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There have been women only gyms in Australia for 20 years, nobody ever batted an eye
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/05/21 08:26 AM
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Hahaha! The wall is 25 😂😂😭😭😂😂 Have they not yet established the balding, overweight nature of men's ageing? Goes to show, they're in it for the psychological side of things, not looks. They pretend it's physical appearance so they can hide the fact they don't like the wisdom and intelligence that comes with age - the same wisdom and intelligence that makes these men so unappealing.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/05/21 04:18 AM
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I don't know what the wall is. Not sure I want to.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/05/21 10:42 AM
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"A above average" what? Certainly not above average in your command of the basics of English, that's for sure.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/05/21 10:42 AM
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How many flags would a red flag, flag, if a red flag could flag red? 🚩🚩🚩🚩
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/05/21 08:52 AM
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But it's so LoGiCaL /s
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/05/21 02:39 AM
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Hmmm... I personally think the men on Facebook are worse, because they're so confident that they're happy to put their name and face to their trash. Then again, imagine what they'd say anonymously on Reddit if they're happy to say this publicly 😱
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/05/21 11:43 PM
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I'm glad you broke up with them. At 19, I'd suggest you avoid them altogether, because of this mentality. They view young women as unable to identify their flaming red flags and therefore easy to manipulate. They know better, but they also know that younger women don't. I'm in my 30's and I am yet to meet a man who has made it to 30 without becoming a total emotional clusterfuck. Unfortunately I learned through bitter experience - and they know young women haven't had that experience yet
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/05/21 08:23 AM
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Sounds like an indefinite unpaid internship.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/05/21 05:20 AM
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This was my ex husband, at least 3 nights a week, for 5 years.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/05/21 12:15 AM
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Before I blocked him I went through messages and realised he'd only asked me one single question about myself, other than "How was your day?". Ugh. Nope. I'm slowly getting the hang of FDS.
/r/askFDS05/05/21 11:12 PM
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Good point!
/r/askFDS05/05/21 03:30 AM
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Thank you. I didn't respond, just blocked and deleted.
/r/askFDS04/05/21 09:57 PM
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You're right, I don't need to lower them. He's been booted.
/r/askFDS04/05/21 09:57 PM
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Thanks for that validation. I was doubting myself, thinking I was being too hard, but he did make me feel like he was trying to dominate with no room for movement. Thanks for the support.
/r/askFDS04/05/21 09:56 PM
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You know, I felt uncomfortable and I couldn't put my finger on it (thought I was being "too hard"). But you hit the nail on the head; he did not respect my boundaries. He's blocked and deleted.
/r/askFDS04/05/21 09:55 PM
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He has been dropped! Thanks for the feedback.
/r/askFDS04/05/21 09:54 PM
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Thanks for pointing out that he was not negotiating, I appreciate it. He has been blocked and deleted.
/r/askFDS04/05/21 09:54 PM
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He has been deleted; he had been blocked!
/r/askFDS04/05/21 11:47 AM
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Boundaries, and expecting others to respect them
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/05/21 11:45 AM
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You didn't seem rude at all, I asked because I wanted to know! My OLD experience has been comprised of needy, emotional leeches, love-bombers (failed), men who can't carry a conversation, guys who pretend to be interested for the sake of getting sex, and this guy. I just... I don't know what a decent interaction even looks like. Now I know for sure that this isn't one.
/r/askFDS04/05/21 11:05 AM
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Thank you! That's what my gut told me, I should learn to trust it.
/r/askFDS04/05/21 10:57 AM
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Gotta be in the US, right?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/04/21 07:28 AM
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I am, thank you. Likewise for you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/04/21 01:45 PM
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I was that girl. I married the first man that showed interest in me because I thought I had no value. We need to raise our girls differently 😔
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/04/21 05:21 AM
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Thank you 🤗 I think it's also often not talked about because we, as women, are always stereotyped in so many ways as single mothers. We don't tell people what we experience while we are in an abusive relationship; WE are ashamed and embarrassed by THEIR abuse. And men know this, so when we end it these poor men take on a victim mentality, and we look like yet another "awful wife". It was years before I told friends who he really was, and most didn't believe me. Anyway, here's to the future, to c…
/r/askFDS17/04/21 02:56 AM
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I was young and naive, only 22 when we married. He was always LV, I just grew up and he didn't. You're right about kids motivating you, but I don't see that happen often with men once divorced. My kids dad just proposed to his gf after she put a 20% desposit on a house (not suspicious at all). He is motivated only by his own needs, and quite delusional about the type of dad he is. Any request for financial assistance for his kids is me "trying to sabotage his new life" and gaslighting that cause…
/r/askFDS16/04/21 11:21 PM
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I have children. They are the most wonderful humans, but I'd be lying if I said there isn't an absence of freedom. I do very much value the freedom I do have, perhaps more than those who have it all the time. But it was my choice and consequently is my duty to raise them well, and I'd give up every ounce if I had to. The greater issue, as many have mentioned, is being tied to their father, who emotionally abused me for many years, occasionally physically. He turned up yesterday to pick them up, …
/r/askFDS16/04/21 10:55 PM
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It's exactly the same wirh alcohol addiction, I experienced it myself. We didn't get to therapy the first time because, when my husband went to a GP to get a referral, he came home with a case of beer. The GP had told him, "Sounds like you don't drink enough to be an alcoholic". When he finally went to therapy alone, apparently they told him the same thing. For the next five years, I was screamed at every night and attacked for about every aspect of my character. I was scared every day. And if I…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/04/21 09:41 PM
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Thank you 😊
/r/askFDS15/04/21 01:23 AM
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That's a good point. Thank you for your offer.
