolvem3 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/10/20 09:26 AM |
| 148 | Worthiness of men compared to women | DISCUSSION | Historywillabsolvem3 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/11/20 07:27 PM |
| 20 | Don’t be like this... hear me out. | MINDSET SHIFT | Historywillabsolvem3 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/08/20 07:42 PM |
| 6 | Why are men obsessed with saying how unattractive older women are like they don’t look like balding potatoes by their late twenties | MALE DEPRAVITY | Historywillabsolvem3 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/11/20 09:07 PM |
| 1 | GOALS! As long as you don’t read the comments... this is a total queen move | MOOD FOR LIFE | Historywillabsolvem3 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/01/21 12:21 AM |
| Upvotes | Comment on | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 4 | Let’s Not Forget That A Certain Pedophilic Be-Diapered Furry Fetished Former Admin Was Very Instrumental in Getting All Feminist Subs Who Were Critical of The Porn On This Site Banned The Past Few MonthsYes please? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/03/21 10:49 PM |
| 11 | Remember ladiesYou must be new here... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/03/21 02:57 PM |
| 38 | I love it when men recognise LVM!“Why’s your hairline receding at 21” | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/03/21 12:07 AM |
| 8 | Author of “Cannibalism Play” Cosmo Article Responds.It’s sad that women feel the need to say things like this to for men’s approval. LITERALLY WHO is this viewpoint serving other than men? And what “nuances” exist in being sexually attracted to cannibalism lol. There are worse things happening in the world than weirdos being “disempowered” from acting out their sick fetishes that are condemned by 99.999% of society. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/02/21 10:25 PM |
| 1 | contrary to belief deadbeat dads are very proud of being deadbeatsRight, it gets a lot easier as they get older. 2 is really young but the more independent they get the easier it is. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/02/21 10:41 PM |
| 3 | contrary to belief deadbeat dads are very proud of being deadbeatsHow old is your daughter? It gets a little easier the older and more independent they get. I felt this way but out of a pandemic when I’m working and my daughter is at school, I try to spend an hour or two with quality focused time in the evening. It is usually enough, plus weekends. Don’t feel bad. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/02/21 12:30 AM |
| 22 | This but unironically. Go chop some wood, fix a car, lift some weights. Hell start a business with all the energy you spend hating and lurking women's spaces - your testosterone is getting lower and lower by the minute. At least then you'd have a chance scrote.This post is slaying it lol. I find it hilarious that there are porn-sick scrotes obsessed with us that will target and harass women online because the internet is the only way they can pretend to have some dominant energy. Irl their testosterone count is too low from the constant sitting at home masturbating so they take it online. We see you! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/02/21 12:22 AM |
| 2 | I was blocked for this? They just can’t stand that a woman doesn’t want to sleep around. Can’t let those FDS ideas get out!! 🙄I’m not sure to be honest. Other subs migrated to other websites but I was unfamiliar with the format and didn’t keep up. There may be other places but I wouldn’t know. Idk if there’s a discord for here, but even that confuses me. I’m simple | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/01/21 10:37 AM |
| 18 | I was blocked for this? They just can’t stand that a woman doesn’t want to sleep around. Can’t let those FDS ideas get out!! 🙄Might just be me but I’d be super hesitant to link to FDS anywhere on Reddit. Many related feminist subs have been banned, and every time another falls it breaks my heart a little. I don’t think I could survive if FDS went the same way. I would urge caution in linking it in other subs, like many here have already said message her directly perhaps. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/01/21 09:30 PM |
| 1 | GOALS! As long as you don’t read the comments... this is a total queen moveObviously, the comments are all calling her out for being “unreasonable”. They were together for 13(!) years and only just started looking at moving in together and getting married, so he’s quite clearly not a man who can provide in any way but yeah she’s a witch for wanting to throw away a shitty relationship that went on way longer than it should have. I’m just glad she finally had the guts to call the shots and kick him out. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/01/21 12:25 AM |
| 11 | An Essential FDS Read ("Cat Person" by Kristen Roupenian)Just ordered this book from your post! Thanks! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/01/21 02:02 AM |
| 13 | Here is what my hijab (headscarf) taught me about male entitlement, the male gaze, and the conditionality of men's treatment of womenLoved hearing your perspective on it. Preferential treatment of those deemed good looking is something that’s not really mentioned outside FDS that much. Obviously race comes into play also. I really think it’s a damned if you do, damned if you don’t kind of choice, but that’s what it’s like being born a female in this world. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/01/21 01:34 AM |
| 8 | Are there “degrees to pickmeism?”Yes there are degrees. Surer than anything that there’s women even on here that will say dump him queen in a heartbeat but when it’s their own lives, it’s just too difficult to let go of that not quite perfect but kind and stable boyfriend. The sad part of it is that you can level up and develop your mindset but real life can be a different thing entirely. We’re conditioned to think we’ll be miserable and lonely without a man and it takes years of unlearning that. So whilst it’s a little easier … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/01/21 12:42 AM |
| 2 | Worthiness of men compared to womenYou’re welcome, writing it was therapeutic for me! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/11/20 07:16 PM |
| 71 | Worthiness of men compared to womenOh god don’t get me started. Jane Austen has been described as “limited” because she wrote mostly about upper class women, but men literally wrote about their own lives and it was revelationary? Knausgård wrote SIX books about his own banal life, and this is a literary masterpiece apparently but women can’t write one book without being criticized. I read exclusively female authors during lockdown. Perkins-Gilman, Austen and George Eliot (male Pename!) the latter is the best author is history of … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/11/20 07:51 PM |
