| Upvotes | Title | Category | Author | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 542 | This just in ladies, lazy proposals are the pinnacle of romance and just the best! | PICKME CULTURE | GodILoveTheEnglish | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/09/21 01:05 AM |
| 67 | Scrotes will neg and try to knock beautiful women down a peg, always | MALE DEPRAVITY | GodILoveTheEnglish | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/06/21 02:58 AM |
| Upvotes | Comment on | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
|---|---|---|---|
| 70 | Men tell on themselves the second you refuse to settleOh, absolutely. They're looking for casual sex with a woman who is looking for a serious relationship. It feeds into their insecurity. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/01/22 07:37 AM |
| 42 | Men tell on themselves the second you refuse to settleLMAO true. They don't even do that. They basically do the equivalent of throwing darts at balloons during a carnival and hoping they "win" | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/01/22 07:04 AM |
| 166 | Men tell on themselves the second you refuse to settleThey know that if they write that sex is all they want, they'd get less matches. They'd rather waste their time trying to "woo" you into casual sex than admit that's what they want. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/01/22 02:58 AM |
| 197 | girl whatMen are such golddiggers. I'm glad she has that prenup in place, he thought it was somehow going to benefit him to have it and now he's the one begging for it to be dropped! Too funny. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/01/22 06:41 AM |
| 58 | Why do they keep romanticizing “toxic love” ?"The pain we would face together" UH in one and a half years, you're facing PAIN? Get out of there, sis | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/01/22 05:25 AM |
| 41 | Hot Take: Whenever I see stuff like this, I assume the guy has paedophilic tendencies or has watched too much pornOh, absolutely! I don't want hairless anything... I'm not interested | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/01/22 05:34 AM |
| 380 | Hot Take: Whenever I see stuff like this, I assume the guy has paedophilic tendencies or has watched too much pornThey want you hairless and then expect you to be ok giving a blowjob where you get their scraggly pubic hair in your mouth 💀 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/01/22 03:12 AM |
| 10 | Things like this are becoming more and more common. Squeeze in the wrong area of the neck and she easily could have gotten real brain damage (from the lack of oxygen). Be careful out there ladies.So he strangled her, r*ped her unconscious body, her friends think he’s got serial killer tendencies, and she’s asking if it’s a red flag??? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/12/21 03:37 PM |
| 97 | LVM lining up for cheap, tacky, overpriced jewellery two days before Christmas. The comments are defending them. “bE gRaTeFuL” for the bare minimum? Nah.Mine got my mom pots and pans for her birthday💀 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/12/21 03:20 PM |
| 6 | I drew some more FDS profile pics!EEK so beautiful! Definitely using one <3 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/12/21 07:36 PM |
| 5 | Comments on another sub about a man who confessed to murdering his PREGNANT girlfriend on FB Live and is about to kill his ex-wife too. He accused them of making false accusations to take his kids away. It is SCARY how many comments are so quick to believe this murderer and victim blame.See: That one cop on the Gabby Petito case | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/12/21 08:34 AM |
| 5 | Comments on another sub about a man who confessed to murdering his PREGNANT girlfriend on FB Live and is about to kill his ex-wife too. He accused them of making false accusations to take his kids away. It is SCARY how many comments are so quick to believe this murderer and victim blame.“I refuse to see any man as less than a threat from here on out.” Thank you for saying this, me too. Yes all men until they prove otherwise. My mindset towards them is “guilty until proven innocent.” | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/12/21 08:30 AM |
| 10 | Comments on another sub about a man who confessed to murdering his PREGNANT girlfriend on FB Live and is about to kill his ex-wife too. He accused them of making false accusations to take his kids away. It is SCARY how many comments are so quick to believe this murderer and victim blame.“I’m not supporting murder” proceeds to support murder | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/12/21 08:28 AM |
| 13 | I have cripplingly low self esteem.I agree with the other comments about addressing the addiction first, that’s your first step! You’ve already made a big stride in that area by admitting it to yourself. It can be tricky for us women to want to stay fit and healthy without thinking about it in the terms of “this will make me LOOK good” as opposed to doing it to be healthy. I don’t have good advice for getting you started, I’m trying to figure that out myself, but when you do, pay attention to how it makes you feel. Eating well an… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/12/21 04:15 AM |
| 16 | The kids are gonna be alright! (Scroll for comments)I’m cracking up so much over here. “Okay grandpa” gen z and gen alpha kids take no prisoners | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/12/21 03:30 AM |
| 26 | “Cuddling”Reading this with my kitty in my lap - full agree. It’s much better | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/12/21 03:26 AM |
| 276 | SeX iS eXpEcTeD - Man is trying to coerce9 woman to have sex with him and everyone is cool with this??“I doubt a grown man is going to date a woman for 5+ months just to have sex and leave her” … have they ever MET a man? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/12/21 03:20 AM |
| 30 | He wanted a free prostitute… he was ditched and ghosted instead 😂the person thinking we were soulmates after chatting briefly about the weather There's nothing more romantic than relating on how dreary the rain outside is! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/11/21 09:56 AM |
| 58 | He wanted a free prostitute… he was ditched and ghosted instead 😂Lord give me strength after hearing this 😭 Thank Goddess, you got out of there safely | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/11/21 09:54 AM |
| 70 | He wanted a free prostitute… he was ditched and ghosted instead 😂There's been horrible dates I was stuck on, because I let them pick me up! Great advice. Never let them pick you up. Meet them. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/11/21 06:18 AM |
| 306 | He wanted a free prostitute… he was ditched and ghosted instead 😂You have to be the worst kind of scrote for a woman to literally sneak out of your date! Big yikes. Also notice how he throws in how the reason is probably because the exotic sports car that he *totally* has isn't as nice as the exotic sports car he saw in her snap story, LMAO! Delusion | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/11/21 04:22 AM |
| 196 | All men are predators and misogynists until proven otherwise. Period.To summarize: VET. Vet always. Vet today’s actions, vet tomorrow’s actions, vet yesterday’s actions, vet the actions from years ago. Vet actions forever. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/11/21 03:01 AM |
| 23 | Ladies, please do not sleep with a man early on. This is what will happen.Goodness, this really makes me so… I don’t even know the word. Sad? Angered? Whatever it is, it’s not good. Ladies, this is why we vet and wait before we give intimacy. That doesn’t only include sex - don’t give a man your anything until he’s shown that he’s worth it and going to do the same! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/11/21 02:44 AM |
| 6 | Is Taylor Swift a “Forever Girlfriend”It's in her video for "You Need To Calm Down" | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/11/21 06:49 PM |
| 57 | Guy I was talking to defends his misogynistic comments and covers them up as banter and jokes with his friends and tells me if I won’t accept him then to leave which I did. I can’t accept him for who he is because I don’t reward pornsick, misogynistsIt's funny when they tell you to go so much, they don't really expect you to do it. He probably thought you'd immediately bend to his whim at the thought of "losing" him. Good on you for getting rid of this boy. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/11/21 04:33 AM |
| 41 | if a beaver can wash his butt, pits, and balls then so can your bfNooOOOoo you don't understand! He can't wash his skin with soap because he's allergic!!! He can't touch his ass to clean it , that would be gay!! /s | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/10/21 11:08 AM |
| 10 | What a Pick Me's future looks likeFfs lol. This is too accurate | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/10/21 11:06 AM |
| 182 | Could you imagine the outrage if women routinely turned down sex with their partners to watch porn and masturbate? How did that become something we have to accept from men?"Women don’t experience less satisfaction with our partners when exposed to hot men." Because when we see a hot man, we don't excessively and obsessively masturbate to them. We don't save their pictures to get off to and then get bored and find another hot man to get off to. We see a hot man, appreciate it, and move on. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/10/21 11:05 AM |
| 4 | I wouldn't touch that guy with a ten foot stick after he pulled this kind of shit. He agrees to pay first date if she pays for the next, she ends up being footed with a bill 4x what he paid.The cringe that enveloped my body as she kept telling her story…. Whew. The disrespect | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/10/21 11:21 PM |
