Remember ladies

lillylilacladybug · 2021-03-23T03:18:17+00:00

I once saw a post about a guy trying to get a blow job from a vacuum. Queens you are worth so much more than a household appliance.

GodILoveTheEnglish · 2021-03-23T03:16:22+00:00

PREACH. Male attention is a dime a dozen. You could literally just go to a grocery store and you will unwillingly receive it. Never vie for it.

DifferentBar6 · 2021-03-23T03:37:31+00:00

I'm not flattered, because I don't value their (unwanted) opinion.

They would stick their dick in anything, it's not a compliment.

galian84 · 2021-03-23T10:47:09+00:00

Ugh, remembering back to my pickme days when I was SO flattered by male attention and would do anything to get it, even if it meant chasing THEM. And the majority of them were losers.

Nowadays...male attention just irritates me. Probably because 99% of the time, they’re just interested in sex or anything else they could get from you (money, emotional support etc).

My mom told me when I was younger that “men will stick their dick in anything, don’t be too flattered”. Wish I listened to her more.

giftofnocondemnation · 2021-03-23T03:14:33+00:00

All you will get from male attention is disrespect at best, and abused at worst.

pickadaisy · 2021-03-23T04:46:19+00:00

I’d like to turn it off.

advice1988 · 2021-03-23T11:01:13+00:00

If they compliment/flatter you, just say ‘oh I know’ THEY CANNOT HANDLE IT. You really get to know the ones that can not comprehend someone knowing their worth outside of their estimation / perception of you.

It’s not what they think about you, it’s what you think about THEM.

This mindset allows you to never feel inferior in any situation; personal or professional and focus on yourself.

doc-2-be · 2021-03-23T12:39:38+00:00

I really needed this today. I have a stupid crush on someone and it's making me crazy lol Thanks to FDS for keeping me sane 😂😂🤦🏻‍♀️🤦🏻‍♀️

liberty_5-30000 · 2021-03-23T12:52:06+00:00

Please don’t tell men you are bi or open to anything. Just to get their attention or be cool. You say yes I’ve been with women. They hear. Porn star and think I can live out my sexual fantasy.

I try to remind my daughter and her girlfriends that it is no one business your sexual orientation. Especially not boys you want to date or just be friends with.

My two cents. Thanks

Solid-Liquid · 2021-03-23T09:47:31+00:00

My very obviously extremely lesbian coworker gets hit on by men all the time and she looks like a stud...male attention is worthless.

2021-03-23T12:00:41+00:00

This is the truth. It's why I actively play up my asexuality around them. If they make any sort of innuendo, I act confused and change the subject, they get caught off guard lol.

PurpyPops · 2021-03-23T05:42:46+00:00

Yup! If a man wants our attention he better put his money where his mouth is and chase.

freakfollow · 2021-03-23T22:59:33+00:00

Dick is in low demand and high supply. 🤣

Break_The_Spell · 2021-03-23T11:37:35+00:00

We get male attention just for existing, you don't have to do anything extra.

curiecat · 2021-03-23T22:28:26+00:00

I wish it were easier to internalize this as a young girl. Imagine all the time saved!

EffectiveHoneydew422 · 2021-03-24T05:00:05+00:00

male attention span is micro. You could be riding a unicycle and have 3 boobs and they will only be enthralled for a minute before checking their snaps for more scantily clad girls

Ruby_5lipper · 2021-03-23T13:31:49+00:00

I agree with you completely. However, referring to women as "ladies" is demeaning. "Ladies" refers to comportment - "be a lady," "act more ladylike" - and is demeaning to women because it implies an expectation of how we're "supposed to" act. If your point is that we don't need to act a certain way to achieve attention from men, then don't refer to us as "ladies." Women is the preferred term.

Title	Remember ladies
Author	suckmypussy143
Upvotes	1596
Comments	44
Date	March 23, 2021 3:05 AM UTC (5 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/FemaleDatingStrategy
Original Link	https://old.reddit.com/r/FemaleDatingStrategy/comments/mb53bf/remember_ladies/
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