| 7 | Female hypergamy is a lie. The reality of the "80/20 rule" is that 80% of women are quite literally equal in value to the top 20% of men. This is why we are seeing so many single high value women, and single low value men.Sis killed it with this one. Most women spend time, money and effort on their appearance, not because they’re vain, but because being clean and hygienic is a mark of respect to others and most importantly to yourself. If you look bad, with skin, hair, teeth and body you don’t look after, then how exactly is that going to put you in a positive mindset? Washing, brushing and minimal styling of hair, a basic skincare regime, teeth brushed and flossed twice a day and exercise is conducive to a posit… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/11/20 10:01 PM |
| 2 | One of the thousands of reasons why I never want to live with a man or have childrenThank you for this comment I’m shaking with laughter. But also so true! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/11/20 09:21 PM |
| 3 | No thanks scroteI’ll pass on taking advice from a guy called Randy | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/11/20 09:12 PM |
| 2 | Preach 🙌🏼Queen logic right there | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/11/20 10:15 PM |
| 12 | It was the music choice that got meSadly this amount of affection is usually wasted on men. Doing this shit won’t keep a man, if he wants to cheat he’ll cheat. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/11/20 11:18 PM |
| 4 | Why are men obsessed with saying how unattractive older women are like they don’t look like balding potatoes by their late twentiesLike, I find it hilarious how she’s “desperate” for daring to hope her husband might be attracted to her, but he’s not desperate for his almost definite addiction to teen porn or whatever other depravity these males like to partake in | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/11/20 09:13 PM |
| 36 | Faking pleasure- pick me behavior?Why is this a discussion? Yes, it is. I mean if you’re in a relationship and you do some small noises of encouragement (idk what else to call it) to help him know what you want that’s fine but if you’re just fake moaning and not actually enjoying it you’re feeding an already entitled mans ego. No thanks | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/11/20 12:29 AM |
| 25 | Own your sorrowI feel this in my heart. All of this is what we’ve internalised since we were little girls. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/10/20 02:56 PM |
| 0 | LVM on CMB with 1 Pic trying to call me fat. Thank goodness I am well trained in FDS.Tbh you didn’t need to explain this to him. He probably gets off on this sort of shit, just block n delete | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/08/20 11:05 PM |
| 5 | Don’t be like this... hear me out.Oh yeah I’ve definitely noticed this before. They don’t usually interact with the group other than to share pictures of themselves. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/08/20 10:29 PM |
| 5 | Don’t be like this... hear me out.I do agree, you make great points, but I think our compassion and empathy is massively glorified and even praised/encouraged as it takes the burden off men. We definitely don’t know the relationship between these two friends, I guess I just don’t see selflessness to the point of taking on your time and money to buy someone a stuffed toy as particularly praiseworthy and we need to stop glorifying it and tbh get men to share the burden with us! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/08/20 08:34 PM |
| 24 | Don’t be like this... hear me out.So people are sharing this as a cute feel good post but post FDS me is just thinking why would you do this? As women, we are socialised to care WAY too much and give up way too much of our time and money to helping others. Think about how charities target women specifically, it’s because we actually care. She’s obviously trying to help a friend but seriously, respect yourself. Don’t rush around wasting your time and petrol just to work yourself up into convincing yourself you’re helping fight in… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/08/20 07:46 PM |
| 19 | A wholesome change of pace! Society consistently stereotypes single mothers as "lazy", while praising low value, bare minimum behavior from fathers. It's cultural misogyny in action.I’m a single mother who has just switched to an amazing new job, passed my test and got a car this year, moving house, and navigated WFH with a kid for three months in a global pandemic. 2020 is my year, I love mine and my daughters little life together. Meanwhile my daughters dad moved halfway across the world and asks for a picture of her once every two months... cool, enjoy your life I guess | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/07/20 09:44 AM |
| 3 | Let him go be with someone on his level.Queen shit | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/07/20 12:15 PM |
| 1 | What do you think of this ladies? Idk where to even start. This seems pretty toxic.This is fine? I think a man is trying to start a conversation with you on Snapchat saying “hiiii” it’s pretty obvious what he wants. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/07/20 08:03 PM |
| 1 | Scrot justifies cat catting and a wild Pickmisha appears on que!(Which I was) WOW JEALOUS | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/07/20 07:41 PM |
| 8 | Scrote is mad no one wants him 😂 bet you he won’t date an overweight woman that’s not at least an 8 on his booksSomeone’s defensive | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/07/20 07:39 PM |
| 10 | LETS 👏 TALK 👏ABOUT👏THIS👏I’m a girl boy twin and my brother is treated so much better than me. Whenever anything goes wrong it’s always my fault. So not an eldest daughter but I kind of get it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/06/20 04:58 PM |
| 6 | LETS 👏 TALK 👏ABOUT👏THIS👏You sound like a good person though, shit situation and I totally sympathize but this reflects good on you. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/06/20 04:57 PM |
| 2 | What’s worse, seeing this on a new parent support subreddit or the women giving him advice 🤮“Please help me understand what to do”. This man isn’t posting because he wants genuine advice, he knows what he’s doing is wrong. He’s posting in the hope that some pickmes will feed his ego and lament how difficult it must be for him and they just need to WoRk It OuT. This is just next level cringe, this guy honestly thinks he’s in the top 1% partners of all time and wants his medal for it. Lmaoooo! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/06/20 12:04 AM |
| 16 | A little levity but entirely HVM behavior lol.I don’t know if I’m puerile or farting is just inherently funny but this made me cry in laughter, this entire thread has hahaha. I totally know what you mean about those farts that you know he must have heard but they pretend not to, but it’s not like you can bring it up | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/06/20 08:02 PM |
| 8 | A little levity but entirely HVM behavior lol.I’m actually crying laughing | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/06/20 08:00 PM |
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