| 5 | FDS is BACK!OH my gosh I'm so excited for the "Flirting Tips" and "Meet Cute Stories" flairs!!!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/10/21 09:38 AM |
| 30 | Ground Rules - Take it Or Leave ItFirst off let me say, I'm so glad the sub is back! I've been missing it. Second, I want to say that I appreciate this post and agree with it. "A lot of you newbies thought that the "ruthless strategist" flair the mod team has is just a cute nickname instead of a promise." EXACTLY! I still have a newbie flair, and hello other newbies, do you know why that is? Because there is a standard here that you can't BS and flub your way through, and that is a good thing. It keeps the sub about what it's su… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/10/21 09:32 AM |
| 110 | Racist scrote had it comingCrazy how these days males can just tack “play” and “kink” onto horrendous things and get away with it. Raceplay? No, you’re just a racist. Ageplay? No, you’re just a pedophile. BDSM? No, you just like to abuse. They really think just because it makes their pp hard and some poor girl says yes, that it makes it okay. Sorry but just because she said yes does not mean you are not a racist/pedo/abuser for being into racism/pedophilia/abuse | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/10/21 02:14 PM |
| 44 | It’s easy to be generous with people you love.Honestly though, thank God he put it out in the open and you can weed him out in seconds | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/10/21 03:20 AM |
| 118 | It’s easy to be generous with people you love.If going tit for tat is your idea of generosity in a relationship, congratulations, you are not generous! I can't think of one single time where I have been generous expecting something in return. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/10/21 03:19 AM |
| 110 | Men playing victimIt happens soooo much. Especially that texting thing, ugh. No - I do not feel bad because I did not text you for a few hours. I have other things to do. Don't triple text me, and don't try to guilt me because I didn't reply to you lol. See also: Women bringing up how much men r@!# us and them being like "but what about the women who make false accusations :/" as if that ever really happens as much as they think. as if that ever happened to them, and as if women reporting it ever get taken seriou… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/10/21 03:17 AM |
| 187 | The straw that broke the camels back for me, and what has turned me angry and bitter against men is not only the abuse they've subjected me to, but the fact that I'm 28 years old and no man has never even gifted me a bouquet.I feel you on this. I've never received flowers from a partner. They are such an easy gift, too. Like they can go so low-effort and pick them up from a grocery store and yet they still don't, it's yikes "You attract what you put out" yeah yeah whatever, don't listen to the Pickmeishas. Scrotes come in droves even if you aren't "putting out" anything at all. How any woman could not see that is foreign to me | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/10/21 03:08 AM |
| 128 | That’s all women are good for, porn genreIf only the world were not controlled by scrotes | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/10/21 05:07 AM |
| 79 | Ladies - NEVER let anyone control your income and spending. Financial abuse is still abuse.“My husband (40) and I (25)” I almost spit out my drink. Red flags all around | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/10/21 10:02 PM |
| 85 | What part of leave me alone do LVM not get?I think “pick better men” is my favourite argument about FDS because like… dating strategy… it’s in the name…. They can’t even read | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/10/21 02:30 PM |
| 118 | This dude is SHOCKED his wife is mad about him wanting to miss a wedding for a football game that he isn’t even going to!! Thankfully he gets roasted in the comments.He ends it asking if he’s a VICTIM. My sides | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/10/21 02:28 PM |
| 12 | Weekly FDS Check-inYES! We’re proud of you, too | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/09/21 09:39 PM |
| 9 | Weekly FDS Check-inWow!! Your dream job. What an achievement. Proud of you and wishing you the best of luck in your healing <3 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/09/21 09:39 PM |
| 9 | Weekly FDS Check-inCongratulations! Rooting for you :) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/09/21 09:38 PM |
| 11 | Never answer this question. Ever!Can’t ignore advice from a granny! They’ve been dealing with scrotes for a long, long time | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/09/21 09:37 PM |
| 63 | An Ex bf keeps looking at my LinkedIn profileUgh, sorry to hear about this. How irritating, and embarrassing (on his part.) Does LinkedIn have a block feature? I’ve barely used it myself, but I’d hope it does. I have gone through something similar. My NVX from when I was FIFTEEN takes it upon himself to try to contact me every once in a while. I’ve deleted social medias, remade accounts under different names, but still he finds me. He even once sent me $1 on paypal with a whole paragraph :| My only advice is ignore and block, block, block! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/09/21 09:36 PM |
| 158 | If you notice yourself wishing you could give a man “the benefit of the doubt”, it’s your sign to DROP him. You’re TOO invested & that just won’t do.Don’t give a man the “benefit of the doubt.” Who does that actually benefit? Not you, queen. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/09/21 03:22 AM |
| 31 | Saying she post on FDS isn't an insult to me, there is a reason this is my main account IDC.Yep - no shame. I’m a part of FDS and pretty damn proud of myself for it! Taking bullshit from scrotes is not a part of my pastimes anymore, seeing through their shit and weeding them out is. Why would I be ashamed of that? Like “omg you post on a subreddit that helps you better yourself and hold others up to standards!” Wow! What an insult!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/09/21 03:20 AM |
| 6 | This is who really gets empowered by sex work.“Sometimes the women keep looking at the clock. That’s a real buzz kill” well stop fuckin r*ping them then | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/08/21 08:37 PM |
| 242 | LVM Moocher!! Thank GOODNESS she got some solid advice in the comments to DROP! THAT! SCROOOOTE!Red flag #1 - You didn’t give him your number, he got it from someone else without your permission Red flag #2 - He “really likes you” “he really wants this” Girl, what do YOU want? ETA: he doesn’t even know you! How can he “really like” you??? Red flag #3 - he’s saying he wants to “take you out” but says it’s going to be on your dime. What the hell? That’s not taking you out, that’s you taking him out when you wouldn’t have entertained him for a date if he didn’t creepily obtain your number Pic… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/08/21 03:44 AM |
| 1 | What are your experiences dating neurodivergent men?Thanks for explaining it to me :) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/07/21 11:42 PM |
| 10 | Mike Pishek.Those EYES! 🤤🔥 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/07/21 09:28 PM |
| 22 | Men accepting criticism: Green flag.Love to see it. Green flag posts are my favourite, thanks for sharing! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/07/21 12:08 AM |
| 45 | Oh no honey, that’s not something to be proud ofHope she bought some gold stickers too for her manchild! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/07/21 12:06 AM |
| 279 | I’m not advocating robbery, but…Had me in the first half 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/07/21 12:03 AM |
| 2 | Dealing with the realization that I'm a PickmeshaSo happy to have you here. I completely understand the guilt, I’ve been there too. But now that you’ve found FDS, you’re going to learn a lot and you’re going to be able to apply it well and you can become a HV Queen. Check out r/femalelevelupstrategy as well for help navigating your way ❤️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/06/21 11:54 PM |
| 58 | Yet another reason to avoid dating apps.18 year old me is cringing. I used to just get into strange mens cars and go to their houses!!! Ugh I so wish I had FDS back then. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/06/21 02:06 AM |
| 25 | Yet another reason to avoid dating apps.Courts will say she was “asking for it” “wanted it” “consented” solely for agreeing to go out with him. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/06/21 02:05 AM |
| 45 | Yet another reason to avoid dating apps.Hell yes. And never let a man make you feel bad for treating him with wariness. It is ALL men, until proven otherwise. If any man tries to make you feel bad for this, it’s because he is part of that group of men. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/06/21 02:03 AM |
| 71 | I Like How She Handled This 😂The sick thing is that even if you fake those things to get out of it, there is males who are turned on by puke/poop/periods 😕🤢 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/06/21 04:27 AM |
| 38 | I Like How She Handled This 😂Lmfao I hope she dumped this lazy scrote. How gross. If a man ever tried to get me to give him oral before I’ve had an orgasm, I’m kicking him out of bed ✋😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/06/21 04:26 AM |
| 43 | This is super sad — but scrotes say it’s just a “preference” right? Porn does sick things to the brainThey’ll really be like “I’m a butt guy” and then not wash their own asses | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/06/21 01:05 AM |
| 84 | The fact that she thinks trying to work things out is an optionHow much y’all wanna bet that other comments were saying she should just “CoMmUnIcAtE” | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/06/21 04:15 AM |