/r/askFDS15/04/21 01:03 AM
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Speak for yourself buddy. I'm better now, in every way, than I ever was in my younger years. Also I'm yet to see a man physically improve with age. I love seeing the bald, fat, scruffy men (who used to be the boys who bullied me in high school for being frigid and "fat") do a double take when they see me at the supermarket. Some have even tried to hit me up on social media for a date. Suck it losers.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/04/21 11:22 AM
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The irony is DEAFENING
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/04/21 07:01 AM
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I would personally find family introductions prior to 6 months a red flag, and that's without a pandemic, but I admit I've been stupid enough in the past to think family introductions were a sign from a man that we were in an exclusive, meaningful relationship. It was not. I think it is a great sign that his family knows about you and that his mum sends her well wishes, that's quite nice, and a green flag. He sounds like he's being responsible because of Covid, but also maybe just cautious too, …
/r/askFDS10/04/21 10:19 AM
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That's a lot of words for "I just want to be a fuckboy"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/04/21 06:55 AM
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Ugh, this is so true. Unfortunately my children have had to come on this ride with me. Abusive, alcoholic, low value dad becomes hard working, successful fiance and father figure to his step kids.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/04/21 03:31 AM
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If someone made this up I'd be terrified for their imagination. And yet I am still awaiting the update that this real-life monster is in prison, or in a psychiatric unit at the very least. But no... this woman is the one dealing with the consequences.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/04/21 07:01 AM
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This man is a fucking monster.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/04/21 12:20 AM
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And hence MGTOW* was born, so they can pretend it was their choice 🙄 *clearly yet to figure out the TOW part of it 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/04/21 11:13 PM
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Pleased to report, the women of my generation have changed the system and WE EAT FIRST. We leave the men to figure out for themselves that the food is ready, usually when they hear the clinking of our cutlery.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/04/21 12:36 AM
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When I was growing up, I heard "Let the men eat first, they work so hard". And usually our occasions didn't involve men doing any grilling, just women in the kitchen for days/hours beforehand. Then the men would watch TV and sleep on the couch while the women all cleaned up.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/04/21 10:41 PM
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Woah. That sucks. I've got a male therapist of 11 yearswho reminds me to be vigilant. Last week he said "All men until you know not this man".
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/04/21 10:37 PM
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The fact that this was even a thing is disturbing
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/04/21 10:32 PM
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Oh I feel you, I've been there too many times. Something I'm still learning myself, but putting into practise slowly but surely with thanks to the women in this group; he isn't HV until he shows you with his actions, consistently over a period of time. So far what actions has he taken? I've made that mistake too many times. Actions speak louder than words, and all he has so far is words.
/r/askFDS06/04/21 07:28 AM
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Wow I'm really sorry this is happening to you and those other women. I hope there's some comfort in the fact that he's being charged.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/04/21 10:29 AM
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The worst part is, there are men who are watching this thinking it's EXACTLY how to charm a total stranger. I would probably vomit if a man continually said shit like this to me. Creepfest 5000.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/04/21 10:16 AM
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I had a boyfriend who knew my ex husband had been a regular on tinder... a year into our relationship be became active on tinder 😐 neveragain
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/04/21 09:14 AM
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Personally, my belly. I have been injecting insulin for 14 years, which messes with fat distribution, and I've had two pregnancies and one cesarean. I'm not overweight - underweight if anything - but I've always had a belly. I don't feel too self conscious about it anymore because nobody sees it, and anyone who does will consider it a damn privilege by the time they do. It's also part of who I am, tells my story, and I can't change it. Worrying about what it looks like isn't good for my self est…
/r/askFDS05/04/21 05:55 AM
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I know the quote, but I've been Mega Denial Woman in the past. Not this time! Thank you for your support and words of wisdom!
/r/askFDS05/04/21 05:02 AM
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Thank you for the reassurance that I'm not in "Red flag" territory, although I'm aware there's a long process of vetting. And yeah, I am afraid of love-bombing. But in the past the "niceness" was more about HIM, what HE FELT, what HE NEEDED, what HE WANTED. I didn't recognise it because I'd just come out of an abusive relationship. I have come a long way since then, but still a ways to go. This man doesn't appear to be love bombing, but of course I haven't met him yet. I don't know what the heal…
/r/askFDS05/04/21 03:27 AM
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Thanks for the reminder that this is bare minimum - I've never even seen that before, which is probably why I question it. He already sent me a photo of his license before I even responded. I'm not attaching significance to anything, that would take quite some time. I've got some serious, long term health issues and so I don't have time to invest anything in anyone until I know they're not going anywhere. The one thing I've learnt here - actions speak louder than words. I'll wait for the actions…
/r/askFDS05/04/21 03:23 AM
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Just the tough love I needed! And you aren't wrong, I have a lot to learn. One thing I do have down pat is self love and work, but I am yet to have a man show me exactly who they are and pay adequate attention. No doubt I'll be back here more than once for support along this journey. Vapour and random words - I love it!
/r/askFDS05/04/21 03:19 AM
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I will do. Thank you, I'm clearly lost :/
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/04/21 09:54 PM
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Damn I need this reminder right now!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/03/21 05:55 AM
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Wow that's a great compliment! Thanks, glad you got a kick out of it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/10/20 03:00 AM
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I do, but I bathe in incel tears rather than mud, and burn my own hair rather than coriander. Didn't want to scare them away, ya know?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/10/20 11:17 PM
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