| 17 | Oh, honey... 😣Oh no, girl… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/06/21 04:07 AM |
| 58 | Absolutely brain dead, outrageous, and pathetic conversation between pickmes and scrotesYup. Also being sexualized. So gross | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/06/21 02:03 AM |
| 42 | Absolutely brain dead, outrageous, and pathetic conversation between pickmes and scrotesI am SO happy to hear that. However I’m not so happy with the thought of what toll being with a man like this is going to take on her and her child… I hope for the best for her | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/06/21 02:03 AM |
| 123 | Absolutely brain dead, outrageous, and pathetic conversation between pickmes and scrotesThey want to nut in a woman, have her carry their child for 9 months, and they don’t even have the decency to f%cking respect her wishes? Don’t they know stress can be devastating to a woman in labour? And others are ON HIS SIDE? 🤢 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/06/21 01:34 AM |
| 13 | Memes w facts showcasing harms of stripping/sex work etc.I tried to read this but mans is going off. None of it makes sense at all | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/06/21 01:03 AM |
| 30 | Straight men are faking their deep voices 😂HAHAHA this is so funny. Faking a deep voice, how pathetic could you get 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/06/21 01:01 AM |
| 30 | Men are grossEw it would take like one or two squares. Like wtf | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/06/21 11:03 PM |
| 9 | Ahh I see why your last relationship ended. NEXT!!Translation: “Take care of me and tell me what to do with my life and coddle me because I am incapable of doing it myself” | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/06/21 03:05 AM |
| 36 | Indian "influencer" has a conversation with a follower about contraception. Men have no idea what female contraception entails. He then goes and asks for testimonials from women in his life after getting dragged on social media"unlimited unprotected sex" does he think that an IUD protects against STIs??? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/06/21 09:18 PM |
| 3 | Bumble BFF is full of pickmeishas, MLM scammers and wannabe “influencers” 🙋🏻♀️🙋🏾♀️🙋🏿♀️🙋🏼♀️🙋🏽♀️there's an FDS discord??? That is actually a pretty decent verification system! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/05/21 06:39 AM |
| 75 | A question?"What is the use of getting into relationship with men or having sex with them, if they are like this?" There is no use imo. This is why you vet, vet, vet. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/05/21 10:14 AM |
| 5 | Burak Özçivit 😍 Turkish model and actorwowza 🤤 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/05/21 10:13 AM |
| 150 | The wall is real. For men. Exhibit #7777 😉If this isn’t proof idk what is 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/05/21 05:24 AM |
| 111 | FDS Mods checking out our subscriber growth every time the RedditCels mass upvote a rage post about how horrible we areSo many of us found our way here because of the rage posts! I know I did! They’re highly entertaining to see and they bring more women our way to level up, it’s pretty funny. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/05/21 03:32 AM |
| 87 | This bio is sad"Future Police Officer" "Straight Man" "Never Getting Married" "I play video games" "I love watching anime" Damn! He hit the scrote bingo! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/05/21 08:35 AM |
| 24 | Women thrive without men, men perish without women, not the other way aroundThe amount of deleteds! Lmao mods pls, post some onto superfans. I need to see the rage! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/05/21 12:28 AM |
| 5 | Pickme Poodle 🐩🥴 goes on walkies!! 🐶😩💦SCOOBY SNACKS 💀 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/05/21 05:00 AM |
| 14 | More food for thought <333I agree. I especially like fun lipstick colours. Blue, green, black! And a lot of men I’ve encountered hate them, that’s a bonus! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/05/21 12:35 AM |
| 4 | First time buying myself flowers, no special reason necessary.Even if it was needed, well, the special reason is being your amazing self <3 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/05/21 05:13 AM |
| 38 | Women are being shamed online for having standards nowPickmes. Pickmes everywhere. Uhhh sure, the thought counts. And his thought is that he can get you some cheapass ring that will turn your finger green, then lie about its authenticity and get away with it. Yes. It matters if it’s real. If a man ever buys me jewelry that isn’t quality, he ain’t my man. Not to mention the ex was deemed “worthy” of real jewels and she isn’t? Yikes on bikes. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/05/21 06:10 AM |
| 24 | Have you seen the male-targeted ads on this subreddit?Yep. See many ads for dick pills and onlyfans. No thanks! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/04/21 04:18 AM |
| 785 | Every “girls should make the first move!!” Post in a nutshell 🌰 🥜Approaching a male first back in my pickme days has never worked out. If they think someone as great as yourself will go after them, then they just expect someone better to do the same ¯\_(ツ)_/¯ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/04/21 02:48 AM |
| 26 | All the men in the replies saying that it's unfair, getting immediately shut down 💅Oh god could you imagine | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/04/21 06:07 AM |
| 40 | Most men these days are homiesexualYeah for sure. Lemme point out the saying that "Saturday is for the boys!" | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/04/21 06:10 AM |
| 9 | Don’t let society or Reddit tell you that spending money on an engagement ring/wedding is foolish!I hear this argument that “A nice wedding will put us in debt!” Uhhh then why are you getting married? Boy sort your finances | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/04/21 12:27 AM |
| 12 | Don’t let society or Reddit tell you that spending money on an engagement ring/wedding is foolish!Same 👀 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/04/21 12:25 AM |
| 3 | What are your experiences dating neurodivergent men?I mean, if you think so, but they’re still all categorized as a disorder. ADHD - Attention deficit hyperactivity disorder. Autism - Autism spectrum disorder. OCD - obsessive compulsive disorder. PTSD - post traumatic stress disorder. CPTSD - complex post traumatic stress disorder. Depression - depressive disorder. Anxiety- general anxiety disorder or social anxiety disorder. BD, BPD, NPD, ASPD - all personality disorders. The definition of disorder is “an illness or condition that disrupts norma… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/04/21 05:00 AM |
| 0 | What are your experiences dating neurodivergent men?Well, actually, yeah it is. If you have a disorder then you’re ill... that’s just the truth. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/04/21 04:36 AM |
| 140 | Period 👏🏻HELL. YESS. Date as much as you want, at the same time. If you aren’t willing to be official and commit to eventually put a ring on it, then I’m gonna vet and see what other males will. They really think they’re special and want your exclusivity while they’re out there entertaining any woman they can get their hands on. Nah, boy. I’m out here testing my options. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/04/21 03:27 AM |
| 140 | Any viable use cases for this, like filing a police report?Idk. I’d guess it depends where you are? If you’re a minor, then yeah, maybe you could file a police report (that, let’s be honest, would probably go nowhere) but I can’t imagine cops would care about adult women being sexually harassed with dick pics because they probably do it themselves lmao | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/04/21 03:15 AM |
| 5 | What are your experiences dating neurodivergent men?Personally, no. I don’t think neurodivergent people can be incredible partners. I’ve dealt with, dated, and been with way too many neurodivergent men and women, and I NEVER had a good experience. They aren’t healthy. For some, they never will be. Unless they’ve controlled their symptoms and not shown them for multiple years ON THEIR OWN, not while depending on somebody or getting help from anyone that isn’t a doctor or licensed therapist, then there is no point. Mental illness is not something I… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/04/21 02:57 AM |
| 48 | Getting away with murderI... I feel like laughing and crying at the same time out of sheer ridiculousness. What the actual hell? “Oh he only beat her til she BLED, there’s no way he would have killed her!!!” That jury needs to take their clown makeup off and rethink their lives. I’m so pissed hearing about this. I have to wonder, was the jury made up of mainly males? I know nothing about the process and whether or not they select equal males and women. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/04/21 02:45 AM |
| 8 | Guys who have a problem with sex during your period are LVMI actually just found out they existed like 3 days ago, I’m waiting for my next cycle to try them out! There is one or two companies out there that make reusable ones in different sizes, but they are a little pricey for something that you’re unsure about! I’d take a look at the menstrual discs sub to see how other women feel about it 😄 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/04/21 10:59 PM |
| 4 | Some nonsense, and people calling it out lmaoTo add to this, you ever seen when they have crusty bottles of 3-in-1 in the shower so you can tell it hasn't been replaced in a LONG time 🤢 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/04/21 10:03 PM |
| 35 | The Benefits of Living Alone vs living with a LVMI don't understand the intense anger when playing video games when you're an adult. Yelling, hitting things, nearly breaking your PC or console controllers. Why do you play things that make you angry? Like just turn it off lol | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/04/21 09:50 PM |
| 74 | Guys who have a problem with sex during your period are LVMUgh this. I started my period once during sex and the guy literally freaked tf out and ran to the shower. Didn't offer for me to join, and didn't help me get a tampon (I had none) so I had to use TP. 0/10 NEVER recommend. Not to mention, if you're the one bleeding and it freaks you out a bit, there are other options (like menstrual discs) to help in that department. Lay a dark towel down and go for it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/04/21 09:19 PM |
| 32 | It's okay to be sad that you're singleI read the title and first sentiment of this ready to state things that I feel disproved these pickme thoughts. But then I read your whole post, and, yeah! It’s so prominent in all media targeted towards young girls that “prince charming” and “happily ever after” are the goal. But once you realize those things are just fairytales, not based in truth, it can hurt. A lot. So many of us women truly, really thought that there would be some person out there that would sweep us off our feet, be a perf… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/04/21 05:58 AM |
| 87 | My dreams were BS.Romance yourself, galavant around the world yourself, and create your own dreams. Settle down in the mountains. Do what you want to do. Never let a LVM hold you back from that, or put your plans on pause. You can do it all yourself, and much easier might I add than if you had a scrote dragging you down 🙏🏼 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/04/21 04:59 AM |
| 31 | Men Pushing Pregnancy During DatingIt’s just something to hold over you for the rest of your life. Drop him. Your views aren’t compatible, and he sounds pushy. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/04/21 04:53 AM |
| 190 | I live in a van down by the river - is this a turn off?"houseless on purpose" - funny way to say you're homeless "no problem finding those pixie wanderlust fairies" - you mean a near underage manic pixie dream girl? "would you date a fit, friendly, financially secure Canadian guy who just so happens to live in a custom van?" - fuck no. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/04/21 12:51 PM |
| 9 | FDS PODCAST UPDATE: we're going to start doing interviews!I’d really like to hear some interviews from FDS members themselves, how FDS has helped them, success stories, levelling up, etc. I think it’d be really nice! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/04/21 11:40 AM |
| 43 | This image circulating Reddit made me peak and go full FDS.“EVERYONE watches porn!!!” No, no they don’t. There are a lot of us women, that don’t get off on coercion and prostitution of women. We don’t get off on women’s fake pleasure. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/04/21 06:22 AM |
| 2 | The reason some men are so awful is because pick-mes let them get away with using and disrespecting them.Super late response here. I do agree it was like this for Gen X, or course. That’s the truth for any generation of women. But let’s not pretend that this isn’t something worse for young women being raised in the day and age of internet and easily accessible pornography. Let’s not pretend that Gen Z men aren’t the most depraved and pornsick that men have ever been. They are men that were literally raised by shit LVM, and raised on easily accessible porn. They were raised by men that don’t respect… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/04/21 06:11 AM |
| 2 | Always block and delete at the first sign of inconsistency 💅🏻I agree with the message but not a fan of the racial slur used here | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/04/21 05:58 AM |
| 66 | Don't do "quickies".Oof flashbacks to being 18 and planning a date to see a fireworks show, him being late and thus missing the show, he takes me back to his place not to continue the date but so he wouldn’t miss his WoW raid, and then has the audacity to ask for a quickie. Eww | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/04/21 06:08 PM |
| 8 | Why it’s block AND deleteThis is a part of why I deleted social media where I'm personally identifiable. I can't contact them and they can't contact me. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/04/21 02:55 AM |
| 24 | Maybe I'm old, but I just don't understand. Why send nudes?I'm so sorry to hear that :( I hope you're doing okay <3 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/04/21 02:54 AM |
| 13 | I’m pissed. Had to scroll a long way down to find some sanity in this thread. “MeN gEt AbUsEd ToO!” Newsflash, women don’t get taken seriously, either.They really, truly believe, with their whole bodies, that there is really justice for women when it comes to abuse. How could they be so delusional? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/04/21 07:27 PM |
| 151 | The increasing number of men such as him scare meOh, sis. He wants to r~pe you. I hope she never goes back to him. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/04/21 11:53 AM |
| 481 | The sad truth.Ugh. It's so true, and males like Donald Glover can stand up and make jokes about it and that's the only time males will ever listen to it... but then they'll take it as a joke like "haha yeah I bet!" and then do nothing to change it | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/04/21 08:53 AM |
| 324 | The reason some men are so awful is because pick-mes let them get away with using and disrespecting them.I feel so bad for Gen Z women. They are in the height of N/LVM men being the norm, but they're still too young to know better. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/04/21 07:49 AM |
| 6 | Not to mention there can be professional repercussions for not performing femininityMe too! I stopped caring a few years ago and I haven’t looked back. Besides, if I ever feel like I need to hide my hair (I never feel like it) then I’ll just throw on some tights and call it a day. Not going back to razor burn and freaking out because I missed a small patch of hair, no thanks! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/04/21 12:08 AM |
| 109 | Poor woman.Do my eyes deceive me or is she dressed up as an underage Britney Spears from the ...Baby one more time video? Disgusting. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/04/21 03:44 AM |
| 743 | Not even surprisedWhat was that statistic again? Women are 6x more likely than men to be divorced if they are diagnosed with cancer? Yeah... Can't imagine how much worse that statistic could be for forever gfs | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/04/21 08:21 AM |
| 51 | Women’s pain as entertainment allowed on Instagram 🤢ew I just looked at this account to report it and found that people I follow, also follow this. Easy block. I'm disgusted. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/04/21 06:51 AM |
| 31 | Women’s pain as entertainment allowed on Instagram 🤢I'm willing to say the other 30% is 25% men pretending to be women/hiding behind fake accounts, and the other 5% are pickmeishas | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/04/21 06:45 AM |
| 32 | "I look like a goblin but I want a thin princess" smh 😂😂😂"cute" "sexy" haha where though | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/04/21 06:43 AM |
| 25 | "I look like a goblin but I want a thin princess" smh 😂😂😂I screeched at this omg | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/04/21 06:41 AM |
| 40 | "I look like a goblin but I want a thin princess" smh 😂😂😂Omg, same. I was like "30? That's not too bad!" Then I did a double take and was like, holy f*** that's 15 years his junior. Disgusting. I'll bet at 30 he also wanted 15 year olds lmao | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/04/21 06:40 AM |
| 71 | Reason #6567 why being single is better than settling.It happens before the first grey hair, because scrotes only want to entertain young women (or should I say, literal underdeveloped children?) Maybe a better wording would be "til I find a younger barely-adult woman that reminds me of a pornstar do us part" | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/04/21 06:32 AM |
| 66 | Reddit men love getting their egos strokedLOL! My answer to that is, literally nothing. Nothing will bring me to have sex with such a scrote. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/04/21 06:30 AM |
| 57 | If a man is not going down on you for AS LONG AS IT TAKES then he ain’t worth shitNah, you can judge it. A real HVM doesn't view sex as a transaction. He doesn't view it like "Well I gave her head for 5 seconds so she has to give me head without a condom for an hour" (most scrotes do view it that way) These rules apply to all women. Don't exclude yourself from it. Sex isn't transactional. If you're not comfortable giving head but you're comfortable receiving it, a true HVM will be perfectly fine with that because it is NOT a transaction. He will want to please you. Males stil… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/04/21 06:26 AM |
| 45 | Don't marry grown children, ladies...I almost have no words for this. A BOUNCY HOUSE? I would hope that a lot of children were going to be present, but I'd bet big that he went in the bouncy house himself, lmao. That poor woman. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/04/21 05:16 AM |
| 171 | Reddit men love getting their egos strokedYou're so right. I think someone posted a SS here of that post! I'm not even convinced it was written by a woman. I think it was probably just some scrote that wanted to feel better about his deep, deep insecurity, and his pornsickness. The males on the post... I have to laugh! Imagine telling on yourself that you can't last a minute in bed | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/04/21 05:11 AM |
| 48 | How is ass guy and boob guy a thing but a height/ abs/ beard gal is not?This except I'm not joking 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/04/21 03:05 AM |
| 38 | Male Coworker said his wife is ok with porn so it’s not sexist of him to use/buy porn.“One single woman said it’s okay if I do something extremely sexist, therefore it’s not sexist!1!1!1!!” | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/04/21 09:58 PM |
| 18 | This is how men view women. Apparently Marilyn Monroe is not even average without make up, and looks disgusting and like a man. Just another fine example how all LVM can do is reduce a woman to her looks.How much money y’all wanna bet that none of these scrotes have been or could be near ANY woman let alone a woman of Marilyn’s calibre | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/04/21 09:56 PM |
| 6 | Update: I dumped him!I just looked at the post you mentioned and now I must scrub my eyes after reading the line “Watching r~pe porn is fine” | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/04/21 02:50 AM |
| 6 | Found on a dating app sub— “how freakin cool would it be if men just farted on me all of the time? 😍😍😍”HAHA why do I relate so hard to this | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/04/21 03:41 AM |
| 94 | Why are so many of them OBSESSED with heightFlaired "single" ahahaha i wonder why? could it be the blatant insecurity? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/04/21 03:32 AM |
| 72 | I don't know who needs to see this today, but never believe men when they lie about condoms being too small for them.If he doesn’t have condoms already that are his own size and fit him, throw him in the trash | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/04/21 01:40 AM |
| 50 | Love her certainty and confidence.Is there a part 2? I want to hear the rest of her list! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/04/21 07:46 AM |
| 38 | Love her certainty and confidence.In this same vein, I have this weird rule of not dating anyone with four letter names... It seems totally silly, but it hasn't failed me once. Remember ladies, any boundary is a valid boundary 😁 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/04/21 07:45 AM |
| 2 | This is really sad but it's exactly the kind of realities we try to warn people to protect themselves against. Sorry if somebody really cares about you they're going to make sure that you're taken care of even if they die. She shacked up with him no ring, no life insurance policy and no help. SadAbsolutely. It’s a different experience and journey for any woman, and we all hear the stories of how often it is negative than not. It really has been proven as another way that women can be controlled and left in the dust. It’s scary. But again, that’s why I stand by my previous points about having full commitment and ironclad prenups before babies! Whatever works for you as an FDS queen, whether it’s something I disagree with like being pregnant before agreeing to get married, I wish you all … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/04/21 07:41 AM |
| 32 | "But everyone obviously knows r#pe is bad!"men always seem to have this belief that being falsely accused of r~pe is common, and disregarded. They genuinely think that being falsely accused of r~pe is more likely than being r~ped. They genuinely think it's worse to be "falsely accused" (as if that really ever happens) than to be r~ped. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/04/21 07:33 AM |
| 2 | This is really sad but it's exactly the kind of realities we try to warn people to protect themselves against. Sorry if somebody really cares about you they're going to make sure that you're taken care of even if they die. She shacked up with him no ring, no life insurance policy and no help. SadThat's alright, thanks for understanding! I get where you're coming from. I didn't think about that aspect, I understand why it would make someone uncomfortable to commit to such a historically and, pretty currently, patriarchal thing. It has been used and abused as a way to "own" women. We should all write wills, for sure, and get them put into place with a lawyer. In the same vein, I think we should write rock solid, diamond strength pre-nups that ensure we get our fair share, should a divorce… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/04/21 07:17 AM |
| 2 | This is really sad but it's exactly the kind of realities we try to warn people to protect themselves against. Sorry if somebody really cares about you they're going to make sure that you're taken care of even if they die. She shacked up with him no ring, no life insurance policy and no help. SadGuess I'm just of the opinion that you should have a male be committed to you by "contract" that ensures your safety before carrying his child. Also, please don't address me as "man", that makes me uncomfortable! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/04/21 06:57 AM |
| 5 | This is really sad but it's exactly the kind of realities we try to warn people to protect themselves against. Sorry if somebody really cares about you they're going to make sure that you're taken care of even if they die. She shacked up with him no ring, no life insurance policy and no help. SadOh totally! I'm just saying, don't think a man's care is making a GIRLFRIEND (not wife) his beneficiary. He's lying. It doesn't show care. Care would be marrying you and making sure that you're the first on the list, above his family. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/04/21 06:10 AM |
| 21 | It’s never truly 50/50"A laundry list of high quality skin care products including Alpha Hydroxy Acid, Hyaluronic Acid, Salicylic Acid, Kojic Acid, all the acids ( God, who knows? Hundreds of dollars/year)" How much y'all wanna bet the average scrote doesn't even know what these words mean? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/04/21 06:08 AM |
| 8 | This is really sad but it's exactly the kind of realities we try to warn people to protect themselves against. Sorry if somebody really cares about you they're going to make sure that you're taken care of even if they die. She shacked up with him no ring, no life insurance policy and no help. SadI mean, sure? But nah you should always get a marriage before living with a male. His family probably isn't supportive *because* they weren't married. And even if he says you're the beneficiary on his life insurance even though you're not married? Don't believe him. It's easily written off, especially by family that is technically more entitled to his estate than you, a girlfriend, is, and that is when these situations occur. Never move in before marriage, let alone BUY A HOUSE with them, becaus… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/04/21 05:50 AM |
| 14 | As she should. Abuse is not a joke.Damn I wish she did 😄 These woman abusers deserve to be kicked in the balls and incapacitated. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/04/21 05:38 AM |
| 56 | As she should. Abuse is not a joke.What is he laughing at? A woman being blatantly abused ON CAMERA??? The fuck is wrong with these men? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/04/21 05:37 AM |
| 96 | As she should. Abuse is not a joke."If that were me, she wouldn’t have gotten up.” Just more proof that men are waiting for the opportunity to beat women. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/04/21 05:36 AM |
| 69 | In my worst Pickmeisha days, I was so proud of being low-maintenance 🤦🤦🤦I also used to pride myself on being "low maintenance". But all that means is that you're willing to take any bullshit that comes your way no matter how bad it is. When men say they don't want or like "high maintenance" women, what they really mean is they don't want to put in any effort. They don't want to respect boundaries. They do not want a woman that isn't okay with being treated like shit. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/04/21 05:32 AM |
| 25 | This is really sad but it's exactly the kind of realities we try to warn people to protect themselves against. Sorry if somebody really cares about you they're going to make sure that you're taken care of even if they die. She shacked up with him no ring, no life insurance policy and no help. SadSo sad. Never move in with a man unless he put a ring on it. And not just put a ring on it - actually married you. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/04/21 05:29 AM |
| 4 | Cringe at me, sisters! Cringey pick me and cool girl behaviors I've done, a master list.I’m late to reply to this, but thank you so much for the support. All of you women keep me strong. I’d say that I’m sorry that you’re NC with your dad, but I’m not, because I know there’s a damn good reason you’re NC with him and I can only be proud for you. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/04/21 04:40 AM |
| 10 | The Kardasians are the ultimate pickmeasMy belief is that NEITHER woman should get dragged. I think both are a victim of the patriarch. And a large part of that patriarch is pushing women into looking like "porn-perfect girls" and encouraging them to promote that mindset. Make the young women feel like there's some perfect standard that they have to meet. Belle and Kylie are both less than 25 years of age. I can't personally see any other way but to feel sorry for them. Maybe they know what they're promoting, on the surface, but I'm n… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/03/21 07:49 AM |
| 5 | The Kardasians are the ultimate pickmeasI know Kylie "only" put 5k towards it... as if that's not a huge contribution in itself... She is absolutely, as much as her much older family told her to be, a wealth hoarder. I mean, obviously nobody is ethical to hoard wealth, but are you seriously going to sit there and tell me that a woman who doesn't have a fully developed brain is responsible for the things her family pushed her into? Nah, sis. Kylie Jenner is as much of a victim and product of misogyny as any of us are. You can't sit the… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/03/21 06:10 AM |
| -7 | The Kardasians are the ultimate pickmeashow can she know better when she's a young girl with the same insecurities? She's just parroting the same shitty things her family told her. Even if she is "cheeky" enough to ask fans to donate to a gofundme for her friend (which wasn't a good thing) that doesn't take away from the fact that she is a victim of sexism and the patriarchy. ETA: Why should a woman ever be expected to pay for somebody else? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/03/21 05:39 AM |
| 4 | The Kardasians are the ultimate pickmeasok and how does that take away from my point? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/03/21 05:34 AM |
| 30 | Cringe at me, sisters! Cringey pick me and cool girl behaviors I've done, a master list.I'm so so sorry you had to do that. I truly believe mothers are supposed to be the number one SAFE role model, and I'm sorry yours wasn't. Mine wasn't either, so I really empathize with you. I know I'm just a stranger on the internet, but I'm SO proud of you for being strong and brave enough to cut off one of the first contacts you've had in this world. She is toxic, and you deserve a better figure to look up to. I hope you find that in yourself, and in us <3 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/03/21 04:38 AM |
| 15 | The Kardasians are the ultimate pickmeasI'm really not a fan of them, either. I've never followed Kylie Jenner on social media. I've never bought her makeup. But I can still recognize that she's been treated horribly her whole life (which is very evident because there is a whole TV show documenting nearly her every move) I can only imagine what kind of damage it does to a young woman being thrust into the spotlight and being told she isn't as "attractive as her sisters" | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/03/21 04:18 AM |
| 27 | Stop Believing Male Feminists/Relationship GurusI believe NO man when he says he's a feminist. Because his idea of feminism is the libfem one, where the only idea of feminism is that woman are allowed to freely let themselves be objectified, and prostitute themselves, and let themselves be sexualized by the male gaze because it's "empowerment" 🙄 . No man believes in the feminism that is actually benefitting women. ETA: clarification | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/03/21 04:14 AM |
| 10 | When people argue that pedophiles can be treated and healed.I'm not the OP but honestly, this could be literally anywhere. FB, twitter, reddit. They all loooove p-dos | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/03/21 04:09 AM |
| 28 | When people argue that pedophiles can be treated and healed.P-dophiles don't need to be "helped". They can't be. They need to be locked up | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/03/21 04:08 AM |
| 23 | When people argue that pedophiles can be treated and healed.Yeah, no way, no way in hell. You cannot change a p-dophile. Especially since, NO pedophile wants to change. They would only say that online to get some young woman to come along to try and "save" them. Nope, they never change. A p-do is a p-do forever | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/03/21 04:04 AM |
| 60 | The Kardasians are the ultimate pickmeasI really don't think it's fair to label Kylie with the rest of her family. Kylie was taught from a VERY young age in the spotlight that the best thing for a woman is to be beautiful and nothing else. She was told from her own mother that she'd need plastic surgery. You could blame her for being a 17 year old going back to a shitty LVM, if you must. But that doesn't change the fact that she was SEVENTEEN. She's even only what, 22-23 now? Her brain isn't even fully developed. It feels so misogynis… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/03/21 03:59 AM |
| 77 | Cringe at me, sisters! Cringey pick me and cool girl behaviors I've done, a master list.Ugh, these are so sad. But I'm so proud of you that you can recognize these behaviours, queen. I'm the most concerned about this, though "Stayed with 3 separate partners after cheating. One cheated on me with my mom" What the fuck? are you still in contact with your mom after this? I'm so sorry that so many people in your life have disrespected you like this. I am proud of you for being so brave and recognizing these things. A woman that recognizes these things is on the way to queendom. Never s… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/03/21 03:48 AM |
| 116 | Accept responsibility when your partner cheats? How about hell no!Responsibility for what??? Him being a two-timing NVM? Or is it just gonna be a case of him crying because you made HIM feel bad for cheating? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/03/21 07:26 PM |
| 11 | The "bed nest" post that was mentioned in the podcast“Stupid as a mud crab” gets me every time | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/03/21 04:33 PM |
| 126 | Remember ladiesOh my goodness this is so sad and depraved but by god if it didn’t crack me up 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/03/21 05:56 AM |
| 7 | "Pretty Privilege" is just another proof guys don't care about the women they don't find attractiveBetter not be insensitive, though. We wouldn’t want the males and white women to feel excluded! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/03/21 05:39 AM |
| 13 | "Pretty Privilege" is just another proof guys don't care about the women they don't find attractiveYES GURL! Racism and sexism always comes first in the eyes of scrotes. And exactly. How is it a privilege if males are only willing to “entertain” me while I’m “young and beautiful” and yet they won’t extend the same courtesy to women they don’t deem “young and beautiful.” Like wow! What a privilege it is to have males sexualize me! What a privilege it is to have those same males not want other women that are over the age of 25! I’m soooo lucky to be objectified by males that want a young woman!… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/03/21 05:22 AM |
| 4 | "Pretty Privilege" is just another proof guys don't care about the women they don't find attractiveI’m pretty convinced you’re a scrote pretending to be a FDS aligning member, so I am done interacting with you 👏🏼 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/03/21 05:16 AM |
| 4 | "Pretty Privilege" is just another proof guys don't care about the women they don't find attractiveUh what? The original comment stated that attractive women don’t live life on “easy mode.” Because they don’t. I know I don’t get served faster or have better job opportunities because it’s been the same since I was considered “ugly” in the eyes of scrotes??? ETA: Not to mention your karma and contribution to the FDS community and women-oriented communities is lower than mine but okayyy rper | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/03/21 05:15 AM |
| 4 | "Pretty Privilege" is just another proof guys don't care about the women they don't find attractiveErm... no. From the ages of 1–18 I was regarded as an ugly woman from scrotes, and “friends”. You are not in the place to tell me what my experiences were as a woman. I am also not benefitting from white privilege? I’m part of one of the extremely unrecognized ethnicity groups of the americas... I have never benefited from being a white woman??? I’m thinking there is probably a reason you’ve been labelled as a pickmeisha here. Stop trying to belittle women and make their problems lesser just bec… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/03/21 05:09 AM |
| -2 | "Pretty Privilege" is just another proof guys don't care about the women they don't find attractiveNo, it’s not false lol. All being “conventionally beautiful” provides me is unwanted attention from males. All it provides me is males thinking I’m somehow more worthy to fuck than other women. That’s not a privilege. That’s something that brings down ALL women. Your examples of privilege? Getting better job opportunities, or promotions? Doesn’t happen. Getting better service at stores and restaurants? Doesn’t happen. I don’t get served drinks faster. I don’t get listened to above males in work … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/03/21 04:59 AM |
| -2 | "Pretty Privilege" is just another proof guys don't care about the women they don't find attractiveIt’s... a smiley face... yikes I acknowledged that it’s a thing in my original comment. It is not my fault if you chose to ignore that! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/03/21 04:48 AM |
| -3 | "Pretty Privilege" is just another proof guys don't care about the women they don't find attractiveThat’s what I thought 😄 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/03/21 04:44 AM |
| 38 | "Pretty Privilege" is just another proof guys don't care about the women they don't find attractiveVery funny. Scrotes will pretend their own insecurities are the reason women don’t want them, but really, that’s not the case! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/03/21 04:43 AM |
| -6 | "Pretty Privilege" is just another proof guys don't care about the women they don't find attractivePlease, tell me where I got defensive? Was it me asking if you actually read my comment? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/03/21 04:41 AM |
| 4 | "Pretty Privilege" is just another proof guys don't care about the women they don't find attractiveYeah that’s.. what I said? I said in comparison to women that aren’t deemed conventionally attractive my life is “easier” but that doesn’t mean my life is actually easy as a woman. Did you even read my comment??? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/03/21 04:36 AM |
| 115 | Today I removed a troll post designed to paint FDS as Anti-gay & called AHS out in the comments. Oddly, one of the AHS mods suddenly banned me from their profile. I have NEVER contacted this mod personally. Wonder how this mod 1) knew about this REMOVED post & 2) figured I was talking about them? 🤔Anti-gay??? Lmao! Scrote where? As a gay woman I have never felt anything but accepted by FDS! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/03/21 04:00 AM |
| 86 | "Pretty Privilege" is just another proof guys don't care about the women they don't find attractiveIt’s such bullshit too, lmao. I prefer shorter males, and I’ve met many women that do too - it’s their own fault that they’re so low value no woman would want to date them. It’s not because they’re short, it’s because they’re a-holes. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/03/21 03:57 AM |
| 74 | "Pretty Privilege" is just another proof guys don't care about the women they don't find attractiveAbsolutely... sick of hearing how my life is “easy” and “simple” because I’m conventionally attractive. Like, sure, in comparison to women that aren’t deemed conventionally attractive, my life is “easier,” as in I’m not as frequently insulted and deemed as an easy lay... but it certainly isn’t great, because I’m a woman, and a woman of colour, at that. My life will never be as easy as an ugly male scrotes life is. No woman’s life will ever be as easy as a male’s life is. Just because I can snap … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/03/21 03:45 AM |
| 411 | Remember ladiesPREACH. Male attention is a dime a dozen. You could literally just go to a grocery store and you will unwillingly receive it. Never vie for it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/03/21 03:16 AM |
| 341 | Elon Musk PAID to have the interview of ex-wife number 1 REMOVED from the internet bc she described his abuse towards her!Elon Musk is trash and any man that idolizes him is also trash | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/03/21 04:19 AM |
| 25 | 24 hours since joining POF. My advice? Just don’t do OLD. I didn’t include the three sick fucks who asked me to be their sugar baby (prostitute).Is... is this all from the same guy? Either way, wtf LOL this is so gross. Can you imagine going on a dating app and messaging a person that you’ve only seen the profile of “hey i want to eat your ass” lmaooo couldn’t be me | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/03/21 04:16 AM |
| 8 | Are you f$&@ing kidding me?Yeah, men ARE taught how to treat women as they grow up. As an object 🙄 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/03/21 06:27 PM |
| 158 | Woman asks men who are into exploiting their wives sexually for other men (wife sharing etc) why they enjoy it, gets this response. Imagine seeing your wife as a sex toy that’ll earn you brownie points with The Boys.“I don’t mean to reduce a woman to a car” the scrote says after he types up a huge paragraph reducing a woman to a car. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/03/21 04:59 PM |
| 2 | Manipulation through musicHoly hell I forgot that song existed. It used to play on the radio here ALL the time. I was like 13 years old. Really gross in retrospect. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/03/21 06:08 AM |
| 63 | Pathetic scrote breaks a shop window and steals a sex dollHoly shit lmao | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/03/21 02:08 AM |
| 5 | Have you dealt with having men in healthcare or other jobs belittle you during a appointment?Had a male doctor when I was about 16 and dealing with very debilitating anxiety and depression. He basically belittled me the whole time and said, and I quote "If you had a million dollars and were on a cruise ship would you still be depressed?" like uhhh sure thanks for the prescription doc i'll just go get a million dollars and a cruise ship and report back to you. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/03/21 04:51 AM |
| 3 | My eyeballs did not deserve this type of assault- reported this disgusting scrote to the Hinge app. Imagine thinking all women want to look at your tiny shriveled peen. It’s a hell no from me. ☠️he just uses it when he runs out of tp | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/03/21 04:26 AM |
| 33 | Found on fb. This just seems like “things a decent spouse should do,” hardly worth a 4 page essay.He doesn’t give me any grand romantic gestures and he can’t cook, but it’s okay because once a week he makes me coffee! He even fishes my cup out of all the dirty dishes I’m going to have to wash later, how sweet is he!!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/03/21 01:14 AM |
| 104 | Pickmeisha (probably a scrote🤡) shames women‘s day and calls women insecure hypocrites who „criticize“ menNo way in hell this was written by a woman. Pickmeisha or not, nah, I don’t buy it | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/03/21 01:57 PM |
| 159 | If this has been posted before please remove it. But sisters, this is where 50-50 will get you. It's their kid, but her bills.The fuck? He won't contribute to the new wardrobe for her and the baby, won't contribute to breast pads, or thing she needs after the birth?!? She's about to resort to charity? The FUCK? Fuck that. What a piece of shit. What a useless, useless man | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/03/21 10:35 AM |
| 2 | Weekly FDS Chat / Check-inExactly. People being forced into labour for pennies are still doing “work”. That doesn’t make it right or good or positive. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/03/21 06:39 AM |
| 14 | LVM male guide to cheap dating. Watch out for these bright red flags ladiesPlease, I want so badly for this to be satire. Getting flashbacks to when my nvx took me to Denny’s.... for Valentines Day 💀 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/03/21 06:11 AM |
| 46 | LVM male guide to cheap dating. Watch out for these bright red flags ladiesI like to think I’d have the strength to stand up and just leave | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/03/21 06:09 AM |
| 26 | Is it only fair to blame the sex works ?I don’t know! You only asked a question. Maybe because to a lot of us, it seems super obvious? One look at a Bratz doll and you can see how they’re painting a sexual picture for little girls to see. It’s only a tiny part of a huge problem. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/03/21 06:00 AM |
| 30 | Is it only fair to blame the sex works ?Just take a look at them. They are caricatures of the “perfect” woman. Big eyes, big lips, tiny bodies with tiny wastes, a young girl with an adult look. I don’t personally have a problem with dolls, but I can see that they are very much sexualized and then targetted at little girls, which isn’t a good thing. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/03/21 05:55 AM |
| 4 | I have no wordsYES i am i love her so much. She truly is 👏🏼 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/03/21 12:51 AM |
| 29 | Support her against the sjws, scrotes. She’s a medical prof.Yes, it absolutely does happen in the west too. That's why I said, for the most part | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/03/21 11:39 AM |
| 21 | I don't know whether to laugh or cringeA haiku is a "poem" that is made up of three lines. The first line consists of 5 syllables. For example "I love F D S" The second line consists of 7 syllables. For example, "F D S saved my whole life" The third line consists of, again, reminiscent of the first line, 5 syllables. For example, "I am better now" | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/03/21 09:29 AM |
| 19 | Nothing to add, she said it all LOLI mean, I guess? But actually no? If he insists on having separate “spending money” it’s because he wants to spend his money on frivolous things. He doesn’t want to and never will spend it on you or your “joint” household. And he won’t commit to you for marriage (aka bringing your finances together) if you let him do this. Because if you let this happen, you’re just showing him that he can take advantage of you. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/03/21 08:50 AM |
| -1 | The more I read about attachment theory the clearer it looks to me: a great deal of the red pill movement is just avoidant men complaining about anxious women.Yes all men | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/03/21 08:23 AM |
| 3 | The more I read about attachment theory the clearer it looks to me: a great deal of the red pill movement is just avoidant men complaining about anxious women.Honestly, the only lies that happen during relationships are because of men | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/03/21 08:21 AM |
| 50 | Realizing how much you put someone before your futureThis poor, poor Pickmeisha. I hope she finds better | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/03/21 08:19 AM |
| 30 | Nothing to add, she said it all LOLWhy do you think your husbands money isn’t yours? You entered a union together. Why wouldn’t his money be yours too? Just curious. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/03/21 08:14 AM |
| – | Nothing to add, she said it all LOLWhy? If a man can “joke” about physically threatening women and then actually physically hurt them, why should a strong woman never joke about how she’d beat a pickmeishas ass (which she would never ACTUALLY do, meanwhile a man would actually beat her) for the sake of dramatization? Tell me, in your own words, why is that wrong to you? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/03/21 08:12 AM |
| 27 | Never reproduce with a LVM.Absolutely. I agree with everything you’ve said. Never commit to a dusty. We are all better than that 🙅🏻♀️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/03/21 08:03 AM |
| 27 | I don't know whether to laugh or cringeLMFAO exactly. But sorry boy... one haiku does not a poet make. Call me when you’ve said something more substantial than “I want my dick wet. I want women to submit. Women arent human.” | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/03/21 08:01 AM |
| 112 | Support her against the sjws, scrotes. She’s a medical prof.Ugh... Us women born in the western world are SO lucky that we, for the absolute most part, don’t have to deal with FGM. You say there is no discussion of it there, so what can I do as a privileged woman, in the privileged countries in NA, do to raise awareness and help to stop it? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/03/21 07:58 AM |
| 27 | One of four.Ugh. That poor “wife” (which we all know is not an actual wife, just a woman that is willing to deal with this scrotes bullshit, a “FWB”) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/03/21 07:51 AM |
| 17 | Potentially OT; has anyone else had an influx of trolls in their inbox?Lmfao forreal. I have a hard time believing it wasn’t a boy pretending to be a woman. And if it wasn’t???? Holy goddess, I feel so bad for her. “She” was pointed towards us, I hope she internalizes it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/03/21 07:48 AM |
| 34 | I have no wordsoh goddess.. I genuinely thought he was making a joke about how he already fucks foods. I didn't realize until your comment that he is literally calling her a bologna clown. Excuse me while I go hurl my dinner up | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/03/21 05:00 AM |
| 48 | Potentially OT; has anyone else had an influx of trolls in their inbox?I got one of a boy saying that, ackshually, it's not gross to call your girlfriend "kitty" or pedophilic "pet names" Then his girlfriend messaged me to say that the reason women on FDS are single are because we don't consent to being called pedophilic names, and that if I don't stop being "toxic" (as if toxicity is wanting to be treated well) then I'll die alone. Legit. All I told her is that I'd be praying to the goddesses for her, lmao | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/03/21 04:57 AM |
| 117 | One of four.How much money y'all wanna bet this guy posted a seething angry rant about Lola Bunny being less sexualized in the new Space Jam? I'd bet a thousand 🙋♀️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/03/21 04:54 AM |
| 75 | Never reproduce with a LVM.This!!! And just in general, why would anyone want to reproduce with a man who clearly has inferior genes??? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/03/21 04:52 AM |
| 83 | I don't know whether to laugh or cringeBoth... I'm laughing and cringing on your behalf. Haikus??? How old is he??? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/03/21 04:49 AM |
| 116 | Got a text from an unsaved number just to realize it was a guy I met once on a dating app but I ghosted him bc I knew he just wanted sex. He messaged me today and I’m just proud of my growth and not tolerating bs anymore ! I finally blocked his ass today ☺️Ew. His denial of wanting a hookup when he messages at 10pm.... We see through you, dude. I'm so proud of your growth too! You're worth so much more! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/03/21 04:48 AM |
| 29 | best "advice" to keep a man from pinkpilled sistersThe whole thing was horrible to read but I got a real good laugh out of tupplewear | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/03/21 04:28 AM |
| 66 | Where to start...keeping videos of a 19 year old ex when he is a 30 year old man ew ew ew i pretend i do not see it | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/03/21 04:16 AM |
| 11 | The more things change...WHAT THE F*CK | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/03/21 12:08 AM |
| 21 | Legitimately evil m*le tells his gf he *had* to cheat on her bc she was r*ped, men in the comments defend himI’m so so sorry that happened to you. My first nvx was the first person I went to after I’d been *aped and then after I dumped him for catching his cheating, he also went on a smear campaign about how I’d cheated on him for having that happen to me smh. I relate to your experience a lot, so thank you for sharing it and again I am SO sorry you had to deal with that. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/03/21 11:57 PM |
| 19 | Seriously?Decaying fruit, chickens, and owls, holy shit I’m laughing out loud because of how true this is | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/03/21 11:49 PM |
| 22 | I have no words.Oh noooo. Oh honey, no. He had you split the cost of your used engagement ring and then acted like a baby when you wanted to change it for yourself, AND you were going to pay for it??? Oh honey... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/03/21 02:21 AM |
| 337 | Say no to hookup."There are signs that would indicate he has feelings for me too, but there are also signs which could mean he might be stringing me along." Yeah, he's just giving a little bit of sugar on a string to make you believe he ever wants to continue this relationship beyond stringing you along. He does this because he knows that if he can reel you in just enough to make you think he wants to be with you, you will continue to settle for non-commitment. It is a ruse. He only wants to string you along. Ne… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/03/21 06:34 AM |
| 11 | Can someone break down this guy's motivation for posting this?Lol I just reported this post because I thought you were a man intruding on our sub, I didn't realize it was a quote of a mans post! Sorry about that, sorry mods. It seems to me his motivation is basically "waaa waaa feel bad for me because I feel sick for being called out!!! Feel bad that I'm suic#dal because I've realized just how shitty I am!" | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/03/21 06:28 AM |
| 46 | I begged my N-ex to make me a love note (as I would do it often for him) .. I made him a personalized comic book of our life and this is what I got in return. LMAO.it absolutely has to be! what other reason could a grown man have to call a woman "little" "kitty" or "girl." Disgustang! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/03/21 06:16 AM |
| 526 | I begged my N-ex to make me a love note (as I would do it often for him) .. I made him a personalized comic book of our life and this is what I got in return. LMAO."kitty baby" "lil princess" "pretty girl" 🤢 I am so sorry you ever had to deal with this child | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/03/21 06:03 AM |
| 74 | P*rn sites are now paying for holiday-themed home videos. Girls, DO NOT CONSENT to home videos !Lmfao, ew. "Top 3 videos (of rape) will get prizes from 200 to 500!!!" | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/02/21 07:35 AM |
| 41 | Is dick worth it?I’m so proud of you for walking. And I’m so proud of you for sharing your story here. You deserve so much better, and I know you will find it ❤️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/02/21 05:35 AM |
| 20 | Why you can’t take BDSM into your new HVW life.After finding FDS, I am firmly of the stance that any man that gets off on hurting women in bed is a NVM. Too many people think that slapping the word “kink” onto BDSM makes it any less abusive. Sorry but imo, if it makes your dick hard to degrade, hurt, slap, and abuse women, congratulations you are an abuser | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/02/21 11:07 PM |
| 83 | The bar is several meters below hell“Soft r~#e” wtf nah, sis. All r~#e is r~#e ETA: I don’t know how to make the middle of this comment not bold | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/02/21 10:53 PM |
| 112 | It makes me nauseous to think about how many men share this mindsetI almost downvoted this because I am so disgusted by reading it | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/02/21 10:50 PM |
| 39 | 50-50 is a lie.this woman: I'm not feeling well and I don't think I am capable of doing housework and having sex with you because I feel so awful the scrote: that's a you problem, you're not useful if you aren't doing my basic chores and getting my dick wet the scrote in 9 months: i'm not taking care of this baby also have sex with me while you're still in stitches and in pain | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/02/21 08:18 AM |
| 44 | 50-50 is a lie.I do too. Let's grieve our past selves together and rejoice in the fact that we've finally found a better life through FDS 🙏 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/02/21 08:15 AM |
| 11 | Males wanna make fun of women going to the bathroom together but...these men really be out here thinking that they're endangering themselves to need a spotter. No, Greg, you don't need a spotter when you're only lifting the bar | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/02/21 08:13 AM |
| 28 | The audacity. You have absolutely nothing to offer any woman. You are not genuine. Your partner would be better off without you and probably your daughter as well.Translation: I'm still lusting after the woman that mothers my children, I'll never commit to you because I only want her, but also I want a backup to have sex with and to make sure I never have to be alone because I'm incapable of taking care of myself | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/02/21 08:05 AM |
| 6 | Losing male friends left and rightHe responds “ok” when you tell him how good things are going. They really can’t stand to see a woman being happy without men | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/02/21 01:56 AM |
| 34 | Do women have bad taste in men, or are men just terrible people?Yeah, it’s just men themselves. We wouldn’t have trouble “picking” better men if there actually were better men. It just seems to me like a way to put the onus on women, instead of just admitting to the fact that men are actually just that awful | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/02/21 11:16 PM |
| 2 | Men's poor logic with sex.Never thought of this before, ew this makes me so sick 🤢 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/02/21 10:17 PM |
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